PRISCILLA SHIRER & JERRY SHIRER: A Deep Dive into Faith, Marriage & Life | Dear Future Wifey Ep. 833

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb 4 месяца назад +1958

    Priscilla made a great point that if you are thinking of marrying someone, check to see if they have an authority figure in their life who they submit to. This way, when you marry them and have issues in the marriage, you can turn to that authority figure for help. If your spouse has no one who they listen to, then they become a law unto themselves and go rogue anytime they want to. It's very difficult living with a person like that, because they don't take correction from anybody. It makes the marriage very difficult.

    • @RayRom1797
      @RayRom1797 4 месяца назад +24

      So true 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 4 месяца назад +9

      @@RayRom1797yes!🙏🏾

    • @sali6522
      @sali6522 4 месяца назад +8

      True.

    • @mwright0428
      @mwright0428 4 месяца назад +103

      One of my favorite quotes from a pastor says “Never submit to a man that submits to no one” and I will never forget that

    • @blackqueen67
      @blackqueen67 4 месяца назад

      ​@@mwright0428wow!! I learn so much on this podcast

  • @maryoladipupo2777
    @maryoladipupo2777 14 дней назад +10

    Priscilla said something about holding people to a "script" that we created and then get mad when they don't match up - whew, that hit home!

  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb 4 месяца назад +2005

    Jerry is a very exemplary man. You don't usually see men submit to discipleship and mentoring like that. I was very impressed with Jerry's submission, as well as his leadership in his home. Him taking responsibility for the success and happiness of his wife and children is outstanding. Usually men want their wife to serve them, but he is out front serving his family. Amazing!

    • @tricialewin6972
      @tricialewin6972 4 месяца назад +14

      Amen n Amen

    • @commontruth7620
      @commontruth7620 4 месяца назад +46

      God, please, grant me a husband with Jerry's character traits.

    • @lavondahawkins
      @lavondahawkins 4 месяца назад +26

      Discipleship is so important

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist 4 месяца назад +22

      I heard a man say if a man is looking to be served it's a no

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 4 месяца назад +48

      BUT don’t get it twisted she is a submitted wife, is in Godly order who serves her husband ALSO.

  • @beautifullbekah
    @beautifullbekah 3 месяца назад +134

    The fact that they don't even look 40 and they've been married for 25 years. A good marriage will keep you looking young.

  • @KimberlyVargas
    @KimberlyVargas 3 месяца назад +76

    Jerry and Priscilla need to be on more shows together because together they bring amazing marital WISDOM 👏🏽

  • @LatonyaSmith-p2k
    @LatonyaSmith-p2k 4 месяца назад +1237

    You married her but made a covenant with GOD!!! That’s a gem 💎 right there. ❤

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 месяца назад +6

      Listen!!!

    • @bethbrookes
      @bethbrookes 4 месяца назад +3

      Omg that part right there 💯

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 4 месяца назад +4

      That is a special message...#AndTheTruth

    • @DarkandRadiant
      @DarkandRadiant 4 месяца назад +3

      My heart! ❤

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 4 месяца назад +2

      🎯💯

  • @AleenaGENISE
    @AleenaGENISE 4 месяца назад +774

    This is a whole marriage masterclass. Also, we need Jerry to write a book, teach a course, lead a men’s conference or something!

    • @ZMS777
      @ZMS777 4 месяца назад +4

      Yes, this is amazing and it's a blessing

    • @Nkemknows
      @Nkemknows 4 месяца назад +3

      I agree

    • @TMariePR
      @TMariePR 3 месяца назад +2

      YES!!! A whole masterclass. I literally took notes.

    • @GraceWaJesus
      @GraceWaJesus 3 месяца назад +4

      Yes! Cos there aren't enough of them like him. And having overcome the challenges he had early in life

    • @LeeMohlala
      @LeeMohlala 3 месяца назад

      Right! I felt like I was in a masterclass

  • @preciousviolet2813
    @preciousviolet2813 4 месяца назад +633

    This brother right here needs to start a ministry in counseling young men before marriage. WOW 😮. What a man of God ❤

  • @sheilabrown5422
    @sheilabrown5422 4 месяца назад +230

    When Priscilla said grandma said, "He looks at you like he will love you for the rest of your life." I am in awe. I pray for that kind of look and love 😊❤

    • @annapaik8406
      @annapaik8406 3 месяца назад +4

      Grandmas have such a way of saying things. I miss both my grandmas😅❤

    • @andriaa5853
      @andriaa5853 2 месяца назад +1

      It brought me to tears😭...so powerful...so profound ❤️

    • @e.street2231
      @e.street2231 2 месяца назад

      @@andriaa5853CDC CCD dads CCD cccc

    • @FurnitureTreasures
      @FurnitureTreasures 2 месяца назад

      ​@@andriaa5853same. 😢

    • @priscillafumadorh7186
      @priscillafumadorh7186 2 месяца назад

      Amen ❤🙏🏽

  • @lakeshapenland2288
    @lakeshapenland2288 4 месяца назад +52

    Jerry is quiet but packed with power. His wisdom is awesome. Priscilla is publicly packed with power. Together they are a power house for the kingdom!! Wow I love this episode! So real and raw!

  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb 4 месяца назад +876

    Loved when Priscilla compared the husband to the shade of a tree. Women don't struggle to submit to a husband who is a shade, a comfort, a safe place. If a husband loves the wife sacrificially, she will submit easily; she will want to submit, you wont have to tell her to do it.

    • @TamTalkVloggy
      @TamTalkVloggy 4 месяца назад +6

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @WellnessForMoms
      @WellnessForMoms 4 месяца назад +3

      🙌🏾

    • @Coco-og7zw
      @Coco-og7zw 4 месяца назад +4

      FACTS!!!!!

    • @Raray200
      @Raray200 4 месяца назад +16

      I love how Priscilla’s calling is different from her Mothers calling, and her mother ensured she remain free and authentic. Jerry was brought up in a home built on equality and was made humble and sacrificial by it. Because God knew he would need partnership over the traditional marriage she was modeled. For her to do what she was called to do. He made space for her to flourish.

    • @ig6851
      @ig6851 4 месяца назад +3

      That was AMAZING!🙌🏾

  • @oyinb.8328
    @oyinb.8328 4 месяца назад +530

    This man is a SERVANT. It’s all over him. God bless you Mr. Shirer for walking in humility and meekness.

    • @Allthingsarepossibl3
      @Allthingsarepossibl3 4 месяца назад +8

      I agree, he really adores her and I appreciate his honesty about how he felt her being in the war room movie

    • @Raray200
      @Raray200 4 месяца назад +14

      I love how Priscilla’s calling is different from her Mothers calling, and her mother ensured she remain free and authentic. Jerry was brought up in a home built on equality and was made humble and sacrificial by it. Because God knew he would need partnership over the traditional marriage she was modeled. For her to do what she was called to do. He made space for her to flourish.

  • @MSBJS2233
    @MSBJS2233 4 месяца назад +425

    When Jerry said he saw what his dad did by leaving his mom and he wasn't going to repeat it, it brought me to tears.

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe 4 месяца назад +3

      Me too.

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 4 месяца назад +17

      Right because most men see their dad treat their moms like trash, and they become even worse.

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe 4 месяца назад

      @@carolinenjoroge1195 do you think it's MOST?

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 4 месяца назад

      @@JMarie-th8xe I do

    • @DaniD-zy2rl
      @DaniD-zy2rl 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes I love that!

  • @shush03
    @shush03 4 месяца назад +178

    It takes a VERY secure man to be married to a Powerhouse Preacher like Mrs Priscilla. Love this episode. Now this is real relationship goals. ❤❤

  • @patriciaaharkins9777
    @patriciaaharkins9777 4 месяца назад +114

    My husband and I have been married 53yrs by God's amazing grace. This new season is difficult pray for us to keep focused on the Lord.

    • @christinelundy1043
      @christinelundy1043 4 месяца назад +11

      Holy Almighty Father, grant them your Covering and Keeping during this season. There is nothing impossible with You and for You, and you will see them through this time in Jesus Name and under His Blood. Amen and Amen.

    • @janiceoliverbelcher2285
      @janiceoliverbelcher2285 4 месяца назад +5

      Congratulations on the 53. May God undergird you both with the strength and understanding you both need to conquer the voices of the enemy. If you haven’t tried counseling, hopefully you will consider. God loves and ordained marriage, and HE knows life can can bring so many unpredictables. Continue to seek his direction. ❤

    • @msstockard4937
      @msstockard4937 3 месяца назад +1

      🙌🏾 ❤🙏🏽

    • @LearningToLove..
      @LearningToLove.. 2 месяца назад

      🙏🏾✨🫂

    • @Lengouh
      @Lengouh 2 месяца назад

      It is well

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 4 месяца назад +218

    Once I realized my husband held my heart close to his and did everything to protect it, I was willing to let down my guards and fully submit! Like Pricilla, I can’t imagine life without my covering. I THANK GOD for my person, my husband and my best friend. ❤

    • @Ben31Son
      @Ben31Son 4 месяца назад +3

      This is beautiful.

  • @angelmariemusickc
    @angelmariemusickc 4 месяца назад +232

    Jerry don’t play about Priscilla!! 🤣 I love it! This is really good and encouraging! Praise The Lord for this! 🙌🏾

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 4 месяца назад +498

    “Whenever you’re doing something for the Lord, the enemy will attack you.” FACTS 💯 Be ready to fight and have on the whole armor of God!!! Spiritual warfare is real!

  • @MeridianJones
    @MeridianJones 3 месяца назад +24

    The Kendrick Brothers are AWESOME for taking care of their folks that way to preserve marriages and families. That is waking in the Spirit!!

  • @chloecreate
    @chloecreate 3 месяца назад +22

    Her husband is such a resolved leader, he shows some real groundedness balance and relaxed in his self that I don’t see in most people.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 4 месяца назад +635

    What Grandma said TOOK MY BREATH AWAY! 🥺🥰❤🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @beesknees213
      @beesknees213 4 месяца назад +33

      I literally threw my phone across my bed at what Granny said. Dear Jesus..."the rest of your LIFE!!"

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 4 месяца назад +5

      God sent my minister to tell me, take this one seriously!!! 17 years different....

    • @thessysasa
      @thessysasa 4 месяца назад +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @yonetteoneal5221
      @yonetteoneal5221 4 месяца назад +2

      Grandma was my country lady big up GUYANA

    • @lindaadams444
      @lindaadams444 4 месяца назад +10

      It's beautiful when you have seasoned individuals in your life with that discerning spirit that can speak into your life! I didn't have that coming up so I pray to be that seasoned discerned person to my village!

  • @browngirl2533
    @browngirl2533 4 месяца назад +319

    Aww, this is the first time I'm seeing Jerry Shirer, his presence fills the room with love submission and authority, you can see his heart is after Christ, no wonder Priscilla is free to share Christ in such a powerful way, she has a "godly man" at home, they shared so much wisdom and laughter, this is my favorite! Thank you having them Laterras, beautiful. #Couple Goals
    Whew... Jerry say, "once a woman knows that, she's more important than you, she doesn't have a problem submitting because she knows she will always be the priority" Jerry, you betta SPEAK!! 🗣
    And this is a MAN that grew up without a Father!! No Excuses!!

    • @norahmusinguzi8817
      @norahmusinguzi8817 4 месяца назад

      Am really humbled

    • @Fruit17-ip4vl
      @Fruit17-ip4vl 3 месяца назад +2

      This is such a beautiful couple! 😎❤️Pricilla is so beautiful, intelligent and she loves her husband very much! He is an honorable man! Lois Evans is smiling right now! ❤️😎When you put God first, he will order your steps in the right direction! This is the way it is supposed to be done! Jerry Shirer did it the right way! My husband went to my Dad and asked for permission to marry me! 31 years later we are still together! I want to see this movie with Pricilla in it and my 90 year old Mom wants to go as well! Great interview! 😎😎😎👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @helenbwesigye6075
      @helenbwesigye6075 Месяц назад +1

      True

  • @brendamoss4576
    @brendamoss4576 4 месяца назад +405

    The shade that your husband provides is unmatched

    • @robynlevel925
      @robynlevel925 4 месяца назад +11

      The first time that I’ve ever considered a “shady” brother!!

    • @PRTEEGRL
      @PRTEEGRL 4 месяца назад +7

      This comment should be pinned!!! Awesome!

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots 4 месяца назад +6

      This is the second time I watch something today that’s making this very point and I think the Lord wants us to really rest 🥹

    • @courageoustracian3741
      @courageoustracian3741 4 месяца назад

      ​so true

    • @aprilfragoza6447
      @aprilfragoza6447 4 месяца назад

      I hope I'm not being out of order and laughing, but at section 57:32 when brother Jerry yelled " he said cut !!!"cracked me up...that brother was serious and that paused look 🤨was priceless...😂😂😂😂

  • @CherryeBess
    @CherryeBess 4 месяца назад +259

    I met my husband at his aunts funeral at my church in Florida. I was a member and the Director of Music for this church. His Mothers family were members of this church but I had never met him until his Mothers sister died. He was not a church going person. He said he heard the voice of God tell him I would be his wife, when he first saw me at the funeral. And he said he told God, "Oh he'll no, not this marriage shit again. I am not marrying anybody." However, his actions were not that. I was dating someone else who was a church man. He had a great job, and I loved him very much. We were talking about marriage. But James got all up in that thing and blew it out of the waters. My life improved just from getting to know him becuz he called so much and made me laugh, made my stress relief, and he cooked like a chef. My dad was ill and he came over everyday after hisnwork and cared for my dad. My dad got well in 3 days, no lie. Our house felt like.love when James was there. He was calm, quiet, he smiled alot. He did not fuss or argue. He just cooked. He was a great love that I had not known. We have 6 adult children 20 grands, 3 great grands. He is in heaven now due to covid-19. (He was a nurse, and a former Sgt. US Army, basketball star and sport fan). Great reader of the Bible. He also read all of T. D. JAKES books, Joel Noel, and another guy and wanted to talk about it. Everytime he read a book or 2, we had another baby. We were comfortable with each other with the good, the bad and the ugly, we loved each other regardless. And both of our lives improved and progressed. 😊 RIP Sgt. James Branch, Sr.

    • @diandrabri
      @diandrabri 4 месяца назад +8

      Beautiful story thanks for sharing ❤

    • @frem7
      @frem7 4 месяца назад +4

      Thanks for sharing this with us.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 4 месяца назад +3

      Sorry

    • @geneholmes4401
      @geneholmes4401 4 месяца назад +7

      @@CherryeBess Sorry for your loss. I felt the love you all gave each other reading your story.

    • @angelagriffin6125
      @angelagriffin6125 4 месяца назад

      ❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

  • @missionswithserena
    @missionswithserena 4 месяца назад +46

    Having a husband that submits to authority is EVERYTHING! I thank God for the Father figures in my man's life 🙌❤️‍🔥 beautiful episode! I love this family ❤

  • @PRTEEGRL
    @PRTEEGRL 4 месяца назад +588

    LATERRAS!!! You have Priscilla AND Jerry on here!?!?!?!? I'm getting fired because I'm watching at work, ON MY WORK COMPUTER!!! Closing my door now. Putting an appointment on my Teams schedule so I'm not distracted. LOLOL. Can't wait to watch!!! I RESPECT Priscilla and her family so much.

    • @SRStephens1913
      @SRStephens1913 4 месяца назад +36

      Me too! I am just smiling at the computer and I just said "I need to close my door" LOL

    • @sharonibironke2163
      @sharonibironke2163 4 месяца назад +16

      Girrrrl! 😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  4 месяца назад +66

      You just made me burst out laughing!!!!

    • @jladylove1
      @jladylove1 4 месяца назад +20

      I'm watching at work also and on my work computer!!! LOL It's a good thing I'm the Only One here in the office today. This is a blessing to me

    • @crystalroget4649
      @crystalroget4649 4 месяца назад +10

      Me too! Watching at work now . . . Shhh

  • @LaToya_here
    @LaToya_here 4 месяца назад +346

    The integrity of the film makers… directing in SUCH A WAY to make sure temptation had no place on set, honoring the spouses, honoring GOD! YOOOO😭😭😭Beautiful, BEAUTIFUL!!🙌🏽…
    THIS WHOLE INTERVIEW HAS MY EYES LEAKING!!!

    • @therachelexchange
      @therachelexchange 4 месяца назад +11

      I thought that was amazing! Just WoW! ❤

    • @KerryRussell-ep4dd
      @KerryRussell-ep4dd 4 месяца назад +6

      Yess my eyes teared up a few times!! I started speaking in tongues when Jerry spoke about submission!!!!!!! powerful!!!!

    • @laverneearl4622
      @laverneearl4622 4 месяца назад +2

      What an impactful experience this was. Praise God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @makiebahatton2628
      @makiebahatton2628 4 месяца назад +1

      Isn't that Phenomenal!?!

    • @opaleyeruth4257
      @opaleyeruth4257 4 месяца назад +2

      This part got me wowed

  • @sandranartey2646
    @sandranartey2646 4 месяца назад +125

    Glad Priscilla shared about how the Kendrick brothers care about the lives of the actors and actresses and their spouses. May GOD Bless them all.

  • @emilyomondi9247
    @emilyomondi9247 4 месяца назад +21

    Jerry is for real a cover to Pastor Priscilla. He's such a humble servant of God and his household. This podcast is a special one to me. I love this couple alot.

  • @IAmTinaCampbell
    @IAmTinaCampbell 3 месяца назад +8

    He's like shade for me. Why would I run from that??? Priscillaaaaa💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @billiechildress5731
    @billiechildress5731 4 месяца назад +110

    Jerry is definitely a staple for the young black man of today. These two together are an example of what you can do with Christ in the Marriage. Real people letting God make them successful in life marriage and ministry.

  • @anitapatterson5813
    @anitapatterson5813 4 месяца назад +739

    What manner of man is this? God will bless us with the right spouse. Hang in there ladies. Hang in there. ❤️🙌🏾

    • @msbookiebb
      @msbookiebb 4 месяца назад +10

      Amen! I receive it.

    • @abaxter0326
      @abaxter0326 4 месяца назад +4

      Amen!!!

    • @64ElisabethGermeus
      @64ElisabethGermeus 4 месяца назад +5

      @@anitapatterson5813 Amen! I receive it.

    • @ruphenamiller
      @ruphenamiller 4 месяца назад +3

      Amen... I am here Lord❤

    • @sapalokalembe9254
      @sapalokalembe9254 4 месяца назад +26

      You have to work on yourself first to attract the right man. When you are still single ask God to mold and transform you so that you can attract the right person. Sometimes women/men don't find the right person because God says if I give a good woman/man to this lady/man with a bad heart the other party will suffer. You have to be willing to be a good wife/husband for God to give you a right person. God sees our hearts.

  • @ayannarojas3973
    @ayannarojas3973 4 месяца назад +151

    Please bring them on again for PART 2...
    The world needs this REAL LIFE example on the way Gid has designed marriage to be. Men aren't asking the dad's permission anymore. The moms and dad's are finding out at the same time he (or in this CRAZY world she pops the question to the guy).
    THANK YOU, they are a breath of fresh air

  • @mosesiraguha3189
    @mosesiraguha3189 3 месяца назад +14

    Wow!! Wow!! such a profound statement, " I married her but made a covenant with God".

  • @MedMicroBioMe
    @MedMicroBioMe 2 месяца назад +10

    “I married her, but I made a covenant with God.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Mzzg
    @Mzzg 4 месяца назад +249

    Once a women knows that she is more important than you, she does not have a problem submitting! You betta preach/teach!🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @L4A1D1Y
      @L4A1D1Y 4 месяца назад +1

      That hit different!! Such wisdom!🔥🔥

  • @ta-shasherm3302
    @ta-shasherm3302 4 месяца назад +123

    This was an amazing interview. "We married each other, but I made a covenant with God." Awesome, couple.

  • @Marysbraider
    @Marysbraider 4 месяца назад +135

    Her husband is DEFINITION of humility. If a MAN can take what may look like low blows to his ego, it is called humility. It will open your eyes to a positive out of the situation.

  • @TreneaSays
    @TreneaSays 4 месяца назад +20

    This was hands down your best interview. Thank you for all the gems I extracted from their experience.

  • @missboateng
    @missboateng 4 месяца назад +7

    This episode just blessed me. I have watched it over and over again. Mr. Shirer has alot of wisdom to share. This is what we call KINDGOM MARRIAGE. This epsiode was therapeutic i could not believe it ended. Please we want PART 2 of this. Thank you Uncle Laterras. You are a blessing to our generation.

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 4 месяца назад +245

    The Shirers are dropping so many wisdom nuggets! This episode is golden! I love Priscilla Shirer! She’s an anointed and talented woman of God and actor! I love me some War Room! She is a definitely a woman of strength and a prayer warrior in that movie! Laterras, you’re knocking these podcasts out the park! Your podcast ministry is LIT 🔥! God is definitely with you sir! 🙏🏾 Keep these podcasts coming. I’m learning so much and taking notes 📝 along the way! God bless you and your podcast ministry!

    • @tshidithebehli1546
      @tshidithebehli1546 4 месяца назад +6

      It will be the first full episode I watch

    • @eebz5
      @eebz5 4 месяца назад

      ​@tshidithebehli1546 go back and watch ALL of his episodes. There are so many gems.

  • @everythingalyb
    @everythingalyb 4 месяца назад +83

    47:09 “I married her, but I made a covenant with God.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @OnlinewithMathuto
    @OnlinewithMathuto 4 месяца назад +68

    Jerry's integrity is on another level!

  • @NiNi-fp8zc
    @NiNi-fp8zc 4 месяца назад +15

    The covering/tree analogy in the first 5 mins has me in tears. Then when Jerry said I married her but I made a covenant with GOD 😮‍💨 so many gems in this episode it must be rewatched!

  • @douglasbennett9044
    @douglasbennett9044 4 месяца назад +5

    I always liked Priscilla, but it’s nice to get to know her husband now. God bless him. God continue to keep them both! This is wonderful!

  • @janashford7916
    @janashford7916 4 месяца назад +65

    This is a first for me. I do not post comments. Jerry made the statement 'God does not call the equip. He equipped the call.' was everything to me. I texted that statement out to over 50 of my friends and they are replying how much that statement was right on time and really blessed them. Thank you for what you do. Have an amazing day

  • @denicakouame3759
    @denicakouame3759 4 месяца назад +73

    Powerful episode. Glad to see Priscilla’s Guyanese tradition honored as well. In Guyanese tradition, before a man proposes, he writes a letter to the woman’s family asking for their blessing. This gesture of respect and love reflects the importance of family bonds and cultural values. By putting his intentions in writing, the man honors the family’s role in the woman’s life and lays a strong foundation for their future together.

    • @yardleymellon
      @yardleymellon 4 месяца назад +1

      I love this

    • @hambeldishena193
      @hambeldishena193 3 месяца назад

      @denicakoume3759, in 🇳🇦 where I come from,that’s what we do too.

  • @reneanorman
    @reneanorman 4 месяца назад +120

    This episode. Idk why but I cried. So many gems to take away. One thing I noticed is that they are surrounded with Godly ppl. Ppl of wisdom. Ppl who poured into them. I was praying this week... I don't see this and I asked God are there ppl who will support and guide me without having an agenda or who is jealous. In the middle of this episode. The Holy Spirit just started talking to me.I had to pause and praise him. I said I surrender it all to you. Then I started to watch it again. This almost took me out because that's when she started talking about surrender. As I was typing this a message appeared on my phone saying God sees you.🙌🏽🙌🏽 We serve an awesome God. I can't make this up. 😢😢

    • @toshacobb4476
      @toshacobb4476 4 месяца назад +2

      I agree..Alot of Marriages could've already been together had it not been for jealously and lying tongues been the main thing

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul 4 месяца назад +2

      Priscilla talking about her film choices made me think about Denzel Washington and his wife. He hasn't done a romantic role in decades. It seems as he's gotten closer to the Lord, he's chosen different types of roles. 🙂

  • @masonartistry5956
    @masonartistry5956 4 месяца назад +13

    Brother Jerry, thank you for sharing Priscilla with us!!!

  • @clarity32123
    @clarity32123 4 месяца назад +9

    These conversations are SO important and should be required watching (as opposed to reading) for anyone contemplating a serious relationship. Thank you and abundant blessings!

  • @tarinatyson1294
    @tarinatyson1294 4 месяца назад +109

    I think this podcast will be a real game changer for those who are and are seeking marriage. I love her husband's submission and leadership and how she submits while living her calling. This is a beautiful display of a man and woman becoming one. Priscilla and Jerry are doing things the way God ordained it. Thanks again LW💕

  • @deonclaxton4638
    @deonclaxton4638 4 месяца назад +44

    You know what… Aunty Cilla and Uncle Jerry needs to tag team more… also this was one of the most impactful podcast on this channel.

  • @IAMQUEENMagazine
    @IAMQUEENMagazine 4 месяца назад +96

    This was one of the richest episodes ever. This couple is anointed for the Kingdom of God. Pricilla is a powerful woman of God and her husband, wow, I thank God for them both. A man who submits under authority is a game changer for the family and in extension the world. True godly accountability makes submission easy. Submission, godly submission is automatic when the head is submitted to God and an earthly representative of God. We can not govern ourselves because our perspectives are limited. This podcast is God sent.

  • @Superiguzman
    @Superiguzman 4 месяца назад +28

    I get emotional hearing every testimony on your podcast but this one had me crying the entire episode.
    I have raised my 3 children with no father figure and hearing him speak about his mom brought me to tears. I did the best I could to raise my boys right. Taught them to love God first.
    I pray for my children to break the curse of divorce and find a wonderful partner.
    I pray the lord will allow me to experience true love like this one day.
    Thank you for having them on your podcast, it blessed me and gave me hope ❤️

    • @rochelle5503
      @rochelle5503 4 месяца назад +4

      May God bless your children tremendously, and may the desires of your heart align with His will, in Jesus name 🙏🏾

  • @lediawhiteside9964
    @lediawhiteside9964 4 месяца назад +6

    An Episode that can be watched over and over again. “Wisdom for their marriage “. “The Counter Balance”, “If that brother is not submitted to someone you can see “. I have been Blessed. Thanks for sharing this. Blessings

  • @deg257
    @deg257 4 месяца назад +82

    “Put it in writing” gave me chills… accountability is needed and it’s what’s missing in this world💙🙏🏽
    If you have a great dad cherish it because what’s little for you is a big thing for some of us who didn’t have fathers/covering.
    This episode was amazing❤

    • @BaileBaloyi
      @BaileBaloyi 4 месяца назад +3

      In most African countries that's the tradition

  • @Treebee6009
    @Treebee6009 4 месяца назад +66

    Jerry's strong, masculine, but kind spirit is what many Christian women desire. I teach English at a graduate university for national and international military officers. Honestly, I think God moved me there to help keep hope alive. These men have come under authority for half their lives. Yet, they lead with such authority, gentleness, and kindness. I once dropped a pen while teaching, and three men from three different countries jumped out of their seats to pick it up. Chyle...

    • @Ejeomah
      @Ejeomah 4 месяца назад +4

      Aww 😊

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 4 месяца назад +95

    This was soo good. I cried yall lol. I also paused and said a prayer about God sending me a proactively thoughtful man when Priscilla spoke about the values that she didn't even think to pray about. That's a character trait I've never prayed about and is so needed in a union. The importance of having elderly counsel, accountability partners, etc.
    I hope Jerry disciples Laterras as well. The importance of strong men holding one another down is so good.
    To the Shirers, yall are a tremendous blessing to us all. This was so good. It's one of my favorite episodes so far. You all were LIT in all sense of the words. ❤🎉

    • @MSBJS2233
      @MSBJS2233 4 месяца назад +2

      I had to pause it, too, and pray because I was crying.

  • @carolkiki5379
    @carolkiki5379 3 месяца назад +5

    His posture from beggining to the end hasn't changed. What a gentleman and he speaks wisdom . Truely a mentor

  • @ALMad04
    @ALMad04 4 месяца назад +4

    I saw the intro and immediately tuned in. Bravo Laterrias!!! This is the most I have heard Jerry speak. He really is a blessing. I have been at OCBF almost 28 years and I see why God put them together. Thank you Priscilla and Jerry.

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis 4 месяца назад +60

    🤯🤯🤯 "once a woman knows that she is more important than you, she won't have a problem with submission." A woman has to KNOW that she can trust you, and then she will be GLAD to submit!! Y'all dropping GEMS!!!

  • @cmblessed1877
    @cmblessed1877 4 месяца назад +59

    What i like about this confession is that both have same amount of speaking turns. Man like this exist. Blessing to and for this couple.

  • @marlanawright1211
    @marlanawright1211 4 месяца назад +31

    This was like therapy for me. I stopped this so many times to pray and ask God questions and journal. I really needed to hear this and it really fostered some deep introspection. I really look up to this couple.

  • @reneejones2183
    @reneejones2183 4 месяца назад +12

    I unexpectedly lost my loving husband of 29 yrs 176 days ago. 😢. This interview has so much godly wisdom. I can testify to the truths discussed.

    • @OurBibleTori
      @OurBibleTori 2 месяца назад +1

      Ooh. ...I pray God fills your heart dear sis

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 4 месяца назад +191

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 4 месяца назад

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 4 месяца назад +1

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 4 месяца назад

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 4 месяца назад

      You wont regret it

    • @alukoolubunmi4119
      @alukoolubunmi4119 4 месяца назад +6

      There are universal principles to make all marriage work from Christianity perspective. Submitting to the authority of the word of God. Like a husband having an authority he's submitted to. Many times people don't know there are many struggles that could have been avoided if they realize that. You don't have to learn everything by experience. You can learn by examplars. Examples of good marriages how some things were well handled. You will actually be going farther in life with this.

  • @Jurnee2Peace
    @Jurnee2Peace 4 месяца назад +220

    I was first introduced to Priscilla Shirer in the " War Room". I later learned that she is the daughter of Pastor Evans. I read her book "Discerning the Voice of God" for a Life Group.

    • @almmason7
      @almmason7 4 месяца назад +5

      I read her book, "A Jewel In His Crown" in college back in 2002-2004. It was very good!❤ I'm going to have to reread it.😅

    • @RaveB.
      @RaveB. 4 месяца назад +1

      Omg! Literally same.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 4 месяца назад

      Kendra G, ET, and now this man you everywhere. lol. ET coming up soon. lol.

    • @tabs-k
      @tabs-k 4 месяца назад

      😊❤❤q❤😊❤❤❤q❤❤❤q11❤❤​@@almmason7

    • @deirdrelmclaughlin9598
      @deirdrelmclaughlin9598 4 месяца назад +2

      She is so rich in the Word and living.

  • @georgianacollington2104
    @georgianacollington2104 4 месяца назад +44

    This was a phenomenal interview. This is the first time I've heard Jerry Shirer speak this much and what amazing gems he dropped. “I made a covenant to God, but I married her.” “The need for discipleship amongst men.” Mentorship, submission to God, man and each other. It is a testament to God, yes, because we need to hear all that he had to say… Thank you Laterras

  • @hopemcintosh6998
    @hopemcintosh6998 4 месяца назад +67

    I literally didn't want this to end!❤ If God has someone for me, I trust Him to give me His divine best for my life. Even if He doesn't, I can see that God is able and that God still has wonderful men for His daughters. God is wise enough not to give you anything before you are ready❤❤❤

  • @LifeintentionswithKamellen
    @LifeintentionswithKamellen 4 месяца назад +10

    The chills I got when they spoke about War Room! Knowing that the directors warned them about the attack to come on their marriage! Oh! The way Jerry couldn't watch his wife be a wife to another person....Lord cover them they are a blessed union! Thank you Mr. Whitfield! #ministry

  • @ChristianJaLon
    @ChristianJaLon 2 месяца назад

    Oh my goodness!! They talked about things that I, myself, have standards of, already. This whole conversation was beautiful, affirming, honest, confirming. I paused it, and prayed, got teary eyed. I loved this!!!

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis 4 месяца назад +50

    My dad did this for my husband (and my sister's husband)!! He actually made them complete several assignments also... what a legacy!!! I love the Evans family!!!

  • @lesleyaddison1999
    @lesleyaddison1999 4 месяца назад +49

    I cried so much during this episode. I realized that i hadn't fully surrendered every part of me that I was holding back and fully trust God in all areas of my life. Love, finances, and even in the grief of losing my sister. I give it all over. I know God has me. ❤

  • @markelianorris4209
    @markelianorris4209 4 месяца назад +70

    These panelists and this podcast are destined for greatness! 🤞🏾💪🏾

    • @mikag1137
      @mikag1137 4 месяца назад +1

      Interestingly enough you mentioned! " Their is Certainly a Shift as The Dear Future Wifey podcast is Closing out its Season it also feels it's A Prelude to Upcoming Season of Elevation Revelation of God's first Command. The Fulfillment of Love

  • @thyrajoseph2720
    @thyrajoseph2720 2 месяца назад +1

    This podcast just keeps getting better! Jerry and Priscilla were so down to earth and open. I so appreciate them sharing the real struggles they faced in their marriage. I'm sure people think there's no way Tony Evans daughter, the woman known for being a renowned speaker of the gospel, would have problems in her marriage. But as children of God, we know that the devil has no favorites! I picked up so many gems from this interview. Laterras, God has surrounded you with so many men of valor! Whenever you're ready to fully let go, you will have plenty holding your hands up! I loved your letter. Just beautiful ❤

  • @tracycooper9026
    @tracycooper9026 4 месяца назад +4

    This interview is priceless! I remember Priscilla sharing how she and Jerry got together in her book, A Jewel in His Crown. This very book helped me in my own singleness journey. Priscilla thank you for your transparency in sharing your hiccups, failed relationships and how God used them all to prepare you for Jerry.

  • @lolao4867
    @lolao4867 4 месяца назад +58

    58:18 "you can say anything to a person, but until they experience it. Its totally different." So true... so so true.

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 4 месяца назад

      Very very true

    • @mwright0428
      @mwright0428 4 месяца назад

      Even the way he tied the physicality of Jesus. So powerful and I never thought of it that way.

  • @shawna7227
    @shawna7227 4 месяца назад +37

    This literally happened to me. God gave me a heart for my husband. I did not see it though he was handsome. I just had someone else in mind. God changed my heart and I’ve never known love like I have with my husband. ❤️‍🔥

  • @antoinycemathis
    @antoinycemathis 4 месяца назад +26

    I love Jerry's confidence in the position God has graced him for!! The love, protection, and support he provides for his wife is remarkable!! I love Priscilla's confidence to find security in her husband and the grace to submit to him also!!

  • @OnyejelemAmarachi
    @OnyejelemAmarachi 4 месяца назад +6

    I first saw Priscilla and thought to download the video to watch later, because i never get to miss any of her content that come on my RUclips feed, but seeing Jerry. I paused everything to LISTEN
    This is a power couple!❤
    So beautiful.
    Please do write a book on PARENTING.

  • @oilinmylamp
    @oilinmylamp 25 дней назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed hearing from Mr. Shirer. What an outstanding individual. And then hearing he was raised in a single parent household and chose to be different, is astounding! So beautiful. I feel like I don’t have the words to express just what a treasure this interview is. So full of golden nuggets of wisdom. Absolutely loved this. I already loved Miss Priscilla. I’m thoroughly blown away by all that Mr. Shirer shared with us. 🙌🏻🔥🙌🏻

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 4 месяца назад +85

    I can tell that Jerry does Not play about Priscilla! This man does Not want anything to get in between his marital relationship and family. I Love That❤

  • @lvc9835
    @lvc9835 4 месяца назад +24

    The way the Kendrick Bros. guided War Room, which by the way I absolutely LOVE and was introduced to Priscilla through, is awesome. Being meticulous, and intentional with the actors/actresses marriage is a ministry in itself. It's a God Thing. That's why War Room was so good.
    Also, many men won't submit to anyone, that's the problem.
    Great interview!
    BTW-Dear Future Wifey is a beautiful ministry as well.
    Kudos to you and keep the hits coming!

  • @mechellemoore9446
    @mechellemoore9446 4 месяца назад +23

    Mr. Jerry Shirer. On the couch. In person. Giving us the gems. I picked up every one that he dropped. Laterras, booooy the prayers you & your team have sent up for the guest to be on this show. I am toooo excited to see what God has next for you, not this podcast but for YOU!!!! Thank you for your obedience & transparency.

  • @joymokhutsane9358
    @joymokhutsane9358 4 месяца назад +2

    What a stunningly great episode. I had to stop and pray a few times. I will be rewatching this episode.

  • @delightnegedu7654
    @delightnegedu7654 4 месяца назад +4

    I love how the host is not afraid to be silent in the deep moments to allow the message sink.
    Beautiful episode

  • @KanitaRutley
    @KanitaRutley 4 месяца назад +39

    LOVE the Shirers. So many nuggets of wisdom shared. Priscilla and I had so many similarities that gave me a good chuckle. I married a super-independent husband who washes his own clothes and irons his own suits (better than I do, lol); and he doesn't always need me to make his lunch. Yet he loves that I am highly domestic and love cooking, cleaning, and creating a loving home for our family. I also saw my husband's processing as withdrawal and would make matters worse feeling we needed to settle disagreements in that moment. So grateful to be learning these valuable lessons early on from seasoned couples. Celebrating 3 years this month ❤

    • @missboateng
      @missboateng 4 месяца назад

      So refreshing to read Kanita. Congratulations to you guys. I learned alot from your episode here too.

  • @chrysteldavis6221
    @chrysteldavis6221 4 месяца назад +21

    This has absolutely has been my favorite episode thus far, as a 47 year old single woman for 12 years... This has been very uplifting & and hopeful for us who have not been sent out kings... And no shade to any of the other episodes but this hit my heart. Thank you

  • @CrystalTutton
    @CrystalTutton 4 месяца назад +24

    MAN! Watching this episode has increased my love and respect for Priscilla Shirer and her family! #MarriageGoals ❤

  • @shhs8815
    @shhs8815 4 месяца назад +6

    Love how they sacrificed vulnerability sharing the difficult times to help someone else. Thank you!

  • @mrsjhayes5923
    @mrsjhayes5923 4 месяца назад +2

    I thoroughly enjoyed this Episode! I believe this is one of the best. It was Jerry's transparency while still remaining the strong Husband and Father figure for me! The selflessness of saying "but this makes my Wife happy" and Priscilla's being willing to sacrifice it all. I believe her humble submission is what allowed God to soften her Husband's heart. This was BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @shaakirasolomon8026
    @shaakirasolomon8026 4 месяца назад +19

    Beautiful, wholesome, mature couple. This is the type of dialogue by wise folk, in tone and clear mind, that many try and emulate but this is the real deal.
    Great interview! I love that Laterras is always laughing and finding the humor in everything. I also love that he doesn't shy away in asking the pressing questions, the questions that bring greater understanding. I love that!
    This interview has truly blessed me, it's filled with so many gems:
    "Once a woman knows that she is more important than you, she doesn't have a problem submitting because she knows she will always be a priority, even over yourself." Ding Ding!
    "If that brother is not submitting to authority that you can see, that is tangible, healthy, spiritual authority, and he thinks he can do everything on his own and he's just wise enough and smart - think very carefully about whether that is the person you want to be submitting to in your life."
    "Expectations are usually unrealistic because they are in your imagination and you don't realize that you are holding people captive to a script that they did not agree to."
    "There's always a simple solution if you want it and want to find it but if you want to make a big deal out of it, you can."
    "If you realize there is no out, you're going to figure out how to work it out".
    "Whenever you're doing something for the LORD, he (the enemy) is going to attack that".
    "Maybe that's why you should consider it and think about it because you can't do it".
    "God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the called."
    The LORD, submission and sacrifice in a relationship is imperative.
    My LORD is too magnificent, the circle moment of God changing Jerry's heart about film to him being in front of the camera, playing the role of his older brother who discipled him and his son playing the young Jerry. Generational blessings! Only GOD. Sooo beautiful!
    Loved how Laterras sought Jerry's covering, love, love, love ! Great choice! Mighty men of valor!
    New Sub!

  • @Luvisbeautiful2
    @Luvisbeautiful2 4 месяца назад +25

    This episode touched me so much. I already loved Priscilla and see her as my aunty. But hearing her husband Jerry speak and see his posture as a follower of Lord gives me hope for the future of Christian men. So beautiful ❤

  • @robenajefferson9447
    @robenajefferson9447 4 месяца назад +35

    This is one of THE best podcasts to date. Their honesty and authenticity were profound, encouraging, and inspiring. Thanks Latrius ❤️

  • @ritahdedeng6889
    @ritahdedeng6889 4 месяца назад +18

    Jerry is a definition of a gentleman

  • @fredagidron
    @fredagidron 4 месяца назад +1

    This was indeed a Master Class; magnificently and superbly done. It was soooooo rich with honesty, it makes me want to watch the whole thing all over again - and I will! The movie isn’t coming fast enough. I will definitely be there to watch it.
    Discipleship like many things in the church is waning and this is such a beautiful way to bring it and its importance to the forefront of the black culture and family. THANK YOU to all 3 of you.
    This podcast is soo very much needed for young adults contemplating marriage and for the more mature married couples as well; one that EVERYONE can benefit from. What a blessing!!!!
    THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!🙏🏾

  • @DeJureAfrikan
    @DeJureAfrikan 4 месяца назад +18

    I laughed. I cried. More importantly, I learned so much from their union. Thank you All for this Blessing!🙏🏾

  • @shirleydavis5060
    @shirleydavis5060 4 месяца назад +30

    The 32 min mark is what you need to write down and never forget while in the dating streets BECAUSE IT IS EVERYTHING that will keep ANY AND EVERY marriage going. ❤🎉

  • @monicalouis8333
    @monicalouis8333 4 месяца назад +11

    I am in tears. What a beautiful couple! Jerry is so powerful in that his wife can be herself and he can be himself and they are not in competition with each other. He doesn’t feel like he has to upstage her or get one up on her. He knows who he is and who he has in his life. So many marriages are not like this!!!

  • @TakwiriraRinomhota
    @TakwiriraRinomhota 4 месяца назад +5

    “Being the leader means that everyone is in a good situation, even more than me”

  • @jacquiejohnson9871
    @jacquiejohnson9871 4 месяца назад +4

    This man right here displays true leadership, servanthood, and love. I agree he needs to conduct sessions to men. I love Priscilla and it is great to see what God is doing thru her ministry.