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  • @taliahmonae7337
    @taliahmonae7337 11 месяцев назад +37

    "Yeah he's my baby, but he's still a person" I love that response!

  • @perke1cannon
    @perke1cannon 11 месяцев назад +112

    Girl! Thank you for the sound advice to the young lady! When I read the title I was like what did I miss! Did she get divorced because he didn’t like her surgery? But I’m glad I hit play! 😂

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +9

      Heyyyyyy!

    • @kwannasmith
      @kwannasmith 11 месяцев назад +35

      Now I don't feel as bad cause I was like wait what 😮

    • @phylicia2011
      @phylicia2011 11 месяцев назад +21

      Lol very much click bait lolol SM marketing at its finest

    • @denitatucker-washington2697
      @denitatucker-washington2697 11 месяцев назад +8

      Whew thought it was just me I was like Ik he didn’t 😅

    • @perke1cannon
      @perke1cannon 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@denitatucker-washington2697 😂😂 Right!

  • @aprilray8111
    @aprilray8111 11 месяцев назад +35

    I put my baby in daycare around the same age that champ is now for the social interaction. I was a nervous wreck the first week. Now he loves it and looks forward to going everyday

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +9

      This comment actually brings me comfort!

  • @nikiedmonds6236
    @nikiedmonds6236 11 месяцев назад +32

    I'm sending the part about the 10 year relationship and no marriage to my cousin cause chiiiile 🤦🏾‍♀️ that was great advice 😁

  • @LiveANoursishedLife
    @LiveANoursishedLife 11 месяцев назад +14

    Same! I'm 58 so this was in my 20s when I lost over 50lbs and suddenly ppl (men) were looking at me diff and I became very recentful. Of course I gained the weight back and looking back to then and where I am now (302-204lbs) I realize, for me, if you aren't ready to make an overall change in behavior, eating habits and food choices, it probably won't be sustainable. Also it has to be for the right reason. The reason to be healthy in your body. Not to get a partner or social standing, etc but for your health and realize it is for life and not just a "diet" it more than likely won't last. It's the unhealthy eating,, etc that caused the weight gain, and whatever other health issues. When I realized that, the process was a lot easier. Do I still miss my donuts and pop-tarts, heck yeah! But that got me to 302. And the whole "moderation" when it comes to "sweets" is not a thing for me. So I have to find alternatives that even if I decide to have a fudge it day ;) I won't feel guilty afterwards bc what I chose to eat ok for my body and not filled with unhealthy carbs (I'm Keto.) Cutting out a lot of processed foods helped a lot! If I can't pronouce the ingrediants it probably means I don't need to be eating it lol.

  • @suneegrl
    @suneegrl 11 месяцев назад +41

    Nah….. keep that baby off the internet. Protect him and ignore nosy people lol. Seriously, I understand the desire share more, but parasocial relationships are not worth disrupting your family’s privacy. I think privacy may become the new currency in the future because people overshare so much. ❤

  • @cynti504
    @cynti504 11 месяцев назад +11

    Girl I’m 35 with a 1 year old and I’m going through a similar situation to the lady that posted the question. Although I’ve always known…hearing your advice with such empathy really struck a nerve. Thank you ❤ love from the UK 🥰

  • @cheshiredj
    @cheshiredj 11 месяцев назад +5

    Great talk! You definitely want to protect your baby; people can be scary because they "think" they know you.

  • @taijhaie02
    @taijhaie02 11 месяцев назад +29

    Faye the advice you gave that young lady was so wise and heartfelt. I love you so much and pray for your continued success!!!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you!

    • @tboykin13tb
      @tboykin13tb 11 месяцев назад

      I Thank U Personally Faye(CHILE) cause I am there & needed that AdVice RgT Now!!!! 💯🤩

  • @cheryls.booker3336
    @cheryls.booker3336 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your candor and insight. You are so inspirational! Love your videos. ♥️

  • @autumnstoptwo
    @autumnstoptwo 11 месяцев назад +2

    i love the way you respect your child. so many people treat their kids like property or profit and its wonderfully refreshing to see you respect his autonomy as the human being he is, even as a widdle itty bitty 🥰

  • @CrazyNaturalPrincess
    @CrazyNaturalPrincess 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great advice Faye! Enjoyed this video❤

  • @meloz1203
    @meloz1203 11 месяцев назад +7

    That comment about how people treat you hit home. I lost 72 lbs and the difference in how people treated me was so evident and hurtful. I was getting hit on by guys I’d been cool with for years. I told them I’m the same person so if you didn’t like me then, don’t like me now😂 Well, I lost my brother and had some fertility rollercoasters that affected me mentally and physically and I ended up gaining it back and the comments now are so disgusting and rude. Girl, I know you didn’t gain all that weight back, is the comment I get most often. The even sadder part is that family is the worst😢 Thanks for your encouragement and constant transparency.

    • @princessloulou4809
      @princessloulou4809 11 месяцев назад +2

      Don’t hate me but for evolution men’s basic instinct is procreation so when you’re a certain size you become more appealing to most. Also people won’t say this out loud but when they see someone overweight they think that person lacks self control. I gained 40 pounds during 2022 and I was lucky my friends nor my family didn’t even blinked, no one seemed to care but I noticed I did not appeal to the same amount of guys. Anyway I lost over 20 pounds and again guys are noticing. My point is, sometimes being overweight shows you people true feelings versus the fakeness but it can be very tough on a person psyche.

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS 3 месяца назад

      ​@@princessloulou4809 facts

  • @keishasamuel5651
    @keishasamuel5651 11 месяцев назад

    Love these videos. Great advice & inspiration. Also, always love your makeup ❤

  • @tonyapearson3074
    @tonyapearson3074 11 месяцев назад

    Girl you gon make me cry!! Thank you so much for answering my question!!

  • @DRedd-xl4ko
    @DRedd-xl4ko 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for always being 💯. You are beautiful inside and out. The negative people will always be there. The only thing we can as individuals is put your best foot forward and do you. Each day is a new day to be the best version of yourself. People will always talk, but you don't have to ingest what they say. Thank you for all you do. Stay blessed ❤.

  • @patinafoy6714
    @patinafoy6714 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for all the wisdome❤ and it’s the craziest thing when I watched your videos befor the surgery and after I’m like you’re still gorgeous with a phenomenal personality and spirit. It amazes me how human perceive you just because of looks 🙄. Nevertheless keep winning sis!!!🙌🏾

  • @carolyndye2615
    @carolyndye2615 11 месяцев назад

    My good Sis is giving us looks with these wigs!!! I'm here for it

  • @ominouscherub
    @ominouscherub 11 месяцев назад

    I understand the need for privacy everyone deserves to have moments and life experiences for themselves I know faye knows how to protect herself and her baby because she’s a MAMA 😊

  • @ivymerritt7577
    @ivymerritt7577 11 месяцев назад +2

    Even though I want to know every little thing about our Internet nephew, I respect your desire to keep your son out of the spotlight. There are some very sick people in this world, and less he's exposed the better. 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @monaekirksey3852
    @monaekirksey3852 11 месяцев назад +3

    listennnnn!! you look soooo beautiful with the natural look 😍

  • @0625harmony
    @0625harmony 11 месяцев назад

    I love a warning pause while I get the EarPods. And I’m back!!

  • @butterflyroho6470
    @butterflyroho6470 8 месяцев назад

    Great advice Faye!

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 11 месяцев назад

    Great video/advice 🥰💙.. thank you so much for always sharing your truth! 💙..

  • @larketahollingshed561
    @larketahollingshed561 11 месяцев назад +4

    I deserve a marriage. I’ve been with mine since 2013. It’s 2023 now. Not married at all but I’ve got 2 of his kids. I can’t keep dealing with him only 2 days out of a week. I know my worth and DESERVE what I want!

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 4 месяца назад

      I hope you have shifted into the love~life you deserve. 🙏🏽💓

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS 3 месяца назад

      Why only 2 days out of the week?
      If u don't mind me asking...

  • @adaziasearcy6142
    @adaziasearcy6142 11 месяцев назад +2

    Love you down Faye!!!!

  • @GAPeachSSBiz
    @GAPeachSSBiz 11 месяцев назад

    Hi Faye, the stomach is flexible tissue. It is definitely possible to stretch after weight loss s.urgery. The issue that many have after not changing their eating habits completely. Just as you said, initially you won't be able to eat as much at one time, many choose to still eat the same portions but once they have room for the rest. Which in turn, your stomach would allow you to consume more and more if start eat more and more even though you're food. A lot of weight loss patients choose to return years later to get an adjustment.

  • @missladyanonymity
    @missladyanonymity 11 месяцев назад +1

    I noticed the ring removal months ago. Prosper, muvva. Prosper!

  • @charleneduncan1508
    @charleneduncan1508 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Faye! Great wisdom❤

  • @lalacity22
    @lalacity22 11 месяцев назад

    Your honesty is priceless 💯😉♥️♥️👠👠

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 11 месяцев назад +3

    This is Gonna b so Insightful Faye🔥🔥🔥👍n Heyyy Happy Sunday😀….

  • @ericayoung3957
    @ericayoung3957 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Faye ❤ good advice

  • @lalacity22
    @lalacity22 11 месяцев назад

    Great honest girl talk ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tarshajno-charles8142
    @tarshajno-charles8142 9 месяцев назад

    You are An amazing by person. Keep on going beautiful lady.

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's crazy that people would like you more and accept you more because of your new body but that's the world we live in its sad and like you said disheartening your beauty from within and out is the strength God has given you Faye Love you 😊❤ continue to be you transparency is beautiful i appreciate you . Also I wanted to know what is the meaning to the phrase you say at the end of your videos .

  • @Kaleepha
    @Kaleepha 11 месяцев назад +21

    What did we do to deserve all these videos? I'm so excited.

  • @bisaandttslifetreasures2752
    @bisaandttslifetreasures2752 10 месяцев назад

    Nice video thanks for the encouraging words ❤❤

  • @deb8911
    @deb8911 11 месяцев назад

    Girl I saw #GRWM… and thought you went live. I WAS FINNA SWING ON RUclips AGAIN! 🪑 but it’s a regular video 😂 #FAYEBAYE

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +1

      LOL!!! This reminds me that I need to go live soon!!!

  • @veniestagourdine3881
    @veniestagourdine3881 11 месяцев назад

    Faye you have been here before. You are so wise beyond your years.

  • @valerieholmes9409
    @valerieholmes9409 11 месяцев назад

    Faye, you gave sister girl very sound advice about her man wasting her time.

  • @jewellemason4614
    @jewellemason4614 11 месяцев назад

    Love your advice so true

  • @ItsJasDarling
    @ItsJasDarling 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ooo just in time 🙌🏾😊

  • @JustShara4
    @JustShara4 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Faye! 💛💛💛💛

  • @mightystrong5484
    @mightystrong5484 11 месяцев назад +18

    It's crazy ppl treat you like trash because of the way you look or don't look 😢😢 this world is crazy ,help us here LORD

  • @ashkeniasims1840
    @ashkeniasims1840 11 месяцев назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I Love This! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mightystrong5484
    @mightystrong5484 11 месяцев назад +1

    FAYE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL 😍 🤩

  • @shelleyforest2877
    @shelleyforest2877 11 месяцев назад

    Faye, you are so beautiful 😍

  • @tbev58
    @tbev58 11 месяцев назад +3

    I knew the title was a Catcher 😂😂

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад

      You already know. We can talk about other peoples business all day but y’all know I’m never going into mine! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 11 месяцев назад

    It’s Champ praising the Lord in the background for me 😂

  • @thesoloalliance
    @thesoloalliance 11 месяцев назад +1

    First we are related!!! Idc idc… but yes ma’am I loved the questions and answers.. so we doing this! OK OK!❤❤ this my post, that is all. NEXT! 😂😂😂.
    Edit: and you gave facts Sis. This journey is not easy after WLS. It’s such a mental journey.

  • @meliecaandkids1067
    @meliecaandkids1067 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice God bless ❤❤

  • @tamitriawalker
    @tamitriawalker 11 месяцев назад

    Wait sis, I've been gone for a minute. We need to chat friend!!! The caption just caught me off guard

  • @thaniya0201
    @thaniya0201 11 месяцев назад

    ❤beautiful look and I’m the same way Faye I don’t like my son on social media too much I myself have similar values and yes boyfriends don’t get husband privileges. 🍵

  • @Blessed2Bme73
    @Blessed2Bme73 11 месяцев назад

    I agree with you on your son

  • @1LocWonder
    @1LocWonder 11 месяцев назад

    You forgot to mention “He innocent” when telling us about Champ🤪

  • @mdatx2012
    @mdatx2012 11 месяцев назад +6

    Faye, I can so relate to going through a lot in my private life during and after pregnancy. I started therapy as well and working out and it really helped me. I hope more people take that advice.

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +2

      So happy you got through it!

    • @mdatx2012
      @mdatx2012 11 месяцев назад

      @@FayeInTheCity thank you!

  • @aishalong9735
    @aishalong9735 11 месяцев назад +8

    Hey Mrs. Faye.. these questions are kind of off the wall. Yeah we miss Baby in the city. But we respect your privacy when it comes to your family. Thanks for being your beautiful real self

  • @skizbees
    @skizbees 11 месяцев назад

    Never lose the gut check of the side eye. 😊

  • @LaShumbraBates
    @LaShumbraBates 11 месяцев назад

    Girl, your title temporarily gave me a heart attack. 💔🤨 😂😂😂

  • @dawndf1527
    @dawndf1527 11 месяцев назад

    wha is that you spray on your face?

  • @jeanninegorden8142
    @jeanninegorden8142 11 месяцев назад +1

    Day care will be great for Champ! Just build up his, you and DJs immunity ASAP!! Cuz dem daycare germs ARE NO JOKE!!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +1

      That’s the scary part!!! My mom had me ramp up his vitamins but I know I can’t fully protect him. I’m hoping with him only going half time, it won’t be as bad but I know kids are gross so there’s no telling 😩😂

    • @jeanninegorden8142
      @jeanninegorden8142 11 месяцев назад

      @FayeInTheCity make a bath after school a part of his new routine. Start wiping down his car seat and diaper bag (& supplies) on the days he goes.
      Unfortunately, the germs good for his immune system but it's a rough ride!

  • @tinaclark1975
    @tinaclark1975 11 месяцев назад +1

    9:20 it doesn't take a man long to know if they want to marry you. They are actually sure before we are! My husband shot me down the aisle 8 months after meeting me so they know ladies.

  • @tolanwilliams3443
    @tolanwilliams3443 11 месяцев назад

    Hey Faye.

  • @charlisimone4045
    @charlisimone4045 11 месяцев назад

    how tall is faye? sorry if that’s random it’s just you were talking about bmi so i was curious

  • @bryanadunn4919
    @bryanadunn4919 11 месяцев назад

    Wait so did you and hubby separate?

  • @constanceellerbe829
    @constanceellerbe829 11 месяцев назад

  • @mightystrong5484
    @mightystrong5484 11 месяцев назад +4

    I'm telling you NOW,you're going to cry when your baby goes to daycare 😢 be skrong 💪🏾 lol 😅

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +3

      I’m…Going to be stalking the day care cameras and watching him all day!!! 😂😂😂

    • @mightystrong5484
      @mightystrong5484 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@FayeInTheCity YESSSSSS LORT!PLEASE DO 🙏🏼

  • @nykia007
    @nykia007 11 месяцев назад +1

    Not me checking in after being gone for a while and finding out we're single!
    Wtf... I've missed so much...
    I hate that for us 🫶🏾

  • @modernchocolatechristians1908
    @modernchocolatechristians1908 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes, that lady needs to leave because he doesn't want to marry HER. If she doesn't leave, he won't either because he's comfortable. There is no way you should spend 10 years as a girlfriend.

  • @naturalshatara9559
    @naturalshatara9559 11 месяцев назад +3

    Share so you won’t get sued, this man sued his wife and won cause the kids came out ugly and he was bamboozled

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  11 месяцев назад +4

      Oh, definitely tell before you get to the altar!

  • @Gabrielle-xf3ex
    @Gabrielle-xf3ex 10 месяцев назад +1

    Single mom? How many chapters did I miss 😭😭?

  • @alwayskrazy
    @alwayskrazy 11 месяцев назад +1

    I disagree with your surgery advice simply because any lie or omission of the truth typically ends badly. If someone knows that the person they are with doesn’t like surgery and that they’ve had surgery then it’s better to be upfront and give the person the opportunity to walk away versus it happened down the line upon engagement or something. Also it spares the heartache and the partner questioning what they have and have not said.