Relational Self-Awareness: The Key to Navigating Modern Love | Alexandra Solomon | TEDxSanJuanIsland

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

Комментарии • 70

  • @vaihiariitaua5458
    @vaihiariitaua5458 5 лет назад +28

    We need to learn how to be transparent with our partner but it applies to us as well. Being transparent with ourselves and understanding our own needs.

    • @dijin456
      @dijin456 5 лет назад

      Tell u what m8.u be transparent..to the point where u become invisible.. that might help the situation...

  • @rdeloss
    @rdeloss 5 лет назад +6

    I loved this and I love her. Dr. Solomon's books and teachings have been incredibly informing and meaningful to me in my journey. Great talk!

  • @muddyshoes4517
    @muddyshoes4517 4 года назад +3

    So brave to discuss something that's generally perceived as so taboo. Busting through glass ceilings! Thank you for your work.

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 5 лет назад +17

    I really enjoyed her view and talk. Communication is key.

  • @fortheloveofmusic7786
    @fortheloveofmusic7786 5 лет назад +15

    So very accurate in so many ways. We need to allow ourselves to feel human & accept it!

  • @pajefoster2494
    @pajefoster2494 5 лет назад +2

    Well spoken, shout it out! We were meant to love, not fear. There is recovery from a violent past in facing the fear with the power of Love. Namaste. Thou art God.

  • @vivilonrane1330
    @vivilonrane1330 5 лет назад +1

    one of the best TED talks I've seen! So very true and raw and absolutely needed in our time!

  • @poweredman
    @poweredman 5 лет назад +7

    Just be scandalous and truly love yourself but also know that you can always improve in the direction that you feel is adequate for your emotional and physical well-being. It’s that easy.

  • @aquaskysm3972
    @aquaskysm3972 5 лет назад +11

    “Emotional attunement and Conscious choice” - Yes 🙏🏼

  • @sharonsees5035
    @sharonsees5035 5 лет назад +4

    Love is simple if you remember your partner is complicated and ever changing with time....🌹

  • @sudarson4
    @sudarson4 5 лет назад +23

    My left ear learnt a lot about love today

  • @JaysonGaddis
    @JaysonGaddis 5 лет назад +1

    Amazing job Alexandra! thank you for the love you bring to all of us

  • @SusiePettit
    @SusiePettit 3 года назад

    Oh my gosh YESSSSSSS!!! Must listen for all. Thank you Dr Solomon!

  • @ashleydaniels2717
    @ashleydaniels2717 5 лет назад +4

    Really great talk, thank you for sharing your story and your expertise

  • @ronaldwilliams9635
    @ronaldwilliams9635 5 лет назад +5

    People are afraid to love these days because of those 3 meanings she mentioned 💯🔥

    • @lorddiethorn
      @lorddiethorn 5 лет назад

      I am just hear to laugh because of bully hunters lol

  • @Aaron-wy1gf
    @Aaron-wy1gf 5 лет назад +6

    Great topic.

  • @bbbeno
    @bbbeno 5 лет назад +1

    Awesome. Thank you!!!

  • @giulz8
    @giulz8 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks!! Inspiring

  • @CandyLemon36
    @CandyLemon36 11 месяцев назад

    This material is a wellspring of inspiration and fresh perspectives. A book I read with comparable themes guided my evolution. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @emmanuelchukwu8331
    @emmanuelchukwu8331 Год назад +1

    Hi, I want a signed copy of your book

  • @StephanieElizabethMann
    @StephanieElizabethMann 5 лет назад +2

    Brilliant explanation of relationship. Thank you. :)

  • @feelovenergy
    @feelovenergy 5 лет назад

    Wish she gave tips for males to have more agency. I find myself unable to act on my desires because I don't know what I want.

    • @lorddiethorn
      @lorddiethorn 5 лет назад

      She does not care about men

    • @defendliberty1289
      @defendliberty1289 5 лет назад

      By all chances you know what you want.
      But lately you are told, in no uncertain terms, that what you want is not good. Or that you really want something else.
      Hence the confusion.

  • @metathynk9400
    @metathynk9400 5 лет назад +1

    It's an Iceberg??? MindBlown!

    • @asif_mojtoba
      @asif_mojtoba 5 лет назад

      17 minutes talk; only thing I noticed carefully is the iceberg thing. Man will be men, indeed.

  • @jasonjason2789
    @jasonjason2789 5 лет назад +5

    Can we put some effort into teaching personal responsibility and self esteem 🙄

  • @VeiculoIongo
    @VeiculoIongo 5 лет назад +29

    Gonna save you guys 17 mins of your life. Girls can also take the initiative in bed and relationship. Thats whats the whole video is about

    • @ashleydaniels2717
      @ashleydaniels2717 5 лет назад

      Not

    • @clarissemsp
      @clarissemsp 5 лет назад +2

      You should watch it again. Really!

    • @aaniuxx
      @aaniuxx 5 лет назад

      Lol, thank you Eduardo 😂😂

    • @PiterTraceurFA
      @PiterTraceurFA 5 лет назад +1

      "Drawing is about placing lines on paper", "Batman trilogy is about punching people", "Video games are about shooting people". I mean, you're not wrong in your second sentence, but there's so much more to this talk.

    • @goufran7419
      @goufran7419 5 лет назад

      @@clarissemsp ت

  • @KitchenCookingDelicacy
    @KitchenCookingDelicacy 5 лет назад

    Food plays a vital role in this too!!

  • @AzEli87
    @AzEli87 5 лет назад +8

    anyone feels that TEDx Talks lets everyone speak? i mean everybody about everything...

    • @Amal302
      @Amal302 5 лет назад +2

      I'm guessing you are a man 😂😂😂😂

    • @cobymeyer4157
      @cobymeyer4157 5 лет назад +5

      @@Amal302 I'm guessing you are a llama 😂😂😂

    • @giulz8
      @giulz8 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah they do let anyone talk but this One Is brilliant

    • @lorddiethorn
      @lorddiethorn 5 лет назад

      I am hear because of bully hunters she was so full of it fake it to you make it

  • @dijin456
    @dijin456 5 лет назад +3

    My solution is to live alone..get a dog if u need companionship..lot less complicated that trying to live with a women..you need all sorts of manuals and ultimately a witch doctor if u want to survive a deep deep deep emotional relationship with a female

    • @dijin456
      @dijin456 5 лет назад

      @@elimarrin who cares..

  • @sarahx87
    @sarahx87 5 лет назад

    what is love

    • @SaiKrishna-ox9mi
      @SaiKrishna-ox9mi 5 лет назад

      Love is a positive energy, you start feeling then when both the souls mingle each other. This happens in every part of our life not only in physical relationship.

    • @ethanotoroculus1060
      @ethanotoroculus1060 5 лет назад +1

      Chemicals, mostly.

  • @jcjs33
    @jcjs33 5 лет назад +3

    he didn't atune himself to her...she's just talking talking talking talking...when the talking and words and self awareness stops then you can be in love....not in awareness ....

  • @jimboonie5412
    @jimboonie5412 3 года назад

    Can I call a Bully Hunter?

  • @antoniocervantes8276
    @antoniocervantes8276 5 лет назад

    Se podría traducir al español

  • @fabianperez1824
    @fabianperez1824 5 лет назад

    Faca and beyond!

  • @Exodus26.13Pi
    @Exodus26.13Pi 5 лет назад

    Respect and a job?

  • @gersonpriante4031
    @gersonpriante4031 5 лет назад +1

    Tem a Tradução por favor alguém poderá traduzir... E colocar caracteres....

  • @JUDALATION
    @JUDALATION 5 лет назад

    Hey women...you too can cure cancer or Aids...stop obsessing about dating cud Men aren't...

  • @delbertannis5642
    @delbertannis5642 5 лет назад +6

    Sounds like she master baiting was out of control as a teen. Lol

  • @Jonedcc
    @Jonedcc 5 лет назад +4

    Lost all respect for the speaker with the "patriarchy" comment

    • @lorddiethorn
      @lorddiethorn 5 лет назад

      Hi find the bully hunters video i saw rags and she mentioned it like ten times I would have told her you every played a sport that meant something or had something on the line

  • @finnfly2132
    @finnfly2132 5 лет назад

    1st

    • @mikeyseo
      @mikeyseo 5 лет назад

      Finn Fleischmann ur second.

  • @Arthur-Silva
    @Arthur-Silva 5 лет назад

    TED já foi melhor, agora é uma cachoeira de diarréia.

  • @MystDawg
    @MystDawg 5 лет назад

    I just wanted to know how relationships work, wtf lady?

  • @cwwiss1
    @cwwiss1 5 лет назад +1

    Is she aware of how ridiculous her outfit makes her look?