How miscarriage affects men - BBC News
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- Many men whose partners have suffered a miscarriage feel there is not enough support for them as they cope with losing their babies.
Liam and Matt have started a podcast for fathers who have lost babies. They came up with the idea at FC Vilomah, a football club for bereaved dads.
They say that the podcast helped them to get through their grief and they hope it can help other partners who have lost children.
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Fantastic that this issue is being raised. My wife and I suffered a miscarriage and there wasn't much support offered to her and none to me. I remember being sat in the miscarriage room in the hospital thinking this is a terrible low moment, how many other dads have sat in here and felt this crushing sadness and loss. More should be done. Having someone to talk to is a massive step forward. Keep up the great work guys. Man hugs.
I’ve been in a similar situation too mate, and it’s not something I’d wish on anyone. I was 21. For me it was like getting punched in the gut and being winded for a long time afterwards. Hope and excitement replaced by despair and sorrow by a sentence spoken by a doctor.
Totally hear you! We had a miscarriage early on in a pregnancy a couple of years ago and it left us in tatters. I remember waiting alone for my wife in day surgery to remove the baby which had passed and just feeling completely heartbroken, definitely the lowest point of my life. Very little was offered in any form of support, just a conversation at the time of being told we had lost the baby with the nurse and then straight into surgery then out the door home. It was just awful!
Your wife suffered a miscarriage, not you. Your job as a man was to look after and support her through the trauma, and nothing else.
@@richardhart9204 shut up its his kid too they both suffered
@@LinkfromTLOZ28 ... please.
My mother & father had miscarriages before me….
They were afraid of losing another child so they wanted to know if they should have me, they were anxious & depressed & worn out…. Afraid of the future if I could be brought into this world.
They took the chance and I am alive, they never forgotten the children that could’ve & should’ve been however they are both in a better and happier place.
Miscarriage hit my dad & mother pretty hard especially for my father who never had the sibling he always yearned for. My sister was solo until I came along and changed everything. My father wanted her to have a sibling so, it broke his heart when he couldn’t do it twice in a row.
Lets remember, when parents lose their child. Parents lose a piece of themselves…. Parents lose a piece of themselves….
Men can feel the emotional toll of losing a child specially a child that wasn’t even born yet it maybe not in him but in his heart the child was there. My partner pushed his pain into his work as he pushed and pull the trolleys after we lose three pregnancies two miscarriages and a ectopic pregnancy.
My ex and I had 3 miscarriages in the space of 9 months. We went onto have 4 healthy pregnancies thank God, but the lose still really stings 17 years on. If any guy is going through this right now my love and prayers are with you, talk about it and get the support you need
I had a miscarriage with my ex 8 year's ago, she wanted an abortion i didnt but didn't have a say she ended up drinking to have the miscarriage nothing i could do. I havent barley told anyone till this day about it but it eats me up inside knowing i could have had a child right now. I believe i have a daughter up in heaven one day ill meet her or him.
I don't have any children, nor do I want any. My wife and I are looking into adoption. That being said, this has me choked up a bit. Losing your kid like that must be absolutely dreadful for those that experience it.
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I'm 29 I'm inconsolable I didn't like the woman she was abusive. The baby isn't here anymore. She drank and positioned it. Still I feel like it was my responsibility to protect the child. I had no prior knowledge of its existence. I'm an alcoholic 2 years clean and I'm 4 days into a binge now and no food and crying constantly. Understand this men, we do hurt. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
What??? The BBC dealing with issues that affect men????
Is that allowed???
@TheMetalGuy852 They can't humanize men, or we'll start wanting equal rights, end of genital mutilation, the demonizing of us, and the harsh double standard we live by. It's that simple tbh. They need subservience from men, not a person.
@@lexruptor Join the feminist movement and fight for your rights. Stop crying and do something for society or yourself.
Of course it is an agony for the dad also.
I considered myself tough. Ive Broken Bones, bitten by deadly spiders & snakes, friends &family passing away but Didn’t know PAIN like this even Existed..... 1st time I’ve ever been on my hands & knees crying uncontrollably..... & still REALLY HURTS. My niece asked me if i wanted to hold her baby, I teared up & said NO,,, hurts to much. Holding something you want So Bad but know you will never have. The F’ UP Nightmares are getting to me to. Always the same one... but it seems NOBODY CARES ABOUT THE MAN....
Same goes for abortion. Oh wait we can’t have an opinion on that :/
It's not like "it doesn't matter, we can have another baby" . No one is that damn
I mean
We lost our baby at 7 weeks, and learned that we’d have a difficult time trying again when we were ready… but we still werewere able to have a child through adoption. We are hoping to do it again once we can travel mask free (our daughter has special needs, can’t wear a mask…we don’t want to get Karen’s after us on the plane.
Nobody deserves to go Through what my sister and I are Going through, My Heart is filled with so much Pain and Bitterness, my sister and I are going through so much Misery and Hunger, I’ve never felt Sooo Suicidal all my life😞. I know people will rain insults on me for doing this but right now I’d rather ask for help than endure this kind of pain and penury. I’m 19 years old, my sister is 16, She’s My only surviving sibling and Family. We lost our parents in the space of 7 Months in 2017 and ever since then our lives Crumbled. Even if my Whole Wody is filled with Mouths it still won’t be enough to Describe The level of Hardship we’ve endured. We Barely Eat These Days, I can’t even remember the Last time we had a Really good meal, it Breaks My Heart to see my little sister cry for food and I Can’t Help, I had a petty job that Used to Help Put Food on our Table but I lost the Job Bcs I Refused to sleep with the monster I was Working for who was constantly Molesting me. I know it’s Wrong to do this😔😢, This Plea is From a Place of utmost Sincerity, my sister and I need to eat, I need little financial Assistance So I can go to the local Markets and Buy Some groceries (food items) that will Keep us Alive even if it’s just for a Short while, I’ll be Forever Grateful, If you’ve ever been in a difficult place where you didn’t know where Your next meal would come from, Please come to our rescue, Nothing is too small, Nothing is too Big to help 😔🙏🙏♥️. God bless.
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So this is the news ???? Nothing to see in CANADA 🇨🇦 then BBC ? Anyone would think you don’t want us seeing something
how? bbc tells men to repeat the sexual process of child birth with their wives, partners or new partners again
It was the worst thing I ever had to go through, traumatic experience and I wouldn't wish it on anybody
Same applies to abortion
Next can we address how the gynocetrism in society affects men? Then can we cover how Genital Mutilation affects men? How about how sexism affects men, since that's typically ignored, or maybe how centuries of forced manual labor to benefit the female has affected men? Lower lifespans, more health problems, and almost definitely caused by how men are treated. We're treated so poorly, we're practically deemed disposable in society, where women are deemed irreplaceable.
There isn't in history suck thing about forced manual labor to benefit the female, completly the opposite.
And everything you're talking about its what feminisms all over the world are fighting for, equality and stopping the roles that society gives to everyone, including men.
@@alvaro701 today's modern feminism isn't fighting for equal rights
The violence against men by women is trendy in Hollywood, sadly men seem too sedated with beer n sport to notice
@@untruehunter1828 I have never find a feminist that doesn't want equality.
Are we talking about 'pregnant men' here or actual men? Just have to check what with it being the BBC...
I'm not sure about it's not discriminate by age, if you young(21-30) it would be easy to have a child.
slow NEWS day?
More whining. Get over it, like everyone always has.
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Next on the BBC - How to cope with male pregnancy
... don't tempt fate.
BBC caring about how Men are affected by something? Is it opposite day, or am I dead?
Dead
Native American women in the U.S. and El Salvador are regularly sentenced to lengthy prison sentences for having miscarriages; how does that affect men?
you mean abortion? because miscarriage is something that you can do nothing about it, e.g. chromosomal abnormality
@@mandanaashrafi4660 ... nope, miscarriage.
Not news..
Actually it's an important subject that needs much more awareness and restructure of support mechanisms. Normally I agree with your posts, but totally disagree here saying it's not news worthy.
@@utubebroadcaster you are right.. bit of a mad over reaction on my part.. the demons obviously been distorting my perception of the media lately.. it is news.. and it probably doesn't have any hidden agenda. 😊 Tks for the reality check .
Is this men, as in men. Or men as in women who say they're men?
To be honest
It doesn't affect anyday 😂 except handling the emotional and depressed wife .
Bullshit
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It was sad yes.
But I manned up and got on with life.
Yeah, because society has trained you to think "manning up" is a thing, so they can mold emotionless soldiers. 😑 It's called crying dude, it's not gonna kill you.
OP has no life to get on with
You must be gay
So disgustingly insensitive
thank you, yes this is an issue but looking at the replies, islamic women aren't too happy about this. so i guess we know who's causing the bbc to not talk about these issues.
edit: not too happy about this because yemen is being run into the ground. it is still odd what the bbc chooses and it's a choice, to talk about. you are forgetting during the syrian conflict, most people online were sending out aid and information to deal with what was happening in syria, such as how to make homemade mustard gas masks. i think that's why there's people trying to contact you and you still turn a blind eye to what actually happens in the world.
Women's grief is downplayed; men's grief is completely disregarded.
Our culture dismisses these losses as "less serious" as losing an "actual" child.
We know better.
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