me myself, an ENFJ is a practicing psychologist although occasionally I do my own art. My INFJ friends are in the creative field (illustrator & graphic designers). not all are the same
My husband is an Enfj, and I am an Infj. He is a lot more externally organized than I am, but I am better at scheduling and planning. I have to constantly remind him about appointments and try to pull him out of conversations with strangers when we are on a tight schedule. Otherwise, he'd talk for hours!
MBTI Simplified: NT = Ideas Data focussed NF = Ideas People focused ST = Sensory Data focused SF = Sensory People focused I = Prefers to look inward (Works alone) E = Prefers to look outward (Team Player) J = Controlling P = Discovering Type defines what you PREFER to do as a role. Examples of modern "ideal" professions: NF's Entertain or look after the Tribe psychologically: ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- INFJ = Counsellor or psychologist ENFJ = Human resources manager/Spiritual leader INFP = Self expressive Artistic work (eg Painter or Poet) ENFP = Publicly expressive Artistic work (eg Actor) NTs Advance the Tribe: ------------------------------------- INTJ = Software Engineer ENTJ = CEO/Manager/Leader INTP = Data Scientist/Accountant ENTP = Explorer/Politician SF's Look after the Tribe physically: -------------------------------------------------------- ISFJ = Carer/Childminder ESFJ = Nurse ISFP = Doctor/Paramedic ESFP = Trainer or Coach ST's Defend or Support the Tribe: ---------------------------------------------------- ISTJ = Mechanic/Soldier/Emergency Services/Tradesperson ESTJ = Engineering Manager/Officer also military and emergency service roles ISTP = Accountant or Logistics planner ESTP = Hunter/Farmer/Builder/Military Leader Regards An INTJ
This is hilarious I agree I tend to just observe people far away, but my ENFJ friend will observe you eye-to-eye hahaha and they're warm to people they talk to a lot of people while I'm very cautious and appear cold to others.
Just came back from my ENFJ friend. Im INFJ and she told me she is going crazy right now as she lacks doing stuff with people but not the usual board games or sitting and talking which she finds stagnating. She would like to try something new and exciting. I got stressed she wants me to go to these yoga classes with her so I just said that I understand this feeling :p She told me "You are nice, intelligent and you really like to have fun but you're not that spontanous like yaaayy let's gooo" 😂 That was so accurate and it really matches your points from the video She complimented all of my functions but not the Se which I just was like "This thing... It scares me" 😂
As an ENFJ I can completely relate to your friend 😂 lately I feel the monotony of everyday life awakens an intense Se "hunger" for more exciting and more physical activities. Although in my daily life I'm surrounded mostly by introverted types, and find myself mirroring their habits of just going home and curling up on the couch after work, but the difference being me being the only one going crazy after a while of doing that lol!
@@halohalo86 I have this but very rarely. Usually when I get very very stressed and then I get into Fe-Se loop. Me being in this state is a great potential for trouble as I'm not used to use these functions reasonably. My ENFJ friend keeps as eye on me during this crazy time, saving my ass.
ENFJ here! This video did help out a little bit because people mistaken me for an INFJ all the time, but anyway, another great video! Also made me laugh and feel called out at the same time lolol,looking forward to the next video. 😂
@lcg6762 Not an ENFJ but as an INFJ, they're more "designed" to be nice and that's one of their main goals, just like truth would most likely be for an ENTP I assume. And you probably find them hot because they bring your own Fe side out.
@kyurei4478 Hello! My apologies if it seems I'm info dumping, MBTI is one subject I enjoy talking about greatly, so feel free to call out anything illogical, or that I may have misinterpreted your comment. So, first off, I veiw MBTI as also a way you process the world around you, and idk this is what your trying to say when you say "designed" but ENFJs being an Fe Dom they consider others emotions and values first usually and adapts, I guess you can say they are "a product of there environment" so to speak, if you think of the way Fe adapts to others emotions and values, and I suspect this is why high Fe people can come around or can become "Fake" and in my honest opinion, Yeah higher Fe people probably have "fake" tendencies at time if that makes sence, but for me personally iv come to accept that and I'm working on my Fi and Ti, and fellow High Fi people, take my words when I say embracing Fi YOUR values and emotions and Ti is worth it, at least to me, it's truly freeing not feeling obligated to handle or feel others people's emotions or problems, only a few we choose to "invest" in and that are worth it, and dare I say being more "detached" in this way feels awesome, iv been in my ISTP subconscious a little bit, and it's honestly a wonderful experience, it's different than being in my usual ENFJ ego state, but I feel more detached and even "cold"- but in a good way, if that makes sense, when I'm in my subconscious I process things a lot faster and easier, and being able to think in a more detached and logical way without the interference of people's emotions and values constantly running through your head is freeing, and when you do choose to have empathy it feels more logical if thats even a thing, I can understand why people feeling the way they feel, without having to feel it myself or as my own so, high Fe people imo it's definitely worth it embracing embracing your Fi and Ti more. :> (sry I got side tracked with my experiences, but I hope this helps a least a few peeps)
@205Ninja Hi ! Quite surprised to get a reply now tbh. MBTI is a subject I'm also quite passionate about. Yes, I guess you could say that's also my view, or at least I think MBTI only partially explains some behaviors and tendencies we don't understand ourselves sometimes that might be hardcoded in a way. Cause I think it's very dangerous to see everything through the lense of MBTI and stereotype people based on archetypal descriptions and it doesn't take nurture into account. So yes when I say ENFJs are "designed" to be nice, I mean it like a second nature by opposition to any other type that doesn't have Fe so dominant in them. But I'm not actually judging anything regarding this statement, only what could help to explain attraction in this case. That being said, I have to highly disagree and make a dedicated point on the Fe people being "fake" trend sorry cause I slowly came to realize that this scam is: 1, majorly inherited from modern standards of society and respect and good manners nowadays are automatically wrongly interpreted as fakeness, that are main Fe principles for keeping harmony (that certainly explain the form of Fe rejection spreaded in the MBTI online community when it comes to the Fe function/Fe users). 2, Not to specifically target anyone but this label of "fakeness" is usually attributed by people with the Fi function so MBTI types from the Fi-Te axis because they frequently struggle to not only understand but also respect and accept the mindset of types from the Fe-Ti axis so with the Fe function. This of course doesn't mean Fe users can't be fake but they just aren't more fake than any other type for a reason I'll explain a bit further. The Fe mindset is just based on self-sacrifice and giving more importance to the other and their opinion, feelings and less to your own by default. That point is crucial because it is the exact reason people can wrongly interpret this mindset as fake when it's actually totally genuine, conscious or not. I say conscious or not because (it's a good occasion to have an ENFJ opinion on that) correct me if I'm wrong, my guess is that the self-sacrifice aspect isn't so conscious for an ENFJ mind as it is for me as an INFJ with a higher Ti function (I'm not talking about higher or lower function for the sake of a childish superiority game, I'm just referring to function stacks and theorizing upon it here. I'm just seeking for external opinions on this theory). It wasn't clear for me either at first. I just realized that the most stereotypical example of Fe is super heroes. Fe really is the super hero function. The fact it can be unconscious is a good reason why some Fe users can feel abused at one point because their Ti wakes up to tell them a situation isn't fair when it comes to them and they've been disrespected multiple times. That's the importance of the Ti awakening. So all of this to say, as long as the Fe user isn't personally majorly bothered by something or they're bothered because the other person is crossing boundaries but they choose to not say anything and sacrifice it for the sake of the harmony of the moment, the Fe user is totally genuine. Bringing it up later isn't retroactively being fake but just adressing the issue later on if necessary. I mean, there was always an issue but you chose to let it pass this time. It's also up to the person who is responsible for it to use some Fe-ness to try to understand their own error, not always to the other to have to adress the issue. So to come back to why Fe people aren't particularly more fake but just misunderstood, the reality is Te users can be as fake for example. But the thing is they have the somehow "good side of being fake". In fact, they can be "fake" on what they feel (I say "fake" because there might just be a personal reason why they don't, just like Fe users but I don't know and I don't want to sound like I'm judging them for that, I'm not a Te user). Te users could shout at you and tell you death threats when they're upset on the moment and actually like you or could insult you because you make them blush. They can be very unstable when it comes to feeling and so they can react in incoherent ways and so it can legitimately be called fake too. Very good example with INTJs. I disscussed with them many times and in fact, they don't really like when people say they're cold and heartless, because in fact they do feel reasonably deeply. If they actually were, they shouldn't care, but they do. I hope it's no secret that types like INTJ/ENTJ/ISTJ/ESTJ STEREOTIPICALLY come off as rude or inconsiderate. But in fact they do feel deeply, they just frequently don't know how to express it gently and kindly with the right words. They don't first because their feeling function is low and secondly Fe is the communication function of feelings, proving your love and stuff like that. Not to congratulate your MBTI type but the ENFJ/ESFJ type stereotypically is the prime example of compassion, showing love, proving love, caring, considerate and good selfless values. ENFJ isn't called the protagonist for nothing. Again, Fe users can be fake, everyone can. It just comes down to are you genuine in your actions or not? If you know you are, don't let people label you as fake because they don't understand your harmonizing mindset. They'll use your doubts to generalize it and this is what happens with the online MBTI community and even you who knows it's commonly known. But my question is you, do you really think you're fake deep inside? Don't just accept it because people misinterpreted you as such but know yourself if you actually are fake. I know it can reveal to be more tricky for ENFJs but still, it's very important. Fe users aren't fake at large. They're just more forgiving to the point where people come to interpret it as being fake which is quite ironic all things considered.
I'm an INFJ and I just booked a Trip to Brazil Feb.2025 😂😂😂 I just manifest it already. And I luv to plan plan plan 😂🤣✌️ But I'm able to cancel the trip for free so no risk here jahaha
love the battery bit thats me flat after 2 seconds lol i mean i went inside mcdonalds the other day with another human and we talked lol amazing i mean its probably been 20 years since i did that 😂
4:00 At this point I laughed because I understood that the opposite will be me (instantly imagined me as a Tarzan sniffing a mouth of other person to know what they ate today because I really care)
INFJs have a clown side deep inside. They just show it very rarely and only to close friends. That's why INFJs and ENFPs kinda relate to each other because they're the shadow of each other. I guess ENFPs also have a serious philosopher deep inside.
INFJs are therapists or psychologists; ENFJs are religious leaders or non profit managers.
lol, you gotta point
No ENFJ are often seeking profits
Not all are the same
Hooooly
I know 5 ENFJs in special education, 2 psychologists.
The INFJs I know are almost all in custom made job roles between two disciplines
me myself, an ENFJ is a practicing psychologist although occasionally I do my own art. My INFJ friends are in the creative field (illustrator & graphic designers). not all are the same
My husband is an Enfj, and I am an Infj. He is a lot more externally organized than I am, but I am better at scheduling and planning. I have to constantly remind him about appointments and try to pull him out of conversations with strangers when we are on a tight schedule. Otherwise, he'd talk for hours!
Sounds like you complement each other nicely
I know an INFJ that almost joined the circus.
As an INFJ, that inferior Se jumped out
MBTI Simplified:
NT = Ideas Data focussed
NF = Ideas People focused
ST = Sensory Data focused
SF = Sensory People focused
I = Prefers to look inward (Works alone)
E = Prefers to look outward (Team Player)
J = Controlling
P = Discovering
Type defines what you PREFER to do as a role. Examples of modern "ideal" professions:
NF's Entertain or look after the Tribe psychologically:
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
INFJ = Counsellor or psychologist
ENFJ = Human resources manager/Spiritual leader
INFP = Self expressive Artistic work (eg Painter or Poet)
ENFP = Publicly expressive Artistic work (eg Actor)
NTs Advance the Tribe:
-------------------------------------
INTJ = Software Engineer
ENTJ = CEO/Manager/Leader
INTP = Data Scientist/Accountant
ENTP = Explorer/Politician
SF's Look after the Tribe physically:
--------------------------------------------------------
ISFJ = Carer/Childminder
ESFJ = Nurse
ISFP = Doctor/Paramedic
ESFP = Trainer or Coach
ST's Defend or Support the Tribe:
----------------------------------------------------
ISTJ = Mechanic/Soldier/Emergency Services/Tradesperson
ESTJ = Engineering Manager/Officer also military and emergency service roles
ISTP = Accountant or Logistics planner
ESTP = Hunter/Farmer/Builder/Military Leader
Regards
An INTJ
2:01 This is so real, as an INFJ I definitely would spend at least a couple of seconds looking at that wall trying to find the pattern.
This is hilarious I agree I tend to just observe people far away, but my ENFJ friend will observe you eye-to-eye hahaha and they're warm to people they talk to a lot of people while I'm very cautious and appear cold to others.
Just came back from my ENFJ friend. Im INFJ and she told me she is going crazy right now as she lacks doing stuff with people but not the usual board games or sitting and talking which she finds stagnating. She would like to try something new and exciting. I got stressed she wants me to go to these yoga classes with her so I just said that I understand this feeling :p She told me "You are nice, intelligent and you really like to have fun but you're not that spontanous like yaaayy let's gooo" 😂 That was so accurate and it really matches your points from the video
She complimented all of my functions but not the Se which I just was like "This thing... It scares me" 😂
As an ENFJ I can completely relate to your friend 😂 lately I feel the monotony of everyday life awakens an intense Se "hunger" for more exciting and more physical activities. Although in my daily life I'm surrounded mostly by introverted types, and find myself mirroring their habits of just going home and curling up on the couch after work, but the difference being me being the only one going crazy after a while of doing that lol!
@@halohalo86 I have this but very rarely. Usually when I get very very stressed and then I get into Fe-Se loop. Me being in this state is a great potential for trouble as I'm not used to use these functions reasonably. My ENFJ friend keeps as eye on me during this crazy time, saving my ass.
ENFJ here! This video did help out a little bit because people mistaken me for an INFJ all the time, but anyway, another great video! Also made me laugh and feel called out at the same time lolol,looking forward to the next video. 😂
thanks! I'm glad the video helped
ENTP here, can I just ask why the heck yall are so nice and hot all the time?- @o@
@lcg6762 Not an ENFJ but as an INFJ, they're more "designed" to be nice and that's one of their main goals, just like truth would most likely be for an ENTP I assume. And you probably find them hot because they bring your own Fe side out.
@kyurei4478 Hello! My apologies if it seems I'm info dumping, MBTI is one subject I enjoy talking about greatly, so feel free to call out anything illogical, or that I may have misinterpreted your comment.
So, first off, I veiw MBTI as also a way you process the world around you, and idk this is what your trying to say when you say "designed" but ENFJs being an Fe Dom they consider others emotions and values first usually and adapts, I guess you can say they are "a product of there environment" so to speak, if you think of the way Fe adapts to others emotions and values, and I suspect this is why high Fe people can come around or can become "Fake" and in my honest opinion, Yeah higher Fe people probably have "fake" tendencies at time if that makes sence, but for me personally iv come to accept that and I'm working on my Fi and Ti, and fellow High Fi people, take my words when I say embracing Fi YOUR values and emotions and Ti is worth it, at least to me, it's truly freeing not feeling obligated to handle or feel others people's emotions or problems, only a few we choose to "invest" in and that are worth it, and dare I say being more "detached" in this way feels awesome, iv been in my ISTP subconscious a little bit, and it's honestly a wonderful experience, it's different than being in my usual ENFJ ego state, but I feel more detached and even "cold"- but in a good way, if that makes sense, when I'm in my subconscious I process things a lot faster and easier, and being able to think in a more detached and logical way without the interference of people's emotions and values constantly running through your head is freeing, and when you do choose to have empathy it feels more logical if thats even a thing, I can understand why people feeling the way they feel, without having to feel it myself or as my own so, high Fe people imo it's definitely worth it embracing embracing your Fi and Ti more. :> (sry I got side tracked with my experiences, but I hope this helps a least a few peeps)
@205Ninja Hi ! Quite surprised to get a reply now tbh. MBTI is a subject I'm also quite passionate about.
Yes, I guess you could say that's also my view, or at least I think MBTI only partially explains some behaviors and tendencies we don't understand ourselves sometimes that might be hardcoded in a way. Cause I think it's very dangerous to see everything through the lense of MBTI and stereotype people based on archetypal descriptions and it doesn't take nurture into account. So yes when I say ENFJs are "designed" to be nice, I mean it like a second nature by opposition to any other type that doesn't have Fe so dominant in them. But I'm not actually judging anything regarding this statement, only what could help to explain attraction in this case.
That being said, I have to highly disagree and make a dedicated point on the Fe people being "fake" trend sorry cause I slowly came to realize that this scam is:
1, majorly inherited from modern standards of society and respect and good manners nowadays are automatically wrongly interpreted as fakeness, that are main Fe principles for keeping harmony (that certainly explain the form of Fe rejection spreaded in the MBTI online community when it comes to the Fe function/Fe users). 2, Not to specifically target anyone but this label of "fakeness" is usually attributed by people with the Fi function so MBTI types from the Fi-Te axis because they frequently struggle to not only understand but also respect and accept the mindset of types from the Fe-Ti axis so with the Fe function. This of course doesn't mean Fe users can't be fake but they just aren't more fake than any other type for a reason I'll explain a bit further.
The Fe mindset is just based on self-sacrifice and giving more importance to the other and their opinion, feelings and less to your own by default. That point is crucial because it is the exact reason people can wrongly interpret this mindset as fake when it's actually totally genuine, conscious or not. I say conscious or not because (it's a good occasion to have an ENFJ opinion on that) correct me if I'm wrong, my guess is that the self-sacrifice aspect isn't so conscious for an ENFJ mind as it is for me as an INFJ with a higher Ti function (I'm not talking about higher or lower function for the sake of a childish superiority game, I'm just referring to function stacks and theorizing upon it here. I'm just seeking for external opinions on this theory). It wasn't clear for me either at first. I just realized that the most stereotypical example of Fe is super heroes. Fe really is the super hero function. The fact it can be unconscious is a good reason why some Fe users can feel abused at one point because their Ti wakes up to tell them a situation isn't fair when it comes to them and they've been disrespected multiple times. That's the importance of the Ti awakening.
So all of this to say, as long as the Fe user isn't personally majorly bothered by something or they're bothered because the other person is crossing boundaries but they choose to not say anything and sacrifice it for the sake of the harmony of the moment, the Fe user is totally genuine. Bringing it up later isn't retroactively being fake but just adressing the issue later on if necessary. I mean, there was always an issue but you chose to let it pass this time. It's also up to the person who is responsible for it to use some Fe-ness to try to understand their own error, not always to the other to have to adress the issue.
So to come back to why Fe people aren't particularly more fake but just misunderstood, the reality is Te users can be as fake for example. But the thing is they have the somehow "good side of being fake". In fact, they can be "fake" on what they feel (I say "fake" because there might just be a personal reason why they don't, just like Fe users but I don't know and I don't want to sound like I'm judging them for that, I'm not a Te user). Te users could shout at you and tell you death threats when they're upset on the moment and actually like you or could insult you because you make them blush. They can be very unstable when it comes to feeling and so they can react in incoherent ways and so it can legitimately be called fake too. Very good example with INTJs. I disscussed with them many times and in fact, they don't really like when people say they're cold and heartless, because in fact they do feel reasonably deeply. If they actually were, they shouldn't care, but they do. I hope it's no secret that types like INTJ/ENTJ/ISTJ/ESTJ STEREOTIPICALLY come off as rude or inconsiderate. But in fact they do feel deeply, they just frequently don't know how to express it gently and kindly with the right words. They don't first because their feeling function is low and secondly Fe is the communication function of feelings, proving your love and stuff like that. Not to congratulate your MBTI type but the ENFJ/ESFJ type stereotypically is the prime example of compassion, showing love, proving love, caring, considerate and good selfless values. ENFJ isn't called the protagonist for nothing.
Again, Fe users can be fake, everyone can. It just comes down to are you genuine in your actions or not? If you know you are, don't let people label you as fake because they don't understand your harmonizing mindset. They'll use your doubts to generalize it and this is what happens with the online MBTI community and even you who knows it's commonly known. But my question is you, do you really think you're fake deep inside? Don't just accept it because people misinterpreted you as such but know yourself if you actually are fake. I know it can reveal to be more tricky for ENFJs but still, it's very important. Fe users aren't fake at large. They're just more forgiving to the point where people come to interpret it as being fake which is quite ironic all things considered.
INFJ here. So relatable 😂
I am an ENFJ and, I guess, you are right about us. But I am also an introverted ENFJ, so I kunda seesaw between the two.
My ENFJ friend said she's introverted too
-infp
I've heard ENFPs and ENTPs say they're introverted too.
Absolutely hilarious, mate. Kept making me spit out my water. Keep em coming
lol thanks
Omg I laughed so hard at the INFP with the housewife smut novel🤣🤣 THE MUSIC💀
Look, INFJ can become mature if they embrace their SE. By the way, this is similar to INTJs. (NOTE: I am this!)
I'm an INFJ and I just booked a Trip to Brazil Feb.2025 😂😂😂 I just manifest it already. And I luv to plan plan plan 😂🤣✌️ But I'm able to cancel the trip for free so no risk here jahaha
My gosh, i am, in fact, very messy and unhappy with the repetition of cleaning and the dread of organising. I might be infj
love the battery bit thats me flat after 2 seconds lol i mean i went inside mcdonalds the other day with another human and we talked lol amazing i mean its probably been 20 years since i did that 😂
lol you bonded over the fries
like seagulls lol 🐥
I really love your edits and your voice. I would love to hear more INFJ content 😊😁
Thanks! I don't know if you saw it, but I made this video ruclips.net/video/Hc9739fK6i4/видео.html
4:00 At this point I laughed because I understood that the opposite will be me (instantly imagined me as a Tarzan sniffing a mouth of other person to know what they ate today because I really care)
So true! 😅 I like your videos. Funny and accurate.
Glad you like them!
I’m a enfj
Glad you know your type :D
Isn't the shadow of infj though enfp? Which in a lot of memes... Enfps are usually labeled as a clown 🤡
3:27
INFJs have a clown side deep inside. They just show it very rarely and only to close friends. That's why INFJs and ENFPs kinda relate to each other because they're the shadow of each other. I guess ENFPs also have a serious philosopher deep inside.
what if you are on the edge, ie E 53%?
That just means you're quite introverted for an ENFJ I think.
INFJ like to delegate....
I delegate myself. ❤
Can you tell the difference between enfp and infp please? >:3
here you go lol ruclips.net/video/rS3tnZS94OY/видео.htmlsi=QozKSsDrO7fTwvA5
Well you never told me whether INFJs or ENFJs like sand better......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 If you don't get it look at the title. - ENTP.
Bruh... mistyped 😶
It's no big deal. It happens all the time. Just decided to make a joke out of it cause I thought it was funny.
Pretty sure it's ENFJs because they touch more grass/sand. - INFJ.