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I agree fareen, I used to drop everything for a man because I liked him but that has changed, I still do things, never cancel plans last minute to see a man and that shows a standard.. everything you say is so true. I think if you play games you are still not healed, I am open friendly, I text back quickly when I can, I have good communication skills, my word I can say hi to so many people during my day, strangers! After I healed not to brag but my aura is so beautifull and radiant, sometimes strangers just comes and talk to me and share their struggles..so yes be hard to get means have a life!! You look beautifull as always, thank you for you're videos.
When I meet a man, I actually try to find disqualifications. Most men aren't for me even if they believe they are. And it's never my job to convince a man that I'm the one for them. That's their job. The right man is doing just as I am and finding out about me to see if I'm a fit.
I believe all women are high value, i just also believe not all women were raised to know their worth and be grounded with their beautiful true self. ❤ we can definitely behave in certain ways at the best and worst of times for sure. But its always good to continue learning and growing 😊
Not all women are high value the same with all people. There are people who are toxic by nature; they seek to exploit and even harm others. That's just biological fact. These people are in all walks of life and all countries around the world. It's reality and best to accept not all human beings are capable of giving and accepting respect and love.
Disagree. Alot of women use sexual manipulation. Especially with social media. Also high maintenance doesnt equal high value. Most women today are for the streets.
Men need a STABLE. woman emotionally. THE ADVICE I GAVE MY SON WAS TO AVOID AN EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE WOMAN. He listened to my advice and left a girl that started FOUR arguments after a month of dating HE MARRIED A WELL BALANCED YOUNG LADY AND THEY HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP
When you think it cannot get any better with Fareen’s content, she amazes you with mind blowing content. Easily understandable, coming from her heart and pure in her nature. The world needs more Fareens❣️ Thank you for all your wisdom, teachings and your love 💗
I always miss you and then when your comment comes in I get a whiff of your feminine energy and I obviously love it! Love you and your support and heart so much! Thank you! I see it always 🤍🤍🤍🤍
It took me 13 years to realise that I was in a psychologically abusive relationship. My ex and I stayed together for our daughter until she got old enough that she questioned why her dad apologised to her for calling me a c**t but not apologising to me…and why do I stay…and i the reason was her…I’d completely lost my self worth. I’m the biggest phoenix rising now, with high standards, i don’t want drama, I’m enough and think I’m still having too much fun to be taken yet…❤
I’m learning so much. I really can’t believe I didn’t realize a lot of what you are saying. I’m a bit embarrassed. But glad I can learn to improve myself with this advice.
I walked away. I was direct about what I wanted and what I wanted in the future. He didn’t seem to value or prioritize me. It was a month in so I walked.
Not sure if this is helpful, but I have been hard on myself because I am getting older, so some insecurity about my body, until I realized that my soul chose this body, and it doesn't matter anyway, because it is only for one man❤
I enjoy a relaxed and casual vibe...when a man bum rushes me...I RUN - HE'S NEEDY. Imagine a woman who bum rushes a man to convince him i am the one for you. My daddy told me when a man wants to know you he will let you know...i got it dad...do not chase is what he was telling me when i started dating when i was 19. I am now 64, when men approach me i will talk, but i am not thinking OMG he can be my boyfriend...i can talk to him and i don't necessarily wait for him to ask for my number...i don't have any expectations except to decide did i enjoy his conversation or not, either way i can move on without an exchange of phone numbers...
I can't express how grateful I am for your content! I came back to this video and realized that, before, I couldn't even feel how true and natural your words were due to my intense lack of self-love. I hope I can do the course soon, but you have already helped a lot with my healing journey. Thanks, Fareen!!! Sending love from Brazil 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Oh no I’m sorry for this. Usually women will always communicate, however men and women hear differently, and sometimes men can become defensive and have a hard time hearing the woman, and if she feels unheard, she will stop communicating. I’m not saying this is the case for you as I don’t know your specific situation, but maybe this will give insight. 🤍
I once dated a man who told me pretty soon in our dating that his last girlfriend literally left with all her stuff during the day while he was out. I asked him why she chose this way. he said he didn’t want to talk about it. A really lovely man but not a communicator.
@AllUserNamesAreUseddepends how it's communicated - most people (including women) aren't good communicators. A lot of women will 'communicate' her needs by complaining, criticising, nagging, guilt-yripping, being passive aggressive, 'hinting', or a dozen other ways that don't make sense to guys. Guys can learn to decode these but it helps a lot when women communicate in a way that is helpful for men. Nagging him and guilt-tripping him dozens of times doesn't count as effective communication with a man. It's the same in your workplace - you can't just hint your way into getting results. Maybe that will work, but it's usually better to use clear, assertive and respectful communication so that the other person is actually clear what you're asking for, whether it's in the workplace or in a relationship I don't know the details here, but I'm sure that she could have improved her communication with him so that he clearly understood. It really doesn't sound like he feels she communicated clearly to him and he just thought "f that, I'm not doing that for her".
The “complains” are a last ditch effort to get you to listen and understand. It’s a very blunt way of saying her desires she’s been saying nicely for quite some time. You don’t have to decode complains as they are normally very blunt and direct. You should be doing the opposite of the complaint to get the actions you are looking for from her. If you don’t want to, it’s as simple as leaving. Have boundaries and self respect and give her the same courtesy.
@@shelbylauren4 well it depends on the situation. My experience is that often I can tell a woman is complaining about something but it's not really clear what it is. Like she is unhappy in some way, but it's not about the issue she has mentioned, if she even has mentioned it. But you're right when there is a clear complaint that is her final attempt. The thing is - why not start with being clear? Men send communication too that women often don't pick up on, and then the women wonder why he is acting funny (they often guess wrong). I think it's actually quite common for people to go gradually from subtle to explicit because they are afraid of confrontation or being honest, etc. But it helps everybody so much when genuine complaints and issues are made clear in the beginning, not as a last ditch attempt to save the relationship. Otherwise the result is what is essentially passive-aggressive behaviour and various forms of manipulation. Hey, sometimes that works, but unfortunately not everybody has the ability, capacity or extra bandwidth to decide people's passive-aggressive behaviour and subtle hints. That's what parents are for but parents SHOULD (ideally, which is not the world we live in) teach their kids to be assertive, not aggressive, passive or passive-aggressive. If you haven't actually said what you want then you can't EXPECT someone else to know what you want. That's great if it happens, and a good partner should be able to do that much of the time, but ultimately if something is a problem for you it is your responsibility to resolve it - whether that means fixing it yourself (if you can) or bringing it to someone's (your partner) attention and make sure they understand what the problem is. People that expect others to solve their uncommunicated problems for them are called children - you are supposed to grow out of that dependent state and learn how to effectively and respectfully communicate your needs so others can help you. And when women usually want a man to listen to her complaints without fixing them - and then she gets upset that he doesn't fix her complaints - can you blame a guy for being confused? He could have been listening to her complaints, not realizing he had to do something about it (because she doesn't want him to fix it, just listen). Best to be clear and both people should learn how to communicate with each other and learn each other's language
@@fareenashofficial thanks for replying. I'd like to know some key points/red flags/behaviour that will help to recognise men who are unsecure and not masculine. I think sometimes I can feel it in an unconscious level but would like more clarity on this as it's so important to understand quickly to whom we are dealing with and not waste time and energy. Thanks.
Personally, I know a guy is insecure when he leads with his ego, and not with his heart. Men who are secure in their masculinity will respect your boundaries, and they will be able to respect their own. They will also exude confidence energetically, and look out for their posture! This is a bit of wisdom I have learned from dealing with men. 💜
I ended up walking away from a man that likes me, but said he wasn’t “ready” for a relationship.. even if we’ve been doing things without the label. Is it bad of me to hope he’ll wake up and realize what he’s lost - committing.. from me not being there? It was so difficult for me to do..
First of all, good for you for knowing your worth! And of course it’s not bad, it’s soooo normal to have those thoughts! The action is what matters most 🤍
@@fareenashofficial thankyou.. have you ever had experiences with ur clients about them walking away and he ends up coming back for the commitment in the end ? 🥺
@saosins omg yes!! My client just now, today that commented below, her guy has been chasing since our work together and he msged again just yesterday! Reach out to me in an email or call session if you need specific input ok 🤍 As long as you showed up “high value” he’ll know and if it’s meant to be, it’ll be. If not, something better will come.
Girl Same, I'm just heartbroken it's the most painful that I ever experience we're fwb n i fell hard Confess my feelings then he said he's not ready for a relationship but wanted to continue the fwb thing. I told him I can't do this n he said ok if that's wat you want.. right now I'm one week of no contact n I keep on crying n cudn't focus on anything. The thing is if he comes back Idk if I can trust him again😢💔
Thanks for this message on self worth and self love Fareen ! 💕 definetly something to cultivate everyday to be that person! This continues to be a huge learning for me at all levels thanks to you!! Love you F!! 🥰💖🫡
Love you to J! Self-love can always be improved for all of us including me! It will be life long and as long as we see progress on our own path, we’re on the right path ! Love your comments! 🤍🤍
Oh sweet Fareen! ❤❤❤ Thank You so much for this video! As usual, just at the right time 🙏🙏 Thank you for reminding me of what it means to be a confident, self assured and strong feminine woman! I love to see and hear you embodied in your beautiful energy! 💕 Not "trying hard" is a foreign concept to me 🙈🥲 this was VERY helpful to hear! Just the other day we met old friends, and the woman is also a feminine woman. Very present in the moment, confident, not "needing" lots of makeup and nice clothes to feel good about herself (like me) it was such an eye opener because i could SEE it for myself and understand it better ☺️😍 . And she also has a masculine partner who loves her 😃 It's wonderful to see everything you talk about reflected in everyday life! Another thing i saw was also that, healthy masculine energy is so attractive to me, but tbh it's also scary Fareen👀🙈 Because i guess, I'm used to "weaker" energy men, they feel more safe. The masculine cannot and shouldn't be controlled and that's kinda scary because you need to trust.. But i guess i need to learn to trust myself first 😊 and you're so right. You can't fake any of this. It's fascinating to me that.. You can only operate from the level you are at, and your actions can betray you if you pretend.. How powerful our subconscious is! I love how you bring it to light 🔥 Looking forward to your blog post sweetie! Thank you again for sharing your wisdom 💖💖💖 all the best to you! 💋
Oh so good 👍 👌 😍 I love how you embody everything you teach. It makes these teachings so much more valuable and insightful. I am definitely working on hightening my self worth to the core and am blessed to be working with you. Thanks Fareen for sharing your messages❤ you are such a light.
@fareen Me too self love and how to become the higher self, ‘inner work healing’ but with concrete steps , (lol lots of demand here but absolutely love the teachings) ❤
Hi Fareen. Will you consider doing a video on sexual polarity? I have seen other videos on sexual polarity, but I think that they are incomplete. I think that polarity in personalities, like emotionality, and probably aggressiveness/passiveness should be included. I have even seen some couples where the man seems more emotional than the woman (I don't think it is uncommon). I think that is sexual polarity. I'm interested in a video from you on sexual polarity, especially if have more to add to what other people have said (I'm sure it would be good even if you don't).
I loveee this question and I actually made a note about doing a video specifically on men - and leading…. This will serve to enhance a woman’s attraction. Something like this? A specific question/topic you want me to do would be great. This will be my next video!
@fareenashofficial, that is partly what I'm talking about. I was thinking about something that would give a definitive guide to sexual polarity, or something like that. I was thinking something with at least sexual polarity in the title, partly so that if someone searches for it. This may not be your style though.
@@fareenashofficialyes like what if you are living together with kids etc. and he is spending most of his free time by himself (in his man cave, video games, working out etc.) rather than spending it with me
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Thank you. I don’t really like anything to extreme or inauthentic. You’re welcome to send me a sample for a video and I’ll see if the vibe matches my style. Thank you for the compliment
A man wouldn't want what he wants to he his for someone else to have. Men don't place expectations, hence freedom. They need freedom. Don't put pressure initially. Then he'll drop his guards with you. Freedom makes him feel good. Doesn't expect except bare minimum. Expectations are based on the stage of a relationship. You need to have your own stuff going on. Naturally give them a lot of room bc she doesn't need to be babied. It's attractive when you don't need extra efforts but appreciate them. We also should demand for the freedom to be ourselves and lose others that don't like our authenticity, thanks❤. Your confidence makes him feel safe. Because they get the room for their authenticity. He wants to feel proud of you. She's a woman that you keep wanting more from her all the time. No matter how long. A féminine woman is someone that's desired more, desire is never enough. A woman trying to play hard to get is outcome oriented. A high value woman isn't about the outcome but about the efforts. Men need to prove himself to you. You need to signal you're exclusive. Men are designed to be competitive. The harder you are to get, the more he'll pursue you. Show up in your right state and I'll decide if you're the one. A feminine woman won't leave if there are difficulties, will leave if he doesn't make her feel good. She doesn't nag. She loves herself, won't allow others to not love herself. Efforts are always necessary, no matter the stage of a relationship.
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I have done exactly this. I am F31 and my boyfriend is M34. However, what should I do if he himself thinks he is not financially ready to take the next step? Should I keep waiting? He may be ready in two years (finishing PhD, but not guaranteed). He adores me and is lovely otherwise. I love him too. We don’t live together.
Men want most attractive women to boost their ego, he assumes she had lots, because she's attractive so she gets lots of offers. So if she's hot, they overlook everything else. I see that everywhere, in real life, in celebs etc.
“A woman who is hard to get expects a bare minimum” - can you please expand on this point? 🧐 I wonder if I have too much expectations in the beginning. Also, I am wondering when does this “begging” stance ends?
Hi Fareen, should a woman compliment a man's looks before he compliments her before dating while he's pursuing her? Could you do a video on that please?
Do not necessarily agree this technique works to form a stable relationship. My ex pursued me for 5 months. I didn't play hard to get, I just chose to allow him to take the lead. He studied me, showed concern, interest, bought me things, cared for me etc etc All of this for him to suddenly end things with me
The dynamic prob shifted once you got together. Maintain the diva vibe not from playing games but just because you are busy. A new male friend text me 2 days ago I totally forgot to reply too busy living my life!
When I found myself annoyed by male “games” and saying “I was just living my life with friends” and it started to happen automatically … I realized that I was improving. I just got “triggered” last week, but it had nothing to do with any man. It was a me issue and I knew it and could communicate that. It gets better, even if not perfect ❤️
@@fareenashofficial Oh my gosh yes!!! I noticed that people will follow when you admit it. Good people men and women will feel a safe area to share their things too. True connection is fantastic.
Dear Fareen, thank you so much on everything you do for us. Also, you are very welcomed to speak on any "girlie" subject you find interesting, maby beauty rituals, healthcare habits, skincare routine, how you found your style, series\books you recomend...thank you and all power to you Fareen.
I want him, but I don't need him. If he goes awol meh, just get on with your life. A man described men like cats, they will stray but they will be back when they know who is best for them.
A better advice I would like to give is Choose God over any man. Both men and women are created in god's image. We cannot get attached to this materialistic world. But we must love our neighbours as we love ourselves. And love respect and fear God the most.
So true. And it takes a lot of work and desire to really see what’s going on beyond your own stuff. The introspection and self honesty is hard when you’re not use to it. So needed this message today. You’re amazing always 🩶
@@fareenashofficial hmm may be.. am going through a situation where we did it and now he's ignoring me. I blocked him but couldn't block him for long. I don't really know what to do. I'll checkout your book though.
I am very grateful for Your videos, always very Wise and True but I understand you have lots to read and clients so, I am not dropping any comments most of the time, no need for discussion , just received it. Not alway have time to write but always living ♥️♥️♥️ for logarithm Thanku 🙏
It’s sad to have an extreme point of view this speaker has that a high value person won’t stay in a marriage if disrespected. As much as it should be the case, it’s not entirely straight forward to just pick up your bags and leave with kids especially when you have bills to pay on your own! A high value person can emotionally check out from a relationship until they find their feet and independence to physically check out too. Please don’t propagate radical views and make people think that they have low self worth only coz they’re stuck in a situation!
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I agree fareen, I used to drop everything for a man because I liked him but that has changed, I still do things, never cancel plans last minute to see a man and that shows a standard.. everything you say is so true.
I think if you play games you are still not healed, I am open friendly, I text back quickly when I can, I have good communication skills, my word I can say hi to so many people during my day, strangers! After I healed not to brag but my aura is so beautifull and radiant, sometimes strangers just comes and talk to me and share their struggles..so yes be hard to get means have a life!!
You look beautifull as always, thank you for you're videos.
Yes games come from the wounded parts ourselves. I loveeee your share so much! And thank you for the compliment :)
Awww Twinsies!!!!
Yes, and same here! It is so important to do some healing work before getting into a relationship. I love that for you by the way! 💜
When I meet a man, I actually try to find disqualifications. Most men aren't for me even if they believe they are. And it's never my job to convince a man that I'm the one for them. That's their job.
The right man is doing just as I am and finding out about me to see if I'm a fit.
I like this perspective 👍🏻 x
I believe all women are high value, i just also believe not all women were raised to know their worth and be grounded with their beautiful true self. ❤ we can definitely behave in certain ways at the best and worst of times for sure. But its always good to continue learning and growing 😊
Yes! We were all born with self worth, but it tends to get bruised or decrease over the years. We are all inherently worthy 👑
Not all women are high value the same with all people. There are people who are toxic by nature; they seek to exploit and even harm others. That's just biological fact. These people are in all walks of life and all countries around the world. It's reality and best to accept not all human beings are capable of giving and accepting respect and love.
Disagree. Alot of women use sexual manipulation. Especially with social media. Also high maintenance doesnt equal high value. Most women today are for the streets.
Men need a STABLE. woman emotionally. THE ADVICE I GAVE MY SON WAS TO AVOID AN EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE WOMAN. He listened to my advice and left a girl that started FOUR arguments after a month of dating HE MARRIED A WELL BALANCED YOUNG LADY AND THEY HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP
When you think it cannot get any better with Fareen’s content, she amazes you with mind blowing content. Easily understandable, coming from her heart and pure in her nature. The world needs more Fareens❣️ Thank you for all your wisdom, teachings and your love 💗
I always miss you and then when your comment comes in I get a whiff of your feminine energy and I obviously love it! Love you and your support and heart so much! Thank you! I see it always 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Aww yessss we need more Fareens! ❤ Beautiful comment and energy you have 😍
It took me 13 years to realise that I was in a psychologically abusive relationship. My ex and I stayed together for our daughter until she got old enough that she questioned why her dad apologised to her for calling me a c**t but not apologising to me…and why do I stay…and i the reason was her…I’d completely lost my self worth. I’m the biggest phoenix rising now, with high standards, i don’t want drama, I’m enough and think I’m still having too much fun to be taken yet…❤
I’m learning so much. I really can’t believe I didn’t realize a lot of what you are saying. I’m a bit embarrassed. But glad I can learn to improve myself with this advice.
I’m so happy the videos are helping 🤍
I walked away. I was direct about what I wanted and what I wanted in the future. He didn’t seem to value or prioritize me. It was a month in so I walked.
😍😍😍😍 this is so wonderful that you talk about these things - it brings a lot of clarity and self-reflection. I am so thankful for you!
Thank you! I am so equally thankful for you! You’re amazing Z!
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Not sure if this is helpful, but I have been hard on myself because I am getting older, so some insecurity about my body, until I realized that my soul chose this body, and it doesn't matter anyway, because it is only for one man❤
Yesssssssss! I absolutely love this! Beautiful 🤍😍
Such valuable information... I understand myself so much more now, and why i am the way i am. Think ill binge watch the rest of your videos!!
I enjoy a relaxed and casual vibe...when a man bum rushes me...I RUN - HE'S NEEDY. Imagine a woman who bum rushes a man to convince him i am the one for you. My daddy told me when a man wants to know you he will let you know...i got it dad...do not chase is what he was telling me when i started dating when i was 19. I am now 64, when men approach me i will talk, but i am not thinking OMG he can be my boyfriend...i can talk to him and i don't necessarily wait for him to ask for my number...i don't have any expectations except to decide did i enjoy his conversation or not, either way i can move on without an exchange of phone numbers...
I love this!!
I can't express how grateful I am for your content! I came back to this video and realized that, before, I couldn't even feel how true and natural your words were due to my intense lack of self-love. I hope I can do the course soon, but you have already helped a lot with my healing journey. Thanks, Fareen!!! Sending love from Brazil 🙏🙏❤️❤️
My wife doesn't try too hard. She even didn't try that hard when she left me for reasons she wasn't willing to discuss.
Oh no I’m sorry for this. Usually women will always communicate, however men and women hear differently, and sometimes men can become defensive and have a hard time hearing the woman, and if she feels unheard, she will stop communicating. I’m not saying this is the case for you as I don’t know your specific situation, but maybe this will give insight. 🤍
I once dated a man who told me pretty soon in our dating that his last girlfriend literally left with all her stuff during the day while he was out. I asked him why she chose this way. he said he didn’t want to talk about it. A really lovely man but not a communicator.
@AllUserNamesAreUseddepends how it's communicated - most people (including women) aren't good communicators. A lot of women will 'communicate' her needs by complaining, criticising, nagging, guilt-yripping, being passive aggressive, 'hinting', or a dozen other ways that don't make sense to guys.
Guys can learn to decode these but it helps a lot when women communicate in a way that is helpful for men. Nagging him and guilt-tripping him dozens of times doesn't count as effective communication with a man.
It's the same in your workplace - you can't just hint your way into getting results. Maybe that will work, but it's usually better to use clear, assertive and respectful communication so that the other person is actually clear what you're asking for, whether it's in the workplace or in a relationship
I don't know the details here, but I'm sure that she could have improved her communication with him so that he clearly understood. It really doesn't sound like he feels she communicated clearly to him and he just thought "f that, I'm not doing that for her".
The “complains” are a last ditch effort to get you to listen and understand. It’s a very blunt way of saying her desires she’s been saying nicely for quite some time. You don’t have to decode complains as they are normally very blunt and direct. You should be doing the opposite of the complaint to get the actions you are looking for from her. If you don’t want to, it’s as simple as leaving. Have boundaries and self respect and give her the same courtesy.
@@shelbylauren4 well it depends on the situation.
My experience is that often I can tell a woman is complaining about something but it's not really clear what it is. Like she is unhappy in some way, but it's not about the issue she has mentioned, if she even has mentioned it.
But you're right when there is a clear complaint that is her final attempt. The thing is - why not start with being clear?
Men send communication too that women often don't pick up on, and then the women wonder why he is acting funny (they often guess wrong).
I think it's actually quite common for people to go gradually from subtle to explicit because they are afraid of confrontation or being honest, etc.
But it helps everybody so much when genuine complaints and issues are made clear in the beginning, not as a last ditch attempt to save the relationship. Otherwise the result is what is essentially passive-aggressive behaviour and various forms of manipulation. Hey, sometimes that works, but unfortunately not everybody has the ability, capacity or extra bandwidth to decide people's passive-aggressive behaviour and subtle hints. That's what parents are for but parents SHOULD (ideally, which is not the world we live in) teach their kids to be assertive, not aggressive, passive or passive-aggressive.
If you haven't actually said what you want then you can't EXPECT someone else to know what you want. That's great if it happens, and a good partner should be able to do that much of the time, but ultimately if something is a problem for you it is your responsibility to resolve it - whether that means fixing it yourself (if you can) or bringing it to someone's (your partner) attention and make sure they understand what the problem is. People that expect others to solve their uncommunicated problems for them are called children - you are supposed to grow out of that dependent state and learn how to effectively and respectfully communicate your needs so others can help you.
And when women usually want a man to listen to her complaints without fixing them - and then she gets upset that he doesn't fix her complaints - can you blame a guy for being confused?
He could have been listening to her complaints, not realizing he had to do something about it (because she doesn't want him to fix it, just listen).
Best to be clear and both people should learn how to communicate with each other and learn each other's language
Hi Fareen. Could you speak about unsecure men who are not in their masculine energy? Thanks.
Yes! What specifically did you want me to focus on?
@@fareenashofficial thanks for replying. I'd like to know some key points/red flags/behaviour that will help to recognise men who are unsecure and not masculine.
I think sometimes I can feel it in an unconscious level but would like more clarity on this as it's so important to understand quickly to whom we are dealing with and not waste time and energy. Thanks.
Personally, I know a guy is insecure when he leads with his ego, and not with his heart. Men who are secure in their masculinity will respect your boundaries, and they will be able to respect their own. They will also exude confidence energetically, and look out for their posture! This is a bit of wisdom I have learned from dealing with men. 💜
But I would love for Fareen to go into depth about this too!
@@narinehovhannisyan2368insecure men like you to chase them it boosts their fragile ego
Such insightful and spot-on advice as always and you look stunning!
Thanks so much Marg! Love ya so much! 🤍🤍
@@fareenashofficial Love you too!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
@MargaretBuj ok I’m clearly obsessed with the overload of kisses! Hahah 😍😍😍😍
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I ended up walking away from a man that likes me, but said he wasn’t “ready” for a relationship.. even if we’ve been doing things without the label. Is it bad of me to hope he’ll wake up and realize what he’s lost - committing.. from me not being there? It was so difficult for me to do..
First of all, good for you for knowing your worth! And of course it’s not bad, it’s soooo normal to have those thoughts! The action is what matters most 🤍
@@fareenashofficial thankyou.. have you ever had experiences with ur clients about them walking away and he ends up coming back for the commitment in the end ? 🥺
@saosins omg yes!! My client just now, today that commented below, her guy has been chasing since our work together and he msged again just yesterday! Reach out to me in an email or call session if you need specific input ok 🤍
As long as you showed up “high value” he’ll know and if it’s meant to be, it’ll be. If not, something better will come.
If a man tells you he isn’t ready for a relationship--Believe him!!!
Girl Same, I'm just heartbroken it's the most painful that I ever experience we're fwb n i fell hard Confess my feelings then he said he's not ready for a relationship but wanted to continue the fwb thing. I told him I can't do this n he said ok if that's wat you want.. right now I'm one week of no contact n I keep on crying n cudn't focus on anything. The thing is if he comes back Idk if I can trust him again😢💔
Thanks for this message on self worth and self love Fareen ! 💕 definetly something to cultivate everyday to be that person!
This continues to be a huge learning for me at all levels thanks to you!! Love you F!! 🥰💖🫡
Love you to J! Self-love can always be improved for all of us including me! It will be life long and as long as we see progress on our own path, we’re on the right path ! Love your comments! 🤍🤍
Learning so much from you Fareen
Oh sweet Fareen! ❤❤❤ Thank You so much for this video!
As usual, just at the right time 🙏🙏
Thank you for reminding me of what it means to be a confident, self assured and strong feminine woman! I love to see and hear you embodied in your beautiful energy! 💕
Not "trying hard" is a foreign concept to me 🙈🥲 this was VERY helpful to hear! Just the other day we met old friends, and the woman is also a feminine woman. Very present in the moment, confident, not "needing" lots of makeup and nice clothes to feel good about herself (like me) it was such an eye opener because i could SEE it for myself and understand it better ☺️😍 . And she also has a masculine partner who loves her 😃
It's wonderful to see everything you talk about reflected in everyday life!
Another thing i saw was also that, healthy masculine energy is so attractive to me, but tbh it's also scary Fareen👀🙈
Because i guess, I'm used to "weaker" energy men, they feel more safe. The masculine cannot and shouldn't be controlled and that's kinda scary because you need to trust..
But i guess i need to learn to trust myself first 😊 and you're so right. You can't fake any of this. It's fascinating to me that.. You can only operate from the level you are at, and your actions can betray you if you pretend.. How powerful our subconscious is! I love how you bring it to light 🔥
Looking forward to your blog post sweetie! Thank you again for sharing your wisdom 💖💖💖 all the best to you! 💋
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Oh so good 👍 👌 😍 I love how you embody everything you teach. It makes these teachings so much more valuable and insightful. I am definitely working on hightening my self worth to the core and am blessed to be working with you. Thanks Fareen for sharing your messages❤ you are such a light.
Absolutely true! 💯
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Hey Fareen ❤
Thanks for the valuable content 🥰
& Could you please make a video on SELF LOVE 💞🌷
I love this one! Yes! You all seem to be reading my mind today 😆. And thank you, I’m so happy it’s helpful!
@@fareenashofficialI'll wait for the self Love video 💜
@fareen Me too self love and how to become the higher self, ‘inner work healing’ but with concrete steps , (lol lots of demand here but absolutely love the teachings) ❤
Self love 💕 yes can’t wait to hear more on this as well!!!
Hi Fareen. Will you consider doing a video on sexual polarity? I have seen other videos on sexual polarity, but I think that they are incomplete. I think that polarity in personalities, like emotionality, and probably aggressiveness/passiveness should be included. I have even seen some couples where the man seems more emotional than the woman (I don't think it is uncommon). I think that is sexual polarity. I'm interested in a video from you on sexual polarity, especially if have more to add to what other people have said (I'm sure it would be good even if you don't).
I loveee this question and I actually made a note about doing a video specifically on men - and leading…. This will serve to enhance a woman’s attraction. Something like this? A specific question/topic you want me to do would be great. This will be my next video!
@fareenashofficial, that is partly what I'm talking about. I was thinking about something that would give a definitive guide to sexual polarity, or something like that. I was thinking something with at least sexual polarity in the title, partly so that if someone searches for it. This may not be your style though.
@@fareenashofficialFareen i love how you take in the comments and listen to us!😍🙏🙏💕💕🤩🤌🤌
Appreciate you so much sweetie!! 🔥🔥💋
Really appreciate ur insightful videos 🙏💛 and u look stunning as usual!
Awwww thank you!! 🙏 I appreciate you ☺️
I appreciate all the knowledge here
Thank you 🙏
I just purchased one of your books.
Thanks ❤
Yay!!!!! Keep me posted on what you learn k! 🤍🤍😍😍😍
Can you talk more about if you’re already in a relationship.
Yes…. Is there something specific you have in mind
@@fareenashofficialyes like what if you are living together with kids etc. and he is spending most of his free time by himself (in his man cave, video games, working out etc.) rather than spending it with me
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Thank you. I don’t really like anything to extreme or inauthentic. You’re welcome to send me a sample for a video and I’ll see if the vibe matches my style. Thank you for the compliment
A man wouldn't want what he wants to he his for someone else to have.
Men don't place expectations, hence freedom. They need freedom. Don't put pressure initially. Then he'll drop his guards with you. Freedom makes him feel good. Doesn't expect except bare minimum. Expectations are based on the stage of a relationship. You need to have your own stuff going on.
Naturally give them a lot of room bc she doesn't need to be babied. It's attractive when you don't need extra efforts but appreciate them.
We also should demand for the freedom to be ourselves and lose others that don't like our authenticity, thanks❤.
Your confidence makes him feel safe. Because they get the room for their authenticity.
He wants to feel proud of you. She's a woman that you keep wanting more from her all the time. No matter how long. A féminine woman is someone that's desired more, desire is never enough.
A woman trying to play hard to get is outcome oriented. A high value woman isn't about the outcome but about the efforts.
Men need to prove himself to you. You need to signal you're exclusive. Men are designed to be competitive. The harder you are to get, the more he'll pursue you.
Show up in your right state and I'll decide if you're the one.
A feminine woman won't leave if there are difficulties, will leave if he doesn't make her feel good. She doesn't nag. She loves herself, won't allow others to not love herself.
Efforts are always necessary, no matter the stage of a relationship.
What is feminine energy? Could you pls share the book you wrote or link on video about this?
All links are in the description 🤍
If there’s no expectation for them to call or text…. What should they be doing then during the courting phase? Just curious
I go deeper into this in my books 🤍
@@fareenashofficial okay, thank you , which one would you recommend reading first?
@KatLove-bk2xq if you’re wanting to know more about men then “what men want.” “Secrets of the feminine woman” is about true femininity and healing. You’ll find what others are saying in the instagram testimonial page. 🤍
I have done exactly this. I am F31 and my boyfriend is M34. However, what should I do if he himself thinks he is not financially ready to take the next step? Should I keep waiting? He may be ready in two years (finishing PhD, but not guaranteed). He adores me and is lovely otherwise. I love him too. We don’t live together.
Don’t wait
Men want most attractive women to boost their ego, he assumes she had lots, because she's attractive so she gets lots of offers. So if she's hot, they overlook everything else. I see that everywhere, in real life, in celebs etc.
“A woman who is hard to get expects a bare minimum” - can you please expand on this point? 🧐 I wonder if I have too much expectations in the beginning. Also, I am wondering when does this “begging” stance ends?
Hi Fareen, should a woman compliment a man's looks before he compliments her before dating while he's pursuing her? Could you do a video on that please?
Hmmmmmm this is an interesting one! Ok I’ll note this question now to do a video on it! Great one!!!!
No you shouldn't. Compliment other things but not a man's looks. That's princess energy you're giving to him
Thank you Fareen. You are really pretty and I was just wondering what your ethnicity is?
Thank you 😊
I❤this video Thank You!!
I love hearing that! Thank you 😊
Do not necessarily agree this technique works to form a stable relationship. My ex pursued me for 5 months. I didn't play hard to get, I just chose to allow him to take the lead. He studied me, showed concern, interest, bought me things, cared for me etc etc
All of this for him to suddenly end things with me
The dynamic prob shifted once you got together. Maintain the diva vibe not from playing games but just because you are busy. A new male friend text me 2 days ago I totally forgot to reply too busy living my life!
When I found myself annoyed by male “games” and saying “I was just living my life with friends” and it started to happen automatically … I realized that I was improving. I just got “triggered” last week, but it had nothing to do with any man. It was a me issue and I knew it and could communicate that. It gets better, even if not perfect ❤️
Yesssss!!! Good for you! It’s so hard to admit when it’s a “me” thing but that’s when true change can happen! 🤍🤍🤍😍😍😍
And never about perfection! Progress not perfection 🤍
@@fareenashofficial Oh my gosh yes!!! I noticed that people will follow when you admit it. Good people men and women will feel a safe area to share their things too. True connection is fantastic.
@@fareenashofficial Amen. I think doing another video on getting “triggered” and how to spring back would be helpful. I know they were for me 🤗
@jaccrazy21 I will definitely do a video on this for sure!
Dear Fareen, thank you so much on everything you do for us. Also, you are very welcomed to speak on any "girlie" subject you find interesting, maby beauty rituals, healthcare habits, skincare routine, how you found your style, series\books you recomend...thank you and all power to you Fareen.
Omg yes please I'd love to know the skincare habits🤭😍🙏
Great suggestion!
Your mic is clipping
I know 🙈
I realized after I recorded! Sorry
All very true 👍
Glad you think so!
I want him, but I don't need him. If he goes awol meh, just get on with your life. A man described men like cats, they will stray but they will be back when they know who is best for them.
A better advice I would like to give is Choose God over any man.
Both men and women are created in god's image.
We cannot get attached to this materialistic world.
But we must love our neighbours as we love ourselves. And love respect and fear God the most.
So true. And it takes a lot of work and desire to really see what’s going on beyond your own stuff. The introspection and self honesty is hard when you’re not use to it.
So needed this message today. You’re amazing always 🩶
Stay effortless 😉
I'm impossible to get by guys I don't like but the easiest for the guy I like. Maybe that's why I'm dumped all the time.
Have you read my books yet? They will help! We just have to turn that focus inward, that’s all. Not on them ❤️
@@fareenashofficial hmm may be.. am going through a situation where we did it and now he's ignoring me. I blocked him but couldn't block him for long. I don't really know what to do. I'll checkout your book though.
you could get me 🤔
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I am very grateful for Your videos, always very Wise and True but I understand you have lots to read and clients so, I am not dropping any comments most of the time, no need for discussion , just received it. Not alway have time to write but always living ♥️♥️♥️ for logarithm
Thanku 🙏
@Joanna.Swiderska333 you have no idea how much I appreciate this - thank you!
Ok got it. So what I understand I should’ve been born a man.
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Men dont like time wasters...
The same can be said about men
So... welcome to dystopia.
Men dont want busy women...
It’s sad to have an extreme point of view this speaker has that a high value person won’t stay in a marriage if disrespected. As much as it should be the case, it’s not entirely straight forward to just pick up your bags and leave with kids especially when you have bills to pay on your own! A high value person can emotionally check out from a relationship until they find their feet and independence to physically check out too. Please don’t propagate radical views and make people think that they have low self worth only coz they’re stuck in a situation!
Really appreciate ur insightful videos 🙏💛 and u look stunning as usual!
Thank you!🙏
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