Long Distance Relationships: Expectation vs REALITY!
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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick lays out the expectations vs realities of long distance relationships.
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You are correct. Long distance relationships take a lot of work, trust and may not be suitable for everyone. I was in one for about 3 years. We spoke on the phone once a week, saw each other once a month. We’ve been happily married for 26 years so they can work but they can fail easily without clear communication and if one of the parties isn’t as dedicated to the relationship.
Glad everything work out for you. Wonder you could give me advice bout ldr. Like this girl. She likes me too. She mostly answers my questions. There be few she don’t answer. Already spoke to her bout scamming. She said she putting her effort to write me every day. She wouldn’t do that. Why would she waist her time and effort to txt me. You think she be legit? I’m almost 3 months with her.
I met someone online, we spoke hours every day for a year, sent each other gifts, really enjoyed each other. He was in Alaska, I was in Fla. We finally met, I flew there and the reality was awful. Even though he was constantly LOLing all over the place, in person the man never smiled or actually laughed. He was very odd in person, and I was shocked. Needless to say, that was the end for both of us. I don't think he was very happy with me either. Weird huh.
@@mirand0la Thanks for sharing! Wow that sounded so much like with me. Only at the time we didn't have skype or anything like that so it was just email and on the phone; our phone bills were like $700 a month (landline). But we did send pics. There was talk like, "When I see you I will never want to let you go....love"....etc. But in person...no warmth, cold, had to go into work every day, much like your experience. In person, he was like Lurch (Adams Family). I could see if we had only spoken a few weeks/months it would be awkward or something, but this was after speaking for hours every day for little over a year! Maybe it's like personal auras that you can't feel over phone, etc. It just doesn't make any sense.
I have a male friend in Cardiff, Wales who met his now wife online who lived in the US. She relocated, they've been married and have a little girl. So it can work! 👍
trust and effort, and lots of love, maybe money
5% success rate, good thing it worked!
I was in a LDR for 7 years. It was defiantly a "real relationship", and distance wasn't what ended it. It was one of the best relationships I've ever had actually. Did the distance cause issues? Yes. But we also had a lot of fun and were very close. Zero trust issues. We were in different countries too. Me USA-him Canada! You both have to be on the same page, and we were both able to travel and could afford it. We also were older and did not want kids. A LOT does come into play.
The same page exactly that!
In my experience, LDRs aren't worth it unless you regularly see each other in person & there's major effort on both sides. Ultimately, if it's going to be a real relationship, not just over texts, calls & video calls, someone, or both have to move. If the other person isn't aware of this truth, it's time to say 'Next!" as you're just wasting your own time, energy & emotion.
I'm in the military and I've noticed the LDR's I attempted to create fizzle out within a two week to three month period...🤔 FACTS... Most Men don't want to make the effort & time any relationship deserves... Honestly, dating is EXTREMELY frustrating 😤 😒...So, I'll shift my focus in achieving additional professional goals...🤩🙏🏽
LDRs do have all these things that Ryan is talking about, but it also helps you concentrate on each other goals and how you guys minds align, your guys' logic styles and work on things which is so important. I find we make such advances in our emotional closeness because we can't "sex it better" that usually is a temptation when you live close to your partner, we actually talk it out, and he even commonly brings things up before I do, like a responsible partner. It really depends on the partner you choose if they are right for you. My Fiance and I met LDR as friends who'd phone call for hours about philosophy and psychology. We are stronger than ever even a year in, due to border closures (that have lasted a year now) and it recently opening for LDRs we decided to work on merging our lives and working on ourselves and finances, all things that people my age usually don't think about. So I feel very secure in what long distance has given me, and it has tested my ability to stop temptations as well and built my confidence in that.
Me & my boyfriend have faced the struggles of a long distance relationship but have truly figured out a system that works for us. Yes it’s a financial investment as well as an emotional one. But living everyday a day at a time rather than stressing about weeks and months of our life. Remember that there may be a time where you give 80-20 and 20-80, but in the end it’s not a game with a scoreboard, love unconditionally & give what you’re capable of giving, it will be reciprocated! My boyfriend & I are planning to get married this October! ❤️
Congrats.
My Austrian friend met a French guy on some volunteering project. After that they started LDR, it lasted for a year or so. Then he entered the university in Vienna where she lives, relocated and they’ve been together for a few years already. So it can work if both truly want it!
LDRs can def work esp. if both ppl are independent. Yes, at some point a person has to move. When it comes to love, ppl can find a way. I don't discourage any situation when there's an amazing connection between 2 ppl. Also it's a more effective opportunity to get to know each other before intimacy is involved. TY for your vids Ryan!
One of my friends met his wife on Eharmony. He was here in the US and she was in Japan. They talked online and then visited each other and now they have been happily married for 6 years. So I believe that it can work for some people and not work for some people. It just depends
Most, if not all, of the points made go for short distance relationships (sdr) as well. For example, two local people could date just to wait 5 years to throw beer bottles at each other. The _distance is not the main problem_ , the lack of communication, commitment, and collaboration causes relationships to fail. Long distance relationships (ldr) are harder, in the sense, when you want to touch the person and they aren't around, but when a person really cares they text back as soon as they can.
I had multiple long and short distance relationships, the sdr failed due to the lack of respect like listening and the some of the ldr failed due to the lack of commitment. Healthy relationships aren't for anyone, each one is different and takes time and work. If you learn from your mistakes, then congrats you have a chance. Although, I am in a ldr at the moment, this video helped me realize why my relationship is working better than the others.
Whether other people like the online non face to face setting, that is where the world is going and they could evolve, let it burry them, or work around it. Relationships must feel right for you and them. If the vibe is off it's off, if it's on it's on. The 2 WARNINGs I would give for a ldr is that you don't really know who is behind the screen and if your partner tries to get you to come to their country they may try to trap you there. In sdr, people get fooled all the time with a person's looks. For a relationship to work, you must be smart about it looking at every detail.
I honestly have to admit...my sweetheart is an over the road semi driver. LDR is a must for his line of work and we work out great. I'm independent and have my own job and I also take care of our children. Even before we were housemates we courted for months and he was still otr driving. He even made me a priority even when I moved states due to covid issues. He finally proposed to me on Hallows Eve 2020. We are going to be married Hallows Eve 2021. He watched me from afar for 13yrs and just finally got the courage to ask me.
Congratulations 🎈🎊🎉🍾 I am so happy your story is unfolding so beautifully. ENJOY! 💕
Lol I’m in two. One guy I’ve been speaking with for 9 weeks. He lives 8 hours away. He’s great guy. He’s emotionally attached, we have much in common, he’s frustrated by the distance and really wants to see me. Our first initial talking turned into what is now.
Second guy we’ve been talking for 5 weeks. I told him I’m coming to see him in Ormond beach b/c where I live is boring and I want to be at the beach. We live two hours apart. He wants to see me all the time. I invited him on a mini vacation with my friends to Clearwater beach this weekend. He said yes. He also said I’ll book whatever you want.
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So accurate! Wish I had heard all of this before my first LDR. I experienced 1-5 and it fizzled at 6 with Distance Deadline vs Distance Status Quo with some resentment from #7 sprinkled in. It’s ok, I learned what I didn’t want, which is just as important as knowing what you do want! Thanks for breaking it down Ryan and always keeping it real!
Ryan Patrick would go craaazy if I told him my 6 month situation with a guy living in Australia whom I have never met, it's literally been UPs and DOWNs, tears and just... confusing drama. But... we are now talking again... like he went from saying that he doesn't wanna lead me on because of the distance to now saying that we might meet. Hence how I have found your channel.
(I'm A FEMALE) I was in a 6 mo LDR 2000 mile difference before we met. We texted every morning and video chatted every Monday night. He came to my city. There is no substitute for face to face, and I realized that I had no romantic feelings for the guy. He was all in, and I hurt him terribly when I broke up with him.
Nope, with a name like Steven(short for Steven), you are a man! Simple as!
@@sweetlikechocolate437, please don't judge, I'm a widow and I'm using my late husband's computer and I can't figure how to change the name.
Thank you. This has helped me to feel secure in my ldr, while making me aware of some issues. When you find the right one even distance feels like obstacle that can be overcome!
For years I sought out LDRs 🙄 And i now know it was because I was terrified of having an actual relationship that could UNFOLD healthily. I literally do not know how 2 people who live in the same neighborhood date hahahah! I no longer do this because I think I’m ready for something real and ready to meet someone I CAN DO THINGS WITH regularly🙏🏾
Thank you for this video Mr Patrick. It helped me see how far I’ve come and is something I will come back to when I feel the pull of the LDR.... 😂😂😂💜
Holle 🙏🙏
This was very helpful. The texting guy I mentioned with another of your videos lives maybe 2 hours away in the same state. We'd made plans on at least two occasions for him to come down to meet me (he has an office in a town near me) and it hasn't panned out. Something always came up at the last minute. I didn't say anything and don't really pay any attention to him anymore. I'd already stated that if a person can't commit to just meeting in the first place, then there's not going to be any real commitment from them at all. I'm not here to waste my time. Done way too much of that with guys in the past.
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I’m in a LDR but we were friends for 11 years before we got together. He’s a pilot car driver for oversized loads and is long haul so he’s basically a long haul truck driver on the road for work. We already have our bond and love
thank you Ryan
I felt this video was for me!!😅😅Thanks Ryan😊😊🙏
Omg I needed this thanks!!!
This is totally my situation right now, and I definitely needed to hear all of these points Ryan, especially from #6 onward since my LDR has been a lengthy one. For me, it's definitely that early-on sense of determination ("I'm DEFINITELY moving to him!") slowwwwwly deteriorating into hopelessness ("there's no way I can afford a massive move, visa fees, finding a new place?!" and on and on...) that has left me feeling very empty in the commitment I'm currently in. I've not had the courage to face the truth of my changing feelings because it feels like just circumstances, when I truly am in love with the man I'm in the relationship with. But the US (me) is a long way from England. And it does feel longer every day. Thanks for the great vid as always Ryan, and from experience, think carefully before diving into an LDR everyone. =/
I feel you .. my gf and me are from diff countries and we re both doctors . Its not easy to move on but i love her u know ..
@@fatmaezzahra5239 How are you doing
i am needing this!!
I have a crush on this guy that lives 7 000miles away from me 😭. we talk everyday, vdc etc but damn. someone buy me a plane ticket 😂
I have been in a long distance relationship before and it didn't work. He was supposed to relocate to my country. I'm also currently talking to someone who lives on the other side of the world literally. That's because there aren't any attractive men in my local area at all! Sometimes you can't help where the men live. Can't wait for international borders to reopen!! 😁 It is challenging but not impossible!!
Same I’m on Puerto Rico my guy is in South Africa💀✋
lol my ldr bf doesn’t talk to me much anymore, i told him to do and he’s like ur too needy. and now he’s ignored me for a whole day and it’s killing me so i guess i have to move on. i’m sick of begging him for attention
Sounds like he has a touch of being a narcissist.
geri mitchell funny thing is everyone keeps saying that but i tested him, and turns out he’s not narc. i think he’s just a fboy
@@mizzcrazygal you have meet face to face? I didn't think I was talking to one either. But, there was a test I read about and another I did my self. The first one was I wrote a text screenshotted it, Erased it and sent him the picture. The 2nd test was one I got off a narcissist support group. Say something about your self. Like you have to have some kind of test. See if he responds about what is going on in your life or changes the subject. So I did. He changed the subject and I told him I wrote the email and then erased it. He told me never to talk to him again and I told him okay.
@@gerimitchell5066 hey i think ur right omg. my mom got cancer and i told him he said its okay dont think negative but when i told my other friend he really got sad, he was like wow im shocked i dont even know wat to say. and tbh hes not bothered about my life, thats wat started all this break up. he never asked about me, how my life was going etc it was always about him and i asked him to talk about me more and he disappeared said i was causing drama.
@@mizzcrazygal did you ever meet him face to face? Narcissist has no empathy for No One but themselves. When I was talking to him if it was about me same thing you got. They love bomb you right at the start to make you think they care. But, you did the test when you told him about your mom. I don't know when he stopped talking to you but, in about 3 weeks if you haven't heard from him he will text you again. It's how they get control. I was sick and when the person I was talking to started in on me that's when I let him know about the fake email. And, he stopped talking to me right before Thanksgiving. He is back trying to talk to me. But, because I learned so much about narcissist. His games don't work. If you Google narcissist you will also find a workshop that can help you if that's what you're dealing with. It makes you feel like your heart is breaking but not really that's their game.
I was in a relationship with a guy living in a city next to mine(1 hr speed train ride away), because of his busy schedule I usually visited him more than the other way around. Then he went back to his country and Covid hit... we've been separated for over a year now. I started seeing someone I became very fond of locally during that time. But now since covid is slowing down, I've been trying to patch things up with the former guy and have been waiting for his return. But considering the time apart and resuming LDR even after he comes back, I feel discouraged and honestly, I stopped feeling so strongly about our future.
I'm currently talking to a guy that I initially had plans to become serious down the line. He found out a few weeks ago that he's being relocated to California in July for work. We both currently reside in Michigan. We're continuing our talking stage with the future of our relationship completely up in the air. I'm a little worried my feelings will develop too strong for someone who is starting a new phase of their life on the other side of the country.
LOL the thumbnail is brutally honest and troll worthy, I accept your rational already lol
This video has been posted the same day I started a LDR and now I'm a bit scared but you know what, if there is that commitment and trust/honesty I feel it's possible, let's see how it goes. Even tho it could end somehow I wouldn't feel it as a waste of time.
My first relationship started as a LDR and then he moved to my town and I moved in with him for about 4 years and then I moved away even further then in the begining and after a couple of months we broke apart. But the relationship was starting to get bad even before I moved. Next relationship was a LDR from the start and we met a couple of times when I visited my parent but that guy was weird the whole 1,5 years.
Need to add that you can grow apart from each other even if you live together though
I don't even date someone who lives across the bridge and tunnel LOL
Hahahaha!
LDR does not seem very satisfying for either party.
Ok, ok.
That's what exactly happened to me, I mean literally all the steps. Maybe except that giving money to the guy part.
LDR is such a big lie we tell ourselves.
I'm all about getting straight-shooting truth! Thanks so much Ryan. I can vouch for #4.
I was seeing someone how live about 2 hours away we did start seeing each other every other week then it slowly slowed down calls become less txts less so I don't think it works LDR and the novelty does wear off
my guy & I are 7 hours away from each other, we see each other every couple of months. It is very passionate when we are able to be together, we also have those intimate moments. I believe 2 things have helped us stay connected, 1) we know each other, We dated in our 20s. It was at our high school reunion, we met up again. Pretty much picked up where we left off. 2) due to Covid - I now work from home & take my lap top to work anywhere. When I go to his place, I'm able to stay longer than just a weekend. which gives us more time to connect. yes, the expectations versus reality doesn't make it easy ,
Wow, I appreciate this objective look at LDRs, Ryan. Right now I've been chatting with a dude who lives almost 2,000 miles away from me. I am very skeptical, though, about any future with him. I'm also seeking other guys to date who are LOCAL. I live in an area with 3 million people in it. There has to be somebody here who's single and RIGHT for me. Also, I'm not rich enough to go visit him. He'd have to come see me.
He needed to make a 6 year commitment to a program and was not trying to make plans to see each other, chat, or talk even before the pandemic hit. Needless to say, I ended after three months.
My boyfriend and I are long distance. He is in the military and we met when he was in my state for training last year through covid, but was to be stationed to another state. We’ve both realised quickly with travel even interstate challenging and also adding the military into it that we’re not seeing each other much as we’d like because of life. Ive made the decision to move interstate so we can be together and will be moving at the end of the year. Not something I would have signed up for initially but we have a clear end date to when distance won’t be an issue and we can have other ‘problems’ 🤣
1 to 3 hours drive?! 🤣🤣🤣 I wish!!! It's more like a 2 day plane trip!
Ryan Patrick, could you make a video on interracial couples advice? Such as meeting the parents etc. Idk if you have experience in coaching that but I'm just putting it out there. My parents are somewhat immigrants (where I grew up we didn't have the race that my fiance is) I'm a bit of a type A personality so I want try to do it as best I can to make sure we can have my parents see him for him and not as someone who they don't know or are used to who is coming to take their daughter away lol😂
It is hard enough as it is. Whilst i agree with all the points raised, there are equally positive points from LDR. It all depends on the maturity + patience level of each couple AND a definite end date to LDR.
Great content
Not flying because of covid restrictions and not driving for multiple hours because gas prices are going up. LDR are just not worth it at this point
If you're not able to MOVE...don't even begin.
Yeah....had this. You are dead on ryan....broke my ❤, killed my soul, its fresh and painful.
Sorry dont agree... different countries.. have met ..its been 6 years going strong!!..
Good stuff
Hi Ryan, can you do a video of what men expect out of a women in the “limbo stage” of a relationship? Like that awkward and anxious stage between the first date and being “officially” boyfriend and girlfriend? If y’all both like each other and make it apparent as you continue to see eachother, but are still technically “single” do you still go on dates during this? What is an appropriate time frame this stage should last? Do you still act and appear “single” during this stage even if you don’t want to in fear that at this stage, there’s a high risk of it going no where?
I am in a sitituation with a guy and how am I supposed to say goodbye to him . While during this pandemic . When everything reopens and when the in person dance comes back . I don’t know how to say good bye to him and I don’t want to break his heart I still want him to be apart of my life . But how can I make that happen . what is your Advice for me and how to do it when that day comes ?
I was in a 5 years long LDR. Which wasn't LDR from the beginning but became one because I moved. I really don't recommend it! Unless u're willing to move for the other person or wise versa in the next 6 months! it just doesn't worth the hassle
I'm currently in an LDR for the past 4 months and I actually like the gradual build-up and pace of my relationship with my Dutchie because if he was here in my country, it might move too soon, too fast and would fizzle out quickly. A lot of my relationships kind of start out that way (including the one with my ex-husband) and this distance has made me crave the intimacy but also made me more objective. At least I'm able to have long chats everyday and long calls every now and then with him and still enjoy my life here at home. Sure, covid pushed us into having relationships like these but it can work as long as you're up to it. We may not have that many big plans but I have to refute your number 1 on the list: he does want to be the one to come here and has not asked me once to be the one to go to NL to see him for the first time.
@@TonyMontana-yi8vw Hi. I didn't lose my lover/bf - we are still together but we just have a long distance relationship
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Very helpful for me Dear Ryan👍🏼✌🏼😀😂🤣🙏🏻✌🏼🙏🏻🕉️ Namaste
he doesn't give so much effort and it's stressing me out 😁😁😁
I've had a "LDR" before a few times with the same guy... everytime I find myself single I find myself hitting him up again though I live in UK & he in USA but he seems to always be too busy for me & then I move on & he acts like he's hurt so we don't talk for ages... then same thing happens all over again... it's tiring but think of we both didn't have kids from different relationships we'd of met IRL & 1 of us would have moved TBH... he's a REALLY sweet guy TBF to him xx
Mine is 6 hours away. Has custody of his kids every second weekend and works every second weekend. I work 65 hours in 5 days. Weekends are housework and yardwork. I drive a 80 tonne truck so I like to be not driving on my time home.
I talked with a guy for a few months. An hour away from me. He wanted to wait 8 more months to meet until he got his stuff together. He kept wanting me to come by him. I suggested a place halfway and he never responded to that. I gave up eventually. Why would he want me to stay when his life isn't together? bye
WOW! Long time no see, Alexa! How ya been? 😃
I never have any relationship😅 why am I here?
Me too lovey...and I've been single for 10 years!!
I have a question that does not apply to this situation I am in . How do I tell a guy that is from my hometown that I am not seeing someone . But how do I tell him that I am not interested in him we both made it clear that it won’t happen . We’re just friends that’s what I think we are .
Any tips for Military LDRs?
Well. Long distance relationship, ldr. I have several because I am Chinese who from Taiwan. I have relatives from Taiwan and I am live in United States. I have Line, WhatsApp, and Google Hangout. I have a cousin in Taiwan who talk on Line every now and then. Another one cousin who talk to me on my Facebook.
I know how do ldr work. And I see your video is very helpful.
But how can I do it the right way without hurting him ?
l talked to the guy l match on tinder on Christmas day 2020 till now we never met yet he is live 2 hr away and covid lockdown 😢
Couldn't do it , need to be really strong emotionally when you leave them
I’m in a long distance relationship because my boyfriend is in the military. It’s hard but worth it. We mainly text each other and see each other when we can. It does help having a set or relative date to see them again.
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The only sstisfaction I get from ldr is to keep them occupied from scaming someone else
I married my LDR. We split because of other issues, and not the LDR. It can work, especially if you both agree and realise that what you have is special. A meeting of minds and values is rare. It takes work though and the advice given by you Ryan is definitely valid.
Hi I'm in a long distance friendship with a guy and we haven't met yet. We have only had one phone call and that was many months ago. I have tried to have more phonec call conversation and a video call but he always says that he is busy on the day when we are about to call. I'm the one who always starts a texting conversation and he does text me back right away. I'm trying my best to be his friend but should I just let him go? I feel bad when thinking of doing that. What should I do in a situation like this?
People will often make time for what they deem important. Believe me, if a guy wants to do something he will. He will call you everyday if he wanted to and initiate conversations. You shouldn’t be the only one initiating a conversation because he’ll use that against you. He will make it seem like you’re obsessed with him.
@@lamerdex Thank you for your answer.🙂
How to convince someone who has been "brainwashed" by a romance scam that they are being betrayed and fooled?
@Silver & Cold Yes of course, but how? When they have already been brainwashed and have already transferred money and won't listen to any reason...
Yes I'm dating someone long-distance never met him he was stationed in New York she said the peace corpse he's like part of the army and he went to Africa we've been texting over 3 years his mom lives in Wisconsin and did receive a letter from her and talk to her and he still in Africa because he is saying his taxes are high and he has to pay for it before he comes home
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I'm dealing with this right now we been talking for couple weeks he is coming from GA to VA the 18th to see me. But he already talking about sex and how much he wants me. So now I'm turn off. What should I do guys? Just give it a chance and enjoy the sex ? Lol I met him on tender. We have good convos video chat etc tho
My guy is a truck driver so is all over the place. We either meet halfway or one time he paid airfare.
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I need help my baby dad just left me Saturday night we been together for 8 years but we broken up few time because he did something dumb he get mean one night and scary me and my daughter he grab the brick and hit the car and my big sister kick him out of the house that was first time we broken up then few months later I try to make work for my daughter but I guess I never get over it and he said I keep blame him n atfer that y
Two months ago he ask to be friends I ask why I said are you cheat on me and then when he come to my house I ask him again he said we talk about it it was in the past I don't know what mean and last week he was miss me and he said he wanted sex I said with who n then atfer he never answered his phone his call him and Saturday he pick up and he hung up on her I claim down before I text him and ask why and he said he we need to talk and he went to be friends and I said why I said you been cheated on me and I said how long and said umm at first and then he said not long and I said that you been cheated on me he said if you put that way
He wants to come move here we wanna plan to live where I am. But eventually I'll move to the states for awhile :) just so I can be around his family too and they can meet me. I love the good ol boy in him as he seems sweet and caring. I want to be a part of that.
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I don’t even date someone that lives in my hometown....oh wait...my hometown’s trash.
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Ryan, why is it that guys expect you to go to them? And why do women go along with it?
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I was in a three-year long-distance relationship he moved in with me and then decided to move back to Boston he change personality and started hanging out with bad people selling drugs and completely distancing himself from me we broke up and recently started getting back together but his distance remain he’s being very cold left me confused angry and like I’m wasting my time he would never tell me what he wanted he always said he didn’t know what it never wanted to hear me talk about other men about dating other people it was off-limits. He would go all day and not call or text me he would always send text saying I’ll call you in a minute but it would be hours later Why is this so hard for me to walk away from this bad energy in uneven relationship
Hello Ryan, do have a social media? I really need to speak to you in private because I have an important questions about my lover.
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He is indeed a problem solver
I was dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months before corona. Then he was asked to work from home, so he subleased his apartment and moved back in with his mom 600 miles away from me. He was stopping texting a couple months in, started being rude until he ghosted me 4 months ago... He used to be so much in love with me and was supposed to return at the end of March.
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@@dw9658 Yes 😭 I still want to meet him, I was living my life dreaming of running in his arms. I have no idea what happened. We were so happy together.
@@redrose9145 yes been there. Waited 8 months to meet and he showed up not even showered. It was still incredibly hard to release myself from him after being so astronomically disrespected. Still miss the idea of him and me I had. Is hard but you can do it. ❤❤❤❤
@@dw9658 I'm so sorry about that.
I keep searching for articles about his company having their employees returned... I haven't seen him in a year. I'm sure he wouldn't be all cold if I just appeared in front of him.
@@redrose9145 I'm sorry. Idk what to tell you. The reason I'm always on Ryan's channel. 😪❤
Don't Believe in long distance.
Maybe it just me, I prefer long distance relationship. For some reason, I don't need to see or go on date with them all the time, we dont need to chat or calls all time either 🤷🏾♀️ (been on ldr for 4 yrs and met 5 times, 2 yrs & met 6 times I prefer it that way both are island miles away from me) I just find it more convenient for myself. It doesn't mean I can go cheat or meet with guys. I'm introvert person and too lazy to go out with ldr I have no excuse if I'm tooo lazy to go out on a date lol