Even s a child, I hated the fuss with birthdays. My parents gave up having parties early on, thankfully, after I kept disappearing, as soon as ‘friends’ arrived. These days, I do not attend any social gatherings, birthdays, parties, weddings, funerals, Christmas or otherwise. None.
I used to feel it seemed insincere, but as I have aged, have learned to just say thanks and smile, it is just how the social diagrams typically work and clicked one day.
I have learned with age to at least say I am drained, thanks for the invite or it tends to come off as rude I have found. Thankfully I usually hang around my more close friends in large groups, so I tend to stay more involved.
I had Silent Generation parents. Birthdays were short & simple with family only, with cake and ice cream. That's it. Today, nobody knows my birthday... perfection.
I love all of the points here, but especially the thoughts about birthdays and departing parties. From childhood, I have never celebrated a birthday, and I have always departed gatherings silently. People used to argue with me over that.
I hate when you post my pictures on my birthday without my notice. Sometimes I don't even want anyone to remind me of my birthday. I hate the noise and the whishies that feels a little bit unreal to me.
I usually deflect praise or compliments. But we, as Sigmas, do like compliments from tome to time. Especially when we have gone all in on something & saw it through to fruition. And I haven’t been on Facebook for coming on 2 years after being hacked. Have Instagram only b/c my best friend likes to send me videos from there.
8:58 that's a Alpha men thing proving himself beter than the other, and they right, the other wrong. I hate that behavior..... NOT my men. My other half mirror me and very similar in think, do, handle and react. I recognized as a Sigma female a lot of this standards it's a way of life and thinking
Sigmas like to endure the bouts of stillness that require the most intense inaction and patience, waiting for things to unfold, most minds cannot bear this inaction. Whilst the Alpha male likes to stand in his underpants, admiring himself in the mirror saying " I get the girls" . The sigma will say...My creation that has and is serving humanity, the work speaks for itself so that I don't have too.
Sigma like to endure the bouts of stillness that requires the most inaction and patience for things to unfold, most minds cannot bear this inaction. Whilst the Alpha male likes to stand their in his underpants, admiring himself in the mirror saying " I get the girls" . The sigma will say...My creation that has and is serving humanity, the work speaks for itself so that I don't have too.
@DennisAdams-p1e YES! The energy on earth that becomes higher ensures that we ascend to a higher consciousness. We also call this ascension. Ascension literally means: to ascend, lift or climb. Ascension is a collective but also personal process. Your energy field responds to the energy field here on earth and your vibration also becomes higher. That in turn has an effect on your body, on how you feel, on what you think and your behavior. Everyone has his or her own pace of growing in consciousness and energy. This increase in vibration has a positive and negative effect on us humans. We then call the negative ascension symptoms ascension complaints. Ascension complaints that you may experience The increase in vibration can have an effect on your body, your emotions, your thoughts and your behavior. This can give you complaints. This can cause you to be extremely tired, sleep lightly, lie awake for a long time, have vivid or special dreams, sleep restlessly or gain all kinds of insights into your sleep or during the night. Also consider ringing in the ears or ringing in your ear, being dizzy, having flu-like complaints, crying fits, being overstimulated (more quickly), being restless, having difficulty focusing and being much more physically or emotionally sensitive. It may also be that events from the past that you thought you had already processed suddenly resurface. ✨️🙌🏻
I'm just quite that SIGMA I had a guy at a gas station said how nice my bracelet looks I just said it's a cheap knock off it's not real 😂 but the more I look and think I realise how much SIGMA that I am born as and born into an all SIGMA family
I’m cautious about compliments, or flattering Remarks . Just for you To open up . And may use it against you. Information Stealers, knowing your secrets and personal lives I try to talk less, Too much Conversation will give your self away
Compliments are low ball insults. Criticism says someone expected more of you. Compliments say they expected you to be either awful or to be a failure. Compliments say wow I'm surprised you are not a scum bum. Criticism says wow I thought you were better than what you showed.
aw gee Pat it aint always bad sometimes people genuinely like you and want to say hi 😂 all these zoomers think i look like some dude off Mad Men and want a pic I just play along and leave it be
@american1476 oh I know yet it is the underneath feel I initially have always gotten. More of i think I should of done better. Perfectionism maybe because I have higher expectations of myself and anything off my set expectation for myself is basically a failure.
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I recognize that in my Twin my other half and understand him, I'm SIGMA Woman to. I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT WE BOTH HAVE STOICISM, that very similar philosophy 🤍🫶🏻
Damn, 100%. Measured by their own standards, We do not need platitudes from someone who does not know what is required, needed, and/or what has been achieved to reach that goal. Being thanked by a manager, or a complete idiot is the same thing. Best say nothing, rather that remove all doubt. Good work, keep it up.
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Anytime I get a compliment, I immediately think there is some kind of hidden agenda!
Some people are grifting at all times.lol
Welcome to my world!
Right😂😂😂 I do not like to get compliments but I always respond with “I know “ 🤷🏾.
Same here. It doesn't help being married to a covert narcissist. The compliment today can be used against you tomorrow.
Same here!
Even s a child, I hated the fuss with birthdays. My parents gave up having parties early on, thankfully, after I kept disappearing, as soon as ‘friends’ arrived. These days, I do not attend any social gatherings, birthdays, parties, weddings, funerals, Christmas or otherwise. None.
I used to feel it seemed insincere, but as I have aged, have learned to just say thanks and smile, it is just how the social diagrams typically work and clicked one day.
I have learned with age to at least say I am drained, thanks for the invite or it tends to come off as rude I have found. Thankfully I usually hang around my more close friends in large groups, so I tend to stay more involved.
I had Silent Generation parents. Birthdays were short & simple with family only, with cake and ice cream. That's it. Today, nobody knows my birthday... perfection.
You always nail it! I feel like am I being watched and studied 😬
💯
Everytine I'm complimented or having my ass cheeks kissed I'm automatically raising my eyebrow as if to say whats the catch, or what do you want!
I know I hate it ...then the afterthought of making the other feel rejected when you really haven't rejected them
Holidays and birthdays always seemed like a waste of time. I'd rather use the days to work on a hobby or reflect on my year.
I love all of the points here, but especially the thoughts about birthdays and departing parties. From childhood, I have never celebrated a birthday, and I have always departed gatherings silently. People used to argue with me over that.
😂 the first one frfr "you smell good!" me "i know" 😄
That’s my response to every compliment given to me😂😂😂
@ 😂😂😂
Wow! Wise Thinker went DEEP with this one. He must be a sigma! 👀👀👀
Worthy 🎯
God speed in your race brothers
Save as many as we can until we're called
I hate when you post my pictures on my birthday without my notice. Sometimes I don't even want anyone to remind me of my birthday. I hate the noise and the whishies that feels a little bit unreal to me.
This is so me.
I don't need praise or even seek it. I always wondered why it made me feel uncomfortable.
Criticism allows me to reflect and improve. Birthdays are just too painful.
100% CORRECT AGAIN !
A WAY OF LIVING LIFE !
STEADFAST IN WAYS !
INDEPENDANT THINKING !
INTRO POSITIVE DECISIVE !
" CLOSED CORPORATION " 💪
SIGMA!
good video!!!😀😀
I usually deflect praise or compliments. But we, as Sigmas, do like compliments from tome to time. Especially when we have gone all in on something & saw it through to fruition.
And I haven’t been on Facebook for coming on 2 years after being hacked. Have Instagram only b/c my best friend likes to send me videos from there.
VERY accurate.
This page scares me with its accuracy.
Right it’s creepy
What an insightful
You hit it on the nail!
14:21 Shout-out to Maya Angelou!
Present 😊
8:58 that's a Alpha men thing proving himself beter than the other, and they right, the other wrong. I hate that behavior..... NOT my men. My other half mirror me and very similar in think, do, handle and react. I recognized as a Sigma female a lot of this standards it's a way of life and thinking
Sigmas like to endure the bouts of stillness that require the most intense inaction and patience, waiting for things to unfold, most minds cannot bear this inaction. Whilst the Alpha male likes to stand in his underpants, admiring himself in the mirror saying " I get the girls" . The sigma will say...My creation that has and is serving humanity, the work speaks for itself so that I don't have too.
Sigma like to endure the bouts of stillness that requires the most inaction and patience for things to unfold, most minds cannot bear this inaction. Whilst the Alpha male likes to stand their in his underpants, admiring himself in the mirror saying " I get the girls" . The sigma will say...My creation that has and is serving humanity, the work speaks for itself so that I don't have too.
@@DennisAdams-p1e indeed 💯 🙌🏻🫶🏻
@jessjess2325 Do you get the ringing in your ears?
@DennisAdams-p1e YES! The energy on earth that becomes higher ensures that we ascend to a higher consciousness. We also call this ascension. Ascension literally means: to ascend, lift or climb. Ascension is a collective but also personal process. Your energy field responds to the energy field here on earth and your vibration also becomes higher. That in turn has an effect on your body, on how you feel, on what you think and your behavior. Everyone has his or her own pace of growing in consciousness and energy. This increase in vibration has a positive and negative effect on us humans. We then call the negative ascension symptoms ascension complaints. Ascension complaints that you may experience
The increase in vibration can have an effect on your body, your emotions, your thoughts and your behavior. This can give you complaints. This can cause you to be extremely tired, sleep lightly, lie awake for a long time, have vivid or special dreams, sleep restlessly or gain all kinds of insights into your sleep or during the night. Also consider ringing in the ears or ringing in your ear, being dizzy, having flu-like complaints, crying fits, being overstimulated (more quickly), being restless, having difficulty focusing and being much more physically or emotionally sensitive. It may also be that events from the past that you thought you had already processed suddenly resurface. ✨️🙌🏻
Facts
women are not predictable
I'm just quite that SIGMA I had a guy at a gas station said how nice my bracelet looks I just said it's a cheap knock off it's not real 😂 but the more I look and think I realise how much SIGMA that I am born as and born into an all SIGMA family
How to shut them down with a single glance
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What birthday? You only have one day of birth and that was when you were born...
Very profound.
Lol, very true. Birthdays are for giving your friends a day to show the that they like you! Give them that opportunity!
oof #2 i dread my bday
I’m cautious about compliments, or flattering
Remarks . Just for you
To open up . And may use it against you. Information
Stealers, knowing your secrets and personal lives
I try to talk less, Too much
Conversation will give your self away
Compliments are low ball insults.
Criticism says someone expected more of you.
Compliments say they expected you to be either awful or to be a failure.
Compliments say wow I'm surprised you are not a scum bum.
Criticism says wow I thought you were better than what you showed.
aw gee Pat it aint always bad sometimes people genuinely like you and want to say hi 😂 all these zoomers think i look like some dude off Mad Men and want a pic I just play along and leave it be
@american1476 oh I know yet it is the underneath feel I initially have always gotten. More of i think I should of done better. Perfectionism maybe because I have higher expectations of myself and anything off my set expectation for myself is basically a failure.
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I can work with you if you want
Any Sigmas also 🧩?
I recognize that in my Twin my other half and understand him, I'm SIGMA Woman to. I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT WE BOTH HAVE STOICISM, that very similar philosophy 🤍🫶🏻
Damn, 100%.
Measured by their own standards, We do not need platitudes from someone who does not know what is required, needed, and/or what has been achieved to reach that goal.
Being thanked by a manager, or a complete idiot is the same thing.
Best say nothing, rather that remove all doubt.
Good work, keep it up.