When your dad said "We were kids raising kids," that really struck a cord with me. That reminded me of my parents. I don't have much family around, because we all grew up in a dysfunctional family. My parents basically did what their parents did--leave their children to totally fend for themselves. I just wish they would of given us a better life. Parents should make life better for future generations. I thought I should share something from me. Thank you for sharing something of yourself that isn't easy to speak about. This video has been very insightful for me.
Slightly annoyed that a Victoria's Secret commercial was the ad for this video. You go Kayli. I struggle more with my body image now that I am older (22) than I did when I was in high school. I am thankful to have my fiancé by my side to tell me I am beautiful no matter what.
what a sincere contribution to a problem so devastating. So real to see the effects of this so many years later....they are still working on it. Thank you!
I'm only just finding this video now but can I just say Kayli, you are so so brave for sharing your story and your experience with an eating disorder and your parents are also so brave for sharing their side of the story and how they dealt with Kayli's problem through this hard time. From this video, I could easily see how hard this was for all three of you. You are an inspiration and a true role model Kayli xxxx ❤️
So proud of you Kayli for being brave and sharing your story with us. I myself struggled with bulimia as a teen and was also able to over come it. I'm so glad you were able to over come this disease because the world wouldn't get to see what an amazingly beautiful mother, wife, and person you truly are. Thank you for allowing us into your lives. You're such an inspiration to us all! God bless you and your family! Hugs to you all!
I think when kayli thinks of her own children and puts herself in the shoes of her parents, she really feels the pain and hurt and thats partly why she is tearing up so much. GOD BLESS YOU BABE xxx
Thank you for sharing your story. There are resources for people who have eating disorders. When I was in high school I went to a support group called over eaters anonymous. It is not just for people who over eat but for those who have any eating disorder. It is a 12 step program just like AA. The people there are the nicest people who continue to struggle everyday. Support groups are such a huge help.
I feel like you're so lucky to have parents who understand. I know they didn't at first, but they made the effort and after time were able to help you, instead of just dismissing it as overreacting. That's the biggest comment i ever get to anything, "you're just overreacting", and it makes it so much harder when people don't take you seriously. I love this video, hearing both sides of the story.
This is such a brave thing you did Kayli, must of been the hardest video that you've ever made. I'm thankful that you shared this experience with RUclips because you have helped so many people just by sharing this story with us, your such a inspiring women to me. xx
Wow! I have so much more respect for you, Kayli. I never knew you suffered with this and I am sorry that you did but like your dad mentioned, the closeness/love of your family was the miracle you needed to improve. I am so glad that you had them. Having taught for the past 12 years, I know several students who have struggled with similar issues but weren't as fortunate. Thank you so much for sharing this heart-rending story.
Kayli you are such an inspiration. Although I have not personally suffered from an eating disorder I have had close friends who have. I feel that by you sharing your story and being so open and honest about your past you give people, with or without an eating disorder, the courage to share whatever problems or issues they have in their lives. You are definitely someone I look up to and have the utmost respect for you! From the bottom of my heart I thank you so much for sharing your story!!
I struggled with a eating disorder when I was a teen. I ended up in an eating disorder clinic and being 5'10 and weighing 105 and 98 at my lightest. This video just touched my heart Kayli, Your beautiful inside and out! Thank you so much for sharing. ♥
I'm absolutely blown away by your family.This obviously can't be an easy topic to revist let alone sharing it with thousands of people. The fact that all 3 of you came together to rehash such intimate moments speaks volumes about your character. Your genuine and heartfelt story was remarkably told and gives hope to so many, not just in overcoming such a tragic events but that in building and maintaining a trusted and strong relationship with their families. Thought, prayers & thanks to you all.
Kayli nobodys perfect, and that dosent mean that your still not beautiful everyone is.you dont have to worry about anyone judging you about your weight or how cute you are you are
You're extremely lucky. Your poor parents, can't imagine what they've gone through. They are amazing! Please love them and thank them for what they've done, they deserve it.
Kayli...I commend you and your parents for being so open and honest with your emotions and experiences that led you all on a journey to where you are today. It takes an INCREDIBLY strong person to be so forthcoming with something so personal and you should be so proud of yourself! You are an inspiration!!!
Last comment, I swear... I just want to say, thank you so much Kayli for doing this and sharing these things with us. I always thought you were someone so happy and pretty and put together and your life was just something that I admired so much, but hearing your story makes me realize you're just as real as I am; so that makes it so much easier and realistic to look up to you, and I thank you.
Kayli, you are such an inspiration for so many young people who have or are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it means so much to so many people. Your parents are wonderful and you are very lucky to have such caring parents that not only support you but can share their experiences to help others that might not have parents like them. Keep up the strength Kayli, we love you!
This video really spoke to me.I am not dealing with an eating disorder but with depression.Seeing how all parents go through this process..it helps me understand that parents put you through that process of "embarrassment" by going to therapists and doctors in order to help you.Thank you Kayli for sharing your story with us.It is truly inspiring.
This is incredible, I've never been through an eating disorder but this has still been such an interesting thing to watch and I really feel it will give people a lot more understanding about the condition. Seriously, you're so brave for talking about something personal, so much respect for you
Bravo to your parents! I can only imagine how hard it was for them to have their child go thru this. They weren't sure what to do but they found the help you needed to get thru this. And, they were there for you, all the way. Lots of love in this family!
It's so nice to hear it from her dads point of view. Normally it's just something that is spoke about between mom and daughter. I know I would never talk to my dad about anything like that. And it's also lovely that they're so open about it because its going to help a lot of people who watch this. Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for getting better :) you're all amazing xo
Wow. I remember stumbling across this video a few years ago - before I'd ever heard of the Shaytards or Kayli and Casey. And to find this again knowing more about Kayli. Crazy.
Thank you so much for this, Kayli. You and your parents are amazing to talk about this. So many people act like this is a dirty secret in their families and don't discuss it. Thank you for bringing it to light.
I don't think i'm going to tell my family because I don't want to worry them, but from now on i'm really going to try and get better even if it will be hard.
I was depressed and did things I wasn't proud of. I never wanted my parents to know because I didn't want them to think of me as a problem. But, when they found out, they were nothing but supportive of me and helped me through everything. Parents will worry. It's apart of being a parent. But it's better to go through things with others rather than alone :) If you'd like to confide in someone and you really don't want to tell your parents, please know people do care and if you'd like, I'm willing to be one of them. :) Things will get better if you try to make them that way.
this is a really late reply, but I felt it is still important. if you haven't told your parents yet, or anyone else. please talk to someone, anyone. you should not have to deal with this all by yourself. you deserve to be healthy. if you need someone to talk to, just message me.
Of course it's going to worry them but that's just what's gonna need to be done! they will worry in the best way and may be your only way to help. its important you tell your parents, even if right now you don't think so in the long run you will be grateful that you at least where open with them. If they worry they are worried because they love you and they want to understand and not let it destroy you. It's not about I don't want them to worry it's about this is a serious situation, and you can get help and be happy again. You should be open with them anyway it's not just you, it's them too, and you can be better and live the best life. And that's because you can turn it around WITH your family by your side, it can only help
This video hit a spot in my heart. My sister has been struggling with an eating disorder for a couple of years now. There has been many ups and downs. Sometimes you don't know what to say or do, but just to be there for support and try to understand. By realizing there is a problem and wanting to seek outside help, things will get better--no immediate fix, but within time.
Your parents are so sweet! Thank you for spreading light on this subject. I have multiple friends who have suffered with eating disorders, included my mom. She has always been open with me about her journey. I hope and pray that your story encourages other to stand up and get a hold of their life back.
your parents look soooooooooo young and you ladies are beautiful. this was very touching and also very intersting. thank u for sharing something so sensitive and difficult to talk about.
Thank you to your mother, for having the strength to carry on despite seeing her daughter suffer. Thank you to your father, for being so brave about expressing his feelings in this video. And most of all, thank you to you Kayli, for overcoming your disorder and having the courage to share your story with the world in order to help others, you are truly a beautiful person inside and out.
Kayli you are such a wonderful inspiration. Thank you, sincerely, for not only sharing your story but for helping other girls who are struggling by doing so. You are beautiful inside and out and such a strong person. You are truly a role model and someone I admire. I hope you know that in making these RUclips videos you are doing so much and reaching countless lives
Kayli, I'm so proud of you and your parents for coming out to the public and talking about how hard this is on the person who has the problem and the people who love them. I don't think you have to have had an eating disorder to benifit from this information. It could be some other addiction / problem. Thank you. Even if you only help one person it was worth every tear it took to make these videos.
My whole family thinks that my older sister has an eating disorder, but she always denies it. One time, I was home alone with her, and she passed out because she hadn't eaten anything that day. It's really hard to see my sister hurt herself and I don't know what to do because she doesn't want to talk to anyone about it. I've tried helping her but she doesn't seem to want to talk to anyone. It hurts my feelings because I feel like she feels she can't talk to me, and that she can't trust me. What should I do?
my opinion, just let her know she can talk to you. not necessarily about having an eating disorder, but anything. tell her face to face, or even leave her a little note that you've seen things, and you worry, and that you want to help and be there for her. if she feels comfortable enough, I'm sure shell reach out to you somehow. even if it is sending little notes back and forth to each other every day lol hope everything works out :)
without expecting her to say anything at all, tell her that you see that she's suffering and that she can talk to you about anything. I think she needs to know you're there for her without feeling pressured.
Kayli, I know this video is a painful video for most to watch bc SO many people can relate to what you went through & also what your parents went through but watching this video I cannot help but notice the abundance of LOVE your parents have for you. I wish every one had the same support and love not just through every day but especially going through something as difficult as an eating disorder. SUCH INSPIRATION! Thank you Kayli, Sami, and Mark for sharing your most difficult times with us.
I just want to say, this is so touching. Well done Kayli for sharing your story. You are so brave. I am so proud of you for doing what you've done. You've left me in tears.
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL KAYLI...you really are!!! You and your parents were so brave to do this much needed video. I wish you and your family nothing but the best.
omg i've been watching your vlogs on casey's channel for a while now and i had no idea. I saw this pop up in my "suggested videos" K i'm crying now.. D:
im glad you three are brave enough to sit down and discuss this and post it on youtube. Im sure there are tons of people out there who appreciate this advice and story
You are all ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL...So sweet. But not to forget as Christians God is the answer to EVERYTHING. PRAYER is the key my loves. The devil has a purpose in this world which is to steal, kill and destroy and he will find every way possible to accomplish them. But he can NEVER get to those that are strong in the Lord and have FAITH. You are a winner my love!! :) xxx
its so amazing that you three got on here and talked about the pain this caused you! Im sure this will help so many young girls and soooo many parents and friends watching someone go threw it
this means a lot to me! youre sooo sweet to share that with me!! I also suffer from OCD but not as much anymore because ive been getting treated and also germophobia, depression, and suicidal thoughts and actions. I am soooo much better now! Stay Strong!!
my mom yells at me...or goes watever u know wat ur doing...or just calls my anxiety around food stupid or me stupid....shes not suportive at all....ive dropped 20lbs while being away in college ..totaling 60 in 2.5 years ,,,im just afraid shes gonna yell at me when i go home
ooh honey...ur 12...well their no such hing as being too young or too old. im 21 and have had ed since i was 18...i wish ur mom was taking care of u like she shud...she really shud take ur ed seriously...if someone took my ed seriously wen it started i wouldnt be like this now
kayli, you have no idea how much this video touched me and my family! my younger sister who is 17 was struggling with an eating disorder for about a year. she finally got the help she needed and is doing so much better. but this video hit so close to home! i sat down to watch this video with my sister and then my mom came over and by the end we were all three sobbing! everything that happened to you my sister has been through. everything that your family felt i felt. thanks for sharing this! :)
ive just been diagnosed with an eating disorder from the hospital and this video really helped me understand what it must be like for my parents and how they are feeling. Kayli, you are very brave to make this video as i never would have the courage to do something like this as it is a very emotional and hard time. Thankyou xxx
Bravo!! It's nice to finally get to "meet" you, your mom and your dad. We are related. (I didn't have much to do with the family when younger due to a divorce.) This video hits home as to how important family is. It wasn't until I lost my family that I understood the importance of them. Glad you are doing much better, my dear! You truly come from an awesome family.
hi Kayli. my sister is suffering with an eating disorder right now and she's really sick. watching her do this to herself is the hardest thing i've ever gone through, and i'm really scared. thank you for sharing this with us, and for bringing out your parents to share their side of the story. you are a strong and wonderful person
that's not true...not all parents listen. god knows how many times i've tried to talk to them but they just turn it against me everytime and even therapy, they humilliated her and told her to stop talking to me if not they would press charges and then lied to me about it telling me it was my fault that she ABANDONED me. so i don't have annyone and i'm sick of puking 5 times a day. i even think of ending my life sometimes because i'm done with everything. i wish my parents were just like yours :'( idk what to think right now
Don't worry about it. If you ever have any problems don't be scared to comment it to us, or DM a therapist on Instagram if you have one. The only thing that I can tell you is that you have too much to look forward to in your life ahead. Someday you will be able to be an amazing parent who is kind to their children and listens to them. You do not want to stop living just because things get rough. I have never met you in person, but I know that you are a beautiful creation of God, and He has a plan for you. God's path is made especially for you is not ready to stop its journey. You are loved, you are strong, and you are beautiful! Never lose the faith in your Heavenly Father. He loves more than you will ever know. Only let him make the decision on when you pass away. He has a plan that all of us need to trust. Right now I want you to look up the song called Trust in Jesus, by the band Third Day on RUclips. Listen to the lyrics, believe in the lyrics, and know that you are perfect.
This is really inspirational, Kayli. Well done on your recovery and for being so open about your struggles, hopefully it'll help a lot of people going through similar things. And well done to Kayli's parents, it must have been really difficult to discuss but it's fantastic that you're so honest with each other.
I couldn't actually watch this, I had to minimize the page and just listen, because watching you and your parents talk about such a sensitive subject brought tears to my eyes. Well done for overcoming your demons and thank you so much for sharing your experiences with everyone. No doubt you've helped a lot of people out there. You are beautiful and will be no matter what. xx
Thank you so much for sharing this, Kayli. I, too, had and ED from 10-22 and only around 20 did people start caring enough to ask anything, and by then I was too skinny, my skin was turning green, my hair was falling out.. and my whole family turned on me. They got mad, too, but never tried to help, they just made me feel worse about myself. I still haven't recovered completely, getting pregnant (how I don't know) is what saved my life. I'm glad you are better, too. God bless you & your family!
So much of this resonates with my experience and how my parents felt, it's pretty heartbreaking to realise how much you're hurting people around you and not being able to stop. Lots of love to everyone who's been through this or still is going through it. x
they all change from last year so much!!!! Kayli used to wear so much make up oh my gosh, she looks much better now and she is opening a lot more to us now. We love you Kayli xxxx
Very touching video. I went through the same disorder and we have so much in common. I'm glad you overcame this horrible disease. You're an inspiration, thank you.
I think you guys are amazing. There are people all over the world dealing with this issue, your video is inspirational and encouraging. Strong support networks are a must and a lot of love, understanding and encouragement is vital to overcome this illness. Well done all of you for your openess and courage in sharing such a powerful and personal story. Awareness is empowerment!
You all are so amazing to do this. I admire each of your strengths to be willing to help others through your experiences. Keep going and know we love you. I'll be praying for you.
I've struggled with my body image since high school. I struggled and still struggle with Anorexia. It took a LONG time for me to realize what I was doing to my body wasn't right. I praise you for having the strength to share your story and you parents are the true strength and foundation to your recovery! You are so blessed!
Kayli is a huge inspiration to all girls out there with an eating disorder or without because her modest yet outgoing personality has made many girls look up to her (including me). I want to be a mom someday and be just like Kayli so I can be as patient and as caring as her! Thank you so much for talking about this!
Your parents are amazing... I'm going through my eating disorder alone... my parents don't support or help me... watching this made me realize how important it is to find someone... be grateful for your amazing support system kayli... your really lucky..
it's nice to see supportive and strong parents. I have always considered eating disorders, and my parents never taught us the dangers of it. The reason I say it is good to see how your parents raised you and reacted is because it would be nice to have parents like that. They like to poke fun, make rude comments and gestures, or even try to " control " my eating. Sometimes they even make jokes of how I should begin to make myself throw up. I'm sorry for the long rant, but I just want to let you
what wonderful parents. Kayli you have turned out to be a truly lovely person and i think the relationship you have with your parents is what every parent should inspire to have with their children. thank you for sharing x
kayli, i didn't you know were fighting this battle. by the way you smile in videos now, i never knew you were masking this. thank you for being so strong and fearless making this, cause i'm going through the same thing right now. you don't know how much more comforting it feels to know that you know exactly how i feel too. i don't feel so alone. you are so beautiful, and i wish one day i will be as strong as you are through this battle of recovery.
It's amazing that all three of you had the courage to talk about such a hard time your family went through. I know you're helping so many people out there by making this video, and that is so inspiring.
Thank you so much for this. I recently told my mom about my eating disorder and I felt alone because I felt like she wasn't doing anything with what I told her and trying to make me better. But now I know I have to be patient with her, give her time to process what I told her and she'll eventually deal with it. Thanks again.
You are such an inspiration, all three of you. It's hard dealing with things you don't understand, but it's important that you try, that you find ways to get help.
I think this is a beautiful thing. You coming together as a family, I really appreciate your dad. Kayli you are so wonderful and brave. A strong woman.
I don't have a eating disorder, but listening to how much pain mentally your parents went through I think it's really brave of them to sit with you and talk about this issue.. Hats off to your parents who stood by you and I hope everyone is blessed with parents like yours because it truly is a blessing. well done I'm so proud of you god bless you xx
Ugh god, I hate when parents cry. Especially dads. The second her dad started to get choked up I started tearing up.
When your dad said "We were kids raising kids," that really struck a cord with me. That reminded me of my parents. I don't have much family around, because we all grew up in a dysfunctional family. My parents basically did what their parents did--leave their children to totally fend for themselves. I just wish they would of given us a better life. Parents should make life better for future generations.
I thought I should share something from me. Thank you for sharing something of yourself that isn't easy to speak about. This video has been very insightful for me.
Slightly annoyed that a Victoria's Secret commercial was the ad for this video. You go Kayli. I struggle more with my body image now that I am older (22) than I did when I was in high school. I am thankful to have my fiancé by my side to tell me I am beautiful no matter what.
VS ew I’m sorry! I hope you’re doing better now x
this broke my heart I love her so much and it makes me so sad that she went through this and that so many people are affected by this. :(((
Can we just point out how pretty Kayli's mom is like OMG I see where kayli gets it from
what a sincere contribution to a problem so devastating. So real to see the effects of this so many years later....they are still working on it. Thank you!
Your honesty and courage in being so open about your story is admirable Kayli :) your an inspiration!
I'm only just finding this video now but can I just say Kayli, you are so so brave for sharing your story and your experience with an eating disorder and your parents are also so brave for sharing their side of the story and how they dealt with Kayli's problem through this hard time. From this video, I could easily see how hard this was for all three of you. You are an inspiration and a true role model Kayli xxxx ❤️
this was very touching... very random comment. Her parents look SO YOUNG! Wow!
***** actually her moms was 15 when she had kayli
So proud of you Kayli for being brave and sharing your story with us. I myself struggled with bulimia as a teen and was also able to over come it. I'm so glad you were able to over come this disease because the world wouldn't get to see what an amazingly beautiful mother, wife, and person you truly are. Thank you for allowing us into your lives. You're such an inspiration to us all! God bless you and your family! Hugs to you all!
Kayli is just so beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think when kayli thinks of her own children and puts herself in the shoes of her parents, she really feels the pain and hurt and thats partly why she is tearing up so much. GOD BLESS YOU BABE xxx
Thank you for sharing your story. There are resources for people who have eating disorders. When I was in high school I went to a support group called over eaters anonymous. It is not just for people who over eat but for those who have any eating disorder. It is a 12 step program just like AA. The people there are the nicest people who continue to struggle everyday. Support groups are such a huge help.
I feel like you're so lucky to have parents who understand. I know they didn't at first, but they made the effort and after time were able to help you, instead of just dismissing it as overreacting. That's the biggest comment i ever get to anything, "you're just overreacting", and it makes it so much harder when people don't take you seriously. I love this video, hearing both sides of the story.
This is such a brave thing you did Kayli, must of been the hardest video that you've ever made. I'm thankful that you shared this experience with RUclips because you have helped so many people just by sharing this story with us, your such a inspiring women to me. xx
you are so strong for sharing this. hopefully this will help other people that are going through a similar situation.
Wow! I have so much more respect for you, Kayli. I never knew you suffered with this and I am sorry that you did but like your dad mentioned, the closeness/love of your family was the miracle you needed to improve. I am so glad that you had them. Having taught for the past 12 years, I know several students who have struggled with similar issues but weren't as fortunate. Thank you so much for sharing this heart-rending story.
Kayli you are such an inspiration. Although I have not personally suffered from an eating disorder I have had close friends who have. I feel that by you sharing your story and being so open and honest about your past you give people, with or without an eating disorder, the courage to share whatever problems or issues they have in their lives. You are definitely someone I look up to and have the utmost respect for you! From the bottom of my heart I thank you so much for sharing your story!!
I struggled with a eating disorder when I was a teen. I ended up in an eating disorder clinic and being 5'10 and weighing 105 and 98 at my lightest. This video just touched my heart Kayli, Your beautiful inside and out! Thank you so much for sharing. ♥
I'm absolutely blown away by your family.This obviously can't be an easy topic to revist let alone sharing it with thousands of people. The fact that all 3 of you came together to rehash such intimate moments speaks volumes about your character. Your genuine and heartfelt story was remarkably told and gives hope to so many, not just in overcoming such a tragic events but that in building and maintaining a trusted and strong relationship with their families. Thought, prayers & thanks to you all.
Kayli nobodys perfect, and that dosent mean that your still not beautiful everyone is.you dont have to worry about anyone judging you about your weight or how cute you are you are
You're extremely lucky. Your poor parents, can't imagine what they've gone through. They are amazing! Please love them and thank them for what they've done, they deserve it.
Kayli. This is my story right now. Thank you so much for sharing. You and your parents are so brave. Thank you.
Kayli...I commend you and your parents for being so open and honest with your emotions and experiences that led you all on a journey to where you are today. It takes an INCREDIBLY strong person to be so forthcoming with something so personal and you should be so proud of yourself! You are an inspiration!!!
Kayli, this video is so inspirational. You are very brave to post this. Youre beautiful💕 dont let anyone tell you otherwise
Last comment, I swear... I just want to say, thank you so much Kayli for doing this and sharing these things with us. I always thought you were someone so happy and pretty and put together and your life was just something that I admired so much, but hearing your story makes me realize you're just as real as I am; so that makes it so much easier and realistic to look up to you, and I thank you.
Kayli i love you so much. You inspire so many young girls.
Kayli, you are such an inspiration for so many young people who have or are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it means so much to so many people. Your parents are wonderful and you are very lucky to have such caring parents that not only support you but can share their experiences to help others that might not have parents like them. Keep up the strength Kayli, we love you!
Crying right now this touched me and made me feel wanted bless u kayli💗❤️
This video really spoke to me.I am not dealing with an eating disorder but with depression.Seeing how all parents go through this process..it helps me understand that parents put you through that process of "embarrassment" by going to therapists and doctors in order to help you.Thank you Kayli for sharing your story with us.It is truly inspiring.
can't stop crying ..
This is incredible, I've never been through an eating disorder but this has still been such an interesting thing to watch and I really feel it will give people a lot more understanding about the condition. Seriously, you're so brave for talking about something personal, so much respect for you
I think Kayli is REALLY brave for sharing this! Even though a few people are hating. 😣
Bravo to your parents! I can only imagine how hard it was for them to have their child go thru this. They weren't sure what to do but they found the help you needed to get thru this. And, they were there for you, all the way. Lots of love in this family!
Brailee looks so like her grandpa
Agree
It's so nice to hear it from her dads point of view. Normally it's just something that is spoke about between mom and daughter. I know I would never talk to my dad about anything like that. And it's also lovely that they're so open about it because its going to help a lot of people who watch this.
Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for getting better :) you're all amazing xo
Wow. I remember stumbling across this video a few years ago - before I'd ever heard of the Shaytards or Kayli and Casey. And to find this again knowing more about Kayli. Crazy.
Dude thats like meeting your mom not knowing that she's your mom... Thats cray!..
ME TOO!!!
Thank you so much for this, Kayli. You and your parents are amazing to talk about this. So many people act like this is a dirty secret in their families and don't discuss it. Thank you for bringing it to light.
I don't think i'm going to tell my family because I don't want to worry them, but from now on i'm really going to try and get better even if it will be hard.
I was depressed and did things I wasn't proud of. I never wanted my parents to know because I didn't want them to think of me as a problem. But, when they found out, they were nothing but supportive of me and helped me through everything. Parents will worry. It's apart of being a parent. But it's better to go through things with others rather than alone :) If you'd like to confide in someone and you really don't want to tell your parents, please know people do care and if you'd like, I'm willing to be one of them. :) Things will get better if you try to make them that way.
this is a really late reply, but I felt it is still important. if you haven't told your parents yet, or anyone else. please talk to someone, anyone. you should not have to deal with this all by yourself. you deserve to be healthy. if you need someone to talk to, just message me.
Of course it's going to worry them but that's just what's gonna need to be done! they will worry in the best way and may be your only way to help. its important you tell your parents, even if right now you don't think so in the long run you will be grateful that you at least where open with them. If they worry they are worried because they love you and they want to understand and not let it destroy you. It's not about I don't want them to worry it's about this is a serious situation, and you can get help and be happy again. You should be open with them anyway it's not just you, it's them too, and you can be better and live the best life. And that's because you can turn it around WITH your family by your side, it can only help
This video hit a spot in my heart. My sister has been struggling with an eating disorder for a couple of years now. There has been many ups and downs. Sometimes you don't know what to say or do, but just to be there for support and try to understand. By realizing there is a problem and wanting to seek outside help, things will get better--no immediate fix, but within time.
Anyone noticed how instead of "you were" her parents say "you was" ;p
Your parents are so sweet! Thank you for spreading light on this subject. I have multiple friends who have suffered with eating disorders, included my mom. She has always been open with me about her journey. I hope and pray that your story encourages other to stand up and get a hold of their life back.
your parents look soooooooooo young and you ladies are beautiful. this was very touching and also very intersting. thank u for sharing something so sensitive and difficult to talk about.
Your parents are so sincere and understanding. I can't say thank you enough!
I'm so glad your better now, keep on going strong.
Thank you to your mother, for having the strength to carry on despite seeing her daughter suffer. Thank you to your father, for being so brave about expressing his feelings in this video. And most of all, thank you to you Kayli, for overcoming your disorder and having the courage to share your story with the world in order to help others, you are truly a beautiful person inside and out.
Hey Kayli, you are so brave sharing this with your fans!
Kayli you are such a wonderful inspiration. Thank you, sincerely, for not only sharing your story but for helping other girls who are struggling by doing so. You are beautiful inside and out and such a strong person. You are truly a role model and someone I admire. I hope you know that in making these RUclips videos you are doing so much and reaching countless lives
Am I the only one that cried or almost cried through this video because I sure did.
Kayli, I'm so proud of you and your parents for coming out to the public and talking about how hard this is on the person who has the problem and the people who love them. I don't think you have to have had an eating disorder to benifit from this information. It could be some other addiction / problem. Thank you. Even if you only help one person it was worth every tear it took to make these videos.
I could not look at this i was about to start sobing :( Love u Kayli
I love how honest your family is....I have teenagers and it's important to keep talking about these issues...Thank you for sharing :)
My whole family thinks that my older sister has an eating disorder, but she always denies it. One time, I was home alone with her, and she passed out because she hadn't eaten anything that day. It's really hard to see my sister hurt herself and I don't know what to do because she doesn't want to talk to anyone about it. I've tried helping her but she doesn't seem to want to talk to anyone. It hurts my feelings because I feel like she feels she can't talk to me, and that she can't trust me. What should I do?
my opinion, just let her know she can talk to you. not necessarily about having an eating disorder, but anything. tell her face to face, or even leave her a little note that you've seen things, and you worry, and that you want to help and be there for her. if she feels comfortable enough, I'm sure shell reach out to you somehow. even if it is sending little notes back and forth to each other every day lol hope everything works out :)
just pray for her
without expecting her to say anything at all, tell her that you see that she's suffering and that she can talk to you about anything. I think she needs to know you're there for her without feeling pressured.
I know big sisters someday
Kayli, I know this video is a painful video for most to watch bc SO many people can relate to what you went through & also what your parents went through but watching this video I cannot help but notice the abundance of LOVE your parents have for you. I wish every one had the same support and love not just through every day but especially going through something as difficult as an eating disorder. SUCH INSPIRATION! Thank you Kayli, Sami, and Mark for sharing your most difficult times with us.
makes me so sad, I never thought Kayli had a eating disorder but shes still perfectly perfect
I just want to say, this is so touching. Well done Kayli for sharing your story. You are so brave. I am so proud of you for doing what you've done. You've left me in tears.
Was I the only one who got tears in there eyes
Is it raining in my room....?
Nope I cried for 2 1/2 hours after watching this
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL KAYLI...you really are!!! You and your parents were so brave to do this much needed video. I wish you and your family nothing but the best.
omg i've been watching your vlogs on casey's channel for a while now and i had no idea. I saw this pop up in my "suggested videos"
K i'm crying now.. D:
im glad you three are brave enough to sit down and discuss this and post it on youtube. Im sure there are tons of people out there who appreciate this advice and story
You are all ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL...So sweet. But not to forget as Christians God is the answer to EVERYTHING. PRAYER is the key my loves. The devil has a purpose in this world which is to steal, kill and destroy and he will find every way possible to accomplish them. But he can NEVER get to those that are strong in the Lord and have FAITH. You are a winner my love!! :) xxx
i love how honest your parents were through this. it's a side of them that we have never seen. really powerful. thank you.
Watching again 4 years later✌🏻️❤️
its so amazing that you three got on here and talked about the pain this caused you! Im sure this will help so many young girls and soooo many parents and friends watching someone go threw it
My family didnt know and it made it harder.
this means a lot to me! youre sooo sweet to share that with me!! I also suffer from OCD but not as much anymore because ive been getting treated and also germophobia, depression, and suicidal thoughts and actions. I am soooo much better now! Stay Strong!!
Her dad looks like he's 40
He must be older than that since Kayli already has her own children. My dad is 52 and I'm 16.
Wow! I am 10 and my dad is 62!
Im 10 my dad is 54
I'm 11 and my dad is 46 and my mum is 47
im 11 and my dad is 52
The love between them is precious and how kayli looks so much like her mother
my mom yells at me...or goes watever u know wat ur doing...or just calls my anxiety around food stupid or me stupid....shes not suportive at all....ive dropped 20lbs while being away in college ..totaling 60 in 2.5 years ,,,im just afraid shes gonna yell at me when i go home
I feel like you, if i tell my mom shes going to say you are old enough to know what you are doing, im just 12
ooh honey...ur 12...well their no such hing as being too young or too old. im 21 and have had ed since i was 18...i wish ur mom was taking care of u like she shud...she really shud take ur ed seriously...if someone took my ed seriously wen it started i wouldnt be like this now
kayli, you have no idea how much this video touched me and my family! my younger sister who is 17 was struggling with an eating disorder for about a year. she finally got the help she needed and is doing so much better. but this video hit so close to home! i sat down to watch this video with my sister and then my mom came over and by the end we were all three sobbing! everything that happened to you my sister has been through. everything that your family felt i felt. thanks for sharing this! :)
Kayli you are so beautiful!!!!!!!
ive just been diagnosed with an eating disorder from the hospital and this video really helped me understand what it must be like for my parents and how they are feeling. Kayli, you are very brave to make this video as i never would have the courage to do something like this as it is a very emotional and hard time. Thankyou xxx
Brailee looks a lot like your dad!
Bravo!! It's nice to finally get to "meet" you, your mom and your dad. We are related. (I didn't have much to do with the family when younger due to a divorce.) This video hits home as to how important family is. It wasn't until I lost my family that I understood the importance of them. Glad you are doing much better, my dear! You truly come from an awesome family.
Kali, you are perfect and beautiful. Man I wish you were my wife. Casey is so so lucky
*kayli
hi Kayli. my sister is suffering with an eating disorder right now and she's really sick. watching her do this to herself is the hardest thing i've ever gone through, and i'm really scared. thank you for sharing this with us, and for bringing out your parents to share their side of the story. you are a strong and wonderful person
that's not true...not all parents listen. god knows how many times i've tried to talk to them but they just turn it against me everytime and even therapy, they humilliated her and told her to stop talking to me if not they would press charges and then lied to me about it telling me it was my fault that she ABANDONED me. so i don't have annyone and i'm sick of puking 5 times a day. i even think of ending my life sometimes because i'm done with everything. i wish my parents were just like yours :'( idk what to think right now
We are a kind of family too and you can always lean on us sweetie.
Don't worry about it. If you ever have any problems don't be scared to comment it to us, or DM a therapist on Instagram if you have one. The only thing that I can tell you is that you have too much to look forward to in your life ahead. Someday you will be able to be an amazing parent who is kind to their children and listens to them. You do not want to stop living just because things get rough. I have never met you in person, but I know that you are a beautiful creation of God, and He has a plan for you. God's path is made especially for you is not ready to stop its journey. You are loved, you are strong, and you are beautiful! Never lose the faith in your Heavenly Father. He loves more than you will ever know. Only let him make the decision on when you pass away. He has a plan that all of us need to trust. Right now I want you to look up the song called Trust in Jesus, by the band Third Day on RUclips. Listen to the lyrics, believe in the lyrics, and know that you are perfect.
This is really inspirational, Kayli. Well done on your recovery and for being so open about your struggles, hopefully it'll help a lot of people going through similar things. And well done to Kayli's parents, it must have been really difficult to discuss but it's fantastic that you're so honest with each other.
kayli's mom looks like her sister!
they were very young when they had her
I couldn't actually watch this, I had to minimize the page and just listen, because watching you and your parents talk about such a sensitive subject brought tears to my eyes. Well done for overcoming your demons and thank you so much for sharing your experiences with everyone. No doubt you've helped a lot of people out there. You are beautiful and will be no matter what. xx
Do her kids know that she has it
I'm guessing so, if not I bet they will find out when they are older (:
She had it
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Thank you so much for sharing this, Kayli. I, too, had and ED from 10-22 and only around 20 did people start caring enough to ask anything, and by then I was too skinny, my skin was turning green, my hair was falling out.. and my whole family turned on me. They got mad, too, but never tried to help, they just made me feel worse about myself. I still haven't recovered completely, getting pregnant (how I don't know) is what saved my life. I'm glad you are better, too. God bless you & your family!
There's smth really wrong with these Butler women. They're all hiding big secrets. ugh.
So much of this resonates with my experience and how my parents felt, it's pretty heartbreaking to realise how much you're hurting people around you and not being able to stop. Lots of love to everyone who's been through this or still is going through it. x
they all change from last year so much!!!! Kayli used to wear so much make up oh my gosh, she looks much better now and she is opening a lot more to us now. We love you Kayli xxxx
Very touching video. I went through the same disorder and we have so much in common. I'm glad you overcame this horrible disease. You're an inspiration, thank you.
I think you guys are amazing. There are people all over the world dealing with this issue, your video is inspirational and encouraging. Strong support networks are a must and a lot of love, understanding and encouragement is vital to overcome this illness. Well done all of you for your openess and courage in sharing such a powerful and personal story. Awareness is empowerment!
You all are so amazing to do this. I admire each of your strengths to be willing to help others through your experiences. Keep going and know we love you. I'll be praying for you.
I've struggled with my body image since high school. I struggled and still struggle with Anorexia. It took a LONG time for me to realize what I was doing to my body wasn't right. I praise you for having the strength to share your story and you parents are the true strength and foundation to your recovery! You are so blessed!
Kayli is a huge inspiration to all girls out there with an eating disorder or without because her modest yet outgoing personality has made many girls look up to her (including me). I want to be a mom someday and be just like Kayli so I can be as patient and as caring as her! Thank you so much for talking about this!
Your parents are amazing... I'm going through my eating disorder alone... my parents don't support or help me... watching this made me realize how important it is to find someone... be grateful for your amazing support system kayli... your really lucky..
it's nice to see supportive and strong parents. I have always considered eating disorders, and my parents never taught us the dangers of it. The reason I say it is good to see how your parents raised you and reacted is because it would be nice to have parents like that. They like to poke fun, make rude comments and gestures, or even try to " control " my eating. Sometimes they even make jokes of how I should begin to make myself throw up. I'm sorry for the long rant, but I just want to let you
what wonderful parents. Kayli you have turned out to be a truly lovely person and i think the relationship you have with your parents is what every parent should inspire to have with their children. thank you for sharing x
kayli, i didn't you know were fighting this battle. by the way you smile in videos now, i never knew you were masking this. thank you for being so strong and fearless making this, cause i'm going through the same thing right now. you don't know how much more comforting it feels to know that you know exactly how i feel too. i don't feel so alone. you are so beautiful, and i wish one day i will be as strong as you are through this battle of recovery.
It's amazing that all three of you had the courage to talk about such a hard time your family went through. I know you're helping so many people out there by making this video, and that is so inspiring.
Thank you so much for this. I recently told my mom about my eating disorder and I felt alone because I felt like she wasn't doing anything with what I told her and trying to make me better. But now I know I have to be patient with her, give her time to process what I told her and she'll eventually deal with it. Thanks again.
You are such an inspiration, all three of you. It's hard dealing with things you don't understand, but it's important that you try, that you find ways to get help.
I think this is a beautiful thing. You coming together as a family, I really appreciate your dad. Kayli you are so wonderful and brave. A strong woman.
its awesome that you guys are all comfortable enough to talk about this serious issue. and that your parents are willing to talk about
I don't have a eating disorder, but listening to how much pain mentally your parents went through I think it's really brave of them to sit with you and talk about this issue.. Hats off to your parents who stood by you and I hope everyone is blessed with parents like yours because it truly is a blessing. well done I'm so proud of you god bless you xx