How SpongeBob Reframes Masculinity

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024

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  • @peridrawland5955
    @peridrawland5955 3 месяца назад +583

    Squidward slamming the pizza on the customer's face after both seeing how distraught Spongebob was by the customer's response, and also considering how much both of them went through just to deliver it, gives such a sense of empathetic comradery, even lying to Spongebob implying the customer did accept and enjoy it in the end since he kniows that would make him happy, these very spare moments of a bond between them are so amazing, which I notice sparingly happen only or mostly in earlier seasons

    • @loganwolverine5849
      @loganwolverine5849 3 месяца назад +5

      This is so common, there’s even a theory that squidward is actually SpongeBob’s autistic guardian.

    • @JamesnLollify
      @JamesnLollify 3 месяца назад +20

      Yeah, I miss when Squidward didn't just entirely hate SpongeBob

    • @kolorfriend
      @kolorfriend 3 месяца назад +3

      They work together and get along quite a bit in newer episodes

    • @borntoclimb7116
      @borntoclimb7116 2 месяца назад

      That was an awesome moment

    • @flateningflush
      @flateningflush Месяц назад

      My favorite moments are when Squidward is sympathetic to SpongeBob. Dying for pie is one of my favorite episodes for that reason

  • @DoubleHCreations
    @DoubleHCreations 3 месяца назад +317

    I always love just how realistic his emotions are in those early seasons. He never tries to suppress his emotions or pretend like everything is perfectly fine when it isn’t, and I really like that about him.

  • @ursidae97
    @ursidae97 3 месяца назад +752

    SpongeBob crying always breaks my heart. It never feels fake or insincere. I must protect him.

    • @maxncheese5216
      @maxncheese5216 3 месяца назад +81

      Squidward standing up to the customer for spongebob in the pizza episode always makes me a bit choked up😭

    • @heiress.
      @heiress. 3 месяца назад +18

      That’s why I have a hard time watching the Bully/ Flats.

    • @leonardorosa8711
      @leonardorosa8711 3 месяца назад +8

      Sad Spongebob breaks the spirit of any person

    • @bellrose2659
      @bellrose2659 3 месяца назад +12

      He’s just a little guy

    • @manletopia4801
      @manletopia4801 3 месяца назад

      @@bellrose2659 ?

  • @princembat
    @princembat 3 месяца назад +181

    i wanna be masculine in the way spongebob is masculine dang

    • @HateItHere.
      @HateItHere. 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@0o0ooo0o0oo0You're cringe.

    • @princembat
      @princembat 3 месяца назад +13

      @@0o0ooo0o0oo0 youre calling spongebob cringe? i feel bad for you

    • @cythulhubuthebegamin4902
      @cythulhubuthebegamin4902 3 месяца назад +6

      I have been saying this for years, I feel so validated

    • @sallysart7286
      @sallysart7286 3 месяца назад +10

      @@Dempsey1873 spongebob wouldnt like the way ur acting. be ashamed. spongebob looks down on you

    • @princembat
      @princembat 3 месяца назад +10

      @@Dempsey1873 start by having proper grammar LMAOOO. spongebob would not be queerphobic lol have you seen him

  • @leonardorosa8711
    @leonardorosa8711 3 месяца назад +452

    i always thought Spongebob was an example of how people should behave socially, not only on the attitude but how to enjoy things with no shame

  • @cd7677
    @cd7677 3 месяца назад +76

    Weirdly deep analysis of spunchbop psychology, i didn't realized how grounded and defined his character was

  • @easkateman
    @easkateman 3 месяца назад +98

    this show helped me grow up and deal with my emotions, in the 'tough american midwest'
    you would often have to defend your tears, a lot

    • @NateS917
      @NateS917 3 месяца назад +1

      How tough can the Midwest be?

  • @dabatman5187
    @dabatman5187 3 месяца назад +99

    I kinda feel like as the show went on, it joked more about SpongeBob crying, main example I think of being SpongeBob You’re Fired

  • @DavidHernandez-sd4on
    @DavidHernandez-sd4on 3 месяца назад +116

    IM A GOOFY GOOBER!

  • @CheeseScript
    @CheeseScript 3 месяца назад +138

    Wow, normally I don't say this because everyone else does it, but this is very underrated. Keep up the great work!

  • @MisterCatBear
    @MisterCatBear 3 месяца назад +63

    I never considered the concepts of masculinity or the subversion of it within SpongeBob, super insightful content and well put!

    • @serenegenerally
      @serenegenerally 2 месяца назад

      No same, I’m just realizing it now too

  • @impossiblelobster
    @impossiblelobster 3 месяца назад +31

    I unironically consider (early) SpongeBob to be one of my role-models.

    • @Mister_Oddity
      @Mister_Oddity 2 месяца назад +7

      dude honestly feels real despite being a yellow sponge with looney tunes powers

    • @impossiblelobster
      @impossiblelobster 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Mister_Oddity I totally get that and agree 100%

  • @willowleigh1786
    @willowleigh1786 3 месяца назад +16

    When squidward did his cruel rendition of a aprils fools prank that make spongebob cry, gets me everytime. Or when he experienced trauma and stayed inside with Chip, Penny and Tissue i felt that. Great insight. 🙂

  • @derpy_sauce
    @derpy_sauce 3 месяца назад +65

    It took me almost the whole video to realize this doesnt even have 200 views yet. This is well made and honestly a great video, i love this content

    • @hope-a-meeks
      @hope-a-meeks  3 месяца назад +4

      Aww thank you so much! Even 200 views is new for me, but I'm glad this video was able to reach people! :)

    • @yakkoindy
      @yakkoindy 3 месяца назад +3

      IT BLEW UP LIKE THIS IN ONLY TWO DAYS????

  • @brickhead9111
    @brickhead9111 3 месяца назад +48

    Amazing video! I’ve always really loved this underlying element throughout the show and I’m glad somebody talked about it in depth. There are quite a few “newer episodes” like “Blackened Sponge” or “BlackJack” that also focus on this idea and even more modern eps like “Larry’s Gym” continue to showcase it. SpongeBob’s lack of masculinity and subsequent femininity are both used as gags and as character material, post S1 there is a bit more of an ironic edge to the scenes of SB crying like you are supposed to be laughing at him but the message of the first movie is really sweet and powerful. Nice job!

  • @The_one_goblin
    @The_one_goblin 3 месяца назад +37

    Honestly a banger of a video. In a similar vein to this discussion, I think SpongeBob taught me how to be a person.
    SpongeBob was and to some extent still is my special interest. I also have low empathy brand of autism, but that doesn’t mean I don’t feel emotions at all. I think watching SpongeBob practically every day until I was like 12, seeing how these characters (and SpongeBob especially) acted and interacted with eachother and the world, I think that helped fill gaps in my personality that wouldn’t have been filled without it. Even if I don’t quite understand people and even if I still struggle to actually feel empathy, I know what it is and I know how to employ my own version of it. I know that sounds bad to say “I don’t feel empathy but I can pretend I do”, but it’s a lot deeper than I’m able to article.
    I look back on the show now that I know I’m trans. I love and appreciate how gender roles were treated, because it never installed a belief in binary gender roles into myself.
    Even if part of me strives for “traditional” masculinity, SpongeBob himself makes me feel comfortable in things like wearing skirts and makeup (though granted I only ever wear nail polish) and having “feminine” hobbies.
    SpongeBob to me is what I strive to be as not only a person, but specifically a man.
    And i really appreciate this analysis because it helps me realized a lot of this mini essay I just wrote. Thank you, and I hope you keep creating, this video was a delight :)

    • @Offline-117
      @Offline-117 3 месяца назад +3

      Hell yeah! ✊️

    • @goosegoose632
      @goosegoose632 Месяц назад

      I have the hyper empathy Autism and as much as it sucks sometimes, when my body starts to cry over random things that aren't harmful, I can just remind myself that Spongebob isn't afraid or embarrassed to cry in front of his friends or family, or even strangers, and that crying is okay :)

  • @_raydreamer
    @_raydreamer 2 месяца назад +7

    As a kid, the Grandma's kisses episode always struck a chord with me.
    I feared growing up because I was instilled with the idea that I would have to stop being a "weak kid".
    Spongebob breaking down at the end because he doesn't want to stop his childist behaviors still gets to me.

  • @wariolandgoldpiramid
    @wariolandgoldpiramid 3 месяца назад +20

    Once again, RUclips is recommending small, but great creators, and I'm really happy for that.
    Good work on this video, it was very nice.
    I don't personally have much to add, but it was really interesting tomjust hear this perspective in general.

  • @alexanderklepp
    @alexanderklepp 3 месяца назад +10

    This video really showed me why SpongeBob is one character that I found comfort in. Personally speaking, I like a lot of childish and feminine things, I cry a lot, I'm not extremely masculine so you can understand why I was drawn to him. Also, the way he tries to be more masculine but ultimately falls back to just being who he is really hits home with me as well. Of course, there's nothing wrong with trying to improve yourself if you want to but doing so because you want to fit in isn't the best thing to do. The movie really taught me that despite having a naive and childlike attitude, you can still accomplish something. I needed to hear that.

  • @JayBird-Depressed-Dreamer
    @JayBird-Depressed-Dreamer 3 месяца назад +22

    I love how SpongeBob never feels afraid to be vulnerable (at least in these early seasons, idk about later on I kinda blocked a lot of the newer seasons out-). Very good analysis, I think you explained everything well and it was easy to follow!

  • @BeamtheCat
    @BeamtheCat 3 месяца назад +2

    The SpongeBob crying compilation in the beginning actually made me cry too 😭

  • @marlieblue3944
    @marlieblue3944 2 месяца назад +2

    spongebob was always my favorite cartoon character as a kid. i was a crybaby and seeing a character like me that wasn't just the butt of every joke meant a lot to a kid who was picked on for wearing my heart on my sleeve. Live laugh spongebob

  • @Cardmaster12
    @Cardmaster12 3 месяца назад +13

    As an autistic person I often wish I had the ability to express my emotions to the level SpongeBob can, I wish people could just get how I feel. Something I’ve especially had to grapple with being born a guy and having since transitioned, I feel like society has basically conditioned me to assume when I’m sad people won’t care.
    I dunno, I could go deeper into this but don’t really want to. I absolutely loved this video though, really spoke to me in a lot of ways!

  • @degenerate-otaku6634
    @degenerate-otaku6634 3 месяца назад +15

    I think the animations of spongebob getting upset and crying just always feel so real, like when he's shaking and trying to hold it all in. This was a really interesting video, I've never had anyone analyse the show from this perspective!

  • @Doublesznn
    @Doublesznn 3 месяца назад +22

    I’m surprised this doesn’t have 100K views yet. Great stuff

  • @wallowlight
    @wallowlight 3 месяца назад +17

    0:41 stephen hillenburg never left the show, he kept producing episodes after the movie. just stepped down as show runner

    • @Mister_Sun.
      @Mister_Sun. 3 месяца назад +10

      he didn't produce seasons 4-9 he only came back after season 10

    • @wallowlight
      @wallowlight 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Mister_Sun. he literally said in a interview he still produced episodes. ruclips.net/user/clipUgkxgWQ0O1edbARaVi3M5mgxVlpla_Zq2TSr?si=m4dEkmsGTh7-Y5wu

    • @wallowlight
      @wallowlight 3 месяца назад +7

      @@Mister_Sun. he LITERALLY said in a interview he still produced episodes when tibbitt was showrunner. i can't link but watch the nerdist interview upload on Lost Coconut Archive's channel

  • @axolotlfairy2473
    @axolotlfairy2473 3 месяца назад +4

    ....listening to this as a transmasc who loved SpongeBob growing up is making me realize things about myself (in a good way)

  • @gottastoppo
    @gottastoppo 3 месяца назад +6

    I kind of realised that Spongebob gave me a very important lesson that I kind of had to shove away as the years went by: it's okay to cry, and you need it when you feel too many negative emotions to ease your emotional struggle.
    Yeah, I'm a girl, but people still judge me for being overly sensitive and that I used to cry a lot in the public until I've turned 18 and got severe anger issues, yay, I guess (to cope with it I used to tire myself with beating pillows up until my hands are tired).
    Also, gotta love the role reversal in any kind of relationships, where the man is more feminine, and the woman is more masculine, that works really well if done with care and limits, in my opinion. Like, Spongebob and Sandy's friendship from earlier seasons is a great example.

  • @Lwhale.3797
    @Lwhale.3797 3 месяца назад +13

    I didn’t even remember the scene with Pearl at the prom. (Great scene to prove your point) Actually, overall, you made your points super well. It made me go “Oh yeaah” Great job on the video!

  • @sofianne2984
    @sofianne2984 3 месяца назад +11

    wow. this is a banger. i never once thought about this

  • @bombbunnie
    @bombbunnie 3 месяца назад +1

    i love a good ol media video essay for silly cartoons

  • @PCTV2
    @PCTV2 3 месяца назад +7

    Awesome video. Very well spoken and a great message

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 3 месяца назад +6

    Spongebob is a real man to me tbh, He has his stuff together, he has his own house, he has a full-time job he loves, is financially stable, is comfortable being himself, and doesnt need to be a toxic alpha masculine male type.
    Early Spongebob was a sensitive, empathetic friendly eccentric guy, but had a more mature sage like personality to him. He also was not afraid to stand up for himself at times and had a spine.

  • @GreenieGuy
    @GreenieGuy 3 месяца назад +6

    Amazing video! Can't believe i got my sense of masculinity from SPONGEBOB of all things

  • @vi_violetrose
    @vi_violetrose 3 месяца назад +2

    Super interesting analysis!! This is something I never thought about, and makes me love the cartoon even more :]

  • @villainkaiju
    @villainkaiju 2 месяца назад +3

    Seeing how much gender wars and bullying thats going on right about now, I am so glad somebody could make a video like this to keep my hopes up, I just want peace in this world, something that Hillenburg would've always wanted.

  • @Ophidian_Obake
    @Ophidian_Obake 2 месяца назад

    This video is fantastic! You do an excellent job explaining your point and providing good examples! As I've thought more about it, Spongebob really has been one of the most foundational and influential things in my life. It was one of the the reasons I love cartooning / animation, its practically defined my sense of humor, and (while it is not the ONLY reason) I think it has even influenced my choice in pursuing marine biology! Before now though, I've not really thought before about how it portrays masculinity, but in a funny twist it turns out that it also kinda reflects how I've developed over time as a masculine presenting person as well! I've identified as a boy/man for most of my life and basically tried to stick to what was generally expected of my gender until more recently, but now as an adult I've become much more aware of how I don't at all fit the "traditional" definition of masculinity, as well as the nuance that gender identity / presentation can have. Perhaps that is yet another thing that spongebob has given to me, and all this time I didn't even realize it! Thank you for giving me an new way to look at and appreciate one of my favorite pieces of media of all time.

  • @inkydinky9626
    @inkydinky9626 3 месяца назад +5

    This is an amazing analysis! I wish I had the words to write a really long and detailed compliment but this meant a lot to me growing up with spongebob! tysm for making this video!

    • @hope-a-meeks
      @hope-a-meeks  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh my goodness, thank you so much for your kind words

  • @Jelly_shy_guy_man
    @Jelly_shy_guy_man 2 месяца назад +1

    Nicklodeon is gonna take down this vid because there’s 5billon clips in it, and man this video is good.

  • @adonisvillain
    @adonisvillain 3 месяца назад +3

    good, i was a big fan of SpongeBob in childhood. Very refreshing approach to masculinity after Hamza etc. gonna rewatch some series, especially about fake muscles hehe 😊

  • @Gabe-ce9rn
    @Gabe-ce9rn 3 месяца назад

    wow, what an amazing video. This insight on how the franchise really views and interprets masculinity was captured so well, the conclusion honestly made me emotional lmao.
    The movie scene with Spongebob’s speech fit so well in this video, it was a perfect moment and definitely gave the best message it possibly could have.
    P.S, i’m not a video essay person, but god damn is this a great one!

  • @frisk8632
    @frisk8632 3 месяца назад

    I really adore this video for opening a new perspective of SpongeBob to me as well as exploring the underlying importance of Masculinity and Feminity as a whole that everyone can find their footing in

  • @daanthedoctor
    @daanthedoctor 3 месяца назад +3

    I always remember getting really mad at other kids calling sponegbob gay as an insult during middle school, now I'm a trans man who's not afraid to still embrace femininity (and also coincidentally very interested in other men hehe) I think deep inside younger me knew what was up

  • @LissyVee
    @LissyVee 3 месяца назад +3

    I remember I was 12 when it aired and seeing the commercials prior and thinking omg that show looks soooooo freaking dumb but I had little sisters so we watched it and it took me a few episodes but I liked it! Now I’m 36 and I appreciate it more now than I did then

  • @myoak108
    @myoak108 3 месяца назад +1

    I once quoted spongebob saying "I can't do it Mr krabs!" and he legit smacked me in the face and said we don't talk like that. Dude backhanded me, and now as an adult I've brought it up and he just shrugged it off and chuckled like I'm making a big deal out of nothing. Spongebob is for real men, not fake men.

  • @drewbuescher
    @drewbuescher 2 месяца назад +1

    great video! makes me think about how some of my friends were not allowed to watch the show growing up because spongebob was “asexual”. my friends parents were not comfortable with his feminine behaviors and decided to shield their kids from it all together. that’s texas for you i guess

  • @artythebear
    @artythebear 3 месяца назад +2

    Im a trans guy who held onto my love of "girly" things. Im so happy that no one can make me feel inferior for it! Now brb while I go put a cute lil hat on my doll lol

  • @spinjitzumasterfalcon
    @spinjitzumasterfalcon 2 месяца назад +2

    From what you’ve shown us from the earlier seasons, I almost forgot how genuine SpongeBob’s feelings were when he cried. He was hurt and had to let it out. And I honestly felt bad for him and am glad people stood up for him. Especially Squidward in the last clip. In the later seasons, I feel less sympathy and more annoyance because when he cries, it’s out of a joke instead of being a genuine scene. You did a great job with this analysis and breaking down the layers behind the yellow sponge. Fantastic work

  • @baldacchinonicholas7962
    @baldacchinonicholas7962 3 месяца назад +2

    I have never struggled with my own (unmasculine), I am what I am, I have hated when others have bulled me for not being masculine, even though almost all women (are not even feminine anymore)
    we have completely destroyed the idea of what a women even is, but have not done so for men, so I got bulled

  • @Wippipippi
    @Wippipippi 2 месяца назад +2

    Great video, it seems people are finally catching on to aspects of Spongebob that I've appreciated for years. In-spite of how he's portrayed in the show I've always thought Spongebob was really cool, heroic even, because even though the odds were generally stacked against him he never outright abandons the worth of masculinity and would always accept a challenge, at-least in my mind.

  • @danielloewen2857
    @danielloewen2857 2 месяца назад +1

    I don't tjink spongborb has much to do with gender roles but you did a good job with this video, also I feel like it should have ended after the first movie

  • @lewislc2714
    @lewislc2714 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this, it’s so good, i love the show and your analysis

  • @UnitysPleasures
    @UnitysPleasures 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm gonna offer some constructive criticism because I think you made some valid points. Your opening needs some serious work. It's such a vague, generic way to introduce the audience to your essay without getting right to the meat of what you'll be analyzing. Your prose lacks personality and resembles the run-of-the-mill, corporate way of speaking that makes you blend in with the sea of other content creators. Great writing is about creating an evocative image in the audience's head, so try adding some more color and flavor to your style, like with metaphors and similes. Also, your vocal delivery makes it a little too obvious that you've got your eyes on a script. Or, at least, that's what it sounds like. Don't try and copy the other more popular video essayists. You're developing a strong following at the moment. Strike while the iron is hot. Take nothing that I said personally. I just think that giving my advice a chance could help sharpen your skills is all. Best of luck to you. :)

  • @CinnaSinn
    @CinnaSinn 3 месяца назад +5

    Incredibly well written and insightful video! Can’t wait to see what’s next time come! 👀

  • @jaetheevirgo
    @jaetheevirgo 3 месяца назад +1

    This is so good!!! Pls make more of these!!

  • @Chigger
    @Chigger 2 месяца назад +2

    One of the manliest things a man can do is to not give in to the masculinity competition.

  • @Sarkasuhm-yk9wr
    @Sarkasuhm-yk9wr 3 месяца назад +2

    here before this channel blows up

  • @dannychaseyt
    @dannychaseyt 3 месяца назад +2

    This video is literally so well made - I hadn't ever thought about the show in this light. I'm glad to see this video doing so well, and I wish you well in the future!

  • @GavinKoerber
    @GavinKoerber 3 месяца назад

    I think you should continue in this format. I enjoyed it

  • @MediaLoverChris02
    @MediaLoverChris02 3 месяца назад +2

    Now I love SpongeBob even more because I realized it shaped who I am.

  • @generalpak7082
    @generalpak7082 3 месяца назад

    This is such an amazing video! It made me even realize some stuff about myself. Amazing please do more of these! Keep doing what you are doing!

  • @VersatileFunDesigns
    @VersatileFunDesigns 3 месяца назад +2

    This video feels like it came from a 1M channel! You did an amazing job and I can't wait to see your next video! ✨

  • @SilvrRazorFeather
    @SilvrRazorFeather 3 месяца назад +1

    Y'know, looking at the scenes where SpongeBob breaks down, I could argue that the emotion is purposely a little overdramatic for a kind of comedic effect, but in a different way than how you'd usually see it.
    I do laugh when SpongeBob cries, but it's an empathetic laugh, as in i relate to that reaction to a situation and find it cathartic in a way, considering most social norms won't allow me that unrestrained emotion.
    Thanks for the video, I'm so happy i found such a gem

  • @KingShado69
    @KingShado69 2 месяца назад +1

    It's cute and all that you found something deep in a children's show but you lost the sauce watching it, Spongebob is meant to act like a child, juvenile and sensitive so kids have something to relate to, it's not an adult show or tries to be, every character has its own quirks and tries to adhere to children of different characters, some may relate to sandy some to patrick, I've always related to squidward, no matter how old I got.

  • @ceequesburneracc
    @ceequesburneracc 3 месяца назад +4

    This is actually really good and I think your analysis is great! I’d like to see more from you for sure

  • @evanthompson445
    @evanthompson445 3 месяца назад +3

    This video comes at a good time in my life and I feel lucky to feel a bit moved by it. Thank you

  • @tonycave48
    @tonycave48 3 месяца назад +15

    Just wait till conservatives come after SpongeBob for being woke

    • @Enteringdullsville
      @Enteringdullsville 3 месяца назад +8

      Pretty sure that actually happened at least a decade ago.

    • @lifeisadrag7705
      @lifeisadrag7705 3 месяца назад +14

      They actually did back then! They said something about how Spongebob was gay and how that'll turn their kids gay or something of the sorts.

  • @IsaacWale2004
    @IsaacWale2004 3 месяца назад +1

    I think you're really overthinking it, but I'm not complaining 😅

  • @loganchildersmusic
    @loganchildersmusic 3 месяца назад

    This was a refreshing take. Thank you

  • @betsycheddar
    @betsycheddar 3 месяца назад +1

    I really enjoyed this. SpongeBob was my favorite show growing up, and some of my favorite parts of him are how he cries so openly. Something about him crying and not being given shit for it has always been really cathartic. The show leans very queer at times as well, and it honestly amazes me how much really insightful and varied rep there is. I heavily relate to him as someone who is often the oddest one in the room but so full of energy.

  • @javerion596
    @javerion596 3 месяца назад +2

    when i saw that you only had 75 subs it was surprising because your content is great, keep up to good work and i know you’ll go far

  • @theanimasean822
    @theanimasean822 3 месяца назад +2

    What a great video this was, and it just so happened to be in my recommended! Keep up the great work! 👍🏿

  • @belosneshkaaaa
    @belosneshkaaaa 3 месяца назад +1

    sb always feels a litte androgynous and i cant explain it lmao, male characters with eyelashes drawn on is rare or at least not as common as on female characters, i even found it odd to say "thats a boy" because he feels kinda gender non confirming if that makes sense

    • @belosneshkaaaa
      @belosneshkaaaa 3 месяца назад +1

      also he doesnt really have love interests wich i really like, he doesnt need it, he is happy and he is pretty much aroace but that doesnt stop him from showing platonic love

  • @sgt.pepper5794
    @sgt.pepper5794 3 месяца назад +1

    Now that we're men… we still cry.

  • @mosshivenetwork117
    @mosshivenetwork117 3 месяца назад +1

    This was a good analysis video. I like seeing old SpongeBob again.
    Btw skibidi toilet 75 is out.

  • @joestrummer4106
    @joestrummer4106 3 месяца назад +1

    So this is what you do with a degree in gender studies...

  • @IndieRockLover100
    @IndieRockLover100 3 месяца назад +3

    this was an absolute masterpiece thank you for creating such a thought provoking video.
    i never thought about spongebob like this.. makes me love spongebob even more than i already did

    • @hope-a-meeks
      @hope-a-meeks  3 месяца назад

      Wow, thank you so much!!! I really appreciate it🥰

  • @TopGreaser
    @TopGreaser 2 месяца назад +1

    One small tv show made in the late 90s cant reframe millions of years of evolution.

    • @stoppit0
      @stoppit0 Месяц назад

      It's in our nature as people to feel and experience perceived weakness, and even hundreds of years of toxicity trying to say otherwise can't reframe that.

  • @BMCKINN7
    @BMCKINN7 3 месяца назад +2

    Insightful stuff. Subbed

  • @maralowhorn9000
    @maralowhorn9000 3 месяца назад +1

    This is exactly the type of content I come to youtube for

  • @unhealthyhugs4586
    @unhealthyhugs4586 3 месяца назад

    I loved this video. There was always something about the way spongebob used to write their characters early on that made them so lovable and human and I never could put my finger on it but you explained it in such a good way. The earlier seasons have such a quality to them that always made me feel with spongebob and ever scene he cried in still make me feel for him to this day. That alone is such powerful writing

  • @nhilz
    @nhilz 3 месяца назад +1

    awe hell yeah feminist analisys of my favorite sponge

  • @dales_epic_adventures
    @dales_epic_adventures 2 месяца назад

    This video was absolutely amazing and I can’t wait to see more from you :)
    But if you’re looking for more information regarding the SpongeBob movie and how that treats masculinity and why people think it’s the conclusion to the show overanalyzing the SpongeBob movie

  • @WahRizz
    @WahRizz 3 месяца назад +2

    Great analysis!

  • @flyinyoku3543
    @flyinyoku3543 3 месяца назад +1

    According to Google sea sponges are made up of both sexes (hermaphroditic). SB literally reproduces asexually in an episode. SpongeBob's "am i a pretty girl?" line is funny and unexpected because we think of him as male, but really his maleness as a sponge is more socially defined and he doesn't have sexual dimorphism like Larry and Mr. Krabs. They have trouble understanding his attitude toward his own "gender".
    Obv it's a kids' cartoon but i think Hillenburg must have wanted to show how a hermaphroditic sponge can socialize himself in a humanlike world where almost everyone else has a well defined biological sex. Maybe his gender is more of a way of fitting in.

  • @Thebigem
    @Thebigem 2 месяца назад

    Man EVERY Ficitional Male Character is getting a Video on Masculinity Bruh

  • @Delphine_shh
    @Delphine_shh 2 месяца назад

    OMG YOU GOT 22K VIEWS!!! I remember you saying thank you to me joining your live for the first time (this is del first fan ✌🌝)

  • @lordminatron
    @lordminatron 3 месяца назад

    Great job, you have covered some very interesting facts about the early days of the show.. It's very interesting to realistic how emotions are being handled.. In the later seasons emotions aren't a topic or even the topic of the humour (It's intended to laugh about a crying SpongeBob).. This feels like a blank treason to the early seasons...
    Beside from that, I hope you do similar videos, maybe about SpongeBob or about such topics like Masculinity or stuff like how a show deals with LGBTQIA+

  • @zachman1483
    @zachman1483 2 месяца назад

    This was a great video-oddly enough, hits home for my own childhood. Me and my friends were never “typical” boys as we were very open with our emotions. I have a distinct memory of me and my friends singing “The campfire song” after some older boys sang some rock or rap song (not that those are bad music genres-I love them both!) and laughed at us when it started. But me and my friends didn’t care. We loved SpongeBob and how it made us laugh. Great video!

  • @amberstell7341
    @amberstell7341 2 месяца назад

    I haven’t watched the whole video yet so sorry if she literally mentions this in there and I’m being redundant lmao BUT
    I was just thinking the other day about how I’m glad that they gave spongebob eyelashes, especially his iconic big pretty ones, because it’s so irritating that cartoons always signify “male” or “female” using eyelashes, as if males don’t have any at all lol, or as if having them “makes you feminine”/that being a bad thing, etc. it’s such a small but appreciated detail because he’s such a popular character (one of the most popular of all time and holy crap am I proud to be a spongebob kid lol love the guy), so seeing him subvert traditional masculinity even in his design right up front is 👌👌👌

  • @saccariferouschlorophyll9958
    @saccariferouschlorophyll9958 2 месяца назад

  • @Buddy_Pall
    @Buddy_Pall 3 месяца назад +1

    you, you are cool. you need more subscribers like right now. where is everyone

  • @ashura9706
    @ashura9706 2 месяца назад

    Sadly this messages flies over everyone’s heads and a lot of people think SpongeBob is gay because of his personality. I think Nick even confirmed that recently?

  • @wendyleftmealone
    @wendyleftmealone 2 месяца назад

    Great video, and I would love to hear more! In recent years I've grown to love the first SpongeBob movie in how it offers a more positive idea of masculinity. Like SpongeBob and Patrick were the ones to save the day and did it by being themselves; rather than the kind of guys they thought they had to be.

  • @pacifist._pyre
    @pacifist._pyre 3 месяца назад +1

    this video was beautiful, thank you. i feel so lucky to have grown up on spongebob :D

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 2 месяца назад

    I could watch this video all day. For some reason, I feel so connected. It's like I'm not alone in this.

  • @skyh3008
    @skyh3008 3 месяца назад

    Awesome video examining my most favorite show of all time! 😊

  • @Raccoon12008
    @Raccoon12008 2 месяца назад

    Im masculine because i love Raccoons and 😮if i find a baby raccoon with no mama i would take care of it and adopt him as my baby ill become the raccoons new mama 😮

  • @philipp5756
    @philipp5756 3 месяца назад +1

    awesome video. I never really noticed how much early spongebob toyed around with gender roles. especially in regards of spongebob and patrick‘s friendship and sandy as a whole. I love the point you brought up - everyone carries „male“ and „female“ characteristics in them. We all should embrace this. „Toxic masculinity“ wouldn’t be a topic if some men dropped their mask and see (and feel!) how much more they carry in themselves. I never related to spongebob as a character - but from the perspective you showed here, it totally changed my view on it

  • @quinnalexander3825
    @quinnalexander3825 2 месяца назад

    I always thought it was weird how the way SpongeBobs emotions were depicted changed between versions. In the old episodes he's validated and his optimism ties people together, but post movie both are depicted as simply being annoying and babyish. I think about that a lot.