I remember working with a young lady name Cathy, who was a single mom, years ago who vowed not to date anybody until her daughter was gone and off to college. Her and her daughter’s father had been separated since her daughter was in grade school (very young). Her daughter was very shapely at a young age and Cathy just didn’t want to have any man around her daughter because she didn’t want to have to k;ll (unalive) anyone. She just didn’t want to have different men around her daughter period. Only her daughter’s father whom she would go out of state to visit on holidays. Cathy stated that she would rather sacrifice her dating life for that period of time for the safety of her child who grew up to be an high honor student so Cathy was able to put focus and attention on her daughter. She really did for 15 years no dating specifically for her daughter. Kudos to her because like Tony said something’s you may not get any do overs.
That's been my life, when my daughter's father and I broke up when she was less then a month old I decided I'd stay single till my daughter is out of highschool. She's almost 14 now and I don't feel like I've missed out on anything. I worked for a criminal defense attorney and saw what people do to kids whether it's a boyfriend, jealous girlfriend or, family member. It made me a little paranoid. The only person who has ever babysat my daughter is my mom. Thank God I have her to help me. I pay my mom for babysitting, so we help each other out.
Tony’s telling the truth. My mom’s ex-boyfriend when I was in middle school hated me and he was physically and verbally abusive towards me. To this day, I’m grateful we made it out in one piece.
People don’t understand why I am so selective… I mean VERYYYY selective over who cares for my child (5 years old) when I am working. Mostly she is with me, I am her mom and she feels most safe with me.
Hello okay teach, yes postpartum and some parents don't even know their own tolerance. However, I have to call this thing out, "Spiritual Warfare," which is at its full effect now. I pray the eyes be open to see what's really going on. The kids are also not protected by their own parents, Lord, help Us. GOD BLESS ALL
I don't like too comment too much. But if someone says "pay less attention to your child" that's a whole demon speaking thru that person. I would rebuke them like nobodies business fr.
I’ve been a nanny for about 8 years and worked in different family house holds and always watched the kids that I cared after as if they were my own. Not many nannies care about the kids they watch which is scary. Cameras or not..God is watching you! It breaks my heart when I hear stories like this.
And yet people keep telling child free women who know they don't want children they should have kids. Makes no sense the pressure society puts on people to have children they don't want enough to plan for
Im a single mom who divorced my ex due to SA (rooted from a porn addiction) when my kids were in bed with me. Alot of ppl were against the judge saying supervised visitation for my ex, bcus they said you can’t think about “what ifs”… “you just have to wait and see”.. and i couldn’t wrap my head around risking my kids safety by giving someone of a reprobate mind, the benefit of the doubt. Tony videos have literally made me feel so good about my decision to keep my kids safe. I rather be safer than sorry.
And my kids are 2 and 4 now. Ive been singe/abstinent for 2 years. You really make me just want to continue to remain single until my youngest is 5. I just feel like im robbing my kids of a family or good stepdad. 😩
@@themultifacetedmom Dear when we choose to have children....we MUST put them first at all costs. Our lives should be put on hold until they are able to take of themselves. You have family I'm sure. If you don't trust ex then it would stand to reason you shouldn't trust another man. I commend you on your strength of 2yrs. Keep up the good work. You are worth the wait until your honey moon night. You WILL be greatly rewarded my dear daughter ❤️
@@theolajarret4389 so truee smh! I guess i take accountability for what i did not know since i was only 22-24 b4 marriage. I know so much more now bcus of tony and therapy. But i plan to take it very slow, waiting a year to introduce them, etc. whenever that time comes.
my father's a "girl dad," and i'm his only child. his second wife was jealous of our relationship. this was 40+ years ago and they weren't married long. she had other issues too.
Not to mention the gf that killed the baby had a history of violence, and celebrated 4 months of sobriety. So she was an alcoholic who didn't have custody of her own 3 kids smfh
Working remotely may be a good option for a lot of single parents so they can stay home with their children until they are old enough to attend pre-k or kindergarten. States offer childcare assistance as well to help make licensed daycare affordable🙏🏽
That killer is possessed with demonic spirits!!! That demon inside of them made them kill that poor baby. I rebuke all demons and demonic spirits and all evil in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Please do not leave your child alone with anyone. Like if you do please have video surveillance in your home. Please don't trust these people they prey on parents with small children
4month ago 😢😢🕊️🤍 Do these people have evil spirits or mental illness??? This was a innocent beautiful God’s gift to the world baby 😢 My step dad & mom raised me. I was always their first priority. I’m married with my own family They still call to check on us frequently. This is heartbreaking 💔
Dear parents, be very careful whom you leave your kids with. I was molested by my nanny when I was 2 years old 😢. I thought it was a normal thing coz she told me not to tell anyone. I'm in my 30s now.
Hi Tony, can you make a video discussing “income to expenses for a child” ratio? It seems that what keeps ppl impoverished is how many mouths they have to feed without thinking of how much finances are needed to actually have that child.
I'm skeptical of official sites and companies too because demons always been where the supply is in abundant and guaranteed. I've heard of cases where "babysitters" done horrible things to children causing them to be unalived. Also the movies The Stepfather(2009) and The Hand That Rocks the Cradle(1992) are great films to reference on this topic.
Your mother in law does the exact same thing I do! I don’t play around when it comes to leaving my niece/nephews with babysitters. Noooo! I will be watching over them!!!
I have a 7 year Old and 1.5 year old and this is honestly too triggering for me to listen to. I can tolerate a lot but this is too heartbreaking for me to finish the video! I'll come back to it in a few months🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
In every generation time after time it’s the kids that always suffer over the selfishness and ignorance of the parents. Trust no one with your kids! I didn’t start even thinking of going to dinner with a man until my son was 14 and in high school and almost “6 ft tall
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I remember working with a young lady name Cathy, who was a single mom, years ago who vowed not to date anybody until her daughter was gone and off to college. Her and her daughter’s father had been separated since her daughter was in grade school (very young). Her daughter was very shapely at a young age and Cathy just didn’t want to have any man around her daughter because she didn’t want to have to k;ll (unalive) anyone. She just didn’t want to have different men around her daughter period. Only her daughter’s father whom she would go out of state to visit on holidays. Cathy stated that she would rather sacrifice her dating life for that period of time for the safety of her child who grew up to be an high honor student so Cathy was able to put focus and attention on her daughter. She really did for 15 years no dating specifically for her daughter. Kudos to her because like Tony said something’s you may not get any do overs.
That's been my life, when my daughter's father and I broke up when she was less then a month old I decided I'd stay single till my daughter is out of highschool. She's almost 14 now and I don't feel like I've missed out on anything. I worked for a criminal defense attorney and saw what people do to kids whether it's a boyfriend, jealous girlfriend or, family member. It made me a little paranoid. The only person who has ever babysat my daughter is my mom. Thank God I have her to help me. I pay my mom for babysitting, so we help each other out.
Tony’s telling the truth. My mom’s ex-boyfriend when I was in middle school hated me and he was physically and verbally abusive towards me. To this day, I’m grateful we made it out in one piece.
People don’t understand why I am so selective… I mean VERYYYY selective over who cares for my child (5 years old) when I am working. Mostly she is with me, I am her mom and she feels most safe with me.
Hello okay teach, yes postpartum and some parents don't even know their own tolerance. However, I have to call this thing out, "Spiritual Warfare," which is at its full effect now. I pray the eyes be open to see what's really going on. The kids are also not protected by their own parents, Lord, help Us. GOD BLESS ALL
This is exactly why I don't want to leave my children with anyone! I really need to know how can possibly work from home and watch them too!
Amen
Good keep your kids not everyone wants to watch them
@@Jaycarbrownie12 you seem upset… you should get some help with that
I don't like too comment too much. But if someone says "pay less attention to your child" that's a whole demon speaking thru that person. I would rebuke them like nobodies business fr.
I’ve been a nanny for about 8 years and worked in different family house holds and always watched the kids that I cared after as if they were my own. Not many nannies care about the kids they watch which is scary. Cameras or not..God is watching you! It breaks my heart when I hear stories like this.
I work for CPS, child protective services. I have seen so many cases where children have been neglected and abused its a shame!
And yet people keep telling child free women who know they don't want children they should have kids. Makes no sense the pressure society puts on people to have children they don't want enough to plan for
I experienced a lot due to a negligent parent and lackluster babysitters. Lawd. God bless the mother and the family🙏🏾.
I remained single while raising my sons. I never trusted no one! Last kid is in junior high! I’ll date when he’s away in college!
And you are very beautiful and will have no problem at all! God will reward you for your care and patience.
@@mirianalajtman7728 Thank you!
Im a single mom who divorced my ex due to SA (rooted from a porn addiction) when my kids were in bed with me. Alot of ppl were against the judge saying supervised visitation for my ex, bcus they said you can’t think about “what ifs”… “you just have to wait and see”.. and i couldn’t wrap my head around risking my kids safety by giving someone of a reprobate mind, the benefit of the doubt. Tony videos have literally made me feel so good about my decision to keep my kids safe. I rather be safer than sorry.
And my kids are 2 and 4 now. Ive been singe/abstinent for 2 years. You really make me just want to continue to remain single until my youngest is 5. I just feel like im robbing my kids of a family or good stepdad. 😩
@@themultifacetedmom Dear when we choose to have children....we MUST put them first at all costs. Our lives should be put on hold until they are able to take of themselves.
You have family I'm sure. If you don't trust ex then it would stand to reason you shouldn't trust another man.
I commend you on your strength of 2yrs. Keep up the good work. You are worth the wait until your honey moon night. You WILL be greatly rewarded my dear daughter ❤️
YOU GO MAMA!!!!! Seriously the world needs more mothers like you!
@@deja14 thank you! 🙌🏽
@@theolajarret4389 so truee smh! I guess i take accountability for what i did not know since i was only 22-24 b4 marriage. I know so much more now bcus of tony and therapy. But i plan to take it very slow, waiting a year to introduce them, etc. whenever that time comes.
my father's a "girl dad," and i'm his only child. his second wife was jealous of our relationship. this was 40+ years ago and they weren't married long. she had other issues too.
Not to mention the gf that killed the baby had a history of violence, and celebrated 4 months of sobriety. So she was an alcoholic who didn't have custody of her own 3 kids smfh
Wow! 😱
Jesus CHRIST!!!!
Maybe I just shouldn’t have kids. Ugh. This is so sad and scary.
Working remotely may be a good option for a lot of single parents so they can stay home with their children until they are old enough to attend pre-k or kindergarten. States offer childcare assistance as well to help make licensed daycare affordable🙏🏽
My parents barely left us with our grandparents
That killer is possessed with demonic spirits!!! That demon inside of them made them kill that poor baby. I rebuke all demons and demonic spirits and all evil in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Please do not leave your child alone with anyone. Like if you do please have video surveillance in your home. Please don't trust these people they prey on parents with small children
4month ago 😢😢🕊️🤍
Do these people have evil spirits or mental illness??? This was a innocent beautiful God’s gift to the world baby 😢
My step dad & mom raised me. I was always their first priority. I’m married with my own family
They still call to check on us frequently. This is heartbreaking 💔
Dear parents, be very careful whom you leave your kids with. I was molested by my nanny when I was 2 years old 😢. I thought it was a normal thing coz she told me not to tell anyone. I'm in my 30s now.
I’m rare I never got out of control… but I did sit in bathrooms crying
Me too. Big open mouth ( silent) ugly cries 😭 It's better now though, Lol.
@@chloeg7353 lol I was loud crying and swearing saying “ I can’t do this “
Hi Tony, can you make a video discussing “income to expenses for a child” ratio? It seems that what keeps ppl impoverished is how many mouths they have to feed without thinking of how much finances are needed to actually have that child.
❤❤❤❤ this the one right here but for the blessed business tribe maybe
I'm skeptical of official sites and companies too because demons always been where the supply is in abundant and guaranteed. I've heard of cases where "babysitters" done horrible things to children causing them to be unalived. Also the movies The Stepfather(2009) and The Hand That Rocks the Cradle(1992) are great films to reference on this topic.
Tony, God. God Christ HS Tony. This is catastrophic, Heavenly soldier treasure. Gen 50:20
This video is speaking to me right now tony 💯
So True Tony 😮
Your mother in law does the exact same thing I do! I don’t play around when it comes to leaving my niece/nephews with babysitters. Noooo! I will be watching over them!!!
I have a 7 year Old and 1.5 year old and this is honestly too triggering for me to listen to. I can tolerate a lot but this is too heartbreaking for me to finish the video! I'll come back to it in a few months🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
In every generation time after time it’s the kids that always suffer over the selfishness and ignorance of the parents. Trust no one with your kids! I didn’t start even thinking of going to dinner with a man until my son was 14 and in high school and almost “6 ft tall
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