If you resonated with this topic and would like to dive even deeper into how to heal your wounded masculine energy as a woman then I created a full Masterclass here: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass
So spot on! I think women are praised since childhood when they act in their masculine power and often shamed for their feminine nature. Empowering to see how we start not running away from our feminine anymore but healing it ❤
Thank you for your comment, Orsolya. It is SO important for women to take back their feminine nature and let it gift them happiness, inner peace, and wel-being. Also, to know how to use it as their manifesting superpower!
Asking for help and support is a key thing. Forcing help and support is not the key. It's still masculine and pushes people away. 80% in feminine for a woman is good advice. As a male who is in touch with his feminine side, I recognise both sides and the importance of the feminine side for real happiness and well being and also the importance of the masculine for practicality and action sometimes.. Also aware that if I get caught up in masculine energy and actions too much, my well being and energy go down and I have to stop or slow down and bring myself back to me and my well being, which is ruled by feminine energy. Which is compassion and understanding and putting well being first and foremost. It's the old adage, if you don't look after yourself, how can you look after anyone else.
Nice informative video =) I would add that journalling is a great tool to get back into your body. I'm ENFP that means I use mainly my imagination, mind to just exist, so being in my head is my default set up. And journalling is one of the most powerful tools to release the energy and reconnect when someone has a lot on their mind.
Lady! I love this video! Thank you for the masculine energy examples. Brings me to tears that I have allowed this and not tended to my needs. So much clarity and awareness. I am healing in my masculine energy🙏 Thank you for making this one😘
It's not that we don't have any "goals" or intentions. Desires that arise from within come from our Soul (unless they are us trying to prove our worth by having that goal).The feminine way to receive those intentions is to first be very clear about what we desire and then await Divine inspiration. Once we receive a nudge, an idea or a feeling to call or do something we need to do it immediately, not wait and think about it. We simply don't need to plan so much and be very structured about it like men do. Hope this clarifies goals and intentions for you:)
3:55 fr no i nine power through speaking her mind 6:52 get back into your body 8:55 when you get caught up in the mental 11:42 surrender and let life unfold
My masculine energy 🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨 listening to this and understanding this is exactly what i must heal. I have done a few of these but i go back and forth with consistency and longevity of maintaining
It does take practise for sure because we are SO conditioned! Simply commit to one and then when that one becomes easier and more natural to you, work on a different one:)
Spot on I have the autoimmunity and I want to heal. Being a woman who was the primary care giver for my 2 children. My children are grown, and an empty nest mom.. I feel empty. I went through alot starting back in 2019-2023.. and I pulled the plug on things.. been searching for a way to start feeling better. Thank you for this video. 💚
Bless you, Tara. This is your second chapter and I'm so impressed to hear that you desire to be the Creator of this next chapter. Here's to your Elegant Life!
What a lovely video! I am focusing on healing my masculine energy. I have Hashimoto’s and I know I can heal it if I heal my masculine. This explains why I become anxious and angry easily.
Congratulations on being aware! That is so vital. Every little step, every little shift or choice moves you more into your feminine:) I'm still leaning into it too.
Blessing's Beautiful Queen, 🌺 Yes, I'm learning how to heal my masculine energy, and you mentioned so much that must be implemented into my daily life for the feminine Flow. I realized after years that constantly thinking, and being extremely very logical, has moved me away from my feminine Energy !! Awe thank you, and this was what I needed, I loved it, Oh yes I subscribed 💃
I live alone with a minor daughter, I have no other option than this, to make it happen so that we don't miss anything during the day, the week, the month... shopping, house, daughter, work, myself, paying bills. Everything is in my hands. This is the difficult part of balancing feminine and masculine. But I let the perfection a longo time ago, I AM perfect and cant do more, I need to rest. ❤️ I AM gemini rule by Mercury 🤔 I AM a big thinker 🤭🙄🤷🏻♀️❤️
Thank you for this comment! We as women have both masculine AND feminine energies within us. Without the masculine we'd never actually do anything, so we need it. Since you are the sole provider for you and your daughter, your masculine is very prominent, therefore it is extra important for you to lean into your feminine whenever possible. Be sure to have play, spontaneity, rest and connection to your inner world as much as you can. Journal, meditate, listen to music that lights up your soul, dance, sing, cook and bake beautiful food that nourishes you and your daughter, spend time in nature - make all the time you aren't providing focused on the feminine. Have fun and blessings to you! xo
Good morning Erin 😍 this is a fantastic video I was only speaking to my friend recently about how masculine minded I have been operating lately, you you touched on control, perfectionism, strategies, getting the job done. It's so true what you say about how it makes you feel & I feel uncomfortable, forceful, hard, harsh, cold & all of the above is not me at all, I feel much better when I let go of all of the above, I feel lighter & things start happening for me in a way I can't explain 😁 manifestations take shape too. Love your content Erin much love Maria 😍 xxx
What a HUGE awareness, Maria. Congratulations! I love how you have noticed the difference it makes to how you feel AND how you manifest when living more in a feminine way. Keep expanding these energies, Maria. I'm cheering you on all the way! xo
Thank you for this. I am hurting finding out that there is such a thing as masculine energy and that I am living there. It hurts evenmore that my husband told me that I do it. This was practical andI want to change. I use to do all sort of feminine things now I find myself strategizing and planning and working hard and problem solving.😭 This must change.
Thank you for your comment. I sincerely hope it has offered some practical ways that you can begin enjoying your life even more fully now. As a side note, please know that masculine energy is not "bad", it is just not healthy for us females to LIVE in it. It really is beneficial at times; to provide us with some structure and safety that we require at times. I'll be doing a bit of a series regarding this topic, so please be sure to subscribe and follow along, okay?
Are you following the cosmos and the planetary transits? The Venus retrograde in July caught me by surprise. I find it harder to express femininity I think partly because of the environment I'm always in. Also my family isn't supposed t make me feel stupid - my mom puts me down when I openly and my father makes me feel weird about being feminine. It's not easy to express pure femininity in the 2020's though, like wearing a nice pink gown in a crowd of girls who think "slutty" and "feminine" are the same thing. don't think a lot of women understand what male energy is though, including you. On a side note I'm not a masculine "woman" but I think I know what you're trying to say.
How to achieve our goals with feminine energy!? How to connect more with our senses.. more examples please!? How a feminist woman daily routine would be like.. more examples please 🙏🏻 😊
Those traits do serve women in certain circumstances. I survived some traumatic experiences as a child and adulthood and it wasnt until I developed masculine traits I began to defend and advocate for myself. No one messed with me anymore.
You're absolutely right! We have both masculine AND feminine energies for a reason. The issue is that when we experience traumas, both big and small we can tend to lean into one more than the other, and mainly for women, we have tended to go out of balance into our masculine which doesn't serve our lives or our nervous systems. It's just about being conscious about when to use our masculine. Thank you for your comment!
For most of us who experienced trauma in childhood, the masculine energy serves us when we go into survival mode. What I have however found is that at 45, I am exhausted trying to control everything. I just want to not have to control everything and just be, just live and experience life instead of trying to twist it to what I want it to be.
@@maambomuleya3063 This is a wonderful intention to have for your life. Take small steps, day by day, surrendering control little by little and one day you WILL have the life you want.
Hey Erin, this has been a helpful reminder of things I already “know” but still slip out of doing. It did raise a new question though…from this video, it would be easy to think you’re suggesting that women spend 80% of their time just being in pleasure, in slow-moving, sensory enjoyment (like walking, having baths and sitting with tea and a square of chocolate). But I suspect this isn’t what you mean 😊. How do you do what life needs of you - your job, your errands, your “stuff to do” while in your feminine energy? Is it possible to do our job in feminine energy if it requires thinking, strategising, pushing, busy & effort filled time? If not, then we definitely need “feminine reconnection time” which, from memory, is something the Mars And Venus author talks about, for women with high stress jobs. Thoughts?
Great question!!! I am definitely going to do a video on this! If you go deeply into what feminine energies are, they're not the actions, not the "doing" it's the WAY you do things. So, I'm going to bring this point home. Many thanks for bringing this up!
So if I am in a corporate job that is very demanding, and in this age where that’s how I can make a good living how will this work? Yes I agree with everything you said and I am also into healing and mediation and walking in nature. But it would be interesting to know how this pans out because I know that majority of the women are moving into 50 percent of both masculine and feminine energies
Thank you for your comment! Actually we have both masculine AND feminine energies within us yet it's so important for us women to know when to use our masculine and when to use our feminine. Here is a video I filmed where it really explains it and gives you examples, particularly for work. ruclips.net/video/TGakd7ohZHk/видео.htmlsi=RaOR8vBqjRMqeSTu
Thank you! So happy to hear it was helpful! If you want to dive even deeper than I highly recommend you watch my Masterclass called "Harmony Within", I dive a lot deeper into how to heal your masculine! You can find it here: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass
Nobody talks about the opposite. I want this masculine energy because I am 38 now and I don't like any job and its been 3 years not working because the crisis made salaries lower and jobs more disgusting and demanding and I am unable to oblige myself to work but at the end of the day I don't want to keep on getting pocket money from my parents I want to have a steady income.
I've touched on this topic in other RUclips videos, but I delve DEEPLY into it in my Masterclass, "Harmony Within" which I highly recommend you watch. The Masterclass will help you understand why you may lean heavily into your feminine energy and, more importantly, show you how to balance your energy into one that is most optimal for you. Link to the masterclass: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass Thank you for your comment!
Feminine energies are universal yet all women live in varying degrees of them. When women live in about 80% of their feminine and 20% of their masculine they are most empowered and feel most happy and fulfilled. Hope this helps!
@@TheElegantLife Thank you. I’ve been doing some self healing and I can see how Ive lived my entire life in a wounded feminine and heavy masculine state. I have past trauma from brothers, uncles, dad and romantic relationships. Im just coming out of that and embodying my feminine energy. What are some tips for how to be more receptive to masculine energy? Sometimes it can make me feel a bit wobbly and triggered.
@@nessalight8681 I'm so happy to welcome you to The Elegant Life! I LOVE your question so much that I think I will film a whole video on it! Stay tuned as it could even be next week! x
Louise hay said the right side of the body is masculine the other half feminine.i have ine question,me as a woman i have cysts in my right breast,and in my right side ovary ,pain in my back(right side),also tmj lockes jaw (right side) can anyone know how to regulate this?
I'm so glad you asked as yes, your right side is your masculine side. This can be an indicator that you experienced some trauma in your early life that wasn't processed and so it shows up in your physical body as a reminder to finally process it. The Soul always seeks harmony, and so it uses the body as one way to tap us on the shoulder and say, "Please Heal ______" If you would like to dive deeper into this, my Masterclass called, "Harmony Within" is the perfect way to guide you to your healing. Here is the link: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass May it serve you at the highest level. xo
How would you suggest approaching this with your wife? Coming from a mans side of the court. Knowing there spouse struggles with this what are good steps on brining this more to light ? And help where I can
This is a great question that could use a whole video to answer, however in short, often times a woman will feel like she "has" to be in her masculine because if she's not a) things won't get done, especially to her specifications b)she doesn't feel safe to be feminine as vulnerability has burned her in the past c) her partner is more in his feminine ...the list could go on and on and is specific to the woman. Try to tune in to which scenario could be present for your wife. Then, I'd spend some time reading up on what it looks and feels like to be a man who lives in his masculine energy. A good book recommendation is: "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. What happens is that when a man lives in his masculine 80% of the time, his female partner feels safe enough to be in her feminine. This would be my first recommendation. Secondly, you could casually say at breakfast or dinner, "Today I came upon a RUclips channel that was quite interesting", then share my channel with her. She could pick up on the teachings and hopefully start leaning more into her feminine. I hope this brief advice helps, Jordan!
@@TheElegantLifewell put. I struggle to be in my feninine energy because I feel like if I do not take control then nothing moves or gets done. The time my husband has taken control, I have had moments of relaxation and calm. The wife needs to see her husband lead, be proactive in planning for the family etc then she can be in her femi ine energy.
Hello and thank you for your question! Actually there is no difference whether you are in a relationship or not. If you rewatch the first part where I review how it looks if you are living in your masculine (needing to be in control of everything, perfectionist tendencies, not being able to BE, always needing to be doing, being busy, etc.) then you are living in your masculine too much. The healing of this is to notice when you are being in these ways and CHOOSE to do the opposite. Surrender, become more flexible, make "easy going" be more of your mantra, practise being okay just sitting with a tea and staring out the window or reading a book. Does this help?
Yes and as a man i can tell,masculine females aren’t attractive to masculine man… I fall for feminine traits that’s why I’m more attracted towards younger females because they have that. So if you struggle attracting strong man you have to be in a feminine roll else it will not work and you’ll end up with a feminine guy…
100%. Well said. We females have masculine energies that are absolutely required, just like you males have feminine energies that are required, yet we both live most happily and healthily when we live mainly in our dominant energies. And, relationships are most rewarding for both parties within these same conditions.
The idea that women “look silly” by embodying masculine energy misunderstands the concept of masculine and feminine energies. These energies aren’t tied to gender but represent qualities present in everyone. Masculine energy includes traits like assertiveness, logic, focus, and structure, while feminine energy encompasses intuition, creativity, nurturing, and fluidity. A healthy individual-regardless of gender-balances both energies. Healing masculine energy as a woman isn’t about rejecting it; it’s about aligning it in a way that complements your overall well-being. For example, embracing your assertiveness and ability to set boundaries doesn’t diminish your femininity. Likewise, men who nurture their intuition or emotional awareness aren’t less masculine. Both energies exist within us because human beings are complex, intelligent, and multifaceted. Denying one side of this duality limits personal growth and understanding. Instead of viewing these energies as mutually exclusive or gendered, we should celebrate the harmony they bring when balanced in each individual.
It must be a wrong man if a woman feels like she has to do something before husband gets home. Maybe the guy is more in his feminine energy and thats why this happens. 🥲
I can see your point, yet what I find most often with the women I work is that they put the pressure on themselves - the need to be perfect or always doing something to be of value.
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If you resonated with this topic and would like to dive even deeper into how to heal your wounded masculine energy as a woman then I created a full Masterclass here: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass
So spot on! I think women are praised since childhood when they act in their masculine power and often shamed for their feminine nature. Empowering to see how we start not running away from our feminine anymore but healing it ❤
Thank you for your comment, Orsolya. It is SO important for women to take back their feminine nature and let it gift them happiness, inner peace, and wel-being. Also, to know how to use it as their manifesting superpower!
Asking for help and support is a key thing. Forcing help and support is not the key. It's still masculine and pushes people away. 80% in feminine for a woman is good advice. As a male who is in touch with his feminine side, I recognise both sides and the importance of the feminine side for real happiness and well being and also the importance of the masculine for practicality and action sometimes.. Also aware that if I get caught up in masculine energy and actions too much, my well being and energy go down and I have to stop or slow down and bring myself back to me and my well being, which is ruled by feminine energy. Which is compassion and understanding and putting well being first and foremost.
It's the old adage, if you don't look after yourself, how can you look after anyone else.
Beautifully said. Well done for being conscious of when you need to lean into which energy.
Nice informative video =) I would add that journalling is a great tool to get back into your body. I'm ENFP that means I use mainly my imagination, mind to just exist, so being in my head is my default set up.
And journalling is one of the most powerful tools to release the energy and reconnect when someone has a lot on their mind.
Yes! Great addition:)
Lady! I love this video! Thank you for the masculine energy examples. Brings me to tears that I have allowed this and not tended to my needs. So much clarity and awareness. I am healing in my masculine energy🙏 Thank you for making this one😘
Aw, I'm so very happy that it was helpful to you. We've all been there!
I like the surrender and let life flow. Amazing. It's tough trying not to have any goals as an adult.
It's not that we don't have any "goals" or intentions. Desires that arise from within come from our Soul (unless they are us trying to prove our worth by having that goal).The feminine way to receive those intentions is to first be very clear about what we desire and then await Divine inspiration. Once we receive a nudge, an idea or a feeling to call or do something we need to do it immediately, not wait and think about it. We simply don't need to plan so much and be very structured about it like men do. Hope this clarifies goals and intentions for you:)
3:55 fr no i nine power through speaking her mind
6:52 get back into your body
8:55 when you get caught up in the mental
11:42 surrender and let life unfold
My masculine energy 🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨 listening to this and understanding this is exactly what i must heal. I have done a few of these but i go back and forth with consistency and longevity of maintaining
It does take practise for sure because we are SO conditioned! Simply commit to one and then when that one becomes easier and more natural to you, work on a different one:)
Spot on I have the autoimmunity and I want to heal. Being a woman who was the primary care giver for my 2 children. My children are grown, and an empty nest mom.. I feel empty. I went through alot starting back in 2019-2023.. and I pulled the plug on things.. been searching for a way to start feeling better. Thank you for this video. 💚
Bless you, Tara. This is your second chapter and I'm so impressed to hear that you desire to be the Creator of this next chapter. Here's to your Elegant Life!
Thank you so much. I resonate most of the elements you had mentioned.😊
You are so welcome!
What a lovely video! I am focusing on healing my masculine energy. I have Hashimoto’s and I know I can heal it if I heal my masculine. This explains why I become anxious and angry easily.
Absolutely! Be gentle with you're and slowly add in the feminine xo
I have done this and I’m aware. I’m getting better. Thank you for this video. 80% is something to work on.
Congratulations on being aware! That is so vital. Every little step, every little shift or choice moves you more into your feminine:) I'm still leaning into it too.
high quality advise !!! will listen to it again
I'm happy you received so much from the video! Thank you for letting me know:) May it serve you in living the life you desire to live.
Blessing's Beautiful Queen, 🌺
Yes, I'm learning how to heal my masculine energy, and you mentioned so much that must be implemented into my daily life for the feminine Flow. I realized after years that constantly thinking, and being extremely very logical, has moved me away from my feminine Energy !!
Awe thank you, and this was what I needed, I loved it, Oh yes I subscribed 💃
So very happy to hear that this video served you! Here's to living in more flow and feminine energy! x Thank you for the subscribe:)
I live alone with a minor daughter, I have no other option than this, to make it happen so that we don't miss anything during the day, the week, the month... shopping, house, daughter, work, myself, paying bills. Everything is in my hands. This is the difficult part of balancing feminine and masculine. But I let the perfection a longo time ago, I AM perfect and cant do more, I need to rest. ❤️
I AM gemini rule by Mercury 🤔 I AM a big thinker 🤭🙄🤷🏻♀️❤️
Thank you for this comment! We as women have both masculine AND feminine energies within us. Without the masculine we'd never actually do anything, so we need it. Since you are the sole provider for you and your daughter, your masculine is very prominent, therefore it is extra important for you to lean into your feminine whenever possible. Be sure to have play, spontaneity, rest and connection to your inner world as much as you can. Journal, meditate, listen to music that lights up your soul, dance, sing, cook and bake beautiful food that nourishes you and your daughter, spend time in nature - make all the time you aren't providing focused on the feminine. Have fun and blessings to you! xo
Good morning Erin 😍 this is a fantastic video I was only speaking to my friend recently about how masculine minded I have been operating lately, you you touched on control, perfectionism, strategies, getting the job done. It's so true what you say about how it makes you feel & I feel uncomfortable, forceful, hard, harsh, cold & all of the above is not me at all, I feel much better when I let go of all of the above, I feel lighter & things start happening for me in a way I can't explain 😁 manifestations take shape too. Love your content Erin much love Maria 😍 xxx
What a HUGE awareness, Maria. Congratulations! I love how you have noticed the difference it makes to how you feel AND how you manifest when living more in a feminine way. Keep expanding these energies, Maria. I'm cheering you on all the way! xo
Thank you for this. I am hurting finding out that there is such a thing as masculine energy and that I am living there. It hurts evenmore that my husband told me that I do it. This was practical andI want to change. I use to do all sort of feminine things now I find myself strategizing and planning and working hard and problem solving.😭 This must change.
Thank you for your comment. I sincerely hope it has offered some practical ways that you can begin enjoying your life even more fully now. As a side note, please know that masculine energy is not "bad", it is just not healthy for us females to LIVE in it. It really is beneficial at times; to provide us with some structure and safety that we require at times. I'll be doing a bit of a series regarding this topic, so please be sure to subscribe and follow along, okay?
Are you following the cosmos and the planetary transits? The Venus retrograde in July caught me by surprise.
I find it harder to express femininity I think partly because of the environment I'm always in. Also my family isn't supposed t make me feel stupid - my mom puts me down when I openly
and my father makes me feel weird about being feminine.
It's not easy to express pure femininity in the 2020's though, like wearing a nice pink gown in a crowd of girls who think "slutty" and "feminine" are the same thing.
don't think a lot of women understand what male energy is though, including you. On a side note I'm not a masculine "woman" but I think I know what you're trying to say.
Awe you are not alone honey, but this is our season to awaken the Feminine Energy inside of ourselves. The feminine Fairy Erin has arrived, lol
Really needed this ❤
I'm so happy to hear it served you! Thank you for letting me know:)
This was a really great video… thank you ❤
Thank you for letting me know it resonated with you, Shay!
No problem 😌
How to achieve our goals with feminine energy!? How to connect more with our senses.. more examples please!? How a feminist woman daily routine would be like.. more examples please 🙏🏻 😊
Thank you for your excellent suggestions/questions! I will be sure to answer all of these in upcoming videos, so stay tuned!
The most perfect video. 💚
Aw, I'm so, so happy to hear it was helpful to you!
Great video!
So happy it resonated with you!
Those traits do serve women in certain circumstances. I survived some traumatic experiences as a child and adulthood and it wasnt until I developed masculine traits I began to defend and advocate for myself. No one messed with me anymore.
You're absolutely right! We have both masculine AND feminine energies for a reason. The issue is that when we experience traumas, both big and small we can tend to lean into one more than the other, and mainly for women, we have tended to go out of balance into our masculine which doesn't serve our lives or our nervous systems. It's just about being conscious about when to use our masculine. Thank you for your comment!
For most of us who experienced trauma in childhood, the masculine energy serves us when we go into survival mode. What I have however found is that at 45, I am exhausted trying to control everything. I just want to not have to control everything and just be, just live and experience life instead of trying to twist it to what I want it to be.
@@maambomuleya3063 This is a wonderful intention to have for your life. Take small steps, day by day, surrendering control little by little and one day you WILL have the life you want.
Hey Erin, this has been a helpful reminder of things I already “know” but still slip out of doing. It did raise a new question though…from this video, it would be easy to think you’re suggesting that women spend 80% of their time just being in pleasure, in slow-moving, sensory enjoyment (like walking, having baths and sitting with tea and a square of chocolate). But I suspect this isn’t what you mean 😊. How do you do what life needs of you - your job, your errands, your “stuff to do” while in your feminine energy? Is it possible to do our job in feminine energy if it requires thinking, strategising, pushing, busy & effort filled time? If not, then we definitely need “feminine reconnection time” which, from memory, is something the Mars And Venus author talks about, for women with high stress jobs. Thoughts?
Great question!!! I am definitely going to do a video on this! If you go deeply into what feminine energies are, they're not the actions, not the "doing" it's the WAY you do things. So, I'm going to bring this point home. Many thanks for bringing this up!
So if I am in a corporate job that is very demanding, and in this age where that’s how I can make a good living how will this work? Yes I agree with everything you said and I am also into healing and mediation and walking in nature. But it would be interesting to know how this pans out because I know that majority of the women are moving into 50 percent of both masculine and feminine energies
Thank you for your comment! Actually we have both masculine AND feminine energies within us yet it's so important for us women to know when to use our masculine and when to use our feminine. Here is a video I filmed where it really explains it and gives you examples, particularly for work. ruclips.net/video/TGakd7ohZHk/видео.htmlsi=RaOR8vBqjRMqeSTu
My Dear Thank you
Sloow doown, yes! ❤ Hi from Sweden 🇸🇪
Yes, indeed! Hej! :)
This wass soooo good ❤
Thank you! So happy to hear it was helpful! If you want to dive even deeper than I highly recommend you watch my Masterclass called "Harmony Within", I dive a lot deeper into how to heal your masculine! You can find it here: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass
Great video.
Nobody talks about the opposite. I want this masculine energy because I am 38 now and I don't like any job and its been 3 years not working because the crisis made salaries lower and jobs more disgusting and demanding and I am unable to oblige myself to work but at the end of the day I don't want to keep on getting pocket money from my parents I want to have a steady income.
I've touched on this topic in other RUclips videos, but I delve DEEPLY into it in my Masterclass, "Harmony Within" which I highly recommend you watch. The Masterclass will help you understand why you may lean heavily into your feminine energy and, more importantly, show you how to balance your energy into one that is most optimal for you. Link to the masterclass: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass Thank you for your comment!
Thank u so much
You're most welcome 😊
Is feminine energy different and unique to every woman ? Or is it pretty universal
Feminine energies are universal yet all women live in varying degrees of them. When women live in about 80% of their feminine and 20% of their masculine they are most empowered and feel most happy and fulfilled. Hope this helps!
@@TheElegantLife Thank you. I’ve been doing some self healing and I can see how Ive lived my entire life in a wounded feminine and heavy masculine state. I have past trauma from brothers, uncles, dad and romantic relationships. Im just coming out of that and embodying my feminine energy. What are some tips for how to be more receptive to masculine energy? Sometimes it can make me feel a bit wobbly and triggered.
@@nessalight8681 I'm so happy to welcome you to The Elegant Life! I LOVE your question so much that I think I will film a whole video on it! Stay tuned as it could even be next week! x
@@TheElegantLife Thanks I will look out for it
Louise hay said the right side of the body is masculine the other half feminine.i have ine question,me as a woman i have cysts in my right breast,and in my right side ovary ,pain in my back(right side),also tmj lockes jaw (right side) can anyone know how to regulate this?
I'm so glad you asked as yes, your right side is your masculine side. This can be an indicator that you experienced some trauma in your early life that wasn't processed and so it shows up in your physical body as a reminder to finally process it. The Soul always seeks harmony, and so it uses the body as one way to tap us on the shoulder and say, "Please Heal ______" If you would like to dive deeper into this, my Masterclass called, "Harmony Within" is the perfect way to guide you to your healing. Here is the link: the-elegant-life.newzenler.com/courses/harmony-within-masterclass
May it serve you at the highest level. xo
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How would you suggest approaching this with your wife? Coming from a mans side of the court. Knowing there spouse struggles with this what are good steps on brining this more to light ? And help where I can
This is a great question that could use a whole video to answer, however in short, often times a woman will feel like she "has" to be in her masculine because if she's not a) things won't get done, especially to her specifications b)she doesn't feel safe to be feminine as vulnerability has burned her in the past c) her partner is more in his feminine ...the list could go on and on and is specific to the woman. Try to tune in to which scenario could be present for your wife. Then, I'd spend some time reading up on what it looks and feels like to be a man who lives in his masculine energy. A good book recommendation is: "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. What happens is that when a man lives in his masculine 80% of the time, his female partner feels safe enough to be in her feminine. This would be my first recommendation. Secondly, you could casually say at breakfast or dinner, "Today I came upon a RUclips channel that was quite interesting", then share my channel with her. She could pick up on the teachings and hopefully start leaning more into her feminine. I hope this brief advice helps, Jordan!
@@TheElegantLifewell put. I struggle to be in my feninine energy because I feel like if I do not take control then nothing moves or gets done. The time my husband has taken control, I have had moments of relaxation and calm. The wife needs to see her husband lead, be proactive in planning for the family etc then she can be in her femi ine energy.
@@maambomuleya3063 Thank you for sharing this!
Yeah easy to say but it’s not when you don’t have a house to live in or a job and no support at all
It sounds like you’re talking married women how do I heal my masculine energy as a single women navigating life
Hello and thank you for your question! Actually there is no difference whether you are in a relationship or not. If you rewatch the first part where I review how it looks if you are living in your masculine (needing to be in control of everything, perfectionist tendencies, not being able to BE, always needing to be doing, being busy, etc.) then you are living in your masculine too much. The healing of this is to notice when you are being in these ways and CHOOSE to do the opposite. Surrender, become more flexible, make "easy going" be more of your mantra, practise being okay just sitting with a tea and staring out the window or reading a book. Does this help?
Yes thank you so much!
Fantastic! So happy to hear it helped. x@@kayrenea6000
I'm a single mom.
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80% Feminine , 20% Masculine.... roger that
Excellent, it's life changing!
Yes and as a man i can tell,masculine females aren’t attractive to masculine man… I fall for feminine traits that’s why I’m more attracted towards younger females because they have that. So if you struggle attracting strong man you have to be in a feminine roll else it will not work and you’ll end up with a feminine guy…
100%. Well said. We females have masculine energies that are absolutely required, just like you males have feminine energies that are required, yet we both live most happily and healthily when we live mainly in our dominant energies. And, relationships are most rewarding for both parties within these same conditions.
masculine energy is required for money...
Men also live too much in their masculine lol
Many men are living in their "faux masculine" not their divine masculine. This is definitely an area for their own healing.
How to heal your masculine energy as a woman? Stop trying to be masculine. Y'all look silly
The idea that women “look silly” by embodying masculine energy misunderstands the concept of masculine and feminine energies. These energies aren’t tied to gender but represent qualities present in everyone. Masculine energy includes traits like assertiveness, logic, focus, and structure, while feminine energy encompasses intuition, creativity, nurturing, and fluidity. A healthy individual-regardless of gender-balances both energies.
Healing masculine energy as a woman isn’t about rejecting it; it’s about aligning it in a way that complements your overall well-being. For example, embracing your assertiveness and ability to set boundaries doesn’t diminish your femininity. Likewise, men who nurture their intuition or emotional awareness aren’t less masculine.
Both energies exist within us because human beings are complex, intelligent, and multifaceted. Denying one side of this duality limits personal growth and understanding. Instead of viewing these energies as mutually exclusive or gendered, we should celebrate the harmony they bring when balanced in each individual.
"You feel guilty when doing nothing."
Ouch! 🫤
It must be a wrong man if a woman feels like she has to do something before husband gets home. Maybe the guy is more in his feminine energy and thats why this happens. 🥲
I can see your point, yet what I find most often with the women I work is that they put the pressure on themselves - the need to be perfect or always doing something to be of value.