Sex worker - the truth behind the smile | Antoinette Welch | TEDxAntioch

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  • @TheTrueabundance
    @TheTrueabundance 7 лет назад +1783

    it takes two to tango. If it's illegal to sell sex, it must be illegal to buy it too.

    • @heidivillaran5625
      @heidivillaran5625 7 лет назад +55

      So agree Trueabundance! If everyone gets busted when police stop a drug deal, why not with prostitution?

    • @greatonco7990
      @greatonco7990 5 лет назад +14

      i sell it to myself it only takes one ..

    • @cynthiakalif586
      @cynthiakalif586 5 лет назад +57

      no one should get arrested. prohibition doesnt work.
      quit living in the past.

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 5 лет назад +38

      Tango??? NOT SO MUCH!! THE WOMEN ARE BEING DEHUMANIZED AND EXPLOITED* - the *MEN WHO *EXPLOIT THEM ARE ALL ON the *PREDATOR SPECTRUM* -- TIME TO MAKE IT STOP 🛑

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 5 лет назад +29

      cynthia kalif WOW 😮 *Do you feel the same about slavery???*

  • @helenhortin7059
    @helenhortin7059 3 года назад +33

    The problem is that the majority of people who use prostitutes really do not care what life they live or have lived. It's a sad, true reflection on society that there is a high percentage of people who will use others for self gratification. What needs to change is for jobs to be more profitable than selling yourself. Don't leave abused women to choose between a low paid job or a job they can't manage because of their history/low self esteem.

  • @rodsitvideos
    @rodsitvideos 7 лет назад +1168

    Police should do more talks - they see more trauma than ANY OTHER profession.
    She knows whats she's talking about compared to many others that talk about the same thing.

    • @tensortab8896
      @tensortab8896 7 лет назад +34

      This cop is as clueless today as she was when she started. She's self-righteous and ignorant.

    • @TC-8789
      @TC-8789 7 лет назад +47

      Police create the black markets that these traumas happen in by enforcing criminalization. Her work is one half the cause of the suffering she sees.

    • @beatrixbliss276
      @beatrixbliss276 7 лет назад +28

      That's because they cause the trauma! Rape the second most reported complaint about law enforcement nationally, and even though sex workers are not the ones who file these complaints, we are probably experiencing a higher incidence of abuse because it seems to be a common occurance.

    • @mickfpmcolo5478
      @mickfpmcolo5478 7 лет назад

      Beatrix Bliss Aa

    • @Smorss2011
      @Smorss2011 7 лет назад +17

      So police are raping, beating, and killing women ? "Seems to be" is not an educated argument...I want to see your data.

  • @claireandersongraham3581
    @claireandersongraham3581 7 лет назад +282

    Wow, that was real, and HIT HOME: THANK YOU!!!...This is so important. Everyone HAS VALUE! ...my 27-yr-old sister, Hanna just died from heroin being shot into her back where she had an open wound from a flesh-eating bacteria, and this was a bit of a shock to suddenly hear "HANNAH" project. I only wish she could have had some help. I just learned that she went to jail 18 times, and once she asked a guard in an L.A. jail to help her, because she was being beat up in the cell, and the guard said, "You are going to have a long night." He refused to assist or protect her when she asked. She was 5'3", blonde, blue-eyed, and the most sensitive, loving human being, and she spent ten years living in this Hell, and selling her tiny body for heroin. It is such a tragedy. We were adopted by monsters, Hollywood monsters, and I can not fathom what she suffered through. We always had fun together and were very close before she went down the path of drugs. Our mother would not let us be alone together, because she knew Hanna would have someone to tell the truth to, and that would heal Hanna and convict our adoptive mother and father for their evil deeds. I reached out to Hanna regularly, and she could only -- sometimes -- successfully type back on Facebook messenger: "Love." She died Oct. 22, 2016, 12:22am, Sherman Oaks, CA. June 24, 2017 she would have been 28. RIP Sis!

    • @thewalkingoriginal3478
      @thewalkingoriginal3478 6 лет назад +16

      Claire Anderson Graham So sorry to hear about all the pain that you and your sister went through. Your adoptive parents should be held accountable.

    • @7Lace77
      @7Lace77 5 лет назад +1

      Are you sure, I've never heard anyone use like that... if you don't find a vein it's usually painful and you won't get a lot from it. Not as bad as hitting an artery, but that's accidental. I can't see someone trying to use that way, would probably get more from smoking it, and less painful.

    • @NStreit04
      @NStreit04 5 лет назад +4

      Rest In Peace and in power Hanna

    • @karinlarsen4251
      @karinlarsen4251 5 лет назад +4

      Your story breaks my heart, I hope you're able to find the healing that you deserve. Trust God that Hannah is in His loving arms. Jesus is the solution to troubles like you've seen

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 4 года назад +2

      I'm sorry baby girl to read about your loss. Sending you a hug

  • @christianefiorito6684
    @christianefiorito6684 5 лет назад +71

    decriminalization of prostitution is the only way to protect women, organize themselves and get help form the police and NGOs, Its the pimps and human traffickers who need to be punished, not women who are among ths most vulnerable of all societies in this world

    • @YagamiKou
      @YagamiKou 4 года назад

      agreed...
      minor correction
      "most valuable" fits better imo

    • @DaRyteJuan
      @DaRyteJuan 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah. Al Capone only got rich as a gangster because of the Prohibition.
      Everything just went underground and the murder rate went up.
      Anyhow, how hard is it to become a cam girl these days?

    • @Smitty-op4ld
      @Smitty-op4ld 8 месяцев назад

      Agencies can’t bust prostitution rings if they’re legal the women are broken and victimized behind those smiles whether it’s legal or illegal

  • @shanearroyo4224
    @shanearroyo4224 4 года назад +26

    I broke down into tears when I felt the women's value individually. I wanted to make sure no one would ever find the pimps, traffickers, & tricks, comfort all of them when they mourn as a cosmic father, healing their emotional wounds through encouraging, uplifting, & inspiring these women.

  • @Irishwhatever4
    @Irishwhatever4 6 лет назад +251

    I've seen a lot of comments here talking about whether or not to legalize prostitution. While that is an important discussion, it is not what the speaker chose to present about, and some have argued that the speaker's claims should be totally discredited because the topic is absent. I believe these people are missing the point -- the important thing is that she has taken the initiative to tend to people who were endangered in the field of prostitution. Sure, have your opinions on legalization, but recognize that the work she is doing is bettering and saving the lives of people who otherwise have nowhere to turn.

    • @beaglesguy
      @beaglesguy 5 лет назад +14

      Amen. Glad you get it. Most commenters don't. Change takes time. Antoinette Welch and The Hannah Project are helping people here and now. Not sitting idly by hoping for a possibly different future.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 5 лет назад +13

      Also if we were to legalize the work then they'd have a place to turn.

    • @Waitwhat469
      @Waitwhat469 5 лет назад +11

      I agree.
      Until you can guarantee workers safety, you shouldn't use buy or endorse that service. Ignorance doesn't excuse complicity in slavery or abuse.

    • @chikaka2012
      @chikaka2012 5 лет назад +14

      greenbutater Yes, legalization of prostitution is a completely separate topic. People who bring this up here are simply deflecting because this talk made them feel guilty in some way

    • @charlesritter6640
      @charlesritter6640 5 лет назад +4

      It's a bandaid solution.

  • @siddsen95
    @siddsen95 5 лет назад +101

    I don't know how TED speakers maintain such calm and impersonal tones while speaking about the most unacceptable realities.
    God bless this woman and everyone she wants to help.

    • @silverdove88
      @silverdove88 Год назад

      I think many of these speakers work for years with unacceptable realities. It’s a long and sometimes difficult labour of the heart, mind, body & spirit to gain an ability to deeply accept the unacceptable & speak calmly, care deeply, and make the extraordinary difference they do to better our world. It’s so beautiful

  • @GuilloRamiro
    @GuilloRamiro 4 года назад +11

    I love TEDx Talks, they allow people to share true painful stories, and thats a really big step to rise awareness and ultimately healthy changes.
    To share resources like the Hannah proyect, so people can reach out for help, and also that more often than not, we are not alone with our problems, somewhere, someone is experiencing the same problems, and someothers with better chances, are working to help them.
    ❤👍

  • @GryphonSkull
    @GryphonSkull 7 лет назад +434

    these comments are absolutely disgusting
    80% of them: "I am/I know a sex worker who is happy, so _obviously_ I know enough to speak for _all prostitutes_ and I will loudly defend prostitution even if the _vast_ majority will horribly suffer because of it"
    just because you, as somebody who probably lives safely and stable, have positive experiences with it, does not mean that you represent the HUGE market of prostitutes
    there are sex slaves, women afraid for their lives, women who have been brainwashed, women who suffer, women who have been trafficked, women who are threatened, women who's family has been threatened, women who are _traumatized_ and who can't get out partly because of people like you defending a horribly broken system
    but hey, you get to earn money with sex, and you have fun with it, so yeah, go, complain about this woman who _actually helps suffering victims_ , who actually deals with statistics and recovery programs... go, complain about the people who help victims, and defend the system that creates them, well done
    you make me _sick_

    • @ysabellabravetalk
      @ysabellabravetalk 7 лет назад +21

      APPLAUDS

    • @TC-8789
      @TC-8789 7 лет назад +29

      Antoinette Welch, the speaker, is recounting her experience of prostitution in the black market- where you see a lot of desperation, drug use, violence, rape, human trafficking. People who are pro prostitution want it moved into the white market, want it decriminalized. In this way workers and clients both can seek protections that eliminate abuses. If you look at a country with legal prostitution it does not remotely look like human trafficking. It is a means to Protect the suffering that you point it, by legalizing it.

    • @zaramahmood9628
      @zaramahmood9628 7 лет назад +6

      THANK YOU!!!

    • @Veronensis
      @Veronensis 7 лет назад +24

      If 80% of comments are from happy sex workers, how do you know that "the vast majority will horribly suffer" If you stigmatize and criminalize prostitution as a whole, it is MUCH HARDER to help the people who are forced in this profession. If you decriminalize, the people who want to do this profession can do it, and it will become much more obvious where the problems lie, because sex workers can report problems to the police. I am a sex worker in a country where sex work is legal, and I DON'T speak for all prostitutes, but i know ENOUGH woman who want to do this. If we just accept that women have a sexuality and can choose to do this job out of their own free will, We can work together to eradicate the trafficking and forced prostitution problems.

    • @donjuan9127
      @donjuan9127 7 лет назад +3

      the woman in this video flat out lied several times, i.e. "no little girl EVER wanted to be a prostitute", "every prostitute hated it every day", etc. the woman in this video blames prostitution 100% on men but you're mad at people truthfully rebutting those lies. I personally hate prostitution and pimping, but I've been around... maybe as a former cop she heard over and over hookers claiming they had no other choices or options, but as a man that used to be out there in them streets, especially as a young teenage troublemaker... turning tricks is a woman's game and a woman's world... dudes don't be pimping like movies and rap songs say, most pimps got turned out by hoes and they get swallowed alive by the bitches often... at least 99% of women selling sex can stop any second they want
      +

  • @kelh8999
    @kelh8999 5 лет назад +21

    That's amazing work. There are so many facets of abuse of women including human trafficking and I am so proud of you for taking the initiative to help truly serve and protect.

  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 6 лет назад +108

    Bless her, and everyone she helps. I hope it goes all over the nation and the world.

    • @scorpiusjones5436
      @scorpiusjones5436 4 года назад +3

      This absolutely should be a nation wide system.

  • @Collateral0
    @Collateral0 4 года назад +6

    this is why this lifestyle shouldn’t be supported or shown as a good example, most people get into because of very bad reasons that people don’t want to fix. If a woman is selling herself for money its not because she truly wants to but because there is definitely a point in her life where things took a dark turn. We should be encouraging people away from that harsh lifestyle and to improve themselves by not selling themselves. We should be helping these women and not promoting in industry that summarily denounces them and objectifies them as objects to be bought and sold. That is not humanity, that is the opposite.

  • @Hannah-ls7xb
    @Hannah-ls7xb 4 года назад +9

    Heartwarming. Such a wonderful program. These women need support and inspiration. Thank you to everyone that is involved 💛

  • @aidoll3692
    @aidoll3692 7 лет назад +461

    Some ted talks have wonderful, kind, and intelligent comment sections.
    *This, however, isn't one of them.*

    • @kirajahn207
      @kirajahn207 7 лет назад +38

      Really? When it comes to Tedx talk comments, half of what I've encountered is the standard MRA troll talk, peppered with thoughtful comments like "I'd suck those tits."

    • @marcgrundfest1495
      @marcgrundfest1495 6 лет назад +6

      And some Ted talks have this thing called evidence and reasoning. Incidentally the Hanna project is just a cute name for clemency.. Been around for some time now.. Like most of Ted it's about politics not policy..

    • @BG-rx6ts
      @BG-rx6ts 6 лет назад +3

      Marc Grundfest oof

    • @brittkelly9878
      @brittkelly9878 5 лет назад +6

      Oh Jesus Christ why should it be illegal for these women to be making money off of what everybody is doing anyway come on guys were all fuking these women are at least getting paid for it!! Like come on now

    • @brenthunter5078
      @brenthunter5078 5 лет назад +4

      why, because they disagree with you?

  • @blackrocktile5855
    @blackrocktile5855 7 лет назад +311

    Good parenting can only happen when you have a society that has support systems that foster healthy citizens , with affordable housing, living wage, universal health care....justice, addressing sexism, racism, prejudice and so on....it take a village to raise a child.....in other words a society

    • @marcgrundfest1495
      @marcgrundfest1495 6 лет назад +6

      BlackRock Tile
      so your saying society should only allow certain persons to breed since the issue of such unions is a societal responsibility. Or maybe your saying responsibility is a social thing, but folks can do whatever the fk they want with the costs shifted to everyone else.
      Frankly it doesn't matter what you are saying, because either way it's delusional..

    • @j.h.6633
      @j.h.6633 6 лет назад +5

      I see what you are saying. I completely agree with you!

    • @cheesecake4648
      @cheesecake4648 6 лет назад +2

      yes, marc, certain people should have the right to have children. so there wouldn't be any child abuse of any kind.

    • @glovefet
      @glovefet 6 лет назад

      well said

    • @karinlarsen4251
      @karinlarsen4251 5 лет назад +6

      I believe good parenting comes from good parenting. Education can teach children that their parents are violating them. Children in dysfunctional families keep secrets.

  • @shalow2
    @shalow2 5 лет назад +129

    If I found out that one of my friends had a conviction for prostitution I'd lose faith in the system. That's not something a person should be criminalised for. And criminalising it just adds to the social stigma of it.
    The Hanna project sounds like a good idea though.

    • @M0viLover
      @M0viLover 3 года назад +2

      There's a good TEDx talk, comparing the .. legalization of prostitution. Per the presenter - the favored model is decriminalization, which is only in New Zealand.

  • @JessRenee91481
    @JessRenee91481 4 года назад +5

    I can't help but think that making prostitution illegal isn't protecting these women rather serving only to make the problems worse.

  • @lalab5869
    @lalab5869 2 года назад +2

    It’s wonderful to hear about this kind of program. Humanitarian work saves lives. I love hearing about this. Amazing!

  • @Huveto
    @Huveto 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you! Keep working. People like you are the reason we still have hope in humanity!

  • @Rissy617
    @Rissy617 7 лет назад +28

    thank you for sharing this story, changing lives, and remembering we are all humans and it's not our job to judge ❤

  • @anubhavganguly5838
    @anubhavganguly5838 6 лет назад +19

    Felt so sad after hearing this. Hope someday the conditions will improve.

  • @paulwnuk8323
    @paulwnuk8323 4 года назад +4

    Prostitution needs to be legalized, taxed, and regulated. It will help stop human trafficking and end the shame and stigma for the industry.

    • @Ivan_Lopez1
      @Ivan_Lopez1 4 года назад

      Too many sheep living in fear

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries 2 года назад

      Human trafficking and prostitution is different

  • @dondressel4802
    @dondressel4802 5 лет назад +23

    My ex-girlfriends 20 year old daughter turned to prostitution because as she says it’s easy good money
    It broke my ex’s heart
    We only hope and pray she’ll wake up someday without being murdered
    Her father was never there for her
    I wonder if there’s a connection because of it?

    • @recyclespinning9839
      @recyclespinning9839 5 лет назад +3

      I think there may be a connection. Though you may never know the truth. You say it was your ex girlfriends daughter,,, no doubt your ex had other ex boyfriends before you, and no doubt at least one of her ex boyfriends had at least his eye on her daughter. So like I said you may never know the real reason she went into prostitution, but I got a hunch....

  • @coralofyt
    @coralofyt 9 лет назад +292

    Sex worker rights are human rights!
    Decriminalize sex work now!

    • @coralofyt
      @coralofyt 7 лет назад +31

      As a sex worker I know from my own experience laws against sex work make it impossible for the safety of sex workers to report abuse & slavery! it is hurtful & extremely harmful to tell a migrant sex worker they can NOT contribute to the economy as a sex worker & therefore are subjected to abusive, slavery & criminal element, as a sex worker working in a illegal & can NOT obtain a work visa as a sex worker does NOT have the same human rights as any other worker & makes it IMPOSSIBLE for that sex workre to report violence against them & criminal know this!
      so yes! by prohibiting migrant sex workers from sex work you are in fact creating a problem & the opportunity for criminals to prey on sex workers who have been made vulnerable by a system that does not include us as any other workers with workers rights & human rights!
      sex work need to be FULLY DECRIMINALIZE if you are serious in addressing the real problems that come with the prohibition of adult sex work!

    • @bonniepiovet6964
      @bonniepiovet6964 7 лет назад +16

      kimxxxyyy then don't be a sex worker....

    • @DAngelo136
      @DAngelo136 7 лет назад +11

      Then don't bother sex workers. Prostitution laws are not for those who don't engage in prostitution. So if you don't want to, then why have the laws for those who do?

    • @multuminparvo5
      @multuminparvo5 7 лет назад +13

      The way you worded that (Decriminalize sex work now!) makes it sound like you want to make sex work legal, and that would further endanger the children and their moms.

    • @beatrixbliss276
      @beatrixbliss276 7 лет назад +13

      multuminparvo5 The only children being sold for sex are typically by their parents! There is as high as 3% of prostitution that is forced. And police should concentrate on them instead of criminalizing consensual adult activities.

  • @brent847
    @brent847 7 лет назад +327

    making prostitution illegal makes it dangerous. so police are part of the problem.
    legalize and regulate and focus on the real crimes like trafficking not someone paying for college or a mom making ends meet. or some john that just needs some intimate contact to feel less loanly.

    • @Nutellafuerst
      @Nutellafuerst 7 лет назад +31

      brent847 sounds good, doesnt work. have fun as police trying to sort out the law-abiding from the criminals. all it does is kicking human traffic and forced prostitution into high gear. and for what? so a bunch of useless pimps and the small amount of - actually existing- "happy hookers" dont have to learn a proper profession?
      yeah, no.
      it is really stupid though that the prostitutes themselves are being criminalized. they are the victims here. its like punishing junkies, it makes no sense and helps noone.

    • @Nutellafuerst
      @Nutellafuerst 7 лет назад +11

      Brutus Tan i guess liberty is also having tenthousand ppl as sex slaves because because a minority enjoys the shit job ?

    • @raebla
      @raebla 7 лет назад +36

      Decriminalising prostitution does help and does work. Mainly because they get basic worker rights, which includes the right to insist on safe sex and charge clients if they don't comply. It works by making so people can choose FREELY to be a sex worker and can leave it without legal and social ramification.
      It's an industry that doesn't go away by hiding it or shaming the people involved. So stop making it illegal and start forcing it to be consensual.

    • @meladversity
      @meladversity 7 лет назад +25

      " or a mom making ends meet" that would be a trafficking victim by definition. you don't even know what trafficking means. and "some john that just needs some intimate contact to feel less loanly" is no excuse to hire a prostitute. stop protecting men from even creating this kind of situations.

    • @msuew94
      @msuew94 7 лет назад +13

      meladversity ok do you know what trafficking is?? If a single woman has the fear or belief that she is at the place where that's the best or only way to provide for her kids that isn't trafficking..... trafficking is in basic terms slavery and the key ingredient is a pimp or "boss" ala the ABUSIVE person that is literally forcing the woman(en) to participate in prostitution ..... and the guy paying for intimacy isn't the one to blame since he is just trying to pay for a service, most men believe that it's consensual and aren't abusive to anyone let alone the women that they are paying..yes there's men that are scum and are sickening and abusive to the women but you can't generalize that is the opposite of what will be helpful to these women

  • @JLS639
    @JLS639 4 года назад +7

    Every job I have applied to outside of California in the last 20 years has asked if I was ever in a diversion program (many said "diversion program or similar alternative to prosecution" or something similar). Every one said applicants who lied about being in diversion could be fired immediately. The idea that diversion programs like The Hannah Project get around the problems of conviction is a farce.

  • @sjukfan
    @sjukfan 8 лет назад +362

    Unfortunately hugs and dreams don't pay for the rent.

    • @sidsimo
      @sidsimo 7 лет назад +95

      Talked to a Hooker from Rio....why, I asked her?
      Her answer, I don't like to eat dirt.

    • @k3nny111
      @k3nny111 7 лет назад +37

      Depends on the hugs, I guess.

    • @adaj472
      @adaj472 7 лет назад +31

      No, but I think expunging a charge might. Considering that’s what’s keeping them from being able to get a job or rent an apartment. The hugs and love come after that.

    • @CriS-jq6em
      @CriS-jq6em 5 лет назад +8

      Not immediatly, but it will help them
      because they will trust again on theirselves and try again to find an other job...

    • @gracefoster4861
      @gracefoster4861 5 лет назад +8

      She also mentioned all of the practical assistance, not just hugs and dreams.

  • @LovelyFlyShy
    @LovelyFlyShy 4 года назад +21

    I love this concept! I wish something like this could be implemented here in Las Vegas. My Lord. The ending statement brought tears to my eyes it is so true. I do hide behind a smile amongst all the other things you named, and I'm currently reduced to this lifestyle :(

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 года назад +4

      If you don't like what you do, stop.
      Do something else.
      If you view it as a "Reduction" then it's obviously not for you.
      Go to school, learn a skill set and take up a new line.
      The only person limiting you is you.
      If you're being forced you will have to be sneaky and hide some money for your run, but there's always a way to change your life if you really want to.

    • @LovelyFlyShy
      @LovelyFlyShy 3 года назад +6

      @@kenkneram4819 I really appreciate your comment. I've since been freed from that lifestyle and in active recovery❤

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 года назад +1

      @@LovelyFlyShy
      Congratulations.

    • @evertdevries8814
      @evertdevries8814 3 года назад +5

      @@kenkneram4819 And while she's doing all the stopping of work and going to school again, the rent and the bills have to be paid. How, if you have nothing?

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 2 года назад

      @@kenkneram4819 👏👏👏...

  • @dawn9143
    @dawn9143 6 лет назад +12

    I am glad that this talk exists in that this is defiantly a subject that needs more conversations. Indeed continuing to punish women that are already being punished by life will only make them fearful of institutions that should be helping them. However, I do not think that a one day program is doing enough, although being given the offer to clear charges in a big step. Many women are afraid or may have no other skills to support their families. Besides that if we focused on the larger issue some of this would be cleared up. Our poor and homeless are trapped. They cannot afford training to build skills but minium wage jobs often do not pay enough to live and added to that it can be difficult to even get a skill less job.

  • @sydneyellis2141
    @sydneyellis2141 6 лет назад +49

    And I do have a relative with a solicitation charge, and I don’t see her differently. Maybe this is because I’ve been educated about this for long

    • @secret1167
      @secret1167 5 лет назад +4

      I'd feel more empathy than anything.

    • @eryiyn1418
      @eryiyn1418 4 года назад +3

      @@ozzwaidothegreat2221 women are wonderful and powerful human beings, and thats the fact

    • @ethanpoole3443
      @ethanpoole3443 4 года назад +1

      I would not see such a woman as someone lesser either, if anything as an empath I would reach out to such a person to relive them of some of their pain and remind her that she is not alone in suffering. I’ve spent most of my life battling my own demons from years of abuse and social rejection as a child and the collapse of my physical health combined with Complex PTSD, all as a result of that abuse - the last thing I’m going to do is judge another for their own demons. I’m grateful addiction was never among my demons, but disability, my myriad chronic illnesses and my mental health issues and severe chronic pain certainly would have placed me at very high risk for addiction had I been born with an addictive personality...and that is a roll of the genetic dice that none of us has any control over.

  • @pinheadlarry2921
    @pinheadlarry2921 7 лет назад +74

    If prostitution was decriminalized they'd be able to go to the police bc their 'pimp' beats them or a client attacked them. There WOULD be so much more happy women who love their job. The women who dont want to be there can leave, and because of that there would be less pimps and less attackers because theyd be getting caught. You can never get rid of the problems, but its the same with so many other things.

    • @viktoriajost430
      @viktoriajost430 6 лет назад +3

      100%

    • @GeneralNickles
      @GeneralNickles 6 лет назад +2

      @@silentvoice4970 also, new zealand isn't the only place where it's compeltely legal. It's also legal in the Netherlands.
      I'm not completely sure, but I think it's legal in Australia too.
      And it's at least partially legal in Japan.

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 года назад

      LEGALIZED. Decriminalized means its still illegal, just not criminal, so a fine not jail. You still get busted. Legalized is what you're shooting for.

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 года назад

      @@GeneralNickles Its legal in the U.S. too in some places. And its very clean and orderly. There aren't rapes and murders constantly in Reno.

  • @manishadadlani2086
    @manishadadlani2086 6 лет назад +5

    The Hannah project seems a wonderful way to tackle in essence a core requirement which is the need to feel lovable and cared for. Thank you for the initiative. The statistics in this talk are an eye-opener on stereotypes and generalizations that we make about prostitution in America. 🙏🏽

  • @rebuildchronicales
    @rebuildchronicales 7 лет назад +38

    Good work madam! for not only America but the whole human civilization.

  • @chloedoe6387
    @chloedoe6387 7 лет назад +117

    She doesn't seem to understand that sex workers and trafficking victims are not the same thing

  • @lorettajames6158
    @lorettajames6158 7 лет назад +48

    Thank you so much for all you have done to understand the real feeling that's behind us is the worthlessness especially when you do ask help and it never comes my nightmares are hardly ever about the attacks but about emotional abuse or ones that remind me of how worthless I am I was told I would get help to get CBT 2 years later I'm still waiting besides one family member no one has ever try to support me I feel not worthy of this world anyway I lost myself 2 years ago and I want to find her again

    • @chikaka2012
      @chikaka2012 5 лет назад +6

      Loretta James Don’t give up. You will get there!! You are stronger than most of us, because you are seeking help with hardly anyone supporting you. If you need information, some of us are here for you

    • @DiscoTimelordASD
      @DiscoTimelordASD 5 лет назад +1

      Loretta - you are worth A LOT❤
      I can't imagine what you've been through, but you will find yourself again.
      It's taken me over ten years and I'm still not complete, but I feel better than I ever did back then.
      I'm here, and I care❤

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 4 года назад +1

      Keep fighting. Don't give up.

    • @k9la77
      @k9la77 4 года назад

      don't give up, Loretta! lots of love and support from me❤

  • @contrafax
    @contrafax 7 лет назад +14

    When New Zealand decriminalized prostitution wasn't there a HUGE drop in the kind of stuff she was talking about?

    • @decipheritalian
      @decipheritalian 5 лет назад +2

      @@silentvoice4970 How? Please explain and provide references

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 года назад +1

      decriminalization =/= legalization. With decriminalization everyone STILL gets busted, they just don't get jail time, they pay big fines. With legalization NOBODY gets busted, and the activity goes on undeterred. So logically with decriminalization all the "back alley" and "hiding" aspects of the industry will still persist, thus all the ills that go along with that system will still exist. You'd LOGICALLY expect: ZERO CHANGE. Getting worse is just a product of "more population will yield higher number totals".

  • @PinkCoils
    @PinkCoils 5 лет назад +8

    Some people say that prostitution should be legalized, but then there would be the problem of human trafficking. If you legalize prostitution, you legalize human trafficking. And that, is no bueno. Instead, they should stop arresting the prostitutes/victims and focus on arresting pimps and johns.

  • @nebojsagalic4246
    @nebojsagalic4246 7 лет назад +20

    What about porn? Isn`t that the exact same thing? Why not complain for that?
    But we should legalize it. Definitely. We need more rehabilitation, and much crueller punishments for sex traffickers(say 30 years in a forced labor camp in Alaska), and more undercover actions to arrest traffickers.

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 лет назад +5

      Why is she supposed to talk about every subject?? Ted talk only gives so much time!! Why don't you talk about it? Legalizing would reveal your name, publicly, so you might to rethink that.

    • @Sarahizahhsum
      @Sarahizahhsum 5 лет назад

      Her point wasn't on legalization. It was on help programs for legit survivors.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 5 лет назад

      What about sugar daddies? That is a form of prostition.

  • @alrino9820
    @alrino9820 4 года назад +5

    What a wonderful project. Kudos to you Antoinette! Thank you for caring.

  • @HCVAdvocate
    @HCVAdvocate 4 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this sad story!! Wake up people!

  • @kk-lz1by
    @kk-lz1by 7 лет назад +29

    This is straightforward and to the point. Brilliant, this what we need.

    • @butterballs9206
      @butterballs9206 7 лет назад +2

      Nope. Prohibitionist drivel.

    • @zvipatent
      @zvipatent 5 лет назад +2

      nori - it's a nice thing, but a one-day hug-out and 3 meals will not solve the problem.

  • @falkomatzler271
    @falkomatzler271 4 года назад +4

    In the US, prostitution is illegal. Unless you film it and put it online.
    Go figure.

    • @annadstar777
      @annadstar777 4 года назад

      Falko Mätzler it is legal in some parts of Nevada, in brothels. Good point though

  • @h.calvert3165
    @h.calvert3165 5 лет назад +5

    All those who want prostitution legalized, saying it's a career choice, a profession: I'll believe you when you get pimps booked into Career Day at your kid's high school, & you start asking your daughters "So honey, have you considered prostitution as a career? Law & medicine aren't all they're cracked up to be, you know!".

    • @annmurry8589
      @annmurry8589 5 лет назад

      Yeah
      When coersion in various forms, the removal of choice (to say no or how it goes), the lack of support for the healthcare dimensions (cosmetic repairs, ressucitation burials, childbirth, stab wounds), and the lack of autonomy of those involved to make choices about their living arrangements, bank accounts, attire, diet, free time, etc. - all get turned around - only then can the legitimacy conversation even begin.
      As an experiment, let the coersion let up for even one day - how many would still keep doing it? Maybe a few. What percent? 50%? 25%? 20%? 10%? 5%? What percent would even put up with this if they could be choosy and keep the money? Is that even the same thing?
      There is a demand motivating the placement of people in a category. How can anyone that even catches a glimpse of this believe people want to be doing this? People know they have to be aggressive to make people do this because obviously they won't otherwise.

    • @h.calvert3165
      @h.calvert3165 5 лет назад +1

      @@annmurry8589
      Excellent points! 👍

    • @vidyasreeram2587
      @vidyasreeram2587 2 года назад

      Well said.

  • @MrFlyingmachine
    @MrFlyingmachine 3 года назад +6

    Unfortunately it's a business where the demand will never disappear and therefore the supply won't. Just decriminalize it and give these women (and men) the support and protection they deserve.

  • @radheshyamdevotion7132
    @radheshyamdevotion7132 7 лет назад +4

    great talk and work with the Hannah project. Very courageous.

  • @turkeyweasel9347
    @turkeyweasel9347 5 лет назад +5

    Wow! Thank you thank you thank you for making a difference in these woman s life's. You didn't have to do this especially coming from a good solid background and not initially understanding the street live so many of us lived or were groomed into. You could have judged us broken women and made jokes or regarded us as trashed whores instead you made a change to protect us/them. I cried watching this and gained a diffrent perspective on female cops WOW just wow thank you for helping those who have felt hopeless and now have a chance to learn unconditional love.

  • @alexd5637
    @alexd5637 7 лет назад +82

    So in your country she has to choose from being at the mercy of a pimp vs being at a mercy of you and judges. Nice choice .. I have a feeling prostitution is much more grey in other countries where they actually have a justice system and prostitution not much criminalized. USA may have a good Constitution but the justice system is a joke and you can see that in prison population.
    If you want to help them, what about stopping to prosecute them? Prosecution is an act of violence period. Oh you can't stop because you need to pay for food and rent? For some time people in your country argued that the issue is with the criminal system that makes an imperfect world much worse.

    • @JaimeWarlock
      @JaimeWarlock 4 года назад +5

      Exactly. i have lived in countries where it is legal and if you beat one up, she can have you prosecuted.

    • @claudearmstrong9232
      @claudearmstrong9232 4 года назад +1

      @RTHA300 The Constitution is fine. It's rthose communist socialist who hate the morality that the Constitution defines. The immoral leaders of America have forced unConstitutional laws on the people that are oppressive and double standard, anything goes for wealthy, nothing goes for the poor.

  • @electrology
    @electrology 5 лет назад

    Wow. God Bless you Ms.Welch. I will do my part in The Hannah Project. What a noble cause

  • @JesseWright68
    @JesseWright68 7 лет назад +15

    The fact that illegal prostitution is rampant shows that the fact that its illegal has had no effect on it. It should be legalized to take it away from the criminal element.

  • @artsmart
    @artsmart 4 года назад +45

    Misogyny is the enemy here, both by police, judges and johns. Time for a makeover of societies values. I'm a man but if I was faced with eviction, hunger or drug dependence, I know what I'd do to survive and most people reading this would do likewise. Let him(her) without sin cast the first stone.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 года назад +4

      Not misogyny, poverty.
      Poverty is the enemy here.

    • @artsmart
      @artsmart 3 года назад +8

      @@kenkneram4819 yes poverty always lurking nearby of course but mysogynistic attitudes on the part of the ones with the money adding to their misery.

    • @anthonymort5202
      @anthonymort5202 2 года назад +2

      @@artsmart our hyper capitalist society is the reason that people feel the need to go out and sell their bodies to get money because it's the only commodity they have it's the only mechanism of acquiring wealth that they have control over when you sell your hours of Labor to a capitalist you have no control these people are trying to take back control of their lives and control of their finances

    • @atlntcostv7293
      @atlntcostv7293 2 года назад +1

      How are Johns the problem?? they’re the ones paying you

  • @annalenae.5501
    @annalenae.5501 5 лет назад +52

    The best way would be to legalize prostitution for the prostitutes and criminalize the pimps and johns. But as long as laws are made by men, things won't change

    • @jennifercrespo1383
      @jennifercrespo1383 5 лет назад +11

      Those women aren't happy either. They don't like it and eventually it takes a toll on them emotionally to be treated like a thing.

    • @richardwolfendale8783
      @richardwolfendale8783 5 лет назад +2

      I agree with the first thing you said, but not with the second. In case you didn't know, men care too.

    • @xarzarechus3542
      @xarzarechus3542 4 года назад

      Lol

    • @maximillian1109
      @maximillian1109 4 года назад

      That is how the law is in my country.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 года назад

      So basically what you're saying is that we should punish men for being men and treat all women as victims??!!! 🤨🤨🤨
      Typical feminazi position! 😏😠

  • @wink3319
    @wink3319 7 лет назад +1

    The police woman has only seen prostitution in the USA where it is illegal. If only she would educate herself in a country where prostitution is legal. Nobody gets forced to prostitute and they do just fine. But make it illegal and it is ugly, no question.

  • @pandvsims
    @pandvsims 5 лет назад +5

    Such a sad reality that any of our sisters should ever have to endure the terrible effects of abuse. The bastards that abuse these women have no idea of the pain and suffering they inflict upon their victims.

  • @janelann5523
    @janelann5523 5 лет назад +2

    Being told not to speak to police officers in our day and age is not brainwashed. It's just common sense

    • @aydingundogar9217
      @aydingundogar9217 4 года назад

      You seen the stabbed dude?, where the cops didn't save him if its true

    • @bbbybby7703
      @bbbybby7703 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏

  • @bigfanshope9415
    @bigfanshope9415 7 лет назад +48

    I believe ,that she believes this is a good perspective, My authentic self knows this is over the top biased one view. As usual law enforcement works like the doctor who does not listen to his / her patients. As it was said before watch Toni Mac's TED Talks , I understand as Substance abuse counselor to be effective , I work with Sex workers pretty regular basis. The commonalities between sex sales laws and drug laws are undeniable. It is the system that elevates the the harm , risk and social stigma. Education , Treatment and harm reduction open more doors than shutting them for those who desire change and enhance the spark to potential desire, with a no strings opportunity. Instead of control and laws that have become the money racket we all know that they are.

    • @karengrove5750
      @karengrove5750 4 года назад

      You sound like you have a little knowledge. Thank you! Agreed.

  • @edengarcia7231
    @edengarcia7231 5 лет назад +2

    There actually ARE prostitutes that enjoy what they do. I understand she may have been talking about victims of abuse, drug addicts, etc. but do not dismiss the ones who willingly do this. Don’t forget that while the police may want to help, a lot of prostitutes are actually scared that the police may take advantage of them as they often have. Most Prostitutes already know the dangers they face. The Hannah project sounds good and all but what does it do to actually help prostitutes out of the lifestyle they’re living? They may still have no home to come to, a job, or just basic necessities. Just a one day class on STD’s and they get tested for free. If they are being forced into this then we need programs that help these women into living stable lives and to ensure their safety as the system cracks down on trafficking. The best thing to do for prostitutes that do this willingly and enjoy it would be to listen to them and giving them the rights they need as workers. Provide them with medical attention, rehabilitation centers, etc. In the end, decriminalizing prostitution is what will really make a change.

  • @chrisogonas
    @chrisogonas 4 года назад +3

    Superb! When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!

  • @daniellebragance2616
    @daniellebragance2616 4 года назад +2

    Magnifique Projet. Souhaitons qu'il soit appliqué ailleurs ds le Monde. En France notamment

  • @malindaclaeys2591
    @malindaclaeys2591 5 лет назад +28

    with all do respect, lady, police don't help them. it's so male dominated. and men harshly punish women but not other men. but I really appreciate your speech. Thanks for seeing the reality. and standing up for women. blessings to you.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад +2

      Meanwhile women get lesser sentences than their male counterparts for the same crime

  • @francescap919
    @francescap919 7 лет назад +2

    👏 hope this project grows and becomes able to provide also initial economic support
    Great way of removing shame

  • @clairehiggins7120
    @clairehiggins7120 7 лет назад +6

    You are doing amazing work, I hope it can keep growing and helping more women 🥇

  • @andrewmendoza9480
    @andrewmendoza9480 5 лет назад +2

    God bless this woman. I hate that we don’t protect women better. I’m so frustrated

  • @johnny_veritas
    @johnny_veritas 7 лет назад +11

    Like we don't do our jobs under the coercion of starvation and homelessness as well. The difference about prostitution is that it is more psychologically degrading.

  • @frantisekzverina473
    @frantisekzverina473 5 лет назад +11

    No woman ever wanted to became a worker in poulty processing factory either. It's harder work that's paid worse though you won't get killed over it. Legalize prostitution to protect the women.

  • @louisesumrell6331
    @louisesumrell6331 5 лет назад +3

    I was a beginning transwoman in the early 90s. I tried and tried to get a normal job. No one would hire me. It's expensive to live in a half way decent neighborhood in a large city. I had no choice, being from an upper-middle-class family, originally. Of course, at that time, I had been abandoned by my family... I was an independent, out-call, call-girl. I t took very little time to begin dreading every appointment. The depression, anxiety and self-loathing became so overpowering that I attempted suicide four times and drank alcoholically. In 1998 I was deemed 'totally and permanently disabled' by SSDI and survive on disability payments, to this day.

    • @bonbonvrock84
      @bonbonvrock84 5 лет назад +1

      Omg I'm so sorry to hear the hard life you had to lead. Please don't give up on yourself. Tomorrow is another day. I hope things take a turn for the better this year.

    • @raionhato6299
      @raionhato6299 5 лет назад

      boy what if the world just declared life to be too expensive...I had no choice....?

  • @juliettemacdonald5792
    @juliettemacdonald5792 5 лет назад +2

    Excellent + sobering “wake-up” speech!
    “The Hannah Project” sounds like a solution for all those victimized women forced into a most dangerous way to survive- who finally are offered the kind of help that works.
    This project needs to become a worldwide project for all women wanting to escape the binds of prostitution.

  • @stephaniejade7056
    @stephaniejade7056 6 лет назад +11

    Men need to be held responsible for the violent culture which constructs the horrors most people live in (including themselves). See Ted talks by 1) *Tony Porter* and 2) *Jackson Katz*

    • @ReligiousZombie
      @ReligiousZombie 5 лет назад

      Why men in particular? Why not our politicians? And who is responsible for them? The people who voted for them, that's who.

  • @bobsenior9218
    @bobsenior9218 7 лет назад +1

    This is exactly why prostitution should be legalised and regulated. Not all women are able to get a good job that pays well and meets their needs. In Australia sex work is legal there are no pimps as such and the women get free health care. If we are to say that a woman has the right to chose in regards to their own bodies with abortion then why is it so different that she be allowed to chose who she has sex with and under what circumstances. The nanny state Christian moralising that goes on in America has no place in a modern world. Sex workers in Australia are even drug tested and no drugs are allowed in brothels. This measure is designed to try and ensure the women are not slaves to drugs either.

  • @ritaschaffer780
    @ritaschaffer780 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for telling people how it is & for making a difference in the world & in people's lives.

  • @Chan-md2hb
    @Chan-md2hb Год назад +2

    If men were the prostitutes, this woman would still call women the victims

  • @anshulgupta1384
    @anshulgupta1384 7 лет назад +68

    it hurts to hear this but this is the truth.. god help those who are in desparate need ..

    • @k3nny111
      @k3nny111 7 лет назад +3

      "it hurts to hear"
      Yeah the audio is really shitty. :-/

    • @zvipatent
      @zvipatent 5 лет назад

      Anshul - if god could help, would he/she ?if not, is there really a god ? Spoiler: no gods. But, glad you care.

  • @jo50169
    @jo50169 4 года назад +1

    I love that the Hannah Project was created 💕these women deserve a chance to be loved, educated, & known

  • @juanmanuelpenaloza9264
    @juanmanuelpenaloza9264 4 года назад +14

    It's as the song goes.
    "God forbid you ever have
    To walk a mile in their shoes
    Cuz then you might know what it's like
    To have the blues."

  • @louditalian1962
    @louditalian1962 Год назад +1

    Decriminalize it and help the women, arrest the pimps and give them them the help they need.

  • @albernal6653
    @albernal6653 5 лет назад +7

    total BS. If A welsh really wanted to help these women, she should work to decriminalize the oldest profession in the world. This just gives the law enforcement, judicial and penal system a reason to exist and jobs etc. Same for marijuana laws. Welsh might feel good thinking she is doing these women a favor but to me she is just rationalizing her job

    • @prisonisinourminds8070
      @prisonisinourminds8070 2 года назад

      A local prosecutor can’t decriminalize prostitution in the whole US u clown. She is doing her best to help these people right at the moment, dropping the charge and going against men involved is a lot. What are you doing to help these women? I bet you are one of the guys using their service and if u are u are only contributing to an already existing problems and trauma they have.

  • @the111queen9
    @the111queen9 4 года назад +9

    these women probably did not have any dreams of what they wanted to be when they grew up…..their only dream was to survive

  • @dirkhamilton2709
    @dirkhamilton2709 5 лет назад +5

    “I’ve seen 10 dead bodies”
    And that has nothing to do with prostitution... that’s MURDER.

    • @millaemm
      @millaemm 5 лет назад +4

      Do you have comprehension issues? She said she saw 10 dead bodies, four were prostitutes. That's 40% of all dead people she saw in 15 years - all prostitutes. It implies prostitutes are very likely to be attacked, maimed or murdered. Stop being obtuse, it's embarrassing.

  • @wiardzijlstra5905
    @wiardzijlstra5905 4 года назад +17

    I agree with everything she said except that there are no woman out there who are just interested in prostitution for extra money. I talked to people who said they were

  • @tankthepitbull520
    @tankthepitbull520 4 года назад +5

    I’ve slept with many prostitutes in my life and I’ve always treated the women with respect and dignity.

    • @jazzb3371
      @jazzb3371 4 года назад

      You still helped the problem keep going. Thats not helping the women.

    • @vidyasreeram2587
      @vidyasreeram2587 2 года назад

      You're part of the problem.

  • @agustinrtga
    @agustinrtga 3 года назад +1

    Is this the same in Las Vegas or only in Texas so that the police department can get extra money

  • @Makambapretu2012
    @Makambapretu2012 5 лет назад +9

    The Hannah project seems a good way to start over. But i wonder do the cities where these women attent these projects also help them after such project with e.g. a job or a course that can help them to a job?

  • @trygveevensen171
    @trygveevensen171 4 года назад +2

    The audio is terrible

  • @rogerkomula8057
    @rogerkomula8057 4 года назад +4

    I have respect for whores. Cops, none at all.

  • @jpatel262
    @jpatel262 2 года назад +2

    I think we DESPERATELY NEED LAW OR SOMETHING that is going to make prostitution SAFER‼️‼️ and not something that you have to be worried about being ABUSED or taken ADVANTAGE OF.

  • @edeananda
    @edeananda 6 лет назад +8

    More cities need this, and especially John Schools.

  • @walterhines6148
    @walterhines6148 4 года назад +1

    The Hannah project sounds beautiful. Keep up the work

  • @AO-pn9so
    @AO-pn9so 7 лет назад +3

    If you want to understand some of what she is talking about, I recommend reading Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers. It's a Christian book but it portrays the horrible reality of human trafficking so well

  • @wink3319
    @wink3319 3 года назад +1

    What do prostitutes really want: Decreminalize Prostitution. Ask the prostitutes themselves.

  • @calie-annecaz5474
    @calie-annecaz5474 5 лет назад +5

    In Ontario Canada prostitution is NOT illegal but solicitation is so its great to know if anything ever did happen, I can call the police without worrying. It also discourages any abuse from the men they aren't protected legally like the escorts are. Yay 🇨🇦 Canada 🍁

    • @jennifercrespo1383
      @jennifercrespo1383 5 лет назад

      Do u like it

    • @annadstar777
      @annadstar777 4 года назад +1

      Calie-Anne Caz doesn’t make sense that it’s legal to sell but not buy 🤔

  • @jpatel262
    @jpatel262 2 года назад +2

    I think that prostitution most of the time isn’t a choice when your life is on the line. I think our society should have more options so that people don’t feel like prostitution the only choice.

  • @shaharipudding9453
    @shaharipudding9453 7 лет назад +81

    Uh...I hate to burst your bubble, but sex work and sex trafficking aren't the same thing. I mean....really? You're not helping. We just need laws protecting sex workers and to crack down on sex trafficking. I like myself just fine thanks.....

    • @galaxycat7088
      @galaxycat7088 7 лет назад +6

      Shahari Pudding Many of these women are brainwashed or fear for their lives. They can still have a child, they can still consent but they're fearing for their lives that if they quit or go to the police they will die. Sex trafficking is similar, but the only difference is those people don't get any form of freedom and are abducted.

    • @shaharipudding9453
      @shaharipudding9453 4 года назад +1

      Galaxy Cat Where is your proof that many of “these women” are brainwashed? Who is doing the brainwashing??

    • @okay5573
      @okay5573 4 года назад

      I mean true, they're just highly interconnected

  • @colemantoons
    @colemantoons Год назад +1

    I wish this talk had included some comments on the idea of legalizing prostitution. For example, in Nevada we have legal brothels which provide protection for both the women and the customers. There are women working in these brothels who claim they are not forced into what they do and that they do, in fact, have other options. They even claim to like their work. They might not be truthful in these comments, I don't know. But if legalization does nothing else, it takes prostitution away from the criminal element and even if it is not the answer, wouldn't it at least be an improvement? We've done this with alcohol and drugs, why not also legalize prostitution and in doing so, control it and regulate it?

  • @magdalene1970
    @magdalene1970 7 лет назад +3

    May G-d bless you and keep you and your family safe in this life and the after life! May you be prosperous and continue to share your gift of love and respect! People like you restore my faith in humanity! Thank you for being a caring individual!

  • @tiffsaver
    @tiffsaver 4 года назад +1

    The only way to stop illegal prostitution and the drug trade is to make it LEGAL. This woman claims to care about women, then stop victimizing them TWICE!!!

  • @samanthascarcella526
    @samanthascarcella526 9 лет назад +110

    This talk seems pretty biased since plenty of sex workers say they are not the "pr****" that people assume they are. And that word she keeps referring to is a slur against sex workers. Most of sex workers aren't victims of sex abuse, most aren't drug users, most aren't forced into it. You know who is? Trafficked people, sexual slaves. Not sex workers. Sex work(an umbrella term) is gone into willingly and under the terms of the sex worker. What she is describe it purely forced sex trafficking. This talk HURTS actual sex workers trying to make a living.

    • @naomicarter354
      @naomicarter354 8 лет назад +24

      +Samantha Scarcella My thoughts exactly. I spent 6 months in New South Wales, Australia where sex work is decriminalised and a way different perspective is made about them. I've been to a sex worker conference in Gold Coast (as a sex worker myself) and there were plenty of respectable and truly satisfied women who CHOOSE to be sex workers and they never do it to support an addiction or come from abusive backgrounds. Not a single one out of maybe 50. Thank you for being verbal that this video IS BIAS and speaking to sex traffick victims, not conventing sex workers.

    • @modelfan1979
      @modelfan1979 8 лет назад +29

      Exactly. Sex trafficking is 100% horrible and should be wiped out. I believe in the eradication of all violence against women (and men for that point.) It is 100% unacceptable and wrong. Underage sex work is disgusting and criminal.
      Now having said that, I don't believe that all strippers, doms, escorts, sugar babies and other sex workers are forced into this. Sorry, I just don't believe it.

    • @songsylph111
      @songsylph111 7 лет назад +7

      statistically, most are abused. as a 20 year old, it may seem like freedom, as a 50 year old, with no education...it is slavery

    • @k3nny111
      @k3nny111 7 лет назад +11

      What is "pr**"?

  • @reubenrodrigues7962
    @reubenrodrigues7962 7 лет назад +2

    aswome 👍 may God bless this project and that this project may spread world wide.

  • @thestreamoflife1124
    @thestreamoflife1124 7 лет назад +6

    yes what you say is very true ..... however there are several levels in this business.... you make it sound as if this is the only aspect of the industry.... ITS NOT !!!! There are many many women who are not forced into it because they were pimped, raped, etc etc..... just for economic reasons....its a carrear.... a profession.... a sex therapist..... too much steroid typing..... i could write a book about it ..... there are always 2 sides to a coin.... its not an easy job but most jobs have challenges.... few are in their dream profession..... you do what you have to sometimes to survive ....make the best of it and stay in the high end of the industry INDEPENDENT......

  • @sampleowner6677
    @sampleowner6677 3 года назад +1

    Prostitution is never going to go away. The solution is to legalize it and let them work in a bordello where they are protected. The crime is making it illegal. Making it illegal is what puts the women in danger.

  • @davidfortier6976
    @davidfortier6976 5 лет назад +7

    Her characterization of prostitutes is really not correct. She is accurately describing some, perhaps many prostitutes but I have met plenty who were, for example, not working for a pimp.