I would rather live in the tiniest shoebox sized studio apartment, than a. share with a flatmate(s), and b. live in a house or larger flat in a bad neighbourhood. I’ve done flat-sharing with four other people when at university, never, ever, ever, again 🙈
I’ve lived alone for 15 years and think it’s the best thing ever. I’ve been privileged enough that I’ve only ever shared with my brother and only for a few months 🤍🩶🖤
Honestly, at the end of a long day, working in retail, I don’t wanna look at another person’s face. So coming home to an empty house is pure bliss. I find coupons are for items that are unhealthy and products I would never buy in the first place. A great pair of jeans is always worth the money.
I was waiting in line at Shoppers Drugmart 10 MINUTES because some bimbo who looked EXACTLY like those women on trash reality show Real Hoysewives Pf Orange County and she had a letter couriers bag full of coupons to save money then I see her go onto a $150,000 PORSCHE . I was furious if I lived in another country I tell her pay cash don't be so cheap . What fool married her
I think it depends on who is couponing. I get coupons on plant based milk, fruit and vegetables. And also brands I normally don't buy because they are too expensive, but help to keep my meals interesting. I scratch cook so I don't eat ready made stuff anyway.
I love thrifting, but I have had to cut back because it was becoming a source of overconsumption in my life. The thrill of the hunt and the find is so fun that I ended up buying things I didn't actually need.
2 times I have tried to find a decent roommate for a 2 bedroom apartment 2/2 I have come home to find out my roommate is smoking something like crystal meth or crack in my apartment. Idk what but it smelled like a tire fire inside a 1950s darkroom 🙄🙄🙄 two times down that was *IT* for me. No more roommates/boarders/subletters etc etc. You give these fuckers one inch and they’ll take a mile.
I've spent most of my adult life living alone. But, I have had to share a house or rent a room a few times. After doing that for a couple of years (2021-23) recently, it was such a horrible experience in all three houses I lived in during that period that I decided that I'd rather be homeless than do that again! Now, I live alone in a 2-bedroom apartment and it's infinitely better!
I would not rent a room to anyone. Way to stressful. If they don’t pay trying to get them out can be a nightmare and if they are a slob that is another huge problem. I think you have great values. Love your videos.
I would an have in the past providing they sign a rental lease. I did it for some members of my congregation of the church I attend. $400.0 per month per room. Utility's not included. And there's extra charge for extra space needed, if they're hoarders.
Your comment about fixing a problem that can be fixed with money reminded me of the philosophy of my first wife. She thoroughly believed in and convinced me of the truth of the following: if you have a problem that can be solved with money and you have money, you don’t have a problem.
I could never share a house with a stranger even not with my best friend for the same reasons.I am a very private person and i don't like someone leaving a mess in the kitchen or bring visitors in when I come home tired from work.
I just go in my room if I rly don’t want to pretend I’m happy when I’m not But I’m in a good mood usually n don’t feel a need to entertain ppl so I just coexist peacefully. If the kitchens bad I will literally go get them out of bed.
Since extreme couponers aired, grocery stores have stopped doubling coupons and all the things that used to get the bills down to zero. Too many people started doing it.
We don’t have coupons here in my country but I wish we did. Of course I’d still only buy the things I need and use regularly. But it would be nice to get discounts on stuff. It would certainly save me a lot of money
My dad used to say that my mom could “pinch a penny tighter than anyone and not make it hurt”. She didn’t like doing lots of product research, so she followed one simple method- buy the second cheapest of the item you’re in the market for. I’ve followed suit and it has yet to fail me.
I'm 68 and I would say that is a good rule of thumb. For some things it's a bit trickier. Especially when you get into things like auto resale values. Appliances can be a bit finicky. I purchased the lowest models of washer/ dryer, refrigerator and stove. They are all well taken care of and still going strong after 30 years. I purchased the top model of water heater, sump pump, kitchen and bathroom sinks, with no regrets. For my art, I purchase #1 and #3 oil paint, never #2. For a new car, I purchase the top loaded model for better bargaining power and resale. For used vehicle, just opposite. For a new roof, the 2nd cheapest is likely the best. For auto tires, it gets real tricky. Except there are great online comparison tools to help with tires. Those big Christmas sales on big screen TVs are a nooo. Always research the specific model # for problems, no matter which good brand. Typically they are only discounting those models with problems.
In 1988 I bought a pair of walking boots, they were the most expensive in the shop, even the girl in the shop tried to persuade me to buy a cheaper pair, she probably thought I was a snob or something with more money than sense. Anyway whilst I mostly hike barefoot in nice weather, in winter I use the hiking boots, I still wear them in 2023. Now that was a cheap purchase.
I especially agree about having my own space. I have never lived with anyone in my adult life, and can't imagine I ever will. I know I'm considered an oddball as far as societal norms, but I don't care. Like you said, people should do what works for them, you do you and I'll do me. I love living alone, just me and the fur-babies! Another great video Nicole!
There's a difference between being frugal and being a miser, we all have limits and the "buy once cry once" thing is very true for some things. I like an expensive matress because I like my back to work in the morning and good cotton sheets because poly cotton just feels horrible and they wear out much quicker. Will repurpose if the alternate use is right there in front of me but not to make dust gatherers with.
I firmly believe in "you get what you pay for" especially when talking about tools and electronics. I'm convinced that companies purposely produce low quality products so that they have be replaced. Or they make products in a way that makes them almost impossible or highly costly to repair.
@@dingusdingus2152 Agree...and even with expensive ones. And now, almost everything is on subscription. Plus, manufacturers make it hard to repair appliances, cars, gadgets because they are subverting our right to repair. That is why I will never buy any EV aside from the cost. And I try to hold on analog appliance or gadgets that I can still use before being forced to go digital with them. I don't even use a smart phone.
@@whatevergoesforme5129 I suspect EVs are a species of scam. They will not be the environmental salvation that the boosters want us to think. The cons appear to outweigh the pros. The car industry is a racket.
I agree 100% ! I'm frugal where I can be and never wasteful! But I just bought a 2021 Honda Pilot from my sister in law : ) And paid cash for it! You just can't compromise on certain things! Great video Nicole!
Toyota, Subaru, Honda you can't go wrong. My brother worked for Honda for years and when I called to talk to him about a used Civic I was about to purchase with 125000 miles on it, he said "that's just broke in on a Honda" 😊
@@AccordingtoNicoleOne day ,'you will own nothing ,and be happy.' as Klaus Schwab from the WEF declares ! (that includes your home which will be used for meetings for other people when you are not using it!)
@@sandrainontario6710 True. I sold my 2001 accord for $2500 with 340,000 miles on it. It was impeccable and ran good. I bought another accord and when I went for maintenance, the guy in front of me was the guy who bought it 3 years ago. Said it still is running great.
I purchase used clothes as much as possible BUT a problem I face is the smell of perfume that stays in some clothing. I bought a really nice cotton dress that smelled like perfume. I washed it about 5 times, I left it on the clothes line in the rain for days. The smell still persisted. I couldn't keep it. I amazes me how the chemical components of perfume can stick to clothing. It surprises me even more that people still use these products.
Oh I so agree…I am allergic to most artificial scents…they make my throat itch and I cough to the point that it actually annoys people. I know it gives some people pretty bad headaches….why it is still legal is beyond me…it’s my air too and no one has the right to ruin it ( think how we won’t allow smoking in almost all spaces) …
I agree so much with this video, I consider myself frugal as well but under no circumstances am i getting a roommate, buying junk just because its on sale or cheap etc etc. My peace of mind and comfortability is what matters most to me.
There are only two times that I have shared accommodations with. The first was at a private school; the second was 40 years with a wonderful lady, who, unfortunately, has passed over but there isn't a day I don't think of her. Pax
Pretty much agree with all of this and I'm 56 and own my own home in the UK with 3 bedrooms, found things tough last year when I changed jobs and utilities went through the roof, but there was no way I was gonna rent out my little sanctuary, no matter how many people suggested it!
My 23 year old daughter is my roommate. I definitely could never have a traditional roommate ever again. It’s never been a good experience, especially because I’m very tidy and a lot of people are really messy.
My last article of clothes I bought was a NEW London Fog puffer coat at the thrift store. It still had the price tag it, $320. and I paid $37.5O. It had a scrape on the lower right side.
This is such a great video! Sometimes it's easy to become addicted to frugality and people develop obsessive tendencies. I agree with you wholeheartedly when it comes to not depriving yourself from stuff and I don't buy second hand clothes either. Where I live it's become so popular now that it's "trendy", so instead of buying a pre-owned used item, you're buying a "sustainable, vintage" alternative (meaning that the price point will skyrocket and you could probably get yourself a brand new item of a similar quality for the same amount). Insane!!
I agree with most of your points. I do thrift shop and buy on Facebook marketplace but I do see your point from your perspective and that’s a solid choice for you. I am retired on a fixed income but I can save $ in some areas (I cook at home and shop consciously for everything) yet extend in others to improve my quality of life. Since I was purchasing good quality items before I retired I find that my “things” are not wearing out. New subscriber and a fellow Canuck.
I struggle daily... hourly with frugal vs reasonably uncomfortable. I love your perspective! I dislike preowned clothing, but have forced myself to do it to be more sustainable, as an example. You have helped me to embrace my idiosyncrasies while still being wise with my finances. Having the proper combination of both. Great video!
Thank you! I'm totally with you on the 'my space' thing. I don't actually use 2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom of my house anymore. I've thought about how I "should" rent that space out, but I do use the kitchen and the main dining/living space all the time and I don't particularly want to share that space with some rando. LOL! I'm a private person who needs plenty of quiet time. I am, instead, looking at moving to a much smaller home that fits me better. It seems Americans are obsessed with these HUGE houses, so no luck yet in an affordable range. The search continues..... Thanks for your content, I'm really enjoying it and getting all of the reality checks I need. :D
I live in a mobile home. Love living alone. I’m a Toyota fan too, but I have a Subaru now. Your right, don’t overspend, cook at home, and it’s all going to be ok ❤
Girl house hacking and roomates is something i will never do again, I'd rather work 2 jobs than to share my space. Roommates should be someone you love and trust, but living with a stranger is something i can never wrap my head around and has always been a nightmare
Exactly and just another point, even in freindships its quite a bit test, people have fallen out after living with someone they considered a freind@@ritalawson7020
I don’t get it. U wash ur thrift finds, right? Ppl trying on new clothes could also sneeze and cry and spit etc on those and put them back out on sales floor 🤔
My grandfather always said : "The cheapest of something,will end up cost you a lot! ". When we can afford a new of anything,without jeopardize our savings, it's better to go with it rather than a very cheap one and i have seen it in my life! Plus...what you said about being in discomfort for a long period without noticing how bad it was,i also have experienced this feeling and i wish i will never have to ever again! Thank you for the beautiful video ❤
For me, roommates (yes pural, I have two) is worth it for me for three reasons: 1) it allows me to responsibly afford to live in a very clean and recently refurbished secure building in my absolute favorite walkable neighborhood -- I also then don't need to incur the cost of a car -- in an incredibly expensive coastal city w/ year-round sun 2) for personal safety reasons, I like knowing as a single woman who works/plays away from home, that there would be someone to notice if I arrived late or not at all & would reach out to me, family, hospitals, authorities to see if I was in need of help. 3) As someone who chooses to live in a stimulating city with lots to offer, I don't mind the built-in "incentive" to leave my place frequently: rather than feeling stagnant by staying home for my alone-time, I like to seek my privacy on a walking trail, in a library, etc. and it's good for my brain and mental health to leave regularly.
You are so friggin refreshing. I grew up in the Sixties, was weaned on not giving a flying fuck about unimportant shit, but it is rare in 2024 to find someone like you who actually exercises your brain.
I think the "no thrifted clothes" thing is ENTIRELY valid! Especially when you are investing in high quality clothing that makes you happy, which you then wear until it wears out. I also have some germophobic tendencies that only got worse in 2020, so I'm getting on that train with you tbh Very far in the back, on another car, in a mask XD and yeah, Levi's I think were the first time I realized that large name brands were very much going downhill. Wore out in exactly the same spots too!
Gonna be honest, when I first started thrifting I thought it was amazing but more and more I find myself buying items that I'm not satisfied with because they look worn, they don't fit right, and they're shitty brands. Plus the current prices at the thrift stores keep going up and it's getting insane.
I like thrifting but yeah same I'm suuuuper selective these days. It's time consuming too find good quality stuff so I treat it like a hobby. I found a $50 tie for $5 one day, and got it for my partner's birthday which was months later. I got a very nice, near new pair of Levis (that do fit me) for $10. I wouldn't buy something just because it was cheap, it has to be quality first (and you have to be willing to go through many thrift shops and spend hours of time before you find a quality item). It has to be fun!
I have friends who rent out rooms in their houses for short periods for extra cash, but like you Nicole, it's not for me. I CRAVE my solitude. I'd rather live all by myself with not much money than share my space. I have my own little barbers shop and some customers give me their unwanted advice telling me I should rent a chair out and have another barber working with me. Same thing, absolutely no way. The reason I have my own shop is so that I don't have to work with other people. It's not all about having more money! I think it comes down to personality types. It wouldn't be an issue to share your space to some people, but it's not for me
I consider myself to be frugal but not cheap. I live very comfortably with my husband in a custom built, small (768 sq ft) one-story house with a 192 sq ft covered porch, paid for with cash. It’s located on about an acre and a half of land with a south facing mountain view. Everything about our house is customized for our needs and aesthetic preferences. I dont miss a larger house at all…especially a house with a mortgage…been there, done that. PS: Thank you to everyone who donates clothing to thrift stores like Goodwill. This winter, I’m especially enjoying my 3 cashmere sweaters that I bought for 35 cents apiece. : )
I love having a roommate, he helps with my overhead and he's chill af. I totally get its not for everyone, there are definitely times where I'm thinking "are we sure this is net added value (quality of life)?" but overall it's been working out great. Also, I'm in Detroit and love visiting Toronto. It's a great city.
The only time I ever go thrift shopping is when I'm looking for out-of-print books/comic books, vintage electronics/video games, or 1970s/80s Star Wars collectibles. Basically stuff that can potentially be resold for a profit. I wore enough second hand clothing as a kid (I actually wore a leather belt with someone else's name engraved on it for a couple of years) and I really don't have any interest in doing that again.
New subscriber here, as I was so impressed with your philosophy! I’ve listened to many frugal influencers who must have a good amount of money saved but their life sounds awful. My frugality allows me to splurge in areas that make my life a joy and enables me to help others who are not as fortunate as I am. Our income puts us below the poverty line but I feel rich!
@YeshuaKingMessiah I did not say their life was awful, rather that their life sounds awful (to me) as it seems the goal of their life is to gain wealth. The abundant life that Jesus talked about is something only He can give; and gaining wealth as the end goal of frugality seems to me to be selfish unless our purpose is to use that wealth to bless others. On a low income, splurging, that makes my life a joy is buying extra food to practice hospitality, gardening on a larger scale than what meets our needs so our older neighbours can share in the abundance, and putting aside extra money for the purpose of helping someone in unfortunate circumstances. We also tithe and give to charitable causes which only means we acknowledge where our blessings come from. Some influencers seem to have missed the point of being frugal, however I still listen to them as we can learn from their methods and still maintain our purpose.
@@gloriamessenchuk7592 so basically Their lack of generosity- which is also lack of empathy n compassion It is hard to put others first, surely Mindset is everything
Shoes are where I pull out all the stops. I’ll pay more for comfortable, supportive shoes that I can run, walk and stand it for long stretches of time and won’t give me foot problems
I have had a simple philosophy for all of my adult life: If I can't be warm or cool, comfortable in my home, what am I working for? I have a friend whose wife is constantly changing the thermostat up or down depending on the season, making her husband miserable, all it the name of saving a few dollars each month. And they are more than reasonably well off. I couldn't live like that! Cheers!
I've repurposed glass salsa jars to put my home-made salad dressing and home-made hummus in. It was a great choice. I don't use anything like that as a decoration, but for some types of home-made sauces, they're great.
My 2 biggest refusals of cost saving. 1 showers I need to wash daily and will not limit myself to 4 minutes have all the time I need I also have a clean towel each time. 2 I work from home and tried keeping the heating down. However I was miserable and felt I was less productive when I was cold. So the heating goes on if I am cold although I do use a warm housecoat first
@@ytuser29834 yes I have a fleece lined wearable blanket. However I live in the North of Scotland and our winters can be freezing. Another reason for keeping the heating on in winter is to avoid burst pipes
Thanks for sharing - some new thoughts to 🤔- I go sometimes 2 weeks without grocery shopping and just do what I call ‘pantry cooking’ - it’s amazing how long you can go without shopping if you had to - started off with one weekend- then I just wondered how far I could go - it helps use cans etc that would otherwise expire ( veggies- condiments- canned fish and chicken etc) I love to cook so it’s fun to experiment 😊 I have clothes that are too big since I’m losing weight so I try to sew them into something new - still trying lol I also unsubscribe to channels that ‘make me want to buy stuff ‘ like the paint brush they’re using - the paint set the pad the yarn and or newest pattern 🤷♀️at my age there are only so many more sweaters I will want to knit 🧶 ( so I tell myself) I also prefer to just pick up my groceries as it saves me at least $50 as I’m impulse shopping in the store- only meats and specific items I go in for myself with only that cash and no card - I don’t buy paper towels- I don’t have kids or pets so for me just some sets of rags I use and wash and reuse till .. - thanks again - and I love that your jeans are made in Italy 👍- I love to find items from Italy
I love your channel. I'm learning!! I have a 10 year old Toyota Scion IQ and love it. You are so right about Toyota. Nothing but oil and break change. I love it!!
What I love so much about you is that you are so grounded and a very good influence on all of us! I think that too many people are followers of what I would term as acceptable society. So you can be that beacon of light to guide them to start a new thought pattern about living. I wish there was an actual class about this being taught to high school students that they could use way more than many other subjects!
I used to coupon and over half the stuff I could get for free or for a few pennies were things I didn't need, most often baby items or personal care items (once you have 4 or 5 shampoos, bar soaps, deodorants and tubes of toothpaste you are set for the year. I could get endless toothbrushes for free too.) but I'd donate these items to shelters and the homeless. I didn't have much money to give to charity but I spent a bit of my time and donated products.
There's a term that outlines frugality to the point of stupidity - Frupid. You've clearly defined this with understanding that the cheapest is not the best in the long-run
Being frugal is not the same as being a miser, though. It is knowing when to spend wisely so spending on quality items that last for a loooong time is actually being frugal.
I agree on the roommate thing. I have one now as well as living with my boyfriend & it actually causes a lot of stress in my relationship. Her living habits are obnoxious & when she moves out or we do, I’m never getting one again even though I live in a very expensive city. It’s just not worth it anymore.
I used to live alone in my own place and couldn't imagine sharing with others. Now I find myself in a house with extended family in the basement suite, and my husband and step-kids in the main living area with me. And at the moment one of the kid's boyfriends is here too and we have foster animals. It's hectic and different but good too.
Hectic can be wonderful becuz it’s about ppl u love! Toddlers are hectic but we’ll never not love every moment. And it makes u cherish the downtime more (getting up early, staying up later or just going into ur room for a bit)
Love the cardboard box and submarine reference hahaha!!! I’m in New Brunswick on the east coast and the price of stuff is absolutely fucken ridiculous as well!! Gas is at $1.80/l now and food prices are absolutely crazy. Im actually contemplating turning my basement into a 1 bedroom apartment butttt I’m an introvert and like my privacy and my own space sooo I’ll probably just continue to procrastinate on that idea haha!
For a while it seemed that every time I complimented someone on an article of clothing, the wearer told me they found it at Goodwill or other thrift store. I want to be able get past my urge to shiver at the thought of thrifted clothing, but I just can't. So thank you for bringing this up. It really isn't because I'm a snob and need the best of everything. I just can't put my underarms or crotch where somebody else's has been! And my husband and I took in a friend of mine who was facing homelessness. She ended up staying for two years before we finally asked her to move on. With the exception of our bedroom, we had some of her belongings in EVERY room of this house. I'm lucky I'm still married. So good for you for realizing how sacred your home space is to you. As always, great tips. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and experiences.
i can help you. Stinky gross crotches walk themselves to bougie stores and try on tons of clothes they don't buy. When in doubt, always wash the clothes well with hot/cold water and great detergent.
Thrifting is what's helping me to save more money, but the trick to keeping those kinds of clothes in good condition requires a couple of steps: 1. Wash your items as soon as they enter the house! I can understand the worry of bringing home clothes that don't look used or smell weird. People have their standards, and I respect that. Personally, I just feel this sense of joy in getting a good deal/saving money, and especially with this stage of life I'm in now as I'm trying to save up money for my first apartment. 2. Look for items that are in like-new or brand new condition! In the thrift shop where I work, we tend to get a pretty generous number of high-quality donations, and those tend to sell quickly sometimes.
So her bathroom stuff was in the bathroom, her kitchen stuff in the kitchen, and her living room stuff in the living room. Where did u want her stuff to be?
@@YeshuaKingMessiah I do understand your point, but it felt a lot more intrusive than that. Imagine someone packing up their entire apartment PLUS a large storage unit and jamming it all into your living space. Furniture, boxes, piles of clothes that no longer fit her. It was a lot.
I remember years ago when my mom sent me holiday cookies and I later realized she’d reused a foam meat tray for them. I was ready to write my own eulogy, sure death was at hand. She’s a depression baby who tended to take things too far. Thankfully I didn’t get sick and learned to check her gifts closely and always check expiration dates on food at her house.
I wouldn't worry about the expiration dates on food too much. At least in the US those dates are unregulated manufacturers' made up dates that get people to trash completely edible food because it's "expired" then go out and buy more. Use your senses and brain, not a printed date, to figure out when something has gone bad.
Totally understand your stance on thrifting because I felt the same before (and there are still many items of clothing I'd never thrift besides obvious ones) I have no idea how this happened but I was able to compartmentalise my germ fears for thrifting. I think it's mainly because I love vintage clothing and a lot of the things I've bought have been new with tags never worn. But again totally understand why you don't because I had the ick for it too (as a fellow germaphobe).
Your a young lady I truly admire..you think about the same as I..I can't stand being told how to do this and don't buy that..I do as I please and spend my money on things that are useful and fun..I enjoyed your video..thanks
Happy Long Weekend Nicole. This is a great video and I particularly love the distinction you make between frugal and cheap. My husband and I were just talking about this yesterday! We’re definitely frugal - there is always someone or something who is willing to help us part with our money. We want value on whatever it is we are spending on. And sharing a room in your home - ugh ugh ugh - I couldn’t do it. One frugal habit that I find somewhat dodgy (bordering on dangerous) is purchasing food beyond its best before date. For those who eat meat, dairy and eggs it can be playing fast and loose with your health. I’ll do without before taking things to that extent. Anyway, keep up the great work. Love your insights.
Could not disagree more. Those dates are the company's (overly conservative) estimates of best quality. Nothing to do with food safety. Those dates force grocery stores to take products off the shelves way too early, and they contribute to the enormous waste of perfectly good food.
Make sure to check out government grants for house upgrades! I got a new furnace, attic insulation and also had my basement insulated, all for free from a home energy hydro program. And it will save me money in the long run.
I totally agree with you on all that you say. There are a lot of videos out there that preach the opposite, I loved hearing your thought process. Thanks!
I do thrift clothes and of course wash them but agreed on second-hand furniture made with fabric like a couch or bed. That one freaks me out too! But I totally get your point about clothes too and we all have a thing 🙂. And I sprung for the Toyota too!
Thanks for the video! I respect you for sticking to your guns and being honest about them. While I do agree with lots of things you said, I obviously feel differently about some of the things you mentioned (we're all different here and that's cool). I think where I draw the line is dumpster diving (for food). I'm from Australia, it's hot most of the year and we have a lot of bugs and stuff so it's not something I'd feel comfortable with. That being said, I have dumpster dived for moving boxes behind department stores, but they're designated bins for cardboard so it wasn't gross.
The couponing thing isn't really realistic for me either, & I'm in the US. Grocery stores in my area don't do double coupons, & the coupons I see are usually for products I don't use. And aren't good anyway, like 'Save $0.75 when you buy 3', & I can't use 3 by the time it expires. I do do (haha) the thrifting thing, especially for kitchen stuff & clothing. But I totally get that not everyone is comfortable with that
I am a person of reasonable hight ( or as some say, short) 😊. So i have to buy my jeans from M&S who are regarded as a quite expensive shop here in the UK. Otherwise i have to try to shorten jeans, which, since i dont have a sewing machine, never look or feel right. All the coupons i get seem to be for junk food i dont even want to try!
I love how practical you are - I would NEVER have thought you'd wear Nudie Jeans because they're so expensive, but you're right - if you buy a quality item, cost per wear is going to be cheaper long term than $30 fast fashion jeans.
Thanks Nicole! I like hearing want you won't comprise on. You made some good points that I'm going to remember. When I go out for the day, I usually prepare and bring a meal/snacks. But you're right, I shouldn't let myself get super hungry/thirsty if I didn't bring anything with me. I'm lucky enough to be in the position that I have the money to buy something if I'm hungry. Being that uncomfortable is being cheap!' I'm not going to get a pizza or something every time I'm out, but I'm not going to starve myself either to save a couple bucks.
I never don’t bring water I’ve been very hungry tho while out. If I can make something fast when home (a steak or eggs) or nuke something in fridge, I wait. The stuff in eateries is sooo gross, esp nutrient wise.
❤ your channel. You are correct, frugal is awesome, cheap is NOT! My friends aunt once bought some boots at Goodwill and ALL her toes got fungus 🤮 YUKKK!!! And yes, I must live alone!
13:29. 100% agree. I can only live with my immediate family. At times, I travel for work; I will not take the job if I can’t find private accommodations.
Well, my deceased dad's Levi's jeans were so well-made and thick that it withstood the test of time. It never got torn. I guess, Levi's did produce quality jeans in the long long past. My dad was born in 1940 so one could guess how old those jeans were when my dad passed them on to me in the 1990s.. Had to donate them later on because I got tired of them even though, they were still going strong LOL.
I agree with every one of your frugal habits and your reasons make perfect sense. I think it's great that you worked all this out while you are young and can apply them to live a life that suits you. I wasted a lot of my young years not respecting and accepting the way I wanted to live my life. You have some great ideas and I'm looking forward to following your channel.
Nicole, I have an almost 18 year old Toyota and it is running just fine, spending only for normal maintenance. I'm retired now, I was very careful while working, so now I can afford to buy a new car if I want. I figure after I worked all those years and saved I can treat myself. Maybe. And I totally agree about a roommate. Been there, done that.
Nicole, I applaud you!! You certainly ‘Know Thyself!’ This is just a thought - but when you were talking about your jeans - it brought to mind a video I watched recently from a creator who is very much your body shape. She has been buying her jeans at Walmart in the MEN’S department! Men’s jeans are about half the price of women’s, and you can get your exact size because men’s jeans state waistline and inseam measurements. Maybe just for knocking around in - @$12.00 per pair, you might consider it? 🙋♀️🇺🇸👏👍🥰‼️
Spot on Nicole! Especially that last one - it was like I was listening to my own thoughts in your voice! I have often said I'd take on a second (or third) job before I'd bring someone else into my personal space to live!
Ii am on the same page as you Nicole on just about everything I appreciate those that thrift, repurpose… I know it helps the environment. However, Reasons I don’t thrift clothes: I prefer wearing a “uniform” I don’t enjoy shopping and looking through racks of one item clothing in a musty store I buy multiples However, I will shop first at a thrift store for a piece of quality wood furniture rather than shop IKEA type products that are cheap and filled with environmentally hazardous materials. I don’t buy much in the way of toiletries so I too purchase preferred brands that are healthier for me and the environment. I have rented a room out to a lodger in the past, but I did this for a limited time frame when I wanted the extra funds to pay for upgrades on my home. However, I found it stressful as their habits did not always align with mine. Yes, and a dollar a day to live in my home at a comfortable temperature is worth it as is my hot shower every night before bed. Cheap is about price where as frugal is about value. Value is subjective. You do you, Nicole. Your achievements speak to the efficacy of your habits.
10/10 on all this! Especially thrifting and house sharing. My mom used to thrift furniture and repurpose stuff of the side of the road and we were constantly battling with insects and she could somehow never do the math that the furniture was infested but it was cheaper than buying new so it still seemed like a better deal to her. And as a person having roommates like outside of college, it’s awful.
I bought my 1998 Honda Accord in 2011 and I still am driving her. I paid cash for it, so the only expense has been maintenance, minor repairs, and insurance. I’ll dry that car until I can’t any further.
I had a Toyota Aygo, the first model... they don't make 'm anymore, I loved the fact they put a simple very common engine in it, everything in that simple car could be dismantled with simple tools, something rattled, I could screw it tight again, it was fun... and since it was a Toyota, for 7 years there was zero things that broke, sold it at about 8 years with the original battery still working fine...
I cannot agree more on the part about your own space - I will also rather work more to afford my home than share now. Maybe in the future, I will be forced to share my space, but I think I will do a lot to avoid that. I consider myself quite thoughtful about my spending, but I will not save on my health - if I need to see a specialist, buy some stuff or medicine I will do that, especially that will pay off later on.
It's Natalie. Lol, I don't like coupons too! I like the box to make a submarine ! You are funny, keep rocking! Yes, do what you love, Nicole! Thanks for your videos 😊
I would rather live in the tiniest shoebox sized studio apartment, than a. share with a flatmate(s), and b. live in a house or larger flat in a bad neighbourhood. I’ve done flat-sharing with four other people when at university, never, ever, ever, again 🙈
Same! One roommate a long time ago taught me I’d rather live alone.
Same! At one time I think I was sharing with five other people, never ever again
I’ve lived alone for 15 years and think it’s the best thing ever. I’ve been privileged enough that I’ve only ever shared with my brother and only for a few months 🤍🩶🖤
I agree 100%.
I live in 400 Square ft and work from home. I am sooo blessed. ❤❤❤
Honestly, at the end of a long day, working in retail, I don’t wanna look at another person’s face. So coming home to an empty house is pure bliss. I find coupons are for items that are unhealthy and products I would never buy in the first place. A great pair of jeans is always worth the money.
I agree coupons are generally for unhealthy items and items that have so many chemicals in them
And a great haircut.
I was waiting in line at Shoppers Drugmart 10 MINUTES because some bimbo who looked EXACTLY like those women on trash reality show Real Hoysewives Pf Orange County and she had a letter couriers bag full of coupons to save money then I see her go onto a $150,000 PORSCHE . I was furious if I lived in another country I tell her pay cash don't be so cheap . What fool married her
I work as a tour guide, I love being home alone in my room afterwards.
I think it depends on who is couponing. I get coupons on plant based milk, fruit and vegetables. And also brands I normally don't buy because they are too expensive, but help to keep my meals interesting. I scratch cook so I don't eat ready made stuff anyway.
Money can't buy happiness, but it can make dealing with misery a lot easier.
I love thrifting, but I have had to cut back because it was becoming a source of overconsumption in my life. The thrill of the hunt and the find is so fun that I ended up buying things I didn't actually need.
Absolutely agree on not sharing a house/renting a room. I'm happy with my own company and greatly value my own private space.
2 times I have tried to find a decent roommate for a 2 bedroom apartment
2/2 I have come home to find out my roommate is smoking something like crystal meth or crack in my apartment. Idk what but it smelled like a tire fire inside a 1950s darkroom 🙄🙄🙄 two times down that was *IT* for me. No more roommates/boarders/subletters etc etc. You give these fuckers one inch and they’ll take a mile.
I very recently had a much younger than me roommate move out! I will never have another roommate again
I've spent most of my adult life living alone. But, I have had to share a house or rent a room a few times. After doing that for a couple of years (2021-23) recently, it was such a horrible experience in all three houses I lived in during that period that I decided that I'd rather be homeless than do that again! Now, I live alone in a 2-bedroom apartment and it's infinitely better!
I would not rent a room to anyone. Way to stressful. If they don’t pay trying to get them out can be a nightmare and if they are a slob that is another huge problem. I think you have great values. Love your videos.
I would an have in the past providing they sign a rental lease. I did it for some members of my congregation of the church I attend. $400.0 per month per room. Utility's not included. And there's extra charge for extra space needed, if they're hoarders.
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 $400/month is what I paid every time I rented a room in the last few years.
Also, being the one who rents the room is also very shitty if the landlord/homeowner/other roommates suck, which is what usually happens.
Your comment about fixing a problem that can be fixed with money reminded me of the philosophy of my first wife. She thoroughly believed in and convinced me of the truth of the following: if you have a problem that can be solved with money and you have money, you don’t have a problem.
As an amateur woodworker I will happily take your "used" wood. Only someone who works with wood knows if something is truly trash or can be reused.
I could never share a house with a stranger even not with my best friend for the same reasons.I am a very private person and i don't like someone leaving a mess in the kitchen or bring visitors in when I come home tired from work.
Exactly
I just go in my room if I rly don’t want to pretend I’m happy when I’m not
But I’m in a good mood usually n don’t feel a need to entertain ppl so I just coexist peacefully.
If the kitchens bad I will literally go get them out of bed.
ABSOLUTELY….agree with you! I need my quiet, peace and privacy! On top of that I’m OCD on neatness!
Since extreme couponers aired, grocery stores have stopped doubling coupons and all the things that used to get the bills down to zero. Too many people started doing it.
Exactly I saw people on videos on RUclips getting hundreds of dollars of food with coupons and pay hardly anything for it all
We don’t have coupons here in my country but I wish we did. Of course I’d still only buy the things I need and use regularly. But it would be nice to get discounts on stuff. It would certainly save me a lot of money
@@ritalawson7020food? I doubt it; they rarely have food coupons just packaged garbage.
@@audrablue515 We have coupons in my country but almost all the time, I don't like the products so I seldom use those coupons.
My dad used to say that my mom could “pinch a penny tighter than anyone and not make it hurt”. She didn’t like doing lots of product research, so she followed one simple method- buy the second cheapest of the item you’re in the market for. I’ve followed suit and it has yet to fail me.
Interesting
I'm 68 and I would say that is a good rule of thumb. For some things it's a bit trickier. Especially when you get into things like auto resale values. Appliances can be a bit finicky. I purchased the lowest models of washer/ dryer, refrigerator and stove. They are all well taken care of and still going strong after 30 years. I purchased the top model of water heater, sump pump, kitchen and bathroom sinks, with no regrets. For my art, I purchase #1 and #3 oil paint, never #2. For a new car, I purchase the top loaded model for better bargaining power and resale. For used vehicle, just opposite. For a new roof, the 2nd cheapest is likely the best. For auto tires, it gets real tricky. Except there are great online comparison tools to help with tires. Those big Christmas sales on big screen TVs are a nooo. Always research the specific model # for problems, no matter which good brand. Typically they are only discounting those models with problems.
Give one example of an item you bought that was a major purchase and also the second cheapest.
@@stephenh.4476 my vacuum cleaner. I could list more but you said to only list one
@@ltwig476 I noticed that products that don't go on sale usually tend to be good products.
In 1988 I bought a pair of walking boots, they were the most expensive in the shop, even the girl in the shop tried to persuade me to buy a cheaper pair, she probably thought I was a snob or something with more money than sense. Anyway whilst I mostly hike barefoot in nice weather, in winter I use the hiking boots, I still wear them in 2023. Now that was a cheap purchase.
STILL NO WAY you would have worn out FIVE reasonably priced pairs of boots!!!
I especially agree about having my own space. I have never lived with anyone in my adult life, and can't imagine I ever will. I know I'm considered an oddball as far as societal norms, but I don't care. Like you said, people should do what works for them, you do you and I'll do me. I love living alone, just me and the fur-babies! Another great video Nicole!
Spot on comment!!!
There's a difference between being frugal and being a miser, we all have limits and the "buy once cry once" thing is very true for some things. I like an expensive matress because I like my back to work in the morning and good cotton sheets because poly cotton just feels horrible and they wear out much quicker. Will repurpose if the alternate use is right there in front of me but not to make dust gatherers with.
I firmly believe in "you get what you pay for" especially when talking about tools and electronics. I'm convinced that companies purposely produce low quality products so that they have be replaced. Or they make products in a way that makes them almost impossible or highly costly to repair.
You are correct. This is called planned obsolescence.
@@dingusdingus2152 Agree...and even with expensive ones. And now, almost everything is on subscription. Plus, manufacturers make it hard to repair appliances, cars, gadgets because they are subverting our right to repair.
That is why I will never buy any EV aside from the cost. And I try to hold on analog appliance or gadgets that I can still use before being forced to go digital with them. I don't even use a smart phone.
@@whatevergoesforme5129 I suspect EVs are a species of scam. They will not be the environmental salvation that the boosters want us to think. The cons appear to outweigh the pros. The car industry is a racket.
I agree 100% ! I'm frugal where I can be and never wasteful! But I just bought a 2021 Honda Pilot from my sister in law : ) And paid cash for it! You just can't compromise on certain things! Great video Nicole!
Well said!
Toyota, Subaru, Honda you can't go wrong. My brother worked for Honda for years and when I called to talk to him about a used Civic I was about to purchase with 125000 miles on it, he said "that's just broke in on a Honda" 😊
@@sandrainontario6710Love. It's what makes a Subaru burn oil, head gaskets, and CVT's.
@@AccordingtoNicoleOne day ,'you will own nothing ,and be happy.' as Klaus Schwab from the WEF declares ! (that includes your home which will be used for meetings for other people when you are not using it!)
@@sandrainontario6710 True. I sold my 2001 accord for $2500 with 340,000 miles on it. It was impeccable and ran good. I bought another accord and when I went for maintenance, the guy in front of me was the guy who bought it 3 years ago. Said it still is running great.
If I were a movie produce, I would cast Nicole as Peppermint Patty.
I enjoy seeing people who know who they are and what they like, and aren't ashamed of either. It's a tough world out there.
I bought a 97 Toyota Tercel, about 5 years ago, still running perfectly. Love that car.
I purchase used clothes as much as possible BUT a problem I face is the smell of perfume that stays in some clothing. I bought a really nice cotton dress that smelled like perfume. I washed it about 5 times, I left it on the clothes line in the rain for days. The smell still persisted. I couldn't keep it. I amazes me how the chemical components of perfume can stick to clothing. It surprises me even more that people still use these products.
Bleh
Oh I so agree…I am allergic to most artificial scents…they make my throat itch and I cough to the point that it actually annoys people. I know it gives some people pretty bad headaches….why it is still legal is beyond me…it’s my air too and no one has the right to ruin it ( think how we won’t allow smoking in almost all spaces) …
I agree so much with this video, I consider myself frugal as well but under no circumstances am i getting a roommate, buying junk just because its on sale or cheap etc etc. My peace of mind and comfortability is what matters most to me.
There are only two times that I have shared accommodations with. The first was at a private school; the second was 40 years with a wonderful lady, who, unfortunately, has passed over but there isn't a day I don't think of her. Pax
Pretty much agree with all of this and I'm 56 and own my own home in the UK with 3 bedrooms, found things tough last year when I changed jobs and utilities went through the roof, but there was no way I was gonna rent out my little sanctuary, no matter how many people suggested it!
My 23 year old daughter is my roommate. I definitely could never have a traditional roommate ever again. It’s never been a good experience, especially because I’m very tidy and a lot of people are really messy.
My last article of clothes I bought was a NEW London Fog puffer coat at the thrift store. It still had the price tag it, $320. and I paid $37.5O. It had a scrape on the lower right side.
This is such a great video! Sometimes it's easy to become addicted to frugality and people develop obsessive tendencies. I agree with you wholeheartedly when it comes to not depriving yourself from stuff and I don't buy second hand clothes either.
Where I live it's become so popular now that it's "trendy", so instead of buying a pre-owned used item, you're buying a "sustainable, vintage" alternative (meaning that the price point will skyrocket and you could probably get yourself a brand new item of a similar quality for the same amount). Insane!!
I agree with most of your points. I do thrift shop and buy on Facebook marketplace but I do see your point from your perspective and that’s a solid choice for you. I am retired on a fixed income but I can save $ in some areas (I cook at home and shop consciously for everything) yet extend in others to improve my quality of life. Since I was purchasing good quality items before I retired I find that my “things” are not wearing out. New subscriber and a fellow Canuck.
I struggle daily... hourly with frugal vs reasonably uncomfortable. I love your perspective! I dislike preowned clothing, but have forced myself to do it to be more sustainable, as an example. You have helped me to embrace my idiosyncrasies while still being wise with my finances. Having the proper combination of both. Great video!
Thank you! I'm totally with you on the 'my space' thing. I don't actually use 2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom of my house anymore. I've thought about how I "should" rent that space out, but I do use the kitchen and the main dining/living space all the time and I don't particularly want to share that space with some rando. LOL! I'm a private person who needs plenty of quiet time. I am, instead, looking at moving to a much smaller home that fits me better. It seems Americans are obsessed with these HUGE houses, so no luck yet in an affordable range. The search continues..... Thanks for your content, I'm really enjoying it and getting all of the reality checks I need. :D
You’re just so smart and well prioritized. Love your content.
Thank you!
I live in a mobile home. Love living alone. I’m a Toyota fan too, but I have a Subaru now. Your right, don’t overspend, cook at home, and it’s all going to be ok ❤
Girl house hacking and roomates is something i will never do again, I'd rather work 2 jobs than to share my space. Roommates should be someone you love and trust, but living with a stranger is something i can never wrap my head around and has always been a nightmare
I know that you can't trust someone you don't know they can even wreck things move out and you have to repair it
Exactly and just another point, even in freindships its quite a bit test, people have fallen out after living with someone they considered a freind@@ritalawson7020
Agree with all your points 100%! The thrifting one cracked me up lol. Clothes that people farted in 😂
I don’t get it. U wash ur thrift finds, right?
Ppl trying on new clothes could also sneeze and cry and spit etc on those and put them back out on sales floor 🤔
I am with you on the no renting a room thing! Great video today! Very thought provoking!
My grandfather always said : "The cheapest of something,will end up cost you a lot! ". When we can afford a new of anything,without jeopardize our savings, it's better to go with it rather than a very cheap one and i have seen it in my life! Plus...what you said about being in discomfort for a long period without noticing how bad it was,i also have experienced this feeling and i wish i will never have to ever again! Thank you for the beautiful video ❤
For me, roommates (yes pural, I have two) is worth it for me for three reasons: 1) it allows me to responsibly afford to live in a very clean and recently refurbished secure building in my absolute favorite walkable neighborhood -- I also then don't need to incur the cost of a car -- in an incredibly expensive coastal city w/ year-round sun 2) for personal safety reasons, I like knowing as a single woman who works/plays away from home, that there would be someone to notice if I arrived late or not at all & would reach out to me, family, hospitals, authorities to see if I was in need of help. 3) As someone who chooses to live in a stimulating city with lots to offer, I don't mind the built-in "incentive" to leave my place frequently: rather than feeling stagnant by staying home for my alone-time, I like to seek my privacy on a walking trail, in a library, etc. and it's good for my brain and mental health to leave regularly.
Interesting take on feeling stagnant at home
If I leave, I spend $. So I hate leaving.
The safety aspect is why living with someone else is appealing to me.
Handy to have someone if you have a medical issue
You are so friggin refreshing. I grew up in the Sixties, was weaned on not giving a flying fuck about unimportant shit, but it is rare in 2024 to find someone like you who actually exercises your brain.
I think the "no thrifted clothes" thing is ENTIRELY valid! Especially when you are investing in high quality clothing that makes you happy, which you then wear until it wears out. I also have some germophobic tendencies that only got worse in 2020, so I'm getting on that train with you tbh
Very far in the back, on another car, in a mask XD
and yeah, Levi's I think were the first time I realized that large name brands were very much going downhill. Wore out in exactly the same spots too!
Gonna be honest, when I first started thrifting I thought it was amazing but more and more I find myself buying items that I'm not satisfied with because they look worn, they don't fit right, and they're shitty brands. Plus the current prices at the thrift stores keep going up and it's getting insane.
I like thrifting but yeah same I'm suuuuper selective these days. It's time consuming too find good quality stuff so I treat it like a hobby. I found a $50 tie for $5 one day, and got it for my partner's birthday which was months later. I got a very nice, near new pair of Levis (that do fit me) for $10. I wouldn't buy something just because it was cheap, it has to be quality first (and you have to be willing to go through many thrift shops and spend hours of time before you find a quality item). It has to be fun!
I have friends who rent out rooms in their houses for short periods for extra cash, but like you Nicole, it's not for me. I CRAVE my solitude. I'd rather live all by myself with not much money than share my space. I have my own little barbers shop and some customers give me their unwanted advice telling me I should rent a chair out and have another barber working with me. Same thing, absolutely no way. The reason I have my own shop is so that I don't have to work with other people. It's not all about having more money! I think it comes down to personality types. It wouldn't be an issue to share your space to some people, but it's not for me
I gave up using coupons years ago. There are not coupons for produce, meat, or dairy. And often the store brand is cheaper.
Kathy B
That's why I gave up on coupons, too. Coupons were almost never for anything I would want.
So did I. They are just a ploy to get you to overconsume stuff that you really didn't want in the first place that's not good for you as well.
I made two very nice foot rests from scrap 2x6s. Saved 30-40 bucks a piece so sometimes repurposing garbage makes all the sense in the world.
I consider myself to be frugal but not cheap. I live very comfortably with my husband in a custom built, small (768 sq ft) one-story house with a 192 sq ft covered porch, paid for with cash. It’s located on about an acre and a half of land with a south facing mountain view. Everything about our house is customized for our needs and aesthetic preferences. I dont miss a larger house at all…especially a house with a mortgage…been there, done that. PS: Thank you to everyone who donates clothing to thrift stores like Goodwill. This winter, I’m especially enjoying my 3 cashmere sweaters that I bought for 35 cents apiece. : )
I love having a roommate, he helps with my overhead and he's chill af. I totally get its not for everyone, there are definitely times where I'm thinking "are we sure this is net added value (quality of life)?" but overall it's been working out great.
Also, I'm in Detroit and love visiting Toronto. It's a great city.
I have bought cheap furniture that I have regretted in the past. I 100% agree with buy once cry once for big purchases.
The only time I ever go thrift shopping is when I'm looking for out-of-print books/comic books, vintage electronics/video games, or 1970s/80s Star Wars collectibles. Basically stuff that can potentially be resold for a profit.
I wore enough second hand clothing as a kid (I actually wore a leather belt with someone else's name engraved on it for a couple of years) and I really don't have any interest in doing that again.
New subscriber here, as I was so impressed with your philosophy! I’ve listened to many frugal influencers who must have a good amount of money saved but their life sounds awful. My frugality allows me to splurge in areas that make my life a joy and enables me to help others who are not as fortunate as I am. Our income puts us below the poverty line but I feel rich!
Do u have a few examples of this making their life awful?
@YeshuaKingMessiah
I did not say their life was awful, rather that their life sounds awful (to me) as it seems the goal of their life is to gain wealth. The abundant life that Jesus talked about is something only He can give; and gaining wealth as the end goal of frugality seems to me to be selfish unless our purpose is to use that wealth to bless others. On a low income, splurging, that makes my life a joy is buying extra food to practice hospitality, gardening on a larger scale than what meets our needs so our older neighbours can share in the abundance, and putting aside extra money for the purpose of helping someone in unfortunate circumstances. We also tithe and give to charitable causes which only means we acknowledge where our blessings come from. Some influencers seem to have missed the point of being frugal, however I still listen to them as we can learn from their methods and still maintain our purpose.
@@gloriamessenchuk7592 so basically
Their lack of generosity- which is also lack of empathy n compassion
It is hard to put others first, surely
Mindset is everything
I enjoyed your video. It's good to hear another approach to all or nothing. I too would struggle to wear other peoples clothing. Subbed.
sometimes the most popular brand is not always the best. bed bugs yes i can understand. used clothing i think the same way as you
Shoes are where I pull out all the stops. I’ll pay more for comfortable, supportive shoes that I can run, walk and stand it for long stretches of time and won’t give me foot problems
I finally found someone who feels the same as me about thrifting!
I just can’t do it
I have had a simple philosophy for all of my adult life: If I can't be warm or cool, comfortable in my home, what am I working for? I have a friend whose wife is constantly changing the thermostat up or down depending on the season, making her husband miserable, all it the name of saving a few dollars each month. And they are more than reasonably well off. I couldn't live like that! Cheers!
I've repurposed glass salsa jars to put my home-made salad dressing and home-made hummus in. It was a great choice. I don't use anything like that as a decoration, but for some types of home-made sauces, they're great.
My 2 biggest refusals of cost saving. 1 showers I need to wash daily and will not limit myself to 4 minutes have all the time I need I also have a clean towel each time. 2 I work from home and tried keeping the heating down. However I was miserable and felt I was less productive when I was cold. So the heating goes on if I am cold although I do use a warm housecoat first
@@ytuser29834 yes I have a fleece lined wearable blanket. However I live in the North of Scotland and our winters can be freezing. Another reason for keeping the heating on in winter is to avoid burst pipes
I seldom buy used 😢clothing from thrift shops because I'm afraid it will have the other person's smell in it!
@@janetstonerook4552 I don't have a problem with that as long as the item is machine washable x
Thanks for sharing - some new thoughts to 🤔- I go sometimes 2 weeks without grocery shopping and just do what I call ‘pantry cooking’ - it’s amazing how long you can go without shopping if you had to - started off with one weekend- then I just wondered how far I could go - it helps use cans etc that would otherwise expire ( veggies- condiments- canned fish and chicken etc) I love to cook so it’s fun to experiment 😊 I have clothes that are too big since I’m losing weight so I try to sew them into something new - still trying lol I also unsubscribe to channels that ‘make me want to buy stuff ‘ like the paint brush they’re using - the paint set the pad the yarn and or newest pattern 🤷♀️at my age there are only so many more sweaters I will want to knit 🧶 ( so I tell myself) I also prefer to just pick up my groceries as it saves me at least $50 as I’m impulse shopping in the store- only meats and specific items I go in for myself with only that cash and no card - I don’t buy paper towels- I don’t have kids or pets so for me just some sets of rags I use and wash and reuse till .. - thanks again - and I love that your jeans are made in Italy 👍- I love to find items from Italy
I love your channel. I'm learning!! I have a 10 year old Toyota Scion IQ and love it. You are so right about Toyota. Nothing but oil and break change. I love it!!
What I love so much about you is that you are so grounded and a very good influence on all of us! I think that too many people are followers of what I would term as acceptable society. So you can be that beacon of light to guide them to start a new thought pattern about living. I wish there was an actual class about this being taught to high school students that they could use way more than many other subjects!
I’m a couponer and I use to be a thrifter. But to each his own. 😊
I used to coupon and over half the stuff I could get for free or for a few pennies were things I didn't need, most often baby items or personal care items (once you have 4 or 5 shampoos, bar soaps, deodorants and tubes of toothpaste you are set for the year. I could get endless toothbrushes for free too.) but I'd donate these items to shelters and the homeless. I didn't have much money to give to charity but I spent a bit of my time and donated products.
The local shelter no longer takes donations of goods, only money. People should check before they decide to do that.
@@edennis8578even new, unopened items?? That’s insane!
Anyone with a fam would use those things up lol
Donating directly to ppl or offerring free on marketplace is best.
There's a term that outlines frugality to the point of stupidity - Frupid. You've clearly defined this with understanding that the cheapest is not the best in the long-run
It used be "penny wise and pounds foolish" in the English parlance.
@Rick... portmanteau
Being frugal is not the same as being a miser, though. It is knowing when to spend wisely so spending on quality items that last for a loooong time is actually being frugal.
I agree on the roommate thing. I have one now as well as living with my boyfriend & it actually causes a lot of stress in my relationship. Her living habits are obnoxious & when she moves out or we do, I’m never getting one again even though I live in a very expensive city. It’s just not worth it anymore.
You and I don't travel the same road but I still like hearing your thoughts!
I used to live alone in my own place and couldn't imagine sharing with others. Now I find myself in a house with extended family in the basement suite, and my husband and step-kids in the main living area with me. And at the moment one of the kid's boyfriends is here too and we have foster animals. It's hectic and different but good too.
Hectic can be wonderful becuz it’s about ppl u love! Toddlers are hectic but we’ll never not love every moment.
And it makes u cherish the downtime more (getting up early, staying up later or just going into ur room for a bit)
Love the cardboard box and submarine reference hahaha!!! I’m in New Brunswick on the east coast and the price of stuff is absolutely fucken ridiculous as well!! Gas is at $1.80/l now and food prices are absolutely crazy. Im actually contemplating turning my basement into a 1 bedroom apartment butttt I’m an introvert and like my privacy and my own space sooo I’ll probably just continue to procrastinate on that idea haha!
Ikr? That box/submarine joke had me rolling! 😂😂😂 and the joke about Levi, 😳💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@lorla85 🤣🤣
For a while it seemed that every time I complimented someone on an article of clothing, the wearer told me they found it at Goodwill or other thrift store. I want to be able get past my urge to shiver at the thought of thrifted clothing, but I just can't. So thank you for bringing this up. It really isn't because I'm a snob and need the best of everything. I just can't put my underarms or crotch where somebody else's has been!
And my husband and I took in a friend of mine who was facing homelessness. She ended up staying for two years before we finally asked her to move on. With the exception of our bedroom, we had some of her belongings in EVERY room of this house. I'm lucky I'm still married. So good for you for realizing how sacred your home space is to you.
As always, great tips. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and experiences.
i can help you. Stinky gross crotches walk themselves to bougie stores and try on tons of clothes they don't buy. When in doubt, always wash the clothes well with hot/cold water and great detergent.
Thrifting is what's helping me to save more money, but the trick to keeping those kinds of clothes in good condition requires a couple of steps:
1. Wash your items as soon as they enter the house! I can understand the worry of bringing home clothes that don't look used or smell weird. People have their standards, and I respect that. Personally, I just feel this sense of joy in getting a good deal/saving money, and especially with this stage of life I'm in now as I'm trying to save up money for my first apartment.
2. Look for items that are in like-new or brand new condition! In the thrift shop where I work, we tend to get a pretty generous number of high-quality donations, and those tend to sell quickly sometimes.
So her bathroom stuff was in the bathroom, her kitchen stuff in the kitchen, and her living room stuff in the living room. Where did u want her stuff to be?
@@YeshuaKingMessiah I do understand your point, but it felt a lot more intrusive than that. Imagine someone packing up their entire apartment PLUS a large storage unit and jamming it all into your living space. Furniture, boxes, piles of clothes that no longer fit her. It was a lot.
@@huntersun9 oh u didnt know she had all that
I wish I were as money savvy when I was your age. Great video and very sound examples. Thanks for the tips.
I remember years ago when my mom sent me holiday cookies and I later realized she’d reused a foam meat tray for them. I was ready to write my own eulogy, sure death was at hand. She’s a depression baby who tended to take things too far.
Thankfully I didn’t get sick and learned to check her gifts closely and always check expiration dates on food at her house.
I imagine she washed that tray thoroughly. I had a Depression mother, too. 😊😢
With a splash of bleach too.
I wouldn't worry about the expiration dates on food too much. At least in the US those dates are unregulated manufacturers' made up dates that get people to trash completely edible food because it's "expired" then go out and buy more. Use your senses and brain, not a printed date, to figure out when something has gone bad.
Totally understand your stance on thrifting because I felt the same before (and there are still many items of clothing I'd never thrift besides obvious ones) I have no idea how this happened but I was able to compartmentalise my germ fears for thrifting. I think it's mainly because I love vintage clothing and a lot of the things I've bought have been new with tags never worn. But again totally understand why you don't because I had the ick for it too (as a fellow germaphobe).
Your a young lady I truly admire..you think about the same as I..I can't stand being told how to do this and don't buy that..I do as I please and spend my money on things that are useful and fun..I enjoyed your video..thanks
Happy Long Weekend Nicole. This is a great video and I particularly love the distinction you make between frugal and cheap. My husband and I were just talking about this yesterday! We’re definitely frugal - there is always someone or something who is willing to help us part with our money. We want value on whatever it is we are spending on. And sharing a room in your home - ugh ugh ugh - I couldn’t do it.
One frugal habit that I find somewhat dodgy (bordering on dangerous) is purchasing food beyond its best before date. For those who eat meat, dairy and eggs it can be playing fast and loose with your health. I’ll do without before taking things to that extent. Anyway, keep up the great work. Love your insights.
Could not disagree more. Those dates are the company's (overly conservative) estimates of best quality. Nothing to do with food safety. Those dates force grocery stores to take products off the shelves way too early, and they contribute to the enormous waste of perfectly good food.
@@dabneydee9109 I think you’re right in many cases however my experience has been that for the items I mentioned the dates do matter.
Make sure to check out government grants for house upgrades! I got a new furnace, attic insulation and also had my basement insulated, all for free from a home energy hydro program. And it will save me money in the long run.
I totally agree with you on all that you say. There are a lot of videos out there that preach the opposite, I loved hearing your thought process. Thanks!
I understand and practice this principle as well. The only household machinery I buy is a brand called 'Miele'. Expensive, but very much worth it.
Great video. Thrift clothing stores don't have much anymore. There is a lot of people who buy all the stuff and sell it online.
Which is lame. Buying clothing online is always a gamble, regarding size. I thrift but only from thriftstores.
LOL! I like your "Buy once, cry once" comment :-)
I do thrift clothes and of course wash them but agreed on second-hand furniture made with fabric like a couch or bed. That one freaks me out too! But I totally get your point about clothes too and we all have a thing 🙂. And I sprung for the Toyota too!
Thanks for the video! I respect you for sticking to your guns and being honest about them. While I do agree with lots of things you said, I obviously feel differently about some of the things you mentioned (we're all different here and that's cool). I think where I draw the line is dumpster diving (for food). I'm from Australia, it's hot most of the year and we have a lot of bugs and stuff so it's not something I'd feel comfortable with. That being said, I have dumpster dived for moving boxes behind department stores, but they're designated bins for cardboard so it wasn't gross.
The couponing thing isn't really realistic for me either, & I'm in the US. Grocery stores in my area don't do double coupons, & the coupons I see are usually for products I don't use. And aren't good anyway, like 'Save $0.75 when you buy 3', & I can't use 3 by the time it expires. I do do (haha) the thrifting thing, especially for kitchen stuff & clothing. But I totally get that not everyone is comfortable with that
I am definitely a value minded person & appreciate your advice!
Thank-you for your channel.
I am a person of reasonable hight ( or as some say, short) 😊. So i have to buy my jeans from M&S who are regarded as a quite expensive shop here in the UK. Otherwise i have to try to shorten jeans, which, since i dont have a sewing machine, never look or feel right. All the coupons i get seem to be for junk food i dont even want to try!
I love how practical you are - I would NEVER have thought you'd wear Nudie Jeans because they're so expensive, but you're right - if you buy a quality item, cost per wear is going to be cheaper long term than $30 fast fashion jeans.
Thanks Nicole! I like hearing want you won't comprise on. You made some good points that I'm going to remember. When I go out for the day, I usually prepare and bring a meal/snacks. But you're right, I shouldn't let myself get super hungry/thirsty if I didn't bring anything with me. I'm lucky enough to be in the position that I have the money to buy something if I'm hungry. Being that uncomfortable is being cheap!' I'm not going to get a pizza or something every time I'm out, but I'm not going to starve myself either to save a couple bucks.
I never don’t bring water
I’ve been very hungry tho while out. If I can make something fast when home (a steak or eggs) or nuke something in fridge, I wait.
The stuff in eateries is sooo gross, esp nutrient wise.
My mother always told me “You get what you pay for.”
If you buy the cheapest you sometimes pay more in the long run in replacement and repair costs.
I agree 100% with all of these. Thank you for being real!
So glad I found you! I am trying to become more frugal and its great to have this reminder that I still get to make my own rules.
❤ your channel. You are correct, frugal is awesome, cheap is NOT! My friends aunt once bought some boots at Goodwill and ALL her toes got fungus 🤮 YUKKK!!!
And yes, I must live alone!
Did she pay extra for the fungus?
Just started watching your channel and now addicted :). Thanks
13:29. 100% agree.
I can only live with my immediate family.
At times, I travel for work; I will not take the job if I can’t find private accommodations.
Well, my deceased dad's Levi's jeans were so well-made and thick that it withstood the test of time. It never got torn. I guess, Levi's did produce quality jeans in the long long past. My dad was born in 1940 so one could guess how old those jeans were when my dad passed them on to me in the 1990s.. Had to donate them later on because I got tired of them even though, they were still going strong LOL.
I always find your videos inspirational, thank you
I agree with every one of your frugal habits and your reasons make perfect sense. I think it's great that you worked all this out while you are young and can apply them to live a life that suits you. I wasted a lot of my young years not respecting and accepting the way I wanted to live my life. You have some great ideas and I'm looking forward to following your channel.
Nicole, I have an almost 18 year old Toyota and it is running just fine, spending only for normal maintenance. I'm retired now, I was very careful while working, so now I can afford to buy a new car if I want. I figure after I worked all those years and saved I can treat myself. Maybe.
And I totally agree about a roommate. Been there, done that.
Nicole, I applaud you!! You certainly ‘Know Thyself!’ This is just a thought - but when you were talking about your jeans - it brought to mind a video I watched recently from a creator who is very much your body shape. She has been buying her jeans at Walmart in the MEN’S department! Men’s jeans are about half the price of women’s, and you can get your exact size because men’s jeans state waistline and inseam measurements. Maybe just for knocking around in - @$12.00 per pair, you might consider it? 🙋♀️🇺🇸👏👍🥰‼️
Spot on Nicole! Especially that last one - it was like I was listening to my own thoughts in your voice! I have often said I'd take on a second (or third) job before I'd bring someone else into my personal space to live!
Ii am on the same page as you Nicole on just about everything
I appreciate those that thrift, repurpose… I know it helps the environment.
However,
Reasons I don’t thrift clothes:
I prefer wearing a “uniform”
I don’t enjoy shopping and looking through racks of one item clothing in a musty store
I buy multiples
However, I will shop first at a thrift store for a piece of quality wood furniture rather than shop IKEA type products that are cheap and filled with environmentally hazardous materials.
I don’t buy much in the way of toiletries so I too purchase preferred brands that are healthier for me and the environment.
I have rented a room out to a lodger in the past, but I did this for a limited time frame when I wanted the extra funds to pay for upgrades on my home. However, I found it stressful as their habits did not always align with mine.
Yes, and a dollar a day to live in my home at a comfortable temperature is worth it as is my hot shower every night before bed.
Cheap is about price where as frugal is about value. Value is subjective. You do you, Nicole. Your achievements speak to the efficacy of your habits.
10/10 on all this! Especially thrifting and house sharing. My mom used to thrift furniture and repurpose stuff of the side of the road and we were constantly battling with insects and she could somehow never do the math that the furniture was infested but it was cheaper than buying new so it still seemed like a better deal to her. And as a person having roommates like outside of college, it’s awful.
0:00 Intro; 0:47 Buying the cheapest option (3:20 vehicle); [4:20 Sponsor: FlexiSpot desk]; 5:27 Self Deprivation; 7:50 Thrifting Clothing; 9:21 Repurpose Trash; 11:25 Couponing; 13:20 House Hacking / Renting Room; 16:22 Outro.
Nice!
I bought my 1998 Honda Accord in 2011 and I still am driving her. I paid cash for it, so the only expense has been maintenance, minor repairs, and insurance. I’ll dry that car until I can’t any further.
I had a Toyota Aygo, the first model... they don't make 'm anymore, I loved the fact they put a simple very common engine in it, everything in that simple car could be dismantled with simple tools, something rattled, I could screw it tight again, it was fun... and since it was a Toyota, for 7 years there was zero things that broke, sold it at about 8 years with the original battery still working fine...
I cannot agree more on the part about your own space - I will also rather work more to afford my home than share now. Maybe in the future, I will be forced to share my space, but I think I will do a lot to avoid that.
I consider myself quite thoughtful about my spending, but I will not save on my health - if I need to see a specialist, buy some stuff or medicine I will do that, especially that will pay off later on.
It's Natalie. Lol, I don't like coupons too! I like the box to make a submarine ! You are funny, keep rocking! Yes, do what you love, Nicole! Thanks for your videos 😊