you're kind of right, but so is he. Also a lot of people chose to be here. bro also uses filter to hide his acne scars and wears make up so @lemongrab7635
He didn't say yall aren't supposed to have feelings. He said masculine men don't let their emotions control them. But really, that's not just for men. Adults in general should operate like that.
"Being emotional is feminine. You need to be stoic" This is so tired and played out. If you think this way, the only emotion you'll show is anger and be deeply depressed.
asking my girlfriend what she wants is just me being courteous and loving and nothing beyond that. i love her and what she wants is important to me, even if it’s a small thing like where we’re going to go for lunch. that’s not feminine dude i just care about her
Exactly. Can't say masculine men are providers and then expect us to make all the decisions on our own. If my girlfriend wants to be provided with ice cream and I bring her a salad instead because it's what I FEEL she should eat, then I'm not providing quality, just quantity.
You need to lead if you want to eat that, she gone eat that too or don’t it’s simple, 99% of women never know what they want, remember the moment you get emotional attached you already lost her
@@user-ex3nl8k0l Yeah well I'm the opposite of you and it's not true. I have a powerlifting total of 1715 lbs. I have 20 inch biceps. Women don't care at all. You only get some women who are into niches or you get stuck with crazy women who want you to beat up their ex.
Dude u need education or what? All the things he summed up were literally just facts... if u enjoy being feminine man then have fun marrying a masculine woman who you are probably gonna divorce with in a few years and then become depressed af.
Imagine, someone working 60 hour weeks in construction who goes 50/50 with their spouse is less masculine then the sole provider sitting down for most of their day creating RUclips content.😂
Women are indecisive. You should know that. No, I'm not misogynistic. Even women that are close to me like my mom understand women are indecisive. You should know her interests but you should also understand that most women tend to be indecisive and you should try to plan dates yourself and be clear and concise about time and location.
It doesn't and you already know this. To me it means your emotionally mature enough to respect and be caring to those you love. This video is hilarious
alright, I'm a feminine male... and so what? I'm still satisfied with my life... I'm smart, I make enough money for being able to buy everything I want, I have as many girls as I want, I am good at sports, I am a great musician, I have the best friends I could ever ask for... and all of that while splitting bills 50/50 and being emotional 🥺
Don't take this too seriously. Your statement seems like a healthy balance. Having some feminine personality traits is a good thing and doesn't make you a feminine man. Also he's trying to make feminine personality traits look like a bad thing but same can be done to masculine personality traits. In fact, neither feminine personality traits nor masculine personality traits are bad by nature. Even attraction and sexual preferences are very individual. Many women treasure men with some feminine traits and a good overall balance.
If you make money and if you're actually smart, that's very good then for you. But going after many girls is just childish, letting emotions control yourself is an absolute no go and splitting bills equally won't last long trust me. U may be happy now with your feminity but don't think it will be forever lmao.
My dad earned way less compared to my mom, he is not at all a feminine man. A guy let’s his emotions take over when needed. A man doesn’t have to bottle his emotions at all cause if he does he will be depressed and broken. Trust me I know what it feels holding feelings for 3 years in college without trusting anyone there. I talked again with some high school friends and they helped me with my head and got me on the right path again. Men talk to other men about their feelings. Nothing feminine about that.
Actually, I ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch and eat to make her happy. I know exactly what I want, I choose to put her first and make her happy, above my needs.
Exactly, I put her wants first because I know she does the same for me and has made SO many sacrifices to be with me. And whenever she's too indecisive, I'll make the decision for her.
That may work for you, and I hope it continues to. The only issue is most women really are indecisive and think like kids. They’re pampered people and just need to be told what is going to happen. For example my girlfriend will hmm and ahh about a restaurant if I ask. So I just say “we’re going… at …. Get ready for ….” And she does. Plus since I’m paying I go where I want to eat. My mate does it how you do it though and it works for him. Each to their own
nice, a girlfriend but if you want to get married and stay married, you'll stop asking your gf what she wants all the time real women want a leader that knows where he's going, not somebody that's always asking her what she wants because you're too afraid that she won't go along with your ideas
Remember, not letting your emotions control you doesn't mean to invalidate them or bottle them up. It is healthy for everyone to talk about their feelings with a partner or a close friend.
Ofc talking a bit about your emotions with your closed ones can be good and healthy but the video wants to say that you should be still able to control it in most situations and be stronger than it as a man. For example, being agressive in public is a no go for men.
Honestly, I’d choose the feminine man over a toxic masculine one every single day of the week. Ain’t nothing wrong with crying sometimes. It’s normal. Why is it okay to laugh when you’re happy, yell when you’re angry… Why can’t you cry when you’re sad? Also, there’s nothing wrong with being affectionate towards your partner and allowing them to make decisions.
From what I heard, he makes a lot from these videos so he can provide for his girlfriend. A real man puts providing the woman in his life with the best life possible above the opinions of broke jealous haters. I disagree with a lot of what this guy says, but he’s right for following the money. Money will pay for their dates and the college education of any children they may have. Simply “working for a living” won’t necessarily do that depending on what the work is.
@@johnmartin4641 thank you. I had no idea that money can be used to provide for a girlfriend and pay for kids education. You can actually use the money for stuff?
@@johnmartin4641 the contradiction is insane, just because he needs to provide for his girlfriend coming to the internet and telling false information to get money won’t make him right
I don’t believe any of this is true. As a man who’s been through a lot sometimes being sensitive is what keeps you level and stable and a good support for those around you on top of that being 50/50 is perfectly fine you have to consider peoples situations and lifestyle choices before you give a one sided based opinion that could have real effects on young men this just sounds like some bs alpha male crap
Asking people what they don't do is not a bad thing. Saying "we're doing this whether you like it or not" is controlling, it's better and less toxic to ask people to okay it. That's just dumb.
Disagree. A masculine man is proud of his partner and takes pride in his everlasting relationship, loves cares and provides for his partner, and honours her as his other half. Find God young man. Loose the ego and cynicism, the devil made a bid for you. Just my 10 cents.
Just remembering that, as Jung pointed out, every man has an inner feminine side. Embrace your masculinity, but don't suffocate yourself in the process
@@Dean543-cc3fdbecause he said that “what do you wanna watch?” is feminine (even though it is just being generous). and wearing hoop earrings is a feminine thing to do. make it make sense.
@@JamieLuvsYT You literally went to all comments about earrings to talk crap about Austin because you’re mad he gets play and you don’t🫵🫵😂😂😂 Tell tale sign with guys like you getting defensive in these type of videos that you haven’t touched a female since the last time your mom hugged you🤣🤣
@@officialbenzine4075 Brother seek help, no where in my comment did I even mentioned anything like that. You probably need to learn how to read and evaluate more in life before you start typing.
I like having quality time with the woman I’m with so yeah I’d say I’m needy, want a deeper relationship. Would also say everyone’s emotional, being human… knowing when to let those emotions out is key
Austin you don't know what it means to have emotional intelligence and maturity or maybe you dont know you need it as a man,I grew up with my dad and my elder brother who lacks both and trust me they wasn't there for me,I was sometimes lonely and was jealous when I see other relationship between brothers and father-sons and yeah I figured out most masculine stuffs on my own because of that. I'm not saying you should be soft or overly emotional I'm saying you should be cold hearted and emotional at the same time cause you need both in this world(50/50);As a true and masculine man you need to have emotional intelligence&maturity and you need to have that dawg, aggressive,cold heart but you need to know when to use it💯
Everyone is too worried what they are and what category they belong to alpha sigma beta who cares in 100 years none of it will mater live life the way you want and the rest of the world can suck it were a spec of dust in this universe live while you can don’t limit your self to someone else’s opinion 😂
Sure go spend the rest of your days playing video games and eating Doritos on the couch while weighing 300lbs, “live life how you want” is the worst piece of advice ever and it leads to chaos
@@TerioTyrone just finished a 4 year hitch doing flatbed as a truck driver now I work in the oilfield don’t remember the last time I ate Doritos or played a video game on a couch and like the last post said you and the world can suck it what about not caring about other peoples opinion did you not understand?
Ok im going to debunk all this. 1. If a man doesn't show any emotion he's a sociopath. Express in moderation to what is needed. 2. Be the provider but have your limits. If she goes beyond those limits on more than one occasion then she is on her own because she doesn't respect you. 3. Tell them you love them and pray they have a great day. Checkup once in a while doesn't show neediness. It shows you're thinking about them. 4. Asking them what they want is showing them you want a clear picture of what they're thinking. I can make all decisions in the world but she in the end has to determine if she'll follow them hence asking them to get idea doesn't put them in the driver seat but at least they know they're in the car with you. All the stuff he saying is some single male idea. Doesn't take much to do what he saying because we do it everyday.
You forgot the last one. Obsession skin care facial care, defined jawline and like doing eyebrows and putting facial creams. That is all feminine traits.
Yeah this dude is like super obsessed with what he looks like but probably doesn't have any other beneficial skills in society. How did being a pretty boy become the ultimate goal of men today?
Well if i had to break down all the 4 traits in men that are not nessecarily feminine: 1. This is just on upbringing, it just means that you have a very bright neurology and/or your hormonal levels(testesterone) are chipping up. A lot of men who take steroids experience this. Stoicism isn't about being unemotional, but more like not letting negative emotions lead your actions. Which doesn't nessecarily have to do with your emotiveness. 2. Europeans are feminine men?... I don't think this man understands what equality in relationships means 3. This just means that you like to be center of attention which isn't a bad thing because this is what the stereotype of "alpha" is about(not that it is valid, but the channel is built upon it. ) 4. This is just being courtoues and thoughtful about your partner's needs. Which is a masculine trait. Conclusion: 2 of the 4 traits are in fact masculine, while the other 2 are prevalent in masculine men. Don't let some internet alpha tell you what makes you masculine and not.
@@atuanyaalpheusthememeparod1605I think he called you out and offended you badly😂Your reaching so hard whats next your gonna call him feminine for breathing?
In this economy it’s almost impossible for the man to be the sole provider you’re talking about a time that no longer exists, yes a very few amount of men can but not all men
Everyone thinks he is a man these days and can tell you whether you are a man or not... Of course, masculinity has rules and conditions, but who are you?
The last one though, I say that stuff because I’m trying to be polite. I want the person I’m around to be happy, not upset if I chose a shit dinner, or a shit movie. Ik people are gonna be like “oh you’re not supposed to care” but that kinda defeats the purpose of being polite.
I believe I understand your point and Austin's. From my experience, it would be best to consider your date's preferences, but it would be preferable for you to come with a variety of options for her to choose from afterwards. Ideally, you should have experience with all these choices and have data on your date beforehand (through your exchanges) to then present these options to her. It's a subtle way to lead a woman. If she feels like she's generating ideas for you all the time or taking the initiative before you, one step ahead of you, she'll feel like she's leading you and you risk the friendzone (especially on the first day of the date). She might come up with a lame excuse not to hurt your feelings. You definitely shouldn't force a choice on her or make decisions without considering her feelings; that would be toxic in her eyes. Instead, you should lead while taking her feelings into account
So if I ask simple questions and I’m not always assertive over every little thing, then I’m not a masculine man? Get over yourself. Not everyone needs to be like Andrew Tate
I'll pay all the bills as long as I come home to a clean house, hot meal, don't have to do laundry, or dishes. But also ik things come up she's in pain, she's sick, etc. That's when I'll step in and do it all.
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 Except that's also him not being HIMSELF. That's him being herself if anything. A "man," doesn't do that. It's should be an obvious prerequisite to be manly before being masculine... but I guess not.
Guys sorry, but the many of you who got offended by what he said are just proving his point 😂. Only the dudes who feel targeted by what he said are defending themselves in this comments
I'm not offended, though I am concerned about the display of toxic masculinity and how it may affect young men - especially those without positive examples of masculinity in their lives. I'm a middle-aged, married, wealthy, successful, active member of my community, and a very involved father. I can see right through this bullshit video, but a young man without enough real world experience may see this and think this toxic world view is what a real man should be, and it's not. There's no point in your life where pretending to be something you're not is manly. Be the best you can be with the cards you've been dealt. Be pleasant and considerate of others. Give help when you can. Accept help when you need it. That's what being a man is about.
So merely disagreeing is being offended? I’ve read thru quite a few comments and most from what I’ve seen (keyword), they’ve been dissecting his points and disagreeing. Austin gives valid advice often, however he also generalises a lot and applies a one size fits all approach to many things. I look past that tho, just because someone says something you don’t agree with per se, doesn’t mean they don’t have any valuable information to offer you. He’s a bit cocky at times, but you can’t blame him can you 😂
If she loves fake men then oh well .. Imma be me. If I were a chick id rather be with real than fake alpha pretenders that just always act hard up. But I get most women love lies so yah fake it to make it guys it works well or just dont GAF
Dude this is bs just let people express however they want. I bet if you had a daughter you wouldnt like anyone calling her a lesbian is she had a masculine side.
The provider thing is dependent on the reason/frame for doing that. Lots of guys go 70/30 with a girl not because they’re a “man” but because they’re scared to put their foot down and go 50/50 on things, so just want to appease their girl. Context is everything. No one would say a guy paying for their girls handbags, food, everything is more of a “man” than a guy who has financial boundaries obviously.
if i ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch or where she wants to eat im not indecisive im just taking her feelings into account of what we do and often its idk anyways so then i pick
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A masculine men wouldn't watch videos about his masculinity to begin with
You just did
It's almost like u can control what pops up on shorts...
Exactly, this is for feminine men.
you're kind of right, but so is he. Also a lot of people chose to be here. bro also uses filter to hide his acne scars and wears make up so @lemongrab7635
it's okay all in life needs to be learn
A masculine man is a man who is comfortable in his manhood and doesn't need RUclips videos to tell him if he's masculine or not.
Yep.
Cuck
Yes.
Real
yea.
Masculine men are not idiots who believe everything they see, bring yourself out of poverty into the wealth of knowledge dont become a sheep.
They believe what they know and see above anything they hear
😂😂😂😂 go cry about it
That has nothing to do with masculinity, there are loads of poor masculine men and some feminine rich guys. Being rich isn’t a masculine trait
@@allaboutwwe9269I sorta tot feminine men are men with a vagina😂 cos what you said is facts. Some so called feminine men are stupidly rich.
@@allaboutwwe9269I think they were speaking figuratively about being intellectually poor… though they did phrase it weirdly.
And that’s enough internet for the day
Feminine men spotted
Honestly 😂
Honestly😅😂😂
Cheers to the most masculine man on the internet
It's true. It doesn't mean you need to change your entire personality but these are feminine traits
#7 you are a influencer who thinks you are the definition of masculinity
Lmfao
Lmfaoooooooo bro has the biggest ego
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😭
He definitely ain't perfect but these are still feminine traits. No one said you have to be masculine but these are still feminine traits
All these internet gurus always talk about stoicism, yet they do the most talking and expressing themselves on the internet. 😂
They don’t even know who tf invented the term.
That doesn't make them less stoic lmao
@@maksim3417Austin is kinda lady like. Let's be real.
Coaches doesn't play but they do have more knowledge than the player.
@@edmondsaunders7165 how?
Man idgaf I’m tryna be happy fuck that
Rs, what man lets another man tell him who to be. Nothing bad about this guidance but should be taken lightly
😂😂
Fr bro
Stay feminine and broke then brokee
real men don't give single fcks on these kind of vids 😂
If men were not supposed too have feelings god would not of made us that way.
Exactly
Fr
He didn't say yall aren't supposed to have feelings. He said masculine men don't let their emotions control them. But really, that's not just for men. Adults in general should operate like that.
Imagine saying a man is feminine while wearing earrings 😂
EXACTLY
He's not talking about what a man wears or stereotypical feminine mannerisms he's talking about nuances and intangibles that make a man feminine.
@@chrisjudd6you said it brother
Ok, that is kind of funny lol 🤣
Loo
"Being emotional is feminine. You need to be stoic"
This is so tired and played out. If you think this way, the only emotion you'll show is anger and be deeply depressed.
You got stoicism COMPLETELY wrong
@@maksim3417 I know that's not what Stoicism actually is, but too many people think that's what it does mean.
@@handeggchan1057 Ah ok
Agreed
coping so hard
Masculine man doesn't need a feminine man to tell what masculinity is.
Dude does a little too clean n sweet. Like he looks in the mirror and says I'm the shitm
Don't listen to this guy .
asking my girlfriend what she wants is just me being courteous and loving and nothing beyond that. i love her and what she wants is important to me, even if it’s a small thing like where we’re going to go for lunch. that’s not feminine dude i just care about her
Exactly. Can't say masculine men are providers and then expect us to make all the decisions on our own. If my girlfriend wants to be provided with ice cream and I bring her a salad instead because it's what I FEEL she should eat, then I'm not providing quality, just quantity.
You need to lead if you want to eat that, she gone eat that too or don’t it’s simple, 99% of women never know what they want, remember the moment you get emotional attached you already lost her
So dont Loving her is the key?@@7.62Fendi
It doesn't make you a feminine dude but asking her what she wants puts her in the decision making role. Just don't do it too often
@AlQaedaFendi so being a douchebag with no feelings is key?
Sir this is a Wendy's
#1 You watch these videos and take them seriously
He is not wrong. I'm mostly a feminine man and feminine women doesn't like these qualities unless you want to date masculine women .
@@user-ex3nl8k0l Yeah well I'm the opposite of you and it's not true. I have a powerlifting total of 1715 lbs. I have 20 inch biceps. Women don't care at all. You only get some women who are into niches or you get stuck with crazy women who want you to beat up their ex.
Dude u need education or what? All the things he summed up were literally just facts... if u enjoy being feminine man then have fun marrying a masculine woman who you are probably gonna divorce with in a few years and then become depressed af.
Masculine men follow Christ! 🙌🏽
Amen brother
No wrong
@@aurora0534 Maybe the ones that follow the church and man, they're wrong. I pray the Lord gives you wisdom and guidance friend🩵
They follow Mahadev and bajrangbali (hinduism 😎) 🚩
Amen!!!❤
Imagine, someone working 60 hour weeks in construction who goes 50/50 with their spouse is less masculine then the sole provider sitting down for most of their day creating RUclips content.😂
I see the logic in this 😂😂😂
Exactly
50/50 isn't feminine it's just smart, not to mention forward thinking and fair.
Yeah and with all this inflation going on you have to keep track of your budget
Shows she doesn't just want free food
Austin went from a motivational callisthenics athlete to an off brand Andrew Tate + Bro science tips for working out sometimes
And heria continued and it paid of
He's being diverse ,overall he's giving help & advice in being a better & more structured Man
What do you wanna eat?
What do you wanna watch?
Didn't know being considerate of other people's interests makes me a feminine man😂😂😂😂
Women are indecisive. You should know that. No, I'm not misogynistic. Even women that are close to me like my mom understand women are indecisive. You should know her interests but you should also understand that most women tend to be indecisive and you should try to plan dates yourself and be clear and concise about time and location.
It doesn't and you already know this. To me it means your emotionally mature enough to respect and be caring to those you love. This video is hilarious
@@hustlerscentralclipsthat may be true but it’s still good to ask those questions because not all women are the same y’know
alright, I'm a feminine male... and so what?
I'm still satisfied with my life... I'm smart, I make enough money for being able to buy everything I want, I have as many girls as I want, I am good at sports, I am a great musician, I have the best friends I could ever ask for...
and all of that while splitting bills 50/50 and being emotional 🥺
Don't take this too seriously. Your statement seems like a healthy balance. Having some feminine personality traits is a good thing and doesn't make you a feminine man. Also he's trying to make feminine personality traits look like a bad thing but same can be done to masculine personality traits. In fact, neither feminine personality traits nor masculine personality traits are bad by nature. Even attraction and sexual preferences are very individual. Many women treasure men with some feminine traits and a good overall balance.
Will it be bad if my wife will have more musculine traits than me? @@NoviusInfernalBerserk
Plenty of girls but can't get a girlfriend 😄
If you make money and if you're actually smart, that's very good then for you. But going after many girls is just childish, letting emotions control yourself is an absolute no go and splitting bills equally won't last long trust me. U may be happy now with your feminity but don't think it will be forever lmao.
@@lou6574who needs a girlfriend when you can just have a new chick every weekend
My dad earned way less compared to my mom, he is not at all a feminine man. A guy let’s his emotions take over when needed. A man doesn’t have to bottle his emotions at all cause if he does he will be depressed and broken. Trust me I know what it feels holding feelings for 3 years in college without trusting anyone there. I talked again with some high school friends and they helped me with my head and got me on the right path again. Men talk to other men about their feelings. Nothing feminine about that.
Bro must be so insecure inside
I genuinly think you are, reading your comment lol
Actually, I ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch and eat to make her happy. I know exactly what I want, I choose to put her first and make her happy, above my needs.
Exactly, I put her wants first because I know she does the same for me and has made SO many sacrifices to be with me. And whenever she's too indecisive, I'll make the decision for her.
That may work for you, and I hope it continues to. The only issue is most women really are indecisive and think like kids. They’re pampered people and just need to be told what is going to happen. For example my girlfriend will hmm and ahh about a restaurant if I ask. So I just say “we’re going… at …. Get ready for ….” And she does. Plus since I’m paying I go where I want to eat.
My mate does it how you do it though and it works for him. Each to their own
nice, a girlfriend
but if you want to get married and stay married, you'll stop asking your gf what she wants all the time
real women want a leader that knows where he's going, not somebody that's always asking her what she wants because you're too afraid that she won't go along with your ideas
@@billybob-wx2reWhat about doing something that she doesn’t like or not interested in?
SIMP BRAH
I often think Austin is a caveman who found a Time Machine and is masquerading as what he thinks a modern man is.
Are you srsly gonna act emotional now bcs of some simple facts? Get your shi together lmao.
b-but sir im only 12
uhhh i have never even gotten another like on my comment except for mine on any other of my comments so thanks
Same here lmao
Then be 20 or 25 real men don't let age control them they control their age
I’m 13
@@Bussman.Yh man.. i didn’t like it when i was born so i wanted to become a man
Go to sleep kid
Remember, not letting your emotions control you doesn't mean to invalidate them or bottle them up. It is healthy for everyone to talk about their feelings with a partner or a close friend.
Most ppl dont get this
Fax
Yeah, being stoic and not exhibiting emotions is a leading reason why men have a high suic. rate
Ofc talking a bit about your emotions with your closed ones can be good and healthy but the video wants to say that you should be still able to control it in most situations and be stronger than it as a man. For example, being agressive in public is a no go for men.
#5 You’re overly obsessed with your looks
Honestly, I’d choose the feminine man over a toxic masculine one every single day of the week. Ain’t nothing wrong with crying sometimes. It’s normal. Why is it okay to laugh when you’re happy, yell when you’re angry… Why can’t you cry when you’re sad? Also, there’s nothing wrong with being affectionate towards your partner and allowing them to make decisions.
Lol yet when you're gonna try to start a long term relationship with this type of dreamboy u got, you're gonna realize it won't work out lmao.
This is the same guy who said every man should have a gay best friend lol
lmao when
Guy spends his time sitting in front of a camera while real men actually work for a living
hes tryna say something out there for the internet, he doesnt spent all day long on screen, make it make sense
@@mrqwerty4792dick rider spotted
From what I heard, he makes a lot from these videos so he can provide for his girlfriend. A real man puts providing the woman in his life with the best life possible above the opinions of broke jealous haters. I disagree with a lot of what this guy says, but he’s right for following the money. Money will pay for their dates and the college education of any children they may have. Simply “working for a living” won’t necessarily do that depending on what the work is.
@@johnmartin4641 thank you. I had no idea that money can be used to provide for a girlfriend and pay for kids education. You can actually use the money for stuff?
@@johnmartin4641 the contradiction is insane, just because he needs to provide for his girlfriend coming to the internet and telling false information to get money won’t make him right
I don’t believe any of this is true. As a man who’s been through a lot sometimes being sensitive is what keeps you level and stable and a good support for those around you on top of that being 50/50 is perfectly fine you have to consider peoples situations and lifestyle choices before you give a one sided based opinion that could have real effects on young men this just sounds like some bs alpha male crap
Facts
Just by reading what you said I can tell you don’t know what stoic means
@@TerioTyrone🤓
@@TerioTyronestoic men are extinct that type of many is similar to the woman that’s a virgin til marriage, that also doesn’t exist
@@Weakestlink437both types still exist they are just very rare
Asking people what they don't do is not a bad thing. Saying "we're doing this whether you like it or not" is controlling, it's better and less toxic to ask people to okay it. That's just dumb.
Masculine men don’t call their girlfriend or wife a partner.
Ahahah facts
Wtf...
What do they call them?
Disagree. A masculine man is proud of his partner and takes pride in his everlasting relationship, loves cares and provides for his partner, and honours her as his other half. Find God young man. Loose the ego and cynicism, the devil made a bid for you. Just my 10 cents.
@@user-pl9wu1xy3m girlfriend or wife
Bro sometimes masculine men cry tooo
@user-br9ru9nw8f and they marry with bros not with women 🙈🥺✅
If you're happy, stay the way you are
Right! Ty!!
Thanks for the information Jake from State Farm
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Lol
Hahaha now I can't unsee it😂
"What are you wearing jake from state" uh Khakis
Lmao 😂
Lil bro projecting 🤦🏿♂️
Bro is wearing earrings talking about how not to be a feminine man 😂😂😂
Earrings make you feminine??😂😂😂
@@Dean543-cc3fdYes
@@Dean543-cc3fdAbsolutely yes.
@@tru3boc I can smell your funky room through the screen
@@Dean543-cc3fdbro went to all the earrings comments to defend himself 💀
I have a feeling this is gonna piss off a lot of people lol
It just did
Well…you not wrong lol
Well cause spitting some really great brain rot.
Welcome to 2024
Just remembering that, as Jung pointed out, every man has an inner feminine side. Embrace your masculinity, but don't suffocate yourself in the process
Says the guy wearing hoop earrings
What does that have to do with anything??
@@Dean543-cc3fdbecause he said that “what do you wanna watch?” is feminine (even though it is just being generous). and wearing hoop earrings is a feminine thing to do. make it make sense.
@@JamieLuvsYT You literally went to all comments about earrings to talk crap about Austin because you’re mad he gets play and you don’t🫵🫵😂😂😂 Tell tale sign with guys like you getting defensive in these type of videos that you haven’t touched a female since the last time your mom hugged you🤣🤣
😂 Brother Ehhhh… What that? I mean the 50/50 thing got me blown, niccas out here struggling you talking bout its feminine.
So you think its normal to not be paid more than your wife? U need to learn a lot in life I see.
@@officialbenzine4075 Brother seek help, no where in my comment did I even mentioned anything like that. You probably need to learn how to read and evaluate more in life before you start typing.
Wow cool Andrew Tate also adopted a parrot next to his stray pitbulls😂😂😂
Shut
Up
If you are a human being with emotions that happens to be a man like this comment
LMAO..Austin reframing the Feminine Man. Next Level Mind Screw...😂😂😂😂
I really wouldn’t need another man to evaluate how manly I am. A bit gay isn’t it?
I like having quality time with the woman I’m with so yeah I’d say I’m needy, want a deeper relationship. Would also say everyone’s emotional, being human… knowing when to let those emotions out is key
Bro is doing everything but fitness on his channel .
Austin just sounds feminine like what are we doing here? Lmao!
Masculine men don’t wear stupid earrings
Austin you don't know what it means to have emotional intelligence and maturity or maybe you dont know you need it as a man,I grew up with my dad and my elder brother who lacks both and trust me they wasn't there for me,I was sometimes lonely and was jealous when I see other relationship between brothers and father-sons and yeah I figured out most masculine stuffs on my own because of that.
I'm not saying you should be soft or overly emotional I'm saying you should be cold hearted and emotional at the same time cause you need both in this world(50/50);As a true and masculine man you need to have emotional intelligence&maturity and you need to have that dawg, aggressive,cold heart but you need to know when to use it💯
I'm a 50/50 ANNNNNND hella indecisive. I guess I'm feminine... I'm okay with that. 😅
I disagree. Being comfortable in your manhood is the definition of masculine. This bullshit video is what posers think masculinity is.
Good luck with your divorce and depression in a few years.
U won't be happy with that in a long term lol. Wake the f up
I don't think it's this black and white, we all possess these traits depending on the situation but I guess how often
Everyone is too worried what they are and what category they belong to alpha sigma beta who cares in 100 years none of it will mater live life the way you want and the rest of the world can suck it were a spec of dust in this universe live while you can don’t limit your self to someone else’s opinion 😂
Sure go spend the rest of your days playing video games and eating Doritos on the couch while weighing 300lbs, “live life how you want” is the worst piece of advice ever and it leads to chaos
@@TerioTyrone just finished a 4 year hitch doing flatbed as a truck driver now I work in the oilfield don’t remember the last time I ate Doritos or played a video game on a couch and like the last post said you and the world can suck it what about not caring about other peoples opinion did you not understand?
@@TerioTyrone Some people's life plans are good though.
@@TerioTyrone Yea yea yea keep coping.
@@HenrySimmons1225 some, not all
The way he expresses is very condescending. Feminity has inner enduring strength. Masculinity has outer resilience.
Ok im going to debunk all this.
1. If a man doesn't show any emotion he's a sociopath. Express in moderation to what is needed.
2. Be the provider but have your limits. If she goes beyond those limits on more than one occasion then she is on her own because she doesn't respect you.
3. Tell them you love them and pray they have a great day. Checkup once in a while doesn't show neediness. It shows you're thinking about them.
4. Asking them what they want is showing them you want a clear picture of what they're thinking. I can make all decisions in the world but she in the end has to determine if she'll follow them hence asking them to get idea doesn't put them in the driver seat but at least they know they're in the car with you.
All the stuff he saying is some single male idea. Doesn't take much to do what he saying because we do it everyday.
You forgot the last one. Obsession skin care facial care, defined jawline and like doing eyebrows and putting facial creams. That is all feminine traits.
😂😂 say it
Yeah this dude is like super obsessed with what he looks like but probably doesn't have any other beneficial skills in society. How did being a pretty boy become the ultimate goal of men today?
it's still good to take care of youself on those points, but i agree that the obsession about those things can become very negative for you
Defined jawline is a feminine trait? Complete opposite😂
defined jawline is one of the most masculine traits kid you must be mad he called you out🤣🤡👎
Well if i had to break down all the 4 traits in men that are not nessecarily feminine:
1. This is just on upbringing, it just means that you have a very bright neurology and/or your hormonal levels(testesterone) are chipping up. A lot of men who take steroids experience this. Stoicism isn't about being unemotional, but more like not letting negative emotions lead your actions. Which doesn't nessecarily have to do with your emotiveness.
2. Europeans are feminine men?...
I don't think this man understands what equality in relationships means
3. This just means that you like to be center of attention which isn't a bad thing because this is what the stereotype of "alpha" is about(not that it is valid, but the channel is built upon it. )
4. This is just being courtoues and thoughtful about your partner's needs. Which is a masculine trait.
Conclusion: 2 of the 4 traits are in fact masculine, while the other 2 are prevalent in masculine men. Don't let some internet alpha tell you what makes you masculine and not.
I'm surprised he didn't say that you don't do 15 pullups.
It's a feminine on camera calling someone feminine smh that's like me calling someone a Nigerian scammer while being a Nigerian scammer lmfao.
@@atuanyaalpheusthememeparod1605I think he called you out and offended you badly😂Your reaching so hard whats next your gonna call him feminine for breathing?
#5 Men who look like you and have youtube pages like this
Dude that thing about asking people what they want to do is just being kind not feminine it’s chivalrous
In this economy it’s almost impossible for the man to be the sole provider you’re talking about a time that no longer exists, yes a very few amount of men can but not all men
Rule No #1 : don't take advice from random dudes the internet.
Whelp!! That's a minute of my life I'll never get back.
Everyone thinks he is a man these days and can tell you whether you are a man or not... Of course, masculinity has rules and conditions, but who are you?
Yes, real men dont simp for their girlfriends or let them go to clubs
@@s66s46 I totally agree
The last one though, I say that stuff because I’m trying to be polite. I want the person I’m around to be happy, not upset if I chose a shit dinner, or a shit movie. Ik people are gonna be like “oh you’re not supposed to care” but that kinda defeats the purpose of being polite.
I believe I understand your point and Austin's. From my experience, it would be best to consider your date's preferences, but it would be preferable for you to come with a variety of options for her to choose from afterwards. Ideally, you should have experience with all these choices and have data on your date beforehand (through your exchanges) to then present these options to her. It's a subtle way to lead a woman. If she feels like she's generating ideas for you all the time or taking the initiative before you, one step ahead of you, she'll feel like she's leading you and you risk the friendzone (especially on the first day of the date). She might come up with a lame excuse not to hurt your feelings. You definitely shouldn't force a choice on her or make decisions without considering her feelings; that would be toxic in her eyes. Instead, you should lead while taking her feelings into account
Bro is so worried about other men😂
So if I ask simple questions and I’m not always assertive over every little thing, then I’m not a masculine man? Get over yourself. Not everyone needs to be like Andrew Tate
s-sir i'm n-not s-sure a-about t-that
u tryna copy my comment???😂
@@Controller.player-chris wdym(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*.✧
@@kellystortenbecker3055i have almost the exact same comment and 160 likes on it or smth
@@Controller.player-chris Lemme see becuase i wasnt trying too
man whats the deal with having to pay for everything. My gf loves to take me to dinner the same way I love to pay for her
Hey, the soft guy era
drizzle drizzle 😂🤣😭😭
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Great list, i see alot mfs acting like this and it's easy to spot. I'm so thankful to be raised around masculine men 💯
It sucks to see that this is me
Don't believe this clown. Pave your own way. YOUR WAY.
What WE gonna do about it?
He’s a moron. Masculinity and femininity are fluid, subjective topics whose identifiers constantly change. Be your own kind of man.
He’s full of shit. Masculinity and femininity are fluid, subjective topics that constantly change over time. Be your own kind of man.
Don’t let a man who can’t pronounce “women” let you feel inferior.
There’s a difference in feminine and being considerate
I'll pay all the bills as long as I come home to a clean house, hot meal, don't have to do laundry, or dishes. But also ik things come up she's in pain, she's sick, etc. That's when I'll step in and do it all.
Takes a masculine man to be himself.
He’s being himself by wearing makeup, and putting on a dress with high heels 👠. He’s masculine?
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9right... He isn't
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9Sure. Sounds like that takes guts. Could you do that?
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 bars 🎯👌🏽
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 Except that's also him not being HIMSELF. That's him being herself if anything. A "man," doesn't do that. It's should be an obvious prerequisite to be manly before being masculine... but I guess not.
I always see people talk about feminine men but never seen someone talks about masculine women
There both an issue right now
@@crucialwulf350 masculine women are a much bigger issue, especially among black women.
@@crucialwulf350 What's the issue?
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Damn this was the man who taught me calisthenics back in the day
The funny thing is this is coming from a feminine RUclips hipster 😂
😂 masculine men dont Overdose on Red Pill Content neitha champ
Guys sorry, but the many of you who got offended by what he said are just proving his point 😂. Only the dudes who feel targeted by what he said are defending themselves in this comments
exactly
Nuh uh
I'm not offended, though I am concerned about the display of toxic masculinity and how it may affect young men - especially those without positive examples of masculinity in their lives.
I'm a middle-aged, married, wealthy, successful, active member of my community, and a very involved father. I can see right through this bullshit video, but a young man without enough real world experience may see this and think this toxic world view is what a real man should be, and it's not.
There's no point in your life where pretending to be something you're not is manly. Be the best you can be with the cards you've been dealt. Be pleasant and considerate of others. Give help when you can. Accept help when you need it. That's what being a man is about.
Fatherless men are going to do Fatherless things and that is cry like women 😂
So merely disagreeing is being offended? I’ve read thru quite a few comments and most from what I’ve seen (keyword), they’ve been dissecting his points and disagreeing.
Austin gives valid advice often, however he also generalises a lot and applies a one size fits all approach to many things. I look past that tho, just because someone says something you don’t agree with per se, doesn’t mean they don’t have any valuable information to offer you. He’s a bit cocky at times, but you can’t blame him can you 😂
One of the Masculine trait i like is don't care about people's opinions and focus the goal that they want.💯
I have none of these traits but I got gyno 😂
nothing wrong with a feminine men
Yea , you watch anime, POINT INVALID
People will accuse you of being gay due to our increasingly judgmental society
@@Funfacksgeez aren't you fun at parties?
@@Mr.Mayhem...lmao an anime nerd talking about party’s and you didn’t even use the joke right
If she loves fake men then oh well .. Imma be me. If I were a chick id rather be with real than fake alpha pretenders that just always act hard up. But I get most women love lies so yah fake it to make it guys it works well or just dont GAF
Agreed. So many emotional guys in the comments are fine with not improving and would go 50/50 and have the ladies decide for them.
Or maybe we arent emotional n smart enough to actually kno what 50/50 truly menans. Yall would kno too if yall werent too busy wit a mouthful of meat.
It embarrassing but fatherless men are going to do Fatherless things
Wow, you are really deep in the masculine realm. These signs are so true.
Bros never been indecisive
Dude this is bs just let people express however they want. I bet if you had a daughter you wouldnt like anyone calling her a lesbian is she had a masculine side.
I agree with Mr. Dunham. All these are true
Fuck.. I'm feminine in the video AND the comments.. can't catch a break 😂
Being more masculine is a process that gets better over time and reasonable expirence
a very accurate video for once lol
this guy look like the guy that looks like a minecraft dirt block 💀💀
The provider thing is dependent on the reason/frame for doing that. Lots of guys go 70/30 with a girl not because they’re a “man” but because they’re scared to put their foot down and go 50/50 on things, so just want to appease their girl. Context is everything. No one would say a guy paying for their girls handbags, food, everything is more of a “man” than a guy who has financial boundaries obviously.
It’s so true… I work with grown men who need constant attention and will do anything to be relevant.
50/50 we always do shit. Every guy is a 50/50 guy equality
Wrong buzzer counter: 999
if i ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch or where she wants to eat im not indecisive im just taking her feelings into account of what we do and often its idk anyways so then i pick
Agree on just the second one everything else is garbage
Now this video and these commercials really made me very happy 😊
Soooooo many emotionally intelligent folks in here. I love it 😊