Your Narcissist Knows You Won’t Leave

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Комментарии • 43

  • @libbybarrett1268
    @libbybarrett1268 Месяц назад +23

    Except I did leave. And when he reaches out, I completely ignore him. I would never take him back.

  • @dumpmail-xz2qp
    @dumpmail-xz2qp Месяц назад +7

    she couldn't make it any more clear that she did not want to be around me, yet would feed me bs lies to keep me around.
    I distanced myself and she started to mock me to other people and our friends for struggling in life and not liking how she was treating me.
    I blocked her on everything and don't even bother look at how shes doing, yet she still tries to snoop around. I get icky feeling even when she gets just innocently mentioned . I don't get how can some people go back to that, because in my case I am completely repulsed and avoiding her like the plague

    • @alaznelanda2083
      @alaznelanda2083 Месяц назад +1

      You're lucky. You have healthy boundaries. Not everybody does. Also some people struggle more with addiction(s) than others. Congratulations!

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @LadySerafinaG
    @LadySerafinaG Месяц назад +5

    I left. Moved to a different city. However, it is still a daily struggle; trying to find all the pieces of myself.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад +1

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

    • @LadySerafinaG
      @LadySerafinaG Месяц назад

      @@RawMotivations I am signed up. Thank you. Brightest Blessings

  • @jennifergriffin5467
    @jennifergriffin5467 Месяц назад +3

    And if they can keep you so busy, you're just too exhausted/distracted to figure this stuff out. I was accused of affairs for 30 years;, put in a position of defending myself continuously. They are insane. He's furious that i left. He just can't believe it! Finally, i have peace!

  • @irinaparker8657
    @irinaparker8657 Месяц назад +2

    Right on point 👉👉👉 that was the story of my so call marriage for 24 years. Now I thank God 🙏 for delivering me and my family 🙏 praises to the most high God 🙏 our Lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

    • @ModestLadyK
      @ModestLadyK Месяц назад

      I’m stuck n need deliverance I pray for the most hight to deliver me I have my 10 yr old that I just hate the thought of making him go back n forth I’m so depressed 😢

  • @christinemunger7054
    @christinemunger7054 Месяц назад +2

    "Arguing with crazy" - too true!

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @CC..Jeremiah9_24
    @CC..Jeremiah9_24 Месяц назад +4

    I can’t leave. No money.

    • @sum5clynn470
      @sum5clynn470 19 дней назад

      David E Clarke has some good books and YT channel coaching people how to leave.

  • @ronitgilboa8315
    @ronitgilboa8315 Месяц назад +2

    Again another video that I can say 💯% it’s exactly that, was married to one , and after many wi finally decided NO MORE, I deserve way way better in all aspects of life, and I left, he was shocked to come home realizing I packed my bags, was trying to get me to meet and talk things over, I didn’t even responded , made him to realize I’m out of his life and will never look back will never return no matter how hard it will be , I’m free now and I’m happy like I never been, just do it what awaits for u is much much better then this toxic relationship that he is the one who wins don’t give that to him, let him realize how wrong he was about u, how much more u r and how a loser he actually is
    Thank u Ben , as I’m always enjoy ur videos 💪🏽😎🥳🌸🙏🏻👍🏻

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      Glad you enjoy! Www.Rawmotivations.Com/breakthrough

  • @whoopdeedoo876
    @whoopdeedoo876 Месяц назад +3

    I left. BYEEEEE!

  • @reneclark2556
    @reneclark2556 Месяц назад +1

    Invaluable content to help getting unstuck. Thank you.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @cosimaflumerfelt4802
    @cosimaflumerfelt4802 Месяц назад +4

    Mine actually did do a lot for me, just not a lot with me. We bought a house and we both worked hard renovating it ourselves. It'd be hard to imagine that he never intended to stay in the house after doing all that.

  • @rhondawampner688
    @rhondawampner688 Месяц назад

    He says I'm to insecure, and I need to work on it.

  • @DahliaBrynn
    @DahliaBrynn Месяц назад +4

    I stayed for 24 years. Being accused of cheating while he had a second wife because God told him to be a polygamist. And my only options were to leave with nothing and be shunned by God, or stay and be obedient. I was accused of controlling him constantly. Never given basic support on anything. But I stayed like a good little toaster, until I finally woke up.

    • @alaznelanda2083
      @alaznelanda2083 Месяц назад +1

      Like a good toaster 💔

    • @GreasyBaconMan
      @GreasyBaconMan Месяц назад

      Apologies! What does like a good little toaster a metaphor for?

    • @DahliaBrynn
      @DahliaBrynn Месяц назад

      @@GreasyBaconMan it's a reference to the video

    • @sum5clynn470
      @sum5clynn470 19 дней назад

      Wow, were there any signs you see now that you didn't see then about him having a second wife?

  • @elmaswanepoel1598
    @elmaswanepoel1598 Месяц назад

    Yes he told me that I would never leave. I asked him why he is so certain of that and he said "because we are meant to be together".

  • @MsMarinakr
    @MsMarinakr Месяц назад +3

    It is not clear what they want exactly, you to leave or stay with them at any cost?

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @f.frederickskitty2910
    @f.frederickskitty2910 Месяц назад +4

    It's like you've been a fly on the wall observing for decades. Ugh. What is wrong with me? Why am I so afraid to save myself? What sane, rational person would care what other people think when so much is at stake?

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @Jenn-js8fk
    @Jenn-js8fk Месяц назад

    That's what i say, I'm the same as a refrigerator to him. Smh.. he's told me he wants to be alone and not hear me questioning him. I told him i know if I'm gonna stay, i can't complain, cuz if i don't like it i can leave.. yeah right. I wish i could leave, i can't, i got one foot out the door, how can i get the other one to? I'm so broken.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @aliceg1212
    @aliceg1212 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Ben, how are you! Huge admirer and sharer of your work here... I have a small request... sorta... an observation/wish, if I may... it would be so nice if you'd stop saying "your narcissist" and went with "the" narcissist"...
    Only because 1. the idea is to leave if they won't change 2. No one is anyone else's property, and 3. The biggest narcissist in my life was my, now deceased, mother and one thing I spent my whole life trying to do was to "win" her love and affection... and it just doesn't exist for those who live in a lie like her... so there was nothing to win... so it was never "mine"... you know what I mean?!
    You're your wife's husband, the love of her life, you're your daughter father, her hero, their inspiration... not their narcissist.
    Same goes to all your followers... "THE" narcissists are something to all of us but they're definitely not, and the least they are is "ours"... they're not even "their own"... in lies they're just illusions... as #samvaknin would say: a void...
    I sometimes refrain from watching your videos out of my autistic "defiant" stubbornness "🤮 I don't have a narcissist! Ew!"... you know what I mean?
    And I know you say ppl should stop following you as part of their healing but then my ADHD hyperfocus and curiosity of the human mind and psychology loooves learning and understanding more and more...
    I guess I'm talking too much but I just want your content to be generalized sorta... some narcs are bosses, siblings, children, coaches, colleagues, etc and learning to understand them is primordial to have at least a more peaceful and less dramatic/painful relationship for those that fight have a choice... anyway... that's all.

    • @aliceg1212
      @aliceg1212 Месяц назад

      🙏🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻♥️ BTW, Love your work! It has helped LOADS when I was going through my healing journey. God bless you and your family! 🙏🏼♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @user-ck6ui7rm8m
    @user-ck6ui7rm8m Месяц назад +1

    Can a narcissist truly love someone and truly want to treat their person better. Can they be having this mental battle within themselves. If so how does someone truly help them.

    • @zakiyahussein8586
      @zakiyahussein8586 Месяц назад

      Wondering the same thing

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

    • @user-ck6ui7rm8m
      @user-ck6ui7rm8m Месяц назад

      @@RawMotivations I don’t want to commit and stop someone else from being able to join. I will be working at that time and can listen with my headphones on but that’s it. Is there going to be an other free master class in the near future?

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 Месяц назад +1

    Most women in America read Lundy Bancrofts books ……and even more …,,we know how most men are in psychological details 😎🇺🇸