Maybe you need to find your own way. Life can be hard, and seem unfair. But you dont need to follow others. If stable jobs with hobbies seem good to you, go ahead. If it doesnt make you happy after you tried it, you dont have to force it. Do what YOU want, instead of what others expect, thats what life is here for in the end. Im excited to see what change you will come up with :)
Maybe you need to find your own way. Life can be hard, and seem unfair. But you dont need to follow others. If stable jobs with hobbies seem good to you, go ahead. If it doesnt make you happy after you tried it, you dont have to force it. Do what YOU want, instead of what others expect, thats what life is here for in the end. Im excited to see what change you will come up with :)