This Is How Men TEST You
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick answers the question "is he testing you" by identifying 4 ways relationship-ready men and 4 ways relationship red-flag men go about sizing you up. This is how men test you with their guy tests.
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Guy called to cancel the date two hours before because he wasn’t feeling it and tried to make me reschedule with him for the next day. I told him I was busy. He said “all right I guess tonight it is”.. I called it off because I felt like I was being manipulated.
Boo! That’s terrible, Jess 😕 Sorry to hear that... NEXT! 👉👉👉
@@datingcoachryanpatrick at least you affirmed my suspicions with your episode and gave me some good advice for next time.
Yep
Yeah that's too much
Wow, what a way to make you feel like a burden. What a jerk 🙄. Good job calling it off, the audacity of some men!
postponing sex is not for the passing men's-test-for-respectability, it is for a woman to get to know a man better before committing any intercourse
You're right, Lena. It's just part of the larger picture indeed 😉
1, I have never cheated on any man that I am trying to get to know and have a relationship with. I am devoted to them only. I want him to know that he is the one. I don't have wandering eyes.
2, I do what a man asks of me to show him that he can depend on my help if he needs it,just like I would with him. Only if it is not to overboard.
3, I've always stood up for myself, I've had to do it many times. I have also stood up for a man when he is not around when people start talking him down. Those people don't know him like I do, even if the relationship is new.
4,The things I like to do are simple things, If I'm not working crazy long hours that I am now.
I have always been a people person, I can talk to anyone, I had to have these skills in order to be a manager of a moblie home community with over 300 residents.
Right now during time of civic 19, it's hard to do the things I like to do.
One thing I absolutely love to do is sing, I sing all the time, I come from a family of musicians, I have received standing ovations for my singing. Its a great feeling. If a man don't know me well enough yet, or what I like, I might seem a little crazy.
You’re right, it’s not for men’s test for respectability. But, your assumption is that women are waiting (for some reason). I want to check out sexual compatibility before going much further. If it’s not there, it never will be. Btw, now in a committed relationship.
So true....know the signs of a player, user, no matter what age they are, and let them continue to walk on by....
I see it as a red flag anytime a man says he is loyal. Don't say the words, show me in your actions....
I showed my boyfriend this video and he immediately outlined how he gave me these 4 tests early on. So we can attest this list is legitimate.
how did u test him
Updates?
Which4?
Another good way to know if a guy has good intentions is if he calls you by your name instead of "baby" or something like that off the bat. If he doesnt say your name at all then he is not into you.
🥺he's been calling me babe for 6 months rn
@@gretastarrr 6 months?! Time to be in a relationship!!!
one guy kept calling me "girl," I thought if he says it one more time......
Oh my "favorite " is the "Hey yoou"🙄
This is GOLD! So obvious, but really good advice!!
Everytime Ryan says his intro "I've got all that coming up for you, right now!", my hearts starts racing for a few seconds because i'm about to find out the possible reasons for my latest fuckups again. Thank you so much for your videos.
Same! Hahahaha
Too funny! I feel ya, girl. Same
Hahahah I died literally 😂
🤣🤣
Same.. Hahaha I feel you
I could've saved myself a lot of heartbreak if I had seen this video years ago. I'm gonna stop accepting the overt sexual innuendos just to date someone who ends up ghosting me anyway.
I could teach this myself! The key is to love yourself and spend time with yourself and build your own life. It teaches you who you are, what you like and don't like and most of all what you expect or will accept from others. The key is to need nothing from anyone else. Anything you gain outside of that is purely a bonus. Happy dating everyone and remember these are life's lessons and we can only gain from them ❤
Lisa Day thanks I needed this : ) wise words, I need to learn a few things and definitely learn to love myself more ❤️
So true
I need this because these guys be testing rn 😂
Indeed they are, Krisha. The more secure guys, not as much 😉
Me too. I need help. He just met me, he's telling me "love u b" and making wife statements. He told me about all his exes and wanted to talk to my parents the first time he called me. I just don't know what to do😅😅😅
Please help
@@ninafrederick6048 girl that guy is love bombing you. run quick, don't give him power or control over you
@@loveshishamisooo 😱😱😱😱 my ma is meeting him tomorrow 😭😭😭😭
@@ninafrederick6048 - Nina - he might be a Narcassist- there are many types. What he is doing is called 'Future Faking.' Don't get fooled, these are very manipulative, horrid people. Check out Dr. Les Carter 'Surviving Narcassism' & Dr. Ramani - both are excellent & both on youtube.
I wonder why this video showed up in my recommendations. I no longer date or even actively looking for a man/mate. I gave up a long time ago. Women work on being the best you, you can be. Be happy with your life and LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST.
I'm sorry to hear you gave up on men altogether. Maybe it was the universe (or the YT algorithm) saying let's get you back out there 🙂
I find myself watching some of these videos retroactively slapping my own forehead. “Ooohhh, THAT’S what the eff that was!” Good hindsight makes for better foresight, lol. 🙏🏼❤️
Haha indeed! 😄
This!!
I find it highly a turn off when a guy gets to you know right away he says “come over” like yeah that’s what I’m going to do why do guys think it’s okey to talk to a girl this way
Yes!! It’s disrespectful and lazy!!
Yeah come over so I don't have to lift a finger... 🙄
@@datingcoachryanpatrick exactly can’t stress this enough 🙄😬
This happened to last Friday night. He asked me to come over. At 3am !!!!
Preach. I tell them to F off when they hit me up after 12 and ain’t say nothing all day and act like they don’t give a F.
He literally tested my sex boundaries! We're not dating tho, but both of us confessed that we are interested in each other but we just don't have the time to invest on each other for dating rn. When I told him I am not going to act on my attraction to him and need emotional bond before sex, I feel like his respect for me increased. He looks after me, opens up to me and just behaves with respect around me.
How are things going since ?
Yooo Lowkey I’ve had guys test me on all of those but I unintentionally ended up psychoanalyzing them instead.... they wanted to test me but they ended telling me more about themselves than they intended. Let’s just say that it never got to a meet up and I unmatched
NEXT! 👉👉👉
Eh I’m too lazy to be doing any tests. I think imma just keep to myself and stay single
sometimes we pass the test naturally when its truely a match
Good idea these days girlfriend!
That’s a lie
Totally stay to myself been alone , not even a date, for 4 year's now. I'm tired.
The thing I like about Ryan is that I feel like he doesn't try to lure us in for his content....I feel like his videos are soooo free for us....its not hyped up with drama to suck you in (even if its true). He keeps it simple. Love it.
I wish I found your channel when I was in high school!!! I literally could have prevented wasting my time on guys or even being able to look at the red flags !!
One guy I was talking to told me to "Shut up," as like a joke. He did it again, and again like he thought I found it hilarious or something, until I shut it down. My only regret is not calling him out on it the first time. Oh, and if you're wondering he's blocked!! I really don't have the patience to tolerate being provoked and having my guard up all the time.
Same. I block when they start the provoking thing again n again.
This happened to me a few weeks ago so I thought I'd share and give you some entertainment. This guy was staring at me at the gas station. He came up to my car told me how beautiful I was and wanted my number and told me how good in bed he was. I said good for you. I'm just here to get a drink. He asked if I would buy him a drink. I said I would if he would forget getting my number. He followed me in, I got him a tea and went back out to my car. He said I bet your good in bed too. I said you never know. He then said maybe you could help me out I just got out of jail and am homeless. I said you need to work on your game a bit and if you want all that from someone maybe you should ask them their name first and drove away. Some people.
But he DID get what he wanted!
You bought him a drink.
@@rpmcmurphey927 Assuming a drink was all he wanted. It sounds like he thought he could fenagle that into a place to stay maybe.
@@stormchylde3999
Yes, so he scored 50% with a drink, but no bed-
That's still a 1/2 score, for him-
@@rpmcmurphey927 True, but I still think OP's point stands, which is he needs to up his game if he's going for all that, and not even asking someone's name is a big tip off to not being serious about wanting to talk to them to actually get to know them.
I find that when I put the sex boundary and put it off, guys just SCATTTER! Of course, I understand that then they're probably not the people I want to be with but it sure is hard to find relationship men
I feel you, girl. I always say that I want to wait until its exclusive and the wrong ones will just walk away. But its good for me
@@lunagrossen9623 Yes same same!! They just don't want to wait but it's okay, WE WILL BOTH FIND THE RIGHT PERSON!
Yeap, same here girl. Anytime I tell a guy I don't have sex with him until we're exclusive and in a relationship, they run off! I see that as a good thing: that tells me what their intentions were and saves me having to deal with nonsense later on. It's sad most men refuse to wait anymore
@@amyjohnson2720 Yea!!! It's hard to find men that wants to wait. But you know what, I 'm glad we are sticking to our standards and boundaries. I know in the past, I would bend my standards for a guy. I have stopped doing that
Same here. We have to acknowledge we are worth the wait, it may be hard but it will be worth it.
Can't wait for the crappy guy lines vid! This one has such great advice Ryan. One of the things I love about your vids is how encouraging you are toward us to move past our self-esteem issues and keep our standards high. It's always such a nice, reinforcing message to start the week with! Thanks Ryan!
Coming soon! I shot it not too long ago, so I hope it turns out the way I'm hoping. Thanks, Lauren!! I appreciate your kind words and hope you find crappy guy lines entertaining! 😁
OK sir new follower you’ve been popping up on my newsfeed I’m a give you a shot! Seems like you have a lot of great information to help ladies like I myself out.
Ur literally right about everything! Ur my fav relationship coach! Accurate AF!💕💯
Sooooo good! I’ve been needing to hear these! Thanks!
Any time! 🙏
"If things start like this, they only get worse." That is SO true. I WISH I knew this as a teenager because I was taught by my parents, especially my MOM, to "just let it go."
Same here. I was taught by my narcissistic mother there is always something wrong with me, never with others (even when I was bullied at school) and later on she always said that I shouldn't have too high expectation about men, nobody is perfect. So I learnt to ignore red flags. Even if I felt deep inside - there is something wrong, tried convince myself that I should give him a chance and don't judge too quickly as I don't really know him yet etc. Always made excused for their inconsistent behaviour, feeling anxious and uncertain all the time. So went for toxic relationships with guys who constantly played with me some mind games.
I had a guy do all these... I stood up but each time he backed down he later got worse and the deeper I was in the worse he got. It's useless standing up to these men, you need to leave them to their games.
Ryan, I love how you explain the psychological perspective from both men and women. I was wondering if you could do a video or share your thoughts on friends with benefits from both sides, do's and don'ts, what to do when one side wants to keep the friends but lose the benefits etc. Look forward to seeing a video or hearing your thoughts. Keep up the fabulous work, you're adorable.
@Spooky Spectre I have a FWB that became my best friend. We've been seeing each other 4 years now. And yeah I did catch feelings but I also have come to accept that he won't (and we've had honest conversations about it). I just decided to appreciate what we have and not what we don't. However, it only works because he's not getting in the way of me finding someone else and vice versa...and because we're both pretty unusual people.
Just LOVE your delivery! Keep up the good work!
Thanks for reminders! Very helpful
I subscribed. This guy has some good advice but he also has advice that if you follow and don’t go with your gut and your situation you could ruin a really good thing. For instance I was taking in his advice that my boyfriend of neatly 2 years is shy reserved doesn’t communicate his feelings well etc-- and this guy says he will cheat with a stranger due to attachment issues. Well it would be awful just to assume my guy will cheat so take the good advice and take this all but assume your man is good and has good intentions. Don’t assume he’s out to do you wrong otherwise you’ll be on the defense and you won’t give in the relationship
A man deserves attention devotion deserves Back rubs and love and the assumption that he will be loyal. Again lots of good advice but be open and don’t hesitate to always think the best and be the best for him
Guys need love too 🥰
Hmm I appreciate you subscribing Lindsay (first off), but I feel you may have missed some of my larger points. I don't believe I said anything in this video that stated that you should assume men are out to do you wrong... or that guys will cheat on you with a stranger due to attachment issues. Is that me you're saying who said those things? 🤔
I always enjoy your videos Ryan! Thank you! 💕
these videos are a big help to me gives me hope for 2021,I low esteem and don't have much confidence atm need to value myself more before a guy will. Next year gonna be different I can feel it : )
He’s wearing his hat backwards. I can’t take him seriously
Seriously. never, ever, ever.
Ye. Corny
This is an awesome video! Great points i will need to watch!
Unpolished out of the gate😂😂..damn..i missed alot lol..am here to binge watch these videos😂😂😂
I’m new to this channel. Love your videos as I’m learning a lot! Have you made a video of What guys tell girls they want to hear and why they do that!
I’ve heard that phrase a lot in the past and curious of what the motive is. Thank you!
Always the best advice!!
Love your videos! Informative yet hilarious; you are the best!
I loved this video, you are on point on every topic !
Thanks for this, very nice advice. So yeah, I walked away, don't want to waste to my time if he's not ready to have a serious relationship. 😊
Exactly! 👌
Well.... that was kind of simple. And good. Thanks. I’m following.
He actually tested me! I did not even realise. Glad that I followed my morals and principles.
Your voice is so soothing. New fan here! 😂
So great. Thank you!
Thank you Ryan 😘
Really helpful 👌
You’re welcome 😊
Just wanna say thanks. I'm watching your videos for my stories.
I'm not a expert on guys but I don't think any decent guy should test you
They all do through normal conversation. We do too. It's called "dating."
All decent guys will test you to see if you are competent enough to be their partner.
@@kaitlinmarcus I’ve never dated
Thanks for this video.
Sooooo good! 🙌🏼
Thank you, great tips.
Hi Ryan. I remember that my last boyfriend, early on in the relationship, on two separate occasions asked me while we were just hanging out and watching TV "did you fart?"... 😳. Obviously - I didn't. I don't think he did either. There was no odd smell or anything. The question was totally out of context. I was surprised and taken aback but I never called him on it, I always just said "no" casually and carried on as if nothing happened. This relationship was not a very good one, and unfortunately I let it go on for way too long (years).
I realize now some of the small mistakes I've made along the way. One of them being not stopping everything and calling him on the inappropriate questions.
Seeing your video now makes me wonder: was this one of his tests for me?
Do guys test girls subconsciously sometimes?
Thanks for the video. 🙏
True! The first time I was talking to a guy he called me “ babe “ this word it’s too intimate so I said I didn’t like it etc... and he stopped and continued to talk to me
Great info, Ryan:)!
I don't know how or why Ryan's videos popped up but I'm so very happy he did!
I'm 65, married and may I just say, Ryan you are absolutely spot on with your advice and expertise! The bonus is: you are so funny, do you know how funny you are? I laugh out loud!
Between you facial expressions and your one liners, I can't wait to watch all your videos.
Aww what a sweet comment 🥰
Got a first date tonight. So this is useful
Great content and points Ryan. 💙
Thanks Khushi! 🤗
Love this video!!
See I can do this but it's so tiresome really. I'll tell you guys the tests I got.
1. Broken car go to unsafe place via uber for late night date.
2. Show me pics of yourself
3. Oh I forgot about our date.... how about tonight.
4. Inappropriate jokes
My response " it was great getting to know you. I wish you all the best " 🤗
They'll then text " What? " then call a bunch because you were so eager before or think you're joking but then you dont respond. Looooooooots / majority back track. Men dont like to lose
If everyone was like you, men would act differently.
Excellent advice! Well done you!
I just either ignore or block 😂
Thanks for this you just gave me the blueprint to determine this guy who's showing interest in me is just wanting a fwb situation. Not this girl !!!! NEXT!!!! Thank you Ryan :)
I’m literaly binge watching rn haha even the already watched months ago
Thanks for this I'm making boundaries for myself and wondered if I was a prude for holding back on sex. You're 30 day marker does the trick for me.
Perfect! 👌
30 days *and* 10 dates.
The don't have sex too early is what everyone in Europe is trying to advise me not to do, because the culture tends to be different here. But I'm more for the Ryan way simply because I'm not into quick hookups. It's tiring when everyone around you tells you to loosen up.
Absolutely! Hold tight to your self dignity and don't listen to any one that tells you differently! Xx
You should do what's best for you and never be made to feel uncomfortable. With that said, Northern Europe that I live in has no dating culture, we don't go on dates, we hook up or pair up, and it happens fast. So we would have a hard time finding a man who will take you out for multiple dates like they do in the USA.
@@adday. That's what's starting to happen in Germany too... I'm struggling with it. I respect other cultures, but I don't understand why it is that way and cannot shake the feeling that it becomes superficial and makes you or him a sexual object. Especially since I grew up in a culture that is 100% the opposite where sex is only accepted after marriage. I found the middle ground of dating before sex, or 'courting' just fine and much better.. I'm ok with that... but switching 100% to the other side .. as much as I really want to integrate, I tried and noticed I'm always gonna have a problem with it. So I have to change cultures to feel at home XD but thanks for the info.. this is very interesting!
@@thunabs7759 Guten Tag. I am German. Yes, the challenge is that you didn't grow up with it, like you said. You are rooted in the dating culture that we don't have. It is what it is. Enjoy your time here.
@adda Y. Just to be clear, this was not a criticism of Germany. I'm not rooted because my culture does not even have open dating. But thanks for the reply :)
Do I look like some circus animal to you 😂😂😂😂😂😂omg hilarious but nailed it! Next! 👉🏻
Thanks Lisa 🙂
Loving the message
Thanks Mwiza 👌
This is such great information, but those snarky undertones have me howling with laughter 😂😂
I keep it real! 🤷🏻♂️ LOL
Just got ghosted when everything seemed to be going well. Why can’t people just stop the games. All tests 🤦🏻♀️. Dating is just annoying now and with work, school, activities and friends who has time to play these games.
Men have no feelings
Throw out boundaries early on!!!
100% 💥
Can you do a video on how to know early if a guy is CAPABLE of true love, devotion and a deep connection?
Hi Ryan
Excellent video i love the facts about how to understand when they test us females. Thanks Ryan👍💙
Glad it was helpful! 🙃
This is amazing. I wish I heard this 2 years ago lol
So good!
You’ve got the best voice ever.
Aww thanks 😀
How does one “not be available “ too often in quarantine?
do your own thing in social media clean house etc.... a guy ive been talking too he posts all the time on fb and I dont view his posts lol or like them 😂 he is surely liking mine at times but his q close book keeping it on a minimum he tests me all the time
😄
Hobbies. Lots of ‘em.
@@pipello0 lol thanks, think I figured this one out after 6 months 😋
👆👍✔️👏✨Don't let men manipulate you 👊
💥💥
thank you,it(s really helpful
Come on Ryan for the look with the hat and relaxed Top... these are soooooo good.
Can I just say, after my ex broke my nose he started calling me Owen Wilson. Man if that wasn’t a clue I don’t know what was... Definitely listen to Ryan’s advice and RUN don’t walk from the latter guys!!!
Breaking your nose was the clue. I hope he is out of your life. It doesn't matter what you say or do, nobody can beat you. Hopefully you'll find true love because that wasn't it.
Hey Ryan: I’m new to the channel. I’ve been having some new experiences whilst dating during a pandemic. I used many tips and tricks from your videos, and they worked magic. But because we are living in such a different context... I have some wicked suggestions for you. How to reach ou via email? I think a pandemic dating awareness and/or how to go back to 1743 dating mode amidst 2020 would be super fun to make and to watch, and more importantly super helpful for our single ladies out there. Thanks!
great video - all makes sense :)
Will you also do a video about passive aggressive behaviors in men and relate it to what it means about the relationship?
What passive aggressive behaviors are you hoping would be covered in that video, Ari, just so I know? 🤔
Ur #1 Fan... Ryan 🥰💯
Yes, thanks for this video Mr. Ryan Patrick. Tips to have self respect and self control both man and woman when it comes to sex. Men should wait until woman is ready for it. But still should have it until you get married then. But people now are too impulsive to do it. If women rejected them they just walked away and disappeared. We should see sex as sacred and can only be done to the one you love and to your wife to be. Thanks.
Hey Ryan my first date went really well but my second date felt weird I was crying idk man he made me
Feel so small
I love this ❤️
Thanks
I failed the tests, the door is right behind you guys.
Which tests? 🙂
You're a star!!
Aww thanks Maria! 😁
thanks a lot.
A guy once sent me an unsolicited picture of himself. Omg I didn't even respond I just blocked and deleted his number. Who honestly has the energy. These streets are tiring
Thanks a lot 😁 😆 👌
OMG! So, I was talking to a guy for a week... A WEEK! Within that WEEK he told me “I’m gonna break you down and build you back up.” He told me I was digging myself deeper into a hole and was in the dog house because I didn’t send him enough pictures. Then the pics I sent were not good enough because they were not “sexy” pics. He asked me to take a pic of me in a towel and show cleavage and when I said it was too soon for that, he called me a p**sy. He hounded me about this pic all the time. When I set the boundaries and told him I didn’t like the comments he was making, he apologized and then turned around and wanted me to convince him I no longer saw him as demeaning or controlling and narcissistic. Oh, and he kept wanting me to call him “sir”. Yeah! I deleted him. I don’t know why I allowed it to go a week.
Oh, and when I commented that a player in GTA5 had a character in the game that looked “dapper”, he said “What are you trying to do, make me jealous?” Seriously! A video game? Dude!
Wow that’s crazy so glad you blocked him.
When someone tells you this type of of stuff, BELIEVE HIM!
It is probably the only truth that he has or ever will tell you.
Im a 20 year old male and I can’t even imagine saying this to anyone. Dudes really out here saying some weird sh*t🤦🏻♂️
I'm really sorry that some girls stick with type 2 guys and fall in love, always making excuses for them
Ok Ryan I apologize for not addressing you earlier by name i really dont feel well & I'm really off today so here goes because i need an answer please. And I'm not getting it& its driving me crazy. And no i haven't told this guy i like him. I did tell my bestie the B told 3 other women but I dont think anything got back to him thank God! Why would a maintained man linger around when ever he came out to work on our maintaiince issues. Always seem excited& happy to see me. Overly friendly. Always very inquisitive of me, very talkative like weve known each other all our lives. Very good @ what he does. Doesnt slack on his work or do it wrong. And then suggest I get out & meet men. And then seem genuinely worried& concerned when he sees our lock on our doors loose & protective of specifically me. Seem completly dis interested in my roommate or anyone else I talk about. Just interested in me. Laughs wh me. Jokes wh me. Usually looks @ me & in the eye. And then today comes over the same way but this time seems to just want to do his work & get in an out but acts the same genuinely friendly smiling good guy but wants to stop and take the time to show me a vedio of his place, his dogs, his car, his immediate family. No, not wife, girlfriend or children& he also appears to be halph my age, clean& dresses well. Hes very polite, well mannered, respectful, certainly has dignity for himself , me & people. So why would he say all this? Do all this is my? I dont get any of it? I'm clueless? I'm confused? Is he just a friendly person, just being friendly? Does he like me the way I like him? Is he just trying to find out about me? He clearly doesnt have mother issues. He isnt the abusive type. In fact he doesnt seem to have any issues of any kind. And even if he liked me as a friend wouldn't he still want to exchange #? Is he just trying to get to know me& now doesnt? But if he doesnt why show me vedios of all that? I really dont understand? I've told him I really dont know what to say or do? I've apologized for anything I thought I said wrong ? He didnt seem to be upset. He seems to love it when I give him compliments. What is really going on? Or is there just nothing going on& I'm just that out of the loop like I think. Do I just like this guy too much & too fast& just reading me? Do I just have my head stuck in the clouds like some ridiculous school girl? I have no clue what's going on here if anything @ all? Would you please help me figure it out so I can move on please ? And no we never call him unless our maintained issues are ligit. Though on rare occasions I do run into I'm around our apts. Sometimes he seems thrilled to see me. Other times not so much. Most of the time hell smile, laugh& say hi, want to talk. Other times not so much. I know hes real busy? Maeby that's it? And everyone has their good & bad days even someone, a man @ that who appears practically perfect. And if I'm wrong & he does like me more then just as a person why doesnt he say so? But then maeby he would get fired? But he said he knows a lot of girls around our lot? And I saw him talking to some guy here that didnt appear to be a maintancs issue. He just looked @ me & smiled. So ? Sorry to bombard you.
Ten stars!
so if we cant be at one or the others house in winter in snow in a pandemic wtf do we do
please do a video about online dating over 50 during the pandemic. Three times I have come across scammers asking me for money or itunes gift card!!! OMG I am so done!!!!
🤣🤣 thanks for the advice Ryan 🤣🤣
You bet, Christine 🙏
This is so hard right now cause i don't have much of a life outside of my daily routine with my kids due to covid. I use to have a job, go out with friends and do classes for fun.
Due to being in a community where we are a lot of high covid cases. School's closed and never opened. We have been in numerous lock downs.
I was confident and going places and very vibrant and attractive when we met. We now have a curfew where i live, I miss going out and doing things outside of home not just hoinv out to grocery shop but thats not my story.
Any ideas how to revive my spark i got when out in the community following my interests and homing my social skill, influence and magnetism to now?
I dont complain about situation of pandemic with him or talk about struggles but I miss the spark i naturally had when society was open.
I am not as busy naturally as it would be possibly to expose my kids to go out and have fun. So when he wants to see me last minute and we are exclusive andbits been awhile i usually say yes. I mean can't say I'm going out with friends. Have this class or work. Not anymore I use to but society closed where I live.
Sometimes I tests guys... And it does and has really worked for me... if ya wanna know how committed a guy is to a relationship or how attentive he can be...
... Give a dude a flower. ...
Yeah.. for real.
I know... It's weird .. but... It will tell you so much about what kind of person he is from his reaction to you giving him a flower .. and if he chooses to care for that flower or if he chooses to toss it or just let it die cuz he forgot about it.. all of that really can tell you how in to you he really is..
Plus .. the reactions you get when you do this is freakin priceless!
I once had a guy eat the flower 😹☠️😹 ... I guess he panicked and didn't know what to do or how to react.. then he ate it.. 😹😹😹 ... I've also had a guy totally gurl out on me...
It makes for some everlasting moments to cherish for sure if you don't get anything else out of it..
💜😹💜
Can you add a video about “ghosting?!”