LOSE Custody Of Your Kids In 30 SECONDS or LESS!
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- Опубликовано: 15 май 2024
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I don't think Ted is spineless, I think Ted is sick and tired of getting his ass whooped by that crazy sociopath.
Ted the bf is a better parent than the mother. At least he thought about the children's welfare, so texted the fathers secretly to get them.
Calling your gf exes to call the cops after being beat up
And staying with her
Is definition of spineless
@@fastinradfordableOpposed to what? Beating a woman up? Darwin award for you...
@@fastinradfordabletell me you’ve never been in an abusive relationship without telling me you’ve never been in an abusive relationship. If she was in the military which she said she was and has been beating him with rocks and threatening to kill his family, she’s likely also beating the kids. If she knew he was getting the cops on her she could’ve killed him, his family, the kids, etc. she’s obviously unhinged and violent so what he did and probably has been trying to do is the right thing.
@@richietherrien7540hence being spineless. Could’ve compiled evidence of said abuse, called cops and get a restraining order. Lmao. What a pathetic excuse of a “man”.
When a child is crying and begging to Mom directly they don't want to see something, tells me those kids have already seen alot with Mom.
That part broke me.
Had the same thought. Starting to wonder if there a lot going on with the guy on the boat as well. Nowadays you never know.
The kid was crying Coz they didn't want to see their mum (mom) get arrested.....
Exactly. As a mom that kicked me right in my chest😭
@@ginalovesalaugh4482 it's the way the daughter said it. No doubt at all those kids have been in the middle of mom's bullshit before
You know it’s bad when 3 guys are on the same side against their ex.
and one of the 3 was her current😂
@@_Radoo not qnymor
We got always got the boys backs against the crazies 😤
Bros be for hos
So glad I knew my wife since childhood. She knows why I will not be dating if something happens to her.
The cop calling out the boyfriend while on the boat was hella f'd up. Imagine if the roles were reversed and it was an abused woman.
Right, the same thing went through my head, but I thought it was one of her kids. I was like, why would that officer do that.
@@DR.Poncho-dx4zr He's a cop, ffs. They're not good people by default. They tend to be power tripping A holes.
@77Creation Oh, I know most of them aren't good people. I was just saying what they did to that guy was evil, even for them.
Man threw him directly under the bus.
@@77Creation wow the cop did f up and called him out but they saved him and the kids from that abusive women
Ted didn't call the cops. He texted the dads to call the cops. He probably couldn't call in her presence without getting thrown overboard. Those poor children.
Exactly!
@@tiffanyholman4028 Yeah, Ted is the current boyfriend and not the parent of any of the kids. He knew what she was doing was wrong so he did the right thing.and called the fathers who then called the authorities. edit: called or texted
Yea, how he was scared but done with her drama and abuse. She flips on a dime. Her bf was so scared he texted the kids’ real dads to come save those kids
It all started because she had children out on a boat with NO LIFE JACKETS, the officer did ask about life jackets. Even the adults were without life jackets; that's what the calls were about. It was safety issues due to her not providing required safety gear for the children. It then went from bad to worse to nuclear. Toxic 🐮.
@@TheAstroflight are you saying that’s why Ted messaged the kids fathers?
She abuses her significant other, she abused the dog, so she’s got to be abusing the kids too. I hope she lost custody/visitation.
Likely not, the courts favor moms no matter how shitty they are. One of my buddies proved in court the mother had violated several parts of what’s called the children’s bill of rights and she still got joint custody.
@@alphabrodien yeah I really hope that’s changing! When I was 9 my mother divorced my dad and she and I never had a good relationship and my dad and I were never apart before that! She did everything she could to make he and I miserable! No reason just her selfish entitled ass not wanting us to be happy!
100% agree. But if she finds herself in a court with a liberal lawyer, she'll win.
@@user-ku9kn4es3t bless you, kids should never be kept from the people that they have loving family bonds with!
@@ginalovesalaugh4482 Thank you!! She’s been like this for as far back as I can remember! She has two other kids that she treats like royalty…my brother lives in her 3 bedroom house with his dogs who have destroyed it buying all his groceries paying his bills etc but even at Christmas she gives everyone a 100 dollars cash and me nothing not even a Merry Christmas! Lol sorry I don’t know how to say anything about her that’s positive! Not to mention how much venting I seem to do lol I appreciate you 🤍
That man is traumatized. Took bravery to reach out... just, damn.
dude needs to grow a pair. she is like 90 pounds soak and wet.
When she said “isn’t this a civil matter?” It told me she knows she can usually get away with keeping the kids from their dad and the cops will tell him to talk it to court. She probably had a habit of refusing to return the kids.
She mentioned the weed thing on purpose, hoping the cops would have to arrest them both. That way she could drag him down with her. What a monster 😢
I literally hate her for that. Lowkey watched the escalation of force more than once cuz it was cathartic to get her ass whooped.
Yeah that seems to be the case. She wanted to hurt the guy in whatever way she could and that would be a cop approved way to hurt him unfortunately.
Bro trust in that moment the cops don’t care. She’s scummy for that though100%
I had an abusive step dad.
He smoked weed.
When the cops came for domestic abuse we showed them his paraphernalia (we were 8, 11yo)
The cops said so what.
And this was Virginia around 1997 where they treat weed worse than they do meth now
Yeah, that was a punk move.
After seeing the video more, Ted probably didn’t want to admit he called b/c he knew how she would endanger her own kids. She needs to lose custody…
This is my thought, too. He knew if he admitted to it she would fly off the handle immediately.
Well at least he cares about those kids cause she sure as hell doesn’t!
Ted is not the father of any of her kids, he contacted the real fathers and told them the situation....He wanted her gone, so the first part was to protect the children...
You know it’s bad when you get two different baby daddies, the current boyfriend and her own father to all agree that she needs to go.
It amazes me that some courts will never even consider the father to be in sole custody even with a psycho mother like her its sad
That house is gorgeous. When the cop said, "Hands behind your back!" what I really heard was "Ted is single now!" 🎉😍
😂😂
Lmao
LOOOL
You can tell she was spoiled by her parents especially when she is sitting in bathroom and the dad says she will put 400 in her account which shows why she is like this
Yup. Spot on.
Wow I didn’t even hear that. Exactly the problem
There are 2 baby daddies in this scenario. The man on the boat is not a baby daddy; just a boyfriend. And when you see how psycho this woman gets, you’ll KNOW why he didn’t get more involved in the situation when they were on the boat. I think he wanted to wait until he was safe on dry land.
Don't blame him she would hurt him or worse
You KNOW a chick is psycho when the cops come to take here kids from her on a damn boat.
At least three poor guys have put their dick in that crazy bitch.
The curse of being a man. Your dick doesn't think rationally until it's too late.
That's so fucking weak it's disgusting. To just let another person treat you like that, and not have any thought to defend yourself.
@@embracehorizons i might handle it different but come on its disgusting? if things were fair, I'm sure he would just slap her ass overboard, but men and women have different rules. There are so many times my gf would have legally deserved a hit to the face but i did nothing because I'm a much larger person that is also male.
Mike and Greg are the "baby daddies" and Ted is the boyfriend who called the Dad's to let them know the Mom was being a problem and the kids weren't safe with her. Hopefully Ted is now the ex-boyfriend and the Dad's have full custody.
Yes!! You said exactly what I was thinking!
What was she doing? And Ted is amazing for protecting those kids. I’d be so grateful my kids were with someone like that
@@Mama_Bear524 right? as scared as he seemed to be, he took a real chance by alerting the dads. Kuddo's to him for that. I hope he gets away from her without any further problems. But I doubt she will suddenly change her whole personality and be civil. The fact that she has so many different dads says a lot to me. She is all charm and martha stewart in the beginning, the guys think she is great, they have a kid and her true colors start to emerge. They flee and fight for their kids in court. This guy was just victim number 5 and dodged a bullet since they dont have a kid yet. She let her guard down too soon and he wants out now. Good for him, I wish him luck.
im sorry and completely unrelated but "dad's" is nonsensical dude, it's not a possessive, it's a plural... there's no apostrophe on plurals..
it's "Dads"
@@yurilopes420honestly you were so nice about the correction, I don’t think anyone’s mad 😂
These poor kids don’t deserve this. That little girl crying saying “I don’t wanna see this” killed me. :(
Obviously she has seen it before.
@@downhomesunset yea man that awareness hurts, they should be able to be kids
Hopefully the fathers get custody and the children get a chance to be children.
I can only imagine the type of man that would have a child with a woman like this, though..
It's the footage of the kids that hit me hardest, especially at the end where the Cop is taking the kids around the store for ice cream and drinks. Had me blubbering like a baby.
A cop did something similar for me when I was 7, I'm 44 and have been grateful for that kind moment every day.
I think about him a lot.
"Nobody wins, the kids just lose".
Absolutely. I don't even understand being so selfish that you only care about "winning".
*lose *winning
@@colonel_angus82 Thanks, English is my second language ✨
Dealing with that exact situation with my ex and my kids right now. It's unbelievable...
Sadly, you see this sick game being played constantly. It's really disgusting.
Sadly that's all that matters to some people they just can't let things go and will die instead of loosing a simple argument or whatever
That little child saying “I don’t want to see that mommy” tells you these kids have seen some shit
That’s when I started crying
She’s really young, so she could have used the wrong words. She said it when the cop said he was taking her, so it’s not clear what the child meant. The whole situation is unfortunate.
@@roems6396 what? The cop says “I’m going to take you in handcuffs” and the kid says “I don’t want to see that mommy”
If you don’t understand basic things I question your ability to comprehend
@@dd4850
Relax super genius. I misheard what he was saying.
@@roems6396 here you are, sperging out & simping for that sorry excuse of a mom yet again.
The cop needs an award for patience and restraint.
I hope Ted is living his best life now. He deserves better. And so do these kids.
At first I was like "This guy is a coward" by the end you realize he is a victim of a seriously abusive relationship. He can't fight back. She would be the type to claim being the victim if he defended himself.
My thoughts exactly. He seemed so defeated and was very worried when the police mentioned his knowledge of the call. I feel so bad for him because for a year he's been probably trying to leave and get her out but was afraid of what would happen.
That attitude is exactly why make victims are afraid to ask for help. To call him a cowered when you had no idea how violent she could be or what the situation was at the time is fucked up, and if the genders were reversed that wouldn't be the first thought.
Why do we always presume men who are abused are cowardly?
@@ElanaVital83 We assumed he was cowardly because he wasn't speaking up about the situation. We didn't say he was cowardly because he was abused.
she wouldve thrown herself in that water & said he tried to drown her. I know a liar when I hear one
Oh fk no, she kicked the dog! Put her in damn handcuffs
She'll be hired by the ATF, no doubt.
@@theRPGmaster ATF, sheriff's Dept, or maybe governor of South Dakota
Right! The poor dog was probably trying to comfort her. What a witch!
lol who cares
@@xiRePeNTx good one
I could tell immediately the way his face was in his hands and how he was scared to talk to the cops that he was a victim of domestic abuse. He was terrified of what she would do to him. My heart breaks for him and this kids, no one should have to be hurt by someone they care about.
This banshee should be made to watch this body cam footage 50 times as part of her punishment…in front of friends and family. Thanks Leon, love your commentary. 👍
he acts like he's been abused by this woman. she doesn't come across as pleasant and level headed
This is the most polite way i've ever seen someone describe a crazy b!tch
Honestly, I think you’re onto something. I know Leon dismissed him as a “spineless jellyfish”, however it’s evident by the way she stands over him (looking down on him) as he was trying to whisper something to her that she is clearly showing dominance through her body language.
Edit: I can say with 99.99% certainty, there is definitely some form of DV going on here; female towards male. I’ve been there before and this guy did the right thing letting the cops know. Moreover, had the cops left, this could’ve become a True Crime situation. She would’ve taken her anger out on the guy. At that point the guy would’ve had two paths 1) Be the “spineless jellyfish” by letting her abuse him 2) fight back, escalate, then be stabbed by this unhinged woman.
@@arya_jahan98 Female on Male abuse is highly overlooked, been through two crazy exes for me to learn that.
That’s exactly what I was thinking
@@NachozMan Sorry to hear that, hopefully all is well now. We learn, we move on.
Congratulations to Ted, looks like his life is about to get a whole lot better.
I still feel so bad for him. I wish I could give him a hug
I love how chill the dogs are in this video. They are probably pumped to see that crazy lady get booted from the house.
Unfortunately they are probably used to this. They probably get kicked daily
Leon: "What a spineless jellyfish (the father is)"
Her: Absolute demon
It’s always the kids who suffer the worst.
Yep exactly
Pro tip: calling your lawyer instead of listening to the cops will never get you what you think. Your lawyer is going to tell you to listen to the cops literally every single time. People who act like they are smart in these situations usually aren’t
Seriously even if you know the cops are making a mistake you cannot fight them. The only place you can fight the charge is in court. Cops have the power and you're an idiot if you think you can talk your way out of an arrest lol
I blame movies/tv where the lawyer pops up and somehow negates the arrest. These people expect that to happen in real life and it absolutely does not work like that.
When I used to get arrested I’d just tell the sergeant at the charge bar to phone a lawyer( if needed) breaches of the peace etc I’d just wait until I got oot
Yes and no. Never sign anything. Never talk to the cops. Don't just do whatever they say. They are not your friends.
Be civil and if the cops say get out then ya get out.
Your right people think it's a super own but you can't act like this chick just cause you have a lawyer. That's just dumb.
@@kopykat6843 You're gonna get someone arrested. YES, sign your tickets/court summons - do you think not signing them is gonna make them disappear or not get you arrested? YES, do whatever they say* - what the hell do you think they're gonna tell you to do that it's in your best interest to _not_ do?
*Except provide evidence of your crime if you're a dirty criminal.
It's a "bindle". The stick/sack over-the-shoulder thing. If it ever comes up again, which would be wild.
Lol, thanks for the information.
Love it, sounds like a childish smaller version of "bundle"
These cops are way more patient than I was, as a cop, in situations like this. My hat's off to them.
dude... that little girl cries out 'she doesn't want to see that' and my heart just sank before my Dad brain exploded
That’s when I started crying 😢
@@Mama_Bear524Hurts to see
That broke my heart
@Mama_Bear524 right?.....it was an IMMEDIATE body reaction.
Dude yes…my jaw dropped when i heard that
He’s not a coward. He’s scared 😳 😢
No, he is a coward
@@codyduignan4266 I am righteous and fair, and what about you?
@@codyduignan4266 reverse the genders and you arent still saying that
@@codyduignan4266hope you deal with the same situation. Im sure you would be a “coward” too.
@@BNMS217 I'll never deal with a situation like that because I would never date a woman like that, also I'm not fucking coward like this cunt 😂
There's a very special line in the film LOST HORIZON 1973 that I always strive to adhere to, "You'd be surprised Mr. Conway how a little courtesy all round can help to smooth out the most complicated problems".
Mom’s totally unhinged. 😳 Kudos to the officer getting the kids a treat.☺️
So i think the situation is this guy is the boyfriend, and he reported her for child abuse to the two fathers who called to get the kids out of that. If i understand correctly, he didn't speak up because he was scared to cause her to be violent.
Yeah, roasting him for it when he's stuck on the boat with her still is crazy. He's clearly abused as are the kids
@@rev0lve638that made me so furious. I could tell immediately from his reaction he was scared and that officer put him in danger.
She must have amazing sexual skills
Yeah, Leon needs to walk back the hate for Ted. If you’ve never been in a relationship with an abusive woman then you really have no idea on how terrifying it can be. My ex wife would break stuff, vandalize my truck, show up at my job, embarrass me in public, hide my keys, break my phone, steal my money, break a golf club over my back and even straight up punched me in the face. There was literally nothing I could do, every time the cops got called (usually by me) I would get arrested and only once did they take my wife to jail as well. Friends and family wouldn’t take my concerns seriously and the worst part was the manipulation by my wife. Every time I ran away to a friend’s house she would use sex or threaten suicide to lure me back home. Ted cooperating the the Dads to get the kids away from that psycho woman-baby is practically heroic in my book.
@@davemccage7918 Been there dude, it's exactly like that. I got NO help and support from anyone of the professionals. It was HELL!! I am so sorry you went through that too, I still suffer PTSD to this day. Hugs.
The the fact that this lady was in the military is TERRYFING
It could explain her mental state. Didn't she say something zbout being injured in the line of duty?
I was in the Navy. This is common for a lot of us when we get out. Thank God my shh was under control a little
And apparently a stoner. Don’t they pee test in the military?
@@lindacarlson6887 she probably started smoking after. They test us once a month
Unfortunately there are plenty of children being abused by their military parents. Many believe that the kids need basic training. At least from what I've seen 😢
I never wanted to see someone tased so badly 😂
You summed it up perfectly at the end there. My parents weren't the best (my mom was especially horrible) and it's my shitty childhood that made me the parent I am today. I'm not perfect, no one is, but I'm doing better than my parents did, and I know my kids will do better than me.
I love that the officer took the kids to get ice cream, and offered them drinks too, trying to soothe situation a little for them while they waited for their fathers. You know that money came out of his own pocket too. Things like that touch my heart, because for all the injustices we see and all the anti-police rhetoric out there now - some legit, some not - there are still a lot of fundamentally good men and women on the force, just doing their best day to day to help the public.
A lot of officers also keep a couple of stuffed toys in their squad cars for when they have to intercede with kids involved in a car accident, DUI or whatever. Again, out of their own pockets, small but often really meaningful gestures because they're humans with families and kids themselves. Some of the things the police see when having to deal with situations involving kids especially are so traumatic, on both sides. But I've seen so many police officers be angels towards kids especially, doing all they can to shield the child from as much as they possibly can.
I'm European, I never had a chance to go through training due to serious medical issues. But at this point, it seems to me like American cops are better than those we have here. People all over like to stereotype police in the US, I see "ACAB" graffiti everywhere. The truth is that people have no idea.
@theRPGmaster dog,,,, no. A few good cops doesn't reshape a corrupt system
@theRPGmaster I don't know anything about European police. But cops here are people just like at any other jobs. Some are good and some are bad. The real problem is that in America the justice system more often than not doesn't punish bad cops. And as such that system attracts people with certain mentalities where they look for opportunities to provoke and abuse people since they are the law and hence above punishment for enforcing it by whatever means they deem necessary at the time. The crimes don't have to transpire for cops to deal out punishments.
@@christopherthompson5400 and @theRPGmaster - You're both right. We only have to look at the Stanford Prison Experiment (1971) to see that when you place normal, everyday people into positions of power and control, over another group which are not only under their control, but also dehumanised and/or seen as bad/needing to obey - and even people you may not expect, can do bad things.
But as you pointed out, having that power and authority is very appealing to sadists, psychopaths and your general inadequate bully who felt weak and wants to evert power over others.
But it's also appealing to those who want to protect and help others, prevent horrible crimes, and are more victim focused, wanting to help people and catch the truly bad people we know are out there.
But knowing the above two things, the tribalism that can happen plus systemic issues, and many other factors, helps. It's leading to better accountability through things like bodycams, and there are a lot of other changes that still need to happen. It'll never be perfect. But our systems for punishing have certainly evolved greatly over human history! We've gone from burning people on stakes or the most evil torcher (YT banned word evasion) devices imaginable, or mob justice, to less lethal weapons and bodycams. We build on each generations knowledge and experiences, and learn from them.
@@theRPGmasterEurope is a big continent so not sure where you are - but for every good interaction one cop is having with children or people with mental health issues there's the opposite, too. Like cops seriously hurting an elderly woman with dementia, dislocating her shoulder, then laughing and bragging about the sound it made and not getting her help for hours, all on camera.
Or cops treating 10 year old black children like adults. Not fastening the seat belt on a suspect in one of those transporter type vans, then deliberately braking hard and they break their spine and end up paralyzed.
Just some of the things that stuck with me about US cops.
And since these things very often go unpunished
If course it's lovely to see good interactions but that doest help all those people that got hurt or even killed by bad cops.
The left turn this took when dude said she used rocks as brass knuckles...I wasn't ready
If the dude did anything to defend himself he'd be on death row right now.
Poor man. That is so fucking disgusting of her.
@@matthewgilfus1640 stop being dramatic
@@matthewgilfus1640Girl is comically crazy. I'm pretty sure the courts would understand defending yourself from a lass using makeshift brass knuckles
@@matthewgilfus1640 what's bullshit is if a woman decides to beat on her man she needs to be prepared to be hit back and not call the cops on him.
The only positive role model in this situation was the officer that has to take them but took them for ice cream, too. They will never forget THAT! 💙💙💙
Her dad hearing what's going on over the phone is probably wondering where he went wrong as a parent
All children deserve a parent, but not all parents deserve their children.
Plus don't eat yellow snow😀
AND.. A broken clock is right twice a day 🤪
I hate how people always say "I'll do anything for my kids" but they don't get the help THEY need to be better parents. I understand emotional dysregulation. I have it, my oldest son (7) has it. But when I saw my outburst weren't as under control as I thought, and my coping skills weren't helping, and it was affecting my kids, I took my ass to the doctor and got on mood stabilizers and found a therapist to start more intense therapy. Now, my kids are learning to regulate their emotions and I get to be an example of how to self-regulate instead of an example of how to just loose my shit. I wish I'd been on meds earlier. I new I was anxious and uptight but didn't realize how until those meds brought me down. My house is so peaceful and my kids wont grow up watching their mom lose her crap the way I watched my mom when I was growing up.
Take care of yourself! On the right path.
You're doing the right thing. I wish my mom had gotten therapy to heal her inner child so I didn't need to get therapy of my own.
Good for you !! Mom can't take care of anyone until she's taken care of.
My mother had severe clinical depression growing up. She was so anxious and angry all the time. Father has serious anger issues and no emotional attachment from either parent
Just now at the age of 24 I'm realizing how much damage my parents did to me growing up. I have been a complete failure and unable to thrive. Thank you for loving your kids enough to love yourself because parents are the ones who make or break a kid
@@Angelonwheels24 my 20s were difficult. You are not a failure.
i wish my ex had the where with all that you have 😞
For a second I thought she was actually pulling a savvy move to try and get her boy in trouble with the weed, but after further thought she’s just f&@@ing crazy.
I love the father on the phone through this.
You can tell from his voice he’s been dealing with this her entire life and he’s just resigned to it.
Hopefully he’s on hands free and just getting on with his day.
She's the kind of woman where any amount of disagreement is seen as a full on assault on her and her character.
She is such a pos and doesn't deserve the kids. Now playing the victim is just ridiculous. No wonder she can't have them. She is totally out of control and should go to jail just to show her she is not in control.
Thanks for the rundown champ, couldn’t figure that out myself from just watching the video
She’s feral and scary AF
@@kaijumax5475 Passive aggressive much?
@@kaijumax5475 Ain't you fortunate someone was nice enough to explain it for you then!
She must have a snapper that sings to you
The other day 😭 the cops bruised her up the other day... That means she's been unhinged for a while now. Poor kiddo's, they're so young.
Totally down with you Leon. I always say, "When life's got you down, watch American police body-cams. If you're not in the video, your life is good."
The body camera movement in 2014 gave us a new video genre for us to watch when we are bored
Great to watch whilst baked af and knitting.
"Shall I show you to your room, or would you prefer to be dragged off kicking and screaming?"
"Ohh kicking and screaming please..."
“You don’t know where MY medicine is?!?!”
😂😂😂 Nahh, not MY problem! 😂😂😂
I’ve already seen 90% of the bodycam stuff on Leon’s channel before he even makes a video on it but Leon makes it absolutely worth watching again just to see his reaction
Remember the days when men couldn’t be the victim in these situations…. Thankfully the light is now being shined on the reality of things these days
They still didn't protect him the way they should have!! "Aren't you gonna speak up? I'm sure you know why we're here." That DIRECTLY put him in danger.
Except for Leon mocking him mercilessly for no reason.
Yep!!! The men being abused in any way had to not say anything for fear of being cast out by the people around them! Glad it’s changing though
@@fdsafdsafdsafdsafdwe have a ways to go.
@@fdsafdsafdsafdsafd well he didnt know he was being abused and the dude wasnt even the father
The saddet part of all of this is how used to her behaviour EVERYONE is around her... from her parents, Ted, the baby daddies I'm sure, her kids and even the cops..... when your the common denominator is speaks volumes!
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I commend the officers for being as patient as they were. The garbage they have to deal with…
What you said there at the end was key. Sometimes, kids going through that type of rough upbringing helps them to become better parents themselves someday because they strive to be everything their own parent or parents weren't. My mom is a great example. Her parents were terrible to her and my uncle growing up. She could have chosen to treat me like dirt and justify it in her own mind by saying that it was the way she was brought up, but she didn't. I've struggled with my own shit in life with austism and bipolar, but it could have been worlds worse if she had been anything like her mother and father. Thankfully, since she chose to learn from their mistakes and use them to her advantage to make her a better person, she has been nothing but my biggest supporter throughout my life and has helped me get through a lot. It wasn't always easy with me, but she never gave into the darkness that her parents let themselves give into, and I am very grateful for that.
You know she was only looking for weed to try and get the guy in trouble.
Yup 😡
no. She wanted it. Probably she doesn't have money to get more.
@@Schmettaling No, bc she intentionally said it wasn't hers, but was his. Sh3 was hoping to pull it out and force the cops to prosecute the charge against him.
@LAkadian IMO she was pissed af and did not want him to have it all for himself. Her persistence in finding it tells me so :) it was not about the cops arresting him for it but about him not having it for himself.
@@SchmettalingYes-daddy said he was putting $400 into her account. She didn’t even need to ask for it!
I suspect the husband is victimised as much as the children. He’s been bullied and attacked to the point he’s been beaten down and can no longer stand up for himself. He’s lost all sense self and worth. Such a shame as he’s a victim of dv
Typical simp guy , thinks he can’t do better than what they have so they put up with it. It’s embarrassing, no one should be with a crazy woman like this one, i feel so bad for the kids. It’s crazy
Men are never victims of DV. They are always arrested or killed in DV situations. I guarantee she'll get custody back after this. And a restraining order against him. The kids are in danger because he triggered her. So he has to go.
These two other replies are wild.
I too just want to say how un-fuckin-hinged the top 2 replies to this comment are. Men can be abused just as much as women and it is a very tragic and difficult cycle to break free from. My heart and thoughts go out to anyone struggling with abuse.
@@literalcancer8810 I know……
3:20
He just initiated a chain of events that has led to the cops showing up to take his abusive girlfriends children from her... dude is imitating Drax, and practicing the art of staying incredibly still to appear invisible.
Hell Hath No Fury like a woman scorned!
She's just an individual with major anger issues.😢
Lol the lawyer was probs like… pls just do what they say… just one time please listen to me.
As he types out a letter of resignation and cuts her a cheque for part of his retainer.
Ted is not even one of the baby daddies LMAO
Omg 😂😂
I like Mr. No-Balls!!!😂 That sounds wrong!?🤔
Does he have a spine?🤣
Every child deserves parents but not all parents deserve children...
That man is just broken. No wonder he didn't say anything on the boat. Poor kids, poor dog, and poor man.
I don't feel sorry for him. It's his fault he's still with her.
@@darksu6947people like are funny for us but it must be sad logging off and still being littered with stupid opinions
@@darksu6947 so would you blame a woman for staying with a man that abused her? Probably not. Yet you have no problem with a man being a domestic abuse victim--and it happens more often than you think.
@@mattpassos5689 If it's not his responsibility to get away from the person that's treating him so poorly then who's responsibility is it? You can tell from his behavior that he's been through this before with her. At what point do we stop blaming her and start blaming him for letting the person that treats him like crap continue to be a part of his life? I would really like to hear your answer since my opinion is so goofy.
your opinion is still goofy, Goofy. 1st you can blame two people at the same time and 2nd so people with Stockholm syndrome I guess are just as bad as the kidnappers right?
She opened that empty drawer like 6 times. From the dresser in the bedroom. She would have been there the rest of the night if they didn't stop her.
Good catch. Straight up manic. She couldn't find her way out of a wet paper bag. The rational thought portion of her brain was not working at all.
Hey Leon
❤ Love what you said at the end about the kids growing up to be great parents. We don’t get to choose who or what we are born into, but we ARE responsible for the choices we make as we grow into adults. I wish those kids & the men in her life all the best
Bruh I love your commentary Leon, great insights, stories, common sense, sarcasm, love it’s all man. Good stuff
If the guy stands up and tells the cops everything, the kids will see the worst of the worst. I wouldn't say a thing either until the kids are gone. Growing up in foster care taught me a ton about what NOT to do. Hey, you have to take your lessons however you can get them
Those kids have seen more than just this incident. Mother hates her life and takes it out on everyone.
Coward dad > went to military > probably made officer because quota> got used acting like this and anyone cowaring before her than she already did before
I was in the middle of typing...
'Why you always give the cops so much leeway, they rock up on water to remove kids from their mum, like how do you think that's... wait she did what, how did she use the rocks? Delete comment delete comment delete comment'
Fr. People need to clear their mind and understand that they are here to help the children.
Yeah your feminist mind just simps for any crying victim in auto pilot, yet the reality is this
@@MrBarnettcm 🤣 For real.
@@MrBarnettcm hahahaha sorry mr Aloha, how dare I not trust government entities on first instinct.
Do you just heel when the man says so?
I love how your content makes me laugh to die sometimes and some other times gets me really depressed.
Emotional roller coaster.
Bise from France.
Cool amp by the way.
lets hope the dads get full custody of the kids
I'm shocked that the police went all the way to the lake and found the kids on the boat to take them to their dads. Most of the time if one parent isn't complying with a court order of visitation, you have to go to court to have it dealt with
You know it's a really fucked up situation when they go out of their way to take kids from the mom. The system treats moms as the good parent by default. When they believe 4 different fathers are better then the mother it says a lot about her.
yeah, there is more to this story
@@Dog_in_tree Or they simply just know one (or both) of the dads personally.
@@HRRRRRDRRRRRyeah, because of her.
@@HRRRRRDRRRRR doesn't work like that. They're executing an order from a judge, it isn't up to them.
That loud noise you just heard... Thats my heart breaking. No child deserves this..
As soon as she said she said ‘I need my medicine’ - just knew it was going to be illegal 😅😅😅.
Her dad tried to give her good advice... Shame she didn't listen
Her dad sounded very familiar with that kind of situation.
@@Naturally-Fragrant
Well he „raised“ her
Man Leon it is crazy to see how your channel and content has grown. I remember when you started this type of content after your incredible RUclips music career (truly beautiful stuff, really brings a tear to my eye thinking back on... My ears are still bleeding). You were dodging flying phallic objects and totally out of your mind. It was awesome. Youve really reigned things in. Good for you man. I lost track of your videos, am subscribed but stopped getting notifications for some reason. Cool to see your channel doing well after loosing track of you for a year or two. Carry on bro.
Outstanding job on this one, Leon.
The man on the boat called. He is afraid of her. The other Dad's know what is going on.. he's kicking her out of the house
My father was physically, mentally and sexually abusive to myself, my sister and my mom for years. because of this I was diagnosed with DID, PTSD and a brain tumour ( I got in utero because my mom was pushed down stairs and beat up) in my mid 30s. I got pregnant when I was 19 and had my son at 20. I laid it on thick with my kid, always telling him how smart, talented and how amazing he is and that I’m so thankful for him and how proud I am of him. My boy is 21 now and a 4th year psychology student on the road to his PHD to become a psychotherapist because “no one grows up with a mom like me and doesn’t want to help people through the darkness “ 😆😬I grew up in therapy and it always stuck with me the saying, “ Be the parent you always wish you had” he says I did pretty good 😉 that’s all that matters. He’s 21 and still messages daily and calls every few days just to check in. 💞
You raised that boy right! ❤️
Thank you, the world needs more parents like you.
„My dad is the fault for my brain tumor“
Sure bro
He is he pushed her mom
Good job Mom ❤
Awww poor doggie 😞 such a loveable dog too. Guy seems like a nice guy as well
That woman's father sounded so defeated like he has done this wayyy too many times
She is a adult child who doesn't listen to her father. Count how many times she disregarded her father and then asked for his help
Haha he needs to stop enabling her
Well he raised her. And the mom is/was probably the same
That house on the lake looks like a family cabin, which is common in the midwest: a bunch of folks within a family (parents, gparents, siblings) go in on buying a cabin to use for weekends.
I'm betting that this house is the dude's family cabin, and this lady has made herself overly at home in this shared space.
Also she's clearly abusing the crap out of Ted emotionally and physically. She gots to go
Worth the wait!!! Loved it !
My god I almost broke into tears when that little girl cried out about the handcuffs. You’re absolutely right. No matter what happens, the kids lose.
They way the kids are so cool about being taken away from their mother is heartbreaking. It doesn't seem to bother them at all. Most kids would scream and cry. They've seen so much in their short lives. They were very well behaved and polite when they were getting ice cream. Thanks to Ted for letting Dad's know they needed to be rescued.
So when she starts yelling in the cops face after pushing them to the brink of their patience, she’s show she’s verbally abusive and the BF has expressed his fear bc she’s been physically abusive…and when the cops finally reach the limit with she delay tactics and aggressive behavior and decide she’s chosen Option #2…and she immediately begins to donkey kick, punch, and spaz out in the cops until she has to be tasered - YET SHE IS GOING TO LAY THERE SCREAMING THE COPS HAVE DONE IT “TO” HER FOR THE SECOND TIME IN ABOUT A WEEK? She trying to blame the cops after SHE acted like a damn hysterical fool!? 😂😂😂. Those kids never to be around her again!
With people like her they never think it’s their fault. Ever
Thank you so much for your thoughts which are exactly like mine!! I have seen this on another channel and so much better with your commentary.!
getting after the cops for not knowing the names because it probably took her a few tests to find out herself XD
Those poor babies, I’m so glad their dads have their safety and best interests in mind
Would you say the same thing about the parent being spineless if it was a woman? No, because you would assume she was abused. But maybe he is abused and knows that if he even says anything it turns abusive. Just because she is a small woman doesn't mean she can not torture or assault a man.
Women are not expected to have a “spine”.
Hey Leon i haven't seen your content in awhile and stumbled upon it again, and i just wanted to say im surprised to see your amazing fitness progress. Great job brother you're looking good
I watched this one a while back. This lady is absolutely insane. She don’t need to see her kids unsupervised
I'm not going without my weed She says in front of cops. Que face palm
and " needs military stuff" ....double facepalm
Cue
she heard one rap song and now she's a "gangster"...
She was tryna get the dude in trouble by saying that bc its in his house. Vindictive witch