"We Attract People Based on Psychological Wounds" #1 Neuroscientist Explains How to Manifest Love!

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  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +557

    Thanks to Tara for sharing her wisdom with us! Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share the biggest moment for you. And make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again RUclips.com/lewishowes

    • @cheerbowl13
      @cheerbowl13 6 месяцев назад +26

      Yes!

    • @thomasthomasphilp4393
      @thomasthomasphilp4393 6 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@cheerbowl13She thinks out of the box, as her origins are from an ancient civilization with rich spiritual wisdom. Lord Buddha was the greatest Indian scientist who knew the human mind at the best. Before him, Hindus developed techniques to understand our minds

    • @thomasthomasphilp4393
      @thomasthomasphilp4393 6 месяцев назад +4

      Very accomplished Indian Classical musicians like Aruna Sairam do practice inside their minds.

    • @thomasthomasphilp4393
      @thomasthomasphilp4393 6 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@cheerbowl13Dr. Tara, Kerala is calling you. She is the cradle of Ayurveda. She has given Calculus to the world. She use to trade spices with almost all ancient civilizations. Her Kalaripayattu was taken by Bodhidharma to develop Kung Fu in China

    • @julznery2289
      @julznery2289 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes. I love most of the episodes you make.

  • @cynthiashouse4631
    @cynthiashouse4631 6 месяцев назад +659

    Biggest takeaway:
    1) We attract people with same stress level and wounding as we are
    2) how to manifest from action board
    3) I need to meet the standard of what I want in a partner
    4) I could have hidden parts of me because my parents didn’t love it (meditation)

    • @MessagesFromAurora
      @MessagesFromAurora 6 месяцев назад +11

      thank you!!

    • @Smile20jshdy
      @Smile20jshdy 6 месяцев назад

      What’s the time stamp for point #1

    • @amirirwan4681
      @amirirwan4681 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@Smile20jshdygu

    • @algerenecobbs3362
      @algerenecobbs3362 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you ​@@danielleroyal2911

    • @freesoul3982
      @freesoul3982 5 месяцев назад +10

      In addition to meditation for the hidden parts, I would suggest looking into shadow work questions. This way we can go deeper. You can't realise what you aren't aware of and shadow work questions can help with that. ❤

  • @danielazdravevastevkovska9114
    @danielazdravevastevkovska9114 6 месяцев назад +730

    Heal yourself first before everything else

    • @mariareznicka9346
      @mariareznicka9346 6 месяцев назад +28

      You are never fully healed 😂

    • @Lukas-ye4wz
      @Lukas-ye4wz 6 месяцев назад +22

      Or learn how to heal in relationship with whomever you are with ;-)

    • @AshleyMadisonsRight
      @AshleyMadisonsRight 6 месяцев назад +29

      I disagree. The key is to do healing things not be healed before everything else. That statement is unachievable and anxiety provoking meant to set people up for failure. So healing takes time doesn’t mean put your life on hold.

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 5 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!

    • @Cafeallday222
      @Cafeallday222 5 месяцев назад +8

      Sometimes you heal by being in a relationship. It’s common for Borderline patients. Experience can be healing and is sometimes necessary.

  • @plottwista
    @plottwista 5 месяцев назад +139

    Dr. Tara Swart articulates her thoughts with exceptional eloquence, and I admire her bravery in addressing topics that might typically be met with skepticism within the scientific community. Her willingness to broach these topics is the true spirit of scientific inquiry, which is fundamentally about posing daring questions and venturing into the realms of the unknown. Thanks to both of you for such a treat.

    • @BlueLu18
      @BlueLu18 3 месяца назад +2

      Fully agree with this

  • @ItsAllGodAnyway
    @ItsAllGodAnyway 6 месяцев назад +627

    This is true… did a lot of meditation and work on myself, and then realized my husband mistreated me. Couldn’t unsee it, so I had to leave.

    • @evka24
      @evka24 6 месяцев назад +30

      Good luck ..you have chosen u❤

    • @mimimiller763
      @mimimiller763 6 месяцев назад +23

      ​@@TravelItaly14if he is safe to be trusted with your son you could share custody or he can have visitation. If he's not safe or abusive or using then your son is better off with a stable mom.

    • @ericaguerrido2005
      @ericaguerrido2005 5 месяцев назад

      Wishing you peace! ​@@TravelItaly14

    • @fortezzasolutions
      @fortezzasolutions 5 месяцев назад +18

      @@TravelItaly14thank you. There are so many options before walking. Yes there are the bad scenarios, but by and large that is not the case. There is a breakdown in the relationship but it isn’t all garbage. As one moves to higher ground, the other will see this and see they have a choice. I wish marriages had a sabbatical period where couples can learn to grow and become whole to help their family.

    • @andrejastinjek
      @andrejastinjek 5 месяцев назад

      I hope you find the strenght to put your wellbeing first. Your son will be much happier with a happy fulfilled mom. And because you deserve to have your romantic life filled with genuine love and proper respect.

  • @peaceofpiety
    @peaceofpiety 6 месяцев назад +394

    We attract those who have the same hurts/hertz; ones who are of the same energetic frequency.
    Sometimes love don't feel like it should;
    it Hz so good!

    • @kujjitafari8509
      @kujjitafari8509 6 месяцев назад +13

      Well the RUclips channel Wholistic, has proven that the most happy and long lasting relationships are between people who have the same or similar frequency. Oftentimes that doesn't happen. I wish it was that easy. We attract people from past lives that we have unfinished business with.

    • @kristahackleylmt2064
      @kristahackleylmt2064 6 месяцев назад +3

      Lewis, I would love to see you interview my Mentor Doc Rod Lyman at The Reiki Academy in Phoenix/Scottsdale. He wears many hats, and is a Medical Intuitve and Reiki Master.
      Thank you for this great content on your show. The Doctor is brilliant! Thank you for all you do, you are helping a lot of people! Keep inspiring us! ❤️ 🙏

    • @rl4488
      @rl4488 6 месяцев назад

      🤯

    • @loopspringsteen1479
      @loopspringsteen1479 6 месяцев назад +6

      This MF Spittin!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @navscheiecoaching7800
      @navscheiecoaching7800 6 месяцев назад +5

      Hurts and HZ (wow!)

  • @anaabreu8289
    @anaabreu8289 6 месяцев назад +32

    I’ve been seeing repeated numbers and hearts everywhere since my mum died and I truly believe that her spirit is around me protecting me.
    Thank you guys for this video, very helpful information to keep believing and growing. I’m very grateful xx

  • @donnalee8778
    @donnalee8778 6 месяцев назад +130

    I love how she is explaining what us woo woo people experience . Grateful

  • @lisa-marieshy9673
    @lisa-marieshy9673 5 месяцев назад +87

    I absolutely love the smell of my husband. He also says my smell is intoxicating lol We've been together almost 18 years. Omg I'm LOVING this episode ❤❤

    • @georgannkingsland767
      @georgannkingsland767 5 месяцев назад

      @@lisa-marieshy9673 ty

    • @georgannkingsland767
      @georgannkingsland767 5 месяцев назад

      @@lisa-marieshy9673 what did you sleep with him the first night..

    • @Irishangel831
      @Irishangel831 4 месяца назад +4

      My hubby and I are quite similar. I love the smell of hubby, especially when he sweats..We've been married 4+ decades

    • @nic3715
      @nic3715 4 месяца назад

      Awwwhhhh beautiful

    • @sridevigowravaram8642
      @sridevigowravaram8642 2 месяца назад

      @@nic3715 very interesting to know this aspect of life.

  • @chelseaharper790
    @chelseaharper790 5 месяцев назад +45

    I am a yoga teacher and honestly I can not pin down just one of my biggest take aways from this. This has made me understand the reason why I love what I do and how it’s all connected. Ancient wisdom is not called ancient wisdom for no reason. And the fact we have someone like Tara also representing and backing it all up with modern science, the gratitude is seeping through me ❤
    Thank you so so much for this podcast! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and thank you so much for listening to your heart and following it regardless. Neuroscience fascinates me so much. Brain heart coherence, mind body connection, combining spirituality with reality, I love it all! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️🤗

  • @quietstorm5292
    @quietstorm5292 6 месяцев назад +77

    Heal first so you can attract joy love according to who you become

  • @ChristianSingles2
    @ChristianSingles2 6 месяцев назад +444

    We attract people based on psychological wounds, in other words we attract people of the same frequency

    • @LeveragedInvesting
      @LeveragedInvesting 6 месяцев назад +33

      I can kind of see that. But the other part is that we eventually leave those people behind when we heal our wounds and they don’t. I can definitely see that.

    • @ChristianSingles2
      @ChristianSingles2 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@LeveragedInvesting true 💯

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 6 месяцев назад +9

      So if a girl is showing interest in me there's a reason we have same frequency?
      Happened to me in the gym ....
      But my confidence is so low I never said "hi"

    • @ChristianSingles2
      @ChristianSingles2 6 месяцев назад

      @@lavatr8322 exactly

    • @Victorygabz
      @Victorygabz 5 месяцев назад +19

      Be the Energy you want to attract 🎉

  • @lorrainedevlin6409
    @lorrainedevlin6409 5 месяцев назад +33

    Peace is everything in life. Drama and argumentative people do my head in. We need to trust what we want is for us no one else. Truth means a lot also.

    • @Jennifer-gr7hn
      @Jennifer-gr7hn Месяц назад

      just ben carful -- drama is often from trauma, and those who want to talk it out, wrk it out, to you who may be avoidant, everything is 'argument' ....dom't lose empathy please

  • @ceceliadavis471
    @ceceliadavis471 6 месяцев назад +68

    Visualizing and hoping for something or someone and then not having the desired outcome, due to the fact you really don't believe you can, due to life experience and the resulting lack of self- confidence.
    A quote from Maya Angelou"Stand up straight and realize who you are, that you tower over your circumstances." These words are very encouraging for anyone.
    As far as who you attract is concerned, I believe hurt people are sometimes attracted to other hurt people without fully realizing the why of the attraction.

  • @Frkpii2
    @Frkpii2 5 месяцев назад +21

    I love what she said about gratitude moving us from cortisol to oxytocin (at 11:10 ish)

  • @s.7948
    @s.7948 6 месяцев назад +57

    This is profound. When i was in a different mental state i attracted the like over the years i have worked on myself and have attracted like minded people. Manifestation is real people.

  • @practicalmama3781
    @practicalmama3781 5 месяцев назад +11

    I love the passion in her voice and eyes - she really loves what she does

  • @lorrainedevlin6409
    @lorrainedevlin6409 5 месяцев назад +14

    I console myself with meditation. It switches off worry ,it rests the brain and rejuvinates it and helps anxiety

  • @passerby6168
    @passerby6168 6 месяцев назад +55

    You also leave people because of your own psychological wounds, not just if you evolve out of them. One of the clues as to which is how you leave them, and if you give them real opportunities to fix, or discuss your point of view. Or whether you lie to and betray them.

    • @KotobukiGirl
      @KotobukiGirl 6 месяцев назад +6

      Well said. I can guess from this statement that you suffered from some abuse. For that reason, not a lot of people will be able to understand or resonate with what you're saying.

    • @passerby6168
      @passerby6168 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@Astral.Artistry We've "all" been there. I'm no young 'un. I would have appreciated such clarity earlier in life. All the best to you.

    • @passerby6168
      @passerby6168 6 месяцев назад

      @@Astral.Artistry It is difficult to know what to say. One does not wish to go hard on another undeservingly. Even so, some hardness might be just what they need to strengthen their resolve. So:
      Learn not to be a doormat without losing who you are, without losing your soul. Remember the words of Jesus - "Love one another as you love yourself". Not more than. Not less than. That is the key. If you enable someone who wishes a person to be a doormat for them, what does that make you? At minimum an accomplice.
      Think of and set up boundaries founded on this principle (loving not more than or less than yourself). And take it from there. You will of course need resilience and courage, because it's easier to be a doormat if your tendency is to be a martyr.
      I bring up Jesus again (since you mentioned martyr) - he was not a willing martyr but willing to do the will of his Father. He asked if this cup (events that were going to take place) could pass (not happen) but that he would do what his Father wanted. This proved he was no masochist or crazy fanatic. If he had been a willing doormat his sacrifice would have meant nothing. It would have been his will not his Father's will and thus have undone his example of obeying God's will.
      In other words, do what you know is right. Not what she wants. Not what you want from her. And things will arrange themselves in the best manner possible. It may be an end of something or a renewal of something, but it will be the right thing.

    • @MysticSideEyez
      @MysticSideEyez 6 месяцев назад +7

      love your self more choose you- people need to heal their trauma on their own not bc their forced to lose the person the secretly betrayed over 9 years.. you can love and let go

  • @Sollijuno
    @Sollijuno Месяц назад +2

    I’m a 70 yr old woman who has experienced what Tara speaks of and I agree with her studies and explanations. I appreciate the spiral explanation and also believe our astrals project into the future and when we catch up with that moment in “real” time, we call it Deja vu. Our minds are connected to the universal consciousness and trusting that is key. ❤

  • @EleanorAbaya
    @EleanorAbaya 6 месяцев назад +55

    Truly appreciate this intelligent and accessible dialogue. Between Dr Tara’s science-based information & Lewis’s thoughtful, probing questions, they’ve uncovered & offered a wealth of easily digestible information. With gratitude.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +7

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @ChristianSingles2
    @ChristianSingles2 6 месяцев назад +104

    I learnt something new that's, leaving space for the universe for more possibility .

    • @jennifermullin6258
      @jennifermullin6258 6 месяцев назад +7

      Prepare for the blessing/bounty and pray for abundant provision. God We ask You to increase Our territory, Our land; return to Us what the enemy has stolen and what the locusts destroyed and keep Us close to each other in Our hearts💕, as You continue to heal them completely* Amen 🙌
      ❤️‍🔥

  • @TimeForReverie
    @TimeForReverie 5 месяцев назад +47

    I love it when they talk about smell. It kind of takes me back to Marcel Proust’s Remembrance of Things Past “But when from a long-distant past nothing subsists, after the people are dead, after the things are broken and scattered…the smell and taste of things remain poised a long time, like souls, ready to remind us, waiting and hoping for their moment.” 🌸

    • @northofyou33
      @northofyou33 5 месяцев назад +2

      I love that book. It may be time to re-read it.

    • @leylayucel1422
      @leylayucel1422 5 месяцев назад +1

      Madeleine experience. He knew about the strength of sense of smell much earlier ❤️

  • @gabriellerose4253
    @gabriellerose4253 5 месяцев назад +8

    One of many parts that stood out to me was when Tara brought up the realization that even greater things could manifest for her/us than she/we could ever even imagine. I love that so much. I've been being guided lately to "expect the unexpected" so this piece very much resonates with me. Absolutely love listening to you both! Thank you ❤

  • @DominionAnako-bb7ry
    @DominionAnako-bb7ry 6 месяцев назад +159

    Hey, manifesting love is such a beautiful concept! It's all about putting out positive energy and intentions into the universe to attract love into your life. Whether it's through visualization, affirmations, or simply being open to love, the key is to believe in the power of love and stay open to the possibilities.

    • @CopingwithGrattitude
      @CopingwithGrattitude 6 месяцев назад +8

      I believed for a long time, all I attract are narcissists. I gave up!

    • @DominionAnako-bb7ry
      @DominionAnako-bb7ry 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@CopingwithGrattitude But why

    • @alisaeurope8018
      @alisaeurope8018 6 месяцев назад

      Same here...​@@CopingwithGrattitude

    • @CopingwithGrattitude
      @CopingwithGrattitude 6 месяцев назад +4

      My frame of reference is very skewed; I am empathetic to a fault. People manipulate me all the time no matter how self aware I am of my own vulnerabilities. I cannot seem to set healthy boundaries in any of my relationships. Work, kids, romantic, I just suck at it. Being aware of it and working on it doesn’t help; I default to my frame of reference that most people are good. So I cannot rely on my own intuition or intelligence to make good choices. It is embarrassing but at least now I accept who I am.

    • @m-bronte
      @m-bronte 4 месяца назад +2

      @@CopingwithGrattitude I'm the same, I attract stoners and I don't know why? And dating a stoner is like being alone, they smoke pot to check out of reality. After my last relationship I decided I was done trying to find love. Years later no dating, low and behold some guy asked me if I wanted to be friends?
      So I thought sure why not he seems like a nice guy. After our 3rd interaction tells me he is a stoner, of course! why should I expect the script to change?!! I'm really not sure what this is about, why stoners, I'm not a stoner! I don't get it, this is all my life has shown me over and over.

  • @bishhashh5127
    @bishhashh5127 5 месяцев назад +12

    I'm a Reflexologist therapist, I help facilitate the reflexes of the body, spirit, and mind to go into a self-corrective mode from past trauma. Watching this video, I can relate to a lot of what they are saying spiritually, emotionally and mentally.

  • @1200-j2q
    @1200-j2q 5 месяцев назад +11

    This should be the video everyone should watch in their manifestation journey. Believing is everything it takes to attract what we want, but believing is attached many times to our own perception of worthiness. ❤

    • @sarahGreen17
      @sarahGreen17 5 месяцев назад +2

      Also taking action is very crucial in manifesting

  • @Goodw1tch
    @Goodw1tch 21 день назад +1

    Was always car sick on our 12 hour holiday trips as a kid ….because for me it wasn’t the smell of petrol but cigarette smoke and a certain smell from a certain part of the cigarette because both my parents smoked (back in the 60s) with the windows up in that squashed car (4 kids in the back & a dog).
    Growing up and as an adult I used to get so annoyed with anyone smoking and cigarette smells until I started Tapping, and tapped until I cleared it all …..was lots of layers to tap around that.
    I finally was able to do a 13hr drive with my now dear departed Dad and feel compassion for him and his smoking…..it was our last trip together and I’m so grateful I had a different perception and could enjoy his company, because we had a great time. ❤

  • @skychavis392
    @skychavis392 6 месяцев назад +85

    The School of Greatness is one of my favorite podcasts, and Dr. Tara is one of my favorite guests! I love you two together. Thanks Lewis and Tara! 🙏🏼🩵

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +6

      Big thanks for watching! I appreciate your support! 💯🙏🙌

  • @TMB-r9v
    @TMB-r9v 6 месяцев назад +163

    Working as a nurse at a long term care facility, it was well known that the facility cat would lay or sit on the bed of the resident who was palliative and was near passing.

    • @joselinemexia714
      @joselinemexia714 6 месяцев назад +16

      Wooow !!! It's one of the things that blew my mind

    • @Lyonessi
      @Lyonessi 5 месяцев назад +3

      You had a cat in the ward??

    • @TMB-r9v
      @TMB-r9v 5 месяцев назад +13

      Yes a nursing home. A long term care facility, not acute care. It's more like their home.

    • @Lyonessi
      @Lyonessi 5 месяцев назад +13

      @@TMB-r9v Oh that's nice.
      I work at a hospital and the environment is so sterile I get happy when I see a moth flying around 😅

    • @lilaw2757
      @lilaw2757 5 месяцев назад +3

      I always thought this was something they just put in scary movies. Had no idea it was a real thing 😕

  • @ZalynNa-nr2cs
    @ZalynNa-nr2cs 6 месяцев назад +7

    I just learned about manifestation in 2022. I told myself i will try it out so i started making vision boards. I had achieved a 4.0 gpa in my class and had also achieved a scholarship. I believe that vision board is definitely one hundred percent effective in achieving goals! Dr tara swat is definitely very insoirational. I love her😊

    • @sarahGreen17
      @sarahGreen17 5 месяцев назад +1

      Action is also why you achieved

  • @sallysass8035
    @sallysass8035 5 месяцев назад +8

    Dear Lewis, You are are so good at drawing out Tara’s brilliance and so sincerely interested in what she is pursuing! I found this podcast fascinating! Your kind acceptance and appreciation of her neuroscience investigations supports her efforts.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  5 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @johndtwaldron
    @johndtwaldron 6 месяцев назад +39

    The description hits home. My last heartbreak was almost a direct result of me trying to avoid the trauma of my last one. Both were girls from my university courses. And the former heartbreak was me trying not to repeat the mistake of the very first trauma from school.
    Just got to let them all go and accept I don’t need to make up for any of them.
    It’s hard though. I really think the last girl could have been great but I overthought and was in the grip of ego given my previous experiences. But then I did get an absolutely horrible response when I tried to reach out and get closure.
    Time to go all in on me and stop ruminating.

    • @camuchanomellini903
      @camuchanomellini903 6 месяцев назад +7

      Let all that go and open the door for new and greater possibilities. What the universe "GOD" has prepared for you is someone much more unique special and unique. Those experiences were just the stepping stones preparing you for the next Lady who you can't afford to lose. When you see her your intuition" will let you know. Have faith and believe that the Higher power has your back. Just do the right thing and all the stars will align for you. ✨

    • @johndtwaldron
      @johndtwaldron 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@camuchanomellini903 thank you. Just wish my brain would let it go. Focusing on me now. But tbh I never want to bend myself out of shape for anybody ever again.

    • @tedbless8237
      @tedbless8237 6 месяцев назад +1

      You have to stay in a love vibration to attract love. You can’t limit your gift to give love. This is prob what happened in your second relationship.

    • @johndtwaldron
      @johndtwaldron 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@tedbless8237 I behaved somewhat erratically looking back. But the real issue was after mixed signals I thought I’d be making up for the first heartbreak by making a big play the second time. I thought I knew this woman and if it didn’t come off I’d be let down easy. Just little closure around her blocking/unblocking blocking when she ended it then. I know in the surface that’s mad behaviour anyway but I can’t help but blame myself for getting to that point.
      Forgiving myself and concentrating on self love. Just wish I didn’t wake up thinking about it everyday

    • @tedbless8237
      @tedbless8237 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@johndtwaldron understood John we are all learning and all being force to change

  • @eunicedetoiles9901
    @eunicedetoiles9901 6 месяцев назад +42

    This is the duo I never I knew I needed...lol cuties...love this conversation...Thank you both! 😀 My Takeaways: Nature is a powerful healer; 80% of my vision board will come through and when I am on a manifestation hot-streak to ask for more while the energy is incoming; meditation and exercise and nature and cognitive health can be more beneficial and powerful than psychedelics!

  • @thebestone11-r9y
    @thebestone11-r9y 3 месяца назад +1406

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @soul-etude
    @soul-etude 5 месяцев назад +11

    I guess Tara is not the only one connecting spirituality and science. Joe Dispenza is another great example that brings both elements together. I also believe we have reached a level of consciousness that help us all link science with something higher than we know. The more we know, the more questions we discover, the more of the wrong teachings we also uncover, so yes, science will inevitably bring us closer to the source, since science is all about the search of the truth.

  • @_earthvisitor333
    @_earthvisitor333 2 месяца назад +4

    I made a vision board for my dream flat and sketched it how i want it, with the price and washing machine and stuff that i wanted in it. And guess what, after searching and seeing so many Flats; after almost 6 months i found the best home for myself and also got a bonus, it not beeing far away from where i lived before and also there were shops around and central. I'm so thankfull and it really works, when u work for it and it trully is what you want and need. Thank you for this session!

  • @grannigirl
    @grannigirl 5 месяцев назад +4

    Wow. I love Dr. Tara.
    She gets both streams of consciousness and is open to the historical, mythological, shamed side as well as the hard science.
    Beautiful.

  • @kristahackleylmt2064
    @kristahackleylmt2064 6 месяцев назад +21

    An interview with Dr. Elaine Aron would be great. She's an HSP expert. Highly Sensitive Person.
    I love your show Lewis! Your channel has helped inspire and educate me a lot! Thank you to everyone that makes this show happen! 🙏 ❤

    • @sharynmain
      @sharynmain 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes…. That would be enlightening and meaningful to watch.

    • @selinsu5790
      @selinsu5790 3 месяца назад

      🆙

  • @ranaavos8591
    @ranaavos8591 5 месяцев назад +5

    It is a good question about too much of gratitude. I recently realized that when I am too grateful expressing too much gratitude, I feel like I was not deserving what I am grateful for. Like I am too lucky to have everything. And then questions like “why me?” “why I have it and others don’t?” come along, and I start feeling doubts about myself

  • @Ripplehurst
    @Ripplehurst 6 месяцев назад +9

    Tara, may you be blessed with Peace, Beauty, Freedom and Truth ❤

  • @FeliciaKünzi
    @FeliciaKünzi 5 месяцев назад +9

    I had a friend who spend a while in hospital and he told me once that he had a conversation with a nurse that told him about a case where there had been a heart transplantation and the cured person had dreams about an accident after that regularly. It turned out that the heart came from a person from this accident. Maybe thats why Dr. Swart sees heart shapes all the time, because it is a sign for her to study also the other "brain" in our body. The heart.

  • @ChooseTruthAlways
    @ChooseTruthAlways 6 месяцев назад +10

    I also find Dr. Tara s altogether loveliness, such a charming soothing person. 💙✨

  • @vanessa4u4evr
    @vanessa4u4evr 5 месяцев назад +49

    We give our wounds far too much credit and power in my opinion. While they do contribute to whatever frequency we emit out into the Universe, they are not the totality of what we manifest and attract into our lives. There is LIGHT inside of us as well - a lot of it. And given the opportunity to dominate our awareness over empowering our wounds to run the show, what we attract into our lives will be much more empowering to our existence in this current 3-D experience.

    • @jo1361
      @jo1361 4 месяца назад +2

      Beautiful

    • @JSath
      @JSath Месяц назад +1

      That's what I had been thinking all this good 30 yrs! But the trauma that happened 30yrs back when I was a kid.. ever since then I had only been surviving.. I thank God He allowed me see it

  • @mariamerino4151
    @mariamerino4151 6 месяцев назад +24

    One of the most encouraging and validating interviews I’ve seen. Absolutely incredible and beautiful stuff. I will have this interview in replay for years. Can’t wait to read her book and follow her on instagram. By far one of the most fascinating woman of our time. Wow!

    • @III-mu4yn
      @III-mu4yn 6 месяцев назад +1

      Lmao she is imitating what is already out there. Keep searching. There is more to it. Good luck

    • @mariamerino4151
      @mariamerino4151 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@III-mu4ynAs the famous quote says, “It is not the critic who counts…”

  • @Shirley-t9b
    @Shirley-t9b 3 месяца назад +4

    They say time is a great healer. That true longer for some of us.
    Meditation. Frends. Yoga . Light weights . Tia chie all helps with healing 💕 hope everyone gets there soon

  • @SarahGraceL
    @SarahGraceL 5 месяцев назад +24

    The most astounding thing about this episode is that she said she started studying this 30 years ago.

    • @bluewaters3100
      @bluewaters3100 5 месяцев назад +2

      As a 72 year old who has been involved with meditation and all kinds of things since I was 22 her 30 year journey makes sense to me.

  • @jjlarochelle2523
    @jjlarochelle2523 Месяц назад

    I really really appreciate the initial definition of manifestation because this one is real. Manifestation is choosing a goal and taking steps to achieve it. Plenty of other people talk about manifestation as if it's some magic thing that brings you your desires if you just narcicistically believe in yourself and that the universe bends to your will.

  • @asmabenjbara
    @asmabenjbara 4 месяца назад +3

    The deepest talk I have heard ever. THANKS A MILLION FOR THIS.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 месяца назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @KK-om2ig
    @KK-om2ig 4 месяца назад +1

    Came here from insta reel..glad i found this podcast... One of the best i have heard until now... 🙌🙏

  • @mthead1667
    @mthead1667 6 месяцев назад +8

    This is great. Nearly everything Tara talks about here sounds like Jung. He was sooo ahead of his time. Good to see his theories coming into the mainstream. Great talk! Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @jonpauldelange
    @jonpauldelange 2 месяца назад +1

    13:30 “I’m not grateful for the pain I’m going through. I’m grateful for my dog…” I see it differently. If the pain we’re going through is emotional pain, then being grateful for that pain whilst looking for the limiting belief and/or the lesson in the experience that led to the pain is what gratitude is all about. We don’t have to like the pain, but we can still be grateful. It’s a knowing that something bigger is at work and everything and everyone in our life serves a purpose toward our growth and expansion.

  • @userfromnyc
    @userfromnyc 6 месяцев назад +10

    This was an interesting episode, by no means that any less than the others. One personal experience I wish I could share with Tara to have her response: In 2021 when I was walking home a giant hawk was sitting on a very low branch of a tree and a squirrel on another tree was continuously screaming. Squirrels are all over the place where I live but a hawk was near impossible to see. Everybody was recording but scared because the hawk was too close to the ground and we had to walk through there- I was honestly worried about small dogs, squirrels,etc. Later realized the hawk was directly starring at me. This is late evening but not dark yet. Seeing those sharp eyes locked on me scared me like nothing can describe. I did not take my eyes off of the hawk until I get to my building.
    Next day very early morning I woke up feeling like there was no air to breathe at home. Also I wasn’t feeling ok. Something was off. No brushing teeth or nothing, just grabbed my beanie, winter coat, boots and headed to my favorite dog run to watch them play to feel better.. even texted a friend and told what’s going on. 6 months later accidentally found out that night/early morning my dear grandpa passed away. Nobody even told me- that’s another toxic family story. But how the hawk appeared in the crowded apartment complex and found me to look me in the eyes and next morning the way I woke up and literally got out of the house like there was no oxygen inside…. I still cannot explain. I wonder what would Dr. Tara say 🥺

    • @raewynurwin4256
      @raewynurwin4256 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing it touched me deeply.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

    • @keilbya
      @keilbya 4 месяца назад +3

      Native here... hawks are very very spiritual to in our culture. I can almost guarantee the hawk was your grandpa coming to see you one last time before he made his journey 🤍🥹 I hope you can find peace in this.

  • @stefanniacamero7945
    @stefanniacamero7945 6 месяцев назад +30

    Biggest takeaway:
    The fact that grief is such a predominant emotion in us.
    Honestly, it gave me hope. It resonated within my heart that one day I may be able to reach that level of connection with my loved one.

    • @jaymehatfield9540
      @jaymehatfield9540 5 месяцев назад

      Do you mean its because grief is such a dominant emotion in humans?
      Predominant=before it was dominant? Confusing

  • @Topspeedmotorcars
    @Topspeedmotorcars 6 месяцев назад +31

    Delightful voice and very intelligent woman. All the senses are very important. One of the joys of being a carnal being, we get to experience all while living on this earth. Thank you

  • @Kemosabe_International
    @Kemosabe_International 3 месяца назад +2

    When you think of someone and they call you it's telepathy. If you believe in the quantum field and energy transmitting between everything all the time then this is real. You both aligned at the same moment. Very fascinating conversation. I've been meditating for 13 years, did 10 years cognitive behavioral therapy, did acupuncture for a year and started micro dosing psilocybin 3 years ago. So I think the difference between psychedelic mushrooms and meditating is that psychedelics quickly unlock wounds that we have deeply hidden in our subconscious. On psilocybin I've uncovered traumas that never came out in therapy never came through meditation and that I never knew was there until the Plant took me back to that moment in time. It's just a quick jolt into healing and surrender than anything else experienced.

  • @elakarczewska9042
    @elakarczewska9042 6 месяцев назад +9

    there is no doubt in my mind about the existence of the spirit world / quantum field... it is all about energy, frequency and vibration.... the brain is important but only in 3D... it acts as a receiver... it's good to see you are opening towards and talking about the quantum realm...

  • @mswonder1970
    @mswonder1970 4 дня назад

    This combination is PRICELESS. Lewis ALWAYS keeps leading the person interviews into an easy to acces answer for the general audience and keeps re directing them so smartly and kindly to the answers we are all eager to hear. That, besides his personality and heart being like a warm hug.
    Thank you Lewis for helping humanity non stop and Dr Tara for such an incredible interview!💖🦋🙏

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 дня назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

  • @Danywachy
    @Danywachy 6 месяцев назад +388

    it might be true if you are unaware but once you realize about your own psycholgical wounds you simply reject those and open to other people, its not that hard.

    • @punyashloka4946
      @punyashloka4946 6 месяцев назад +93

      Depends on how deep your wounds are.

    • @SethNobrega
      @SethNobrega 6 месяцев назад +108

      Yes I respectfully disagree on the difficulty point. It can be incredibly hard to break old habits. Simple but not easy, perhaps.

    • @PaigeSquared
      @PaigeSquared 6 месяцев назад +82

      Have you ever heard of repetition compulsion? It isn't a conscious pattern. We can be careful of red flags and take things slowly, but when we are dating while wounded, we find that eventually, the other person "makes us" feel the same emotional pattern that a caregiver made us feel (usually whichever caregiver has had their attachment with us broken in some way, whichever parent you're more likely to hide things from, lol).
      We respond to our partner in the same way we responded to our parents as very young children. Which is why the threat of abandonment is taken so seriously when a person doesn't have secure attachment. They're being thrown back into their childhood, their partner in the here and now is seen as betraying them; the body knows this betrayal and taps into the old energy, piling it on, basically: "here, all of THIS is relevant, might as well move it along since this is the feeling that's tapped on."
      Healing includes approaching the familiar dynamic in an entirely different way. If we attempt to avoid that dynamic entirely and haven't figured out what we are doing "wrong" in the way we respond, haven't identified the way we want to proactively handle the concern, I have found that the very same pattern will simply show up in a different way, different type of relationship or context.
      To remove ourselves from the puzzle, we do have to solve it, and be able to take those actions in the world (not simply internally understanding but being able to apply and embody the lesson regularly in our interpersonal behaviors). That has been my experience with it, the last few decades. I was aware of it and what it indicated but I didn't know the information in depth enough to know how to get out of the cycle.

    • @ElevatedE333
      @ElevatedE333 6 месяцев назад +11

      This is exactly how I found my husband. It is possible.

    • @maderliling3204
      @maderliling3204 6 месяцев назад +9

      Thanks for reminding me that we humans have Psychological Disorders ❤❤❤ It’s great to hear from a Neuroscientist ❤❤❤

  • @carolineboisvert3285
    @carolineboisvert3285 4 месяца назад +2

    I prefer the form: I appreciate, better than expressing gratitude because gratitude has a connotation of being not good enough to have or receive so you feel thankful for it. Feeling less than and not powerful.

  • @vickibazter3446
    @vickibazter3446 6 месяцев назад +3

    This doctor is a brilliant visionary with groundbreaking facts that absolutely improve quality of life. ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

  • @jiminsshii
    @jiminsshii 29 дней назад +2

    I can’t explain how much I loved this podcast

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  29 дней назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @toobaafraz995
    @toobaafraz995 6 месяцев назад +14

    After watching the whole podcast I just want to say your podcast made me get closer to my religion i.e. Islam. Everything you said has been mentioned in it or is a practice of it.
    What TARA said about being able to talk to your loved lost ones. I want to share my experience on that. So I lost my father at the age of 15 and to still have that connection here's what I experienced. You can have that experience through dreams. Every time he has come in my dreams and talked to me I have felt the cold and calming energy in my dreams. When I would wake up from having a conversation with him in my dream it would be fajar time i.e muslim morning prayer which is around 4-5 AM. Another time which he would come in my dream is in afternoon. When I would wake up it would be 3 PM. Those dream meetups felt so real and peaceful and I actually had conversation with him.
    I talked about this to my mother she experienced the exact same thing. She would also see him at those exact same times. I was talking about it to my bestie who lost her mother and she experienced the same things. It's crazy to even think that you can still have a bind after their physical death.

    • @toobaafraz995
      @toobaafraz995 6 месяцев назад +3

      Another thing I would like to add that just popped up in my brain. I remember when he was alive we all were just sitting talking and we started talking about grandma. Now I had never seen her as she passed away before I was born. But something strange happened. We were talking about her and suddenly a sharp smell of flowers or just a very pleasant smell I don't even know what was it but it just filled the room and when we pointed it out it disappeared and I looked at the time it was 3 PM. Ngl we were all like that's strange maybe it was grandma. It's a crazy thing.

  • @elenad815
    @elenad815 5 месяцев назад +1

    The best friendship of my life started from the compliment to my voice. It was something on a very deep and personal level. It's really interesting to hear about it from a neuroscientist.

  • @kiefpief
    @kiefpief 6 месяцев назад +5

    What a delicious interview! Dr. Tara is so clear and fascinating and she so clearly loves neuroscience and Lewis is so deeply curious and wondrous! What a probing and spiritual/scientific deep dive! I feel so grateful to have heard this 🎉

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +2

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @phillipmorgan-h2g
    @phillipmorgan-h2g 5 месяцев назад

    Having gratitude within the context that all we could possibly ask for need or want is already in our hands... This is where we create and receive from x

  • @veronicamcquire7908
    @veronicamcquire7908 6 месяцев назад +3

    I enjoyed the entire episode - I’m obsessed with neuroscience and love to learn from her. Thanks for having her on - your Podcast is my favorite, thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @saloshniejagathesan1577
    @saloshniejagathesan1577 Месяц назад

    So true....Healing is rough. We have to sometimes stop playing victim, stop projecting problems. We have to learn to be honest and courageous to heal. We have to confront our shadows, integrate them, heal our wounds..... Only just learnt this. Never too late... Watching from Jhb South Africa

  • @mamaec444
    @mamaec444 6 месяцев назад +9

    I absolutely loved the energy between the both of you. Makes everything you both spoke about even more interesting. Thank you 👍😊

  • @jankishivalkar3515
    @jankishivalkar3515 Месяц назад +1

    The School of Greatness is one of my favorite podcasts, and Dr. Tara is very simpler explaining your Q.guests! I love you two together.
    Thanks Lewis 🩵

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Месяц назад

      Appreciate your support. Thank you for watching! 🧡

  • @MarysiaWojnarowska
    @MarysiaWojnarowska 6 месяцев назад +4

    Super guest, super questions, and where they were going - It kept me watching. This is worth forwarding to others.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @crystalkosa9221
    @crystalkosa9221 4 месяца назад

    Yes, from Canada. I ordered her book yesterday, and it just dropped on my doorstep. I can't wait to dive in!

  • @simmychua3026
    @simmychua3026 6 месяцев назад +3

    You had an amazing guest,liked what she had said,be careful what you wished for. Peace must come within you not from the outside.😊❤

  • @tedxlasvegas345
    @tedxlasvegas345 5 месяцев назад +1

    L0VED the revelation of healing myself from the INSIDE out. Transformative!!!! Being in nature...natural healing. OMFG

  • @valton1978
    @valton1978 6 месяцев назад +3

    So many take aways. Excited to see her sacred geometry project. Keep us posted.

  • @debraernst6751
    @debraernst6751 3 месяца назад

    My biggest takeaway was to brave the Universe and its messages for me, for the collective and for this world and beyond. Thank you, sincerely. ❤

  • @cynthiahadad6283
    @cynthiahadad6283 6 месяцев назад +3

    Loved this conversation 🙏 I really appreciate the honesty and authenticity of you both - bringing a new paradigm to the world.

  • @ip3931
    @ip3931 4 месяца назад

    She’s always talking about things I’ve no experience of ie smell, relationships, sex, love etc but still I find her enthusiasm for these topics fascinating!

  • @Solarflare.energy
    @Solarflare.energy 6 месяцев назад +13

    You two were siblings in a past life (or many lives) :) very cute energy here & loved all the topics from Tara!

  • @CC-oh5oo
    @CC-oh5oo 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love the self-empowerment anecdotes here. A lot of what we need can be found in nature and by extension-- in us. Thank you!

  • @thenynick3698
    @thenynick3698 6 месяцев назад +34

    “Change 10 things by 1 percent, not one thing by 10 percent.” That’s The Aggregation of Marginal Gains.

  • @myungahkang4491
    @myungahkang4491 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for freeing me because you're free & truthful to yourself.❤

  • @yoxarystano7166
    @yoxarystano7166 6 месяцев назад +2

    Truly enjoyed this thoughtful conversation. The chemistry between Dr Tara and Lewis is just refreshing. ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @alicephoenixpoetryjournal9062
    @alicephoenixpoetryjournal9062 3 месяца назад +1

    I am thrilled that we are alive to hear these kind of conversations ❤ finally these are talked openly and on influential channels 🎉

  • @BeautyBox33
    @BeautyBox33 6 месяцев назад +11

    Yes. Loved it. LEWIS I feel you are always carrying out self therapy whilst interviewing. Very skilled way to self sooth your inner child as well as get great interviews with your guest. Love Tara's work too, she explains it all in laymen terms. Thank you ❤

  • @Jacquelinerenees
    @Jacquelinerenees 6 месяцев назад +1

    Since I have been working on my inner child, I continue to experience signs and synchronicities from the universe that support and guide me. I genuinely believe that my ability to manifest is directly tied to my authenticity. And the closer I get to my authentic self, the more powerful I am.

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh yes! I'm slowly aligning with my authentic self and it already feels so liberating.

  • @selamyisma8112
    @selamyisma8112 6 месяцев назад +14

    The neurologist's insights is remarkable! However, the interview could have been more enriching if it covered topics like manifestation, the impact of beliefs on health, and the role of a higher power, instead of primarily focusing on relationships.

  • @alexandrapomeroy8050
    @alexandrapomeroy8050 3 месяца назад

    Everything resonated, when this lady comes back to England I want to sit and talk to her! Amazing

  • @natashalawrence8740
    @natashalawrence8740 6 месяцев назад +3

    Loved her from the previous interview. I’m so excited to learn more from her. Thanks for this interview, Lewis !

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад

      You're welcome, thank you for tuning in 🧡

    • @teresagrillopace2178
      @teresagrillopace2178 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@lewishowes do you believe in God?

  • @suzanneb5355
    @suzanneb5355 Месяц назад

    This man is just so handsome, especially when he smiles! Great insight from Tara

  • @Forest.light33
    @Forest.light33 6 месяцев назад +3

    Lewis your questions are Gold! Brilliant episode

  • @Kitathegang
    @Kitathegang 2 месяца назад

    I totally believe in the universe!! And manifestation!!! It’s so real !! Write what you want over and over again, I kept doing that I kept telling myself I’m going to get a new car. I was saying goodbye to my old car, and showing gratitude for how long it carried me, but it was time for the next level of my life and I got a new car now.❤

  • @CleanWithDarian
    @CleanWithDarian 6 месяцев назад +7

    I can listen to you guys talk about this for several hours. Every topic was so rich with information. I love this stuff and I can tell you really love this too
    Lewis. Thank you for this, have her back soon!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 месяцев назад

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @RMASUPERFLY
    @RMASUPERFLY 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Universe for every beautiful thing that is given to me, even those that I still don't deserve.

  • @GlobalPatternsStudio
    @GlobalPatternsStudio 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love this podcast. You both have given us a great conversation to listen to. Much appreciated, thank you

  • @SebleKitchen1
    @SebleKitchen1 12 дней назад

    Your podcast feels like my classroom, and I can't wait to dive into your content daily. I truly appreciate everything you do-thank you, thank you, thank you!😊

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  11 дней назад +1

      Wow, that’s amazing! I’m so grateful for your support. Any suggestions for future episodes?

    • @SebleKitchen1
      @SebleKitchen1 11 дней назад

      @ You are very welcome😊. I’m truly grateful for everything you do.

  • @katskywalker88
    @katskywalker88 6 месяцев назад +57

    Am I the only one that remembers how people are attracted to each other because of smell and smelling others immune system compatibility with ours from biology??? Why are people so surprised by this when I still remember this from 7th grade bio

    • @anamoisinho7628
      @anamoisinho7628 6 месяцев назад +3

      I remember that too.

    • @Chap17
      @Chap17 6 месяцев назад +6

      All the info is old, but younger generation with more initials behind there names, with a slightly new spin on things.. when we are ready, we can hear things differently ❤🎉😂

    • @Chap17
      @Chap17 6 месяцев назад

      healthy , not toxic smells

    • @jessejules2092
      @jessejules2092 6 месяцев назад +1

      Never heard of attraction by smell. I'm 46. Perhaps I didn't listen in biology class.

    • @anamoisinho7628
      @anamoisinho7628 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@jessejules2092 pheromones?

  • @cameronjameswong176
    @cameronjameswong176 3 месяца назад

    I don’t tend to watch many female motivators. But my gosh she is by far one of the top who I love to learn from. So thank you 🙏❤

  • @katinkakulensfeistl
    @katinkakulensfeistl 6 месяцев назад +9

    Listening to Lewis and Dr. Tara its seems to me that it is high time that neuroscience finally collaborate intensively with spirituality. The scientists will find a lot of their questions answered in really diving deep into all forms of meditation, rituals and communication with all that there is.

    • @georgannkingsland767
      @georgannkingsland767 5 месяцев назад

      @@katinkakulensfeistl yes it always comes down to spiritual..

  • @BeyondSustainableLiving
    @BeyondSustainableLiving 4 месяца назад

    Seeing signs and synchronicities does not mean you should or shouldn't do something, necessarily, it's just an indication that you're attracting that sign you're looking for. You're manifesting it BECAUSE you're thinking about it. You're creating your signs. So, be careful what signs you look for and respond to. Make sure they are ones you WANT to be manifesting. ;-) I LOVE the manifestation topic. And it's wonderful to hear the perspective of a neuroscientist on it. Thank you both for having this amazing discussion!