My ex bff used to dangle that word over me and make me feel like I was so morally inferior. After our friendship fell apart I'm still convinced I'm a terrible person when she was straight out abusive.
It’s exactly the same as Onision calling himself the “most honest person on RUclips,” constantly. Always making sure to remind us he’s in fact the most honest. When he’s literally one of the worst people on the planet. The more someone has to reiterate that they’re in fact “so honest,” or “so empathetic” or whatever; 9 times out of 10 they are in fact literally the opposite of whatever personality trait they try to paint themselves as. Wether that’s empathic, honest, intelligent, moral, respectful, understanding, everything. If someone has to constantly remind everyone they are [insert desirable quality here], that would then mean that they’re constantly doing or saying things that would lead people to forget they have that quality thus meaning they don’t actually embody that quality in the first place. It’s even more true if it’s basically the first thing they point out about themselves the first time you meet them.
constantly saying you have OCD to make you look "quirky" and then laugh at Krystal having to compulsively washing her hands - the most classic behavior of OCD
If a person has to constantly remind you how kind, selfless, good, giving and empathetic they are, you can bet on the fact that they are the exact opposite of all those things.
Her saying "yikes" about almost every single one of her girlfriends interests or collectable hobbies at some point during each of her relationships is just disgusting to me. For someone who's only hobbies are eating and hoarding, she sure does have an opinion on what other people genuinely do enjoy
When she was living with Krystle, off of Krystle’s parents and Krystle disability check THEN is was “our money”. With Beck, it was never “our money” it was “Amber’s car, Amber’s money, Amber’s cereal, Amber’s apartment”. Such an empath.
@@purplepandapower8112 she did. Wipey drove 15 hours straight to Oklahoma where Amber's new apartment was, took her to Target or Walmart (can't remember which one exactly) and peaced out! 🤣🤣🤣 she couldn't wait to get away from Hamber and I can't say I blame her!
I didn't know much about the Kyrstle era, but holy crap the stalking trying to scare her and even going into public bathrooms trying to catch her on the toilet?! just wow...and this is a grown ass woman
This woman filming SOMEONE ELSE'S private cancer scare journey was disgusting. And filming her on the damn toilet when she knows Krystle is shy (and that's completely inappropriate anyway)...I never liked Amber, but watching this era is pushing me toward hatred.
@RUclipscansuckit it’s my own sick speculation haha but she behaved like a 13 year old schoolgirl when it came to him and I always felt like she stayed up till 430 am so she could see James (that’s when he got home from work) and corner him into being alone with her so she could get that attention she wanted from a man. Again my sick 🤢 speculation but I always felt like she’s liked men they’ve just been harder to “catch”, and didn’t know if she’d ever be in this close proximity to a man again so the weirdo attention seeking part of her brain doesn’t care it’s her gfs dad cause she doesn’t care about the gf or the dad cause she’s just there to self indulge and needs ppl to enable it and it happened to be them. But she mentions him a looot and how much he means to her and she supposedly means to him, waaay more than she ever mentions krystles mom. And I don’t know if I remember her EVER talking about krystle as highly as she would talk about James.
That’s what all her partners are to her, a convenience and a source of mooching off. She would even change her orientation I bet if she ever found a male victim.
Exactly. I went through a period of that a few years back when I was in a weightloss slump and had lost motivation. I gained so much weight back with the mentality of ‘well there are other people much bigger so I’m ok’. I’m glad I got myself out of it and started losing again
Amber complained that Krystal had tons of stuffed animals but failed to mention SHE had thousands of cheap earring and cheap perfume and cheap wax melts and cheap Torrid clothes.
It’s called mirroring . Amber picks up the personality of every girlfriend she has. Destiny fell for the shy sweet girl Amber portrayed but she began mirroring Destiny. So of course Destiny didn’t want to date herself lol
My mother is like that she really has no "personality" of herself she just mimics everyone around her that is really close to her and who heavily influences her. From acting like my cold boomer grandparents, to a crazy controlling ex, to now me who struggled to find my own personality. She's nearly 60 and I feel she needs to be around someone constantly to mimic them.
@@henriettereines6273 how much was she in foster care? She makes it sound like her whole childhood, yet tells stories of being with her parents in early years, 10, 12, 14, then she jumps into Casey’s house. Like I was asked to be a plus model at 15 but my parents wouldn’t let me. She also talks a lot about her grandma, one dead now and one alive. I am assuming the one alive is the one who said she could not come back. She is much older than her brother, but she found him with a cord around his neck and saved him as an infant. I just watched a story she told about a life savor candy where her dad had to either call an ambulance or took her to the ER. Would be interesting to track back to see. Maybe she ran away and ended in foster care. You never hear stories about her foster care families. 🤷🏼🤷🏼 Something just doesn’t add up!
@@henriettereines6273probably, but she is 30 years old. No excuse to not get a proper personality, surely you can buy one at Wolmort 🙄 Feel sorry for the kid but not for the adult that does not want to know and learn any better
That is so crazy that she did such a thing. Like wtf then she’s all loud and they all know the truth and just listening to her lie on the dog. Unbelievable
Interesting that Amber called Krystle "dramatic" for actually dealing with OCD symptoms and just the other day Amber tried to make herself a victim because her previous girlfriends supposedly called her "dramatic" 🤔🤔🤔
@@iWSNTmxllyI believe that. I have OCD and I hesitate to accuse someone of lying about it because you can’t usually tell. But amber is so public, I think I’d be able to tell.
I bet she talked shit about Krystle's interests because she was jealous. She probably never had the chance to be into plushies or video games or anything really, Krystle was supported in her interests by her family and she oozed bitterness because of it.
@@jaggirlAmber is using her mom for transportation. Fair trade at this point, giving up her days off work catering to her own ki who refuses to hire a car service that can accommodate the disabled/her weight class. Most Uber and Lyft will deny her service after seeing her.
That was her binging disorder and shes blaming the dog. Never in my life seen a dog eat bananas with peel and all, unless they were starving. Not to mention a short, overweight beagal jump up on counter. Shes blaming it on poor dog.
Between experiences and an interesting article I found called 5 signs of narcissistic abuse from verywellhelp...I have suspicions. The specific thing that really got me was when she just kept insulting her plushies and anime in general but then tried so hard to copy other things like her disorders and glasses. That was super prominent from what I saw irl.
She may have mimicked her personality, but identity theft is something completely not this. Unless she has a shitload of credit cards in Krystal’s name, she didn’t steal her identity lol
Honestly, washing your hands after cleaning the kitty litter is not an OCD trait, is something EVERYONE SHOULD DO, I thought it was common knowledge to wash your hands after being in contact with feces. Basic hygiene Amber, geez.....
So weird how she shames Krystle for her hobbies like gaming and plushies… she did the same to Beck. Imagine people having hobbies besides drinking and eating 😒
Right?! She seems to have almost NO hobbies or passions outside of eating, drinking buzzballs and being an abusive pile of NOPE. She does seem to like building Lego sets, but also seems to care more about announcing how expensive the sets she buys are than actually building and enjoying them. Also YES! To the disliking her partners having hobbies that take time/attention away from her. Sweet damnit, she needs to work on herself!
Well, she colors, draws lines on her papers with different colored markers, puts her stickers on them, like all 7 yr olds...and plays with her expensive Legos. Lol
It's because Amber has no hobbies except eating and obsessing over herself. When people use "obsessed" towards other's hobbies... it's always a negative connotation. It means they hate the hobby the person has. Only people with the hobby should use "obsessed" with their own hobby. Like I'm obsessed with learning about ancient history, and that's OK. But I'd never tell someone else, "You're obsessed." Idk I love seeing people have hobbies and passions. It makes them interesting and endearing. I've had partners in love with anime. I don't like anime, but I'll watch a bit because I want my partner to be happy expressing their passion. Even if I'm not into it. It's about the person, not the hobby. As long as it's reciprocated when I want to share my own. Amber wouldn't know how to do that.
Does Amber realize that OCD isn’t being organized and doing quirky things for no reason… and that it’s like “if I don’t wash my hands six times in a row, /the right way/ my parents are going to die in a horrible car crash tomorrow!” I’m married to a man with actual severe OCD and it affects his life on a daily fucking basis and I promise you he is also the least organized person I know. OCD is “I can never throw this piece of paper away because I received it at a time in my life that was bad. And things started going good after I got this piece of paper in the mail and so if I ever get rid of this piece of paper or it gets damaged…everything‘s gonna go to shit again. This piece of junk mail is the thread between my good life and absolute disaster.” God, she pisses me off dude
At this point its just another word that she uses for attention. Just like she says "traumatized" to describe doing anyhing. Not words that should be used lightly
Such an important message, thank you for sharing your story! OCD is so debilitating and it’s unfortunate how it’s essentially become a slang word for organized/picky.
@@la6136 if you're a pig who doesn't shower (remember she spent a year -and I believe it was even more- without taking a bath), doesn't do household chores, doesn't work, doesn't organize anything, even the most remote cleaning habit is OCD. So corkyyy.
Amber saying "I feel so free now" when Krystle got her license was kinda..weird. I bet Krystle felt more trapped when she heard SoulsuckerLynn say it..
Or when Amber said that she was a Korn fan while she was with Becky even though we've never actually seen her listen to that type of music before Or when she called herself a Harry Potter fan/Potterhead even though in an older video she said that she would never read the HP books
@@Mea_Culpa1yes, God takes care of us. But that’s a pretty general statement that doesn’t offer any practical solutions. Sometimes God takes care of us by helping us find therapists or mental health medications that work for us :)
Lol. I wish my OCD was just washing the dishes every day and not having to turn my lights on and off a certain number of times so my house doesnt catch fire 😂
I'm an empath. Of course I bulldoze through all of my girlfriend's boundaries and laugh maniacally in her face when she shows extreme discomfort because it's fun for me.
Because sometimes the alternative is to lose your child and then they don't always find their way back, especially when they are subjected to the abuse that Krystle was. So better to put up with the bs than risk your child .....
@@lamenziesThat’s harsh. I think they knew Amber was trash very early on, but were concerned about their daughter being a loner. It wasn’t the brightest move, but I think they were driven by emotions. There’s obviously some nuance to the whole thing.
@@rsh793right. They may have not "seen" it the way we do. It was probably for the best. That way when Krystal was done with ALR she was safe at home with the support she needed.
When I was a child, my mother spent a lot of time in hospitals for various reasons such as breast cancer, diabetes, etc. My greatest fear was that she would die. One day, I saw her trip over a rug. And from that day forward, I was obsessed with making sure that every single rug in the house was not crumpled. I made sure that the decorative frayed edges were perfectly straight. Before school, I would inspect every rug in the house so that she would not trip. I was completely obsessed with straightening rugs. Back then, it was a powerful obsession. If someone walked across a rug and crumpled it, it drove me nuts. It's shameful for her to exploit Krystal for having OCD, and shameful to pretend to have it herself.
That sounds heartbreaking! I'm so sorry you had to feel that fear and worry as a child. That is truly so sad to hear. But, a very sweet, caring child as well. Bless you!! That must've been so very hard on you.
Absolutely! My vet clinic showed that 1lb overweight on different sizes of dogs. 3lbs overweight on a small dog is like 50lbs on a human 💀. My puggle got fat at one point (totally out fault, he went from being a hungry puppy to a lazy adult dog) and our vet told us to absolutely get it in check. We reduced his food and increased his exercise because he relies upon us for his health! Beagles are food driven, as are pugs. He wanted to eat constantly. It's up to us to make sure he's NOT doing that!
@@NM-vp4ql my parents have a blue healer and he's the same way. That dog is faaaaattt. I try to play and walk him whenever I'm in the area because that poor dog's hips are screaming. I'm glad you got your doggo healthy again :) I know how hard it can be. They'd be less special if it was easy I suppose
Especially when that's nearly twice the weight that dog is supposed to be. But then again look at Amber, shes twice the weight she's supposed to be and thinks she's healthy.
This is why I got a huge dog. More wiggle room to figure out if I’m not feeding her properly. She weighs half of what I do already and she’s still a puppy. And no, she’s not overweight. She’s just a really large breed.
Poor Krystle must have been anxious every minute of every day. Imagine being super shy and having someone shove a camera in your face 24/7. It’s like a living nightmare.
I feel for that poor girl 😔 😟 as someone who was super shy and kind of still am, who dated someone who constantly took photos of me and posted them (they were a photographer like it was their hobby so I didn't mind to begin with and even found it flattering but it became suffocating like I'm very awkward and shy so I barely even took selfies 😆 so it got too much after a while and I felt like I didn't get a say in it coz they'd just take them without consent.) I can empathise a little bit with how that mustve felt for her 💔 My experiences would of been even worse if it was videos and live streams holy crap, genuinely hope she is getting therapy for this 🙏 ❤️
I think she started filming her as a way of bullying her. She saw that it freaked her out then started doing it all the time as a tool of coercive control.
Also just the way she talks about how "if my friend is sad I'm sad too" but what she actually means is "I see that xyz emotion is currently getting you attention and I want to be the center of attention so I'm going to copy you."
People who loudly proclaim themselves as Empaths are usually psychopaths who only vaguely understand the concept with no experience of it. It's an excuse for them to manipulate people while blaming them for it.
No because "Explain this". The thing is that like... If she stated the reasoning she has, you'd call her a weirdo. And she knows that. Because it's likely been said when she explained it before. It's fucking OCD, it's *compulsive,* Amber. It's in the damn name. And it's the usual thing for it to be like... "Nonsense" to others without the disorder. Like "I have to open and close the door five times before I leave the house or else [x bad thing] will happen to me/my family/my loved ones". I know someone who had to wash their hands four times, exactly four, or else they thought they'd get deathly sick. Every time they washed their hands, for any reason. It's not going to make sense to those without the disorder, even if explained.
Call me crazy but there's a channel called The Ankle and soooo many times I see clips of amber from their videos and she legit looks like she has a wonky eye. In certain frames you can see it easily
Krystle’s cancer scare and biopsy (the hospital and car scene) were so disgusting and disturbing. It’s always about Amber. She fakes her concern and then laughs and films her while Krystle is speaking with someone about her recent procedure. Ugh.
It was so obvious she was mimicking what she thinks people would say in this situation. Gf might have cancer alr: “I’m just so not happy about this” while shoving a camera in her face and telling thousands of strangers her medical condition. She is the farthest (and fattest) thing from an empath since she truly does not give a shit about anything but herself. She’s nauseating.
idk, manipulating ur partner to be around to wipe ur ass only to admit you never loved them because a new wipey came to town is pretty horrid behavior. and she was in her 30s at that point. i do get what u mean tho, i think shes just intolerable every year shes been alive lmfaooo
@@courtneygrier2015you and me both, girl. Just goes to show that Amber will diagnose herself with anything and claim the Dr. diagnosed her. The ignorance of this woman is beyond anything I can comprehend.
@@lillith77that's her gig. Live with others, have others take "care" of her. That way when things go south she can step back and point the finger. It's NEVER her!
@@butameremortal9424I think when she was younger she could play the abused girl from foster care and get a lot of sympathy. As you get older most people expect you to deal with the issues of your youth and become an adult. So now it’s not as easy to manipulate people.
@@lindalumae you nailed it! She learned by default how to manipulate thru her experience. Similar to Gypsy Rose almost. They may not have set out to be this person but are nonetheless. It's time to truly "grow up" take a personal assessment and change these toxic habits/behaviors. I think that's why she is forever the chameleon. She "changed" and mimicked whomever she was living with.
She didn't admire krystle, she was insanely jealous of her. She gave Krystal the ipod that Krystal gave her and took the brand new one Krystal's parents gave to Krystal complaining hers only had half the capacity - yet when Krystal asked her how much memory she wanted, she threw a screaming tantrum.
And on the toilet at that. I seriously can't wrap my head around how she thought posting that online was okay. She did it to destiny also, but why haven't we seen Amberlynn sitting on the toilet??
@@disenchanted366 another thing about that too is the fact that Amber is so overly handsy with her, like constantly needing to touch her. At one point as Amber giving a ‘head massage’ Krystle literally has to tell her “are you done?” Like- Ugh. I don’t know if it’s just me coming from an autistic person, but I feel so bad for Krystle and the fact she had to put up with that mess for so long.
Guess 11lbs overweight sounds like nothing to her. She's too stupid to understand this relatively to her dog. When she gains 11lbs, she's just so proud of herself bc, "it could have been worse."
Too bad Krystal couldn’t have passed it along to others. I like what Beck said “ just don’t go there” if I was Krystal’s parents, I would throw her out of there. She is obnoxious. The sweet voice in the beginning is like the abuser b4 they get married and then lets loose. Thank you for showing these.
The sign language lie is especially funny to me, because apparently she doesn’t realize that, just like spoken languages, sign languages communicate through WORDS. She went from “I learned the ABCs” to “I signed everything I heard or thought.” So she wants us to believe that either she can interpret ASL fluently, or she signed full sentences and conversations letter-by-letter🤣
Because I live under a rock & never followed anything to do with ALR, I recently went on a binge as more YT creators started covering her, I was shocked to find she's my age, I genuinely couldn't tell her age because she's so overweight. She literally never matured past the age of 14yr old mean girl😏
When Amber pointed it out I was angry for Krystal. As someone who has lazy eye I'm extremely self conscious about it. So, I can imagine how it made sweet Krystal feel.
As a beagle owner I felt so bad for monkey. They are a working breed and high energy. They need to be outside for a couple hours a day, running and sniffing. She abuses every pet she has
When she say he goes on A walk a day, a SINGLE walk, I gasped. I can't imagine the stress that poor dog had.... That's not good for the health of ANY dog. I have two working breeds (a husky and a coonhound) and I walk them 30 minutes at least twice a day, and then smaller walks in between. I can't imagine ONE walk a day for a dog 😭
@@Nopee906 awh so cute. Mine is a beagle coonhound mix. They are definitely schedule and working oriented. At 4pm he will start pacing for a walk. My corgi is a blob and hates exercise and walking, I have to force her outside haha.
@@Nopee906I always wonder how folks like you manage this when most seem they can't. Everybody I know just puts the dogs out back for a few minutes when nature calls. They treat me like I'm nuts for thinking that it's sad for an animal to live an entire life indoors. Honestly relieved Monkey even got one...
Thank you for showing how awful she was to Krystle. I remember that clip where she filmed Krystle's OCD and how much Amber was annoyed by it. Clearly no empathy for her own girlfriend. Until she figures her shit out, she deserves to be alone.
The time she tried to catch Krystle on the toilet nearly gave ME anxiety. I can't imagine living with that thing and her trying to video you to embarrass you. She was so creepy
Honestly, i feel so bad for people who are so devoid of a personality, they think faking a mental illness or personality disorder will make them interesting.
In the Destiny era she said something along the lines of: I go through and write down EVERY BILL WE PAY and when we have to pay it! I’m so OCD! Girl, that’s a budget, most of us have one.
😂 I make my shopping list twice. Once to list everything I need and the second one to organize the list. It's not OCD. It's trying to make my shopping trip more efficient so I can be in and out
What I love is seeing Casey, Krystal, Destiny, and ESPECIALLY Beck moving forward and healing from their abuser. Thank you, as always Mr. Snowflake, for helping stand up for victims of domestic abuse. It is not spoken about enough in same sex relationships and that needs to change. 🖤
Interesting how Amber says Krystle’s mom went to the grocery store “for herself” at 1:30:45. They had to have made it clear that they were specifically not buying food for Amber, which implies she has issues stealing other people's snacks.
When has Amberlynn ever apologised for her behaviour? "My mental illness does make me manippleate in ways" "It wasnt me it was the binge monster" Chesus Ive been trapped in gorlworld for years and still didnt know she was this horrible.
The more Krystle worked on herself, the more bitter, jealous and sabotaging Amber became. And blaming a medical procedure on a dog not eating well, barely exercising and gaining weight? WOW. What's worse, is even the partners whose health remain in the gutter with hers, she doesn't treat those partners any better!
Her ridiculing Krystle for her interests and hobbies is so horrible. I feel like she’s saying, how dare you use money on yourself and not me, how dare you ignore me to do the things you enjoy. Disgusting.
When Amber was with Casey, Casey had gotten a gift card for his birthday. He went to buy a couple of video games and Amber guilted him into putting one back and getting something for Amber. She's absolutely disgusting.
My boyfriend is so giving I know he would try and buy me something (even something small) if he got a gift card as a gift. There’s no way I would let him do that. Thats just horrible that she complained enough that Krystle felt she had to get her something with HER gift
I just started this and my god, Pookie talking about how it's lame Krystle has hobbies and likes interest and the who "it's crazy she has so many plushies." Hell, I'd hangout with Krystle cause we have the same interests. I guess anyone who has a hobby or interests is lame to Ambie
As a veterinarian, I’m horrified with so many things she did to Monkey in this video. I guarantee his veterinarian did not say “it’s totally normal” or even acceptable for Monkey to be morbidly obese because he was neutered, or that beagles are usually 15 lbs overweight. 11 pounds IS “so bad” when you’re talking about a dog, especially one that size. Sadly, I believe her when she says she treats him like she would her own child.
I’m the daughter of a vet. I had to pause the video and walk away for ten minutes. My blood was boiling! Amber can eat herself into an early grave, but don’t abuse animals like that! I really despise her!
Remember when Amber binged and pooped on the floor and blamed the cats, Monkey and the other dogs? Idk if she actually pooped on the floor but it wouldn’t shock me. Krystle parents were nice enough to give Amber money monthly so she could buy food and she ate it all. Cats are sassy but not sassy enough to knock all the food off the counter. Dogs are rambunctious as well but they wouldn’t just eat certain things. They inhale anything if given the chance. My dog got ahold of a spicy chicken sandwich and ate everything including the wrapper and she got diarrhea. When they get anything spicy you’re not going to get pile of turds you’re going to get piles of diarrhea.
Is doesn’t even make sense to say they’re usually 15lb overweight. If they were usually their normal weight +15lb then the total of those two numbers would be their usual weight. But it’s not. That’s *over*weight
@@Anna-1937 agreed, I had to stop watching after she dropped him on the deck outside & forced him on the floor into a spin, the dog ran away for a reason. You can tell by all the animals body language that they're afraid of her. The only positive thing that'll come out of this, is when Amber dies in the next decade or so from her weight, meaning animals will be free from her cruelty. I thought she was an awful person before I saw how she treats animals, but deplorable barely even covers it😡
I nearly spontaneously combusted when snowflake broke out that 2013 Tumblr post about being diagnosed with ASMR. I've been in the amberverse since the destiny era but he still hits me with receipts I've never seen before. We appreciate you mr snowflake!
The way Rafe and amber were gossiping about Krystal’s relationship really shows that they are such mean girls. The kind of girls who befriend you just so they can make fun of you in secret with eachother
@@theredlantern yeah fair enough, I wouldn’t like them either. But for amber to claim her and Krystal were so close and then talk about her private business on live to people that don’t even know her is icky
She’s mean to Krystle. I don’t remember watching this era. Simply mean. Making fun of a loved one’s affliction to the point of laughing at her is so mean.
I really get bothered by people who are mean but pretend that they’re just joking or being funny. It’s always at someone else’s expense and they act like the person is being sensitive.
I had a partner that laughed at me one or a few times, and man, it still makes me angry when I remember it. Especially that one time, the other times it was more on the annoying side. But it would make me feel a certain type of way. He had a certain type of face, if I can call it that, and I still have a disdain for faces that look like his... my old anger will kinda stir a little under the surface and I've got to kind of remind myself that it's not him. 😅
The Walmart practice driving perfectly symbolises her life.. Endless meaningless laps, well within her restricted comfort zone, never daring to venture out onto life's highways.. With snacks 😂
One of the scariest things about people like Amber is how they claim to “love” people, when they clearly don’t know the meaning of the word. To Amber, love is about controlling others, and what others can do for her.
I watch ARL reaction and commentary videos because of a morbid curiosity, trying to figure out if I can find insight into why my mother is the way she is. So far my only conclusion is that they are awful people who leave a wake of destruction in their path.
1:27:32 she is absolutely trying to sabotage Krystal. You can hear the jealousy in her voice when she talks about Krystal burning more calories than her - trying to explain it away by saying Krystal has a faster HR (which is bad so therefore ALR is healthier since her sitting HR is lower) - or when she talks about how skinny she is. I’ve had friends like ALR and I’ve gotten that exact same slightly aggressive belly touch w/a ‘you’re SO skinny!! Omg soooo great for you!!!!!’
I could code the "eating more makes you lose more weight" as willful ignorance cus she wants an excuse to eat more, rather than intentionally sabotaging Krystle, but I can see both being true at once. Like wanting to keep Krystle in the same delusion as her, and not surpass. There're no alternative theories for me about the "sooo skinny" comments though, those were full of cloaked anger. 😬
it's so aggravating when Amber would make fun of her ex's hobbies when her only hobby is hoarding notebooks she's never going to use and ordering food on Uber Eats
@@mamamoonxo5081Laygos, journaling (don’t know if she even actually does it tbh), eating, and surfing Reddit threads about her and then pretending like she’s never touched Reddit with a 10 ft pole.
I kinda feel like we’re all lucky that amber is so limited by her size. I’d be worried for the general public if she was free to go out and about like the rest of us. She’s awful
Monkey was not Ambers dog, she 100% lied about it being hers. She wanted everything that was Krystals to be hers and so that she could show "how good of a dog mom she is". She didnt take any of the aminals with her when she moved.
You are 100% correct!!. Remember when she poured all the individual bottled waters into a gallon jug?. She’s so bored she has absolutely nothing to do and of course she needs content (if you call pouring water content).
If they had tried to interfere in the relationship and make Amber leave Chrystal could have left with her. Once they realize how bad she was they were probably afraid of that happening. At least with them in their house they could try and interfere without pushing chrystal away.
@@Samantha360 Amber Lynn had no money, was a minor and had no connections... Krystal was dependent on her parents, that was not even a possibility! The parents were just stupid, negligent and way too tolerant of ALR. It's on them.
@@Samantha360 Aw god, I don't even know anymorrrreeeee. Even if she was of age, she had zippity to fall back on. Her timeline is the damn Bermuda triangle and she's simultaneously 14 and 140 in my head now. D:
All of her gf's have broken up with StickyLynn. They all, also, had to endure sleeping in the bed with her, until her next victim/carer was lined up. As if the relationship hadn't scarred them for life already.
Yes she mirrors all her girlfriends. She mirrors their personality and pretends she likes everything they like. She smothers anybody she is with. Money is her way of control the person she is with for example, she does a lot of gift giving in the beginning to try to manipulate the person she is with.
I think Amber was jealous of Krystal and that's why she copied and put her down all the time. Amber didn't have OCD until she got with Krystal. Everytime Amber says "when I was younger I was diagnosed with...." that's how you know she's lying again. I've noticed Amber copies her girlfriend's and their diagnoses all the time It's weird like she has no personality of her own.
Normally when one partner is completely dependent on the other for everything, and their only other options between having a bed and being homeless is their partner, they can become vulnerable to abuse. It speaks volumes about Amber that she was entirely dependent on Krystle and her family, and she was the abusive one.
I have said it before and I'll say it again. I put money on it that Amberlynn hit Becky. Becky to this day seems afraid of her so she'll likely never admit to that. I hope Becky has gotten the help she needed and learned to cultivate healthier relationships. The way she embraced Amberlynn's manipulation and abuse was honestly disturbing. It almost cost her her life and did cost her her relationship with her mother, very sad.
Even though Amber is a terrible person- i don’t think we should assume that- considering abuse doesn’t have to be physical. I had a stepdad who was VERYYYYYYY verbally abusive- even before he put his hands on me before the last time i saw him- i was terrified of just how scary/mad he could become and would just take it in a way. And i can see a little bit of that in Beck. I think they probably just felt stuck/felt no hope. I could be completely wrong as well. I just hope Beck is thriving and that they are truly happy.
She'll openly beat Krystle down for how much she loved anime, yet this beast has piles upon piles upon piles upon piles upon piles of journals, stickers, tiny toy condiments, perfume bottles, unused wax melts, candles, crystals, etc etc etc. (many of which, rather than being proudly displayed like Krystle's dolls, were stored away in big bins where no one could enjoy them) Can't imagine spending four whole years with someone like that, I hope Krystle's doing alright. Do NOT stay with someone who openly ridicules you and makes you feel bad for your quirks and likes. They are breaking you down and tearing apart your soul little by little until you're no longer you, you merely exist to complement them. You do not have to like everything your partner likes, but you DO have to respect them. Unless they're hurting someone ofc.
I bet that $1400/ month was Krystle's disability check. She said she gets $1400 for food because she was claiming Krystle's check as her own, and they didn't have to pay any household bills. She says "for food" because that's all she thinks she needs
I’m in school to be a therapist and I’m also just a human, no one who says they’re empathetic THAT much is an empath. In fact, they’re probably a raging narcissist.
I've had therapists say "you're a highly sensitive person" but it comes with coping skills like setting boundaries and learning to navigate emotions when people around you experience big emotions. I like that so much more than "empath" because you can be sensitive to a lot. People's emotions. Sounds. Situations. And it doesn't come with a positive or negative connotation which I liked
The logic - ‘My dogs obese but there’s far worse problems out there.’ By that logic she can say ‘Sure my child has ringworm and is malnourished but there’s far worse problems out there.’
The only thing she's ever said about her animals that was truthful was when she said she treats them like her babies. I do believe if she had kids she'd abuse them the exact same way she does to her pets.
@@venomg5799 lol, I only watch reaction cuz I get frustrated with her. She needs some help cuz she doesn’t seem to tell the truth. Mr Snowman brings all these things to light over the years, I hope she watches and learns that people know she is lying 🤥 have a great day!
@@Judith-wb3jl yeah, she'll never change. Most of us who know that are just watching for the crash & burn. Not to see progress bcuz there will be none.
The signing behind the back bit killed me 😂 I don't believe Crystal's parents were actually giving her $1,400 a month that's probably how much Crystal got from her disability checks or whatever and Amber just said it was hers.They probably gave her $20 here and there to go to the store but there's no way they were handing her over cash like that. Just another lie.
That creepy way she says "She's gonna get it" in that childlike menacing voice makes me scared inside hearing it. It's like the lid of anger almost blows off but gets caught and adorably slammed down in that horribly cutesy tone. 😱
Dahm, my comment got deleted. Thanks youtube. Amber being mean to Crystal's plushie collection. While owning 1000 necklaces. Rings. Perfumes and earrings. Make me so *********** ********** ******** mad
My life experiences have made me learn that if people have to constantly remind everyone how "good" and "empathetic" they are, then the opposite is probably true. Amberlynn Reid is a waddling 600lb red flag.
my grandparents had a purebred beagle Zoey who they spoiled to death. this dog was my best friend and seeing monkey reminded me of how large their dog Zoey was. it was horrible
Biggest red flag: Constantly calling yourself an 'empath'
My ex bff used to dangle that word over me and make me feel like I was so morally inferior.
After our friendship fell apart I'm still convinced I'm a terrible person when she was straight out abusive.
It’s exactly the same as Onision calling himself the “most honest person on RUclips,” constantly. Always making sure to remind us he’s in fact the most honest. When he’s literally one of the worst people on the planet.
The more someone has to reiterate that they’re in fact “so honest,” or “so empathetic” or whatever; 9 times out of 10 they are in fact literally the opposite of whatever personality trait they try to paint themselves as. Wether that’s empathic, honest, intelligent, moral, respectful, understanding, everything. If someone has to constantly remind everyone they are [insert desirable quality here], that would then mean that they’re constantly doing or saying things that would lead people to forget they have that quality thus meaning they don’t actually embody that quality in the first place. It’s even more true if it’s basically the first thing they point out about themselves the first time you meet them.
constantly saying you have OCD to make you look "quirky" and then laugh at Krystal having to compulsively washing her hands - the most classic behavior of OCD
She’s not an empath. She mirrors other peoples emotions because she can’t regulate her emotions and she doesn’t have a personality of her own.
Sociopath more like
If a person has to constantly remind you how kind, selfless, good, giving and empathetic they are, you can bet on the fact that they are the exact opposite of all those things.
Her saying "yikes" about almost every single one of her girlfriends interests or collectable hobbies at some point during each of her relationships is just disgusting to me. For someone who's only hobbies are eating and hoarding, she sure does have an opinion on what other people genuinely do enjoy
When all Pookie does is eat and build laygos
Expert laygooos
Yeah look at all the "collectable's" she bought Destiny 😂😂😂😂 thar girl is such a hypocrite.
When she was living with Krystle, off of Krystle’s parents and Krystle disability check THEN is was “our money”. With Beck, it was never “our money” it was “Amber’s car, Amber’s money, Amber’s cereal, Amber’s apartment”.
Such an empath.
Good observation!
Woahhhh yup she’s so empathetic
While living in Krystal’s parents she was walking around saying everything was hers and their pets were hers.
I wonder if she gave wifey the car she bought
@@purplepandapower8112 she did. Wipey drove 15 hours straight to Oklahoma where Amber's new apartment was, took her to Target or Walmart (can't remember which one exactly) and peaced out! 🤣🤣🤣 she couldn't wait to get away from Hamber and I can't say I blame her!
The entire vibe of Amber's relationship with Krystle is "middle school mean girl picking on the quiet, shy kid in class"
I didn't know much about the Kyrstle era, but holy crap the stalking trying to scare her and even going into public bathrooms trying to catch her on the toilet?! just wow...and this is a grown ass woman
It's infuriating
and mocking how the quiet kid speaks/acts. I just can't get over that. it's sick.
I think she used to act how she was treated in school
That's what fat women do
This woman filming SOMEONE ELSE'S private cancer scare journey was disgusting. And filming her on the damn toilet when she knows Krystle is shy (and that's completely inappropriate anyway)...I never liked Amber, but watching this era is pushing me toward hatred.
Her insulting Krystle and then passing it off as a compliment.. “look at your lazy eye… it’s so adorable” “your hair is so thin.. in a good way”
I was looking for this comment. She’s just awful.
Wait, she was literally NEGGING her? God, did she get her dating advice out of a pick-up artist handbook?
“You’re so cute”😡
This is called negging and it’s a common narcissist tactic.
It's such mean girl behavior. Could be a Disney villain.
She fell "in love" with Krystle after she met her generous parents and saw her next opportunity. Period.
Absolutely!
She def had a crush on krystles dad
@RUclipscansuckit it’s my own sick speculation haha but she behaved like a 13 year old schoolgirl when it came to him and I always felt like she stayed up till 430 am so she could see James (that’s when he got home from work) and corner him into being alone with her so she could get that attention she wanted from a man. Again my sick 🤢 speculation but I always felt like she’s liked men they’ve just been harder to “catch”, and didn’t know if she’d ever be in this close proximity to a man again so the weirdo attention seeking part of her brain doesn’t care it’s her gfs dad cause she doesn’t care about the gf or the dad cause she’s just there to self indulge and needs ppl to enable it and it happened to be them. But she mentions him a looot and how much he means to her and she supposedly means to him, waaay more than she ever mentions krystles mom. And I don’t know if I remember her EVER talking about krystle as highly as she would talk about James.
@@mayb4585 I think she’s just endlessly seeking parents to finish raising her
That’s what all her partners are to her, a convenience and a source of mooching off. She would even change her orientation I bet if she ever found a male victim.
"Yes you are obese, but youre not the biggest dog in the world are ya ?" Is exactly the logic she uses to justify who she is in every way
Exactly. I went through a period of that a few years back when I was in a weightloss slump and had lost motivation. I gained so much weight back with the mentality of ‘well there are other people much bigger so I’m ok’. I’m glad I got myself out of it and started losing again
Its exactly why she watvhes my 600 lb life. If she can look at people who are 800lbs and think "i'm not like that" its enough justification for her
Amber complained that Krystal had tons of stuffed animals but failed to mention SHE had thousands of cheap earring and cheap perfume and cheap wax melts and cheap Torrid clothes.
One of the best dating advice is never date anyone that makes you embarrassed by your stuffed animals. Especially plushies in her room in her house.
THATS WHAT I SAID! I CANT Get over that. It's literally so MF mean!
And now she creams her panties over legos...
Hey hey hey, to be fair, torrid clothes might be cheap quality but they are really expensive 😅
Woah there torrid dresses are usually 70 per 😅
It’s called mirroring . Amber picks up the personality of every girlfriend she has. Destiny fell for the shy sweet girl Amber portrayed but she began mirroring Destiny. So of course Destiny didn’t want to date herself lol
My mother is like that she really has no "personality" of herself she just mimics everyone around her that is really close to her and who heavily influences her. From acting like my cold boomer grandparents, to a crazy controlling ex, to now me who struggled to find my own personality. She's nearly 60 and I feel she needs to be around someone constantly to mimic them.
Isn't that a consequence of her childhood and her being in foster care?.
@@henriettereines6273 how much was she in foster care? She makes it sound like her whole childhood, yet tells stories of being with her parents in early years, 10, 12, 14, then she jumps into Casey’s house. Like I was asked to be a plus model at 15 but my parents wouldn’t let me. She also talks a lot about her grandma, one dead now and one alive. I am assuming the one alive is the one who said she could not come back. She is much older than her brother, but she found him with a cord around his neck and saved him as an infant. I just watched a story she told about a life savor candy where her dad had to either call an ambulance or took her to the ER. Would be interesting to track back to see. Maybe she ran away and ended in foster care. You never hear stories about her foster care families. 🤷🏼🤷🏼 Something just doesn’t add up!
@@henriettereines6273probably, but she is 30 years old. No excuse to not get a proper personality, surely you can buy one at Wolmort 🙄
Feel sorry for the kid but not for the adult that does not want to know and learn any better
@@henriettereines6273 It's a quality of narcissism. The tragedy of the narcissist is that without a person to be a source, they are completely empty.
Not her blaming Monkey for eating three bananas, 12 rice crackers and an entire bag of Chex mix 🤦♀️
That is so crazy that she did such a thing. Like wtf then she’s all loud and they all know the truth and just listening to her lie on the dog. Unbelievable
I'm guessing after this binge they finally put locks on the food cupboards. To ensure that the "dog" can't binge anymore...
@thisisbillgates I honestly wonder if she then shit all over the floor! I know it sounds way out there, but could she have?
Interesting that Amber called Krystle "dramatic" for actually dealing with OCD symptoms and just the other day Amber tried to make herself a victim because her previous girlfriends supposedly called her "dramatic" 🤔🤔🤔
And now she's losing her mind cuz Becky has a new girlfriend. Just a narcissist narcissisting.
also doesnt amber say she has ocd too and that she "wont talk about it" bet she just taking that from krystle
@@iWSNTmxlly She once claimed to have Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder. OCPD but I think her biggest problem is OBCD.
@@iWSNTmxllyI believe that. I have OCD and I hesitate to accuse someone of lying about it because you can’t usually tell. But amber is so public, I think I’d be able to tell.
@@rosamy2017I’m not a doctor or anything, but it seems like it would be really hard to diagnose Amber with anything because she’s such a lah
I bet she talked shit about Krystle's interests because she was jealous. She probably never had the chance to be into plushies or video games or anything really, Krystle was supported in her interests by her family and she oozed bitterness because of it.
100%.
Now she is back hanging out with her own mother who is using her for $$.
Karma..🤭
@@jaggirlAmber is using her mom for transportation. Fair trade at this point, giving up her days off work catering to her own ki who refuses to hire a car service that can accommodate the disabled/her weight class.
Most Uber and Lyft will deny her service after seeing her.
@@jaggirlher mom is not using her for money ever moved her fat butt over there so she can have somebody to take care of her
That's what I felt too. She was so jealous and tried to make Krystle feel small for liking things
No matter what others are interested in Amber will ALWAYS find a way to put it down or dismiss it. That's just what Narcopaths do.
"Um, the dog ate all of the new groceries you bought! In the middle of the night! Yep, he opened all the bags and boxes himself. What a nightmare!"
The dog only ate the stuff Krystal’s mom bought and brought home. Amber was probably upset that she didn’t get to go grocery shopping to.
😅😅😅
That was her binging disorder and shes blaming the dog. Never in my life seen a dog eat bananas with peel and all, unless they were starving. Not to mention a short, overweight beagal jump up on counter. Shes blaming it on poor dog.
Beck got a cute gf announcement AND Victims of an Empath drops on the same day? I'll bet pookie is apoplectic in that apartment 😆😆😆
She is, she's losing her mind on ig right now 😂
I sense a buzzballs cameo on the horizon lmao
@@WobblesandBeanI can’t wait to see the reaction videos covering her rage lol
@@stringcheeseofficial1977 BUZZBALLZ cameo 😂😂😂
where did becky post about that?
Damn i feel so bad for Krystal. She stole her identity and mock her for the exact identity she stole???
Cross the wires? I can't even make a pot of spaghetti!
She treated Krystal like she was a pet. I’ve seen middle schoolers act more mature than amber
Krystal seems very stunted mentally @@Coconutthecat69
Between experiences and an interesting article I found called 5 signs of narcissistic abuse from verywellhelp...I have suspicions. The specific thing that really got me was when she just kept insulting her plushies and anime in general but then tried so hard to copy other things like her disorders and glasses. That was super prominent from what I saw irl.
She may have mimicked her personality, but identity theft is something completely not this. Unless she has a shitload of credit cards in Krystal’s name, she didn’t steal her identity lol
Honestly, washing your hands after cleaning the kitty litter is not an OCD trait, is something EVERYONE SHOULD DO, I thought it was common knowledge to wash your hands after being in contact with feces.
Basic hygiene Amber, geez.....
she doesn't even wipe, do youe xpect her to wash her hands?
I could not imagine not washing my hands after changing my cats litter thats so fucking disgusting 😰
So weird how she shames Krystle for her hobbies like gaming and plushies… she did the same to Beck. Imagine people having hobbies besides drinking and eating 😒
It's almost like she hates any hobby that takes attention away from herself
Right?! She seems to have almost NO hobbies or passions outside of eating, drinking buzzballs and being an abusive pile of NOPE. She does seem to like building Lego sets, but also seems to care more about announcing how expensive the sets she buys are than actually building and enjoying them.
Also YES! To the disliking her partners having hobbies that take time/attention away from her. Sweet damnit, she needs to work on herself!
It's bc she has no hobbies of her own and her own hobbies include eating and spending money
Well, she colors, draws lines on her papers with different colored markers, puts her stickers on them, like all 7 yr olds...and plays with her expensive Legos. Lol
It's because Amber has no hobbies except eating and obsessing over herself. When people use "obsessed" towards other's hobbies... it's always a negative connotation. It means they hate the hobby the person has.
Only people with the hobby should use "obsessed" with their own hobby.
Like I'm obsessed with learning about ancient history, and that's OK. But I'd never tell someone else, "You're obsessed."
Idk I love seeing people have hobbies and passions. It makes them interesting and endearing.
I've had partners in love with anime. I don't like anime, but I'll watch a bit because I want my partner to be happy expressing their passion. Even if I'm not into it. It's about the person, not the hobby.
As long as it's reciprocated when I want to share my own. Amber wouldn't know how to do that.
Does Amber realize that OCD isn’t being organized and doing quirky things for no reason… and that it’s like “if I don’t wash my hands six times in a row, /the right way/ my parents are going to die in a horrible car crash tomorrow!”
I’m married to a man with actual severe OCD and it affects his life on a daily fucking basis and I promise you he is also the least organized person I know. OCD is “I can never throw this piece of paper away because I received it at a time in my life that was bad. And things started going good after I got this piece of paper in the mail and so if I ever get rid of this piece of paper or it gets damaged…everything‘s gonna go to shit again. This piece of junk mail is the thread between my good life and absolute disaster.”
God, she pisses me off dude
At this point its just another word that she uses for attention. Just like she says "traumatized" to describe doing anyhing. Not words that should be used lightly
She literally labeled basic organization habits as OCD 😂
Such an important message, thank you for sharing your story! OCD is so debilitating and it’s unfortunate how it’s essentially become a slang word for organized/picky.
@@la6136 if you're a pig who doesn't shower (remember she spent a year -and I believe it was even more- without taking a bath), doesn't do household chores, doesn't work, doesn't organize anything, even the most remote cleaning habit is OCD. So corkyyy.
She didn’t have it and it’s an insult to people that do. Glasses haven’t seen her wear them since.
i hate that she made fun of Krystal for having a personality and actual interests when she (alr) is the most generic person with no real interests.
She’s as close to a grey blob person like on the Fairly OddParents as a human can get
Being insecure is forgivable. Bullying people to cope with your insecurities is not.
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it could be if she took accountability though. but she's unable to.
Why would being insecure not be forrgivable? Doesn't have anything to do with being a good/bad person...
@@aichohvee She says being insecure IS forgivable. Just that coping with your own insecurities by hurting others is what isn't right.
@@maskedlucario No I know, but it sounds like "it's a bad and ugly trait to have but it's forgivable". I don't get that.
Amber saying "I feel so free now" when Krystle got her license was kinda..weird.
I bet Krystle felt more trapped when she heard SoulsuckerLynn say it..
That’s because she now had a chauffeur at her beck and call
It was like one of those eel creatures stuck to a fish’s back saying it was free after the fish swam away.
She seriously thought ASMR was a mental illness 💀
That asmr videos help with 😂
Which us ironic af bc I watch asmr and legitimately have issues
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 nooooooo💀💀💀💀💀💀🤡
I'm not joking at all I actually met a healthcare worker who thought the same thing so 😬.
I bet she thought it was something cool like synesthesia
It's called 'negging'. That and constant boundary-crossing to destroy someone's self worth so they will lower their standards. Lovely stuff.
I guess pickup artists didn't invent the concept
@@tom1644xyeah not an original thought in their heads, they just give abuse tactics cute names and pretend they are normal behaviours
Oh have a family member like that. So fun!
For people from the pre “negging” days, it’s also called “reverse psychology “ (layman’s term, not diagnostic)
I can’t believe I just read a Wikipedia entry on negging to gain some understanding. I feel like I put the elder in elder millennial 😅
Funny as hell that shes calling Pokemon lame and then years later claims she was always a fan.
Didn't dvmb fvck just do a "diamond" painteeeeeen with Pokémon???
@@venomg5799 Precisely 🗿
Or that she role played anime characters
Or when Amber said that she was a Korn fan while she was with Becky even though we've never actually seen her listen to that type of music before
Or when she called herself a Harry Potter fan/Potterhead even though in an older video she said that she would never read the HP books
yeahh... now that having stuffies considered quirky, sure she has a great opinion now............
I wish my OCD consisted of planning out my jewelry instead of spending ten hours at a time making lists of things so I don’t die.
@@Mea_Culpa1yes, God takes care of us. But that’s a pretty general statement that doesn’t offer any practical solutions. Sometimes God takes care of us by helping us find therapists or mental health medications that work for us :)
Lol. I wish my OCD was just washing the dishes every day and not having to turn my lights on and off a certain number of times so my house doesnt catch fire 😂
I’m an empath. Of course I’m going to abuse my pets, bully my girlfriends, and even make up horrible lahs about one of them SA’ing me.
I’m an empath. Of course Im going to laugh at other people’s health issues while I cry endlessly over my own
Can't be an empathy without knowing the pressure points of those closest to you🤷♀️
@@DirtyShizno She even had the heart to not leave marks on Casey's face.
I’m an empath. Of course your life experience is my life experience.
I'm an empath. Of course I bulldoze through all of my girlfriend's boundaries and laugh maniacally in her face when she shows extreme discomfort because it's fun for me.
I still don't understand why they let her live there for YEARS😮
And she got paid about $1400 a month just to exist in their house. It was ridiculous
Because sometimes the alternative is to lose your child and then they don't always find their way back, especially when they are subjected to the abuse that Krystle was. So better to put up with the bs than risk your child .....
They don't seem that smart, tbh.
@@lamenziesThat’s harsh. I think they knew Amber was trash very early on, but were concerned about their daughter being a loner. It wasn’t the brightest move, but I think they were driven by emotions. There’s obviously some nuance to the whole thing.
@@rsh793right. They may have not "seen" it the way we do. It was probably for the best. That way when Krystal was done with ALR she was safe at home with the support she needed.
When I was a child, my mother spent a lot of time in hospitals for various reasons such as breast cancer, diabetes, etc. My greatest fear was that she would die. One day, I saw her trip over a rug. And from that day forward, I was obsessed with making sure that every single rug in the house was not crumpled. I made sure that the decorative frayed edges were perfectly straight. Before school, I would inspect every rug in the house so that she would not trip. I was completely obsessed with straightening rugs. Back then, it was a powerful obsession. If someone walked across a rug and crumpled it, it drove me nuts. It's shameful for her to exploit Krystal for having OCD, and shameful to pretend to have it herself.
I can relate in a way. Sending you a warm internet hug 🤗
@@nikkireigns , how kind of you...thanks so much!
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That sounds heartbreaking! I'm so sorry you had to feel that fear and worry as a child. That is truly so sad to hear. But, a very sweet, caring child as well. Bless you!! That must've been so very hard on you.
@@NaeNae_AutumnFairy, thank you so much for your kind and caring words. ❤
She's acting like the dog is a human only 11 lbs overweight. It's a dog. This is like a person being 200 lbs overweight.
Absolutely! My vet clinic showed that 1lb overweight on different sizes of dogs. 3lbs overweight on a small dog is like 50lbs on a human 💀. My puggle got fat at one point (totally out fault, he went from being a hungry puppy to a lazy adult dog) and our vet told us to absolutely get it in check. We reduced his food and increased his exercise because he relies upon us for his health! Beagles are food driven, as are pugs. He wanted to eat constantly. It's up to us to make sure he's NOT doing that!
@@NM-vp4ql my parents have a blue healer and he's the same way. That dog is faaaaattt. I try to play and walk him whenever I'm in the area because that poor dog's hips are screaming. I'm glad you got your doggo healthy again :) I know how hard it can be. They'd be less special if it was easy I suppose
Especially when that's nearly twice the weight that dog is supposed to be.
But then again look at Amber, shes twice the weight she's supposed to be and thinks she's healthy.
This is why I got a huge dog. More wiggle room to figure out if I’m not feeding her properly. She weighs half of what I do already and she’s still a puppy. And no, she’s not overweight. She’s just a really large breed.
@@SjofnBM1989 more than twice the weight. More like 3x at least. She’s 5’2. 250 lbs would be morbidly obese on that frame.
Poor Krystle must have been anxious every minute of every day. Imagine being super shy and having someone shove a camera in your face 24/7. It’s like a living nightmare.
I feel for that poor girl 😔 😟 as someone who was super shy and kind of still am, who dated someone who constantly took photos of me and posted them (they were a photographer like it was their hobby so I didn't mind to begin with and even found it flattering but it became suffocating like I'm very awkward and shy so I barely even took selfies 😆 so it got too much after a while and I felt like I didn't get a say in it coz they'd just take them without consent.) I can empathise a little bit with how that mustve felt for her 💔 My experiences would of been even worse if it was videos and live streams holy crap, genuinely hope she is getting therapy for this 🙏 ❤️
Especially when any time you act on a compulsion, your “girlfriend” mocks you for it publicly for her followers. Diabolical.
I think she started filming her as a way of bullying her. She saw that it freaked her out then started doing it all the time as a tool of coercive control.
I guess, but it was her parents house. Woulda been easy to use them as an excuse to get her out of there.
sounds like shes confusing empathy with the way she mirrors whoever she's around in order to better manipulate them 🤪
Also just the way she talks about how "if my friend is sad I'm sad too" but what she actually means is "I see that xyz emotion is currently getting you attention and I want to be the center of attention so I'm going to copy you."
People who loudly proclaim themselves as Empaths are usually psychopaths who only vaguely understand the concept with no experience of it. It's an excuse for them to manipulate people while blaming them for it.
“People make fun of OCD but not me cause I have it” *proceeds to humiliate Krystal for one of the most common compulsions*
"HAHAHA she has to wash her hands."
29:52 I just happened to be at the part while reading this comment
No because "Explain this". The thing is that like... If she stated the reasoning she has, you'd call her a weirdo. And she knows that. Because it's likely been said when she explained it before. It's fucking OCD, it's *compulsive,* Amber. It's in the damn name. And it's the usual thing for it to be like... "Nonsense" to others without the disorder. Like "I have to open and close the door five times before I leave the house or else [x bad thing] will happen to me/my family/my loved ones". I know someone who had to wash their hands four times, exactly four, or else they thought they'd get deathly sick. Every time they washed their hands, for any reason. It's not going to make sense to those without the disorder, even if explained.
@@XansStitches As someone with severe OCD, Amber makes a complete joke out of us.
Not to mention OCPD and OCD are so wildly different and I do not believe she has OCD and is mirroring for attention.
Krystal won’t touch meat and then amber gets creeped out by meat????
Good point. Another example of hamberlynn picking up other people’s characteristics for sympathy
Creeped out while constantly deep throating chicken sausages? Right… 🙄
She doesn’t have a problem putting it in her mouth. She eats it everyday
but then goes and devours the whole chicken on camera, gotta love our gorl
My jaw dropped when she pointed out Krystal’s “lazy eye”. Her eye looked completely fine to me
It was SO mean!!
Call me crazy but there's a channel called The Ankle and soooo many times I see clips of amber from their videos and she legit looks like she has a wonky eye. In certain frames you can see it easily
@@laylalee9715 yea Amber projects HARD
Not Amber thinking she's sneaky and stealthy when trying to scare Krystle. Gorl she can hear your heavy breathing and your buffalo steps.
If that's your comment about this then you're as shallow as ALR. It wasn't her weight Mr. Snowflake focused on, it was her inner ugliness.
I was going to say elephant but buffalo works too.
@@breezy6859 No. I've seen elephants be graceful, unlike Amber. Elephants don't do the fat person shuffle as they walk
😂😂😂
Krystle’s cancer scare and biopsy (the hospital and car scene) were so disgusting and disturbing. It’s always about Amber. She fakes her concern and then laughs and films her while Krystle is speaking with someone about her recent procedure. Ugh.
Yes and she is worried about her medical information getting out. No boundries!
It was so obvious she was mimicking what she thinks people would say in this situation. Gf might have cancer alr: “I’m just so not happy about this” while shoving a camera in her face and telling thousands of strangers her medical condition. She is the farthest (and fattest) thing from an empath since she truly does not give a shit about anything but herself. She’s nauseating.
And claiming she would sue the clinic for giving her a scare. Gorl, sit down.
The Krystal era is not often referenced as her most intolerable era ... But after watching this I think it might be
A reaction channel called The Ankle is going through the Krystle era in detail. It doesn't take long for her horrible personality to shine through.
idk, manipulating ur partner to be around to wipe ur ass only to admit you never loved them because a new wipey came to town is pretty horrid behavior. and she was in her 30s at that point. i do get what u mean tho, i think shes just intolerable every year shes been alive lmfaooo
"We have different kinds of OCD". YES, AMBER: YOU HAVE THE FAKE KIND OF OCD.
Yes, she has the ASMR OCD, that's the rarest one of all. LOL
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She wants to have OCD so badly. I have it and I was very very sick for awhile before therapy and meds.
I can't stand this b1tch.
@lballerina6725 honestly I will never get tired of "I was diagnosed with ASMR" 😂😂😂
@@courtneygrier2015you and me both, girl. Just goes to show that Amber will diagnose herself with anything and claim the Dr. diagnosed her. The ignorance of this woman is beyond anything I can comprehend.
Krystal's dad didn't want Amber to get a job until she lost weight. That's the lamest lie ever
It's convenient that nothing is ever her fault
@@lillith77that's her gig. Live with others, have others take "care" of her. That way when things go south she can step back and point the finger. It's NEVER her!
@@butameremortal9424I think when she was younger she could play the abused girl from foster care and get a lot of sympathy. As you get older most people expect you to deal with the issues of your youth and become an adult. So now it’s not as easy to manipulate people.
@@lindalumae you nailed it! She learned by default how to manipulate thru her experience. Similar to Gypsy Rose almost. They may not have set out to be this person but are nonetheless. It's time to truly "grow up" take a personal assessment and change these toxic habits/behaviors. I think that's why she is forever the chameleon. She "changed" and mimicked whomever she was living with.
An video on I have no way to get to work. Like I'm sure they will drive you to work. Not have u eat up the food an sleep all day an be loud all night
She didn't admire krystle, she was insanely jealous of her.
She gave Krystal the ipod that Krystal gave her and took the brand new one Krystal's parents gave to Krystal complaining hers only had half the capacity - yet when Krystal asked her how much memory she wanted, she threw a screaming tantrum.
the way amber constantly pushed krystles ONE boundary of not putting her on camera makes me sick
And on the toilet at that. I seriously can't wrap my head around how she thought posting that online was okay. She did it to destiny also, but why haven't we seen Amberlynn sitting on the toilet??
Narcs love crossing boundaries, it's like it gives them joy or some sick shit like that.
Sadistic Joy.
@@disenchanted366 another thing about that too is the fact that Amber is so overly handsy with her, like constantly needing to touch her. At one point as Amber giving a ‘head massage’ Krystle literally has to tell her “are you done?” Like- Ugh. I don’t know if it’s just me coming from an autistic person, but I feel so bad for Krystle and the fact she had to put up with that mess for so long.
I gasped when she said “he’s only 11lbs overweight” that’s insane
That's wild that she's so stupid she doesn't understand how on such a small creature 11lbs is A LOT
Guess 11lbs overweight sounds like nothing to her. She's too stupid to understand this relatively to her dog. When she gains 11lbs, she's just so proud of herself bc, "it could have been worse."
I did!!! So, almost 5kg on an animal that's supposed to be 11kg is absolutely shocking!!!!
That’s a whole other dog! 😮
She's 400 lbs overweight so 11 doesn't seem much to her
NOT Amber saying Pokemon is lame when recently she’s been all gung ho about how much she’s always “loved” pokemon
Evidently, not only does ALR *know* that she's cruel, but she also believes that it's *morally okay.* Good for Krystle for getting out.
Too bad Krystal couldn’t have passed it along to others. I like what Beck said “ just don’t go there” if I was Krystal’s parents, I would throw her out of there. She is obnoxious. The sweet voice in the beginning is like the abuser b4 they get married and then lets loose. Thank you for showing these.
I hope her "Valentine" is watching this!
The made up one?
The sign language lie is especially funny to me, because apparently she doesn’t realize that, just like spoken languages, sign languages communicate through WORDS. She went from “I learned the ABCs” to “I signed everything I heard or thought.” So she wants us to believe that either she can interpret ASL fluently, or she signed full sentences and conversations letter-by-letter🤣
it's a VERY strange thing to openly lie about
And it’s regional.
I NEVER REALIZED SHE WAS 23 WHEN SHE WAS WITH HER WHAT I STRAIGHT UP THOUGHT THEY WERE STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL wow
Because I live under a rock & never followed anything to do with ALR, I recently went on a binge as more YT creators started covering her, I was shocked to find she's my age, I genuinely couldn't tell her age because she's so overweight. She literally never matured past the age of 14yr old mean girl😏
Krystle is such a cutie. I hated how Amber pointed out her lazy eye. I hope she’s doing well and happy.
I guess she is, she is in a long term relationship and has a degree and career. Funny how people do much better without Amber leaching off them
Lard lass is the one with a wandering untreated die uh beet us eye
Wow considering Amber has a lazy wandering eye herself. Disgusting
When Amber pointed it out I was angry for Krystal. As someone who has lazy eye I'm extremely self conscious about it. So, I can imagine how it made sweet Krystal feel.
@@Dixielanddelight83 you're very pretty in ur profile pic!!
Not Amber hearing the doctor saying ‘It’s benign’ and thinking that’s the name of Krystles medical condition 😂
As a beagle owner I felt so bad for monkey. They are a working breed and high energy. They need to be outside for a couple hours a day, running and sniffing. She abuses every pet she has
When she say he goes on A walk a day, a SINGLE walk, I gasped. I can't imagine the stress that poor dog had.... That's not good for the health of ANY dog. I have two working breeds (a husky and a coonhound) and I walk them 30 minutes at least twice a day, and then smaller walks in between. I can't imagine ONE walk a day for a dog 😭
@@Nopee906 awh so cute. Mine is a beagle coonhound mix. They are definitely schedule and working oriented. At 4pm he will start pacing for a walk. My corgi is a blob and hates exercise and walking, I have to force her outside haha.
@@Nopee906I always wonder how folks like you manage this when most seem they can't. Everybody I know just puts the dogs out back for a few minutes when nature calls. They treat me like I'm nuts for thinking that it's sad for an animal to live an entire life indoors. Honestly relieved Monkey even got one...
@@Nopee906 and you know that "walk" was just going outside long enough for the dog to pee and poop and then going straight back inside.
It’s poor nose. Sensory overload
Thank you for showing how awful she was to Krystle. I remember that clip where she filmed Krystle's OCD and how much Amber was annoyed by it. Clearly no empathy for her own girlfriend. Until she figures her shit out, she deserves to be alone.
The time she tried to catch Krystle on the toilet nearly gave ME anxiety. I can't imagine living with that thing and her trying to video you to embarrass you. She was so creepy
@@TheOnlyTexasNinjaAgree 👍🏻
She won't 'figure her shit out', it's a personality disorder. They don't improve.
I felt bad for Krystal having to wash the dishes when they’re Amber’s chores. With her OCD she was probably dreading every second.
No Amber I did not notice her lazy eye! I am sure she did not appreciate you pointing that out
i was like what lazy eye? Jesus she made me so mad this while video
Honestly, i feel so bad for people who are so devoid of a personality, they think faking a mental illness or personality disorder will make them interesting.
I don’t think she’s even faking a personality disorder… it’s very real
She has BPD (borderline personality disorder). One of the hallmarks of bpd is mirroring other people's personalities.
BPD is the disorder I can believe she has.
She definitely has a personality disorder. NPD or BPD.
Faking mental illness stems from a personality disorder lol
Amber talking about her OCD
“Ok we just got to the grocery store and I have my like store list all set out and stuff”
…………..so a SHOPPING LIST? 😭
Right like literally everyone else?????
Geez she makes everything seem so complex.
But it's really quite simple.
In the Destiny era she said something along the lines of: I go through and write down EVERY BILL WE PAY and when we have to pay it! I’m so OCD!
Girl, that’s a budget, most of us have one.
😂 I make my shopping list twice. Once to list everything I need and the second one to organize the list. It's not OCD. It's trying to make my shopping trip more efficient so I can be in and out
She’s just a corky ocd gorl. You wouldn’t understand.
“look at your lazy eye… it’s so adorable” “your hair is so thin.. in a good way”
And look at you Amber packing away more bacon than Hormel
But in a quirky way, right??
I literally grinned my teeth! What she said was mean, but the way she tried to pass them as compliments??? That’s evil.
“A lot of people cried because they didn’t want me to move” 🤣 the world’s a stage and she’s a superstar
Oh, they were crying... tears of joy😂
@@evenstar04They even offered to send her her sh1t wherever 😂😂😂😂 They couldn’t see the moment of dumping her.
What I love is seeing Casey, Krystal, Destiny, and ESPECIALLY Beck moving forward and healing from their abuser.
Thank you, as always Mr. Snowflake, for helping stand up for victims of domestic abuse. It is not spoken about enough in same sex relationships and that needs to change. 🖤
Interesting how Amber says Krystle’s mom went to the grocery store “for herself” at 1:30:45. They had to have made it clear that they were specifically not buying food for Amber, which implies she has issues stealing other people's snacks.
OMG you're right, didn't notice that part before
When has Amberlynn ever apologised for her behaviour?
"My mental illness does make me manippleate in ways"
"It wasnt me it was the binge monster"
Chesus Ive been trapped in gorlworld for years and still didnt know she was this horrible.
The more Krystle worked on herself, the more bitter, jealous and sabotaging Amber became. And blaming a medical procedure on a dog not eating well, barely exercising and gaining weight? WOW.
What's worse, is even the partners whose health remain in the gutter with hers, she doesn't treat those partners any better!
The way she confuses “mimicking the emotions of any person getting more attention in the room, so it diverts attention to herself” as “empathy” WILD.
Her ridiculing Krystle for her interests and hobbies is so horrible.
I feel like she’s saying, how dare you use money on yourself and not me, how dare you ignore me to do the things you enjoy. Disgusting.
When Amber was with Casey, Casey had gotten a gift card for his birthday. He went to buy a couple of video games and Amber guilted him into putting one back and getting something for Amber.
She's absolutely disgusting.
As she has done to every poor person she gets hold of.
My boyfriend is so giving I know he would try and buy me something (even something small) if he got a gift card as a gift. There’s no way I would let him do that. Thats just horrible that she complained enough that Krystle felt she had to get her something with HER gift
I just started this and my god, Pookie talking about how it's lame Krystle has hobbies and likes interest and the who "it's crazy she has so many plushies." Hell, I'd hangout with Krystle cause we have the same interests. I guess anyone who has a hobby or interests is lame to Ambie
Narcicissts feel entitled to everything. Others's money, others's time.
As a veterinarian, I’m horrified with so many things she did to Monkey in this video. I guarantee his veterinarian did not say “it’s totally normal” or even acceptable for Monkey to be morbidly obese because he was neutered, or that beagles are usually 15 lbs overweight. 11 pounds IS “so bad” when you’re talking about a dog, especially one that size. Sadly, I believe her when she says she treats him like she would her own child.
I’m the daughter of a vet. I had to pause the video and walk away for ten minutes. My blood was boiling! Amber can eat herself into an early grave, but don’t abuse animals like that! I really despise her!
Remember when Amber binged and pooped on the floor and blamed the cats, Monkey and the other dogs? Idk if she actually pooped on the floor but it wouldn’t shock me. Krystle parents were nice enough to give Amber money monthly so she could buy food and she ate it all. Cats are sassy but not sassy enough to knock all the food off the counter. Dogs are rambunctious as well but they wouldn’t just eat certain things. They inhale anything if given the chance. My dog got ahold of a spicy chicken sandwich and ate everything including the wrapper and she got diarrhea. When they get anything spicy you’re not going to get pile of turds you’re going to get piles of diarrhea.
Is doesn’t even make sense to say they’re usually 15lb overweight. If they were usually their normal weight +15lb then the total of those two numbers would be their usual weight. But it’s not. That’s *over*weight
@@Anna-1937 agreed, I had to stop watching after she dropped him on the deck outside & forced him on the floor into a spin, the dog ran away for a reason. You can tell by all the animals body language that they're afraid of her. The only positive thing that'll come out of this, is when Amber dies in the next decade or so from her weight, meaning animals will be free from her cruelty. I thought she was an awful person before I saw how she treats animals, but deplorable barely even covers it😡
I doubt that dog ever went to the vet after he got fixed at all.
She was just making shit up as per usual
No one can tell me Krystle was all there mentally. Something was off with her and Amber took advantage.
She definitely wasn't there mentally
Definitely had issues
She has autism and social anxiety, I don't think she ever really knew how to stand up to Amber 😢
@@mintylimehas this ever been confirmed? I’ve never seen any proof and also I think speculation on this is kinda creepy.
@@LBCGriffin amber confirmed it through her askfm posts, one of which is included in this documentary
She's an attention seeker, not an empath
She’s a narcissistic sociopath
Nah her therapist told her. She absolutely would not have lied or fudged the truth at all
S/
Sarcasm
Touché. 😁
More like attention who[CENSORED] 😄
I wish the ex’s would come together for a “ surviving amberlynn series “
I'm thinking they feel responsible for enabling her bad behavior or fear of retaliation. Guaranteed, Amber's got "dirt" on all of them. 😉
If she doesn’t have dirt she will manufacture some.
@onlytrish1969 I'd bet they have as much, if not more on her.
@@lunar-1340 without a doubt!
I would definitely be there for that!!🍿🍿🍿🍿
I nearly spontaneously combusted when snowflake broke out that 2013 Tumblr post about being diagnosed with ASMR. I've been in the amberverse since the destiny era but he still hits me with receipts I've never seen before. We appreciate you mr snowflake!
The way Rafe and amber were gossiping about Krystal’s relationship really shows that they are such mean girls. The kind of girls who befriend you just so they can make fun of you in secret with eachother
Somehow it makes me feel like amber bounded with Rave over Beck just to get revenge on Krystle and the caregiver came as a treat
Rafe didin‘t like Sarah, because of the way she broke up with Becky. I‘d be mad about her as well.
@@theredlantern yeah fair enough, I wouldn’t like them either. But for amber to claim her and Krystal were so close and then talk about her private business on live to people that don’t even know her is icky
@@theredlantern What, Sarah? I thought they were talking about Nina?
She’s mean to Krystle. I don’t remember watching this era. Simply mean. Making fun of a loved one’s affliction to the point of laughing at her is so mean.
I really get bothered by people who are mean but pretend that they’re just joking or being funny. It’s always at someone else’s expense and they act like the person is being sensitive.
I had a partner that laughed at me one or a few times, and man, it still makes me angry when I remember it. Especially that one time, the other times it was more on the annoying side. But it would make me feel a certain type of way.
He had a certain type of face, if I can call it that, and I still have a disdain for faces that look like his... my old anger will kinda stir a little under the surface and I've got to kind of remind myself that it's not him. 😅
I've been following ALR for years now, but I never thought that there would be a Netflix crime documentary quality video about her
I'm not surprised.
The Walmart practice driving perfectly symbolises her life..
Endless meaningless laps, well within her restricted comfort zone, never daring to venture out onto life's highways..
With snacks 😂
While she shrieks obnoxiously.
And she brought salty snacks.
💯💯💯
Driving 1mph with a ziploc full of snacks to drive for an hour in. Circles 😂😂😂😂
@@bleuhoodiesnax were mentioned in the original comment.
One of the scariest things about people like Amber is how they claim to “love” people, when they clearly don’t know the meaning of the word. To Amber, love is about controlling others, and what others can do for her.
Yes she has NPD
She is a parasite
I watch ARL reaction and commentary videos because of a morbid curiosity, trying to figure out if I can find insight into why my mother is the way she is. So far my only conclusion is that they are awful people who leave a wake of destruction in their path.
@@Undeniably_Asher Why not watch informative videos instead?
@@johngilmore697 I do that too and I have a therapist that is very knowledgeable.
1:27:32 she is absolutely trying to sabotage Krystal. You can hear the jealousy in her voice when she talks about Krystal burning more calories than her - trying to explain it away by saying Krystal has a faster HR (which is bad so therefore ALR is healthier since her sitting HR is lower) - or when she talks about how skinny she is. I’ve had friends like ALR and I’ve gotten that exact same slightly aggressive belly touch w/a ‘you’re SO skinny!! Omg soooo great for you!!!!!’
You friends that touch your stomach are passive aggressive, jealous of you. Not nice friend behavior.
I could code the "eating more makes you lose more weight" as willful ignorance cus she wants an excuse to eat more, rather than intentionally sabotaging Krystle, but I can see both being true at once. Like wanting to keep Krystle in the same delusion as her, and not surpass.
There're no alternative theories for me about the "sooo skinny" comments though, those were full of cloaked anger. 😬
it's so aggravating when Amber would make fun of her ex's hobbies when her only hobby is hoarding notebooks she's never going to use and ordering food on Uber Eats
What are her hobbies I’ve only seen the Lego thing as recently
@@mamamoonxo5081Laygos, journaling (don’t know if she even actually does it tbh), eating, and surfing Reddit threads about her and then pretending like she’s never touched Reddit with a 10 ft pole.
@im_azraelle Hey now, don't discount her bullet Journaling where she journaled every time she cried!!! 😂😂😂
And grocery hauls.
I kinda feel like we’re all lucky that amber is so limited by her size. I’d be worried for the general public if she was free to go out and about like the rest of us. She’s awful
She’s a narcissist now. Imagine if she was skinny and able to do things…. It would be out of control
LOL sorry that’s such a funny mental image, the Beast being held in check by hundreds of pounds
Remember Young Dumb Honey Bon?
I believe that is Amber from an Alternate universe.
Right or imagine if she was this young hot thing. She would have drawn more people in and damaged the shit out of them with her horrific behaviours
No she’s not nearly as bac
In the intro with the polaroid of all the gorl's exs, you should've added a pic of jade's hand lmao
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Monkey was not Ambers dog, she 100% lied about it being hers. She wanted everything that was Krystals to be hers and so that she could show "how good of a dog mom she is". She didnt take any of the aminals with her when she moved.
I was just wondering that. Thanku. That is a huge relief.
i wonder how monkey is doing today, if he’s still alive. that poor dog deserved better all around.
@@pabloescobarschanclashe passed away
Planning your plastic tat jewellery two days in advance isnt OCD - it’s being so bored that you have nothing else to do.
You are 100% correct!!. Remember when she poured all the individual bottled waters into a gallon jug?. She’s so bored she has absolutely nothing to do and of course she needs content (if you call pouring water content).
What the hell were Krystle's parents thinking? They subjected their own daughter to this unhealthy relationship.
they weren’t thinking, unfortunately.
If they had tried to interfere in the relationship and make Amber leave Chrystal could have left with her. Once they realize how bad she was they were probably afraid of that happening. At least with them in their house they could try and interfere without pushing chrystal away.
@@Samantha360 Amber Lynn had no money, was a minor and had no connections... Krystal was dependent on her parents, that was not even a possibility! The parents were just stupid, negligent and way too tolerant of ALR. It's on them.
@@Sylvael2002 she was a minor? I thought she was in her twenties with Casey, who was before her? Or am I mixing up GFS?
@@Samantha360 Aw god, I don't even know anymorrrreeeee. Even if she was of age, she had zippity to fall back on. Her timeline is the damn Bermuda triangle and she's simultaneously 14 and 140 in my head now. D:
“I have attachment issues Destiny doesn’t mind it” um gorl she broke up with you
All of her gf's have broken up with StickyLynn. They all, also, had to endure sleeping in the bed with her, until her next victim/carer was lined up. As if the relationship hadn't scarred them for life already.
Is she mimicking Krystle at this time with the soft voice?
Yep, she does that with all her girlfriends
Yes.
Yes she mirrors all her girlfriends. She mirrors their personality and pretends she likes everything they like. She smothers anybody she is with. Money is her way of control the person she is with for example, she does a lot of gift giving in the beginning to try to manipulate the person she is with.
That would make a lot of sense! I think she just copies her gf at the time to adapt and cover up her not having to do anything
yes, just wait until the switch up when she's with Destiny
I wonder if she knows that there are signs for words and that people who actually know ASL don’t sign letters 100% of the time
This! Exactly
I think Amber was jealous of Krystal and that's why she copied and put her down all the time. Amber didn't have OCD until she got with Krystal. Everytime Amber says "when I was younger I was diagnosed with...." that's how you know she's lying again. I've noticed Amber copies her girlfriend's and their diagnoses all the time
It's weird like she has no personality of her own.
She's a sociopath
Amberlynn is the only person I've ever seen to treat mental health disorders as a novelty.
Or like Pokemon, she's gotta catch 'em all!
uh have you been online lately?
@@milkanddairy i was wondering that too. tumblr and now tiktok is full of this stuff. its like flavor of the month over disorders
You must not know about TikTok.. Faking disorders has become a massive trend among Gen Z.
Her face lights up everytime she gets a new one or can list off all the ones she’s collected
Normally when one partner is completely dependent on the other for everything, and their only other options between having a bed and being homeless is their partner, they can become vulnerable to abuse.
It speaks volumes about Amber that she was entirely dependent on Krystle and her family, and she was the abusive one.
Jimmy Bunker adding a secondary commentary is pure art.
It definitely helps diffuse the absolute awfulness of Al.
Yeah, it makes wading through all the depressing shit more bearable.
I have said it before and I'll say it again. I put money on it that Amberlynn hit Becky. Becky to this day seems afraid of her so she'll likely never admit to that. I hope Becky has gotten the help she needed and learned to cultivate healthier relationships. The way she embraced Amberlynn's manipulation and abuse was honestly disturbing. It almost cost her her life and did cost her her relationship with her mother, very sad.
Guaranfuckinteed
Even though Amber is a terrible person- i don’t think we should assume that- considering abuse doesn’t have to be physical. I had a stepdad who was VERYYYYYYY verbally abusive- even before he put his hands on me before the last time i saw him- i was terrified of just how scary/mad he could become and would just take it in a way. And i can see a little bit of that in Beck. I think they probably just felt stuck/felt no hope. I could be completely wrong as well. I just hope Beck is thriving and that they are truly happy.
Given her body language/behavior and posturing sometimes with Becky. I wouldn’t be surprised.
@@aliciaperry6186 I mean she did with Casey so… I think she was definitely physically abusive with other gfs
@@bananayummyable like i said- i could be completely wrong. I just don’t think we should assume/speculate on that until Beck is ready to speak on it.
She'll openly beat Krystle down for how much she loved anime, yet this beast has piles upon piles upon piles upon piles upon piles of journals, stickers, tiny toy condiments, perfume bottles, unused wax melts, candles, crystals, etc etc etc. (many of which, rather than being proudly displayed like Krystle's dolls, were stored away in big bins where no one could enjoy them) Can't imagine spending four whole years with someone like that, I hope Krystle's doing alright. Do NOT stay with someone who openly ridicules you and makes you feel bad for your quirks and likes. They are breaking you down and tearing apart your soul little by little until you're no longer you, you merely exist to complement them. You do not have to like everything your partner likes, but you DO have to respect them. Unless they're hurting someone ofc.
I bet that $1400/ month was Krystle's disability check. She said she gets $1400 for food because she was claiming Krystle's check as her own, and they didn't have to pay any household bills. She says "for food" because that's all she thinks she needs
That's a crazy high amount for disability.
I’m in school to be a therapist and I’m also just a human, no one who says they’re empathetic THAT much is an empath. In fact, they’re probably a raging narcissist.
Anything she says, you know the opposite is more likely true.
She thinks the bare minimum “feeling things for people” is superhuman lol
I've had therapists say "you're a highly sensitive person" but it comes with coping skills like setting boundaries and learning to navigate emotions when people around you experience big emotions. I like that so much more than "empath" because you can be sensitive to a lot. People's emotions. Sounds. Situations. And it doesn't come with a positive or negative connotation which I liked
In my experience anyone who claims to be an empath is actually a horrible person
@@katiemutschler6040 I’ve been told that as well!
The logic - ‘My dogs obese but there’s far worse problems out there.’ By that logic she can say ‘Sure my child has ringworm and is malnourished but there’s far worse problems out there.’
The only thing she's ever said about her animals that was truthful was when she said she treats them like her babies. I do believe if she had kids she'd abuse them the exact same way she does to her pets.
Why is she blaming Krystal’s mom. I bet the dog didn’t eat the food, ALR did and blamed it on the poor dog!🐷🐽🐷🐽
I agree, she totally ate it all and hid the banana peels and blamed it on the dog.
She ate it. She totally ate it
You must be new here lol
@@venomg5799 lol, I only watch reaction cuz I get frustrated with her. She needs some help cuz she doesn’t seem to tell the truth. Mr Snowman brings all these things to light over the years, I hope she watches and learns that people know she is lying 🤥 have a great day!
@@Judith-wb3jl yeah, she'll never change. Most of us who know that are just watching for the crash & burn. Not to see progress bcuz there will be none.
The signing behind the back bit killed me 😂
I don't believe Crystal's parents were actually giving her $1,400 a month that's probably how much Crystal got from her disability checks or whatever and Amber just said it was hers.They probably gave her $20 here and there to go to the store but there's no way they were handing her over cash like that. Just another lie.
That creepy way she says "She's gonna get it" in that childlike menacing voice makes me scared inside hearing it. It's like the lid of anger almost blows off but gets caught and adorably slammed down in that horribly cutesy tone. 😱
Dahm, my comment got deleted. Thanks youtube. Amber being mean to Crystal's plushie collection. While owning 1000 necklaces. Rings. Perfumes and earrings. Make me so *********** ********** ******** mad
TLC, TRU TV, Biography Channel, and BBC
COULD 👏 NE 👏 VER
My life experiences have made me learn that if people have to constantly remind everyone how "good" and "empathetic" they are, then the opposite is probably true.
Amberlynn Reid is a waddling 600lb red flag.
Or if they're the nicest person they know
my grandparents had a purebred beagle Zoey who they spoiled to death. this dog was my best friend and seeing monkey reminded me of how large their dog Zoey was. it was horrible
"We're in a relationship, we share money." = "Her money is oir money and my money is my money."
You just described my mother in a nutshell.
What's mine is mine & What's yours is mine too!