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If in the talking stage it is perfectly reasonable to let a man know you like him. If the man pulls away after that he is not going to pursue you anymore leave him. A guy who is actually interested is going to pursue you more after that
you're giving him pleasure and yourself before he commits ..a man will play around use amd leave a woman who gives herself to him uncertain of if he will stay or go...i have done this because i was naive i assumed he was honest and felt the way I felt. truth is man is wicked. if he is not a man of God he is self seeking. God calls is to seek HIS pleasure not ours. after the trill is gone those men look for a new thrill...
She is not wrong about the masculine and feminine energy dynamic. However, there are so many more variables and polarities at play - physical, sexual, mental, psychological, experiential, intellectual, educational, cultural, political, philosophical, et cetera. She reduces and oversimplifies everything down to a single polarity. Important, yes. Comprehensive, not by a long shot.
You will not know if you’re compatible in other areas if you can’t make it past the third date. As a woman you want to stay in your feminine so that a man invests time and resources. He won’t invest the time to get to know a woman unless she’s patient and passive in her feminine energy. Any time I started initiating from a place of wanting to lead and further things along the man would lose interest. She has a point.
@@melissarose888 I agree. The dynamic balance of yin and yang is essential. Yin and yang however apply to all aspects. In neoliberal, consumerist, anti-intellectual, and provincial cultures like the United States, I have found intellectual compatibility and ethical compatibility to be practically impossible.
But the point is that from the very fundamental polarities, everything else comes forth It starts with the general inherent masculine/feminine energies
@@DanFeldman-Edge One has to be embodied in the yin and yang energy. Once someone is embodied they are more present and in their body. It’s less about the mental plane and more about heart to heart connection. Less about head to head. Relationship are a conscious decision but they also require emotions.
Oh wow! Thank you for bringing sanity back into this world of confusion and wrong energy assignments. It’s good to have a place on RUclips where teachings are coming from a healthy and authentic space. Thank you for everything you are teaching us 🫶🙏🙏
When men pursue us, see us as a prize with pride, we also feel good because we feel pursued and worthy of something to win over. A man can feel heart emotions when he has to win her over. He wouldn't feel that désire. Trust that the more work, the lighter you are, the more you'll attract. Not everyone is gonna be a match, don't feel like a victim
I just discovered your channel and I must say your an inspiration and you motivate me to move bk in track when I begin to loose myself or loose sight of what my worth is
I loved how you said to feel into your body! So trueee!! All the times I’ve initiated it never felt good! 😣 Love how you mentioned the part where you said cheap attention & the ego! Thank you for sharing! ❤❤ Always great videos! 😊
I don't necessarily agree with your statement, I am involved with a woman that I thought was totally out of my league. She made the first move that started a wonderful relationship. She is very much a lady and the intention was to just talk. After months of conversation it developed into a relationship that is what we are both interested in.
That’s very rare. But men do feel intimidated if he thinks a woman is out of his league so he won’t ask her out in case he’s rejected. His ego dented. His ego gets inflated if the woman takes her phone out in public and takes his number or pretends to ..
Hello Fareen! I've been binge "listening" to your videos since I've been driving a lot today. It is so good to hear you share so much good information. Some of it has been exciting to hear I'm on the right track and some of it has been a good reminder that I needed 😊🩷 It's been so good hanging out with you today. Sending my love 🩷🩷
Did it feel good in your body? Depends on the person. There is a man i sometimes pursued, because i felt like it. Other times, i feel like it has to be him to come close, it's a dance.
I do not listen to my body, i listen to my head and reasoning. It works better for me. My body is not reliable. today it feels one thing, tomorrow - something else. How can I trust it? Reasoning and facts are always there and it is better to rely on true facts .
@a.d.7922 that is true, the issue is that oftentimes, people think they are operating from rationality, but it's actually a distortion. Facts are facts and are not the problem, but the dirty lenses of the glasses that look at them are. The issue here is not that men don't love women that initiate (that is the distortion), the action doesn't matter at all. Men (but honestly people in general) don't love women (men) who operate from desperation, because they can "smell" that energy. But if the woman can sense that desperation within herself, she can actually heal it. After a certain level of healing, the result is that one truely doesn't care and is free to operate from freedom and creativity: "if i feel like that, i initiate today, might not be the same tomorrow and so on" The issue with this "canned advice" is that people chatgpt themselves into repetitive actions and patterns, because someone thinks it's rational, while it's actually madness...
So I think there is some confusion over the word initiation and pursuit. To initiate initial contact may be OK if it's something online for example, or you catch shy vibes from the man. But this simply means giving a green light for him to start pursuing, an opportunity if you want. What comes after that, is up to him
Update on my gym crush , he has a girlfriend so i am not proceeding but i did not know that i was someones gym crush, he looked at me and smiled , he followed me around working out next to me and we had a brief discussion, i actually asked him to help me with the weight and he was so kind and nervous :) he did not ask my number on the spot which i actually enjoyed :) the men who are triggered is lazy :) again another great message and you are so beautifull :) that is not shooting my shot right? 😂
If my woman never initiated she'd become an unlovable robot to me. And I'm not interested in robots for love life. Initiation is far preferable to turning down ideas from your man which will disappoint them, and just turns the woman into a "judge": I like this idea, I don't like that idea. Instead, show them what you like by suggesting things. Not what you think they want you to suggest but what you actually like. For this is what a man seeks to discover, that he may also please you.
Interestingly, over the years many man were thrilled that I expressed an interest - as many felt I was out of their league. It's all a dance ... let them lead, then perhaps add in a little "step" of your own 🥰
I love your videos, and I love how its to the point and short. I been watching all your videos since months ago and I would like to congratulate you on your efforts and progress so far. Big WOW!! Keep up the great work xxx
You have a LOT of videos on this topic. Im a 45 year old male. Any female listening to this woman will lose a lot of potential mates. If you think a man is going to sit around chasing after you while you never initiate anything..you're going to end up alone. You may can pull this on a guy with no options, but a decent man with options you're going to lose him to a girl who is showing interest and initiating him. Send a good morning text, ask him how his day is going. Tell him you're looking forward to seeing him next time. Something!! If not he's going to think you have zero interest in him and he'll move on.
That’s not what most women experience. That’s why they get results by listening to this. Most women today are single because they become too masculine and hunt chase the men. So men think ‘she obvs has no other options no other man likes her’ huge turn off.
@@Lisa_M_V I agree women are acting too masculine but they’re not asking out and chasing men. No “most women” are definitely not doing that at all. And the rare ones that try give up the first time they go through rejection. Welcome to what men go through everyday for years. Stay in a feminine box 100% and a man won’t keep chasing you for 50 years. A high value woman is humble. Not just attractive but also positive and genuine. She doesn’t have a bitter attitude following a self limiting rulebook for what women and men can’t or should never do.
@@Lisa_M_V it's in a womans nature to pursue a strong man. It's a mans nature to pursue goals and money. Otherwise women will be left surrounded by weaker men
I gave the first kiss to my boyfriend on the first date, we were talking for 2 weeks before meeting cause I wasn’t in the city and get 10 min of meeting in person I approached him and kiss him. He was so shocked and got him trembling but he loved it. I guess it depends I can initiate but I’ll let him do the rest. So far we doing great he is the sweetest man ever ❤
Have you read my e-books? You can purchase them on the website and if you want a specific question answered, you can do that on the website and email me your question and I will answer in depth that way 🤍
P.S. Add to the mix - ALL - these modern day dating APPs (which I loathe!) --- I prefer meeting in real life & that spark of chemistry that happens. However, these days many men will not approach women in real life - believing they are in a relationship or married ... 🙃
I loathe them too. Used them a few years ago met some lovely masculine men went on amazing dates and some ‘feminine men’ and dated a celebrity too.. all from apps .. however wouldn’t do it again 😂
I dont think you can speak about what men want and how they think if you are not a man. Like she said we are hardwired differently. Yes high quality men like to pursue women, we love challenges but within reason. We aren't silly, we need to know that a woman is worth the pursuit and challenge. We don't pursue anything that walks and we don't pick willy nilly because that goes against our very principles of success, plus it's very unwise to approach anything in life with that mindset, it's unhealthy. A high quality man can smell a woman who is making it unreasonably difficult to pursue her from a mile away. It's attractive for women to provide a small challenge but so many these days go overboard to the point where a high quality man will look elsewhere fast. Provide a challenge but don't go overboard. It's helpful if women atleast show some signs of interest so that we know we aren't wasting our time, and that we are on the same page because at the end of the day a relationship is a big commitment for both parties. We don't read cue's like women do, like she said we are wired differently. Its nice that we can appreciate what women offer in dating and relationships but it would also be nice if we appreciated what genuine high quality men offer (not the jerks), because at the end of the day it's our role to initiate the relationship. Without a man initiating and leading the initial interaction between a man and woman by embracing his healthy masculine energy (that hopefully leads to marriage and children), it will never happen.
I find it frustrating to wait for a man to initiate because I really like planning dates!! Seriously, I can plan really awesome dates, so waiting around for a man to plan one is a bummer sometimes. No offense to the fellas at all, but if you want epic level dates, let a romantic-minded female plan one! I wish I could have a side business where I just plan dates for people. It would be so satisfying!😂
We have been dating for a month. He asks me why I don’t text him some mornings. I have no response. Is this too early for me to initiate a text here and there?
@Kiya8888 I would need to speak with you privately to know more specifics… you can email me a question or schedule a first call with me on the website …. I need to talk to you 1-1 about this
No…If you can’t straight up ask him out or say that you’re interested. Then at least make it obvious you are interested by drawing the conversation out, smile, and heavy eye contact. If you don’t already know him then introduce yourself. Basically expand beyond the hello and follow the above. Converse. Don’t just say hi bye. Make it obvious that you want to have a conversation.
Yes a hello is too much. Smile instead - he’ll know you like him. If he’s interested he’ll say ‘hi’ Women who chase might be chasing an engaged married or homosexual man. Or just a man who isn’t interested in dating.
Also, I think is kinda unfair that men go towards women they want while women gotta wait for the men that approach them? I’m not saying women should do everything but showing that you are interested and let him do the rest can work and be helpful. Some men are shy and don’t approach probably thinking she is already taken. We cannot generalize tho
Does your boyfriend give off some vibes off to these women who are pursuing him? Just seems weird woman would just be throwing the themselves at him just because
What if they ghost me after the first phone call and all I want to do is initiate conversation. To be fair I did sound a very excited with him on the call and told him I'm looking for something serious. To save my face and not feel rejection, I texted after a month that I don't want to rekindle anything and didn't feel good that they got to know about me but I didn't have the time to get to know them in the first phone call. I did this to get closure but now I regret it, I wish I did nothing but even that was hurtful. Its been months after the door slam and all I want to do now is to initiate an offer of friendship to know him better. Do you think reaching out to him make me look bad even more desperate. I care so much because he has the x factor I have been looking for all through the years.
No darling, let him be. That means he's not the one, the enemy wants you to be on a scarcity mindset. The person meant for you will want you as much as you do. Let go and let God
@@Islam-c7o Thank you Feiza for putting out such good work. I'll continue to be the best version of myself. He got to know my intention and I don't know what he wants. He is older than me so I was honest and straightforward.
@@Lisa_M_V one lady that approached me I ended up marrying. Another lady who approached me we was together for over 20 years. I love women approached me
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If in the talking stage it is perfectly reasonable to let a man know you like him. If the man pulls away after that he is not going to pursue you anymore leave him. A guy who is actually interested is going to pursue you more after that
Men often pursue me and get excited about meeting me for the first time but its difficult to find a man who will stay for a long time
same
you're giving him pleasure and yourself before he commits
..a man will play around use amd leave a woman who gives herself to him uncertain of if he will stay or go...i have done this because i was naive i assumed he was honest and felt the way I felt. truth is man is wicked. if he is not a man of God he is self seeking. God calls is to seek HIS pleasure not ours. after the trill is gone those men look for a new thrill...
Ohhhh the same here😢
She is not wrong about the masculine and feminine energy dynamic. However, there are so many more variables and polarities at play - physical, sexual, mental, psychological, experiential, intellectual, educational, cultural, political, philosophical, et cetera.
She reduces and oversimplifies everything down to a single polarity. Important, yes. Comprehensive, not by a long shot.
You will not know if you’re compatible in other areas if you can’t make it past the third date. As a woman you want to stay in your feminine so that a man invests time and resources. He won’t invest the time to get to know a woman unless she’s patient and passive in her feminine energy. Any time I started initiating from a place of wanting to lead and further things along the man would lose interest. She has a point.
@@melissarose888 I agree. The dynamic balance of yin and yang is essential. Yin and yang however apply to all aspects. In neoliberal, consumerist, anti-intellectual, and provincial cultures like the United States, I have found intellectual compatibility and ethical compatibility to be practically impossible.
But the point is that from the very fundamental polarities, everything else comes forth
It starts with the general inherent masculine/feminine energies
@@cinderling5472 how do intelligence, values, and ethics come from the fundamental energies?
@@DanFeldman-Edge One has to be embodied in the yin and yang energy. Once someone is embodied they are more present and in their body. It’s less about the mental plane and more about heart to heart connection. Less about head to head. Relationship are a conscious decision but they also require emotions.
Oh wow! Thank you for bringing sanity back into this world of confusion and wrong energy assignments. It’s good to have a place on RUclips where teachings are coming from a healthy and authentic space. Thank you for everything you are teaching us 🫶🙏🙏
Thank you! I appreciate this so much 🤍😍
If i didn’t initiate, I'd never had a single date.
When men pursue us, see us as a prize with pride, we also feel good because we feel pursued and worthy of something to win over.
A man can feel heart emotions when he has to win her over. He wouldn't feel that désire.
Trust that the more work, the lighter you are, the more you'll attract.
Not everyone is gonna be a match, don't feel like a victim
This is so good! I really love how you explain . Especially how it differs with activating a man's heart and not his ego 😊
Yes! Thank you!
I just discovered your channel and I must say your an inspiration and you motivate me to move bk in track when I begin to loose myself or loose sight of what my worth is
Well this means more to me than you know!! Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍
I loved how you said to feel into your body! So trueee!! All the times I’ve initiated it never felt good! 😣 Love how you mentioned the part where you said cheap attention & the ego! Thank you for sharing! ❤❤ Always great videos! 😊
Yes!!! You’re making connections :)
I don't necessarily agree with your statement, I am involved with a woman that I thought was totally out of my league.
She made the first move that started a wonderful relationship. She is very much a lady and the intention was to just talk. After months of conversation it developed into a relationship that is what we are both interested in.
I’m happy it worked out in your case 🤍
That’s very rare. But men do feel intimidated if he thinks a woman is out of his league so he won’t ask her out in case he’s rejected. His ego dented. His ego gets inflated if the woman takes her phone out in public and takes his number or pretends to ..
You're so right. Thank you for this video! ❤❤❤
Hello Fareen! I've been binge "listening" to your videos since I've been driving a lot today. It is so good to hear you share so much good information. Some of it has been exciting to hear I'm on the right track and some of it has been a good reminder that I needed 😊🩷 It's been so good hanging out with you today. Sending my love 🩷🩷
Awww thank you for sharing this!! This is the best comment 😍😍😍
@@fareenashofficial of course! 🥰😘
Great stuff! Keep sharing because queens need to know this. So important. Especially for us as wives 👑🤍💁🏽♀️
Yes!!!!!! Love that you’re here!!
Your content is so helpful!!
Did it feel good in your body? Depends on the person. There is a man i sometimes pursued, because i felt like it. Other times, i feel like it has to be him to come close, it's a dance.
I do not listen to my body, i listen to my head and reasoning. It works better for me. My body is not reliable. today it feels one thing, tomorrow - something else. How can I trust it? Reasoning and facts are always there and it is better to rely on true facts .
@a.d.7922 that is true, the issue is that oftentimes, people think they are operating from rationality, but it's actually a distortion. Facts are facts and are not the problem, but the dirty lenses of the glasses that look at them are. The issue here is not that men don't love women that initiate (that is the distortion), the action doesn't matter at all. Men (but honestly people in general) don't love women (men) who operate from desperation, because they can "smell" that energy. But if the woman can sense that desperation within herself, she can actually heal it. After a certain level of healing, the result is that one truely doesn't care and is free to operate from freedom and creativity: "if i feel like that, i initiate today, might not be the same tomorrow and so on"
The issue with this "canned advice" is that people chatgpt themselves into repetitive actions and patterns, because someone thinks it's rational, while it's actually madness...
So I think there is some confusion over the word initiation and pursuit. To initiate initial contact may be OK if it's something online for example, or you catch shy vibes from the man. But this simply means giving a green light for him to start pursuing, an opportunity if you want. What comes after that, is up to him
Exactly. 100% Totally agree. By letting him know you like him ,you eliminate the fear of rejection entirely.
Update on my gym crush , he has a girlfriend so i am not proceeding but i did not know that i was someones gym crush, he looked at me and smiled , he followed me around working out next to me and we had a brief discussion, i actually asked him to help me with the weight and he was so kind and nervous :) he did not ask my number on the spot which i actually enjoyed :) the men who are triggered is lazy :) again another great message and you are so beautifull :) that is not shooting my shot right? 😂
That’s really sweet thank you 😊
Would have to speak privately to go into specifics 🤍
Are you a woman who tried to shoot her shot with a guy she liked? Interesting because the majority of women normally will never fire the first shot
@@nobodysperfect06it’s not authentic
@@MS-ns4ki what are you referring to when it's not authentic
@@nobodysperfect06 it’s not natural If a female initiates .. you’ll never know if they grew on you bc you never even considered them .
If my woman never initiated she'd become an unlovable robot to me. And I'm not interested in robots for love life. Initiation is far preferable to turning down ideas from your man which will disappoint them, and just turns the woman into a "judge": I like this idea, I don't like that idea. Instead, show them what you like by suggesting things. Not what you think they want you to suggest but what you actually like. For this is what a man seeks to discover, that he may also please you.
So your the woman then? Expect to be treated like one.
Interestingly, over the years many man were thrilled that I expressed an interest - as many felt I was out of their league. It's all a dance ... let them lead, then perhaps add in a little "step" of your own 🥰
So wait till u die for somebody that MIGHT initiate sth? What if they dont?
That’s def too late 😂
I love your videos, and I love how its to the point and short. I been watching all your videos since months ago and I would like to congratulate you on your efforts and progress so far. Big WOW!! Keep up the great work xxx
I have to keep re watching to stay in my feminine energy
I’m happy it’s helping! “secrets of the feminine, woman” will help so much 🤍
You have a LOT of videos on this topic. Im a 45 year old male. Any female listening to this woman will lose a lot of potential mates. If you think a man is going to sit around chasing after you while you never initiate anything..you're going to end up alone. You may can pull this on a guy with no options, but a decent man with options you're going to lose him to a girl who is showing interest and initiating him. Send a good morning text, ask him how his day is going. Tell him you're looking forward to seeing him next time. Something!! If not he's going to think you have zero interest in him and he'll move on.
That’s fine high value women have many many options. So many fish in sea.
That’s not what most women experience. That’s why they get results by listening to this. Most women today are single because they become too masculine and hunt chase the men. So men think ‘she obvs has no other options no other man likes her’ huge turn off.
@@Lisa_M_V
I agree women are acting too masculine but they’re not asking out and chasing men. No “most women” are definitely not doing that at all. And the rare ones that try give up the first time they go through rejection. Welcome to what men go through everyday for years. Stay in a feminine box 100% and a man won’t keep chasing you for 50 years. A high value woman is humble. Not just attractive but also positive and genuine. She doesn’t have a bitter attitude following a self limiting rulebook for what women and men can’t or should never do.
Women have been rejected as well... Everyone alive has being rejected. It's the poor me trope.
@@Lisa_M_V it's in a womans nature to pursue a strong man. It's a mans nature to pursue goals and money. Otherwise women will be left surrounded by weaker men
I gave the first kiss to my boyfriend on the first date, we were talking for 2 weeks before meeting cause I wasn’t in the city and get 10 min of meeting in person I approached him and kiss him. He was so shocked and got him trembling but he loved it. I guess it depends I can initiate but I’ll let him do the rest. So far we doing great he is the sweetest man ever ❤
What if I have done these mistakes? How to correct this?
Have you read my e-books? You can purchase them on the website and if you want a specific question answered, you can do that on the website and email me your question and I will answer in depth that way 🤍
P.S. Add to the mix - ALL - these modern day dating APPs (which I loathe!) --- I prefer meeting in real life & that spark of chemistry that happens. However, these days many men will not approach women in real life - believing they are in a relationship or married ... 🙃
I loathe them too. Used them a few years ago met some lovely masculine men went on amazing dates and some ‘feminine men’ and dated a celebrity too.. all from apps .. however wouldn’t do it again 😂
@@Lisa_M_V 🥰
What is your opinion on The Human Magnet Syndrome by Ross Rosenberg. I found it highly informative about relationships
I haven’t heard of it! I’ll check it out
I dont think you can speak about what men want and how they think if you are not a man. Like she said we are hardwired differently. Yes high quality men like to pursue women, we love challenges but within reason. We aren't silly, we need to know that a woman is worth the pursuit and challenge. We don't pursue anything that walks and we don't pick willy nilly because that goes against our very principles of success, plus it's very unwise to approach anything in life with that mindset, it's unhealthy. A high quality man can smell a woman who is making it unreasonably difficult to pursue her from a mile away. It's attractive for women to provide a small challenge but so many these days go overboard to the point where a high quality man will look elsewhere fast. Provide a challenge but don't go overboard. It's helpful if women atleast show some signs of interest so that we know we aren't wasting our time, and that we are on the same page because at the end of the day a relationship is a big commitment for both parties. We don't read cue's like women do, like she said we are wired differently. Its nice that we can appreciate what women offer in dating and relationships but it would also be nice if we appreciated what genuine high quality men offer (not the jerks), because at the end of the day it's our role to initiate the relationship. Without a man initiating and leading the initial interaction between a man and woman by embracing his healthy masculine energy (that hopefully leads to marriage and children), it will never happen.
Showing love 💕 thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you!! 🤍🤍🤍
This is so helpful! Thank you!!
So happy that you think so Julia!!
❤❤❤ Your videos get better and better aaaallllll the time 🥰
💯 YUP!!!
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Thank you, i needed to hear this ❤
You are so welcome
I love everything about this video! ❤
Thank you 🙏
I always thought the same but I’m seeing a big stretch here 🤩
Thankyou for this. So much. So much wisdom. ✨✨✨✨
Awww your welcome!!
❤Appreciated
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I find it frustrating to wait for a man to initiate because I really like planning dates!! Seriously, I can plan really awesome dates, so waiting around for a man to plan one is a bummer sometimes. No offense to the fellas at all, but if you want epic level dates, let a romantic-minded female plan one! I wish I could have a side business where I just plan dates for people. It would be so satisfying!😂
Hi! I love your video and it resonates with my experiences. Can I ask, is it okay for a feminine woman to text a man sometimes for balance?
Yes of course, although it depends on the stage etc! The books will go into it more in depth 🤍🤍
We have been dating for a month. He asks me why I don’t text him some mornings. I have no response. Is this too early for me to initiate a text here and there?
@Kiya8888 I would need to speak with you privately to know more specifics… you can email me a question or schedule a first call with me on the website …. I need to talk to you 1-1 about this
I would love to get in touch with you. How can I find your info for email and or by phone call?
I apologize, I see your info in your bio. I will reach out. Thank you!
What if you just say "hello" to him, is that persuing?
Have you read “what men want”
No…If you can’t straight up ask him out or say that you’re interested. Then at least make it obvious you are interested by drawing the conversation out, smile, and heavy eye contact. If you don’t already know him then introduce yourself. Basically expand beyond the hello and follow the above. Converse. Don’t just say hi bye. Make it obvious that you want to have a conversation.
Yes a hello is too much. Smile instead - he’ll know you like him. If he’s interested he’ll say ‘hi’ Women who chase might be chasing an engaged married or homosexual man. Or just a man who isn’t interested in dating.
I get this attention all the time because I am a pretty blonde 😂
❤ and your energy is prob good
What does pursuing a man look like? What are the DOs and DONTs ?
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Of course men and women think differently. We're not always gonna be in the same page. We just have to accept it and be mature about it.
Fareen, a guy reached my male friend, to say that he likes me. And then I sent him a message. Did I initiate?
Yes !!!!
Have you read “what men want” yet??
If you can use your masculine energy to send him a message, he can too… yes?
@@fareenashofficialgirl I am so dead 😂🤣
Don't listen to her. A man loves a nice text message from a woman. You essentially dropped the hanky so it gave him the opportunity to pursue you
I beg to differ....I have absolutely no problem with a woman who initiates....after all, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus....
Nice ... Love your response 😉
And John Gary the author of that amazing book tells women to never initiate!
@xyz-gx9oytypo Dr John Gray he’s awesome ❤
Also, I think is kinda unfair that men go towards women they want while women gotta wait for the men that approach them? I’m not saying women should do everything but showing that you are interested and let him do the rest can work and be helpful. Some men are shy and don’t approach probably thinking she is already taken. We cannot generalize tho
is it too late for me 😊to switch those roles?
Nope lean back stay joyful keep ❤ open
Wrong infor it is even quite attractive coz it is rare
Does your boyfriend give off some vibes off to these women who are pursuing him?
Just seems weird woman would just be throwing the themselves at him just because
Could be a bit flirty... 👀
Women who are interested ( in any way) with a married men is strange.
Really?!? How do you know ... ?!? 😉
What if they ghost me after the first phone call and all I want to do is initiate conversation. To be fair I did sound a very excited with him on the call and told him I'm looking for something serious. To save my face and not feel rejection, I texted after a month that I don't want to rekindle anything and didn't feel good that they got to know about me but I didn't have the time to get to know them in the first phone call. I did this to get closure but now I regret it, I wish I did nothing but even that was hurtful. Its been months after the door slam and all I want to do now is to initiate an offer of friendship to know him better. Do you think reaching out to him make me look bad even more desperate. I care so much because he has the x factor I have been looking for all through the years.
No darling, let him be. That means he's not the one, the enemy wants you to be on a scarcity mindset. The person meant for you will want you as much as you do. Let go and let God
@@Islam-c7o Thank you Feiza for putting out such good work. I'll continue to be the best version of myself. He got to know my intention and I don't know what he wants. He is older than me so I was honest and straightforward.
I would read secrets of the feminine woman 🤍
Will do thanks! Hugs!@@fareenashofficial
Been there, screwed that up. Very humiliating. Don't do it, girl!!
Cause women sometimes believe in other person
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I only loved women who approached me
But never got serious?. The ego loves that attention. But it’s a turn off eventually?
@@Lisa_M_V one lady that approached me I ended up marrying. Another lady who approached me we was together for over 20 years.
I love women approached me
@@Lisa_M_V that's a projection of how women are today. They just want the attention
You are so wrong lol. Not being mean but Id love if a woman would lead and ask me out.
Lol, you're referring to predatory men that see y'all as objects of conquer.
It’s in DNA. Men are natural hunters from days they went out from caves and killed animals to eat. Just like any male species.
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"...when we pursue men..." Hahahahahahahaha!!!
That’s why I don’t