As soon as I heard that the teacher divorced then started paying attention to her while she was still in the middle of HS I started thinking he was grooming her.
As someone whose DNA donor is my mothers high school teacher, it does not end well. I have not spoken to Voldemort (the nickname I had for him as a child, his name kind of sounds like it as well) for over 18 years. I am now 30, and dont even know what he is doing now.
Regarding the person learning Japanese, it's a massive PiTA language to learn. Having multiple languages only helps if either one or more are from the same language family as the language one is learning or if they are all of widely removed language families. If one is capable in a Chinese language, learning kanji will be easier as it's a derivation from the hanzi characters used for written Chinese. N3 on JLPT is basically fluent for purposes of everyday life, and expecting an N1 from a non-native speaker without taking dedicated classes for the purpose is like expecting a twelve year old to be able to follow a college level philosophy text.
I like learning about languages now and then and I have shied away from the tonal languages and their writing systems. I'm sure I could do it if I put forth the effort and stuck with it. OP's husband was an ass for trying to tear her down. It also sounds like he didn't even want to practice with her through simple conversations that get progressively more complex.
OMG THE ARRANGED MARRIAGE ONE FEELS LIKE IT'S STRAIGHT OUT OF WATTPAD AND HONESTLY... IT'S GIVING ME THE WARM FUZZY FEELINGS YOU GET WHEN YOU SEE LOVE BLOSSOM 😭❤
I hate how it was clarified that many people DEFENDED the teacher at first????? That is disgusting and it keeps me up at night to think that such people genuinely belive or do stuff like that
"Am I the a-hole for not knowing Japanese after living here for 6 years?" Me who learnt my native language properly at the age of 7: "nah, I've been there, you got nothing to be ashamed of."
Last story, being at the bottom is 1000% better than being left out all together. Personally that'd destroy me. I would "accept" their apology but never actually accept it.
I read somewhere that proficient reading level in Japanese would include knowing somewhere around 1,100 Kanji characters outside of Katakana/Hiragana. The fact that she’s made the progress she has while speaking 3(4?) other languages is damn admirable.
I fully understand what you are saying. It is sick not because of the age but because it is her teacher. He groomed her I don't understand why other people can't see it. I wonder if he's ex was groomed the same way.
0:01 first story 6:32 first story reaction 8:10 story two 16:11 story two commenter 17:41 story 3 31:31 story 3 comments 33:53 story 4 38:07 story 4 comments I quit sry😂
The Japanese husband story: Oh, my sweet summer child, he is undermining the everloving shit out of you. How will you learn if you never make mistakes? That's why learners of ESL suck in speaking: we sound better in our heads.
see, idc about her wanting to be a housewife or have kids. BUT WITH THE TEACHER. NAH, THATS WILD! MY BOY WAS PLAYING WITH NERF GUNS WHEN SHE WAS EATING BABY FOOD!
Sorry I might have missed something but why did the attractive guys list end up being such a big deal? Like I get the whole not wanting to feel ugly thing from the guy, but like. It was a private group chat right? Aren't the girls basically being punished for what's essentially petty gossip that wasn't meant to be seen? Idk I'm tired it's late
I know people who got pregnant by their teachers right out of high school. One girl's high school track coach used to spend the night at her house and her family just accepted it. She got pregnant by him right after finishing high school.
I'm disgusted with the townspeople and family. My father was twenty-eight, and my mother was sixteen [coming up on forty-six years], and although it disgusts me and are unconscionable abhorrent actions, I obviously can not do anything as they are my parents. Bravo OP.
I can understand how the guy felt about being left off the list. It's very hurtful to be considered unattractive. Especially at that age when looks are considered to be pretty important. I know when I was in high school, I was very ugly because I was skinny and had a bent nose which was very pronounced. One guy was really awful about it and it scarred my mental image of myself so much that it still haunts me to this day many years later. You don't forget something like that easily. I hope he's ok now and dealing with it. As they say, what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger.
For story 2 8:10 I LIVE NEXT TO MEXICO I AM MEXICAN I ALWAYS VISIT MEXICO LIKE 4 TIMES PER MONTH AND I STILL BARELY KNOW SPANISH AND IVE TRIED LEARNING ALL MY LIFE
The group text story was so cringey. The kid sounds like he's mentally about eight. He's so hurt about not being invited to the exclusive cool kids' clubhouse. Grow up, dude! Wait until you have a career where you're there to actually work, not be buddies with everyone! 🙄🙄🙄
Story 1: I think the idea for the story, came from ultra religious extremist cults. Story 2: Her husband is an AH. Story 3: OP tells us her father has committed attempted murder of a child, child abuse, and several other felonies, and he never went to prison, she still loves/loved him. Apparently we are just going to gloss over this. Also, OP dated her dad. She is definitely messed up. Story 4: WTF did I listen to. Story 6: The daughter was taking advantage, and the father is an idiot. Story 7: I would have called the second I was aware and quit. He is right, it's not about what the list was about, it was about being left off, even them replacing his name with 3 delivery guys. Also he was down, and just wanted to be left alone, but no one would let him be alone, causing to stress out more. Causing to be more down.
Hiragana and katakana aren't really all that hard to learn. Kanji is a pain in the ball sack though. I would have said YTA if she didn't already speak 4 languages and wasn't making an effort to learn. A bit of context for how the husband is acting since Japan is still quite conservative in it's society a lot of the men in relationships still have an older view on relationships.
(Story One) Honestly i'm less concerned with the age gap and occupational relationship natures when it comes to those of legal age, as it's just the fact of life that some people are more attached and attracted to those who have had a role in caring for and-or teaching them through out points of their lives, especially over a prolonged period(s) and especially if said period(s) was a difficult time for one or both involved parties. And instead find myself more concerned with if any abuse is taking place. And in this case through the Teacher's actual actions in the relationship; it was in fact wholly creepy as he chose to be abusive, cheating, deceitful, disloyal, manipulative and violent. Instead of treating his wife and her concerned sister with respect, compassion and equality.
The problem isn’t the age gap, it’s the fact that he knew her and regularly interacted with her when she was a minor and started dating her as soon as she was legal. That comes off like he groomed her
@@jjazure100 True, however it's never not going to look like that regardless of if he did or not, or waited a year or two, given the fact they were teacher and student. It'd look just as odd if they were a boss and employee or a doctor and patient. Unless she levies a charge of grooming against him, that's ultimately not going anywhere. Hence why I focus on whether or not there's abuse in a relationship and not potential grooming. As the latter is much harder to prove and act on without say so from the individual involved.
Most wordy ped0 argument I have ever seen. As someone who was s€xually ab×sed as a minor it is not "merely an age gap". That is DISGUSTING. It is not merely a number. It is YEARS of life and experience. It is a difference in life skills, social skills, mental maturity, mentality, mannerisms, and differing social norms based on the times they grew up in. She was a CHILD he took advantage of. He worked on hed since she was 16. He was a teacher with a position of power and mentorship over her. That is already a major power imbalance. She was old enough to be his CHILD. If you start looking at a young girl who is barely legal romantically then YOU have a problem you need to address. My parents have an age gap but do you know the difference? My parents met as ADULTS, with jobs, apartments, and have gone through relationships on an adult level. He preyed on a child who didn't know better. Where he went wrong wasn't just the ab×se as you tried to INCORRECTLY excuse. It was the fact he pursued someone who was a minor and snapped her up as soon as she was "legal" by law. 18 isn't even REAL adulthood. It was just the law old ped0philes decided on because it was the oldest you could be without d×ing in child birth. Look it up. Your brain doesn't stop developing fully until your early 20's. QUIT EXCUSING PED0PHILIA!!
As soon as I heard that the teacher divorced then started paying attention to her while she was still in the middle of HS I started thinking he was grooming her.
The teacher should be in jail.
I don't understand why a parent would want their kid to have a relationship with an abusive Addict parent.
As someone whose DNA donor is my mothers high school teacher, it does not end well. I have not spoken to Voldemort (the nickname I had for him as a child, his name kind of sounds like it as well) for over 18 years. I am now 30, and dont even know what he is doing now.
Omg as an older sister, I wouldn't hhave handle this as well as OP, I'd have probably gone to jail over assaulting the teacher! How insane!
"How I met your dad? I baited his dog." 😂😂😂 ❤
Regarding the person learning Japanese, it's a massive PiTA language to learn. Having multiple languages only helps if either one or more are from the same language family as the language one is learning or if they are all of widely removed language families. If one is capable in a Chinese language, learning kanji will be easier as it's a derivation from the hanzi characters used for written Chinese.
N3 on JLPT is basically fluent for purposes of everyday life, and expecting an N1 from a non-native speaker without taking dedicated classes for the purpose is like expecting a twelve year old to be able to follow a college level philosophy text.
I like learning about languages now and then and I have shied away from the tonal languages and their writing systems. I'm sure I could do it if I put forth the effort and stuck with it. OP's husband was an ass for trying to tear her down. It also sounds like he didn't even want to practice with her through simple conversations that get progressively more complex.
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OMG THE ARRANGED MARRIAGE ONE FEELS LIKE IT'S STRAIGHT OUT OF WATTPAD AND HONESTLY... IT'S GIVING ME THE WARM FUZZY FEELINGS YOU GET WHEN YOU SEE LOVE BLOSSOM 😭❤
Weirdest thing ever how’s everyone ok with this like yes it’s legal but still weird
Cult...people in religious cults behave like that.
@@Azulakayes yeah that’s true
I hate how it was clarified that many people DEFENDED the teacher at first????? That is disgusting and it keeps me up at night to think that such people genuinely belive or do stuff like that
Isn’t grooming illegal and something you can be charged with even after the child becomes of age
@@jamiemanton3038 maybe not a expert I’m just a moron.
"Am I the a-hole for not knowing Japanese after living here for 6 years?"
Me who learnt my native language properly at the age of 7: "nah, I've been there, you got nothing to be ashamed of."
42:52 bro this story I started screaming I love this so much xd sounds like a fanfic
Last story, being at the bottom is 1000% better than being left out all together. Personally that'd destroy me. I would "accept" their apology but never actually accept it.
I read somewhere that proficient reading level in Japanese would include knowing somewhere around 1,100 Kanji characters outside of Katakana/Hiragana. The fact that she’s made the progress she has while speaking 3(4?) other languages is damn admirable.
I fully understand what you are saying. It is sick not because of the age but because it is her teacher. He groomed her I don't understand why other people can't see it. I wonder if he's ex was groomed the same way.
Could you use timestamps please?
0:01 first story 6:32 first story reaction 8:10 story two 16:11 story two commenter 17:41 story 3 31:31 story 3 comments 33:53 story 4 38:07 story 4 comments I quit sry😂
The Japanese husband story: Oh, my sweet summer child, he is undermining the everloving shit out of you. How will you learn if you never make mistakes? That's why learners of ESL suck in speaking: we sound better in our heads.
see, idc about her wanting to be a housewife or have kids. BUT WITH THE TEACHER. NAH, THATS WILD! MY BOY WAS PLAYING WITH NERF GUNS WHEN SHE WAS EATING BABY FOOD!
Bro this narrator voice is soooo 👌👌👌
Sorry I might have missed something but why did the attractive guys list end up being such a big deal? Like I get the whole not wanting to feel ugly thing from the guy, but like. It was a private group chat right? Aren't the girls basically being punished for what's essentially petty gossip that wasn't meant to be seen? Idk I'm tired it's late
I know people who got pregnant by their teachers right out of high school. One girl's high school track coach used to spend the night at her house and her family just accepted it. She got pregnant by him right after finishing high school.
That he tried to hit the older sister you know it was only a matter of time before he hit his wife.
The teacher probably paid off the parents and for Story 2 I wonder what manga she's reading
I'm disgusted with the townspeople and family.
My father was twenty-eight, and my mother was sixteen [coming up on forty-six years], and although it disgusts me and are unconscionable abhorrent actions, I obviously can not do anything as they are my parents. Bravo OP.
37:05 hit my ADHD hearing "morst import- *click click* MOST important"
9:20 2022 was so good actually
kudos to that restaurant
He hit a woman wtf. And the parent's want her to go back. They are a huge problem. Im suprised the sister's turned out so well.
I can understand how the guy felt about being left off the list. It's very hurtful to be considered unattractive. Especially at that age when looks are considered to be pretty important. I know when I was in high school, I was very ugly because I was skinny and had a bent nose which was very pronounced. One guy was really awful about it and it scarred my mental image of myself so much that it still haunts me to this day many years later. You don't forget something like that easily. I hope he's ok now and dealing with it. As they say, what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger.
For story 2 8:10
I LIVE NEXT TO MEXICO I AM MEXICAN I ALWAYS VISIT MEXICO LIKE 4 TIMES PER MONTH AND I STILL BARELY KNOW SPANISH AND IVE TRIED LEARNING ALL MY LIFE
The click at 37:05 unalived my brain
Welcome back 🙏
The group text story was so cringey. The kid sounds like he's mentally about eight. He's so hurt about not being invited to the exclusive cool kids' clubhouse. Grow up, dude! Wait until you have a career where you're there to actually work, not be buddies with everyone! 🙄🙄🙄
I think y'all used the wrong title for this video
The Call of Duty gameplay was nostalgic😊
İm so happy that the best sis in the world saved her sis AND yes their parents are pedos as well WT- absolute - F
I feel like the title is problematic. Anyway, thanks for your video.
11:09 The Jumpscare 😦
Is she the girls sister or brother?
Story 1: I think the idea for the story, came from ultra religious extremist cults.
Story 2: Her husband is an AH.
Story 3: OP tells us her father has committed attempted murder of a child, child abuse, and several other felonies, and he never went to prison, she still loves/loved him. Apparently we are just going to gloss over this. Also, OP dated her dad. She is definitely messed up.
Story 4: WTF did I listen to.
Story 6: The daughter was taking advantage, and the father is an idiot.
Story 7: I would have called the second I was aware and quit. He is right, it's not about what the list was about, it was about being left off, even them replacing his name with 3 delivery guys.
Also he was down, and just wanted to be left alone, but no one would let him be alone, causing to stress out more. Causing to be more down.
Wrong title? 🤨
11:11 WTF???
Hiragana and katakana aren't really all that hard to learn. Kanji is a pain in the ball sack though.
I would have said YTA if she didn't already speak 4 languages and wasn't making an effort to learn. A bit of context for how the husband is acting since Japan is still quite conservative in it's society a lot of the men in relationships still have an older view on relationships.
(Story One)
Honestly i'm less concerned with the age gap and occupational relationship natures when it comes to those of legal age, as it's just the fact of life that some people are more attached and attracted to those who have had a role in caring for and-or teaching them through out points of their lives, especially over a prolonged period(s) and especially if said period(s) was a difficult time for one or both involved parties. And instead find myself more concerned with if any abuse is taking place.
And in this case through the Teacher's actual actions in the relationship; it was in fact wholly creepy as he chose to be abusive, cheating, deceitful, disloyal, manipulative and violent. Instead of treating his wife and her concerned sister with respect, compassion and equality.
The problem isn’t the age gap, it’s the fact that he knew her and regularly interacted with her when she was a minor and started dating her as soon as she was legal. That comes off like he groomed her
@@jjazure100 True, however it's never not going to look like that regardless of if he did or not, or waited a year or two, given the fact they were teacher and student. It'd look just as odd if they were a boss and employee or a doctor and patient. Unless she levies a charge of grooming against him, that's ultimately not going anywhere. Hence why I focus on whether or not there's abuse in a relationship and not potential grooming. As the latter is much harder to prove and act on without say so from the individual involved.
This is giving "of the legal age is 10 men would marry 11 year olds" energy. Really.
Most wordy ped0 argument I have ever seen.
As someone who was s€xually ab×sed as a minor it is not "merely an age gap".
That is DISGUSTING.
It is not merely a number. It is YEARS of life and experience. It is a difference in life skills, social skills, mental maturity, mentality, mannerisms, and differing social norms based on the times they grew up in.
She was a CHILD he took advantage of. He worked on hed since she was 16.
He was a teacher with a position of power and mentorship over her. That is already a major power imbalance. She was old enough to be his CHILD.
If you start looking at a young girl who is barely legal romantically then YOU have a problem you need to address.
My parents have an age gap but do you know the difference?
My parents met as ADULTS, with jobs, apartments, and have gone through relationships on an adult level.
He preyed on a child who didn't know better.
Where he went wrong wasn't just the ab×se as you tried to INCORRECTLY excuse. It was the fact he pursued someone who was a minor and snapped her up as soon as she was "legal" by law.
18 isn't even REAL adulthood. It was just the law old ped0philes decided on because it was the oldest you could be without d×ing in child birth. Look it up.
Your brain doesn't stop developing fully until your early 20's.
QUIT EXCUSING PED0PHILIA!!
I actually agree with you.
Abuse and manipulation more crucial then age gap.