I can relate to that. My dad cheated on my mom and to clear her head, my mom went on a girl trip to Peru. While she was gone, my dad had his "friend" Gabby over. There are literally pictures of me and my sisters in princess dresses with her. I definitely feel for the kids because they probably have no idea and it's gonna hit them hard when they're older
@@julieweismann6232 they could have lived in different states before moving to the same state. we don't know. I've had a best friend for almost 15 years and I've only met 3 of her 4 kids...because we live in different states and financially it hasn't been possible to meet up.
To the pregnant lady being cheated on. Immediately change locks Freeze your accounts. Get a really GOOD divorce lawyer and take him for EVERYTHING. Mistress isn't going to like him so much when he's broke. Ask your lawyer but find out if your state has "alienation of affection" laws. If so, sue the mistress for EVERYTHING she's worth. Protecting your kids finances and financial future is your top priority right now.
THIS ^^^^^ please, we have to get this comment on the top!! the best kind of revenge is to make a CLEAN CUT; milk them dryyyy and leave to live your best life (specially since there are children involved!! it will set to them the boundaries and precedents of what not to accept and what to do
@Mona Lisa Vito 😂😂😂 you should calm down too. Are y’all seriously thinking my original comment was somehow misogynist or anti-woman? I came out at 16, I have only female friends. My girls are my life. I would have unalived myself without them. I am a guncle to their children. I didn’t mean “calm down woman” , I meant “calm down and plz don’t take the comment so seriously, it was just a silly comment about how badass women can be in ways that men typically are not. I didn’t even know the gender of the person I was responding to. I can’t tell if y’all are trolling me on this comedy channel I watch every night where I literally only post positive affirming comments.
5:38 It’s not only that he cheated on his wife, it’s that he cheated on his pregnant wife with said wife’s best friend and introduced their children to the mistress. If the wife is somehow seeing this, just know that they don’t deserve you at all as a best friend and wife, I know I’m a stranger on the Internet but just know I wish you the best in life.
I totally agree. The only thing I don’t understand is why the mistress was meeting the kids for the first time if she is the mothers’s best friend? Wouldn’t she already have met them?
No matter, Britany will learn soon enough one or both of the following things: 1. When you marry your affair partner, you’re creating a job vacancy. 2. How you got him is how you’ll lose him.
@@mitytnavn could be the first time they meet her in the context of "dad's girlfriend" maybe? Like "I have a surprise, daddy has a girlfriend" and it turns out that it's aunt Britany or something. Wouldn't be the first time it happens.
The maid girl was probably mocking the guy's excuse. She most likely didn't know she was the side piece and is now refusing to go along with his lie in a sarcastic way. That is honestly the best way to handle the situation, instead of trying to justify his actions or say mean things to the wife.
I was seeing a guy for 2 years. It was a relationship I wanted to end after a year...but he insisted. He was annoying, boring and dumb. He was also average looking. But thought he was the shizzle. I thought I should just let it fizzle out. I got really bored. I happened to find out he had another address. Went there. Heard a woman's voice and kids. My heart sank because I hadn't got my head around my suspicions being true. He was married and once he knew I knew, I started a campaign of terror..... I told him I wouldn't tell his wife. But I did. I told him it was over and All was forgiven. But I told his entire family by emailing them copies of our communication. I told his neighbours. And I left hundreds of signs in womens toilets in a 10km radius, just warning single women that he is married. Lol.
Ladies, as a man who’s been married to his wife for 33 years after knowing each other for 4 months please know good men are out there. DO NOT settle for almost!
There are, but the RUclips drama around them doesn't exist. This is entertainment; we don't make generalizations about men for it, at least not the intelligent women here
@@LeynaraLarwenarenel you watch for the same reasons I do, to be entertained, and our lady Charlotte does that in spades. My comment is directed to those folks that need to be reminded, no matter what their situation.
@@lifeexpression5036 Sorry you're going through that. Heart break is one of the hardest things to go through in life but let it hurt. After the pain, let it be the reason you have standards. Love yourself enough to not give your love out to just anyone but someone who is worthy of it. Took me 8 years to find my wonderful husband after a horrible, abusive relationship.
I want the first girl to understand that boyfriend or not, holding a person against their will is assault. He asked her multiple times to let him go and she kept physically restrainning him, which is all on video since he was recording. He found out he was cheating, he was being very polite, very calm, he didn't raise his voice, he didn't touch her, if for any reason he'd felt like it was dragging on for too long he could have very much called the police on her to demand they make her leave/help him leave.
Yeah all that… Sad that today when you are a guy you have to go through all those steps and record it so you don’t risk your future on a lie after her fake tears are dried up and she become a revengeful harpy for daring leaving 😅😅.
Yup. No means no. Stop means stop. Let go means let go. Doesn't matter who you are, who the person not respecting your request is; size, sex, age. It could be holding, tickling, physically blocking, touching; any time you force yourself on someone else, It. Is. Wrong.
True I couldn’t help but laugh though. The look on his face and his tone 😂 but your right it is against the law he did the right thing to stay calm and record
The one with the children being present was way too real for me. My ex husband did the same thing to our daughter. The 3 of them went out to dinner together, went grocery shopping, and made dinner together in OUR home. All while I was working second shift to avoid having to pay for child care. When I found out about everything, my world crashed. I walked in on them twice. This was 5 years ago and I’m still recovering from it. I wish the best for anyone who had to go through this.
Man, number 2 is a REAL ONE! I love her so much. She literally said she will offer evidence in divorce proceedings. These are the kind of women we need more of
The first tiktok had one more update - the wife moved in with her mom with her kids. And 'Brittany' the ex-best friend? Some of the followers FOUND HER! She had to private all her socials because people were spamming her for being a homewrecker. LOL
My ex husband ended up marrying our housekeeper. I know he told her that if she stopped being pretty and thin and LET HIM HAVE A MISTRESS, she wouldn't be getting anymore spending money from him. The clincher is I'M THE ONE WHO MADE HIM A MILLIONAIRE. Within 2 years, he was broke, lost the businesses, the house, and the toys; he is now married to one of his mistresses. He thinks he's happy but he's miserable, while I'm so happy in my life now! I'm with a man who isn't a cheater, and we've been together for 14 years as of yesterday; married for 12.🥰
The old Hip Hip Hooray is still relevant for you! The best revenge is living a good life! You go girl!!! Give your hubby a hug for me & tell him I think he's a Prince!! Hope & pray you have a very long & happy life together!
@@helenbontje15 I told him and gave him a huge hug for you! Thank you for reminding me that I am worthy of this happiness! 🙏🏻 much love fellow Spudling! 🥔 💖
The one with the pregnant mum hurt me on a personal level (my dad took his wanna be mistress to my birthday lunch when I was 13). But "Brittney" being the best friend explains why he was comfortable bringing the kids to meet her. She was already known to them. I hope this man suffers, his poor wife, his poor kids and his poor baby. I hope that mum gets support and thrives without that scumbag, and meets a great guy who will love her and the kids. My stepdad isn't perfect, but I thank him for taking care of me.
Shout out to all the ladies that won’t hook up with a guy in a relationship or with your best friend’s man. You’re the girlies that I want to be friends with. 🙌🏼
I not a moral person, but i do have good character. I will never, have never wanted another person while in a relationship with anyone. I have wanted to leave the relationship because it wasn't working out, but have never been tempted by others during a relationship, not even during a breakup. Its just how I operate because it feels right to me and allows me to cleanly move forward.
My mum find out my uncle was cheating my auntie because of a photo he posted wearing sunglasses and you could barely see on the reflection a feminine arm with a blue silver bracelet. So she went through all his female friends on Facebook (this was like 10 years ago) and found a lady wearing that exactly bracelet. She cross some photos they posted with the same background and exposed him to my auntie. He was indeed cheating for almost a year with that woman. Men my 50 something mama has some FBI skills 😅
Is your Aunt her sister/sister-in-law or is your uncle her brother/brother-in-law? Because if it's your aunt and mom are sisters than, yea. (Idealistically) The second you think you can mess with one sister(with or without them knowing) the other will come at you and expose you, If your mom and uncle are siblings, she probably felt guilty because your aunt had to deal with her brother cheating on her, and it's the right thing to do.
Either way I adore your mother, we need more people like this cause cheaters can suck dic And I feel bad for your aunt, I hope she's alright and doing better with someone else.
@@queerdeificeeli985 my Uncle is my mum's brother, but his -now ex wife- was my mum childhood best friend. My mum is closer to her than she was to my uncle. But to be fair before exposing him she gave him a chance to come clean himself, he didn't took it, he thought my mum was bluffing, well she wasn't. They are in good therms this days, both my mum with my auntie and my mum with my uncle. But it was some messed up times. My mum took care of my auntie during the whole divorce thing. Don't cheat kids.
Once a cheater , always a cheater is what I learnt from watching Charlotte's videos . Kick them out at the very first instance and you save a lot of heartbreak later . The pain of loss is somewhat easier than the pain of regret for not acting sooner .
This may be often true, but not always. I once cheated at my ex by meeting someone (no sex). This is the only thing in my life I still am ashamed of. This only one time.
@@frodoamadeusgobel9749 I'll say this again. You may be an exception, but you aren't the rule. Its better to protect yourself from the general rule and let these people go than stick around for a potential exception
@@frodoamadeusgobel9749 you're right, when i seen the pain it caused my partner when i was inmy teens. I promised myself to never inflict that pain on anyone ever again.
My first husband cheated on me with my “friend”. I was pregnant with me eldest daughter. (A joint decision) I suspected something was up n asked him many times if he was cheating. When he finally told the truth he said he wanted to be with her n didn’t want our baby. A few weeks later he showed up saying he still wanted to be with me but I’d had enough and said there was no way he was coming back. I was a bit devious tho n said I wanted to “be with him” one last time. Next time I saw them both together I rubbed it in about how we were still sleeping together. The look on her face was all the revenge I needed😂. A few months later I had my daughter. She is 37 now and has never met him. His loss I say 😊 My now husband adopted my daughter,she says that he is her dad, always will be. She has never showed any interest in meeting her “father”. So having an affair with my so called friend (they split 3 years later when SHE cheated) has meant that he never got to meet my incredible, beautiful, clever and talented daughter who is a wife and mother now herself.
I've never really understood how you could have a relationship with a cheater and think it would work out. If you're willing to be involved in a cheating relationship then that already shows where your morals lie on that topic. You shouldn't be surprised if more cheating happens in the future with a different person.
@@freyallarganswald4746 Sorry, I understood it. I wasn't clear enough in my writing. I'm using the ubiquitous "you" for all cheaters in general. I don't mean you personally. I consider the friend to be a cheater too because she was fully aware of the relationship between you two, so he shouldn't have been surprised when she cheated on him later.
@@dustinriley8059 ah I see, sorry for the misunderstanding. Oh yes, I considered her behavior the most treacherous as I’d confided in her about my pregnancy and my early suspicions that my ex was cheating. Looking back she showed no signs of guilt, embarrassment or nervousness. She obviously didn’t care that she was going to hurt me. She had decided she wanted him and my feelings or pregnancy didn’t come into it. It all happened a long time ago now but life experiences like this have an effect on future relationships. I had no relationships at all between my divorce and meeting my now husband 6 years later. Initially I found it very hard to put my trust in someone again. It all worked out tho and we have been together 31 years now. 🤗 Cheaters never consider that their behaviors may have a lasting negative impact on their partner, children or other family member.
@@freyallarganswald4746 Yeah, I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I have a feeling you would go through that and more if that's what it took to have your daughter and current husband. I know I would.
I"ve been with my wife for 13 years, married for 9. I could NEVER even think of cheating on my soulmate. I love her more than anything. It would destroy the one thing I've wanted since I was a kid, a family. And besides cheating sounds hard as hell, like that guy said. And then you're single afterward. Being single and dating nowadays sounds like a literal nightmare.
Heres the mindset when you first cheat you get a rush of adrenaline like you skydive. Afterwards you start thinking how the hell is my spouse so ignorant about what destructive behavior i just did. Now you are hyper aware yet guilty at the same time so you degrade your spouse if they start getting weird vibes or you try to act absolutely normal whilst escalating the cheating since the hits just aint the same. From their place to a hotel to your car to even the bedroom you will do it and start thinking your spouse is so dumb for not noticing. Hence you get caught and get this desperation that you need to keep your spouse in your life since they are your drug. Their ignorant despair is your happiness so cutting them off is like putting them on cold turkey and the longer the relationship with main spouse was the greater the enjoyment of cheating was.
I absolutely love how this woman and other strangers took it upon themselves to help this woman find out what was going on and emotionally supported this poor woman in this time of absolute heartbreak. Prayers to this women. Anyone else out there helping to expose these cheaters is amazing to see. We need more of this. Supporting one another. Looking out for one another.
This happens a lot my ex husband cheated on me while I was 7 months pregnant. His excuse was that I was " Too fat" and I was no longer in shape and he was not attracted to me. It hurts that we as woman don't respect others homes if the husband is a pig expose him don't go with them. FYI guys we get "fat " when we are pregnant because we have another human being inside our bellies.
If he considers you "fat" it's because HE had a hand (or other body part) in that condition, and it's his fault you got that way. Plus, you'll only be "fat" for around 9 months.
The nerve & how many of them gain "sympathy" weight, I'd slap the shit right out of my boyfriend and ask him so are you carrying another kid we can't afford 2 at once 😆😆
When I was 6 months pregnant TWO married women propositioned my fiancé for a three way. Luckily for me he's a good man and told them off. His exact words were. "I don't need to have a three way but even if I wanted one my fiancé is more than happy to take me out and find a girl as hot as she is." It's so hard to find a good partner and my heart breaks for these people. Especially the woman who was pregnant.
sounds like something my man would say. my boyfriend went on a house party once with two of his weirdo friends who are a bit younger, but the party was at the house of some girl and there were only a bunch of girls around. the two friends went there with the intention of getting laid (one of them in a relationship, ew) and the girls were.. let's say.. the type for it. when they arrived, my boyfriend realised the girls eyed him too much (his two friends look very average and he looks like some handsome main character from an east-asian drama, i don't even know how i landed this man), so when he introduced himself, he just said "I have a girlfriend of 12 years and I only care about her so don't even touch me" 🤣 one said "that's sad..." he just went "no it's not". he didn't last long there and his friends had to drive him home, best thing was they quickly drove back to the girls place to finish their business but they didn't open the door 🤣🤣🤣 me and my boyfriend celebrated over this too hard. i am lucky to have him. he always tells me honestly when someone flirted with him and we always laugh about how he managed to get rid of the girls. 😄
When I was a kid, my dad introduced me to a woman who I am now 90% certain was his mistress. Nothing was said outright, but the whole thing was so weird. She was so excited to meet me & I didn’t understand why his “friend” was so invested in this lunch. My dad had a history of cheating on my mom (they were divorced by then) &, at the time, was dating the woman who would become his second wife. While I didn’t understand what was happening as a kid, I figured it out as a young adult & let me tell you IT MESSED ME UP. I wish I could say this was the only realization from my childhood, but suffice it to say I haven’t had a relationship with my father in 8 years & never intend to.
Ahhh! me too!!!! I remember thinking how weird it was that ALL of my Dad's friends were girls. But it wasn't until I was older that all the little things painted a totally different picture. I remember helping my Dad pick out a gift and he said he was "saving it for a future gift for Mum so I had to keep it secret" SPOILER she never got it! They split up 10 years ago now though. So glad I don't have to be having that conversation with my mother 😅
My dad actually once took me on a dinner date with his secretary. I found out years later they were having an affair at that time. Truly disgusting how some people are heartless about breaking their wives and kids hearts
This is when social media is used for good. We should all do this. I myself had someone message me on IG after I was talking to someone they were with. I 100% had no idea I had met this guy on a dating app, and I told her she shouldn’t be putting up with this and that she’s way better than him and deserves better. This guy had done it before and when I found out I never messaged him again because this made me so mad.
I felt that pain of the pregnant mom and the cheating husband. I went through that and there truly are no words to describe that level of betrayl. However, hers went to another level I can not even fathom for her "best friend" to be the accomplice. Even having the kids involved... my goodness, my heart goes out to her. I pray she finds the healing she needs. 💛
One time I went on a tinder date. The date was a normal, casual dinner date until the end when it got crazy. We were sitting outside eating ice cream when a car came up and a girl comes and starts yelling at the guy. He tells me it's just his ex gf and that I should wait. So I sit while they yell at eachother in her car. He comes back out and tells me he has to go but that we should do this again some time. I tell him no way. Months later after I've forgotten about that guy, I end up unknowingly working with that girl. She's like do you remember me? I'm like no. Then she tells me I went on a date with her bf that she was living with. Pretty crazy.
@@chelsiemilstead7329 No. When I applied and got the job, she was a manager and told the hiring people she wouldn't work with me. Well I was already hired so I got transferred to a different location with no explanation. Months later she shows up at my location and is like do you remember me, I'm like no. She then told me her whole story and even told me how it was her who got me transferred. I told her he was just a random tinder date. He said he was single. I honestly didn't even remember his name. I only remember the story now because she made it drag on and effect my life for like a year. But I don't think I ever saw her again after that one encounter. I guess she just wanted some closure.
@@talea9593 wow she’s kind of a bitch. Like I get being upset about it but it wasn’t on you, it was on the guy for cheating to begin with. Not like you had any control over the situation.
I think she knew about his girl cuz she said "I don't even know how she got in the room ". she was going along with what he said as to not get an AZZ whooping
So, I can relate to the pregnant woman. My ex of 4 years not only cheated on me with my "best" friend, who was married with 2 kids, but also slept with my other ex's gf at the time. Found out there were more women, including the one who got him arrested for naughty pic exchanges because she was only 13! Needless to say, I bounced! I was pregnant with my son through all of it (he has a registration attached to him for life!). Almost 10 years later & I am very happily married to a wonderful man who loves my children as his own!! Hang in there girl, it does get better, just takes a min! 💙
I'm so glad that I'm old, happily single & beyond wanting another relationship of any sort but I feel so bad for people trying to have a relationship these days. What a 💩 show 😬
What happens in the dark always comes to light. I found out my ex cheated on me and got another girl pregnant a few years ago right before Thanksgiving. He tried to act like the victim. I blocked him on everything 🤣
On Thanksgiving, we're shaming people who are ungrateful of their relationships. Edit: Because people are seem to be thinking I intended this to be "shaming" the video and topic; I said the original sentence as to make note of the funny coincidence, not to try to comment on poor taste. I'd prefer to have the potato queen at the table in good company on Thanksgiving, even if not everyone celebrates it, and even then it just good company. Sorry for any confusion.
You know what? I'm glad it's so well documented these days. I feel so sad for the folks who have been cheated on, but the sooner they find out the quicker they can move on
My deepest respect and gratitude goes out to @Cristina. The way she treats this difficult situation is a model and an inspiration. This is how it should be done: with respect and compassion, care and empathy. What I find worrying is when social media seems to become the modern form of the pillory. And that scares me.
Fortunately, Virginia is both "no-fault" and "fault" considering divorce, so his cheating will matter when family court decides what his child support payments will be. I don't know if Virginia grants spousal support, but I sure hope so! Edit: I looked it up, "Alimony (spousal support) in Virginia is on an indefinite basis. Indefinite alimony can be raised or lowered over time if there is a change of circumstances." I hope she does what I did, get the best divorce attorney possible! I live in California, a "no-fault" state. My ex thought that meant that no matter how abusive he was to me, it wouldn't matter in court. He stated this in emails, in one he said, "This is a no-fault state, so you might as well do everyone a favor and kill yourself!" I got to keep the ranch and he has to pay me alimony until he retires, then I get half his retirement from Disneyland. He's worked there 42 years.
Bestie, I’m sorry for your experience. Alimony is designed for your situation where one spouse is abused or left destitute so I’m glad it worked as designed. From your stories, it sounds like you love your ranch and your goats.
@Saltydog good job blaming the victim 👏 🙄 We can only use the information we have from the video, and there's absolutely no indication the pregnant wife is any of the things you call her.
Good for you! I know a retired Disney employee and they have a very generous retirement program, so it will be a nice supplement. And I hope you enjoy the ranch!
I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 yes no fault states are a thing but they always have an exception for DV and I'm so glad you ended up taking him to the cleaners.
That doesn't really mean any exceptions were made. That's entirely the point of a no fault state. They follow the letter of the law when dividing up assets and deciding on alimony and child support. No fault just means the law will not assign blame to one of the parties and you're able to get divorced even if the other party doesn't want a divorce.
My heart goes out to the pregnant mom. I have been in a similar situation. My ex was on affair 5 or 6 (I wasn't aware of some of the affairs until after our divorce). It wasn't quite as bad because the woman wasn't a friend before the affair and I wasn't pregnant. But he did take my 4 kids to meet her on one of his dates. And I met her during the affair. He told me she was a coworker. The first time I met her he had told me she was looking for a better job but she didn't have a computer at home. He asked if he could bring her over to work on a resume and print it out. So I helped with the resume and she printed it out. She was young (early 20s) and turned out to need help with a lot of things. I figured we all need help when we are young at some point and was happy to give it. Being in my early 40s I had more life experience after all. We even gave her money once despite being below the poverty level ourselves. I had no idea she was not his coworker, but they were having an affair. I can't believe someone can sleep with a married man then use his wife like that! He only told me about the affair and that he had met her on Plenty of Fish after he found out she was catfishing him and several other men at the same time.
I had a "best friend" like that. & that kind of betrayal is not something u can ever really get over, or get over very easily. I put myself in therapy for it 3 years ago. Still not fully healed, makes it hard to trust any of ur friends.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. That story made me tear up and something like that has never even happened to me. That kind of betrayal is freakishly cruel, you didn't deserve that.
My heart was breaking and tears in my eyes as I know the pain; as I still remember the day when one of her coworkers told me that my ex was cheating and I sat there in a parking lot stunned and went thru the stages of grief. This is the best part of social media as it rips the curtain away. I will forever deal with the loss of trust and lack of loyalty..
I was with a cheater and when our daughter was about to turn 4 he kicked us out for a newly18 yr old (we were 29) (he purposely waited until then). That girl came out to get my baby and bring her out and look me in the face for a long time. If I had known her age previously he'd be on the offenders list. I'm so glad that part of my life is over. That was some stressful shit
Lesson of the day : Do. Not. Cheat. You. WILL. Get. Caught. And Karma isn't a concept, it's the name of whatever baseball bat comes your way. For legal reasons, that last part was a joke.
I lived and worked in a very small town at my first teaching job (under 1000) and we found out that someone was cheating on holiday in Hawaii because someone else from our town saw them together. It’s a much smaller world than ever before.
Charlotte, I know the shocking pain when you find that someone you love and trust has been repeatedly cheating on you. It truly feels like a knife attack in the chest. My husband was later robbed and murdered by his mistress.
I literally cried when she was reading the response from the pregnant mom to everyone that helped her. I hope she finds her true happiness one day and can leave "Donald" and Brittany behind.
Never forgive someone who cheats, no matter what your religious or cultural beliefs are. They will do it again and they will break your trust again, that's not what people who love you are supposed to do.
As someone who is currently going through a divorce due to multiple infidelities, this is gold and I love all these videos! The stories that have come out since we split/I kicked him out have been surprising and heart shattering. I spent 11 years with this dude, to have him play me for the last 7. He had two kids behind my back, a string of girls (possibly underage ones) and his parents took my car back from him to give it back to me. I just called my soon-to-be ex out as much as possible and am awaiting our hearing this upcoming Monday (12/5). He is lucky all I did was kick him out, shut his phone line off our family plan (my uncle runs the cell plan) and kept the pets. I am extremely lucky we did not have shared property, finances or children. These people are some heroes! I owe the friend who told me about this last time and the herpes a big one and I remind her daily! *There are also lots of abuse that was going on that I am working through. He left me some deep scars.
I thought I'd never want to talk to the "other woman" too. But when I finally did talk to one, it was helpful. It made a difference that she didn't know about me. It was healing for the both of us. The movie "The Other Woman" (I think that's the title... Cameron Diaz), is actually very true.
Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone. My own story includes years of horrific DV. If I'm being 100% honest, the cheating messed me up more than the abuse ever did. My heart is with those who had their entire world shattered in a matter of seconds. 💜
Damn. I never thought about it like that, but I agree. The cheating felt so much worse! I hope you're doing well away from it! For me. I'm better. But it seemed like healing would be a never ending thing at first. Blessings.
Every day around 6 pm I check in if Charlotte uploaded a video to take a little break from working on my thesis. This brings me so much comfort and keeps me sane!! Thank you so much!
this is the first channel i open on youtube every morning. i start my day off with my daily vitamin Charlotte. it keeps me sane and puts me in the best mood for the day.............because, who couldnt our potato queen put in a great mood?!! HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO THE AMERICANS AND HAPPY LISTEN TO AMERICANS COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW MUCH THEY ATE TODAY DAY!
My heart is aching for that mom but I’m glad she found out, before being blindsided. She can be the one to serve him first, and she also gained a new friend. A true friend in fact because FRIENDS don’t hit on or get with your best friends husband, boyfriend or significant other. That shows that the friend wasn’t really her friend. Also that lady is most definitely not the maid.
I love hearing that the cheaters are caught. There is no reason for cheating. I hope the people they cheated on heal and have the best life. I love watching you tea videos Charlotte. ❤️💛
The douche taking his kids to meet up with his mistress hits close to home for me. It’s exactly what my dad did to me when I was young- he’d tell my mom all sorts of BS stories about how he was going to take me “to the park” or some other excuse to go for a hookup (and yes- he took me to her place and would go about sucking face in front of me at one point). I ended up telling my mom about it, which led to a bunch of drama culminating in their divorce not long afterward. And (in true Boomer fashion), he refuses to acknowledge that he did anything wrong to this day, claiming his infidelity was “not his fault” and that the problem was with my mom and how “angry” she was (not surprising in light of HIS behavior), which is obviously complete bullshit. (He would go on to get a one-night stand pregnant resulting in an out-of-wedlock birth years later with a buttload of drama to follow afterward, but that is another story). Through it all, my mom would continue pressing my brother and me to have a relationship with him, claiming some kind of emotional hole on our hearts if we didn’t. (Kind of an odd statement as I STILL want nothing to do with him even after the number of years I’ve had being in contact with him). The moral(s) of this story- 1) Don’t cheat on your spouse, especially if there are children involved. You have NO idea the kind of emotional damage you can cause with your own selfishness. 2) If you DO feel like sewing your oats instead of settling down, DO NOT get married and DO NOT have kids. Don’t even consider it. You clearly aren’t the marrying type, so don’t bullshit yourself or the one you’re seeing into believing you are. 3) If you ARE stupid enough to cheat, DO NOT involve your kids in your exploits. You will do them a MAJOR disservice (not to mention screw them up in a multitude of ways) when you do this. You will also expose yourself as a major piece of shit, too. 4) If you are the spouse whose been cheated on, and the both of you brought children in this world, DO NOT press them to continue having a relationship with the cheater. That decision is theirs and theirs ALONE, and you’re meddling in their lives only shows off the insecurities and codependent nature YOU have. You will only add to the frustration they will endure in having to deal with both you AND the cheater, as they will have to deal with the satellite drama the both of you cast out. 5) Don’t be surprised if the kids you subject to the drama you and the cheater created decide not to grant you any grandkids, as you clearly aren’t worth the effort. That’s the situation I’m dealing with at present- I’ll get the “when are you gonna give me grandkids” story now and again as if it’s my obligation to do so. And I give the both of them the same answer- “when he’ll freezes over”.
That first one was heartbreaking. My home was broken by a mistress. I know what it did to my sister and I and I saw what it did to my mom. I feel for that poor woman, especially with her being pregnant. But you know, hopefully one day she and her children will come to the same conclusion that my mom, my sister and I came to about my “father”… He’s a POS and you’re lucky he’s gone.
How they expect us to react: “I have a bed 😏” “Oh my goodness okay I’ll be coming over RIGHT THIS SECOND because unlike everyone else, YOU have a bed, and that’s so romantic 😍”
The first one broke my heart. Unfortunately, as a child of divorced parents, I know what it feels like for the other woman to laugh and feel no guilt about destroying a family. It really makes the child feel like the parent who cheated doesn't care about them and never did.
Gotta say, staying with a cheater is a bad idea. I did and the last several years were among the worst of my life. She wasn't repentant and wouldn't even try to work things out but she through a fit when I'd suggest leaving. I stayed for the sake of our two kids but I finally realized that staying is doing more harm than good. If someone cheats on you then do yourself a favor and get rid of them. You deserve better than that!
that story about the cheating husband with the best friend from VA, yeah...we don't claim them, man i feel sooo sorry for the mom, being pregnant, plus having 2 other kids, thats so sad and whats even worse is that it was her BEST friend.....oh man
Pregnant mom of 2 made me so angry at the cheating dad and best friend. I feel like I gotta go to a rage room, no joke. I hope SHE divorces HIM, gets full custody of the kids, cuts off Brittany, and makes a better life without them. They're awful and the entire story hits really close to home. I wish so so much better for her.
You can't keep children away from a father because he cheated on you. Children need their dad, no matter what. Its not their fault. Do not rob them of a father. A women deserves every right to be mad. But do not use the kids as weapons.
The amazing thing about all this to me is that there are plenty of people out there that will willingly opt for the open relationship. But these cheaters seem to get off on lying and treating their partners terribly. I guess it's just more proof that being single is better than being in a relationship with people of poor character. Also, you can't try to hold someone accountable for cheating if you've never communicated your expectations.
This is truly one of my favorite videos!! More people need to come forth, stop and stomp on cheaters to the point where people FINALLY get that your actions have consequences!! Stop cheating or stop getting into committed relationships. Just screw around for the rest of your life. Don't procreate and don't commit to anyone that way you can live life the way you always wanted.
@@rankincreates9500 sounds like you dodged a bullet bestie. Frozen burritos are to food what pick up lines are to dating. 😉 And then to not even be able to reheat it properly so that it’s evenly heated means you ain’t even trying.
For the person in the first story: though no longer referred to as alienation of affection in the state of Virginia you can take the other party in this to court for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress if you can prove that they intended to emotionally hurt you (not your marriage). Sounds to me like she was based on her laughing about you getting served divorce papers.
We do love seeing people protecting those being cheated on though! Serious props to folks calling these creeps out. If you want to cheat that badly just leave, you don't actually want to be in a relationship with that person.
My Mom's best friends live in another country. We don't see them often simply because of schedules and financial situations. I had to remember that to remember that it could be possible that only photos or videos were exchanged but not an in person meeting. Still must be awkward for the children to get pulled into such a situation.
Let me tell you, it hurts, it really is devastating but I’m glad that I found out. All the time I was pregnant with our third child and after she was born, my now ex husband, was having an affair with a 19 year old girl. He was 38! Even got his nipple pierced, it was drooping . I hadn’t really noticed that something was wrong because he was in a new job and I thought that I should be supportive 😡 Plus I was shattered as our eldest had her tonsils out a week before I gave birth and at 5ft 6, I weighed 5 1/2 stone after I’d given birth, because I was physically pushing myself to keep the children in all their after school classes, working and running a home
As someone who had their world torn apart by a cheating ex, I wish someone had told me so much sooner. A year long affair, getting the other woman pregnant less than a WEEK after my nanna died and then hid it until the woman was 33 weeks pregnant.
I’m so sad for the pregnant wife. It’s infuriating how there are so many shameless people out there, cheating on their spouses,SO or partner and sometimes it’s with someone the family personally knows
Happy Thanksgiving to all of my American friends! GOBBLE GOBBLE
I like your video and you very funny
I'm cooking a turkey for the first time. Wish me luck!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
Happy thanksgiving Charlotte!
Blessed fill your stomach between samhain and yule
The audacity of introducing the children to the mistress!!!!!!!!
But wouldn’t a best friend of 9 years already have met your children?
@@julieweismann6232 that’s what I thought! I didn’t understand that
@@mitytnavn Could be that they lived far apart and were only in contact through the internet.
I can relate to that. My dad cheated on my mom and to clear her head, my mom went on a girl trip to Peru. While she was gone, my dad had his "friend" Gabby over. There are literally pictures of me and my sisters in princess dresses with her. I definitely feel for the kids because they probably have no idea and it's gonna hit them hard when they're older
@@julieweismann6232 they could have lived in different states before moving to the same state. we don't know. I've had a best friend for almost 15 years and I've only met 3 of her 4 kids...because we live in different states and financially it hasn't been possible to meet up.
To the pregnant lady being cheated on.
Immediately change locks
Freeze your accounts.
Get a really GOOD divorce lawyer and take him for EVERYTHING. Mistress isn't going to like him so much when he's broke.
Ask your lawyer but find out if your state has "alienation of affection" laws. If so, sue the mistress for EVERYTHING she's worth.
Protecting your kids finances and financial future is your top priority right now.
THIS ^^^^^ please, we have to get this comment on the top!!
the best kind of revenge is to make a CLEAN CUT; milk them dryyyy and leave to live your best life (specially since there are children involved!!
it will set to them the boundaries and precedents of what not to accept and what to do
Everything right according the cheating husband.
SEND THIS TO THE TOP COMMENTS
This should be pinned
Def should be pinned
The pregnant mom made me so sad. She deserves better and I hope she finds it. Wishing her nothing but the absolute best.
Edit: Mom I'm famous
Saaaaaaame
You said it perfectly.
I actually cried Wishing Her The Best
I just don't get how that was her best friend, but it was her first time meeting her two children??🤔 Maybe that part was a misunderstanding...
Totally! Unfortunately it happens more often than we like to think about
Her eavesdropping for the entirety of the meal and taking notes and pics has me ROLLING!!! It’s such an evolutionary female brain skill. 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Foreal i would be listening like well aint that some shit and forget it as i heard it Lol
no its not. it called caring. for others
@@seeexy okay, calm down. The comment was lighthearted. It’s great what she did. Women rock. ❤
@Mona Lisa Vito 😂😂😂 you should calm down too. Are y’all seriously thinking my original comment was somehow misogynist or anti-woman? I came out at 16, I have only female friends. My girls are my life. I would have unalived myself without them. I am a guncle to their children. I didn’t mean “calm down woman” , I meant “calm down and plz don’t take the comment so seriously, it was just a silly comment about how badass women can be in ways that men typically are not. I didn’t even know the gender of the person I was responding to. I can’t tell if y’all are trolling me on this comedy channel I watch every night where I literally only post positive affirming comments.
@@MonaLisaVito the inability to control your emotions is what gives the rest of us women a bad name. so calm down, woman.
Sleeping with the husband of your “best friend” who is pregnant with her and her husband’s third child is absolutely disgusting
Yes it is. Can't wait till he knocks bestie up and cheats on her.
And cackling about it, too. What a piece of trash
Been there. Literally. Broke my entire soul but I’m okay now😊
@@katiemckay-pd4il I am so sorry and I am glad you're doing well now!
I literally cannot decide who I am more disgusted by - the "best friend" or the husband. Some people are just *foul* .
5:38 It’s not only that he cheated on his wife, it’s that he cheated on his pregnant wife with said wife’s best friend and introduced their children to the mistress. If the wife is somehow seeing this, just know that they don’t deserve you at all as a best friend and wife, I know I’m a stranger on the Internet but just know I wish you the best in life.
I totally agree. The only thing I don’t understand is why the mistress was meeting the kids for the first time if she is the mothers’s best friend? Wouldn’t she already have met them?
How is this woman the wife's best friend but is only just meeting their children????
No matter, Britany will learn soon enough one or both of the following things:
1. When you marry your affair partner, you’re creating a job vacancy.
2. How you got him is how you’ll lose him.
@@saltydog7038 maybe so!
@@mitytnavn could be the first time they meet her in the context of "dad's girlfriend" maybe? Like "I have a surprise, daddy has a girlfriend" and it turns out that it's aunt Britany or something. Wouldn't be the first time it happens.
The maid girl was probably mocking the guy's excuse. She most likely didn't know she was the side piece and is now refusing to go along with his lie in a sarcastic way. That is honestly the best way to handle the situation, instead of trying to justify his actions or say mean things to the wife.
It didn’t she have a wedding/engagement ring on?
I was seeing a guy for 2 years. It was a relationship I wanted to end after a year...but he insisted. He was annoying, boring and dumb. He was also average looking. But thought he was the shizzle.
I thought I should just let it fizzle out. I got really bored.
I happened to find out he had another address. Went there. Heard a woman's voice and kids. My heart sank because I hadn't got my head around my suspicions being true. He was married and once he knew I knew, I started a campaign of terror.....
I told him I wouldn't tell his wife. But I did. I told him it was over and All was forgiven.
But I told his entire family by emailing them copies of our communication. I told his neighbours. And I left hundreds of signs in womens toilets in a 10km radius, just warning single women that he is married.
Lol.
@@freecountry3544 that's the level of petty I live for. You go girl!!
@@BreakofDawn many self facing videos are mirrored. you hold up your left hand hand but it looks like their right hand when you watch it back.
Yeah she sounded really secrastic. it wasn't a "okay i'm the maid" thing it was a "seriously ? i'm the maid now ?" thing
Ladies, as a man who’s been married to his wife for 33 years after knowing each other for 4 months please know good men are out there. DO NOT settle for almost!
THIS! I have a good man and greatful that I do! Appreciate the good men out there ladies!
There are, but the RUclips drama around them doesn't exist. This is entertainment; we don't make generalizations about men for it, at least not the intelligent women here
@@LeynaraLarwenarenel you watch for the same reasons I do, to be entertained, and our lady Charlotte does that in spades. My comment is directed to those folks that need to be reminded, no matter what their situation.
@@old-school1969 Thank you needed to hear that. On the verge of breaking up with an uninvolved man. It hurts.
@@lifeexpression5036 Sorry you're going through that. Heart break is one of the hardest things to go through in life but let it hurt. After the pain, let it be the reason you have standards. Love yourself enough to not give your love out to just anyone but someone who is worthy of it. Took me 8 years to find my wonderful husband after a horrible, abusive relationship.
I want the first girl to understand that boyfriend or not, holding a person against their will is assault. He asked her multiple times to let him go and she kept physically restrainning him, which is all on video since he was recording. He found out he was cheating, he was being very polite, very calm, he didn't raise his voice, he didn't touch her, if for any reason he'd felt like it was dragging on for too long he could have very much called the police on her to demand they make her leave/help him leave.
Yeah all that…
Sad that today when you are a guy you have to go through all those steps and record it so you don’t risk your future on a lie after her fake tears are dried up and she become a revengeful harpy for daring leaving 😅😅.
Yup. No means no. Stop means stop. Let go means let go. Doesn't matter who you are, who the person not respecting your request is; size, sex, age. It could be holding, tickling, physically blocking, touching; any time you force yourself on someone else, It. Is. Wrong.
You *are* a dramatic dog
He was so enjoying the drama. He had ‘hand’ and she was a blubbering mess.
True I couldn’t help but laugh though. The look on his face and his tone 😂 but your right it is against the law he did the right thing to stay calm and record
The one with the children being present was way too real for me. My ex husband did the same thing to our daughter. The 3 of them went out to dinner together, went grocery shopping, and made dinner together in OUR home. All while I was working second shift to avoid having to pay for child care. When I found out about everything, my world crashed. I walked in on them twice. This was 5 years ago and I’m still recovering from it. I wish the best for anyone who had to go through this.
Man, number 2 is a REAL ONE! I love her so much. She literally said she will offer evidence in divorce proceedings. These are the kind of women we need more of
@ballasie boba yeah I bought it because this literally happened to me with my first born. It can happen to anyone.
The first tiktok had one more update - the wife moved in with her mom with her kids. And 'Brittany' the ex-best friend? Some of the followers FOUND HER! She had to private all her socials because people were spamming her for being a homewrecker. LOL
Brittany got we she deserved
How are they doing now? I wonder if they have any more updates.
I love that they found her!!!! Well done internet
My ex husband ended up marrying our housekeeper. I know he told her that if she stopped being pretty and thin and LET HIM HAVE A MISTRESS, she wouldn't be getting anymore spending money from him. The clincher is I'M THE ONE WHO MADE HIM A MILLIONAIRE. Within 2 years, he was broke, lost the businesses, the house, and the toys; he is now married to one of his mistresses. He thinks he's happy but he's miserable, while I'm so happy in my life now! I'm with a man who isn't a cheater, and we've been together for 14 years as of yesterday; married for 12.🥰
Good for you, bestie
The old Hip Hip Hooray is still relevant for you! The best revenge is living a good life! You go girl!!! Give your hubby a hug for me & tell him I think he's a Prince!! Hope & pray you have a very long & happy life together!
@@escapistfromhell1543 Thank youuuuuu fellow TaterTot! 🥔
@@helenbontje15 I told him and gave him a huge hug for you! Thank you for reminding me that I am worthy of this happiness! 🙏🏻 much love fellow Spudling! 🥔 💖
Best revenge!
The one with the pregnant mum hurt me on a personal level (my dad took his wanna be mistress to my birthday lunch when I was 13). But "Brittney" being the best friend explains why he was comfortable bringing the kids to meet her. She was already known to them. I hope this man suffers, his poor wife, his poor kids and his poor baby. I hope that mum gets support and thrives without that scumbag, and meets a great guy who will love her and the kids. My stepdad isn't perfect, but I thank him for taking care of me.
Shout out to all the ladies that won’t hook up with a guy in a relationship or with your best friend’s man. You’re the girlies that I want to be friends with. 🙌🏼
Amén!
I not a moral person, but i do have good character. I will never, have never wanted another person while in a relationship with anyone. I have wanted to leave the relationship because it wasn't working out, but have never been tempted by others during a relationship, not even during a breakup. Its just how I operate because it feels right to me and allows me to cleanly move forward.
My mum find out my uncle was cheating my auntie because of a photo he posted wearing sunglasses and you could barely see on the reflection a feminine arm with a blue silver bracelet. So she went through all his female friends on Facebook (this was like 10 years ago) and found a lady wearing that exactly bracelet. She cross some photos they posted with the same background and exposed him to my auntie. He was indeed cheating for almost a year with that woman. Men my 50 something mama has some FBI skills 😅
Is your Aunt her sister/sister-in-law or is your uncle her brother/brother-in-law?
Because if it's your aunt and mom are sisters than, yea. (Idealistically) The second you think you can mess with one sister(with or without them knowing) the other will come at you and expose you,
If your mom and uncle are siblings, she probably felt guilty because your aunt had to deal with her brother cheating on her, and it's the right thing to do.
Either way I adore your mother, we need more people like this cause cheaters can suck dic
And I feel bad for your aunt, I hope she's alright and doing better with someone else.
@@queerdeificeeli985 my Uncle is my mum's brother, but his -now ex wife- was my mum childhood best friend. My mum is closer to her than she was to my uncle. But to be fair before exposing him she gave him a chance to come clean himself, he didn't took it, he thought my mum was bluffing, well she wasn't. They are in good therms this days, both my mum with my auntie and my mum with my uncle. But it was some messed up times. My mum took care of my auntie during the whole divorce thing. Don't cheat kids.
@@anabee6545 Your Mom is a legend, and a true friend. Cherish her!
That is impressive detective work.
Once a cheater , always a cheater is what I learnt from watching Charlotte's videos . Kick them out at the very first instance and you save a lot of heartbreak later . The pain of loss is somewhat easier than the pain of regret for not acting sooner .
This may be often true, but not always. I once cheated at my ex by meeting someone (no sex). This is the only thing in my life I still am ashamed of. This only one time.
@@frodoamadeusgobel9749 I'll say this again. You may be an exception, but you aren't the rule. Its better to protect yourself from the general rule and let these people go than stick around for a potential exception
@@frodoamadeusgobel9749 you're right, when i seen the pain it caused my partner when i was inmy teens. I promised myself to never inflict that pain on anyone ever again.
Cheated on my ex boyfriend, he deserved it, would never do it to my husband
@@frodoamadeusgobel9749 same. When I was younger, I did cheat a few times. I would absolutely never do it now.
My first husband cheated on me with my “friend”. I was pregnant with me eldest daughter. (A joint decision)
I suspected something was up n asked him many times if he was cheating.
When he finally told the truth he said he wanted to be with her n didn’t want our baby.
A few weeks later he showed up saying he still wanted to be with me but I’d had enough and said there was no way he was coming back.
I was a bit devious tho n said I wanted to “be with him” one last time.
Next time I saw them both together I rubbed it in about how we were still sleeping together. The look on her face was all the revenge I needed😂.
A few months later I had my daughter.
She is 37 now and has never met him. His loss I say 😊
My now husband adopted my daughter,she says that he is her dad, always will be.
She has never showed any interest in meeting her “father”.
So having an affair with my so called friend (they split 3 years later when SHE cheated) has meant that he never got to meet my incredible, beautiful, clever and talented daughter who is a wife and mother now herself.
I've never really understood how you could have a relationship with a cheater and think it would work out. If you're willing to be involved in a cheating relationship then that already shows where your morals lie on that topic. You shouldn't be surprised if more cheating happens in the future with a different person.
@@dustinriley8059 I don’t think you read my statement properly.
My husband cheated on me whilst I was pregnant.
@@freyallarganswald4746 Sorry, I understood it. I wasn't clear enough in my writing. I'm using the ubiquitous "you" for all cheaters in general. I don't mean you personally. I consider the friend to be a cheater too because she was fully aware of the relationship between you two, so he shouldn't have been surprised when she cheated on him later.
@@dustinriley8059 ah I see, sorry for the misunderstanding.
Oh yes, I considered her behavior the most treacherous as I’d confided in her about my pregnancy and my early suspicions that my ex was cheating.
Looking back she showed no signs of guilt, embarrassment or nervousness. She obviously didn’t care that she was going to hurt me. She had decided she wanted him and my feelings or pregnancy didn’t come into it.
It all happened a long time ago now but life experiences like this have an effect on future relationships.
I had no relationships at all between my divorce and meeting my now husband 6 years later.
Initially I found it very hard to put my trust in someone again. It all worked out tho and we have been together 31 years now. 🤗
Cheaters never consider that their behaviors may have a lasting negative impact on their partner, children or other family member.
@@freyallarganswald4746 Yeah, I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I have a feeling you would go through that and more if that's what it took to have your daughter and current husband. I know I would.
I"ve been with my wife for 13 years, married for 9. I could NEVER even think of cheating on my soulmate. I love her more than anything. It would destroy the one thing I've wanted since I was a kid, a family. And besides cheating sounds hard as hell, like that guy said. And then you're single afterward. Being single and dating nowadays sounds like a literal nightmare.
Heres the mindset when you first cheat you get a rush of adrenaline like you skydive. Afterwards you start thinking how the hell is my spouse so ignorant about what destructive behavior i just did. Now you are hyper aware yet guilty at the same time so you degrade your spouse if they start getting weird vibes or you try to act absolutely normal whilst escalating the cheating since the hits just aint the same. From their place to a hotel to your car to even the bedroom you will do it and start thinking your spouse is so dumb for not noticing. Hence you get caught and get this desperation that you need to keep your spouse in your life since they are your drug. Their ignorant despair is your happiness so cutting them off is like putting them on cold turkey and the longer the relationship with main spouse was the greater the enjoyment of cheating was.
I absolutely love how this woman and other strangers took it upon themselves to help this woman find out what was going on and emotionally supported this poor woman in this time of absolute heartbreak.
Prayers to this women.
Anyone else out there helping to expose these cheaters is amazing to see. We need more of this. Supporting one another. Looking out for one another.
This happens a lot my ex husband cheated on me while I was 7 months pregnant.
His excuse was that I was " Too fat" and I was no longer in shape and he was not attracted to me.
It hurts that we as woman don't respect others homes if the husband is a pig expose him don't go with them.
FYI guys we get "fat " when we are pregnant because we have another human being inside our bellies.
AND EVEN IF WE ARE JUST 'FAT' ...IT IS NO EXCUSE TO CHEAT.
Break the F up!
what if you're fat and didn't get pregnant?
If he considers you "fat" it's because HE had a hand (or other body part) in that condition, and it's his fault you got that way. Plus, you'll only be "fat" for around 9 months.
@@SpamEggSausage: He promised to be with her for better or worse, and no one really likes a liar, not even other liars.
The nerve & how many of them gain "sympathy" weight, I'd slap the shit right out of my boyfriend and ask him so are you carrying another kid we can't afford 2 at once 😆😆
When I was 6 months pregnant TWO married women propositioned my fiancé for a three way. Luckily for me he's a good man and told them off. His exact words were. "I don't need to have a three way but even if I wanted one my fiancé is more than happy to take me out and find a girl as hot as she is."
It's so hard to find a good partner and my heart breaks for these people. Especially the woman who was pregnant.
Omg 🤣🤣🤣
sounds like something my man would say.
my boyfriend went on a house party once with two of his weirdo friends who are a bit younger, but the party was at the house of some girl and there were only a bunch of girls around. the two friends went there with the intention of getting laid (one of them in a relationship, ew) and the girls were.. let's say.. the type for it. when they arrived, my boyfriend realised the girls eyed him too much (his two friends look very average and he looks like some handsome main character from an east-asian drama, i don't even know how i landed this man), so when he introduced himself, he just said "I have a girlfriend of 12 years and I only care about her so don't even touch me" 🤣 one said "that's sad..." he just went "no it's not". he didn't last long there and his friends had to drive him home, best thing was they quickly drove back to the girls place to finish their business but they didn't open the door 🤣🤣🤣 me and my boyfriend celebrated over this too hard. i am lucky to have him. he always tells me honestly when someone flirted with him and we always laugh about how he managed to get rid of the girls. 😄
When I was a kid, my dad introduced me to a woman who I am now 90% certain was his mistress. Nothing was said outright, but the whole thing was so weird. She was so excited to meet me & I didn’t understand why his “friend” was so invested in this lunch. My dad had a history of cheating on my mom (they were divorced by then) &, at the time, was dating the woman who would become his second wife. While I didn’t understand what was happening as a kid, I figured it out as a young adult & let me tell you IT MESSED ME UP. I wish I could say this was the only realization from my childhood, but suffice it to say I haven’t had a relationship with my father in 8 years & never intend to.
Same situation with me, my dad stayed out of out lives for 20 years, then he had a stroke, so now we take care of him. I loathe him. lol.
Ahhh! me too!!!! I remember thinking how weird it was that ALL of my Dad's friends were girls. But it wasn't until I was older that all the little things painted a totally different picture. I remember helping my Dad pick out a gift and he said he was "saving it for a future gift for Mum so I had to keep it secret" SPOILER she never got it! They split up 10 years ago now though. So glad I don't have to be having that conversation with my mother 😅
@@lizzykayOT7 why?
My dad actually once took me on a dinner date with his secretary. I found out years later they were having an affair at that time. Truly disgusting how some people are heartless about breaking their wives and kids hearts
This is when social media is used for good. We should all do this. I myself had someone message me on IG after I was talking to someone they were with. I 100% had no idea I had met this guy on a dating app, and I told her she shouldn’t be putting up with this and that she’s way better than him and deserves better. This guy had done it before and when I found out I never messaged him again because this made me so mad.
I felt that pain of the pregnant mom and the cheating husband. I went through that and there truly are no words to describe that level of betrayl. However, hers went to another level I can not even fathom for her "best friend" to be the accomplice. Even having the kids involved... my goodness, my heart goes out to her. I pray she finds the healing she needs. 💛
One time I went on a tinder date. The date was a normal, casual dinner date until the end when it got crazy. We were sitting outside eating ice cream when a car came up and a girl comes and starts yelling at the guy. He tells me it's just his ex gf and that I should wait. So I sit while they yell at eachother in her car. He comes back out and tells me he has to go but that we should do this again some time. I tell him no way.
Months later after I've forgotten about that guy, I end up unknowingly working with that girl. She's like do you remember me? I'm like no. Then she tells me I went on a date with her bf that she was living with. Pretty crazy.
Dinner and a show. With bonus ice cream. 😂
Are y’all friends now?
@@chelsiemilstead7329 No. When I applied and got the job, she was a manager and told the hiring people she wouldn't work with me. Well I was already hired so I got transferred to a different location with no explanation. Months later she shows up at my location and is like do you remember me, I'm like no. She then told me her whole story and even told me how it was her who got me transferred. I told her he was just a random tinder date. He said he was single. I honestly didn't even remember his name. I only remember the story now because she made it drag on and effect my life for like a year.
But I don't think I ever saw her again after that one encounter. I guess she just wanted some closure.
@@talea9593 wow she’s kind of a bitch. Like I get being upset about it but it wasn’t on you, it was on the guy for cheating to begin with. Not like you had any control over the situation.
At least you could watch while eating ice cream 😁
That "maid" one infuriated me too, she ain't no damn maid obviously and rhe fact that she was laughing about it and lookin happy to be caught cheating
What? You've never heard of the "Hootchie-Mama Maid Service"? Their slogan is, "We polish knobs and get between your sheets!"
i think she was more incredulous at the fact that the dude called her a maid and she was being sarcastic about it
@@cajunseasoning1846 Yes. That's exactly what happened. I don't know how no one else picked up on this.
I think she knew about his girl cuz she said "I don't even know how she got in the room ". she was going along with what he said as to not get an AZZ whooping
So, I can relate to the pregnant woman. My ex of 4 years not only cheated on me with my "best" friend, who was married with 2 kids, but also slept with my other ex's gf at the time. Found out there were more women, including the one who got him arrested for naughty pic exchanges because she was only 13! Needless to say, I bounced! I was pregnant with my son through all of it (he has a registration attached to him for life!). Almost 10 years later & I am very happily married to a wonderful man who loves my children as his own!! Hang in there girl, it does get better, just takes a min! 💙
@@ballasieboba7135 Probably introduced them to the fact he was leaving. Lived this nightmare. It's a fucking awful feeling.
Oh god he was a paedophile on top of everything else?! Please tell me was arrested and on the SO list. 😒
I'm a 68yr old Brit bloke @ 3:50 I was in tears humans ability to rip the heart out of fellow humans knows no bounds
I'm so glad that I'm old, happily single & beyond wanting another relationship of any sort but I feel so bad for people trying to have a relationship these days. What a 💩 show 😬
What happens in the dark always comes to light. I found out my ex cheated on me and got another girl pregnant a few years ago right before Thanksgiving. He tried to act like the victim. I blocked him on everything 🤣
That's messed up
He'll cheat on her and have to pay child support. Small comfort, but something.
On Thanksgiving, we're shaming people who are ungrateful of their relationships.
Edit: Because people are seem to be thinking I intended this to be "shaming" the video and topic; I said the original sentence as to make note of the funny coincidence, not to try to comment on poor taste. I'd prefer to have the potato queen at the table in good company on Thanksgiving, even if not everyone celebrates it, and even then it just good company. Sorry for any confusion.
Revenge is a sweet dessert🥰
Yep. It's what they deserve.
Big Facts 💎
The Truth Shall Set You FREE ‼️
Be Grateful 😇
Just like Festivus 🥰
She is Canadian so it's not gobble season. :)
You know what? I'm glad it's so well documented these days. I feel so sad for the folks who have been cheated on, but the sooner they find out the quicker they can move on
My deepest respect and gratitude goes out to @Cristina. The way she treats this difficult situation is a model and an inspiration. This is how it should be done: with respect and compassion, care and empathy.
What I find worrying is when social media seems to become the modern form of the pillory. And that scares me.
Cheaters suck! I love good people exposing them. LOYAL PEOPLE UNITE!
Fortunately, Virginia is both "no-fault" and "fault" considering divorce, so his cheating will matter when family court decides what his child support payments will be. I don't know if Virginia grants spousal support, but I sure hope so!
Edit: I looked it up, "Alimony (spousal support) in Virginia is on an indefinite basis. Indefinite alimony can be raised or lowered over time if there is a change of circumstances."
I hope she does what I did, get the best divorce attorney possible! I live in California, a "no-fault" state. My ex thought that meant that no matter how abusive he was to me, it wouldn't matter in court. He stated this in emails, in one he said, "This is a no-fault state, so you might as well do everyone a favor and kill yourself!"
I got to keep the ranch and he has to pay me alimony until he retires, then I get half his retirement from Disneyland. He's worked there 42 years.
Bestie, I’m sorry for your experience. Alimony is designed for your situation where one spouse is abused or left destitute so I’m glad it worked as designed. From your stories, it sounds like you love your ranch and your goats.
@Saltydog good job blaming the victim 👏 🙄
We can only use the information we have from the video, and there's absolutely no indication the pregnant wife is any of the things you call her.
Good for you! I know a retired Disney employee and they have a very generous retirement program, so it will be a nice supplement. And I hope you enjoy the ranch!
I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 yes no fault states are a thing but they always have an exception for DV and I'm so glad you ended up taking him to the cleaners.
That doesn't really mean any exceptions were made. That's entirely the point of a no fault state. They follow the letter of the law when dividing up assets and deciding on alimony and child support. No fault just means the law will not assign blame to one of the parties and you're able to get divorced even if the other party doesn't want a divorce.
I was tearing up with the pregnant mom's message. I hope she gets everything if they divorce. She deserves the world!
The first lady has soooo much integrity. A real keeper for the guy lucky enough to be with her.
My heart goes out to the pregnant mom. I have been in a similar situation. My ex was on affair 5 or 6 (I wasn't aware of some of the affairs until after our divorce). It wasn't quite as bad because the woman wasn't a friend before the affair and I wasn't pregnant. But he did take my 4 kids to meet her on one of his dates. And I met her during the affair. He told me she was a coworker. The first time I met her he had told me she was looking for a better job but she didn't have a computer at home. He asked if he could bring her over to work on a resume and print it out. So I helped with the resume and she printed it out. She was young (early 20s) and turned out to need help with a lot of things. I figured we all need help when we are young at some point and was happy to give it. Being in my early 40s I had more life experience after all. We even gave her money once despite being below the poverty level ourselves. I had no idea she was not his coworker, but they were having an affair. I can't believe someone can sleep with a married man then use his wife like that! He only told me about the affair and that he had met her on Plenty of Fish after he found out she was catfishing him and several other men at the same time.
My heart broke for the pregnant mom!
I had a "best friend" like that. & that kind of betrayal is not something u can ever really get over, or get over very easily. I put myself in therapy for it 3 years ago. Still not fully healed, makes it hard to trust any of ur friends.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. That story made me tear up and something like that has never even happened to me. That kind of betrayal is freakishly cruel, you didn't deserve that.
Hugs ❤ I hope you can heal and find people who would never hurt you ❤
Sending you a hug 🤗
@@stellambabazi3070 thank u so much!
@@caitlynryder8639 I appreciate u! Thank u for taking time to comment back to me!
Love that women are sticking up for women more! We are too often in competition with reach other. We should have each other's back.
Can't wait for the update! To the pregnant woman, lots of love. We're all here for you
I had a good laugh when my dad cried after my mom showed him proof that one of his girlfriends had a boyfriend.
What a pathetic man
My heart was breaking and tears in my eyes as I know the pain; as I still remember the day when one of her coworkers told me that my ex was cheating and I sat there in a parking lot stunned and went thru the stages of grief. This is the best part of social media as it rips the curtain away. I will forever deal with the loss of trust and lack of loyalty..
I hate that cheating is treated by many as "normal" and that if we don't like cheating then WE are the crazy ones -_- RRRRRGH!!!
Cheaters are the crazy ones. Don't fall for the attempts to normalize it.
Getting cheated on, in a way, is a mild form of trauma. You'll never truly trust your partner ever again
I am loving the respectful and empowering way of the girl with roses!!!
I was with a cheater and when our daughter was about to turn 4 he kicked us out for a newly18 yr old (we were 29) (he purposely waited until then). That girl came out to get my baby and bring her out and look me in the face for a long time. If I had known her age previously he'd be on the offenders list. I'm so glad that part of my life is over. That was some stressful shit
Lesson of the day :
Do. Not. Cheat.
You. WILL. Get. Caught.
And Karma isn't a concept, it's the name of whatever baseball bat comes your way.
For legal reasons, that last part was a joke.
I love that last part! For legal reasons I say that that last part was a joke. Juuuust kidding🧐🤣🤣🤣
Same thing can be said for theft.
Do. Not. Steal.
You. WILL. Get. Caught.
There. Are. Cameras. Everywhere.
It's. Not. Worth. It.
Karma is definitely real, it's just another name for what most people call consequences.
I lived and worked in a very small town at my first teaching job (under 1000) and we found out that someone was cheating on holiday in Hawaii because someone else from our town saw them together. It’s a much smaller world than ever before.
Charlotte, I know the shocking pain when you find that someone you love and trust has been repeatedly cheating on you. It truly feels like a knife attack in the chest. My husband was later robbed and murdered by his mistress.
wow that's some major karma
People like this make me feel like a good person.
I literally cried when she was reading the response from the pregnant mom to everyone that helped her. I hope she finds her true happiness one day and can leave "Donald" and Brittany behind.
I hate social media usually but exposing cheaters is wholesome fun
Never forgive someone who cheats, no matter what your religious or cultural beliefs are. They will do it again and they will break your trust again, that's not what people who love you are supposed to do.
The one with the guy taking his kids to meet up with her best friend/his mistress gave me the chills. That pissed me off so much 🤬🤬🤬
“I’m the maid” 😂. She has like a gorgeous orange jump suit on and her hair and makeup are on fleek. IM LMAO !!!!😂
As someone who is currently going through a divorce due to multiple infidelities, this is gold and I love all these videos! The stories that have come out since we split/I kicked him out have been surprising and heart shattering. I spent 11 years with this dude, to have him play me for the last 7. He had two kids behind my back, a string of girls (possibly underage ones) and his parents took my car back from him to give it back to me.
I just called my soon-to-be ex out as much as possible and am awaiting our hearing this upcoming Monday (12/5). He is lucky all I did was kick him out, shut his phone line off our family plan (my uncle runs the cell plan) and kept the pets. I am extremely lucky we did not have shared property, finances or children.
These people are some heroes! I owe the friend who told me about this last time and the herpes a big one and I remind her daily!
*There are also lots of abuse that was going on that I am working through. He left me some deep scars.
I thought I'd never want to talk to the "other woman" too. But when I finally did talk to one, it was helpful. It made a difference that she didn't know about me. It was healing for the both of us. The movie "The Other Woman" (I think that's the title... Cameron Diaz), is actually very true.
Her daily uploads are pure Gold. Thanks Charlotte for the dedication. ❤️🤗
I'm extremely happy and appreciative of the fact that I'm happily married ,for 20yrs.. I'm so sad for the cheated and hurt.. All my love to them!!
Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone. My own story includes years of horrific DV. If I'm being 100% honest, the cheating messed me up more than the abuse ever did. My heart is with those who had their entire world shattered in a matter of seconds. 💜
Damn. I never thought about it like that, but I agree. The cheating felt so much worse! I hope you're doing well away from it! For me. I'm better. But it seemed like healing would be a never ending thing at first. Blessings.
People who witness cheating and expose it to help others are unsung heroes and should be given humanitarian awards.
Love that these females are looking out for others! We should all stand up for each other.
Every day around 6 pm I check in if Charlotte uploaded a video to take a little break from working on my thesis. This brings me so much comfort and keeps me sane!! Thank you so much!
It's 12:30 am right now 😅 i going to bed and this vid popped up 😆
I come to this Channel every day after work. It really helps with stres and anxiety. 😊
this is the first channel i open on youtube every morning. i start my day off with my daily vitamin Charlotte. it keeps me sane and puts me in the best mood for the day.............because, who couldnt our potato queen put in a great mood?!! HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO THE AMERICANS AND HAPPY LISTEN TO AMERICANS COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW MUCH THEY ATE TODAY DAY!
Happy Thanksgiving everybody! This year I am thankful for my family, my husband,
and Charlotte's videos. Love you, petty queen 💖👑
That woman was so kind, a real woman who has class and kindness!
My heart is aching for that mom but I’m glad she found out, before being blindsided. She can be the one to serve him first, and she also gained a new friend. A true friend in fact because FRIENDS don’t hit on or get with your best friends husband, boyfriend or significant other. That shows that the friend wasn’t really her friend. Also that lady is most definitely not the maid.
I love hearing that the cheaters are caught. There is no reason for cheating. I hope the people they cheated on heal and have the best life. I love watching you tea videos Charlotte. ❤️💛
Brittany has been real quiet since that truth bomb hit her neighbourhood.
The douche taking his kids to meet up with his mistress hits close to home for me. It’s exactly what my dad did to me when I was young- he’d tell my mom all sorts of BS stories about how he was going to take me “to the park” or some other excuse to go for a hookup (and yes- he took me to her place and would go about sucking face in front of me at one point).
I ended up telling my mom about it, which led to a bunch of drama culminating in their divorce not long afterward.
And (in true Boomer fashion), he refuses to acknowledge that he did anything wrong to this day, claiming his infidelity was “not his fault” and that the problem was with my mom and how “angry” she was (not surprising in light of HIS behavior), which is obviously complete bullshit.
(He would go on to get a one-night stand pregnant resulting in an out-of-wedlock birth years later with a buttload of drama to follow afterward, but that is another story).
Through it all, my mom would continue pressing my brother and me to have a relationship with him, claiming some kind of emotional hole on our hearts if we didn’t.
(Kind of an odd statement as I STILL want nothing to do with him even after the number of years I’ve had being in contact with him).
The moral(s) of this story-
1) Don’t cheat on your spouse, especially if there are children involved. You have NO idea the kind of emotional damage you can cause with your own selfishness.
2) If you DO feel like sewing your oats instead of settling down, DO NOT get married and DO NOT have kids. Don’t even consider it. You clearly aren’t the marrying type, so don’t bullshit yourself or the one you’re seeing into believing you are.
3) If you ARE stupid enough to cheat, DO NOT involve your kids in your exploits. You will do them a MAJOR disservice (not to mention screw them up in a multitude of ways) when you do this. You will also expose yourself as a major piece of shit, too.
4) If you are the spouse whose been cheated on, and the both of you brought children in this world, DO NOT press them to continue having a relationship with the cheater. That decision is theirs and theirs ALONE, and you’re meddling in their lives only shows off the insecurities and codependent nature YOU have. You will only add to the frustration they will endure in having to deal with both you AND the cheater, as they will have to deal with the satellite drama the both of you cast out.
5) Don’t be surprised if the kids you subject to the drama you and the cheater created decide not to grant you any grandkids, as you clearly aren’t worth the effort. That’s the situation I’m dealing with at present- I’ll get the “when are you gonna give me grandkids” story now and again as if it’s my obligation to do so. And I give the both of them the same answer- “when he’ll freezes over”.
I love that we have social media to make people accountable for bad behavior!
That first one was heartbreaking. My home was broken by a mistress. I know what it did to my sister and I and I saw what it did to my mom. I feel for that poor woman, especially with her being pregnant. But you know, hopefully one day she and her children will come to the same conclusion that my mom, my sister and I came to about my “father”… He’s a POS and you’re lucky he’s gone.
Aww, that first girl is so sweet and it was really nice that she was there for the wife ❤
How they expect us to react:
“I have a bed 😏”
“Oh my goodness okay I’ll be coming over RIGHT THIS SECOND because unlike everyone else, YOU have a bed, and that’s so romantic 😍”
I think that girl used to be on the React channel on RUclips, she looks very familiar.
@@kellygirlajI’m pretty sure you’re right! I knew I’d seen her but I couldn’t figure out from where 😅
Charlotte u made me smile .especially when my anxiety is crippling me. X
The first one broke my heart. Unfortunately, as a child of divorced parents, I know what it feels like for the other woman to laugh and feel no guilt about destroying a family. It really makes the child feel like the parent who cheated doesn't care about them and never did.
Gotta say, staying with a cheater is a bad idea. I did and the last several years were among the worst of my life. She wasn't repentant and wouldn't even try to work things out but she through a fit when I'd suggest leaving. I stayed for the sake of our two kids but I finally realized that staying is doing more harm than good. If someone cheats on you then do yourself a favor and get rid of them. You deserve better than that!
I absolutely love these women supporting and defending each other ratting out the cheaters
that story about the cheating husband with the best friend from VA, yeah...we don't claim them, man i feel sooo sorry for the mom, being pregnant, plus having 2 other kids, thats so sad and whats even worse is that it was her BEST friend.....oh man
For some odd reason, it often is. I even let mine stay at my home with her kids when her husband threw her out.
Pregnant mom of 2 made me so angry at the cheating dad and best friend. I feel like I gotta go to a rage room, no joke.
I hope SHE divorces HIM, gets full custody of the kids, cuts off Brittany, and makes a better life without them. They're awful and the entire story hits really close to home. I wish so so much better for her.
You can't keep children away from a father because he cheated on you. Children need their dad, no matter what. Its not their fault. Do not rob them of a father. A women deserves every right to be mad. But do not use the kids as weapons.
He really said "unhand me" 👏👏👏
Good for these Women putting this out there. And for being kind and letting them decide what to do instead of posting it all.
The amazing thing about all this to me is that there are plenty of people out there that will willingly opt for the open relationship. But these cheaters seem to get off on lying and treating their partners terribly. I guess it's just more proof that being single is better than being in a relationship with people of poor character. Also, you can't try to hold someone accountable for cheating if you've never communicated your expectations.
This is truly one of my favorite videos!! More people need to come forth, stop and stomp on cheaters to the point where people FINALLY get that your actions have consequences!! Stop cheating or stop getting into committed relationships. Just screw around for the rest of your life. Don't procreate and don't commit to anyone that way you can live life the way you always wanted.
I had a man try to lure me to his place with the promise of a burrito... Didn't work but is still hilarious
OMG 🤣🤣
What kind of burrito? Cuz some of them are really good! 😉
@@davidguidry657 agreed but this guy seemed like he would serve me a frozen burrito and it still be cold in the middle
@@rankincreates9500 sounds like you dodged a bullet bestie. Frozen burritos are to food what pick up lines are to dating. 😉 And then to not even be able to reheat it properly so that it’s evenly heated means you ain’t even trying.
It's an excellent day for drama!!! Love you, Charlotte!!!
For the person in the first story: though no longer referred to as alienation of affection in the state of Virginia you can take the other party in this to court for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress if you can prove that they intended to emotionally hurt you (not your marriage). Sounds to me like she was based on her laughing about you getting served divorce papers.
We do love seeing people protecting those being cheated on though! Serious props to folks calling these creeps out. If you want to cheat that badly just leave, you don't actually want to be in a relationship with that person.
Cheaters are the worst.
Is it a bit strange that Britney is this girls best friend and has never met her kids before ?
Yes, that is indeed strange. But I think it did say friend for nine years. So possibly friends through work. But even so, strange.
I thought the same thing!
I've had really good friends who haven't been to my house or met my pets before.
@@dees3179 did they mention how old the kids are? They might not be 9 yet
My Mom's best friends live in another country. We don't see them often simply because of schedules and financial situations. I had to remember that to remember that it could be possible that only photos or videos were exchanged but not an in person meeting. Still must be awkward for the children to get pulled into such a situation.
Let me tell you, it hurts, it really is devastating but I’m glad that I found out. All the time I was pregnant with our third child and after she was born, my now ex husband, was having an affair with a 19 year old girl. He was 38! Even got his nipple pierced, it was drooping . I hadn’t really noticed that something was wrong because he was in a new job and I thought that I should be supportive 😡 Plus I was shattered as our eldest had her tonsils out a week before I gave birth and at 5ft 6, I weighed 5 1/2 stone after I’d given birth, because I was physically pushing myself to keep the children in all their after school classes, working and running a home
the reaction of the woman being cheated on in the first segment, made me cry
The only reason I approve of tiktok is to let partners know theyre being cheated on haha
As someone who had their world torn apart by a cheating ex, I wish someone had told me so much sooner. A year long affair, getting the other woman pregnant less than a WEEK after my nanna died and then hid it until the woman was 33 weeks pregnant.
I’m so sad for the pregnant wife. It’s infuriating how there are so many shameless people out there, cheating on their spouses,SO or partner and sometimes it’s with someone the family personally knows
I celebrate both Canadian and American Thanksgiving. I am grateful for Charlotte’s videos both days.
I caught my husband cheating when I was pregnant, so that tiktok story really brought me tears
I legit started tearing up when the pregnant wife's message was read out. Like dayum. That must be so friggin devastating.
HE BROUGHT THE CHILDREN AROUND HIS MISTRESS🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
In the words of mama Charlotte....ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!