Heal & Reconnect With Your Inner Child
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
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hug that inner child tight, besties!
0:00 - intro
2:16 - tip 1
6:06 - tip 2
7:41 - tip 3
10:40 - skillshare
11:53 - tip 4
15:03 - tip 5
19:45 - tip 6
21:49 - tip 7
23:27 - tip 8
24:52 - tip 9
27:49 - tip 10
30:50 - tip 11
32:52 - benefits of healing
36:54 - closing & memes
Edited in collaboration with @homesghouled
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The fact that you were working as a lawyer and then transitioned into this kind of work, publicly playing and resting … genuinely so inspiring. I can only begin to imagine how much courage that took!!!!!
yes we love seeing adults call it play in such an unabashed and pure way 🥰
I often get so mad at myself because I feel like my "where do you see yourself in 5 years" plan is slipping away. But if I stop for a second and take a look at my surroundings I am so blessed and my kid self would love the space and place I am now and they would be so proud of me. It helps to remind yourself that life is not a race! I can get to my plan even if it takes more than 5 years lol.
I'm autistic and I sometimes (age) regress and can also confirm comforting yourself with your childhood /kids things like books, toys etc are helpfull and give joy!
Girl snap
I love how you literally mention having the window open on a Sunday enjoying the breeze, and that's exactly what I'm doing this Sunday while watching your video.
"Stop feeling like you're in trouble all the time for something, and you don't know what it is that you feel like you're in trouble for, but you just know there's something!" >> I didn't know I need to hear that until you said it and thought - oh yeah, that's what I've been feeling! Thanks for making videos so honestly, and holding space for all of us to discover together!
Kennedy, I cannot tell you how much of God send your videos have been to me and my life. I've been going through a heavy and tough few months which has left me feeling low, depressed, depleted. You and your videos remind me of the joys that are out there, and to seek fun and hobbies that I enjoy. Thank you thank you thank you.
kennedy... this video just started and i'm already crying what the heck
FORREALLLL it was like she was seeing right into my heart and soul and addressing issues that were so prevalent and at the forefront of my life rn
I've been loving all of your self-care videos, they always arrive so timely. 💜 Also, can we take a moment to appreciate how (extra) stunning your hair is!
Part of this journey for me has been wearing whatever I want, even though it’s nothing super out there or wacky. Literally just branching out with bolder colours or different cuts rather than everything being boxy and black lol. I had a lot of shame placed on me regarding clothing while I was younger because puberty hit me like a truck; it has taken me into my early 30’s to untangle some of the messaging that was put into my head.
Yet another video I know I need before I’ve even watched it. There’s such authenticity & uniqueness about you that sets you apart from other content creators. Basically…I think you’re amazing and I’m so happy I found your channel 🥰
thank you🥹
Completely agree. I literally discussed this exact revelation with my therapist yesterday. So when I saw the title, I knew I needed to brace myself for all the feels ❤
100% agree. She creates such a safe, warm, inviting, cozy environment that is so welcoming and comforting. Her whole channel is like a warm hug from an old friend.
I couldn’t help but chuckle to myself a little when you said to ask what little me wants to do today because the old little me would say “Get in trouble 😏” 😂😂😂
I have a 4 mo old son and reading my favorite childhood books to him has been a beautiful experience for me. Other “childlike” things I’ve loved doing (even before having him) are frequenting parks and taking cute picnics. 🌸 Wonderful for soaking in the moment and enjoying the small things
I lost myself since the beginning of my 20s (felt like a rush trying to grow up) but now I’m heading towards the end of my 20s and trying to find my inner child ❤️
Became a young single mother in my early 20s so i had to grow up real quick. Now that I’m 30, I’m finding time for myself now
I put this on for my self care shower… and I’m like emotional thinking about my younger self. I love these videos
Another tactile thing thats also cozy hobby like for me is knitting. The movements are so repetitive with practice and depending on what you make it can be mindless and meditative. Keeps me grounded :)
I've been playing sims 2 life stories on my PC to try to regain some of that childhood nostalgia. Even with the horrible graphics, I still feel the same as I did as a child playing that game. Love the concept of this video!
Hi Cozy K I just got home from a busy day with my auntie Heather I bought a new book 📚 and I am so excited 😆 also I did some art 🖼️ and I worked in the hoop house and we went to plant 🪴 shops and my auntie Heather bought seeds to plant 🪴 and then we went to the botanist coffee house to get a coffee ☕️ I got a 24oz iced chai latte with vanilla syrup and oat milk me and Heather are starting our own business we are calling our business 9 to 5 and we are making our own stuff to sell ❤😊 so many exciting things
Your videos are like chicken soup for the soul ❤
“We, too, yearn for the apothecary.” 💚
Hi hi. I just wanted to share that I actually made a playlist like the one you're speaking of and I called it "Sunshine & Pop Rocks" because it reminds me of childhood and riding in the backseat on a sunny day. It has Third Eye Blind, Michelle Branch, Sugar Ray, etc etc. (I'm 31 😁) So when you mentioned that concept, I felt it deep in my soul.
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Green looks so good on you Kennedy! 💚
Love your videos! They feed my cozy soul ❤
This is awesome- thank you for this!
Joining a journaling group was one of the best things I’ve ever done. ❤
I will say that I think it’s so silly that we grow up and we’re supposed to just basically ‘lose our color’. Like no if I want to wear a rainbow I’m gonna wear a rainbow. People who say you can’t play dress up as an adult literally watch grown people play dress up and pretend on tv every single day. YES WE CAN!
I'm grateful this came into my feed, i really needed to hear a lot of these things. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us angel.
Oh my goodness, what even IS this voo doo Kennedy?!! I was in a massive burnout when your burnout video came out and then recovered through inner child work and body doubling (and other things but the fact that you had these three as recent videos.... WHATTTT?!) I don't know how you are knowing but you do be knowing.
lolol we do be healing in tandem👯
Dream siary is a cool exercise; its a day dream but written down. Like: "dear diary. Im sotting in the lounge by my pool by my house in the spanish village Sella tonight planning my trip to Alicante in the morning...and so on". Its easier to be precise and ckear in writing. It makes it more real❤❤❤
Loveeee the healing energy!
Loving all of your videos/topics so much lately🥹🩷
Ok this made me teary eyed. Thank-you for this video. ❤ I have never been kind to my inner self due to never being enough for my parents. As a mom, I still build up everyone, but myself and in teaching my kids to love themselves, I need to show them how to do it. Thank-you for this message, never stop being you Kennedy. Your heart is one of the reasons I get so excited when a new video of yours pops up ❤
Kennedy, This video was soo needed! Thank you so much for uploading this segment.💗
Such an awesome video. Thank you for this
You’re so inspirational ❤ I’ve been reconnecting with my inner child over the last year - mainly by rediscovering my love for Lego and adult coloring! These bring me joy and peace 😊
Your channel has been helping me find my inner child again! I lost my sense of self in my 20s due to the unexpected loss of my mother during my senior year of college. I hit the ground running toward adulthood after her death and didn't look up until about a year ago. Fast forward 18 years and I have a lovely home, wonderful children, and a loving partner. And I didn't have any hobbies or interests. I've been enjoying Stardew, arranging flowers, embroidering, drinking yummy coffees, and reading lots of fiction this year! 🌷💜☕🎮🪡
I am finding authentic happiness again and it is magnificent! 💖
i love you so much. you have no idea. this has me in much needed tears
I’m so grateful for your channel ! Thank you, love you 🫶🏻
You are one of my favorite youtubers. I resonate with your story and your journey so much. I dream that I’ll be one step closer to the peace you have in your life! ❤
💕💕eeeeek wait why does all your content come at the PERFECT time, EVERY time !!??!>? 💕💕
This video is so important!!! I love that you're sharing this information with the world ❤
you are KILLING IT with the youtube videos lately!! so thoughtful, relevant, and helpful 🩷
I love these recent videos so much! 🥹
Thank you for this video it’s come at a great time for me; especially the last tip - with experiencing feelings of loneliness and nobody really asking me anymore how my day was, hopefully this will be a good step I can implement in my healing journey so as not to feel as lost
As a therapist, I approve of this message. 🫡 Seriously though, this is such great content. I recommend a lot of this regularly and wouldn't hesitate to share this video with clients.
for an adult take on the tactile play / sand pit you could make a little zen garden ! super fun to decorate and rake the sand x
I really admire the type of person you are 😭❤️❤️
Hey CozyK thank you for posting this video it helped me realize a lot of things to look forward to and to put myself first, keep doing you! I love your vids!
I'll probably come back and watch this through when I have the mental energy to reflect this deeply. I'm sure many will appreciate you walking us through this topic
speaking the good talk! learning how to accept what i like is a journey
kennedy, thanks for sharing your advice on how to be more positive, kind, trusting. i was just listening to you to self soothe, and now im cryin in da club lmao. this vid really hit me. life has put us through the wringer, but we can still carve a space out for ourselves in spite of this world.
Your channel just astounds me at how personally relevant it is. Thank you so much
you look extra beautiful in this video, Ken!! you're glowing! 🤩
OKAYYY KENNEDY GWORL U WENT AWFFF WITH THIS ONE!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🗣🗣💯💯 this was like a free therapy session. Literally every single thing you said I was nodding along to. It’s nice to at least know someone else thinks the same way you do and looks at life and the word in the same way. This was such a... validating?.... video. It made me realize I have a lot to work through. THANK YOU ❤❤❤
Also, even though it wasn’t the intent of this video, I feel like we also got to know you a little bit more from this video and understood why you are the way you are. In more words or less, you were describing Your childhood and it makes me realize we have even more in common than I originally thought we did!!!❤
Oooh, I really like the playlist and tactile ideas, also been hunting around in my mom's basement for all my beanie babies and Lisa Frank stuff! :) I've been learning about mindfulness self compassion, it's been super helpful for me lately bc of health issues. I like to repeat goodwill wishes for myself, the negative self talk will happen, but it can be questioned/unlearned. Sooo true about over-explaining, I do that all the time, usually when I'm feeling insecure. I'm going to visualize my dreams and take those small steps!:))
Your hair looks so nice in this video. 🥰With all the stress I go through in my every day life going back to my inner child is something I’vebeen really struggling with lately. 😢 Thank you for this video. ❤
This video came to me at the exact time I so needed it. Thank you so much!! ✨️
Look at your hair!! So long and beautiful, your content is always great🖤
it's crazy how a lot of people resort to instantly being negative - i grew out of that mindset a long, long, time ago and have achieved mental peace. it's very important to work on yourself in a proactive manner so you don't lose yourself mentally. when you're not in the right mental state it affects you physically as well and it can be extremely detrimental to your overall health. being positive and loving yourself is paramount to happiness. easier said than done, though. i hope people learn how to have a better and positive mindset ^^ also. love the green decor!!
I love this free therapy lol I wrote notes from the last video ❤
Thank you so much for this video because I believe that all these points you are making are REALLLLY what we all need to hear. Thank you queen!!
just wanted to say your hair and everything about you is so so beautiful, you are gorgeous and you glow from the inside out 🌼✨🌱
i love how you talk about living simply and mindfully. i’ve been implementing that more each day, and i find myself becoming so happy to just be! i’ve also started studying some tao poetry which has been helpful 😊
hope u have a wonderful week! ☀️
I yearn for the apothecary! 😂 You shared so much wisdom here. I'm decades ahead of you and I have found that you are describing deep truths about how to live. The last point you made about how practicing self-compassion can affect one's criticism of others - that one really hit for me today. Thank you! So glad you are getting to live your delulu dreams.
This video is perfect 🎀💕🌸
I absolutely love the imagery of taking steps towards your daydreams
This was such a good video 🥺 I really loved this 14:20 point re: our identity and how little us had these ideas of who we’d be! We can still picture who future us will be 🥺🥺
anyone else is taking notes from this vids lately? Ken, thanks for your authenticity and vulnerability! your timing with this life lessons is impeccable and that damn gatorade better get out of the microwave soon or we will rebel against it with our childlike wonder!
thank youuu! and ready to fight gatorade asap
The therapy sesh I didn’t know I needed 💜
Watched this while playing with air dry clay 👐🏻
Also 100% on the over explanations and always feeling in trouble when everything is perfectly ok.
Thanks so much Ken!!
Thank you Ken for how sweet of a reminder this was
already know im gonna love this vid from the title!
Brilliant video. I love this. I'd like to share this video with 30 something me and early 40s me to tell her to slow down and play.
Love this video so much!❤ So many good ideas and tips. I am in my 40s and started watching old cartoons I used to love, and I recently fell in love with strawberry shortcake all over again. I got some stickers, and the smell took me back to when I was 6 years old. I used to love to color and draw, and I challenged myself to draw all the characters from strawberry shortcake & rainbow brite (my new hobby). Also started wearing clothes from when I was in my 20s (big sweatshirt, jeans, sneakers, and hoop earrings ponytail with scrunchie and bangs), and omg, the youth flooded through me. Gotta find some jelly bracelets!! Next on my list is learning to bake big muffins. In high school, I loved getting those huge big muffins every morning for breakfast (cheese strudel, blueberry, chocolate chip, banana nut). Also, I want to get a viola and see if I can play it like I did in middle school.
These are such wonderful points. I am starting to realize that I was a great kid who had to deal with some tough issues. I'm going to be practicing alot of this to reconnect to my joyful little self.
Hi Cozy K., my inner self loved playing on the playground. Swings, sliding board, and just playing with my sistets and friends.
Little did I know that as life takes over, I would never have time for it as an adult. I think that I will take the time this week and go swing on a swing! Thanks Kennedy..💚😊
I do be needing this 😅
thank you so mutch for these helpfull insights. verry helpfull and usefull. i cried a little.but i feel good to work on my inner child.
Your hair is so beautiful ❤
OMG! I'm so happy you uploaded! I have that same pixel chix in my room next to me! I gasped when I saw the thumbnail lol
I've been feeling so low this year, your videos are a huge source of comfort for me, especially with how relatable you are, it feels like talking to a friend
I have heard two different female RUclipsrs in their late twenties this last week, independently of each other refer to spending time outdoors as “play” or “going out to play” and it just was so beautiful and pure to hear it framed like that, I love to be outdoors and yeah we don’t do the exact same things that kids do outdoors as adults but my time out in nature is definitely me allowing myself a “recess” (as a third RUclipsr in the same demographic has also recently phrased movement/outside time) or playtime, I’m also late twenties and have been having this same awakening (though I was showing up for my inner child in many ways just without realising that’s what it was)
so apparently the mid to late twenties are the era of inner children in us all waking up and reminding adult us that they’re there and still need nurturing, things are only as weird as people make them, take back adults going outside to play 😂❤
I’ve just thought, it’s very Miss Honey from Matilda, a cosy and inner child nurturing icon who indulges in playful activities
Kennedyy this video healed me❤️ u should have a podcast !!
I’ve been buying toys for my toddler that I would have loved 😍 last like I got her a mini baby born doll camper van ❤
This is the most important video you have ever posted ❤
My fave video on the internet ❤
That negative self talk thing is so real- my loved ones have called me out on my habit of not even allowing myself to consider that my "what if" scenarios could be "what if everything works out exactly as how it is meant to."
It means a lot that your channel is so authentic! 🤍
Your hair is beautiful!
This was right on time! Thank you so much. 🤎
Woaaa this is kinda blowing my mind. The part about identity...lovvvve❤❤❤wise! Here I am at 41 learning new things from the cool kids daymz😂❤🎉🎉🎉
What a Wonderful breaking the walls of primitive adulting! 😮 to mature and bloom into what your own inner self really is ❤
What a great video ❤
Thank you 🙏
Accepting that we are human and have negative thoughts are apart of being human. Our negative thoughts are a good things because it’s your brain trying to help you. Accepting negative and positive thoughts is part of accepting yourself as a whole. Accepting all our emotions is saying it’s ok to be me .
I am just trying to resurrect myself from 2 weeks of bed rot after being sick. Lots of great ideas here!
thank you❤
I melt everytime I see the intro drawing 😭 so cute
My inner child never let me, I'm pretty much the same, trying to look like a functional adult lol.
lolol i totally feel that side of things too!
U da realist cozy gamer in the world, love the emtional intelligence
I learn sm from u
Kennedy, you feel like my second therapist sometimes. I appreciate you lol
I feel so seen. I feel like I'm in trouble so so often. It's unnerving especially because I live alone, take care of my own stuff and only ask for help if I truly cannot do something on my own. So WHY do I constantly feel guilty for no reason???😢😢😢 snapped a screenshot of the first meme. Going to work hard at that this Spring so the Summer is epic!
As someone who assists people on their journey with inner child work and healing, I can say this video is gold. There is so much helpful guidance here and delivered from a place of knowing which makes it even more powerful. Thank you for making this video it can help so many people. ❤😊
Newsflash people! Everyone has trauma! Its very different how much and how severe: but we all have it. Do not underplay your hurt from childhood because it's not as "big" as someone elses❤
How come your hair is so perfectly perfect😢
Such an important topic👏🤍✨️💛