This is so freeing😊it’s point 4 for me. Stop comparing!!! 26 year old, living alone, no parental support, no stable partner, no kids, friends in other cities,no house… etc it’s so easy to feel alone. But true! we are all on different journeys. I just ask for strength for my journey. Love it😅 Lord help us to be okay just being with you until you take us into a new season. Happy Sunday everyone ❤ Keep going😊
Amen sis!! You are excited where you need to be right now! God has a plan tailored to you, and he’s right on track with it 🥰 Just find comfort in him, under his wings. He’s got you! We get to go even deeper with him in our single season. Let’s make the most of it 🥹🙌🏽 Happy Sunday to you too !
Bythaa comparing still the true Joy and I think it's a struggle Before you get to accept that God will never you not forsake you and mostly He can't deny you a good life because that one of the reason He came and died for us and av realized whatever you magnify will always control you
I was in the same boat for so long … I am now in a loving relationship and we are slowly building it up, I am 27. Loneliness is an illusion, happiness is found in the flow of life by connecting to God❤ Enjoy this season for all its beauty
@@UrBigSisKey I'm glad you are happy too🤗. I pray you have every more joy in your relationship and grow more in the Lord together as a couple🙏. Thank you 💌
Thank you for this message. I’m 53, not married, no kids, on disability, serious church hurt, 15 year relationship that is not going to marriage, friends have left me. Please pray as I have no purpose or things to do with my life with the inabilities that I have. I feel like giving up.
Sis!! I will be praying for you. I am so sorry to hear about the struggles that you’re facing right now. It sounds like it’s all piling on at the same time. Please know that you’re not alone and that you do indeed have a purpose!!! You do!! There’s still breath in your lungs which means that our Heavenly Father still needs you here. There’s an assignment on your life! I pray that our God will strengthen you through this season. May he pour his presence out over you and guide you on where to go next. May your circumstances turn around in a way that only God can! May your life be a testimony to many other of Gods goodness. You are loved beyond measure, not forgotten. Look to Jesus, just focus on him! Matthew 6:33!! All else will be provided by your Heavenly Father in his perfect timing 🤍🤍
Please don't give up, lean on the Holy Spirit to fill the needy spaces in your life and heart. You will find Him removing all you do not need and providing all that matters. Remain blessed and stay strong!
Jesus loves you. And is always present with you. May the Lord's presence encompass you roundabout that you feel His reality. Remember you can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. ❤
Amen! I learned how close Jesus is when I was at my loneliest in life and since then have never felt that lonely again. God is good! He’s always there!❤
Wauw Amen! He will use the dark seasons to strengthen us and reveal himself like in no other season. It’s tough, but our God promises to be with us in the Valley of the shadow of Death. He’s such a good father 🥰🤍
@@deborahbx_You are right i mostly feel lonely and at that time just wqnt to stay by my self.. While am the same person who mentors the teenagers from church and they expect me to be their mirror and i feel soo bad that i feel this way. I realized that I am my worst enemy 😢and it hurts me alot.. Especially right now when i wanna go to campus i don't know how am going to deal with me
I dont feel lonely anymore. I prayed about it continuously and God removed that feeling. Im a single parent of three and I have no other fam except my kids. I dont have any friends either. Im 37 and still get bullied by ppl and called ugly because I have a lazy eye. Ppl are so cruel to me and I try my best not to internalize it but thats hard and to always treat ppl better than they treat me. I wish I had friends but Im happy I dont have ppl pretending to be my friend like all my old friends throughout my life. My relationship with God and my deep connection to Him has helped to get me thru a lot in my life and it has helped me to heal from past traumas and past hurts. I was treated badly in past relationships and church so I dont go to church anymore after going every single service in my childhood. I tried to find a church without any success. I thank God and Jesus for being my friends.
oh sis 🤍 Your message has made me teary eyed. I'm so sorry for all the difficulty you've gone through in life. I'm sorry for how you've been treated by people around you, and in church also. We really fail each other incredibly a lot of times... It reminds me of Luke 23:24 when Jesus cried out to God saying: Forgive them Father, for they do not know what they are doing. It's so beautiful to hear how despite everything you're holding onto Jesus, knowing that he's your friend, your husband. You are his precious bride! You are so beautiful, precious and loved. I will be praying for you and your little ones. May God restore further what has been broken, may he pour out his favour and blessings over your life, and may he when the time is right bring some amazing women of God around you. Women who will build you up and be that community that Jesus speaks about numerous times. You're called to great things, and your testimony has already touched me in this moment. May it bless even more people, and may our Heavenly Father be glorified through you. Continue to shine your light sis! You're not alone, sending love and hugs!! 🤍🥰
Hi Deborah, I just want to say that I feel God has truly blessed you with this RUclips channel and others, the way it has grown so vast could only be God, thank you for listening to the Holy Spirit to post these videos.
Amen! Thank you so so much for your encouraging words. I couldn’t agree more, this is all Gods work. To God be all the glory, I cannot boast in any of it 🥺🤍 How gracious is our God that we get to be his vessel through which he speaks. Who are we that he considers us!? Thank you for being here with me. What a God we serve 🥰
I thought the same thing the other day. 27 videos and 46 thousand subscribers. That's really a miracle. I've never seen someone's channel grow so fast. It's also encouraging for us who watch.🙏🏼
When you talked about your experience last year, I could not help but think of my own rejection ordeal I have experienced from every side ever since 21, 22, and 23. It's painful to go through rejection from every side. But I have found God's presence and voice in this ordeal. And yes, every moment every part of me feels like rejecting God, I hear His voice: I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS. In a very special bid in times of trials, God gently says " Draw closer to me". Remember when Elijah ran away from Jezebel? He was literally tired, exhausted and discouraged even with his ministry. He told God " I am not better than my ancestors". This sums up one of the greatest prophets of God's phase of frustration and desperation. It's amazing to see God calling him to go to the top of the mountain so that He could talk to him. The mountain has a vital meaning in the Bible. Moses, Elijah, and Jesus all went to the mountain to draw closer to God in the critical juncture of their ministries. This is where God calls His children too. If He isolates us, He surely is trying to make us draw closer to Him to use us for what He called us to. Our isolation is our mountain. Our isolation could be a sift that finally help get rid of impurities by staying closer to God. I know this is maybe contradictory to your topic, but my point is when God calls to isolation let us fully surrender, the time will surely come when He sends us in the world. I would also add that God isolates us to teach us to depend on Him alone. It has been arduous for me (I don't even know how my needs have been met on a day-to-daydaily but it has been miraculous) , ⠀and I am alive, healthy, and thriving. What a blessing! The enemy was maybe expecting me to give up on my faith in God, on my prayer habits, and give in to despair, blaming God, and toxic habits but my hope in God is stronger than ever before for I know that "my redeemer lives!" And I will keep praising God for the good and the bad. Humans will see a failure in me, but there is only victory in God.
This came at the right time. I have been struggling these last few days with feeling lonely. Haven't been in my Word like i once was, and that's when things feel like they are falling apart. Thank you for this message.
Yeaa sis it’s very often when we take our eyes off Jesus and start to focus on the world that we feel lonely. There’s always a reason! I’ll pray for you, that you may long for the word of God again. That you may know that that’s where you’re found, with God. He’s always with you, through every season 🤗 You’re so precious, walk in it!
I don’t have a job and I feel so scared and lonely. My car has broken down twice but when I go to the mechanic after checking it out the car HAS NOTHING WRONG AND WORKS OUT GREAT. I know it’s you God, I know you are always with me. But I can’t help feeling alone and lost sometimes. Don’t let me fall Father.
Thank you so much! This is confirmation from God. Feelings are Fickle not Fake. 🙏🏾 God will never leave us nor forsake us “never, ever, ever”! Hebrews 13:5
I really love the create a new path section. The grass and dirt path analogy is really useful. Makes me not give up meditating on the truth because eventually it’ll become a easy path. And it’s like conditioning our brain. I am a psych major currently in school and I’ve been feeling lonely in the classrooms. Also I have recently seen and heard many couples all around me and I often say “well I’m lonely, am I ugly?” when I know that’s a lie. And I just compare myself a lot to what others have and what I don’t have. It does get overwhelming sometimes,but I’m gonna learn to create that new pathway in my heart and just choose to walk in truth and not be bothered by not being in a relationship, not gonna be bothered about not having peers to speak to. All that may come around next semester or next year etc. but your messages are always on time, always refreshing and sooooo relatable! I love it here! I’m so glad the Lord led me to you !! My big sister in Christ 🤍🤍
Yes, Amen! 👏I’ve been a single mom all these years. I attempted to commit suicide before due to many broken relationships with men, but Jesus rescued me, and He renewed my mind. Whenever loneliness creeps in, I play worship music, and I start to praise and worship God, and my feelings start to change. I agree with you; we may be on our own, but we will never be alone, for the Lord our God is with us, the Holy Spirit, our perfect best friend. He will keep in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on Jesus, because He trusts in Him (Isaiah 26:3). I Thank the Lord for using your life for those who battle loneliness and depression, for it’s not an easy journey, and we need a sister like you to encourage. God bless you, and God’s has a wonderful plan for you, lovely and unique. Emmanuel!🌸
Amen sis!! 🤍 I'm so sorry about the difficulties you've had to go through to get here. I cannot imagine how hard that must've been. But I'm so grateful to hear that you've made it through. You are loved and needed here! There is still a calling on your life. May our Heavenly Father strengthen you and guide you to all that he has for you. Jesus is your bridegroom, he is constantly persuing you and loving on you. No man on earth will be able to take his place. That being said, may God send an amazing God fearing man your way when the time is right 🤗
this is so incredible to hear, honestly you have no idea! It's proof that our suffering is being used for good. It's all a part of something so much bigger then ourselves. If I didn't go through what I went through I would not be here today 🤍 How amazing is our God!!
Honestly, I'm a teenager and i easily trust my feelings more than G.od. A good lesson i have to learn is to not rely on my feelings. I need more faith, and i wish you could pray for me too. I ran to your channel because you always bring peace into my heart. Thank you ❤ and our Lord
Amen! It’s definitely not easy, but learning to not rely on our feelings is what will allow us to trust God fully! To lean on him even when we don’t ‘feel’ it. He’s always there 🥹🤍 You’re so young and loved! There’s still so much ahead of you. Keep God first and he will establish your plans. Provers 16:3. May our Heavenly Father pour his presence, favour and blessings out over your life. No matter what you walk through, you’re never alone 🥰 it’s a blessing to have you here!
This is so timely for me, I've been afraid or been lonely so much that I try to distract myself with movies and work but at the end I still have to deal with the feelings of lonely, I'm also in a season where I'm looking for where to stay and I was just dealing with this constant fear of been thrown out of where I'm currently staying. God bless you for these messages ❤️
You’re not alone 🤍 you might be by yourself but you’re not alone. When you meditate on the word of God, being by yourself won’t mean being lonely! There’s nothing better then sitting in silence and talking to your Heavenly Father who is always eager to hear from you!! I pray that you’ll get to experience that in this season of your life, the presence of God ☺️ You’re so loved. I’ll also be praying for your accommodation. Place it in Gods hands, he knows your fear within that and wants to provide a way. So give it to him, he won’t fail!
@@deborahbx_I'm actually just reading this message, and guess what I'm reading it in my new apartment. I actually got a house the next day after I posted this message. My pastor said something in service yesterday, he said sometimes our breakthrough is very close and we don't just know it because we can't see the future and the fact that God is working even when we don't see. Thank you so much Deborah, God bless you ❤️
This has started healing a lot of wounds inside of me right now! Yeah, 😭 a whole lot! But as God never left and forsaken Moses, so he is with me Joshua 1:5! I ❤️ love you 👑 Lord.
Amen my sis 🥹🤍 Our heavenly is with you every step of the way. Even in the fire, in the struggles, in the valley of the shadow of death he’s right there beside you! May you know that you know that you’re not alone, never! You’re so precious and valuable to God! He would give anything for you. Isaiah 43:4 🤍 Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.
So powerful! This is one of the biggest lie that the enemy uses against us. „You are alone”. It’s a great reminder to always fight it with the truth and not try to succumb to it or numb it.
The way this blessed and convicted me 🥹 I’m literally experiencing this now. Navigating being a single mom, work and school, I’ve felt so lonely. It’s pushing me into isolation. This was confirmation! I’ve watched this twice already.
wauw, sis!! It's so incredible to hear how God is speaking to you through me! It's an honour to be a vessel! It sounds like you're going through a tough season to say the least. That's a lot to have on your plate. But you don't have to carry the load by yourself. Our Heavenly Father is with you! I'll be praying for you. May God bless you and your little one abundantly!! He sees you, being a single mom is tough, he knows that. May he strengthen you as a loving father does. There is sooo much he has in store for you and fruit that will come forth out of your life. All this suffering will be a key part in your testimony to speak into other peoples lives. It's all to give God glory 🥰 Trust him! His hand is upon you, you're not alone!! Sending lots of hugs and love xx Debs
@@deborahbx_ wow thank you so much and thanks for your obedience, allowing him to use you. I do believe this is meant for my testimony, so I’m trying to trust him. God bless you 🥹🙏🏼🫶🏼
Listening to this reminds me... I do forget that God's paid for it, I feel indebted to him and as anyone would want to pay for their debt it's human, it's grace that's reminds me, there's no need to repay just remember to love... Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself. It's important to learn this is true love, which to me, is only found in Corinthians ❤ so feeling lonely is ok but we truthfully are never alone and we should make our Lord's love so important that we never feel lonely
Yess Amen!! Thank you so much for your profound words, you are so right! We all forget what Jesus has done for us sometimes. Having to earn our righteousness is not what God wants for us. That’s why he sent his one and only son. We don’t deserve it. It’s definitely good to remind ourselves of that from time to time. We can’t boast in ourselves, only in Christ. With a humble heart we can walk knowing that we’re free and never ever alone. You are so right in saying that it’s ok to feel lonely sometimes, it’s part of life. But we can’t camp there, our Heavenly Father has soooo much more for us! May we walk in that truth every single day of our lives 🥹🤍
@@deborahbx_ ❤️❤️❤️ it's part of His truth for us, we are loved and wanted by our Heavenly Father. Who else can love us so much that He would give up everything just to say to us, you are my child, worth more to me than all I am, all I have made, you are my most wonderful gift. That's a Father our Abba
Amen!! The spirit is one!! He knows exactly what you need when you need it sis, and he will speak through whoever to get to you. His pursuit for you is intenseeee 🥰 To him be all the glory!! I'm just a vessel 🤍
I come back to this video whenever that feeling of loneliness take over to remind myself that i am NOT alone! i have God, i have my Family here to support me! I thank God for always being here with me🩷
The coat analogy is 🔥. That was a very important topic to address. The enemy hounds the lonely and he def reminds me consistently that I am alone. Really good faith talk and I enjoyed the longer format 🙌🏽. Thanks!
Praise 👏 GOD from whom ALL blessings flow, praise him ALL creatures here below! My little sister ALWAYS come through for me! We serve an AWESOME GOD! You ALWAYS make my day. When I'm at my lowest point, you ALWAYS hit on the right topic 💯 Thank you so much. You are doing an amazing job. May GOD continue to speak through you to his children.❤
Amen!!! May our Heavenly Father continue to speak into your life to let you know that you’re not alone. You are so so so loved and precious 🥹🤍 Priceless!!
Been seeing too many videos on faith and I’ve been ignoring them but today I make the conscious decision to have faith no matter what and to rebuild my mindset
Amen!!! Sis you won’t regret it 🥳🤍 Nay our Heavenly Father strengthen you through this. He will show himself trust worthy time and time again. Place your trust in him, look to him. No matter what happens, he wants the best of the best for you 🥰
Timely Word...I myself are going through church hurt and I am praying that I dont allow it to take me in dark places as when I love....I love really hard and thus I tend to get hurt real hard😭whenever I expected others to do the same and they dont....but I know I wont falter/fail....I serve a mighty big God💯💯💯💯I will get through this.....THANK YOU SO MUCH DEBS FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE IN SHARING THIS WORD....I APPRECIATE YOU🧡💯💯🙏🏾
Ahhh I can relate to loving hard and hurting hard because of that! It can be so so painful, but it's also a blessing that you've been given such a beautiful heart. You're special to our heavenly father. Don't let previous hurt make you bitter! I pray that you may continue to be loving towards others, in this day and age that is rare and needed. May God bless you and strengthen you. Don't dim your light! You are precious in God's eyes 🤍
@@deborahbx_ ..Amen 🙏🏾🙌🙌Continue to grow from strength to strength into the Lord my sis..your Labor is not in vain and all things gonna work for your good for our God Never fails💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🙌Love and appreciate you always ❤️
I wanted to take a second and celebrate you in your constant shepherding of others; I genuinely enjoy how you are glorifying Jesus by leading others to Him through the sharing of your testimony and perspective around challenges we all face in our walks. Keep delivering, keep going, we are all cheering for you and I'm excited to see the people and community that God will put around you in the days to come.
ahh thank you so so much for your encouraging words! It means a lot so thank you! To our Heavenly Father be all the glory, I would truly be in the wrong to take any credit.. He is so so good and has called us to great things as his beloved children. We just have to tune in. It's really a blessing to get to partner with him in what he's doing in our generation 🤗 Thank you again, it's a blessing to have you here.
Thank you for sharing this word. I’m 61 and I have been feeling this way for a long time and wanted to end my life. But after watching this video I now realize that I’m not alone. 🙏🏽🥰🦋
Amen!! You are absolutely not alone sis! I'm so sorry to hear how the enemy has been taking hold of your thoughts. You're needed here, there is air in your lungs which means that there's still a calling on your life. There are still people who need your wisdom, your smile, your love!! I pray against every spirit of depression and loneliness on your life in the name of Jesus. May our Heavenly Father breathe new life into dreams and desires on your heart that seemed dead. Theres still so much life to live! May his favour be upon you. Be blessed, you're his precious daughter whom he loves so much. He's with you 🥰🤍 It's a blessing to have you here with me!
It seems like every time I’m going through a situation, you always come through with the exact topic😮💨🤍 I was put in my isolation season three months ago, where it’s just been me n God. Now I feel like He’s trying to push me out of that season🥺 So leaving that bubble of being isolated for so long and enjoying only His presence and entering the world again has been…not in my favor to say at least😂 I just want to run home and read my Bible all day, but the Lord is telling me it’s time to venture out.
Hahah ahh sis! I know the feeling trust me. I also love it in my bubble with God. It’s so safe there 😁 But we have been called to be the light in the darkness. And our Heavenly Father is with us when we step out into the world no matter what we’re faced with!! There are so many spaces and people that need you 🥹. May God strengthen you and keep you. May his favour be upon you wherever you go. He delights in you! 🤍
@@deborahbx_ thank you so much it means a lot🥹🫶🏾 May God continue to work on you and through you as well. You are helping and inspiring many other young women like me to keep going for the Lord🤍
A few days ago, I felt God speak to me, hinting that my singleness might not only be for my own benefit, but also for the people around me. For example, it could be for my flatmate who often has her boyfriend over. God can use this season of singleness to communicate something to them and inspire those around us who are seeking to embrace singleness. We just have to walk in faith 🤍
This is crazy because I just ended a relationship that I was in I felt as if God was going to use me to help him receive salvation and I just realize the more that I was in this relationship the more lonely I felt the more distance our communication was and the lack of quality time together and today is our four month anniversary and I broke things off last night and now I’m just trusting God through this process because I was indulging into sin in this relationship and I know that relationship was allowing me to get into things that I had no business even being in.
I found your channel not too long ago and it has been such a blessing! 🥰 this message resonates so much with me. I’m also single, living back home, back in college and with little friends. I often feel out of place and not sure where I belong, but God always reminds me that I will always belong with him! 🩷 I truly believe he’s using you to speak and bring comfort to so many! 🥰 may God keep using you and blessing you! 🤍
Amen sis!! 🤗 It's hard sometimes when our walk through life seems so unconventional. But we can find comfort in the fact that we are exactly where we need to be. You are right where God wants you right now. He's with you, he loves you, and since there is air in your lungs there's still a calling on your life :) He's also the master of launching us forward in ways that are beyond us sooo haha. Don't worry, he's got you 🥰 Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for being here with me!
We all have different experiences from each other, yet we are all as believers going through trials and tribulations. That is how we are used to reach different people and witnessing to them. Great video. God is using you in a mighty way. May God continue to bless you.
Yesss Amen!! Everything is being used by him for good. May he be glorified through our sufferings 🤍 Thank you for your comment and for being here :) It's truly a blessing!
Yees😂 sometimes feelings control us but wen realize that they're not our say we choose to depend on God completely and the sweat thing about God He leads us we just have to let Him 🙏 much love from kenya ❤
@@deborahbx_ you know before I thought that getting born again I'll be transform overnight so when I used to feel lonely or maybe compare I thought that there's no change even wen you get born again But I thank God through His word and using people like you I'm able to understand more about what's Christianity and trusting in God completely
I LOVE your channel! It’s been such a blessing! So thankful to the Lord I found you on RUclips! I’m currently praying for my own place for me and my little my family. (It sucks when you live with others who don’t respect your belongings) Your apartment testimony is such a great reminder of who God is ❤ God bless Deborah!
Ahhh praise be to the lord for bringing you here!! 🤗 It's really a blessing to have you. I'll be praying for a home for you and your family! May what God has done for me be done for you also. He is sooo able and willing. I know the feeling of frustration when sharing with people who don't respect your space or belongings. It really is horrible! Just place your full trust in him, he will make it happen in his perfect timing. Just keep your eyes locked on him, as I always mention: Matthew 6:33🤍 He won't fail you.
This message has definitely come at the right time :') I really feel God calling me to come back because I've been struggling with loneliness and comparison a lot recently. But I am so glad we have a God who cares and loves us so much that he would never forsake/leave us. Its very important to not rely on our feelings so I'm working on this myself, this season has been so hard but i know God is always with me and will bring me out of it. Thank you so much for this message and God loves you so much always too!
Amen!! Comparison is the killer of joy. It's an attempt of the enemy to keep us out of everything that God has called us to. I'll pray against the spirit of comparison in your life! The devil has no power over you so he has to flee. May God strengthen you and keep you. May he pour his blessings and favour out over your life. He's with you 🤗
@@deborahbx_Yes! I agree, it is a very difficult journey, but I have to be reminded that God will work things when its the right time and what is in his will. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate the prayers :) I also pray that God gives you strength and peace during any times of difficulties. He will always fight our battles and win for God is always good ! He is always with you too
I have been praying for God sent friendships for so long. God gave me fellowship with other believers, they are nice but they cant relate to me and we share nothing in common, not even same level of faith. The more I go to church the more alone I feel but this is the better church out of a lot Ive been to.....everyone is friendly and ive made church friends but afterwards I feel spiritually robbed and depleted its just been so dry for so long and I'm an extrovert. I dont even get lonely but none of these people around me even seem like from God
Hello Deborah,thanks for this message very timely,I have dealt with this in the past.May the Lord continue to encourage you as you encourage others.Much love from Nigeria
God is REALLY speaking to me through 1 Peter 5:8.... I just highlighted it in my Bible last night and now you mention it too. Thank you Deborah, you are such a great gift from God and such an AMAZING sister in Christ💞♥
Wow, almost 40 000 subscribers already??? That's what I call a blessing!! Thank HIM and Thank You Deborah for spending your time and energy to bring people closer to G od.
Welcome sis 🥰🤍 You’re not alone! I know how tough it is to find a community where you feel welcomed. I’ll pray that you may also find that in your day to day life. May God provide faith centred friendships for you to grow in 🤗
I feel very lonely and all by myself lately , but instead of self pity like i used to do , i try to focus on His word , like you said in this video "create new path". it really gave me new kind of attitude this time . Anyway , thank you for this talk sis Deborah , God bless you❤
Feeling lonely and comparing has been trying to attack me lately, especially on social media. My birthday was last week and when I made a post on my Instagram while thanking GOD for another year of life, NO ONE bothers to comment happy birthday under that post on IG, but then I compare to one of my friend birthday yesterday, he made a post saying happy birthday to me (to himself) he got a long list of happy birthday love. But it's all good, I know God has celebrated me and still fill me up in HIS LOVE. And that alone is enough ❤ my 289 IG friends don't need to comment to make me feel good. I'm feelings is invalid anyways. I just need to hang on to Jesus and his truth! Thank you for this video ❤
This a really good talk it speaks on a season many of us is in and I know for me it's hitting home I lost my house less then a year ago and since then I've been staying with family and it hasn't been easy but the enemy had his moments with me but God step in and I know my break threw is on the way. God bless you Big Sis of Christ 😊
Good morning from the U.S !! I just wanted to say thank you for sharing psalm 23 by the peoples song. When I listen to it I feel better I feel more encouraged to keep fighting and not give up. God bless you and the work you are doing for the Kingdom Deborah 🤎
I've gone through similiar things as you and I'm trying to recovery from all of this. I'm so grateful for what are you doing on this channel and that God brought me here.
You most definitely not rumbling you are trying to make sure everybody understand how to combat and defeat loneliness and I will say to combat and defeat doubt. Thank you Deborah. You are anointed and blessed to be a blessing. 💯🙏🏾💗☮️
This ministered to me in a deep way, Deborah. I have personally dealt with being surrounded by loved ones and still feeling isolated because I have felt misunderstood, unsupported, but those are lies from the enemy. I greatly enjoy the Faith Talks. Be encouraged! ❤
I loved the message Deborah...especially when you pointed to the Lord Jesus as our divine receipt to our sin debt.Loneliness as a subject is what i have been feeling recently like i attimes i feel like i dont want to move on with anything.What a rhema word.Thanks once again to your beautiful self..you are so awesome and i enjoyed every minute too the video wasn't long trust me..haha
Thank you this message. I’m currently going through a season where I feel very lonely. 28, no kids, no partner…. I seem a little lost but I know that this season is a season for me to te in my relationship with Christ. I just ask for prayers of strength during this time. I know there’s a breakthrough coming at His timing !
ameen! 🥺 John 16:32 - 16:33 "but the time is coming - indeed it's here now - you will be scattered, each one going his own way, leaving me alone. Yet I am not alone because the Father ist with me. I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world"
There are so many relatable points you talk about that is the same as my own, my insecurities and current trials and hardships of sorts. Thank you for making these videos. God bless you!
Thank you Deborah for this wonderful video! Throughout the video, I have been taking notes and just dwelling on the good things of the Lord. It’s very easy to let our feelings overcome us but Great is the Lord’s faithfulness. Blessings to you!
For such a time as this..... Deborah. Thank you for this. I needed to see and hear this in my season of waiting for my daughter and I to be reconciled. You R AMAZING young woman AND YOU R EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE....FOR THE NATIONS!!! Auntie Tara from the United States
Thank you for this! What you said about the balance of being in a bubble with the Lord and going out into the world is real. You are truly a vessel of God. Keep soaring 🕊️
I Praise Almighty Father God for this gift through you, Deborah💗. Thank you for sharing The Word once again. The Holy Spirit always knows what to say to use you as a vessel in reminding us that our Father God will never leave our side. I have a lot of things in my heart and mind and praying for the guidance of our Lord YESHUA through his Holy Spirit✨. God bless you & your channel sis & everyone here listening to hear about our Father's Love💖.
Thanks for another inspiring message Deborah! You make this feel like a community in the way you speak the message. The Holy Spirit is definitely with you and helping you reach others. I loved these utterly important points! Great reminders in our walk!
I'm so happy to hear that sis. To God be all the glory! He knows how hard it is in this day and age to stand firm in faith and in our relationships with him. We need community so I'm so grateful he's creating a safe space for us on here. May he continue to do that, you're God's beloved daughter :) Continue on shining your light, may our Heavenly Father bless you abundantly! I'm extremely grateful to have you here xx
Hey sis, I’m so honoured to be alive in a moment of time where God has bless me to be encouraged by a woman of God. Ive been reading proverbs lately just really trying to understand the nature of God or what it means to fear the Lord. A big part of lukewarm faith is how this “fear” is represented in the church. But I’m learning that God is loving and gracious… so i was wondering if you can make a video on what it means to fear the Lord, how do we know we’ve accessed the true character of God in these moments of reverence? Is there a difference between intuition and Gods voice, because then we can see fear as this realisation that God is the master of our fate and you feel it literally in your gut. I hope I make sense. Have a blessed week Im looking forward to your next video❤
I absolutely love your spirit, you’ve spoken to me through every video I’ve watched so far! I’m so happy you made the decision to hear God and create this platform for other believers and those seeking God. You’re truly a vessel for the Lord’s work and that’s so special! I wish you many blessings in alignment with your journey, may God continue to cover you and this channel 💜💜💜💜
Great message, again! What hit home the loudest was stop comparing. Constantly reminding myself to block out the noise, the comparing etc. Stay UP..Keep going!!
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This is so freeing😊it’s point 4 for me. Stop comparing!!! 26 year old, living alone, no parental support, no stable partner, no kids, friends in other cities,no house… etc it’s so easy to feel alone. But true! we are all on different journeys. I just ask for strength for my journey. Love it😅 Lord help us to be okay just being with you until you take us into a new season. Happy Sunday everyone ❤ Keep going😊
Amen sis!! You are excited where you need to be right now! God has a plan tailored to you, and he’s right on track with it 🥰 Just find comfort in him, under his wings. He’s got you! We get to go even deeper with him in our single season. Let’s make the most of it 🥹🙌🏽 Happy Sunday to you too !
Bythaa comparing still the true Joy and I think it's a struggle Before you get to accept that God will never you not forsake you and mostly He can't deny you a good life because that one of the reason He came and died for us and av realized whatever you magnify will always control you
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I was in the same boat for so long … I am now in a loving relationship and we are slowly building it up, I am 27. Loneliness is an illusion, happiness is found in the flow of life by connecting to God❤ Enjoy this season for all its beauty
@@UrBigSisKey I'm glad you are happy too🤗. I pray you have every more joy in your relationship and grow more in the Lord together as a couple🙏. Thank you 💌
Thank you for this message. I’m 53, not married, no kids, on disability, serious church hurt, 15 year relationship that is not going to marriage, friends have left me. Please pray as I have no purpose or things to do with my life with the inabilities that I have. I feel like giving up.
Sis!! I will be praying for you. I am so sorry to hear about the struggles that you’re facing right now. It sounds like it’s all piling on at the same time. Please know that you’re not alone and that you do indeed have a purpose!!! You do!! There’s still breath in your lungs which means that our Heavenly Father still needs you here. There’s an assignment on your life! I pray that our God will strengthen you through this season. May he pour his presence out over you and guide you on where to go next. May your circumstances turn around in a way that only God can! May your life be a testimony to many other of Gods goodness. You are loved beyond measure, not forgotten. Look to Jesus, just focus on him! Matthew 6:33!! All else will be provided by your Heavenly Father in his perfect timing 🤍🤍
Please don't give up, lean on the Holy Spirit to fill the needy spaces in your life and heart. You will find Him removing all you do not need and providing all that matters. Remain blessed and stay strong!
Jesus loves you. And is always present with you. May the Lord's presence encompass you roundabout that you feel His reality. Remember you can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. ❤
God had good plans for you dnt be discouraged
But Paul shouted, “Don’t harm yourself! We are all here!”-(Acts 16:28)
Amen! I learned how close Jesus is when I was at my loneliest in life and since then have never felt that lonely again. God is good! He’s always there!❤
Wauw Amen! He will use the dark seasons to strengthen us and reveal himself like in no other season. It’s tough, but our God promises to be with us in the Valley of the shadow of Death. He’s such a good father 🥰🤍
@@deborahbx_You are right i mostly feel lonely and at that time just wqnt to stay by my self.. While am the same person who mentors the teenagers from church and they expect me to be their mirror and i feel soo bad that i feel this way. I realized that I am my worst enemy 😢and it hurts me alot.. Especially right now when i wanna go to campus i don't know how am going to deal with me
I dont feel lonely anymore. I prayed about it continuously and God removed that feeling. Im a single parent of three and I have no other fam except my kids. I dont have any friends either. Im 37 and still get bullied by ppl and called ugly because I have a lazy eye. Ppl are so cruel to me and I try my best not to internalize it but thats hard and to always treat ppl better than they treat me. I wish I had friends but Im happy I dont have ppl pretending to be my friend like all my old friends throughout my life. My relationship with God and my deep connection to Him has helped to get me thru a lot in my life and it has helped me to heal from past traumas and past hurts. I was treated badly in past relationships and church so I dont go to church anymore after going every single service in my childhood. I tried to find a church without any success. I thank God and Jesus for being my friends.
oh sis 🤍 Your message has made me teary eyed. I'm so sorry for all the difficulty you've gone through in life. I'm sorry for how you've been treated by people around you, and in church also. We really fail each other incredibly a lot of times... It reminds me of Luke 23:24 when Jesus cried out to God saying: Forgive them Father, for they do not know what they are doing. It's so beautiful to hear how despite everything you're holding onto Jesus, knowing that he's your friend, your husband. You are his precious bride! You are so beautiful, precious and loved. I will be praying for you and your little ones. May God restore further what has been broken, may he pour out his favour and blessings over your life, and may he when the time is right bring some amazing women of God around you. Women who will build you up and be that community that Jesus speaks about numerous times. You're called to great things, and your testimony has already touched me in this moment. May it bless even more people, and may our Heavenly Father be glorified through you. Continue to shine your light sis! You're not alone, sending love and hugs!! 🤍🥰
Hi Deborah, I just want to say that I feel God has truly blessed you with this RUclips channel and others, the way it has grown so vast could only be God, thank you for listening to the Holy Spirit to post these videos.
Amen! Thank you so so much for your encouraging words. I couldn’t agree more, this is all Gods work. To God be all the glory, I cannot boast in any of it 🥺🤍 How gracious is our God that we get to be his vessel through which he speaks. Who are we that he considers us!? Thank you for being here with me. What a God we serve 🥰
I thought the same thing the other day.
27 videos and 46 thousand subscribers. That's really a miracle.
I've never seen someone's channel grow so fast. It's also encouraging for us who watch.🙏🏼
"You are not alone in the fire!" That is such a powerful line!
When you talked about your experience last year, I could not help but think of my own rejection ordeal I have experienced from every side ever since 21, 22, and 23. It's painful to go through rejection from every side. But I have found God's presence and voice in this ordeal. And yes, every moment every part of me feels like rejecting God, I hear His voice: I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS. In a very special bid in times of trials, God gently says " Draw closer to me".
Remember when Elijah ran away from Jezebel? He was literally tired, exhausted and discouraged even with his ministry. He told God " I am not better than my ancestors". This sums up one of the greatest prophets of God's phase of frustration and desperation. It's amazing to see God calling him to go to the top of the mountain so that He could talk to him.
The mountain has a vital meaning in the Bible. Moses, Elijah, and Jesus all went to the mountain to draw closer to God in the critical juncture of their ministries. This is where God calls His children too. If He isolates us, He surely is trying to make us draw closer to Him to use us for what He called us to. Our isolation is our mountain. Our isolation could be a sift that finally help get rid of impurities by staying closer to God. I know this is maybe contradictory to your topic, but my point is when God calls to isolation let us fully surrender, the time will surely come when He sends us in the world.
I would also add that God isolates us to teach us to depend on Him alone. It has been arduous for me (I don't even know how my needs have been met on a day-to-daydaily but it has been miraculous) , ⠀and I am alive, healthy, and thriving. What a blessing! The enemy was maybe expecting me to give up on my faith in God, on my prayer habits, and give in to despair, blaming God, and toxic habits but my hope in God is stronger than ever before for I know that "my redeemer lives!" And I will keep praising God for the good and the bad. Humans will see a failure in me, but there is only victory in God.
God has set me apart a number of times. With God it's not loneliness but feeling alone, you can sometimes feel alone, that's something else!
This came at the right time. I have been struggling these last few days with feeling lonely. Haven't been in my Word like i once was, and that's when things feel like they are falling apart. Thank you for this message.
Yeaa sis it’s very often when we take our eyes off Jesus and start to focus on the world that we feel lonely. There’s always a reason! I’ll pray for you, that you may long for the word of God again. That you may know that that’s where you’re found, with God. He’s always with you, through every season 🤗 You’re so precious, walk in it!
I don’t have a job and I feel so scared and lonely. My car has broken down twice but when I go to the mechanic after checking it out the car HAS NOTHING WRONG AND WORKS OUT GREAT. I know it’s you God, I know you are always with me. But I can’t help feeling alone and lost sometimes. Don’t let me fall Father.
Thank you so much! This is confirmation from God. Feelings are Fickle not Fake. 🙏🏾 God will never leave us nor forsake us “never, ever, ever”! Hebrews 13:5
Amen!! 🙏🏽
I really love the create a new path section. The grass and dirt path analogy is really useful. Makes me not give up meditating on the truth because eventually it’ll become a easy path. And it’s like conditioning our brain. I am a psych major currently in school and I’ve been feeling lonely in the classrooms. Also I have recently seen and heard many couples all around me and I often say “well I’m lonely, am I ugly?” when I know that’s a lie. And I just compare myself a lot to what others have and what I don’t have. It does get overwhelming sometimes,but I’m gonna learn to create that new pathway in my heart and just choose to walk in truth and not be bothered by not being in a relationship, not gonna be bothered about not having peers to speak to. All that may come around next semester or next year etc. but your messages are always on time, always refreshing and sooooo relatable! I love it here! I’m so glad the Lord led me to you !! My big sister in Christ 🤍🤍
Yes, Amen! 👏I’ve been a single mom all these years. I attempted to commit suicide before due to many broken relationships with men, but Jesus rescued me, and He renewed my mind. Whenever loneliness creeps in, I play worship music, and I start to praise and worship God, and my feelings start to change. I agree with you; we may be on our own, but we will never be alone, for the Lord our God is with us, the Holy Spirit, our perfect best friend. He will keep in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on Jesus, because He trusts in Him (Isaiah 26:3). I Thank the Lord for using your life for those who battle loneliness and depression, for it’s not an easy journey, and we need a sister like you to encourage. God bless you, and God’s has a wonderful plan for you, lovely and unique. Emmanuel!🌸
Amen sis!! 🤍 I'm so sorry about the difficulties you've had to go through to get here. I cannot imagine how hard that must've been. But I'm so grateful to hear that you've made it through. You are loved and needed here! There is still a calling on your life. May our Heavenly Father strengthen you and guide you to all that he has for you. Jesus is your bridegroom, he is constantly persuing you and loving on you. No man on earth will be able to take his place. That being said, may God send an amazing God fearing man your way when the time is right 🤗
I'm so glad God has directed me to your channel. I can relate to every single struggle you've made a video about. You're literally doing God's work 💖
this is so incredible to hear, honestly you have no idea! It's proof that our suffering is being used for good. It's all a part of something so much bigger then ourselves. If I didn't go through what I went through I would not be here today 🤍 How amazing is our God!!
Honestly, I'm a teenager and i easily trust my feelings more than G.od. A good lesson i have to learn is to not rely on my feelings. I need more faith, and i wish you could pray for me too. I ran to your channel because you always bring peace into my heart. Thank you ❤ and our Lord
Amen! It’s definitely not easy, but learning to not rely on our feelings is what will allow us to trust God fully! To lean on him even when we don’t ‘feel’ it. He’s always there 🥹🤍 You’re so young and loved! There’s still so much ahead of you. Keep God first and he will establish your plans. Provers 16:3. May our Heavenly Father pour his presence, favour and blessings out over your life. No matter what you walk through, you’re never alone 🥰 it’s a blessing to have you here!
This is so timely for me, I've been afraid or been lonely so much that I try to distract myself with movies and work but at the end I still have to deal with the feelings of lonely, I'm also in a season where I'm looking for where to stay and I was just dealing with this constant fear of been thrown out of where I'm currently staying. God bless you for these messages ❤️
You’re not alone 🤍 you might be by yourself but you’re not alone. When you meditate on the word of God, being by yourself won’t mean being lonely! There’s nothing better then sitting in silence and talking to your Heavenly Father who is always eager to hear from you!! I pray that you’ll get to experience that in this season of your life, the presence of God ☺️ You’re so loved. I’ll also be praying for your accommodation. Place it in Gods hands, he knows your fear within that and wants to provide a way. So give it to him, he won’t fail!
@@deborahbx_I'm actually just reading this message, and guess what I'm reading it in my new apartment. I actually got a house the next day after I posted this message. My pastor said something in service yesterday, he said sometimes our breakthrough is very close and we don't just know it because we can't see the future and the fact that God is working even when we don't see. Thank you so much Deborah, God bless you ❤️
This has started healing a lot of wounds inside of me right now! Yeah, 😭 a whole lot! But as God never left and forsaken Moses, so he is with me Joshua 1:5! I ❤️ love you 👑 Lord.
Amen my sis 🥹🤍 Our heavenly is with you every step of the way. Even in the fire, in the struggles, in the valley of the shadow of death he’s right there beside you! May you know that you know that you’re not alone, never! You’re so precious and valuable to God! He would give anything for you.
Isaiah 43:4 🤍
Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.
@@deborahbx_ Beautiful! Amen! Thank you, sis, and God bless you. Holding on to this word this week ❤️.
So powerful! This is one of the biggest lie that the enemy uses against us. „You are alone”. It’s a great reminder to always fight it with the truth and not try to succumb to it or numb it.
The way this blessed and convicted me 🥹 I’m literally experiencing this now. Navigating being a single mom, work and school, I’ve felt so lonely. It’s pushing me into isolation. This was confirmation!
I’ve watched this twice already.
wauw, sis!! It's so incredible to hear how God is speaking to you through me! It's an honour to be a vessel! It sounds like you're going through a tough season to say the least. That's a lot to have on your plate. But you don't have to carry the load by yourself. Our Heavenly Father is with you! I'll be praying for you. May God bless you and your little one abundantly!! He sees you, being a single mom is tough, he knows that. May he strengthen you as a loving father does. There is sooo much he has in store for you and fruit that will come forth out of your life. All this suffering will be a key part in your testimony to speak into other peoples lives. It's all to give God glory 🥰 Trust him! His hand is upon you, you're not alone!! Sending lots of hugs and love xx Debs
@@deborahbx_ wow thank you so much and thanks for your obedience, allowing him to use you. I do believe this is meant for my testimony, so I’m trying to trust him. God bless you 🥹🙏🏼🫶🏼
Listening to this reminds me... I do forget that God's paid for it, I feel indebted to him and as anyone would want to pay for their debt it's human, it's grace that's reminds me, there's no need to repay just remember to love... Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself. It's important to learn this is true love, which to me, is only found in Corinthians ❤ so feeling lonely is ok but we truthfully are never alone and we should make our Lord's love so important that we never feel lonely
Yess Amen!! Thank you so much for your profound words, you are so right! We all forget what Jesus has done for us sometimes. Having to earn our righteousness is not what God wants for us. That’s why he sent his one and only son. We don’t deserve it. It’s definitely good to remind ourselves of that from time to time. We can’t boast in ourselves, only in Christ. With a humble heart we can walk knowing that we’re free and never ever alone. You are so right in saying that it’s ok to feel lonely sometimes, it’s part of life. But we can’t camp there, our Heavenly Father has soooo much more for us! May we walk in that truth every single day of our lives 🥹🤍
@@deborahbx_ ❤️❤️❤️ it's part of His truth for us, we are loved and wanted by our Heavenly Father. Who else can love us so much that He would give up everything just to say to us, you are my child, worth more to me than all I am, all I have made, you are my most wonderful gift. That's a Father our Abba
What a GEM of a Woman! How do you manage to speak my hearts meditation every 👏🏾 time 👏🏾
Thank God for the Holy Spirit. The spirit really is one 🙏🏾
Amen!! The spirit is one!! He knows exactly what you need when you need it sis, and he will speak through whoever to get to you. His pursuit for you is intenseeee 🥰 To him be all the glory!! I'm just a vessel 🤍
I come back to this video whenever that feeling of loneliness take over to remind myself that i am NOT alone! i have God, i have my Family here to support me! I thank God for always being here with me🩷
The coat analogy is 🔥. That was a very important topic to address. The enemy hounds the lonely and he def reminds me consistently that I am alone. Really good faith talk and I enjoyed the longer format 🙌🏽. Thanks!
Praise 👏 GOD from whom ALL blessings flow, praise him ALL creatures here below!
My little sister ALWAYS come through for me!
We serve an AWESOME GOD!
You ALWAYS make my day.
When I'm at my lowest point, you ALWAYS hit on the right topic 💯
Thank you so much. You are doing an amazing job.
May GOD continue to speak through you to his children.❤
Amen!!! May our Heavenly Father continue to speak into your life to let you know that you’re not alone. You are so so so loved and precious 🥹🤍 Priceless!!
Been seeing too many videos on faith and I’ve been ignoring them but today I make the conscious decision to have faith no matter what and to rebuild my mindset
Amen!!! Sis you won’t regret it 🥳🤍 Nay our Heavenly Father strengthen you through this. He will show himself trust worthy time and time again. Place your trust in him, look to him. No matter what happens, he wants the best of the best for you 🥰
Timely Word...I myself are going through church hurt and I am praying that I dont allow it to take me in dark places as when I love....I love really hard and thus I tend to get hurt real hard😭whenever I expected others to do the same and they dont....but I know I wont falter/fail....I serve a mighty big God💯💯💯💯I will get through this.....THANK YOU SO MUCH DEBS FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE IN SHARING THIS WORD....I APPRECIATE YOU🧡💯💯🙏🏾
Ahhh I can relate to loving hard and hurting hard because of that! It can be so so painful, but it's also a blessing that you've been given such a beautiful heart. You're special to our heavenly father. Don't let previous hurt make you bitter! I pray that you may continue to be loving towards others, in this day and age that is rare and needed. May God bless you and strengthen you. Don't dim your light! You are precious in God's eyes 🤍
@@deborahbx_ ..Amen 🙏🏾🙌🙌Continue to grow from strength to strength into the Lord my sis..your Labor is not in vain and all things gonna work for your good for our God Never fails💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🙌Love and appreciate you always ❤️
You're literally Godsent🤍🙌🏾....thank you Lord for Deborah , stay blessed,faithful and in alignment for God's will in your life!!!!!!
I wanted to take a second and celebrate you in your constant shepherding of others; I genuinely enjoy how you are glorifying Jesus by leading others to Him through the sharing of your testimony and perspective around challenges we all face in our walks. Keep delivering, keep going, we are all cheering for you and I'm excited to see the people and community that God will put around you in the days to come.
ahh thank you so so much for your encouraging words! It means a lot so thank you! To our Heavenly Father be all the glory, I would truly be in the wrong to take any credit.. He is so so good and has called us to great things as his beloved children. We just have to tune in. It's really a blessing to get to partner with him in what he's doing in our generation 🤗 Thank you again, it's a blessing to have you here.
Good Morning & Happy Sunday Everyone ❤🙏🏾
Morning sis!! 🤗 happy Sunday to you too xx
Thank you for sharing this word. I’m 61 and I have been feeling this way for a long time and wanted to end my life. But after watching this video I now realize that I’m not alone.
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Amen!! You are absolutely not alone sis! I'm so sorry to hear how the enemy has been taking hold of your thoughts. You're needed here, there is air in your lungs which means that there's still a calling on your life. There are still people who need your wisdom, your smile, your love!! I pray against every spirit of depression and loneliness on your life in the name of Jesus. May our Heavenly Father breathe new life into dreams and desires on your heart that seemed dead. Theres still so much life to live! May his favour be upon you. Be blessed, you're his precious daughter whom he loves so much. He's with you 🥰🤍 It's a blessing to have you here with me!
❤ thanks for being vulnerable. You are a source of encouragement.
🥹🤍 To God be all the glory!! May he continue to encourage you on the path he’s laid out in front of you!
It seems like every time I’m going through a situation, you always come through with the exact topic😮💨🤍 I was put in my isolation season three months ago, where it’s just been me n God. Now I feel like He’s trying to push me out of that season🥺 So leaving that bubble of being isolated for so long and enjoying only His presence and entering the world again has been…not in my favor to say at least😂 I just want to run home and read my Bible all day, but the Lord is telling me it’s time to venture out.
Hahah ahh sis! I know the feeling trust me. I also love it in my bubble with God. It’s so safe there 😁 But we have been called to be the light in the darkness. And our Heavenly Father is with us when we step out into the world no matter what we’re faced with!! There are so many spaces and people that need you 🥹. May God strengthen you and keep you. May his favour be upon you wherever you go. He delights in you! 🤍
@@deborahbx_ thank you so much it means a lot🥹🫶🏾 May God continue to work on you and through you as well. You are helping and inspiring many other young women like me to keep going for the Lord🤍
A few days ago, I felt God speak to me, hinting that my singleness might not only be for my own benefit, but also for the people around me. For example, it could be for my flatmate who often has her boyfriend over. God can use this season of singleness to communicate something to them and inspire those around us who are seeking to embrace singleness. We just have to walk in faith 🤍
This is crazy because I just ended a relationship that I was in I felt as if God was going to use me to help him receive salvation and I just realize the more that I was in this relationship the more lonely I felt the more distance our communication was and the lack of quality time together and today is our four month anniversary and I broke things off last night and now I’m just trusting God through this process because I was indulging into sin in this relationship and I know that relationship was allowing me to get into things that I had no business even being in.
I found your channel not too long ago and it has been such a blessing! 🥰 this message resonates so much with me. I’m also single, living back home, back in college and with little friends. I often feel out of place and not sure where I belong, but God always reminds me that I will always belong with him! 🩷 I truly believe he’s using you to speak and bring comfort to so many! 🥰 may God keep using you and blessing you! 🤍
Amen sis!! 🤗 It's hard sometimes when our walk through life seems so unconventional. But we can find comfort in the fact that we are exactly where we need to be. You are right where God wants you right now. He's with you, he loves you, and since there is air in your lungs there's still a calling on your life :) He's also the master of launching us forward in ways that are beyond us sooo haha. Don't worry, he's got you 🥰 Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for being here with me!
We all have different experiences from each other, yet we are all as believers going through trials and tribulations. That is how we are used to reach different people and witnessing to them. Great video. God is using you in a mighty way. May God continue to bless you.
Yesss Amen!! Everything is being used by him for good. May he be glorified through our sufferings 🤍 Thank you for your comment and for being here :) It's truly a blessing!
Lord!!! Deborah I'm inspired by your consistency. May The Lord be your strength and bless your ministry.
Yees😂 sometimes feelings control us but wen realize that they're not our say we choose to depend on God completely and the sweat thing about God He leads us we just have to let Him 🙏 much love from kenya ❤
Amen sis!!! It’s hard, but it’s a journey, we’re learning as we go 🤗 May we learn to trust our Heavenly Father a bit more every day🤍
@@deborahbx_ you know before I thought that getting born again I'll be transform overnight so when I used to feel lonely or maybe compare I thought that there's no change even wen you get born again
But I thank God through His word and using people like you I'm able to understand more about what's Christianity and trusting in God completely
I LOVE your channel! It’s been such a blessing! So thankful to the Lord I found you on RUclips! I’m currently praying for my own place for me and my little my family. (It sucks when you live with others who don’t respect your belongings) Your apartment testimony is such a great reminder of who God is ❤ God bless Deborah!
Ahhh praise be to the lord for bringing you here!! 🤗 It's really a blessing to have you. I'll be praying for a home for you and your family! May what God has done for me be done for you also. He is sooo able and willing. I know the feeling of frustration when sharing with people who don't respect your space or belongings. It really is horrible! Just place your full trust in him, he will make it happen in his perfect timing. Just keep your eyes locked on him, as I always mention: Matthew 6:33🤍 He won't fail you.
@@deborahbx_ amen 🥹❤️🙏🏽
This message has definitely come at the right time :') I really feel God calling me to come back because I've been struggling with loneliness and comparison a lot recently. But I am so glad we have a God who cares and loves us so much that he would never forsake/leave us. Its very important to not rely on our feelings so I'm working on this myself, this season has been so hard but i know God is always with me and will bring me out of it. Thank you so much for this message and God loves you so much always too!
Amen!! Comparison is the killer of joy. It's an attempt of the enemy to keep us out of everything that God has called us to. I'll pray against the spirit of comparison in your life! The devil has no power over you so he has to flee. May God strengthen you and keep you. May he pour his blessings and favour out over your life. He's with you 🤗
@@deborahbx_Yes! I agree, it is a very difficult journey, but I have to be reminded that God will work things when its the right time and what is in his will. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate the prayers :) I also pray that God gives you strength and peace during any times of difficulties. He will always fight our battles and win for God is always good ! He is always with you too
I have been praying for God sent friendships for so long. God gave me fellowship with other believers, they are nice but they cant relate to me and we share nothing in common, not even same level of faith. The more I go to church the more alone I feel but this is the better church out of a lot Ive been to.....everyone is friendly and ive made church friends but afterwards I feel spiritually robbed and depleted its just been so dry for so long and I'm an extrovert. I dont even get lonely but none of these people around me even seem like from God
God is so good… when we seek him it’s just amazing what he’ll reveal and assure us 🤍🙏🏽
Girl you are my church...🙏 Amen!
We’re in this together sis!! 🤍
Thanks for sharing. I can relate to number 4. I tend to compare myself to others alot .
I’m definitely guilty of it too 😵💫. But it’s a journey, we will learn along the way! Our God is patient with us. He loves us so so much :)
Hello Deborah,thanks for this message very timely,I have dealt with this in the past.May the Lord continue to encourage you as you encourage others.Much love from Nigeria
Love your transparency❤.
You are soo relatable❤❤❤😭😭😭
Love you my sister in Christ! Thank you for posting this much needed! God bless you!
Keep shining ☕️☀️🌟💋
Love you too sis 🥰🤍 Thank you so much for your encouragement! To God be all the glory. Be blessed and walk in what he’s called you to walk in 🤗
God is REALLY speaking to me through 1 Peter 5:8.... I just highlighted it in my Bible last night and now you mention it too. Thank you Deborah, you are such a great gift from God and such an AMAZING sister in Christ💞♥
waaauw that's confirmation right there!! Coincidences don't exist with our heavenly father 🥰
Wow, almost 40 000 subscribers already??? That's what I call a blessing!! Thank HIM and Thank You Deborah for spending your time and energy to bring people closer to G od.
Thank you I've been growing in Christ and looking for a community of believers. God Bless you.
Welcome sis 🥰🤍 You’re not alone! I know how tough it is to find a community where you feel welcomed. I’ll pray that you may also find that in your day to day life. May God provide faith centred friendships for you to grow in 🤗
I feel very lonely and all by myself lately , but instead of self pity like i used to do , i try to focus on His word , like you said in this video "create new path". it really gave me new kind of attitude this time . Anyway , thank you for this talk sis Deborah , God bless you❤
I love and appreciate your wisdom
Great video as always! ❤️ someone once told me have Grace over fire. So whenever I’m going through something I always remember that.
Yess amen! This is so powerful 🥹🤍 thanks for sharing
Feeling lonely and comparing has been trying to attack me lately, especially on social media. My birthday was last week and when I made a post on my Instagram while thanking GOD for another year of life, NO ONE bothers to comment happy birthday under that post on IG, but then I compare to one of my friend birthday yesterday, he made a post saying happy birthday to me (to himself) he got a long list of happy birthday love. But it's all good, I know God has celebrated me and still fill me up in HIS LOVE. And that alone is enough ❤ my 289 IG friends don't need to comment to make me feel good. I'm feelings is invalid anyways. I just need to hang on to Jesus and his truth! Thank you for this video ❤
This a really good talk it speaks on a season many of us is in and I know for me it's hitting home I lost my house less then a year ago and since then I've been staying with family and it hasn't been easy but the enemy had his moments with me but God step in and I know my break threw is on the way. God bless you Big Sis of Christ 😊
Good morning from the U.S !! I just wanted to say thank you for sharing psalm 23 by the peoples song. When I listen to it I feel better I feel more encouraged to keep fighting and not give up. God bless you and the work you are doing for the Kingdom Deborah 🤎
I've gone through similiar things as you and I'm trying to recovery from all of this. I'm so grateful for what are you doing on this channel and that God brought me here.
You most definitely not rumbling you are trying to make sure everybody understand how to combat and defeat loneliness and I will say to combat and defeat doubt. Thank you Deborah. You are anointed and blessed to be a blessing.
💯🙏🏾💗☮️
This ministered to me in a deep way, Deborah. I have personally dealt with being surrounded by loved ones and still feeling isolated because I have felt misunderstood, unsupported, but those are lies from the enemy.
I greatly enjoy the Faith Talks.
Be encouraged! ❤
God bless you Deborah!! Praise God for this episode 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I loved the message Deborah...especially when you pointed to the Lord Jesus as our divine receipt to our sin debt.Loneliness as a subject is what i have been feeling recently like i attimes i feel like i dont want to move on with anything.What a rhema word.Thanks once again to your beautiful self..you are so awesome and i enjoyed every minute too the video wasn't long trust me..haha
Thank you this message. I’m currently going through a season where I feel very lonely. 28, no kids, no partner…. I seem a little lost but I know that this season is a season for me to te in my relationship with Christ. I just ask for prayers of strength during this time. I know there’s a breakthrough coming at His timing !
I actually really need your words today. Thanks!
Preach Sister! Teach Sister! :) The Anointing is strong on you.
ameen! 🥺 John 16:32 - 16:33 "but the time is coming - indeed it's here now - you will be scattered, each one going his own way, leaving me alone. Yet I am not alone because the Father ist with me. I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world"
There are so many relatable points you talk about that is the same as my own, my insecurities and current trials and hardships of sorts. Thank you for making these videos. God bless you!
Thank you so much Deborah! You are such a blessing ❤
Praise God for this message. Really renewed my mind in this season of accepting the former things have died! I’m new in Christ!
Thank you Deborah for this wonderful video! Throughout the video, I have been taking notes and just dwelling on the good things of the Lord. It’s very easy to let our feelings overcome us but Great is the Lord’s faithfulness. Blessings to you!
For such a time as this.....
Deborah. Thank you for this. I needed to see and hear this in my season of waiting for my daughter and I to be reconciled.
You R AMAZING young woman AND YOU R EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE....FOR THE NATIONS!!!
Auntie Tara from the United States
Amen,you are such a breath of fresh air
May God increase you and protect you in Jesus name.
Thank you for this!
What you said about the balance of being in a bubble with the Lord and going out into the world is real.
You are truly a vessel of God. Keep soaring 🕊️
I Praise Almighty Father God for this gift through you, Deborah💗. Thank you for sharing The Word once again. The Holy Spirit always knows what to say to use you as a vessel in reminding us that our Father God will never leave our side. I have a lot of things in my heart and mind and praying for the guidance of our Lord YESHUA through his Holy Spirit✨. God bless you & your channel sis & everyone here listening to hear about our Father's Love💖.
Bless you for the encouraging words, we all need to be reminded of God’s unconditional love for us. And, that he’s always there with us.
Hey Deb I like how you carry yourself.. x Thankyou for doing these videos. Much love
Thank you so much sis 🥹🤍 To our God be all the glory! It’s a blessing to have you here, sending much love back 🥰
@@deborahbx_can you please do a video on carrying hurt (depression) however the Holy Spirit leads x
Thanks so much for sharing this , wow this was so touching ❤❤
I rest in my lord & savior Jesus Chris! Our feelings is like the weather 😂😂😂
Your channel has been a blessing to me, I just discovered it yesterday and I love it, thank you girl, I'm already praying for you ❤
Your messages are always on point and so helpful. Thank you and may God continue to use you has a vessel to help others. Amen 🙏🏾
Thanks for another inspiring message Deborah! You make this feel like a community in the way you speak the message. The Holy Spirit is definitely with you and helping you reach others. I loved these utterly important points! Great reminders in our walk!
I'm so happy to hear that sis. To God be all the glory! He knows how hard it is in this day and age to stand firm in faith and in our relationships with him. We need community so I'm so grateful he's creating a safe space for us on here. May he continue to do that, you're God's beloved daughter :) Continue on shining your light, may our Heavenly Father bless you abundantly! I'm extremely grateful to have you here xx
@@deborahbx_ Aaw :) thanks for your prayer
You have helped me so much in my journey, please never stop making these videos! I hope you have a lovely day ❤️
To God be all the glory!! I’m so happy to hear that 🥹🤍 May he continue to bless you greatly!
Thanks, Deborah!
So True & Powerful!! ( Affirmation)
Thank you so much for this video. I was literally about to cry today because I felt so alone❤
Thank you so much Deborah. I felt better knowing I am not alone and God is with me. May continue to bless you as you bless us.
may the lord bless you for how much your videos are helping me!
Hey sis, I’m so honoured to be alive in a moment of time where God has bless me to be encouraged by a woman of God. Ive been reading proverbs lately just really trying to understand the nature of God or what it means to fear the Lord. A big part of lukewarm faith is how this “fear” is represented in the church. But I’m learning that God is loving and gracious… so i was wondering if you can make a video on what it means to fear the Lord, how do we know we’ve accessed the true character of God in these moments of reverence? Is there a difference between intuition and Gods voice, because then we can see fear as this realisation that God is the master of our fate and you feel it literally in your gut. I hope I make sense. Have a blessed week Im looking forward to your next video❤
Praise God!! I lack the words to say how much this video blessed me 🙏🏽
Amennn to our God be all the glory!! It’s such a blessing to hear this sis 🥹🤍
I really needed this right now😢.
Thank you so much.
Hi Deborah, thank you so much for this message, I really needed to hear it and understand it. You have a great new week. Smile 😃
To our Heavenly Father be all the glory Priscilla 🥰 He loves you so so much. You’re never alone! God bless you 🤍
SUPERPOWERFUUUULLLL, BLESSING, UPLIFTING MESSAGE, BEAUTIFUUUULLLL QUEEN !!!! 1000 × TIMES/ THANKS YOU !!!! 💜🤎🤎💜🙌🏽👌🏽🫶🏾🤲🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👊🏽👊🏽💎👑
You have such an anointing on your life girl!
Blessed sunday, God bless you!🙏🏾
Same to you!! May our Heavenly Father bless you and keep you. He goes before you 🥰 Numbers 6:24-26
@@deborahbx_ Amen, thank you sister in Christ ❤️🙏🏾
I absolutely love your spirit, you’ve spoken to me through every video I’ve watched so far! I’m so happy you made the decision to hear God and create this platform for other believers and those seeking God. You’re truly a vessel for the Lord’s work and that’s so special! I wish you many blessings in alignment with your journey, may God continue to cover you and this channel 💜💜💜💜
Deborah these videos come with such perfect timing. God is using you in powerful ways
Thank you so much sister for encouraging me!
And you’ve got to give us more of your music! The outro is tooo short, I love your voice! 💖💖💖
To God be all the glory sis 🥹🤍 He’s with you!! Hahah you’re too sweet! I’ll share the full songs at some point🙏🏽
I've been singing those few lines all day 🥺 the lyrics are just so goood
Thanks you Holy Spirit 🙏 for this message, it's really fitting in my now situation, am relaying on psalms 23 hallelujah 🙌
❤🎉Watching from South Africa. Thank You for devoting your life to God and inspiring us to the same 😊
Ahh it’s such a blessing to have you here from so far away!! 😃 To God be all the glory for connecting us. Thank you for being here :)
Great message, again! What hit home the loudest was stop comparing. Constantly reminding myself to block out the noise, the comparing etc. Stay UP..Keep going!!
Thanks Deborah for sharing this amazing word of encouragement. Much love from Kenya