Thank you to everyone who has watched and I’m glad most are enjoying it. Sadly there is still a copyright dispute on the video so I might not get paid for it. I was wanting to wait a few more days to see if it got resolved but people were starting to post the video so sadly I’ve had to upload it earlier than I wanted. Anyway I’m glad people are enjoying it and I’m working really hard to make sure the Krystle episode is done quickly. Thanks again folks xxx
Can I have the link to your Patreon? You put so much work into these videos,you should definitely be getting paid for your efforts and to keep them coming.
I was coming here to say this. There the campsite rule- try and leave someone as good or better than when you found them. She’s continually traumatizing every new partner. When no one you’ve dated has anything good to say about you, that’s a huge red flag. I was cheated on by an ex but I still have a few positive things to say because it wasn’t all bad.
“She’s waving a knife in my face” and I’m like “Oh, right….” As a victim of domestic violence.. I never once thought “Oh, right….” As I’m sure 99.9999% of victims would also agree with.
Also her “I was like…whhhhhut?” from being strangled. That’s the first thing that struck me as insanely odd. Not saying everyone talks about DV in the same way. However….what the heck? Who beyond her would talk about it like that?
I'll be honest, I got to that point but that's because I started dissociating whenever he started getting worked up. That took 3 years of constantly walking on eggshells though. At that point it didn't surprise me, just made me feel dumb for expecting less. Not saying I believe Amber. I just don't think my experience is quite as rare as 0.0001 % of DV victims, so I thought I'd put it out there in case anyone needs to know they aren't alone there.
@@remarkablekidneysconethis always rang wrong for me, she is just... nonchalant about it? You have to rip my story from my damn guts, many survivors struggle to even bring it up...but she just jokes and giggles? 🤨 it feels wrong, there I said it
@@sourgreendolly7685 I’m so very sorry that this was your experience. I hope that you don’t think that my comment was flippant or dismissive of your personal DV experience, as it wasn’t. I understand fully your dissociation and what that means as far as how you react to situations, threats and traumas. I truly hope that you are now safe and healing.
I was thinking something similar. There is years of video evidence of her having virtually no life whatsoever, yet trying to make engaging content about tasks as mundane as wiping counter tops in her kitchen. Even when she went on holiday she did almost nothing but sit in a hotel room, eating. She would need to steal interesting tidbits of other people's lives to try to appear like she has an eventful existence.
She is absolutely a sociopath path. Im glad more people are starting to recognize this. She is completely devoid of a personality and this is why. Everything about her is a parasitic.
She left Becky in absolute mental distress as well. She destroyed Becky's self worth, identity and well being. She is an absolute monster, a giant hideous sociopath. Thanks for exposing her and I can't wait til the Becky episode.
@@jewsaregenocidalhores Anyone who would date Amber is either a teenager who doesn't know better or a deeply dysfunctional adult. So yeah, you're right.
Throughout the years she was able to make a lot of money doing youtube. As a good gesture, she could have given some to the parents of her girlfriends who financially supported her when she was younger. Too late now though I guess.
@@abirdkilledmeh she made tens of thousands from the “lIvEsTrEaM eRa”, and paid Becky 2,600$, then made her split every single bill imaginable. She wouldn’t even pay Becky what she was owed for her time and efforts, let alone pay back people she’s abused.
It's always a great time watching a pathological liar and narcissist get exposed. This woman is an abusive monster. I feel so bad for the girlfriends, friends, and family she's harmed.
Well you must be thrilled. There are a lot of them rn. I don’t really find it to be a great time, because real people have suffered to get them exposed.
The fact that wifey, her number one life partner whom they loved each other so much, completely stopped communicating with her after driving her to Oklahoma is telling
@@Dixielanddelight83 Yasss! God I hope Wifey does a tell all. Amber needs to be cancelled and forced off the internet into a real job. She needs accountability, she has never be held accountable for any of her awful behavior. I think that Amber would be absolutely devastated if Wifey were to come out with the truth, she would probably be more hurt by that than if Beck did a tell all. But I have a feeling Beck has a lot more dirt on Amber. I hope Mr. Snowflake is able to do interviews with all Amber's exes.
Casey-won’t speak to her anymore. Destiny-won’t speak to her anymore. Becky-won’t speak to her anymore. Jade-won’t speak to her anymore. The only one we r not certain about is Krystal who may speak to her but what about Krystal’s parents?
She's only mentioned talking to krystle like twice in the last 2 years. I don't think she spends alot of time or ever did after they broke up. I think it's more she tolerated her.
Amber literally ruined Casey’s life then moved on like it was nothing. I’ve never liked her but after this I see her as pure evil. How could you do that to someone??
You could almost try and excuse her for being young and troubled, but we've watched her for years and saw her never better herself as a person. She has continued to manipulate and hurt the people in her life.
I never realized casey said he'd stayed in a mental hospital after amber. That makes TWO people (becky made a video saying the same) that were abused by amber so badly they had to seek medical help. Wow. Holy shit
Ya and they both somehow came out of it with the same notion “no one will ever truly love me”. Casey said this in his interview with mr.snowflake, and Becky has said the same. That’s so sad. Amber broke these two people.
What a nightmare for Nadine. Get stuck with a huge toddler who stinks and who won’t do any chores, get a job or contribute to the house in any way. I’m sure the amount of food she had to pay for was insane. She’s a better person than me. I would have kicked her out.
She has done the "digging her nails into her partner" with Krystle too. Destiny has also stated how violent Hamber got with the Code Red incident. It's not just one partner saying such things. Amberlynn Reid the abuser needs to be cancelled.
@@hibyelisaI bet she tried it with Wipey and she got all 5 chins put in their places. Jade Francis was not the typical withdrawn bullied wallflower she usually ropes into the helper role.
@@lktzu2821 WHAT? I missed that. Becky did EVERYTHING for Amber without question and she had the fupa balls to throw a hair straightener at Becky? Disgusting
Her accusing people of SA has a tone of "Wow, look how many people want me! I must be so hot!" It comes across as some serious main character syndrome.
Is "main character syndrome" a phrase we're all using? I've told my girlfriend in the past "you sound like you think your the main character right now" when she starts stressing over something dumb (example: If she were to go to a concert, she might tell me she's nervous that she gets called on stage in front of everyone, or something like that, irrstional anxiety that she wants calmed) I don't think I've ever heard it used elsewhere(perfectly possible i picked it up and have no clue where from) but I've always felt like the phrase summarizes the mentality perfectly, snd if it IS a normal phrase, it makes me happy to know it.
And how does it make sense that she showers every day but doesn't wash her face every day?? Not sure about you, but it's impossible for me to keep my face dry in the shower 🤨
If you’re “letting your makeup come off by itself” over the course of a few days and you tell me you shower everyday, I’m sorry but I don’t believe you 🤷🏽♀️
i’ve heard somewhere that she got kicked out because she was bringing girls around and getting herself and them hammered, all around her recovering alcoholic mother… how much of that is true i don’t know, but knowing what we do about her i wouldn’t be surprised
Right??? G'ma was thinking how much better it was with her gone and was like, "This is it! do NOT come back!!" in a way, i feel sorry for her and everyone thats had to endure her torment.
@@jerrysmith7166 I don't excuse Amber... but let's not act like her family is innocent. Amber is the monster that they created. They then unleashed her on innocent people when they no longer wanted to deal with her.
Even if she lied about her dad’s friends assaulting her to protect her cousin (which is still wrong), when the person asked her “Cousin or father’s friends?” Why would she act confused? Wouldn’t you realise immediately that they were referring to your lie and immediately say something like, “I know what you’re referring to, let me clear it up…”? Then her acting like assault means making someone scared? Where does she pull all of this BS from? Really, she is awful.
Then throwing blame on Mr Snowflake for questioning her lies, trying to make him look bad and her look like more of a victim. Even tho we can all go back to her previous videos, get the receipts & show her when & where she lied about everything.
@@blingqueen2235 It is really baffling to see someone so adamantly stick to their lies when the truth can and has been easily proven. I really am curious about the way her mind works!
I think 90% of what she gets "asked" on Q&A's is herself asking. She always finds ways to address rumors without actually bringing them up herself because she wants to act like she doesn't care about these accusations and she absolutely does.
She definitely watch channels because now she’s using their lingo, calling herself, girly pop, her mother, mama-Lynn, and calling times in her life ERAS…. She doesn’t have a girlfriend’s personality she can mimic so, she takes on those of the reactors.
Dusty having two beans in her skull for brains literally saved her. Any intended trauma bounced off of her like bullets off of Superman 🦸♂️. Sis was a hero all unto herself ❤
@@tigmil8116 she didn’t “keep” communication with her. Amber contacted HER. Because that’s what sociopaths do,they routinely cycle back through previous victims to see if they can start the cycle all over again. She has done it with every single girlfriend, right after the most recent one dumps her.
Casey if you are reading this- I am so sorry you got manipulated by someone like that. People like amberlynn have manipulated her way through life so don’t feel bad for believing her. Hope you can move on from all this ♥️
I never wanted Amber to get cancelled because she's my entertainment, But now I'm thinking, she needs to be cancelled. She needs to get everything she deserves.
I feel like so few RUclipsrs talk about Casey when they talk about ALR, and the few who do barely give it five minutes. It’s truly great that you gave his story an entire episode. ❤
There's little to no video evidence so it gets a bit lost. She starts recording once she meets Krystle, so I can only imagine what Part 2 is going to look like.
It’s so disturbing how lighthearted she treats her supposed sexual abuse. It’s absolute character assassination to Casey and it’s downright insulting to actual victims.
Wow.... 😮... she took Casey's coming out story and called it hers. She took Krystal's old glasses and said they were hers. She got into a physical fight with Casey's mom and Destiny's mom.
she admitted to fighting with Krystal’s parents too. idk if it got physical but she said she screamed at them and told them she hated them ! like how do you not get along with any of your partners parents !!?? she’s the common denominator yet loves to play victim .
@@ashleynoelle1204 the parents put a limit on her behavior and outed her on the abusive conduct (for example, Casi's, Becky's and Destiny's mom), and that's why she got into physical fights with some of them, or screaming matches. I had a someone who i considered a friend who had that same behavior with anyone who confronted her whenever she crossed the line. She hit people, screamed at them, and then played the victim after they defended themselves. People like that is scary and dangerous.
She may have bpd, but even those is us who have it can have the self awareness to not be so horrible. Amber picks and chooses her diagnosis of the week depending on which behaviors it will let her get away with, and right now I think she’s using the BPD diagnosis to her advantage because of how it effects people. It’s awful
I am probably alone in this, but you won’t convince me for one second that the whole “my grandmother said I couldn’t come back home” situation type deal is the truth. She’s a habitual liar about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE! I believe with all my being that she made it up just so she could stay with Casey! What makes me think that? Because she has a History of falling HARD and then wanting to live with every new love interest. And she is a liar liar dusty old black pants with a hole on fire! And no way would I move back home to family that threw me away at the age of 18 with nothing, and no place to go! IF her story was true, how can she now move back so easily to be with the same grandmother who supposedly treated her so horribly and threw her out without warning?
She definitely lied about that. She probably liked living with strangers more than her own family because she knows that her fostered care will probably let her get away with more than living with family. Amber has been avoiding having to live with them ever since...this relationship started it all. This girl didnt even get a job until she met Destiny at 26 at a place where Destiny was already working. There is so much with her, the lies are ridicious
Her aunt tammy came forward and said it was true, Gramma Lynn told Amber to take a hike because Amber is problematic. I think she was pulling this same stuff with meemaw and meemaw wasnt having it. They may have repaired their relationship now but Nanna Lynn might have a touch of dementia or something 🤷🏻♀️
It does strike me as slightly strange that the grandmother said she couldn’t come back… what exactly did the grandmother think was going to happen, had Casey’s family not been kind enough to let her stay?!
I am not looking forward to Krystle or any other ex girlfriend but I firmly believe the truth needs to come out. Not for the community but so that Amberlynn’s channel will be cancelled or at least demonetized. Garbage people are cancelled all the time, it’s time for Amber to own up for her shit
Listening her lie about being abused infuriates me. It is a massive insult to anyone who’s actually been through such horrible things. She’s sick in the head. How dare she!
Right.. and the fact that while she’s telling these stories she keeps saying “I don’t really remember” ??? I remember details of my abuse as a child like they happened yesterday. It’s impossible to forget most details unfortunately
Also the way she claims trauma memories change is Incorrect. The truth DOESN'T change And once you recall something about the traumatic event - it sticks. You don't forget it again and remember something different. The traumatic event can get more detailed but NEVER less. That's just not how memory works and WHY people don't claim PTSD changes their stories in court cases! @@siemei666
@@necrodefecator Not really. "Repressed memories" aren't a thing, they are implanted false memories. Trauma has the opposite effect on the brain, you cannot forget the traumatic things that happened to you, no matter how much you want to. Even when I disassociate, I still remember it. And even if it did work that way, Amber is still 100% lying.
did anyone else notice that she got a LOT more emotional immediately into talking abt her brothers “abuse” towards her than the entire story abt casey?
Literally just started scrolling to see if anyone else picked up on that. She was telling the story of her 'abusive' girlfriend like you would talk about a petty argument you got into in middle school. So odd to watch
I'll say this: TW I have worked in women's shelters, welfare rights groups ,etc.(retired now) since the mid 1990's and I know victims react differently but in almost 30 years I have never heard of a SA victim asking their abuser for sex advice.
@@MrSnowflake Yes , women stay with abusers for several reasons , children have no choice ;a six year old can't get a job and move out into their own apartment but...ALR was away from him. She even tried to 'Friend ' Casi's mother and friends on Facebook. Her actions just don't make sense.
I would be very very careful saying this. I have a friend who was routinely raped and beaten by an ex and definitely would’ve asked for sex advice from him. Abuse is complex as you know and this is the one thing that bothers me because I know my friends abuse would be invalidated if this was our litmus test.
I have heard this before, actually. A fawning response is rather normal in extreme distress. There’s really no need to say shit like this just because you hate one particular person, yk?
@@PotatoPieYT I am a victim of r@pe and I can’t imagine asking my r@pist for sexual advice. I don’t encourage you to speak for your friend, because you don’t know that either, this person is giving an opinion based on her actual career experience, and working with several victims, whether you like it or not, there are certain symptoms that we (victims) exhibit, there are literal clinical studies about how a person TYPICALLY acts when something like this happens to them, that’s just a fact, under what circumstances would you know for a fact that your friend asked her r@pist for sex advice? Did she tell you that? Under what circumstances did she tell you this and why? I doubt she told you that, because that would be a wild coincidence and something you would have mentioned in your first comment, which leads me to believe you are speculating. So who are you to give this opinion? You’re not a victim and you’re not a an expert on r@pe. So what gives you the audacity to tel someone who works with victims that they are wrong for sharing their experience with victims?
I love Jimmy in this. He just keeps popping in and speaking for all of us who are confused. Amber - "Here are the tears" What we're all thinking channeled through Jimmy - "Where?!"
It's truIy mind blowing to me since I started doing our family's laundry at 12. There were 6 of us. My mom went back to work and I had to step up as the oldest daughter and take care of the younger siblings and housework. I'm gIad too, I was floored when I went to nursing school at 18 and others didn't know how to do Iaundry or anything. 😮 I think everyone, male and female should be taught how to cook and do basic household chores and have some kind of paying job to prepare you for the real world. I'm glad I was, especially since I then Iost my mom at 18. That was decades ago, I've made my peace with it and have 2 grown sons of my own now. Who know how to take care of themseIves.
it is unbelievable, imo INTENTIONAL ignorance, its one thing, to suddenly be on your own and not know something, easily fixed- educate oneself, ask someone, read the instructions, etc.. she seems to WORK at being Incapable? like, refusing to learn, and this cringe-"Im TOO cool/awesome to do LAUNDRY"-
I'm pretty sure she's actually in here on an alt, there's some guy saying things like "actually Casey ruined Amber's life, not the other way around" and other ridiculous statements laughing at Snowflake and his audience for "being obsessed" with someone we don't even like, etc. I mean.... that's Amber, right? It's gotta be her.
"I shower every day, just not my face... the make up comes off on its own in 2 or 3 days" i just... 🙃 No one that showers daily talks this much about showering.
@@kelleyarmstrong9970unless you’re telling a story that took place while you were in the shower, there is no need to mention showering as much as amber does.
You know it’s bad when you gotta ask someone living under your roof hey u wanna clean up a bit or do dishes or something. Lol she just sat on her behind and complained lol
i am an artist and when Casey told the story where amber destroyed the artwork he was doing for so long ......thats cruel its such a disrespect to what u love and give to the world.its a disrespect to what u are as a person.
Among many things she's good at, Amber excels at identifying things that hurt others the most. She might play the "i'm so stoopid" card, but she knows what to say (misgendering Casey many times), or do (destroying his artwork) to really hurt someone. And she feels justified to do that.
jaa i cud feel that...shes good in targeting insecurities and use them against them.....also the fact that she's using real abuse stories ,only exchanging the abused with the abuser- is another tactic to make the victim feel crazy and helpless...my ex did that , becuz first of all it seems like the victim is lying or just being crazy and also it makes it easier to lie for the abuser because he duznt hav to make shit up-it happened only the other way around-and to hear that the one who hurt u is playin that with ur trauma is nxt level assholyness.@@vinhallen
@@vinhallen baiting her bisexuality with Becky even though she knew they never wanted to be in a relationship from jump. She bulldozed her way into that house.
i know how this feels, happened to me twice this years, once from a relative, the other from a now exboyfriend. it's like they tore a little piece of your heart away, as cheesy as it may sound, and i'm saying this as a proffessional artist...those works had hours of work and love put into them...
ALR is just a juggernaut of destruction. She just bulldozes her way through people's lives with no regard of the damage she does. As long as she get's the clicks and has more reasons to pretend to be the victim, that's all that matters in the end.
Amber always says to her exes “you know what you put me through” And when they say something she did in a relationship it’s always “that literally never happened” or “I think I blacked out/dreamed about it”
Classic narcissist move. My abuser did that to me CONSTANTLY. He'd say the most hurtful things to me, I'd get upset, and he'd immediately claim I'M the one who said it to HIM and am now crying as a manipulation tactic. It's equal parts aggravating, maddening, and psychologically damaging.
She actually verbatim has said it about every ex except Krystle that I've seen. I'd love to see a compilation of it. She never goes into details, just says that sentence.
@jimmybunker9070 you are my new inspiration on my weight loss journey. You and a few other RUclipsrs I watch, make me want to better my health and fitness ❤ so thank you 😊
Casey is WAY too kind to amber, i can't even imagine being falsely accused of such a horrific crime PUBLICLY, but Casey never attacked or disrespected her, he is a wonderful person, he DID NOT deserve to be treated and abused like that.....
@@MamaBearBrockI get what you're saying 100%. But I think its more that they're still fearful of what she could possibly do to their life and the people in it. Very sad that after all these years they STILL feel like they need to watch their backs. Just shows how manipulative and destructive ALR really is!
@@gingerleamcwow435 What kills me is Amber will face no real repercussions for ANYTHING unless she somehow gets banned from RUclips. In a lot of ways, that could be the best thing that ever happens to her because she won't be able to afford her gluttony anymore and I highly doubt her mom can or would.
it's so cringe hearing amber talk about Casey binding his chest and identifying as Trans as if it was a casual thing. take it or leave it. like, no amber, that's a man who was explaining to the person closest to him how he was at war with his own body, and you siding AGAINST HIM. that was HORRIBLE.
Well amber does mess with crystals & shit I bet she brainwashes these girls. I wonder if she claims to be a witch to scare them. She's lucky Cassie doesn't report her to the police
Amber thinks the world owes her a living. Whether it's her partners and their parents or RUclips viewers, we all owe her attention and money. Her mere existence is a gift to us all.
The fact that Amber didn’t hit Casey when his mom was around shows she COULD control herself and she CHOSE to be abusive when there was no one around. And the fact that Casey and his mom separately told the same story about Amber throwing the glass object and not the mom proves Amber was lying.
It is very common for abusers to hide the abuse until the time is right. Some will even go so far as to mask their true nature until they believe it will be harder for their victim to escape. They wait for major milestones like pregnancy, childbirth, illness and disability. It's why they push to be the main breadwinner, so they can exert financial control and abuse and why they try to isolate their victims by stripping them of social support of their friends and family.
And the way Amber described Casey’s “abuse” literally isn’t how abusive dynamics work. Abusive behaviors ALWAYS escalate. You never see instances of abuse starting out with physical abuse and *then* becoming emotional. That not how control is established in abusive dynamics. The abused must be gradually worn down and isolated through emotional abuse for physical abuse to be an effective means of control. It never EVER flat out begins with physical violence. It will always be psychological and emotional before physical. That is how control is established. Make them feel crazy, make them feel alone, make them feel like the abuser is ALL they have and the ONLY one who loves them. That way, they won’t leave when the abuser hits them first the first time. They won’t leave when it happens for the second time. They won’t leave when their abuser almost kills them. Because they’ve been made to feel unworthy of anything better. Amber said Casey hit her before being emotionally abusive. That is a bold faced LAH, and anyone who has studied abusive dynamics or LIVED through abusive dynamics can easily see that. These behaviors will always, ALWAYS escalate. They will NEVER de-escalate. It will ALWAYS go from one extreme to the next. It will NOT go from one extreme to a less extreme. If they degrade you, they will grab you. If they grab you, they will hit you. If they hit you, they will punch you. If they punch you, they will kick you. If they kick you, they will choke you. If they choke you, eventually they will kill you. It. ALWAYS. Escalates.
Amber came out of the womb lying. I really hope that Casey sues the dog $h!t out of her. I pray 🙏 that he does. The creepiest thing from this documentary was when Amber stole Casey's story when his mom found out that he likes girls by writing a love letter. 🤮🤮🤮 OH &.... " I don't wash my face everyday, my make- up eventually comes off". Casey please, please, please sue this woman. If she even dared she would be financially ruined. I mean I would take every single dime.
The coming out story is the most insidious because it is a smiling predator on display. She is a predator. It’s disturbing to see a fledging sociopath, young, soft spoken, inconspicuous… knowing the severity now.
I choose to feel sorry for minor Amber. Little Amber had to of gone through a lot of something. Adult Amber knows better. And needs to be held accountable.
Never feel sorry for Amber. Many of us have had difficult childhood experiences. Does not give you a ticket to constantly lie and leave everything in shambles as you use and abuse people. Serves her right-now she only has her mom and now they’re using one another.
This woman is horrible. I understand she must have a decent amount of trauma from her childhood but that DOES NOT give you a right to lie about physical, emotional and sexual a*buse. I’ve dealt with my fair share of a*buse in relationships and it took me months to years to even disclose the experiences to people close to me. The fact that she put all of this out openly online for nothing more than attention is the exact reason people don’t believe her. She can’t keep her story straight and when she’s called on it she changes the narrative and then wants to lash out when people don’t believe her. She’s an awful person. She’s stooped so low on so many occasions and doubled down on those lies. She’ll never be happy if this is the way she continues to live her pathetic life.
i would like this comment a thousand times. Amber has borderline and isnt going to do anything about it because she cant accept this diagnosis. I really do think this is why - when she was younger and even now, she behaves like this. But for goodness sake, who's fault is this? Her family. They kicked her out and abandoned her a second time. This is why she's... the way she is. They didnt care about her so she's out here trying to find servants and people to kiss the floor she walks on. There's nothing wrong with having a mental illness but she doesnt care to work on it . I have a friend with borderline that confirms that Amber sounds like someone who has borderline even before she came out with it. Amber is also extremely addicted to love which is why she always slides into one relationship to the next. Also retelling things , is so weird she makes her own versions of stories which is disturbing because sadly..there could be truth in it..but sadly...sadly shes changing a lot because shes angry at someone. I want to bring up that casidy is of color ...and he's being recounted as being violent...while amber is a weeping white woman..like she was made to become a damaged karen that she is today lol.
Completely! It's understandable to get some minor details mixed up, but the truth doesn't change. If it happened, it happened. If it didn't, it didn't.
When Casey showed that list he made of "rules for himself" to be a better partner, that hit so hard because i did the exact same thing with my ex. I felt trapped and i felt like everything was my fault and i could control how my partner treated me by trying to change my behavior, but it didn't change anything. When we make those lists, that's when you go out of your mind, that's not you. The despair is real. I'm glad Casey got out.
I'm glad YOU got out. I hope that those horrible memories aren't a part of your daily life, that you remember them by choice, not when they decide to intrude your thoughts and that you've got control of them. I really hope you've found the real "you" again. 🙂♥️
@@kathybee3151 Thanks, it took a while (like 5 or 6 years) but I think I'm just about there. The intrusive memories sort of come and go now instead of ruining my day like they used to. I wonder how much Casey's changed since their breakup.
@@Chibz it's just not fair, it's not right and I just don't understand how people can be so awful to somebody that they say they love or even care about. Unfortunately, the kindhearted souls are the ones that love somebody "warts and all" and the evil ones are the ones that see that and use it against them. 😔 I think Casey probably had self esteem issues before Amber even came around but Amber saw that and knew she could victimize Casey without too much of a fight. Amber took advantage of every situation she's ever been in and she didn't/doesn't care who she has to destroy in the process of getting what she wants. It's disgusting. I hope that you never have to "make a list" for anybody ever again. Just be who you are and the right person will love you unconditionally. 🙂♥️♥️♥️
It was chilling to see the list… I have an old ‘apology’ letter I had to write for an abusive ex, I kept it as a reminder of what an unhealthy relationship looks like. The things he made me apologize for and beg for forgiveness for were ridiculous. I’m so glad Casey got out, and I wish him all the best. I’m glad you got out too.
If all these victims are watching this I'm sending you a virtual hug. I hope you all have found some type of healing from her abuse. Lot's of love to you all❤
The Casey thing is exactly why so many people had such a hard time believing she had cancer. If she could lie about SA, then surely she could lie about cancer. I believed the cancer story mostly because she showed far more actual emotion with that than she did "crying" about Casey "r*ping" and "beating" her. Such a gross human being she is.
Wow, thank you for going so in depth on this. I learned some new things! All the Facebook posts were especially insightful as to what a rotten person she is . . .
I’m at 13 minutes and I can’t believe how ungrateful and entitled somebody has to be to a person that kept you from going homeless that has no relation with you what so ever I feel so terrible for Nadine
As a video editor i just wanted to say it's been incredible watching your journey! You make ART. I genuinely thought you had 2m subs or something, you deserve so much more and it will come. The quality of your work continues to improve beyond what I ever expected. It makes me so happy to see you master your craft. You're amazing and I hope you never stop! I know they're not the big money makers but I'd love to see more history of the delray misfits one day too
“Casey’s mom was pissed because she knew she had to take on” so basically Amber turned Casey’s mom into a extended foster home. Something tells me that when she went back to her family at 18, they told her ass to work and help around the house. I think she flew to Arizona and saw that Casey’s mom was kind of a pushover and arranged this “kick out” from her grandma who she probably was being an asshole to. In my opinion “take on” was Ambers way of saying take care of her, plus she sat there for 4 years not working or helping with bills. Casey’s mom told her she had to either work or go to school and she chose school, but surprise surprise when she went to krystles there was no requirements to live there so school was dropped! I would love to know if there was any kind of actual communication between Casey’s mom and the Oklahoma family, because even tho she was 18 that’s wild that she went to another state by herself and they told her she couldn’t come back wtf
Yeah, I don't think they kicked her out at all, personally. I think they set boundaries and gave her an ultimatum that she didn't like, and she used a relationship with casey as a means to run away. She uses relationships as a mode of transportation- casey to arizona, Krystal to Oklahoma, destiny to Florida and then Kentucky, jade to Oklahoma again.
She didn't 'have to take on' though I'm actually disgusted watching this - disgusted with Amber, and even more disgusted with Nadine Casey was a MINOR! What kind of parent moves in their minor child's partner/a buser? If everything Casey has said is true, they've been badly let down by everyone around them
@CordeliaWagner1999 it depends on the circumstances. If he was adopted out of foster care, as a toddler, in the 90s, it really wouldn't have been very costly at all, not anymore then buying a used car or a few months rent. Being able to afford a one time cost decades ago does not constitute being well off by any means. They also lived in a one bedroom apartment with 4 adults for four years, if not longer, in one of the poorest parts of tucson. Not sure how that translates to someone being well off.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 Not always the case. Casey could be the son of a relative who couldn't take care of him. There are many cases of the birth mother's sister or cousin adopting the child.
knowing she was a senior kitty makes me so sad . she lived this long life with destiny until AL came into the picture . she didn’t survive but a few months of AL . so sad
I'm not even a cat person, because I've always been very aIIergic to them. But the Gracie thing bothers me so much. It would with any pet or any animaI. I can onIy hope that Gracie didn't suffer. ❤
Thank you, Snowflake, for reminding us who Amber really is. She's tried so hard to wipe her image lately by censoring herself and sharing so little, it's so important that we don't forget about the lives she's ruined. Underneath each new personality that she adopts there is a profound and malignant emptiness.
Thank you for breaking Casey’s story down so meticulously. Amber’s lying antics seem mostly pathetic and annoying, but Casey (and Gracie) are victims who show just how dangerous she can be.
What’s crazy is that she even said once that she uses the words “assaulted” and “harassed” interchangeably in this context. As in, she said that “oh i just meant s*xually harassed- because I use assault and harassment interchangeably here” as one of her deflection tactics when she was caught up in a lie on a livestream.
Im speechless, Snowflake. Top shelf production. Loved your and Jimmys honest commentary throughout. Jimmy saying everything we are thinking, and your facial expressions conveying more than words can. I hope Casey is doing okay, he didnt deserve any of what he went through before or after ALR. Im terrified for Krystles episode.
This is why I never believed her when she said she had cancer. She has the capacity to lie about being raped and physically abused, I really don't think it's out of the realm of possibility that she'd lie about cancer too.
It boggles my mind how looking the way she does, plus that awful personality, she manages to bamboozle partner after partner into being her live-in servants.
Casey was underage very manipulated, im so sorry but Kristal seems like she's on the spectrum, dusty likes them that way, beggy thought she would cash out and so did Jade.
Sometimes it feels like Amber wants to turn her girlfriend’s moms against them so that she can be closer to the mom than her girlfriends are. She loves talking about how “oh no, her mom loooooves me.” Despite the fact that they absolutely do not.
@@Lozrocks1234how exactly is she “making her partners mother her own” by fighting with said partners mother(s)? She has fought with Casey’s mother, Destinys mother, and Becky’s mother btw.
i can’t imagine the trauma casey had to go through dealing with amber’s bullshit as a developing teenager…….. i knew it was bad but i did not think it could possibly be worse. the crazy thing is amber exposed all of this herself, every single horrible thing she has done she has exposed herself. like we’re not making this up, the proof is in all of the shit she has put online HERSELF.
It is very VERY telling that when amber talked about her father abusing her mother, the conclusion she drew from that was "I never want to be abused in any relationship" and NOT "I never want to be like my father and abuse my partner". She really thinks of no one but herself
That mentality was also reflected during the livestream era, when she and Becky said she can’t be abusive because Becky was still her friend and staying in the house. Zero introspection. Absolutely no self-awareness or consideration that “hey maybe I’m repeating the cycle”. Becky saying that was understandable, and so was her staying with Amber. That’s how abuse works. The victim is often too trapped in the manipulation to realize what’s happening.
This is a reach, majority of women who've witnessed dv in their home have this view of not wanting to be abused like their mother was. They don't have to say they don't want to be like their father, because that should go hand and hand with the original statement of not wanting to experience dv in their personal relationship. Ik we dislike Amber, but c'mon.
@@fallenbee Its really not tho. I am a woman who experienced abuse from my father and i swore up and down i would a) NEVER do this to my future children and b) never do this to my spouse. Of course i never want to experience this from anyone ever again, who would? But more important to me is that the people i love more than myself never have to suffer the way i suffered.
@@nosodiumsalt those two statements go hand and hand though, which is my main point. You don't need to clarify both of them, because it's common sense that if you don't want it to happen to you then you don't want to do it to others too. Again, I know we don't like Amber. But this is just a stupid claim. There are other behaviors that are more concerning and more important.
I’m so glad that you didn’t back down when she did her “youre a man accusing me as a 7 year old” rant. It was a blatent deflection (especially when she’d already said she was abu*ed by a woman)… Stay strong and keep exposing her lies. She’s absolutely the one in the wrong for repeatedly making light of abu*e!
I must applaud you. I have been on this side of the internet for ages and yet so much of this information is brand new. Its natural to look for the best in people, but with Amber, every layer pulled back uncovers something even worse.
I thought I knew all of the earliest Amber lore, but my jaw dropped when you shared the coming out story. And she still maintains this story to this day. I cant believe her awfulness continues to surprise me. Thanks for your diligence ❄️
"But if you think she's amazing, wait till we get to krystal." Chills. Great job bringing all of this to light Snowflake, I wish all of her victims healing 🙏🏽
I found this video informative but also triggering. 64yr young i was raised by what I now know is a covert narcissist ☹️ who was a psychiatric nurse. 17 yrs of thinking everything was my fault. As a result i ran, put myself in danger without caring. I survived but something's can't be undone. People if you're gut is telling you leave then LEAVE these individuals will suck the life out of you make you crazy. Thank You Mr Snowflake 🙏❤️
Thank you to everyone who has watched and I’m glad most are enjoying it. Sadly there is still a copyright dispute on the video so I might not get paid for it. I was wanting to wait a few more days to see if it got resolved but people were starting to post the video so sadly I’ve had to upload it earlier than I wanted. Anyway I’m glad people are enjoying it and I’m working really hard to make sure the Krystle episode is done quickly. Thanks again folks xxx
Sorry you're having problems with it.
People with Patreon/membership access uploading it? Very Amberlynn behavior of them if so
Yeah I was hoping if I uploaded it just for members they wouldn’t share it till it was ready but :( never mind I know now.
Can I have the link to your Patreon? You put so much work into these videos,you should definitely be getting paid for your efforts and to keep them coming.
Mr. Snow will you knit me a sweater?
I had no idea she stole Casey's coming out story... that is just a new level of insanity...
Same. Hearing it side by side was really disgusting.
She did, I never forgot it the first time I heard it. She also made fun of his transness.
Yeah that blew me away!!! Word for word. How psychotic
@@NDi841ye that's some serial killer stuff
The gasp I gusped when I saw that part! I couldn’t believe it.
Amber has *never* left someone in better condition than how she met them. Jarring. She’s a soul sucker.
I was coming here to say this. There the campsite rule- try and leave someone as good or better than when you found them. She’s continually traumatizing every new partner.
When no one you’ve dated has anything good to say about you, that’s a huge red flag. I was cheated on by an ex but I still have a few positive things to say because it wasn’t all bad.
Facts 😢 . How is that possible
The term Emotional Vampire came to mind.
This is so true!!
That's how narcissists are, they sucks out your energy, your life and leave you weak and broken...💔
Using that fake, soft spoken, shy voice when she was with Krystle is psychotic
She absorbs the personality of her girlfriends like a sponge. It’s so screwed up.
@@itsmejahoo she’s Kirby
@@BoadieBroadus3211 😂 💯
😱😱😱😱😱 it's really, deeply creepy @@itsmejahoo
It's that movie Single White Female. Same hair, voice, makeup...it's scary!
“She’s waving a knife in my face” and I’m like “Oh, right….”
As a victim of domestic violence.. I never once thought “Oh, right….” As I’m sure 99.9999% of victims would also agree with.
Also her “I was like…whhhhhut?” from being strangled. That’s the first thing that struck me as insanely odd. Not saying everyone talks about DV in the same way. However….what the heck? Who beyond her would talk about it like that?
I'll be honest, I got to that point
but that's because I started dissociating whenever he started getting worked up. That took 3 years of constantly walking on eggshells though. At that point it didn't surprise me, just made me feel dumb for expecting less.
Not saying I believe Amber. I just don't think my experience is quite as rare as 0.0001 % of DV victims, so I thought I'd put it out there in case anyone needs to know they aren't alone there.
@@remarkablekidneysconethis always rang wrong for me, she is just... nonchalant about it?
You have to rip my story from my damn guts, many survivors struggle to even bring it up...but she just jokes and giggles? 🤨 it feels wrong, there I said it
@@sourgreendolly7685 I’m so very sorry that this was your experience. I hope that you don’t think that my comment was flippant or dismissive of your personal DV experience, as it wasn’t. I understand fully your dissociation and what that means as far as how you react to situations, threats and traumas. I truly hope that you are now safe and healing.
@@kubuspuchatek2950 She’s lying because she isn’t telling the truth.
This confirms that Amber has no identity. She has to steal other peoples stories and personalities. She's such a sociopath.
I was thinking something similar. There is years of video evidence of her having virtually no life whatsoever, yet trying to make engaging content about tasks as mundane as wiping counter tops in her kitchen. Even when she went on holiday she did almost nothing but sit in a hotel room, eating. She would need to steal interesting tidbits of other people's lives to try to appear like she has an eventful existence.
Great observation
Narcissism? Sociopathy? Psychopathy?
Take your pick ⛏️
She is absolutely a sociopath path. Im glad more people are starting to recognize this.
She is completely devoid of a personality and this is why. Everything about her is a parasitic.
I know that we shouldn’t talk about other sexuality, but the fact that she stole Casey story, makes me think that she maybe is not a lesbian.
She left Becky in absolute mental distress as well. She destroyed Becky's self worth, identity and well being. She is an absolute monster, a giant hideous sociopath. Thanks for exposing her and I can't wait til the Becky episode.
Becky is also a clown tho
@@jewsaregenocidalhores Anyone who would date Amber is either a teenager who doesn't know better or a deeply dysfunctional adult. So yeah, you're right.
@@jewsaregenocidalhoresdoesn’t mean she deserved to be mentally & emotionally abused.
Becky is a scammer and fake as well. Stop
@@jewsaregenocidalhoresare you seriously justifying narcissistic abuse
The thought of Amber shamelessly stretching Casey’s mom’s already thin resources like that is heartbreaking
Yes that part makes me sick. She is sooo entitled.
I wonder if grandma saying she couldn’t comeback was true or not.
@@sakaiahreign3365yep, seems like another LIE.
Throughout the years she was able to make a lot of money doing youtube. As a good gesture, she could have given some to the parents of her girlfriends who financially supported her when she was younger. Too late now though I guess.
@@abirdkilledmeh she made tens of thousands from the “lIvEsTrEaM eRa”, and paid Becky 2,600$, then made her split every single bill imaginable. She wouldn’t even pay Becky what she was owed for her time and efforts, let alone pay back people she’s abused.
It's always a great time watching a pathological liar and narcissist get exposed. This woman is an abusive monster. I feel so bad for the girlfriends, friends, and family she's harmed.
Narcissist always tell on themselves by accusing others of doing it.
I dont think she is a narcissist. She must have borderline personality disorder im almost sure
Well you must be thrilled. There are a lot of them rn. I don’t really find it to be a great time, because real people have suffered to get them exposed.
@@justkiddin84It's cathartic. No one is happy that people like this even exist. I think OP made that clear anyways.
I think you mean a non-empath, empathy feel others pain, I should know, I feel everyone's pain, she doesn't have empathy or sympathy😊
The fact that wifey, her number one life partner whom they loved each other so much, completely stopped communicating with her after driving her to Oklahoma is telling
I'm waiting for wifey to tell her side of the story.
@@Dixielanddelight83 Yasss! God I hope Wifey does a tell all. Amber needs to be cancelled and forced off the internet into a real job. She needs accountability, she has never be held accountable for any of her awful behavior. I think that Amber would be absolutely devastated if Wifey were to come out with the truth, she would probably be more hurt by that than if Beck did a tell all. But I have a feeling Beck has a lot more dirt on Amber. I hope Mr. Snowflake is able to do interviews with all Amber's exes.
Dumped her like a dog at the pound and never looked back. Good for her
@@lilmsdrummerAmber could never work a real job, mentally or physically. You’re right, but it’s never gonna happen realistically.
@@lilmsdrummer unfortunately amber can’t walk for more than 2 minutes so she wouldn’t be able to do a regular 9-5
Casey-won’t speak to her anymore.
Destiny-won’t speak to her anymore.
Becky-won’t speak to her anymore.
Jade-won’t speak to her anymore.
The only one we r not certain about is Krystal who may speak to her but what about Krystal’s parents?
Oh please 😩😂 Krystal is absolutely NOT speaking to her.
She's only mentioned talking to krystle like twice in the last 2 years. I don't think she spends alot of time or ever did after they broke up.
I think it's more she tolerated her.
Kystal is more busy having adult life. Working and be usefull person than amberlynn, sadly this woman make the pepole hate it.
I wonder if Krystle’s parents still pay her phone bill LoL
for me jade is the most telling because she wasnt as prominent in her videos.
"Casey was even cool with me and Krystle being intimate."
Also Amber: "I never let Krystle touch me."
i mean she said she only touched her, but didn’t let Krystle touch her
What’s crazy is, she took CASEY’S abuse story and made it into HERS. She is a monster.
Narcissistic sociopaths are strange
she used casey’s coming out story too it’s so odd
The bare faced cheek of it, proper psycho she is. Don’t know why anyone goes near her, she has zero redeeming qualities.
Amber literally ruined Casey’s life then moved on like it was nothing. I’ve never liked her but after this I see her as pure evil. How could you do that to someone??
You could almost try and excuse her for being young and troubled, but we've watched her for years and saw her never better herself as a person. She has continued to manipulate and hurt the people in her life.
Especially considering Casey took her in when she had nothing, housed her and fed her
She is the embodiment of a natural disaster. Just leaves destruction wherever she goes and who ever she comes into contact with.
Then coming back out of NOWHERE online and not only deadnaming you but accusing you of life ruining things? Worst case scenario
Or maybe it’s Casey that ruined hers?
I never realized casey said he'd stayed in a mental hospital after amber. That makes TWO people (becky made a video saying the same) that were abused by amber so badly they had to seek medical help. Wow. Holy shit
Wow. I missed that part.
Yeah, thats horrible, It makes sense with how Amber is that he has put more than one girlfriend into a horrible mental state
Often abuse leaves ppl with long term problems
Ya and they both somehow came out of it with the same notion “no one will ever truly love me”. Casey said this in his interview with mr.snowflake, and Becky has said the same. That’s so sad. Amber broke these two people.
*she’d
I thunk Jimmy summed it up the best when he said "I've never seen anyone less traumatized by an abusive relationship."
What a nightmare for Nadine. Get stuck with a huge toddler who stinks and who won’t do any chores, get a job or contribute to the house in any way. I’m sure the amount of food she had to pay for was insane. She’s a better person than me. I would have kicked her out.
You said it! I'd have sent her packing in a hurry!
She was just trying to support her daughter. If she knew about the abuse she would have told Amber to get out.
this is exactly the reason why Destiny's mom hit her that one time and she keeps trying to make it seem like she got hit out of nowhere
@@lhvy5066 Yep she had it coming
@@DawnyC her *son.. Kasey is a man.
She has done the "digging her nails into her partner" with Krystle too. Destiny has also stated how violent Hamber got with the Code Red incident. It's not just one partner saying such things. Amberlynn Reid the abuser needs to be cancelled.
I wonder if the mask slipped with wifey and that's why she dipped
If she doesn't get her way then she cries, yells, hits, and throws things.
@@hibyelisaI bet she tried it with Wipey and she got all 5 chins put in their places. Jade Francis was not the typical withdrawn bullied wallflower she usually ropes into the helper role.
@@ohemdoublegee She threw a hair straightener at Becky during a livestream. She is the worst.
@@lktzu2821 WHAT? I missed that. Becky did EVERYTHING for Amber without question and she had the fupa balls to throw a hair straightener at Becky? Disgusting
The phrase "My IQ is just overwhelmed by how smart I am" disproves itself 🙄
More like her low IQ overwhelmed by her high ego.
Haha I know, right ? 😅
I'm rewatching because I was running around doing some chores. I totally missed that one! 😂
The Dunning-Krueger Effect in action…
@@alspence I was about to say the same thing! xD
Her accusing people of SA has a tone of "Wow, look how many people want me! I must be so hot!" It comes across as some serious main character syndrome.
YES! Thank you for putting words onto what has bothered me so much about her attitude regarding this.
This is so messed up, but I feel you are spot on.
She has a giddy, almost "victorious" tone about it.
Incredibly articulate. I had no idea how to put into words how she came off. You nailed it.
Is "main character syndrome" a phrase we're all using?
I've told my girlfriend in the past "you sound like you think your the main character right now" when she starts stressing over something dumb (example: If she were to go to a concert, she might tell me she's nervous that she gets called on stage in front of everyone, or something like that, irrstional anxiety that she wants calmed)
I don't think I've ever heard it used elsewhere(perfectly possible i picked it up and have no clue where from) but I've always felt like the phrase summarizes the mentality perfectly, snd if it IS a normal phrase, it makes me happy to know it.
I can’t get past her saying she washes her body every day but not her face or hair and that her makeup eventually comes off after 3-4 days… WTF
Gross 🤢
so disgusting. if you shower the water usually hits your face, dumbolynn
And how does it make sense that she showers every day but doesn't wash her face every day?? Not sure about you, but it's impossible for me to keep my face dry in the shower 🤨
That means no washing… we are not dumb!
@@E1e4n0rSor I even have to wash my face while in the shower or before I shower. Smdh
If you’re “letting your makeup come off by itself” over the course of a few days and you tell me you shower everyday, I’m sorry but I don’t believe you 🤷🏽♀️
"it comes off on its own" not without the help of your greasy pillow case it doesn't! So gross!
@@DirtyShizno Well, how is she meant to remove makeup while "showering"? The rag-on-a-stick isn't suitable for that job.
Someone forward this to Jaime French, to help explain why ALR is “the most bullied person on the Internet.”
Jeezz, and this is just part one, I hope she keeps her mouth shut after seeing all this
Jaimie became a flying monkey
😂
I was thinking the same
Jaime is a cult member, a cult known to be very abusive. She has her own issues
"I was abused in many ways!" "Anyway.. I hope you enjoyed this video!"
Fucking hell...
I think we can all agree, most likely Grandma Reed kicked her out because she layed around the house all day, stinking and eating up everything.
She was grown up, it wasn't anyone else's problem to take care of her 🤷♀️
i’ve heard somewhere that she got kicked out because she was bringing girls around and getting herself and them hammered, all around her recovering alcoholic mother…
how much of that is true i don’t know, but knowing what we do about her i wouldn’t be surprised
@@merolynne😮
Right??? G'ma was thinking how much better it was with her gone and was like, "This is it! do NOT come back!!" in a way, i feel sorry for her and everyone thats had to endure her torment.
@@jerrysmith7166 I don't excuse Amber... but let's not act like her family is innocent. Amber is the monster that they created. They then unleashed her on innocent people when they no longer wanted to deal with her.
Even if she lied about her dad’s friends assaulting her to protect her cousin (which is still wrong), when the person asked her “Cousin or father’s friends?” Why would she act confused? Wouldn’t you realise immediately that they were referring to your lie and immediately say something like, “I know what you’re referring to, let me clear it up…”?
Then her acting like assault means making someone scared? Where does she pull all of this BS from?
Really, she is awful.
She did Criminal Justice, so we don't understand crime like she does
@@schadenfreude5287 Oh, silly me, of course! 😅
Then throwing blame on Mr Snowflake for questioning her lies, trying to make him look bad and her look like more of a victim. Even tho we can all go back to her previous videos, get the receipts & show her when & where she lied about everything.
@@blingqueen2235 It is really baffling to see someone so adamantly stick to their lies when the truth can and has been easily proven. I really am curious about the way her mind works!
@@2320CS Narcissist narcissisting.
Can we take a moment to appreciate how professionally this was made
Even my bits?
ESPECIALLY your parts Jimmy! 😆
@@ellenicoletv4095 thank you 🫡
Looks like a 9/11 documentary
He did a fantastic job of exposing her. He did the best job at putting her on blast.
I think 90% of what she gets "asked" on Q&A's is herself asking. She always finds ways to address rumors without actually bringing them up herself because she wants to act like she doesn't care about these accusations and she absolutely does.
Oh, no question that's what she does.
@@WobblesandBean
No doubt ALR watches every reaction channel & reads comments about her just like Foodie 😂
She definitely watch channels because now she’s using their lingo, calling herself, girly pop, her mother, mama-Lynn, and calling times in her life ERAS…. She doesn’t have a girlfriend’s personality she can mimic so, she takes on those of the reactors.
I'd be more surprised to find out there are still any real people posting questions at all.
Both Casey and Becky have been in mental institutions after dating Amber 😢
Dusty having two beans in her skull for brains literally saved her. Any intended trauma bounced off of her like bullets off of Superman 🦸♂️. Sis was a hero all unto herself ❤
@@mollysmith605and destiny was the only one that was smart enough to get away from her as quickly as she could.
@damianwhite-lq7kb but was still dumb enough to keep communication with her till this year.
@@tigmil8116 she didn’t “keep” communication with her. Amber contacted HER. Because that’s what sociopaths do,they routinely cycle back through previous victims to see if they can start the cycle all over again. She has done it with every single girlfriend, right after the most recent one dumps her.
She's probably proud of that
Casey if you are reading this- I am so sorry you got manipulated by someone like that. People like amberlynn have manipulated her way through life so don’t feel bad for believing her. Hope you can move on from all this ♥️
I hope Casey gets the courage to sue her to her last penny.
Yep
I love the commentary, the inclusion of Jimmy, everything. It was worth the wait
It's not enough for Amber to be straight up evil, she also has to be the single most loud and obnoxious person on earth.
AMEN👍
So. Much. Screaming.
Never forget Gracie, either.
"Rain and petals eavesdrop,
Amber's really fat.
Rain and petals eavesdrop,
Amber killed a cat."
@@BronzeDragon133 This should be recited by Jimmy Bunker before every episode.
👌🎯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I never wanted Amber to get cancelled because she's my entertainment,
But now I'm thinking, she needs to be cancelled. She needs to get everything she deserves.
After these 4 episodes if anyone is a fan of her then something is wrong
I haven’t been in gorl world long, but this is insanity. The lying and even stealing Casey’s coming out story is just 🤯🤯🤯🤯
@@MrSnowflake 4 parts! This is a true crime horror series. Amber really is a monster
@@MrSnowflakethere should also be a bonus 5th episode "justice for gracie" 🐈
@MrSnowflake absolutely. I am low-key More sketched out on someone who is an actual fan and supporter in a way ..
I feel like so few RUclipsrs talk about Casey when they talk about ALR, and the few who do barely give it five minutes. It’s truly great that you gave his story an entire episode. ❤
There's little to no video evidence so it gets a bit lost. She starts recording once she meets Krystle, so I can only imagine what Part 2 is going to look like.
Agree 💯
Mr. Snowflake, you are mastering your craft. Seeing the evolution in your production of this content is amazing.
Absolutely. Meanwhile, Amber is like a TV series where every season is the same. I couldn't follow her content unfiltered.
It’s so disturbing how lighthearted she treats her supposed sexual abuse. It’s absolute character assassination to Casey and it’s downright insulting to actual victims.
Unusual
Wow.... 😮... she took Casey's coming out story and called it hers. She took Krystal's old glasses and said they were hers. She got into a physical fight with Casey's mom and Destiny's mom.
She is BPD
she admitted to fighting with Krystal’s parents too. idk if it got physical but she said she screamed at them and told
them she hated them ! like how do you not get along with any of
your partners parents !!?? she’s the common denominator yet loves to play victim .
@@ashleynoelle1204 the parents put a limit on her behavior and outed her on the abusive conduct (for example, Casi's, Becky's and Destiny's mom), and that's why she got into physical fights with some of them, or screaming matches. I had a someone who i considered a friend who had that same behavior with anyone who confronted her whenever she crossed the line. She hit people, screamed at them, and then played the victim after they defended themselves. People like that is scary and dangerous.
She may have bpd, but even those is us who have it can have the self awareness to not be so horrible. Amber picks and chooses her diagnosis of the week depending on which behaviors it will let her get away with, and right now I think she’s using the BPD diagnosis to her advantage because of how it effects people. It’s awful
She's a 600 pound bully
I am probably alone in this, but you won’t convince me for one second that the whole “my grandmother said I couldn’t come back home” situation type deal is the truth. She’s a habitual liar about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE! I believe with all my being that she made it up just so she could stay with Casey! What makes me think that? Because she has a History of falling HARD and then wanting to live with every new love interest. And she is a liar liar dusty old black pants with a hole on fire! And no way would I move back home to family that threw me away at the age of 18 with nothing, and no place to go! IF her story was true, how can she now move back so easily to be with the same grandmother who supposedly treated her so horribly and threw her out without warning?
She definitely lied about that. She probably liked living with strangers more than her own family because she knows that her fostered care will probably let her get away with more than living with family. Amber has been avoiding having to live with them ever since...this relationship started it all. This girl didnt even get a job until she met Destiny at 26 at a place where Destiny was already working. There is so much with her, the lies are ridicious
Her aunt tammy came forward and said it was true, Gramma Lynn told Amber to take a hike because Amber is problematic. I think she was pulling this same stuff with meemaw and meemaw wasnt having it. They may have repaired their relationship now but Nanna Lynn might have a touch of dementia or something 🤷🏻♀️
Exactly! I've always thought that she made that story up about her grandma kicking her out. She just didn't want to go back so she lied!
@@janie567 Yeah her Grandma not wanting her back is probably the EASIEST thing to believe .. lol
It does strike me as slightly strange that the grandmother said she couldn’t come back… what exactly did the grandmother think was going to happen, had Casey’s family not been kind enough to let her stay?!
I was heartbroken over the list you read that Casey made. He did not deserve this, especially as a child.
Pull
Casey's list including "Don't make her repeat herself" hit me hard. My narc ex used to say the same thing and it was insane.
I noticed another one that wasn't mentioned:
Make food, and pack lunch...CORRECTLY.
@@finkwood yikes! I wonder what "correctly" looked like.
Sounds like mine too accept he hid his abuse behind “bdsm” (which had nothing to do with real abuse)
@@ifoxfireiTip entire contents of the fridge into her numerous lunch boxes?
My narcissistic ex did not like repeating himself either.
“they are twisting my words” GIRL THEY ARE YOUR WORDS
This is the most indepth and understandable representation of their relationship. I'm in awe of your skills. I'd pay money to see her watch this
Wait till Krystle episode it’s worse
@@MrSnowflake I am already dreading ...
She doesn’t deserve your hard earned money! 🤌🏻✨
I am not looking forward to Krystle or any other ex girlfriend but I firmly believe the truth needs to come out. Not for the community but so that Amberlynn’s channel will be cancelled or at least demonetized. Garbage people are cancelled all the time, it’s time for Amber to own up for her shit
I believe it would be very similar to her reacting to Tom Harlock
Listening her lie about being abused infuriates me. It is a massive insult to anyone who’s actually been through such horrible things. She’s sick in the head. How dare she!
shes not sick in the head, shes just a horrible person
Right.. and the fact that while she’s telling these stories she keeps saying “I don’t really remember” ??? I remember details of my abuse as a child like they happened yesterday. It’s impossible to forget most details unfortunately
Also the way she claims trauma memories change is Incorrect.
The truth DOESN'T change
And once you recall something about the traumatic event - it sticks. You don't forget it again and remember something different. The traumatic event can get more detailed but NEVER less.
That's just not how memory works and WHY people don't claim PTSD changes their stories in court cases! @@siemei666
@@siemei666 This is actually really possible, it's a very common phenomenon called dissociation.
@@necrodefecator Not really. "Repressed memories" aren't a thing, they are implanted false memories. Trauma has the opposite effect on the brain, you cannot forget the traumatic things that happened to you, no matter how much you want to.
Even when I disassociate, I still remember it. And even if it did work that way, Amber is still 100% lying.
Thank you Mr. Snowflake 💜 Justice for Casey
Hey @mrsnowflake don’t you have something to say?.
@@SandraW6988 ungrateful
did anyone else notice that she got a LOT more emotional immediately into talking abt her brothers “abuse” towards her than the entire story abt casey?
when was this on the video I ended up accidentally skipping and don't know where I was but I never heard that
@@omahahooker70831:13 around that mark she starts talking about her brother and getting emotional
@@ShigureHisame You are everything thank you
Literally just started scrolling to see if anyone else picked up on that. She was telling the story of her 'abusive' girlfriend like you would talk about a petty argument you got into in middle school. So odd to watch
The story about her brother sounded true. I believe she was abused as a child. The rest of her story sounds fake and embellished.
I'll say this: TW I have worked in women's shelters, welfare rights groups ,etc.(retired now) since the mid 1990's and I know victims react differently but in almost 30 years I have never heard of a SA victim asking their abuser for sex advice.
Thank you for commenting and yeah it doesn’t make sense to me and it doesn’t make sense to you and you have the knowledge I won’t.
@@MrSnowflake Yes , women stay with abusers for several reasons , children have no choice ;a six year old can't get a job and move out into their own apartment but...ALR was away from him. She even tried to 'Friend ' Casi's mother and friends on Facebook. Her actions just don't make sense.
I would be very very careful saying this. I have a friend who was routinely raped and beaten by an ex and definitely would’ve asked for sex advice from him. Abuse is complex as you know and this is the one thing that bothers me because I know my friends abuse would be invalidated if this was our litmus test.
I have heard this before, actually. A fawning response is rather normal in extreme distress. There’s really no need to say shit like this just because you hate one particular person, yk?
@@PotatoPieYT I am a victim of r@pe and I can’t imagine asking my r@pist for sexual advice. I don’t encourage you to speak for your friend, because you don’t know that either, this person is giving an opinion based on her actual career experience, and working with several victims, whether you like it or not, there are certain symptoms that we (victims) exhibit, there are literal clinical studies about how a person TYPICALLY acts when something like this happens to them, that’s just a fact, under what circumstances would you know for a fact that your friend asked her r@pist for sex advice? Did she tell you that? Under what circumstances did she tell you this and why? I doubt she told you that, because that would be a wild coincidence and something you would have mentioned in your first comment, which leads me to believe you are speculating. So who are you to give this opinion? You’re not a victim and you’re not a an expert on r@pe. So what gives you the audacity to tel someone who works with victims that they are wrong for sharing their experience with victims?
I love Jimmy in this. He just keeps popping in and speaking for all of us who are confused.
Amber - "Here are the tears"
What we're all thinking channeled through Jimmy - "Where?!"
I hope he was not cohorced to watch it all in one go for the vidéo :o
👍🤣😂🤣😂
"That's just the law"
@@Hazheelh Co-horsed 😅
@@TheoEclipse I think it's coerced, sorry :') I wrote it as I hear it from a french perspective. It looked good xD
I’ve never seen a 30+ year old woman not know how to do laundry. She didn’t even know the laundry soap has a dispenser built in! What in the world!
It's truIy mind blowing to me since I started doing our family's laundry at 12. There were 6 of us. My mom went back to work and I had to step up as the oldest daughter and take care of the younger siblings and housework. I'm gIad too, I was floored when I went to nursing school at 18 and others didn't know how to do Iaundry or anything. 😮
I think everyone, male and female should be taught how to cook and do basic household chores and have some kind of paying job to prepare you for the real world. I'm glad I was, especially since I then Iost my mom at 18. That was decades ago, I've made my peace with it and have 2 grown sons of my own now. Who know how to take care of themseIves.
I can understand if she came from a rich family with maids an nanny's . Amber useless
it is unbelievable, imo INTENTIONAL ignorance, its one thing, to suddenly be on your own and not know something, easily fixed- educate oneself, ask someone, read the instructions, etc.. she seems to WORK at being Incapable? like, refusing to learn, and this cringe-"Im TOO cool/awesome to do LAUNDRY"-
I've always owned basic washers. I wouldn't know how to use that either lol
Same here 😂@@jessicameagan4198
no one in the amberverse makes alr documentaries like you. hands down the best.
💯💯💯💯
Next time Amber uploads it will surely be some sort of health crisis trying to distract us from this masterpiece.
She’ll probably choke on another potato
100 percent
I'm pretty sure she's actually in here on an alt, there's some guy saying things like "actually Casey ruined Amber's life, not the other way around" and other ridiculous statements laughing at Snowflake and his audience for "being obsessed" with someone we don't even like, etc. I mean.... that's Amber, right? It's gotta be her.
@@WobblesandBean it definitely sounds like it
@@WobblesandBean only if they say, “I’m proud of Amber…” lol
"I shower every day, just not my face... the make up comes off on its own in 2 or 3 days" i just... 🙃
No one that showers daily talks this much about showering.
No one talks about showering themselves at all that I know
@@kelleyarmstrong9970unless you’re telling a story that took place while you were in the shower, there is no need to mention showering as much as amber does.
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Gosh she drove everyone mad because she smelt. Human smell lingers and suffocates. It's horrible. Bless those people
I can't believe this woman thought she was just gonna lay around all day not contributing.
You know it’s bad when you gotta ask someone living under your roof hey u wanna clean up a bit or do dishes or something.
Lol she just sat on her behind and complained lol
@@mamamoonxo5081 or wash your ass. Maybe the ppl wanted to alone they were the ones paying the rent
@@mamamoonxo5081 Or just to wash their own body. 😂
lol @ "woman" ......
@@Christine.152 "rag on a stick"
i am an artist and when Casey told the story where amber destroyed the artwork he was doing for so long ......thats cruel its such a disrespect to what u love and give to the world.its a disrespect to what u are as a person.
You can see the pain in his eyes when he relates the story to us 😢
Among many things she's good at, Amber excels at identifying things that hurt others the most. She might play the "i'm so stoopid" card, but she knows what to say (misgendering Casey many times), or do (destroying his artwork) to really hurt someone. And she feels justified to do that.
jaa i cud feel that...shes good in targeting insecurities and use them against them.....also the fact that she's using real abuse stories ,only exchanging the abused with the abuser- is another tactic to make the victim feel crazy and helpless...my ex did that , becuz first of all it seems like the victim is lying or just being crazy and also it makes it easier to lie for the abuser because he duznt hav to make shit up-it happened only the other way around-and to hear that the one who hurt u is playin that with ur trauma is nxt level assholyness.@@vinhallen
@@vinhallen baiting her bisexuality with Becky even though she knew they never wanted to be in a relationship from jump. She bulldozed her way into that house.
i know how this feels, happened to me twice this years, once from a relative, the other from a now exboyfriend. it's like they tore a little piece of your heart away, as cheesy as it may sound, and i'm saying this as a proffessional artist...those works had hours of work and love put into them...
Don't feel like an idiot for wanting to see the good in people. That is a positive quality to have.
Makes me feel better actually
@@MrSnowflake ❤
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It’s human nature to believe everyone has good in them
ALR is just a juggernaut of destruction. She just bulldozes her way through people's lives with no regard of the damage she does. As long as she get's the clicks and has more reasons to pretend to be the victim, that's all that matters in the end.
Juggernaut of Destruction. Perfect description.
Classic narc
So, like most lesbians.
Eloquently worded!
Fitting that a woman of her…carriage would live life busting thru walls like the Kool Aid Man
Amber always says to her exes “you know what you put me through”
And when they say something she did in a relationship it’s always “that literally never happened” or “I think I blacked out/dreamed about it”
Classic narcissist move. My abuser did that to me CONSTANTLY. He'd say the most hurtful things to me, I'd get upset, and he'd immediately claim I'M the one who said it to HIM and am now crying as a manipulation tactic. It's equal parts aggravating, maddening, and psychologically damaging.
She actually verbatim has said it about every ex except Krystle that I've seen. I'd love to see a compilation of it. She never goes into details, just says that sentence.
Dude Jimmy is fucking hilarious I’m glad he’s in the videos more. Bunker boys unite
He’s fantastic
Aww fanks
@@jimmybunker9070 you’re welcome! Excited to see the interview
@jimmybunker9070 you are my new inspiration on my weight loss journey. You and a few other RUclipsrs I watch, make me want to better my health and fitness ❤ so thank you 😊
@@danniitheaussie you'll be pleased to know I spent time hanging from my door bar yesterday and ate a banana so I'm back on track haha
Casey is WAY too kind to amber, i can't even imagine being falsely accused of such a horrific crime PUBLICLY, but Casey never attacked or disrespected her, he is a wonderful person, he DID NOT deserve to be treated and abused like that.....
A part of me wonders if Casey is still under some of the spell. I wonder that about Becky too to a degree.
@@MamaBearBrockI get what you're saying 100%. But I think its more that they're still fearful of what she could possibly do to their life and the people in it. Very sad that after all these years they STILL feel like they need to watch their backs. Just shows how manipulative and destructive ALR really is!
@@gingerleamcwow435 What kills me is Amber will face no real repercussions for ANYTHING unless she somehow gets banned from RUclips. In a lot of ways, that could be the best thing that ever happens to her because she won't be able to afford her gluttony anymore and I highly doubt her mom can or would.
it's so cringe hearing amber talk about Casey binding his chest and identifying as Trans as if it was a casual thing. take it or leave it. like, no amber, that's a man who was explaining to the person closest to him how he was at war with his own body, and you siding AGAINST HIM. that was HORRIBLE.
Well amber does mess with crystals & shit I bet she brainwashes these girls. I wonder if she claims to be a witch to scare them. She's lucky Cassie doesn't report her to the police
The way she said " Right then and there, Casi's mom knew she had to take me in" she was in her twenties that is insane to me
Amber thinks the world owes her a living. Whether it's her partners and their parents or RUclips viewers, we all owe her attention and money. Her mere existence is a gift to us all.
The fact that Amber didn’t hit Casey when his mom was around shows she COULD control herself and she CHOSE to be abusive when there was no one around.
And the fact that Casey and his mom separately told the same story about Amber throwing the glass object and not the mom proves Amber was lying.
It is very common for abusers to hide the abuse until the time is right. Some will even go so far as to mask their true nature until they believe it will be harder for their victim to escape. They wait for major milestones like pregnancy, childbirth, illness and disability. It's why they push to be the main breadwinner, so they can exert financial control and abuse and why they try to isolate their victims by stripping them of social support of their friends and family.
And the way Amber described Casey’s “abuse” literally isn’t how abusive dynamics work.
Abusive behaviors ALWAYS escalate. You never see instances of abuse starting out with physical abuse and *then* becoming emotional. That not how control is established in abusive dynamics. The abused must be gradually worn down and isolated through emotional abuse for physical abuse to be an effective means of control. It never EVER flat out begins with physical violence. It will always be psychological and emotional before physical. That is how control is established. Make them feel crazy, make them feel alone, make them feel like the abuser is ALL they have and the ONLY one who loves them. That way, they won’t leave when the abuser hits them first the first time. They won’t leave when it happens for the second time. They won’t leave when their abuser almost kills them. Because they’ve been made to feel unworthy of anything better.
Amber said Casey hit her before being emotionally abusive. That is a bold faced LAH, and anyone who has studied abusive dynamics or LIVED through abusive dynamics can easily see that.
These behaviors will always, ALWAYS escalate. They will NEVER de-escalate. It will ALWAYS go from one extreme to the next. It will NOT go from one extreme to a less extreme. If they degrade you, they will grab you. If they grab you, they will hit you. If they hit you, they will punch you. If they punch you, they will kick you. If they kick you, they will choke you. If they choke you, eventually they will kill you.
It. ALWAYS. Escalates.
@@annaf2091 This is an excellent comment!!
Amber came out of the womb lying. I really hope that Casey sues the dog $h!t out of her. I pray 🙏 that he does.
The creepiest thing from this documentary was when Amber stole Casey's story when his mom found out that he likes girls by writing a love letter. 🤮🤮🤮 OH &....
" I don't wash my face everyday, my make- up eventually comes off".
Casey please, please, please sue this woman. If she even dared she would be financially ruined. I mean I would take every single dime.
@@annaf2091very well thought out comment! Do you study this?
The coming out story is the most insidious because it is a smiling predator on display. She is a predator. It’s disturbing to see a fledging sociopath, young, soft spoken, inconspicuous… knowing the severity now.
Sometimes I feel bad for Amber, but watching this just puts how terrible she was, and continues to be, into perspective.
Sometimes I feel bad for not feeling bad for Amber, but then I see this.
I choose to feel sorry for minor Amber. Little Amber had to of gone through a lot of something.
Adult Amber knows better. And needs to be held accountable.
@@Space_Cadet13 So So True. She doesn't want to change physically, mentally, or personality.
Never feel sorry for Amber. Many of us have had difficult childhood experiences. Does not give you a ticket to constantly lie and leave everything in shambles as you use and abuse people. Serves her right-now she only has her mom and now they’re using one another.
@@DawnyC🙃
This feels like a Netflix documentary. She’s a world class psycho.
Her copying Casey’s coming out story near verbatim is……
she has no shame!
Agreed! I've never seen those clips before, it made me queasy 😔
Whoa. This was both shocking and completely not shocking. Amazing work, as always.
I agree
Absolutely! I'm watching like 😮
😅 to have it laid bare like this. Ambie can NO longer play victim. I held out hope for her...but Now that's gone.
This woman is horrible. I understand she must have a decent amount of trauma from her childhood but that DOES NOT give you a right to lie about physical, emotional and sexual a*buse.
I’ve dealt with my fair share of a*buse in relationships and it took me months to years to even disclose the experiences to people close to me. The fact that she put all of this out openly online for nothing more than attention is the exact reason people don’t believe her. She can’t keep her story straight and when she’s called on it she changes the narrative and then wants to lash out when people don’t believe her.
She’s an awful person. She’s stooped so low on so many occasions and doubled down on those lies. She’ll never be happy if this is the way she continues to live her pathetic life.
Nailed it, she's a souIIess ghouI imho. Sucking the joy and Iife out of others for her own seIfishness.
I wish I could like this comment more than once.
i would like this comment a thousand times. Amber has borderline and isnt going to do anything about it because she cant accept this diagnosis. I really do think this is why - when she was younger and even now, she behaves like this.
But for goodness sake, who's fault is this? Her family. They kicked her out and abandoned her a second time. This is why she's... the way she is. They didnt care about her so she's out here trying to find servants and people to kiss the floor she walks on.
There's nothing wrong with having a mental illness but she doesnt care to work on it . I have a friend with borderline that confirms that Amber sounds like someone who has borderline even before she came out with it. Amber is also extremely addicted to love which is why she always slides into one relationship to the next. Also retelling things , is so weird she makes her own versions of stories which is disturbing because sadly..there could be truth in it..but sadly...sadly shes changing a lot because shes angry at someone.
I want to bring up that casidy is of color ...and he's being recounted as being violent...while amber is a weeping white woman..like she was made to become a damaged karen that she is today lol.
like Miss Judge Judy always says: "if you're telling the truth, you don't need a good memory"
Yes!!!!!!!! Love judge Judy
His all time favourite show@@MrSnowflake
Completely! It's understandable to get some minor details mixed up, but the truth doesn't change. If it happened, it happened. If it didn't, it didn't.
When Casey showed that list he made of "rules for himself" to be a better partner, that hit so hard because i did the exact same thing with my ex. I felt trapped and i felt like everything was my fault and i could control how my partner treated me by trying to change my behavior, but it didn't change anything. When we make those lists, that's when you go out of your mind, that's not you. The despair is real. I'm glad Casey got out.
That was chilling
I'm glad YOU got out.
I hope that those horrible memories aren't a part of your daily life, that you remember them by choice, not when they decide to intrude your thoughts and that you've got control of them.
I really hope you've found the real "you" again. 🙂♥️
@@kathybee3151 Thanks, it took a while (like 5 or 6 years) but I think I'm just about there. The intrusive memories sort of come and go now instead of ruining my day like they used to. I wonder how much Casey's changed since their breakup.
@@Chibz it's just not fair, it's not right and I just don't understand how people can be so awful to somebody that they say they love or even care about. Unfortunately, the kindhearted souls are the ones that love somebody "warts and all" and the evil ones are the ones that see that and use it against them. 😔
I think Casey probably had self esteem issues before Amber even came around but Amber saw that and knew she could victimize Casey without too much of a fight. Amber took advantage of every situation she's ever been in and she didn't/doesn't care who she has to destroy in the process of getting what she wants. It's disgusting.
I hope that you never have to "make a list" for anybody ever again.
Just be who you are and the right person will love you unconditionally. 🙂♥️♥️♥️
It was chilling to see the list… I have an old ‘apology’ letter I had to write for an abusive ex, I kept it as a reminder of what an unhealthy relationship looks like. The things he made me apologize for and beg for forgiveness for were ridiculous. I’m so glad Casey got out, and I wish him all the best. I’m glad you got out too.
Scary to look back on one’s youth and realize that running into the wrong person at that age could have such an awful set of consequences.
Casey is adopted?? He looks JUST LIKE his mom. How wild!
I thought the same thing. I wonder if they're related somehow still, like a biological aunt or cousin or something.
Casey is a woman
She. I get it, she had to deal with Amber, i feel terrible for that. But she is clearly a woman
weird comment@@Xxx-dh3bg
@@Xxx-dh3bg being transphobic is gross. Be better.
If all these victims are watching this I'm sending you a virtual hug. I hope you all have found some type of healing from her abuse. Lot's of love to you all❤
The Casey thing is exactly why so many people had such a hard time believing she had cancer. If she could lie about SA, then surely she could lie about cancer. I believed the cancer story mostly because she showed far more actual emotion with that than she did "crying" about Casey "r*ping" and "beating" her. Such a gross human being she is.
There's a different between having cancer and have pre cancerous cells. SHE'S UNHINGED.
oh god Caseys list broke me
I thought I knew the story but the list I'd never seen before
it brought me to tears
It sounds like Krystle's story will be even more heartbreaking. Ugh.
That list is extremely dark. Darkest thing in the video imo
Very creepy
@ununhexium deeply unsettling
Wow, thank you for going so in depth on this. I learned some new things! All the Facebook posts were especially insightful as to what a rotten person she is . . .
Awful
I’m at 13 minutes and I can’t believe how ungrateful and entitled somebody has to be to a person that kept you from going homeless that has no relation with you what so ever I feel so terrible for Nadine
As a video editor i just wanted to say it's been incredible watching your journey! You make ART. I genuinely thought you had 2m subs or something, you deserve so much more and it will come. The quality of your work continues to improve beyond what I ever expected. It makes me so happy to see you master your craft. You're amazing and I hope you never stop!
I know they're not the big money makers but I'd love to see more history of the delray misfits one day too
“Casey’s mom was pissed because she knew she had to take on” so basically Amber turned Casey’s mom into a extended foster home. Something tells me that when she went back to her family at 18, they told her ass to work and help around the house. I think she flew to Arizona and saw that Casey’s mom was kind of a pushover and arranged this “kick out” from her grandma who she probably was being an asshole to. In my opinion “take on” was Ambers way of saying take care of her, plus she sat there for 4 years not working or helping with bills. Casey’s mom told her she had to either work or go to school and she chose school, but surprise surprise when she went to krystles there was no requirements to live there so school was dropped!
I would love to know if there was any kind of actual communication between Casey’s mom and the Oklahoma family, because even tho she was 18 that’s wild that she went to another state by herself and they told her she couldn’t come back wtf
Yeah, I don't think they kicked her out at all, personally. I think they set boundaries and gave her an ultimatum that she didn't like, and she used a relationship with casey as a means to run away. She uses relationships as a mode of transportation- casey to arizona, Krystal to Oklahoma, destiny to Florida and then Kentucky, jade to Oklahoma again.
She didn't 'have to take on' though
I'm actually disgusted watching this - disgusted with Amber, and even more disgusted with Nadine
Casey was a MINOR! What kind of parent moves in their minor child's partner/a buser?
If everything Casey has said is true, they've been badly let down by everyone around them
Casey was adoptdd and people keep telling how extremly expensive Adoption is so the mother must have been financially well off
@CordeliaWagner1999 it depends on the circumstances. If he was adopted out of foster care, as a toddler, in the 90s, it really wouldn't have been very costly at all, not anymore then buying a used car or a few months rent. Being able to afford a one time cost decades ago does not constitute being well off by any means.
They also lived in a one bedroom apartment with 4 adults for four years, if not longer, in one of the poorest parts of tucson. Not sure how that translates to someone being well off.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 Not always the case. Casey could be the son of a relative who couldn't take care of him. There are many cases of the birth mother's sister or cousin adopting the child.
That “Gracie Meow” hits me in the feels every time… 😢
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@@kelf114 stopit!!!!!!!!!! 😢
knowing she was a senior kitty makes me so sad . she lived this long life with destiny until AL came into the picture . she didn’t survive but a few months of AL . so sad
I'm not even a cat person, because I've always been very aIIergic to them. But the Gracie thing bothers me so much. It would with any pet or any animaI. I can onIy hope that Gracie didn't suffer. ❤
Right!
Thank you, Snowflake, for reminding us who Amber really is. She's tried so hard to wipe her image lately by censoring herself and sharing so little, it's so important that we don't forget about the lives she's ruined. Underneath each new personality that she adopts there is a profound and malignant emptiness.
+1 to this. Great comment.
It’s about as easy for her to wipe her image as it is to wipe her own arse.
I feel like there is no authentic person there. She's just a caricature of an actual person. Isn't that a sign of being a sociopath ?
Thank you for breaking Casey’s story down so meticulously. Amber’s lying antics seem mostly pathetic and annoying, but Casey (and Gracie) are victims who show just how dangerous she can be.
And Libby.
Who is Gracie again?
@@dlh1282old cat that hamburt was sick of and so she made Gracie disappear
How convenient that her grandma kicked her out the moment she was at her girlfriend's house. I say Amber calculated everything and ran away from home.
yeah definitely she was planning that from the beginning
Yes. Yes. Yes.
its so clear she is very calculated and manipulative. everything is for her gain and she just uses everyone around her to get what she wants/needs
She was kicked out for messing with her moms sobriety.
@@ttc958how did she mess with her sobriety? Was it because amber is so stressful to be around?
“I can’t come in for my shift…my bruises got darker.” 🤣🤣🤣 I spit out my coffee🤣🤣🤣
😂❤
It was so unexpectedly hilarious lmao.
What’s crazy is that she even said once that she uses the words “assaulted” and “harassed” interchangeably in this context. As in, she said that “oh i just meant s*xually harassed- because I use assault and harassment interchangeably here” as one of her deflection tactics when she was caught up in a lie on a livestream.
"Wait, wut" *chuckles* She is horrible
Im speechless, Snowflake. Top shelf production. Loved your and Jimmys honest commentary throughout. Jimmy saying everything we are thinking, and your facial expressions conveying more than words can. I hope Casey is doing okay, he didnt deserve any of what he went through before or after ALR. Im terrified for Krystles episode.
Casey was literally a child just trying to figure out who he was and Amber did so much damage 😢
Why would a parent allow that disgusting mound of Ambergris into their home to abuse their daughter I will never understand.
Seeing Jimmy Bunker sitting in an arm chair with lights dimmed is what makes life worth living.
The cardigan only adds to the vibe 😏
This is why I never believed her when she said she had cancer. She has the capacity to lie about being raped and physically abused, I really don't think it's out of the realm of possibility that she'd lie about cancer too.
Exactly! What gullible dimwits! You could see that a mile off.
Agreed. I 1000% believe she lied about cancer.
Nah you should see the video where she says she has cancer. It's clear she's telling the truth. Maybe for the first and only time haha
@@courtneygrier2015absofuckinlutely
@@lenny5231nope. No tears. She's practically laughing in that video.
That ‘wait until we get to Krystle’ line was so cold oof
I got shivers
Yeh when I said it I thought ooooo that’s a good line ha but it’s also true. People aren’t ready for how awful she is
Anytime ALR says "Uhh....WUHT?", she's lying.
It boggles my mind how looking the way she does, plus that awful personality, she manages to bamboozle partner after partner into being her live-in servants.
She uses emotional manipulation (playing victim) and eventually used money to control her partners. :/ she has nothing else to offer
Casey was underage very manipulated, im so sorry but Kristal seems like she's on the spectrum, dusty likes them that way, beggy thought she would cash out and so did Jade.
@@mayflowers5385Krystle bored me even more than Jade, and Jade was boring as all h3ll.
@@lornarettig3215make sense Krystal an jade didn't want the be on RUclips lol
It’s her money (now). She buys them and pays for everything, all her friends and her own mother.
Sometimes it feels like Amber wants to turn her girlfriend’s moms against them so that she can be closer to the mom than her girlfriends are. She loves talking about how “oh no, her mom loooooves me.” Despite the fact that they absolutely do not.
Abusers always isolate victims from friends and family
And if she has issues with her own mother it’d make sense she wants to make her partner’s mother her own
@@Lozrocks1234how exactly is she “making her partners mother her own” by fighting with said partners mother(s)? She has fought with Casey’s mother, Destinys mother, and Becky’s mother btw.
She wants to isolate her victims so she has full control.
@@mikehunt7360she seems like the type to fight w her mama
i can’t imagine the trauma casey had to go through dealing with amber’s bullshit as a developing teenager…….. i knew it was bad but i did not think it could possibly be worse. the crazy thing is amber exposed all of this herself, every single horrible thing she has done she has exposed herself. like we’re not making this up, the proof is in all of the shit she has put online HERSELF.
THIS
bc she's a narcissist, she can't see what she did wrong
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It is very VERY telling that when amber talked about her father abusing her mother, the conclusion she drew from that was "I never want to be abused in any relationship" and NOT "I never want to be like my father and abuse my partner". She really thinks of no one but herself
That mentality was also reflected during the livestream era, when she and Becky said she can’t be abusive because Becky was still her friend and staying in the house. Zero introspection. Absolutely no self-awareness or consideration that “hey maybe I’m repeating the cycle”.
Becky saying that was understandable, and so was her staying with Amber. That’s how abuse works. The victim is often too trapped in the manipulation to realize what’s happening.
This is a reach, majority of women who've witnessed dv in their home have this view of not wanting to be abused like their mother was. They don't have to say they don't want to be like their father, because that should go hand and hand with the original statement of not wanting to experience dv in their personal relationship. Ik we dislike Amber, but c'mon.
@@fallenbee Its really not tho. I am a woman who experienced abuse from my father and i swore up and down i would a) NEVER do this to my future children and b) never do this to my spouse. Of course i never want to experience this from anyone ever again, who would? But more important to me is that the people i love more than myself never have to suffer the way i suffered.
@@nosodiumsalt those two statements go hand and hand though, which is my main point. You don't need to clarify both of them, because it's common sense that if you don't want it to happen to you then you don't want to do it to others too. Again, I know we don't like Amber. But this is just a stupid claim. There are other behaviors that are more concerning and more important.
@fallenbee the distinction by* that implication is such that she chose to be the aggressor
I’m so glad that you didn’t back down when she did her “youre a man accusing me as a 7 year old” rant. It was a blatent deflection (especially when she’d already said she was abu*ed by a woman)… Stay strong and keep exposing her lies. She’s absolutely the one in the wrong for repeatedly making light of abu*e!
This was an awesome video, well done! Can’t wait to hear about Krystle! 🤗🤗
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I must applaud you. I have been on this side of the internet for ages and yet so much of this information is brand new.
Its natural to look for the best in people, but with Amber, every layer pulled back uncovers something even worse.
Well done as always. I hope you can clear up the copyright issues.
Aw hey you. Yeh I hope :(
I thought I knew all of the earliest Amber lore, but my jaw dropped when you shared the coming out story. And she still maintains this story to this day. I cant believe her awfulness continues to surprise me.
Thanks for your diligence ❄️
Me too. Like wow. Holy cow, she had to steal a coming out story.
"But if you think she's amazing, wait till we get to krystal." Chills. Great job bringing all of this to light Snowflake, I wish all of her victims healing 🙏🏽
I found this video informative but also triggering. 64yr young i was raised by what I now know is a covert narcissist ☹️ who was a psychiatric nurse. 17 yrs of thinking everything was my fault. As a result i ran, put myself in danger without caring. I survived but something's can't be undone. People if you're gut is telling you leave then LEAVE these individuals will suck the life out of you make you crazy. Thank You Mr Snowflake 🙏❤️