A guy who flirts with other women repetitively doesn't necessarily mean that there is something missing in your relationship. It could simply be that he is either a covert or overt player. If he retaliates and calls you "insecure" that is a red flag. Feeling that you are being disrespected doesn't nec mean that you are "insecure" ...in fact quite the contrary.... you are standing up for yourself and the respect you are entitled to.
If he does it in front of you, imagine what he does behind your back. It's true that some men are flirty but won't do more than that. But only you know what you can live with. I married the flirty guy. It was so bad I decided to let it go or I'd go crazy. But I did ask him to at least don't do it in front of me.
And never bring up anything that puts her in a bad light - not even as a teaching tool to/for us; Don't let us/nobody know it's a mistake she made - you crazy!? You'll destroy your own house ❤️; I expect you to be maturer than that; When women can be 'little girls', grown men CANNOT afford to be 'little boys', except around other 'little boys': 1Co 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
I love Marie’s energy: confident, calm beautiful and classy. I keep my fingers crossed for you guys and ignore negative comments. People like to project their own experiences on others. I learned to simply ignore it. Please do more videos together. It is always interesting to know man’s and woman’s perspective and great pleasure to see you guys together.
The two of you work well together. There is a deep level of respect is apparent and you are able to articulate about your relationship, which helps others.
I have been following you for a long time now and everything you do makes sense for older people. We need help in the dating world. As we get older we lose our way and need to continue working on the process of being a better person. Getting the foundation right is the secret to building a great house or relationship. Your words are building the deep roots of trust. Thank you to you and Marie. You can be a great example for others to follow.
Please ignore these comments from people trying to forcast the end of your relationship. No matter how long it lasts, you're being brave enough to go for what you want while accepting all possible outcomes. That's inspiring! Thank you both for sharing and I wish you the most beautiful outcome 😘😘
Jonathon, please allow her to speak. We would like to know what she has to say. I really appreciate her advice, she has made many great points. I love watching you both together.
I wish you both the best. The biggest issue to dating someone new is trusting that what someone says is true. Having the same goals is not always apparent. Tell me who you really are and let me see that you don’t contradict yourself. Not an easy task.
I’ve been following your journey for years!! Rarely comment!! You guys are absolutely adorable together!! Jonathan you should write a book/ do a course for men!! Thank you for being so vulnerable, open honest and communicative. ❤️💐❤️💐
I love how real you both are (including the interruption 'thing' and your lovely reaction to it, Jonathon). Please don't become perfect. Thank you both! ❤😊
A few things I noticed, you kept cutting Marie off, she couldn't finish her thoughts and sentences, and you didn't let her have her own ideas, you kept putting words in her mouth. Jonathan this is a give and take, not all about you. Take this as constructive criticism, I'm sure many have noticed the same things. Your a bit overpowering and keep telling her how amazing she is, it's a bit much.
I have to agree with all your comments . Especially putting words in her mouth. Jonathan please work on this and listen to Marie. I hope you find these comments constructive. You are very warm and loving man.
@@JonathonAslay I didn’t see it that way, you were maintaining control over the structure/pace of your video. I’m sure finding a rhythm is tricky, but your interaction was good imo.
Wow, she is a lovely, warm woman, and VERY genuine. Seems like a lovely soul. So thankful you found someone as lovely as this and she found someone as lovely as you. 🙏 Prayers for you all and prayers for other genuine souls to heal the pain, be ready and be able to find people to who are also genuine for them. 🙏 p.s. yes, please do more videos together. Her energy is very sweet and relaxing and you’re as open as always. It could actually be very powerful (“like a role play” of sorts) for some, to see what a healthy interaction could look like. A lot of the lessons being taught, in video after video, LIVE in action. ALWAYS thank you both for being so transparent and putting yourselves out there. It is not easy and is a testament to what great folks you both are 😊 🙏🐻
Once again as Mr Jonathan stated I'm not interrupting you ,iam simply Saying " Jonathan has a certain mindset, conversation style ,iam not surprise by his way of communicating effectively with his partner, However I will say what his partner express does not definitely match with the pictures that she takes with Jonathan, Thank you for volunteering your time with your prime partner . Hearing you speak my lady leads me into observing your definitely You are truly the opposite of him . Thank you for being apart of this important 💜 journey in Jonathan's Life Peace Ms Tinamarie ⚘️
This was SO SO SO fun to watch. I literally had a smile on my face the entire hour. The dynamic between you and Marie is so great to watch. Please have her on more! New subscriber here and I'm loving your channel!
I agree if someone does not ask you questions about you and you're life but you are asking them these questions it can feel as if they don't really want to get to know you. Sometimes a guy is only looking for hook ups or a casual relationship. A conversation where the other person only gives a yes or no answer or they answer with a short reply. It's clear from then they only want a friends with benefits relationship. Lets' face it who wants that .
Love, run towards each other; Just do what Love says - it nullifies all these talk of pursuing/chasing - just show interest in one another: "Seek peace and pursue it"; Love is peace; I'm with you beautiful lady; First time I saw my husband I gave him my numbers and said "call me"😅; I took a taxi from Toronto to Oshawa, ON after I finished work Saturday evening to be at a Conference where he was - you got to put yourself out there and be seen - uh uh People just need to be their authentic self, be yourself, have fun
shes fun. that funny kiss at the end. was a prime example and her go ith the flow talking about the video. too many partners ( masn or woman) would fear or be insecure and their egos would speak up. her authenticity has brought out a deeper level in you. i remeber a year ago fo how you represented yourself in your videos and you've grown consistently and maybe a big leap since living with her. both bringing out the best self in each other.
Jonathon, I think this is a learning opportunity for you. All of the counseling you have done has put you in the driver's seat in a relationship. Your partner is a strong woman who knows who she is. Are you open to that type of relationship?
I lived in Europe and no man allows a woman to pay no matter if it’s a first date or the 1100th date. The woman paying for a man is so western world bs
Jonathan you seem anxious and nervous what she might say on here and that's why you kept cutting her off and not allowing her to complete her thoughts and communicate her thinking process. I think your communications skills after all you have invested in, was not on par. Especially when you preach good communication with all your book recomendations. She is clearly lovely and I'm a Gemini too and Gemini's are wonderful.
Agree Marie.... it's not a fun process. It's exhausting. Just had my first meeting with a guy. It was really great but not my kind of person. Onto the next chapter
Hello I watched your video last night and have to say I really enjoyed the combination of both you and Marie talking..all of it is spot on real as it gets and highly informative..I think what people were getting from you with interrupting is just pure excitement with the knowledge you have and with what she was sharing coming through...she was involved with this banter and held firm with her thoughts words & expressions til you had your say...so we could adjust to what we were watching I liked it kept my attention haha.. she seems wonderful so very beautiful as you're handsome and I'm happy you both found love within one another! Highly inspirational for us that are dealing with life trying to find new paths for ourselves,the right love not right enough...and leaving unhealthy situations which sometimes are very hard to do. I like your channel I appreciate your helping so many see there's always better ways of dealing with life and the people that cross our paths! Thank you ..cheers 🎉💕🎉to you and Marie such a beautiful couple without a doubt 😇💕😇
A laundry list of questions should never be necessary and seems obnoxious. If you are spending the proper amount of time together the answers will come organically. If you are an intelligent person there is no wasting of time. The only way this turns into time wasting is if you’re dealing with an avoidant personality in which case you know to GET OUT. If a man approached me with a list of questions I would know he was socially awkward, inappropriate, and treating me as a commodity.
Good to see you have met a great woman Jonathan, all the hard work with reading, learning and self development attracted and secured a suitable partner, which works both ways in the 2 lane street.
Negative comments will come…. Jonathon and Marie…. Don’t let them discourage you 😁 Ester’s advice is not do not give them more than 16 seconds attention or that negative momentum will begin….. You are both Perfectly Imperfect and a pure delight to share this journey with!
This was so painful to watch. He constantly interrupted Marie. I have a feeling she doesn't want to get married because she has a significant amount of wealth, probably from a divorce settlement. That young and already "retired." Women with wealth are usually very careful to guard it and not re-marry.
The woman is there with him only because she didn’t want to move to LA without knowing anybody there and is taking advantage of Jonie. Move on, she is not the right one for you. She chased you because she had ulterior motives and that is not good.
Im a single woman here looking for love but it has to be authentic and sincere. Its hard in this world today to find authentic love. Can I get some feed back please bcuz its just not easy getting back in the field. Johnathan and Marie you both look great together. I think relationship today needs mutual respect and sincerity. If trust isn't there, there is no foundation and its not love it becomes friends with benefits. I believe that God is love (agape) and the worlds love is greedy and too fleshy.
Sorry t say but you, Jonathan, cut off you partner several times and that was annoying...if you ask a question let the other person fully answer. My experience has been that men do that more than women.. and most noticeably in TV settings where there is one woman and one or more men.
Thank you so much guys. I learnt so much. Wish you both a very compatible long term relationship filled with love, respect and understanding, as you both desire.
I agree with Marie, men holding a fish or photo, either with some poor animal they have shot. Wearing black singlets or no tops on. Or caps back to front.yuk.
I've made note of 8 times of you interrupting within 5:23 minutes of watching.......I can't continue watching.... you can see on your face your thinking of what your going to say opposed to listening to her.....🤷♀️
Love this video! A word about finances and having that important conversation…my advice to anyone who asks and what I say to all (young or otherwise) women I have mentored is this: money is a source of arguments and can be used to control. So when you live with someone whether married OR NOT, keep it fair and simple. Whoever makes the most pays the most. Not always 50/50. Keep a joint bank account to pay bills and one for savings. Have separate accounts for your own personal wants which are for you to use as you choose, no questions asked. This os even more important as we pair up in middle age with assets and holdings we have acquired during our life. Protect yourselves, keep harmony in your life. It works!
Sorry..sounded mean. You are used to doing the talking. I also have a podcast with my sister. It's called, I am one of eleven. It's about growing up in a big family. We always talked over everyone. There was someone always talking. I should just say, you seemed very happy. Best wishes and God's blessings on your relationship.
Please don't listen to the negative about this video. You two are awesome together. With the folks saying you took over the conversation, we'll it is show after all. Great points in this video. Gives me hope that I will find my true love someday. ❤️
This was very frustrating to watch. You need to practice listening and let her finish her thoughts without interrupting her so much. I understand it’s your channel and she’s your guest, but why have her on if you won’t let her speak?
Re: “making effort” it seems most people are not getting this concept of what “chasing” vs “making effort” whether in “masculine or feminine energy” means. Making an effort is not “chasing”.
You both look great together… if she lets you interrupt her means she accepts you the way you are.. I can feel her positive energy and you’re so excited around her 😂 .. and she is very calm & beautiful ❤ If a woman is into you she will Tell you about herself only sincere people tell about themselves.. people who want to build something solid. there is nothing wrong with it.
This is Jonathan's Channel..so he should keep control of the conversation. The same as I when I'm on a call and I'm doing my Interpreting job. If I didn't have control of the call? This person I'm translating to would just Ramble on, and we would lose the structure of the Call!
No disrespect, but I think she will get tired of him. She's a strong, confident woman and I can see her forcing herself to bend or subdue herself for him. They are both wonderful individuals, but I doubt this relationship will last long-term.
Yes she’s very strong,independent assertive woman but she’s not a young woman she’s mature she’s been through a lot with past relationships so she wants to settle down she might be willing to work it
No disrespect intended either. She is very assertive and has her own mind. She will tire of this. I get a vibe from her that it's exhausting and more like an interview. Jonathan is a great guy but this is not a long term match. I want to be honest here.
@@j-tenn226 absolutely, breakup is the part of the process, when people in the ongoing relationship they are in fact preparing for the breakup… new beginning 💋
I like her personality, she's authentic/classic, not a fake person... I know many people are so fake, pretend to be someones they are not :) i am 45 this year and I personally don’t think we have to get married if it’s not for birthing kids. You don’t need a paper to tie each other. 😅
You guys are a beautiful couple! Love listening to you guys! Thank you for all the wonderful advice and your vulnerability. You have helped me so much!!
@@sittowardi6781 he interrupts her constantly and seems way more into her than she him, almost fussy about her. I feel like his videos are a passive aggressive way of telling women how to be in a relationship with HIM and what HE wants from relationships. It's kinda creepy. How is an aging bachelor in a new relationship with a woman who admittedly doesn't want the same commitment as he does a relationship coach. His strict micromanaging of the relationship and dating interrogation rules would put me off. He seems needy and clingy.
Love you two so much! 💜 This is such helpful insight. I watched one of Jonathon’s older videos this morning where he was still dating around and hoping to meet someone special. This is magical. ✨✨✨
Listening and learning from both of you. Thank you both for being so open and vulnerable to help us out further. I think you’re a beautiful couple and wish you the best. Ignore the hate you two. Bring us the love!!
Jonathan I recommend you finish a sentence instead of starting to make a comment but you never finish the thought you jump to another idea and you never finish that either so your speech does not have a result. And do not repeat yourself, you say the same things over and over again.
Amazing couple, reasonable advices and Marie is incredibly gorgeous! I really enjoyed the video and wish you guys all the best for your life together :)
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A guy who flirts with other women repetitively doesn't necessarily mean that there is something missing in your relationship. It could simply be that he is either a covert or overt player. If he retaliates and calls you "insecure" that is a red flag. Feeling that you are being disrespected doesn't nec mean that you are "insecure" ...in fact quite the contrary.... you are standing up for yourself and the respect you are entitled to.
Very disrespectful when a Man flirts with another women in front of you! Run he’s probably a player
If he does it in front of you, imagine what he does behind your back. It's true that some men are flirty but won't do more than that. But only you know what you can live with.
I married the flirty guy. It was so bad I decided to let it go or I'd go crazy. But I did ask him to at least don't do it in front of me.
Yep. Gaslighting at its finest. If anything, it shows you're secure enough to confront unacceptable behavior and walk if necessary.
No the men are insecure they need all women’s attention. Get it right
Jonathan, I know it’s your show but you must let Marie finish her thoughts without interrupting. 👍🏼✨After watching the play back, Marie agreed!💃🏻😂
Noted!
@@JonathonAslay I love how you "own" it! 👏👏
I felt the same Jonathan and sometimes kind of felt annoyed of you interrupting her. But i understood that you were eager to speak up your ideas too.
@@JonathonAslay well, you're used to having the show to yourself, lol its ok
And never bring up anything that puts her in a bad light - not even as a teaching tool to/for us; Don't let us/nobody know it's a mistake she made - you crazy!? You'll destroy your own house ❤️;
I expect you to be maturer than that;
When women can be 'little girls', grown men CANNOT afford to be 'little boys', except around other 'little boys':
1Co 13:11
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
I love Marie’s energy: confident, calm beautiful and classy. I keep my fingers crossed for you guys and ignore negative comments. People like to project their own experiences on others. I learned to simply ignore it. Please do more videos together. It is always interesting to know man’s and woman’s perspective and great pleasure to see you guys together.
Thank you so much!
How Precious is she??? Just Lovely 🥰
The two of you work well together. There is a deep level of respect is apparent and you are able to articulate about your relationship, which helps others.
WOW, thank you 😊
I have been following you for a long time now and everything you do makes sense for older people. We need help in the dating world. As we get older we lose our way and need to continue working on the process of being a better person. Getting the foundation right is the secret to building a great house or relationship. Your words are building the deep roots of trust.
Thank you to you and Marie. You can be a great example for others to follow.
Please ignore these comments from people trying to forcast the end of your relationship. No matter how long it lasts, you're being brave enough to go for what you want while accepting all possible outcomes. That's inspiring! Thank you both for sharing and I wish you the most beautiful outcome 😘😘
Awe... thank you so much 🙏
Jonathon, please allow her to speak. We would like to know what she has to say. I really appreciate her advice, she has made many great points. I love watching you both together.
Noted
I wish you both the best. The biggest issue to dating someone new is trusting that what someone says is true. Having the same goals is not always apparent. Tell me who you really are and let me see that you don’t contradict yourself. Not an easy task.
Yes, trust is hard to build these days.
I do think most women need to learn to live alone, happy and satisfied.
Had to stop watching 20 minutes in…Let her speak!!!
Gotcha
You cannot fake this!! I am happy for you both.
I’ve been following your journey for years!! Rarely comment!! You guys are absolutely adorable together!! Jonathan you should write a book/ do a course for men!! Thank you for being so vulnerable, open honest and communicative. ❤️💐❤️💐
Maybe one day!
Great video.
I love how real you both are (including the interruption 'thing' and your lovely reaction to it, Jonathon). Please don't become perfect. Thank you both! ❤😊
Awe... thank you 😊 💓 🙏
Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle for your relationship. I’m so happy for you both and you give me hope I’ll one day find love again 💜💜
Thanks, I agree...
I'll note having a quality profile is very important. This was a great session tonight - I think you complement each other in many ways. ❤️
awe... thank you.
I also think she chased him
How?
A few things I noticed, you kept cutting Marie off, she couldn't finish her thoughts and sentences, and you didn't let her have her own ideas, you kept putting words in her mouth. Jonathan this is a give and take, not all about you. Take this as constructive criticism, I'm sure many have noticed the same things. Your a bit overpowering and keep telling her how amazing she is, it's a bit much.
Noted
I have to agree with all your comments . Especially putting words in her mouth. Jonathan please work on this and listen to Marie. I hope you find these comments constructive. You are very warm and loving man.
You did a major super score!
Marie is beautiful and down to earth. Congratulations to you both
Thank you so much!
Nice to watch you two, I see why your relationship works. You listen to each other and speak authentically and respectfully.
Thank you 😊
Yes, it’s called RESPECT!
Very nice !
Some of the comments on the video were that I disrespected Marie because I interjected my thoughts. Do you feel that was true?
@@JonathonAslay I didn’t see it that way, you were maintaining control over the structure/pace of your video. I’m sure finding a rhythm is tricky, but your interaction was good imo.
Wow, she is a lovely, warm woman, and VERY genuine. Seems like a lovely soul. So thankful you found someone as lovely as this and she found someone as lovely as you. 🙏 Prayers for you all and prayers for other genuine souls to heal the pain, be ready and be able to find people to who are also genuine for them. 🙏
p.s. yes, please do more videos together. Her energy is very sweet and relaxing and you’re as open as always. It could actually be very powerful (“like a role play” of sorts) for some, to see what a healthy interaction could look like. A lot of the lessons being taught, in video after video, LIVE in action.
ALWAYS thank you both for being so transparent and putting yourselves out there. It is not easy and is a testament to what great folks you both are 😊
🙏🐻
WOW, thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
Once again as Mr Jonathan stated I'm not interrupting you ,iam simply Saying " Jonathan has a certain mindset, conversation style ,iam not surprise by his way of communicating effectively with his partner, However I will say what his partner express does not definitely match with the pictures that she takes with Jonathan, Thank you for volunteering your time with your prime partner .
Hearing you speak my lady leads me into observing your definitely
You are truly the opposite of him .
Thank you for being apart of this important 💜 journey in Jonathan's
Life
Peace
Ms Tinamarie ⚘️
Thank you for your kind words 🙏
This was SO SO SO fun to watch. I literally had a smile on my face the entire hour. The dynamic between you and Marie is so great to watch. Please have her on more! New subscriber here and I'm loving your channel!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I can totally see why Maria calls you “exhausting” 😂😂😂.
I agree if someone does not ask you questions about you and you're life but you are asking them these questions it can feel as if they don't really want to get to know you. Sometimes a guy is only looking for hook ups or a casual relationship. A conversation where the other person only gives a yes or no answer or they answer with a short reply. It's clear from then they only want a friends with benefits relationship. Lets' face it who wants that .
Sadly, this happens a lot.
Love, run towards each other; Just do what Love says - it nullifies all these talk of pursuing/chasing - just show interest in one another: "Seek peace and pursue it"; Love is peace; I'm with you beautiful lady; First time I saw my husband I gave him my numbers and said "call me"😅; I took a taxi from Toronto to Oshawa, ON after I finished work Saturday evening to be at a Conference where he was - you got to put yourself out there and be seen - uh uh
People just need to be their authentic self, be yourself, have fun
Thank you for sharing your stories. It’s great to hear from both of you.
Thanks for listening
Oh my goodness. This woman is so beautiful inside and out. God bless the two of you ❤
I think it's good when a man talks about himself on the first date! You get to learn about him!
shes fun. that funny kiss at the end. was a prime example and her go ith the flow talking about the video. too many partners ( masn or woman) would fear or be insecure and their egos would speak up. her authenticity has brought out a deeper level in you. i remeber a year ago fo how you represented yourself in your videos and you've grown consistently and maybe a big leap since living with her. both bringing out the best self in each other.
Indeed
Jonathon, I think this is a learning opportunity for you. All of the counseling you have done has put you in the driver's seat in a relationship. Your partner is a strong woman who knows who she is. Are you open to that type of relationship?
I love her strength...
Honestly I believe whatever couples decide among themselves is their business.
Indeed
Keep her. She’s a step above.
Jonathan if she’s willing to put up with your loud arrogant condescending attitude please do everything possible to keep her happy.
Will do... 🌞
I lived in Europe and no man allows a woman to pay no matter if it’s a first date or the 1100th date.
The woman paying for a man is so western world bs
Why?
Jonathan you seem anxious and nervous what she might say on here and that's why you kept cutting her off and not allowing her to complete her thoughts and communicate her thinking process. I think your communications skills after all you have invested in, was not on par. Especially when you preach good communication with all your book recomendations. She is clearly lovely and I'm a Gemini too and Gemini's are wonderful.
Noted...
Agree Marie.... it's not a fun process. It's exhausting.
Just had my first meeting with a guy. It was really great but not my kind of person. Onto the next chapter
Hello I watched your video last night and have to say I really enjoyed the combination of both you and Marie talking..all of it is spot on real as it gets and highly informative..I think what people were getting from you with interrupting is just pure excitement with the knowledge you have and with what she was sharing coming through...she was involved with this banter and held firm with her thoughts words & expressions til you had your say...so we could adjust to what we were watching I liked it kept my attention haha.. she seems wonderful so very beautiful as you're handsome and I'm happy you both found love within one another! Highly inspirational for us that are dealing with life trying to find new paths for ourselves,the right love not right enough...and leaving unhealthy situations which sometimes are very hard to do.
I like your channel I appreciate your helping so many see there's always better ways of dealing with life and the people that cross our paths!
Thank you ..cheers 🎉💕🎉to you and Marie such a beautiful couple without a doubt 😇💕😇
WOW! Thank you. Can you share this video with friends?
@@JonathonAslay ABSOLUTELY!
I enjoy watching both of you because you are getting responses from both sides of the coin. Thank you for that. Marie is a very lovely person.
Wow, thank you
A laundry list of questions should never be necessary and seems obnoxious. If you are spending the proper amount of time together the answers will come organically. If you are an intelligent person there is no wasting of time. The only way this turns into time wasting is if you’re dealing with an avoidant personality in which case you know to GET OUT. If a man approached me with a list of questions I would know he was socially awkward, inappropriate, and treating me as a commodity.
I just shared your comment in a recent video... I disagreed.
Good to see you have met a great woman Jonathan, all the hard work with reading, learning and self development attracted and secured a suitable partner, which works both ways in the 2 lane street.
Yes! Thank you!
I truly enjoy this video so much!!!! Thank you both for your time to share this with us!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Negative comments will come…. Jonathon and Marie…. Don’t let them discourage you 😁
Ester’s advice is not do not give them more than 16 seconds attention or that negative momentum will begin…..
You are both Perfectly Imperfect and a pure delight to share this journey with!
Thanks for that
This was so painful to watch. He constantly interrupted Marie. I have a feeling she doesn't want to get married because she has a significant amount of wealth, probably from a divorce settlement. That young and already "retired." Women with wealth are usually very careful to guard it and not re-marry.
Noted
Thank you both for being vulnerable
Our pleasure 😃
JA. Love your channel. However, allow her to finish what she’s saying without jumping in to comment too soon. She is not your client
Noted!
She’s very pretty! & you look good together.
Of course she chased you… but in a very smart way…. It worked 😁🤷🏻♀️
I think so too!
The woman is there with him only because she didn’t want to move to LA without knowing anybody there and is taking advantage of Jonie. Move on, she is not the right one for you. She chased you because she had ulterior motives and that is not good.
lol
I totally agree with you
Please stop hijacking Marie when she’s speaking or drawing breathe before continuing on
Noted
She is so beautiful 😍, bold and confident. I just love her… she smiles always
I agree 😃
Love you guys! Thanks for your realness and heart to help others
I’m not going to die on the sword for any politician. 🤣
Im a single woman here looking for love but it has to be authentic and sincere. Its hard in this world today to find authentic love. Can I get some feed back please bcuz its just not easy getting back in the field. Johnathan and Marie you both look great together. I think relationship today needs mutual respect and sincerity. If trust isn't there, there is no foundation and its not love it becomes friends with benefits. I believe that God is love (agape) and the worlds love is greedy and too fleshy.
Sorry t say but you, Jonathan, cut off you partner several times and that was annoying...if you ask a question let the other person fully answer. My experience has been that men do that more than women.. and most noticeably in TV settings where there is one woman and one or more men.
Thank you so much guys. I learnt so much. Wish you both a very compatible long term relationship filled with love, respect and understanding, as you both desire.
Thank you so much!
Great conversation guys, inspiring💚
Glad you enjoyed it!
Just seeing you two together is delightful. I think you are the same emotional & intellectual level. Hold on to each other & God Bless❤
WOW, thank you 😊
Stop interrupting her!!!
I agree with Marie, men holding a fish or photo, either with some poor animal they have shot. Wearing black singlets or no tops on. Or caps back to front.yuk.
Exactly
Very dynamic couple! Congratulations on your successful relationship 💗
Thank you so much!!
She's gorgeous, amazing and retired at 25? What's her secret? I love her openness, you can see her authenticity.
She's a year older than me... not 25 lol 😆
@@JonathonAslay I know. All I'm saying is that she's aging gracefully. A compliment to you both.
Love the conversational dialog. I wish you guys the best!
Awe... thanks ☺️
This was wonderful! Thank you, thank you both.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I've made note of 8 times of you interrupting within 5:23 minutes of watching.......I can't continue watching.... you can see on your face your thinking of what your going to say opposed to listening to her.....🤷♀️
She watched the video and disagrees... she did not feel that way 🙄
So you roll your eyes at your followers. And us woman should follow you? How disappointing
the interrupting was so painful to watch!
2:57 it is interrupting
Love this video! A word about finances and having that important conversation…my advice to anyone who asks and what I say to all (young or otherwise) women I have mentored is this: money is a source of arguments and can be used to control. So when you live with someone whether married OR NOT, keep it fair and simple. Whoever makes the most pays the most. Not always 50/50. Keep a joint bank account to pay bills and one for savings. Have separate accounts for your own personal wants which are for you to use as you choose, no questions asked. This os even more important as we pair up in middle age with assets and holdings we have acquired during our life. Protect yourselves, keep harmony in your life. It works!
As if Marie is a retired grandma!
Jonathon the real tea here should have been Marie’s skincare tips 😉
Great idea!!
botox
I really enjoyed the two of you together sharing your perspectives and seeing your connection which seems very genuine.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I agree...Jon keeps talking over her. Pay attention to yourself. You interrupt. Probably with everybody.
Sorry..sounded mean. You are used to doing the talking. I also have a podcast with my sister. It's called, I am one of eleven. It's about growing up in a big family. We always talked over everyone. There was someone always talking. I should just say, you seemed very happy. Best wishes and God's blessings on your relationship.
Jonathon no disrespect here but i feel you don't allow Marie to finish what she is trying to say.
Noted
I think when it has only been you talking it takes a little time to adjust to someone else being there with you. I know this is unintentiomal.☺
Waiting patiently love will find its own way to find the true love💖
Please don't listen to the negative about this video. You two are awesome together. With the folks saying you took over the conversation, we'll it is show after all. Great points in this video. Gives me hope that I will find my true love someday. ❤️
Thank you so much!
There's no one way to this life otherwise we would all be okay
This was very frustrating to watch. You need to practice listening and let her finish her thoughts without interrupting her so much.
I understand it’s your channel and she’s your guest, but why have her on if you won’t let her speak?
Noted...
I so agree with the I feel safe. This is so needed in a relationship Marie..
Exactly
She is very smart.
Restaurant choice seems such a small issue when compared to the enormity of all the other compatibility issues that have to be hurdled.
Re: “making effort” it seems most people are not getting this concept of what “chasing” vs “making effort” whether in “masculine or feminine energy” means.
Making an effort is not “chasing”.
Exactly Exactly Exactly
16:47 oh i actually wanted to hear her finish the sentence...
Be very Leary of charmers!
There's reciprocity between the two people if it's right and a good fit. Neither puts forth more energy or effort.
You both look great together… if she lets you interrupt her means she accepts you the way you are.. I can feel her positive energy and you’re so excited around her 😂 .. and she is very calm & beautiful ❤
If a woman is into you she will
Tell you about herself only sincere people tell about themselves.. people who want to build something solid. there is nothing wrong with it.
Yes! Thank you!
This is Jonathan's Channel..so he should keep control of the conversation. The same as I when I'm on a call and I'm doing my Interpreting job. If I didn't have control of the call? This person I'm translating to would just Ramble on, and we would lose the structure of the Call!
I agree... 👍🏼
No disrespect, but I think she will get tired of him. She's a strong, confident woman and I can see her forcing herself to bend or subdue herself for him. They are both wonderful individuals, but I doubt this relationship will last long-term.
She doesn't agree...
That’s mean!
Yes she’s very strong,independent assertive woman but she’s not a young woman she’s mature she’s been through a lot with past relationships so she wants to settle down she might be willing to work it
We’ll see about that
Hope them the best
No disrespect intended either. She is very assertive and has her own mind. She will tire of this. I get a vibe from her that it's exhausting and more like an interview. Jonathan is a great guy but this is not a long term match. I want to be honest here.
Time will tell...
…people always break up, every story comes to an end
Interview is a great thing! Interviewing as a word means two people sharing their views, which they are .
Interrogation is not !
People see comments like this as being negative when it’s not.
@@j-tenn226 absolutely, breakup is the part of the process, when people in the ongoing relationship they are in fact preparing for the breakup… new beginning 💋
I just met someone that I had too much in common with and zero chemistry. It was weird.
I like her personality, she's authentic/classic, not a fake person... I know many people are so fake, pretend to be someones they are not :) i am 45 this year and I personally don’t think we have to get married if it’s not for birthing kids. You don’t need a paper to tie each other. 😅
Thank You~🙏
Love Hearing from Both of You on these Great Topics and Content...💞
More to come!
For me living together before marriage or an engagement ring is not an option
I understand
Me too
Everyone is different
You guys are a beautiful couple! Love listening to you guys! Thank you for all the wonderful advice and your vulnerability. You have helped me so much!!
Thank you so much!
If someone said to me, "let's unpack that," over again, I'd want to punch 'em. Seriously?!
Not everyone is a fit for one another...
I hope this video doesn’t end their relationship 😉
She's laughing at some of the comments...
She's going to dump him. This is cringe.
I hate to say it, but I have to agree. It’s very obvious.
@@sittowardi6781 he interrupts her constantly and seems way more into her than she him, almost fussy about her. I feel like his videos are a passive aggressive way of telling women how to be in a relationship with HIM and what HE wants from relationships. It's kinda creepy. How is an aging bachelor in a new relationship with a woman who admittedly doesn't want the same commitment as he does a relationship coach. His strict micromanaging of the relationship and dating interrogation rules would put me off. He seems needy and clingy.
Love you two so much! 💜
This is such helpful insight.
I watched one of Jonathon’s older videos this morning where he was still dating around and hoping to meet someone special. This is magical. ✨✨✨
Thanks for sharing!!
Listening and learning from both of you. Thank you both for being so open and vulnerable to help us out further.
I think you’re a beautiful couple and wish you the best.
Ignore the hate you two. Bring us the love!!
will do, thank you
Sorry but that's nonsensical.
What is?
Marie is such a lovely lady!💛
Jonathan I recommend you finish a sentence instead of starting to make a comment but you never finish the thought you jump to another idea and you never finish that either so your speech does not have a result. And do not repeat yourself, you say the same things over and over again.
Noted
You guys sparkle together. ❤
Awe... thanks
I enjoy both of yall together ❤️
Amazing couple, reasonable advices and Marie is incredibly gorgeous! I really enjoyed the video and wish you guys all the best for your life together :)
Thanks so much!!