When I started dating this chick, she told me that she had her ex still live with her for the dogs sake. But as soon as I got discarded, she went straight back to him. And every day I was friendzoned she would just keep talking shit about him. 😂
I cut ties and set firm boundaries with my ex. Broke my trauma bond! We do have two sons together, but they are adults. He has called me twice in the last couple of months about the alimony deposit. I text back. Moving on was the best medicine. I will not go back into that toxicity on any level. Namaste’ 🐔
You hit this one right on Sara(h)sp. Over six mos. now. Wasn't counting just came to me. Six mos.is the magic number. Thank you so much for helping through difficult times and good luck to you as well.
0 seconds ago I v read one of the most phenomenal books ever written called Karamazov Brothers by Dostoyevsky - it’s sooo deep and fascinating. So one heroine self righteously decided to be loyal to another man even after he was going to marry other woman and fuck around. Her motive was pride, caprice and desire to be morally higher. Honestly women are not any saintly when they decide to stay loyal after relationship is over. Highly recommend that world renowned classic Karamazov Brothers. Brilliant and intense reading.
A narcissist loves to inspire hope. « I don’t know if I told you but I regret. » « you are the best person I had » yeaah right. I still resisted the urged to go back. I faced my internal chaos instead. And I went on building a new life.
*I was best man at my best friend's wedding. But before I could tell him about her opening their front door for me with her bathrobe wide open she divorced him and moved in with a dude where she worked. So he had to sell their house cars furniture but she ended up with their new ski boat. Years later whenever they crashed it or it just needed tuned up he'd run right over and do it for her. Loaned her money too. Man that musta been a Heather Brooke class spell she put on him.*
I’m married now and very much moved on from my ex it’s been almost 5 years he still views my LinkedIn, reaches out acting like we’re long time friends, asking to go get beers with my husband next time we’re in town not to mention he’s married now. He never let go it’s insane and I see he does the same things to his other exs. I don’t respond but it’s so bizarre how he holds on and really sad.
I, personally(and this is not meant to assert control over you-I know that can't happen), don't believe in being friends after breakup or marriage. Why would you? NaMaStE.
Rosters are used by people that need validation from others; low self esteem. You will never be able to connect with one person on a deeper level if you are shallow with everyone. What people should be doing is dating one person at a time while having a full life of their own. That doesn't mean you're planning a wedding and only thinking about this one person. Keep your heart safe till you see consistent healthy behavior. If you're dating a toxic person, have to tools to leave and never look back. We show ourselves pretty quick. You just have to pay attention.
You must break the “shared fantasy” in order to be free. -Sam vaknin
Omg this is exactly how I feel can’t wait to see what you say
When I started dating this chick, she told me that she had her ex still live with her for the dogs sake. But as soon as I got discarded, she went straight back to him. And every day I was friendzoned she would just keep talking shit about him. 😂
Well her stories about him probably a lot to learn from about thinking patterns of such people
Patterns >actions>words
I cut ties and set firm boundaries with my ex. Broke my trauma bond! We do have two sons together, but they are adults. He has called me twice in the last couple of months about the alimony deposit. I text back. Moving on was the best medicine. I will not go back into that toxicity on any level. Namaste’ 🐔
You hit this one right on Sara(h)sp. Over six mos. now. Wasn't counting just came to me. Six mos.is the magic number. Thank you so much for helping through difficult times and good luck to you as well.
You're Welcome. 🎉 And Thank You!
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I v read one of the most phenomenal books ever written called Karamazov Brothers by Dostoyevsky - it’s sooo deep and fascinating. So one heroine self righteously decided to be loyal to another man even after he was going to marry other woman and fuck around. Her motive was pride, caprice and desire to be morally higher. Honestly women are not any saintly when they decide to stay loyal after relationship is over. Highly recommend that world renowned classic Karamazov Brothers. Brilliant and intense reading.
A narcissist loves to inspire hope. « I don’t know if I told you but I regret. » « you are the best person I had » yeaah right. I still resisted the urged to go back. I faced my internal chaos instead. And I went on building a new life.
*I was best man at my best friend's wedding. But before I could tell him about her opening their front door for me with her bathrobe wide open she divorced him and moved in with a dude where she worked. So he had to sell their house cars furniture but she ended up with their new ski boat. Years later whenever they crashed it or it just needed tuned up he'd run right over and do it for her. Loaned her money too. Man that musta been a Heather Brooke class spell she put on him.*
It's his own childhood trauma of needing to be loved (through his acts of service).
@@cLuStErBMiLkShAkEtrauma bond, people pleasing, nice guy syndrome
@@cLuStErBMiLkShAkEwe are worthy regardless of anyone else’s opinion
"I can homosexual anyone" shirt when
I’m married now and very much moved on from my ex it’s been almost 5 years he still views my LinkedIn, reaches out acting like we’re long time friends, asking to go get beers with my husband next time we’re in town not to mention he’s married now. He never let go it’s insane and I see he does the same things to his other exs. I don’t respond but it’s so bizarre how he holds on and really sad.
This part 💯✅
I, personally(and this is not meant to assert control over you-I know that can't happen), don't believe in being friends after breakup or marriage. Why would you? NaMaStE.
Realest. 🏆✨️
Dating coaches on RUclips say that all the time and tell people to get rosters. I’m sure most of them have a bit of narcissism.
Rosters are used by people that need validation from others; low self esteem. You will never be able to connect with one person on a deeper level if you are shallow with everyone. What people should be doing is dating one person at a time while having a full life of their own. That doesn't mean you're planning a wedding and only thinking about this one person. Keep your heart safe till you see consistent healthy behavior. If you're dating a toxic person, have to tools to leave and never look back. We show ourselves pretty quick. You just have to pay attention.
Great words of advice… thank you for taking the time to articulate it!
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Wow! Too close to home this video. Thank you Sara. P.S. I still want to marry you. 😘
@@LuisRamirez-gc4xh Don’t threaten me, Bro. Lol
You’re so toxic lmfao