Can You Assume Sexuality Based on a First Impression? | Tell My Story
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their blind date partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now tell YOUR story. What do people assume about you?
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I'm convinced they are the same person split in half
Yes!
4real!
that why their perfect
Pretty much.
4real
They are both so ridiculously attractive
Yuna Huia true it's unfair
Yuna Huia Honestly
Ikr
What people find attractive these days scares me.
Karynna Hills I find anyone attractive, I personally don't believe anyone is "ugly" or "okay". Calling someone attractive can be when you're talking about their personality as well.
Can we just talk about how beautiful she is and how handsome he is!!!
keturahlove4500 i agree
I was hoping they'd work out, they'd make some beautiful babies together. And fun, hilarious and charming
keturahlove4500 yess!
Can we just talk about how even though thats the case, their internal beauty surpasses their physical beauty.
keturahlove4500 right
That boy look like a pastor.
FOR REAL!!!
Noooo 😂😂😂😂
It’s the suit
Yes and her shout clothes scared him
Lmao fr
They need to be bestfriends
i need them to be my best friends lol
Lonné A. They better
Right!
Exactly xD
That's how it starts. Best friends then lovers
They’re both so beautiful
so are youu
Aren't they ?!
insane!
For sure.
Omg you are BEAUTIFUL
Smiled so hard when they sang together. There is deffo a connection there but more of a platonic one
It feels like watching college roommates clicking for the first time & not a blind date
Profile Name thank you x
S H calling a girl pretty doesnt make him thirsty but lol 😂
Daughter?? 🤤
AHMED KHATRI huh?
Iqra Ahmed I actually disagree. I think they have a more romantic connection
-I identify as bisexual and demisexual
-???
- I only like Demi Lovato
*IM CRYIN*
I read this as she said it lol
I think she means she's a biromantic demisexual
She is so funny
Damn she's such a beauty
Hahaha! Good one!
I got strong jada pinkett vibes at some points
And she has a cute body shape
She is gorgeous!!! She is the type of girl, I would love to date. Not just because of how she looks, but because of the way her mind is.
But AJ is gorgeous looking as well.
That chemistry 😂 they like besties 😂😂😂
Chardanay Muarry yasss 😃
Ikr
when he is talking to a camera it looks like he is getting his senior portrait taken
Courtney Ortiz OMG😂😂😂😂😂
Lmfaoooo
BOL!!!!! Yes. Thanks for pointing it out. Haha
Courtney Ortiz I WAS GOING TO COMMENT THAT
I thought the exact same thing😂
they got a friend vibe, i got a brother sister vibe. no duh.
You can make a movie with them just talking and laughing 💀💀this was so cute
I don’t see them dating, but they best friends 😂😂
Callie Ritter same
Callie Ritter best relationships and long lasting starts off as best friends
Ditto.
But the point of relationships is that they're your best friend? So this make no sense
Exquisite Mind yeah but not all best friends will date. However, yeah you are right. It can go the other way around, too
there’s not a lot of guys with his mentality so whoever ends up being with him better value him.
Mxxna that’s wat I was thinking too
🤣🤣🤣
Mxxna actually there's A LOT of guys with his mentality 😂😂 but most men are scared to express it because of how judgemental society on a whole is. I think a lot of women have his mentality also if we're going to be honest
You guys forgot to mention the rest of the 57 genders
*says in extremely sarcastic voice”
People, not a lot of people.
"if she doesn't have the brains it doesn't matter how pretty she is - i'll lose interest"
welp. thats why i'm still single. 99% of people i've dated are way too superficial
when he sadi that I assumed he would have a professional job but he's a freakin security guard. You don't need to have a brain for that. I don't think he's very smart himself
Candyce maybe because he’s still a student..
@@candyxox You're kind of superficial yourself if you assume intelligence is about the profession or job you have, a blue collar worker could be more intelligent based on their critical skills and logical thinking, for instance, while someone with a degree may have a lot of knowledge about certain subjects, but still be lacking in those same skills, thus they can't make their own rational conclusions, they just follow and repeat what the book says.
Albert Einstein used to work in a patent office, if anyone ever assumed he must have been of lower intelligence for it they would have been dead wrong.
@Feeluck Looks matter, we shouldn’t feel guilty for admitting that
Maybe make yourself look more attractive
Why is his voice so freaking beautiful.
Ami Davidson matches his face He's hot
Ami Davidson ikr no no homo
you're freaking beautiful.
SEXY VOICE😍😍😗😗
i thought he sounded like he was gay. is that what you meant or you are hearing something i dont?
They actually sounded good singing together
"We´re actually the same person, I forgot to mention that " I´m dead hahaha
I'm literally in love with them both. They seem so lovely. Gentle souls
When you ship them so hard but then they friendzone either. I'm not even mad. They do give off a friend vibe more than a significant other vibe.
this is my favourite one 😂 "see you best friend" actually cute but can't see them in a relationship
hyungwon is done it’s the suit lol
Okay but that lip shade was maaaaaaaaade for her. What a babe!
soo agree!
I'm glad someone else sees it too
"Nicole kinda basic--" Okay, ouch.
"No offense to the Nicoles out there..." Don't worry, I agree.
*He looks like he's on a job interview. For real...*
R Mathis I think it's because of the suit he's wearing
R Mathis a true
Let's be honest he looks cute in that suit and He looks like he tried to look good in his first impression
😂😂😂😂
R. Mathis 😂😂
It was clear they'd be good friends.
Dude. If I met some stranger and had a connection like that. Wed be on that date. Wth
Gabe Petro he gay that's why lmfao
DRIFT DIMENSIONS He's pansexual, not gay
FR
Gabe Petro I thought the same thing. Their chemistry together is amazing, weather is in a relationship or just friends. They just seemed so perfect together.
Dude do you want her to get AIDS? Men like that bring aids to black women and into community. "pansexual" bullshit.. He's been with other men before, and he should stay on the other side of the fence..
Did anyone else's gaydar go off when they saw him
Immediately
Ding ding ding it went
Yup....his mannerisms
He’s fine
Anonymous Queen he’s so pretentious. He grew up educated but end up as a security guard, that’s what he said right🤔
This is what kind and normal people act like.. I feel in love with both.
tylerposey ismymain I always see you
Can I just say I love your profile pic
I agree, felt so comfortable and natural. I really enjoyed it
tylerposey ismymain I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE also hey bromieomie again
tylerposey ismymain
Sup bromieomie 😌♥️
I already liked Portia and then she crakced a joke about Demi and was like OKAY, let's be friends :D
Love how they talk to eachother. And love their honesty
Ema Paulauskaitė When she said that she's demisexual I was praying to my god - Demi Lovato, that Portia would say something 'bout her! btw sorry for my English, probably it's not very good
muiromirg murev Same
U read my mind!!!!!! I swear I was thinking the same thing 😂
Ema Paulauskaitė I cracked up at her joke!
Sorry but what was the joke with Demi lovato ?
He carries himself very well, very educated, articulate and overall great guy!! And I love her openness, spunk and her way of being able to make him feel comfortable. Both are great!!!!
nah man, the guy likes pans
Omg everyone is saying I get gay vibes from him he literally said that he’s pansexual that’s a part of the lgbt community lmfao y’all need to listen
Thank you
That dude is gay.
@@noneya1238 That was obvious the moment he started talking lol
@@noneya1238 no. He said he's pan, the he's pan.
They are both so good looking and seem like the sweetest people!
MiBay right
MiBay I thought they were gonna pick each other but they didn’t they seemed so good for each other
Ants vtrova dont make this a big deal she thinks there both attractive.
MiBay yeah
They are a sexy couple of folks.
WHEN THEY STARTED SINGING😭😭😭😍
Their body language says it all. They vibin’❤️
What you mean huh
They seem more like friends than lovers.
StarlightKY
Lovers cannot be friends?
Dust Cloud Do friends have to be lovers?
Mark Kerce lmao so random 💀😂
He’s ready for picture day
😂😂😂😂
Wow😂😂😂😂😂
°sapnu puas
*..they are best friends on sight 😍..*
MLima Rosebud u friend zoned him him for her
+Thelegend27 Bruh they both friendzoned each other at the end of the video
I. AM. SHOOKETH.
I. AM. CONFUSION.
I. THOUGHT. THEY. WOULD. PUT. I. WOULD. DATE. YOU. BUT. THEY. DID. NOT.
he has a white personality, so he likes white chicks
spoiler alert
Olivia wow man... Nooooo
Olivia AND.YOU.JUST.SPOILED.IT.FOR.ME.
SORRY I IS SPOILED MILK
These two definitely have a connection, but more like a sister-brother one in my opinion.
This conversation was the most entertaining and fun to watch. I see best friend vibes for days especially when they started singing Reba's song.
I was smiling from ear to ear throughout! Bless them.
FreakyBo0o ME TOO😭
FreakyBo0o SAMEEE
Omg same
All the Keisha's out there are feeling some kind of way. 😠😤🙄😣
Leggs ratchet name 😂
Stephanie Mariah it is not ratchet at all.
Leggs I'm a Keisha and I'm nothing like he described 😏
Lavonne Peterson well...all the Keisha's I know are ratchet!
Stephanie Mariah that's BS really 🤷🏽♀️ take your prejudice elsewhere
*on demisexual* "I only like Demi Lovato," 😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
THIS IS THE BEST!!! 😂😂😂💙 I am demisexual too!
cracked me up !!!
Hey there fella demi
Chi-Chi Jon-Nwakalo 😂😂😂😂😂
When he said "Rural City Place" I fell out!!!
Cherika Powell rural city ? Huh👀🤨
They r both super hot
sus
sauce?
*andrewrocks10 wait what gender are u?!*
andrewrocks10 I KNOW RIGHT I thought I was the only one😂😂
Areli Avendamo and uhm why does that matter
“Are you nervous?” “Hella.” MEEEE SOSKSKSMS
Well, I am bedsexual, it means I am attracted to my bed
Strout OMG I finally found my sexuality can’t wait to come out!
Oh so amazing
😂😂😂😂Ya'll crack me up
😂😂😂
Lol !
*She beautiful and he fine* 😍😍😍
I hope they remain best friends. Cos I sense some sort of chemistry. Don't know what sort but definitely something nice!! They communicate so easily!! 😊😊
C Jay shut up
Tigris 797 I agree 😃
She's so pretty wow
Christina Musiba yes, she is!! But you are beautiful too;)
"Are you nervous?"
"Hella"
😂😂😂😂😂me tho
Smarty McSmartypants was so sweet lol 😍😂
That was super cute!!!
I'm foodsexual.....Attracted to food
Me to.
🤣🤣🤣
lol. People make up some of these terms. I have never heard of demisexual before.
@@fabulouslifeinchrist1349 2nd hearing it. Both on SP.
So you have donut fetish or hotdog fetish?
I actually appreciate that he wore a suit. That's awesome because it shows he actually cares and liked marked this on his calendar.
We appreciated it too!
THEIR VOICES TOGETHER ARE AMAZING
They are beautiful. Inside and out! They have great chemistry, even just as friends!
Tabatha Taylor yess
Yaka friendzone is a social construct build by people who can't take 'no' for an answer
Tabatha Taylor I
Sven Hassel stfu racist ass
There's nothing wrong with racism.
Can I just say how much I enjoyed their connection, spiritual expressions , and physical BEAUTY . I dead ass felt like I was in this conversation like I was in the room 😂.
I love that he said “that’s what pansexual is to me,” because it’s not the same for everyone and many people will take it as the opposite. Many will believe that there is only one definition of a certain sexuality, where he realized that it is a different experience for everyone.
Tony Micheaux a bisexual person can date only women and still be bisexual its not that simple u dont have to experience it to know what u like and dont like thats like a straight teen whos never been in a relationship and someone questioning wether or not they are straight
Tony Micheaux i know someone who knows that they are bisexual but they never even fell in love so...
Ashlar Sangeorge is that your girlfriend sister or friend/best friend in your profile photo. Either way it's adorable
Ashlar Sangeorge absolutely!! I’m pansexual but I’ve only dated guys so far so a lot of people discredit me and tell me I’m just straight like uhhh how do y’all know me better than me?
They would make such a dope couple. Such great personalities & great chemistry. And it was like watching friends hold a conversation. So much connection😊
I KNOW RIGHT!
Don't they look like the best friends that are eventually gonna fall in love with each other ? 😻
Random Fella omggg yessss i thought i was the only one who's been seeing it
Random Fella I hope they do
they'd be too perfect.
Random Fella agreed.
monica and chandler...
She looks like Janelle Monae- she is so beautiful
Is it because she is black, because they share NO similar features.
I think she's more similar to Rihanna.
Linden Maine I think it’s her energy and vibe
She doesn't look like Janelle monae she looks like herself to me
Omg her outfit was too cute tho!
Stunna2k18 yes and her hair
Stunna2k18 I think her outfit upper body shot looks like an apron.
YESSSS! She was just on point! 💁🏾💁🏾
He is such a great guy, I love all of his values
sameee!
I think he is cool but some thing Sounds gay to me
kwame Armenteros he’s pansexual, meaning he doesn’t see gender.
He will date, men, women, trans, hermaphrodites, So, yes, to people like you yes that means he’s partially gay
dododo baba pansexual* and I really doubt he’d give you a second glance, so you don’t need to worry bruh 👍🏽
dododo baba like I said. No need to worry bruh. You’re good 👌🏾
*”My guilty music pleasure is probably something by a Disney star”. Oh god*
{ •••Aleena••• } yeah probably DEMI😂
It's called a guilty pleasure for a reason. :)
Jake Paul
It's everyday bro
13:43 - i heard "super gay"
aint that funny as hell
Lmao
I am dyyyiinnggg @ this comment!! LMAO they said "SOUL PANCAKE" L M A O!
Lmfaooo 😂😂
MrBigT same😂😂
MrBigT lol I hear it
I knew the boy was going to be pan or either bi, because he's very fluid in how he expresses himself. It's not too manly & not too feminine. Both energies are present.
Miillie Mesh as a bisexual this is soooo how I am. I feel like I’m in between the genders 😂
Your sexuality has nothing to do with your gender or how you portrait yourself
Damn listen to Violeta.
There is such a thing as feminine & masculine energies & I was only pointing that out. & some do relate to that, so chill Nazi.
Miillie Mesh That's just stereotypical, so chill Liberal.
waiting for the day someone correctly guesses the others name
Ikr
Molly W me 2 😂🙏
Molly W ME TOO 😂😂😂
Molly W oml same that would be ABSOLUTELY LEGENDARY
I was convinced first couple seconds. It deserves to be more than just friendship. But oh well you can never have love all figured out
Loom Geek. I assumed that guy was gay first 10 seconds... my "Gaydar" is going off! Lol
Friendships can be just as fulfilling as romantic relationships, if not more so.
Lucky S gay like your mom
I see them being a power couple, like having a strong bond and having fun times together
That's exactly what I thought.I thought they were so perfect for each other.
Not even being racist but most African Americans are genuinely nice their vibe energy characteristics are just awesome
Leena G when I was younger for a little but my momma was busting her ass to get us out the hood but we struggled
lol hows that racist
Leena G So the Hood represents most black people? You're an idiot
Thomas Snowjink he just said it’s not racist omg
@@beautybabe651 They know, it was a question..
They're too much alike for a relationship but I think they would be amazing friends
she said, uh oh you gon tell me about grandma IM DEAD
sara 10:13
I get gay vibes from him
Yes, and he confirmed it when he said he's attracted to the brain no matter the body it comes in
Maybe he is bi...
Def!!!! No doubt!!
Word2
@@marinaoliveira8989 or pansexual
Tbh I don't see them dating but they be best friends!!!!
Why don't you see that ?
Same
Yep I "Ship" that statement...Like Simon Says Peter was to Jesus or LIKE Eve was to Adam ,born of his Rib (I am Man), like Bonnie was to Clyde, Day is to night, Ying is to Yang, or Cat is to a Dog and lastly how your Mother is to your DarDy. Ha!
@@andreilyas1426 I think he's gay
He is a very handsome man
Zion Robinson id date him
You date his crooked ass teeth
@@Worldshottestpariah you a guy?
Zion Robinson hi zion im zion tooo😁 aand yesss he is very handsome inside and out
Y’all niggas gay
I thought the guy might have been Bisexual or Gay, He is very open with his personality and is a little more feminine which most men aren't comfortable with expressing. I think they would make a great couple, They clearly have a good bond.
It’s not a matter of men not being comfortable expressing it. Why are you people so obsessed w turning men into women???
Kathy Savage - Yeah it is, You constantly see men trying to fit the stereotypical men role and men trying to show off their masculinity. - And what do you mean by "Why are you people so obsessed with turing men into women"?
Kathy Savage where is the women?
Being feminine does not mean u are gay.
Ricardo Martinez yes it does, at least 99% of the time
Oh my goodness, they just kinda clicked and it was amazing. I friend-ship them so hord.
Her: do you date older women?
Him: you’re gonna be surprised how old !😏
Her : o ow you gonna tell me about grandma ?😏 what happened?
Sarah Okayyy i have no idea
Portia: Can you sing??
AJ:Weeeellllll
😂😂😂😂😂
LMFAOOOO
AHAHAHAHAHAH
So extra
AJ's a cutie but with that suit he looks like a spokesperson for people with mesothelioma I can just imagine him saying "if you or a loved one has mesothelioma call today to get your.."
Kyleish bruh im done lmao destroyed my view of him now he looks like a attorney
Hahahaha this has tickled me
i dieeeeeed
lol
Lol they remind me of long lost best friends 😂😂❤️
I literally could not stop smiling this is so amazing and cute
Noah thehuman I like your hair
ReactionGal Riya FOLLOW ME ON INSTA @noahingvaldsen
Noah thehuman i
Best couple ever!!!
Noah thehuman ikr
I really hope they stayed friends aww
RoseOreo you have 120 likes
Omg YESSSS
Memeaholic You have 2 likes
RoseOreo i didnt want to mess up the 420 likes but i had to like
nnjddr it just had to be done 😂
Demisexual- „I only like Demi Lovato” 😂😂😂
I definitely feel a BFF vibe from both of them.
This girl looks like an actress i swear she looks similar to another actress, Looks like Shuri from Black Panther
Ryu 666 gamora
YES yes that's who it was. I kept on thinking that she reminds me of someone.
She looks like young Jada Pinkett
Dude there is a girl that i like in my school she looks likes shuri and now this girl Porsche
Ryu 666 true
I’m commenting before the end but I hope they at least become friends because their connection is so strong 😫
Anayeli Montes I thought the same thing. Their chemistry together is amazing, weather is in a relationship or just friends. They just seemed so perfect together.
So the question is, do you wish they should date?
I fell in love with her on her opening line!
OF COURSE I KNOW REBA
The way he speaks gives the vibes but he is cute
They both sing amazingly
Heyyy
Interesting Stuff, coming from you Mariah is an honour.
When he said he values humanitarianism I suddenly became very attracted to him
Bill Adams ....ok first off...WHY do people in the LGBT community constantly have to invalidate each other??? A community of marginalized people need to stick up for each other! Saying he needs to cut this "pan sexual crap" is just like saying bisexuals aren't real, or trans people aren't real. And that's fucked. Secondly, why do you feel the need to be so derogatory to women just because you have an (ungrounded) opinion that he is gay? It's not cool!
What even is that??
This is the perfect example of two people seemingly perfect for each other, yet will not date each other lol
Thats exactly why there not attracted...
phar0ahad3 Opposites attract.
Ultima Key no actually it doesn't, science has proven time again that birds of a feather stick together.
RextheRebel for the most part, similarities and common interests create more attraction. However, there are some people who are attracted to people completely different than them because they bring add a different perspective. It all depends on the individual. Sometimes opposites complement each other and sometimes people who are too similar clash.
Bethsaida Romelus But we actually don’t have similar sexual preferences. I don’t want to have sex with anyone whereas he is fine with sex and desires it, it just doesn’t matter what gender the person is. I see problems there lol
Can they start a RUclips channel together
tarra ndahura nah but frfr tho can they 😍😍
yeah
Righy... they are so fun
They did
Maureen Rocky where
She's distractingly pretty ❤
No she isnt, she ok
Hater
@@PCSPITTER4NY She is, you all hate natural black women and try to throw them off as basic. Then you must be too, self haters. But if she had a long weave you would find her more attractive.
@@PCSPITTER4NY And just saw you pic, this women is out your league.
@@noneya1238 opinions are like azzholes. She is ok to me. Ive dated prettier
Portia seems like the coolest woman ever I laughed excessively at her jokes
GUUURL she is rocking that high bun!
I think they're the perfect match but at the same time not really. They seem more like really good best friends. Ya know. But I feel like he fits in with the bi group than the heterosexual.
KoOky tAkos he’s pan?
They have crazy chemistry, i'm enjoying this encounter.
(i'm starting to think that it's staged)
They both sound so good at the start!
Alana Taylor I
Alana Taylor omg I was watching this saw comments and then see you hahah
HAHAHAHAH hey there
I love their level of honesty. It now makes sense that their personalities are almost to similar to be attracted to each other on another level but who knows this was only 10 minutes :)
Kyla Ryah 13 minutes lol
african queen Well yes the video is almost 14 minutes, but I just accounted for the time they spent talking separately in the video but who really knows in real time🤷🏼♀️😊
her voice is very attractive btw
이정민
Something about her reminds me of Whitney Houston.
seeing people with good chemistry being happy in each other’s presence makes me happy :)