💜 You are entering a judgement-free zone! 💜 Tysm to the brave souls who submitted! I hope ya’ll feel lighter letting ur confessions out! p.s. if you didn’t watch part 1 last year, what are you waiting for?! ruclips.net/video/j8rXfScBMPw/видео.html
In regards to the bi woman who won’t date women that is perfectly fine. Your life is your own and no one else’s. Whether it is because you’re bisexual but not romantically into women or for any other reason it is valid. I have a friend who is bisexual but mono romantic towards women so mostly identifies as lesbian because she’d only be with women. And that’s fine. She doesn’t have to justify it to anyone. No one does.
So one's straight and one's a lesbian. You can just say it. There is a meaning to all sexualities, please can we stop doing that, and create other complicated sexualities. If you only like women, you're a lesbian and if you only like men, you're a heterosexual (taking the example of a woman, but the reverse works for men). That's the definition of these two words. Bisexual is when you like men and women, within that you may be more attracted to a woman or a man, but in the end you like both sexes, it's simple. You can't be bisexual and only be attracted to one man or one woman. Thank you very much.
Regarding the person who's love interest is getting married. Something they should also consider is, if they declare their feelings to the other person, there's a high probability of rejection and with that is a likelihood of losing their friendship altogether.
to the person at 17:10 you are not alone. as a lesbian and a christian myself i still struggle with this every day. there is just so much controversy, different interpretations etc. lots of overthinking. but just because you're queer doesn't invalidate your faith in any way and there are so many people more than you know who understand you and are going through the same thing so you are definitely not alone. you are free to love who you love and believe in what you believe. don't let your faith stop you from loving who you love, and also don't let your romantic/sexual preferences - something that you cannot control !! stop you from believing in what you believe.
The bible does not say anything positive about homosexuality. But it also condones slavery. Attitudes do change over time in society, and it eventually makes its way into the church. But religion is very much a social phenomenen, and people often find it difficult to leave a group of people they have identified with. In case you worry about the theological underpinnings, here is my two cents: it does not make sense for a kind and loving God to give someone an extra temptation in the form of homosexual desire. Conservatives used to say that being gay was a choice, but they have had to abandon that position. Their default answer now is that it is temptation like any other, and God wants you to resist it. Utter B.S. It is not reasonable for a loving God to give extra temptation to some people. The people who wrote the Bible did not have our understanding of sexual orientation, so the issue is never really addressed properly. So when somebody quotes a Biblical passage, you should basically remind yourself that people back then believed in a lot of stupid things that we no longer do now.
there is simply no other place that feels more safe and makes me more happy than your videos and this series just makes christmas even better every year
@@laurenelloise I love these videos because some of them are relatable, some of them are insane and some of them are just total rants that are fun to hear
@@laurenelloise i would not mind lol...at this point I'd watch anything u guys post coz this is the content that keeps me hopeful honestly with having to be closeted and navigating life in general - as long as u keep poting ill try my best to keep watching 🥰❤❤❤
Hey Lauren! I know you're probably not going to see this, but I just wanted to thank you. I'm a teenage girl who's been struggling with their sexuality, and after coming across your channel, it's been easier to understand what being part of the LGBTQ+ community. Now, I'm not struggling as much. Thank you!
For the person who wants to tell the woman she likes who is engaged to another person about her feelings I don’t see that working out. Because if the person says yes and breaks things with her fiancé as a response to your confession that indicates that when things get tough or uncomfortable instead of working through them or breaking up on her own desire, she’ll look for an easy out. This time it would be you. Next time things get difficult the next person who has interest in her might be the catalyst for the break up. And I don’t think that it would feel good if the break up was more than just separating and instead if it was immediately being replaced by another individual. I wish best of luck to whoever sent that confession assuming they check the comments.
ah yeah, i didn't think about this part of it, so thank you for bringing it up kindly this way. it'll give them something to consider that i couldn't offer in a short amount of time!
im almost 16 and have recently discovered that i might gay for the most part i'm 80% sure i am but your videos have helped me so much to figure it out and expose myself and understand the lesbian side of things. Thank you i love you and Erin so much(hope i spelled the name right)
I have just recently came out as Lesbian but only to my family and my best friend, but no one else. Ever since I found your channel I have been watching you videos nonstop! They really helped me feel accepted for who I am❤️. Tysm!
About the bi thing. I sexually prefer both almost equally. But romantically I prefer men. Why? I dunno I just do, it’s just the way I function and that’s ok. Being bi is 50/50 so however it manifests for you, you are valid!
I feel reassured hearing and reading all this because I felt weird about it. As a bi, I feel I am sexually attracted by men but not necessarily romantically. But I'm not sure about it, I'm doubting.
@ that’s normal. Sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. Use whatever label you feel is correct and remember you are valid no matter what :3
I realized my sophomore year of highschool that i had a crush on my friend who is a girl but i kinda like ignored it? I had a couple boyfriends/situationships in the following years but it always went back to me liking her even subconsciously putting myself in situations to be closer to her. I’m a senior in high school now and i’m finally beginning to wrap my head around my feelings towards women/men.
I can relate to falling for a straight girl when you’re a lesbian. I’m bi but almost all of the people I am attracted to romantically or sexually are of an incompatible orientation. And the one relationship I was in was with an asexual individual who I had romantic and sexual feelings towards. We separated amicably because while we love each other there were sexual wants that are important to me that they were never going to want to do. I know they’ll find someone who they are compatible with and I hope I find someone who wants me romantically and sexually who I can reciprocate.
Heyyy! Just wanted to tell u i love your videos and they really helped me find MYSELF and my orientation and that i shouldn’t feel bad about it. Thank you sooo much! I‘m a new fan but already a big fan!!! I hope you see this comment 🫂❤️ Keep going! I wish you and your girlfriend the best! And a good start in the new year
being a christian and LGBTQ can be really hard, there will always be SO many people around you who don’t support you and it’s very difficult at times. church is supposed to be a community where you can admit anything and talk about everything, but growing up i always felt like that wasn’t an option because im queer and my church didn’t support it at all. some of my best friends when i was a kid would talk badly about gay people and say how horrible it is to be gay. ironically, my first crush was a straight girl in my youth group. it took two years to fully get over her. to this day i still go to church but only one or two people at my church know about my sexuality and they are both lgbt as well. to anyone in a similar situation i would just advise you to not let being religious change who you are as a person. i tried to just block out any feelings for women that i had to be a better christian and i have recently realized that is not the way to go and that i can be gay and christian at the same time.
Why do you insist on staying in a place that doesn't accept you as you are? Just get out of there and be happy, go live your life, God will love you anyway.
‘i would just advise you to not let being religious change who you are as a person’ Religion is part of who someone is as a person, though. That is, if they actually truly believe it. If religion isn’t part of who you are as a person, then maybe you’re not actually a religious person. If you disagree with the morals of a religion and refuse to practice them, then why even say you follow that religion? I’d also argue that experiencing same-sx attraction and identifying as lgbt are not necessarily the same thing. It’s generally the behavior and ideology that follows it that churches frown on, not the part of it that allegedly can’t be controlled. And most churches are actually just openly okay with that nowadays.
yes i do truly believe in it, but a lot of christians don’t agree with everything the bible says. for example, the bible is against tattoos but i know SO many christian’s with tattoos. this is a similar thing. sort of. i’m not letting it change me as a person i was just trying to express that it’s hard balancing faith and being in a wlw relationship. i do believe that i can do both and when i get married i definitely will go to church with my wife and i wont worry about the repercussions because everyone at my church is so loving and they know me as a person and i dont think who i marry will change that for them.
Fun! Glad I found your channel. Funnily enough for me, I haven't actually had the "straight crush" thing yet, but then again I'm not really that old lol. Instead I have had a literal love triangle (or actually a pentagon, but that doesn't matter) full of queer and straight people 🫠 HELP.
Here is a confession of mine that I find quite funny. I was on my first ever date with a girl. I really liked her (she was the one that made me realize I wasn't straight). So I really wanted to impress her. We live on two different sides of the city and met up in the evening somewhere in the middle. At that time I was struggling with really bad anxiety especially when it was dark and I was scared of public transport (these are important details). The date eventually ended and I decided to be romantic and walk her home. It was pretty late at this point. So I got on the bus at night with her to the other side of the city. I was just so in love with her that the anxiety went away. After I walked her to the door and she left my sight panic kicked in. I was alone, at night and I had to catch a bus home. I wasn't paying attention to which bus we got on because I was too busy staring at my date. So I was on the other side of the city, alone at night and I didn't really know how to get home. I ended up calling my mom (she is super supportive and knew I was on a date). She ended up picking me up after I figured out my location. This was also in January so it was cold. So I was just there anxious and freezing waiting for my mom to pick me up all because I tried to impress my date. The things didn't work with that girl but now I have a silly story to tell.
Thank you! I recently mustered up the courage to make a video about homophobia, so anyone feel free to watch and share it if you’d like. In 2024, we still have to keep fighting for basic human rights!
In response to the singer question: I did watch Miley Cyrus’ “Can’t Be Tamed” a lot as a teen without knowing why I was drawn to it (or questioning what I was feeling). Now I’m a queer furry, who’d a thunk (/silly tone). I was also drawn to that horrid “OMG” music video (by the same producer of the “My Jeans” song), where I didn’t understand why it was bad since I was a teen at the time and now it’s like, dear god. And, in contrast to that one confession, I’m a bi person who currently prefers women, eyooo
I forgot to do a confession but mine would have been when i was in year 4 or 5 i played gta 5 for the first time and ended up at the str!p club (should have realised then that i was gay but didnt until year 7), got court playing gta and hadn't played it since ( i didnt own gta it was at my cousin house)
Dude i used to use my brothers minecraft account and during the hunger games era of mc servers, i would get girls to be with me to protect them and flirt then when im about to leave the game. I would give them flowers i picked up throughout playing while them
I thought I was Bi for two years, then got a existential straight crisis and thought I was straight for half a year.. and while I was “straight” 99% of my music was very, *very* gay.. how did I ever think I was straight (I’m Panromantic Asexual btw)
I came out as gay in yr6 and after I came out it felt like every second girl in my school had an identity crises and came out as bi or gay (there was 73 students in my primary school)
Hey, you are like the big sister I always needed... Recently I have been developing feelings for my crush's best friend, it's really confusing cuz I have this tendency to ignore and be mean to whoever I feel attracted towards. Today I discovered that my crush's bestfriend is dating a guy, so there's not anything left, n there is high chance that my crush maybe into girls but stupid me keeps being mean and pushing her away even when she tries to initiate a conversation. No one around me knows that I m into girls but I give all sorts of hints.. please tell me how to handle this😭😭
I am almost 12 and I only just found your channel like a week ago and since then all I've done since is is watched your videos. I love your content. I have the fattest gay crush and by lesbian friend but she now has a gf. Thank you for your content it is so entertaining. Also shit 30° it is like maybe 10 here and I am so fucking hot. But at the same time it is a British winter so it is quite walm and a miracle, it didn't rain today.
17:37 my church is very accepting (literally the lead choir ppl are a gay couple) There are definitely accepting people of faith out there (note that it’s not only Christiany that can be a problem, most religions are super traditional) Also the only reason why it seems all Christians hate gay people is cuz haters always speak the loudest I have definitely met ppl who excuse their hate with religious belief but they are not all Also note It is insanely unrealistic that Jesus would have been homophobic. According to scriptures he was really progressive for his time (eg. He treated women as equals) he was also poor and took care of people He also advocated for love in marriage at a time when it was mostly political Like you can argue against me but this guy was not hateful or anything
16:10 funny that I realised something... when I was 14-16 I was playing with my two friends( I call them now R and T), they were cousins and they decided that T was acting like she was crush on me like we would be dating in our "story" and R was my bff who tried to help us. And like we planned our "date" for few months and then we were in a camp where was also my lil sis and she kind of knew about our whatever game we did but she didn't care. Then it was time to go to bed, but we wanted to go out to have our "date" and then we went to trampoline and we hade one candle and we had kinda cute "date". Later on that camp T was watching TikTok on her bed in a dark room and then she asked me if I wanted to watch too so I climped to her bed. Then I little by little moved closer to her until I almost lying on her lap and then she asked what I was doing even though I didn't do that on purpoise. Back then I was crush on her and I think I'm still kinda. One day she told me that she also had a crush on me. And then I realised that if I would have done something to it we could be dating, but sadly I didn't. Well... now we usually don't talk, but I remember those memories with warmth. Sad to be single...
to the one about the straight crush on a teammate- same. ive got a crush on a girl on my fsstpitch team and idk what to do bc we live 3 hours away and idk if shes straight or not. and if something did happen how would the team respond? and also im bi (and not out to anyone on the team yet) and i told her and my team that i broke up with my bf of 4 months (the reason was bc e was homophobic but they dont know that) and im also worried if she took that and thought i was straight.
So to the religion thing (sorry if my English isn’t good): I`m a evangelic Christian and in school or Confirmation lessons, they dońt talk bad about lgbtq they don`t really mention it, if the topic comes up though, they stay respectful. I don’t know how it is in America etc. you are amazing Bye bye
Imma talk about sexuality >:3 :.I’m bisexual and I’ve known for almost 3 years now for the first 2 years I was really nervous about coming out to my parents but I came out to my mother this year and I’m pretty sure my dad already knows,but when I was 10-11 I use to be a lesbian and I had a HUGE crush on my best friend (who’s also bisexual),but when I moved schools I met this boy who was my friend for 2 years before me and him started dating,and a year later i finally had the urge to ask him to be my bf now he his :3 we’ve been together for almost 3 years 😁 and I love him so much >////
are you looking for a girl in future cause you’re bi or happy to be with your bf only (monogamous relationship), i was asking you because recently my gf wants to have a gf too
Ughh idk if I’m queer or just straight, I’ve experienced kind of many girl crushes on friends and I dislike the idea of being intimate with a man. I do think about being intimate with a man but I imagined being intimate with a woman first. My first kiss with a guy felt disgusting same goes for all the guys after the first one. But my first kiss with a girl was so beautiful I didn’t wanted to stop and my friend did stop that kiss after a few minutes. We did it again shortly after, I even thought about getting intimate with her. I actually did years later. She was my first real kiss with a girl, but another girl kissed me when I was around 5 years old. I was obsessed with her (she is a redhead).
14:15 Wait, I thought people always say that you don’t have a choice in who you are attracted to? But here you’re making it sound like some lesbians purposely pick straight girls to have crushes on just to hold themselves back or something.
I always got all the girls ‘looking for a mate’ swarming around trying to impress my male character in wolf roleplays when I was a young teen back in the day. 🤣
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💜 You are entering a judgement-free zone! 💜 Tysm to the brave souls who submitted! I hope ya’ll feel lighter letting ur confessions out! p.s. if you didn’t watch part 1 last year, what are you waiting for?! ruclips.net/video/j8rXfScBMPw/видео.html
In regards to the bi woman who won’t date women that is perfectly fine. Your life is your own and no one else’s. Whether it is because you’re bisexual but not romantically into women or for any other reason it is valid. I have a friend who is bisexual but mono romantic towards women so mostly identifies as lesbian because she’d only be with women. And that’s fine. She doesn’t have to justify it to anyone. No one does.
at the end of the day, a label is just for you to communicate easier, you get to choose
So one's straight and one's a lesbian. You can just say it.
There is a meaning to all sexualities, please can we stop doing that, and create other complicated sexualities.
If you only like women, you're a lesbian and if you only like men, you're a heterosexual (taking the example of a woman, but the reverse works for men). That's the definition of these two words.
Bisexual is when you like men and women, within that you may be more attracted to a woman or a man, but in the end you like both sexes, it's simple.
You can't be bisexual and only be attracted to one man or one woman.
Thank you very much.
Regarding the person who's love interest is getting married. Something they should also consider is, if they declare their feelings to the other person, there's a high probability of rejection and with that is a likelihood of losing their friendship altogether.
to the person at 17:10 you are not alone. as a lesbian and a christian myself i still struggle with this every day. there is just so much controversy, different interpretations etc. lots of overthinking. but just because you're queer doesn't invalidate your faith in any way and there are so many people more than you know who understand you and are going through the same thing so you are definitely not alone. you are free to love who you love and believe in what you believe. don't let your faith stop you from loving who you love, and also don't let your romantic/sexual preferences - something that you cannot control !! stop you from believing in what you believe.
beautiful words
The bible does not say anything positive about homosexuality. But it also condones slavery. Attitudes do change over time in society, and it eventually makes its way into the church. But religion is very much a social phenomenen, and people often find it difficult to leave a group of people they have identified with. In case you worry about the theological underpinnings, here is my two cents: it does not make sense for a kind and loving God to give someone an extra temptation in the form of homosexual desire. Conservatives used to say that being gay was a choice, but they have had to abandon that position. Their default answer now is that it is temptation like any other, and God wants you to resist it. Utter B.S. It is not reasonable for a loving God to give extra temptation to some people. The people who wrote the Bible did not have our understanding of sexual orientation, so the issue is never really addressed properly. So when somebody quotes a Biblical passage, you should basically remind yourself that people back then believed in a lot of stupid things that we no longer do now.
there is simply no other place that feels more safe and makes me more happy than your videos and this series just makes christmas even better every year
:') this comment warms my heart. im so happy to hear, this is gonna be the last one i read before i go to sleep tonight 🫶
This was soo much fun and not getting over the straight girl is such a real thing 😫😫
do u want more of these kinds of vidss?? yea man, its a hard one, it happens alll the timeeee
@@laurenelloise I love these videos because some of them are relatable, some of them are insane and some of them are just total rants that are fun to hear
@soph-hp15 you just summed this up better than i could have lol
@@laurenelloise does that mean I've convinced you to do another one😁
@@laurenelloise i would not mind lol...at this point I'd watch anything u guys post coz this is the content that keeps me hopeful honestly with having to be closeted and navigating life in general - as long as u keep poting ill try my best to keep watching 🥰❤❤❤
Hey Lauren! I know you're probably not going to see this, but I just wanted to thank you. I'm a teenage girl who's been struggling with their sexuality, and after coming across your channel, it's been easier to understand what being part of the LGBTQ+ community. Now, I'm not struggling as much. Thank you!
Awww, sending lots of love your way! 💖
For the person who wants to tell the woman she likes who is engaged to another person about her feelings I don’t see that working out. Because if the person says yes and breaks things with her fiancé as a response to your confession that indicates that when things get tough or uncomfortable instead of working through them or breaking up on her own desire, she’ll look for an easy out. This time it would be you. Next time things get difficult the next person who has interest in her might be the catalyst for the break up. And I don’t think that it would feel good if the break up was more than just separating and instead if it was immediately being replaced by another individual. I wish best of luck to whoever sent that confession assuming they check the comments.
ah yeah, i didn't think about this part of it, so thank you for bringing it up kindly this way. it'll give them something to consider that i couldn't offer in a short amount of time!
im almost 16 and have recently discovered that i might gay for the most part i'm 80% sure i am but your videos have helped me so much to figure it out and expose myself and understand the lesbian side of things. Thank you i love you and Erin so much(hope i spelled the name right)
You have your whole life to figure it out trust me I’m 34 and still haven’t figured it out
awww i'm so happy to hear that we have helped you on your journey, sending lots of love to you! 💖 you dont have to be sure now, or anytime soon
I have just recently came out as Lesbian but only to my family and my best friend, but no one else. Ever since I found your channel I have been watching you videos nonstop! They really helped me feel accepted for who I am❤️. Tysm!
awwwww, so happy to hear that you feel accepted!! ❤️❤️
About the bi thing. I sexually prefer both almost equally. But romantically I prefer men. Why? I dunno I just do, it’s just the way I function and that’s ok. Being bi is 50/50 so however it manifests for you, you are valid!
I feel reassured hearing and reading all this because I felt weird about it. As a bi, I feel I am sexually attracted by men but not necessarily romantically. But I'm not sure about it, I'm doubting.
@ that’s normal. Sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. Use whatever label you feel is correct and remember you are valid no matter what :3
@@shapexifterr7067 thank you :3
@@shapexifterr7067 Unfortunately I’ve heard a lot of people say this but then turn around and reject me labeling myself as an ex-lesbian. LOL
@@bluecannibaleyes well they suck. Unfortunately there’s a lot of biphobia even within the lgbt community
Yes that Miley Cyrus and Fletcher video is tattooed in my brain. Honestly I still watch it again and again sometimes 😅
wait, this went totally over my head when i was filming!!! they meant THAT video omg gggggg
@laurenelloise hahah that was my confession. I tried to make it obvious which one I was talking about but it gave me a word limit 😂
Sappho has conjured me
oh good, my spell worked, thanks for letting me know ✨
I love this! I'm still so grateful for your channel, you helped me figure out my sexuality!
yayayay, aww im so happy to hear that ive helped on ur journey
Same!! ❤
13:30 it’s worst when your best friend that you like doesn’t know your gay and they are not sure if they are gay
I realized my sophomore year of highschool that i had a crush on my friend who is a girl but i kinda like ignored it? I had a couple boyfriends/situationships in the following years but it always went back to me liking her even subconsciously putting myself in situations to be closer to her. I’m a senior in high school now and i’m finally beginning to wrap my head around my feelings towards women/men.
i keep accidentally flirting with my best friend/crush who i know doesn’t like me.. i’m not very good at this 💀
I can relate to falling for a straight girl when you’re a lesbian. I’m bi but almost all of the people I am attracted to romantically or sexually are of an incompatible orientation. And the one relationship I was in was with an asexual individual who I had romantic and sexual feelings towards. We separated amicably because while we love each other there were sexual wants that are important to me that they were never going to want to do. I know they’ll find someone who they are compatible with and I hope I find someone who wants me romantically and sexually who I can reciprocate.
Heyyy! Just wanted to tell u i love your videos and they really helped me find MYSELF and my orientation and that i shouldn’t feel bad about it. Thank you sooo much! I‘m a new fan but already a big fan!!!
I hope you see this comment 🫂❤️
Keep going! I wish you and your girlfriend the best! And a good start in the new year
With the music video story, i watched Avril Lavigne mvs on repeat 🖤
being a christian and LGBTQ can be really hard, there will always be SO many people around you who don’t support you and it’s very difficult at times. church is supposed to be a community where you can admit anything and talk about everything, but growing up i always felt like that wasn’t an option because im queer and my church didn’t support it at all. some of my best friends when i was a kid would talk badly about gay people and say how horrible it is to be gay. ironically, my first crush was a straight girl in my youth group. it took two years to fully get over her. to this day i still go to church but only one or two people at my church know about my sexuality and they are both lgbt as well. to anyone in a similar situation i would just advise you to not let being religious change who you are as a person. i tried to just block out any feelings for women that i had to be a better christian and i have recently realized that is not the way to go and that i can be gay and christian at the same time.
I feel this so hard. Me and my gf are in our schools’ christian club.
Why do you insist on staying in a place that doesn't accept you as you are? Just get out of there and be happy, go live your life, God will love you anyway.
‘i would just advise you to not let being religious change who you are as a person’
Religion is part of who someone is as a person, though. That is, if they actually truly believe it. If religion isn’t part of who you are as a person, then maybe you’re not actually a religious person. If you disagree with the morals of a religion and refuse to practice them, then why even say you follow that religion?
I’d also argue that experiencing same-sx attraction and identifying as lgbt are not necessarily the same thing. It’s generally the behavior and ideology that follows it that churches frown on, not the part of it that allegedly can’t be controlled. And most churches are actually just openly okay with that nowadays.
yes i do truly believe in it, but a lot of christians don’t agree with everything the bible says. for example, the bible is against tattoos but i know SO many christian’s with tattoos. this is a similar thing. sort of. i’m not letting it change me as a person i was just trying to express that it’s hard balancing faith and being in a wlw relationship. i do believe that i can do both and when i get married i definitely will go to church with my wife and i wont worry about the repercussions because everyone at my church is so loving and they know me as a person and i dont think who i marry will change that for them.
Watching this in America hearing that 30 degrees is hot is hilarious
hahaha yea, you guys gotta convert to celcius man, makes so much more sense 🙈
It’s -5 c here 😂
too cold man
Multiply by 2 then add 30.
I’ve always wanted a quick way to know, and that’s what I’ve found
UNDER 30 MINS YAYYYY ❤❤
aww heck yeaaaaa
@@laurenelloise ahh ilyyyy ❤❤
Please make more of these videos they are amazing!!!! ❤❤
oooo glad to know you like these kinds of ones!! part 3???
@laurenelloise omg yesssss would love a part 3!!!!
Pleaseeeeee do a part 3!!
Fun! Glad I found your channel. Funnily enough for me, I haven't actually had the "straight crush" thing yet, but then again I'm not really that old lol. Instead I have had a literal love triangle (or actually a pentagon, but that doesn't matter) full of queer and straight people 🫠 HELP.
Here is a confession of mine that I find quite funny. I was on my first ever date with a girl. I really liked her (she was the one that made me realize I wasn't straight). So I really wanted to impress her. We live on two different sides of the city and met up in the evening somewhere in the middle. At that time I was struggling with really bad anxiety especially when it was dark and I was scared of public transport (these are important details). The date eventually ended and I decided to be romantic and walk her home. It was pretty late at this point. So I got on the bus at night with her to the other side of the city. I was just so in love with her that the anxiety went away. After I walked her to the door and she left my sight panic kicked in. I was alone, at night and I had to catch a bus home. I wasn't paying attention to which bus we got on because I was too busy staring at my date. So I was on the other side of the city, alone at night and I didn't really know how to get home. I ended up calling my mom (she is super supportive and knew I was on a date). She ended up picking me up after I figured out my location. This was also in January so it was cold. So I was just there anxious and freezing waiting for my mom to pick me up all because I tried to impress my date. The things didn't work with that girl but now I have a silly story to tell.
I haven’t been able to watch the last 3 live streams cause I was on a school trip last week 😭
aww thats totally okay! i hope you had a great time on your trip!!! thats so fun!
Thank you! I recently mustered up the courage to make a video about homophobia, so anyone feel free to watch and share it if you’d like. In 2024, we still have to keep fighting for basic human rights!
In response to the singer question: I did watch Miley Cyrus’ “Can’t Be Tamed” a lot as a teen without knowing why I was drawn to it (or questioning what I was feeling). Now I’m a queer furry, who’d a thunk (/silly tone). I was also drawn to that horrid “OMG” music video (by the same producer of the “My Jeans” song), where I didn’t understand why it was bad since I was a teen at the time and now it’s like, dear god.
And, in contrast to that one confession, I’m a bi person who currently prefers women, eyooo
I forgot to do a confession but mine would have been when i was in year 4 or 5 i played gta 5 for the first time and ended up at the str!p club (should have realised then that i was gay but didnt until year 7), got court playing gta and hadn't played it since ( i didnt own gta it was at my cousin house)
oooopppsss 🙈 (when i was playing gta at like 12 at a cousins all i did was run people over... lmao)
@@laurenelloise real, I drove like once in it and was horrible and I think I hit an elderly person 💀
🔴 LIVESTREAM in 30 mins, see u there?? ( might play sugar sugar)
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I have to gooo 😭😭 I'm sposed to be going to bed but ilysm Lauren ❤
sorry i missed the live, been at a wedding all day
Dude i used to use my brothers minecraft account and during the hunger games era of mc servers, i would get girls to be with me to protect them and flirt then when im about to leave the game. I would give them flowers i picked up throughout playing while them
Watching this just makes me wonder how I found out I was lesbian.
Same bc I just woke up one day and was like " women"
I bought the Galpals hat! It arrived yesterday 🥰
I thought I was Bi for two years, then got a existential straight crisis and thought I was straight for half a year.. and while I was “straight” 99% of my music was very, *very* gay.. how did I ever think I was straight
(I’m Panromantic Asexual btw)
These confessions are…. You guys put a lot of trust in the rest of us to say the least 😅
My church is very accepting of LGBT people and I live in rural Georgia of all places.
I came out as gay in yr6 and after I came out it felt like every second girl in my school had an identity crises and came out as bi or gay (there was 73 students in my primary school)
Hey, you are like the big sister I always needed... Recently I have been developing feelings for my crush's best friend, it's really confusing cuz I have this tendency to ignore and be mean to whoever I feel attracted towards. Today I discovered that my crush's bestfriend is dating a guy, so there's not anything left, n there is high chance that my crush maybe into girls but stupid me keeps being mean and pushing her away even when she tries to initiate a conversation. No one around me knows that I m into girls but I give all sorts of hints.. please tell me how to handle this😭😭
In when I was younger ( yr5 ) I used to like every new guy because I didn’t want to admit to myself that I was gay ( later came out as gay in yr6 )
i feel like yours was the peach one hahah
ill let you believe that 👀
Pls react to Billie eilish edits!🙏🙏🙏 love you so much btw❤
I am almost 12 and I only just found your channel like a week ago and since then all I've done since is is watched your videos. I love your content.
I have the fattest gay crush and by lesbian friend but she now has a gf. Thank you for your content it is so entertaining.
Also shit 30° it is like maybe 10 here and I am so fucking hot. But at the same time it is a British winter so it is quite walm and a miracle, it didn't rain today.
17:37 my church is very accepting (literally the lead choir ppl are a gay couple)
There are definitely accepting people of faith out there (note that it’s not only Christiany that can be a problem, most religions are super traditional)
Also the only reason why it seems all Christians hate gay people is cuz haters always speak the loudest
I have definitely met ppl who excuse their hate with religious belief but they are not all
Also note
It is insanely unrealistic that Jesus would have been homophobic. According to scriptures he was really progressive for his time (eg. He treated women as equals) he was also poor and took care of people
He also advocated for love in marriage at a time when it was mostly political
Like you can argue against me but this guy was not hateful or anything
Forgive the loooooooooong message it is 1am
I might sound slightly incoherent
0:38 no stop it its too soon!!!!!!!!
things are def speeding up now ahhhhh
I am 12 and I look up pictures of Billie an Olivia Rodrigo and think a bout my girl crush
16:10 funny that I realised something... when I was 14-16 I was playing with my two friends( I call them now R and T), they were cousins and they decided that T was acting like she was crush on me like we would be dating in our "story" and R was my bff who tried to help us. And like we planned our "date" for few months and then we were in a camp where was also my lil sis and she kind of knew about our whatever game we did but she didn't care. Then it was time to go to bed, but we wanted to go out to have our "date" and then we went to trampoline and we hade one candle and we had kinda cute "date". Later on that camp T was watching TikTok on her bed in a dark room and then she asked me if I wanted to watch too so I climped to her bed. Then I little by little moved closer to her until I almost lying on her lap and then she asked what I was doing even though I didn't do that on purpoise. Back then I was crush on her and I think I'm still kinda. One day she told me that she also had a crush on me. And then I realised that if I would have done something to it we could be dating, but sadly I didn't. Well... now we usually don't talk, but I remember those memories with warmth. Sad to be single...
Love your videos, but the discord notification sound drives me crazy! It always makes me think people are texting me 😅
oops ahahha 🙈 i am very sorry!!
How do I submit a confession
I'm not taking any at the moment! If I do make another one in the future, I'll usually ask on Instagram 🤍
to the one about the straight crush on a teammate- same. ive got a crush on a girl on my fsstpitch team and idk what to do bc we live 3 hours away and idk if shes straight or not. and if something did happen how would the team respond? and also im bi (and not out to anyone on the team yet) and i told her and my team that i broke up with my bf of 4 months (the reason was bc e was homophobic but they dont know that) and im also worried if she took that and thought i was straight.
1:46 shh!!!
Religion- the Unitarian Universalist church is 100% inclusive to the LGBTQIA+
Hey my name is Lauren
Hi Lauren
13:14 guess I've been a lesbian since the start
So to the religion thing (sorry if my English isn’t good): I`m a evangelic Christian and in school or Confirmation lessons, they dońt talk bad about lgbtq they don`t really mention it, if the topic comes up though, they stay respectful. I don’t know how it is in America etc.
you are amazing Bye bye
when my gay boy best friends straight friend who is a girl is attractive
Imma talk about sexuality >:3 :.I’m bisexual and I’ve known for almost 3 years now for the first 2 years I was really nervous about coming out to my parents but I came out to my mother this year and I’m pretty sure my dad already knows,but when I was 10-11 I use to be a lesbian and I had a HUGE crush on my best friend (who’s also bisexual),but when I moved schools I met this boy who was my friend for 2 years before me and him started dating,and a year later i finally had the urge to ask him to be my bf now he his :3 we’ve been together for almost 3 years 😁 and I love him so much >////
are you looking for a girl in future cause you’re bi or happy to be with your bf only (monogamous relationship), i was asking you because recently my gf wants to have a gf too
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Ughh idk if I’m queer or just straight, I’ve experienced kind of many girl crushes on friends and I dislike the idea of being intimate with a man.
I do think about being intimate with a man but I imagined being intimate with a woman first. My first kiss with a guy felt disgusting same goes for all the guys after the first one. But my first kiss with a girl was so beautiful I didn’t wanted to stop and my friend did stop that kiss after a few minutes. We did it again shortly after, I even thought about getting intimate with her. I actually did years later. She was my first real kiss with a girl, but another girl kissed me when I was around 5 years old. I was obsessed with her (she is a redhead).
Respectfully that was the most queer coded thing I've read today I don't think you're straight maybe bisexual but you don't like intimacy with guys ?
@ well I do Imagine intimacy but I’m probably to shy to get into a relationship with a guy! Also I’ve had some trauma caused by my dad and brothers.
14:15 Wait, I thought people always say that you don’t have a choice in who you are attracted to? But here you’re making it sound like some lesbians purposely pick straight girls to have crushes on just to hold themselves back or something.
𝒀𝒆𝒔 𝒊 𝒂𝒍𝒘𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒚 𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒐𝒚 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒌𝒕𝒆𝒓
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I always got all the girls ‘looking for a mate’ swarming around trying to impress my male character in wolf roleplays when I was a young teen back in the day. 🤣