Woman Says Her Former Nanny ‘Had A Whole Other Life’

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
  • A woman says she fired her nanny after discovering she’d faked a pregnancy and pretended to be her son’s mother. The former nanny says she knows she hurts others but doesn’t intend to.
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Комментарии • 401

  • @kimidanger1150
    @kimidanger1150 3 года назад +399

    this woman should never be allowed to be around children ever again

    • @alliecat2898
      @alliecat2898 3 года назад +15

      For sure I feel like she will eventually escalate to actual kidnapping

    • @ZizYoubizHERE
      @ZizYoubizHERE 3 года назад +1

      or social media

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 3 года назад

      I hope she doesn’t have any of her own :(

  • @Koontabby
    @Koontabby 3 года назад +1172

    I think she lied about her age as well....

    • @Ak907Queen
      @Ak907Queen 3 года назад +38

      She was 28 in 2018. Her name is Ashley Bemis

    • @Ms777lalaland
      @Ms777lalaland 3 года назад +10

      I can’t get up🤣🤣🤣

    • @revandenburg
      @revandenburg 3 года назад +22

      @@Ak907Queen Seriously doubt she's in her 20's. Mid 30's, maybe.

    • @holayou2241
      @holayou2241 3 года назад +8

      @@revandenburg more like mid century 😜🤣🤣

    • @juliesprik9479
      @juliesprik9479 3 года назад

      I agree

  • @heybeautiful9360
    @heybeautiful9360 3 года назад +1275

    Wait she’s how old 21? Are you sure about that? She looks well in her fifties.

  • @Izyplaysforall
    @Izyplaysforall 3 года назад +505

    This is why I’ll never hire a nanny. She’s giving “Orphan” vibes.. scary

    • @kimbershark
      @kimbershark 3 года назад +3

      @Dylaney Exactly! My friends a nanny and would never do this lol

    • @Lulu-mj2fi
      @Lulu-mj2fi 3 года назад

      That's like saying you'll never send your kids to school

    • @amazonqueen5694
      @amazonqueen5694 3 года назад

      i get where you come from but this woman has done a list of things I will never do to my friends and family. either way I hope these women find peace.

    • @dejapiper3326
      @dejapiper3326 3 года назад

      coming from a 20 year old nanny, this is nothing near like how it is

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 3 года назад +1

      I’m a nanny and all I do is eat snacks out of the pantry tbh and let the kids stay up like 30 min later 🤣🤣 this shits wild

  • @theknifaholic
    @theknifaholic 3 года назад +434

    I don't know how to say this in a polite way, with some people you can just feel/tell they aren't well mentally ,like the "crazy" vibes are just there at first glance

    • @foreveryactionthereisacons1683
      @foreveryactionthereisacons1683 3 года назад +22

      Energy don't lie..

    • @love2sing20101
      @love2sing20101 3 года назад +12

      I can get that from just a photo or video. Especially look at their eyes. Have never been wrong once.

    • @jazzyg6059
      @jazzyg6059 3 года назад +9

      That was pretty polite

    • @theknifaholic
      @theknifaholic 3 года назад +3

      @@jazzyg6059 thank you, I hate actively using the word “crazy” descriptively, just lack of better. Personally I think a lot of it has to do with them being not zoned in all the way, so you notice the eyes not focusing properly. Like in their head to much or out of it, but I can’t say for sure.

    • @anathimotadi361
      @anathimotadi361 3 года назад +4

      That was pretty polite, I'm absolutely getting those same vibes from her. Sometimes u can just tell🤷‍♀️

  • @Citrusfruits50
    @Citrusfruits50 3 года назад +450

    She had so many “kids” she couldn’t remember all the names 😆

    • @georgiadyer665
      @georgiadyer665 3 года назад +4

      Right! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @G3.9-6
      @G3.9-6 3 года назад +4

      She has an interesting face as well

    • @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454
      @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 3 года назад +2

      Lmao

    • @SamaQu
      @SamaQu 3 года назад +1

      Heck, I was 1 off 11, this is definitely possible 😂🤣

  • @rosenbaum75
    @rosenbaum75 3 года назад +137

    At least she's owning up to it on national television. Imagine going on a show like Dr. Phil and sharing your most shameful or embarrassing or effed up secrets for all to see. Seems like she wants help to understand why she's doing this and how to fix it.

  • @Justlulzzz
    @Justlulzzz 3 года назад +370

    She looks like she’s in her late 50s

  • @Talkwithtina808
    @Talkwithtina808 3 года назад +257

    She probably was planning on stealing that baby

  • @marshaanis4057
    @marshaanis4057 3 года назад +86

    Thank God she never hurt those children.

    • @CMchyy
      @CMchyy 2 года назад

      Amen!

  • @tillyt4054
    @tillyt4054 3 года назад +59

    I have a sneaky feeling she’s also lying about her age ......21? 😂

  • @anneworth8901
    @anneworth8901 3 года назад +101

    She’s 21 and I am the Queen of England!!!

    • @praxym9293
      @praxym9293 3 года назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454
      @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 3 года назад +2

      Thats what im sayin!

    • @monsemaniaa
      @monsemaniaa 3 года назад +2

      21 when she started

    • @harrypothead5897
      @harrypothead5897 2 года назад +1

      @@monsemaniaa I started being the Fuhrer of Antarctica at 11.

    • @robertsilva1016
      @robertsilva1016 2 года назад

      You're the Queen of England nice to meet you you Royal Highness queen Anne The First I'm the Emperor of the Terran Empire

  • @lucyziegler
    @lucyziegler 3 года назад +144

    I feel like she wanted to be a mom and felt like she wanted people to see her as “successful” as the viewed the woman she worked for. And I feel like she was depressed and maybe felt like if people saw “how good” she was doing that she’d feel like she was more successful and be happy with herself about it. Maybe she wants kids of her own but she’s not in a place to have her own real children

  • @kimberlysergeant1995
    @kimberlysergeant1995 3 года назад +80

    Whole lotta drama

  • @pinkdesserts1312
    @pinkdesserts1312 3 года назад +66

    the way everyone is talking makes it sound like someone is getting murdered by the end

  • @smaschmidt00
    @smaschmidt00 3 года назад +33

    Years ago I confronted a girl on Facebook for doing the exact same thing!! I even went as far as finding the woman who's ultrasound she posted and was claiming as her own and notified her that this girl had stolen her picture and used it saying it was hers. Her "boyfriend" (the girl stealing the pics) started harassing me online which I then blocked him. Honestly not sure if he was even real. Pretty sure it was her using pics of guys to claim as her boyfriend. People are crazy

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 3 года назад +4

      Wow that crazy she’s block and move on they aren’t worth the drama

  • @bethanynorman1829
    @bethanynorman1829 3 года назад +123

    Okay....so.....she’s just gonna keep doing it? 😂

  • @jamstahjam
    @jamstahjam 3 года назад +39

    No, I actually just feel bad for this woman. Really sad she clearly really wants to be a mum but that's not happening for her.

  • @thornepp6286
    @thornepp6286 3 года назад +93

    I think she’s disturbed, but I don’t think she’s dangerous, I feel sorry for her that she needs to seek that kind of attention to feel valued, I hope she got help and feels whole and is stable now

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit47 3 года назад +79

    Having dealt with people who have done similar to this, I would err on the side of compassion. What could have happened to this girl to cause her to do these things. That is all I can do is wonder.

    • @XXgenderloveXY
      @XXgenderloveXY 3 года назад +15

      Yes. Thank you for reminding me of this. It's so easy to judge...

    • @susannah8342
      @susannah8342 3 года назад +13

      Honestly I don't think she would physically hurt the children, I think she's just lonely.

    • @Lulu-mj2fi
      @Lulu-mj2fi 3 года назад +4

      @@susannah8342 not an excuse!! This is scary!! She needs help!

    • @dallasfarms1907
      @dallasfarms1907 3 года назад +1

      She really needs help

  • @mississippiqueen2u
    @mississippiqueen2u 3 года назад +27

    Thank goodness y’all! She never physically hurt any of the children. What she did was wrong on every level.

  • @melgirl50
    @melgirl50 3 года назад +25

    '' that was absolutely not me'' while she's nodding yes unconsciously.

  • @Nonyah123
    @Nonyah123 3 года назад +86

    Uhhh she cant be 21 here if she's been doing this since 2008. In 08' she would have been 11 years old.

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 3 года назад +14

      At the time of the filming 2018 she was 28 year old. Someone in the comment mention she lied about her age.

    • @prettyhandsomegang5227
      @prettyhandsomegang5227 3 года назад +3

      @@wowso4 I mean we knew that

    • @youknowwhatflav9916
      @youknowwhatflav9916 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @darkkitty22
      @darkkitty22 3 года назад

      ‘21’😭

    • @rubberducky19
      @rubberducky19 3 года назад +3

      she literally looks like she’s 50

  • @valeriedorr3913
    @valeriedorr3913 3 года назад +62

    THAT GIRL IS CRAZY HOLY-

  • @2TMarie
    @2TMarie 3 года назад +18

    Why do most people that you hire and allow into your life, eventually, lose their marbles?

  • @dandaadnad529
    @dandaadnad529 3 года назад +36

    Biggest dr phil gift: reopen the comments during quarantine 🤣🤣 our hero!

    • @staceykersting705
      @staceykersting705 3 года назад

      LOL...but it's freakin' Dr Phil...he's such a phony.

  • @anarchist_parable
    @anarchist_parable 3 года назад +18

    "Her stories were a little creative" see people stay dismissing crazy. She knew that woman wasn't right.

  • @amajozmaize24
    @amajozmaize24 2 года назад +3

    At least she’s being honest & not denying it

  • @krishneenaidoo3727
    @krishneenaidoo3727 3 года назад +23

    She should appear on SNL - caption -
    “All my Fake Children”

    • @ahill4642
      @ahill4642 2 месяца назад

      ooo that could be really funny, actually… 🤔

  • @milksips3876
    @milksips3876 3 года назад +12

    I feel for this women, she’s clearly got a huge obsessive issue and needs help, a lot of serious help or this could escalate. Must have been very upsetting for the parents as well.

  • @tyheclayton473
    @tyheclayton473 3 года назад +39

    I feel sorry for her
    I myself had a miscarriage my husband and I been married for 7 years no kids

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 3 года назад +2

      🙏🏽😘💕

    • @thatonecreepydoll5527
      @thatonecreepydoll5527 3 года назад +2

      Praying for you i hope you will be able to adopt ❤️✝️

    • @murtl5595
      @murtl5595 3 года назад +3

      Praying and sending love and hope🙏❤️

    • @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454
      @tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 3 года назад

      Im sorry.. but adoption is always a answer!

    • @froggyyyy107
      @froggyyyy107 10 месяцев назад

      This is really late but I hope you’re able to fufill your dream of a child in whichever way you’d like

  • @XxheymoonxX
    @XxheymoonxX 3 года назад +29

    ik the irony...but she straight up looks like the other mother from coraline. those eyes!

  • @courtneywhitefield9183
    @courtneywhitefield9183 2 года назад +3

    At least she was honest and not in denial like most.

  • @renarenald3123
    @renarenald3123 3 года назад +44

    Just get your own damn baby.

  • @jasmineseaman853
    @jasmineseaman853 3 года назад +10

    i mean at least she admits to it and actually went on the show

  • @happycatlady2012
    @happycatlady2012 2 года назад +5

    "Being a mom is what I want the most"
    Christ that is scary 😨

  • @sarahb7754
    @sarahb7754 3 года назад +8

    I'm curious on what dr. Phil is gonna diagnose her with! 😂

  • @cookingwithiyana7078
    @cookingwithiyana7078 3 года назад +4

    She’s sick af her way of thinking is just beyond earth it self I cannot understand how someone can actually act this out

  • @kittenmittens4387
    @kittenmittens4387 3 года назад +6

    Other posts say to show her compassion, but as both a Nanny & Tutor, what she did was way over the professional line! This wasn't just a casual friend. This was a professional caregiver. I don't even post kids I work with because that is disrespecting the child's privacy

  • @lololala785
    @lololala785 2 года назад +2

    She really could benefit from getting the life like dolls and living her happy, weird life that way.

  • @betterbetty3542
    @betterbetty3542 3 года назад +44

    I would be horrified. If she’s capable of doing that, who knows what else she’s capable of doing? Especially when she’s has your infant child in her grasp.
    I don’t think I’d ever be able to trust anyone ever again if I were these moms. It’s so scary.

  • @hongyangli3407
    @hongyangli3407 3 года назад +19

    She looks sixty....

  • @tuesdaypatience
    @tuesdaypatience 3 года назад +5

    Man, it’s only $50~$100 for a full background check on someone. That is a very small price to pay when hiring and/or bringing someone into our homes and, more importantly, into our kids’ lives. I’m a registered in home daycare provider, so the state runs a thorough background check on everyone over a certain age in my household (I believe it was over 16yrs).

  • @jamescadzow9545
    @jamescadzow9545 3 года назад +14

    How creative Nanny the Narc...
    It's all about ME.. LOOK AT ME...

  • @4dyamondx745
    @4dyamondx745 3 года назад +14

    That is why you have to be extremely careful of who you hire to watch your children, these women keep hiring nannies to raise their children vs doing it themselve.

    • @RoyalRoses
      @RoyalRoses 3 года назад +2

      People kinda have to work... and these "women"??? You do realize a child has 2 parents, right? Both equally responsible for their kid? Are we magically in the year 1930 again?🤔

    • @rachel4339
      @rachel4339 3 года назад

      @@RoyalRoses some people choose to work, for the sake of a career, even when they'd be financially stable without it. They prioritize that over the proven benefits of raising your children yourself, so they choose the proven negatives of leaving them with strangers in their homes or daycares.

  • @goose7574
    @goose7574 3 года назад +16

    I have to say that I give this girl props for being honest. I'm sure that's not easy to do.
    And for those who might think that I think what she did was okay, *NO!!!* That's not what I'm saying, nor would I ever say. She obviously had/has some kind of psychological issues that need help.

    • @Nelson__K
      @Nelson__K 2 года назад +1

      they probably lured her in with a promise of cash

  • @ifinallyfoundthebeef
    @ifinallyfoundthebeef 3 года назад +5

    Ashley looks a little touched.

  • @Africanvillageactivities
    @Africanvillageactivities 3 года назад +6

    I pray she get a baby of her own one day

    • @susannah8342
      @susannah8342 3 года назад +3

      She doesn't seem that she had any bad intent towards the kids, realty just looks like she's lonely

    • @jakeherter
      @jakeherter 3 года назад +1

      I agree, she can get on her feet and adopt a needing baby. Obviously she is very lonely.

    • @nessakzares2459
      @nessakzares2459 3 года назад

      @@susannah8342 she genuinely looks happy in the pics with the kids

  • @MyDuckSaysFucc
    @MyDuckSaysFucc 3 года назад +6

    I could see this escalating to munchausen by proxy

  • @blondechick9804
    @blondechick9804 3 года назад +1

    She looks scary..You can tell something is not right with this woman.

  • @zicari21
    @zicari21 3 года назад +6

    That’s not that big of a deal. I would have let her use my kids pictures. She probably needs her own child is all.

  • @nikkig7982
    @nikkig7982 3 года назад +1

    Thank goodness that she didn't try to kidnap that baby for her own!!!!!

  • @jabarnes77
    @jabarnes77 3 года назад +12

    Dr. Phil is really hurting for guests. Clearly this woman needs help and love. How much hurt did she really cause?

    • @ewjiml
      @ewjiml 3 года назад +5

      Well, if you had a crazy nanny who betrayed your trust with your children, that would change how you parent and who they see alone. I’d say it caused a lot of hurt.

    • @ghettoprincess_80
      @ghettoprincess_80 2 года назад +1

      She falsely accused her mom's boyfriend of rape and destroyed his life because she "thought he wasn't good enough for her mom". I'd say that's about as disgusting as it gets.

  • @birksolberg8205
    @birksolberg8205 3 года назад +44

    6 million views, 8 comments, somethings wrong

    • @sashaburton9042
      @sashaburton9042 3 года назад +1

      The comments were off forever! I’m so glad they’re opening them up

  • @lissa1695
    @lissa1695 3 года назад +2

    This so sad

  • @K3mama
    @K3mama 3 года назад +6

    Wow smh just wow

  • @jessicamariesmith9847
    @jessicamariesmith9847 3 года назад

    God be with any man that knocks her up 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @niamhha9014
    @niamhha9014 3 года назад +6

    She must’ve got her ideas from TV dramas. These shows reveal that characters have entire double-lives and kill characters off after behind the scenes inconveniences😂. In all seriousness, this is scary.

  • @allys744
    @allys744 Год назад +1

    What she did was horrible. But she is owning up to what she did or at least that’s what it looked like. She does have problems but she does seem sorry.

  • @lettucetacoboutit7974
    @lettucetacoboutit7974 3 года назад +2

    Ugggh FULL EPISODES PLEASE!!!!

  • @wind5885
    @wind5885 2 года назад

    Love her honesty she’s make me grim

  • @zenfan1098
    @zenfan1098 3 года назад

    He should have asked when her birthday was 🤣🤣

  • @matthewmaddox2915
    @matthewmaddox2915 2 года назад

    at least this women is self aware of what she did and can be honest. she seems sad and slightly disturbed, she probably just needs love and help.

  • @nancyvargas9055
    @nancyvargas9055 3 года назад +1

    She needs professional help!!!

  • @pauliina_784
    @pauliina_784 3 года назад +3

    She wanted a goal and that's called "modeling as a parentée"

  • @keitumetseolivier5242
    @keitumetseolivier5242 3 года назад +5

    She cannot be 21 🙆🤯

  • @mrs.coyote6314
    @mrs.coyote6314 3 года назад

    Look at her ...you trusted that face🤣

  • @moyo6606
    @moyo6606 3 года назад +3

    She looks like Dee Reynolds from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I could definitely see Sweet Dee doing exactly this

    • @erin8492
      @erin8492 3 года назад

      Dee Reynolds is prettier than her, but I definitely agree with you. Lol

  • @morgan7112
    @morgan7112 2 года назад

    She is chilling. She is going to hurt someone. You can see the crazy 😬

  • @ahmedalmansoori5631
    @ahmedalmansoori5631 3 года назад +2

    0:35 straight out of a horror movie.....

  • @deediva6073
    @deediva6073 3 года назад +1

    Crazy!

  • @trinalee5370
    @trinalee5370 3 года назад +1

    I mean..at least she’s being honest🤷‍♂️that’s more than I can say for most Dr Phil guests😂

  • @ronaldreaganrimjobs4670
    @ronaldreaganrimjobs4670 3 года назад

    "Rip Blake" lolol

  • @thetruepatriot7733
    @thetruepatriot7733 3 года назад +1

    no way she's 21 yrs old.. 41 is more like it! she's lying about her age to...

  • @JusticeForNicholeAlloway
    @JusticeForNicholeAlloway 3 года назад +1

    Dr. Phil does shows like these and then wonders why people are paranoid in other shows. Honestly, who would do something like this? It's NUTS, who would believe it??

  • @dherrod9097
    @dherrod9097 3 года назад +2

    I'm sorry I have had 6 miscarriages 0 kids as bad as I want to be a mom. I would NEVER go this far. I'll adopt before I get this bad.

  • @melaniejones5980
    @melaniejones5980 3 года назад

    Give that woman a reborn doll and call it a day, yikes

  • @linwai4197
    @linwai4197 3 года назад +3

    She's 21? 😬

    • @Guernsey576
      @Guernsey576 3 года назад

      She was when she did this.

  • @nessakzares2459
    @nessakzares2459 3 года назад

    At least she fessing up and at least she was being good to these kids

  • @bandoja5084
    @bandoja5084 3 года назад +3

    She look scary

  • @ElectricShark
    @ElectricShark 3 года назад +1

    She needs therapy and real friends to tell her the truth, not enablers

  • @2Ryled
    @2Ryled 3 года назад +1

    I wouldn't let my child go off with the nanny. EVER

  • @AngeliqueW1
    @AngeliqueW1 3 года назад

    Strange and scary.

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 Месяц назад

    This is what social media does to people. It makes them feel like they have to create some kind of image to compete with all of the other people and their contrived images. One against another in a competition to be "seen."
    Some of us can remember the days when you were seen only in your real life, at home, at work at church...

  • @yerintaem
    @yerintaem 2 года назад

    0:35 I would be so creeped out if that was my nanny

  • @annbyrd2196
    @annbyrd2196 3 года назад

    Sad and pathetic..

  • @tiffanycameron2856
    @tiffanycameron2856 3 года назад +1

    She Looks crazy...

  • @psychachu
    @psychachu 3 года назад

    This is quite tragic actually.

  • @ahill4642
    @ahill4642 2 месяца назад

    I want to know what causes cases like this. Some kind of extreme maternal instincts… some kind of trauma. It’s very sad, and to just kind of ridicule these women publicly is pointless and cruel.

  • @angelawilliamson2068
    @angelawilliamson2068 2 года назад

    This woman needs help!

  • @ratgurl3010
    @ratgurl3010 3 года назад +2

    omg she has the same name that's rare

  • @KatieSalib
    @KatieSalib 7 месяцев назад +1

    I feel bad for her, geeezus

  • @msknucb1762
    @msknucb1762 3 года назад

    Something is WRONG with her. Parents better keep their eyes on their kids around this Looney!

  • @tashajones3661
    @tashajones3661 2 года назад

    She's clearly a senior citizen that missed out on having children.

  • @cathyosullivan718
    @cathyosullivan718 3 года назад

    Super creepy.

  • @a-sinnersavedbygrace415
    @a-sinnersavedbygrace415 3 года назад +2

    This is one of many reasons I love being a stay home mom , taking care of my sweet babies. No one is going to ever love and care for them like I do. I don’t trust too many people with my babies. This is a very sad situation.. I feel
    Bad for the kids and mom, including the nanny. She’s clearly not well.

  • @halfdemon4lifeintime
    @halfdemon4lifeintime 3 года назад +1

    So those are the pregnancy photo she posted and what she looked like while "pregnant" and no one knew she was faking? Honestly she's insane

  • @mranderson8725
    @mranderson8725 3 года назад

    Hand that rocks the cradle

  • @latisha334
    @latisha334 2 года назад

    This is why I would never trust a nanny

  • @elizabethsomers1340
    @elizabethsomers1340 3 года назад

    You can’t bond with fake people