I have learned so much from you. I realized that I spent a lot of years in my head in my last relationship. When I was growing up my feelings were always dismissed. My mom did not give me empathy. she told me to suck it up or told me that I was too sensitive when I had feelings. Because of that I learned to abandon my feelings and always lived in my head. I'm now starting to have a relationship with my body again.
I can’t express to you how much it means to me when you open up your heart and vulnerably share the impact the videos are making! It makes me feel so good and it is wonderful practice for your next relationship ! Thank you so much for sharing and your beautiful heart 🤍
Lust, Like, Love. That's the natural progression. Mutual sexual attraction hopefully turning into a romantic friendship, then progressing to a romantic best friendship, the marriage ideal. It's all down to friendship.
I don’t think inner work is required because you’re excited about a man. A person with high standards has emotions just like anyone else. We can be giddy or smitten and that doesn’t mean anything is wrong. That’s almost like saying having a crush is wrong. It just means you’re attracted. Being desperate is wrong.
Think about it what excites us?? food, experiences, surface level things. not people. You may be excited to meet someone but that is because he matches some of your criteria which is still surface level. You have no idea who this person is. You cannot just depend on your surface level excitement to make any sound decision on how much importance and your time to give this man. Soo put that excitement away and be present in the real world/reality. Sure you will have fun and in that moment things will be exciting but that's a shared experience and that tells you something. If that feels real (not love bombing??) and is consistent over time, that's more reliable.
These were my thoughts exactly! Like I get excited about being with the people I love family or other wise. So I can’t get excited about my crush? I understand not being desperate but, what’s wrong with being excited? 🙃
Energy doesn't lie. Trust it. I wouldn't dismiss all men who are highly and seriously interested in a woman early as insecure since some are religious so dont want to waste time or be intimate before marriage.
Hi Fareen, this was so good. I always struggled as the 'nice girl' as a way to people please due to my own insecurities and thinking it was the only way to get validation. Through your videos I am understanding why this way of being does not work well for healthy relationships and why men lose respect for women that coddle them. I am single right now but hope to have a fresh start with someone in the future and be able to show up authentically and honour myself and my partner in the process. Thank you.
Being single and learning about all of this is the best place to be! I am so excited for you and the amazing man you’ll meet! Beautiful heartfelt comment and sharing, thank you 🤍
Hey, Imma stop commenting after this but if this isn't the realest thing I heard all day....real emotions from a real place and not a place of projection will get a real one EVERYTIME... Keep preaching the good word
why am I learning this in my 40s… and only at the time I have made all these mistakes as the second type. The man was texting every day, as soon as we were intimate yes he went, I got mad so many times. He was still wanting to text me every day though for 3 years but not take me on dates or do what he needed, kept being hot and cold and I viewed him as avoidant (I stopped being intimate very quickly don’t worry). I stopped replying as fed up with his games / fake words about dates when he probably just wanted the assets again or FWB (I made extremely clear I did not want hook ups from that start) but can’t stop beating myself up for these mistakes. I lost someone I really liked and it kills me inside that maybe it could have been different. I wish all women learnt this type of thing in school, maybe men would not act like this if they couldn’t get away with it. I have watched so many relationship videos in the last few years and this one has really got me… thanks Fareen. Your voice is perfect do not worry.
Hey Fareen I love your content so much. You're very rational and very reasonable. Thank you for pointing out the nature of men - if they never have to work for you, they're never going to truly value you. I see so many broken women including me feeling excited and wanting to chase a man. It's really because we don't understand our value, and we were conditioned to not believe in our inherent value as women.
Thanking GOD, I didn’t sleep with him! Was way too excited to find out my crush was crushing on me, literally found myself in his apartment and left right then. A couple of make outs but no cookie. I won’t be caught up again.
At the end of the day, it is about the chemistry, which cannot be manufactured. If a woman is excited about me and vice versa, the connection can be like heaven on earth for both us. Some immature men will take advantage of that if the feeling isn't mutual, but if that fear is driving a woman's behavior, then she will close herself off to some wonderful men, IMHO. Mature, experienced, confident men that are looking for real connection and chemistry will move on gracefully if they aren't feeling it.
women like if he is coomfortable with himself, if he isnt copying everybody, just to please the world stadards, and fake ideas about size of body and size of everything. He just may pamper on part of his body, for example hair, or have clean hands, and stuff....she notices it, he doesnt have to do abnormal stuff, like taking steroids etc about his body that make him abandon the hobbies that he really likes to do and woman isnt attracted to a man who is abandoning his own needs...Like need to be good athlete or good musician, or guitarist or pianist etc, but is only watching hiimsewlf in mirror. He feels stuck and she feels the stuckness from him.
I agree with you. A woman that learn to respect and love herself also dont allow just any man inside her body and afecting her energy. I compare it as receiving an intruder inside our house. We may desire the man a lot cause i biologic and hormones will afect us but knowing how that can afect us will prevent us from doing it. Soul ties are real and we may think we are sleeping with a prince and latelly we discover we were with a monster. People are not who we think they are. We must wait and let time show. And try not to fall. We are all humans and we are not critizing women that do it cause we understand they still didnt understood certain things that once we didnt too. I hope women who see your video have discernment to understand what you say. When you use the term spread your legs is not to critize women its just the way men see it. Making love is amazing with the right person but with the wrong person the good moments wont compensate the damage it could do to our well beeing and self esteem
Wow, watched this again the other day and SWEETIE! ❤ You're still the absolute best out there on this subject 😍 and boy are we blessed to have someone like you to teach it ❤ I've made some progress thanks to you 🙏🥺 still have such a way to go! It's hard work.. But it's so nice to be, to really BE a woman I love you very much ❤ big thank you from me once more
Looks may be most important for most men, but a long term relationship will never happen or never last between a masculine man and a masculine woman no matter how good looking the woman is. A relatively aggressive head centric person is not compatible with someone anywhere near similar to that(for a long term relationship).
@@JonWallace-xp9qx I hate to admit it, but you are right also. That is a huge factor, the two polarities need to match to work long term, that's the way nature made it.
Wow.. Ah Fareen 😢 am i doomed? 🙈 I've always ever learned how to be super small and "easy" to be with It's so good to hear this though. I think I've made some progress being more in my feminine, but I'll admit some times i don't know what comes from a "healthy feminine authentic expression" and what is my old conditioning I can't wait to be in a better healthier alignment! I guess it's to be expected if it takes time 🙈🤭 I love you very much! Thank you for this video 🙏😍❤️❤️❤️
A woman doesn't have to get angry or fly off the handle to express dissappintment or dissatisfaction with the way a man treats her after they sleep with each other. Noone can predict all behavior from their partner before they have sex. Assertiveness is important at any stage of a realtionship.
When other women say harsh things about you they’re propelling their own shame on to you. They feel shame about those things, that shame is repressed in their subconscious and thrown back on to others.
I have no friggin idea how I got to this video, but I'm glad I did as my intention is to do similar work for men. Helping them align with their divine masculine. Great content Fareen, you're changing lives.
Fareen..this video is SO outstandingly excellent. I'm a fairly new subscriber and have watched at least 20 of your videos and they never disappoint. As a matter of fact they seem to keep getting better and better. As far as I can tell there's nothing like the quality content on relatiinships and healing that you're putting out there on youtube..it's in a class by itself! I am so grateful I found your channel and am planning to read your books soon and take your inner work course eventually. I was also wondering if you would consider offering your books in a hard copy version at some point? Thanks for helping all of us..both women and men desperately need what you have to share because people have strayed so far from what the original plan was and our happiness and fulfillment is ultimately so connected to the health of our relationships.💕
Even after divorcing and recovering I still did it all wrong with my crush. I had to be honest with myself and admit that I still have issues with self worth otherwise I wouldn’t have been out there chasing a crush😅 well I let go that one and now I’m back at step 1. There is work to do, God please take the wheel next time!
I love your videos so much! I am dealing with an amazing man. We are part of the same group of friends. He is more the shy type, always nervous in front of me. It has been kind of hard to find the balance with this type of man between showing interest while letting him be in his masculine energy. But everything you're talking about is still valid for this type of man. I can see he is moving toward me the most when I am in my body, communicating my feelings to him. I don't need to cuddle or mother him, just to tell him when I am happy, sad, frustrated and it's more than enough
I think it's going well. He is opening more to me little by little. It requires lot of patience and vulnerability. He told me he takes me very seriously. Currently I'm giving him space to let him come to me. An advice i could give you if you're platonic is to tell him you're romantically interested asap and then to just let time do the work for him to process the idea
The first time a woman gave me the falling in love look (shiny eyes that moved very rapidly from side to side) my entire body tingled. I guess that's the energy Fareen is talking about here. Her love frequency activated mine. This experience was way more intimate than sex. It's the ultimate sensory experience and it's happened twice more since then ❤️🥰🤩
You are an inspiration! I am healing and wish this was taught in college or school to help women ❤ thank you for what you are doing !! I will purchase!
Honestly I've tried this too, he went along with it, used me and dropped me by month 7. What you are saying is 100%! But there are some wicked men out there, I feel like I lost energy, hope and enthusiasm. 😢
Did he introduce you to his family, friends as a girlfriend, did he put your picture on his social media, did he pay for everything for you? Another thing is , you know a man is truly interested if he spends money on you.
I love your energy Fareen ! ❤ I can t wait this month to purchase at least one of your works . You explain it so well and beautifully and your teachings are profound , spiritual ...amazing , not just superficial and ultimately leading to nowhere . ❤ So happy that you chose to teach us , you are a blessing.
I think I agree with what she is saying. I believe that how and how much a woman shows emotion is an important part of having chemistry. I think that masculine men are attracted to women who seem extra emotional(caring, loving, how they use intonation, etc). The "energy" masculine men like is feminine energy. Masculine men don't want too much aggressiveness(sexual, etc), especially for a long term relationship.
I also wanted to say that I love ur voice and pronunciations in a very delicious visceral way. It's like candy to my ears... like the principal in school of rock. It doesn't matter, but it makes ur already VERY valuable info, even more enjoyable to take in 💚
Don’t worry about your accent, Fareen. I’m from the UK and got used to it. As someone from Continental Europe, I softened my own accent just to blend in but there are so many accents and dialects that there will always be people who struggle to understand each other.
Sheesh…wish I would have heard this 10 years ago and really registered it….if you’re young, listen to this lady. You could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if you don’t have self worth you WILL get stepped on, used, perhaps abused, taken advantage of..even if it’s in “kindness”. Even if a guy is “nice”, he will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated. Don’t make the same mistakes as me, don’t attract the sleeze bags. I KNOW there are good men out there, I’ve perhaps even met some, but my energy wasn’t attracting the right type of man. I’m healing and growing..this video brings tears to my eyes because I feel like it’s too late for me. I’m 30 with 3 kids…I’m in a relationship but feel empty many times..pray for me that I can heal and learn to live happily with what I have ❤ Edit: I noticed the way you pronounce masculine and I find it quite endearing! 😊
I couldn’t agree with this comment more! 💯 Ong it is not too late for you! You are very young, wise and have a beautiful heart. You can reach out to me privately if you need. We can 💯 turn this around! I’ve worked with many women that turn their relationships around. 🤍
20:27 very good point - how to feel/recognize when you're turned off and how to evaluate/classify those feelings correctly. I think many women make the mistake (die to our upbringing/socialization) to misinterpret those sensations and attribute them as "there's something wrong with ME". Which leads them to this people pleasing mode, which, in some cases, is a fawn response - i.e. a trauma response which initially serves the purpose of preventing to be abandoned. Which is ironical, because a) when we do that, we abandon our self, which is the most important relationship at all and b) when we do that, we try to bind someone to us, who we actually feel turned off by (which we just misinterpreted in those cases). One question though: What do you mean by "modeling" (which you mention in the very end of the video at 23:40) - is there any video about it or could you make one otherwise? :) Thanks
reminds me of Joseph Campbell, the absence in which men fall in love during is basically a hero's journey. i wonder if it's such a universal format because it's essentially a retelling of the human love story
If I tell uou that I think you’re beautiful whether in blonde or brunette hair, would you say I’m being masculine? I notice or feel beauty wherever it is. Thanks for your work. Valuable.
I am glad to hear I am not the only one who is extremely turned off when a guy who just met me keeps messaging me excessively. I feel bad for the guy but there is usually no way to regain my interest after that point.
Compared to the man you desire, you are not the prize. However, compared to the men who desire you, you are considered the prize, though you are not interested in them. Thus, a woman who is not seen as the prize (because she is pursuing the actual prize) must demonstrate her worth to a man. A woman may hold the key to intimacy though a high value man who has options holds the key to commitment. Withholding intimacy from a man until he proves his worth suggests that he is not the prize. Therefore, raising your standards by making desirable men with options wait for intimacy may either frustrate or bore them. Remember, they have choices; why would they select you if you're being challenging from the beginning?
I noticed that when I am excited about a guy it ALWAYS goes bad. But I thought I wanted to be with a guy that excites me? Were u not excited by ur partner when u first met him?
Some men are very passionate and their 'love language' is touch. It is not necessarily anything to be worried about unless he does not respect your boundaries/when you tell him to stop or say no.
This video!!! 😍😍🙌🏽❤️ GOLD✨✨ love how you said to feel into your body & if you’re focused on what how im saying things, etc.. you’re missing the point & that it’s something to look inward! Such a great video! Literally nobody out there talking about this stuff. Love you ❤
Men are drawn to energy not the little things... only if they are in their Divine Masculine, right? Am I correct in assuming that if you interact out of your Divine Feminine but your partner isn't operating from their Masculine...it isn't as effective?
In my situation after the first date I felt good and had a sensation he did too… Then he doesn’t appear online, it’s always me who has to start chatting, but he replies very soon and in an energetic way… I can’t understand if he likes me or not and desires to see me again
If hes not contacting you & asking you out again thats your answer . Hes not that into you. Sure hes flattered that You are hopeful & into him. You are stroking his ego . Seems you are initiating the contact after the date.
Could you do a video about a man pulling away after you sleep with him and how to handle that situation? I haven’t slept with the man I’m seeing yet but I had this happen once previously and I feel like I was so unprepared and maybe didn’t handle it the best way I could’ve and want to be prepared if it occurs again down the road
Play hard to get until he's emotionally connected with yu. Wen yu do sleep with them don't get attached act like yu don't care like it was a free spirit shit. Go back to being scarce in attached. That's why yu draw them them bak
Don't sleep until he's proven himself by doing stuff for you that shows he wants to protect and provide and asks to be exclusive. Only after that consider it. This can take 6+ months coz men can pretend at the start. Meet his friends family where he introduces you as his person.
My current boyfriend really loved how excited I am about him and anything he does for me. I am head over heels for him and he seems to really love that. Sure i activate his penis, but i dont always have sex with him… actually he is the one who said that we dont need to have sex because he wants to focus on our love… if i didnt get excited about him, i dont see that he would feel appreciated… maybe because I like gentlemen and not blood thirsty men? Idk
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I have learned so much from you. I realized that I spent a lot of years in my head in my last relationship. When I was growing up my feelings were always dismissed. My mom did not give me empathy. she told me to suck it up or told me that I was too sensitive when I had feelings. Because of that I learned to abandon my feelings and always lived in my head. I'm now starting to have a relationship with my body again.
Same same here ❤
I can’t express to you how much it means to me when you open up your heart and vulnerably share the impact the videos are making! It makes me feel so good and it is wonderful practice for your next relationship ! Thank you so much for sharing and your beautiful heart 🤍
Same here!
If you can get him with your body, then any other women can steal him away from you with her body. These men are not worth your time and love.💛
Lust, Like, Love. That's the natural progression. Mutual sexual attraction hopefully turning into a romantic friendship, then progressing to a romantic best friendship, the marriage ideal. It's all down to friendship.
Friendship is the foundation for sure ❤
I don’t think inner work is required because you’re excited about a man. A person with high standards has emotions just like anyone else. We can be giddy or smitten and that doesn’t mean anything is wrong. That’s almost like saying having a crush is wrong. It just means you’re attracted. Being desperate is wrong.
Think about it what excites us?? food, experiences, surface level things. not people. You may be excited to meet someone but that is because he matches some of your criteria which is still surface level. You have no idea who this person is. You cannot just depend on your surface level excitement to make any sound decision on how much importance and your time to give this man.
Soo put that excitement away and be present in the real world/reality. Sure you will have fun and in that moment things will be exciting but that's a shared experience and that tells you something. If that feels real (not love bombing??) and is consistent over time, that's more reliable.
My boyfriend excites me because our chemistry is in line, and i feel relaxed and at peace with him
Having a crush is wrong unless you don't care about being with the person you have a crush on
These were my thoughts exactly! Like I get excited about being with the people I love family or other wise. So I can’t get excited about my crush? I understand not being desperate but, what’s wrong with being excited? 🙃
Energy doesn't lie. Trust it. I wouldn't dismiss all men who are highly and seriously interested in a woman early as insecure since some are religious so dont want to waste time or be intimate before marriage.
Energy does not lie 🤍
Energy does not lie 🤍
Hi Fareen, this was so good. I always struggled as the 'nice girl' as a way to people please due to my own insecurities and thinking it was the only way to get validation. Through your videos I am understanding why this way of being does not work well for healthy relationships and why men lose respect for women that coddle them. I am single right now but hope to have a fresh start with someone in the future and be able to show up authentically and honour myself and my partner in the process. Thank you.
Being single and learning about all of this is the best place to be! I am so excited for you and the amazing man you’ll meet! Beautiful heartfelt comment and sharing, thank you 🤍
Hey, Imma stop commenting after this but if this isn't the realest thing I heard all day....real emotions from a real place and not a place of projection will get a real one EVERYTIME... Keep preaching the good word
The best things in life are not seen or heard but is felt by our heart !
why am I learning this in my 40s… and only at the time I have made all these mistakes as the second type. The man was texting every day, as soon as we were intimate yes he went, I got mad so many times. He was still wanting to text me every day though for 3 years but not take me on dates or do what he needed, kept being hot and cold and I viewed him as avoidant (I stopped being intimate very quickly don’t worry). I stopped replying as fed up with his games / fake words about dates when he probably just wanted the assets again or FWB (I made extremely clear I did not want hook ups from that start) but can’t stop beating myself up for these mistakes. I lost someone I really liked and it kills me inside that maybe it could have been different. I wish all women learnt this type of thing in school, maybe men would not act like this if they couldn’t get away with it. I have watched so many relationship videos in the last few years and this one has really got me… thanks Fareen. Your voice is perfect do not worry.
Very powerful words. Lust and flesh will not bring nor reap long-lasting blessings. How she makes me feel and respected is treasure. 🎒📚
Hey Fareen I love your content so much. You're very rational and very reasonable. Thank you for pointing out the nature of men - if they never have to work for you, they're never going to truly value you. I see so many broken women including me feeling excited and wanting to chase a man. It's really because we don't understand our value, and we were conditioned to not believe in our inherent value as women.
I absolutely agree with you. When things get serious, *we represent our partner* The woman represents the man, and he represents her
Thanking GOD, I didn’t sleep with him! Was way too excited to find out my crush was crushing on me, literally found myself in his apartment and left right then. A couple of make outs but no cookie. I won’t be caught up again.
Don’t go to a man’s house. Might end tragically.
Exactly energy speaks a lot and that applies to any kind of relationship
Absolutely!
You have the right voice and inflection for this line of work. Excellent communicator/messenger of information too ❤
Ladies…look into the fact you may also be living in limerance. This has happened to me, but I am trying to retrain the mind to stop this behaviour x
Yes Look into CRAPPY childhood fairy
2:30 poor -very poor Language
Same
@@Onehuman123she’s amazing!
I'm in this lesson. I realized why I get put in the friendzone and how to never be in that zone with any man ever again.
At the end of the day, it is about the chemistry, which cannot be manufactured. If a woman is excited about me and vice versa, the connection can be like heaven on earth for both us. Some immature men will take advantage of that if the feeling isn't mutual, but if that fear is driving a woman's behavior, then she will close herself off to some wonderful men, IMHO. Mature, experienced, confident men that are looking for real connection and chemistry will move on gracefully if they aren't feeling it.
women like if he is coomfortable with himself, if he isnt copying everybody, just to please the world stadards, and fake ideas about size of body and size of everything.
He just may pamper on part of his body, for example hair, or have clean hands, and stuff....she notices it, he doesnt have to do abnormal stuff, like taking steroids etc about his body
that make him abandon the hobbies that he really likes to do and woman isnt attracted to a man who is abandoning his own needs...Like need to be good athlete or good musician, or guitarist or pianist etc, but is only watching hiimsewlf in mirror. He feels stuck and she feels the stuckness from him.
I agree with you. A woman that learn to respect and love herself also dont allow just any man inside her body and afecting her energy. I compare it as receiving an intruder inside our house. We may desire the man a lot cause i biologic and hormones will afect us but knowing how that can afect us will prevent us from doing it. Soul ties are real and we may think we are sleeping with a prince and latelly we discover we were with a monster. People are not who we think they are. We must wait and let time show. And try not to fall. We are all humans and we are not critizing women that do it cause we understand they still didnt understood certain things that once we didnt too. I hope women who see your video have discernment to understand what you say. When you use the term spread your legs is not to critize women its just the way men see it. Making love is amazing with the right person but with the wrong person the good moments wont compensate the damage it could do to our well beeing and self esteem
Wise comment…
This is such an awesome analogy 👏🏼 👏🏼 🤍🫶🏼 we learning. 🤓
Wow, watched this again the other day and SWEETIE! ❤
You're still the absolute best out there on this subject 😍 and boy are we blessed to have someone like you to teach it ❤
I've made some progress thanks to you 🙏🥺 still have such a way to go! It's hard work.. But it's so nice to be, to really BE a woman
I love you very much ❤ big thank you from me once more
Thanks!
Looks is number one for man.
I saw many many couples that guy is good looking and girl mehhh
So no
For u it’s number1
Dosent mean
For everyone
@safethamzagic7226 - 100% I agree with you.
Looks may be most important for most men, but a long term relationship will never happen or never last between a masculine man and a masculine woman no matter how good looking the woman is. A relatively aggressive head centric person is not compatible with someone anywhere near similar to that(for a long term relationship).
@@JonWallace-xp9qx I hate to admit it, but you are right also. That is a huge factor, the two polarities need to match to work long term, that's the way nature made it.
Yessssss!!!
Wow.. Ah Fareen 😢 am i doomed? 🙈 I've always ever learned how to be super small and "easy" to be with
It's so good to hear this though. I think I've made some progress being more in my feminine, but I'll admit some times i don't know what comes from a "healthy feminine authentic expression" and what is my old conditioning
I can't wait to be in a better healthier alignment! I guess it's to be expected if it takes time 🙈🤭
I love you very much! Thank you for this video 🙏😍❤️❤️❤️
A woman doesn't have to get angry or fly off the handle to express dissappintment or dissatisfaction with the way a man treats her after they sleep with each other. Noone can predict all behavior from their partner before they have sex. Assertiveness is important at any stage of a realtionship.
Hi Fareen. I feel greatful because of all ypur videos and the effort you put on teaching us. I can't wait to buy any of your courses! Warm hugs💗
When other women say harsh things about you they’re propelling their own shame on to you. They feel shame about those things, that shame is repressed in their subconscious and thrown back on to others.
Exactly 🤍
I have no friggin idea how I got to this video, but I'm glad I did as my intention is to do similar work for men. Helping them align with their divine masculine. Great content Fareen, you're changing lives.
I’m so happy you found me to and I love your mission! Keep me posted so I can support you and your work !
@@fareenashofficial Will do!
Fareen..this video is SO outstandingly excellent. I'm a fairly new subscriber and have watched at least 20 of your videos and they never disappoint. As a matter of fact they seem to keep getting better and better. As far as I can tell there's nothing like the quality content on relatiinships and healing that you're putting out there on youtube..it's in a class by itself! I am so grateful I found your channel and am planning to read your books soon and take your inner work course eventually. I was also wondering if you would consider offering your books in a hard copy version at some point? Thanks for helping all of us..both women and men desperately need what you have to share because people have strayed so far from what the original plan was and our happiness and fulfillment is ultimately so connected to the health of our relationships.💕
Your video just showed up randomly and really got me hooked! You have explained the mechanism so well, thanks for sharing - new subscriber here :)
Thank you and welcome to my world! 🤍🤍🤍
So goood! Thanks for the examples and explaining so clearly, I've gained so much awareness with you Fareen. Thank you 🥰🫶
Even after divorcing and recovering I still did it all wrong with my crush. I had to be honest with myself and admit that I still have issues with self worth otherwise I wouldn’t have been out there chasing a crush😅 well I let go that one and now I’m back at step 1. There is work to do, God please take the wheel next time!
Amen sister! I hear u!😂🙏
This is invaluable!!! Can’t even explain how grateful I am for you and your insights❤❤❤
One of my favorite channels. Great advice
I appreciate that!
I love your videos so much! I am dealing with an amazing man. We are part of the same group of friends. He is more the shy type, always nervous in front of me. It has been kind of hard to find the balance with this type of man between showing interest while letting him be in his masculine energy. But everything you're talking about is still valid for this type of man. I can see he is moving toward me the most when I am in my body, communicating my feelings to him. I don't need to cuddle or mother him, just to tell him when I am happy, sad, frustrated and it's more than enough
How are you going with him? I currently want a similar man, we ate platonic.
I think it's going well. He is opening more to me little by little. It requires lot of patience and vulnerability. He told me he takes me very seriously. Currently I'm giving him space to let him come to me.
An advice i could give you if you're platonic is to tell him you're romantically interested asap and then to just let time do the work for him to process the idea
❤❤ I forgot... Thank you, Fareen! My mom and I purchased your books. I thank you kindly.
The first time a woman gave me the falling in love look (shiny eyes that moved very rapidly from side to side) my entire body tingled. I guess that's the energy Fareen is talking about here. Her love frequency activated mine. This experience was way more intimate than sex. It's the ultimate sensory experience and it's happened twice more since then ❤️🥰🤩
Yes!
You are an inspiration! I am healing and wish this was taught in college or school to help women ❤ thank you for what you are doing !!
I will purchase!
Awww thank you for this beautiful comment! I appreciate it so much :) ok! Let me know how it goes and what you learn 🤍
I can continue listening to you even if it’s hours long ❤
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Wow! Another powerful and outstandingly important and authentic video. Can’t find the words to express my appreciation for your teachings ❤
Excellent content, Fareen! 👍👍👍
Thanks a ton
Honestly I've tried this too, he went along with it, used me and dropped me by month 7. What you are saying is 100%! But there are some wicked men out there, I feel like I lost energy, hope and enthusiasm. 😢
Did he introduce you to his family, friends as a girlfriend, did he put your picture on his social media, did he pay for everything for you? Another thing is , you know a man is truly interested if he spends money on you.
A man doing all of that means absolutely nothing
I love you Fareeeeeennnn. You are so clever and sweet. Thank you for helping us 🩷🩷🩷
Awwww thank you! Thank you for being here and your warmth and love! 🤍🤍
Thank you Fareen ❤
Respect above all. It’s that simple.
As a woman i can guarantee the whole point is if I WANT to settle down. He has to show up pretty spectacular for me to settle down
Yesssss! 🤍🤍🤍
Your advice is golden
Thank You 💙
I love your energy Fareen ! ❤ I can t wait this month to purchase at least one of your works . You explain it so well and beautifully and your teachings are profound , spiritual ...amazing , not just superficial and ultimately leading to nowhere . ❤ So happy that you chose to teach us , you are a blessing.
Thank you so much🤍🤍🤍
Thank you so much for this Video , so much love for you❤
I think I agree with what she is saying. I believe that how and how much a woman shows emotion is an important part of having chemistry. I think that masculine men are attracted to women who seem extra emotional(caring, loving, how they use intonation, etc). The "energy" masculine men like is feminine energy. Masculine men don't want too much aggressiveness(sexual, etc), especially for a long term relationship.
Yesssssss 🤍🙏
I also wanted to say that I love ur voice and pronunciations in a very delicious visceral way. It's like candy to my ears... like the principal in school of rock. It doesn't matter, but it makes ur already VERY valuable info, even more enjoyable to take in 💚
Don’t worry about your accent, Fareen. I’m from the UK and got used to it. As someone from Continental Europe, I softened my own accent just to blend in but there are so many accents and dialects that there will always be people who struggle to understand each other.
I concur.
You’re so sweet, thank you for you warm remarks!
One of your Best videos Fareen! 🎉
This is sooo good!!!
Secure - let him prove it to me over time
Thank you Dear Fareen 🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️
Yeah they do but the thing is don’t let out your emotions for any man just because your desperate . You have to trust him first emotionally.
I am so happy to see your channel growing- its well deserved ❤
Thank you so much :)
Is it possible though that a man can still have his emotions engaged but then he pulls away because his not ready for commitment within himself?
Sheesh…wish I would have heard this 10 years ago and really registered it….if you’re young, listen to this lady.
You could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if you don’t have self worth you WILL get stepped on, used, perhaps abused, taken advantage of..even if it’s in “kindness”. Even if a guy is “nice”, he will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.
Don’t make the same mistakes as me, don’t attract the sleeze bags. I KNOW there are good men out there, I’ve perhaps even met some, but my energy wasn’t attracting the right type of man.
I’m healing and growing..this video brings tears to my eyes because I feel like it’s too late for me. I’m 30 with 3 kids…I’m in a relationship but feel empty many times..pray for me that I can heal and learn to live happily with what I have ❤
Edit: I noticed the way you pronounce masculine and I find it quite endearing! 😊
I couldn’t agree with this comment more! 💯
Ong it is not too late for you! You are very young, wise and have a beautiful heart. You can reach out to me privately if you need. We can 💯 turn this around! I’ve worked with many women that turn their relationships around. 🤍
@@fareenashofficialThank you for your kindness and wisdom 🧡
30 only ,you're still very young..❤
You are still very young! Don’t despair 😘
Love your videos thank you🙏🌹❤️
Another amazing video - thank you!
20:27 very good point - how to feel/recognize when you're turned off and how to evaluate/classify those feelings correctly. I think many women make the mistake (die to our upbringing/socialization) to misinterpret those sensations and attribute them as "there's something wrong with ME". Which leads them to this people pleasing mode, which, in some cases, is a fawn response - i.e. a trauma response which initially serves the purpose of preventing to be abandoned. Which is ironical, because a) when we do that, we abandon our self, which is the most important relationship at all and b) when we do that, we try to bind someone to us, who we actually feel turned off by (which we just misinterpreted in those cases).
One question though:
What do you mean by "modeling" (which you mention in the very end of the video at 23:40) - is there any video about it or could you make one otherwise? :) Thanks
reminds me of Joseph Campbell, the absence in which men fall in love during is basically a hero's journey. i wonder if it's such a universal format because it's essentially a retelling of the human love story
If I tell uou that I think you’re beautiful whether in blonde or brunette hair, would you say I’m being masculine? I notice or feel beauty wherever it is. Thanks for your work. Valuable.
I am glad to hear I am not the only one who is extremely turned off when a guy who just met me keeps messaging me excessively. I feel bad for the guy but there is usually no way to regain my interest after that point.
It is very off putting! Confident men show interest but also are confident and not needy 🤍
whoah. love your energy! instant subscriber!
YES, Love it!!!
Love this
Compared to the man you desire, you are not the prize. However, compared to the men who desire you, you are considered the prize, though you are not interested in them. Thus, a woman who is not seen as the prize (because she is pursuing the actual prize) must demonstrate her worth to a man. A woman may hold the key to intimacy though a high value man who has options holds the key to commitment. Withholding intimacy from a man until he proves his worth suggests that he is not the prize. Therefore, raising your standards by making desirable men with options wait for intimacy may either frustrate or bore them. Remember, they have choices; why would they select you if you're being challenging from the beginning?
Im the reactive type 😂🎉 Im not shy or afraid to put you in your place. You're right I need to learn to ghost 😂
I noticed that when I am excited about a guy it ALWAYS goes bad. But I thought I wanted to be with a guy that excites me? Were u not excited by ur partner when u first met him?
You give the best energy!! I love it!
Aww thank you 🙏
I love when you upload I’ll be listening on my lunch break 🎉
Yay!!
How about practicality e.g. finances, health, mental & physical stability....and so on
Really good sharing!!
Thanks so much!
So good. Videos are next level ❤
Glad you think so!
Right on sister!!!
You speak alot of sense and your not bad to look at either.
How about getting curious instead of excited?
Curious is good!
What if the man can’t keep his hands from U - should I be worried? We are in a relationship.
Some men are very passionate and their 'love language' is touch. It is not necessarily anything to be worried about unless he does not respect your boundaries/when you tell him to stop or say no.
This is wonderful sign if you’re with him! It means he’s attracted to you and how it should be! 🤍
Yes but if he can’t accept a no in times ur not in to it
So he needs to understand same if he is not wanting
So
It’s ok
This video!!! 😍😍🙌🏽❤️ GOLD✨✨ love how you said to feel into your body & if you’re focused on what how im saying things, etc.. you’re missing the point & that it’s something to look inward! Such a great video! Literally nobody out there talking about this stuff. Love you ❤
Men are drawn to energy not the little things... only if they are in their Divine Masculine, right? Am I correct in assuming that if you interact out of your Divine Feminine but your partner isn't operating from their Masculine...it isn't as effective?
I appreciate your videos. I picked up on your language last couple of videos and noticed you haven't mentioned your fiancé. Are you still together?
Great video ! Thank-you. PS you are so beautiful I bet you would look stunning with darker hair color
Aww thank you so much! I’ve tried darker but I prefer the lighter on me. Thank you so much for your beautiful comment 🤍
Love it. Love this video you made!
In my situation after the first date I felt good and had a sensation he did too… Then he doesn’t appear online, it’s always me who has to start chatting, but he replies very soon and in an energetic way… I can’t understand if he likes me or not and desires to see me again
Please purchase an email session or call and I can get into it with you there. 😍
If hes not contacting you & asking you out again thats your answer . Hes not that into you. Sure hes flattered that You are hopeful & into him. You are stroking his ego . Seems you are initiating the contact after the date.
This is so true
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True true true ❤❤❤
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Could you do a video about a man pulling away after you sleep with him and how to handle that situation? I haven’t slept with the man I’m seeing yet but I had this happen once previously and I feel like I was so unprepared and maybe didn’t handle it the best way I could’ve and want to be prepared if it occurs again down the road
Your amazing mama ur human
It’s ok
To be nervous before a date ,
Ur amazing as u r !
Progress not perfection ❤
Don’t sleep with any man unless you have been official for 6-12 months, he introduced you to his friends, family, shared you on social media etc.
Play hard to get until he's emotionally connected with yu. Wen yu do sleep with them don't get attached act like yu don't care like it was a free spirit shit. Go back to being scarce in attached. That's why yu draw them them bak
Don't sleep until he's proven himself by doing stuff for you that shows he wants to protect and provide and asks to be exclusive. Only after that consider it. This can take 6+ months coz men can pretend at the start. Meet his friends family where he introduces you as his person.
I will 🤍
I never understood why men only appreciate a good woman when she walks away. Your explanation finally cleared up the confusion for me. 🌺
Glad it was helpful!
You’re talking to me.
How do I get your inner work book?
Is it ever possible to regain a man’s attention after physically engaging too soon in the relationship?
Yes!
Thank you.
You're welcome!
Wow beautiful stunning lady ❤❤
You are so right.
So your saying to find a guy that you dont like and dont get excited by him?
My current boyfriend really loved how excited I am about him and anything he does for me. I am head over heels for him and he seems to really love that. Sure i activate his penis, but i dont always have sex with him… actually he is the one who said that we dont need to have sex because he wants to focus on our love… if i didnt get excited about him, i dont see that he would feel appreciated… maybe because I like gentlemen and not blood thirsty men? Idk
Sorry hogging the comments section lol. Can u pls hire a PA to organise printing of your book and audio creation pretty pls 🤞🙏😅
Proofed? Or proven? I tried to look it up and think it has to be "proven" but confirm this?
Why do men leave for more beautiful women.. ?? Its heartbreaking... 😢
Because men are with a woman only for how she looks.
It's not about beauty men love pain u emotional attached women who are fun mysterious n who don't show they care brains over heart