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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2024
  • Did I look in a mirror before filming this? No. Do I regret that? Yes. But it feels fitting for what the last month has been like.
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  • @bethjcrowley
    @bethjcrowley  4 месяца назад +12

    Hi guys- thank you so much for all of your sweet comments. I just wanted to update you that Delia passed away today after putting up such a good fight against her cancer. I’m hoping to start getting back to posting things soon ❤.

  • @knzjyd
    @knzjyd 4 месяца назад +73

    I'm so sorry, Beth. Things have been so rough for you. I personally think you should take as much time as you need if you need a break; no one with a heart would blame you with everything going on. I'm sending good vibes. ❤️

  • @michaelkerley452
    @michaelkerley452 4 месяца назад +57

    Please always remember self care is so important. We adore your music and stand behind you. I am facing something similar with my last cat with kidney disease and send my wishes for your family in these times.

  • @shootingstars6762
    @shootingstars6762 4 месяца назад +8

    My dog Sera had 3 forms of cancer, and we knew she was going to have to be put down eventually. It was sad, especially for my mom because they had such a special bond. Sera was afraid of everything, and so was my mom. My mom had suffered a lot of mental health issues, but Sera and her conquered their fears together. Sera would do things she would be afraid to do for anyone else for my mom. I could not imagine what my mom had to go through losing Sera and having to make that decision. Sera was the most loyal dog you could have, and a service dog like no other.
    We had a cat named Aristotle, and he had been suffering from being unable to urinate properly. Unfortunately, we did not have the money to take care of him, but one of the vets fell in love with him and adopted him. It was either give him up or put him down, and I consider it a miracle that someone wanted him and could take care of him when we could not.
    We are very fortunate and blessed that we have the medical knowledge now to spare animals from any unnecessary suffering and that there are such kind people in the world that are willing to jump in and help. I pray you know what to do to best help your animal, and I pray for you, your husband, and your animals to be comforted in this tough time.

  • @littlewagers
    @littlewagers 4 месяца назад +14

    I’m so sorry! My cat was diagnosed two years ago, and while she’s still here and doing okay, we can tell she’s getting sicker. It’s so hard to watch your pets get older and become ill. I know what you’re going through with your pets and your creativity. I understand and I support you.

  • @user-ok3hb8ki6n
    @user-ok3hb8ki6n 4 месяца назад +11

    Oh Beth, I'm so, so, sorry. All of us wish you and your family the best in life.

  • @theicecavalier342
    @theicecavalier342 4 месяца назад +17

    Lost my soul mate dog when the wind blew our fence down. He was hit by a car, and I held him as he was put to sleep. I wasn't able to adopt another dog until 26 years later. Even now, typing this 34 years later I have to hold my tears back. Pets are truly a gift from God, and we need to be thankful for the time we have. I pray you find comfort in your memories.

  • @beloveddreamer
    @beloveddreamer 4 месяца назад +8

    I'm so sorry... I know how hard that can be when your pets are sick... Prayers and best wishes for you! ❤

  • @annemcintosh90
    @annemcintosh90 4 месяца назад +19

    I'm so sorry, Beth. Please take some time for you and your family. Mental health is SO important. Thank you for being so candid. I've been struggling alot too these last couple months. ❤

  • @marykl7613
    @marykl7613 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm so sorry, Beth. Please remember to take care of yourself. As someone who also has several senior and ailing cats, dogs, and horses, I know you give your heart and soul to try and keep your animals as healthy and comfortable as possible. But don't forget about yourself. I'm glad to hear that you will be taking a little trip to Nashville. Sometimes you just have to get away from the situation to refresh and recharge. All of your fans will still be here when you get around to releasing more videos. I listen to your songs almost every day, I just feel like I can relate so well to them. No matter how I feel, I can find one of your songs that either make me feel better or go, "yeah, this song is how I feel right now." I know I keep repeating myself, but please take care. Sending prayers and good wishes for you, your family, and your animals (who are also family).

  • @susanjane8020
    @susanjane8020 4 месяца назад +5

    Take time off. Love your music. Sad about your critters. I am an animal lover. Takes me forever to get over a loss of one. Take a break. Those of us who love your work do understand. GOD bless you

  • @morganrrhaze
    @morganrrhaze 4 месяца назад +1

    It’s proven that losing a pet can be harder than losing a person because with the pet it’s a true pure love. We had our old man doxie pass away this winter so my heart goes out for you

  • @user-pu7gu9zr5p
    @user-pu7gu9zr5p 4 месяца назад +8

    Beth, I love your music. I understand in soul what you have felt. I had to bury my life after losing so much after Hurricane Ian.
    I advocate for mental health awareness and your video helps tremendously to display we are human, need community, and support.
    Much love ❤️

  • @anjaradenkovic3791
    @anjaradenkovic3791 4 месяца назад +5

    I can’t imagine losing or seeing my pet like that…I have so much empathy for you having to go through with this. I hope therapy will work for your cat! Thank you for being so honest and real. You really deserve some relaxing and taking care of yourself.
    Either way enjoy the moments you have with them so your love reaches and helps ease their and your mind.
    Lots of love,
    From a grateful fan!

  • @L_Ceci
    @L_Ceci 4 месяца назад +8

    You never have to explain yourself to us. Your happiness and health (and that of your pets) are more important. I'll be here waiting. Definitely can relate to it already feeling like a really long year. Sending all the best

  • @bj20715
    @bj20715 4 месяца назад +5

    Take the time you need, I can't imagine anyone here would say differently. The video will happen when it happens and we'll all enjoy remembering the wonderful music you gifted us last year. Been there with the pet, it's one of the hardest things to do but it's also maybe the best thing we can do for them. After years of making each other's lives more meaningful, we can give them one last gift of relieving their pain. I like to think that they realize this and are grateful. Damn it's getting dusty in here... Let's all never forget to show them the unconditional love and affection that they show us and to make sure they truly feel like family, because they are.

  • @kiotaral1436
    @kiotaral1436 4 месяца назад +2

    That sounds really difficult, take all the time you need. We love you so much, I hope you and your cats do well.

  • @Dragonmoon8526
    @Dragonmoon8526 4 месяца назад +2

    Sorry to hear that. Please take all the time you need. We had to put down our dog of 16 years, a few months ago. It can be a difficult choice. And even when it's the right one. The pain, loss, and greif take time to recover from. Thank you for sharing and hoping things work out.

  • @BornAngelAuthor
    @BornAngelAuthor 4 месяца назад +2

    Oh Beth, I'm so sorry. I know how this is. I lost my 5 year old pupper after a battle with an unknown issue with one of her paws, and then she just had a horrible downturn. I was there when she crossed over and it's still hard. take all the time you need and take that time away, it will help. (I know it helped me when I got some time away while my hubby was home with her).

  • @megmarie2153
    @megmarie2153 4 месяца назад +2

    Take all the time you need 💖 sending you love and hugs and positive vibes
    You are an amazing artist and deserve to take a break for your mental health 💖💖

  • @carriedestler
    @carriedestler 4 месяца назад +3

    Hugs to you and your family, Beth. Take care and take time to recover. Your fans will all still be here when you're ready. And btw, you're beautiful with or without makeup

  • @Messr_moony
    @Messr_moony 4 месяца назад +4

    Sending you and your fur babies all the love ❤

  • @thomasdaugherty581
    @thomasdaugherty581 4 месяца назад

    I came across your music listening to a teenage girl sing your song "I am not nothing" during a karaoke night in a mental health facility for depressed and suicidal people. It helped save my life along with hers. I now listen to it whenever I feel I can't go on. It lifts me and gives me strength and I thank you.

  • @tisi808
    @tisi808 4 месяца назад +4

    So much love for you Beth! Your songs always help me through tough times and also good times. Your voice was always there speaking my feelings and there was always a fitting song for every opportunity. Thank you for that ❤

  • @artixi3291
    @artixi3291 4 месяца назад +1

    Everyone deserves a break. With as much as you've been working to get your music out there, you more than deserve it. Spending time with your pets in their senior days is important and fighting for them takes a big heart. Take care!

  • @ShadowhunterARMY
    @ShadowhunterARMY 4 месяца назад +1

    don't worry about this whole "making videos/ being always present and ready and perfect" your mental health and selfcare is much more important. and tbh seeing you making such an honest video is encouraging and setting a great example because talking about true feelings is so important
    I hope that the next month will be a better month for you...❤

  • @jessica61936
    @jessica61936 4 месяца назад

    It's so hard when a pet is sick, I hope things start going your way a bit more soon!

  • @gracemichaudt5390
    @gracemichaudt5390 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤ lt is very hard, l have 3 pets, one dog with cancer. It isn't easy, so stressful,and we love them so much as they love us.Our fur babies.

  • @emeralddraegon
    @emeralddraegon 2 месяца назад

    Wow. Sounds like you and I had a similar crappy winter. I also had 3 senior pets (with one needing suddenly put down right after Thanksgiving) and got sick (also probably Covid). It took me FOR.EVER. to get over losing my cat. He was 14. I hope by now that your struggles are lessening and that your emotional healing is under way. ❤

  • @jasonburchard3743
    @jasonburchard3743 4 месяца назад +6

    I wish you and all your family the best life can bring.💯❤️🙏
    Stay strong and safe

  • @sanjanasawant9244
    @sanjanasawant9244 4 месяца назад +2

    Hey Beth, I am so sorry to hear this. Please take carr of yourself and don't worry about putting out new videos and all. Take your time. I'l be praying for you and your family and we'll always be there for you!💖😊

  • @ornellalazzeroni8022
    @ornellalazzeroni8022 4 месяца назад +1

    Our pets become our family we do not want to see them upset or in pain. They do know you there for them every step every day and do anything to make em comfortable and love em makes things a bit better for them. Do look after your self and just to what your heart tells you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mayasinay249
    @mayasinay249 4 месяца назад

    This is soul crushing, I'm so sorry, Beth! My 18 year old cat died two years ago of a stomach malfunction that was too late to be treated and he didn't look like he was suffering, he was just sleeping more and he had hard time to stand when he was eating from his bowl, but when we took him to the vet he said that he is actually suffering a lot but he's being a fighter... I cried too much that weekend... I hope being prepared for this is actually better than being surprised - keep being strong! 💝

  • @yanglee9837
    @yanglee9837 4 месяца назад +1

    Take your time to put yourself back on your feet Beth. We all need a well deserved break from time to time and I hope your cat recovers well. And as you asked, here comes the ✨️✨️✨️GOOD VIBES✨️✨️✨️

  • @m4g1c1ts3lf
    @m4g1c1ts3lf 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm so sorry, Beth. I hope you know that you never have to feel like you have to explain yourself to us if you don't want to! You should take as much time as you need if you need a time away from everything, no one would blame you for that ❤

  • @LadyKjell
    @LadyKjell 4 месяца назад +1

    Love and hugs. Sorry life is so hard lately, Beth.
    I been strugglin too so i totally feel you. 🫂

  • @bethsbabies
    @bethsbabies 4 месяца назад

    We love you, Beth! Your compassion & sensitivity are so evident in your music AND your love of the amazing animals we’ve been blessed to share life with. Personally your songs (“Here We Go Again” and “Empty Words” in particular) have described the deepest pain I have endured in my life from a narcissistic spouse, and it brings me so much comfort just hearing your voice tell my story. Please take care of yourself - mind, body & soul - and know that we are praying for you & your precious pets!

  • @poisonoussnake2022
    @poisonoussnake2022 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m so sorry Beth. Sending you hope 🍀

  • @tlpeace203
    @tlpeace203 4 месяца назад

    My MDD tends to almost be cyclical. I’ll be fine and then I’ll be drowning. Every year, I absolutely dread January. I have to legitimately prepare for it because I know I’ll be absolutely miserable. I barely survived it this year. I hope all of our 2024s get better from here on out. I’m really sorry it’s been so rough, Beth. Just know you’re not alone. ❤️

  • @ferrisulf
    @ferrisulf 4 месяца назад +5

    I'm so very sorry. I have long-covid for the past few years. We lost our elderly dog in April. He let us know. You will know. I am sorry for your going through that. They are so ever special to us. Then my grandma died at the end of January and I'm now sick with covid on my birthday, having caught it at her funeral. So yeah, I'm in the same boat as far as 2024 starting pretty darn rocky. I hope it improves for you. I hope it improves for us all. Put your self care first. Please take as much time and energy as you need for that.

  • @kymsheba
    @kymsheba 4 месяца назад +1

    Take care Beth, we are here for you whenever you need us, you saved my life when i was at my lowest and gave me strength to go on, and you have all our support for you. We love you more than words can say xxx

  • @emily94762
    @emily94762 3 месяца назад

    I lost my beloved 12-year-old cat very suddenly in June. A month from realizing something was wrong to losing her, and it stopped me from writing (something I love to do) for a good three months. Loss really destroys creativity, and that's okay. It will come back, no matter how hard it seems. Grief needs to be processed, both before and after a loss. You don't owe us that video, you can give yourself permission to just not do it, or to do it six months from now when you feel ready. It's okay. I hope you're able to process and grieve.

  • @LaurenNicoleGlenn
    @LaurenNicoleGlenn 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m so sorry Beth 💔 I hope you can take a step back and take a break from everything. Take as long as you need to, you do not have to explain to your audience! Taking care of your own mental health is important, and going away from a stressful situation for a bit is ok. It helps us to process things.
    I’ve lost three cats over the years. It hurts. But you’re not alone 🩵

  • @MikeSmith-qt4pe
    @MikeSmith-qt4pe 4 месяца назад

    I had to put my cat Katie down the other week, so I feel for you. Cancer and kidney failure, and she was 11. First time I had to make that decision myself, and she was always mine. Felt so wrong leaving her on the vet's table when I could leave. So yea, I feel the "fight or flight" response (I think I'm stuck in freeze), and I hope things start looking up for all of us

  • @giuliaidiometri186
    @giuliaidiometri186 3 месяца назад

    Oh Beth, I'm so sorry. I lost my cat at five years old by euthanasia and it's been really, really hard. She died in 2020, and I'm still struggling because of her death. I have other two cats, one is eight and the other is four and I adopted a kitten in 2022, but I still struggle with depression and anxiety and strong headaches and... difficult stuff, even family issues, my mom has brain cancer and... for me these year are a mess. I hope things will get better for you. Take your time.

  • @CatGold5047
    @CatGold5047 4 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry hun. I'm glad that both of them are responding to medication.
    Yes, of course we still want to have the recap. I'm glad you're taking your time, though. The most important thing we can do for ourselves and those we love, human or animal, is to share the time and care that we have. You're doing that with her and I'm sure she appreciates it.
    Getting away sometimes is super important. Caring for others is EXHAUSTING. I'd suggest pampering yourself too - baths with lavender for example can work wonders, and massages for the stress.
    Kind wishes for you, your husband and your pets.

  • @DarkS1ayer100
    @DarkS1ayer100 4 месяца назад

    Hey Beth... just found your channel today, love your work.
    From someone who is a creative (both a songwriter & storyteller) who is also dealing with alot (anxiety, depression, loss of friends, family, and also homelessness) I understand struggle all too well.
    I'm also all too familiar with loss. I've lost several pets over the years, and I lost my grandfather last year.
    I wish I knew what to say here... so I'll just say this.
    "Courage is what feels right for you in that moment".
    You're incredibly courageous to taking a moment to share all of this with us, just as you're courageous to keep going during a very difficult time.
    When the time is right, I'm sure you'll return to music.
    In the meantime, I hope you give yourself the time to heal, to work on yourself, to be with those you love while you deal with all of this.
    Just remember to take it one day at a time.
    And that "All you can do, is all you can do. And all you can do is enough. Your best is enough."
    You're doing more than enough.
    And THAT is good enough.
    Keep fighting the good fight.
    And good luck.

  • @sophiesworldofwonder9100
    @sophiesworldofwonder9100 4 месяца назад

    Pets being sick sucks. I'm so sorry. Wish you all the best!

  • @NikkiTRH
    @NikkiTRH 4 месяца назад +2

    We'll be waiting here :) No pressure or rush.

  • @caseyouellette4045
    @caseyouellette4045 4 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through such a difficult time. Your fur baby knows you've done everything possible for her. She'll understand when you're ready to make that decision. Sending you all of the love and support possible. ❤

  • @stacybraddy
    @stacybraddy 4 месяца назад

    Im sorry that your going through all that you are I have went through losing a very special pet and it is hard to see them when they are sick they are always with us no matter what things will get better with you and it will start soon i hope my thoughts and prayers are with you

  • @andrewbailey7045
    @andrewbailey7045 3 месяца назад

    Hey, Beth. I hope you see this. I'm not going to make this about me, I just want to give context and substance to the voice I say this with.
    I'm 32. Ex-con (did 10 yrs), a guy, rough life. I was diagnosed with a terminal illness last month, have maybe 5 months if I'm lucky.
    Your music has meant so much to me. I don't feel I ever really got to live, truly, in the grander sense of the term. The realization of possibility, the one wild, beautiful adventure that is life. But your music gave me a piece of that. You gave me a piece of that. In the least creepy way possible, I love you for it. Life is hard, God is cruel, but please don't stop okay?

  • @hannahgutman4810
    @hannahgutman4810 4 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry. I hope the rest of 2024 brings many wonderful things your way because what you are going through is so difficult right now. Take all the time you need to take care of yourself and your beloved pets. Whether it takes weeks, months, or even years I'll be excited about what you have next.

  • @quix689
    @quix689 4 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry! Definitely focus on your pets and your mental health as best you can. Sending all the happy thoughts possible towards you all 💙

  • @SPNFamilyMusic
    @SPNFamilyMusic 4 месяца назад

    i'm so sorry about what you're going through and i hope things get better. i get not having a great start to the year as well. for me it's been nothing but ptsd and trying to recover from everything my ex did to me last year and me and my husband have been trying to fix everything that my ex ripped apart, but it's been hard. so you're not alone on the crappy start of the year thing. We're all here for you tho and i truly hope things get a lot better for you. i love your music and it is one of the few things aside from my husband that keeps me going through the days and a big part of my inspiration to start releasing songs myself. you're an amazing person and i always love listening to your music and watching your videos.

  • @memecat9830
    @memecat9830 3 месяца назад

    I’m sorry for your loss take as much time as you need

  • @avalon7832
    @avalon7832 4 месяца назад

    Sorry to hear that Beth, take the time you need.

  • @destinystone379
    @destinystone379 4 месяца назад

    Sending all the good vibes your way.

  • @miaperry1834
    @miaperry1834 4 месяца назад

    Take all the time you need. It had to be really hard to make this video and tell us what's been going on, and I think we're all grateful for your honesty. Getting out of the house and doing things helps me with my mental health, even if it's just for a few hours. Sending out good vibes for all of you! Whatever happens, we're here for you, just as your music has been here for us.

  • @Denise-ki9ii
    @Denise-ki9ii 4 месяца назад

    Keep being gentle with yourself and enjoy your time with your darling cats.

  • @suzannewilliam-james9744
    @suzannewilliam-james9744 4 месяца назад

    Sending you and your babies love and hugs ❤❤❤

  • @Aaraishaaz
    @Aaraishaaz 4 месяца назад

    Whenever you’re ready will be ready. Good luck to you and dilia and all your other pets. Please

  • @mariageary5550
    @mariageary5550 4 месяца назад

    Take all the time you need the fans will be here for you when you return.

  • @Wayworn
    @Wayworn 4 месяца назад

    Aw, Beth… you take your time! We will be here regardless. Personal life and coping with loss is much more important than social media activity. Be sure to take care of yourself and take baby steps when you’re ready to get back in the saddle. I hope your fur babies remain healthy for as long as possible and I’m sending many well wishes your way. 💕 - Julia M.

  • @MrWaffles705
    @MrWaffles705 4 месяца назад

    😢 I am so sorry.

  • @sentarose
    @sentarose 4 месяца назад

    I have lost a furry family member so I empathize. Take care of yourself. ❤ 🐱

  • @halleyoshiro
    @halleyoshiro 4 месяца назад

    Im so sorry but please take care of yourself, pets are family and you have every right to feel the way you do and deserve a break if you need.one ❤❤❤

  • @marcusanton95
    @marcusanton95 4 месяца назад +1

    We live in different worlds Beth. Still, I wish you well.

  • @bibbabookgirl8469
    @bibbabookgirl8469 4 месяца назад

    Take care of yourself Beth, you always come first ❤

  • @Tholem98
    @Tholem98 4 месяца назад

    I will miss your music so much but I will miss you even more if something happen to you. We'll wait for you to be better. Then we are going to enjoy you music togheter

  • @eyarberman-roth7868
    @eyarberman-roth7868 4 месяца назад

    sending love

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    @robertfsullivan1756 4 месяца назад

    Peace Love Cool

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    @kimtorl2373 4 месяца назад

    😢😢😢❤

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    @hyyihell 4 месяца назад

    🥺🥺💞

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    @samwolf1991 4 месяца назад

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    @SovietRussianFxrry 4 месяца назад

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