The Disappearance of Maddi Kingsbury | Full Episode

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  • Опубликовано: 18 апр 2024
  • When a young Minnesota mother goes missing, her sister turns to TikTok for help. "48 Hours" correspondent Peter Van Sant reports. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  Месяц назад +125

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  • @infinitybless7132
    @infinitybless7132 Месяц назад +3494

    Adam’s sister is delusional.

    • @sharonmickey
      @sharonmickey Месяц назад +120

      I posted the same thing.... total denial. :(

    • @lowee333able
      @lowee333able Месяц назад +217

      150% delusional at that

    • @confidentminaj
      @confidentminaj Месяц назад +246

      Right I can’t believe she was seeing someone’s behind my brother back
      The brother:(abusive) 🫠

    • @drewbranch7700
      @drewbranch7700 Месяц назад +33

      @@confidentminajexactly!

    • @erikaxchristine
      @erikaxchristine Месяц назад +125

      I knew it when she kept making him the “victim”. Disgusting

  • @alglavic8475
    @alglavic8475 Месяц назад +2711

    Never tell an abuser what your intentions are. Leaving quietly will save your life. Rip Maddi.❤

    • @alglavic8475
      @alglavic8475 Месяц назад +125

      @@user-zj7tu1gi3q It doesn't matter,she didn't deserve to be murdered.

    • @n.g.l.
      @n.g.l. Месяц назад +50

      Right! For them that’s a loss of control and that makes them more dangerous.

    • @monicarenee7949
      @monicarenee7949 Месяц назад +86

      @@user-zj7tu1gi3q were they even together? They weren’t married so that’s not adultery anyway. Seems more of a roommate situation and she wanted to see other people. Regardless no reason to take her away from their kids.

    • @alglavic8475
      @alglavic8475 Месяц назад

      @@MMAMike22 women just need to get in line so the guy in their life doesn't end up killing them. You do realise that men don't own women and vice versa. That guy was never normal.

    • @plasticjesus444
      @plasticjesus444 Месяц назад +37

      @@MMAMike22what a disgusting thing to say

  • @angeldip5797
    @angeldip5797 Месяц назад +242

    My ex fiancé violently attacked me one evening, slamming me to the ground on my face and held me down screaming at me at the top of his lungs, keeping my phone away from me, wouldn't let me get up, leave his sight or leave the house etc.
    He had NEVER before even raised his voice to me, he was wonderful, I loved him deeply, my family loved him, we all trusted him completely and had known him almost 20 years.
    I could have let it go, after all I had felt partially responsible for pushing him too far that night and it could have been chocked up to a "one time thing" but I knew deep down I HAD TO LEAVE. That broke my heart but I knew the statistics and now I was truly terrified and traumatized.
    So, I played it cool with him but told my therapist, friends and family, found an apartment, packed up and left the following week during the day while he was at work.
    We cannot mess around when it comes to things like this. It's hard to leave the one you love and the life you built but when they lay violent hands on you, it has to be GAME OVER, the *first time* , period! This is the ultimate "deal breaker".
    Stay safe. Not just the ladies either, men are vulnerable to DV too and it can and does escalate quickly. Life is too precious and too short. 🙏🏼🩵🙏🏼

    • @GM-ue8xc
      @GM-ue8xc Месяц назад +11

      So glad you are safe! You’re brave for leaving! Did he ever try to find you?

    • @jessiec4128
      @jessiec4128 29 дней назад +5

      So sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment. I hope you are doing much better today.

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 28 дней назад +9

      Well, if he never even raised his voice and you pushed him, you destroyed a perfectly good relationship!!

    • @Thecaptain666
      @Thecaptain666 28 дней назад +26

      @@mistersniffer6838
      What a ridiculous thing to say. You obviously have very different standards of behaviour to the vast majority of right-thinking people. You need to have a good, long look in the mirror…

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 27 дней назад +8

      @@Thecaptain666 - Okay, sherlock, if he never even so much as raised his voice, why now? Thats something OUT of character. Other people/things make you go out of character, you just dont "go" out of character.
      I bet she was cheeeting and didnt want to tell us the whole story!!

  • @jackfitzpatrick8173
    @jackfitzpatrick8173 Месяц назад +287

    Missing woman + scratches on the husband's face + blatant threats = you've found the killer.

    • @ailyyang5982
      @ailyyang5982 15 дней назад

      People make blatant threats all of the time.

    • @sarahwolfe3692
      @sarahwolfe3692 14 дней назад +5

      @@ailyyang5982yeah but when you combine that with a missing spouse and injuries on the spouse that’s still around…

    • @willo7734
      @willo7734 13 дней назад +1

      Yeah it definitely doesn’t take Sherlock Holmes to piece together this mind-tickler.

    • @trumpgirl1018
      @trumpgirl1018 2 дня назад

      totally, I mean there is nothing that is coincidental when it comes to these disappearances and murders. So tragic these women weren't able to get away and do so safely...

  • @TawnyC_
    @TawnyC_ Месяц назад +2741

    His sister so proud that he MANNED up, he went and got a JOB, he LET Maddie finish college...then loses his job during Covid and never bothers to get another one, the kids go to daycare, and he contributes a big fat nothing to the household.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Месяц назад +194

      yeah they are completely delusional. and they know it. which means they are just tryna protect.

    • @bln8285
      @bln8285 Месяц назад +245

      +1. she was doing clinical research at mayo clinic and working on advanced degrees? he didn't "let" her finish studying, he was hoping for a meal ticket

    • @scroogemcduckrich9705
      @scroogemcduckrich9705 Месяц назад +333

      imagine kids going to daycare when a parent doesn’t work my wife would drop kick me

    • @christinap-c
      @christinap-c Месяц назад +177

      But never married Maddie. Such a man.

    • @rachaelobryan2411
      @rachaelobryan2411 Месяц назад +72

      Right, like any of that was an excuse to harm her! I doubt she told him to quit school.

  • @caylajay7532
    @caylajay7532 Месяц назад +1638

    The sister being “shocked to hear Maddie was dating Spencer behind her brothers back” hits a nerve with me - ok, how “shocked” were you when you found out your brother had abused Maddie, and killed the mother of his children??

    • @aparnarajesh
      @aparnarajesh Месяц назад +55

      i feel sorry for spencer and megan and but adam's family are still delusional

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 Месяц назад +68

      ​@@aparnarajesh they really are severely delusional. I guess him slapping her in the face on a video call and threatening to make her like Gabby Petito is normal to them😮

    • @Laurah88
      @Laurah88 Месяц назад +7

      This!!!

    • @79Bobola
      @79Bobola Месяц назад +63

      THANK YOU! It reminded me of Chris Watt’s mother when they interviewed her, she spent the whole fricken interview bashing Shannan, and I’m like, so you’re fine with your golden boy strangling her and your grandchildren??? Victim blaming at it’s ugliest tbh.

    • @estherdmartinez1346
      @estherdmartinez1346 Месяц назад +7

      ​@79Bobola she even had strong supporters doing it on the internet too it was disgusting I had to moved on from all that

  • @JudgeDredd_
    @JudgeDredd_ Месяц назад +185

    Telling a guy who chokes and beats you that you’re leaving him for another guy is probably not the best move.

    • @Bese2
      @Bese2 Месяц назад +4

      I mean why? Why would you💔

    • @OsceolaNola7
      @OsceolaNola7 Месяц назад +1

      She cheated

    • @herowrex9937
      @herowrex9937 Месяц назад +1

      @@OsceolaNola7no she didn’t they made it seem like but she didn’t Ik Spenser personally

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Месяц назад +1

      @@OsceolaNola7that’s like stating one variable of a very involved dimensional analysis equation…one variable doesn’t say much. Learn to be able to consider life has way more complexity than a dualistic and limited mindset.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Месяц назад

      @@herowrex9937Spencer literally admits it in the video.

  • @JoanTarpley-hx9sh
    @JoanTarpley-hx9sh Месяц назад +38

    His sister is so cringe! "He allowed her to continue her education." Say WHAT?? Girl, you need to keep that trap of yours shut. "He manned up." The hell he did! He used her as a meal ticket and a punching bag. When a violent relationship ends, get as far away from him as possible and DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THE MONSTER! You simply MUST make a clean break.

  • @stephaniediego4068
    @stephaniediego4068 Месяц назад +1249

    Adam’s sister is the WORST!!! “He let her get her degree” LET. Just shows how terrible is family is.

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 Месяц назад +72

      That part! She's a monster just like her brother😒

    • @mmeettwwoo
      @mmeettwwoo Месяц назад +45

      Adams family.

    • @RaquelGarcia-gb9pu
      @RaquelGarcia-gb9pu Месяц назад +26

      Systemic

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 Месяц назад +54

      The constant "He never would hurt her" made me so angry. Like, woman, he did hurt her, he hit her, he choked her, he threatened her with killing her, your argument is false. She doesn't even acknowledge that he was a violent partner. And get me lost, with the two sides of the story devil's advocatery. If they deep inside know that he killed her, they also think she provoked it. What utter despicable beings that whole family is.

    • @pettykittyfam
      @pettykittyfam Месяц назад +32

      "Let" yep I've been in controlling relationships & they come from controlling families.
      Absolutely disgusting
      His sister is delusional.
      I normally give grace but shes insufferable!

  • @damkegunner2414
    @damkegunner2414 Месяц назад +758

    It would be nice to see one episode where the killers family just accepts the fact that their family member is a psychopath.

    • @NefariousEvildoer
      @NefariousEvildoer Месяц назад +47

      Unfortunately, it's easier to live in that river in Egypt than to face the fact your relative is a murderer.

    • @moonstar7775
      @moonstar7775 Месяц назад +25

      It follows the same thought that everyone goes to heaven when they die. So far, I have never read an obituary stating that someone went straight to haides!

    • @michaelmastro9382
      @michaelmastro9382 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@NefariousEvildoerwhat can of evil are you doing......are you in a 48 hours video?

    • @m.alexander5355
      @m.alexander5355 Месяц назад +7

      Remember they don't know that person. Suspicious sometimes but people are definitely different per relationship. Accepting that was another part of them good or bad is key. No one Is all they seem in my life exerperince

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Месяц назад

      Yes

  • @laurahykes9206
    @laurahykes9206 Месяц назад +143

    HE KILLED HER!!! The fact that his family is supporting him!!! So sorry Maddi, may you RIP 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @moonlightmelodiesasmr3766
    @moonlightmelodiesasmr3766 Месяц назад +56

    “We were treated like we were delusional.” I WONDER WHY

  • @Ana_17319
    @Ana_17319 Месяц назад +1119

    To everyone, please never tell your spouse that you are leaving him. Do it quietly and make sure you find a place to stay where you know he can't find you.

    • @thelords3394
      @thelords3394 Месяц назад +45

      Particularly if he’s violent.

    • @lanabuehrer5616
      @lanabuehrer5616 Месяц назад +13

      That’s bull crap! Majority are not violent .

    • @MMMmyshawarma
      @MMMmyshawarma Месяц назад +23

      @@lanabuehrer5616 Think you need to run, now.

    • @Ana_17319
      @Ana_17319 Месяц назад

      But they can become violent in a split second. ​@@lanabuehrer5616

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 Месяц назад +11

      Crazy thing is--they weren't even married. He must have had some sort of supernatural hold on her...

  • @flapjackbickle645
    @flapjackbickle645 Месяц назад +703

    Police: "The first 24 hours are the most crucial in an investigation".
    Police: "You'll need to wait 24 hours before we do anything".
    More flawless logic from our finest.

    • @michelleMYHELL5244
      @michelleMYHELL5244 Месяц назад +37

      That is changing in most states thank GOd

    • @adriennem7927
      @adriennem7927 Месяц назад +3

      Atleast you don't have to wait for cops to search. They are gonna be in same position, where do we start from.

    • @TamiraHines-gd5ti
      @TamiraHines-gd5ti Месяц назад +8

      Exactly my thoughts each time I watch these stories pertaining to missing persons smh like something has to change!!! Especially for kids 13and under they should not have to be missing for 24hrs,not at all!!

    • @sprinkdesign7170
      @sprinkdesign7170 Месяц назад +7

      Not the case in the UK thankfully.

    • @jimwednt1229
      @jimwednt1229 Месяц назад +8

      Yeah that old system needs to change with the times.
      The average American nowadays has a phone and can call and check around for where their missing friend or family member is in minutes and determine if the person is really missing.
      Where as decades ago people were not nearly as connected and checking with friends and family took almost all day and the person would be found safe at a friend's house asleep or something. Thats why there was the 24 hour rule.
      Police resources were "wasted" by worried parents whose kids were just late getting home. Most of the time!

  • @justlynsey8778
    @justlynsey8778 Месяц назад +31

    Her best friend breaking down on her porch made me break down 😭 such a heartbreaking story of a beautiful young woman

    • @charinecarty1147
      @charinecarty1147 4 дня назад

      I jus cried out so hard with her!

    • @emilycombest7814
      @emilycombest7814 3 дня назад

      Me too. That cry caught me off guard. Such genuine love for her best friend.

  • @ZaryasBestFriend
    @ZaryasBestFriend Месяц назад +78

    --Adam chokes Maddie, slaps her, and threatens her life
    --Adam's sister: "My brother would never do anything to harm Maddi."
    You can't make this level of delusion up.

    • @SteveDrenser
      @SteveDrenser 23 дня назад

      hes innocent homie was set up by spenser

    • @TheSpiritRoom23
      @TheSpiritRoom23 20 дней назад +3

      @@SteveDrenseru must be just as delusional…

  • @suebila9702
    @suebila9702 Месяц назад +1216

    The first time your partner lays his or her hand you, let that be a warning and leave.

    • @veganbutcherhackepeter
      @veganbutcherhackepeter Месяц назад +29

      The abuse usually starts before this and that's when you grab your stuff and the kids and leave.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Месяц назад +24

      esp. like that. unbelievable. i don't care what the reason. hands on you ,time to go.

    • @teemo2mill
      @teemo2mill Месяц назад +31

      It's not that simple which is why so many women are murdered. They say the most dangerous time is when you tell your partner ur leaving so never tell them. But like I said it really is not that simple.

    • @mya200014
      @mya200014 Месяц назад +24

      The sad thing is there is a woman right now watching this story who is choosing to ignore the signs and will land up in some precarious situations as well.

    • @chaddobson7056
      @chaddobson7056 Месяц назад +3

      Exactly!

  • @einienj3281
    @einienj3281 Месяц назад +693

    "You'll adjust"....What a pos!

    • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
      @Nikki_with_the_blikki Месяц назад +100

      RIGHT!?
      37:36 _"We were treated like we were delusional. He would never harm Maddi"_
      That's because y'all are delusional! That text - "you'll adjust" alone confirms that yes, he would harm her🤦🏾‍♀️ c'mon!

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Месяц назад +83

      @@Nikki_with_the_blikki Exactly. "You'll adjust -to being abused in front of the children"...that is some sick sh*t ..

    • @Marlaina
      @Marlaina Месяц назад +37

      But it was all a joke.....seems to be the go to excuse

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Месяц назад +53

      total violent narc. couldn't pull his weight and took it out on her.

    • @paramilitarypandemic7098
      @paramilitarypandemic7098 Месяц назад +5

      She did adjust

  • @janettemcdonough1156
    @janettemcdonough1156 Месяц назад +43

    His sister, get a grip...YOUR BROTHER KILLED MADDIE !!!!! She says 'He would not do anything to the mother of his kids' BUT, a friend witnessed him slapping her across the face and reported it to the police !!!!! HE financially didn't support the woman he was meant to love !!!
    HIS SISTER NEEDS TO SHOW SOME BLOODY RESPECT TO MADDIE'S FAMILY, AND THE BROTHER ' THERE'S ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO A STORY' HE IS 100% DELUSIONAL 🤬🤬🤬

    • @divine_mortality
      @divine_mortality 20 дней назад +3

      What can anyone expect from someone who looks like they eat people weekly. His sister needs to be investigated.

    • @captainhindsight8779
      @captainhindsight8779 10 дней назад

      @@divine_mortalityagreed, there be people in her rolls. 🧈⛴️

    • @avyluant9416
      @avyluant9416 2 дня назад

      two sides to a story when a friend literally witnessed enough during a videocall/facetime

  • @richardlippincott8881
    @richardlippincott8881 Месяц назад +29

    I think it is wonderful when one sees communities coming out to help the Police and family when searching for missing members.

    • @trixi1608
      @trixi1608 Месяц назад +1

      It's hardly ever effective though.

    • @melodyjanes9141
      @melodyjanes9141 18 часов назад +1

      Yeah but it's more terrible her own husband killed her. No good can make up for one evil

  • @josestephaniedaniel8253
    @josestephaniedaniel8253 Месяц назад +833

    Ladies you don’t tell people you’re leaving because it’s the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship, you just leave

    • @moonie9000
      @moonie9000 Месяц назад +31

      If you're in an abusive relationship then leave. Don't cheat and then leave. Just leave. Cheating on an abuser is absolutely dumb - just get the f out of there.

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 Месяц назад +34

      ​@@moonie9000in this case, I think it was the new relationship that gave her the strength and courage to leave the unhealthy relationship.

    • @moonie9000
      @moonie9000 Месяц назад +20

      @@sunshine1221 she couldn't have been that scared of him if she was gonna cheat. Just leave.

    • @kayblinky
      @kayblinky Месяц назад +19

      @@moonie9000you don’t know that though. You don’t know how a lot of these situations work.

    • @talex1625
      @talex1625 Месяц назад +5

      ​@sunshine1221 in this case, it was the new relationship that likely got her killed.

  • @heyspeckle8782
    @heyspeckle8782 Месяц назад +647

    "He would never harm Maddie" Lady, he literally hit her in the face while she facetimed. He wasn't even trying to hide it

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Месяц назад +20

      My thoughts exactly.
      Does she have amnesia or something that she would forget about his violent history?

    • @adriennem7927
      @adriennem7927 Месяц назад +14

      It's not about his sister! They all knew at poor maddys family, EVERYONE. They continued to let her stay with him.. I would have made her. You gonna go around, " if I'm gone, Adam did it" you should take the help handed. And as a mom , I would have made her come home, for the sake of her babies and me..

    • @FidgetyGuy
      @FidgetyGuy Месяц назад +6

      Adam is evil. Maddie was evil. The sisters and friends are evil. The parents are evil. Are there any good people in this story?

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 Месяц назад

      👏👏👏I totally agree. Parents should take their daughters away from such abusers and not allow them to return. Sometimes you have to move to another city so that the person doesn’t find you.@@adriennem7927

    • @lillyyoung9644
      @lillyyoung9644 Месяц назад +2

      Exactly my thoughts!

  • @adiakiyes6354
    @adiakiyes6354 Месяц назад +13

    Its a good thing that the two childrens went to the care of Maddie's parents and not to the narcissists family.

  • @Fallenlyrics218
    @Fallenlyrics218 Месяц назад +22

    I wish my cousin got this kind of coverage. Jojo Boswell was leaving owatonna Mn on foot making her way back to Minneapolis and the only sighting of her was in a Home Depot surveillance footage a man comes up to her talks for a bit then they walk off she never made it home. It’s been nearly 18-19yrs

    • @Fallenlyrics218
      @Fallenlyrics218 Месяц назад +7

      I believe Because she is indigenous she barely got a dismal 1 min clip on local news. You don’t everrrrrrr see huge media coverage of any missing Indigenous/Native Americans, she did get another small clip or mention on the issue of missing and murdered indigenous women. She was only 19 just shy of 20. I pray for all misssing people and children to come home safe or remains be found for closure for us families who sit day after day year after decade after decade of wondering who what why.

    • @dabsallday9938
      @dabsallday9938 Месяц назад +6

      I wish too! I do remember hearing about this ONCE 😢
      Try reaching out to Podcasts! Get her story out there again!

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 Месяц назад +1

      That’s what happens when you’re indigenous.

  • @LotsofLisa
    @LotsofLisa Месяц назад +1142

    There isn’t a woman on this planet who would think GP’s case is a joke… It’s a threat.

    • @okotbryan2011
      @okotbryan2011 Месяц назад +55

      The GP case is nothing to joke about, Adam meant to recreate one of his own and did lie it was a joke

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Месяц назад +45

      there isn't a sane human that would think the gp case was a joke.

    • @traviscoates6878
      @traviscoates6878 Месяц назад +5

      I've heard many funny jokes in regards to the GP case ...Enter Shane Gillis

    • @elefent4642
      @elefent4642 Месяц назад +8

      what is gp?

    • @christinap-c
      @christinap-c Месяц назад +12

      @@traviscoates6878But he’s not funny.

  • @claireboudreaux4318
    @claireboudreaux4318 Месяц назад +983

    His siblings are disgusting. How can you defend someone who literally threatened to make someone end up like GP? 😡

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Месяц назад +10

      thank u.

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl Месяц назад +45

      And also try to shift blame back on to Spencer. They are bad news like their brother.

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Месяц назад +11

      They’re pick mes that’s what they do. This is the final boss form of a pick me that’s why they should get all the shame they can get

    • @OutWestRedDirt
      @OutWestRedDirt Месяц назад +16

      Very creepy family.

    • @moonstar7775
      @moonstar7775 Месяц назад

      Delusion to it's max degree!

  • @diaethomas2071
    @diaethomas2071 Месяц назад +13

    These lawyers who defended a murderer will have bad luck for the rest of their days

  • @consolacionarguzon469
    @consolacionarguzon469 Месяц назад +16

    I cried watching this video. I hope and pray that she’ll be in peace and that justice will prevail. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @cali.girllivinnnevada8
    @cali.girllivinnnevada8 Месяц назад +449

    FYI: Dear Adam’s family; Cadaver dogs are specifically trained to sniff out human decomposition not animal or etc.

    • @melb1215
      @melb1215 Месяц назад +15

      Right! 😂

    • @religiohominilupus5259
      @religiohominilupus5259 Месяц назад +7

      True; however, they don't always get it right.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Месяц назад +6

      Absolutely 💯 😅

    • @StofStuiver
      @StofStuiver Месяц назад +4

      Thats not true.
      Cadaver dogs also alert on dead animals, even if solely trained on human remains.

    • @cali.girllivinnnevada8
      @cali.girllivinnnevada8 Месяц назад +19

      @@StofStuiver no they don’t.

  • @thisxisxmexabby
    @thisxisxmexabby Месяц назад +259

    “You’ll adjust” makes my blood boil… smh

    • @emic621
      @emic621 Месяц назад +4

      Same!

    • @mtnewt1
      @mtnewt1 Месяц назад +1

      Yea, they're gonna have to hunt real hard for a good change of venue cuz I know everyone is ready to drag and convict this monster! Sounds to me like her body was so messed up all they could put was homicidal violence smh

    • @TheBlackMadonna222
      @TheBlackMadonna222 Месяц назад +2

      Her response was everything tho

    • @fromthegetgo4981
      @fromthegetgo4981 Месяц назад +1

      Genuinely so evil

    • @OsceolaNola7
      @OsceolaNola7 Месяц назад

      You’ll adjust

  • @judithsebastian4103
    @judithsebastian4103 Месяц назад +6

    The mistake was her telling him about the other man. Should have kept that to herself and gotten out.

  • @charlewalker3608
    @charlewalker3608 Месяц назад +22

    His sister is absolutely delusional. Adam is totally guilty

  • @scroogemcduckrich9705
    @scroogemcduckrich9705 Месяц назад +334

    If the sister is any indication this guy was coddled and praised for doing the basics in life

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Месяц назад +18

      "So proud of him" 👍🤥👌 😡

    • @jamesbowman6925
      @jamesbowman6925 Месяц назад +12

      As a kid, he was probably rewarded with a trip to Toy-R-Us every time he wiped his own ---.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Месяц назад +11

      Much like Chris Watts

    • @jacquiesbrood
      @jacquiesbrood Месяц назад +1

      Well said

  • @jordanalbano9780
    @jordanalbano9780 Месяц назад +277

    Telling your girl she’ll end up like Gabby Petito then being shocked when she leaves you is crazy

    • @teresah4972
      @teresah4972 Месяц назад +13

      No kidding! What a sick-o to even ‘joke’ about that! It’s horrible any way you look at it. A joke, a threat. Either is awful!

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Месяц назад

      *so shocking* that she didnt have the wherewithal to leave his abusive a** without the support of a 3rd party (another man)

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Месяц назад +1

      @@teresah4972That’s not even a “joke” (where was the punchline) and more like a direct threat.
      I’ve seen many times someone get arrested for saying something they shouldn’t (such as a threat) and then they try and cover themselves and downplay it by saying “it was a joke”.

    • @ashleyspells-hayes5539
      @ashleyspells-hayes5539 Месяц назад +5

      ​@herewegokids7 um... she was the bread winner. She made plenty of money, she didn't need the other guy.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Месяц назад

      @@ashleyspells-hayes5539 i wasnt talking about money

  • @truthblunt
    @truthblunt Месяц назад +12

    Looking that man in the face telling him, "I am cheating on you, leaving you for your frat brother and taking the children" is dangerous.

  • @jorgemontefusco650
    @jorgemontefusco650 Месяц назад +7

    Keep the secret of dating somebody else while living with another man who is the father of your children is very dangerous.

  • @jessjacobs2738
    @jessjacobs2738 Месяц назад +538

    Adam's siblings are horrible. ESPECIALLY the sister. As a WOMAN, to sit and defend someone who "jokes" about Gabby case that is a suspect to murdering his GF.. absolutely atrocious. She's absolutely lost her mind.

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Месяц назад +5

      I as a woman can never defend a cheater

    • @solidway
      @solidway Месяц назад +15

      ​​@@elorah-sh1ozthink a minute. think deep and hard about your values as a human being and then come back and tell us if you really think that this is an appropriate comment in this situation

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Месяц назад +2

      @@solidway you can't break someone's trust and your marriage and not expect consequences.

    • @Dontcomeformepeople
      @Dontcomeformepeople Месяц назад +11

      @@elorah-sh1ozthey weren’t married.

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Месяц назад +6

      Add to the fact his “joke” wasn’t even that. Sounded like a direct threat.
      Saying one is “joking” after getting in trouble for saying something they shouldn’t is simply a cop out and a cover.

  • @MashaRistova
    @MashaRistova Месяц назад +931

    It makes me so mad that in this day and age police departments are still lying to people saying they can’t file a missing persons report until the person has been missing for 24 hours.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 Месяц назад +62

      Take it to the local news, the police commissioner, the mayor, the governor if they won’t file a report!!!

    • @giancarlocrumps7564
      @giancarlocrumps7564 Месяц назад +58

      Because actually MOST missing people show up
      Blame the people that wasted the police time

    • @scroogemcduckrich9705
      @scroogemcduckrich9705 Месяц назад +53

      it’s like we pay them to disrespect us. some are so lazy

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Месяц назад +52

      Usually family and friends know their loved one and know when something's wrong if the person has always been consistent about contacting them or being there when they say they're going to be there ... and this is why some people don't want to wait 24 hours because they just know something is wrong and for that person to not contact them or show up is totally unlike them

    • @andreweston233
      @andreweston233 Месяц назад +29

      Makes no sense. More time less likely the person will survive

  • @Victoria-kl7su
    @Victoria-kl7su Месяц назад +8

    10 minutes in and I say her husband did it as he said ‘find the amazing mother of my kids’. Saying ‘find the mother of my kids’ on Facebook, not my wife is depersonalising her/distancing her from him, he knows she’s already gone as there’s no emotion attached, if he cared and was genuinely concerned he’d have said please my beautiful wife I am devastated or something like that

  • @KellieCorinne
    @KellieCorinne Месяц назад +12

    Telling your financially dependent abusive boyfriend you have another boyfriend is wild. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @littlegirllost2654
      @littlegirllost2654 13 дней назад +1

      She was trying to hurt him like he hurt her, I get it, but not the right thing to do. I was in an abusive relationship and he almost killed me. I had him arrested

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 3 дня назад

      Honestly such a stupid reckless thing to do.

  • @akubajoy3394
    @akubajoy3394 Месяц назад +270

    Narcissist don’t want you but at the same time don’t want to see you happy with someone else. The denial of his siblings is ridiculous 😢 RIP beautiful…

    • @JAnKl17
      @JAnKl17 Месяц назад +4

      Absolutely 😢

    • @tnannylynn8221
      @tnannylynn8221 Месяц назад +4

      💯 the truth

    • @waninigichuki1732
      @waninigichuki1732 Месяц назад +3

      So true. For them to say when they heard of the break-up, that they felt like they'd lost a sister is such an 'about me' thing to say - people retain relationships and you'd both still have been an aunt & uncle to the kids.

    • @stfuplsok
      @stfuplsok Месяц назад

      Narcissists* don't

    • @fenris6051
      @fenris6051 Месяц назад +2

      Not much beauty in being unfaithful... but of course modern women now applaud that kind of behavior

  • @vanessacarvalho9076
    @vanessacarvalho9076 Месяц назад +420

    I have a 31 year old stepdaughter. When I discovered that her former boyfriend was being verbally abusive and threatened her, I confronted him and said that I wasn't afraid of jail. To watch his back. She finished the relationship and he left her alone. Please, families. Get involved and show these cowards the same medicine. They always retreat. If Maddie was my daughter, he was the one being missed.

    • @celestialstar8115
      @celestialstar8115 Месяц назад +22

      Yes families need to help. But if the victim isn’t willing to help themselves the family cannot do anything. Victims would rather have their ego satisfied than care for their safety.

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 Месяц назад +11

      You are so great!

    • @perfectlyimperfect7373
      @perfectlyimperfect7373 Месяц назад +16

      Good for you! I was 37 when I stayed at my parents’ while obtaining a RO and getting the sheriff’s to escort my abusive ex out of the house. I’m forever grateful to my family for their efforts in keeping me safe during that scary time in my life.

    • @jimvacuum
      @jimvacuum Месяц назад +5

      And If your step daughter lied Because we know people don't ever lie (sarcasm),If i were on your jury I'd vote to convict you

    • @christychristy5951
      @christychristy5951 Месяц назад +16

      Good for you! I was 27 when I left my husband of 3 years. We had a 3 year old. Was pressured to marry him because of the pregnancy. He was emotionally abusive but he started becoming physically abusive 2 years into marriage. I plotted my escape, woke up after a nasty fight where I was forced to lock myself in our guest bedroom because he physically stopped me from leaving the home to go to my parents and yanked our toddler from my arms injuring her. I made up my mind that night I would leave him the next morning after he left for work. I didn't tell him or my parents (for fear they would accidentally tell him) where I moved for months. Drove around the city until I found an apartment that would give me a key that day. Left with nothing but what would fit into my car. Filed for divorce and waited the mandatory 6 months required by court. Celebrated my freedom and safety once I realized he "moved" on. It only took him a few months to find a new girlfriend. I do think I saved my life. He continues to be abusive. He is divorced again. Unlike some abusive men he openly proclaims to be a Narcissistic megalomaniac. He wrote an entire online blog about his self destructive personality. However he denies ever abusing me.

  • @wuviebby9494
    @wuviebby9494 Месяц назад +4

    just knowing that my mother had to tell family and friends the same message, “if anything happens to me (her bf at the time) did it. i would never leave my kids” breaks my heart. she luckily made it out alive but it absolutely destroyed her life. her identity was stolen, she got beat regularly, he would also lay hands on me and my siblings and he put me and my sibling in extremely dangerous situations. still now years later we feel like we have to watch our backs for him because law enforcement did absolutely nothing to help ever.

  • @SoriDori
    @SoriDori Месяц назад +4

    Im from across the river and helped in the search for her. There were SO many people that came together to help. Busses upon busses. Its a very sad situation, but the love shown for her from the community was beautiful. I hope her family felt the love and support from everyone.

  • @cynthiakritika5047
    @cynthiakritika5047 Месяц назад +210

    Adam, I have a feeling “you’ll adjust” to life in prison. RIP Maddi. 🙏

    • @jenna-a-gogo
      @jenna-a-gogo Месяц назад +15

      Best comment here! 💯

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Месяц назад +12

      I hope he doesn't and struggles with it every day..

    • @alleynejoelle
      @alleynejoelle Месяц назад +6

      🏆Best comment

    • @Wisdom24-7
      @Wisdom24-7 Месяц назад

      Adam I know what you are going through that's why I started dating overseas didn't want to end up where you are I'm praying for you

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Месяц назад +4

      @@Wisdom24-7 So you went over seas, bc you couldn't get one woman in your country to like you? I can see why..

  • @KimberlyBishh
    @KimberlyBishh Месяц назад +379

    "..she was alive when i left her.." - every man that kills a woman they know and were the last one alone with.

  • @bushlovesska
    @bushlovesska Месяц назад +6

    This doesnt take sherlock holmes to figure out. Boy meets girl. Boy beats girl. Girl cheats on boy. Girl goes missing. Hmm? Duh.

  • @nancyloomis3046
    @nancyloomis3046 Месяц назад +5

    So sad...what a tragic loss for her children, sister, parents and friends.

  • @Findpepperbridge
    @Findpepperbridge Месяц назад +191

    When your family tells you to get out, you get out.

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Месяц назад +19

      And don’t tell the abuser you’re leaving.
      It will just set them off.

    • @saminabibi2015
      @saminabibi2015 Месяц назад +1

      How absolutely heartbreaking

  • @PettyLabelle
    @PettyLabelle Месяц назад +240

    The family of the killer “ WE WERE TREATED LIKE WE WERE DELUSIONAL “ ….: because yall are

    • @L.D.Intheditch
      @L.D.Intheditch Месяц назад +17

      They are worse than delusional. They are complicit enablers.

    • @irism4101
      @irism4101 Месяц назад +2

      A dead raccoon 😆😆🤡 nice try

    • @nirmaleva
      @nirmaleva 6 дней назад

      @@irism4101 I know right? Cadaver dogs are highly trained and know the difference between human and animal smells

  • @selinas8039
    @selinas8039 Месяц назад +4

    people, when you call the police, tell them the person has been missing for 24 hours so you don't have to wait

  • @jessicat3762
    @jessicat3762 Месяц назад +3

    Imagine being someone's "friend" and witnessing that friend get abused live on video chat and you dont contact the authorities ... Imagine waiting til shes dead to mention it or any of the death threats or the fact she literally said "if anything happens, he did it" to anyone.

  • @Nurik_ocean12
    @Nurik_ocean12 Месяц назад +321

    Adam stood up and found a job at the age of 20+ ! Wow , such an accomplishment 🎉

    • @dsmusicbird
      @dsmusicbird Месяц назад +5

      Lol

    • @johndeer9968
      @johndeer9968 Месяц назад +9

      He also lost his job during covid and the pandemic happened like two years before this took place

    • @kimpayton727
      @kimpayton727 Месяц назад +14

      ​@@johndeer9968right, and i forget but had he found a job since covid or just depending on Maddie to take care of the bills seeing as he ALLOWED her to finish college. Such a scumbag!! I hope and pray her gets the maximum sentence!! RIP Maddie❤

    • @nikiahandy4403
      @nikiahandy4403 Месяц назад +1

      Right lol

    • @RevLeigh55
      @RevLeigh55 Месяц назад +4

      @@kimpayton727To be fair, that quote didn’t seem to mean Maddi needed permission to go to school. The intention was to say she was able to go back to school with his help with the kids.

  • @lisawentworth6831
    @lisawentworth6831 Месяц назад +281

    A few minutes in, the fact that the guy picked up the kids and went to his parents an hour away...not home...is already suspicious. Why would anyone do that, if they didn't already know Maddie would not be coming home?

    • @brittneyjake2010
      @brittneyjake2010 Месяц назад +19

      I said the same thing....

    • @softlifejasmine
      @softlifejasmine Месяц назад +10

      Right!!

    • @livingitup9647
      @livingitup9647 Месяц назад +12

      Exactly! I was surprised they didn't mention that suspicious behavior in this video.

    • @AvXstudio
      @AvXstudio Месяц назад +4

      That was i thought

    • @user-jm6ol7qc7n
      @user-jm6ol7qc7n Месяц назад +4

      I was just about to say the same thing 😢

  • @phabulous1614
    @phabulous1614 Месяц назад +2

    I’ve since learned to never, under any circumstances tell that man you’ve been sleeping with you’re leaving, let alone you’re seeing another lover. I’m sorry 😢 Maddie didn’t listen to her gut.

  • @julien.4395
    @julien.4395 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for making this! Justice for Maddi. Been here since the beginning, wish it could have been a different outcome

  • @danastewart8709
    @danastewart8709 Месяц назад +424

    The husband family is in utterly denial.

    • @everlynevins
      @everlynevins Месяц назад +36

      They're just as obnoxious as Cindy Watts. It's not even denial. They know he did it; they're too arrogant to admit blame.

    • @KATYMCGINN
      @KATYMCGINN Месяц назад +23

      JUST TO CLARIFY. MADDI DID NOT MARRY ADAM. BUT YES, HIS FAMILY IS VERY DELUSIONAL! 😒

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Месяц назад +14

      You can also tell his family was raised weird

    • @deevillarreal9475
      @deevillarreal9475 Месяц назад +7

      There sick !!!!

    • @margochanning6868
      @margochanning6868 Месяц назад +10

      They know the truth. They are liars at best.

  • @cc92873
    @cc92873 Месяц назад +213

    Adam’s sister: “He would never do such a thing”
    Yet Adam texts Maddie: “you’ll adjust” (to being hit in front of our children).
    Wonder what she thinks about that text?

    • @DollishDes
      @DollishDes Месяц назад +24

      Right?! I really wanted to see what she had to say after that too! omfg the delusion 🤡

    • @chantelletrembath3345
      @chantelletrembath3345 Месяц назад +3

      Me too 👍

    • @pearls7272
      @pearls7272 Месяц назад +11

      That text was truly unhinged

    • @philippamediwake1235
      @philippamediwake1235 Месяц назад +6

      Not hit. Adam had her pinned down with his hands around her throat!

    • @eh-i1841
      @eh-i1841 Месяц назад +8

      She’ll have her own delusional spin,on it.

  • @amyg8185
    @amyg8185 21 день назад +3

    "You'll adjust." Oh HELL no.

  • @AnotherDayOfBeauty
    @AnotherDayOfBeauty Месяц назад +2

    Why would she stay in that house with the abuser after breaking up with him? ! I’m so tired of seeing woman losing their life so easily!

  • @caramileelliott1719
    @caramileelliott1719 Месяц назад +146

    His sister and brother are delusional and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

  • @donnazivny4134
    @donnazivny4134 Месяц назад +263

    Siblings are oblivious that their brother is a murderer

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 Месяц назад +21

      Chosen ignorance

    • @Fakegrape7777
      @Fakegrape7777 Месяц назад +15

      No, they know, they’re just trying to protect him. They sleep well at night telling themselves lies about their brother.

    • @brooklyn8760
      @brooklyn8760 Месяц назад +6

      Nah, they’re well aware.

    • @armsproposedlegislation
      @armsproposedlegislation Месяц назад +1

      No their not in denial, they knew he was dangerous

  • @tammydouglas8497
    @tammydouglas8497 Месяц назад +3

    Im glad they got him, my sister was murdered by her husband in 2000 but the judge let him go not because there wasn't enough evidence as there was plenty, it's because of the police ties of his family. Joyce Douglas - Coulier was missing for a month before she was found on the Coulier property

  • @johnfox9169
    @johnfox9169 13 дней назад +1

    Another stark warning about a man, a husband, being dependent upon his wife. He was "forced "to quit school, while Maddi continued her education getting her Bachelors. However, Adam should have gone back to school, and treated Maddi with respect and kindness. My heart ❤️ goes out to Maddi's family.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Месяц назад +232

    Joking about Gabby Petito? Naah from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. That was a huge red flag💔

  • @wyteriajacobo34
    @wyteriajacobo34 Месяц назад +89

    I WISH young ladies would stop telling these abusive men their plans to leave them. MOVE IN SILENCE!!!!

    • @ultimatums1
      @ultimatums1 Месяц назад +1

      Jodi Arias says hi.

    • @Victoria-kl7su
      @Victoria-kl7su Месяц назад +5

      I think in some cases they say it when they don’t actually want to leave them , they want them to change, they haven’t yet accepted they will never change and that they are in real danger, once they get to the point to really really wanting to leave or realising things have got dangerous, then hopefully they just leave and hopefully it is not too late. Most people ignore many signs and red flags until they hit breaking point. In this case, it’s got to an affair and telling him of it -she should have been long gone before the affair - narcissists don’t want you but they won’t knowingly ‘allow’ you to leave them for someone else

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle Месяц назад +1

      They need to stop protecting these men. I mean every single time, it’s he was abusing her but she didn’t want to hurt him. Or get him arrested. Like how dumb can you be?

    • @ultimatums1
      @ultimatums1 Месяц назад +1

      @@Daaaanielle Jodi Arias sends her regards to you.

    • @hardwired8084
      @hardwired8084 Месяц назад +5

      AND don't add a boyfriend cuz. it acts like gas on already outta control flame!!!

  • @Videotime-bu2hu
    @Videotime-bu2hu Месяц назад +14

    this is maddening bc she did nothing to protect herself and now two children are without their mom

  • @StaceyBronk
    @StaceyBronk Месяц назад +4

    So very sad for the children 😔

  • @jamiemiesler322
    @jamiemiesler322 Месяц назад +245

    To Everyone (men & women): Please do not ever take any threats lightly. It’s not a joke. Get out! Your life depends on it. Any discomfort & heartbreak felt from leaving is nothing compared to losing your life & possibly the lives of the children you may have.

    • @TH-hy9kr
      @TH-hy9kr Месяц назад +11

      Agreed and thank you for acknowledging that violence against intimate partners is not isolated to women, nor isolated to straight relationships.

    • @charlotted6247
      @charlotted6247 Месяц назад +7

      And it's never a joke. That's not a joking matter😢😢😢

    • @Pippi-Longstocking
      @Pippi-Longstocking Месяц назад +6

      Agreed. And remember that leaving is THE most dangerous time.

    • @StofStuiver
      @StofStuiver Месяц назад +3

      Oh get real. There are a billion threats made every day.

    • @mypud4068
      @mypud4068 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@charlotted6247lol it's NEVER a joke, ew

  • @ellekay4758
    @ellekay4758 Месяц назад +43

    Adam’s siblings DEFENDING A COLD BLOODED, LAZY, VILE MAN makes them genuinely atrocious!!!

    • @L.D.Intheditch
      @L.D.Intheditch Месяц назад +3

      Hope they never get partners,or have children to abuse. They are just like him.

    • @JoanTarpley-hx9sh
      @JoanTarpley-hx9sh Месяц назад

      I don't know what they thought the end result would be with their blathering and cringe statements, but they certainly did not earn any points for themselves OR their vile brother!

  • @oregonscratchers9694
    @oregonscratchers9694 Месяц назад +13

    Ballsy to not only cheat on an abuser, but then to tell them about it. That’s an exercise in poor judgment even on a great day.. I do not understand people’s lack of caution in what people are capable of..

  • @jamesl9371
    @jamesl9371 Месяц назад +100

    Don’t tolerate abuse in your life or the lives of others

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co Месяц назад +75

    At the point of leaving an abusive relationship, remember, it is the most dangerous time for the abused person. RIP Maddie

  • @kristiebrown5808
    @kristiebrown5808 Месяц назад +3

    "When someone shows you their true colors, believe them" --Adam did it. Duh.....

  • @TheOminous0209
    @TheOminous0209 Месяц назад +5

    The sisters TikTok are so annoying! Like it’s some sort of show/Game.

  • @dsmusicbird
    @dsmusicbird Месяц назад +102

    Sister says that her brother would never harm Maddie? Do you have any idea how traumatic being choked by the father of your children is like!??? That is past Harm!

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Месяц назад +6

      Exactly!
      It’s like they conveniently forget his violent history.

    • @user-kf4zh5qm8z
      @user-kf4zh5qm8z Месяц назад +3

      Speaking of the Racoon his dad was supposed to have cleaned up, where is it,? Was it buried. They can easily prove it, if it's the truth.

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 Месяц назад

      Still no reason for cheating on him…

    • @dsmusicbird
      @dsmusicbird Месяц назад +3

      @@beverlybalius9303
      Obviously you’ve never been in her type of situation. I understand how you feel about that. There’s much more that you don’t understand.

    • @ABC-ed8cg
      @ABC-ed8cg Месяц назад +2

      @beverlybalius9303.. so she’s expected to stay in a faithful relationship with an abuser??

  • @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
    @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj Месяц назад +88

    Never ever tell your abusive narcissistic spouse that you're leaving them or that you're seeing someone else, just make your plans silently while planning your exit and don't even share your address or contact.

  • @Riley0509
    @Riley0509 Месяц назад +2

    It’s not gutsy it’s foolish to admit you are leaving to a violent person.

  • @Luv2Ski4500
    @Luv2Ski4500 Месяц назад +2

    Police need to start investigating immediately. They don’t need to wait. If people turn up while you’re looking that’s ok.

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 Месяц назад +228

    48 hours is one of the most informative investigative shows on RUclips. And hopefully they get awards and recognition for it.

    • @Jedstop
      @Jedstop Месяц назад +23

      You know it’s a TV program right? It’s just been uploaded to you tube.

    • @redrumhum
      @redrumhum Месяц назад +4

      😂​@@Jedstop

    • @TawnyC_
      @TawnyC_ Месяц назад +11

      🏆 Here you go 48 hours, here's your RUclips award.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Месяц назад +6

      Yes they are well presented but the times I investigated and did more research and looked at other shows and documentaries then I realized sometimes they would leave out some information that I felt was really important and I would wonder why they didn't mention that in the show

    • @jwil2414
      @jwil2414 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@gardensofthegodsThey do that to slant the viewer in the direction they want.

  • @jackieacheson4928
    @jackieacheson4928 Месяц назад +95

    It makes my blood boil when family defends murderers, when they know they're guilty.

    • @cat_lover007
      @cat_lover007 Месяц назад +9

      Almost all the time... including Chris Watts' delusional fam. It makes me sick!!

    • @MMAMike22
      @MMAMike22 Месяц назад +1

      What about women that are lying cheaters? Do they make your blood boil too?

    • @thegoatudontknow
      @thegoatudontknow Месяц назад

      theres no proof he did it at all

    • @jackieacheson4928
      @jackieacheson4928 Месяц назад +6

      @@thegoatudontknow except for the proof.

  • @johndeer9968
    @johndeer9968 Месяц назад +7

    “He had the job up until he got laid off during COVID” Covid started in 2020 that means he was unemployed for at least 2 years 😂. What a miserable loser

  • @heidinolastname44
    @heidinolastname44 Месяц назад +2

    Oh. Maddie's friend crying on the ring camera broke me 😢

  • @katkelleher9
    @katkelleher9 Месяц назад +98

    The mayor was almost getting emotional when he basically said he was proud of Maddy and also saw her as a child. What a good mayor.

    • @Faunaviolet
      @Faunaviolet Месяц назад +4

      We love him here in Winona!

  • @IRELAND_MY_LOVE
    @IRELAND_MY_LOVE Месяц назад +57

    The fact that the killer's siblings are trying to deflect blame to Spencer, says more about the crazy family that Frabels grew up in. What nuts we share the earth with.

    • @dianabehr3169
      @dianabehr3169 23 дня назад +1

      Exactly! His siblings are not right in the head either

    • @SteveDrenser
      @SteveDrenser 23 дня назад

      might been spenser homie we dont know

  • @patrickoconnell126
    @patrickoconnell126 10 дней назад

    Bless them. The video doorbell footage really gets you in the heart. Deepest condolences to all concerned.

  • @majwho
    @majwho Месяц назад +2

    All these people stood by and kept these secrets, damn shame

  • @marygoff3332
    @marygoff3332 Месяц назад +135

    I raised/trained cadaver dogs. A raccoon would not cause a trained dog to alert. Human remains only cause alerts. We train them to know the difference between animal scent & human scent.

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn Месяц назад

      what about rotten porc meat?

    • @peezypeeze9140
      @peezypeeze9140 Месяц назад

      @@RichardWagner-hi4znI am pretty sure they are still able to tell the difference.
      I could just be assuming but I feel like I’d use pork to train the dog 😂

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn Месяц назад

      @@peezypeeze9140 Imagine you had once left porc chops in the car during summer. Then your wife goes missing and you 'll end up in prison bc of that. Vegans: not gonna happen with me! lol

    • @ABC-ed8cg
      @ABC-ed8cg Месяц назад +1

      @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      Not the brightest bulb eh? There were other incriminating evidence against him too- the cctv evidence & all his past domestic violence episodes and Gabby Petito remark..

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn Месяц назад

      @@ABC-ed8cg The dim bulb is which does not spot irony.

  • @reneeklein3048
    @reneeklein3048 Месяц назад +181

    Adam’s family needs to wake up….

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Месяц назад

      She cheated .. I wouldn't care either

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 Месяц назад +3

      ​@elorah-sh1oz no wonder she cheated..this man was a dead beat living off his gf's money not only that he never helped her around the house and also have the nerve to beat her while living off of her? Her having an affair is not even cheating at that moment.
      And if you defending him that means you are just like him

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Месяц назад

      @@shmwmlam3953 no wonder she cheated? She's six foot under tho.. she's probably all Skelton by now

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 Месяц назад

      @@elorah-sh1oz and where is he now?

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Месяц назад

      @@shmwmlam3953 in prison but at least alive

  • @selinabutler1164
    @selinabutler1164 Месяц назад +2

    Such a heartbreaking case 💔 my heart goes out to her family!!

  • @emilyc9507
    @emilyc9507 3 дня назад +2

    Why did they give these two siblings a platform, it’s truly offensive and disgusting😡😡

  • @PsychoKupcake
    @PsychoKupcake Месяц назад +53

    BEWARE: There is no law that says police have to wait 24hrs before looking for a missing person. NO LAW! Although, it might be that stations protocol, that doesn't matter.
    If you are ever in this type of a situation, which I hope never happens, you tell the police you want to speak with the head of missing persons and point out that there is no law prohibiting police to wait any amount of time. You fight for your loved one. No matter who you have to fight. The first few hours are crucial. Be an advocate. Please.

  • @chrisschneider3873
    @chrisschneider3873 Месяц назад +68

    As a long time friend and school mate of Spencer's, I can say with 150% confidence that Spence is innocent and Adam's family owes him an apology for trying to scapegoat him.

    • @perfectlyimperfect7373
      @perfectlyimperfect7373 Месяц назад +15

      He seems like a good guy who truly loved Maddi. I am sorry that his family is trying to place blame on him, even after the police cleared him!

    • @tamitami9275
      @tamitami9275 Месяц назад +15

      My heart breaks for him. You can see the pain in his eyes. I hope he finds peace.

    • @CapitalCityKate
      @CapitalCityKate Месяц назад +9

      How awful. I can't imagine anyone in their right mind blaming Spencer. The truth is blaringly obvious. I feel heartbroken for Spencer. I hope wonderful things are in store for him.

    • @JoanTarpley-hx9sh
      @JoanTarpley-hx9sh Месяц назад +6

      They also owe the freaking WORLD an apology for just being who they are! Every single word they uttered was inappropriate and cringe af.

  • @bak6194
    @bak6194 Час назад

    Hey thanks for getting us out there there is not much press in Minnesota uploaded at all which was really discouraging so we appreciate you getting her name out there... as one of the many women who have been in her position knowing it could have been me breaks my heart and I want to encourage your family because at least you believed her. Most of my family and friends were behind him in many ways. So give yourself some credit and relieve yourself of some guilt. I think I understand what she was thinking and while she had a sense there could have been danger there was such a familiarity with him that it doesn't really sink in not totally also having children with the perpetrator and release it extremely difficult and they have a power over you that is really hard to describe even if you have grown to hate your abuser there is many times some kind of feeling of obligation to them. And because she had cheated on him I imagine she had some guilt and unfortunately that guilt worked against her. She found safety in the arms of another man as did I not long after I had left my ex. It's crazy making living with somebody like that so I just pray for the family members and for the man who stepped in and stole her heart obviously it wasn't an ideal situation but it likely was the thing that was going to save her and at least you gave her some good memories and the much needed love she deserved

  • @ladytee8540
    @ladytee8540 Месяц назад +3

    Why are people shaking up? So you get pregnant so early in the relationship. Two children and not married!!! He never loved her😢

  • @mangasmurphy7466
    @mangasmurphy7466 Месяц назад +107

    If Adam finds some of the non-consensual aspects of prison life to be a bit taxing, I can only say, "You'll adjust."

    • @AskAlex1999
      @AskAlex1999 Месяц назад +4

      Nice!

    • @awesomebeautiful8782
      @awesomebeautiful8782 Месяц назад

      That's really gross and you should never joke about it. I don't care what crime somebody committed, sexual violence is not an acceptable part of the punishment.

    • @w.thiller7822
      @w.thiller7822 Месяц назад

      ?

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 Месяц назад

      @awesomebeautiful that’s why am eye for an eye is better

  • @lisaw9263
    @lisaw9263 Месяц назад +65

    NEVER EVER tell someone you're leaving, kids or no kids. Just have a plan and go!

  • @trixi1608
    @trixi1608 Месяц назад +1

    I'm so sorry for Spencer. I hope he'll be able to find love again in his life.

  • @surlygirly1926
    @surlygirly1926 Месяц назад +8

    How does the "TikTok" angle bear any relevance whatsoever to this case? Why did we watch multiple clips of her sister updating her "following" with no news - particularly wrapped in a towel?

    • @hannahtyron142
      @hannahtyron142 19 дней назад +1

      Yes very odd

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 3 дня назад

      Because Tiktok is the reason they got 1,900 volunteers to look for her. And obviously her story was compelling to garner 500,000 views. Its also a helpful device to partially tell the story through her sisters live recollection of it, and partially show the development of time.

    • @surlygirly1926
      @surlygirly1926 3 дня назад

      @@beepbopboop7727 It was lame - as was the sister.