I will never ever be more grateful to a RUclipsr. Charlotte helped me catch my cheater and I did something about it! Thank you again for what you did for me! I had myself a red flag coat with all the red flags. Keep doing you! I wish you success in all you do. Vancouver Island is here for you!
A girl once called me wanting to fight over my abusive ex who I was only still with because I figured if he was with me he wasn’t hurting others. I told her he was abusive and she told me “oh we spoke about that he would never” so I was like ok sis you’ve freed me. A month later another girl called saying my ex knocked her up, I just gave her the other girls number to discuss 😂
Sweetie, you may never see this comment, but… if I’m reading this correctly, you “took one for the team” and stayed in an abusive relationship to spare others from being abused? 🥺 You also deserved to be free from abuse 😢
I appreciate that the last side-girl said sorry to the girl who invited all the "guys" on her EX-man's phone. They supported a fellow woman, not blamed them for what the man (cheater) did.
It's the "flew them out to meet his parents" part that got me. What kind of parent meets side-chick after side-chick after side-chick and doesn't pull their son aside?
My ex husband used to do this. My ex mil finally said, oh you must be Ashley, when I meet them the third time. Ik she knew who I was, she wanted my ex to stop and she actually liked me and didn’t think I deserved to be with her son. It’s a red flag when the parents try to save the partner. Or they ask why you’re with them and what you see in them. Learned that the hard way.
@@erikarussell1142 Holy cow! That's awful. I always see these kinds of stories as...well...funny. Never really figured that anyone'd truly be heinous enough to do half the stuff Charlotte puts in her vids.
@@OrdMandrell1 I mean, take Shit with a grain of salt, but yeah. Some people fr be wildin out out here. It’s bad. He was awful, I had a private investigator follow him for 2 months, and had proof of him cheating on me 24 different times in that 2 months. Best 600 I’ve ever spent. Not including the divorce papers for his ass. Oh the look on his face when the judge looked through the pictures and shamed him. Sweet sweet just desserts. Ah so tasty. 😋
Or at least the girl to say "he's been here with 4 other woman this year, so do with that what you will" I get you can't stop your kid from doing shit like that, but you can protect the girls from people like him.
@@AJTho amen to that. I’m just mad I didn’t listen. But then again, I would not have my amazing beautiful smart sassy talented funny passionate kind daughter. So, I honestly thank him for the lessons and the heart break. Because I got her out of it. And I wouldn’t trade her for all the gold and riches in the world. I swear, she is my sun, my moon, my earth, and my sky. That’s why I named her sky. She is my everything. I even have that (saying) tattooed on my leg. She brightens my whole life.
Mad respect to the third girl for calling out her ex and warning everyone about him. Cause when he's been with nine different women at the same time, there's no f***ing way he's not going to cheat again. If I was with that many women at once, I'd be paranoid that I would accidentally send a text to the wrong girl. Also the sheer audacity of the guy who was gaslighting his girlfriend so hard is unbelievable. Shame on him.
I know someone who does this kind if stuff and they wonder why I don't trust him and want to be his friend, especially after finding out he was using me as a side piece.
A woman will expose a toxic man and he’ll really turn around to every person he speaks to from then on and be like, “She’s crazy don’t listen to anything she says she’s a psycho.” 🙄
And here I thought she just kept the tackle box at home. But no. That was genius. That was like "mother came over for dinner and hid the plate under my "roommate's" pillow" level genius.
It was obviously fake, come on. It was so choreographed - as if everyone there would have kept their cool and played their part once they 'found out' what was going on. And then perfectly framing it for the slap at the end. riiiight.🙄
@@tamarak9393 1000% fake. The minute she said "this your little hoe dominos"...no woman is going to be called a hoe by some broad that's not her friend and she's just taking it like that. That's how I knew it was fake.
The way the cheaters always try to turn it around on their partners. ''Its your fault for finding out'', ''your fault for being nosy'', ''why did you check my phone?'' blah blah blah. I wish I could see how they spend the rest of their lives.
I find no joy in siding with cheaters, but going through someone’s phone is a form of abuse. Same with hiding little cameras around the house and hiring people to try to tempt your person to cheat… If you can’t trust your partner, you need to either have an open, honest conversation or you need to leave
@@PotatoCat4444 fellow Survivor here. I dont see any problem sharing things, if their hiding their phone they dont want you to find SOMEthing you wont like. O.o
@@nervousbreakdown711 and I agree with Kamila.. you need to stop using the word 'abuse' so fking loosely. It's not abuse. It's more like.... double checking and seeing if your paranoia and anxiety is GOING TO EAT YOU ALIVE that your partner is cheating :/
And as a woman, to all the fellas out there who have been hurt/cheated on too, my heart goes out to you too. To everyone who has been hurt by another you were only trying to love, I am so sorry, I've experienced it too. 3 years later and I've moved on from the hatred of him, but the emotional pain and distrust of everyone remains.
Do you think cheating is new? That cheating on this level is new? It’s just easier to trace what someone is doing now. Or…is that that you meant about it being hard?
Honestly, getting all your sister cheatees together for a party + then ambushing the cheater together as a single united force is perfection, & exactly the sort of energy I hope we can all expect from 2023.
Cheaters are the worst. I am in a 13.5 year long relationship…we have 2 kids and a home and run a business…he never physically cheated, but he was actively pursuing multiple other females for about 8 years of our relationship. I cannot tell u how hard it is to leave when there are children involved. I chose to stay. He suggested couples therapy and he truly has made a total 180. This man is the love of my life.. when I found the proof of all his shady ways, a part of my soul was destroyed and I will never be able to get that back. Some days I feel so worthless. Some days I feel stupid for choosing to work on our relationship. I feel like I made the right decision but the pain is still real and I feel like an idiot. But I truly love this man. Why can’t I just walk away? I ask myself that often. I am happy to say he’s been amazing since this all happened. It’s been about a year and a half since my reality exploded. I still hurt and I still cry when the things he was telling other females replays in my brain. Cheating is a horrible thing to put a person through.
Cheaters don't stop, they just get better at hiding it. If you feel like you should walk, go to theraphy on your own and talk about it. It sounds like you have hidden resentment for him breaking your trust and thats why you cannot move on. Its ok, not to be ok. Just don't stay in that situation. I hope you figure it out and find a way to move on for the better, for you. ❤😘
Heal yourself, then leave him. He has broken trust and disrespected you and your family. You don't have to leave right away, just heal, prepare, Then leave.
8 years of trying to cheat, but not actually cheating. Do you hear what you're saying. Sorry boo. He cheated. You can't trust what he says. Talking to other women IS cheating, but I'd bet a million $ he physically cheated. Leave his nasty ass! I know how you feel. You deserve better. Us ladies need to stop settling, just cause we love someone. I hope you heal soon. 💗
when the guy at 11:04 said "2 better than 1" i was BEGGING her to reply "bet 1 woulda been better than 0" and BLOCK. like stop engaging with him girl loool
Poor cheaters! I feel so bad for all these cheaters being exposed online. Maybe they can all form a support group with Ned Fulmer from the Try Guys and we can play them a symphony of tiny violins.
The tackle box debacle sent me into gales of laughter!!! As soon as she asked him if he had enough stuff in his tacklebox and then he mentioned red pyjamas I knew what was coming! Hilarious!! Methinks that the gentleman doth protest too much!! 😂😂 Thanks for the laugh!!! 😂😂
"It's not my fault" *Instant backhand* - Yeah I'd have a similar reaction. Nice to see all the women sticking together and supporting each other against the cheater.
My cousin back in the 90s got exposed for seeing 4 different women behind his girlfriends back by a mutal friend of two of his side pieces. They came over to my bio-dad's house drug my cousin out and laid into him. What made it better was they called his girlfriend to come over. Me and my brothers got front row seats to the show. Long and short he got dumped and none of us felt bad for him
Yeah, the utter entitlement in that boy was strong. I'd have been unable to resist either popping him one in the kisser &/or kicking him out of my truck, house, and life.
Some people I dated in the past ALWAYS complained that I wouldn’t text or call back especially when at work. Keep in mind, I have a child AND I’m a swim instructor. How am I supposed to keep in contact when in the water. About 3 relationships ended over that stupidity. If I would’ve known they needed THAT much attention, I would’ve never spoke to them. #highmaintenance
For real! My ex was so insecure and needed constant communication. Got worse and worse to the point I couldn't do anything for myself. Constantly accused me of cheating. I'm a very outdoorsy person and I couldn't go hiking or go do yard work, I couldn't nap or read or watch things or crochet, couldn't go to bed early, even going grocery shopping with my mom was a problem. Basically anything that wasn't undivided attention on him and he would freak out and start making up all this bs about how I must be cheating. You're going to bed early? He would say you've got some guy coming over. Going out with mom? Yeah ok, "mom". Finally broke up with him because of his serious mental illness that he refused to get any help for and somehow he managed to convince himself that there was another guy. Dude was EXHAUSTING!
When that guy said 2 is better than 1, she should have replied "ok, I will get another one too!" Usually those guys do not want their girlfriends dating other guys, but they want the liberty for themselves.
I feel so bad for the cheaters. imagine having to face the consequences of your messed up and morally inept actions that also affect others. all cheaters are CLEARLY the victim here.
I appreciate what you do Charlotte! The only time I can find myself genuinely laughing after my bf of 2 years dumped me for another woman is when I watched your videos. I'm getting over this heartache by going through it and I appreciate the reprieve from the pain.
My grans first husband cheated on her and she kicked him out and divorced him and back then if was froud upon to be a single mum with kids especially because she was Catholic the priest even came to her door to convince her not to kick him out but she stood her ground people used to look at her and weren't very nice because she was a divorced single mum she was such a strong women never let anything stop her miss her alot☺️💗
@explorer well basically blaming my gran for her husband cheating and saying she wasn't doing enough therefore it was her fault he was unfaithful it's is absolutely disgusting guys would have each others back because probably alot of them were doing it behind their wife's backs
@@patriciaphillips1449 Unfortunately, some Catholics believe that the adultery exception applies to the engagement period, not the actual marriage. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense when you look at it really hard, but that's how most of them used to be and some still are.
About the phone charger camera that can also be used to find criminals that they break into your house as well. They seems like a pretty useful things to me not just to catch cheaters
TL,dr: My older brother was dating a woman who had a baby and was cheating on her husband and framed me for drinking alcohol because he didn’t want to look bad in front of her parents. I almost got kicked out of my house as a result. My brother started dating a girl he had dated in high school. She was married with a 3 month old baby and had my brother around her baby and everything. Her parents came to our house (my brother was living with us at the time) with her to spend the 4th of July. I was 18 and went to this huge local park that does fireworks for the 4th with a few of my friends. I get a call from my mom who is there with my brother and his girlfriend and innocently answer it. She started going off. She said she found a nearly empty bottle of tequila in the pantry and asked my brother (who was 30) about it and he said it was MINE. He threw me under the bus and I wasn’t even crossing the street. Why would a 30 year old man frame his 18 year old sister for drinking a giant 1.5L of tequila causing her to almost be kicked out and homeless? Because he didn’t want to look bad in front of his girlfriend’s parents. His girlfriend who was MARRIED with a THREE MONTH OLD BABY. I don’t think a grown man drinking alcohol is something they were worried about. Then he managed to actually get me kicked out like a month later by telling my mom that I thought she was a horrible mother and a slût which are things I have never said. I would get blamed for him stealing money out of her safe, him smoking w33d, when he would eat the last of my mom’s special diet food that I didn’t even like. Ugh I hate them I’m so glad I went NC
Speaking from a similar experience, while you may have left, he hasn't changed, and those things he framed you for will continue to happen, only you aren't there as a scapegoat. He royally screwed himself in the long run, because one day they'll wake up and realize a liar and manipulator turned them against someone they love, and that person is the one truly responsible for all of the frustration and misery and inconvenience. They'll never think of him the same or trust him. I hope one day they apologize to you, not that you need to forgive, but because you deserve an apology for not being believed. I'm really glad you got out of that situation and are in a much better place now
@@hannahmonroe3094 Thank you for your kind words. You’re right, he will never change, neither will my mother. I don’t think any amount of apology will ever make up for the hurt I’ve had to go through, but it would be nice to have it acknowledged that I was treated badly and never given the benefit of the doubt. I could write a whole series about my family 😭
I so agree with you on chatting. The more people I am having conversations with at the same time the more stressed out I become. I thought I was the only one.
I don't ever really answer messages and if I don't answer during the day I'm either sleeping, reading, horseback riding, swimming, or my phone is dead.
They also think if they do get caught they can gaslight, browbeat and love bomb their way out of the consequences. Sad part is they usually can for awhile.
I love when the chicks get together to shame the guy 😍 We were raised to blame the other girl and to get our man back, but honestly now if a chick can get my man, I thank her for taking my trash out, it's a favor she would do to me.
I get stressed out by work group chats. I can’t even imagine juggling 9 “partners” at a time. Married 26 years to 1, ONE, man! That is enough man for me! 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
For tiny reference, BPD doesnt mean bipolar disorder, it means borderline personality disorder. Just kinda bugged me as someone with bpd because a lot of people confuse them ^^ And that second video... talk about ending the video one second before disaster
@@cdnerin no, it doesn't. If you look up BPD, it will come up as borderline. BPD is the term professionally used for borderline. Bipolar is called just that - bipolar.
Boy toys were common among some queen regnants, including Catherine the Great of Russia, Queen Isabella II of Spain, and Queen Anne of UK (though hers were more girl toys). Some queen consorts also had boy toys, but since their husbands were in power, they were sadly stripped of their crown if they engaged in "inappropriate behaviour," like Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark. Love the historical double standards.
Hahahaha I'm crying laughing rn, I'm watching this with my headphones on so my little one can't hear it and as Charlotte is asking about the 9 women my 3 year old says sharing is caring 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying of laughter 😂
Dude after I got to the part with the hidden camera(charger box) I told my buddy Amber about it, her boyfriend is always bringing people to her house when she’s at work and never telling her about it. She has to hear it from neighbors or friends passing by her apartment building and we both think it’s fishy af. So she’s probably gonna get one and see what’s up, and why he’s bringing secret people to the apartment. Wish her luck y’all!
Yep, its every generation! LOL! I am 60 and it has been happening since I was old enough to date. LOL! The last 30 years have been the worst. That is why I don't date and I am happily single, alone and free. Nothing like not having not to worry about a cheater in your life. I love myself more than that drama.
My husband works in a secure area. He is not allowed to have any electronics anywhere in the area. So yeah there is a way to not be available. However, he calls regularly to check in on us and I can email him (work email) and he will call as soon as he gets it. The major difference is I trust him.
Right? Like I'm sorry but no not everyone is reachable 24/7. Some people don't even have cell phones. I don't have service on mine I use a free internet based texting app so my phone only works if I'm on wifi. When I leave my house I am unreachable. Sometimes I go hiking out in the woods all day, or I go out shopping with my mom. Definitely completely normal to not be able to reach someone for a few hours. This was something my insecure abusive ex used to manipulate me about. Got to the point that I couldn't do anything at all because he needed constant communication throughout the day. Even when he was at work I wasn't able to do anything for myself. Like literally I couldn't watch a stream/movie or take a nap or go to bed early or go hiking, even going out grocery shopping with my mom he would constantly accuse me of cheating/lying. It was exhausting. DON'T DATE INSECURE PEOPLE! IT WILL NOT GET BETTER!
It's the way Charlotte said, "Who's there?" - "It's the consequences of your actions" for me. 😅 Literally don't know what I'd do without your videos, thank you! 💓
You deserve a man who will commit to you. It's that simple. So if - or when - that man shows he can't commit, find another one. Keep going down the line until you find a man who will honor you with his body, the same way you honor him with yours ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm that "Unavailable" right now.... I left my phone in bed to sleep this morning, so it has been up there for hours. I'm also "Unavailable" most of the week, I leave it in the car while working and sometimes forget to bring it in at night. I'm over 50 - I said that I would never have that thing connected to me - I like the wall phone generation so much better. 🤣😂🤣
Me too! I love being "unavailable". I have a landline with an answering machine... if someone needs to get a hold of me... they can leave a message. I don't need to be glued to my phone/tablet/computer 24/7... I got better, more fun things to do! But watching Charlotte is one of those fun things!
This was a juicy one! I ❤️ your wit, @charlottedobre. "Knock knock!! It's the consequences of your actions." Gold! I'm going to try to remember that one.
Bama is the way locals say Alabama. Been here for 12 years and hear it often enough that I’ve adopted it without realizing it. I agree with the chat messenger, I can’t do more than two or I get anxiety beyond the max. I don’t know how folks have the memory, patience or energy to do it let alone to do it to cheat.
@Joan-Elise Butler yes, you can have what used to be called manic-depressive disorder and BPD (borderline personality disorder) at the same time. There are very few things you CAN'T have at the same time. hell, you can have conflicting disorders like Autism and ADHD at the same time. You could even have OCD, too.
@CharlotteDebore I love your videos! I had a rough day. Your humor and reaction videos turned my day around. Thank you for bringing the jaw dropping-hilarious content! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The 'I don't even like 9 people' have never related to something so much 😂 I can't even do 2 conversations with people I like without feeling anxious 🤣
Charlotte: 9 ongoing conversations, I turn my phone on silent. Also Charlotte: We all have time to check our texts! 😅 I'm just messing around! I agree to both statements, even though they're slightly contradictory
These types of videos keep confirming what I believe. Communication is a key to a happy relationship. It won't kill you to say "I'm not happy [for what ever reason]" . If you feel the need to cheat, you are slowly but surely becoming a pile of dung wrapped in gold foil and it's your own fault and with today's technology "The path" will find it's way back having dragged all amount of names back to you. You can't hide cheaters, you can run but the fiber cable....will always be watching.
For everyone wondering: Walgreens is a pharmacy in the US and plan b (the morning after pill) is $54.99
I was searching the comments for this answer, I'm in the UK. I even Googled it. THANKS FOR THE ASSIST, CHAR
Such a sad world we live in. 😔
THANK you! Us innocent folks over here googling "What costs $54.99 at Walgreen's?" for 10 minutes...
I was about to ask. Thanks!
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh, I was googling it but i'm in texas, so probably they had to remove it since last year
That pre slap cut is EVERYTHING.
Sombody needs to frame that for her
She wound up for a year. That had to have hurt.
Fake AF. Come on, people.
@@Erizedd yeah, dammit…i was waiting for this comment.
When he said "not my fault" I knew something bad was going to happen for him, she was pissed when he said that 🤣🤣🤣
I will never ever be more grateful to a RUclipsr. Charlotte helped me catch my cheater and I did something about it! Thank you again for what you did for me! I had myself a red flag coat with all the red flags. Keep doing you! I wish you success in all you do. Vancouver Island is here for you!
What did you do!? Oh spill the tea! Please, spill the tea
I’m in the comox valley :)
I'm just gonna leave my comment here in order to get notifications and keep track of the tea being spilled.
@@davidmolina3556 same. Spillll itttt
Good for you!!!!!
The girl packing his pajamas in his tackle box is genius! That was good!!! 😂
Sorry to tell you, it's word-for-word from an old joke book
It's staged. This guy makes different tiktoks.
A girl once called me wanting to fight over my abusive ex who I was only still with because I figured if he was with me he wasn’t hurting others. I told her he was abusive and she told me “oh we spoke about that he would never” so I was like ok sis you’ve freed me. A month later another girl called saying my ex knocked her up, I just gave her the other girls number to discuss 😂
Epic! 👑
It’s like networking but worse, lol! Glad you busted that girl’s bubble
Sweetie, you may never see this comment, but… if I’m reading this correctly, you “took one for the team” and stayed in an abusive relationship to spare others from being abused? 🥺 You also deserved to be free from abuse 😢
I appreciate that the last side-girl said sorry to the girl who invited all the "guys" on her EX-man's phone. They supported a fellow woman, not blamed them for what the man (cheater) did.
And same to the girl who threw the party. She didn't blame the other women, she even gave them their own introduction.
Lol you realize that was a skit?
This happens tho, and usually not as amicable.
@@marielatorres1200 I saw this skit. Good skit but fake as hell and I can’t believe that people think it’s real!
@@sarahobah and they didn't attack back they all went after the one who's in the wrong
It's the "flew them out to meet his parents" part that got me.
What kind of parent meets side-chick after side-chick after side-chick and doesn't pull their son aside?
My ex husband used to do this. My ex mil finally said, oh you must be Ashley, when I meet them the third time. Ik she knew who I was, she wanted my ex to stop and she actually liked me and didn’t think I deserved to be with her son. It’s a red flag when the parents try to save the partner. Or they ask why you’re with them and what you see in them. Learned that the hard way.
@@erikarussell1142 Holy cow! That's awful. I always see these kinds of stories as...well...funny. Never really figured that anyone'd truly be heinous enough to do half the stuff Charlotte puts in her vids.
@@OrdMandrell1 I mean, take Shit with a grain of salt, but yeah. Some people fr be wildin out out here. It’s bad. He was awful, I had a private investigator follow him for 2 months, and had proof of him cheating on me 24 different times in that 2 months. Best 600 I’ve ever spent. Not including the divorce papers for his ass. Oh the look on his face when the judge looked through the pictures and shamed him. Sweet sweet just desserts. Ah so tasty. 😋
Or at least the girl to say "he's been here with 4 other woman this year, so do with that what you will" I get you can't stop your kid from doing shit like that, but you can protect the girls from people like him.
@@AJTho amen to that. I’m just mad I didn’t listen. But then again, I would not have my amazing beautiful smart sassy talented funny passionate kind daughter. So, I honestly thank him for the lessons and the heart break. Because I got her out of it. And I wouldn’t trade her for all the gold and riches in the world. I swear, she is my sun, my moon, my earth, and my sky. That’s why I named her sky. She is my everything. I even have that (saying) tattooed on my leg. She brightens my whole life.
Mad respect to the third girl for calling out her ex and warning everyone about him. Cause when he's been with nine different women at the same time, there's no f***ing way he's not going to cheat again. If I was with that many women at once, I'd be paranoid that I would accidentally send a text to the wrong girl. Also the sheer audacity of the guy who was gaslighting his girlfriend so hard is unbelievable. Shame on him.
I know someone who does this kind if stuff and they wonder why I don't trust him and want to be his friend, especially after finding out he was using me as a side piece.
@@karentucker2161 You made the right call. Especially if he was using you as a side piece, I would have other things to worry about in that scenario.
@@karentucker2161 I have a friend who just sleeps with everyone now he has hiv and herpes I stay clear of people like that I value my health and ph
A woman will expose a toxic man and he’ll really turn around to every person he speaks to from then on and be like, “She’s crazy don’t listen to anything she says she’s a psycho.” 🙄
Yep 🤯
I mean women do the same thing and tell everyone he is abusive so nobody believes him. 😂😂😂
@@angeluss28 Touché
And here I thought she just kept the tackle box at home. But no. That was genius. That was like "mother came over for dinner and hid the plate under my "roommate's" pillow" level genius.
It's fake. The whole thing is from a joke book
@@PhoenixValkyrie Fine, but it's still genius.
That "surprise" party. She spilled ALL the tea to his side pieces who didn't seem to know they were side pieces. They all deserve better.
I thought it kind of looked fake.
It was obviously fake, come on. It was so choreographed - as if everyone there would have kept their cool and played their part once they 'found out' what was going on. And then perfectly framing it for the slap at the end. riiiight.🙄
@@tamarak9393 1000% fake. The minute she said "this your little hoe dominos"...no woman is going to be called a hoe by some broad that's not her friend and she's just taking it like that. That's how I knew it was fake.
Literally faker than the Kardashians.
It's obviously staged
The way the cheaters always try to turn it around on their partners. ''Its your fault for finding out'', ''your fault for being nosy'', ''why did you check my phone?'' blah blah blah. I wish I could see how they spend the rest of their lives.
I find no joy in siding with cheaters, but going through someone’s phone is a form of abuse. Same with hiding little cameras around the house and hiring people to try to tempt your person to cheat…
If you can’t trust your partner, you need to either have an open, honest conversation or you need to leave
@@nervousbreakdown711 no it's not a form of abuse. stop using the word abuse for everything, you are only taking away from actual abusive behaviors.
@@PotatoCat4444 fellow Survivor here. I dont see any problem sharing things, if their hiding their phone they dont want you to find SOMEthing you wont like. O.o
@@nervousbreakdown711 trust is earned..not freely given..
@@nervousbreakdown711 and I agree with Kamila.. you need to stop using the word 'abuse' so fking loosely. It's not abuse. It's more like.... double checking and seeing if your paranoia and anxiety is GOING TO EAT YOU ALIVE that your partner is cheating :/
To all ladies out there. My heart goes out to you. I couldn’t imagine being in the dating scene in this day and age it is so hard.
And as a woman, to all the fellas out there who have been hurt/cheated on too, my heart goes out to you too. To everyone who has been hurt by another you were only trying to love, I am so sorry, I've experienced it too. 3 years later and I've moved on from the hatred of him, but the emotional pain and distrust of everyone remains.
It’s a dating cesspool. Not a dating pool.
Good thing I'm not. The only time I leave the house is work, the store, appointments, and haircut.
Do you think cheating is new? That cheating on this level is new? It’s just easier to trace what someone is doing now. Or…is that that you meant about it being hard?
@@molly1532 don’t get me wrong, I’m happily engaged. Don’t let this world make you jaded.
The "so.. I didn't wanna have to DEAL with you" hits home for me. My ex used to do this to me ALL THE TIME. Like I was the problem.
Honestly, getting all your sister cheatees together for a party + then ambushing the cheater together as a single united force is perfection, & exactly the sort of energy I hope we can all expect from 2023.
“I don’t even like 9 people” lmao I felt that! Love that chick for that🫶🏻✌🏼😁🤣
"I don't even like 9 people..." Say it again, girl! How TF do people cheat, especially with MULTIPLE people??
Narcissistic personality disorder pushes people to do that because of their never-ending need of attention, love and validation.
@@kleineoOoStern That's so true. And so sad!
the probably don't work much, because I'd never even have the time
@@OrontesRM exactly!
It sounds exhausting
"When cheating becomes your hobby that's a special kind of evil" - Charlotte . 🤠
Cheaters are the worst. I am in a 13.5 year long relationship…we have 2 kids and a home and run a business…he never physically cheated, but he was actively pursuing multiple other females for about 8 years of our relationship. I cannot tell u how hard it is to leave when there are children involved. I chose to stay. He suggested couples therapy and he truly has made a total 180. This man is the love of my life.. when I found the proof of all his shady ways, a part of my soul was destroyed and I will never be able to get that back. Some days I feel so worthless. Some days I feel stupid for choosing to work on our relationship. I feel like I made the right decision but the pain is still real and I feel like an idiot. But I truly love this man. Why can’t I just walk away? I ask myself that often. I am happy to say he’s been amazing since this all happened. It’s been about a year and a half since my reality exploded. I still hurt and I still cry when the things he was telling other females replays in my brain. Cheating is a horrible thing to put a person through.
Trying to cheat is just as bad, PLUS embarrassing for failing so miserably.
it's going to take a long time for him to earn your trust back.
Hopefully he never does anything like that ever again.
Cheaters don't stop, they just get better at hiding it.
If you feel like you should walk, go to theraphy on your own and talk about it. It sounds like you have hidden resentment for him breaking your trust and thats why you cannot move on.
Its ok, not to be ok. Just don't stay in that situation.
I hope you figure it out and find a way to move on for the better, for you. ❤😘
Heal yourself, then leave him. He has broken trust and disrespected you and your family. You don't have to leave right away, just heal, prepare, Then leave.
8 years of trying to cheat, but not actually cheating. Do you hear what you're saying. Sorry boo. He cheated. You can't trust what he says. Talking to other women IS cheating, but I'd bet a million $ he physically cheated. Leave his nasty ass! I know how you feel. You deserve better. Us ladies need to stop settling, just cause we love someone. I hope you heal soon. 💗
when the guy at 11:04 said "2 better than 1" i was BEGGING her to reply "bet 1 woulda been better than 0" and BLOCK. like stop engaging with him girl loool
Poor cheaters! I feel so bad for all these cheaters being exposed online. Maybe they can all form a support group with Ned Fulmer from the Try Guys and we can play them a symphony of tiny violins.
They are going to open podcasts .
@@lucylaurent134 I died 😭
😂😂😂
Then cheat on the support group with OTHER support groups
Person: *cheats*
Same person: "It's not my fault! Why did *YOU* find out???"
Yup, the one who I caught red-handed cheating on me tried exactly that game. Blamed me for finding out and blamed me for his cheating. Pretty classy!
The fact that one dude said he didn’t want to deal with his girl. If my boyfriend ever says that to me, even hes not cheating, there would be issues
The tackle box debacle sent me into gales of laughter!!! As soon as she asked him if he had enough stuff in his tacklebox and then he mentioned red pyjamas I knew what was coming! Hilarious!! Methinks that the gentleman doth protest too much!! 😂😂 Thanks for the laugh!!! 😂😂
"It's not my fault" *Instant backhand* - Yeah I'd have a similar reaction. Nice to see all the women sticking together and supporting each other against the cheater.
As it should be!!! women should stick together!
My cousin back in the 90s got exposed for seeing 4 different women behind his girlfriends back by a mutal friend of two of his side pieces. They came over to my bio-dad's house drug my cousin out and laid into him. What made it better was they called his girlfriend to come over. Me and my brothers got front row seats to the show. Long and short he got dumped and none of us felt bad for him
Your cousin got exactly what he deserved. What a slimeball. Hope all of those ladies are doing well.
That's awesome! I hope he learned his lesson.
@@Carpathianpixie he has but it took 2 more times of cheating to do it
The audacity to have her pack for his trip to cheat and for him to be mad “she forgot” his red pajamas pants.😢😮
And demanding a ride home....no, buddy, you're walking allllll the way back to the trash bin you came out of
And the fact that that's how she caught him
This one is a spoof I think. He is a medical student who makes joke videos with Maria on social media
That one seemed fake to me. Like the guy was trying to act but isn’t a very good actor.
Yeah, the utter entitlement in that boy was strong. I'd have been unable to resist either popping him one in the kisser &/or kicking him out of my truck, house, and life.
That fishing guy is a classic.. body language, speech patterns, and the blaming & yelling! Love that... Glad you got out bb
The fishing guy one is a tale that has been around for years, pretty sure they just acted out cause it was word for word the same.
That was so fake. Even the speech sounds like acting. Along with the birthday party one.
Why do so many people believe these fake staged videos?
Some people I dated in the past ALWAYS complained that I wouldn’t text or call back especially when at work. Keep in mind, I have a child AND I’m a swim instructor. How am I supposed to keep in contact when in the water. About 3 relationships ended over that stupidity. If I would’ve known they needed THAT much attention, I would’ve never spoke to them. #highmaintenance
For real! My ex was so insecure and needed constant communication. Got worse and worse to the point I couldn't do anything for myself. Constantly accused me of cheating. I'm a very outdoorsy person and I couldn't go hiking or go do yard work, I couldn't nap or read or watch things or crochet, couldn't go to bed early, even going grocery shopping with my mom was a problem. Basically anything that wasn't undivided attention on him and he would freak out and start making up all this bs about how I must be cheating. You're going to bed early? He would say you've got some guy coming over. Going out with mom? Yeah ok, "mom". Finally broke up with him because of his serious mental illness that he refused to get any help for and somehow he managed to convince himself that there was another guy. Dude was EXHAUSTING!
@@thamertanner5448 He was the one cheating.
When that guy said 2 is better than 1, she should have replied "ok, I will get another one too!" Usually those guys do not want their girlfriends dating other guys, but they want the liberty for themselves.
Charlotte figuring out Bama all on her own is the highlight of the video 😂🤣💀🪦
Me coming to the comment section to see if I am the only one from Bama.
That took me out 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@@JessPope NE Bama here😂
As soon as someone tells you that they 'didn't want to deal with you' end the relationship.
I was thinking the same thing! Especially at Thanksgiving!?
If a guy I was with said he “didn’t want to deal” with me I’d make for damn sure he’d never have to “deal” with me again
Same! The next sentence outta my mouth would have been me breaking up with him since he didn't want to "deal" with me.
Yeah I was Looking for someone to comment on that. After that? Blocked
I feel so bad for the cheaters. imagine having to face the consequences of your messed up and morally inept actions that also affect others. all cheaters are CLEARLY the victim here.
I appreciate what you do Charlotte! The only time I can find myself genuinely laughing after my bf of 2 years dumped me for another woman is when I watched your videos. I'm getting over this heartache by going through it and I appreciate the reprieve from the pain.
Love that statement. ‘Banging a cheater is not a flex.’ You can keep him
Exactly. The only “winning” is moving on to a new and better life without them in it.
I couldn't imagine being in any of these situations and honestly I love how everyone handled everything
not the consequences of the actions showing up at the door, tho xD
My grans first husband cheated on her and she kicked him out and divorced him and back then if was froud upon to be a single mum with kids especially because she was Catholic the priest even came to her door to convince her not to kick him out but she stood her ground people used to look at her and weren't very nice because she was a divorced single mum she was such a strong women never let anything stop her miss her alot☺️💗
@explorer well basically blaming my gran for her husband cheating and saying she wasn't doing enough therefore it was her fault he was unfaithful it's is absolutely disgusting guys would have each others back because probably alot of them were doing it behind their wife's backs
What gets me is that infidelity is in the Bible as a good reason for divorce. So catch a cheater and leave them, even God said leave.
@@patriciaphillips1449 Unfortunately, some Catholics believe that the adultery exception applies to the engagement period, not the actual marriage. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense when you look at it really hard, but that's how most of them used to be and some still are.
That first one, when he said, "it's not my fault," and you froze it...I want a picture of the amazing fury on her face! It's like art ❤️
About the phone charger camera that can also be used to find criminals that they break into your house as well. They seems like a pretty useful things to me not just to catch cheaters
TL,dr: My older brother was dating a woman who had a baby and was cheating on her husband and framed me for drinking alcohol because he didn’t want to look bad in front of her parents. I almost got kicked out of my house as a result.
My brother started dating a girl he had dated in high school.
She was married with a 3 month old baby and had my brother around her baby and everything.
Her parents came to our house (my brother was living with us at the time) with her to spend the 4th of July.
I was 18 and went to this huge local park that does fireworks for the 4th with a few of my friends. I get a call from my mom who is there with my brother and his girlfriend and innocently answer it.
She started going off. She said she found a nearly empty bottle of tequila in the pantry and asked my brother (who was 30) about it and he said it was MINE. He threw me under the bus and I wasn’t even crossing the street.
Why would a 30 year old man frame his 18 year old sister for drinking a giant 1.5L of tequila causing her to almost be kicked out and homeless? Because he didn’t want to look bad in front of his girlfriend’s parents. His girlfriend who was MARRIED with a THREE MONTH OLD BABY. I don’t think a grown man drinking alcohol is something they were worried about.
Then he managed to actually get me kicked out like a month later by telling my mom that I thought she was a horrible mother and a slût which are things I have never said. I would get blamed for him stealing money out of her safe, him smoking w33d, when he would eat the last of my mom’s special diet food that I didn’t even like.
Ugh I hate them I’m so glad I went NC
Wow that is insane!!!
Speaking from a similar experience, while you may have left, he hasn't changed, and those things he framed you for will continue to happen, only you aren't there as a scapegoat. He royally screwed himself in the long run, because one day they'll wake up and realize a liar and manipulator turned them against someone they love, and that person is the one truly responsible for all of the frustration and misery and inconvenience. They'll never think of him the same or trust him. I hope one day they apologize to you, not that you need to forgive, but because you deserve an apology for not being believed. I'm really glad you got out of that situation and are in a much better place now
Your parents are the reason for all of this. I'm sorry, but that's clear. You're better off.
@@hannahmonroe3094 Thank you for your kind words. You’re right, he will never change, neither will my mother. I don’t think any amount of apology will ever make up for the hurt I’ve had to go through, but it would be nice to have it acknowledged that I was treated badly and never given the benefit of the doubt.
I could write a whole series about my family 😭
I want to see the petty revenge sequel to this, or the karma comeback. Hope you're living your best life out there. You deserve it.
With the girl who switched phones with her boyfriend, I loved when her voice cracked when the guy asked if she was meeting up with Trevor. 'Uh, no."
I really felt that when she said "I don't even like 9 people, how do you sleep with 9 people at one time?"
"I don't even like 9 people" I HEARD THAT LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
7:01 That cameras all over Amazon 😂
Charlotte is one of the most entertaining person ever! She makes me laugh 😂
I so agree with you on chatting. The more people I am having conversations with at the same time the more stressed out I become. I thought I was the only one.
1:55 it wouldn’t have mattered what he said at that point - she was shaping up to slap him before he opened his mouth 🤣 love it!!!
I don't ever really answer messages and if I don't answer during the day I'm either sleeping, reading, horseback riding, swimming, or my phone is dead.
I'm dealing with chronic pain, and your videos are keeping a smile on my face through the pain. Thanks 👍
" It's not my fault " that freeze frame is fire, you know he heard the record scratch.
Narcissists genuinely believe that they will not get caught
They also think if they do get caught they can gaslight, browbeat and love bomb their way out of the consequences. Sad part is they usually can for awhile.
Cough cough big Ed
And that it's somehow NEVER their fault, when it's their own actions, lol.
They like to show off too
Exactly!
I love when the chicks get together to shame the guy 😍 We were raised to blame the other girl and to get our man back, but honestly now if a chick can get my man, I thank her for taking my trash out, it's a favor she would do to me.
Exactly. They didn't break something, they just pointed out the damage that was already there.
I wish I could've done that, but she knew about me and still fucked around with him.
I get stressed out by work group chats. I can’t even imagine juggling 9 “partners” at a time. Married 26 years to 1, ONE, man! That is enough man for me! 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
i just found your channel a few weeks ago and now I am addicted!!!! Love this!!!!
For tiny reference, BPD doesnt mean bipolar disorder, it means borderline personality disorder. Just kinda bugged me as someone with bpd because a lot of people confuse them ^^
And that second video... talk about ending the video one second before disaster
It can mean either Bipolar or Borderline.
Came to explain this
@@cdnerin no, bipolar is bp
@@cdnerin no, it doesn't. If you look up BPD, it will come up as borderline. BPD is the term professionally used for borderline. Bipolar is called just that - bipolar.
Same xP
That guy whose dating his ex and the OP. Than dodging the topic and blaming OP, is a Class-A narcissist.
He's gaslighting and dodging responsibility.
Boy toys were common among some queen regnants, including Catherine the Great of Russia, Queen Isabella II of Spain, and Queen Anne of UK (though hers were more girl toys). Some queen consorts also had boy toys, but since their husbands were in power, they were sadly stripped of their crown if they engaged in "inappropriate behaviour," like Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark. Love the historical double standards.
Hahahaha I'm crying laughing rn, I'm watching this with my headphones on so my little one can't hear it and as Charlotte is asking about the 9 women my 3 year old says sharing is caring 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying of laughter 😂
😂😂😂 the second video was a physical perfectly cut scream 😂😂😂
Dude after I got to the part with the hidden camera(charger box) I told my buddy Amber about it, her boyfriend is always bringing people to her house when she’s at work and never telling her about it. She has to hear it from neighbors or friends passing by her apartment building and we both think it’s fishy af. So she’s probably gonna get one and see what’s up, and why he’s bringing secret people to the apartment. Wish her luck y’all!
Need an update!
I think that this is going to be a can of worms exposed.
Why is she still with him if she knows he's bringing people over? Is she in denial? Is he gaslighting her? This was wild to read.
So? Did she catch him?
@ravenartist2980 any update on this?
Yep, its every generation! LOL! I am 60 and it has been happening since I was old enough to date. LOL! The last 30 years have been the worst. That is why I don't date and I am happily single, alone and free. Nothing like not having not to worry about a cheater in your life. I love myself more than that drama.
Me too! I am perfectly happy on my own not having to deal with someone else's BS.
My husband works in a secure area. He is not allowed to have any electronics anywhere in the area. So yeah there is a way to not be available. However, he calls regularly to check in on us and I can email him (work email) and he will call as soon as he gets it. The major difference is I trust him.
Right? Like I'm sorry but no not everyone is reachable 24/7. Some people don't even have cell phones. I don't have service on mine I use a free internet based texting app so my phone only works if I'm on wifi. When I leave my house I am unreachable. Sometimes I go hiking out in the woods all day, or I go out shopping with my mom. Definitely completely normal to not be able to reach someone for a few hours.
This was something my insecure abusive ex used to manipulate me about. Got to the point that I couldn't do anything at all because he needed constant communication throughout the day. Even when he was at work I wasn't able to do anything for myself. Like literally I couldn't watch a stream/movie or take a nap or go to bed early or go hiking, even going out grocery shopping with my mom he would constantly accuse me of cheating/lying. It was exhausting. DON'T DATE INSECURE PEOPLE! IT WILL NOT GET BETTER!
It's the way Charlotte said, "Who's there?" - "It's the consequences of your actions" for me. 😅 Literally don't know what I'd do without your videos, thank you! 💓
0:49 Small snakes are more venomous, hence proved 😂🙏🏻
You deserve a man who will commit to you. It's that simple. So if - or when - that man shows he can't commit, find another one.
Keep going down the line until you find a man who will honor you with his body, the same way you honor him with yours ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That 2nd segment, the birthday party, was magnificent. Kudos to that woman.
When she said she doesn't even like 9 people I died a little inside....sooo funny
I''ve been single since 2013 after a 23-year marriage. Loving every minute of it.
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
‘It’s not a this generation problem’ exactly!!!!! We just got more ways of exposing them now lol 😂
Kudos to all the girls in the second video to show up and be united in walking out. I hope the girls and his "GUY friends" became actual friends.
That was fake
Watching Charlotte before watching Charlotte is a perfect way to start the day
Lol when she said Bama (boma). I couldn't help but laugh a little. Love you Charlotte!!!
Now I remember why I gave up active dating...and, the moment Alabama dawned on you? You madey day SOOOOO MUCH!!!!
Ooohhh the one that invited his “guys” to his birthday party knocked him across the room. Get him girl!
That was fake as hell
It's a skit . lol 🤣
@@idfwy_ylsabiafwy182_GiGi Figured as much, no way that dude could be hooking up with all those hot ladies at once! Still made me laugh.
@@sashadoom Hell nah.. Lol 😂
She's so tiny!
I'm that "Unavailable" right now.... I left my phone in bed to sleep this morning, so it has been up there for hours. I'm also "Unavailable" most of the week, I leave it in the car while working and sometimes forget to bring it in at night.
I'm over 50 - I said that I would never have that thing connected to me - I like the wall phone generation so much better. 🤣😂🤣
Me too! I love being "unavailable". I have a landline with an answering machine... if someone needs to get a hold of me... they can leave a message. I don't need to be glued to my phone/tablet/computer 24/7... I got better, more fun things to do! But watching Charlotte is one of those fun things!
This was a juicy one! I ❤️ your wit, @charlottedobre. "Knock knock!! It's the consequences of your actions." Gold! I'm going to try to remember that one.
3:33 "who the hell has time, to have nine side pieces"
Me: People who are hungry *eating nuggets* oh you mean cheating?? eh still the same
Bama is the way locals say Alabama. Been here for 12 years and hear it often enough that I’ve adopted it without realizing it.
I agree with the chat messenger, I can’t do more than two or I get anxiety beyond the max. I don’t know how folks have the memory, patience or energy to do it let alone to do it to cheat.
Your videos make me so happy that I'm still with my first boyfriend of 7 years and we both share the same values
13 for me and I agree !!
5 for me 🥰 I like to show him her videos
Married 25 years here. Thank God I never have to date again.
Glad your world is perfect . Not hating but not as fortunate so I am forced to date.
Just want to let you know BPD isn't bipolar disorder it's borderline personality disorder.
Came so say the same!!
Me too!
As someone with bipolar disorder there is a HUGE difference between the two
@Joan-Elise Butler yes, you can have what used to be called manic-depressive disorder and BPD (borderline personality disorder) at the same time. There are very few things you CAN'T have at the same time. hell, you can have conflicting disorders like Autism and ADHD at the same time. You could even have OCD, too.
@@cheshirenevande4701 autism and ADHD are actually very commonly co-morbid and share a good few symptoms. They’re not as different as people think ☺️
So I've only just recently found your channel and you have the Most incredible sarcastic voice. I love watching you
For some reason I just absolutely lost it when she says “you deserve it… oh yeah?” Just the way she said “oh yeah?” 😂😂😂
As soon as I hear "HEY EVERYBODY".....INSTANT EXCITEMENT because I know the video is gonna be funny and lit 😂🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾
Love this girl 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
OMG she’s my absolute fave. I’m such a fan girl. She is pure serotonin
I love to start my day with Charlotte ❤
I pregame Charlotte by watching Charlotte 😂
Hey Charlotte I love your videos sm, you always make me smile!!!
That spitfire was about to slap the hell out of him! I NEED CLOSURE!!!
@CharlotteDebore I love your videos! I had a rough day. Your humor and reaction videos turned my day around. Thank you for bringing the jaw dropping-hilarious content! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The face @5:52 that Charlotte makes when she realizes..it's Alabama! 🤣🤣
Been watching you since I.O. I'm so glad you did a channel of your own! Love ya girl!
Dating 9 people at the same time?
The guy must be solving some complex equations in his head all the time😂
It's a skit his name is Daniel Jean.. Lol
I mean how can one work while having that many people to deal with 😂
The 'I don't even like 9 people' have never related to something so much 😂 I can't even do 2 conversations with people I like without feeling anxious 🤣
13:07 this kid is chaos and we're here for it
hope your Vacation is amazing girl you deserve it! can't wait to watch your vids everyday again💕
Charlotte: 9 ongoing conversations, I turn my phone on silent.
Also Charlotte: We all have time to check our texts!
😅 I'm just messing around! I agree to both statements, even though they're slightly contradictory
These types of videos keep confirming what I believe. Communication is a key to a happy relationship. It won't kill you to say "I'm not happy [for what ever reason]" . If you feel the need to cheat, you are slowly but surely becoming a pile of dung wrapped in gold foil and it's your own fault and with today's technology "The path" will find it's way back having dragged all amount of names back to you. You can't hide cheaters, you can run but the fiber cable....will always be watching.
You saying “is that the cool way of saying Alabama” was hilarious and so Canadian
That little mama brought that slap came from the back.. you know he never gonna forget that one.
I’d kick his butt just for putting me in his phone as dominos ….like there aint better pizza lol
I know right. You know there's some subtext behind each fake name. Probably a lewd joke.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings yeah, I actually think it was domihoes
I just figured it was where he met those particular females ... LOL 😂
It was completely cracking me up the way she was saying boma instead of bama. That's when I'm like oh yeah she's Canadian.