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Sorry miss u wmn deserve rype
Men need to figure it out on their own. Survival of the fittest. Don't let them use you.
Exactly
Unless you’re hiring them and it’s your company 😂
Spot on young lady. Never be their Priest (confessions), Mother, or Therapist. Or rescuer from stupid choices...he made. They like a women who stands in her own womanhood...selfhood.
Yes! I love how you phrased your response.... It has taken me forever to learn this
I am very empathetic and have past childhood trauma so I hate to see people suffer
Hard lesson to learn
Heavy on the not rescuing them from their "stupid choices"
Don't give them money - loans, business ideas, etc.
I just did that. Mostly because I wanted to be a partner in a business.
However, I'm not helping with my great ideas. I do believe men should struggle to figure things out in their own.
I rather see a man at his lowest figuring it out as opposed to him getting help and looking/feeling reassured with assistance. Lol
Oh no they’ll try to steal your ideas! Esp if you meditate and get the multi million pound ideas
As a man, I agree with her advice....
Thank you for this John 🙏
You descripe a relationship based on a really really healthy masculine man, sadly there are not many in the society
Yes it is rare …
If you watch old movies, even in those women did things to make it easier for men to approach. Drop the handkerchief, one woman admitted to her "husbands" character that she basically moved the entire thing along to marriage but I think the trick was making the men feel it was their idea and leaving space for them to interact in their masculine energy.
@lightninglotuslark bingo! I talk about this in my books 🤍
@@oskarjakobsson6538Wow… such generalized view. You don’t know ANY decent women at all? That’s interesting
@@oskarjakobsson6538 lol Yes I get your point.
If you see a man reaching out to his mother to help everytime theres a problem...red flag!
Huge red flag and yuck!
@@fareenashofficial😂😂😂
Yup broke up with my ex because he was unhealthily enmeshed with his mother..who had left 2 husbands to live with her son- my ex.
@@gopal108b5 urggghhh 😖
Mothers should help them but not the dating partner. As a wife I guess you can help a little 😂
i think most people will have a difficult time finding such emotionally intelligent men.
They exist but yes it’s not easy
Believe you will and universe will send you them everywhere. Your beliefs create what you experience. This is how world works. Another woman who believes they are everywhere will meet them everywheee
A women will never fully surrender to a man in relationship...if he is wishy washy. A player, can't keep a job or has one. She will never embrace her full sense of her feminine or ever feel safe. I always dated passive men...hence my masculine. If l date again...only a man who l will fully be the women l want to truly be. Passive...now bores me.
Had the same experience. I gotta feel safe and confident so I can be my full feminine
Correct
@@Lady.Luck. lol sure
Lol
Didn't get it! How passive men attitude looks like?!
As a man I honestly believe that the quality of your life is totally dependent on two things when it comes to relationships… 1 the quality of the communication you have with yourself, and 2 how you communicate that to others. So if you don’t know what you want, you will never communicate to anybody what you want. Men are not mind readers… If you think they are and that some masculine energy in this world is going to free you from all your problems… Then just stop listening to that nonsense. Communicate correctly with the person that you’re interested in… That’s all you need to do. He’s either good enough for you or he’s not based on what you see coming back because if he’s not a good communicator forget it. relationships go beyond looks , beyond money, beyond everything, else that you see tangible in this world…. It’s down to the effort, both parties put in to keep that communication real.
As a woman I very much agree with this but unfortunately what I see and experienced often, men couldn't communicate or didn't know how to or were scared or ashamed so they expected me to read their mind. I said even though I am a woman and I am intuitive I still am not I mind reader. It was like they noted, but there's not been a much of a change. So it was a deal breaker for me as I need clear communication.
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I never directly answer when they ask what I want in a man. They just want to know how to "be" for me... which is not genuine. I prefer that they just "be" who they naturally are and if it works then great....if not just move on.
🚩If they lead with the "what r u looking for in a man" ...then they probably haven't done the inner work to be a healed and balanced individual so they wud only waste ur time anyway.
It doesnt work out, men dont listen
Sorry you speak for your kind of men, not the ones who have matured deeply
Def ain't gonna build him up for another person neither
I just found your channel randomly. What you say about not stepping up is exactly what I do but I didn’t realize that was feminine energy! I just didn’t feel in my inner being that I wanted to be the one to “do” anything, so I just left him be. Love your explanations. They truly resonate. Thank you
It resonates because you’re in your feminine 😍🙏
You’re a feminine goddess! ❤
We live in a world now, where woman have painted the perspective to other woman to sit there & receive everything in their femininity. They want all the weight & burden on men. The expectation is extremely high, & can be very exhausting. Unfortunately, when a man is unable to do these things you described, the woman simply moves on, & the cycle repeats. You're not supposed to be trying to get a man to openly express his feelings, or emotions while also giving you what you need in a healthy way, he needs to go within & internally sort things out to become a better man for his woman, he can only achieve this by focusing on his self. He also needs to have his life together to confidently be able to support & provide, but a lot of men do not.
I like this format just because there’s more energy from the interaction. 😊
It’s more “real” right now
Please keep making these videos! Some of these woman REALLY NEED IT
Thank you ! Listening to this randomly I realised that me never being bored and just living and building my life completely content repels all the men and it's actually a great thing cause these are not the men that would be right for me 😅👏
Well yeah you got all your shit . What do you need us for ?
You are the kind of useless man women don’t need.🥴
Our money, career and whatever we have built is ours, nothing to do with a man/ relationship 🤨
Great inner work, Fereen😊
You are a beautiful combo of strength and kindness
Thank you 😊
Your vids are awesome, the message is authentic, beautiful, and much needed and appreciated . Thank you.
I’m so happy you feel that way and thank you for sharing with me 😍😍😍
literally a blessing, so beautifully said; thank youu + infinite blessings!!
Awwwwwww thank you 😊
I enjoyed the live format and will be rewatching. Good wisdom in this one! Ty! ❤
So happy to hear it!!
Love this video! Exact reminder that I needed, love you, Fareen!❤
Love you more !
This video came at the perfect time! I’m 24 and needed to hear this.
Love the simplicity of your videos 💕
This is incredible advice and extremely helpful. Thank you!
Your welcome 🤗
Thank you for clarifying a lot of things concerning not helping a man.
Oh man ... I made a mistake. Ouch. Thank you deeply for your guidance
You are so correct, we mustn’t help men
Every thing you said is 100000 % right ..
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My emotions get the best of me. I literally just messaged the guy I was seeing that I’m not about his wishy washy actions after our first date. It ticked me of; he was so attentive until after the first date. He apologized but I’m letting it go. If he wanted to he would. But I was so frustrated I called him out.
Girl! This is perfect!!!!!! Don't worry about a thing!
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I agree with you
Learning so much and reflecting. Maybe 6 months isn’t enough to want exclusivity….
My friend made her partner wait 6 months for sex! She never did that before. He’s completely committed they bought house have a child now
im 22 yo building and working myself but it triggers me everytime i tell my mother something out of sharing and communicating and she starts telling what to do and no matter how many times i ask her NOT TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO she keeps doing it , im fully capable of doing things on my own and by my own way if i wanted advice i would have asked instead of her trying to become some sort of inner voice which makes feel like im being controlled
Stop sharing and communicating your problems with her, then? Simple solution.
Read “Secrets of the Feminine Woman.”
I understand completely! The book will help you gain mastery over yourself and your emotions
THAT SEEMED LIKE A GENERATED REPLY BUT I WOULD BE CHACKING FOR SURE @@fareenashofficial
WHAT IF SHE IS THE ONE WHO ASKS @@cz5836
Honestly stop telling her. I’m glad how you realize how this doesn’t really help you.
Yes honey I agree I wish someone would’ve told me this
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Love both videos and lives! Thank you ❤
I’m really happy to hear that! Thank you for sharing 💕💕💕💕
👏🏻 so clear and clarifying
I’m happy to hear that 🙏
This was such a great livestream! I'd like to know more about how men heal.
Happy you’re here!
Wonderful video, very helpful. Thank you
thank you for this live, such important topics
You’re welcome ☺️
Thank you 🌸
A really helpful video Fareen!!
love the Live format!
Ok :)
You are so authentic keep it up
Aww thank you 😊
Thanks for these great vids ❤
You are amazing
Love this format
Absolutely correct.
Great videos Fareen❣️
Thanks Roxana 🤍🤍🤍
You are helping me so much!!!!! I wish i knew this 20 years ago 😢
So happy its helping today :)
I live the live format much much more !!
Oh good to know!! How come??
I truly don't want to blame mother's of irresponsible men.. but is it more of the mother's fault when it comes to a man treating a women( girlfriend /wife) like an option 😅 isn't it?
Yes … well both parents. Mothers that coddle do a disservice for men 🤍
@@fareenashofficial make sense.. thankyou 🥰
We take care of so much so often when we are single. I actually like it when a man says “I need to sort stuff out” I am like few 😊
I must care if I trust someone so quickly to just do the thing. It is a good feeling.
yesssss! Me too! It feels safe! Yes we are so good to ourselves when we’re single and then we get caught up when we are with a man… totally normal!
Let's see take care of a house fire 😆
Virgin River is an incredible show. I learned so much about how to be more feminine from just analyzing Mel's behaviors and how she communicates with Jack.
I wish I found you in Nov before my relationship fell apart but let’s be honest I didn’t have time for RUclips 😂
Wish I had this knowledge in high school ❤
God blesss youuu
Please do a video on your views about sex and intimacy before marriage
Great question!
Yes I can hear you
Going through this at the moment. I have started on the wrong foot by taking things too far and leading. But now, after 2+ years of not hearing about him, he showed up … again not directly to me but posted videos of where he is at in his life. I did not like his videos at all. I removed myself from Instagram after I unfollowed him the same day. Since then he has not got in touch with me. It is hard. But I know God has a plan for us. Meanwhile, I am living life to the fullest and getting to know and heal myself on many levels so I can love myself better. I must say that I do think about him everyday though… but will not do anything anymore to approach him. I have learned my lesson ! 😉
What ever happened to men opening doors paying for the meal being a supporter on every level they have become extinct IM GOOD MY SANITY IS MORE IMPERATIVEQ
Yes those men are 😍😍
They are everywhere masculine men!
I agree with everything except the last part. My husband is very masculine and secure and we were married within 2 months.
I’m happy to hear that 🤍
Love this! You're beautiful
Thank you 😊
All this dating advice everywhere now. From a man who dated way more then the average person or mainly had a lot of girl friends when I was 17 too about 25. Experience. . . . You can’t coach dating because everybody is different. And I great relationship comes from GOD and a good relationship just has 2 come naturally. It just has 2 happen
You are awesome
SCREW SOCIETY 😂 YES!
You’re an amazing coach 🙏
Aww thank you 😊
@@fareenashofficial you’re welcome! I’m learning a lot from you. This is great counseling 💝
Do you sell hard copies? I’m not a big ebook person.
Is there a way to undo it whilst still in early stages of dating? I started to get triggered and started acting in ways that were unlike myself and he has picked up on it and is pulling back a bit
Update: he ended things 😅
It became a self fulfilling prophecy, listen to this woman ladies!!
@@sasb3675you can undo it. Dont contact him. Send him loving energy and focus on his good qualities. He will contact you
I love this whole concept. Thank you for sharing ❤
You are so welcome!
Loud and Clear
You are beautiful, I'm getting your books
Those who critique, including yourself, lol, should look inwards.
Thank you 😊 and you’re absolutely right, we all have to look inward daily 🤍
If a woman does not respond to my decision fixing what I messed up and coming back together going further beyond like a marriage I will think she is done with me and she probably doesn't want to be with me anymore. Silence says sometimes more than just yes or no. Silence is a response and should be used wisely. Maybe this woman has an option now, satisfying her ego while I am trying to fix what I messed up. In this case, just like Fareen's fiancé I would expect woman to tell me if she wants to be with me anymore, only then I can make my "big and better" intentions slowly clear to her.
I definitely agree! If a man is willing to work things out, we definitely want to, if the love is pure. I don’t like games!
How does this apply in marriage?
I love you, girl.
Can you provide a list of books you suggest for feminine women to read please
My books
fareenash.com/what-men-want/
fareenash.com/secrets-of-the-feminine-woman/
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I love it and agree however I wonder where this border lies when you deal with Aspergers and unsecure attached man.
I like live videos!
Ok 🤍
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What accent do u have? Where are you from??
Canadian eh.. :)
Hearing
We are between men and children. We are heart but our mouths should not initiate.
Exactly, that is why you wont ask a man to go out
@@iaf4454 man is god
@@iaf4454 men feel they are superior to all people including their friends so they won’t accept a woman who takes initiative. It’s not fun being looked down upon but as long as they lift heavy things and make money we just lay back and take it the way they want. Keep the connection with kids and friends. Obey the phallus.
@@sadrablue women always take the initiative but in another way, it is like a dance in a subtle way It is never direct as a man, we attract them, with our own ways to do the things.
We dont ask them to go out directly but we seduce them so that they "take the initiative" hahaha. Our ways are powerful and we decide in the end.
If you are connected with your inner you, your feminity this is so easy, it comes naturally. However we are raised to listen to men too much and that is the problem.
Men always brag about themselves (thar they are this and that etc), they have BIG EGOS but we should never listen to them. Men like to feel they are superior but we all know that they are just men
Stop saying 'partner', call him your man.
I wish I had seen this video 3years ago, so much time and energy wasted. thank you!!!!
I’m happy you found me now :)
Your welcome 🙏
Better late than never. You aren’t dead so it’s never too late ❤
If a man needs help he needs healing
Hi
Why do they respond to help and bossy women then?
Babymen
Feminine men
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Why are you single ?
She said she has a partner.
@@peekaboots01what’s a partner. A person married or not
Never take dating advice from anyone single. If people are in healthy happy HAPPY relationships giving advice take it. That would be like someone wanting to be wealthy and getting advice from someone who isn’t.
men don't help women
I disagree I think women should choose the man cuz women r better decision makers
God will help men because HELP is for HE as one L that god will bring those back again uP a head as good next time in the past IS..Gods help is bring HE as one L uP again [future]. But..The lord Jesus Christ can heal before that must happen.. HE as one L is who the lord HE A L's before god Helps by bringing sin back as good [Moses] Love is the other L to be found now..From laws of god behind as L L is six as laws and love are how HE escapes HE-LL now or return using gods He l up that returns for the other L called ISIL as the same Ba aL at every earth multiplied for ever.
How can a woman help me as a man?!? LOL 😆
It’s too drawn out. Everyone’s time is limited.
Thanks for the feedback
Not EVERYONE.
I suggest you listen to the longer videos only when you have enough time to dedicate to your learning. Or listen the next day if the live is too long for you.
Frankly, I appreciate every word Fareen speaks - so many gold nuggets here!
Did you have a C Section? No Shame.
lol nope. Just a regular woman with a regular body. Xx
After her whole conversation trying to help women all you have is to make some weird, snarky comment about her body? Maybe consider lifting women up instead of trying to tear them down.
@@fareenashofficialu have a great body. 🫶
Wow, just wow. What a shameful comment.
If you came hear to learn, the last thing you'd focus on is whether she's got a scar, or not!
I was really admiring her outfit and beautiful body, tbh...
Do you even know where a C section scar is?
No.
That's ok, for future reference the scar is just beneath the natural pubic hair line. This would be about 10cm below her jeans waistline and within her pantiline. I hope that helps.
For future reference, don't mention this to women. It's unnecessary.