My Wife Cheats On Me - Addressing Rumors / Squirmy and Grubs
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 730,000 subscribers on RUclips. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
Shane and Hannah have been together for over four years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.
I'm dying.... Shane: "if the baby comes out in a wheel chair then we'll know it's mine"
He cracks me up 🤪
I know, I died 😆 🤣. Shane is the best and Hannah laughing, we can't help to see their love ❤.
I laughed so hard 😆 Wish he would do stand up comedy!
@@Autumn_Sunrise bruh
He's a charmer
my wife and i were married for 23 years before her stroke. in a heartbeat she went from vibrant to a tetraplegic. she lived for another year and a half. it is absurd that people think love and devotion is limited to able bodied people. love knows no limits and apparently neither does ignorance.
I’m sorry for your loss
You're a great person
I’m so sorry you and your wife went through that. That was a great comment. Wise words!💞
This comment is so beautiful and true, I am sorry for your loss though. You sound blessed to of found each other💞
What a powerful and deeply moving comment. Thank you for sharing this perspective, I’m sorry to hear about your adversity. I know that sharing this will positively affect others and I appreciate your bravery.
Conspiracy theory: Hannah and Shane are using each other to have a healthy supportive loving relationship and bring out the best in each other to reach their dreams. Disgusting.
outrageous
NO! Say it ain’t so!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it!
How dare you even have that thought!
How dare them do that!
I love what Shane does with his eyes (the way he crinkles them) before laughing! Pure warmth! I could listen to him for ages. So much fun. 🥰
Same 😊❤
Right? He's so expressive and the look he gets when he knows he's being ridiculous 😂
These men that think Hannah couldn’t possibly want Shane have absolutely no idea what a woman wants and that’s why they can’t fathom the relationship these two have.
Exactly!
💯 they think the fact they can walk means they are more entitled to a girl than Shane.. and that ugly personality is the reason they can't get a Hannah and Shane can!
VERY well said!!!
Men have to believe that women are gold diggers or only go for ___________________ because the only other option for some is to believe that women just aren’t into them. Here’s a hint, my gift to you guys.... being the jerk that can’t understand why an able bodied person would be with a disabled person is precisely the reason you can’t get a girl.
And that's y they are always single or deal with failed relationship
The way that she looks at you, how can anyone not believe it’s real? There’s so much love in her eyes when she sits and just watches you talk haha. I love it.
Oh so Shane you are the gold digger.
You two connect in a real sense. My husband and myself have been together since I was 16 and he 17. There is a sense of both of us on a United front and are the best of friends. You present yourselves, Hanna and Shane, are good friends. You get the most idiotic comic ideas and find joy together because of that.
Yes! She's so into him it's obvious!
Yea u can tell
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I'm loving that you two are making so much content this month!! The vids RUclips needs.
I watch your channel
Hey Chris! Wishing you a merry Christmas
I love “Special Books By Special Kids” and these lovely humans❤️❤️❤️
Love your channel! It's a service to humanity to inform about all those diversity that a human beings can be
@Evan Reborn Hope you're joking
I love the way she looks at him. And the way she laughs at his jokes. The sound of her laughter. So much love involved. Big fan of this couple.😊😊
As a child of a disabled dad and able bodied mom I so appreciated this video! My mom was super attractive and I recall twice men coming up to her while I was pushing my dad in his wheelchair asking if she’d like to “go out”...she was always so classy the way she turned them down while making sure they knew my dad was right there and more man than they could ever wish to be! I miss them both❤️bleep bleep bleep
Bleep bleep bleep! I love to watch y'all laugh together...
Aww
Why would anyone question you about your mom's intentions not everyone is close minded. I'd actually love to hear your story. I am somewhat able. I broke both bones in my ankle a couple months ago and was in a nursing home and felt that I was a worthy human as I am as your parents are.
@bill blac what about YOUR mother, when your father was not looking?
@bill blac i'm sorry. that sounds horrible.
My only son married my beautiful daughter in law who is in a wheel chair and disabled with cerebral palsy. When they were dating me and my husband were ignorant and worried that my son would be just a carer and unhappy with his life. How very wrong we were. They have been together a number of years now and are very much in love and inseparable. She’s the best daughter in law we could ever have had. She brings so much happiness, joy, love, strength and inspiration to us all. My son is the luckiest man alive to have such a wonderful woman as her. 🥰
Wish you two all the best in life your a lovely couple. LOL to all those idiots who can’t understand true love ❤️
It’s God dear ok you don’t choose , someone else picks who’s correct 😚💖
Ur son simply followed just his feelings , God bless Clovinius X
This is very nice to hear! My parents are against my relationship with my disabled partner although we have been together almost 5 years. I hope they come to see him as you see your daughter in law! :)
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@Joanna Martin too much time in his grandmas basement on pornhub would be my guess. Probably someone who was bullied a lot and instead of making something of his life decided to try and be a bully or is just miserable. No happy successful person would ever say something like that.
@@AlexamderMason127 I don’t know how you come up with that but why would God choose for people to end up with abusive spouses then and ones that would kill them or their children. So no God does not choose your life partner
“If it comes out in a wheelchair, we’ll know it’s mine.” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭💀💀💀 I love these two 😩😆🤣💖💖💖💖💖💖
Best conter comment towards all haters from Shane, yeah
That was great🤣🤣🤣
@William Borgemo amen!
@alex man if someone killed 40 children in cold blood idk if they should be forgiven
@@shaquillewilson1479 Jesus can forgive a murderer but they would still have to pay the consequences for their actions.
Shane has more character than a 100 fully abled men in america!! It’s just jealousy and you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Be joyful and at peace with your relationship and keep thriving!
I always report RUclipsrs who accuse them of being fake
There is NO way that Hannah can fake how she looks at Shane! The love, joy and happiness shines for him. People can be so flipping ridiculous. The rest of us know the truth. So happy you continue to share your life with us in spite of the conspiracies.
This is so true. It’s written all over her face and in her body language. It is for both of them. They truly love each other. It’s so nice to see people find each other like this.
Agreed. 💯
Well she is for sure a good actress
@@stoned_at_the_nail_salon jealously definitely seems to be a huge thing. There are often a good number of incels in the comments of people who insist that this relationship can’t be real because “they can’t even get someone as hot as Hannah”....
People felt the same way about Ted Bundy, his friends and family. No way could he be leading a double life. They knew him for sure. You people are seeing these guys from RUclips. You don’t even know them personally. So don’t be too disappointed if you find out it’s not real. It may be real as well. I don’t know.
If someone can’t see the lovey, gooey eyes that she gives him when he talks or makes her laugh then you’re not paying attention. These two love each other so much and have so much fun together it’s total relationship goals.
🙄 she literally goes out of her way (makes it a POINT) to stare at him like that in the videos , solely JUST for comments like yours lol . Very obvious. Not saying she doesn’t love him.....but she literally WANTS ppl to comment “awwww look how she looks at him!!”
I WAS GOING TO SAY THE EXACT SAME THING!!! 🥰🥰😍 They look at each other the same way me and my husband still look at each other after 13 years! The people who come up with all these ridiculous myths/theories are the people who cant find true love for themselves who have a miserable life and can't stand to see anyone else happy and in love, able-bodied or not, so then they lash out to try to make themselves feel better about being miserable, and it's sad. I love these 2 and I love watching them interact with each other. It truly is a pure, beautiful love that they have for each other. And to everyone and anyone that has ever said anything negative towards or about hannah and Shane or has ever believed or even started a myth/conspiracy theory or if you only follow them to be negative and say ridiculous shit just know that you are an asshole and you are 1000% wasting your time because NO MATTER WHAT YOU think or say IT WILL NEVER MAKE THEM LOVE EACH OTHER LESS and IT WILL NOT CHANGE HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT EACH OTHER OR HOW THEY SEE EACH OTHER..
@@starfish1360come on really... sorry SHE DOESNT NEED OR WANT anything from anyone in these comments...shes an introvert not a people person, shes not trying to make us say anything...unfortunately your comment proves it doesnt matter what they say or do there will always be people that think like you...thats ashame
@@nicolel4439 🤷♀️ I don’t know what to tell you. I’m not saying she doesn’t love him; I believe she truly does. But FO SHO she is exaggerating her “loving” looks to him in videos. Subconsciously she WANTS ppl to watch & comment “awwww but look how she LOOKS at him!!”. Maybe it’s because she just really wants to prove to the world that she really loves Shane? I dunno man, just giving you the facts 🤷♀️
@@LauraAnne95 your opinion is by definition not a fact. Why do you think it’s impossible for someone to lovingly look at their partner during a video in a genuine way?
We get the same, my man is disabled and has been since he was 18. I’ve loved that man for 45 years and wouldn’t change a minute. When you love someone you don’t care , you just get on with it and don’t forget to laugh, we did everything by trial and error. 😊
You guys are great.
jill you are great.
Jill Martin yeah you love him but also admit that you lust for other men.
@@dinosaur8724 quit being negative and making people down. go to bed
@@gucciman4609 How do you say I'm making other people down?? It's proven by science that during women's fertile days(ovulation) they are more attracted to men who are considered masculine, fit, and attractive in order to have a healthy offspring. I'm just telling the science of truth and I don't mean to cause harm to anyone's feeling, I'm just telling what I know.
@@dinosaur8724 sometimes its better to just be quiet. words could be hurtul
bleep bloop bleep - the most incredibly loving relationship I ever saw was that of my parents. I bring this up, because the way Hannah looks at Shane is the same way my mother looked at my father. I feel sorry for those who think this is not a real relationship because that means they have never truly seen someone look at another with a look of pure love.
Movie you may like; "me before you" - a tale of two people who become an interabled couple!
I am a 68 year old woman for Wisconsin. I came across one of you videos a couple of nights ago and I can't quit watching them. You two are just great together and your sense of humor is wonderful. Don't let anyone put you down. I will follow you forever. I hope all goes well with your new wheel chair. Love you two.
Absolutely
Forever is a bit of a stretch gramps
@@megusta9045 I'm reporting you for bulling. Nobody wanted your opinion,
@@jordana6720 I reported him, too
@@Killmaisy thank you. you have a beautiful profile pic btw. 😊
My wife is a wheelchair user, we can get comments like "how will you take care of each other". Adaptive devices do not diminish the care nor the value of a relationship. I love her so much and I hope that people learn from you guys too. Love has no boundaries, love isn't made to have a fence in front of it but a door to be opened.
Pumpkin - People like you make this world so much better and worth living in.
Let thats a stupid comment. They don't say that about cancer patients. Or diabetics. We I hope you enjoy each other's company and do cool things
THIS!! This is legit love and I am so happy for you two. 🥰
Yeah I get it. I am a wheelchair user as well, I was once told that I shouldn't go out in public because I was wheelchair bound.
My dad married a woman (my step mom) who has cereal palsy or however it's spelt. She is one if the sweetest people and it's ashamed how people who ate adults give her certain looks and states. Like really? I wish people would just grow up.
If your relationship is fake, then I hope to have one just as fake someday. You two are so cute together and funny and sweet, etc.
Yeah! Me too!
Haters are typically deflecting their own insecurities in other people’s happiness.
@@federalagent7334 I would add people are insane for actually giving a crap about whether or not complete strangers are cheating on each other. Wish I had that kind of time on my hands.
@@federalagent7334 what a sad life you have lol
@@federalagent7334 You’re so jealous 😂 Take off that FBI pfp, goofy boy.
Shane is a lot more self confident than most able bodied men I know . Really admire that about him.
Agreed!!
I do too.
Im disabled & the 1st time my bf got hate was when someone asked “Why would you want to date her?” My bf had the best response and said “Because i love her” the people who said that were supposedly his “friends”.....ain’t his “friends” anymore
Human nature is vile
As a young single mom who has a disabled son who is getting ready to be 3 this is something I pray he finds. The love y'all have! Thank you for showing the world there is always more than meets the eye.
Amen to that. Hope he's doing ok
@@giulianofaria aa is chic hxa
@@angierubio6012 what u mean? Lol
Would you ever date a disabled man?
@@kiuk_kiks why does that matter?
Bleep bleep bleep. Love your chemistry, the friendship, the companionship. You finish each other´s .... sandwiches. People who don´t have this kind of relationship will never understand why you are so happy with one another. God bless you!
Bleep. Bloop. Bleep
When I first meat my husband (1980) he was/is disabled. His arms don’t work due to a motorbike accident and he is also on the autistic spectrum. That was 40 years ago and we are still married. All my friends would ask why I wanted to be with him and that we wouldn’t have a good life and that he was a dummy. They said our children would be autistic and my life would be ruined. We are celebrating 36 years married on the 22nd of this month and I still love him, We have 2 children who don’t have autism, not that it would matter. My husband isn’t a dummy and works with disable children. People would call him useless but when my dad was end of life My husband sat with him and held his hands, that’s not a dummy it’s love and kindness. People still can’t understand why I married him if we meet someone new but most people love him now. Things are better but judgemental people are still out there. Good luck in your lives together
I'm so happy for you and your husband! You two sound like amazing people! Happy christmas and best wishes from Germany! :)
Can't believe that people say stuff like that 🤦♀️
People can be so rude. I hope Karma is real. I wonder sometimes.
I think it clearly shows those people are not your friends. And need to check in with themselves as it says A LOT more about them as people.
Beautiful.. The haters are just miserable people. Hopefully they find love and light in their hearts as you both have. Blessings to you, your husband and your family 🙏🏽✨💗❤️
I love the way Hannah looks at you Shane there is Pure Love In Her Eyes. I don't understand how people can be so judgemental and ignorant.
Lol
If you believe she doesn’t cheat you are out of your mind
@@austonsplatpoo1705 every relationship is unique and to assume they’re not in love because he has a disability is sad on your part. I hope you find someone who loves you as much as they love each other. We all deserve that
@@carriegirardin268 been with my wife for 12 years I found someone already. you can just see it in her face you see love where I see deception
Clearly your wife has the IQ of a rock...
My 12yr old daughter took one look at how Hannah looks at Shane and said it's obvious she totally loves him by how she looks at him. She has love in her eyes.
Wise young lady! The way Hannah looks at him and acts is as pure as it gets 🙌🏼
Absolutely!
When at Goodwill, the cashier asked my BFF if they were my caregiver. She spoke not to me, but to my BFF. as if I were not capable of understanding. It frustrates me that people think they have permission to ask personal questions that are none of their business.
Sorry you had to experience that. That’s so frustrating. Some people are just ignorant
Beyond his disability, he's a MAN. People are weird. He's still a grown ass man and i love his personality. They like it, they're happy. That's all that matters.
For real. People act like she’s grown and he’s 13
I mean he’s not really a man. Who protects her?
@@TheBre123456 I think she means that he’s mentally a grown man, which is 100% true.
Ppl don’t get it because they are too selfish to understand how their love can work ...
@@DDoubleEDouble I agree with you! And protection is not a mans only job anyway ...
She glows when she looks at Shane. I love it
I totally agree!
Yeah, that can’t be faked.
So do I ❤️
all you women glow and desire to have carnal knowledge of shane
I use a wheelchair. My wife does not. We can relate to a lot of the topics you guys address. You guys are adorable!
I have mild cerebral palsy and epilepsy and my husband doesn’t have any disabilities. We met over 28 years ago in our early 20’s …now married over 26 years. We had no money worth talking about and he proposed in less than 3 months. We were married over a year later when I was done college. Trust me many people will always be cruel and rude. We get dirty looks and whispering horrible things. I think some of the worst things are overhearing people calling me crippled, assuming he’s my brother, or one time a lady overheard my boss asking if my cute hubby was picking me up after work…and a customer actually said Aw…ur married 💕 Did u meet at a handicap support group or something like that?
I answered by saying…No he’s not disabled unless you consider wearing glasses 🤓 a disability. She replied by saying…oh I just assumed that he was since I’ve never seen a handicapped person married . We have 2 children in their 20’s now and neither of them are disabled…in fact our daughter is in grad school student who is getting her masters degree in Occupational therapy.
You 2 are adorable so you owe no one an explanation or justify your love, sex life, money, or anything else. Enjoy your lives together and don’t let anyone bother you. ❤️❤️They are just jealous 🤗
He proposed in less than 3 months? That is so romantic. Not many people know at first meeting!! ❤❤❤
Congrats on over 25 years of marriage!! So 🎉🎉 rare nowadays. I heard somewhere that 50% of marriages end up in divorce. I don't know if that % is correct, but it's a depressing statistic, nonetheless.
Gee, now that I've brought everyone "down" with that statistic...Congratulations again! 🎉 🎉❤❤
@@priscillamoore5736 … thanks you…that was a comment from 2 years ago so we have more time under our belts 😂Our 29th anniversary is on April Fool’s Day 🩷 and that’s part of the reason we got married on that date since we were crazy quick 😂
Seems like you have a better relationship than 95% of people.
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I agree
I love how deadpan he is. His sense of humor is the absolute best.
Bleep bleep bleep
Their laughter is infectious, such a perfect pair! Hannah are my tyres clean, or is there diirty on them 😉 LOL
I agree they have really funny banter i love it
All I want for Christmas is a man like Shane who will literally try to make me laugh like every 5.2 seconds
Girl it is the best! My boyfriend won me over by making me laugh and never has stopped.
Me too🙋
Seriously Shane and Hannah .. you both are freaking hilarious.. like, not a lot of videos make me crack up hard but yours DEF do.. it would be great to be your friends.
So many people just can't believe that someone non-disabled would date a disabled person when they could date someone "better" won isn't disabled. It's the most concentrated form of abilism and it's disgusting. My partner is disabled and I love them with all my heart and couldn't imagine being without them. I adore you both, thank you for your humor and resilience to answer these horrific questions. Xx
That is ableism
"I can't prove it.... On THIS type of channel!" Shane, you are killing me.... lol
Like Shane’s personality alone makes me want to hangout with him, people are dumb as heck
Me too!
Yeah his funny and always up beat he would be orsum to hang out with be a day of laughter and joy
I agree. Shane's personality is fun agreeable, caring and respectful.
“And that ends todays history lesson on the dildo, please make sure to finish your dildo dioramas, and thanks for staying on task today!”
@Mentally Handicapped I'd say he doesn't need one since they talk about getting her pregnant all the time... Just so you know, dildos can't get a girl pregnant
When I look at this relationship correction when I look at this marriage I can see the love in their eyes for each other I hope that they are together for the duration I enjoy watching them. To be honest I am a little envious
LOL, "if the baby comes out in a wheel chair we'll know its mine"! I'm so glad that you guys find humor in all the ignorance. I know you guys understand you don't owe the haters any explanation but I love your attitudes about it! Keep doing what you're doing and loving each other! I think you're awesome!
I laughed at that comment so hard. Was my fav part of the video LOL 🤣🤣🤣
@@SerenaMaeTV 💀💀 Me too!! 🤣🤣😆😆 I was not expecting that 😂😂😂
My wife of 25+ years had a genetic condition known as neurofibromatosis. She had had innumerable spinal surgeries for severe spinal curvature from ages 1 to 11. In 2000 her spine began shifting again requiring additional surgery. During the previous spinal surgeries too many arteries had been cut to afford anymore surgeries. Without that awareness, the surgeon clamped off an artery at the T6 level to cut it, which is routine. Without appropriate circulation at that level, the nerves died resulting in paralysis from the waste down. Until last year, I have been her caregiver. Yeah, didn't marry her for her money, never cheated on her. We had a remarkable relationship. She passed away last year. She had an intestinal impaction. Dead bowel was discovered and too much had to be removed for her to maintain nutrition. Based upon discussions we had innumerable times, I determined she would prefer comfort measures over the other options. I had been her caregiver since 2001. When she passed away we were best friends and soul mates. WHAT DISABILITIES!!! Thank you so much for your video.
Oh Richard I am so sorry that you and your wife had your life forever changed. Thank you for being such a caring husband until she departed. I hope you are doing ok now. Blessings.
I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine. She was lucky to have you! 😁
I’m sorry for your lost. I pray God has provided comfort for you with your grief. God bless!
my 6 year old cousin has neurofibromatosis 1 and we look forward to everything she will accomplish , and with the way she acts with her dolls we know that one day she will be a great mom, aunt, friend, partner and sister when she gets older. Like yeah sure their will be rough patches but no matter what she will be loved by whom ever and every person
@@emmapardy my wife had accomplished much. She was an occupational therapist and had begun and facilitated a number of support groups. She was also generous, brave, strong, and inspiring.
I HATE when ppl say, Hannah is so beautiful, and Shane is so lucky to have her?? They are lucky to have EACHOTHER!! They both bring things to their relationship! Both of them mesh so well together! Also congrats on the wedding kids, u both looked AMAZING! Wishing you many wonderful years together ❤💙
Well he is lucky to have her but not just because she is beautiful.
Right, and there's tons of other things that goes into making a beautiful person. It's not just looks.
Well said Kristin 👌 💯
That is so true! Only shallow people say that sort of thing. By their reasoning, a “beautiful” couple gets married and one of them is disfigured in an accident, that would end the marriage because they are no longer able to live up to the aesthetic quota.
@@joshpage3911 ...aww thanks kiddo..its true tho..ppl that put other ppl down, and have so many opinions, about OTHER ppls relationships, make me hulk angry lol..same with gay couples..ppl deserve to love who they ❤..it doesn't effect ANYONE else, let them be lol..I must have PMS haha sorry for the rant :)
True love is an amazing thing, and you two are showing it has no boundaries! You both are nothing less than angels on earth! I am so happy for you!
As someone who is in an interabled relationship, I really appreciate that you are open and honest and bringing our lives into the general public thoughts. Love to you both x
I live with a rare nerve disorder that causes extreme pain and has caused me to become medically disabled. I was CONVINCED nobody would be able to see past my health issues to want to date me when this happened to me. You guys have given me hope back in my life that there are still good people out there who aren’t so superficial. Thank you for living your lives so honestly out in the open. You are helping more people than you even know.
Youre absolutely beautiful and well spoken. I can sense your love of adventure and see that you are your own muse. Its truly beautiful!! The time will come when someone also sees this in you but in a whole new aura and the rest will be history. Be wise, be careful, and just remember to always be 1% better than yesterday. ❤ stay wonderful.
My dear husband was born with spina bifida and never walked a day in his life without the aide of a full leg braces and crutches. But I tell you one thing, nothing ever stopped him from doing anything he wanted to do. He was such an inspiration to many people. Sadly, after 30 years of marriage, he passed away from cancer. God I miss dearly.
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That you HAD to make a video like this in the "age of information" is triply funny, scary, and sad - ALL at the SAME TIME!
Hey, my husband went to Carleton! He was paraplegic. We were together for 36 years. Best man ever.
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"If it comes out in a wheelchair, we'll know that it's mine" 😂 I'd have such sore stomach muscles if I were married to Shane, from laughing at his brilliant humour 😂
LOLOL
👋👋👋👋 word
So agree!! Best sense of humour and amazing comebacks at stupid people!!
As a disabled guy, who suffered for a while because of peoples ignorance, it is wonderful to see videos like this! You guys are an inspiration. My disability is not of the body, but of the mind, I’ve been diagnosed with autism with my little brother, for my mom’s kinda crappy surprise if you’d ask me, and it was always tough. I had no way of making a living in my home country, Brazil, cause I need a bit of help in some points and the way it works back there is if you have a disability, doesn’t matter which one, you can barely do simple stuff. They assume we are not capable of living our lives to the fullest. With my parents sacrifice, we’ve been in a immigration process to Portugal and it’s hard. I am a licensed artist, character designer/modeler/sculptor, speak both my mother language and English fluently and still if my family does not gamble with everything we got, i won’t have a chance in life!
Going through all that, I found your channel, and it’s what gave me strength that everything me and my family are doing might very well lead to the kind of happiness that you guys transpire! So just thank you, and congrats!
This was so lovely to read!! Based on your pfp and assumptions im going to tell you that your wok is wonderful. For what it is worth, I am so proud of you!! You inspire me.
I understand that i have the issue society just needs to get educated about relationships an disabilities
I wish you and your family the very best of luck!
Vracc studio - I hope all has worked out for you and your family and you are successful and happy.
Some people cannot accept others can find true love. And it comes in many shapes, sizes, and forms. So happy for you both and your journey throughout your entire relationship. ❤️
I’ll never understand why people can’t see this is real. I personally think Hannah hit the jackpot. Shane, you’re funny, kind, warm and extremely helpful to so many others.
Because they think there is no way disabled people would be in a real relationship
People judge by looks, so it's no wonder
But if they'd look at me and think "wow this guy is a creep and must be virgin in his late 20s" they'd be right, sometimes assumptions work lol
@@frinkpc2515 I love the humor, though. Laughing at yourself is the #1 requirement for me in a friend or partner. Your joke got a chuckle out of me.
@@okaybut8193 as if she couldn’t make her own money, dumb!
@Swazzi I hope one day you'll find someone who loves you as much as Hannah obviously does Shane. I'm doubting it, but who knows.
Shane is a one man party. I see why they are together. He’s a hoot.
Definitely. Their love and chemistry is very apparent on screen. It’s really beautiful to watch actually. And yes he is hilarious! She is too! 😹💞💞💞
@@menosbbgirl so you'll swipe right a disabled man on tinder?
@@jkshallinheritearth3883 absolutely
Bleepx3
I dream of banter like this with someone! 💚
I am a nurse, my husband has type I diabetes, we have been married for over 20 years. I love him. Many (even nurse friends) say: "as a nurse why would you ever marry such a sick, type I diabetic!! OMG YOU WILL ALWAYS Have to take care of him!!" I married my husband because I love him. Sick or well. He is brilliant, kind, funny and thoughtful. We have been married for over 20 years.
I've been type 1 for 38 of my 40 years . Since 18 months old.
I have had a few eye issues but have had treatments and see just fine.
As for manor illnesses I would take diabetes over alot of other terrible diseases.
Granted my long term prognosis is not as bright as a non diabetic I dont let that stop me.
Just planning on living as much as I can as long as I can.
@@goalie2998 yes!! My husband is just turned 77 on December 14th and he has a few minor issues related but he's healthier than a lot of other non diabetics his age that I've cared for! It's all about careful management! 🥰 bless you!
@@nancybeveridgetaylor3256 I am lucky that I work in a trade, so I'm up and working most of the day, and not very sedentary.
77 is doing pretty well !
I hope both he and yourself keep healthy for many years!
@@goalie2998 thank you my dear! Sending you our love ❤ we are a community!
@@nancybeveridgetaylor3256 thanks for sharing! Im a 24 year old type 1 and had cataract surgery recentsmly. Im so hapoy to hear avout a type 1 who is older and healthy! Thankyou ❤
Bleep bleep bleep! Just discovered you guys about a week ago and subscribed! I think you're both fantastic. A match made in heaven and i wish you all the happiness in the world ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I’ve definitely heard that Shane is The Chosen One. Spread the word people, spread the word 🕵️
He is the chosen one......Shane become a part time comedian!!!
World Peace in 3... 2...
I also heard he was the Golden Boy 🤣
@Swazzi So, do better things with your time man. No one is forcing you to watch these videos. Well, I hope they aren’t! That would be a strange form of torture. @Swazzi blink twice if you need help
Who else froze the screen to read the old text message? Such a sweet message when Shane put “Thank you for making the past four months the most amazing time of my life” btw love your videos
The way Hannah looks at Shane debunks every stupid rumor about the reality of this relationship ❤️ that's a look that one simply cannot fake
Right? That's what I said she looks at him with love u can see it
@@nicolepantovich3650 and it’s the kind of love where she rolls her eyes at his terrible jokes but still laughs because she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings lol. That’s how you know it’s real love
Yes I saw that cuz I'm thr same way with my husband lol
I'm physically challenged and I've been with my partner since ,1981. I don't care what people think. What matters most to us is each other. Most people will never understand us being together. They can't and won't until they get in the same situation if they ever do. It's OK we live our lives and enjoy each other's company. I don't feel I need to justify our relationship to anyone since they don't justify there's to me. Live and let liive.
“It’s a huge waste of peanut butter, it gets the bed messy.” I nearly spit my drink out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 had to edit in: BLEEP BLEEP BLEEP 🧐😉
Why don’t people mind their business. A woman wants a man who really loves her and who is good. Looks fade, a strong man can grow weak, anyone can become disabled so does that mean we won’t love them anymore? Women fall in love with a man’s character and mind, many women don’t care that much about physical looks. If someone marries based on looks they will eventually be disappointed.
You nailed it! ❤
But...Shane IS good looking. 🤷♀️
So true! Well said!!!
I love this. True talk
Perfect!
Hannah could never fake the loving way she looks at you. She loves and adores you it is obvious.
Yeah there's so many other ways to get attention /fame these days.....and honestly atleast its better than being mean? ....its just strange to me this is a thing? (the fame thing) how come we don't call out the people trying to get clout for being mean?...wth? ....I'm speechless from my pov , I mean g%$ damn! i just don't understand the hate? from people, cause a beautiful woman wants to get freaky deaky with a man just his personality? Wth?.....she's a saint in my mind, ....even if there using each other? Lol!....of course this coming from someone whos been called a koomer befote with too many androgens , and sex/porn addiction lol, can't bealeve im saying that, ...lol, maybe its the beer ? ...or maybe I just feel passionately about this ? Or both!
Lol!
She's full of shit
She is wasting her life...harsh but fair
@@jldp24 the divorce rate is 45% in the UK alone I think these guys have a much healthier relationship than most people who are not even divorced.
I just watched your video and then read some comments and cannot believe how rude and hateful people can be. I get it that you want to debunk the comments but I almost wish that you had someone (a friend or family member) go through your comments and remove the hate, before you see it. You do not owe these fools anything. Life is hard enough, whether your disabled or not!!!, to have to hear people who are generally miserable in their own skin, tear down something they wish that they had. And your intimacy is none of anyone’s business. You don’t owe these ignorant people anything. Love you two! You’re here to bring joy and kindness to this world. And give hope to those facing obstacles and hardships. Your relationship says to the world to get up and live life, and stop making excuses for not doing so. ❤️❤️❤️ Keep shining! Let me reiterate. You owe no one anything for your life, but God🤗 who uses your story every day to help others !!! One more thing, in my 35 years of marriage, I’ve never had to blow flowers and sunshine out the window to prove I love my husband, who I still have to set straight on a daily basis😂😂😂😂. Jk, we both need each other...
“If it comes out in a wheelchair” LMAO!! You guys are awesome. If people choose to be ignorant, you can’t fix stupid! Byyyye!
The idea that people actually try to “debunk” your relationship is mind boggling. This honestly is probably too personal to share on RUclips, and I rarely comment on videos, but I have been struggling in my relationship and have been questioning if it’s the right one for me lately. Watching you guys has shown me a great example of how a successful relationship SHOULD be. Two people that clearly connect on such a deep and meaningful level, who genuinely are the best of friends, and who are so clearly deeply in love with each other. You two are a wonderful example for couples and individuals on what to look for in a successful, loving, and life long partnership. Thank you for sharing your life with us! We appreciate it. ❤️
I cracked up when Hannah had to stop filming to take a picture of the dog like girl SAME 😂
No I think they stopped because Shane was burping and then she looked at the dog and said good girl lmao 😂
I love how much of a smartass Shane is and how it just tickles Hannah. Love the channel! Please do not let ugly negative people affect the beauty of your marriage. Bleep, bleep, bleep
You're the sweetest couple ❤. Not too many people in this world that are married and don't have a disability are not even happy or have joy. You can totally tell your in love . No one can make this up or play fake for so many years.
People question how a girl could like a guy in a wheelchair when their bf ignores them to play COD, uses 3 in 1 shampoo, and doesn't let them have male friends or go out, and calls women "females"
(Thanks to the guy in the comments for reminding me that men call us females)
3 in 1 shampoo....I’m rolling over here.😂Thanks for the laugh!
Not the 3 in 1.
Yesss omg. Like why is having a disabled partner seen as worse than having a literal manchild?
Facts!
The 3-in-1 got me 🤣 thankfully my husband is Bald so he doesn't even have that option
I'm glad you addressed the fact that disability income is not enough to live on. I hate that people actually believe that misconception that " the disabled become rich by the government". Hannah and Shane thank you for creating this channel (eventhough you really didn't want too). You give me hope that as a woman that has cerebral Palsy one day I will find someone that will be be my best friend and love me for me.
Very well said!!!😤👍👍👍👍 May you be blessed soon,
Me too. I don't recieve anything because I'm legally married. And my husband makes too much money.
You'll find the right one someday! I have CP as well. I've been married twice. My husband now is my best friend!! 😊
You know you’ve made it when they make up conspiracy theories about you! Congrats! 🍾
I actually teared up laughing about “so you’re Santa?” Thank you!
Conspiracy theory: Shane's chair gets jealous of Hannah.
Christine Part 2: The Evil Powerchair from Hell
Plot twist... Shane's chair is jealous of shane and wants Hannah for itself.
@@RyanMacOfficial spicy
Oh no, it's not a theory. It's scientific FACT!
I love you guys and I can tell she really loves him and he love her. I'm really glad people you are talking disability relationships .
Some people find it difficult that people with disabilities can experience profound happiness and have deep and meaningful relationships with someone at an intimate level....this says nothing about you and everything about them. I think you two are wonderfully together and I can tell by the way Hannah looks at you that she deeply loves you. And you two are wonderfully entertaining. Thanks for what you do.
Yes this!
Couldn’t have said it better. 👏🏼
It’s possible to find happiness but it’s human nature to be sexual with a spouse. In this case Hannah barely has one. He can’t open his legs, he can’t use his hands, he can’t move. Only thing he can use is mouth. No strength to do anything.... after a while it does get difficult. I’m not even overly sexual and don’t mind having less sex, but none at all, is not attainable!
@@tima2553 You don’t know their sex life??? So that’s really rude and ignorant of you to assume what they do or don’t do. And how would you know that it gets difficult? They’ve actually talked about the fact that they DO have sex. The way you experience and enjoy sex does not and should not be applied to other people unless you’re in a relationship with them. And even if you do think this, why post it on their videos? Why? What’s the point of sharing that thought?
All of you who criticize are absolutely rude ridiculous and if she’s happy who the f&$@ are you to care! Leave them alone they have made it abundantly clear she chose this they are both happy and satisfied and it’s none of any of your business! Be happy for them shut your damn mouths and move on haters!!
my father had NO legs and my mom was so much like Hannah, its amazing to see this its dang close to deja vu!!!!!makes me very happy to see more couples like you two!
That was in no way depressing to watch. You two have so much love, that your videos are just over flowing with joie de vivre. It's very brave of you to discuss such personal things, but it adds a whole other rich level to your content.
I’ve never considered this relationship as fake or someone using the other. You guys have always seemed really genuine. You guys and Charisma and Cole
Love Charisma and Cole, also!
This really makes me upset just cause we’re disabled it doesn’t mean that we’re not able to find love to sometimes people can be really hurtful Love you guys happy holidays take care
No one said disabled people can’t find love. They’re human too.I think Shane had a history of dating a blonde chick who also looked like Hannah named Anna and he said they were engaged and it sparked a lot of Gossip. So maybe this is why people don’t believe he’s being genuine. You’ll find those videos on RUclips if he didn’t take them off. Merry Christmas!
@@MK-gy1ug Sure, but that was years ago? Why does that matter? People break up and start dating new people and fall in love with new people. My brother was engaged once and it fell through, and then he met someone and that worked out and now they’re married with two kids. Does that mean my brother is faking it since he was engaged before?
Yeah well. I can’t find anyone.
@@MK-gy1ug No, there are literally some in these very comments claiming she’s too attractive, and that disabled people should only date disabled people. So yeah, people ARE saying these insane things. Your point doesn’t even make sense... tons of people get engaged, break up, then end up finding their actual long-term partners. Are you seriously saying that he was interested in her because her name rhymed with his ex, and she had blond hair as many young women do? A rhyming name and head hair? You don’t see how stupid that sounds? He didn’t happen to come across her (online or IRL) and they started talking and just got on really well? Isn’t the simplest answer the most likely?
I’m sorry, I just will never understand the assumptions and mental gymnastics people have to do to come up with such STUPID theories 😂
@@MK-gy1ug many people are saying that.. Especially in this comment section..I have seen she is too attractive for him and that he can't have sex so he shouldn't date..among other awful things..it is sad really.
My husband is a government contractor and works out of the country most of the year. I also get accused of cheating on him while he’s gone because there is no way I could be a faithful wife for so long. 🙄 when in reality all I do is take care of our daughter and our home. I’m so sorry you guys go through this. You both seem like amazing people and do not deserve the hate!
People are just projecting... they don't think they would be able to do what you do, so they think it's impossible for you. They just need to focus on their own stuff.
@Shred Father 🙄 move on troll
I love how much yall laugh together. The "normalcy" is amazing. I'm always called cold-hearted because I don't treat people with disabilities different. Last I looked disability or not people are people and nobody should be treated any different because one can walk and one can't or whatever said disabilities could be. 🤷🏼♀️ I wouldn't want to be treated differently.
Shane. Is. HILARIOUS. 🤣🤣🤣 His sarcasm always makes me laugh.
Facts
"I can't prove it on THIS channel" - confirmed Shane starting an Only Fans!!!
Lol 😂
Samething I said before I seen this 😂
People must be blind not to see the way Hannah looks at Shane. I can clearly see the love in her eyes. The way they interact with each other, the chemistry between them. Shane has a comedic personality and makes her laugh. What does it matter to anyone anyways? I can understand the curiosity people would have about their relationship and intimacy. I did at first too, but as I continued watching their RUclips channel I can tell their love is genuine. They truly enjoy each other in every way. You just can't fake that chemistry.
I agree with you.
I totally agree with you. You can easily tell she loves him by the way she looks at him. I don't know why people find it so hard to believe she could love him he's absolutely hilarious. If you can find a man that will make you laugh every day the rest of your life like the way he probably can with her, what more could you want? When you have such an amazing mental connection with someone you can over come so many of life's challenges together. Most of these myths are just shallow descriptions of what people think love should be like but they're the true definition of what real live is like and it's amazing when you realize you finally have that!
jealousy can be blinding
This man needs to be a comedian! I mean, he already is one, but professionally. He's amazing.
A partner that makes you laugh is worth their weight in gold! My husband and I laugh a lot.
Anyone that assumes using a disability to travel is a thing has never tried to book accessible transportation, hotels, flights, and other things that everyone else takes for granted. Absolutely absurd.
Ive got a conspiracy, maybe these two just met and fell in love
Actually she reach out to him
:0
👏🏻 yessss!
I can't feed my self or wipe my own ass... Wanna go out on a date w me?
bleep bleep bleep! You look like you're best friends above everything else, and ultimately that's the key to a good relationship.
Realize many people have never experienced unconditional love in any relationship. Romantic or not. 🤯
Love needs no reason, it only needs to be accepted. Suspicious people can't feel love, even when it's given to them.
I love the sweet and simple way you have spoke the truth with your comment, thank you sister!👍
I don't think love exists, and it certainly shouldn't. No one is deserving.
I think that Shane is so intelligent and smart and so empathetic. He is so kind and cute
People are superficial. That's today's world.
and that sense of humor. he is so quick witted.
He is, all of the above. People see a relationship they wouldn’t have themselves and think it’s fake or wrong or whatever negativity spews out of their mouths, next. They are also the ones in dead end, worthless, loveless relationships of their own. A part of me just wants to wrap this couple in bubble wrap and protect them. The greater part knows RUclips negativity is their least of concerns. They are so empowering to other interabled couples as well as abled couples. Relationship GOALS. they seem to enjoy their life as a couple more than any couple I know ..... I have respect for their ability to put it on social media, knowing the backlash they’ll get .... but it doesn’t matter. ❤️❤️
@@giulianofaria people have always been superficial, because there's plenty people (women) who have both internal and aesthetic qualities, so there's no need to choose between the two
The way Hannah looks at Shane definitely beats all this assumptions...
Much love from Kenya
Kweli
This is my first time commenting on your vlog. I am a very sentimental, sensitive person and happen to find y’all…I am blessed to know you Shane and Hannah!❤ I’m not sure I could ever do what two are doing and I believe that what you are doing is such a blessing to the world…in spite of all of the adversity you live with daily you always seem positive…I love you guys in a very family way!❤
I live with my boyfriend who has parkinson's ..we met two years ago and we just clicked..we treat each other so well..I cant imagine my life without him..I take one day at a time..I would rather be with him who in my mind is one of the best people I have ever met than anyone else..We cant help who we fall in love with..Not sure I could do what Hannah does..but they give us hope..
When Shane was trying to put Hannah in "the mood" by talking his wheel chair...that was my favorite part 😂😂
Also BLEEP BLEEP BLEEP!! long videos are the best.
Me too. I was dying laughing.
Seriously do these "conspiracy theorists" realize they're saying he's basically unattractive and there is no way he could date someone average height? So unreal!
Maybe its hard for some lonely people too see Shane is is engaged to such a amazing woman.. They forgot about the love part and got all fixated with first looks and prejudice
They realize it. They just don't care. They don't see Shane or Hannah as fully fledged people.
I know. First of all, just from their love and lives they share with us, you can see Hannah is not superficial in anyway. And Shane is so cute inside and out. He’s smart, intelligence, funny and has the cutest smile and beautiful eyes. I can’t see Hannah with anyone else. Shane and Hannah just fit together. Sometimes I kinda forget about the sexy wheelchair. 🥸😉
There is a very noteworthy man, father and husband who was burn without legs and arms. He’s from Australia. He’s a public speaker and preacher. Like Shane cute and smart and funny. He has a message to share to the world. His wife is able bodied. They make an amazing team. Just like Shane and Hannah and Chloe.
@@youremybiggestfan I think they're married.
@@nettiedunn9613 Nick Vujicic?
It is often human nature to project our feelings onto others. If someone just cannot believe that Hannah would be with someone like Shane, it’s likely because they could never be in that position themselves. A lot like my ex husband. He trusted no one and the reason was probably because he was not trustworthy himself. Projection is real. Those type of people are not even worth wasting your time on because their mind will never change.
Yes. Exactly.
We love you guys...never mind the people who don't understand LOVE.
Most people’s love is shallow and is all about muscles and booty. They can’t comprehend what it means to be in love with someone’s soul. Please pay those comments no mind
@Jacob Rodriguez read what I said properly
You had me at booty 🍑 👀
@Jacob Rodriguez Zzzzzzzzzz
Thats so true
preach!
I became disabled after I was married to my wife. Does that mean my marriage is no longer valid? I may need to change my Facebook relationship status to “It’s Complicated.” Please help.
Just in case you actually need help no you don’t need to change your status
Thank you. My post was definitely tongue in cheek.
Lol! Love your comment! I hope you and your wife are doing great!🥰
Ur marriage may no longer b valid in certain states.. Check the disability laws in ur area! Lol
That "please help"...I felt that 🤣🤣🤣
Shane is always spot on,on his jokes and his brilliant mind fast thinking all the time actually both of you have brilliant minds!