Does a Person's Upbringing Tell You All You Need to Know? | Tell My Story
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- Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
- It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now tell YOUR story. What do people assume about you?
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that blonde girl. she is really an active listener and seems to be so caring.
You can also see how dilated her pupils are, meaning she’s genuinely listening and interested
missFingernagel I
Franchell Guaba she seems the kinda person to wear her heart on her sleeve.
missFingernagel Leabian alert
missFingernagel Nm orrh carolina bby!!!
ya'll there was a spark... they seem very compatible
OMG THE CONNECTION IS REAL, you can really see it!
Dianna Leon same
+Kimani Isabella 😊
IIsYouAndYouIsMe so true!! The most pure connection I have seen so far
IIsYouAndYouIsMe in
i feel like i just watched soulmates fall in love
Mikayla Doering same
Mikayla Doering
Depends on their ancestors
Mikayla Doering samee
Mikayla Doering I was rooting for them the second I clicked on the video
ABSOLUTELY.
If these two DIDN'T end up together it would be a huge tradegy.
56 22 They aren't... Ellie has a picture of them on her Instagram but they aren't together.
Lisa Owens what’s ellie’s instagram name ?
@@lisaowens2040 what's her Insta aaaa
@@lebean5348 she was lieing
56 22 I KNOW I SHIPPED SO HARD
"Will you sing to me please?" omg... never have I heard such innocent words in my life. So damn cute.
LexHeda 😢
So sweet❤
That honestly made me break down
SAME THAT MOVED ME SO MUCH
IKR SO DAMN CUTE
That was the most pure, natural, sweet interaction I've seen on any of these so far! I was biting my shirt hoping they'd both say they would date!! :D So cute!!
Me too, I was biting my nails saying please say yes!!
Micheal Miko 1k like
I loved the one with the two dark skinned people, the girl was Aireka i think. This was close but that one was definitely my favorite
Marilyn Melendez-Gamble ikr
Marilyn Melendez-Gamble "say yes to the dress"
I'm gonna need a "Where Are They Now" segment plz!!!!!!!!!!
Janae G
Omg that would be amazing!
Janae G fax
Janae G
One got addicted to drugs, the other one does porn for bills ):
Timmay 13 you must be joking right?!
Omar ali
Yeah, I’m kidding lol
The white girl looks super sweet and she sound so kin and gentle
Definitely
cow and chicken Owoputi it's like asmr😂😂
cow and chicken Owoputi I like the white gal too. She is sweet, kind and loving
I could see her being supportive and caring if they're in a relationship and she would get light, laughter and joy from 'Sookie'.
She gives me young Jodie Foster feels🌷
bro. when she said "will you sing to me, please?" I LITERALLY DIED THAT WAS SO CUTE
some dood I know right
some dood RIGHT?! Especially when they started to sing together 😻
SAME I WANTED TO CRY. i could feel their conncetion through the screen.
some dood I wanted to cry
I could feel the connection the whole time but the moment Ellie joined in singing and their voices combined I could honestly see sparks. What a special moment wow
Quinn Sullivan same!
666th like
Votes them for Cutest Couple.
Wendy Arcilla And the two guys! They were adorable
Wendy Arcilla YES😍
Wendy Arcilla ikr ❤️❤️❤️
When she started singing with her I died... Pls get married and restore my faith in love
ahahahahah = Who is he ....? Both Female!!!
whoops typo
Me tooooooo!!!!!!! 😫😫😫😫♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
it was so cute when they started singing together!
Ruby Tuesday I'm sorry I F***Ed it up by liking it so went from 100 to 101. But this was just adorable
Ruby Tuesday literally started crying 😢❤
Ruby Tuesday it was so cute I was going to cry😂
It gave me chills!
I agree. I just love them! I would date either of them if I were Gay/Bi. They just seem like good people with big heart and a lot of fun :)
The blonde haired woman has been through so much you can just sense it...
yes.. somehow you look into her eyes and.. just feel it
Right brah
Yep, and only a sufferer can point that out
She looks like she’s been through so much pain
it’s always the people with the brightest and beautiful smiles
I like the way the most common job assumption is graphic designers.
I wonder why
WaveComic I think because it's a common major these days.
WaveComic is because when people doesn't think of something formal.. The "better" job that is not something formal. I think that's why.
Well, it is L.A. The blonde girl thought that her date is 22 and waitress, which is a pretty good guess in L.A. for such a young age. too. I think they just take into account the statistics.
that and being 25 years old
Suppose one day it came true. One of the persons might be a graphic designer. LOL!
this has now cured my depression
Maddie Lynne how? It just makes me jealous lol
I doubt it was depression then
They are both SO gorgeous like literal angels I hope they end together and really happy oh my god
I want them to start a family and start raising little baby angels
my thoughts exactly i hope they get a puppy angel too
léa pasqualini umm, I guess
IKR, THEY'RE SO PRETTY
As soon as they sang together y’all knew they were meant
YES! There were a match made in heaven! 💜
YESS
Facts😭🌈
When they both started singing!!! Sweet Jesus, I want to see them getting married 😭
Addie Musrep yeahhhhhhh right
Addie Musrep me too I was crying
I want to see them get married too on here! I wish I could follow their story after this!!
ME TOOOOOO!!!
Addie Musrep you are a lesbian?
I love how Ellie is wearing a leather jacket and has sharp short hair, like super punk! However she seems so soft and sweet.
Jamama I think a little too sweet ??
People tend to be the total opposite of how they look like.
Every punk I know is soft and sweet though!
Yo what if someone's stalker got asked to do this. Like everything is spot on. "I think your name is Karen and you work at the Starbucks down the street, and everyday at 5 you take your dog snickers for a walk and you use those little pink doggie bags with bones on em and...
Rina Aaliyah 😂😂😂 This needs more likes!
"With bones on em"😂😂
omgooosshhh!!! im crying!! lolololol
Rina Aaliyah wow! That is hilarious!!!
LMAO
I can't wait for someone to actually guess the name right!!
Daniella Rad1 me too sameeeeee
That would be creepy but funny 😂
it's happened before!
TeenDream888 is what video??
Daniella Rad1 I was really close I got Britain vibes and it was Brittany and I got shook. I literally gasped.
They are so sweet! This is probably the sweetest video of the entire series! Edit: Damn I have never had 1K likes before haha thanks everyone for liking my comment. Ellie's idea of a girlfriend is something that i'm also looking for in a s/o. Glad i'm not the only one!
And when they sing! 😍 So sweet
SoulPancake it was cute but cringy
1k like....finally my life is complete.
Erica Young How does 2k likes sound
I think this might be the best matched couple so far!
what about S2 EP7..?
Sways definitely yeeeess
I MELTED INTO A RAINBOW PUDDLE WHEN SHE JOINED HER SINGING
ikr
😍
IKR!!! 😥
A gay rainbow puddin
Ikr 😭
If they end up dating I need an update video they're so cute
That's what I said too, I want a follow up video!!
ReeseWaterDragon yeah me too
how the fosters was created . like if you get it
AngelsWorld I get it
Yas
O m g
Omg that's what I was thinking literally they remind me of Steph and Lena
Thought I was the only one
why do they choose graphic designer all the time
hyyh a common ass job
For this generation at least.
Maybe it is a multiple choice quiz
It's safe, they're afraid to offend.
Lmao
how is it possible to ship two strangers so much
Chemistry? :) (I felt) They had so much chemistry
I know!!! During the video I was like omg omg i ship them so hard
I thought that then PHAN went and happened
@@OhMyLucia please, what does "ship" mean in this sentence?
akia goldsmyth it means wanting two people to be together (like idealizing how cute they’d be together romantically)
okay that small 'yey' she did when the other girl said she would still date her...
do you *see* why I *must ship it*
Carolina Monsan lol yes
How is it shipping if they literally just said they're going on a date
Shipping real people is creepy.
*shy voice* Can you sing for me?
Rex SKSKSKSKS I SCREAMED.
i want to hug the blonde girl, don't know why
Gop Some she's so sweet
i felt shes broken inside from. her childhood even i felt she need hug
i think she went some things that broken her soul i would give her a hug too
Gop Some ok but same here
Ms777lalaland AAAAAH-SAME. 😭
How do i ship two strangers SO much? ❤❤❤❤ And when they started singing together?😭😭😭❤ why am i crying in the club right now?!?!?
Joanna Raphael you did not..
Joanna Raphael are you drunk purely asking because i want to and im curious
😂 this is so cute
Ain't no crying in the club
Meredi Edgarian lol
The chemistry could be seen from kilometres!
Ell Lawrence Yup.
Ell Lawrence true
Seriously tho!
Ell Lawrence could it tho?
nevermind I commented before I heard them singing together true chemistry
I'm just gonna pretend they are married now because I won't accept anything less 😍😭
Everyone's talking about Ellie, so I'm gonna shine the limelight on Britney... been through a tough time. She looks so joyous, and the cool, funny, beautiful one. She's working as a waitress to pay off her bills, had to break up with a person she dated for five years and was engaged to, and lost her father. And she seems like the life of the party person... like, please, give her some love!
Riti Aggarwal she is cute and bubbly. Here for Britney. Hope she catches her break 🤘
I can totally see them together!!
Sola Orelaja PUFF PRIDE!!!!
ALL PUFFS UNITE!!
Miss Hufflepuff Yeah puffs!! 💛
PUFF PRIDE 💛💛
What is puff?
The white girl's pupils were very dilated, am I the only one who noticed? 😂, she couldn't keep her eyes off of her
Nile Hashmi awww
I did noticed that!! I thought it was only a male thing but females also has it. How glade I am I have brown eyes haha
She has a name. It's Ellie.
They say their names in the video...
her pupils are dilated on the interview too, i dont think it was because of that
I started crying when they starting singing together. That was beautiful.
Were they meant to be?
Like: YES
Comment:NO
💓💓💓💓
JJ Chapman yes
JJ Chapman ewww no
Antwione Booher
Homophobe?
No
The blonde is so adorable and looks so genuine
Amal Amal yea true
Don't judge a book by its cover
I think at least one person in every episode thinks the other one is a graphic designer lol
ESMN for real!!! 😏
The Afro girl is life you so beautiful love it
Waldine Portelus lol I just found your comment randomly this world is so small is Dayana from the Manhattan school and qcc how are you ? 😆
The chemistry is so unreal. I want them to date so bad my god.
These two reminded me of the moms from the fosters lol
Stephanie A THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
Stephanie A THATS WHAT I THOUGHT, THEY'RE SO CUTE IM DYING WOFIDHSHAJAKKDKDJWJDJFS
Stephanie A I DIDNT THINK OF THAT UNTIL NOW BUT OMG
Stephanie A OMG I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING!!
Stephanie A OMG THATS SO TRUE
I NEED AN UPDATE omggg
I dont
shut yourself
Please
They aren't together :( their insta: elliepanger and iambritannybrown
:(((((((((((
thanks tho
Awww! I noticed that Ellie's pupils were dilated, that means that you are around someone you adore, or like. They are both so adorable! I love how Ellie asked her to sing and started to sing with her!
they should make a 'a year after' video or something, of all contestants. I'm so curious how everyone ends up!
Lian Van Berkel yes they sould 😊😊
This!
+
YES JUST YES
Y E S ! ! !
Ah the early comment section full of positivity
The connection between them made me smile💓
emma presley ....Me too!
same
why am i crying?
*i am confusion*
America explain
g- Which America? North? Central? South?
@@jofriko5416 huh
Jazz. Editz no my dear, you are touched by their sweet genuine caring connection
I hope you have found your special connection as well✨
You are LOVE. 💚💛💙
I love the curly hair on that girl😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
*...and they lived happily ever after ♡*
idk why I'm crying in the club rn
the bread of knowledge triggered😂
You a bitch
Camila? that you?
Crying! In the Club
petekey is gr88888 😂
When I saw Ellie
I saw pain in her eyes😪
I dont see it
Cece Princess I don’t know people say you can see a person’s whole story in their eyes.
i feel like ellie's personality doesn't match her rockstar look, they're both sweethearts though
ayan never judge a book by its cover because what you see on the outside doesn't mean its the same on the inside 💯
ayan Yesss
Protection style. Some people wear it because it represents them truly, but others wear them because they feel that's a protection. I wore that style for years before feeling confident enough to abandon that protection. Still love the style, just not for me anymore 😊
Okay, out of all the "tell my story" videos, these two are the cutest. I wanna see another update video on their story after this video.
chingu1432 please
Yes
Omg I so agree with this! Definitly the cutest one. The song though 😍👌🏻
Yes
chingu1432 501st like
The white girls comes across as a genuinely kind person.
The "white girls" name is Ellie.
holes- the white girl ellie -- freaking prune juice
Ntandoyenkosi Zungu Did either of you guys watch bring it on:all or nothing
holes- lol everytime I see a 'Black girl' / 'white girl' comment I check to see if holes has commented and they always have XD
holes-
She is a white girl, so...
Best blind date orietanted RUclips series I’ve ever seen. Such a great way to break ice and get to actually know people
@ 4:43 "I get you" and @ 6:09 "aw I'm so proud of you" they are just so damn cute together without even trying
ahhlowhaa i
I feel like they'd be compatible. Plus,they'd make a cute ass couple...😊❤🌈
Bad Gal Riri I know right
Righttt
Bad Gal Riri riri ❤️
Bad Gal Riri ikr
Bad Gal Riri ew no
they would be such a great couple
they are so cute together, also , the Fosters anyone????
Rebekah Writes I WAS LOOKING FOR THAT COMMENT BC YASS
YA EXACTLY LENA AND STEF
Rebekah Gonzalez AHHH MY THOUGHTS EXAGTLY
omg the connection!!
The black girl has great hair!
tombo Dude we have to work something out they said i have the head apartment
same i wish i had it
it's okay
How? She cant run her hands through it, flip it, twirl it or have it blow in the wind.
The Sniper she can do all
BROOO, I HAD TO CLOSE MY EYES AND SCREAM WHEN THEY SANG TOGETHER. I'M A WOMAN, YET I STILL HAD TO PUNCH THE WALL JUST TO FEEL MANLY AGAIN.
I NEED A "WHERE ARE THEY NOW" SEGMENT!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Bill Adams Actually no, I was exaggerating my statement to claim my point, my point being that this video is absolutely adorable.
If you can't handle comments like these, then get off of the internet, boo. 😂👏
Armyyyy! But same tho😱
cute that the one with the more boyish style has the more timid personality and the one with the more girly style has the more dominate personality, cute as hell when it works out like that
Its like a double yin yang
They both have a sadness to them but they both still seem uplifting! They seem compatible! And they're both so cute:)
I love the Black girls smile. 😍
Whad are you fuckin gay? Her teeth are fucked
Javy Baez It doesn't matter
I almost fell out of my chair. That person's comment was hilariously stupid.
Samantha Taylor same
her teeth aren't perfect and some braces would be good if its a problem for her. but her smile really lights up her face. i partially agree with your statement - she's adorable when she smiles
Can I have an Ellie in my lifee
Rizki Anjani I can be one :) But im really short >
M
from what i read in the comments, they are no longer dating. such a shame, they make a beautiful couple.
Noooooo😭😭😭😭
@@joshcastro739 Credibility? Ziltch.
I'm so moved I'm literally crying, and I'm not even having pms or period
That’s so crazy, I went through the same exact thought process as you as tears streamed down my face.
same for me kwosndosbsaodnsoxbaos been crying this whole video 😭
I am and I'm not even crying lolz
PingwingWi bro tmi I don't want to know if ur pms or not
omg bro it's not even bad haha grow up lol
the real life Lena and Stef
OH MY GOD i was trying to think of who they reminded me of! yes!
Literally who I thought of
Sydney Gabrielle yessss
Omg yessss
Was just gonna comment that
the singing moment was so beauts
STEF AND LENA IS THIS YOU
Isabella De Sousa Santana OMG YES LMAOO
Natalie Isabella Santana sounds weird if ya know what I mean. How about stelena?
Ascetically unpleasing the vampire diaries
Your every where
What_time is_it!!! MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY
Finally a version with two girls!!!
GENDER IS A MYTH
SambasGaming actually...
Which one is it, a myth or a spectrum? Y'all you need to sort it out cause I can't keep up.
MySpeed, you're a bit of a douche, aren't you
MySpeed gender is a social construct. Biologically 2 genders exist yes, that is a fact but gender norms and "acting or dressing like a woman" doesn't exist because we are entitled to dress how we want without having to correlate it to a certain gender
I like this series, it's very interesting. But I gotta ask...what is it with people and graphic designers? It seems that in each episode there's someone guessing graphic designer
I was just thinking the same lol they're obssesed with graphic designers
Haha right! We can't figure it out. Season 2 seems to be graphic designer. Season 1 was hair stylist. So many men guessed that the woman was a hair stylist ;)
+SoulPancake My theory is that men guess hair stylist because it is an easy segway into complimenting a woman's hair. "your hair is so great I thought you styled for a living" kind of thing.
I think if someone is dressed very fashion forward, it's assumed they are a creative. And graphic designer also indicates you're good at business so all in all, it's a compliment, even if it's inaccurate! ;)
i'm assuming they film in LA..pretty popular profession in LA.
ellie looks sad I get the vibe that she is insecure.....it's weird coz she is really pretty
I dont get that
At first I was worried that this'll not work because Ellie was so shy while Britney was already joking and being talkative but then they just started to show some connection and I think that they would be so so cute together, especially after seeing them singing together. I'm not the type of person who calls every gay couple cute just because he wouldn't look homophobic so I wouldn't ship them if they wouldn't look good together but these two have some real chemistry and they are both very beautiful
why r lesbians...so perfect...and compassionate..,god im so gay
Omg mOoD
MEEEEEEE
grandma gamer ....🤣
Because we are awesome
grandma gamer I am so mad I am not gay. Guys are great, but girls understand
Britney is so pretty and her voice is so beautiful
I ship it so bad
can u do episodes of after the dates to see if they're still talking to each other?
christina watkins Yes!
Last time I saw this much chemistry was when I was in the salon to dye my hair .
Swati Mohanty 😂😂
Swati Mohanty lol! 😂
they are so cute!
Gorgeous couple. As a straight person, I've never felt so heart warmed by two same sex people connecting on that level. Beautiful.
"Will you sing to me please?" 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
They should have update videos on the people that go on dates after.
Emily Jones yes!
Emily Jones a million likes if I could
Please tell me they got married. They're so freaking cute
Vickso their friends.
+Simply Savannah u have thier instagram ?
Omar Talaa I don’t know Britney’s instagram but Ellie’s is @elliepanger. She has a picture of them, but they aren’t dating cri.
Vickso WHY HASNT THERE BEEN AN UPDATE?! IM DYING LOL
ellie is so freaking cute i love her 😍😭
This is SOO cute
taehyungs voice INFIRES me your name infires me
taehyungs voice INFIRES me YOUR NAME
If anyone comments 'Army' ima kms. let it go, this person and everyone else
totally agree..
ps.. to many caps for on string of comments
Lmao I never said army, people always need to find a point to judge, but honesty I don't care 😂
I ship the hell out of this.
Found myself smiling through the whole video... damn now I want a partner 😫
Her comment was really interesting, about how her dad was gone in the Army, and "her mom wore the pants"... She mentioned wearing pants in relation to the prom, and said she said she was used to a woman wearing the pants in a relationship... I feel like she would also wear the pants in a relationship. It's interesting to think how she was most likely affected by the Navy upbringing & her parents interactions in a way that has changed how she views her own relationships. I'm fascinated by how our childhood and upbringing has such an affect on our sexuality, sexual & relationship preferences. Nature & nuture both creating so many different mixes & variations of people. I also see the major role these things have had in my own life. I was abused by my father as a child and that has had huge implications on my relationships, & how I view & navigate my own sexual existence. I doubt most people who are raising children think about how their life choices in how they raise their children will have such a deep impact on their child's future relationships, but even if you are aware, it's not the type of thing you could ever hope to control or influence without causing more damage than good... A weird video to get into this, I know. But I just thought it was such a fascinating insight....
What u trying to say?
What they meant when they said wear pants?
Aren't they adorable?
Görkem Emre 100th like you’re welcome
I am crying they are so cuteeee!!!!! Giving me the foster vibes
Cottoncanzy Annchristine brooo literally watching this on Netflix rn
You bring it up, now it won't leave my brain
Omggggg yessss
Omg I'm not the only one lol. I can't stop watching the fosters. I wish they'd come out with another season every week. But id probably forget to eat.
OMG YES
From 9:00 on I cried a little. My father passed away in August of this year, was a songwriter, I still have his lyrics, and his instruments, and I’ve been writing songs about him and our life together. I still feel him all around me, his presence, his gift of music. I do believe he is with me in many ways, even if he isn’t here in physical form.
Much love to Britney and her family ❤️
My father passed away November of 2014 I also had the same mixed emotions. Make sure that you keep the lyrics safe
Beautiful!
Sierra G
seriously. mine at the same year but at august, I still miss him... but we all have to be strong
Sierra G my father passed away in 2014 at august. I was 9
So after checking her Insta she posted a pic of each other and it was BEAUTIFUL but after scrolling up I saw she posted another one a few blocks up saying she got a girlfriend but it wasn't sookie 😭😭😭😭
SecretAccount what’s her insta?
Ya what is it
What’s her insta??
I wanna know too lol
aaaa I wanna know the insta too
I need a couple update. Please tell me they are still together!
brandie bland they are not together.. check Ellie Panger's instagram..
Ok but Ellie's big eyes are TO DIE FOR