Hunter is such a top tier human being nothing but supportive of the person he loves despite things changing in all terrible ways for him. He is stronger than most of us could ever be and he deserves so much happiness
@@Superbatmanbro How can you have any respect for a person that lead another person without their consent for 12 years? What is your reasoning? Game is game?💀
@@jimmartin4912 The information you have is that she told him right after she figured it out. Saying she led him is just you assuming something you have no way to know. Stop trying to infer things you don't know about people you don't know.
@jimmartin6803 what I meant is that he's supportive of her,but It is also F up to string him along and wasted his time and mental health. I think the part that hurts a lot is finding out she didn't really love him for 12 years 💔
@@rodrigoandrade256 Okay so when you find a relationship you will understand that it does not take more that a year at most of romantic interactions in order to understand if you have no sexual attraction for the other person. So you can endlessly cope that she figured it out 12 years later and call what I said an assumption or you can engage sincerely with the argument and admit that she most likely led him on for a very long time without his knowledge and consent.
"we were just drifting apart" is a boldddd statement from someone who surprised their partner with "surprise polyamory" fellas if all parties arent consenting to a poly relationship, then thats not a poly relationship, thats just cheating
@@keelienneif they agreed to an open relationship and it was something else, yes cheating. An open relationships means you can mess around, he started a new relationship with someone else. Yes, cheating.
Bandanna girl is not mature enough for an actual relationship. She’s just dragging people into an inevitable heartbreak for people who think they’re getting something beyond friends with benefits.
@@Psychedelic430she didn’t know she was a lesbian and probably had heterosexual tendencies. Don’t be weird u don’t know their full situation. And to say she wasted his life when he never implied that is so entitled
Rile is blinded!!! Zana has guys who are “checking in” during the relationship. And to top it off she’s introducing him to them. Why would you wanna get back with her?
Duuuude this ! especially it pissed me off bc its very VISIBLE that he is KIND extremely understanding and very Attractive individual and she runs over him like that "checking in " sh*t she would NEVER get away wit that Ho* sh*t with a Man that would NEVER understand her doing that sh*t , not ok at all he deserves the best !
Introducing your partner to people you've slept with without them knowing deserves jail time. Argue with your mother. Everyone is at fault here, though. The guys "checking in," jail. Rile is a grown ass man and doesn't realize a girl telling you "you didn't hold me accountable" means she knew she was disrespecting you and continued to because you allowed it. Ding, ding, ding, Rile has won himself, JAIL!
What a perfect storm of hot mess. She won't hold herself accountable and he has low self-esteem. I hope he can dig deep and work on himself to gain more confidence and leave her in the dust. for good!
She seems like the type that's avoidant and insecure so she uses having so many "options" as a way to maintain distance. I feel so bad for the guy he deserves all the love!
Headband girl is a hot mess. Riley (name?) is attractive but needs to build up his confidence and find a woman who respects him. She will keep partying and treating him bad their entire lives. He deserves better and she deserves therapy and maybe a little rehab.
To each they own but blonde dude can do better and deserves better , his ex is not ready for commitment period point blank she seems like a serial dater
@@kaylajoyner8428 Oh, when I say "hideous beast" I don't just mean her quality as a girlfriend, I also mean her spiritual and physical presence...she is repulsive on both the metaphysical and physical planes. And that much is clear to any man imagining himself in the situation that poor dude was in: being intimately tied in a relationship with such a person 😂
I love how Hunter and Stephanie are in complete understanding of one another, it's beautiful to watch. There is no resentment or manipulation. Shows they really went through quite some stuff.
yeah but the point is they genuinely care for one another and make each other feel heard. you can't fake having that open connection with someone. people can sense when you're suppressing emotions, and imo they clearly have a space where both of them can express themselves. but you're right, I don't know for sure. and I'm sure they are having their fair share of arguments and obstacles too.@@theprousteffect9717
7:52 What do you mean that he never held you accountable?! Each person in a relationship should keep themselves accountable to make a relationship last. Don't put it on the other person.
How can you have past guys checking in while your in a relationship , and then introduced them to your man without tell him about them and then say you never held me accountable? Wild. She’s a crimson flag for me 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I took it as her agreeing that he loved her more to a fault. I think she was saying he probably should’ve been less understanding for certain things. He might’ve been the type to let things slide a lot. I don’t know though, just offering my perspective. We aren’t in their relationship so who knows lol
Here’s an example I yell at you for not locking the door at night and I berate you for it and say things I shouldn’t say. You don’t stand up for yourself and say anything back you don’t have backbone and just let me walk all over you. I should hold you accountable by telling I felt disrespected instead of fearing confrontation even though I was wrong.
Hunter loves her so much and my heart just aches for him. His energy was so sore, as though he was about to burst into tears at any moment. Respect to both of them. Hunter, i hope you find someone who loves you just as much and i frikken love you bro.
Headband lady and that guy.... Sir please don't waste your time and find a loving and devoted partner for yourself. There is a better match for you out there.
I feel for Hunter. Being robbed for 12 years is a long time, but also considering the likely suffering and brainwashing Stephanie experienced, and finally coming ṭo terms with her sexuality, is a good thing. Im happy they can maintain a strong, supportive friendship. Wishing the best for both of them!
I think she figured out in the first year or so and then she was just not ready to act like an adult and not waste another 11 years of their lives, unfortunately...
@@liva8522 Yeah but that still doesn't change the fact that he could have fostered a real loving relationship with another person that truly loved him, because the fact that he probably had a good time doesn't erase the fact that she manipulated the f out of him for 12 years
@@khadijahbegum3546 look at her mannerisms how can u be that checked out on a man that only loved you and didn’t cheat? She just didn’t want to be w him
The divorced couple are so sweet! It's obvious how much they care about each other and are probably supportive friends. That situation could have been super messy and hurtful, but it seems like they both chose to be mature and kind.
I feel so bad for both Hunter and Stephanie. But especially my man Hunter. He was literally shaking and trying so hard to keep it together. Idk if I'd be able to keep it together as well as he did.
@@mercygirl317I didn't get that at all. I thought he wanted her back, and she had zero interest in him. They seemed so oddly matched, and she seemed so disinterested that it's hard to imagine they were together.
LITERALLY! I was going to say the same damn thing. Her actions are HER own choice. Ain't nothing anyone can do about it. When people like this do the blame game .. YAK
Nah i get it, she can hold herself accountable all she wants to, but even when trying to explain it to her partner and preparing for the rightful backlash, he seems like he doesnt have enough self esteem to feel comfortable getting angry or holding her accountable. So shes just kinda left in this limbo of guilt and confusion and never really figuring out whats going wrong bc he wont tell her what he needs
@@ItsRaevie I understand why you are trying to play devils advocate. She’s old enough to know that actions have consequences and affect people. So when people project their insecurities on to others, that is never right. But she knows what's going on. At this age. we don't have that excuse. All I’m saying is she needs to hold herself accountable for Her actions. No one else will. And that is not anyones job to tell a person how they should act.
My mom came out after 18 years with my dad. They're mature and my dad is very understanding that my mom was confused and scared. There is no bad blood. My mom has love for my dad always, they just weren't a romantic fit. These comments are INSANE. not everyone holds grudges and some people are understanding of others.
Bieng understanding of others is different from bieng upset/depressed.At the end of the day just like if you knew something was going to end your marriage but you weren't brave enough to tell its well within someone's rights to be upset/upset.The problem isn't her bieng a lesbian the problem wad the fact she couldn't be honest with herself and have to guts to tell hunter sooner.
The red head guy really has deep love for his ex you can tell. I hate getting into a situationship with someone who still has ex's and fwb around them tho...gives me anxiety
that "kissing you was electric, it changed my life" actually changed MY life. what a beautiful thing to say to somebody. i wish him so much love and prosperity
Oh Hunter 🥺I think he’s in such a state of pain and is at a point where it just can’t get any worse. So just let it be. He’s not resentful or hateful, he’s just supportive and appears to be coasting. Trying to keep it together. I applaud him in trying and putting himself out there. Not an easy feat in the least. And not one ☝🏽1 person in their right mind would fault this man for being pissed off, but here he is just keeping calm and carrying on. Hope he’s blessed with a genuine, beautiful & passionate relationship in the future. They both deserve that.
You can tell he is trying so hard to be supportive and lift her up by not weighing her down with his sadness and heartache. He’s such a good dude (from what we can see) prioritizing her happiness and comfort in her sexuality despite still being so in love with her. Poor guy was shaking like a leaf and trying so hard to keep it together, I wish the best for him honestly.
The guy with the yellow jacket is way out of her league, cant believe she broke up with him. Anyways for the best as she seems to be carrying a lot of baggage he will find someone better so easily
i was gonna say "damn why did stephanie and hunter break up, they were together for 12 years and they seem to still be really chill and compatible" and then she said she was a lesbian and i was like "ah, yep, thats why" lmao, i rly hope hunter finds the perfect person for him all their answers to their questions are fucking hilarious "hunters been knee deep in pussy" "when did you know the relationship was doomed" "when you said 'i think im a lesbian'" has me dead
Sir that has the lesbian ex-wife, THANK YOU. You are an awesome dude, bro! I know it’s easy to say when it’s not our life, but not a lot of men reacts this way. I know people that completely blocked people from their life after and i think it is very sad
i think some of you need to realize that trauma can suppress things for a really long time! she seemed to have loved hunter as a friend and respect him as a person, so i dont think she had any ill intent on being with him for so long
12 years should be criminal, you cannot love another person and hide something like that for 12 years if you are not a psychopath or a master manipulator💀
There are tons of reasons marriages end, sometimes marriages that last even longer than 12 years end. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Sexuality is a spectrum and can be fluid and shift over time. The only constant in life is change!
Ill intent or not 12 Years and giggling about it on her end is mad disrespectful to the relationship. Them staying friends just serves as a reminder of what was... better man than me
Continuing a marriage for over a decade without revealing struggles with one's orientation is profoundly selfish, regardless of intent. One makes a commitment to truthful intimacy through marriage vows. Breaking that commitment denies a partner the agency to make fully informed decisions about their own life .She just wasted his time.
0:18 I don't think she meant it that way when she said she was thinking about it the other day😂...it simply crossed her mind not ignited passion as he seems to be feeling 😂
I love the variety of couples: - loving close friends with nothing but care in the space, - old lovers who lost their flare with some hurt in the mix for one of them, - awkward vibes with mixed messaging and coldness and rejection in the air.
HUNTER SWEET HUNTER.. there are no conversations to be had lol. She won't change, unless she wants to. But it seems in this period of her life leaving the door open is her forte. And the statement "I feel like you've never held me accountable" NO ONE needs to hold you accountable but your damn self. Heal before you hurt others
hunter is so pure. he is so amazing to her and is so supportive of everything she does. they were probably a great couple and i hope they continue to be friends for life. ❤️
"freakin love you bro" tf is that after all that time together especially married for that much time... Geez stay strong my brother Hunter, can feel the emotions even just looking at his leg always moving nervously and that forced shaky laugh this shit hits hard
They seem pretty well adjusted and like very good friends. Look at the way they support one another unconditionally and without judgment. That’s indicative of a deep love, mutual respect, and quiet content confidence. Stimming is not necessarily a sign of distress. Millions of people have ADHD.
@@mishlake1look at his legs bruh, the only one truly anxious at that time is him. Not throwing shade at the lady, but people hide feelings. Hes hurt, and that's okay.
if i were hunter i dont know how to ever get out of this like the shock that the person i always loved for my whole life actually never loved me.. and were just forced themselves to do that like.. i am happy for them they found out about it but like kind of like heartbroken they had to go through this and then heartbroken for myself bc like 7-8 years is just too long i cant get over it like easily at all like maybe more than 3 years
Some of y’all are either A) too privileged about the environment you were raised in to realize or B) too young to realize that coming out was (and in some places still is) HARD and it’s almost demanded to repress those emotions to the point where you just kind of live in the illusion. She didn’t intentionally hurt him and that’s why they still support each other. The amount of shade being thrown at Stephanie is so sad. That situation wasn’t easy for either of them but they clearly weren’t unhappy. It just came to the point where she needed to do something else. They both deserve what will make them truly happy for the remainder of their lives. Also, in fairness, if it hurts Hunter too much to be friends with her then he’s causing himself that pain by not cutting the ties. My best to them both because the pain of love is terrible. While I’m at it, Ryle deserves better and Zanay can literally see herself out of the room and take several seats in whatever room she lands in. Who THE FUCK keeps “on and off” people in their life when they’re happily with someone? Being friends with an ex, where it’s CLEARLY over, is one thing. Being friends with someone you fuck every other hour, WHILE YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE, is shit. Bye. And don’t get me started on this Donovan situation. This video was a lot.
Headband was entertaining boundary crossing men and introducing them to their partner, WIIIILD. Rile deserves better. Surprise polyamory sounds a lot like......Cheating. And Hunter and Stephanie clearly had a lot of love and made the best of an unfortunate situation
My parents divorced after 25 years recently due to my mom coming to terms with her sexuality as a lesbian. I empathize with hunter and Stephanie so much. Stephanie said that she was born into a controlling religion, and so was my mom (Mormonism). I’m so happy they were able to be kind to each other after such a heartbreaking separation, my parents were not as understanding as them. I wish them the best of luck in life
8:31 LOL THE PULLBACK GAVE ME THE WORST SECOND HAND EMBARRASSMENT OF MY LIFE 9:03 the fact that they had to stop themselves sent me I’m sorry 😭 THIS WAS A GREAT EPISODE ❤❤❤❤
I would much rather be broken up with because someone finally came to terms with their genuine sexuality than for any other reason. Y’all realize that sometimes people get 9 years in and just decide they hate you, right? 😅 as it is, neither of them did anything wrong and they can stay friends
@@alaskarose4478 well, I’m friends with nearly all of mine. I thought they were cool people who I respected prior to dating them, and still feel that way after - the fact that the romantic relationship didn’t work out is no reason to lose the friendship. These relationships all ended amicably; we basically were friends, escalated to dating, then deescalated to being friends again 🤷🏻♂️
i hipe hunter is doing well i cant even imagine how he feels right now. the women who made him who he is, the women he dreams about. I send love for that soldier good luck to him
I feel kinda bad for hunter though. I'm probably wrong but it seems like he's happy they're friends but it definitely fucked him up. I understand that he's happy for her, but if he could turn back time, I'm sure he would. I know I would.
Being married for 9 years and then suddenly "realising" that you are a lesbian is wild. Hopefully both of them are doing well now that it's sorted out.
I know a woman (she's actually a close friend) who has been a lesbian since I've known her. One day summer of 2022 I got a text from her speaking of her current bf. I just rolled with it. Later that year she explained a lot of child abuse and trauma had left her confused for the majority of her life. 😢 I honestly believe this (& the opposite) happens to a lot of us. All we can do is just love and support them! 💜
That’s insane to not come to terms with not being sexually attracted to men after being in a relationship with a man for 3 years then married for 9!! Glad she stopped denying her sexuality
And then the existential dread of wasting like 1/6th of both of your lives is absolutely awful for both of them. I hope they find happiness as time goes on because despite smiles there has to be so much to unpack with that for years.
@@thedeepend6407but she did it by choice. He was dragged into it. Sorting your sexuality is on you and you alone and take as much time as you need..but bringing others into this is awful. I know its difficult for her too but deceiving someone else for your hurt is just so selfish.
@@zkart8038not a great take here… the role that trauma can play here is massive and can play a massive part in identifying your own sexuality, I doubt that he was dragged in ‘by her choice’. Calling her selfish is not the play. Not to speculate here but I doubt she realised her sexuality untill recently, and then decided to end the relationship, which I would say is pretty brave knowing that it would cause pain but is ultimately for the best. Obviously we don’t know what happened but I think branding this as selfish probably isn’t correct.
@@willparkes3525 And I feel like calling it a waste misses out on so much of what their relationship probably is (and I say probably because there's only so much speculation an internet-stranger can do). Even if they weren't sexually compatible, they had each other's companionship and care for 12 years. They look like good friends now, and that friendship developed over the course of their relationship, and they still have that relationship today.
This was wholesome. It’s refreshing to see two people who spend years together choosing to be kind, open, honest and supportive of one another. Meanwhile my ex and I don’t talk 🥲
Hunter is such a top tier human being nothing but supportive of the person he loves despite things changing in all terrible ways for him. He is stronger than most of us could ever be and he deserves so much happiness
Honestly 👍🏿 I respect him for that and I respect her for taking care of figuring out her sexuality
@@Superbatmanbro How can you have any respect for a person that lead another person without their consent for 12 years? What is your reasoning? Game is game?💀
@@jimmartin4912 The information you have is that she told him right after she figured it out. Saying she led him is just you assuming something you have no way to know.
Stop trying to infer things you don't know about people you don't know.
@jimmartin6803 what I meant is that he's supportive of her,but It is also F up to string him along and wasted his time and mental health. I think the part that hurts a lot is finding out she didn't really love him for 12 years 💔
@@rodrigoandrade256 Okay so when you find a relationship you will understand that it does not take more that a year at most of romantic interactions in order to understand if you have no sexual attraction for the other person. So you can endlessly cope that she figured it out 12 years later and call what I said an assumption or you can engage sincerely with the argument and admit that she most likely led him on for a very long time without his knowledge and consent.
Donovan should’ve had a seat at the table considering the number of times his name was mentioned 😂
yo homie was NOT fucking with Donovan at all lol
Jonathan had him in his back pocket and jumped into the next thing right away.
is donovan in the room with us
He's the reason
He was salty haha
"we were just drifting apart" is a boldddd statement from someone who surprised their partner with "surprise polyamory"
fellas if all parties arent consenting to a poly relationship, then thats not a poly relationship, thats just cheating
Didn’t he say it turned from an open relationship to a surprise poly? Sounds like catching feelings and not cheating to me..
I think he just wanted to be private about it, but yeah, definitely more than that...
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@@keelienneif they agreed to an open relationship and it was something else, yes cheating. An open relationships means you can mess around, he started a new relationship with someone else. Yes, cheating.
Fellas?
Bandanna girl is not mature enough for an actual relationship. She’s just dragging people into an inevitable heartbreak for people who think they’re getting something beyond friends with benefits.
real
Exactly 7:51 what do you mean “you never held me accountable”. Hold yourself accountable!!!
She belongs to the streets!
RIGHTTT !!!
Odd because imo he’s way outta her league (nh)
What a gem of a man is Hunter. It takes a real man to deal with such situation with empathy and understanding. My man is a true catch
Lord knows I wouldn’t
Donovan been in there PLOTTING 😂
😂
in donovan in the room with us
Damn I hope Hunter finds someone who loves him just as much.
She pretty much wasted a decade of his life .
@@Psychedelic430she didn’t know she was a lesbian and probably had heterosexual tendencies. Don’t be weird u don’t know their full situation. And to say she wasted his life when he never implied that is so entitled
I've known him since middle school he's always been a good guy always got along with everyone. He deserves better than to be kept as a placeholder.
@@RahinSomaliREACT again she didn't
@@RahinSomaliREACT maybe she didnt know? also, with that thinking she wasted a decade too... dont be that one sided
Rile is blinded!!! Zana has guys who are “checking in” during the relationship. And to top it off she’s introducing him to them. Why would you wanna get back with her?
Also shes hit... he can do much better. She built like Jabba the hutt.
Duuuude this ! especially it pissed me off bc its very VISIBLE that he is KIND extremely understanding and very Attractive individual and she runs over him like that "checking in " sh*t she would NEVER get away wit that Ho* sh*t with a Man that would NEVER understand her doing that sh*t , not ok at all he deserves the best !
Introducing your partner to people you've slept with without them knowing deserves jail time. Argue with your mother. Everyone is at fault here, though. The guys "checking in," jail. Rile is a grown ass man and doesn't realize a girl telling you "you didn't hold me accountable" means she knew she was disrespecting you and continued to because you allowed it. Ding, ding, ding, Rile has won himself, JAIL!
shes a shit gf
Also she looks a lot like bobby lee
“You never held me accountable” hold yourself accountable
''It's your fault, for letting me cheat on you without protesting''
yeah wtf was that???? So immature of her 😕
What a perfect storm of hot mess. She won't hold herself accountable and he has low self-esteem. I hope he can dig deep and work on himself to gain more confidence and leave her in the dust. for good!
Yeah like that’s the whole point of maturing?? What does she mean “you never held me accountable”
This!! Hold yourself accountable is the thing!!!
The girl with the headscarf has the most treacherous vibes. Her ex-mans needs to run while he can.
Why?
She seems like the type that's avoidant and insecure so she uses having so many "options" as a way to maintain distance. I feel so bad for the guy he deserves all the love!
they dont match and they will never do ... poor guy, his soo naive🤦♀️
Headband girl is a hot mess. Riley (name?) is attractive but needs to build up his confidence and find a woman who respects him. She will keep partying and treating him bad their entire lives. He deserves better and she deserves therapy and maybe a little rehab.
To each they own but blonde dude can do better and deserves better , his ex is not ready for commitment period point blank she seems like a serial dater
his ex using love potions lmaoooo
fr
Agreed! He can do so much better!!!!
I’m glad hunter and this ex are still young. 12 years is a lotttt but they’ll have many years to experiment and be happy
Blond and head band: most ill-matched couple in history.
Was wondering if anyone else felt that way
She’s not into him at all , she has other guys Checking In during their relationship. Bro dodged a bullet .
The guy looks like a Calvin Klein model, I'm surprised she dumped him.
Seriously. He could do way better… I hope levels up 10x his next relationship.
Yeah he's dorky but beautiful. She is.... nevermind.@@fitzyman4552
blonde guy was done dirty af
I feel bad for Hunter
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@@user-eu6wp6ws7cDoesn't change blondie was done dirty.
@DChris3 that's overkill, she wasn't a good girlfriend but to describe her as a beast is fucked up
@@kaylajoyner8428 Oh, when I say "hideous beast" I don't just mean her quality as a girlfriend, I also mean her spiritual and physical presence...she is repulsive on both the metaphysical and physical planes. And that much is clear to any man imagining himself in the situation that poor dude was in: being intimately tied in a relationship with such a person 😂
Gonna let the comments marinate and come back
The takes are gonna be wild..
LMAO REAL
LMFAO SAME
YESS THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING
This.
I love how Hunter and Stephanie are in complete understanding of one another, it's beautiful to watch. There is no resentment or manipulation. Shows they really went through quite some stuff.
That’s what unconditional love looks like. Whether together or apart there’s still love and happiness to be shared.
1) They're on camera
2) You don't know what's going on internally. There could be loads of resentment, doesn't mean they need to hate each other.
yeah but the point is they genuinely care for one another and make each other feel heard. you can't fake having that open connection with someone. people can sense when you're suppressing emotions, and imo they clearly have a space where both of them can express themselves. but you're right, I don't know for sure. and I'm sure they are having their fair share of arguments and obstacles too.@@theprousteffect9717
We have no idea what they feel off-camera.
Or he’s just a really cool guy lol
7:52 What do you mean that he never held you accountable?! Each person in a relationship should keep themselves accountable to make a relationship last. Don't put it on the other person.
How can you have past guys checking in while your in a relationship , and then introduced them to your man without tell him about them and then say you never held me accountable? Wild. She’s a crimson flag for me 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
She's so revolting physically and metaphysically it's kinda nuts that poor guy was simping that hard 😂
I took it as her agreeing that he loved her more to a fault. I think she was saying he probably should’ve been less understanding for certain things. He might’ve been the type to let things slide a lot. I don’t know though, just offering my perspective. We aren’t in their relationship so who knows lol
Here’s an example I yell at you for not locking the door at night and I berate you for it and say things I shouldn’t say. You don’t stand up for yourself and say anything back you don’t have backbone and just let me walk all over you. I should hold you accountable by telling I felt disrespected instead of fearing confrontation even though I was wrong.
My god, the last kiss killed me. How were these people in a relationship lmao
Grossed me out 😆🙅♀️
No like I was looking for this comment the face I made from cringing lmfao it was so gross to watch
Hunter deserves someone who can reciprocate the big amount of love he has in his heart, to him.
guys like that. Get shit on!
I'm talking from experience!
Hunter is one of my best friends irl and this video doesn't remotely scratch the surface of what a truly amazing human being he is.
Hard agree.
No, he's MY best friend! jk love you Char
@@inthemossandsand Hi Dani! Miss you and hope you’re doing good! Come to CT and hang soon!
@@danmoretti8898I love the lovefest that’s happening on this thread, miss both of you lovelies!
@@eattofuholmes Hey Char! I know we'll be out there once we're in a better spot with jobs. There's nothing like a northeastern autumn
Hunter loves her so much and my heart just aches for him. His energy was so sore, as though he was about to burst into tears at any moment. Respect to both of them. Hunter, i hope you find someone who loves you just as much and i frikken love you bro.
That bandana girl gave me such bad vibes. Also, Donovan was definitely in that breakup equation.
The girl with the scarf on her head is giving not into him frfr vibes
She’s pretending nit to be so she can have all the power in the relationship
Headband lady and that guy.... Sir please don't waste your time and find a loving and devoted partner for yourself. There is a better match for you out there.
Felt so bad for him
And looking as good as him
FR does anyone have his @
Bandanna girl acting like she's the prize. Damn, I wish I had this self conffidence. He's too good for her.
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I feel for Hunter. Being robbed for 12 years is a long time, but also considering the likely suffering and brainwashing Stephanie experienced, and finally coming ṭo terms with her sexuality, is a good thing. Im happy they can maintain a strong, supportive friendship. Wishing the best for both of them!
I think she figured out in the first year or so and then she was just not ready to act like an adult and not waste another 11 years of their lives, unfortunately...
wtf thats horrible @@jimmartin4912
@@liva8522 Yeah but that still doesn't change the fact that he could have fostered a real loving relationship with another person that truly loved him, because the fact that he probably had a good time doesn't erase the fact that she manipulated the f out of him for 12 years
You are accusing her of a very cruel thing, based on a couple of clips...
You're not robbed of your time after a breakup, what kind of weird take is that.
How did Hunter even agree to this 🥺
ong that girl was bsing about the lesb thing she just needed an extreme excuse cuz they were together 4 so long
@@Hinksmn how do you know? Are you in her head? NO
@@Hinksmn what are you even saying
@@khadijahbegum3546 look at her mannerisms how can u be that checked out on a man that only loved you and didn’t cheat? She just didn’t want to be w him
@@HinksmnWhen did they discuss whether he cheated or not 🤔
I must've missed that part.
I wanna see what Donovan looks like now and hear his side
is donovan in the room with us
The divorced couple are so sweet! It's obvious how much they care about each other and are probably supportive friends. That situation could have been super messy and hurtful, but it seems like they both chose to be mature and kind.
Hunter looks so broken. 12 years is a lot!
12 years is insane
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A cause d'elle qui n'assume pas sont homosexualité plus tôt elle lui a fait perdre 12 ans de sa vie. Il mérite pas ça.
Plenty of marriages end after 12 years for all kinds reasons. It can be sad but sometimes it’s amicable. The only constant in life is change.
@@jillsarah7356 Stay at boyfriend and girlfriend . 12 years means nothing to saying that you vow to be there sickness and health ignant
I feel so bad for both Hunter and Stephanie. But especially my man Hunter. He was literally shaking and trying so hard to keep it together. Idk if I'd be able to keep it together as well as he did.
Did we watch the same video?
Ryal ‘I hope I spelled it correctly’ seems to be the sweetest guy. Where can I get in line? I’d spoil the heck out of him.
Haha my thoughts exactly
omg fr he is way out of that girls league...
Yea go get him Queens and show my boy how it feels to really be loved and treated like a King🏆🫶🏾
Seriously though he deserves the world 😩 Rile of your reading this hmu if this is shot in LA, it is not far from me 😉
@@mercygirl317I didn't get that at all. I thought he wanted her back, and she had zero interest in him. They seemed so oddly matched, and she seemed so disinterested that it's hard to imagine they were together.
bro hates donovan 😂
He should hate his ex
Blonde guy is wayyyyyy too sweet and genuine for that kinda girl. He deserves so much better, if only he saw it in himself!
Blonde dude was taken for a ride and she’s manipulating him. Saw them on another video and you can tell he liked her more than she like him.
Keeping someone’s toothbrush just in case other guys stop checking in , I don’t think she likes him at all
Do u remember which video?
Yeah! I wanna know too! Thought they looked familiar 🤔
I actually thought he is out of her league. He can do better than her
What was the other video?
i feel so bad for rile. he is so attractive and deserves so much better
This might've been the first tough to watch cut video I've ever seen.
Oh believe me, there are a lot of hard watches between ex's and crushes.
You haven't watched many then.
@@johannabonana5306 usually I can watch them well enough but this one seemed different 😂
There was a similar video years ago
7:52 “I feel like you never held me accountable” girl….. IKYFL…is he your parent? Hold yourself accountable holy shit.
Right?! like wtf does she mean? lol
LITERALLY! I was going to say the same damn thing. Her actions are HER own choice. Ain't nothing anyone can do about it. When people like this do the blame game .. YAK
Nah i get it, she can hold herself accountable all she wants to, but even when trying to explain it to her partner and preparing for the rightful backlash, he seems like he doesnt have enough self esteem to feel comfortable getting angry or holding her accountable. So shes just kinda left in this limbo of guilt and confusion and never really figuring out whats going wrong bc he wont tell her what he needs
@@ItsRaevie I understand why you are trying to play devils advocate. She’s old enough to know that actions have consequences and affect people. So when people project their insecurities on to others, that is never right.
But she knows what's going on. At this age. we don't have that excuse. All I’m saying is she needs to hold herself accountable for Her actions. No one else will. And that is not anyones job to tell a person how they should act.
That kiss made me physically recoil and say “ew”. You know which kiss I’m talking about.
I clicked like, but I wonder still if we're talking about the same one?
@@1cosmicdebriswe are. We definitely are.
Stephanie and Hunter are both really amazing, brave, strong, kind people. I'm extremely proud of them and the way they've navigated their journeys
My mom came out after 18 years with my dad. They're mature and my dad is very understanding that my mom was confused and scared. There is no bad blood. My mom has love for my dad always, they just weren't a romantic fit. These comments are INSANE. not everyone holds grudges and some people are understanding of others.
Bieng understanding of others is different from bieng upset/depressed.At the end of the day just like if you knew something was going to end your marriage but you weren't brave enough to tell its well within someone's rights to be upset/upset.The problem isn't her bieng a lesbian the problem wad the fact she couldn't be honest with herself and have to guts to tell hunter sooner.
People will never have empathy for queer people
I don't understand not telling the man he's biting your lip too hard the first, second or third time. Ma'am.
“surprise polyamory” jfc
which couple said that?
3:03
I think that's called cheating 💀
That’s EXACTLY what I said when I heard him say that. Bro was done DIRTY. So sad 😢
Literally felt this HARD 🥲 my ex did this to me; so I said "✌️"
The red head guy really has deep love for his ex you can tell. I hate getting into a situationship with someone who still has ex's and fwb around them tho...gives me anxiety
Hunter is definitely the type of dude a lesbian would date though.
He’s exactly like Ross from friends😂
The REDDEST of flags. And you know exactly who I’m talking about.
Stephanies voice makes me melt... its a good voice
1:17 the comma between lesbian and hunter is working HARD
9:28 that is the nod of a no
that "kissing you was electric, it changed my life" actually changed MY life. what a beautiful thing to say to somebody. i wish him so much love and prosperity
Hahaha, that intro gave me second-hand embarrassment...
"You never held me accountable." Why is that his responsibility? How about you hold yourself accountable for your own actions.
Oh Hunter 🥺I think he’s in such a state of pain and is at a point where it just can’t get any worse. So just let it be. He’s not resentful or hateful, he’s just supportive and appears to be coasting.
Trying to keep it together. I applaud him in trying and putting himself out there.
Not an easy feat in the least. And not one ☝🏽1 person in their right mind would fault this man for being pissed off, but here he is just keeping calm and carrying on.
Hope he’s blessed with a genuine, beautiful & passionate relationship in the future.
They both deserve that.
"I freaking love you bro" lmao you were married for 12 years
You can tell he is trying so hard to be supportive and lift her up by not weighing her down with his sadness and heartache. He’s such a good dude (from what we can see) prioritizing her happiness and comfort in her sexuality despite still being so in love with her. Poor guy was shaking like a leaf and trying so hard to keep it together, I wish the best for him honestly.
She’s fucking insane lmao
"I felt like you never held me accountable" is legit gaslighting 101
The guy with the yellow jacket is way out of her league, cant believe she broke up with him. Anyways for the best as she seems to be carrying a lot of baggage he will find someone better so easily
I thought I was the only one thinking that he’s super cute 😌
lol right she is not cute at all how is she even capable of breaking someone’s heart 😂
i was gonna say "damn why did stephanie and hunter break up, they were together for 12 years and they seem to still be really chill and compatible" and then she said she was a lesbian and i was like "ah, yep, thats why" lmao, i rly hope hunter finds the perfect person for him
all their answers to their questions are fucking hilarious "hunters been knee deep in pussy" "when did you know the relationship was doomed" "when you said 'i think im a lesbian'" has me dead
My exact thoughts 😂😂😂
Sir that has the lesbian ex-wife, THANK YOU. You are an awesome dude, bro! I know it’s easy to say when it’s not our life, but not a lot of men reacts this way. I know people that completely blocked people from their life after and i think it is very sad
i think some of you need to realize that trauma can suppress things for a really long time! she seemed to have loved hunter as a friend and respect him as a person, so i dont think she had any ill intent on being with him for so long
12 years should be criminal, you cannot love another person and hide something like that for 12 years if you are not a psychopath or a master manipulator💀
There are tons of reasons marriages end, sometimes marriages that last even longer than 12 years end. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Sexuality is a spectrum and can be fluid and shift over time. The only constant in life is change!
you sound so closeminded, it's strange. Think past your forehead. @@jimmartin4912
Ill intent or not 12 Years and giggling about it on her end is mad disrespectful to the relationship. Them staying friends just serves as a reminder of what was... better man than me
Continuing a marriage for over a decade without revealing struggles with one's orientation is profoundly selfish, regardless of intent. One makes a commitment to truthful intimacy through marriage vows. Breaking that commitment denies a partner the agency to make fully informed decisions about their own life .She just wasted his time.
*“What can I do to improve in bed?”*
*“You should vacuum more…”*
The way he said it in such dry manner made me question if this was a sex joke or literally the case of: "Gurl, clean your nasty flat!"
Isn't vacuum a term for how you bj?
hunter seems like such a nice guy, i hope he finds someone good!!
I feel terrible for the blonde guy. She didn't deserve him at all.
0:18 I don't think she meant it that way when she said she was thinking about it the other day😂...it simply crossed her mind not ignited passion as he seems to be feeling 😂
I loved seeing friendship and support between Stephanie and Hunter.
Hunter is still in love with his ex. And blonde guy and scarf girl is confusing me
Man hunter is a good guy he deserves the best.
I love the variety of couples:
- loving close friends with nothing but care in the space,
- old lovers who lost their flare with some hurt in the mix for one of them,
- awkward vibes with mixed messaging and coldness and rejection in the air.
Brian mentioning Donovan in all his answers is cracking me up lol
Kinda feel bad for my guy Hunter
Bandana girl is a menace to society LMFAOOO
Bless Hunter, he is fighting not to cry and lose his tempter there and then. He still desperately loves her.
HUNTER SWEET HUNTER.. there are no conversations to be had lol. She won't change, unless she wants to. But it seems in this period of her life leaving the door open is her forte.
And the statement "I feel like you've never held me accountable" NO ONE needs to hold you accountable but your damn self. Heal before you hurt others
12 years is criminal and wasted so much of his life when he thought it was forever that’s just so sad…
Donovan needs to come to the stand
Not her practically pushing his head away after the kiss 💀💀💀
Yeah what the fuck was that? Lol. Dude can do so much better than her in so many ways.
hunter is so pure. he is so amazing to her and is so supportive of everything she does. they were probably a great couple and i hope they continue to be friends for life. ❤️
Dappin Up Your Eskimo Brother Without Know Is Crazy!!
"freakin love you bro" tf is that after all that time together especially married for that much time... Geez stay strong my brother Hunter, can feel the emotions even just looking at his leg always moving nervously and that forced shaky laugh this shit hits hard
They seem pretty well adjusted and like very good friends. Look at the way they support one another unconditionally and without judgment. That’s indicative of a deep love, mutual respect, and quiet content confidence. Stimming is not necessarily a sign of distress. Millions of people have ADHD.
@@mishlake1look at his legs bruh, the only one truly anxious at that time is him.
Not throwing shade at the lady, but people hide feelings. Hes hurt, and that's okay.
if i were hunter i dont know how to ever get out of this like the shock that the person i always loved for my whole life actually never loved me.. and were just forced themselves to do that like.. i am happy for them they found out about it but like kind of like heartbroken they had to go through this and then heartbroken for myself bc like 7-8 years is just too long i cant get over it like easily at all like maybe more than 3 years
Some of y’all are either A) too privileged about the environment you were raised in to realize or B) too young to realize that coming out was (and in some places still is) HARD and it’s almost demanded to repress those emotions to the point where you just kind of live in the illusion. She didn’t intentionally hurt him and that’s why they still support each other. The amount of shade being thrown at Stephanie is so sad. That situation wasn’t easy for either of them but they clearly weren’t unhappy. It just came to the point where she needed to do something else. They both deserve what will make them truly happy for the remainder of their lives. Also, in fairness, if it hurts Hunter too much to be friends with her then he’s causing himself that pain by not cutting the ties. My best to them both because the pain of love is terrible.
While I’m at it, Ryle deserves better and Zanay can literally see herself out of the room and take several seats in whatever room she lands in. Who THE FUCK keeps “on and off” people in their life when they’re happily with someone? Being friends with an ex, where it’s CLEARLY over, is one thing. Being friends with someone you fuck every other hour, WHILE YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE, is shit. Bye. And don’t get me started on this Donovan situation. This video was a lot.
they don’t need to have anymore discussion or conversation . they should not get back together 😂😂
Headband was entertaining boundary crossing men and introducing them to their partner, WIIIILD. Rile deserves better.
Surprise polyamory sounds a lot like......Cheating.
And Hunter and Stephanie clearly had a lot of love and made the best of an unfortunate situation
My parents divorced after 25 years recently due to my mom coming to terms with her sexuality as a lesbian. I empathize with hunter and Stephanie so much. Stephanie said that she was born into a controlling religion, and so was my mom (Mormonism). I’m so happy they were able to be kind to each other after such a heartbreaking separation, my parents were not as understanding as them. I wish them the best of luck in life
Brian, Hunter and Ryle seem like absolute sweethearts!
Also Ryle is extremely handsome, what is he doing chasing that!?
8:31 LOL THE PULLBACK GAVE ME THE WORST SECOND HAND EMBARRASSMENT OF MY LIFE
9:03 the fact that they had to stop themselves sent me I’m sorry 😭
THIS WAS A GREAT EPISODE ❤❤❤❤
Please have an episode of Donovan telling his side of the story. I just want to see this guy after hearing so much bout him
I love how you can hear it as ''Im a lesbian, Hunter.'' or ''Im a lesbian hunter.'' xddd
You guys are fucked up for doing this 😂
I would much rather be broken up with because someone finally came to terms with their genuine sexuality than for any other reason. Y’all realize that sometimes people get 9 years in and just decide they hate you, right? 😅 as it is, neither of them did anything wrong and they can stay friends
Why would anyone be friends with an ex?
@@alaskarose4478 well, I’m friends with nearly all of mine. I thought they were cool people who I respected prior to dating them, and still feel that way after - the fact that the romantic relationship didn’t work out is no reason to lose the friendship. These relationships all ended amicably; we basically were friends, escalated to dating, then deescalated to being friends again 🤷🏻♂️
Ryle, do not take her back. She is WRONG. A genuine person will not treat you this way.
i hipe hunter is doing well i cant even imagine how he feels right now. the women who made him who he is, the women he dreams about. I send love for that soldier good luck to him
"I realised im a lesbian" 😂
Props to Hunter for getting after it👏🏽
the weird al lookin guy is still hurting...he thought he found the one
I feel kinda bad for hunter though. I'm probably wrong but it seems like he's happy they're friends but it definitely fucked him up. I understand that he's happy for her, but if he could turn back time, I'm sure he would. I know I would.
Being married for 9 years and then suddenly "realising" that you are a lesbian is wild. Hopefully both of them are doing well now that it's sorted out.
yeah honestly i cant imagine the pain from her ex partner like i’m sure he’s doing okay now but that’s such a heartbreak
It’s a fear of mine that a partner would say that to me after so long
What a wast of time and life
I know a woman (she's actually a close friend) who has been a lesbian since I've known her. One day summer of 2022 I got a text from her speaking of her current bf. I just rolled with it. Later that year she explained a lot of child abuse and trauma had left her confused for the majority of her life. 😢 I honestly believe this (& the opposite) happens to a lot of us. All we can do is just love and support them! 💜
i don't think she suddenly realized it but that she always knew and was in denial.
Hunter is a straight up babe, ijs. They both seem to have the most genuine friendship after the fact too and I'm glad for them.
That’s insane to not come to terms with not being sexually attracted to men after being in a relationship with a man for 3 years then married for 9!! Glad she stopped denying her sexuality
And then the existential dread of wasting like 1/6th of both of your lives is absolutely awful for both of them. I hope they find happiness as time goes on because despite smiles there has to be so much to unpack with that for years.
Moral of the story…. Religion is fukt up and toxic
@@thedeepend6407but she did it by choice. He was dragged into it.
Sorting your sexuality is on you and you alone and take as much time as you need..but bringing others into this is awful. I know its difficult for her too but deceiving someone else for your hurt is just so selfish.
@@zkart8038not a great take here… the role that trauma can play here is massive and can play a massive part in identifying your own sexuality, I doubt that he was dragged in ‘by her choice’. Calling her selfish is not the play. Not to speculate here but I doubt she realised her sexuality untill recently, and then decided to end the relationship, which I would say is pretty brave knowing that it would cause pain but is ultimately for the best. Obviously we don’t know what happened but I think branding this as selfish probably isn’t correct.
@@willparkes3525 And I feel like calling it a waste misses out on so much of what their relationship probably is (and I say probably because there's only so much speculation an internet-stranger can do). Even if they weren't sexually compatible, they had each other's companionship and care for 12 years. They look like good friends now, and that friendship developed over the course of their relationship, and they still have that relationship today.
This was wholesome. It’s refreshing to see two people who spend years together choosing to be kind, open, honest and supportive of one another. Meanwhile my ex and I don’t talk 🥲
Donavan really wrecked it