Living My Nightmare (Part 1)

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2022
  • Thanks for watching and letting me open up about what this last year has looked like for me.
    Stay tuned for part 2.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @SLOANHOOKS
    @SLOANHOOKS 2 года назад +17594

    we are here for you Shyla!

    • @yasminejones7842
      @yasminejones7842 2 года назад +198

      You are on a grind for real

    • @shir4762
      @shir4762 2 года назад +156

      Your in the video

    • @flower998-4
      @flower998-4 2 года назад +153

      Yes we are! sloan always supported Shayla💜

    • @evyluv0
      @evyluv0 2 года назад +57

      You’re in the video!

    • @juniorgt8301
      @juniorgt8301 2 года назад +18

      Yes we are

  • @justinechamelle9535
    @justinechamelle9535 2 года назад +1594

    I’m sensing a bit of healing. The fact she posted even a snippet of Landon’s face in these videos and was talking about her journey with him, it’s healing

  • @Emerald-kh1pe
    @Emerald-kh1pe Год назад +205

    When she said if it wasn’t for her daughter she wouldn’t be here it felt like she could’ve meant that both ways 🥺I’m so glad Shyla is healing and growing as a mother

  • @ladna313
    @ladna313 2 года назад +914

    The part where she said “it was almost a exact replica of what my mother had went through” i lost it 😭 because that’s exactly how my life feels at this moment. 😩

  • @elenisophia
    @elenisophia 2 года назад +3345

    You know you're healing when you can talk about your story with so much poise and clarity

  • @luciafajardo5234
    @luciafajardo5234 2 года назад +3593

    Bullying is never okay. I can remember seeing all the hate comments towards you. I can’t imagine what you felt. But I’m so glad you overcame it! You’re doing an incredible job as a mother and human being. God bless

    • @markzelinski4434
      @markzelinski4434 2 года назад +24

      If they want they can bully me! Bullying a woman?! Absolutely disgusting

    • @ilovetumblr99
      @ilovetumblr99 2 года назад +30

      I remember too. people were so mean. they micro analyzed everything she did/said

    • @sweetdisposition8085
      @sweetdisposition8085 2 года назад +13

      I always wondered why people shit on her?? She doesn’t deserve it

    • @Ashley-mp8sy
      @Ashley-mp8sy 2 года назад +9

      @@markzelinski4434 to be fair she did lie about something extreme.. she wasnt getting hate for no reason

    • @markzelinski4434
      @markzelinski4434 2 года назад +18

      @@Ashley-mp8sy have you seen what this familiar does? Their liars! She was brainwashed! My sister went through the same thing! The McBroom family are liars and sick sick sick people! This poor woman

  • @tiana3945
    @tiana3945 2 года назад +1698

    The mcbroom brothers always gave me a weird narcissistic vibe smh I’m so happy for you, on to bigger and better things queen! 💗

  • @mariahm16
    @mariahm16 2 года назад +255

    I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years we have a 3 year old daughter. I finally left when she stood up for me it was a wake up call.. watching this hits home and gives me hope as a single mother that I can do anything 🤍

  • @annabellehayes
    @annabellehayes 2 года назад +4361

    Loved this so much! Men think they have so much control over women and im so glad to see her doing better and her own thing!

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад +26

      Cry about it

    • @christianhudgins7487
      @christianhudgins7487 2 года назад +11

      @@jIguess thats what im saying

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад +17

      @jess eo nah I’m a woman

    • @BeachioSandschannel
      @BeachioSandschannel 2 года назад +14

      @jess eo Radical feminists exist.

    • @Juangoosgoos
      @Juangoosgoos 2 года назад +5

      can you pweaaase not generalize UwU
      (I am so sorry for making this comment what the fuck)

  • @sumz3530
    @sumz3530 2 года назад +2362

    Landon breaking your heart was the best thing that ever happened to you, you’re a completely different person and we love it

    • @Tartebio
      @Tartebio 2 года назад +6

      “ on cam”

    • @Aprokoheadquaters
      @Aprokoheadquaters 2 года назад +42

      @@Tartebio no dear cause she’s in her most vulnerable part of her life rn and y’all have seen the ugly already. There’s nothing more to hide this is the real her

    • @andreadea2448
      @andreadea2448 2 года назад +9

      @@Aprokoheadquaters girl don’t worry thats most likely landons fake account trying to hate on Shyla cuz he’s a bum and no one likes him

    • @aceplays123
      @aceplays123 2 года назад +2

      I think Landon did nothing I mean to me just by looking at him he dosnt look like he would do something that bad

    • @fatimamohamed7893
      @fatimamohamed7893 2 года назад +14

      @@aceplays123 do rapists have a certain look? do robbers have a certain look? no. and just like that narcissists like landon don't have a certain look, they can look like anything u sound so delusional.

  • @eleneb8171
    @eleneb8171 2 года назад +152

    Shyla you will be a self made billionaire one day! Mark my words. With this level of strength and determination you will go places with your baby girl your haters could never imagine. I will continue to be your number one fan keep going and do not look back❤️

  • @veronicaargueta7714
    @veronicaargueta7714 2 года назад +171

    I’ve never seen her smile this much. I’m sooo proud of her.

  • @brendahenk8335
    @brendahenk8335 2 года назад +8262

    Shyla did what Catherine can never do!!!!! Seriously so proud of you.

    • @HopeShobha
      @HopeShobha 2 года назад +241

      Agree!! It is only up from here!

    • @liaadv3893
      @liaadv3893 2 года назад +306

      The hate and association she gets from ace family is cancelled 100%

    • @randombyrosa99
      @randombyrosa99 2 года назад +422

      Stop comparing them weirdo

    • @oliviag3831
      @oliviag3831 2 года назад +123

      @@randombyrosa99 they are in similar situations so…

    • @desiree6617
      @desiree6617 2 года назад +555

      Just because shyla had a tough time with Landon doesn’t mean Catherine is going through the same thing with Austin. Landon & Austin are 2 different people. Is as if you’re saying if you’re related to a serial killer you’re one as well. Which isn’t the case. Landon may be abusive, that doesn’t mean Austin is.

  • @anzeela3807
    @anzeela3807 2 года назад +471

    Unless you’ve been in a narcissistic relationship it’s so hard to explain all of this without sounding crazy. Their families will always enable them as well. Ugh this kills me.

    • @SymphonyTaylor
      @SymphonyTaylor 2 года назад +3

      💯💯💯

    • @prettygang720
      @prettygang720 2 года назад +6

      Shyla has her issues too, idk y’all are just bypassing her violent actions

    • @angelitaarchunde7223
      @angelitaarchunde7223 2 года назад +10

      Yes explaining a conversation or an argument I should say with a narcissist makes ur head spin it doesn’t even make sense nor can u re explain what had happened . It’s confusing & makes no sense

    • @Jellybellyirish
      @Jellybellyirish 2 года назад +7

      @@prettygang720 nah you can't call abuse retaliation violence. You're literally part of the problem with this bullshit. Also all your other comments on Shyla's channel are weird and biased. Landon?

    • @anamartinez7174
      @anamartinez7174 2 года назад +1

      @@prettygang720 when you’re really hurt you tend to say things or act crazy but you won’t really know how that feels until you go through it

  • @stephaniew.7201
    @stephaniew.7201 2 года назад +553

    Shyla… this was raw. This is the girl we’ve all
    known and love. The hardest conversations are the ones that are worth listening to. You are a beautiful soul and you’ll have a happy life. I’m so happy to hear ur side of this shitty story. You’re a Soulja girl. Keep ur baby close and find love in between. 💕 #ily

  • @xoVioleteyezxo
    @xoVioleteyezxo 2 года назад +290

    I love how you’re not just disappearing and you’re standing strong. Best revenge against a narcissist that wants to control you. You are a smart woman Shyla, happy for you 💜

  • @arianaperez626
    @arianaperez626 2 года назад +1526

    I’ll never forget how awful the internet has been to Shyla, especially in the hardest moments of her life!! WE LOVE YOU!!!

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 2 года назад +21

      @Tina Tijerina get a life stop ✋ hating got nothing better todo that spread negative thoughts and talk trash about other woman specially a mother who if you have negative thoughts you should look at your self and you situation and try to reflect .

    • @flow4458
      @flow4458 2 года назад +18

      @Tina Tijerina I'm with you that we don't know anything for sure.
      But dude, you can't say that she's treated him bad either then!
      Your comment is deprived of all logic on this earth, srsly, try to use your brain before typing.

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 2 года назад +7

      A hope one day in RUclips and many other public places or platforms a safe place for people and that judging is not allowed 🚫 and not public insulting and maybe putting people down will make you think about the consequences of your desition

    • @user-uh2xn5mc2d
      @user-uh2xn5mc2d 2 года назад +3

      @Tina Tijerina you need help miss girl.

    • @stephaniemagdaleno6881
      @stephaniemagdaleno6881 2 года назад +1

      @Tina Tijerina how do you know she’s psychotic? By the way you’re talking about someone you don’t know you really sound crazy yourself.

  • @saritacorrea6022
    @saritacorrea6022 2 года назад +1635

    seeing how easily he left her without a home without a car, without money, shows the type of person he truly is no matter what happens in a relationship she is the mother of your child she should have a good home a mansion like he does or at least a decent home because it’ll be ur daughters home too, a good person wouldn’t leave the mother of his child basically on the street. Or at least he could of offered to help her out while she got a job or something what an ass! He should be paying child support!

    • @biviann
      @biviann 2 года назад +14

      💯💯

    • @patticakes763
      @patticakes763 2 года назад +8

      But she wasn’t married to him

    • @TheChoralist
      @TheChoralist 2 года назад +33

      He literally posted the video of them fairly splitting up the assets they had together. They gave her a car and a bunch of shit she wasn't even entitled too. They're not married. The video is still up on RUclips go watch it. Cause you're mistaken big time she got everything she asked for

    • @yanethcramos2267
      @yanethcramos2267 2 года назад +45

      Exactly!!!!! But like said before he doesn’t pay for anything, it’s all his family’s money. Oh and throughout the relationship Shyla was bringing in the money working two jobs then making videos, who does that? A Queen 💖

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 2 года назад +35

      @Tina Tijerina I honestly feal like karma is different how in the hell can you wish her the abuse she was getting stop supporting that abuser it dosen't matter what he said his family always is trying to cover up his mess he makes when they were together all he would do is leave her and the baby todo shenanigans and then treat her like shit and follow his brothers ways who also is a bad husband and a bad man to his wife just cause they said they did something they did it recently to cover up the statement about how they left her without anything and first of all she was paying the car and bills she had stuff but it was under there name even the ring he said he was going to give her that guy is not someone you should be defending I'm not saying she's a saint but dosen't mean your are going to come over here and be belittling shyla like that get something better todo and stop ✋ putting negative comments.

  • @messillahdobrodoli9607
    @messillahdobrodoli9607 2 года назад +118

    I needed to hear this!
    I’m a mom of three boys, my oldest and middle son are on the autism spectrum.
    I was in an extremely physically and emotionally abusive relationship with their father for six years. One morning, I got up, saw him (for the hundredth time) drunk again on the living room floor. I told myself this is the last time my kids and I will ever have to deal with this. I packed up, went to my parent’s apartment, and now I’m here.
    I’m back at work, back at school getting my bachelor’s in psych, and going to figure it out.
    We’ve got this!

    • @ruthduran7395
      @ruthduran7395 Год назад

      I went through the same thing 😭 my son is on the autism spectrum

  • @Miky9694
    @Miky9694 2 года назад +289

    The way she talks about everything, she looks that she find herself and peace after everything, so happy for her 🤍

  • @Breanamk
    @Breanamk 2 года назад +1876

    I just know Landon and his family is just watching this with hate IM PROUD OF YOU SHYLA !!! Literally drop your brand ASAP I’m ready to buy your merch

    • @lolal3822
      @lolal3822 2 года назад +51

      🙌🏽🙌🏽 I think its like comfy loungewear/ gym wear one that she put on her story yesterday !!

    • @Louieva578
      @Louieva578 2 года назад +14

      @@lolal3822 I'm hope so, it looked bomb

    • @iraisvargasperez
      @iraisvargasperez 2 года назад +3

      Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @danahportlouis3776
      @danahportlouis3776 2 года назад +5

      @@lolal3822 right I like the color can’t wait

    • @jessewithtattoos
      @jessewithtattoos 2 года назад +9

      quit bringing them both up on eachothers videos. we get it. shes a narcissist and so is he. both are immature and not putting their kid first

  • @CuteBerry
    @CuteBerry 2 года назад +905

    Don’t y’all just love seeing people thriving and bouncing back out of dark situations 😩🙏🏼 I’m here for it !

    • @brittney6845
      @brittney6845 2 года назад +2

      Yes 🙌🏽 🥺

    • @Virgobaby1982
      @Virgobaby1982 2 года назад +4

      I’m totally here for it

    • @slimtina
      @slimtina 2 года назад +1

      Yeah I just wanna give her a hug 😂😂😂

    • @jenniwilliams3295
      @jenniwilliams3295 2 года назад +3

      LOVE IT. yes escaping hell and making your own (which she was doing before his loser a$$) She wins. They are all going down, its a matter of time and she will come out clean as a whistle.

  • @godfirstfamily4880
    @godfirstfamily4880 2 года назад +138

    Wow I’m literally in tears, “How did I end up in a relationship with a man as an exact replica of my father when I tried so hard not to get here!” I felt that in my soul. I can relate 💜 Just recently divorced and this healing journey has been the toughest 2 years of my life. Thank you for using your voice. I can relate 💕

    • @MiSzCASSiEx3
      @MiSzCASSiEx3 2 года назад +4

      Most people repeat the same habits that happened with their parents because it’s what we know. Our subconscious attracts us to people that are like our parents.

    • @aliciachord
      @aliciachord 2 года назад +1

      Yes I can relate to her I was 19 and I met exact same guy as my father tomorrow I will be 21 and we broke up three days later now am doing my RUclips channel and focusing on me

  • @shaniixee7213
    @shaniixee7213 2 года назад +175

    She definitely looks happier without all the bad… like she’s always been beautiful but she glowed being happy!! I love her and soul and I’m sooo proud keep living for you and her l😫😫💗

  • @MakeupbyaliBarba
    @MakeupbyaliBarba 2 года назад +1141

    Getting out of an abusive/toxic relationship is extremely hard. I’m going through the process right now and I didn’t realize how isolated and how brainwashed I was into believing that the relationship I had with this person is how a relationship “should be”. Once those blinkers are off you realize and see what everyone has been telling you about for years.

    • @CamrynAlexis
      @CamrynAlexis 2 года назад +7

      Sending prayers your way

    • @tiffanyleeson3723
      @tiffanyleeson3723 2 года назад +6

      Just know ur so strong and you can do this!❤️❤️

    • @maritzamorales3207
      @maritzamorales3207 2 года назад +1

      Do you have kids with him ? How are y'all dealing with it ?

    • @princessbubblegum4073
      @princessbubblegum4073 2 года назад +5

      I am in a relationship that I doubt if it’s really healthy for me.. how can you recognise the signs?

    • @carolinestacey7928
      @carolinestacey7928 2 года назад +3

      @@princessbubblegum4073 right there with you unfortunately

  • @TheLifeofKiara
    @TheLifeofKiara 2 года назад +2341

    girl .. just want to say that you are strong. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @DesNicole711
      @DesNicole711 2 года назад +3

      And so are you Kiara! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @lovelymaby3933
    @lovelymaby3933 2 года назад +60

    She was never my favorite to watch but this Shyla right here ! I’m here to stay! The fact that u make me feel like waking up early and chasing my dream I love a motivational woman ❤️

  • @racheldawson418
    @racheldawson418 2 года назад +88

    "I am thankful for my struggles because without them I wouldn't of stumbled across my strength".... Shyla u are an inspiration, don't ever stop or change who u are, because u are AMAZING X

  • @Momofgirls
    @Momofgirls 2 года назад +767

    When you said you fought so hard to not have a relationship or a guy like your dad and still got wrapped in the toxicity I felt that! Wow this speaks volumes so inspiring!

    • @faithhaley2535
      @faithhaley2535 2 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @Veeerin
      @Veeerin 2 года назад +3

      Same 😢😞

    • @Jacobeluhv
      @Jacobeluhv 2 года назад +1

      Wow…

    • @bigs1356
      @bigs1356 2 года назад +1

      Wow she’s using her kid for vid content

    • @faithhaley2535
      @faithhaley2535 2 года назад +4

      @@bigs1356 what are you even talking about ..

  • @avivirk7278
    @avivirk7278 2 года назад +754

    "Tough times don't last, tough people do"
    You're a warrior Shyla created through trials and tribulations, my heart is with you beautiful!

  • @kismarydiaz360
    @kismarydiaz360 2 года назад +39

    this story is almost exactly like the book “it ends with us” so heart breaking.love you shyla!! ❤️

  • @paytonreid202
    @paytonreid202 2 года назад +14

    gosh I just love her so much… literally she is a goddess, & handles things SO well. praying for you shyla.

  • @brinleesells4266
    @brinleesells4266 2 года назад +485

    That’s what happens when you’re genuinely a GOOD person. You will always come out on top. Stay strong.

  • @Kmurphyyyyyyy9
    @Kmurphyyyyyyy9 2 года назад +643

    She a whole different woman, WE LOVE YOU SHYLA. So inspiring 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Lifewithkellyann
    @Lifewithkellyann 2 года назад +15

    I just adore Shyla so much. She is so real. So authentic. It’s honestly refreshing. Everyone is always trying to make everything look a certain way. Make everything seem “perfect”. Shyla just keeps its real. You’re going to do BIG things Shyla. Bigger than you ever dreamed. So happy for you!!! ❤️

  • @heatherc.5760
    @heatherc.5760 2 года назад +702

    This woman is inspiring n a great role model for girls n women. She has started healing cus she now can tell her truth without crying n it's growth, happiness, mentally healthy, she is an inspiration. God bless u shyla n u keep on keeping on.

  • @evelynespinoza9386
    @evelynespinoza9386 2 года назад +658

    The fact that you were so respectful to Landon after it all. And still strive to give your daughter the best life and yourself. You are a superhuman 💖

    • @elizabethgasca9983
      @elizabethgasca9983 2 года назад

      💫💫💫

    • @cheyenneunderwood356
      @cheyenneunderwood356 2 года назад +6

      what respect did she give him? she literally posted all the shit that already was brought up. she definitely shit talked him and included videos that were overly dramatic

    • @lifeofnicole2358
      @lifeofnicole2358 2 года назад +25

      @@cheyenneunderwood356 must be a fan of Landon

    • @litzycabrera9716
      @litzycabrera9716 2 года назад +15

      @@cheyenneunderwood356 abuse supporter.. Ill pray for u honey 💯

    • @cheyenneunderwood356
      @cheyenneunderwood356 2 года назад

      @@lifeofnicole2358 no one said it wasn’t her story. I’m just saying that this person said “she didn’t slander him” but she did lolll. and also, i’m not saying I support whatever. there are two very different sides of the story and both seem believable with each piece of evidence given on both sides. if it did happen, that’s horrible. do I still watch landon/the ace family, of course. just like I watch her 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣because you never know what is the truth. there is 3 sides to a story. his side, her side, and the truth.

  • @damaris2085
    @damaris2085 2 года назад +322

    “I tried so hard to runaway” and “ here I am like an exact replica” this touched my soul!!! Ive been in that EXACT same moment in life! Wow, Shyla, I cried hearing that. So real!!!

  • @amandaleighplans
    @amandaleighplans 2 года назад +21

    You have such a lovely, down to earth personality. So much respect for prioritizing your daughter and taking care of yourself!

  • @jadeamberrrr
    @jadeamberrrr 2 года назад +2

    this literally gave me chills, I love you sm shyla💗

  • @Dems967
    @Dems967 2 года назад +323

    “I was capable of going without something” -Shyla
    So powerful

  • @nancyducat6654
    @nancyducat6654 2 года назад +545

    As a woman and a mother of 3 little ones going through the same situation, I couldn’t help but tear up and realize how strong we are as women❤️ so proud of you Shyla

  • @brianamartinez1006
    @brianamartinez1006 2 года назад +140

    I don’t usually comment but you are truly inspiring to single mothers, i am a single mother in a rough time rn & this gave me the pick me up that I needed. ✨

  • @gem9561
    @gem9561 2 года назад +72

    I love this woman's honesty.

  • @courtneyfulton4243
    @courtneyfulton4243 2 года назад +261

    You described it perfectly! I didn't realize how bad my relationship was until I had my son. I remember the moment it clicked. I was sitting in the hospital bed, it was like 2am, I was breastfeeding, and I was staring at my sons father asleep on the couch. I knew in that moment that it was never going to work between us. I tried so hard because of the baby, but I knew staying was only going to make it worse for my son. Now 3 years later, my sons father has only seen him 3 or 4 times and is struggling with drug abuse. It makes me sad for my son. Sad because he deserves a father that will love him and be there in a way that I can't. 💙

    • @jessicaalberton
      @jessicaalberton 2 года назад +3

      OMG 🥺

    • @genesisorozco9669
      @genesisorozco9669 2 года назад +5

      Well your son is going to grow up and appreciate you so much for being mom and dad ❤️

    • @Mm2k11
      @Mm2k11 2 года назад +4

      I’m slowly realizing this now as 5 years in with our child…

    • @mikhaelasantos1352
      @mikhaelasantos1352 2 года назад +3

      @@Mm2k11 girl I feel you mines 3. Hurts so bad tbh ...

    • @courtneyfulton4243
      @courtneyfulton4243 2 года назад

      @@genesisorozco9669 thank you 🙏

  • @LifeAsTamigea
    @LifeAsTamigea 2 года назад +575

    She can hide her feelings and tears well…cause I would’ve started crying before even speaking

  • @jasreetdhaliwal487
    @jasreetdhaliwal487 2 года назад +5

    I am so proud of you Shyla, you have come a long way. I have seen everything from day 1 and the progress of you inspires so many young women. Thank you so much!

  • @maryanne4686
    @maryanne4686 2 года назад +2

    I just want to say thank you so much for this video!! Actually thank you from everyone for even posting at all. It feels so good to see a woman rebuild herself and actually thrive and get everything they deserve without the help of a man. Its so motivating and pushes me to keep on track with my own goals and dreams. So seriously THANK YOU SHYLA

  • @chanelsahr4602
    @chanelsahr4602 2 года назад +428

    I can see you falling in love with yourself and it looks good on you. Through pain we grow and learn to appreciate what truly matters. So proud of you, Shyla.

  • @Merstuka
    @Merstuka 2 года назад +545

    It’s so refreshing to finally see this personal and vulnerable side of you! I’m happy to see you growing and glowing 🤍

  • @jennyyyS95
    @jennyyyS95 Год назад +5

    I am so proud of you . You are a super hero to many women/girls who may be going through the same thing . You’re giving us strength and faith.
    I love you so much for this . Stay strong , you’re growing each day and it’s bringing you even closer to your purpose in life 🦋🤍✨

  • @ilsepalos8425
    @ilsepalos8425 2 года назад +3

    I love how much you’re glowing & I can tell you’re genuinely happy. I can’t wait for your journey Shyla. You really inspire us women that are going through the same situation.

  • @lettymariscal7
    @lettymariscal7 2 года назад +376

    I’m rooting so hard for you, you’re inspiring so many single moms

  • @Burty_YT
    @Burty_YT 2 года назад +2124

    I don’t know you that much Shyla, however watching this video feels like it’s a documentary on Netflix. thank you for sharing your story, I went through a similar thing as you. I am a single mother of an 8 yr old and let me tell you it is TOUGH! But not impossible
    it made me cry when you said you didn’t know your strength til now. love you girl! thank you for sharing your story

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    • @deepeep
      @deepeep 2 года назад +15

      did u just copy this comment

    • @cloudpuffies
      @cloudpuffies 2 года назад +5

      @Comedian Cloud Well, there are 10 people on the account so one of them could be

    • @madyben
      @madyben 2 года назад

      God bless you my dear and your beautiful family! Where do I begin with the same ordeal pain that most of the women go through. I can only imagine what you went through, but here you are today much wiser and stronger 💪🏻 than EVER EXPECTED. I’m so proud of you 👏🏼 and commend you for all of your hard work ☝🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻💯❤️🥰

    • @Peachykirx
      @Peachykirx 2 года назад +4

      Y’all do know this is a fake account lmao ?

  • @celinahernandez3349
    @celinahernandez3349 2 года назад +26

    We’re here for you babe don’t look back anymore learn from your mistakes and keep moving up you’ll get there! 💜

  • @maxeen5270
    @maxeen5270 2 года назад +16

    I am truly proud and excited for you! I cannot wait to see where this journey takes you and baby girl Soul. Your growth is inspiring! This self-love journey is going to be everything you've imagined 🙌🏼. Can't wait to join along ❤

  • @amesanchez40
    @amesanchez40 2 года назад +540

    She’s back and she’s better. Thank you for feeling confident to speaking about your life. It’s truly amazing how a mother gets strength for their kids.♥️

  • @rhiannafordie
    @rhiannafordie 2 года назад +231

    The fact that people said she had a bad attitude and critize her but in real life she was a victim of a manipulator

  • @danyaleann3125
    @danyaleann3125 2 года назад +94

    😭 when you said “she’s literally all I have” my mom heart ached for you girl ! ❤️❤️ so glad you’re on the other side of this

  • @yonaguni33
    @yonaguni33 2 года назад +19

    She’s not making the focus what happened to her, but moving forward. I love that for her 🤍

  • @samanthabudrawich3086
    @samanthabudrawich3086 2 года назад +212

    Breaks my heart that she went through so much bs. It’s so hard to see the abuse when you’re In the relationship but she’s right…kids really open your eyes. I’m so proud she walked away. Such a strong beautiful soul. You deserve all the happiness Shyla…

  • @MsQueenificent
    @MsQueenificent 2 года назад +1009

    I love you and you are a very strong woman. We got your back forever

  • @briannagarcia936
    @briannagarcia936 2 года назад +69

    This seriously gives me so much hope I’m a single mom as well and the constant struggle everyday to get up in the morning and not feel like you have done anything in your life but than realize wow you are doing it slowly but surely !!! The moment you realize it it’s the best feeling You can do anything you put your mind too and my daughter is my no 1 to me always and supporter.

    • @disneychick1975
      @disneychick1975 2 года назад

      Wait they broke up?

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor Год назад

      My mom had barely worked and finally left my father when I was 13. We lived in a small bedroom for a year but we were at peace and ended up having our own place. You can do it too. Kids just want to be peaceful in a drama free love filled home.

  • @keelypritchard3268
    @keelypritchard3268 2 года назад +5

    You're amazing and inspirational! I went through a toxic relationship it's been a few years and I'm still healing from it.. Seeing this helps me stay strong and realise I'm worth more I need to make something of myself again! Thank you Shyla! 💕

  • @destinymichelle8382
    @destinymichelle8382 2 года назад +184

    This video is so meaningful. When you said “I felt like I had no meaning to life until I had my daughter” I feel that so much

  • @hannahmecate1132
    @hannahmecate1132 2 года назад +577

    The smile on your face when you're talking about your brand and how you're proud of yourself is everything :)

  • @mauhmama
    @mauhmama 2 года назад +2

    Truly YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION Shyla!!💕 the strength, the poise, the braveness and just the honesty is sooooo refreshing especially on RUclips!❤️👏🏼
    and I’m soooo sorry you had to endure people tormenting and bullying you at your lowest point , LOVE YOU SHYLA!!💕

  • @destinyrae211
    @destinyrae211 2 года назад +63

    Children often say to us, We are there Hero’s, when in reality, our children don’t know they are our hero’s, They saved our lives, my son has saved me and gave me a purpose. My son is my hero.

    • @mechemercy
      @mechemercy 2 года назад +1

      Yes love this comment ❤️ so true!

  • @BeautyMeetsDIY
    @BeautyMeetsDIY 2 года назад +1285

    “As you travel life’s road, believe in yourself. Don’t settle for less. Follow the dreams who hold close to your heart down the path that will lead you to true happiness!” 🙏🏼🥰 ~ Helen

  • @galamariamendez-jackson6589
    @galamariamendez-jackson6589 2 года назад +396

    This video is so genuine. This is what people wanted to see. The real authentic Shyla! Congratulations 🎉🎊

  • @lynnstrong2010
    @lynnstrong2010 2 года назад +3

    This realness. And openness is what RUclips needs. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you love. Keep raising your beautiful little girl. And never give up on your dreams.

  • @yaelinherrera7806
    @yaelinherrera7806 2 года назад +370

    She gonna be the next Jordyn woods gonna step on everyone who wish to see her fail so proud of you 💕 this is so empowering

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink 2 года назад +2

      Your 1st name is so pretty!! 😀👌🏽🌹

    • @DN-jg8dl
      @DN-jg8dl 2 года назад +28

      Jordyn woods kissed her best friends sister’s man lmao, she deserved the hate

    • @jadanaziel8252
      @jadanaziel8252 2 года назад +4

      @@DN-jg8dl you also forget Tristen has a repeated act of cheating it wasn’t all Jordyn

    • @breannev749
      @breannev749 2 года назад +5

      @@DN-jg8dl he kissed her on her way out. Thats literally sexual assault. Nowhere does it ever say she kissed him back

    • @14mzdramaqueen
      @14mzdramaqueen 2 года назад

      @@DN-jg8dl girl…. khole stole Tristan from his first baby mama when she was still pregnant and he’s been cheating on khole til this day plus he just had another baby on her dumbass lmfaoo.

  • @carlaperalta2378
    @carlaperalta2378 2 года назад +227

    It’s so sad … you could see all the love she had/has for him and it’s so sad that Landon let this incredible women go. We all are here for YOU SHYLA

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад +1

      I would have left her too

    • @iidesiree6316
      @iidesiree6316 2 года назад +6

      @@jIguess why u replying to these comments? just dont watch her, obsessed asf😂

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад +1

      @@iidesiree6316 I’m replying to prove my point and to show my intellectual abilities

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад +1

      @jess eo yes, Male Power!

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess 2 года назад

      @@Peachylorry who tf is Landon

  • @janinechitjian9967
    @janinechitjian9967 2 года назад +1

    Shyla! You are helping so many moms right now. I was in your shoes with my daughters father this past year. The amount of pain and hardship we face. Having to start from scratch. It’s so scary and especially with a child. I understand how you feel. Thank you for this.

  • @danahartley1551
    @danahartley1551 2 года назад +3

    I can’t explain how much I love you, we’re all here for you. This is your year you got this!!!

  • @jessicamedrano5724
    @jessicamedrano5724 2 года назад +266

    I’m going through the same thing Shyla. And when you said “you wake up in the morning and turn to see your daughter sleeping.” I felt that so muchhhh!!! Living couch to couch with my son. Being a single mom. Trying to stay strong. I needed this video. Thank you shyla

    • @poojarathan4438
      @poojarathan4438 2 года назад +7

      Sending you all the best vibes mama! Hope this year brings you magic 🥰

    • @rooss9581
      @rooss9581 2 года назад +5

      You got this girl ! I wish you the best and hope good things come to you and your family ❤️

    • @andrealopez5792
      @andrealopez5792 2 года назад +2

      The Lord renews our strength Praying for you in Jesus name amen

    • @nekoleramey4922
      @nekoleramey4922 2 года назад

      Just keep moving forward mama! You got this 💞

  • @sophief7678
    @sophief7678 2 года назад +337

    I didn’t even know who you were until a few hours ago I’ve spent all morning watching your videos and learning about you. I’m so proud of you. You’re such a strong, powerful momma. You’re daughter is so lucky to have you. You will always be her biggest role model! You’re doing so great and I wish you every happiness and success in your life x

  • @kim54321.
    @kim54321. 2 года назад +4

    this video and the last are literally so inspiring. i went through a similar situation last year, i survived the abuse after 3 years of going through that in a 6 year relationship. my daughter and i are on our own and i know i did what was best for her and myself regardless of everything i had experienced. she’ll be 2 in June and i couldn’t be any more proud of how far we’ve come together.
    thank you shyla for sharing your story.
    you’re so brave and strong
    you did what you felt was best for yourself and Soul and that’s all a mother could do.
    immediately subscribed.
    i found this because of Fool Coverage.

  • @pinkkvelvet
    @pinkkvelvet 2 года назад +1

    This video made me cry I’m am happy you are in a good place mentally and physically, there’s so many woman rooting for you and who have gone through similar situations. ♥️ I wish you and your daughter nothing but success and blessings. 🙏🏽

  • @KareBear449
    @KareBear449 2 года назад +189

    Emotional abuse is real!!!! So happy to hear someone acknowledge it and the affects it has on your mental health!!!
    You are worth it. We see you, we believe you, we are here!!!

  • @arianahernandez6350
    @arianahernandez6350 2 года назад +142

    She’s healing and I’m so proud of you Shyla 🤍 I just know your daughter will thank you for everything and applaud you when she’s older

  • @09cluts
    @09cluts 2 года назад +26

    Such a strong person and mother!!! Don’t stop grinding and keep reaching for the stars shyla!!!

  • @321ljc
    @321ljc 2 года назад +1

    you’re the realest! you’re so strong! you seem like you’re at peace with everything ❤️ so happy for you

  • @samanthaheath2598
    @samanthaheath2598 2 года назад +258

    I’m so ready for part 2!!! The documentary style is where it’s at. You did an amazing job with this video Shyla. I’m so proud of you & happy that you’re finally healing ❤️ So much love , I’ve missed your content ! I never thought you were too much 😌

  • @zanjtibebe3539
    @zanjtibebe3539 2 года назад +159

    Shyla, I’m going through the exact same thing thing as you right now. I’m glad you are being so open and honest, you made me realize I’m not alone. I’m not the only one, you give me hope and this video was very needed for me. Healing is such a lonely process

  • @mayayams
    @mayayams 2 года назад +1

    Literally watching this while in the airport in tears. I’m having one of those moments, single mom of four, and struggling mentally. You aren’t alone ♥️

  • @briannaleigh825
    @briannaleigh825 2 года назад +3

    Oh Shyla you ARE a superhuman especially to your daughter💛 we are here for you girl! So happy, proud, and excited for you and your journey. It’s true, once I become a mother I seen life in a whole different lense especially the BS us moms used to deal with while fighting PPD. You got out, and you will find yourself! Here for you and your journey! xx 💛🥂

  • @reemsings
    @reemsings 2 года назад +172

    you have no idea how reassuring it is to see you grow into the healthiest version of yourself. I have been following you for some time now and I am beyond proud of who you're becoming, and beyond happy Souline has someone like you to look up to. you have been and continue to be SO brave, a huge inspiration for a lot of women, including the woman your daughter is going to become. and I know exactly what I'm talking about because Souline is going to be like me someday, with a heart full of pride and appreciation for her mom who did everything to protect her peace and well-being. looking forward to seeing more and hearing more from you, thank you for sharing your truth. love from Morocco!

  • @BaileeXsweets
    @BaileeXsweets 2 года назад +238

    I feel like most of us ladies have gone through some type of abuse in most of our relationships and we all at one time thought it was okay and that it was normal. But overtime we got fed up and realized everything they did to you was unacceptable and not normal. It took me over 7-8 years to realize abuse in every form. From physical to mental I’ve had it all and I let so many people use me because I thought as long as they claimed to love me that they did love me.

    • @danaya2911
      @danaya2911 2 года назад

      been there too, sending love to you @Bailey Xiong.

  • @leeannaramos2885
    @leeannaramos2885 2 года назад +20

    What’s meant for you will come to you easy. So happy for Shyla!🤍

  • @anamesa9252
    @anamesa9252 2 года назад +28

    I just finished reading “It Ends With Us” and her story reminds me so much of Shyla’s! So proud of you Shyla 💖

  • @Juwlz
    @Juwlz 2 года назад +386

    So many people support you. I became a widow when I was 28. He was my best friend, the person my entire world revolved around since age 14. I had a miscarriage a few months before a tragic accident took him from me. It was really hard and I am still trying to figure out who I am and what my life is but I'm hopeful

    • @TheCandyxoxo1
      @TheCandyxoxo1 2 года назад +26

      💖 thank you for sharing this. I’m praying for you🤍🦋✨

    • @FreshBoa27
      @FreshBoa27 2 года назад +12

      Sending you love and light in your life journey 🤍

    • @erincleaver6063
      @erincleaver6063 2 года назад +10

      Wow I’m so sorry for both of your losses, you’re so strong🤍🤍

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink 2 года назад +3

      My condolences twice over!! I will pray for you Julia! 💔❤🌹

    • @anaidaazavedo7102
      @anaidaazavedo7102 2 года назад +4

      You’re gorgeous strong and so so worth it! Good luck❤️

  • @espinoza1987
    @espinoza1987 2 года назад +267

    You did that! Took on your daughter & your 2 dogs. While healing, learning, working & being a single mother. You did it. We see & hear you.

  • @mariagomez5928
    @mariagomez5928 2 года назад +2

    I work at a domestic violence shelter and I love that you’re bringing awareness to DV because it can happen to anyone! this is soooo important and so happy for you and that you’re healing! Much respects for you Shyla!

  • @krystallorenzo3206
    @krystallorenzo3206 2 года назад +3

    Shyla has gone through so much, I am so happy to see where she is today!!! She’s glowing!!!

  • @CC-fs4ew
    @CC-fs4ew 2 года назад +46

    This video made me cry, it is so pure and although in the midst of healing Shyla I know God is and will always be by your side and will be your strength through the hardships. You’ve already made impact on so many. Brought light to subjects normally pushed under the rug. Lead by example and given strength and courage to those who are living that nightmare. Your good soul and heart shines Shyla please never dim your light for anyone. ♥️

  • @destineep1234
    @destineep1234 2 года назад +3

    This is amazing. You are amazing. It is so very hard to talk about what we go through but doing it on the internet is so much harder. Keep grinding girl and remember anyone that has anything negative to say is only jealous.

  • @lusiafono5447
    @lusiafono5447 2 года назад +37

    Big ups to your friends that had you stay over in her sons room remember those people when you get up. Love this for you honey🤍✨

  • @ashleyprewett1790
    @ashleyprewett1790 2 года назад +244

    I really cannot wait to see this part 2 and this line of clothing you're gonna be dropping !!!! I'm so freaking beyond proud of you Shyla for everything that you've accomplished, all that you've survived and the strength you've gained from all of this ❤❤ There's not alot of women I've been able to look up to but you're definitely one i can say i look up to in so many ways because of how kick ass of a woman you are !!!! You have an amazing energy & the strength you carry with yourself is so motivating... Coming from an abusive household from all of my childhood and so so so many holidays, weekends & moments that were taken away from me as i was growing up because I myself and my brothers I had to be around it like it was just a normal thing. But it never was normal. It was never okay to see the things I've seen and been exposed to. And to see you get that and feel that you understand just gives me so much more strength.... Thank you for being real and so motivating to all Women including myself... Keep doing these amazing hustler moves you're doing !!! And thank you for everything you offer us just being the Woman you are. ❤🙏❤ We love and support you Shyla. 💘💘 Keep being amazing !!!!!!!!

  • @oliviaprewett6061
    @oliviaprewett6061 2 года назад +43

    So proud that you got yourself and you’re daughter out. That takes so much strength. So happy for you from someone who went through abuse for 21 years of my life. 🙏❤️🙏❤️