7 Signs You Have a Trauma Bond

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024

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  • @DocSnipes
    @DocSnipes  11 месяцев назад +1

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  • @Pukeyray
    @Pukeyray 2 года назад +7

    Was thinking how Doc Snipes mentioned anxious attachment style would do anything to stay with a bond. Makes sense how one might self sabotage, self denigrate and/or steer their behavior to please the other. Mix that with coercive control and believing can't make it financially and that's a seriously damaging situation. One thing about UBI (universal basic income) I like is it'll help those in malignant relationships. Someone told me housing for all would be just as effective for that.
    Thank you for the clarity Doc Snipes.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching!

  • @GoodPennyYHWHsaves
    @GoodPennyYHWHsaves 2 года назад +4

    This is pretty amazing, Dr.Snipes. I am studying for an M.S. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with my focus in trauma. Starting following you. Thank you so much! 😊
    P.S.
    I love your responsiveness to comments, Dr.! Very, very nice, all the interaction and time you invest in the ppl on your channel.
    Cheers to health. 🌻🌻

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      So welcome! I appreciate you watching. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma

    • @GoodPennyYHWHsaves
      @GoodPennyYHWHsaves 2 года назад

      @@DocSnipes Thank you so much, Dr.

  • @Anime_MHA-KNY
    @Anime_MHA-KNY 2 года назад +6

    Opened my eyes.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      I appreciate you watching. Here’s the video on the 5 stages in trauma bond formation. It’s important to know these 5 stages well because, if you recognize them early, you can potentially leave a relationship before it becomes oppressive, before you can start feeling completely powerless to leave: www.docsnipes.com/TB

  • @GlitteryPegasus
    @GlitteryPegasus Год назад +1

    Thank you for your video. I just realized in therapy today that I have a trauma bond with my mother. I 90% hate her, 10% love her. It's the 10% that has kept me hanging on to her. I don't see my therapist until next week, I don't know what to do.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      I appreciate you watching !Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=CPTSD
      And
      ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=bond

  • @ariostorossi1295
    @ariostorossi1295 Год назад +1

    I am bonded to the kind times he gives me. I like 10% of him, 90% I despise. I feel I abandoned myself to care for him, but in the same time I am with him for me. It is odd. He makes me feel guilty if I leave him.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      I am sorry about that. Sadly, many people stay in narcissistic relationships for the love bombing phase. Please don’t miss the video on helping someone with a trauma bond.

  • @moonshineonme75013
    @moonshineonme75013 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for helping me
    to be a better me!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      I appreciate you watching. Here’s the video on the 5 stages in trauma bond formation. It’s important to know these 5 stages well because, if you recognize them early, you can potentially leave a relationship before it becomes oppressive, before you can start feeling completely powerless to leave: www.docsnipes.com/TB

  • @jamesmullaney5841
    @jamesmullaney5841 2 года назад +1

    Catholic Charities community mental health clinic in NYC. 10 consecutive clinical social workers in 16 years, from 1997 through 2013. They were only interested in acquiring the requisite number of clinic hours to obtain their New York State certification before moving on to greener pastures. Left in the lurch 10 times in 16 years. Severe pain. Never Again.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      Sorry that happened to you. I appreciate you watching!

    • @jamesmullaney5841
      @jamesmullaney5841 2 года назад

      Thanks for your highly lucid and enlightening channel. I think it would be helpful if people knew beforehand what really awaits them in community mental health clinics. Not just the theoretical aspect but the practical realities like high turnover rates, neophyte clinicians who inadvertently cause harm due to lack of experience or focus, and the narcissistic ones who consider us a means to their ends.

  • @DocSnipes
    @DocSnipes  Год назад

    Unlimited Mental Health CEUs for $59 are available at AllCEUs.com

  • @eternal_ks
    @eternal_ks 2 месяца назад

    I just want to tell you I’ve screaming at how rich is your content I swear you’re an angel sent from heaven I can’t afford therapy been struggling to know how to solve my problems…. Then I found you ❤❤❤❤❤ I’m so happpppppoyyyyy

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for your kind comments. I am grateful to be of service

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, your videos are always helpful

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      So welcome. I appreciate you watching.

  • @modern-simplicity
    @modern-simplicity 2 года назад +4

    Perfect timing 👍🦋🙏🇦🇺🌎

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +3

      I appreciate you watching. Here’s the video on the 5 stages in trauma bond formation. It’s important to know these 5 stages well because, if you recognize them early, you can potentially leave a relationship before it becomes oppressive, before you can start feeling completely powerless to leave: www.docsnipes.com/TB

  • @striker38
    @striker38 2 года назад +2

    Many of these points apply..I’m still having trouble with it honestly

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching.

    • @striker38
      @striker38 2 года назад +2

      @@DocSnipes my pleasure doctor, I find your videos enlightening. The trouble is I’m learning much of this long after an unexpectedly abuse environment with 2 separate people, so it is good to learn, but it can be painful too. Blessings to all of you for a pleasant day. Thank you 😊

  • @Lion-1.
    @Lion-1. 2 года назад +1

    Great video 👍

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      I appreciate you watching. Here’s the video on the 5 stages in trauma bond formation. It’s important to know these 5 stages well because, if you recognize them early, you can potentially leave a relationship before it becomes oppressive, before you can start feeling completely powerless to leave: www.docsnipes.com/TB

  • @CanadianBear47
    @CanadianBear47 2 года назад

    Yes. What do? Family

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 2 года назад +4

    Craving the drama sounds odd however the explanation makes scene.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @oliverrojas3185
    @oliverrojas3185 2 года назад +1

    Thanks!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      So welcome. Another video you might find helpful is the one on the 5 Steps in Trauma Bond Formation: ruclips.net/video/pHmXfdBhUF8/видео.html

  • @Indiglorious
    @Indiglorious Год назад +1

    So how do you heal it?

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      Thank you for watching the video. Here’s the video on 5 tips to help support someone with a trauma bond: ruclips.net/video/cp--1lNbQ1o/видео.html

  • @oihgrtzjgggjkk6297
    @oihgrtzjgggjkk6297 Год назад +1

    Hello. Do you have online therapy session/calls

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      Thank you for watching. I am currently not taking new patients. You can message support@docsnipes.com and we can try to help you find a therapist in your area.

  • @sarahmilliron3197
    @sarahmilliron3197 Год назад

    How can you help someone with a trauma bond if their abuser has passed away? This was the only person he's been with sexually.

  • @stephanymusic3548
    @stephanymusic3548 2 года назад +2

    How could I be so blind

    • @nathalieduverna6963
      @nathalieduverna6963 2 года назад +2

      It's you wanting to see the situation with love. It's okay 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      I appreciate you watching. Here’s the video on the 5 stages in trauma bond formation. It’s important to know these 5 stages well because, if you recognize them early, you can potentially leave a relationship before it becomes oppressive, before you can start feeling completely powerless to leave: www.docsnipes.com/TB

    • @GoodPennyYHWHsaves
      @GoodPennyYHWHsaves 2 года назад +1

      Probably not blindness but rather conditioning..plus we come to relationships with so much personal baggage, hidden biases, and other dimensions. 🌻🌻

  • @nikitaw1982
    @nikitaw1982 2 года назад

    Single mother? Don't need gun control need single mother control