5 Types Of Connections Men Offer You (Avoid #3!)
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick identifies the 5 types of connections men offer you, how to change your connection type with a man after one has been established with him, and what to look for in your connection with a man.
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Found myself in situation#3, lived 2 hours away, but he told me he didn't have a girlfriend, loved me, although we met up every month-few months or so. Showed up at his house one day while him and his girlfriend were pulling in the driveway. It was awful and the most traumatizing thing I've ever been through.
Gawwwwwwwwd that's friggin AWFUL Jennifer... 🤦🏻♂️🤬 I'm so sorry you had to go through that
Totally sucks. Sorry to hear this. Some people are the worst.
"Keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on." Great content and very interesting angles and thoughts, keep it up sir! ❤️🙌
Will do! 🙏
I told a guy I have a 30 day rule as you suggested in one of your last videos and he ghosted lol no loss. Bullet dodged. Always love your videos!!
I met a guy on a dating app in July. Had surgery and moved and did not meet him. Been talking and texting him. We plan to meet when I visit Cleveland in November, the soonest I can visit with work. He is a busy Dr and will likely only be in Cleveland for less than two years. I moved to Florida. Obviously I'd like more time getting to know him. At times it's been hard. I really like him. I think he likes me too ftlm his words and actions. I want to meet him but I also have myself a deadline that if he doesn't put forth enough energy in getting to know me more than I'll move on. If he does then I will see him. Actions always speak louder than words.
Its weird because as a man... I have become addicted to you videos even though they dont really concern me xD.
I got caught in #2. Great guy, but I can't change what he wants. I said our goals were different and let him go.
Definitely can't change what other people want, indeed 👍
I really appreciate you Ryan..You actually saved me from the worst i would have gotten myself into by letting go of the fake dude had fallen for.
I'm glad I could be of some assistance, Kemigisa 🙂
So helpful! Currently in a "pen pal" connection with someone I met at work. We worked together off and on for the past 2 years and were individually in committed relationships. Mine ended, his ended. Since COVID lockdown both socially and professionally, I've seen him TWICE in a year! First time was at his house for lunch and he came on really strong. Whoa! I wasn't ready for that although I'm attracted to him on multiple levels. Saw him again at my house for some help I needed and he kissed me sweetly before leaving. Now, pen pals. This video was really helpful though in helping me understand what's going on and manage my boundaries and expectations. Thank you!
Hey Debb! Glad I could help with this week's topic 🙂
Exactly Ryan. You will know once there is ease. Upheaval says let it go, wish them well and move on.
Bless them with kindness and blow them away with the wind, indeed, Corine 💨🙏
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Exactly!
So much clairity from that video. Well structured! I learned a lot here about friends vs FWB. I like how you explained "being friendzoned", that was spot on! It's not a real friendship, ha!
Great explanation of Pen Pals. You're totally right about it. Been there, done that, without realising it. I wish I knew that it was about validation. It messed with my head and heart so much. Then he downgraded things. Painful. Thank you!
This is a great perspective. It's really helpful for me to learn about more gradations in relationships than just FWB on one end (perhaps?) & Lifelong Commitment on the other.
It's funny, you usually hear people say they met their match at the workplace because of common interests/professions, etc. But, Ryan is spot on in his advice not to date at work, as HR usually advises against dating a coworker as well. Too many sticky situations.
Yes, and no man is worth the potential damage to your job or career.
I'm in connection #4 right now with a man I met 5 weeks ago and it's going very well. We are definitely strengthening our relationship more and more and the only part that sucks is that his business takes him away on occasion. I'm hoping to travel with him sometime in the future so we can keep growing together. Thank you for this Ryan!
im having thesame issue in interracial ,im black he is poland ,but he asked me already to move in with me but business that makes him to travel time to time ,really sucks
Sure thing, CAT! Good luck! 🙌
I just started binge watching your videos and I love them !!!! 😍
YASSSSSSSS 😎 Enjoy and thank you, Vanessa!
I appreciate your time, Ryan. Thank you from Southern Illinois.
First, Spain looks really good on you, Ryan. Second, thank you for making this video. It's a great reminder, with some new information, for me to keep in mind. The last year of trying to date hasn't been fun. I may take another break. I'm working and going to school, so I have even less interest in wasting time with men. I keep running into them moving too fast or not at all. There hasn't been a middle ground, so I've slowed down my activity.
Breaks are healthy, Racqgrl 👍 And thanks for the compliments! Divest into other corners of your life for now, because those will always need attention and we tend to neglect the little things. I think you might find that this *intentional new focus* will bring you fun "treats" in the areas of your life you've briefly put on pause 😉
I couldn’t agree with this more! Dudes show up way too quick or fall off way too fast!
Thank you Ryan!!!! All your videos are so helpfully. 💜
My pleasure, Natalia! 🙏
Love all of your videos Ryan! Especially since you are out and about recently with cool back drops 🐱
Appreciate it, Rexy! Thanks 😊
Absolutely beautiful location. Nice tan 😉 I have been in all these scenarios in my dating life!
Currently in a #1 & 3 mix bc of long distance he’s a genuine guy I met thru his sister on Insta. Neither of us are necessarily looking or on dating apps but are open minded and it’s been 6 months since we first connected. Long distance from Michigan to Los Angeles. BUT I have a lot of friends in LA and SD and got into the San Diego circus school so hoping we can turn that into a #4 with the open mindedness and independence we both have. We’re both prioritizing career development at the moment and self growth so when we do come together hopefully that bond will strengthen in person since 2 hrs away is a whole lot closer than over 1000
Thanks Ryan for making such great videos!
My pleasure, Jelena! 😀
I want to hear this video later cuz im at work. Im gonna save your video in my list so i can watch it later.
Your so tan!!! Nice 👍🏻
I’m excited to watch this video
I have guy wants friends with benefits. I told him no. I won't go there. He keeps trying and if he doesn't stop the friendship will stop as well. I'm looking for a real connection that will lead to marriage which I can't get with friend with benefits.
So yesterday I met new guy who told me he wasn't ready to get into a relationship and just wanted to meet people to bring into his life but wants to cuddle. LMAO... bye..
Dating sucks.
Bye fella 👋 NEXT! 👉👉👉
Super oh so helpful.
Thank you!
Great video, thanks!
You rock, Catelynn. Thanks! 😁
Hello tanned RYAN…. Lookin good. Thanks for all your videos!
Thanks, Adria! The sun feels oh so good over here ☀️🇪🇸🙏
😍😍😍😍😍 in between the last two 🤞 it's been a year and a half but about every 6 months I ask him if he wants to renew his lease LOL 🤣🤣🤣 it's moving slowly but I think for the two of us it's going at a good pace it's hard work it's not easy but it's a marathon not a sprint... Good Luck ladies and a BIG THANKS to Ryan!!!
Renew his lease!! 😂 Perfect, Michele!! 👌
Love binge watching ur videos
Love that you love doing that, Marlyn 😎 Thanks!
thanks for sharing this info
I love the on location video, you're looking great! For me, it's mostly number one and number three and I think that's because of my visual impairment. It's hard for people to invest in someone with a disability so I have a lot of male friends who keep me in the friend zone and I have someone long distance right now. It's very frustrating but I'm not sure how much more I can do since I have to go really slow to figure everything out since I don't see very well. :-(
I can relate. They will start strong and I do everything I can to explain my limits but get steamrolled and hurt.
Friends with benefits is a BAAAAAD IDEA 💡 FOR WOMEN
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Thanks for another great video, Ryan 😊 Do you film with a camera or smartphone when outside? And what stabilizer do you use? Love the picture and smooth movements!
Thanks! I'm now using a GoPro 9, the camera's newest edition. It's friggin awesome 😀
You are so tanned and gorgeous! Spain agrees with you ☺️
Great subject....great vlog
One of our community members suggested this topic in comments from one of my last two videos, and I thought it was an excellent idea, Alyce 😁
A blend of friends/pen pals, as we were able to meet up recently. Really wonderful guy! No signs that he was interested romantically, so though it took me a week to cool my jets and scale back from being a smothering tryhard, I'm okay with that. I could see partners in crime happening in time, but I'm quasi-waiting to see if he shows interest first before deleting any e-dating sites.
I dig the pace you've created with this guy, Faetan! High fives! ✋
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Hell yeah, high fives! Thanks for all your wonderful videos, they help a LOT.
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I think it was very informative, thanks Ryan! Hugs from 🇧🇷 x
Thanks Priscila! Sending good vibes from 🇪🇸
Brazilians always gotta say their from Brazilian 🙄 why? 😂
¡Really enjoy your videos! Come to Madrid 😍
#3 is just for platonic friends from school. No romance involved ever. We've already met back in the old hometown, just touching base and being supportive.
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My life is being stuck in the wrong connection type lol
It's all about setting the tone with him from the very beginning to get things in the right gear, Makeup Fiend 😉Great to see you in the thread, again, btw! 🤓
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thanks, Ryan!
Great advice for when I get divorced! Gonna need it! Thanks for your channel.
Is this in the works right now, Judi? Is it time to hit the eject button on your marriage? 😕
@@datingcoachryanpatrick that’s my plan, yes.
I am in #4 with a guy for 1 year and 4 months now. We don't talk about feelings🙄 He is giving hints and trying to see my reactions and response. He is a talker and a dreamer, I just listen and observe and let him initiate and take actions. Things are easy within the relationship no conflict no drama no projection but I difinitely I have been having anxieties that really affected me that really led me to work more about myself and about how to deal with this connection. I am trying to overcome these now and just watch how things unfold. I am not in a rush anyway and I have my own personal goals too. We are in our early 40's so I think we are in the stage of our lives that we carefully evaluating things before making major decisions in life. I just want to enjoy this process of discovering and be contented of what we have.
I’m in the same exact situation, in our 50’s, we have discussed being exclusive and travel together. We spend 3-4 days a week together. My kids are grown, he is co-parenting. We have lots of fun and move in the same circles, work together sometimes.
I see what you mean about those kinds of pen pals. But if you already have an existing in-person relationship with someone, writing letters is awesome. It makes going to the mailbox exciting, and you can talk about the most personal things and have the time and space to explain things -and learn about his day to day life as well.
I've never been "friends with benefits type" but I went in that kind of relationship because I was tired of my past relationships and after a period of time we are Partners in Crime and it is very suitable for us😆
I have a colleague connection . I believe a good friendship is forming but I really like him though.
I had an amazing phone relationship with a guy from The U.S..it was the most magical thing ever but hard to let go for sure ..
im currently in a #3 relationship 😭. We met on a trip this summer and had a great time but wr live across the country from each other and always say we will visit each other but havent made any concrete moves.
is it werid if i tell him “im looking for something serious but we can be friends” or how can i convey that if he has any intentions he should act in them now
As you may know, Maddison, I'm not a fan of long distance flings/relationships at all. We tend to be more open-minded and do and say things we wouldn't normally do at home when we're traveling. It's higher adrenaline and higher octane across the board. Although you two had a "great time," you two will be chipping away at that quickly through all of the *extra effort you'll both have to put in* to make it work. You may find it becomes much easier to let that connection form to someone who's closer to you, IMHO. But, if you both want to try it out, make sure you both visit each other equally, and not one doing all of the traveling, okay? 😉
Awesome content. I’m in a connection with a past life love whom I have grown to deeply care for over the last year +. Adult children are in play as well as one younger child whom requires more attention and that’s great. The issue is the mother tries to use this child as a pawn for her advantage as well as my friend who claims to want marriage with me over again. What are some suggestions for this connection so I don’t feel overly patient with understanding. Thank you
Your videos are awesome! Thank you Ryan! 👍🏻❤ But I think that woman should never accept anything less than pure friendship or pure commitment. Any type of relationship is for woman hurting doesn't matter that she say or think - It's okay. Because women are always emotionally attached. And acceptance anything less where is intimicy like in official relationship is hurting her feelings and value. Some women say that no, but they realise it late.🤷🏻♀️
Thank you, Anna! And good points! 🙏
Women are NOT always emotionally attached. That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard!
Friends with benefits works better under two conditions 1-it either starts as or grows into an actual, genuine friendship. I'm best friends with mine of 4 years, and it's obvious he cares about me (caring and being love are not the same, but having people who care is awesome). 2-You don't get in each other's way when it comes to dating others and finding someone romantic if that's what you want. And of course you're right about laying out terms. Honesty is important, and so is being specific about expectations.
Yey, ryan is up here again.. 🙂
Sure am, Trae 🙃
@@datingcoachryanpatrick hope you can upload a new vid every week.. ❤
Hello !! sir ryan patrick you always have such a nice advice for us hope you are doin good. lookin very tan and very handsome here hehe.. take care always.. 😊😊😊
Thanks Neneann! Great to see you in the comment thread, as always 😎
Very interesting and well done. Avoid the pen pal because it sneaks up on you.
Well, workplace buddy is a sticky situation!!!
99% of guys seem to only want the casual hookups and fwb/nsa now. Most of them don't even want to invest in a real date to meet someone. It's like humanity lost the thread on dating, romance and falling in love. Millions of women wanting real love & millions of men wanting quick easy meaningless sex. That's the world now.
I’ve found that too
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I wish I had come across your vid. three years ago.
According to you what are the FWB rules? What should you do or shouldn't do together? And when is the time to move on?
Awesome video. Thank you. Hoping to get feedback on rebuilding trust. He lied, was on Ashley Madison. My trust is destroyed. He says he went on so he could break up with me, but never did. Is asking for open phones ok? I appreciate feedback.
Ryan u got me to the joint venture stage now what do I do!!!
Lean back, Sarah, respond to him at your earliest convenience, and bring your best energy to him when he's putting in the effort with you and you feel he deserves it 😋
@@datingcoachryanpatrick ily 😘
Did have a #3. Ugh. Not anymore though haha :)
Hi!!!
Ok so I met a guy and we’ve been on 3 dates total in the time frame of a little less than a month. We had an amazing time each time but he’s in the feeling me out stage because he’s not very affectionate or like flirty.. he came on really strong after our first date and bought flights and tickets for a concert for my birthday in October. We’ve been texting and talking on the phone regularly but this week he didn’t text at all and I replied to his story to which he replied and then I said hi how was your week and he left me on read.. I’m not sure why if everything was going well he all of sudden just went silent.. and we have a concert in a month..
It’s a little frustrating to not know where his head is at and with me like trying to not chase.. def not where I want to be w him cause I like him
We are in stage 5. Wanting to close our dating apps. Haven’t done it yet.
Suggest removing them together, Sharon. You both should feel good about removing your apps if the #5 connection is healthy and strong 🙏
Thank you. Ryan 😃
Wow! You look tan! Enjoy your travels!!
I'm in connection #3 with some guy who is still stuck abroad.....and for some guy I've liked for a year now (we stay in the same area and we've been friends for some time now), I'm in connection #4....considering dropping the one who is abroad.. my desired connection is #5 but I'm not sure if I want that with any of the guys 😭😭😭😭
I have a some what weird connection with a guy I really like, we had a date planned but it didn’t happen because one his best friends told him I was off limits because he liked me… I didn’t know that before. just found out about that 🙄.
I told that friend I didn’t have feelings for him and it seemed to finally have sunk in (told him this many times).
And now I don’t really know what to do, do I take action or not? (Have to say, the most talking came from me)
I hope you can help me
I have a next door neighbor who moved in & he’s Hot, i caught him several times checking me out & he’s flirted but it cant ever happen! We share a wall
I am not sure which connection I have. It could be pen pals. We are sending long emails every day for the last 6 weeks. He said he wants to be friends first and I get the feeling he wants us to get to know each other more and have more time in before meeting. We’ve both been burned before. He has said he wants a slowly builded connection. He initiates most emails.
Girl, get a trash bag and throw that whole man away. He's a waste of time, trust me.
If it makes you feel good to continue emailing, I might only use this experience as a spring board to propel you to a #4 type connection with a new man. I'm a fan of being forthcoming and clear about what you want with men, so I'd tell this guy your intention of continuing email until something better comes along (again, if it's a confidence booster or puts you in a good state of mind only). If he's gonna make a move, he better do it real soon. Let's shoot for a local, #4-style connection on this next round, Diane, sound good? 🙂
He just might, but setting boundaries and giving him a distinct timeline of him making his move might be an interesting intermediate step first 👌
Hey Ryan 🖐🖐
Hey Stella! 😁
Hm, I’ve been texting this guy from a dating app, for 2 weeks now almost 3. He hasn’t asked me out on a date yet, but always sends me pics of himself at work etc (just of his face). He Did say he is shy, but I feel like he doesn’t ask much questions about me. He called me few days ago, mainly chatted about himself. He seems nice but still, Should I drop it? Also I’m not going to ask him out.
My pen pal n I Iive 15 mins aways frm each other but we haven't met each other in person yet due to Covid 🤣
15 mins is doable... if you have *two willing participants.* Sounds like this guy can't even get off the couch -- NEXT! 👉👉👉
Oh he’s out and about on this day lol
I'm a bit confused in my current situation with a guy. First we were meeting on events and after half a year he asked me on a date, everything happening abroad. I stayed abroad and he went back to our home country and we became pen pals for 3 weeks. Then we dated again once and bc we both were abroad for 2 months we went back to being pen pals. Now we're both back but he kind of refuses to meet me (I indirectly suggested to meet), he didn't reply to my message so I stopped texting him.
Before he stopped texting me, I found out (through a common Telegram group) that his bank account was shut down and since that happened he doesn't want to meet. Still I'm a bit confused bc I don't know if this is the reason why he doesn't want to meet me. Also every time we meet we enjoyed each others company.
This guy just isn't making the connection easy anymore, Jelena. It's a big ol' NEXT 👉👉👉
I’m lucky we both are gamers so we spend a lot of time together chatting both on console and voice chat on discord we can chat for hours some nights I’m U.K. he’s USA but we work round the time zone 😊😊😊
Sound observations but it's pretty depressing to be at first base in mid-life 😢
I am literally confused by the guy that I like. We have been friends for over 12 years and recently in the last year I told him how I feel. He acts like he wants to be with me but then shows no effort. I think we might be friends with benefits but we never talked about it. He definitely does not want to commit, but I feel stuck because we have been friends forever. I’m so confused 😐
Honey, he ain't your friend...
You're looking great, Ryan. Vacation seems to agree with you quite well!!
So.... My dilemma: In 2019, I reconnected with someone that I never should have let go from 1992 (aka: I married the wrong man!!!) During all of this time he's been with a serious mismatch both intellectually and in the looks dept.
We have wonderful text exchanges as we are alot alike. Trouble is, he chooses to stay with her out of habit.
SOS! I NEED HELP, RYAN.
Aww thanks LJ 😋 And I'm sorry to hear about this missed connection. It's hard to break out of the mold of a bad thing once you adapt and become comfortable with it 😔 Wishing you the best
my 2 cents...don't let him play you .know your worth.
That's what I'm looking for but no luck yet 😭
What exactly are you looking for, VC? 🤔
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eyyyyyyeee we met twice n he asked me to move in together so we are now living together but his family doesnt know me for now like 4months since i moved in ,im black and he is polish ,im from uganda and he is from poland both in dubai
Hey Minaj, thanks for sharing 🙂 Does his family live far away? How long have you and your guy been together?
@@datingcoachryanpatrick we have been together for 4months ,his Family is in Poland and we have decided to be in Dubai since the business is moving well only in Dubai but the thing is I’m wondering why he asked me to move in on the first date,I’m 23 he is 27
I found a connection with a great guy and it was always flirtatious but we were friends. Then we started sexting and one night we went there and now things feel abit awkward. I guess i want more and idk how he feels.
Can you ever move out of friendship back to romance. My guy pulled way up but still allows them kids and me to bind and be together. He says he doesn’t really know what he wants. He says he’s not messing with anyone. But the tinder apps notifications are starting to grow.
We still talk all the time. But not really deep. I’m not trying to push.
You can but if he is saying "I dont know what I want" that typically means "I dont know what I want but I know its not you" harsh truth... you need to pull away and move on and he will quickly make up his mind.
James make a good point, Giavanna. Your friend just gave you the worst wishy-washy signal you can get and it is the indirect way to tell a woman to look elsewhere. I'd scrape off of the situation quickly 👍 Who knows, your cutting ties might jolt him into...well... knowing what he wants now that he's experienced the fear of loss with you, but I wouldn't count on that 😉
Yup yup, indeed 👌
Walk away, G. Wishy-washiness really hurts. It’s particularly sneaky because until confronted - there might appear to be nothing at all wrong. But so far all I hear is he is potentially using you for future child care. You don’t have to push. Stating your position is NOT pushing. Knowing what you want is NOT pushing. It is clarity.
Indeed I walked away. I told him that he’s smart and he’ll figure it out. I am choosing to walk away. I did ask him If he ever saw someone like me in his life. And he said yes he doesn’t have a type but he could see someone like me… I took that as he met someone like me… Not me. So I walked
I've been doing online there is one but we haven't had face to face he seems to be really busy with work so it get to where I text are we done are you not interested and he finally text and says no my queen
Never text a guy that - if he is interested he will show you... He might simply be busy but if he was actually interested he would show you and messaging him saying "Are you not interested?" "Are we done?" tells him 1 of 2 things.
1.) He has you
2.) You are needy so even if he was playing hard to get he is thinking about what he is potentially gonna have to deal with later.
Nobody wants someone who acts needy. If a guy messaged you that what would you think?
Stick with the "Two-Week Rule," Rebecca: If a guy hasn't moved to asking you out on a date *with a specifically time and place established* WITHIN TWO WEEKS, cut off contact because it's a big ol' NEXT! 👉👉👉
So, this guy and i decided to be exclusive but haven't texted me in over 1 week.🙄🙄
Actions over words. NEXT! 👉👉👉
No thanks to all these relationshits - I am too old for this! I am looking for a normal and an emotional connection 🙏🏻
Ok have met a guy we both like each other he has cooked for not asking for naughty pics etc
We have both said what we look for in a relationship only thing I’m a little confused on is he now said he doesn’t want a heavy relationship but is happy to take this slow and see where it goes too
He also texts me like a guy would who isn’t just after sex ( I can smell them a mile away )
I’m just not sure if it’s a fwb or he genuinely wants the build up and long term relationship
Hi Danielle! His words are quite literally contradicting themselves. He wants to "take this slow and see where it goes" but DOESN'T want a "heavy relationship"?? That's ridiculous. Might be a maturity issue there. He strikes me as the type of guy who's just butter women up for sex so he can bounce out shortly there after. I'd believe him on the *doesn't want a heavy relationship* part. If that's what you're after, you're clearly not going to get it with him 😬
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you for your reply appreciate your time and I will be keeping this in mind when I meet him for coffee I will straight out ask him to be clear on what he wants
Danielle, better to focus on what YOU want. Watch his actions. They will tell you what he is about.
True. I’ve been begging God how to unlove him after I knew all the truth about other women. I live 2 hours away from him and he is hot and cold and found out he has housemate. It was too late because I already loved him for who and what he is😞😞 So now I have a hard time to unlove him so I chose to love him in a different way like only me and God knows😞😞🙏🙏 Hope one day, I’ll make the toughest decision to block him. He just replied my good morning messages since I always do that every day ever since before we became lovers until now with no label. Sometimes he is sweet but suddenly pulls up😞😞😭
Housemate as in girlfriend? I think you just love the person you thought he was. That man never existed. Move on.
I was in connection with a guy . No not anymore . He Told me he doesn’t want to stay in contact by a text message but does that apply to Facebook messenger too ? I am debating if I should send that to him . What should I do ?
Yeah, sorry. But I think it applies to FB messenger too. :( Maybe ask if wants to talk on phone or meet, if you feel he has a good vibe towards you? Take care.
@@LuckyGTNS but the thing is he said he will block my phone number if I call or text him again . I don’t know so I am collecting all of my thoughts on messenger then writing it down on a pice of paper .
@@elyssaschmitz6833 if he said all of that ,accept that and leave the rest to him ,if the guy wants you,he will eventually find his way to you otherwise lord knows your future husband so just do what you think to keep him in contact ,if he block ,he is not meant to be yours but he is paving a way for a serious guy in your life
@@minajaadshamic588 I am confused . I feel like I was the one that a putting in the effort . I dont think he was
Yup, no need to keep anything going on Facebook Messenger. I know you're on the young end in terms of age, since we've chatted here in comments before, so just know that as guys get older, they will put in more effort with you if they're worth your time. Some won't. But no reason for you to put in effort when he's no willing to. I'd let this one go 😉
I've never met a guy who just wanted 'friendship'. They all want to get inside your pants!
Friend with benefit means = i don't value your humanity
that's nonsense. Some FWB treat each other better than romantic partners do. It depends on the people involved and if the friendship part is real.
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Thank you much, Deejay 😎
Not gonna lie.... a part of me has never gotten over my pen pal and it's been over 6 years now....
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Fwb spoils n damages women it's terrible 🥵
Wow, you're getting dark!!
I'm making a point to enjoy the beaches until it gets too cold, Jules 😎 #sunscreenismyfriend
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Please protect your skin, lips, and scalp. Sorry work in dermatology can't help myself.