Guys this isn't even about playing toxic games. He's literally talking about resting and thriving in your feminine energy, being a hard woman to get with boundaries, knowing how to give a man space when he pulls back, never chasing, and giving the masculine the opportunity to win you over by pursuing you and enjoying its thrill.
It is games. You’re manipulating the situation in order to get someone to like you when the real answer is to change your self concept and believe in yourself and everything else will just naturally come to you without any effort because it’s always about you not them.
3:00 These tactics are preparing the way of making him infatuated. "By being inconsistent he'll want to figure you out. You 1st want to create a space in his head, to create an infatuation. And the way to do that is: 1. Being weak and making him think you like him 2. Being inconsistent and making you think you are crazy 3. By insinuation, a subtle attack on his insecurities, insinuate that he lacks things that attract you (then change the subject) 4. Make seeing you a little bit more difficult, create barriers like "Don't call me baby, going too fast, no.. or friend-zone him: I like you, but I think we should just be friends PEOPLE VALUE MORE THINGS THAT THEY WORK FOR. Give him a little taste, then back off.
Understand: these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY and really-truly-honestly completely and totally underwhelming! Take a step back and realize it’s YOU who makes them so special, in your own delusional mind. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. If you're avoidant, you most likely have said to family members - who had a major role in your childhood: "You only accepted me or liked me when I was happy/obedient/emotionless." This one simple statement fits with ALL the core symptoms of avoidant attachment: 1. Being overly self-reliant (and in doing so, you hide your needs, emotions, problems, and acute illnesses) 2. Pushing down anger until it explodes and manufactures the boundaries you crave but can't/don't/won't always ask for 3. Not wanting to burden others with your problems 4. Wanting to fix your own issues to avoid looking incompetent or even getting bullied and teased/mocked 5. Numbing out emotions with self-soothing behaviors that are either totally unhealthy or pseudo-healthy (like getting addicted to working out and healthy eating) Remember ALWAYS this process is all about YOU!!! Not him. He is just a catalyst. Consider, he may be your twin flame. Look into that. After he initiated your trauma, you're now left to deal with and to heal: all that has come to the surface. GOOD! This is a blessing. Albeit painful. A necessary blessing, nonetheless. HUGE-HUGE gift! Major advice!!! Listen closely!!! NEVER ever EVER CHASE HIM. He will run further and you will lose yourself more. You are the feminine. You are the divine goddess. You just be and approve (or disapprove) whoever comes along. It's a yes: you meet my requirements, or: it's a no, you do not. Be clear on whom you're accepting as a partner and DO NOT settle for less (or you just delay what's actually really divinely meant for you). Accept your struggle, anxiety, fear, sadness. Whatever comes up. It's all human, and in need of your attention. If you push it away, deny it, block it, hide it, or run from it... You will just have to deal with it later... And when later comes, those emotions will be: intensified/amplified/magnified! 1) Put yourself first and foremost! 2) Fall in love with yourself. Be your own dream girl. 3) Rejection is redirection. Embrace the energies of miraculous possibilities. And, Any time you have a painful thought/memory/flashback/worry/belief: 1. Find the belief... 2. Write 11 DISADVANTAGES to having the belief 3. Write 11 ADVANTAGES to having the belief If you can NOT find advantages then that’s EXACTLY why you're stuck!! When you finally see both sides... Your mind will STOP thinking about it 'cause your brain will be rewired. So you gotta keep at it, until you find the positive to the negative... And therefore, ultimately rewire your brain! AND REMEMBER: STOP making it all about manifestation when really, it's actually all about VIBRATION! 1. Never EVER-EVER under any circumstance: chase a man. 2. Do not support a man financially. NEVER EVER. 3. Never compare your man to another man. 4. Never ever dive in, when a man says , "I'm not ready for a relationship". HUGE! RED! FLAG! 5. Stop feeling like you are needing to prove yourself worthy. 6. Never tell a man over and over again what he already knows he is doing is wrong. (The issue is: he does not care. He does not give a damn! That's why he ain't doing better!) 7. Never force a man to do his part. (He doesn't want to be with you, if you have to force anything!) 8. Never EVER try to control a man so he won't cheat. (Your part is to observe him, so you know who the fuck he really is!)
I find this rather soooooo easy on guys I dont really like at first 😂 I don't even think about it because I'm so detached... I prefer guys who like me wayyyyy more than I like them and I tend to like them later through their efforts and this is why I don't bother with men who I really really like! It never goes well! So if you wanna win, give the guys you don't like that much "at first" a chance and you'll eventually do through their actions, i.e gifts, efforts, help, dates, shopping, trips whatever... Call me weird but I don't want to be with men that Im crazy about!! And every since taking this decision, Ive received nothing but peace and I tend to respect these men more... ❤
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a pink spark in you You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe You don't have to feel like a waste of space You're original, cannot be replaced If you only knew what the future holds After a hurricane comes a rainbow Maybe a reason why all the doors are closed So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow And when it's time, you'll know You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night Like the Fourth of July 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe Boom, boom, boom Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon It's always been inside of you, you, you And now it's time to let it through 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe Boom, boom, boom Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon Boom, boom, boom Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Just found your channel. It's the first time I've explored the idea of strengthening my masculine energy to protect my feminine energy. I put out a feminine energy coloring book called recharging the divine feminine that encourages women to embrace their divine feminine. Would be fun to pick your brain. I like your perspective on the topic, definitely subscribing! Thank you
Ion know what kind of dudes he talking about but the masculine 🥷s I know, you sitting up talking about/complimenting another man in front of him will be the last time you’ll see him. Think about it ladies, if a man talking about who he likes and he’s out with me??? Nope, that’s a disrespectful red flag, I’m out!
This sounds like it can get someone interested in you, but it doesn’t sound like it’s a set up for a long-term relationship, I’m genuinely curious about how you think that this kind of cat and mouse type game will help with a long-term relationship? Hope you might respond to this thanks.
You can do this with avoidant men because this is still in their nature they just may not show it or react the same way but if they like you they will comply.
My bf was avoidant, this worked on him when I started to get fed up with his bs. He came around full circle, now it’s like I’m dating a whole new human being.
@@brittneyharvey2917 thank you. I don’t want to ruin anything when he’s said in the past I’m a little too cold. I’m worried I’m becoming too warm now. I hate always having to be so strategic though. I wish I could relax more. Does your avoidant have open convos with you? I’ve started being more vulnerable with mine unlike the past and I’m having better results. Which is why I’m afraid to pull back like I did in the past
Every avoidant is different it depends on the severity of the avoidant. If emotional vulnerability is working for you and getting results then great. Hot cold is part of avoidance, the only way that’s going to change is through therapeutic work, so if you’re using these tactics to try and get an unhealed avoidant to change you are more than likely wasting your time. Being with an avoidant is like playing a game of chess with land mines, work on your own security and your own attachment style. If he’s taking you for granted outside of the realms of normal avoidant behaviour and you’re at your wits end, then try whatever, you have nothing to lose, but I would strongly suggest looking at detachment, that’s the only way you’ll survive an avoidant relationship, as I’m guessing as you’re here you aren’t coping to well with the behaviours.
Also keep in mind, avoidants aren’t aliens, they still have the same biological urges that all humans do. Sometimes you can focus on the attachment style so much you can forget they are still human.
Fainting weakness is essentially acting like the damsel in distress. "This is so heavy, can you help me?" and then praise him "wow, you're strong. I could never. Thanks!"
Feminine, soft women resting in their feminine energy don’t need to do all that to attract a guy lol. If you need to play mind games to attract a guy you need to seriously reevaluate yourself as a woman.
Guys this isn't even about playing toxic games. He's literally talking about resting and thriving in your feminine energy, being a hard woman to get with boundaries, knowing how to give a man space when he pulls back, never chasing, and giving the masculine the opportunity to win you over by pursuing you and enjoying its thrill.
You watch too much of these man catching videos if you know all the terminology
@@Kima89And yet here you are.
It is games. You’re manipulating the situation in order to get someone to like you when the real answer is to change your self concept and believe in yourself and everything else will just naturally come to you without any effort because it’s always about you not them.
@Kima89
This person was able to retain the information given and relay it back it's known as intelligence
@@Jemma29not games. Men are dumb. So if a girl has be sane and get things done without fighting or crying, doing this can be necessary sometimes.
3:00
These tactics are preparing the way of making him infatuated.
"By being inconsistent he'll want to figure you out.
You 1st want to create a space in his head, to create an infatuation.
And the way to do that is:
1. Being weak and making him think you like him
2. Being inconsistent and making you think you are crazy
3. By insinuation, a subtle attack on his insecurities, insinuate that he lacks things that attract you (then change the subject)
4. Make seeing you a little bit more difficult, create barriers like "Don't call me baby, going too fast, no..
or friend-zone him: I like you, but I think we should just be friends
PEOPLE VALUE MORE THINGS THAT THEY WORK FOR.
Give him a little taste, then back off.
“The space make him respect you” 😮💨 brother you ain’t never lied.
I don't know what you smoked today.........but this is a *MASTERPIECE YOUNG MAN* 🍒
😂😂😂😂
Lol!
This dude is always high af I think lmao. It’s because his mind moves so fast. His thoughts are flying all over the place and you can tell
the young man part is what’s sending me 🤣🤣
Sometimes that “sticky icky” makes you think you can solve the world 😂 but true!
Understand:
these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY
and really-truly-honestly
completely and totally
underwhelming!
Take a step back and realize it’s YOU
who makes them so special,
in your own delusional mind.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on.
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
If you're avoidant,
you most likely have said to family members
- who had a major role in your childhood:
"You only accepted me or liked me
when I was happy/obedient/emotionless."
This one simple statement fits with ALL
the core symptoms
of avoidant attachment:
1. Being overly self-reliant
(and in doing so, you hide your needs, emotions, problems, and acute illnesses)
2. Pushing down anger until it explodes
and manufactures the boundaries you crave
but can't/don't/won't always ask for
3. Not wanting to burden others with your problems
4. Wanting to fix your own issues to avoid looking incompetent
or even getting bullied and teased/mocked
5. Numbing out emotions with self-soothing behaviors
that are either totally unhealthy or pseudo-healthy
(like getting addicted to working out and healthy eating)
Remember ALWAYS
this process is all about YOU!!!
Not him.
He is just a catalyst.
Consider,
he may be your twin flame.
Look into that.
After he initiated your trauma,
you're now left to deal with and to heal:
all that has come to the surface.
GOOD! This is a blessing.
Albeit painful.
A necessary blessing, nonetheless.
HUGE-HUGE gift!
Major advice!!!
Listen closely!!!
NEVER ever
EVER
CHASE HIM.
He will run further
and you will lose yourself more.
You are the feminine.
You are the divine goddess.
You just be
and approve (or disapprove)
whoever comes along.
It's a yes:
you meet my requirements,
or: it's a no,
you do not.
Be clear
on whom you're accepting as a partner
and DO NOT settle for less
(or you just delay what's actually really divinely meant for you).
Accept your struggle, anxiety, fear, sadness. Whatever comes up.
It's all human, and in need of your attention.
If you push it away, deny it, block it, hide it, or run from it...
You will just have to deal with it later...
And when later comes,
those emotions will be:
intensified/amplified/magnified!
1) Put yourself first and foremost!
2) Fall in love with yourself. Be your own dream girl.
3) Rejection is redirection.
Embrace the energies of miraculous possibilities.
And,
Any time you have a painful thought/memory/flashback/worry/belief:
1. Find the belief...
2. Write 11 DISADVANTAGES
to having the belief
3. Write 11 ADVANTAGES
to having the belief
If you can NOT find advantages
then that’s EXACTLY
why you're stuck!!
When you finally see both sides...
Your mind will STOP thinking about it
'cause your brain will be rewired.
So you gotta keep at it,
until you find the positive
to the negative...
And therefore, ultimately
rewire your brain!
AND REMEMBER:
STOP making it all about manifestation
when really, it's actually all about VIBRATION!
1. Never EVER-EVER under any circumstance: chase a man.
2. Do not support a man financially. NEVER EVER.
3. Never compare your man to another man.
4. Never ever dive in, when a man says , "I'm not ready for a relationship". HUGE! RED! FLAG!
5. Stop feeling like you are needing to prove yourself worthy.
6. Never tell a man over and over again what he already knows he is doing is wrong.
(The issue is: he does not care. He does not give a damn! That's why he ain't doing better!)
7. Never force a man to do his part. (He doesn't want to be with you, if you have to force anything!)
8. Never EVER try to control a man so he won't cheat.
(Your part is to observe him, so you know who the fuck he really is!)
Amazing ❤️
Thank you i really needed to read that today 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks you.
I ignored him for 2 weeks and all of the sudden he texts me “I miss u”
Doesn’t mean anything. He should at least send you big bouquets or cashapp. Texting and words mean nothing.
Talk is cheap actions speak louder
Feign weakness..not faint..lol thats cute. Thanku for the videos
Saw someone elses post saying men fall in love with uncertainty and this video elaborates how and why!
“Fein” not faint weakness. To Faint means to fall unconscious. Great video as usual. ❤
Feign! 🤣
Right! Thanks … lol😂
Feign
"Feint (verb):
to make a deceptive or distracting movement, especially during a fight.
"Adam feinted with his right and then swung a left"
Thanks you😉
I find this rather soooooo easy on guys I dont really like at first 😂 I don't even think about it because I'm so detached... I prefer guys who like me wayyyyy more than I like them and I tend to like them later through their efforts and this is why I don't bother with men who I really really like! It never goes well! So if you wanna win, give the guys you don't like that much "at first" a chance and you'll eventually do through their actions, i.e gifts, efforts, help, dates, shopping, trips whatever... Call me weird but I don't want to be with men that Im crazy about!! And every since taking this decision, Ive received nothing but peace and I tend to respect these men more... ❤
“I’ll tap that personality”Got It lol
this part had me dead too 🤣😂😂
The hardest person to break up with
is the one you created in your delusional,
fantasy-making mind...
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again?
Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in?
Do you ever feel already buried deep?
Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing
Do you know that there's still a chance for you?
'Cause there's a pink spark in you
You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky
Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe
You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow
Maybe a reason why all the doors are closed
So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road
Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow
And when it's time, you'll know
You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July
'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky
Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through
'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky
Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Just found your channel. It's the first time I've explored the idea of strengthening my masculine energy to protect my feminine energy. I put out a feminine energy coloring book called recharging the divine feminine that encourages women to embrace their divine feminine. Would be fun to pick your brain. I like your perspective on the topic, definitely subscribing! Thank you
Well this is interesting cos pretty much this played itself out naturally in my case. So I’ll see if he comes back lol 😂
Alex 💗
Thank you for your content. You look so happy 🫶🏾✨
I love your videos! ❤️
Ion know what kind of dudes he talking about but the masculine 🥷s I know, you sitting up talking about/complimenting another man in front of him will be the last time you’ll see him. Think about it ladies, if a man talking about who he likes and he’s out with me??? Nope, that’s a disrespectful red flag, I’m out!
Ready ✨
TAKING NOTES
Lmao omg I love your personality. Always making me laugh 😅
Love this
This sounds like it can get someone interested in you, but it doesn’t sound like it’s a set up for a long-term relationship, I’m genuinely curious about how you think that this kind of cat and mouse type game will help with a long-term relationship? Hope you might respond to this thanks.
They gon put a hit out on you, boi!! Telling all the secrets 😂😭😭😭❤️
Lol you’re funny asf, and speak facts
You are ao good!
Making him think you’re fucking crazy 😂😂😂
Lol you’re cute, where’s this accent from? You sound Cuban 😭
Dominican from NY
3:17 make em think you’re fuckin crazy right 💀the way you say it so nonchalant
Brilliant
FATHER Alex again in the building🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Leonardo 😂😂nah I will go with Tom Hardy 😂😅
OG mic.
😂😂
lol I think he might be my soul mate yo😅….
Doesn’t this ruin a relationship with avoidant men who struggle to trust people?
You can do this with avoidant men because this is still in their nature they just may not show it or react the same way but if they like you they will comply.
My bf was avoidant, this worked on him when I started to get fed up with his bs. He came around full circle, now it’s like I’m dating a whole new human being.
@@brittneyharvey2917 thank you. I don’t want to ruin anything when he’s said in the past I’m a little too cold. I’m worried I’m becoming too warm now. I hate always having to be so strategic though. I wish I could relax more. Does your avoidant have open convos with you? I’ve started being more vulnerable with mine unlike the past and I’m having better results. Which is why I’m afraid to pull back like I did in the past
Every avoidant is different it depends on the severity of the avoidant. If emotional vulnerability is working for you and getting results then great.
Hot cold is part of avoidance, the only way that’s going to change is through therapeutic work, so if you’re using these tactics to try and get an unhealed avoidant to change you are more than likely wasting your time.
Being with an avoidant is like playing a game of chess with land mines, work on your own security and your own attachment style.
If he’s taking you for granted outside of the realms of normal avoidant behaviour and you’re at your wits end, then try whatever, you have nothing to lose, but I would strongly suggest looking at detachment, that’s the only way you’ll survive an avoidant relationship, as I’m guessing as you’re here you aren’t coping to well with the behaviours.
Also keep in mind, avoidants aren’t aliens, they still have the same biological urges that all humans do.
Sometimes you can focus on the attachment style so much you can forget they are still human.
You‘re so handsome 😮💨
I wish I had known this
✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽🎓
Is this smart to do with a guy who’s had really bad childhood trauma, very insecure, struggling in my life now and has anger issues? 👀
No, that kind needs consistency
Noooo be careful with that, could lead to a lot of issues
What kind of toxic mess is this. The title of this video should be how you build a toxic relationship. Smh
Lol it's actually called human behavior 😬
Yes!!!
@mindfulattraction what video should I watch of yours regarding men dating mutiple women and sleeping with them
Interested as well
The video of moving on from him before you catch something you can’t throw back!😭
@@brittneyharvey2917 😁
lol…
Alex is see ur videos not to do it myself but see if anyone pulls that crap on me 🤣🤣and then it will be bye bye as i dont run no games
Feign weakness my love 😅
❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹
Do you mean "feining weakness?"
Fainting weakness is essentially acting like the damsel in distress. "This is so heavy, can you help me?" and then praise him "wow, you're strong. I could never. Thanks!"
Feminine, soft women resting in their feminine energy don’t need to do all that to attract a guy lol. If you need to play mind games to attract a guy you need to seriously reevaluate yourself as a woman.
Feign weakness not Faint weakness
Listening to this with a smirk because I do all of this seamlessly and yes.. it works 🫦
Love doing it 🥰 thanks for reminding us how powerful these techniques can be 🫶🏻 even tho it’s exhausting sometimes to play these games ugh
You are ao good!