Joshua Graham teaches you how to be a man
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- Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
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I like how people aren’t using Joshua Graham AI for goofy memes but instead life advice and uplifting messages
we have Dagoth Ur for the goofy memes, but Joshua Graham for motivating and courageous words
@@thegucc593 my thoughts exactly
@@thegucc593Litterally his character.
I guess his voice just fits for the purpose
It’s gotten me to listen to the bible lol.
Yesterday my wife decided a dude she met at a party is more important than our family and children. I needed to hear this today.
I’m sorry to hear that. Things will get better, stay strong as hard as it may be. A lot of guys have been in your shoes, it fuckin sucks in the moment but it passes.
@@taxeevayderr5902 don't give up and don't give in, your kids need you now more than ever... kids TODAY need their fathers more than ever, so keep doing what you're doing bro. By the time they're old enough to realize how strong you've been for them especially in a time like this, they're going to love you even more so for continuing to show them what a good man and father is supposed to be and they'll carry that image with them for the rest of their lives, and when it's all said and done you'll be able to sit back and see that all of the work and effort you've put in will have been truly worth it. They're proud of you and so are we, so keep it up bro. Much love 👑
@@taxeevayderr5902 with spirit like that you'll be the best there is to your kids, never give up and stay strong, don't forget that your strength is very admirable and you have my eternal respects
Good trash took it self out better to get it over with now
Shame though
At least the kids have one parent and aren’t Orphans
Sorry that happened to you, I wish you the best in providing for your children. One day, I'm sure they'll recognize your incredible strength of character for being there for them when they needed it most despite what she's done.
“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” - Marcus Aurelius
"I don't tell you how to tell me what to do, so don't tell me how to do what you tell me to do." - Bender
“Good is a point of view anakin”
Isn't he the guy who knew his wife was cheating on him constantly and did nothing about it ?
@@LandMrks sometimes doing nothing is the best course of action. what do you think you are supposed to lose your mind and delete yourself? im pretty sure their is nuance to why he aint leave this was quite some time ago.
Objectively useless quote
“Part of growing up is to stop feeling sorry for yourself.” Needed to hear that. 🔥
I once believed that one does not require hope if they lack self pity. But feeling sorry for yourself has its use. It's how one recognizes that something is missing or wrong with their life. It's okay to feel sorry for yourself if it gets you to do something about it.
@@RobG811damn if that isn't the truth
@@RobG811Amen bro that’s true. Self reflection was key to my change and I thank God everyday for my self reflection.
"Truth is the essence of God. Deceit and lies are the agents of misfortune. " as a Christian that part stuck me. I tip my hat to you.
If only it worked that way in the real world. There is no "god" here in the way you think there is. Source can only help us help ourselves, but deceit guile and subterfuge will always win out in the end because the material plane favors selfishness.
@@LupusMechanicus The gains that God gives you aren't material. Why should a loving God reward his people with objects of decaying matter? The world will take you in the end, and if He was to reward us with an easy life, our reward dies with us along with our purpose. The world will provide you with the material fortune you seek, as it is the god that many worship. Those who act out of malice are worshiping the selfish nature of the world, and the world rewards them for what they do. The world, like its servants, does not do this out of love or kindness, but simply for its own benefit. It is a god who thrives off of the power and importance we give it. To gain much material wealth, but to lose your dignity, honor, and soul is not fortune, only a bad investment. The greatest fortune you can gain is a fortune that does not leave you, and such is the fortune God offers.
@@random-_-dude The only reward is being removed from endless reincarnation and suffering, you will not be you if allowed out of samsara because you are not your physical self. Upon returning to source your individual experience ceases to exist.
@@LupusMechanicus Then what? You have removed everything about yourself. You cannot experience true bliss if you can feel nothing. If life is so selfish, its purpose shouldn't be to end itself, and to leave this existence to escape it is itself a selfish urge. If life is a cycle, there is no urgency to escape it as you will have many tries later, and the rule of probability would state that everyone will eventually find a way out. But there is an urgency. If you're incorrect about the cycle, you have only wasted your time on a selfish and suicidal action. I find no fortune in this.
"You only need the fire. One that will push through all darkness and one that warms the hearts of those around you." Beautiful stuff
That metaphor is even more meaningful coming from Joshua Graham...
Very fitting as well, given his relationship with fire.
Can anybody help me out with this question in life which is: Joshy says to not blame others and point out that they did this and did that and just support the pain, but how do I do this when my neighbors is blasting out loud music all the time and all i do is blame then that they are wrong about this and that they should respect me, what would joshua say or do in my situation?
@@knowledge_harvester He would likely forgive them then shoot them. He's... kinda not made for first world problems if you catch my meaning
@@knowledge_harvester he says that you must stop to point fingers everywhere when bad things occur, and isntead try to learn a lesson from it.
To be better off.
This one of the best uses I've seen of the Ai voice sites. As funny as it is to watch the presidents bicker over whether the Ncr or Legion would win at the battle of hoover damm This feels like its true purpose. To take characters such as Joshua, who is loved for his hardships, his journey, and general badassery. And have their voice recite a message as strong as this one. Its amazing. Please do make more!
God bless the Enclave.
True we should bring dead things alive
Saw one the other day of master chief showing you how to draw that cool "S" every one at school knows how to draw.
Need one of Cpt Price teaching me how to do my taxes.
@PopeMcGrope good news, while there's no Captain Price telling you how to do your taxes, there is one of master chief teaching you how.
But cringe the AI provides endless opportunities and lots of these “in character” AI videos (like this) are completely out of character
i cant believe people actually payed money to join discords for life advice, when you can literally just listen to joshua graham
discord? life advice?
Wait, what??
Hol up people actually do that?
Yeah didn’t Andrew Tate do that to? With a website?
@@jamesmonorow574 idk man anyone who wants to give out advice for money is full of it. Gravitate toward things that speak to you.
Wait WHAT? YOU WROTE THIS?
I've been listening to this on repeat for months now. This along with "On Providence" by Seneca got me through my darkest times.
Everything said in this is simply truth to it's core. No pushing ideals onto people, no fake moralism, but a direction for those who choose to be themselves over going along with the masses.
I thought this was a philosopher's text like Seneca's. I'm so glad I lived in your time to be able to appreciate your work.
That is very kind. Thank you
We're all philosophers
@@Aogiri_saving my life and many others thank you. The algorithm is trying to save me and many others. You're a good man, thank you
I’ve never felt a tear drop down my face from any speech. I may only be 18, but the writing, the message, the weight that this monologue had, somehow took a tole on me and crashed on me. I have not cried this hard since the passing of my family member. I thankyou, for constructing this masterpiece of whatever this is, which I cannot put into words, but thankyou.
I created a whole playlist filled with Joshua Graham motivation videos. This shit is therapy
Consider yourself lucky. The more you understand this the better you are. Many men today are void of this video's message in their lives.
18....attracted to such truth and wisdom already. You’ll be a leader among your peers.
Damn, you're really out here giving us a father figure. Props to you man.
God is the best father figure
@@cyberneticbeast nah dog Joshua graham is
@@cyberneticbeast *worst
@@S0sukeAizencomment wasn't needed
@@fearls1898 so was god
"don't move on because of hidden strength, move on when you have no strength left." ~Teddy Roosevelt
The manliness man to ever man.
@@stephenmikolaitis4384 facts
courage?
@@Gorekinkz no, read it again.
curious if you got this from any book or biography on him?
After finding out that the only person who has shown interest in me had been lying and using me for my money I came home weeping my eyes out and this was the one thing that caught my attention. The thumbnail alone made me personally stop crying and think to myself "What would a person like Joshua do in this situation". I can't thank you enough for this work you have done, while it might not be a solution to my problem it is surely comforting. Thank you
They say the strong are kind. You're strong, I can tell by your kindness. Those who wronged you are weak for they are defensive yet aggressive with their agenda. Gods be with you
Calm yourself, and rest your eyes dear friend. Everything's going to be alright, don't give up on people but especially don't give up on yourself.
Stay strong, and be fluid else you turn to dust.
Same thing happened to me just a few days ago. I understand your pain
I am sorry for the fate that has met you my friend, however the sadness and frustration of a betrayal is only the temporary while the strength of your mind, your will and your soul is eternal once found
I wish you luck on the path that awaits for you in your journey
@@Jesse-jp8bt Thank you
“Despite the reasons not to be honest, morale or reasonable, one decides to be so anyways” feeling this rn, some people around me don’t understand that concept, and can seemingly never know the burden it is
"Woe be to the man who pursues Truth, for the world is his enemy."
"you dont need to leave a legacy, or be big and strong all the time, you just need to be the fire in the darkness and warm the hearts around you to be a good man" this is what i needed to hear for a very long time. I've been striving for greatness but i've never been one that wanted to be great. I just wanted to be content with who I am and the ones that are around me.
That was like a father talking to you. Brought me to tears
So that's what it's like.
I teared up a little too
When he started to talk about love and the aura it gives it had to stop and wipe the mist from my eyes.
Maaan im glad im not the only one
Same
It gives me great hope that there are others in this world creating and seeking messages like these, honing their ideals, and putting them into action. Whoever is reading this, I wish you luck on your journey.
I aim to end my journey better off than I started. I am achieving those aims.
I agree, a secret community of guys trying to become Real Men
@@xtrachromyhomie9720 Hell yeah. First and biggest step for me was becoming sober. Now that my mind is not clouded by constant, destructive, self-inflicted abuse, my thoughts and interests have moved over to focus on improving my overall well-being.
@@xtrachromyhomie9720
no offense,how ever it should not be a secret community.
it should touch everybody.we don't need no more sects or any group of humans who think they are prophets or priviliged(because with saying secret,the thought of privilige comes kinda with it... )
and take the gender manifestation out plz,it is about becoming a real human..more than half of the content of the video can also be related to women or to any other divers group(LGBTQ+-)...
Don't forget,any gendergroup confronts the same darkness in the end.of course we have different bio.sleeves,characters,sexuality,but in the end we are all equal in some layer...
My fire burns. Sometimes brightly. Sometime it only flicker, and it is tough to stoke back to a roaring blaze. Fortunately, others like yourself come along and see that my fire is dwindling and with your comment provide me the kindling I need to return it back to the fire that stokes the coals of my determination. I can only hope that if I haven't returned the favor that someone in my stead does very soon.
“Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children.”
Amen
and I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers, and you will know my name is the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee!
Ezekiel 25:17
thank you for saying that. i am benefitting from that kind of love.
Thank you to all who Love like that.
Sincerely
@@flatboat67 amen
I’m a burn victim and I relate to this. I remember I was reading Ernst Junger and I stopped at one passage minutes before the fire. “Show me how you react to pain and I’ll show you who you are” I’m not sure why I read that right before I was burning but it’s stuck with me. I remember I heard myself scream and it didn’t sound like me, I fell to my knees and thought about someone I love then I thought “People Die Like This.” . I could smell my flesh burn and see the flames on my shirt and jacket, I stuck my hands into the fire and tore as hard as I could until the cloth tore and I was free. Then I finally felt pain. A helicopter ride and three skin grafts later and I was mostly normal again.
god damn bro im so sorry to hear that, but in the end you pulled through, ggs man stay strong
You live on to fight another day!
"I have been baptized twice. Once in water, once in flame." - Joshua Graham
You are strong and do stay that way
"So don't worry so much. Dream up a good life and enjoy the process. It may seem hard, but I know you can do it."
Damn.....thanks Joshua 😢
I found you yesterday was instantly hooked. The combination of the voice, atmosphere, and the writing are amazing. What you have said here is genuinely better then most of the "advice" found not just on RUclips but found anywhere. You are truly a font of wisdom and a good person for sharing it. Though we may not say it I belive I can speak for most people when I say, thank you
Agreed. It’s a good man behind this channel.
I definitely can relate with this moment.
This man going up somewhere good and he will put a mark on history some day
I found it today I love this channel already
I've found this message within Dr Petersons lectures feom years ago. I find it fascinating that it was condensed into this.
Thia is just an Ai voice from a fictional character from a videogame, but at the same time it is so inspiring, Joshua is my favorite character from FNV, and to hear him give these life lessons makes me so happy. To the creator behind this, Thank You Bro, you are a very wise person
we don't judge them by what or who they are, but the content of their character
well as he said things made out of love and care give off a special engery that can not be mistaken
New Vegas goes hard
What is FNV?
@@bennz9907 Fallout New Vegas
This is simply genius. Using Grahame, a character portrayed as being wise and virtues, to display philosophical advice to our post-modern world is exactly what we need for our generation. This is simply good writing and I thank you for posting this.
I survived a very severe illness that almost killed me at 21 and have come to this sort of worldview and viewpoint. As I walk through life I constantly feel that I have knowledge no one else seems to understand, and I struggle to teach others but many don't want to listen. I've learnt not to indulge lonliness, to seek solace in myself, in meditation and in God. But it's a small comfort to know that there those out there that understand. That peace is not getting everything you want; peace is not wanting more. Thank you for this Aogiri, God bless.
This man has given me greater advice than any preacher or “self help” guru ever could
As a father and a husband, I think on this question quite often. Listening to this has not only inspired me, but has also helped strengthen my resolve in my spousal and parental endeavors. Thank you for this.
Who ever wrote this. It is powerful, comforting, and though provoking. Thank you. I needed this message today.
My father isn't here anymore and passed. But I feel this is the exact same advice he'd give me at another Wednesday lunch, but in 2023.
I wish you nothing but abundance as well as the inner fire that your father has joined to live within your heart to brightly shine when you see your own reflection.
Pretty sure this is all from stoics, didn't read meditations in a long time but there is a lot from Marcus Aurelius and Zeno. All memes aside Stoics were probably the smartest people ever (as far as understanding inner self goes).
May he rest on peace. You're doing great, keep on going. We're all rooting for you dear brother.
@@Jovanche9true. I also believe imam Al Ghazālī was one of those who reached the highest understanding
This is how you know you wrote a great character, when people do their best to keep their memory alive
As a dude in his mid 20's, I'm kind of feeling a bit lost lately but damn, inspiration can be found in the most unexpected of places. Thank you so much for this.
I’m 20 years old right now and I feel the the same exact way you do bro I be feeling so lost on my journey.
I’m 25 I feel you brother.
"A man wields power. A coward wields force." I never thought there was a difference. I always assumed power was force and was thus something to be renounced. I like this take.
Jordan peterson has always implied this; true virtue is having the ability to destroy the world, and being able to control it. Without control, a man that has power is simply a barbarian.
"Do you wish to dominate others? Or do you wish to bring out the potential in yourself and those around you? These are the decisions that decide which path we are pursuing: Power or Force. All great men wield Power. A Power of character that is unmistakable when in the prescence of. A person's who's fingers are grazing the infinite, and a mind that flows with the rivers of time."
As a struggling BJJ white belt, this hit me like a giant philosophical freight train. I appreciate you taking the time to share your ideas on masculinity with us today.
Those words hit hard for me the same, blue belt here. Pride myself on the fact i focus on helping my training partners get better not just smashing them lol.
keep grinding bro u inspire
@Elijah Derouselle @Caleb2Scrub thank you both haha
@Taco Thursdays we all struggle as white belts, we all just have different struggles. Some struggle to learn the art due to lack of athleticism, some with the inability to learn from loss, some from poor work ethic, some from poor diet. This art isnt just whats on the mat, but how to push yourself to improve,physically and mentally. Thats just my opinion tho.
@@_almace every sport is like that, does that render all physicality moot to idealize?
For the men who have no dad or their dad didn’t do right by them this is the speech every father must have with their son, spoken or with actions. Many young men are lost in this life because they never had this told to them I’m blessed to have had this from my own dad , do what you know is right and even if the destination is far the steps you took on the journey is what you will remember and be remembered for at the end.
This video applies to all humans tbh, not just men, it's something everyone should be doing
@@Spiderella3959 mankind, humankind. People.
I am not a religious man nor will I ever be, but these videos are very high quality and have helped me through some dark days. Thank you.
You need not be religious to heed the words of a very wise, very studious man.
@@upsetpringle8353 He fell into the Grand Canyon, so I’d listen
Maybe you should give God a chance, there’s a lot you can learn with Him
There will be more dark days ahead brother, for the anchor does not excuse the storm. That anchor ultimately being God, holds us firm through the storm, but most certainly doesn't excuse it from our lives no matter deserving or undeserving we think we are. After sailing the sea of life at first without and now with that anchor, I can now stand firm in life during these storms in my life through the stability and foundation that has been extended to me through His grace.
God does not want anyone to be religious, but rather, he wants you to be His; he wants you to give your heart. I pray you accept that love that has been seeking you one day, and that I see you In heaven Ace. Stay safe my friend, God Bless.
@@allgoodman3475 not really.
"Some however will succumb to the darkness and never return. We see many people like this today. They are ruled by their shadow. Ruled by anger and false justifications. They see oppression everywhere. They feel subjected and angry. But they have not learned one of the great lessons of life. That life is hard and it is hard for everyone." Man, this hits hard when I think of the past 3 years and the glorification of victimhood.
What are you thinking of when you say "glorification of victimhood" though, because knowing RUclips, it's 50/50 between you meaning actual victims of injustices making their voices heard, like people protesting state violence against minorities, and people trying to live their best lives being accused of trying to corrupt children, or people who listen to scaremongering news anchors telling you things like "the unwashed foreign hordes are coming to steal your jobs", and "the medicine is actually a grand jewish conspiracy, eat the horse drugs, if you prevent disease you are helping the Bilderberg cabal subvert society" etc
TL;DR do you mean actual victims, or those who appropriate the moniker of victim to excuse their immorality
Try the last 5 years or so.
Same bro
If you think life is hard for the very wealthy you are really deluded lol. Only the rich and beautiful strive. The poor and ugly suffer. It has always been this way and forever will be.
@@ilikepancakes2368I’m sure kids who are ravished with living in famine and living off a dollar a day, would say someone like you with obvious internet, a phone or computer and clothes, food and I’m sure a job with living family members and friends who I hope care for you; those people might say you’re rich and wealthy living the life. Just as the video said, it is hard for everyone. Who’s to say those rich and wealthy individuals weren’t once poor and at the bottom of society at one point? It’s all about perspective, get away from your own defeatist mentality and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You’ve got to work with what you got.
00:00 Defining what it means to be a man
01:21 To be a man is to accept life and push forward towards a light from within.
02:39 True change in catharsis is the rarest gem of all
04:01 To discern truth from falsehood, pay attention to the effect of our actions and others throughout history.
05:19 Consciousness shapes our behaviors and feelings
06:38 Love is the only way out of the traps of the material world and the mindset of fear and hatred
07:55 Protect the weak and honor your convictions
09:08 Accept the present moment and find your purpose.
I NEED this monologue written out and performed somewhere important. Seriously, Aogiri, this is your best yet. Actually, that's an understatement- this writing is one for the ages. Monologues like these deserve to be in museums.
Dude I cannot agree more! 😮
Yep
100%. I’ve listened to this 3 times now, truly beautiful work.
As a man who was mostly raised by his grandmother, I wasn't really taught to be a man, only taught to be polite and good. So as I got older I struggled with manhood and identity, there was even a time where I was dipping my toes in the transgender pool. But even now, at the age of 23, I still struggle but I have been practicing balancing my masculinity and femininity. Do I blame the way I was raised? No. Do I blame my father not really being there for me? No. I can't blame anything or anyone, except to keep moving forward, for time waits for no one.
The way I see it, being a man can mean really anything. But to me, a man is strong, not physically, but mentally. This is what I strive to improve. Sure, I have moments where I crumble, but I still get myself back together.
To all men who read this. No matter your opinions, views, race, upbringing, etc. I love you. Let's improve together.
As someone who has difficulty to express myself, this comment is so close to what I want to write here, I had a similar raising not but not because my dad was absent but because most of my family are woman, also it doesn't help that I already look a little like a girl and I'm very shy so don't talk to people about myself... A lot of people thought I was trans or something... I don't think I am but I do enjoy more feminine stuff
What I want to say is that both this video and this comment resonate with me and is what I was needing in my path to become a better person
(Sorry if the grammar is awful, English isn't my first language and I am very bad at communicating normally, even in my native language)
Yeah I can relate, I just wish I could be I touch with my femenine side but I'm always afraid of social rejection
Thank you king 👑
@@rishitomar67 Screw the social rejection. If you enjoy certain feminine things or want to try feminine. Go for it.
@@humbleguardsman5578 thank you, it means a lot to me
Replayed this four times over, wrote some quotes down on six flash cards with every line filled. I tape quotes like these to my door so I see them before I step outside every morning and night. Thank you for making this.
make sure to actually look at them.
Just be
This just inspired me I think I'll start doing the same.
“Like a moth to flame, purpose will find you.” This gave me chills
I am an atheist and I still resonate with this. Damn good job.
Jesus loves you, brother.
@@gigachoof and I love you, random citizen!
What I've observed is that people who believes god says their god loves you. But agnostic/atheist people always say i love you. Idk which one you find more comforting.
@@stressedbyamountainofbooks I, personally, am a little more comforted by the direct love of another person than the person in the sky that has never talked to me. Of course, that's my choice, and other people make others, and that's okay!
@@banjomanperson God has different ways of communicating. From what I hear from other people it's more that communication is in paths and experiences in life rather than a direct human-like conversation.
“Love is attention and focus.”
Words to live by. Pulled them outta my head.
Thank you.
I’ve tried to write this comment several times, but each time it just doesn’t feel right. I don’t know how you did it, but it felt like you knew me and were personally addressing my problems. Each time I’ve tried to make change, I just end up back where I started or even a little worse. I just wanted to thank you for your words in this video, and if you ever doubt these videos are helping anyone. I can promise you’ve they’ve helped at least one, and from the other comments, many more. Maybe this try at change will be like the last, or maybe it won’t be, but I’ve realized that I haven’t failed until I give up.
We never stop changing, but that's one of the beautiful things about life. All you can do is try to make that change a positive one, and like what was said in the video, live in the moment and love others. Have a great day
id love to hear him talk about how to deal with grief and loss. lost a lot of people I love recently and videos like these are really helping try to navigate these feelings
I have no idea if this will help you, but for me it helped too let what i was feeling go through me instead of keeping it in, i tried too remember that even though they are gone their memory of who they were before they passed will always be there, and instead of feeling like it was the end i tried too look at it like a new beginning.
YES
"No amount of money or luxury can save you from biology, from the elements, or from one's self."
BASED.
The sad part is how people legitimately turn to listening to this because there’s no real influence in their personal life to push the message...
Well, then keep pushing the light. Furthermore give it unto others.
The world cannot have enough teachings from Joshua Graham. Thank you for breathing life into these words.
I don’t care if Joshua read this to me, YOU, the author, share a message only so few can learn on their own accord through years of self work. You helped jump start thousands of people’s lives. I don’t think there’s more to say to it then that. Thank you.
I love these brother.
I am currently in Bali writing this a out to go to Australia on my working visa at the age of 30.
I've just completed my coding bootcamp back in my home country, I left this country because I want something bigger and brighter.
Coding is not my passion but if I work in the industry for 2 years I can accomplish my dream.
Joshua Graham is my guide and my Sheppard if you like, I'm not religious but by god I would follow him to battle.
All he's said is the truth of christ. You don't have to be a zealot , just do right by God , one step at a time
What an uplifting message, I will come here every day or once a week just to rewire myself
As someone who is struggling recently with anxiety over the pressure of trying to achieve success, this hit me right in the gut and had me in tears. What a beautiful, harsh, and honest piece of art. I wish there were more things similar to this in the world ❤
Anxiety is harsh, and the struggle is real and taxing.
It can be done, but it isn't easy or instantaneous as flipping as switch.
For whatever it's worth from a random stranger on the internet, best of luck - honestly.
I have a philosophy minor and this is the deepest truth I've heard in years. Shit slaps, I'm glad my homie sent me it. Good work man
You're the authority on philosophy because you're a philosophy minor? Lol
@@timmykkgb?
@@timmykkgb , when did he say that?
@@timmykkgb Since you're clearly uneducated about the matter, I will spell it out for you. When you minor in something, you learn a lot about said thing. Does that make you an authority? no, and on one claimed to be. What it DOES do, is give you a perspective on that thing.
Clearly you didn't pay much attention in school, otherwise you'd know this.
@@seriphmichaelthey never claimed to be one, stop creating problems
Besides this being solid advice, it's also fantastic character writing. Bethesda or Obsidian should hire you if they ever remake New Vegas or make a sequel.
That’s something we all wish would happen
They arent interested in hiring anyone who isn't woke.
"Bad things happen to good men to build character, a hard life defines a man, for an easy life is not worth living"
- some guy somewhere
Who needs expensive ass therapy when you have this.
This did more for me than over a year of therapy.
@@toxicink72 are you joking?
@@toxicink72 Then you weren't trying lol like what?
I thought this might be a gimmicky joke at first but this is incredibly profound and has impacted me. Thank you
Oh man... I've never played a Fallout game, but ever since a video about Joshua Graham was recommended to me, I've been in love with the character and his voice. Joshua Graham Reads The Bible is an amazing video, even though I'm not religious, I still listen to it. Now this life advice video with his voice and character is a gift. Awesome!
religious?
@@comradejux Joshua and the rest of the dead horses are Mormon. He goes into full detail onto why he thinks religion is important and why he converted. He quotes a few Bible verses here and there but I feel like the most impactful thing he said is “I have been baptized twice, once in water, once in flame”
@@WhiteGenghisKhan understandable
Turn to Christ my friend. If you think scripture is calming then you will find a relationship with Christ is even more so in the long run. What is holding you back?
@@Southron-CiK If you think scripture is calming, then you have not read the scripture. I truly believe that if more people read the bible without any intervention by any outside source that tells them how they should think (specifically without being told by other people what those people think each verse is supposed to mean), then less people would believe in what the bible has to say. I can't speak to other religions/scriptures as I have no experience with them, but these are my thoughts on religions that follow the bible.
I just had one of the worst days I’ve had in years. And on my way home I found this video….I don’t think I’ll ever forget it
The feelings and memories after a bad day are the worst, they amplificates absolutely everything in the wrong way, I wish you courage in your struggles, I felt that too much..
"Part of the process of becoming a man is to stop feeling bad for yourself."
Absolute words to live by.
I myself still feel bad about me, and feel like I'm unworthy and have much work left to do. I've gotten better accepting my circumstances, but I still find myself regretting lack of action in the past, or taking so long to better myself. I'm about to turn 27, but I just put off building myself up when I moved out in 2018. Its 2023, and I now feel this fire to make something of myself, make a life worth living, and use the wisdom I've acquired to guide those that come after me. I'm going back to university, and know where I want to take my career, and get my bachelor's in. I want to be there for my brothers (best friends), my partner, and should I have children, guide them along the path, until they themselves are ready to be on their own. And I want to be able to explore this life to the fullest and be able to afford my hobbies and interests as well. So, while I still have work left to do, I've accepted the process, and understand how I will live my life now.
“Dream up a good life, and enjoy the process” powerful
This is my creed. I’ve never heard it put into words but it’s the truths I’ve gathered and realized myself over my nearly 30 year journey. Now that it is verbalized I will listen to this affirmation every single day until I can recite it myself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You earned my sub.
I know these are your own writings but I like that it really does feel like Joshua Graham would say this. A+ work.
Motivating.
This changed the course of my life, thank you
As someone who can relate to a lot of these comments of lost and sadness in different parts of his life who is now dying of cancer at 34 , I am at peace because despite my situation it could be worse , I can still see walk and talk , I find comfort in that.
I am rooting for you, brother.
I look forward to these videos. Please keep doing these!
You wrote this? Damn, thats amazing. Tbh, making Jashua say what you wrote is a genius move.
Never knew I needed a videogame character to tell me how to be a man, thanks dude!
I love listening to this guy, reminds me that the struggle is not my own alone. That I have to keep my head up, march forward and evolve where I need, and keep my morals unchanging.
This was like hearing my own brain talk. I didn't want this to end. This was amazing, your writing is perfection. Thanks for doing what you do.
"Like a moth to a flame, purpose will find you." Damn.
Thank you for making this video. 3 years ago I was took a copious dose of MDMA and was spiked by a close friend that gave me meth capsules in place of what I believe was MD. For about 3 years since then I believe I destroyed a large amount of my memories and critical thinking and understanding of philosophy like in this video, and hearing this has lead me back on the path of being more in control of my way of handling the world around me and expanding my thoughts and emotions and being an observer before making decisions. I learned a lot more here than I ever had before I damaged my thinking around that time. So I really appreciate this video more than you could imagine
You’re a man that made it out as a man. I admire you
Keep on the path brother, we're all trying to figure it out.
Some are challenged more in life than others, just keep moving forward - whatever pace and however it looks.
@@gman9202 yeah you could be so low but if you move forward, life is still worth living
I'm a girl listening to this, and I know that it was more intended for the guys but this video is also helpful for women too.
You have an amazing mind, keep making these. Your helping many 😊
the autonomy of what defines "females and males" changed long ago. The only difference is biology nothing more. in essence masculinity is 'power' much like how there's spiritual meaning to someone's "spirit animal" its much like that. A label you blend with others to create your own personality
@@zyoh4311 that's a fair point and I agree with some of it, but I have a slightly different view. I actually am spiritual and to me there is meaning to masculinity and feminity. from a physical, traditional, and spiritual view. More than just labels used for flavoring.
That doesn't mean to say that these are some "barriers" that prevent people from making personal choices outside of one grouping or another; don't get me wrong, I'm a tomboy so I get the whole conformed gender-role-thing and how it can create bad stigmas.
But stigmas aside, the roles of masculine and feminine are ingrained in our culture, both the old and new.
I do appreciate you telling me your opinion though, I like discussing things like this as you can see 😁
@@DeathAngelSuki I can see 👀 but I meant moreso of a balance between each ones. For example people will have a side that seems "feminine" or "masculine" but it's good to balance it out too much or too little or either can be bad
I have been, lost as to what i wish to do in life, lost as to what i want from it. And when my soul wanders from my body i go here, and contemplate. The voice of Joshua grahm and the wisdom of what you say through him is the cure to the spiritual cancers of this modern world. Weather i agree with all of it or not you speak plain truth in most of this, considered an opinion or not, you give me the push i need to be centered between mind body and soul, Thank you Sir, you are a godsend.
“Everything you do everywhere you go something, someone is trying to take something from you. Time, money, or emotion…”
*Ad immediately pops up*.
Lol youtube has a sense of humor sometimes
The part where he says not to blame others hits hard. At a certain point pointing the finger against the world does nothing but only hinder your ability to grow and change. Life’s not fair at all. We are blessed to be able to walk and be healthy but yet we still complain about everything. Even if your life does suck there’s nothing you can do but accept it and see how you can move forward. God speed 🔥
If you do more content like this, then you’re guaranteed a subscriber from me! As a 25 year old man whose uncertain with himself and world, these little seminars from Joshua Graham are just the stuff that keeps me going and optimistic. Thank you, and may God bless you.
I don’t particularly like being melodramatic, but hearing this has truly helped me. I am at a bit of a low point and have a loss of direction, or more specifically who I want to be and what I truly need to change. This has been some of the most well said (or really written) advice that I have heard in a while. So what I am trying to say is, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ❤.
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering." - Memento Mori
That's Nietzsche, Memento Mori is not a person
@@jcdenton2907 I use Memento Mori as a online alias.
God knew i needed to hear this. Had a rough break up last week, and was still angry due to it. Thank you for making this and i thank God for allowing me to hear this.
Really profound stuff, you've managed to articulate a lot of beliefs I share but never had the words to express. Keep up the good work!
Aogiri, you are a true philosopher. These are so well written, you should be very proud of what you've made.
I absolutely agree with everything said in this video. It finally put my feelings into words.
I literally just asked GOD to help me, then this video popped up. Thank you.
Yeah, being a man can be crushingly difficult at times, people don’t universally love you like they do women, children, or puppies. Love is only based on the notion that you provide something. And you can do EVERYTHING right for a woman, and one unlucky day, she can wake up and decide she doesn’t love you anymore. I hope anyone who reads this NEVER has to cross that road, me included.
Women are loved universally? The biggest lie ever told. Sure, they're loved, if they adhere to strict societal expectations. Otherwise they're a bitch, whore, slut, gold-digger, nagging wife, cunt, bimbo, karen, for the streets, etc. Even this video and it's comment section is proof how ''loved'' women are. The script of the video is beautiful, no doubt, but women are excluded as if they don't have any struggles. The exclusion of women in these kinds of talks is dehumanizing. The fact that you even said that they're loved universally shows how understood women's issues are. You say a woman can leave a man any time, as if a man can't do that to a woman too. Why do you have to undermine women every chance you get? I'm not saying society isn't to blame for a lot of men's issues, but some accountability goes a long way. You think women go through less shit only because they actually deal with their shit. All this talk about what it takes to be a man, yet ironically lots of men's issues would be fixed if they learned a thing or two from women. But men are too embarrassed to do that. It shows how ''respected'' women are in society when men are too proud to learn something from women, that they must have a higher ultra macho manly purpose just because they are born a man. They don't wanna ''get down'' on women's level, then complain how society is unfair to them. It's sad really.
Im a baptized Christian and this is one of the most powerful sources of modern day wisdom and truth I've heard yet. I can't even explain how much I resonate with the words in this video.🙏
Good Human > Good Christian
A Good Christian IS a Good human yet a good human is not always a good christian
@@akshay-kumar-007 being a good christian means you're basically at the pinacle of being a good person, say you think otherwise and I'll gladly tell you why you are wrong, being about believing in God or not.
@@akshay-kumar-007You maybe neither of those.
Christians are so oblivious to the fact that there are so many people who believe in different religions.
I'm non-religious and try to be good not because of the reward of heaven or fear of a white-beard dude up in the sky. Maybe I'm not a good human being after all but at least I don't do right things out of fear or wrong reasons.
dude i rewatched your videos over and over at work(well really just the fear one, four times now...). these are seriously incredible, plz do more on overall self improvement, people appreciate you and your work
using Joshua Graham to help people learn value is genuinely awesome, keep up the great work .
i really love when he say "it may seem hard, but i know you can do it"
Yeah same it's like he speaks to us
This isn't just how to be a man... this is his to be a human in whole, because as a woman listening to this... this hits deep and I can see that it isn't just to be a man, but to be a human
This is insanely deep, well done. This should be heard by every person and not just young/old men.
I'm literally crying rn, these words are so fucking beautiful
I feel like an idiot writing this from an AI Voice Video but damn, it feels comfortable to hear such things.
I don't fully submit to the wisdom here. But your channel has given me much to think on. Thanks for taking the time to share your videos.
People think to far ahead and feel above it all. That's why humbling experiences are wonderful.
"How much do we stop all distractions and just be with the moment we are in. These things are the genius of a child, and those who are among the dying." Crazy shit
Firstly I feel annoyance when I read "How to be a man", I really have some problems with every "man", that advice me to be a man, a cruel beast, that wants to kill and don't care of opinoins of others and this advice come to me with not straight, but insults about me being irresponsible man, but truth is, this advice came from mouth of my dad, who left me and my mom.
I truly thank you, the man, who write this monologue.
These are amazingly created masterpieces, and thanks for the advice.
Love your vocabulary
"It may seem hard, but I know you can do it." damn that's encouraging.
I’m not going to lie: this video legitimately saved me. It reminded me of what’s important to me. Thank you for uploading this.
Some of your past videos helped me out man keep up the good work