Neither of you guys are alone :) if you guys are in an unplanned pregnancy situation please visit optionline.org, they have great information and local resources that will help you! If either of you are pregnant, there is hope & help. Not only physically but spiritually. Gods word say, “For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for good and not evil. To give you a hope and a future.” The church of Christ is here to help, these abortion clinics want your money & to leave you after your pregnancy, we are here to reach out, walk with you, & provide for you even if you are not pregnant with anything you need! There is hope in Christ💕✝️!
@@gracerodriguez5313 abortions are free at planned parenthood. They don’t want the money. You have no idea how hard it is to get an abortion and to make that choice. How dare you? Does god pay our bills? No he doesn’t.
I became a parent at 20 and have been living in poverty since. My kid is 13 now and I finally have a nice apartment and job but it’s still a struggle to get by. I don’t regret keeping him but I do wish I had been financially stable before he came along. I’m also a single parent.
Its weird how everyone is praising you yet nobody is offering help in any way shape or form. At the end of the day nobody really cares. Why should a woman feel ashamed for not keeping a child…
I was also 20 when I had my child. But, I was not a single parent. My partner supported me financially and this was all. It was hard. Now I got to the conclusion that my brain wasn't even developed. I love my child, though. She somehow made open my eyes. I even started to study again last year. She gives me power.
Judging is so easy to do when you haven't experienced that kind of turmoil. Be kind to others. Ignorance, crude assumptions, and malignant spite won't make the world any better. We are no better and no worse than anyone else around us. Your biggest regret is not the same as anyone elses. You don't have to understand, but you have no place to judge anyone.
I appreciate your empathy, but it's misdirected. But I could've been a parent if we didn't get the abortion. Know that the push towards women getting abortion is worse than pushing women towards having their kid. You can always abscond yourself of the responsibility of taking care of a kid, but you can't for killing an innocent life. Women should really be educated about the repercussions of abortion too. The mental, physical, and spiritual toll of killing your own child is a larger burden than any infant could have been.
Jessie Thoma Your attempt at calling for peace and understanding has failed. We (pro-life) will continue to fight the evil of abortion and put an end to the slaughter of innocent unborn babies. Sorry, but life is worth protecting, no matter how tough it gets.
a woman is pregnant. she wants to have an abortion. if she has, she is shamed. attacked. looked down upon. called a murderer. if she keeps her baby. she may be unable to support it. the child suffers. has a bad life. or she might be a single Mother. she's bullied. her child is made fun of. she's called a leech. a burden to society. in the end she still suffers so who are you to tell her what and what not to do?
@@marab.6244 adoption doesn't always end well not only does it take long time but if the child isn't adopted they can go into foster homes which are most of the time abusive and not good for the child in the end.
anastasiya braginskaya THERE IS ALWAYS A BETTER WAY THAN KILLING A BABY. I DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE SAY IF I AM A “BURDEN” OR A “LEECH” AT LEAST IM NOT COMMITTING A SIN CAUSE IM NOT MURDERING A BABY. BY THE WAY IM A SINGLE MOM WHOS MARRIAGE DID NOT WORK OUT BUT GUESS WHAT I HAVE MY BABY AND I THANK GOD I DO! AND I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS BECAUSE IM DOING WHAT I CAN FOR MY BABY WITH GOD’S HELP.
I think the weird thing to me is that people care deeply about a women they don’t know having an abortion, but don’t care about that women or child after birth. Mom can commit suicide from postpartum depression and ppl will say “oh that’s sad.” A child can be thrown in foster care being abused and they don’t care, but they will stand outside an abortion clinic & protest against abortions. It’s the wildest thing that’ll never make since. Much less every women has their own reasons for having them and most are serious reasons. The important thing to know is live your life minding your business & not being in others because it’s very very odd. People have abortions for being extremely ill and sick during pregnancy & have no choice. Also, ppl bring up taking the pill women shouldn’t have to mess their bodies up with birth control. Tell men to wrap it or snip snip, but nobody wants to hear that. Not everyone gets an abortion just to get one. The system is horrible for pregnancy, sucky maternity leave if anything at all and pregnancy is a whole risk of it’s own. Only reason I’m managing mine is due to Zofran other wise I couldn’t hold any food down & couldn’t even walk. Multiple reasons for these decisions.
Why do people who don’t believe in abortions watch videos about abortion. Is it just to read the comments find some one that does just to say something ignorant. Why!!
Why do I watch? I personally like watching horror films. In a horror film a serial killer kills his/her victims and everytime he/she kills one, he/she does it with less remorse. A woman gets pregnant and then decides to kill her baby but on top of that is told it is her right to do so. She is made to feel its empowering and will probably feel less remorse the next time she does it. To think my mom could have done this to me or my brother or my sister and be supported to keep doing it. OOOHHH SPOOKY!!!!
Just had an abortion at 8.5 weeks and going through day 2 of bleeding. My thought process was exactly like the girl with tattoos. I want to be a mother, of course. Nothing else would make me happier in life. But the fact that my boyfriend and I are struggling and still trying to find our way to financial freedom.. we couldn't bring ourselves to give birth to a baby and have us all be poor. We want to give our baby the best life possible. And this just wasn't the right time. Especially with myself having a prolonged head injury
Me and my gf made the same exact decision. She's got mental issues. Specifically anxiety and depression. That and being broke is what made me want to go through with it. She still regrets it but i feel it wouldn't have been fair to the child to bring it in our struggles
Amber Walters There’s no such thing as god. Poverty is absolutely a good reason to have an abortion. There are poor families in my country having kids when they shouldn’t be and are ending up in overcrowded state homes and the kids are catching deadly diseases such as Rheumatic fever and dying. You need to be able to take care of yourself before taking care of a child
Everybody is a hero when it's not their story. I do not and will not judge anyone for taking such a decision because only they know what they were going through.
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage - but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen. Psalm 127:3-5 "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 unfortunately I could only read so much but I don't think you understand my comment. I said everyone is a hero when it's not their story meaning you'll always be the wise one when you're not in their shoes. In their situations. In their minds. In their feelings. Until you go through exactly what they went through, you can't judge. Even the Bible tells us to not judge🙄that's God's responsibility not yours.
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 And no, it does not mean that I advocate for it or that I think it's right or good. In fact, I think it's the total opposite of everything I just mentioned but it's my responsibility as a Christian to love my fellow brothers and sisters through their mistakes, to rehabilitate them and bring them closer to God. To condemn is not for us.
Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the HELPLESS innocent unborn. Just in the United States, since 1970, that is over 50 Million people who have been put to death. and the people who encourage these womens to murder their own babies and who try cover up this all-too-common evil with empty rhetoric about "women's healthcare" or "the right to choose" are sickening. I can only suggest that maybe it doesn't move them, because they don't have a time machine to see the face of these killed humans, as toddlers or adults. They don't get to see the details of the lives of those that were put to death before leaving the womb... whether someone who would have found the cure to cancer, or the child will overcome their poverty or struggle through perseverance, was instead ripped out of their mothers' womb to become a number on an abortion graph. God has a plan, purpose and destiny for everyone. Abortion is murder, and murder is always wrong. The Bible condemns murder in all of its forms and specifically points out that babies in the womb are people (they don’t magically transform into human beings after they pass through the birth canal or incision [in the case of C seciton]). The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. The Bible also teaches that the person who intentionally takes a life will be held accountable before God. You shall not kill, because you are not the judge of who lives and dies. You are saying you know the future and know who should live and die by aborting the baby. You can't make that choice. Bible says it's God’s choice, not yours. Therefore, children in the womb should be respected and protected. The Bible has much to say about defending the cause of the weak, especially those who have no voice. "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute" (Proverbs 31:8; see also Psalm 82:3). We bear the responsibility to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves, including children in the womb. Matthew 19:14 “Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
People always have so much to say when it’s not their situation. Being a female and finding our your pregnant can be scary. To think that your not in a place to support a child is scary. To have an abortion is frowned upon, to give your child up for adoption because you can’t take care of it is frowned upon and to be a struggling mother on benefits from the government is also frowned upon. So women should be allowed to make their decision about how they want to go about it. Definitely pro-choice definitely
Trilla trina. A lot what ur saying it true.. but seems a lot if people don’t see it that way. It’s really hard. No one knows the out come about life. But you have a great point. Trying not to be judge mental. Life itself is already HARD
It's simple: you don't Like abortions? Don't get one. But Stop judging Others for their decision. Women should Always have a choice, because it's an individual decision.
Nathalie Kuhn Here’s your hate comment. Abortions are murder. Plain and simple. You kill a fetus, you kill a child. (Because according to Merriam Webster dictionary, a child is an unborn or recently born person). Meaning, you kill a child, you kill a person. Killing a person is murder. Therefore, you’ve committed murder and you deserve to get punished as needed.
I think you made the right decision. How does this works I am curious? Must be liberating, and can you put them back on, or fertilise the eggs later if you want it? It does sound like a more mature decision.
I admire the honesty these women show. It's sad that women out there don't have the support they need when making a critical decision like having an abortion. Hopefully videos like these will inspire women to not be afraid and to choose whatever move is right for them.
+meow23 A: I'm not encouraging women to abort. I said that women should have the support they need when CHOOSING whether or not they are ready to have a baby they didn't plan on. B: If I had a time machine, I'd go back, find your mother, read her the terrible things you say to complete strangers online and hopefully convince her that her unborn child would be better off used as stem cells for researching Parkinson's. p.s. I have a beautiful son. Unplanned. We considered abortion, but didn't do it. And that's ok.
Abortion is murder. The Bible calls an unborn child a child. The penalty for all sins is hell. But through Jesus we have forgiveness of sins and access to eternal life. Some people don't want there to be a God so they can do whatever they want. Murder is a grievous sin. There is good and evil in the world. Without a God there is no right or wrong. Repent and turn to Jesus. He is the only way to peace.
fernidad135 How can you speak like that?!! ABORTION IS KILLING A BABY. THIS IS NOT RIGHT, THIS SHOULDN’T BE PROMOTED GOD IS ANGRY. WHAT IF YOU WERE ABORTED?!!! YOU WOULDN’T EVEN BE HERE RIGHT NOW. REPENT AND ASK JESUS FOR MERCY. THEY DONT REGRET HAVING AN ABORTION BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO REMORSE AND ARE JUSY EVIL.
I'm glad you are living happily having made your choice. :) How was it by the way? Did you struggle with making the choice at all, if you don't mind me asking.
+MrSlyGamer I don't mind your question at all! :) I actually knew right away what I had to do, there was no question. I was so happy at this top tier University, and I had no idea how I could have ended up pregnant... I was not sure who the father was since I had been raped without me knowing. It was a VERY confusing time. Later I realized I had blocked the traumatic memory (never thought I would experience that). I relied on close friends for emotional and financial support during that time. Ending up a pregnant teen had always been one of my worst fears, and I was always super careful with contraceptives. I have never told my family as they would be super judgmental unfortunately... Wish I could tho :( I feel that it was not wrong and definitely NOT murder. I did it right away as soon as I could. It was like barely a month since I had conceived. They said that they didn't even think they could do a surgical abortion since the clump of cells was not even large enough.
It's easy to judge when you have never experienced that individual's circumstance. All path's are different and you cannot generalize ideas on another woman's choice to follow through on terminating a pregnancy. Generalizing ideas based off of your personal beliefs, lack of sympathy or ignorance is your unfortunate prerogative. Unless you are that individual you cannot speak on or for that individual. These women speak about their experience to not encourage abortion but to educate other women who have been faced with a dilemma when there is a lack of support.
Altitude Abstrakt There are plenty of women who have children in the worst possible situations & still are brave enough to make those decisions to give their children life & own up to their responsibility. That’s what it means to be brave & strong.
Altitude Abstrakt this same argument could be used for a woman with a 3 year old. It is an invalid argument. If you saw a mother on the sidewalk pulling her babies limbs off and crushing their skull (which is literally what an abortion is) you would not make the argument that you could not prevent them from doing so since they were in need and felt trapped. Life is hard yes but nothing will ever ever ever excuse killing a child. Just because you cannot see it does not mean that it is not a child. If you knew the facts about fetal development and what an abortion does and not just the BS lies that PP tells women and the public you would be advocating against abortion
I am not a religious person, but I do truly believe God puts that child in you to give you the greatest gift possible, the gift of life. When I got my girlfriend pregnant at 20 years old, I was so scared and definitely not ready to be a parent. I am 31 years old now and my daughter is the center of my life and I couldn’t imagine life without her. I would be so lonely without her. She is the purpose of my life. No matter what the circumstances, I truly believe it is a gift from God, It’s hard to say, even in any circumstances that it would be the right decision. it is a very tricky conversation, but that is what I believe. I was in no way shape or form ready to be a parent, but I did what I had to do and everything turned out all right In the end. The answer is you will never be quite ready to have a kid. there doesn’t come a day where you were just like “OK I’m ready to be a parent now”. It doesn’t happen like that 99% of the time. Btw, even though all these women say they aren’t guilty, I could see in their eyes that they are.
You might not be able to give your baby a happy life, you might not be able to support them, and you might not want them. That's okay. Your baby wants to live. You baby wants to see his/her full potential. So give it the best life you can, adoption. I am so happy I'm alive today. Instead I could of been aborted, my mom gave me up for adoption. It's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
Honey I wish my parents would of aborted me. Your argument is stupid. There’s so many kids in foster care that just age out of the system because no one wants them
I completely agree with this comment. No, not every child gets a great home but death is not a better option. A chance to live the the greatest gift of all.
When I was pregnant with my son his dad told me to take the abortion pill. I was always against abortion. But I was in a dark place. I watched RUclips videos and saw a girl who took the abortion pill and it didn’t work. She showed her baby in the video and said she was so glad it didn’t work. I had my son and now to think that the thought of taking that pill even crossed my mind makes me want to cry. The thought that my precious, adorable, sweet, funny, cuddly, smart, and beautiful boy could have potentially not existed if I had caved under the pressure when I wasn’t in a good state of mind breaks my heart. I’m so thankful now. It was a bad situation but God turned it around for good
@@IqhaweLemveloOfficial I’m so sorry. I pray she didn’t do that. Keep reaching out to her and let her know you want the baby and will take care of him or her.
@@heseesyou582 no, when I found out I was pregnant, the baby’s dad wanted me to take the pill. I never wanted an abortion and I wasn’t afraid of childbirth. I was worried about being judged for getting pregnant but I knew no humans judgement would compare to what I would face being judged by God one day. My baby was and is such a blessing. I was just scared to face the reality of the situation, knowing I would not have help/wasn’t married.
@@tayw.8355 I’m sorry you’re feeling confused. iI’s especially hard when you’re pregnant because emotions are high. The baby I was talking about in my comment (my 2nd child) is now 3 and I’m pregnant again currently 36 weeks. I can tell you this, aside from God, there’s no love in this world that compares to the love for and from your child. You can do this and you are strong enough. A baby won’t slow you down, not in a bad way at least. A baby will bring out the best in you. I was pregnant with my first child at 22 and had her at 23. If anything she motivated me to do better.
I thank God my single mom in poverty didn’t choose abortion as an option, but overcame the odds; telling me when she had the choice to choose between my life and selfishness she showed me that my life was worth struggling and fighting for. SHE WON AND SUCCEEDED.
Kim Yisoo김 이수 lol, if you haven’t had one mind your uterus. You don’t anyone’s situation. If you were sexually assaulted and got pregnant at 17, you would get an abortion too.
@@hadiakhan6658 a woman shouldn't feel ashamed of getting an abortion because she's the one who's gonna carry the child in her womb hence it's ONLY and ONLY her decision, no one has a say in it.
I had one at the age of 24 mostly because of my boyfriend at the time was abusive to me and I'm certain and always have been certain I made the right decision. He was a drug user and would not have made a good father even his own mother said he wouldn't be a good father. She was sad that I had one but she knew that it was the right decision too.
1:14 I related to that girl so much. I just had an abortion and I’m only 21 (not me in my profile pic lol) with not a lot of money and the household I’m living in isn’t as good. So I decided to abort my baby and the guilt is eating me alive because I couldn’t provide for my baby just yet and really wanted to keep it. But I knew it would be selfish of me to have a kid right now . I really want to be a mother. The father of the child didn’t want to have nothing to do with my baby so that made me want to abort the baby even more. Right now I feel so bad and guilty for even aborting my baby. I know the pain this woman has. And it’s so hard to bounce back together.
Jeez man what can you say about stories like this. Imo you were given terrible advice. Nothing anyone can say or advice they could give can change the situation you are in now. You could have changed your circumstances from before the abortion. As I say it's pointless even discussing it now.
Turn to God, repent and ask for forgiveness and you will be forgiven. He does in fact love you and forgives all. But do not support the continuation of this act. Don't allow others to experience your regret. Please.
@@hadiakhan6658 Do you really think comments like that help anyone? I hope you dont have children either. That way, you can't spread your hate to them.
Talia Rice exactly, sadly there is so much cognitive dissonance within the pro choice movement. She knows she killed her baby, I hope she gets herself some help and recovers from this. There is lots of post abortion trauma healing and women can have new life after an abortion.
Olivia Simmons you’ve conflated 2 different women, tears don’t mean she made a wrong choice, it’s not a choice anyone makes casually, it’s a tough position to be in and tears make a lotta sense even if u know it’s the best choice for u
Should she be smiling? Would u also post a comment about her “incorrect” reaction were she smiling? It’s a choice no one makes lightly and a complex and emotional reaction is to be expected.
Not all abortions come from the decision of not having a baby, sometimes we have to take that decision, because our baby is very sick and the future is terrible. I feel like im dying. My baby was planned, desired, loved and he was going to have the most beautiful life! But daddy and me, were told there was no hope. So, i made the most mounstrous decision a woman can ever take. Please, never judge, women who go trough this, are lost, in the deepest pain and the worst part is that we know, we deserve it.
@@cedar4539 Condoms are the most safest protection and they don't crack. They are made to be the most effective and strong for a reason. Accidents that happen with it is if people use the one that has expaired date and/or if they don't use it the right way. Pills are known to not be the most effective way. So it is already irresponsible to only rely on them. Also "pregnancy denial" or "it's not easy for them to notice if they're pregnant" -- what that has to do with getting pregnant?? Did pregnancy denial made them pregnant? Or did "not noticing being pregnant" made them pregnant?.......
I find it horrific that victims of rape and assault are forced to have the baby in my country because my government does not allow abortion. It is a woman's personal and private decision, it is her choice!
@@IsntTheInternetGreat You're the one who needs to think. How can children be a curse? You're the one who needs to control them sex life. "A disgusting unhealthy life of sex" is a very good description for those woman who killed their babies.
@@Joshuapurba It is easy to to be judgmental isn't it? ...'throw the first stone' and all that. Before judging these women and these sex lifes (which ypu know nothing about and is none of your business, by the way) think about giving some good sex education and information about contraceptives.
@@IsntTheInternetGreat Listen here buddy, abortion is not a solution. It's murder! You're murdering a child! A fetus is a developing HUMAN, so if you kill a fetus means you're killing a HUMAN in development. Here's some sex education for you, when a sperm cell enters an egg cell it becomes something completely different in an instant. Instead of them becoming nothing, they become a living something. And that living something is a HUMAN in development!! If they bring up the topic of "oppression" in pregnancies, you just know that they had sex with their partner and lack the responsibility and quality of a mother. Thus they deserve the description that i have written, "A disgusting unhealthy life of sex".
Choosing abortion is worse enough, but when u get the support from no one not even him, and anyone one u tell makes it like it's yours fault, makes it so hard, how do u live after this
Seek God, ask for forgiveness and he will heal you and do not do it again. Women have the power to hold men accountable. You set the rules, don’t easily give in to sex. Seek a man that wants marriage, not just friends with benefits. There’s plenty of good men that would stand with women so that they don’t need to think about abortion.
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen. Psalm 127:3-5 "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@foodlifefamily6140 I agree with you. Not having sex is not the end of the world. Yes, we all have temtations ... but this does not mean make yourself short for another man. If he loves you - he would love your decision you are making for the both of you to go slow. And if you happen to be in this particular situation GOD CAN AND WILL ALWAYS FORGIVE HIS CHILDREN. No matter what. As long as you accept your mistakes, be honest and ask for forgiveness. We as human beings are imperfect. We cannot judge ourselves based on actions what IS MORE RIGHT AND MORE WRONG. Only our God can do that. So leave the judgement to him and you try your best. It becomes disappointing when you let others influence your decisions and actions by letting their judgement define you. Do not be a written page of men. Be a page only GOD CAN HEAL and FORGIVE and JUDGE. you live yourlife and learn the lessons GOD wants you to learn and grow from. Stop being so hard on yourself. Eventhough people closest to you are disappointed- let them be
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen. Psalm 127:3-5 "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 just so youre aware you lose about 65% of your audience when you only use religious beliefs, which are different for everyone, to back up your claim. I respect your right to have your opinion but I will never agree with it. These women are not evil, and neither am I.
Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the HELPLESS innocent unborn. Just in the United States, since 1970, that is over 50 Million people who have been put to death. and the people who encourage these womens to murder their own babies and who try cover up this all-too-common evil with empty rhetoric about "women's healthcare" or "the right to choose" are sickening. I can only suggest that maybe it doesn't move them, because they don't have a time machine to see the face of these killed humans, as toddlers or adults. They don't get to see the details of the lives of those that were put to death before leaving the womb... whether someone who would have found the cure to cancer, or the child will overcome their poverty or struggle through perseverance, was instead ripped out of their mothers' womb to become a number on an abortion graph. God has a plan, purpose and destiny for everyone. Abortion is murder, and murder is always wrong. The Bible condemns murder in all of its forms and specifically points out that babies in the womb are people (they don’t magically transform into human beings after they pass through the birth canal or incision [in the case of C seciton]). The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. The Bible also teaches that the person who intentionally takes a life will be held accountable before God. You shall not kill, because you are not the judge of who lives and dies. You are saying you know the future and know who should live and die by aborting the baby. You can't make that choice. Bible says it's God’s choice, not yours. Therefore, children in the womb should be respected and protected. The Bible has much to say about defending the cause of the weak, especially those who have no voice. "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute" (Proverbs 31:8; see also Psalm 82:3). We bear the responsibility to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves, including children in the womb. Matthew 19:14 “Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
honey, as a mother of 3 - you are NEVER completely ready - whether it's with finances, relationships, education, etc. You are never completely ready simply because you never had the experience. Plain and simple. Having all the money in the world isn't going to prepare you for motherhood, because, simply put, it is not what being a mother is all about. Same goes for education and relationships. People need to really define what it is to be a mother. Yes, I'm no dummy, those things help, without a doubt, but, they don't make you a better mother. So, to say that you couldn't have the baby because you weren't ready, to me, is just plain selfish. Period. Remember this, when you become a mother, you don't truly become a great mom until you've had the experiences of nurturing, caring and loving that come only with time. Just as the saying, "Being a father does not make you a dad", same goes with being a mom, "Being a mother does not make you a great mom". It's the experience you GAIN by doing something.
It's not selfish. It's making a bad decision that at the time because of one's ignorance is not knowledgeable enough to know what u know. Not everyone thinks like you especially when they are young.
Ann Savinski amen! We’re expecting our first and we are doing well financially, relationally, and have a ton of family around us to help. Still scared out of my mind. You’re never ready. But when you fall pregnant, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the new life you created. What a shame that women selfishly tear apart their own from within because they “weren’t ready.” Then keep your legs closed mama;))
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen. Psalm 127:3-5 "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
If everyone waited until they felt like they were ready and everything was perfect the human species would be extinct. Idiots. I hope you never have kids.
The girl with the tattoos described the same situation myself and my girlfriend found ourselves in. We were both in college & only one month from final exams when she found out she was pregnant. It was a very difficult decision but her mother was pregnant when she got married & my girlfriend felt she was letting her family down so she decided on a termination. After a lot of heart searching, I supported her 100% & was there throughout. She had planned to move to another country for a year to gain work experience but after 9 months she decided she was staying & we should break up. This all happened 30 years ago & there isn't a day goes by that I don't think of the decision we made all those years ago. I bumped into a mutual friend that I hadn't met in 27 years, she told me my ex never married or had kids and still lives abroad, that broke my heart as I am married 23 years and have 3 kids. It's never an easy decision & it hits you from time to time, do whatever so you never find yourself it this position, it does mess with your mind.
You sacrificed your child on the altar of convenience… sorry to tell you straight and I understand you will feel a rejection to what I said but truth comes first. I hope you will find Jesus in your life, understand the gravity of murder and repent for your sin
@@Dekthagr8 exactly! That’a why everyone needs a saviour, we are all flawed. You think that the world hating people like me it’s something I should be ashamed of? On the contrary! It’s something to be proud of! I am saying the truth and the world hates the truth and its messengers. If the world were not to hate us it’s because we would be sharing a false gospel: John 15:18-19 18 “If the world hates you,(A) keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you(B) out of the world. That is why the world hates you.(C) God bless
You have the option not to get pregnant if you don't want a living child. You have the option to abstain from sex until you ae ready for the responsibility of having a child.
No opinion, or "abortion facts" matter without experience. Wild misinformation, manipulation abounds. If you dislike abortion, don't have one, it's optional. But, keep your laws off my body.
Why are pro choice people always to say something like "your opinion doesn't mater unless ______?" Frankly it comes across as a desperate attempt to shut down conversation.
It's not better. What if your mom lost her job, her husband left her, and she couldn't give you the life she wanted for you, so murdered you so you wouldn't have to suffer.
I hope you find peace.I’m sending so much love your way .Also, please forgive yourself you are more than what you think is a bad decision in your life ❤️
So you've never had a pizza? So you've never wanted to have something? You've never been greedy? You must be stoning women for speaking to other men then, right?
***** Ur just dumb. What u say has nothing to do with this. I said religion says everything for a reason. What kind of question is 'so u never had pizza?'
Dexter CD No. U can't just abort a child. The child has a a right. If a mother kills her 2 weeks old child its a murder. Why? She toke a life away. Suddenly abortion which is killing a child is not murder. The child suddenly has no right to life.
abdi ali Mixing dairy and meat is against Christianity... Pepperoni pizza is very popular among... many. Even Christians. What reason could they have for this, hm? Wanting something . That is lust. We ALL lust,
Abortion is having your own child murdered because YOU PERCEIVE your own child as an inconvenience to your life... or because YOU ARE FORCED by your pimp, sex trafficer, parent(s), parental guardian(s), the father of the baby, etc
It's great to finally see the representation of women who don't regret their abortions. Although unwanted pregnancy should be avoided at all costs, it happens for many reasons. But not every woman will choose abortion because she isn't mentally or financially stable, or not where she wants to be in life. Some will make this decision because they don't want to be mothers or don't feel ready. Whatever their reason, some women will regret that they went through an unwanted pregnancy, but not because they had an abortion.
Well if the woman is pregnant before marriage, it's their responsibility to fall with a disgusting man who sleeps with them before God anoint them. Don't do abortion, because it's murder! There are no such things as forbidden children, there is only disgusting sinful parents who cant control their private parts. repent
I had a abortion at 31 years old. Yes I regretted it but thank God I ended up pregnant again 4 months after my abortion. Now I have two daughters ages 14 and 15. They don't know I had a abortion and they don't need to know because if I would have kept that baby then both of them wouldn't be here.
I REGRET it. It especially hit hard 26 YEARS LATER. That's the thing they are not telling you...you don't know how it will manifest in your mind, soul and body. It's never the perfect time to have a child, don't fool yourself with that idea...that baby, that little angel of a person, that miracle...is what will save you from a lifetime of regret and pain...children are such a blessing and not a burden.
Pro choicers kind of remind me of vegans. They call you monsters based off their feelings and disrespect your opinions because it hurts their feelings.
I don't know about that but I started tovalue the life of any unborn children after my current boyfriend told me his story about how his mother drank 10 antacid and even got a midwife to force his mother into early labor, the managed to get the other two but they didn't know there was another one but still a tiny little fetus, a few months younger than the other two. He was born 6 months later to his mothers surprise because she didnt know she was pregnant and that her belly looked too small for her to be pregnant. A small baby boy the size of a 350ml coca cola. His gramma raised him as his mother but its kinda sad that his bio mother died just this january because of ovarian cancer. He knew from the back of his mind that his older sister was actually his mom because from his childhood till teenage years, his sister/mom would always check up on him, hug him, make him breakfast, cuddle with him and sometimes when she hugs him she just cries and keeps saying sorry. Well at least he didn't hate her up until she died and after hearing that story, i immediately backed out on my early morning and late night surprises hahaha xD
the girl with the tattoos spoke my story.. im 24.. and getting mine in 2 days.. i tried so hard at first to make it work.. but i just cant.. the hardest part being that i WANT to be a mother.. I want to be there and carry it to term.. but it wouldnt have the life it deserves.. id never wish this on anyone
@@jadalauren6171 honestly.. i wont say its easy because its not.. i miss it every single day.. and it sucks that i had to terminate my very first pregnancy. i still cry.. and it really gets me down sometimes but, i know i made the right choice despite how i feel about it.. thankyou for asking 🩷
I made an error and got pregnant when I could NOT care for a child. I had an abortion…felt huge relief and moved forward. Zero trauma which in my view is a guilt trip imposed on women…to this day yrs and yrs later I still know this was the right thing for me to do.
Why is the discussion never that men and women should just abstain from having in protected sex with each other? I really feel bad for these women who found themselves in a difficult situation, but it could have been prevented and lives were lost.
It is the most awful feeling EVER waiting in that clinic in that chair watching all the girls walk into the operation room and being wheeled back to their place with tears streaming down their faces. The pain is HORRIBLE during the procedure and the fear of this happening again ACCIDENTALLY scares the shit out of me. I’m so relieved to have had a choice to get this done.
Oh, so infanticide must be legal then? A woman may want to walk her own body out of her house and leave her newborn to die - we shouldn't be able to have laws telling men and women to use their bodies to ensure the safety of an unwanted newborn until they can be safely handed to someone else now should we? cause it's ALLLLL about the woman, right? It's not the woman's body killed in the abortion is it? We absolutely should have a say in protecting the bodies of vulnerable human beings - born and unborn.
I also had abortion but i cried my heart out ...i already have three kids all of 2 years age gap and they all are dependent on me....theres no one around me to take care of me and my kids if i continued pregnancy and my husband usually has work outstation for 2 weeks a month...though i think we should have been more carefull...i regret it i regret it a lot...just always praying to god for forgiveness....i just cant stop crying thinking abt that but though continuing it was also a great mental trauma for me...
navi hussain you will be forgiven in the eyes of god. Repent. If you are still of reproductive age, do not make the same decision again of killing an innocent child.. let this be a lesson and pass down the morals to your children.
@@hadiakhan6658 don’t shit on someone else while they’re already down.. God tells us not not judge others but show compassion and support others. Who are you to send accusations of murder
I was made to have 2 abortions in my life both because I was raped . I truly wish my family didn't make me get the abortions . I now can not have children of my own because of the abortions I did not want to have in the first place.
How bout people just stop sleeping together before they’re ready to have kids ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ That seems to me a more logical conclusion than killing the kids.
what is the point of making a decision that leads to a sad depressed life?? Life is too short to live in regret and sadness! I saw sadness in all these women's eyes! It is sad that they being a mother is made to be such a bad thing when it is the best thing ever!
@@coppersulphate002 I've had two abortions in my lifetime. Made the right decision for myself and my life both times. I don't feel sad or guilty. Posted a video about it.
@@BVBloomtwo abortions? Not one but two abortions? Damn! good for you! The Do you want a medal? I feel sorry for those two lives lost. By the way, that is why tubal ligations are there for! No one is forcing you to have a child just like no one forced you to have sex. It all comes down to making smart choices. Anyway most women who have had abortions them regret it! So I speak for the majority! It must take a psychopath to feel nothing after taking away a life.
@@coppersulphate002 no medal, just want to live my life. Btw, I've spoken to doctors about tubal ligation. You'd know that if you watched my video. One doctor told me flat out I'd change my mind. Another asked what my husband had to say. Watch my video and comment there if you have more questions or comments. Bai!
Psalm 139:13-16 ESV "you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them."
I'm not a woman, so i don't know what pregnancy is like but i don't think abortion is the only option. There is always adoption but maybe like college student or highschool student who got pregnant might think the baby is going to ruin their life and so they get an abortion instead. But is it really worth it to kill a potential human being just so you can finish college. You can take leave for a years or two to give birth and put the baby up for adoption if you can't take responsibility. It is not easy but to use that excuse to kill a potential human being and not regretting it, is just inhumane and cruel. 3:46, it is not just women that are expected to feel guilty about abortion, every human are expected to feel at least a little bit of guilt and regret for killing a potential human being.
You should tie your tubes! It is not right that two humans did not get a chance to live because of your poor decisions. Anyway this is your life and that decision will follow you and not others.
I'm someone who is immunocompromised with rare GI conditions and mental illness. I know I would love to carry to term and either keep a child or find a good family for the child but I know that because I am so sick, the fetus would suffer greatly and I likely would as well. Please don't judge others.
@@hadiakhan6658 well I'm also a lesbian so it's pretty unlikely that I would ever find myself in this situation. But if heaven forbid I was raped and got pregnant, I should have the option to terminate, for my sake, and the sake of the fetus.
@@hadiakhan6658 that is your opinion and I respect your opinion. What I do not respect is your lack of empathy and overgeneralization of women who have had to make the decision to have an abortion. Please educate yourself on the topic before making harmful statements on a public forum. It's childish.
I had abortion...it’s hard mentally I have a 4month old daughter I felt guilty for having one but my finically situation and my life I’m not ready to have another one I feel guilty not enjoying my daughter to have a sibling but I don’t think I could mentally do it . My boyfriend cheated on my at the time I was emtoinal wreck my daughter was only 3 months and it tore me up . I’m very depressed since having my daughter I’ve had history of depression, sleep deprived and barley eating I couldn’t produce milk anymore I felt guilty for that I just have not been in a good place . Women that get pregnant and go through with it takes a toll on their body & mind . But I love my daughter and having my daughter was my choice ! And having an abortion was too. You never understand until you go through it
Aimee Bac sending I know it’s hard but believe things will get better you will find a better man who will love you and your baby just love you first ❤️
Honestly, there’s no day I regret having an abortion. Sadly if I was pregnant with my ex’s child.. I would do it all over again. He was so toxic and broke me, I knew having a kid with him I’ll never make it out alive
I hate when people use the argument of "what if you would have been aborted". I wouldn't know. I'd be dead, and would have avoided the suffering of growing up in a house that either didn't want me or couldn't provide for me. At the end of the day, the option for women to have an abortion is there, and it always should be.
I told my pro-life mom & sister I regretted having mine. But that's because I knew they judged me and they said things to make me feel guilty but I do not regret having it at all. Of course I had depression afterwards which I thought was regret at the time but it's actually not regret, it was a hormonal reaction.
It was most definitely regret. I pray for you and all the women they have gone through one or multiple abortions. I’ve seen how horrible of a toll it takes on girls and and families.
It was most definitely regret. I pray for you and all the women they have gone through one or multiple abortions. I’ve seen how horrible of a toll it takes on girls and and families.
My mom just turned 88. She is sharp, beautiful and a college graduate. She married my dad at 16, he was 21. She was still in high school when she and dad found that she was pregnant with me. I thank God that they didn't selfishly think, "We're too young to be parents", "I'm just not ready", "I can't afford a baby", "What will people think"? They were married for 64 years, had 5 happy, well-adjusted children. Mom graduated from college when she was in her 40's. People who march to their 'own' drummer, oft times march over a cliff.
@@hellobot67 I think people became too careless with sex. It became more casual then ever because of birth control and other possibilities which can exempt from consequances and responsibility. Rise of egocentrism and "if there are problems in relationship, lets not work on it, next please" mentality as well. If men and women were careful who they choose to be with( not having unprotected sex with a stranger at 16 ) the abortion rate would look much different today. I hope those ladies will find peace within. I will not wish them best, say how strong they are. They killed an innocent life which they chose to create. I will not wish them bad as well because i am aware they feel void, pain , guilt and its tiring to run away from its own conscience. I hope they will be able to forgive themselves and move on❤
@@sofistacy4176 life isn't fair, But women are the ones who have the natural greater consequences, so they should be smart and beware of their risks as they regulate it better
@@angelameyers7227 life isn't fair, but women are the ones who have the natural greater consequences, so they should be smart and beware the risks as they regulate it better and think twice.
Alright let's end this debate. If you truly view the fetus to be equal to a baby then consider this scenario. You hold a fetus in a dish in one hand and a baby in the other. You have been told to drop one. If you truly believe them to be equal then it would be nearly impossible to decide. Another point. If they're willing to "kill" the child as you say, do you honestly believe that it would be right for them to have a child in that point in time?
@@karenflores4987 You're missing the point: it's a thought experiment. Simply imagine a living 10 week old fetus inside a jar filled with amniotic fluid attached to a feeding tube. The fetus is at one end of a building, a two week old baby is at the other end. A fire breaks out and you can only save one. All other variables are equal.
@@mondobear22 I would choose the baby, but that doesn't make the fetus less human. If you 2 people were in a life threatening situation and one of them was a loved one, and the other a complete stranger and you saved your loved one, would that make you a terrible person? What if you saved the stranger instead? Would that make you a horrible person? When it comes to abortion a woman doesn't have to choose between saving the life of a born baby and her fetus. She just walks into an abortion clinic and is asked if she is sure and then she goes thru it if she wants to.
@@karenflores4987 Of course, I'd save my dog no matter who was the other individual. It is ethical to choose any sentient being over a non-sentient being, even if we have a species bias.
Does a fetus not become a baby? I think people should drop the argument that a fetus isn’t alive or a real baby because it is irrelevant. Personally I think a fetus is still life. They have heart beats. I’m not for abortion (again personal choice) but I don’t demonize those who choose abortion. Some situations are complex. Sometimes people have to do it to save their own lives. We don’t know and frankly I think it’s none of our business. It can be a difficult, tragic, depressing decision for some or easy for others. I think women who choose to abort should be met with empathy and support.
Abortion is a mature decision. If you become pregnant, and know you cannot care for a child, aborting the fetus (not a person) is a mature decision. Why bring a child into a scenario where the mother is unfit physically, mentally, or does not have the support/money to care for it. Your body, your life, your fetus, your future, YOUR CHOICE!
1 Fetuses body isn't your body 2.The EMBRYO has the right to live 3.You have no right to kill. 4.Use condoms when you create life you can't take it away because it is not yours. Conclusion: Your choice was when you didn't bought the condom. You don't own the embryo. You have no rights on it. Not your choice Not your life Not your body that you throw in the trush can.
your right to life comes before your right to choose. more importantly, your right to choose doesn't exist when you start causing harm to other people, and yes that includes your fetus
@@catherineleary9831 I just read the whole three sites (that are not reliable at all). They can be summed by and debunked by reading her book. When you make a movie about something that happens over many years, and try to tell it in under 3 hours, or under 2 hours, some aspects may have to be left out for time. I have read her book, and it does answer all the supposed questions that these sites pose. Please quit spewing lies Satan!!!
@@researchbothsidesequally4481 Don't believe everything you hear. When people tell lies,there is always a reason. Do your own research and don't be a coward.
@@catherineleary9831 WOW!!! My point exactly! My knowledge comes from the actual person. Your supposed knowledge comes from a third party with no actual experience. They are just providing opinions that they can't back up just to get the attention of the less informed. If you research anything, I mean anything at all, anything like what is one plus one, you will find someone somewhere telling you the answer is 6, or 478, or whatever? Misinformation is everywhere. Everything in this movie is factual. It mirrors all of the research that I have done, including the testimony of 3 girls who I know personally. One of them is my sister, the other two have been friends of mine, and my wife's since grade school. My wife was in the "clinic" with them and she was with them afterwards. So yeah, my knowledge comes pretty darn close to the source. Do you believe the Earth is flat, and we didn't land on the moon also?
Abortion would significantly decrease if people stopped fornicating but the majority of people don't follow God. They follow their heart. The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked. Who can know it? The wages of sin is death.
my friend is 14 and is having a abortion because the American sexual education system failed her. if girls and women are not taught how to protect themselves then this will continue to happen. she feel so guilty about it when she shouldn't . if we are taught in our schools about how to protect ourselves and how to seek help and deal with the mental and physical toll from having an abortion then things would be so much easier.
People who say it's easy to judge when you have never been in those circumstances forget the fact that it's easy to avoid being in those circumstances. We live in an age of modern, easily accessible contraceptives. I never hear pro choice people talking about those choices. I also never hear anyone who claims to be pro choice acknowledge the fact that abstinence could be a choice.
No contraceptive methode works in 100% of the cases.Abortions are not only done if a woman has an unwanted pregnancy but there are also cases where the pregnancy is dangerous for the woman's life, in which the woman can die if he bears a child.So its woman's decision if she wants to keep the child or not.
@Sup 09 Abstinence works 100% of the time. It’s just like the OP said, for some reason pro-choice people always refuse to see that as an option. They’d just rather pretend like penis-in-vagina sex is some sort of right and whine when sex results in its intended purpose. 🙄 These women already made their ‘choice’ when they choose to have sex. To choose to have sex is to choose to expose yourself to the risk of pregnancy, and by natural extension, parenthood. If you can’t handle the possibility of becoming a parent (no matter how small), then you have absolutely no business having sex.
So sad. The choice to have children happens before they are conceived. This is the most loving way to go about the choice of having children. This is why one of the 10 commandments is, thou shalt not commit adultery. If you are not ready to be a mother, go to school. Travel. Do what you want to do, but within the safety of Gods Holy laws. If you wait till you are with someone who isn't afraid to stand and commit their life to you. And be by your side, you will have a beautiful experience. God wants to give us a future. Children are a gift from God. No matter what you have done. It's a new start, the opportunity to start life again. Not to think better than the little life in your womb and to pay someone to have this small baby starved, (medical abortion) cut in pieces, (second trimester abortion) or burned alive (saline injection and deliver dead baby in the third trimester) The world is so backwards. It enslaves women to guilt and shame. Time to go back to the future, which is the past. Gods ways are better than our ways. Fornication and murder are much closer together than many realize.
I understand that the three women don’t regret their abortions. The lady with the tattoos does seem to have regret about having an abortion. You can see it in her eyes and body language. I am so thankful to GOD that I never got pregnant while attending college. I used birth control and I was careful with my decisions back in the day. These women did not get a full education about adoption at all. Abortion is murder, therefore, these will live decision for the rest of their lives. It’s sad.
Of course they should feel guilty if they murder anyone. However, this is about abortion and the only similarity I and think of between a person murdering someone and abortion is that both murder and denial of abortion violate the same human right.
So glad we have choice in my country, so sad US is trying to take it away and want women to live from cars and the kids get abused in foster homes, their system is insane
There are videos of Ex-abortionists how they tell that their patients who went through abortion, now regretting their decisions and crying the rest of their lives.
Instead of promoting abortions we should promote sexual education, to reduce abortions. There are clinics out there that provide education and free contraceptives, once someone starts having sex they have to think “I could get pregnant & I dont want that so how can I avoid that”. It should t be an after thought. Getting pregnant results in a life- point blank. If you “arent ready” or mature enough to seek help/information, dont have sex. Simple as that.
This is disgusting nobody should ever kill a child. Also instead of getting tattoos you could save that money to raise the child. Also use birth control.
Have you ever had an abortion? Do you know the whole story of that woman? If she didn't get the abortion, will she be able to support the child? Will she be ready for the arrival of the child? Maybe try to use your last 2 remaining brain cells left in that hollow head of yours and think? Yea thanks.
+TheRealDesi Jantha I agree and it's fucked up that people tell women what they have do with their bodies, that they HAVE to have a baby that they can't care for or are impregnated by rape, that they're cowards for having an abortion, etc. Abortion is probably one of the hardest decisions a woman can make. Oh, not to mention the fact that people are completely uneducated on the topic because abortion is not murder, abortions prevents a human being; doctors they kill the embryo which doesn't have any physical feelings or a conscience, thus, it is not even human yet.
Its an abuse of power to kill someone who cannot defend themselves. Not a choice. A choice is 'mcdonalds or wendys' not 'shall i kill my baby now because once its popped out its kind of socially unacceptable'
Siobhan Ni Ghuairim What don't you get? It isn't killing its preventing something that has not even become "alive" yet. And i ts not ok for people like you to tell women what they should do with their bodies. Women who are raped and women who cannot afford and take care of a child should not be told that they have to give birth. Even if they have to give it up for adoption. It's not just easy like that. If someone was defending themself and had to kill the person attacking them would you tell them they were wrong? No of course not.
+Black Widow they have beating hearts at 18 days. But the limit is waaaaay after that. Now if you used a plan b pill and terminated the pregnancy in the first week, i dont really see a problem because the baby is not even alive. 'People like me' are standing up for the right to life for these silent victims. The same way animal activists defend animals against abuse because they cant speak. These babies are being killed by those who are meant to care and protect them most. I believe ( though i will check) that rape/ incest ect account for less than 0.5% of abortions in the us. Instead of wanting abortions to fix problems we should be fighting for more aid for single mothers and pregnancy costs. We have to acknowledge that killing a baby is not the way to fix someones problems.
Pro Choice. My view is sex isn't just for procreation but also for pleasure. They were ready for pleasure but not procreation. The women in this video are brave knowing they will be called murderers. Killer is more appropriate because they killed the fetus, I'll say that much. Plus, I wouldn't want to be alive if my mother didn't want me.
So much power to these people. Been there. I didn't know how much I wanted to be a mom until I got pregnant by my abuser. My line of thinking was, "I will not bring a child into this world just for him to hurt that child." I was also 19 and not at all financially stable, college educated like I wanted to be, I was also still an active alcoholic, there were so many reasons. So incredible to hear other's stories. I do not regret my decision at all. I wasn't ready in any capacity to be a mother and I honestly shudder when I think of what my life, and that baby's life would have been like had I not made the right (and very difficult for me, though I knew it was right) decision for myself back then. I would have been tied to my abuser for the rest of my life. I did the right thing for myself, and as strange as it sounds, for that tiny life forming inside of me. Bless.
@@ems3991this person who posted her story is about her not you. Besides if your mother hadn't had you, you wouldn't be here to say how well you managed. Not to mention how many people there are out there with terrible tramua and are struggling in a damaged medical system. Be grateful you turned out OK. But not all are so lucky. This isn't your story, you don't have a crystal ball or know the extent of the abuse to look into a future of someone else's life. You don't. If you get pregnant, nobody's forcing you to have an abortion. That is what prochoice means. Don't think your experience is someone else's experience.
Thanking you for sharing ur life story with us more power to you Also I wanted to say u have a gift Ik very few ppl who can be as articulate about sharing such a personal story
I have 5 kids all delivered thru Cesarean section. Our 5th child is just a year and a half behind of our 4th. If I thought only about "my" own life , my own comfort, my own pleasures, my own fears, I would have aborted him even if it is illegal in our country. So glad that i was able to choose life for them. We should not be overwhelmed with fear and what the society dictates. Our youngest is now nearly turning six. Let us choose life instead of death, choose hope instead of fear, choose love instead of lust and selfishness. Truly, it is liberating and the joy is deep, not shallow.
Wow this comment section is either condemning or celebrating the women. I want to say from my own opinion that while In a perfect world, I would not want abortions to ever exist, but the world we live in there may be abortions for rape or when the woman's life is in danger due to the child, there should never be abortions because of someone's foolishness. If you have sex your presenting your self to make kids,and if you get pregnant you have to own up to your responsibility, unless it was forced then that would be my exception,we own our actions and choice and to abort millions of babies because of people not wanting to take responsibility then I am sorry I am pro choice and to be pro choice is to have responsibility.
I am pro choice but I am not for abortions that are not for rape/or health risk to the mother other than that we don't need abortions for people who had one nightstands
Sooooo she says 'I made the right decision' and then breaks out crying... Seems she is uttering the politically correct words, but her heart is screaming out the truth... Turn it any way you want but it is still nothing less than murder. But we shouldn't be harsh against these women, they've been lured into it because of all the lies that are promoted...
All I hear out of these women is I, I, I and me, me, me. "I wasn't ready", "I didn't want to be a mother", "I know it was the right decision for me", "I knew exactly what I wanted". It's as though they don't even acknowledge that their decision has an effect on anyone else. When Melanie (short bangs with a bun) is talking about regretting abortion, all she does is talk about is the stigma of abortion and how it makes her feel. Nothing about ending a life of course. That has nothing do with it. It's all about people trying to oppress her and make her life difficult... I'm actually pro-choice, but if this was supposed to cast abortion in a better light, it didn't.
Are you one of those pro-choice people that believes that a woman should only be able to exercise her right to choose if her health is at risk or if she's been raped? Because that's not what being pro-choice is...
Brittany Wilkerson No. I am pro-choice for any woman who wants it prior to theoretical viability of the fetus. Health risks and rape do play a significant role in my opinions though. There's 5 main reasons I'm pro-chocie. 1. Victims of rape. 2. Malfunctioning birth control. 3. Danger to mother's life. 4. Safer operations. 5. Severe disability of the fetus. (no particular order btw) Given that it is impossible to know weeks later if a child was conceived by rape or malfunctioning birth control, you are left with no alternative than to allow abortion to anyone who wants it. I am ethically against convenience based abortions, but I acknowledge that personal ethics cannot necessarily be reflected in laws. I would also like to point out that there are degrees of being pro-choice. Pro-choice doesn't necessarily mean that you believe abortion should be legal in all cases. For example, some pro-choice people believe in limits of 12 weeks, others 20 weeks, and others up to the due date.
+utpawn I understand, but I just want to point out that there's no such thing as a "convenience based abortion". Not one has an abortion because pregnancy and parenthood are inconvenient. They have abortions pregnancy and parenthood are life altering and permanent. I know that there are varying degrees of pro-choice. I certainly don't believe that elective abortion should be legal throughout the entire 9 months of pregnancy. I just don't see the problem with anyone getting a first trimester abortion for any reason.
Brittany Wilkerson Perhaps that wasn't the best phrasing. What I mean by convenience based is that the abortion is done for social or economic reasons rather than for any sort of medical or mental health problem.
Yeah! And that's ok! I'm a person who already exists in this world, and my needs and personhood come first. I've had two abortions in my lifetime. I posted a video about it a little while ago. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to post them there. But yes, my mental and physical health come first. If that sounds selfish, well, guess I'm selfish!
The woman with the tattoos literally spoke everything that I’m going through
I’m in the same position. You are not alone.
Neither of you guys are alone :) if you guys are in an unplanned pregnancy situation please visit optionline.org, they have great information and local resources that will help you! If either of you are pregnant, there is hope & help. Not only physically but spiritually. Gods word say, “For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for good and not evil. To give you a hope and a future.” The church of Christ is here to help, these abortion clinics want your money & to leave you after your pregnancy, we are here to reach out, walk with you, & provide for you even if you are not pregnant with anything you need! There is hope in Christ💕✝️!
Rubber is the real deal
@@rylibarnes have you had the abortion yet
@@gracerodriguez5313 abortions are free at planned parenthood. They don’t want the money. You have no idea how hard it is to get an abortion and to make that choice. How dare you? Does god pay our bills? No he doesn’t.
I became a parent at 20 and have been living in poverty since. My kid is 13 now and I finally have a nice apartment and job but it’s still a struggle to get by. I don’t regret keeping him but I do wish I had been financially stable before he came along. I’m also a single parent.
You did the right thing. You're a wonderful mother - trust me Sis...😉
You atleast are not a killer and at least you don't live in Yemen ,you can always make your life better 😊
You raised your child like a real human being that’s nice
Its weird how everyone is praising you yet nobody is offering help in any way shape or form. At the end of the day nobody really cares. Why should a woman feel ashamed for not keeping a child…
I was also 20 when I had my child. But, I was not a single parent. My partner supported me financially and this was all. It was hard. Now I got to the conclusion that my brain wasn't even developed. I love my child, though. She somehow made open my eyes. I even started to study again last year. She gives me power.
Judging is so easy to do when you haven't experienced that kind of turmoil. Be kind to others. Ignorance, crude assumptions, and malignant spite won't make the world any better. We are no better and no worse than anyone else around us. Your biggest regret is not the same as anyone elses. You don't have to understand, but you have no place to judge anyone.
Righteous judgement is due...if we continue to be tolerant...we make room for bullcrap. I feel pitty for these women that don't regret murder. REPENT
Judging is easy when their act is vile, sinful and narcissistic
I appreciate your empathy, but it's misdirected. But I could've been a parent if we didn't get the abortion. Know that the push towards women getting abortion is worse than pushing women towards having their kid. You can always abscond yourself of the responsibility of taking care of a kid, but you can't for killing an innocent life. Women should really be educated about the repercussions of abortion too. The mental, physical, and spiritual toll of killing your own child is a larger burden than any infant could have been.
Jessie Thoma
Your attempt at calling for peace and understanding has failed. We (pro-life) will continue to fight the evil of abortion and put an end to the slaughter of innocent unborn babies. Sorry, but life is worth protecting, no matter how tough it gets.
God will be the Judge.
Abortion is Murder
a woman is pregnant.
she wants to have an abortion.
if she has, she is shamed. attacked. looked down upon. called a murderer.
if she keeps her baby. she may be unable to support it. the child suffers. has a bad life. or she might be a single Mother. she's bullied. her child is made fun of. she's called a leech. a burden to society.
in the end
she still suffers
so who are you to tell her what and what not to do?
Or she gives her child for adoptions
You know what, youre right. I think i should committ murder. Who are u to tell me what to do?
@@marab.6244 adoption doesn't always end well not only does it take long time but if the child isn't adopted they can go into foster homes which are most of the time abusive and not good for the child in the end.
@@zeebearr it's always better to give every child opportunity to live, than killing it. ALWAYS.
anastasiya braginskaya THERE IS ALWAYS A BETTER WAY THAN KILLING A BABY. I DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE SAY IF I AM A “BURDEN” OR A “LEECH” AT LEAST IM NOT COMMITTING A SIN CAUSE IM NOT MURDERING A BABY. BY THE WAY IM A SINGLE MOM WHOS MARRIAGE DID NOT WORK OUT BUT GUESS WHAT I HAVE MY BABY AND I THANK GOD I DO! AND I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS BECAUSE IM DOING WHAT I CAN FOR MY BABY WITH GOD’S HELP.
I think the weird thing to me is that people care deeply about a women they don’t know having an abortion, but don’t care about that women or child after birth. Mom can commit suicide from postpartum depression and ppl will say “oh that’s sad.” A child can be thrown in foster care being abused and they don’t care, but they will stand outside an abortion clinic & protest against abortions. It’s the wildest thing that’ll never make since. Much less every women has their own reasons for having them and most are serious reasons. The important thing to know is live your life minding your business & not being in others because it’s very very odd. People have abortions for being extremely ill and sick during pregnancy & have no choice. Also, ppl bring up taking the pill women shouldn’t have to mess their bodies up with birth control. Tell men to wrap it or snip snip, but nobody wants to hear that. Not everyone gets an abortion just to get one. The system is horrible for pregnancy, sucky maternity leave if anything at all and pregnancy is a whole risk of it’s own. Only reason I’m managing mine is due to Zofran other wise I couldn’t hold any food down & couldn’t even walk. Multiple reasons for these decisions.
Maybe people who don't want babies shouldn't be having sex.
@@Stillpril Such a pat answer to a very complex issue.
None of this is an excuse for terminating the innocent. Stop gaslighting me away round this.
@@Stillpril youre probably a virgin chill.
Try drinking red raspberry leaf tea for nausea or even hyperemesis gravidarum. It really works
Why do people who don’t believe in abortions watch videos about abortion. Is it just to read the comments find some one that does just to say something ignorant. Why!!
WHY YOU KILL HUMANS?
They are called trolls,Peachie.
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Why do I watch? I personally like watching horror films. In a horror film a serial killer kills his/her victims and everytime he/she kills one, he/she does it with less remorse. A woman gets pregnant and then decides to kill her baby but on top of that is told it is her right to do so. She is made to feel its empowering and will probably feel less remorse the next time she does it. To think my mom could have done this to me or my brother or my sister and be supported to keep doing it. OOOHHH SPOOKY!!!!
@@Rebel-cd6gc So... Yeah. Trolls.
Just had an abortion at 8.5 weeks and going through day 2 of bleeding. My thought process was exactly like the girl with tattoos. I want to be a mother, of course. Nothing else would make me happier in life. But the fact that my boyfriend and I are struggling and still trying to find our way to financial freedom.. we couldn't bring ourselves to give birth to a baby and have us all be poor. We want to give our baby the best life possible. And this just wasn't the right time. Especially with myself having a prolonged head injury
Bianca Gabriel and you shouldn’t feel guilt or shame. You did the best thing for and in the future you’ll be a great mother when you’re ready
Me and my gf made the same exact decision. She's got mental issues. Specifically anxiety and depression. That and being broke is what made me want to go through with it. She still regrets it but i feel it wouldn't have been fair to the child to bring it in our struggles
哈迪亚Baby you do that when you get pregnant.
Amber Walters There’s no such thing as god. Poverty is absolutely a good reason to have an abortion. There are poor families in my country having kids when they shouldn’t be and are ending up in overcrowded state homes and the kids are catching deadly diseases such as Rheumatic fever and dying. You need to be able to take care of yourself before taking care of a child
Then why allow yourself to get pregnant....condoms? Birth control?
Everybody is a hero when it's not their story. I do not and will not judge anyone for taking such a decision because only they know what they were going through.
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage - but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen.
Psalm 127:3-5
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 unfortunately I could only read so much but I don't think you understand my comment. I said everyone is a hero when it's not their story meaning you'll always be the wise one when you're not in their shoes. In their situations. In their minds. In their feelings. Until you go through exactly what they went through, you can't judge. Even the Bible tells us to not judge🙄that's God's responsibility not yours.
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 And no, it does not mean that I advocate for it or that I think it's right or good. In fact, I think it's the total opposite of everything I just mentioned but it's my responsibility as a Christian to love my fellow brothers and sisters through their mistakes, to rehabilitate them and bring them closer to God. To condemn is not for us.
Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the HELPLESS innocent unborn. Just in the United States, since 1970, that is over 50 Million people who have been put to death. and the people who encourage these womens to murder their own babies and who try cover up this all-too-common evil with empty rhetoric about "women's healthcare" or "the right to choose" are sickening. I can only suggest that maybe it doesn't move them, because they don't have a time machine to see the face of these killed humans, as toddlers or adults. They don't get to see the details of the lives of those that were put to death before leaving the womb... whether someone who would have found the cure to cancer, or the child will overcome their poverty or struggle through perseverance,
was instead ripped out of their mothers' womb to become a number on an abortion graph. God has a plan, purpose and destiny for everyone. Abortion is murder, and murder is always wrong. The Bible condemns murder in all of its forms and specifically points out that babies in the womb are people (they don’t magically transform into human beings after they pass through the birth canal or incision [in the case of C seciton]). The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. The Bible also teaches that the person who intentionally takes a life will be held accountable before God. You shall not kill, because you are not the judge of who lives and dies. You are saying you know the future and know who should live and die by aborting the baby. You can't make that choice. Bible says it's God’s choice, not yours. Therefore, children in the womb should be respected and protected. The Bible has much to say about defending the cause of the weak, especially those who have no voice. "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute" (Proverbs 31:8; see also Psalm 82:3). We bear the responsibility to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves, including children in the womb.
Matthew 19:14
“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
@@loveandfaithfulness4479
nice fairytales
People always have so much to say when it’s not their situation. Being a female and finding our your pregnant can be scary. To think that your not in a place to support a child is scary. To have an abortion is frowned upon, to give your child up for adoption because you can’t take care of it is frowned upon and to be a struggling mother on benefits from the government is also frowned upon. So women should be allowed to make their decision about how they want to go about it. Definitely pro-choice definitely
ruclips.net/video/vdm-i62hRdc/видео.html
Giving up a baby for adoption is not frowned upon are you kidding?
Trilla trina. A lot what ur saying it true.. but seems a lot if people don’t see it that way. It’s really hard. No one knows the out come about life. But you have a great point. Trying not to be judge mental. Life itself is already HARD
Idk about you but giving up a baby for adoption is frowned upon. It depends on the situation
@@jennywhite3508 . Yes. It is.
It's simple: you don't Like abortions? Don't get one.
But Stop judging Others for their decision. Women should Always have a choice, because it's an individual decision.
@carolina hernandez yeah honey they do
@carolina hernandez yeah I'm just waiting for the hate comments on my comment lol
Nathalie Kuhn Here’s your hate comment. Abortions are murder. Plain and simple. You kill a fetus, you kill a child. (Because according to Merriam Webster dictionary, a child is an unborn or recently born person). Meaning, you kill a child, you kill a person. Killing a person is murder. Therefore, you’ve committed murder and you deserve to get punished as needed.
Srry but killing is still killing
Nathalie Kuhn totally agree with you on that. 😘
I removed my ovaries in order to avoid possible regrets and judgements. Hats off to these ladies 👑
This is exactly what women who don’t want babies should do. Kudos to you for making such a brave and determined decision
@@Me.llamosofi beenee beebee beebee
I think you made the right decision. How does this works I am curious? Must be liberating, and can you put them back on, or fertilise the eggs later if you want it? It does sound like a more mature decision.
Burden on society
WELL DONE!
I admire the honesty these women show. It's sad that women out there don't have the support they need when making a critical decision like having an abortion. Hopefully videos like these will inspire women to not be afraid and to choose whatever move is right for them.
Or humanity
When encouraging people to do good, make sure it does good before it feels good
+meow23 A: I'm not encouraging women to abort. I said that women should have the support they need when CHOOSING whether or not they are ready to have a baby they didn't plan on. B: If I had a time machine, I'd go back, find your mother, read her the terrible things you say to complete strangers online and hopefully convince her that her unborn child would be better off used as stem cells for researching Parkinson's.
p.s. I have a beautiful son. Unplanned. We considered abortion, but didn't do it. And that's ok.
Abortion is murder. The Bible calls an unborn child a child. The penalty for all sins is hell. But through Jesus we have forgiveness of sins and access to eternal life. Some people don't want there to be a God so they can do whatever they want. Murder is a grievous sin. There is good and evil in the world. Without a God there is no right or wrong. Repent and turn to Jesus. He is the only way to peace.
fernidad135 How can you speak like that?!! ABORTION IS KILLING A BABY. THIS IS NOT RIGHT, THIS SHOULDN’T BE PROMOTED GOD IS ANGRY. WHAT IF YOU WERE ABORTED?!!! YOU WOULDN’T EVEN BE HERE RIGHT NOW. REPENT AND ASK JESUS FOR MERCY. THEY DONT REGRET HAVING AN ABORTION BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO REMORSE AND ARE JUSY EVIL.
I don't regret mine either...I was 19, in college, and was date raped by my asshole ex bf without me even knowing. I am so glad I had a choice.
I'm glad you are living happily having made your choice. :) How was it by the way? Did you struggle with making the choice at all, if you don't mind me asking.
+MrSlyGamer I don't mind your question at all! :) I actually knew right away what I had to do, there was no question. I was so happy at this top tier University, and I had no idea how I could have ended up pregnant... I was not sure who the father was since I had been raped without me knowing. It was a VERY confusing time. Later I realized I had blocked the traumatic memory (never thought I would experience that). I relied on close friends for emotional and financial support during that time. Ending up a pregnant teen had always been one of my worst fears, and I was always super careful with contraceptives. I have never told my family as they would be super judgmental unfortunately... Wish I could tho :( I feel that it was not wrong and definitely NOT murder. I did it right away as soon as I could. It was like barely a month since I had conceived. They said that they didn't even think they could do a surgical abortion since the clump of cells was not even large enough.
+dhodz hoddy I disagree completely... and I actually had an abortion. Have you?
***** Oh great! Neither have I :)
sparklyunicorn murderer
It's easy to judge when you have never experienced that individual's circumstance. All path's are different and you cannot generalize ideas on another woman's choice to follow through on terminating a pregnancy. Generalizing ideas based off of your personal beliefs, lack of sympathy or ignorance is your unfortunate prerogative. Unless you are that individual you cannot speak on or for that individual. These women speak about their experience to not encourage abortion but to educate other women who have been faced with a dilemma when there is a lack of support.
Altitude Abstrakt There are plenty of women who have children in the worst possible situations & still are brave enough to make those decisions to give their children life & own up to their responsibility. That’s what it means to be brave & strong.
Altitude Abstrack , I totally agree with you.
Altitude Abstrakt I totally agree with you.
Altitude Abstrakt this same argument could be used for a woman with a 3 year old. It is an invalid argument. If you saw a mother on the sidewalk pulling her babies limbs off and crushing their skull (which is literally what an abortion is) you would not make the argument that you could not prevent them from doing so since they were in need and felt trapped. Life is hard yes but nothing will ever ever ever excuse killing a child. Just because you cannot see it does not mean that it is not a child. If you knew the facts about fetal development and what an abortion does and not just the BS lies that PP tells women and the public you would be advocating against abortion
Altitude Abstrakt www.abortionprocedures.com watch a former abortionist explain
I’m pro choice. Protection, abstinence, adoption or motherhood.
you're not listening
@@strongestintheworld Lol no kidding 😁
something tells me that isn’t it
You missed abortions
Millie Mclean me too! There’s no need for a 5th option. 4 is more than enough choices
I am not a religious person, but I do truly believe God puts that child in you to give you the greatest gift possible, the gift of life. When I got my girlfriend pregnant at 20 years old, I was so scared and definitely not ready to be a parent. I am 31 years old now and my daughter is the center of my life and I couldn’t imagine life without her. I would be so lonely without her. She is the purpose of my life. No matter what the circumstances, I truly believe it is a gift from God, It’s hard to say, even in any circumstances that it would be the right decision. it is a very tricky conversation, but that is what I believe. I was in no way shape or form ready to be a parent, but I did what I had to do and everything turned out all right In the end. The answer is you will never be quite ready to have a kid. there doesn’t come a day where you were just like “OK I’m ready to be a parent now”. It doesn’t happen like that 99% of the time.
Btw, even though all these women say they aren’t guilty, I could see in their eyes that they are.
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You might not be able to give your baby a happy life, you might not be able to support them, and you might not want them. That's okay. Your baby wants to live. You baby wants to see his/her full potential. So give it the best life you can, adoption.
I am so happy I'm alive today. Instead I could of been aborted, my mom gave me up for adoption. It's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
Putting a baby up for adoption does not always guarantee a safe and happy home.
Honey I wish my parents would of aborted me. Your argument is stupid. There’s so many kids in foster care that just age out of the system because no one wants them
@@Miss_christie1217 You make an important point.
In every adoption,there is a loss. And not all adoptive parents are wonderful.
I completely agree with this comment. No, not every child gets a great home but death is not a better option. A chance to live the the greatest gift of all.
@@catherineleary9831 True. And if you believe in souls,the soul can just catch the next karmic train into town.
When I was pregnant with my son his dad told me to take the abortion pill. I was always against abortion. But I was in a dark place. I watched RUclips videos and saw a girl who took the abortion pill and it didn’t work. She showed her baby in the video and said she was so glad it didn’t work. I had my son and now to think that the thought of taking that pill even crossed my mind makes me want to cry. The thought that my precious, adorable, sweet, funny, cuddly, smart, and beautiful boy could have potentially not existed if I had caved under the pressure when I wasn’t in a good state of mind breaks my heart. I’m so thankful now. It was a bad situation but God turned it around for good
@@IqhaweLemveloOfficial I’m so sorry. I pray she didn’t do that. Keep reaching out to her and let her know you want the baby and will take care of him or her.
So the fear of childbirth along with your parents advising you to do abortion is what made you had a thought of aborting your baby?
@@heseesyou582 no, when I found out I was pregnant, the baby’s dad wanted me to take the pill. I never wanted an abortion and I wasn’t afraid of childbirth. I was worried about being judged for getting pregnant but I knew no humans judgement would compare to what I would face being judged by God one day. My baby was and is such a blessing. I was just scared to face the reality of the situation, knowing I would not have help/wasn’t married.
@@tayw.8355 I’m sorry you’re feeling confused. iI’s especially hard when you’re pregnant because emotions are high. The baby I was talking about in my comment (my 2nd child) is now 3 and I’m pregnant again currently 36 weeks. I can tell you this, aside from God, there’s no love in this world that compares to the love for and from your child. You can do this and you are strong enough. A baby won’t slow you down, not in a bad way at least. A baby will bring out the best in you. I was pregnant with my first child at 22 and had her at 23. If anything she motivated me to do better.
@@olivialemon2532 Thank you so much❤️
I thank God my single mom in poverty didn’t choose abortion as an option, but overcame the odds; telling me when she had the choice to choose between my life and selfishness she showed me that my life was worth struggling and fighting for. SHE WON AND SUCCEEDED.
Dani Sain getting an abortion doesn’t make you selfish
Kim Yisoo김 이수 lol, if you haven’t had one mind your uterus. You don’t anyone’s situation. If you were sexually assaulted and got pregnant at 17, you would get an abortion too.
Watch this video, you will love it. ruclips.net/video/vdm-i62hRdc/видео.html
God bless you
@@hadiakhan6658 a woman shouldn't feel ashamed of getting an abortion because she's the one who's gonna carry the child in her womb hence it's ONLY and ONLY her decision, no one has a say in it.
I had one at the age of 24 mostly because of my boyfriend at the time was abusive to me and I'm certain and always have been certain I made the right decision. He was a drug user and would not have made a good father even his own mother said he wouldn't be a good father. She was sad that I had one but she knew that it was the right decision too.
Was he the kind of person you should have gotten involved with in the first place, let alone having unprotected sex with?
So you killed your baby because of a man
Lol
Sorry for what you went through
I am really sorry for u, hope u r better today😢
1:14 I related to that girl so much. I just had an abortion and I’m only 21 (not me in my profile pic lol) with not a lot of money and the household I’m living in isn’t as good. So I decided to abort my baby and the guilt is eating me alive because I couldn’t provide for my baby just yet and really wanted to keep it. But I knew it would be selfish of me to have a kid right now . I really want to be a mother. The father of the child didn’t want to have nothing to do with my baby so that made me want to abort the baby even more. Right now I feel so bad and guilty for even aborting my baby. I know the pain this woman has. And it’s so hard to bounce back together.
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Jeez man what can you say about stories like this. Imo you were given terrible advice. Nothing anyone can say or advice they could give can change the situation you are in now. You could have changed your circumstances from before the abortion. As I say it's pointless even discussing it now.
I feel your pain girl. Keep your head up through everything in this life.
Turn to God, repent and ask for forgiveness and you will be forgiven. He does in fact love you and forgives all. But do not support the continuation of this act. Don't allow others to experience your regret. Please.
@@hadiakhan6658 Do you really think comments like that help anyone? I hope you dont have children either. That way, you can't spread your hate to them.
3:24 "I don't regret having my abortion..." Her face tells a different story.
Talia Rice exactly, sadly there is so much cognitive dissonance within the pro choice movement. She knows she killed her baby, I hope she gets herself some help and recovers from this. There is lots of post abortion trauma healing and women can have new life after an abortion.
Olivia Simmons you’ve conflated 2 different women, tears don’t mean she made a wrong choice, it’s not a choice anyone makes casually, it’s a tough position to be in and tears make a lotta sense even if u know it’s the best choice for u
Should she be smiling? Would u also post a comment about her “incorrect” reaction were she smiling? It’s a choice no one makes lightly and a complex and emotional reaction is to be expected.
Sara Mallett she knows she aborted her fetus when she knew she wasn’t prepared for a baby. Cognitive dissonance isn’t evidence that abortions are bad.
But why cry, why not be happy, what's so sad about a abortion?
Not all abortions come from the decision of not having a baby, sometimes we have to take that decision, because our baby is very sick and the future is terrible. I feel like im dying. My baby was planned, desired, loved and he was going to have the most beautiful life! But daddy and me, were told there was no hope. So, i made the most mounstrous decision a woman can ever take. Please, never judge, women who go trough this, are lost, in the deepest pain and the worst part is that we know, we deserve it.
That's another story and it's understandable.
But if people are irresponsible in bed, I don't have anything nice to say.
@@cedar4539 Condoms are the most safest protection and they don't crack.
They are made to be the most effective and strong for a reason. Accidents that happen with it is if people use the one that has expaired date and/or if they don't use it the right way.
Pills are known to not be the most effective way. So it is already irresponsible to only rely on them.
Also "pregnancy denial" or "it's not easy for them to notice if they're pregnant" -- what that has to do with getting pregnant??
Did pregnancy denial made them pregnant?
Or did "not noticing being pregnant" made them pregnant?.......
@@cedar4539 which is a probability they are aware of ... so they know theres6a chance to get pregnant ... they know it's not 100% ..
I find it horrific that victims of rape and assault are forced to have the baby in my country because my government does not allow abortion. It is a woman's personal and private decision, it is her choice!
The worst is victims of incest
Good for the babies
Well I agree with that. if you have been raped you shouldn't have it. It's like extra torment from the rapist.
@@bogartmotomoto8222Being born to someone who doesn’t want you isn’t good for anyone
"A disgusting vortex of oppression" is a very good description.
repent
@@Joshuapurba Think
@@IsntTheInternetGreat You're the one who needs to think. How can children be a curse? You're the one who needs to control them sex life.
"A disgusting unhealthy life of sex" is a very good description for those woman who killed their babies.
@@Joshuapurba It is easy to to be judgmental isn't it? ...'throw the first stone' and all that. Before judging these women and these sex lifes (which ypu know nothing about and is none of your business, by the way) think about giving some good sex education and information about contraceptives.
@@IsntTheInternetGreat Listen here buddy, abortion is not a solution. It's murder! You're murdering a child! A fetus is a developing HUMAN, so if you kill a fetus means you're killing a HUMAN in development. Here's some sex education for you, when a sperm cell enters an egg cell it becomes something completely different in an instant. Instead of them becoming nothing, they become a living something. And that living something is a HUMAN in development!! If they bring up the topic of "oppression" in pregnancies, you just know that they had sex with their partner and lack the responsibility and quality of a mother. Thus they deserve the description that i have written, "A disgusting unhealthy life of sex".
Having an abortion doesn’t make you strong or even remotely close to brave. Taking the responsibility of giving that child life does.
Choosing abortion is worse enough, but when u get the support from no one not even him, and anyone one u tell makes it like it's yours fault, makes it so hard, how do u live after this
Seek God, ask for forgiveness and he will heal you and do not do it again. Women have the power to hold men accountable. You set the rules, don’t easily give in to sex. Seek a man that wants marriage, not just friends with benefits. There’s plenty of good men that would stand with women so that they don’t need to think about abortion.
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen.
Psalm 127:3-5
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@foodlifefamily6140 I agree with you. Not having sex is not the end of the world. Yes, we all have temtations ... but this does not mean make yourself short for another man. If he loves you - he would love your decision you are making for the both of you to go slow.
And if you happen to be in this particular situation
GOD CAN AND WILL ALWAYS FORGIVE HIS CHILDREN. No matter what. As long as you accept your mistakes, be honest and ask for forgiveness.
We as human beings are imperfect. We cannot judge ourselves based on actions what IS MORE RIGHT AND MORE WRONG.
Only our God can do that. So leave the judgement to him and you try your best.
It becomes disappointing when you let others influence your decisions and actions by letting their judgement define you.
Do not be a written page of men.
Be a page only GOD CAN HEAL and FORGIVE and JUDGE. you live yourlife and learn the lessons GOD wants you to learn and grow from.
Stop being so hard on yourself.
Eventhough people closest to you are disappointed- let them be
Yes killing a baby is wrong everyone knows that. Thats why these women felt so bad.
@@iapplin3637 so is leaving your child instead of taking responsibility but
My coworker had 5 abortions before the age of 28. Now that she wants to be a mother, she can't get pregnant. Hmmmm
Sweet justice. Serves her right.
I can't even feel sorry for her. Imo after one, this should be the reality.
Idiot
Karma
That's kind of what she deserves.
I simply couldn't do it. Don't think my thoughts should keep someone who would from being able to do it though.
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As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen.
Psalm 127:3-5
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
@@loveandfaithfulness4479 just so youre aware you lose about 65% of your audience when you only use religious beliefs, which are different for everyone, to back up your claim. I respect your right to have your opinion but I will never agree with it. These women are not evil, and neither am I.
Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the HELPLESS innocent unborn. Just in the United States, since 1970, that is over 50 Million people who have been put to death. and the people who encourage these womens to murder their own babies and who try cover up this all-too-common evil with empty rhetoric about "women's healthcare" or "the right to choose" are sickening. I can only suggest that maybe it doesn't move them, because they don't have a time machine to see the face of these killed humans, as toddlers or adults. They don't get to see the details of the lives of those that were put to death before leaving the womb... whether someone who would have found the cure to cancer, or the child will overcome their poverty or struggle through perseverance,
was instead ripped out of their mothers' womb to become a number on an abortion graph. God has a plan, purpose and destiny for everyone. Abortion is murder, and murder is always wrong. The Bible condemns murder in all of its forms and specifically points out that babies in the womb are people (they don’t magically transform into human beings after they pass through the birth canal or incision [in the case of C seciton]). The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. The Bible also teaches that the person who intentionally takes a life will be held accountable before God. You shall not kill, because you are not the judge of who lives and dies. You are saying you know the future and know who should live and die by aborting the baby. You can't make that choice. Bible says it's God’s choice, not yours. Therefore, children in the womb should be respected and protected. The Bible has much to say about defending the cause of the weak, especially those who have no voice. "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute" (Proverbs 31:8; see also Psalm 82:3). We bear the responsibility to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves, including children in the womb.
Matthew 19:14
“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
@paradigm shifting beautifully said!
honey, as a mother of 3 - you are NEVER completely ready - whether it's with finances, relationships, education, etc. You are never completely ready simply because you never had the experience. Plain and simple. Having all the money in the world isn't going to prepare you for motherhood, because, simply put, it is not what being a mother is all about. Same goes for education and relationships. People need to really define what it is to be a mother. Yes, I'm no dummy, those things help, without a doubt, but, they don't make you a better mother. So, to say that you couldn't have the baby because you weren't ready, to me, is just plain selfish. Period. Remember this, when you become a mother, you don't truly become a great mom until you've had the experiences of nurturing, caring and loving that come only with time. Just as the saying, "Being a father does not make you a dad", same goes with being a mom, "Being a mother does not make you a great mom". It's the experience you GAIN by doing something.
Great post
It's not selfish. It's making a bad decision that at the time because of one's ignorance is not knowledgeable enough to know what u know. Not everyone thinks like you especially when they are young.
Ann Savinski amen! We’re expecting our first and we are doing well financially, relationally, and have a ton of family around us to help. Still scared out of my mind. You’re never ready. But when you fall pregnant, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the new life you created. What a shame that women selfishly tear apart their own from within because they “weren’t ready.” Then keep your legs closed mama;))
Well you seem condescending af
@@juliamihajlovich yup. Its not about you and i think thats a lot for people to handle.
Thank you for sharing this. No one is ever obligated to explain why they had an abortion but it is good for people to see another perspective.
abortion is murder
@@Joshuapurba Says who?
@@TATYANAHEARTSHISWAG Everyone who still has a heart.
@@Joshuapurba LMAFO, of josh buddy; what ever helps you sleep at night.
@@TATYANAHEARTSHISWAG thx xd. Dont kill your child btw
The women with the tattoos...Everything she said 💯💞
Keshia K she not right
As a former fetus I am all against the killing and dismembering unborn children. Abortion is the greatest evil that has ever existed. The slaughter of the innocent unborn. A full form of child cut into pieces and removed. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck them out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. Evil is evil. Sin is sin. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” We cannot just do whatever we want because it feels good, it’s easy, and socially accepted. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. You know If you cause a pregnant woman to miscarry, killing the unborn child, you can, and probably will, be charged with murder or manslaughter. In law, this applies from conception, no restrictions. The unborn child is viewed as a human being with all those rights under law. Even if the woman didn’t know she was pregnant at the time. Consider that the difference in abortion law is purely whether the child is wanted or unwanted. How moral is that? If you don’t want the baby, you can legally kill it using what are demonstrably cruel and horrific methods. The Child doesn't get a choice because the Child is HELPLESS. Abortion reflects a worldview which is all about the self - what I want is more important than what’s right. The most innocent suffer the worst. Life is sacred from the moment of conception. A Christian by definition is a follower of Christ. Anyone claiming to be a Christian must believe as He did and live according to God’s word. NO! You cannot love Jesus and believe that killing babies is just fine. An unborn child, from the very first moment of conception, is a new human individual. It’s alive and growing and it should be treated with the same respect for its life as any other human being until its natural death. God knows us before we are even born. How beautiful is that? He’s been there even before I can remember - from the beginning of life to the end. The Bible makes it clear that unborn children are human, alive, and loved by God just as much as we all are even as their tiny bodies are developing and growing in amazing ways. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of Life. Our purpose is to shield the weak from abuse by the strong, and there is no one “weaker or more voiceless” than unborn children. Loving one’s neighbour means protecting the rights of the most vulnerable. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen.
Psalm 127:3-5
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
If everyone waited until they felt like they were ready and everything was perfect the human species would be extinct. Idiots. I hope you never have kids.
The one who crying because she knows she killed her child.
LMAO she killed her own child! How pathetic!
The girl with the tattoos described the same situation myself and my girlfriend found ourselves in. We were both in college & only one month from final exams when she found out she was pregnant. It was a very difficult decision but her mother was pregnant when she got married & my girlfriend felt she was letting her family down so she decided on a termination. After a lot of heart searching, I supported her 100% & was there throughout. She had planned to move to another country for a year to gain work experience but after 9 months she decided she was staying & we should break up. This all happened 30 years ago & there isn't a day goes by that I don't think of the decision we made all those years ago. I bumped into a mutual friend that I hadn't met in 27 years, she told me my ex never married or had kids and still lives abroad, that broke my heart as I am married 23 years and have 3 kids. It's never an easy decision & it hits you from time to time, do whatever so you never find yourself it this position, it does mess with your mind.
You sacrificed your child on the altar of convenience… sorry to tell you straight and I understand you will feel a rejection to what I said but truth comes first. I hope you will find Jesus in your life, understand the gravity of murder and repent for your sin
@@Altair1904 wtf
@@Altair1904 it’s people like you that make others hate Christian. No one is perfect.
@@Dekthagr8 exactly! That’a why everyone needs a saviour, we are all flawed.
You think that the world hating people like me it’s something I should be ashamed of? On the contrary! It’s something to be proud of! I am saying the truth and the world hates the truth and its messengers. If the world were not to hate us it’s because we would be sharing a false gospel:
John 15:18-19
18 “If the world hates you,(A) keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you(B) out of the world. That is why the world hates you.(C)
God bless
Who knows she never had any kids because she didn’t want to. It’s not ‘sad’ if a women doesn’t have kids, it’s not all women’s ambition
When she said I can’t imagine not having the option. Well here we are 6 years later not really having the option in Texas.
You have the option not to get pregnant if you don't want a living child. You have the option to abstain from sex until you ae ready for the responsibility of having a child.
"I want to be a mother... When I have my first child..."
You are a mother. You had your first child. You just murdered that child.
Yup
No opinion, or "abortion facts" matter without experience. Wild misinformation, manipulation abounds. If you dislike abortion, don't have one, it's optional. But, keep your laws off my body.
Why are pro choice people always to say something like "your opinion doesn't mater unless ______?"
Frankly it comes across as a desperate attempt to shut down conversation.
Not your body lassie
The baby isn't your body.
Keep your laws off my body. YESSSS I agree 100%
@@juicyjanelle9581 I doubt your body has 2 hearts , 2 brains and 2 bloodstreams
its better that these women have had abortion than giving birth to a child and have the child suffer with the resentments from their mums.
If the babies had been put up for adoption odds are they would have had happy lives. Now they are dead :(
Drukpa there’s adoption. There are so many families who could have loved those babies.
My Friend was adopted. Very nice loving family
It's not better. What if your mom lost her job, her husband left her, and she couldn't give you the life she wanted for you, so murdered you so you wouldn't have to suffer.
Evie-Ru Trout adoption
For those who say they weren’t ready to be a mother - they already were - they just killed their child!
Killing Innocent babies is very cruel. These babies didn't ask to be made
your argument is weak!! You are an adult take control of your life!
and they didnt ask the condom to break
Neither did a baby, loser
I wanted to be aborted....
@@spiderlegs4674 ok lmao
Years after she's still crying, I'm the same way, I will never be over it. I regret my choice and abortion messed me up, I know I killed my child.
I’m honestly so sorry and I hope everything gets better for you
I hope you find peace.I’m sending so much love your way .Also, please forgive yourself you are more than what you think is a bad decision in your life ❤️
Its never too late to repent
religion says everything for a reason. it says don't have sex before marriage for reasons like this.
So you've never had a pizza?
So you've never wanted to have something?
You've never been greedy?
You must be stoning women for speaking to other men then, right?
*****
Ur just dumb. What u say has nothing to do with this.
I said religion says everything for a reason. What kind of question is 'so u never had pizza?'
Dexter CD
No. U can't just abort a child.
The child has a a right. If a mother kills her 2 weeks old child its a murder. Why? She toke a life away.
Suddenly abortion which is killing a child is not murder. The child suddenly has no right to life.
abdi ali Mixing dairy and meat is against Christianity... Pepperoni pizza is very popular among... many. Even Christians. What reason could they have for this, hm?
Wanting something . That is lust. We ALL lust,
Celery Ranch read the Bible. It says that doing it before marriage causes human pain. Is there anything wrong with what Jesus says?
Abortion is having your own child murdered because YOU PERCEIVE your own child as an inconvenience to your life... or because YOU ARE FORCED by your pimp, sex trafficer, parent(s), parental guardian(s), the father of the baby, etc
It's great to finally see the representation of women who don't regret their abortions. Although unwanted pregnancy should be avoided at all costs, it happens for many reasons. But not every woman will choose abortion because she isn't mentally or financially stable, or not where she wants to be in life. Some will make this decision because they don't want to be mothers or don't feel ready. Whatever their reason, some women will regret that they went through an unwanted pregnancy, but not because they had an abortion.
Well if the woman is pregnant before marriage, it's their responsibility to fall with a disgusting man who sleeps with them before God anoint them.
Don't do abortion, because it's murder! There are no such things as forbidden children, there is only disgusting sinful parents who cant control their private parts.
repent
I had a abortion at 31 years old. Yes I regretted it but thank God I ended up pregnant again 4 months after my abortion. Now I have two daughters ages 14 and 15. They don't know I had a abortion and they don't need to know because if I would have kept that baby then both of them wouldn't be here.
@@angieang26 That's a blessing from God, sadly you killed his first blessing but instead of being mad about it, God doubled your blessing!
@@angieang26 why did you aborted your baby though?
@@Joshuapurba amen Jonathan. Things happen for a reason. If I would have kept that baby then my living daughters wouldn't be here.
I REGRET it. It especially hit hard 26 YEARS LATER. That's the thing they are not telling you...you don't know how it will manifest in your mind, soul and body. It's never the perfect time to have a child, don't fool yourself with that idea...that baby, that little angel of a person, that miracle...is what will save you from a lifetime of regret and pain...children are such a blessing and not a burden.
Thank you, I am having mixed thoughts and your message gave me hope to look forward to this child coming
Pro choicers kind of remind me of vegans. They call you monsters based off their feelings and disrespect your opinions because it hurts their feelings.
LMAO EXACTLYYY
I don't know about that but I started tovalue the life of any unborn children after my current boyfriend told me his story about how his mother drank 10 antacid and even got a midwife to force his mother into early labor, the managed to get the other two but they didn't know there was another one but still a tiny little fetus, a few months younger than the other two. He was born 6 months later to his mothers surprise because she didnt know she was pregnant and that her belly looked too small for her to be pregnant. A small baby boy the size of a 350ml coca cola. His gramma raised him as his mother but its kinda sad that his bio mother died just this january because of ovarian cancer. He knew from the back of his mind that his older sister was actually his mom because from his childhood till teenage years, his sister/mom would always check up on him, hug him, make him breakfast, cuddle with him and sometimes when she hugs him she just cries and keeps saying sorry. Well at least he didn't hate her up until she died and after hearing that story, i immediately backed out on my early morning and late night surprises hahaha xD
@@janinebelleestrada7096 sorry i’m a little confused about the older sister and the one that died
the girl with the tattoos spoke my story.. im 24.. and getting mine in 2 days.. i tried so hard at first to make it work.. but i just cant.. the hardest part being that i WANT to be a mother.. I want to be there and carry it to term.. but it wouldnt have the life it deserves.. id never wish this on anyone
I hear you🤍
How are you doing honey?
@@jadalauren6171 honestly.. i wont say its easy because its not.. i miss it every single day.. and it sucks that i had to terminate my very first pregnancy. i still cry.. and it really gets me down sometimes but, i know i made the right choice despite how i feel about it.. thankyou for asking 🩷
4 women have an abortion then I look at them and of course they look exactly the way I thought they would look like
Abortion is nt easy for us.Bt situation made us to do.This great never leave us whole life.
My mom got an abortion on the first 2 kids she had without hesitation
Say that to the mother who aborted because her baby was not gonna have the Proper zodiac sign.
Or the right gender
"Play stupid games, pay the price"
This video is sickening. Stop trying to normalize the murder of your own children!
The womb: Designed to be the safest place for new life. Yet it is now a killing place.
9/11 gas
Ever since I find out I was pregnant I am crying every day i am not ready but i dont want to kill this child and it is causing me sleepless nite
I made an error and got pregnant when I could NOT care for a child. I had an abortion…felt huge relief and moved forward. Zero trauma which in my view is a guilt trip imposed on women…to this day yrs and yrs later I still know this was the right thing for me to do.
Or maybe you have no conscience oe empathy
Lol
@@johnsmith7140 no male understands what women deal with…none of you…go sit d9wn
@@alexandrawhitelock6195 males get pregnant too. You didn't know?
@@johnsmith7140 🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Why is the discussion never that men and women should just abstain from having in protected sex with each other? I really feel bad for these women who found themselves in a difficult situation, but it could have been prevented and lives were lost.
It is the most awful feeling EVER waiting in that clinic in that chair watching all the girls walk into the operation room and being wheeled back to their place with tears streaming down their faces. The pain is HORRIBLE during the procedure and the fear of this happening again ACCIDENTALLY scares the shit out of me. I’m so relieved to have had a choice to get this done.
I hope the choice to kill an unborn child is legally taken away asap
Mathilde Young it's so sad to me to see men wishing away women's rights.
Rights given in error can and should be taken away. No one should have been given the right to kill their unborn child
Mathilde Young imagine someone delusional enough to think they have any say in what a woman does with her own body. It's absurd.
Oh, so infanticide must be legal then? A woman may want to walk her own body out of her house and leave her newborn to die - we shouldn't be able to have laws telling men and women to use their bodies to ensure the safety of an unwanted newborn until they can be safely handed to someone else now should we? cause it's ALLLLL about the woman, right? It's not the woman's body killed in the abortion is it? We absolutely should have a say in protecting the bodies of vulnerable human beings - born and unborn.
I also had abortion but i cried my heart out ...i already have three kids all of 2 years age gap and they all are dependent on me....theres no one around me to take care of me and my kids if i continued pregnancy and my husband usually has work outstation for 2 weeks a month...though i think we should have been more carefull...i regret it i regret it a lot...just always praying to god for forgiveness....i just cant stop crying thinking abt that but though continuing it was also a great mental trauma for me...
navi hussain you will be forgiven in the eyes of god. Repent. If you are still of reproductive age, do not make the same decision again of killing an innocent child.. let this be a lesson and pass down the morals to your children.
@@hadiakhan6658 You know what they say about pointing the finger right? Take a good look at yourself before you preach such disgusting garbage.
@@hadiakhan6658 you disgust me
@@hadiakhan6658 don’t shit on someone else while they’re already down.. God tells us not not judge others but show compassion and support others. Who are you to send accusations of murder
We can’t keep all our pregnancies let’s be realistic here and be easy on ourselves. We get pregnant and we have to choose.
I was made to have 2 abortions in my life both because I was raped . I truly wish my family didn't make me get the abortions . I now can not have children of my own because of the abortions I did not want to have in the first place.
You can’t have children because of it? How?
@@THEFASHIONPHASE do to damage done to my uterus
@@courtneymackenzie4765 I’m so sorry to hear. Did you do it in UK?
God bless you and I am sorry to hear that. I hope you find peace
@@courtneymackenzie4765 was the abortion process done poorly what happened to make your uterus damaged?
Great video. We are way too economically suppressed to force people to have babies in America. People should always have the option
How bout people just stop sleeping together before they’re ready to have kids ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ That seems to me a more logical conclusion than killing the kids.
@@oliviaharris5957 I agree Olivia!
I believe in equality. Therefore I do not think a woman's life is worth more than a baby/fetus's life.
bacteria are prokaryotes and unicellular. Humans are multicellular and eukaryotes. Her argument is valid! You just need to study biology
If these women watched how abortion is performed they would not do it
Yeah no I'd still do it.
Yea they would they love killing they worship Satan.
If you really felt like you made the right decision....would you be crying your eyes out? Hmm.
People can make the decisions that are best for them and still cry. Crying does not negate a decision.
what is the point of making a decision that leads to a sad depressed life?? Life is too short to live in regret and sadness! I saw sadness in all these women's eyes! It is sad that they being a mother is made to be such a bad thing when it is the best thing ever!
@@coppersulphate002 I've had two abortions in my lifetime. Made the right decision for myself and my life both times. I don't feel sad or guilty. Posted a video about it.
@@BVBloomtwo abortions? Not one but two abortions? Damn! good for you! The Do you want a medal? I feel sorry for those two lives lost. By the way, that is why tubal ligations are there for! No one is forcing you to have a child just like no one forced you to have sex. It all comes down to making smart choices. Anyway most women who have had abortions them regret it! So I speak for the majority! It must take a psychopath to feel nothing after taking away a life.
@@coppersulphate002 no medal, just want to live my life. Btw, I've spoken to doctors about tubal ligation. You'd know that if you watched my video. One doctor told me flat out I'd change my mind. Another asked what my husband had to say. Watch my video and comment there if you have more questions or comments. Bai!
Psalm 139:13-16 ESV "you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them."
I'm not a woman, so i don't know what pregnancy is like but i don't think abortion is the only option. There is always adoption but maybe like college student or highschool student who got pregnant might think the baby is going to ruin their life and so they get an abortion instead. But is it really worth it to kill a potential human being just so you can finish college. You can take leave for a years or two to give birth and put the baby up for adoption if you can't take responsibility. It is not easy but to use that excuse to kill a potential human being and not regretting it, is just inhumane and cruel. 3:46, it is not just women that are expected to feel guilty about abortion, every human are expected to feel at least a little bit of guilt and regret for killing a potential human being.
Every time I look at my subscription page, it looks like Buzzfeed and AJ+ are trying to one up each other.
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+HitomiNoRyu omg saaammee
I had 2 abortions. I don't regret my decision but I do regret not taking precautions when having sex. I am grateful for my options
You should tie your tubes! It is not right that two humans did not get a chance to live because of your poor decisions. Anyway this is your life and that decision will follow you and not others.
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My God. You didn't take precautions two times when having sex. You are an idiot. How moron were you?
Rolly Antonio why are you even watching this video. Seriously why even click
You are deep in sin. You must ask Jesus to forgive your abominable behavior
I'm someone who is immunocompromised with rare GI conditions and mental illness. I know I would love to carry to term and either keep a child or find a good family for the child but I know that because I am so sick, the fetus would suffer greatly and I likely would as well. Please don't judge others.
I'm not judging you. I'm sorry you have suffered and I hope you have a great day 🌞
@@hadiakhan6658 well I'm also a lesbian so it's pretty unlikely that I would ever find myself in this situation. But if heaven forbid I was raped and got pregnant, I should have the option to terminate, for my sake, and the sake of the fetus.
@@catherineleary9831 thank you love! :)
@@ChronicallyTT Of course! 💙
@@hadiakhan6658 that is your opinion and I respect your opinion. What I do not respect is your lack of empathy and overgeneralization of women who have had to make the decision to have an abortion.
Please educate yourself on the topic before making harmful statements on a public forum. It's childish.
I had abortion...it’s hard mentally I have a 4month old daughter I felt guilty for having one but my finically situation and my life I’m not ready to have another one I feel guilty not enjoying my daughter to have a sibling but I don’t think I could mentally do it . My boyfriend cheated on my at the time I was emtoinal wreck my daughter was only 3 months and it tore me up . I’m very depressed since having my daughter I’ve had history of depression, sleep deprived and barley eating I couldn’t produce milk anymore I felt guilty for that I just have not been in a good place . Women that get pregnant and go through with it takes a toll on their body & mind . But I love my daughter and having my daughter was my choice ! And having an abortion was too. You never understand until you go through it
Aimee Bac sending I know it’s hard but believe things will get better you will find a better man who will love you and your baby just love you first ❤️
You women regardless of financial difficulties deserve more than abortion fr
Denial is a strong thing
Honestly, there’s no day I regret having an abortion. Sadly if I was pregnant with my ex’s child.. I would do it all over again. He was so toxic and broke me, I knew having a kid with him I’ll never make it out alive
You’re a selfish narcissistic person who doesn’t deserve the life you denied your own child
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What if you were the one aborted that child had all the right to live
I hate when people use the argument of "what if you would have been aborted". I wouldn't know. I'd be dead, and would have avoided the suffering of growing up in a house that either didn't want me or couldn't provide for me. At the end of the day, the option for women to have an abortion is there, and it always should be.
I told my pro-life mom & sister I regretted having mine. But that's because I knew they judged me and they said things to make me feel guilty but I do not regret having it at all. Of course I had depression afterwards which I thought was regret at the time but it's actually not regret, it was a hormonal reaction.
You are still responsible for what you did. They spoke the truth.
It was most definitely regret. I pray for you and all the women they have gone through one or multiple abortions. I’ve seen how horrible of a toll it takes on girls and and families.
It was most definitely regret. I pray for you and all the women they have gone through one or multiple abortions. I’ve seen how horrible of a toll it takes on girls and and families.
I think you need to lower your pride and acknowledge that you did was still wrong. Acknowledging is better than justifying
Lol
My mom just turned 88. She is sharp, beautiful and a college graduate. She married my dad at 16, he was 21. She was still in high school when she and dad found that she was pregnant with me. I thank God that they didn't selfishly think, "We're too young to be parents", "I'm just not ready", "I can't afford a baby", "What will people think"? They were married for 64 years, had 5 happy, well-adjusted children. Mom graduated from college when she was in her 40's. People who march to their 'own' drummer, oft times march over a cliff.
Not everyone would be that lucky. Abortion is needed.
@@hellobot67 I think people became too careless with sex. It became more casual then ever because of birth control and other possibilities which can exempt from consequances and responsibility. Rise of egocentrism and "if there are problems in relationship, lets not work on it, next please" mentality as well. If men and women were careful who they choose to be with( not having unprotected sex with a stranger at 16 ) the abortion rate would look much different today.
I hope those ladies will find peace within. I will not wish them best, say how strong they are. They killed an innocent life which they chose to create. I will not wish them bad as well because i am aware they feel void, pain , guilt and its tiring to run away from its own conscience. I hope they will be able to forgive themselves and move on❤
@@zoloosso3152 10000% agreed
Yeah back when you could survive off of a one person income
Hay if all abortinist were all aborted would abortion still be a thing?
Women should stop having so much casual sex to avoid pregnancies.
You do know that a baby is made by 2 people.
a man can get a hundred women pregnant in a year. a woman can only be pregnant once. you do the math
@@sofistacy4176 life isn't fair, But women are the ones who have the natural greater consequences, so they should be smart and beware of their risks as they regulate it better
@@angelameyers7227 life isn't fair, but women are the ones who have the natural greater consequences, so they should be smart and beware the risks as they regulate it better and think twice.
Alright let's end this debate.
If you truly view the fetus to be equal to a baby then consider this scenario.
You hold a fetus in a dish in one hand and a baby in the other. You have been told to drop one.
If you truly believe them to be equal then it would be nearly impossible to decide.
Another point.
If they're willing to "kill" the child as you say, do you honestly believe that it would be right for them to have a child in that point in time?
Is the fetus on the dish, dead or alive? If it's alive how is it being kept alive?
@@karenflores4987 You're missing the point: it's a thought experiment. Simply imagine a living 10 week old fetus inside a jar filled with amniotic fluid attached to a feeding tube. The fetus is at one end of a building, a two week old baby is at the other end. A fire breaks out and you can only save one. All other variables are equal.
@@mondobear22 I would choose the baby, but that doesn't make the fetus less human. If you 2 people were in a life threatening situation and one of them was a loved one, and the other a complete stranger and you saved your loved one, would that make you a terrible person? What if you saved the stranger instead? Would that make you a horrible person? When it comes to abortion a woman doesn't have to choose between saving the life of a born baby and her fetus. She just walks into an abortion clinic and is asked if she is sure and then she goes thru it if she wants to.
@@karenflores4987 Of course, I'd save my dog no matter who was the other individual. It is ethical to choose any sentient being over a non-sentient being, even if we have a species bias.
Does a fetus not become a baby? I think people should drop the argument that a fetus isn’t alive or a real baby because it is irrelevant. Personally I think a fetus is still life. They have heart beats. I’m not for abortion (again personal choice) but I don’t demonize those who choose abortion. Some situations are complex. Sometimes people have to do it to save their own lives. We don’t know and frankly I think it’s none of our business. It can be a difficult, tragic, depressing decision for some or easy for others. I think women who choose to abort should be met with empathy and support.
Abortion is a mature decision. If you become pregnant, and know you cannot care for a child, aborting the fetus (not a person) is a mature decision. Why bring a child into a scenario where the mother is unfit physically, mentally, or does not have the support/money to care for it. Your body, your life, your fetus, your future, YOUR CHOICE!
1 Fetuses body isn't your body
2.The EMBRYO has the right to live
3.You have no right to kill.
4.Use condoms when you create life you can't take it away because it is not yours.
Conclusion:
Your choice was when you didn't bought the condom.
You don't own the embryo.
You have no rights on it.
Not your choice
Not your life
Not your body that you throw in the trush can.
Abortion is the easy way out.
your right to life comes before your right to choose.
more importantly, your right to choose doesn't exist when you start causing harm to other people, and yes that includes your fetus
@@thenerdulas5098 I couldn’t agree more
A fetus is a person, it IS a huma being.
Everyone should watch "Unplanned"
Google Is Abby Johnson a liar?
@@catherineleary9831 I just read the whole three sites (that are not reliable at all). They can be summed by and debunked by reading her book. When you make a movie about something that happens over many years, and try to tell it in under 3 hours, or under 2 hours, some aspects may have to be left out for time. I have read her book, and it does answer all the supposed questions that these sites pose. Please quit spewing lies Satan!!!
@@researchbothsidesequally4481 Don't believe everything you hear.
When people tell lies,there is always a reason.
Do your own research and don't be a coward.
@@catherineleary9831 WOW!!! My point exactly! My knowledge comes from the actual person. Your supposed knowledge comes from a third party with no actual experience. They are just providing opinions that they can't back up just to get the attention of the less informed.
If you research anything, I mean anything at all, anything like what is one plus one, you will find someone somewhere telling you the answer is 6, or 478, or whatever? Misinformation is everywhere. Everything in this movie is factual. It mirrors all of the research that I have done, including the testimony of 3 girls who I know personally. One of them is my sister, the other two have been friends of mine, and my wife's since grade school. My wife was in the "clinic" with them and she was with them afterwards. So yeah, my knowledge comes pretty darn close to the source.
Do you believe the Earth is flat, and we didn't land on the moon also?
@@researchbothsidesequally4481 I didn't say anything about the movie.
If you’re going through something right now, I pray you find your peace through it. You’re never alone and you get to decide how your life goes. 🤍
Abortion would significantly decrease if people stopped fornicating but the majority of people don't follow God. They follow their heart. The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked. Who can know it? The wages of sin is death.
my friend is 14 and is having a abortion because the American sexual education system failed her. if girls and women are not taught how to protect themselves then this will continue to happen. she feel so guilty about it when she shouldn't . if we are taught in our schools about how to protect ourselves and how to seek help and deal with the mental and physical toll from having an abortion then things would be so much easier.
One of the biggest problems of modern society is the feeling that it is possible and right to not have any risks in life. Thats so sad.
It's sad that other people feel the need to make health decisions for other people.
@@WouldntULikeToKnow. Sure. But that does not happen very often.
People who say it's easy to judge when you have never been in those circumstances forget the fact that it's easy to avoid being in those circumstances. We live in an age of modern, easily accessible contraceptives. I never hear pro choice people talking about those choices. I also never hear anyone who claims to be pro choice acknowledge the fact that abstinence could be a choice.
No contraceptive methode works in 100% of the cases.Abortions are not only done if a woman has an unwanted pregnancy but there are also cases where the pregnancy is dangerous for the woman's life, in which the woman can die if he bears a child.So its woman's decision if she wants to keep the child or not.
@@hadiakhan6658 What baby?It isn't a baby until it's born.
@@hadiakhan6658 It is just your belief,so keep it to yourself.
@@hadiakhan6658 Who says so?You?
@Sup 09 Abstinence works 100% of the time. It’s just like the OP said, for some reason pro-choice people always refuse to see that as an option. They’d just rather pretend like penis-in-vagina sex is some sort of right and whine when sex results in its intended purpose. 🙄
These women already made their ‘choice’ when they choose to have sex. To choose to have sex is to choose to expose yourself to the risk of pregnancy, and by natural extension, parenthood. If you can’t handle the possibility of becoming a parent (no matter how small), then you have absolutely no business having sex.
So sad. The choice to have children happens before they are conceived. This is the most loving way to go about the choice of having children. This is why one of the 10 commandments is, thou shalt not commit adultery. If you are not ready to be a mother, go to school. Travel. Do what you want to do, but within the safety of Gods Holy laws. If you wait till you are with someone who isn't afraid to stand and commit their life to you. And be by your side, you will have a beautiful experience. God wants to give us a future. Children are a gift from God. No matter what you have done. It's a new start, the opportunity to start life again. Not to think better than the little life in your womb and to pay someone to have this small baby starved, (medical abortion) cut in pieces, (second trimester abortion) or burned alive (saline injection and deliver dead baby in the third trimester) The world is so backwards. It enslaves women to guilt and shame. Time to go back to the future, which is the past. Gods ways are better than our ways. Fornication and murder are much closer together than many realize.
I understand that the three women don’t regret their abortions. The lady with the tattoos does seem to have regret about having an abortion. You can see it in her eyes and body language. I am so thankful to GOD that I never got pregnant while attending college. I used birth control and I was careful with my decisions back in the day. These women did not get a full education about adoption at all. Abortion is murder, therefore, these will live decision for the rest of their lives. It’s sad.
It's as if women are expected to feel guilty about murdering their own child. but who would expect that, I mean that's just ludicrous!
Of course they should feel guilty if they murder anyone. However, this is about abortion and the only similarity I and think of between a person murdering someone and abortion is that both murder and denial of abortion violate the same human right.
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I don't, I'd do it again
People its no only the baby that you kill but your inside too.
When you kill the baby, you kill your conscience
So glad we have choice in my country, so sad US is trying to take it away and want women to live from cars and the kids get abused in foster homes, their system is insane
She's crying because she knows she killed her child.
There are videos of Ex-abortionists how they tell that their patients who went through abortion, now regretting their decisions and crying the rest of their lives.
Instead of promoting abortions we should promote sexual education, to reduce abortions. There are clinics out there that provide education and free contraceptives, once someone starts having sex they have to think “I could get pregnant & I dont want that so how can I avoid that”. It should t be an after thought. Getting pregnant results in a life- point blank. If you “arent ready” or mature enough to seek help/information, dont have sex. Simple as that.
People are educated, they know about birth control and condoms, they just simply don’t care
Easier access to getting your tubes tides and vasectomy
Regardless of my own personal opinion on abortion, 90% of what these specific women had to say came off as incredibly selfish..
This is disgusting nobody should ever kill a child.
Also instead of getting tattoos you could save that money to raise the child. Also use birth control.
Referencer E Do you think birth control always works? Lol
@@nickjlover72 no i wouldn't know but condoms work 98% percent of the time and waiting for marriage too
instead of muttering stupid sentences at women who had to make difficult decisions, you could shut up
@@DK-qp9os no
Have you ever had an abortion? Do you know the whole story of that woman? If she didn't get the abortion, will she be able to support the child? Will she be ready for the arrival of the child? Maybe try to use your last 2 remaining brain cells left in that hollow head of yours and think? Yea thanks.
Or you could say Four women share their murder stories
Joey Thermon thank you
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+TheRealDesi Jantha I agree and it's fucked up that people tell women what they have do with their bodies, that they HAVE to have a baby that they can't care for or are impregnated by rape, that they're cowards for having an abortion, etc. Abortion is probably one of the hardest decisions a woman can make. Oh, not to mention the fact that people are completely uneducated on the topic because abortion is not murder, abortions prevents a human being; doctors they kill the embryo which doesn't have any physical feelings or a conscience, thus, it is not even human yet.
Its an abuse of power to kill someone who cannot defend themselves. Not a choice. A choice is 'mcdonalds or wendys' not 'shall i kill my baby now because once its popped out its kind of socially unacceptable'
Siobhan Ni Ghuairim What don't you get? It isn't killing its preventing something that has not even become "alive" yet. And i ts not ok for people like you to tell women what they should do with their bodies. Women who are raped and women who cannot afford and take care of a child should not be told that they have to give birth. Even if they have to give it up for adoption. It's not just easy like that. If someone was defending themself and had to kill the person attacking them would you tell them they were wrong? No of course not.
+Black Widow they have beating hearts at 18 days. But the limit is waaaaay after that. Now if you used a plan b pill and terminated the pregnancy in the first week, i dont really see a problem because the baby is not even alive.
'People like me' are standing up for the right to life for these silent victims. The same way animal activists defend animals against abuse because they cant speak. These babies are being killed by those who are meant to care and protect them most.
I believe ( though i will check) that rape/ incest ect account for less than 0.5% of abortions in the us.
Instead of wanting abortions to fix problems we should be fighting for more aid for single mothers and pregnancy costs.
We have to acknowledge that killing a baby is not the way to fix someones problems.
+Black Widow how is the baby attacking the mom?
The baby has no fault in any of this
Pro Choice. My view is sex isn't just for procreation but also for pleasure. They were ready for pleasure but not procreation. The women in this video are brave knowing they will be called murderers. Killer is more appropriate because they killed the fetus, I'll say that much.
Plus, I wouldn't want to be alive if my mother didn't want me.
So much power to these people. Been there. I didn't know how much I wanted to be a mom until I got pregnant by my abuser. My line of thinking was, "I will not bring a child into this world just for him to hurt that child." I was also 19 and not at all financially stable, college educated like I wanted to be, I was also still an active alcoholic, there were so many reasons. So incredible to hear other's stories. I do not regret my decision at all. I wasn't ready in any capacity to be a mother and I honestly shudder when I think of what my life, and that baby's life would have been like had I not made the right (and very difficult for me, though I knew it was right) decision for myself back then. I would have been tied to my abuser for the rest of my life. I did the right thing for myself, and as strange as it sounds, for that tiny life forming inside of me. Bless.
Umm… okay
With all due respect, I am glad my mother decided otherwise and that I'm here today despite a traumatic childhood.
@@ems3991 good for you
@@ems3991this person who posted her story is about her not you.
Besides if your mother hadn't had you, you wouldn't be here to say how well you managed. Not to mention how many people there are out there with terrible tramua and are struggling in a damaged medical system.
Be grateful you turned out OK. But not all are so lucky.
This isn't your story, you don't have a crystal ball or know the extent of the abuse to look into a future of someone else's life. You don't.
If you get pregnant, nobody's forcing you to have an abortion. That is what prochoice means.
Don't think your experience is someone else's experience.
Thanking you for sharing ur life story with us more power to you
Also I wanted to say u have a gift
Ik very few ppl who can be as articulate about sharing such a personal story
I have 5 kids all delivered thru Cesarean section. Our 5th child is just a year and a half behind of our 4th. If I thought only about "my" own life , my own comfort, my own pleasures, my own fears, I would have aborted him even if it is illegal in our country. So glad that i was able to choose life for them. We should not be overwhelmed with fear and what the society dictates. Our youngest is now nearly turning six. Let us choose life instead of death, choose hope instead of fear, choose love instead of lust and selfishness. Truly, it is liberating and the joy is deep, not shallow.
Wow this comment section is either condemning or celebrating the women. I want to say from my own opinion that while In a perfect world, I would not want abortions to ever exist, but the world we live in there may be abortions for rape or when the woman's life is in danger due to the child, there should never be abortions because of someone's foolishness. If you have sex your presenting your self to make kids,and if you get pregnant you have to own up to your responsibility, unless it was forced then that would be my exception,we own our actions and choice and to abort millions of babies because of people not wanting to take responsibility then I am sorry I am pro choice and to be pro choice is to have responsibility.
I am pro choice but I am not for abortions that are not for rape/or health risk to the mother other than that we don't need abortions for people who had one nightstands
Sooooo she says 'I made the right decision' and then breaks out crying... Seems she is uttering the politically correct words, but her heart is screaming out the truth... Turn it any way you want but it is still nothing less than murder. But we shouldn't be harsh against these women, they've been lured into it because of all the lies that are promoted...
The tattooes and faces speak so much on how distorted these women are. They've murdered a baby and speak up. Disgusting.
Just so people know, you are never prepared, ever to be a parent. You cannot have a baby when you want, I know. That could be your only chance.
All I hear out of these women is I, I, I and me, me, me. "I wasn't ready", "I didn't want to be a mother", "I know it was the right decision for me", "I knew exactly what I wanted". It's as though they don't even acknowledge that their decision has an effect on anyone else. When Melanie (short bangs with a bun) is talking about regretting abortion, all she does is talk about is the stigma of abortion and how it makes her feel. Nothing about ending a life of course. That has nothing do with it. It's all about people trying to oppress her and make her life difficult... I'm actually pro-choice, but if this was supposed to cast abortion in a better light, it didn't.
Are you one of those pro-choice people that believes that a woman should only be able to exercise her right to choose if her health is at risk or if she's been raped? Because that's not what being pro-choice is...
Brittany Wilkerson No. I am pro-choice for any woman who wants it prior to theoretical viability of the fetus. Health risks and rape do play a significant role in my opinions though. There's 5 main reasons I'm pro-chocie.
1. Victims of rape.
2. Malfunctioning birth control.
3. Danger to mother's life.
4. Safer operations.
5. Severe disability of the fetus.
(no particular order btw)
Given that it is impossible to know weeks later if a child was conceived by rape or malfunctioning birth control, you are left with no alternative than to allow abortion to anyone who wants it. I am ethically against convenience based abortions, but I acknowledge that personal ethics cannot necessarily be reflected in laws.
I would also like to point out that there are degrees of being pro-choice. Pro-choice doesn't necessarily mean that you believe abortion should be legal in all cases. For example, some pro-choice people believe in limits of 12 weeks, others 20 weeks, and others up to the due date.
+utpawn I understand, but I just want to point out that there's no such thing as a "convenience based abortion". Not one has an abortion because pregnancy and parenthood are inconvenient. They have abortions pregnancy and parenthood are life altering and permanent.
I know that there are varying degrees of pro-choice. I certainly don't believe that elective abortion should be legal throughout the entire 9 months of pregnancy. I just don't see the problem with anyone getting a first trimester abortion for any reason.
Brittany Wilkerson Perhaps that wasn't the best phrasing. What I mean by convenience based is that the abortion is done for social or economic reasons rather than for any sort of medical or mental health problem.
Yeah! And that's ok! I'm a person who already exists in this world, and my needs and personhood come first. I've had two abortions in my lifetime. I posted a video about it a little while ago. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to post them there. But yes, my mental and physical health come first. If that sounds selfish, well, guess I'm selfish!