Why you feel like an outsider and how to cope with being "different"

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
  • Feeling like an outsider, like you don’t belong anywhere or that you just don’t fit in? Maybe from a young age, you felt different from other people. You've always felt a sense of “otherness.” You were an outsider who didn’t quite fit in, no matter how much you wanted to.
    In today's episode, I dive into why you feel the way that you do, what are the benefits of being an outsider, and how to cope when people make you feel like you are not worthy of love.
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Комментарии • 78

  • @TrishLee
    @TrishLee  3 года назад +1

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  • @TamekaDoesntQuit
    @TamekaDoesntQuit 4 года назад +4

    This is an amazing lesson. I experienced a severely traumatic childhood. I took the ACES test and I scored 9 out of 10. I was the one that experienced most of the abuse yet it seemed to impact my siblings at a deeper level. I have a Masters degree, my siblings dont have any form of higher education. My brother and my sister both have extreme forms of PTSD because of what we went through. I do not. Im financially responsible, have a great family and social life. My siblings struggle to maintain jobs and relationships. I dont respond the way they do, I dont think the way they do, and I dont operate the way that they do. For years I wondered, why dont I have PTSD. Almost as if I wanted something to be wrong with me. Because of the differences, it has always made me a bit of an outsider in our family. I realized I was "different" and that I possessed a much higher level of resilience which did cause a bit of guilt on my end for a while. I took my power back by simply making a decision to choose happiness and forgiveness. It was the BEST decision I ever made.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so so much for sharing these experience and how you conquer it! Thank you so much, Tameka! Sometimes we always wondered, then realized we are on outcast. It's not bad but it will help you more conquer things and you have more mature and you are mature enough to took back your power and to choose happiness and forgiveness. You have more deeper meaning and rationalizations of situations that's happening to you. Way to go, dear! You are wonderful! I'm so glad you have made the BEST decision of your life! You inspires me a lot, Tameka! You are GREAT! Hope you have an amazing day ❤️

  • @TheOldMayfieldPlace
    @TheOldMayfieldPlace 4 года назад +2

    Great tips. I agree with taking other people's power away by laughing at myself with them. I grew up as Sno White so I have heard every joke there is about my name. When, as a child, I was asked where the dwarfs were I would answer, "I left them home. They are too old to go to school." That ended the teasing. Thanks for the video.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      aww thank you so much you love my episode this week! I really appreciate it 😍😍😍 I'll keep sharing and hopefully a lot of it will be inspired! Thank you for sharing your experience 😊 Thank you so much and please stay safe always 🥰

  • @TaiahTripp
    @TaiahTripp 4 года назад +3

    I’ve always felt like an outsider- it took me so long to realize I had an awakened soul instead of just being ‘weird’ or ‘strange’. I was always told I’m wise beyond my years & im glad I was able to understand why. Thanks for this vid 🤩🌜

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Hello Taiah, I'm so glad this video resonated with you. Always remember you are a wonderful person. Sending you love and light ❤️

  • @Kimmyg728
    @Kimmyg728 4 года назад +6

    Love these positive messages you’re sending in each and every video! Almost all of your topics relate to the negative feelings we’ve all felt before.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Awww 😍 thank you so so much for this lovely feedback! I give my best to please my audience 😉 Thank you for being here and showing love. Have a blessed day, dear

  • @TrishLee
    @TrishLee  4 года назад +8

    What is the first thing you can do right now to take back your power, own who you are, and be the extraordinary person you were meant to be? Do share with me in the comments below. Thank you for the love and for being here! I hope you found the info shared in today's episode to be helpful. Have a blessed day dear friends 🌻
    xo
    Trish

  • @livingdifferent8077
    @livingdifferent8077 4 года назад +4

    Having a physical difference has definitely been a difficult experience, but we have to be able to manage our differences. Thanks for sharing x

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Couldn’t agree more! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing your views and opinions! means a lot to me ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jamie-lj1hd
    @Jamie-lj1hd 4 года назад +2

    It pains me to say... But I've felt like this forever

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Sorry to hear that. Hope you are doing great right now and know that you are AWESOME!

  • @mjgoingplaces8111
    @mjgoingplaces8111 4 года назад +3

    Trish this is a great video! PTSD is real and I have gone through this, even if it's on a "lower level". Anyhow, thank you for sharing and much continued success! 💕🌴💕

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Thank you so so much MJ! I appreciate you a lot ❤️ Sending you lots of good vibes and wishing you much success too!!

    • @mjgoingplaces8111
      @mjgoingplaces8111 4 года назад +1

      Trish Lee - Thank you Trish! Only possible vibes! 😊💕🌴💕

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      @@mjgoingplaces8111 Happy Monday, MJ! 😍

  •  4 года назад +3

    Your energy is the best! Thanks for being so vulnerable and open. Your story is really empowering!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thanks so much dear 😍 Really appreciate your feedback! It's people like you that motivates me to do what I do! THANK YOU!!!💕

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Awww 😍 thank you so so much for this lovely feedback! I give my best to please my audience 😉 Thank you for being here and showing love. Have a blessed day dear

    •  4 года назад

      @@TrishLee Of course!!! Keep doing you girl!!!

  • @ChristaBello
    @ChristaBello 4 года назад +4

    You know what you're talking about, girl. I enjoyed the video. You're right, I have a similar experience, even though Finland is an amazing Country it was harder for me to fit in my early ng years, unlike Canada where I fit in from day 1. Just the fact that Canada is more multi-cultural gives out a different energy. Well done girl❤️❤️

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for unending support, Christa! ❤️ Sorry to hear that you have similar experience with it. And so glad you feel more fit right now than before! ❤️ SO happy for you, dear! Thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart for your awesome feedback! 🌹 Keep safe always

  • @Accra100
    @Accra100 4 года назад +2

    The smiles that start this video is everything! I love these coping tips. Thank you, Trish 💕

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      😊 Glad you liked that! Felt a tad silly while filming but smiles are always the best way to spread positive energy!💕 Thank you so much for being here and showing love. I look forward to your next video!

  • @ShaunHolden
    @ShaunHolden 4 года назад +2

    Your energy is amazing. I love your little intro, nice editing! Absolutely you need to shift mindset we are lucky to be alive in this digital world. Good to see genuine content and you my friend, have another sub 🙂✅

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Shaun! 💙 Really appreciate you showing support and for the positive feedback! Stay as inspirational as you are 🌻 look forward to your next video

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching 4 года назад +1

    I love your point about microscope versus telescope! Powerful distinction.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      I'm glad you find my videos helpful! Thank you so so much! Have a lovely day!

  • @Otr808
    @Otr808 4 года назад +1

    Great video great topic awakened soul i hear that also got the same comment growing up elders thought i was mature at a young age it was true my up bringing as a mixed race military brat that moved every 3 years around the country not always to nice places my grasp of life and values did not line up with the majority so yeah i was a outsider and probably still am but i agree with you there is more to life i think people like us just have a more evolving vision on what life is and what it can become i always felt at the end of the day just being me and going against the grain is my super power not to interested on the popularity race or whats trending i just focus on things i enjoy without hurting others and work hard 😊

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Thank you so much for sharing your opinions and views! It really means a lot to me! And i couldn't agree more!! Just focus on the things that you enjoy and happy about without hurting others and totally work it hard! Love this! Stay as awesome as you are. I'm so thankful our paths crossed. You're an amazing soul. Once again, thank you so much and hope you have a great day ahead! 😍

  • @manifydesigns
    @manifydesigns 4 года назад +1

    Am loving your messages..Am here to show you love and give you my full support. Keep soaring high

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Thanks so much dear 😍 Really appreciate your feedback! It's people like you that motivates me to do what I do! THANK YOU!!!💕 THANK YOU!!!💕 THANK YOU!!!💕

  • @kellyconscious
    @kellyconscious 4 года назад +2

    love this so much. I always feel like an outsider! And you're right I think it could be from trauma when I was younger. The term awakened soul speaks to me, I am sorry you had to go through what you went through as a child. Thanks for this video!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      You’re such a sweetheart 💙 thank you so much for the love! Stay healthy and blessed my dear! ❤️😘

  • @VianasBeauty
    @VianasBeauty 4 года назад +2

    your intro is so nice Trish i love your name and i have always felt like an outside. thanks for your tips

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! ❤️ You just made my whole day! 💙 I'm so grateful you took the time to comment! 😘 Have a great day! 💕

  • @LifeWithLayan
    @LifeWithLayan 4 года назад +3

    Ahh you are so cute! i love your intro its the cutest!!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Awww. Thank you so much, Linya! You are lovely! Have a nice day ❤️

  • @Ray-ui1pm
    @Ray-ui1pm 3 года назад +2

    This was beautiful!!!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  3 года назад

      thank you so much! 😊😊

  • @artsoldier77
    @artsoldier77 3 года назад +2

    Excellent!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for that friend! ❤️

  • @alwaysovercoming4546
    @alwaysovercoming4546 4 года назад +2

    Love this! Your message couldn’t be more true! Amazing content! Keep up the great work!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +2

      Aww thank you so much you love my episode this week! I really appreciate it 😍😍😍 I'll keep sharing and hopefully a lot of it will be inspired! 😊 Thank you so much and please stay safe always 🥰

  • @magdalensnow
    @magdalensnow 4 года назад +3

    I love how you spoke about this!! Loved it 🤗

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      So sweet of you, thank you so much! 🌹 I am really glad you found this episode helpful ❤️ Wherever you are in the world, please stay healthy, stay safe. It's people like you that motivates me to do what I do! THANK YOU!!!💕 THANK YOU!!!💕

  • @VianasBeauty
    @VianasBeauty 4 года назад +1

    yess your on point

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      😘 thank you so much Viana!! I appreciate you 🌻 Have a nice weekend!

  • @shimmersgaming2696
    @shimmersgaming2696 4 года назад +2

    love the way you explain...keep growing beautiful

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +2

      aww So happy you enjoyed the video and it helped you out. I’m sending you so much light and love your way ✨❤️🙏🏾

    • @shimmersgaming2696
      @shimmersgaming2696 4 года назад +2

      ❤😊

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Sending lots and love to you! ❤️

  • @thelongevityproject
    @thelongevityproject 4 года назад +1

    Great message here! We're all different in our own unique ways and it's so important that we are open-minded to everyone.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад +1

      Thanks a million for your sweet feedback!!! Really appreciate the support! Thank you 😘 Hope you have an amazing weekend ❤️

    • @thelongevityproject
      @thelongevityproject 4 года назад +1

      @@TrishLee Thank you, you as well!

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      @@thelongevityproject Yes, I will. Have a lovely day

  • @TheInteractiveLearning
    @TheInteractiveLearning 4 года назад +2

    Great episode Trish! Keep up the good work

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      So happy you enjoyed the video and it helped you out. I’m sending you so much light and love your way and welcome to the community ✨❤️🙏🏾

    • @TheInteractiveLearning
      @TheInteractiveLearning 4 года назад +1

      Trish Lee my pleasure! Likewise 😁

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      @@TheInteractiveLearning thank you! have a nice day 😊

  • @visuala1018
    @visuala1018 4 года назад +1

    Incredible, this is so inspiring massage. thank you so much the encouragement you are giving us, really it helps a lot.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Thanks a million for your sweet feedback!!! Really appreciate the support! Thank you 😘 Hope you have an amazing weekend ❤️

  • @nosicelototiyana1659
    @nosicelototiyana1659 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  2 месяца назад

      Much welcome! Keep well!❤

  • @robmusic3955
    @robmusic3955 4 года назад +1

    Nice intro. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Thank you so much dear😊

  • @faceworld
    @faceworld 4 года назад +1

    Hello, I like your presentations, interesting content. A new friend from Indonesia

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  4 года назад

      Really appreciate your feedback! It's people like you that motivates me to do what I do! THANK YOU!!!💕

  • @patrickgabrielmendy9337
    @patrickgabrielmendy9337 3 года назад +1

    Nice

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  3 года назад

      Thank you so mcuh!❤

  • @preciouswoods1345
    @preciouswoods1345 3 года назад +1

    we are watching Disney channel

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  3 года назад +1

      Good for you! Enjoy

  • @stevenlowe3245
    @stevenlowe3245 3 года назад

    Nobody here has a clue what being an actual outsider actually is.

    • @TrishLee
      @TrishLee  3 года назад +1

      Hi Steven, thank you for stopping by. Sorry you feel the way that you do.
      If ever you'd like to talk, about anything at all, feel free to reach out to me. You may connect with me on IG (@trishrlee) or email me (info@trishandco.com)
      I pray for you that whatever you are going through, you will be blessed with the strength and wisdom to get through it soon. Take care. Have a nice day Steven.