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    We've all heard the saying 'cheaters never prosper', and in this video, we're going to be proving just that. We're going to be taking a look at some of the most shocking instances where cheaters have been caught red-handed.
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  • @bodhiswayze1892
    @bodhiswayze1892 11 месяцев назад +1838

    What an absolute gentleman, holding the door open for her to crawl through! 😂

    • @seagullsg784
      @seagullsg784 11 месяцев назад +62

      This gives me hope as I previuosly heard chivalry was dead

    • @natureboygolfer
      @natureboygolfer 11 месяцев назад +11

      Great man there

    • @Nostradevus1
      @Nostradevus1 11 месяцев назад +12

      1. Dude should have just gone in the house normally and tripped the main breaker for the house for a couple of minutes. Same when she went to leave.
      2. I have had coworkers leave their makeup in my car when we all went to eat lunch. It’s not always the worst case scenario.

    • @Garbox80
      @Garbox80 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@Nostradevus1 I had the same thought about that second one. I mean, haven't happened to me, but if that's the only thing "going on", I wouldn't be too worried.

    • @ericwilliams1659
      @ericwilliams1659 11 месяцев назад +23

      I can't deside which is worse, him asking her to crawl and hide or her doing the crawling.

  • @Deedoof
    @Deedoof 11 месяцев назад +1544

    The cheater being uplifted by other dudes would be the opposite if his gf cheated. "In it's our nature to cheat, women choose to cheat." That mentality.

    • @kellynwright6614
      @kellynwright6614 11 месяцев назад +199

      It’s literally UNHINGED mentality but they call women “crazy” when we just point out their lies I can’t do it anymore 😭

    • @AerynKDesigns
      @AerynKDesigns 11 месяцев назад +114

      that's like ALL I was thinking too. that if it were her, even pregnant, she'd be called literally all the slurs. But he got super comforted and placated for what... not being able to keep it in his pants?

    • @robertgronewold3326
      @robertgronewold3326 11 месяцев назад +1

      Really goes to show how we're halfway through evolving from a polyamorous species to a monogamous one. So many people are still out here cheating.

    • @irksomesophist
      @irksomesophist 11 месяцев назад +22

      Blessed be the fruit.

    • @lizardog
      @lizardog 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@irksomesophist I agree. Liberace 4 Ever!

  • @marthatassi293
    @marthatassi293 11 месяцев назад +489

    Cheating is not a "mistake", it's a decision. Using the wrong fork at a formal dinner is a mistake. Forgetting to set your alarm is a mistake. Flirting with someone, arranging a rendezvous, making the decision to betray trust and keep the meet up, lying to someone who trusts you to account for your time away and lying again to cover your deceit is not a "mistake".

    • @gee2494
      @gee2494 11 месяцев назад +13

      Exactly! It's a deliberate act of deceit

    • @TheQueenRulesAll
      @TheQueenRulesAll 11 месяцев назад +10

      Just like there are no accidental pregnancies. My daughters beau tried to say he had a kid accidentally so I said no, you did not accidentally take out your member and accidentally fall inside some woman. It takes conscious actions, just like cheating.

    • @Iloveyou-jn2go
      @Iloveyou-jn2go 9 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤¹0

    • @Georgino893
      @Georgino893 9 месяцев назад +6

      This! My ex tried the whole “oh my god babe I swear it was a mistake! I didn’t mean to hurt you! I didn’t think right!” Bs excuse when I caught him🙄🙄 also had my other ex tell me that “it happened in the beginning of our relationship before I knew where it was going, I didn’t know I’d fall in love with you! I swear it was in the first 3 months of our relationship babe! I only did it so I could see if I cared about you or not and I instantly regretted doing it bc shes nothing like you! Please forgive me! Men make mistakes!” 🤦🏻‍♀️😑 this was after I spent 2 years with this man and only found out bc he let me use his old phone when mine broke and stupidly didn’t delete ANYTHING from it so I got to see every picture, text and video they took together.

    • @Hello-vj5cr
      @Hello-vj5cr 8 месяцев назад +1

      😮😮

  • @taylerkolin3075
    @taylerkolin3075 11 месяцев назад +585

    I know she doesn't deserve sympathy if she knowingly participated in cheating, but still... Can't help but feel bad for a girl with low enough self esteem that she willingly crawled around on the floor to sleep with *that* guy. She *knows* he's a broke, cheating, man child who's mooching off his girlfriend.
    I hope she found some self respect on that floor.

    • @lizzykayOT7
      @lizzykayOT7 11 месяцев назад

      This, I can't understand these women at all. I guess they just be horny?

    • @jennamarie2481
      @jennamarie2481 11 месяцев назад +9

      baaaahahah yes

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 11 месяцев назад +58

      She may have just been told that it was a random client and he wasn't supposed to have guests. Sometimes people lie, especially the ones who cheat.

    • @timothygreer188
      @timothygreer188 11 месяцев назад +32

      She did, she was the one who sent the gf screen shots of their texts

    • @taylerkolin3075
      @taylerkolin3075 11 месяцев назад +20

      @andreabradley5837 okay fair, but.... that's still just demeaning. Tell that man to call her when he has his own place to take her back to. Or better yet, call her never if he's seriously gonna ask her to crawl like a dog for the chance to sleep with him.
      No person is worth that.

  • @kellynwright6614
    @kellynwright6614 11 месяцев назад +246

    I just know that poor girl at the end is getting called “crazy” and “insecure” by him when she literally has proof

  • @TheBuffetWitch
    @TheBuffetWitch 11 месяцев назад +108

    I loathe with every fiber of my being when people cheat and say it was a "mistake"...you know how many CHOICES you have to make before you even physically cheat?!?

  • @Ivy_Heavens
    @Ivy_Heavens 11 месяцев назад +41

    As a Brazilian, I think that Neymar's situation is more than disgusting. A lot of people are treating him like a boy who made a silly mistake, but when a famous singer around here was accused of cheating her husband (false allegations, btw, and the husband was one of the people who defend her and debunk the allegations), she was destroyed by a lot of people even when she was proven innocent, to the point that she got a severe depression. Just make me sick some people.

  • @carolbetarello
    @carolbetarello 11 месяцев назад +623

    As a Brazilian, just know that the majority of us hates Neymar because of his political views, and now even more because he's a cheater. He also bult a mansion on protected natural land, so yeah.
    The majority of comments saying he was good and all are from religious people who have the same views.
    We call them "people from good/good people" ironically. They're all about God and religion but very bigoted. Usually the ones who wants to protect "traditional family" while cheating.
    Edit to add: it wasn't protected land, he built an artificial lake where he couldn't and without a permit. He'll need to pay millions in fines, but that's not a problem for him. Still, a lot of people are, reasonably, mad about it.

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy 11 месяцев назад +40

      See, I call these types of religious people Talibangelists..

    • @TheHeartandFist
      @TheHeartandFist 11 месяцев назад +18

      And then there are others like people who don't believe in "cults" that call him scum.

    • @giovannamautone
      @giovannamautone 11 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@Swnsasyok, this one is great. I'm stealing

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@giovannamautone 🤭🤗♥️

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 11 месяцев назад

      Sounds a lot like the Evangelical Conservatives here in the USA who claim to be Christians but are anything but Christ-like.

  • @caitlins7061
    @caitlins7061 11 месяцев назад +201

    I don't allow cheaters to continue in my life. I had it happen once in high school many many moons ago, and I ended that quick. And we all know cheaters will try to shift the blame on someone else, and that is exactly what he did. He called out my friend for ratting him out. I dumped him in front of all of his friends in the middle of the packed lunch room.

  • @madarch3r
    @madarch3r 11 месяцев назад +299

    I respect women who let their fellow woman know that their man is cheating on them. These gross dudes need to be outed!!!! Send the screenshots, receipts, ect!

    • @Xcarbonizer
      @Xcarbonizer 11 месяцев назад +22

      i saw a similar video where a guy who after finding out the random girl he hooked up with had a bf he taped a piece of paper on the underside of the toilet seat at her house, letting her bf know what she did, knowing that only he would lift the toilet seat. these gross chicks need to be outed!

    • @madarch3r
      @madarch3r 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@Xcarbonizer I agree. All cheaters need to be outed!

    • @hennarusi9841
      @hennarusi9841 11 месяцев назад +20

      Every cheater needs to be outed,no matter their gender.

    • @ninernelly79fuego92
      @ninernelly79fuego92 11 месяцев назад +2

      I swear !!! ✌🏽❤️

    • @Nobudgetorganisation
      @Nobudgetorganisation 11 месяцев назад

      eeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy'poik11111111111111111111

  • @kavyadeshapande6368
    @kavyadeshapande6368 11 месяцев назад +84

    That white hat distinguished gentleman being the landmark, helping a cheater get caught yet having no idea what he did is just hilarious😂

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch 11 месяцев назад +1

      It's possible that they could have been at the same game but didn't know it... possible but not bloody likely! If the girlfriend is checking his ex-girlfriend's page then she was likely suspicious long before he went to the game and this was confirmation.
      Many years ago, I experienced a weird fluke of unexpectedly being in the same place at the same time as another person without knowing, and it was pretty funny.
      Back in 1979, my high school drama club took a senior trip to NYC for a week to see Broadway shows and visit NYC landmarks, we had a great time. We were at the airport waiting for our plane to fly back to Dallas. The plane landed, having just flown nonstop FROM Dallas, and we were watching the passengers disembark. Then we saw Chuck, a classmate from school who knew most of us but wouldn't have known about our trip. All the sudden, here are @ 12 of his classmates from Dallas surrounding him, saying "Welcome to New York! We've been waiting for you, about time you got here!"
      I wish I'd thought to take a pic, he looked so shocked. He was in stunned silence but finally said, "What's happening? HOW is this happening??"

    • @lillianbartlesby6750
      @lillianbartlesby6750 11 месяцев назад +7

      I know! I'm scrolling trying to find more comments about this incident and no one is talking about it!

  • @mindygracebickerdike
    @mindygracebickerdike 11 месяцев назад +217

    Does anyone else want Charlotte to paint the nails on her tiny hands a nice, bright colour... or is it just me? 💅😍

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  11 месяцев назад +68

      Ohhhh yes she needs some mini claws

    • @danwilson970
      @danwilson970 11 месяцев назад +5

      Might as well paint the shark Charlotte's teeth too 😂

    • @katz734
      @katz734 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@danwilson970WTH, that made no sense at all. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @paulinasancheznunez549
      @paulinasancheznunez549 11 месяцев назад

      @@CharlotteDobrepleaseeeee 🙏🏼

    • @raetime2350
      @raetime2350 11 месяцев назад

      @@danwilson970 I mean, you could give Sharklotte tooth gems 💎 🦷

  • @rbcbcs
    @rbcbcs 11 месяцев назад +164

    in Brasil we have a history with bashing woman for YEARS because the internet THINKS she cheated, but with EVERY man the response is: take care of your bussiness, god... it never fails

    • @henrysmith180
      @henrysmith180 11 месяцев назад +46

      The double standard is sickening!! 🤮 🤮 🤮

    • @juliacabral4781
      @juliacabral4781 11 месяцев назад +14

      Tão real que só de ler entendi que era a Luísa

    • @giovannamautone
      @giovannamautone 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@juliacabral4781essa sofreu o pão que o diabo amassou, coitada

    • @rbcbcs
      @rbcbcs 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@juliacabral4781 até um dia desse tinha gente ainda xingando ela, mas uma vez eu falei do Arthur arguiar e saiu gente até do bueiro pra defender o "presente de Deus" kkkkkkkk

    • @elisacrispunnardin6726
      @elisacrispunnardin6726 11 месяцев назад +3

      Nossa tão real que dói

  • @cbpd89
    @cbpd89 11 месяцев назад +370

    There is a difference between "I made a mistake, please forgive me" and "I cheated on you. Please forgive me." A mistake is not listening when you should have or getting into an argument you regret. Cheating went from the *mistake* of letting your eyes wander, letting your thoughts wander, and THEN not stopping! And then following through! And then keeping secrets and lying and gaslighting. That is not a mistake!! That is willful, planned.
    It's s the difference between manslaughter and murder. Intent matters.

    • @dianaquill9969
      @dianaquill9969 11 месяцев назад +27

      Absolutely! Very well put! And invoking God's name in blessing the couple with that announcement!? The people who commented were delulu as heck.

    • @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult
      @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult 11 месяцев назад

      Neymar is the kind of gaslighting.

    • @aliceandrade7164
      @aliceandrade7164 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@dianaquill9969 Yeah, I'm from Brazil and the people with that mentality are hypocrites who think that just bc someone follows a religion, have "values", and follows the same alt-right party are good people that deseve forgiviness but lots of people here don't like people like that and the actions that Neymar did

    • @dianaquill9969
      @dianaquill9969 11 месяцев назад

      @@aliceandrade7164 Please don't associate hypocrisy with their vague political affiliation. A leftist who uses "sex positivity" to trample boundaries and get her ace sister to "get better" about sex by having sex with her bf in front of her doesn't deserve to be associated with the left, even the far left. It is boundary trampling, it is cheating. Everyone with common sense understands that these things are disgusting and deserves ridicule (at minimum for cheating, cheaters have just about anything coming). Calling this a problem with a certain group only promotes division when it's not already political.

    • @dianaquill9969
      @dianaquill9969 11 месяцев назад

      @@aliceandrade7164 sorry for the long comment, it just annoys me that I try to avoid political crap, yet it seems to be a part of Every Single Thing. Even AITA videos. You can't escape someone slighting the "other side" casually to show some kind of 'moral superiority'.
      Thank you for listening to my rant. I hope you have a lovely day!

  • @chelseacarpenter2302
    @chelseacarpenter2302 11 месяцев назад +122

    I once found out that I was the other woman... I left a pair of underwear (clean from my weekend bag) under the pillow on the side of the bed I would sleep on with a small note saying sorry with my number and to send a text if she wanted the receipts... We destroyed that man together and are still friends 😂
    Much love from Arizona 💜💜

    • @domeatown
      @domeatown 6 месяцев назад +7

      Sometimes the other woman is a bad person. Sometimes shes a great woman who didnt know. We stan a great woman who rectifies in the glorious name of justice and balance ❤❤

    • @Katfall2012
      @Katfall2012 29 дней назад

      I love you!

  • @SaraTinjacaA
    @SaraTinjacaA 11 месяцев назад +10

    Sadly, as a latin American, I can confirm that a lot of people have the mentality of "all men cheat so it's not that bad, it's just part of being men." I was born and raised in Colombia and the ammoubt of people I know who have gotten that answer when cheated on or forgiven their cheaters with that mentality is heartbreaking.

  • @amenwalton
    @amenwalton 11 месяцев назад +133

    I do not understand cheating. If you are not happy in the relationship, get out of it. That simple.

    • @kaybadberg534
      @kaybadberg534 11 месяцев назад +16

      It’s because they’re cowards.

    • @Cheddar_Girl
      @Cheddar_Girl 11 месяцев назад +25

      Also the cheap thrill, the “because I can” attitude, the narcissistic tendencies and the lack of a moral compass. People are weak.

    • @js8qp2pwisos
      @js8qp2pwisos 11 месяцев назад +3

      They want control. It makes them feel good to have anyone they want, and to know their partners are with only them.

    • @TheFaro2011
      @TheFaro2011 11 месяцев назад +3

      It's not about happy. It's about having it all

    • @passionsquietrage
      @passionsquietrage 11 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly! Why commit to someone if you're not going to be faithful?

  • @talklikeahick2u877
    @talklikeahick2u877 11 месяцев назад +44

    Idk why but the restaurant FBI cheater catcher recap made me cry laughing “honestly they were taking so long arguing we dipped”
    I’d have been sitting on my car with a bag of chips watching it ALL

  • @cybercifrado
    @cybercifrado 11 месяцев назад +97

    "Please don't do this to others in the future." "Nah, can't do that, I probably will." And this is why some societies would stone adulterers.

  • @themayhemofmadness7038
    @themayhemofmadness7038 11 месяцев назад +13

    I still love the video of the girl, whose mom was coming out from anesthesia after hand surgery, and the daughter used a fake small hand to prank her mom.
    She convinced her poor mother that she had donated her own real hand to her mom due to complications in the surgery, and the fake hand was the replacement they gave her.
    It was hilarious.
    I think it was on one of your reactions videos here that I saw it.

    • @paulagoeringer9466
      @paulagoeringer9466 5 месяцев назад +2

      That one was funny. With how much Charlotte loves tiny hands, wouldn't it be cute if her bf proposed with a bouquet of tiny hands with the ring on one of them? 💍🥂🥳✨💖

    • @themayhemofmadness7038
      @themayhemofmadness7038 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@paulagoeringer9466 Oh, yes! That would be cute! I hope Mike sees this idea!!!

  • @Beanz-on-Toast
    @Beanz-on-Toast 11 месяцев назад +46

    I feel like on the other end of the spectrum, not every woman is aware that the man they're screwing around with is in a relationship, men lie constantly. Leaving something like a fenty foundation, stick on nail, etc is a great way to set a trap for the man and let the gf bust him.

  • @erikarussell1142
    @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +133

    Also: why did I find such comfort from Charlotte shushing and petting the mic? Lmao I usually hate asmr videos because I can’t stand mouth sounds. But it was so lovely. Lol

    • @jessicaburton75
      @jessicaburton75 11 месяцев назад +5

      I would like to see the tiny hands pull the negativity as well as Charlotte does...LOL

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад

      @@jessicaburton75 OMG yes please!!

  • @corridawn3851
    @corridawn3851 11 месяцев назад +12

    The girl who posted the ring camera footage actually said that the girl crawling on the ground reached out to her and said that he didn't tell her he had a girlfriend. He apparently told her his parents said not to have anyone over so she had to crawl past the camera. The two girls are friends now❤

  • @dannyhill1899
    @dannyhill1899 11 месяцев назад +51

    I was once asked to spy on a cheating husband. I was asked to go to a movie that he was supposed to be going to with friends. It was that horrible Hulk Hogan wrestling movie No Holds Barred in 1989. He never showed up and I had to sit thru that whole movie with a theater full of screaming kids.

    • @FernRoses
      @FernRoses 11 месяцев назад +4

      🤣😂

    • @ninetailsclub
      @ninetailsclub 11 дней назад

      So if he wasn't there where they were supposed to be with friends, where do you think he was actually.. dun dun dun!

  • @HDFWB
    @HDFWB 11 месяцев назад +138

    She left her foundation behind because she wanted the other woman to see it.

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +27

      Agreed. Even I know that you don’t leave makeup in a hot car! That was 100% intentional.

    • @NexForemose
      @NexForemose 11 месяцев назад +10

      Exactly! 💯%

    • @KDu400
      @KDu400 11 месяцев назад +12

      And probably left it because she would be back in that car soon…so gross!

    • @lizardog
      @lizardog 11 месяцев назад +18

      Agree that it was intentional. I mean, who the hell carries foundation around with them? Lipstick, mascara, sure, but foundation? That was definitely planted.

    • @lauramills2495
      @lauramills2495 11 месяцев назад

      100 percent she did my ex new dog rat bitch use to leave her white clothing for me to find knowing dam well I'd know me and him always wore black bitch knew what she was doing ladies jf you thjnk he's cheating get some gloves and check out his trash my dumbass ex didn't think I would yhis isn't my first rodeo with a sketchy man check there bins they will have something to hide I found so much evidence he thought I would never find I'm not scared to get dirty to weed out dirty rat from my life fuck em man to anyone who's been hurt your beautiful you don't need no one you got it xx

  • @angelashortall9778
    @angelashortall9778 11 месяцев назад +39

    There’s a possibility that foundation girl, the one he was cheating with, didn’t realize he had a girlfriend, and when she did figure it out, that’s why she left the foundation.

    • @passionsquietrage
      @passionsquietrage 11 месяцев назад

      We don't know that he was cheating, she was just assuming he was. It's entirely possible that foundation could have belonged to one of his female family members.

  • @Tina_Rinaaa
    @Tina_Rinaaa 11 месяцев назад +13

    I really want another "things that will make you a bridezilla" video coz I get married in like 21 days and planning a wedding will literally make you crazy no matter how chill of a bride you are or try to be! Just when you think you've got it figured out someone comes along and changes all the details you've got planned and this cycle repeats at least once a week for your whole engagement

    • @empath9814
      @empath9814 11 месяцев назад

      I'm getting married next year. I'm nervous but I'm going to stand my ground if someone tries to change something or make it about themselves.

  • @Krazy4Pink_Kerry
    @Krazy4Pink_Kerry 11 месяцев назад +55

    I always find it hilarious (and also just disgusting) how, whenever a guy cheats on his gf and a girl cheats on her bf. Whenever there is talks about forgiving them, it’s always the guy that gets the pass and everyone says the guy made a mistake but you can work thru it and come out stronger etc etc 🤮
    But they never offer that same energy to the girl. Instead the girl always just gets called every name under the sun and dragged to filth etc etc.
    just something I always notice in them situations and just makes me laugh. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 11 месяцев назад +12

      it's called misogyny.

    • @raydawn675
      @raydawn675 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@moonhunter9993yes cuz everything is misogyny and patriarchy LOL

    • @zenya9620
      @zenya9620 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@raydawn675in an instant like these what would you call it then?

    • @moniekafortner6921
      @moniekafortner6921 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yuuup just like with Ariana Grande they are calling her all sorts of name but no vitriol 4 the guy that cheated on his wife!! They keep calling her a hone wrecker but it takes 2!!

    • @js8qp2pwisos
      @js8qp2pwisos 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@raydawn675 how is it not tho 💀 /gen

  • @erikarussell1142
    @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +30

    I am LIVING for Charlotte with her crazy tiny hands. It makes my soul vibe as one with hers. As if it didn’t already…

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 11 месяцев назад +244

    Who is even funnier than Charlotte?
    Charlotte with tiny hands and an italian accent. Only Charlotte can be better than Charlotte.😂♥️

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +4

      Correct.

    • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
      @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 11 месяцев назад +4

      I concur.

    • @MrsJustJessie
      @MrsJustJessie 11 месяцев назад +6

      I read the first line in the tone of the Gaston theme song 😂

    • @dinasilva9263
      @dinasilva9263 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@MrsJustJessie 😂

    • @heidicross7255
      @heidicross7255 11 месяцев назад +1

      I enjoy watching Charlotte, but the small hands annoy me. Don't know why - they just do.

  • @Beautyinthebreakdown.
    @Beautyinthebreakdown. 11 месяцев назад +1

    I drank for the first time this year at the weekend.. it was pride.. got a little drunk because it’s always a good time, dancing, drag queens, 90s music, everyone is just free and doing their thing. I love it. I couldn’t stop shouting attenzione.. it was just Charlottes voice in my head.. got a group of people yelling it everytime we passed each other 😅 I love drunk people

  • @crystaldafoe2471
    @crystaldafoe2471 11 месяцев назад +15

    At about 9:45, i had a similar experience with an ex, who told me that most guys would hit me for "talking to him like that" because i defended the fact that my parents weren't the exception for staying married and happy for 35 years. I didn't know what a narcissist was then.

    • @DYLANJJK94
      @DYLANJJK94 11 месяцев назад

      I would love to tell a guy like that “Good thing I’m not most guys and would prefer to put a bullet in his head.” Along those lines so it’s not officially a threat lol

  • @cheesyz81
    @cheesyz81 11 месяцев назад +61

    I can Imagine Charlotte hanging out in restaurant parking lots trying to be asked to find out if someone is cheating

    • @laceylou9423
      @laceylou9423 11 месяцев назад +1

      Honestly, that would be the hugest compliment to me. Someone thinks I'm cute enough to steal her man? Girl, stop you're making me blush, let's get him and then get some margaritas!

  • @lydiad6916
    @lydiad6916 11 месяцев назад +71

    She probably was only crawling because he told her he was house sitting and didn’t want the owner to know. I doubt he outright told her hey you need to crawl so my gf doesn’t see you in here.

    • @aw2589
      @aw2589 11 месяцев назад +9

      Possibly.. but believe it or not there are people that are that reprehensible.

    • @Zardox2
      @Zardox2 11 месяцев назад +15

      Doesn't matter.
      If I'm asked to crawl into a house/apt, I am walking the frick away.
      Oh. Hell. No.

    • @tessgonzalez
      @tessgonzalez 11 месяцев назад +6

      @@aw2589 I think if she already knew she wouldn't have shared screenshots with the GF.

    • @cutienerdgirl
      @cutienerdgirl 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@tessgonzalez There are plenty of women who have affairs with men in relationships then get fed up with the man thus text the girlfriends proof the men were cheating the whole time.

  • @kristinenelson9376
    @kristinenelson9376 11 месяцев назад +17

    My ex husband was a fan of talking to/sending photos to other women on Facebook Messenger - that's not a "mistake". That was a series of intentional acts that he knew would hurt me.

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 11 месяцев назад +16

    I feel like we all low-key want a pass to spy into someone's drama and be able to feel good about it like we're helping. Lol

  • @janedb85
    @janedb85 11 месяцев назад +49

    !ATTENZIONE POTATOES! Have a great weekend!!

  • @analea6531
    @analea6531 11 месяцев назад +70

    As a woman I’m curious to what can make another woman agree to crawl to get a man’s apartment so that he can cheat. I mean first you know he already has a girlfriend he’s not planning to leave to be with you and that D can’t be that good come on and you can’t be that desperate 😂😂😂
    Huh Jesse is one dumb potato. Wow Audacity must have been on sale because he got a lot of it

    • @queerdeificeeli985
      @queerdeificeeli985 11 месяцев назад

      I hope she knows about the girlfriend. Otherwise, who the fxck does she think she's hiding from? And to the point she has to crawl!

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. 11 месяцев назад +15

      The way men are acting these days, I leave something behind whenever I sleep with a new guy, just in case he's cheating on someone.

    • @LoveMyFamilyCountry
      @LoveMyFamilyCountry 11 месяцев назад

      I love the audacity comment. That is pure GOLD !!!!! 😁😁😁

    • @kimjohnson5400
      @kimjohnson5400 11 месяцев назад

      Mighta been a hooker?

  • @lucypellek8940
    @lucypellek8940 11 месяцев назад +12

    Are people outta their FREAKING minds?! Cheating is NOT a "mistake"!!!! If you were a descent person, you dont cheat! Well said on your end Charlotte! ❤

  • @AllHaleResale
    @AllHaleResale 11 месяцев назад +6

    Perfect, I just found out my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy of our now 4 month old.
    This woman knew I was pregnant, knew we have a 3 year old and knew we've been together for 6 years.. I'm in an uphill battle mentally and I don't feel okay anymore. Postpartum is already hard enough as it is, cheaters SUCK.

    • @erchanel
      @erchanel 11 месяцев назад

      Im so sorry girl that fucking sucks. I hate hate cheaters but the ones that cheat on their pregnant wives i hate most of all. Assholes. Shes creating your kid for you!!!!

  • @darkunykorn404
    @darkunykorn404 11 месяцев назад +37

    Neymar is HUGE in the soccer (football for the brits) world. People fully believe he can do no wrong, even though he's a known cheater, liar, unpleasant team mate, and tax evader. But because he's very very rich and very very famous, people will wash away all this as "we all make mistakes uwu". I hate that guy.

    • @izabelasiczek3547
      @izabelasiczek3547 11 месяцев назад +2

      Football for the Brits? 😂😂 are you American by any chance ? Greeting from Britain the FOOT BALL as they play with their feet Britain 🇬🇧

    • @darkunykorn404
      @darkunykorn404 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@izabelasiczek3547 I'm Brazilian lol we call it futebol, so! I never understood why Americans call their handegg game football but 🤷

    • @js8qp2pwisos
      @js8qp2pwisos 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@darkunykorn404 cause we use the foot ONCE. Hence FOOTball. Yall use hella feet. Should call it feetball. /j

    • @darkunykorn404
      @darkunykorn404 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@js8qp2pwisos but it's not a ball! it's an egg! /j

  • @TamzinSpencer
    @TamzinSpencer 11 месяцев назад +64

    I'm not on social media but need this drama! Thanks queen for keeping me up to date with the tea! (from a brit)❤

    • @JupiterGreenberg
      @JupiterGreenberg 11 месяцев назад +2

      Same I just stay sort of up to date from her and what my son shows me lol….

    • @aphroditestan
      @aphroditestan 11 месяцев назад +4

      Same. I'm also not in TikTok but I live vicariously through these & other TT compilations

  • @MarissaBrigitte
    @MarissaBrigitte 11 месяцев назад +2

    3:03 We also have to take an account that the other person doesn’t always know that the person they’re seeing is in a relationship, they might just are you leaving stuff behind because they didn’t know

  • @JustinLight
    @JustinLight 11 месяцев назад +9

    Regarding the cheater who said they would do it again, his texts are a fairly good example of the classic strategy used by manipulative people, DARVO which stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. He starts by denying everything about the situation and also attacks in the same sentence. He then flips the story around saying he can't even get a date. He then continues with more unhinged ranting, we get the see another classic denial though there is no proof he hit her, he feels the need to tell us he didn't and the proof is she still has teeth. Also, a better person would never need to say they are a better person. I feel the narcissist label is well placed on this one.

  • @patty-pat-pat
    @patty-pat-pat 11 месяцев назад +16

    If a stranger rang my doorbell and asked me to come help catch a cheater, I'm in.

  • @MeowzaKat999
    @MeowzaKat999 11 месяцев назад +12

    The way I would immediately turn into Sharklotte to help that woman catch her cheating bf. Sharklotte savage AF.
    I wish someone would come up to me like that to ask for help. I'd be TOO down. Hahahah

  • @court7513
    @court7513 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love that charlotte fills the gaps in my fyp because I saw the last part of the first story and then came to watch this video and got the context I needed 😅

  • @taraharvey8123
    @taraharvey8123 11 месяцев назад +3

    9:40
    😂😂😂
    *Dude out here acting all cocky and shit, like he looks like Jason Momoa! LMAO*

  • @jaimemarston6200
    @jaimemarston6200 11 месяцев назад +27

    I think with the foundation situation I think she either did it on purpose to let the girl know. Either that or she didn’t know that they were already seeing someone and accidentally left it behind but like it’s been said I highly doubt she would forget it because makeup is expensive.

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 11 месяцев назад +2

      I think the boyfriend is a drag queen!

    • @MidniteSpectre
      @MidniteSpectre 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@loosiluthis is my head cannon cause it's funny lol

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 11 месяцев назад

      @@MidniteSpectre same!

  • @maryannsarkady7950
    @maryannsarkady7950 11 месяцев назад +15

    I love your unhingedness ! You make me giggle and have a bright outlook on my day !

  • @kevincoon1809
    @kevincoon1809 11 месяцев назад +14

    You're not losing it, you're embracing your awesomeness. Love your content. If someone thinks you're losing it clearly they don't realize that you're the Potato Queen and we are your Potato Tots and enjoy you and even miss you when you're away.
    You should paint the tiny hands finger nails. They have to be as fabulous as Sharclotte

    • @johncrutchfieldjr
      @johncrutchfieldjr 11 месяцев назад

      Losing not loosing.

    • @kevincoon1809
      @kevincoon1809 11 месяцев назад

      @@johncrutchfieldjr thanks for your comment troll. Let me go and correct my grave spelling errors that have effected your eyeballs. Don't you have anything better to do than correct grammar on someone saying something nice about Charlotte? I spell crappy, oh well.

    • @LoveMyFamilyCountry
      @LoveMyFamilyCountry 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@kevincoon1809 Maybe he wasn't trying to troll but just let you know. Just my opinion and I could be wrong. Hope you have a great weekend !!!

    • @kevincoon1809
      @kevincoon1809 11 месяцев назад

      @@LoveMyFamilyCountry🤔 maybe you're right, I suppose maybe they weren't trying to troll. 🤷‍♂️

    • @LoveMyFamilyCountry
      @LoveMyFamilyCountry 11 месяцев назад

      @@kevincoon1809 No worries !! I do agree that Charlotte is the BEST !!!! Even if I don't listen to anything else, I make it a point to watch Charlotte. No matter how bad the day is, she always makes me smile.

  • @TheOneWifNoUsername
    @TheOneWifNoUsername 11 месяцев назад +3

    “You dont just get to ask for forgiveness and then repeat the same mistakes over and OVER again!!”
    REAL ASF

  • @tiapercival5494
    @tiapercival5494 11 месяцев назад +30

    Watching you lose your mind in front of millions of people makes me feel so much better about losing my own here in the quiet recesses of my home lmao. JK you crack me up girl ❤❤

  • @aleashas570
    @aleashas570 11 месяцев назад +6

    Possible that he asked those people to post the positive messages after cheating on his pregnant wife to help him gaslight her like " Look all these people can forgive why can't you?" Kinda thing.

  • @gypsypixie544
    @gypsypixie544 11 месяцев назад +2

    6:14 I literally choked up hearing the woman’s voice asking those kids…and then I nearly cried when the girl in the car said they would help
    Faith in humanity restored * bawls *

  • @marybell8995
    @marybell8995 11 месяцев назад

    I love you knocked over the mic. You’re goofy, silly and play with tiny hands. Mike is so lucky!!

  • @aya_and_kitties
    @aya_and_kitties 11 месяцев назад +8

    I heard a lot of women leave their intems around in case the guy has a girl that she will then know that he is a cheater

    • @cardemis7637
      @cardemis7637 11 месяцев назад +2

      But fenty foundation? I'd pick drug store if imma do that.

    • @aya_and_kitties
      @aya_and_kitties 11 месяцев назад

      @@cardemis7637fr too expensive for me to just leave 🥲

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +3

      I’ve done it a couple times. Left a sock, an earring etc. the sacrifice is worth sisterhood.

  • @jessicashappyplaceisyoutube
    @jessicashappyplaceisyoutube 11 месяцев назад +11

    Charlotte, you are absolutely glowing!
    It’s been far too long since watching your channel and I just gotta say, you look so beautiful and happy today. I love it. 😊❤
    Now, I gotta catch up on all your hilarious vids I’ve missed! 🎉

  • @DLK-UnME
    @DLK-UnME 11 месяцев назад +3

    Cheating on someone who truly loves you is a VERY VERY cruel thing to do to another person, CRUEL. All you can do is hope that whomever decides to do something so cruel that one day it is done to them so they will truly understand what they did to another person. Disgusting!!! Yay for the amazing humans that want to help👏👏👏👏

  • @Tpawz13
    @Tpawz13 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your videos now vs a year ago are such a different vibe it's insane, I love you either way but you seem way more relaxed and unhinged now in the best way possible. I'm here for it. Need that energy

  • @christinaheagy4602
    @christinaheagy4602 11 месяцев назад +4

    Wow. The woman crawling through the man's girlfriend's apartment door is a perfect picture of how she sees herself. How very sad for her that she has so little self-respect.

  • @heatherdavis345
    @heatherdavis345 11 месяцев назад +37

    I look forward to these uploads every day like so many of us in the tater squad! If Charlotte hasn't welcomed me back ,my day just isn't the same ❤ I hope you all have a fantastic day and an even better weekend ❤

  • @kaylachampion9922
    @kaylachampion9922 Месяц назад

    When we were kids and had the microphone that made our voice echo 😂 I love her voice when she does the “seriouslyyyy” and “embarrassed” 😂

  • @stephieaw1975
    @stephieaw1975 11 месяцев назад

    Your such a joy to watch when I'm feeling down. Thank u!

  • @Bowsercomunista
    @Bowsercomunista 11 месяцев назад +8

    About the foundation one, well you see Charlotte, most people are not "dumb enough" to forget something of theirs at the cheater's house/car, they do it on purpose for the cheater's partner to find out, because they think if they broke up then they'll get together with the cheater, another common practice with the same goal is biting/scratching the cheater so that they'll have bruises to show the partner that they did the deed with someone else
    Edit: my dyslexic ass wrote teacher instead of cheater

    • @daisy9910
      @daisy9910 11 месяцев назад +1

      Some people leave something behind as an excuse to see the person again.

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 11 месяцев назад +5

    About the story at 4:25, the enabler comments kept talking about the ‘mistake’ that person made. There is no mistake in cheating. A mistake is to put salt instead of sugar in your coffee. What that cheater did, he chose to do it. It was not a mistake, it was a choice!

  • @BrittFurr
    @BrittFurr 11 месяцев назад +1

    Need MORE of the cheating series!!! Your reactions are EVERYTHING!!!!!!!

  • @SpringoStar
    @SpringoStar 11 месяцев назад

    My favorite phrase: Stay Weird. I adore those little hands. Reminds me of that skit from SNL.

  • @Ilikefrogs..
    @Ilikefrogs.. 11 месяцев назад +5

    At this point, I make sure to leave something behind whenever I sleep with a new guy. Just in case he's cheating on someone.

  • @felicitycarter8120
    @felicitycarter8120 11 месяцев назад +5

    Cheaters never change. How many diseases could he be passing on to his girlfriend and child? Don’t ever forgive a cheater. Charlotte you need a tiny hand that is flipping the bird. Actually I’d like one too. 😂

  • @H4wks_WCUE
    @H4wks_WCUE 11 месяцев назад +2

    OMG, Charlotte! It’s the tiny hands for me also. That’s my kind of humor; therefore I laugh through some of the important parts of your stories and have to go back and rewatch constantly. I love you AND your tiny hands. 😂

  • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
    @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 11 месяцев назад +2

    12:11 I don’t think he saw the other woman in the booth until his face changed.

  • @eggnogalcoholic
    @eggnogalcoholic 11 месяцев назад +2

    2:58 BROOO this went over my head so hard I thought she was saying she doesn’t wear foundation but the boyfriend was showing she does or she was outing herself… NO THAT MAKEUP IS FROM ANOTHER WOMAN

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch 11 месяцев назад

      That was my first impression too! Especially because she has such a beautiful clear complexion I would have assumed she was wearing foundation.

  • @Twilight.Knight
    @Twilight.Knight 11 месяцев назад +3

    Checked youtube at the perfect time, earliest ive ever been!
    Can already tell its gonna be a great video from the "ATTENTION PICKPOCKETS"😂😂

  • @thebetaguy
    @thebetaguy 11 месяцев назад +1

    13:20 the tiny hands are great. used to watch kellmerkis i think it was.. loved her lil kid hands videos.

    • @musicXisXforever44
      @musicXisXforever44 5 дней назад +1

      It was callmekris, Kris is now living in Texas with her boyfriend Caleb (who is also a RUclipsr by the name of Oompaville) 😊

  • @danielleweiss20
    @danielleweiss20 11 месяцев назад

    Loved this one! I don’t know why I love watching other people’s drama so much.

  • @OfficialAwkbe
    @OfficialAwkbe 11 месяцев назад +4

    If someone cheats on me, even if I do find it in my heart to forgive just that one time, it already has ruined my opinion of them. I'll always look at that person as a cheater and connect it to the betrayal. I'd rather just be told to my face that I'm not loved anymore and I'll let them go with best wishes even if I'm hurt for a while. I'd rather that pain than feeling the pain of betrayal. I hold loyalty and honesty very high in a relationship.

    • @kirstimeretearnesen1202
      @kirstimeretearnesen1202 11 месяцев назад

      And even if one forgive, it's not the same as forget. And to trust that person again must be hard.

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +4

    Miss Charlotte being more unhinged?! We’re here for it!

  • @greenwidow
    @greenwidow 11 месяцев назад +2

    Silly unhinged is good and is fun, thank you for making my day a bit better Charlotte! 😊

  • @1562lilou
    @1562lilou 11 месяцев назад

    I have so much hope for them! The most I've had in this serie! I'm rooting for you guys! Good luck!!! ❤

  • @michaelwalton7776
    @michaelwalton7776 11 месяцев назад +4

    "I probably will." Well, at least he was honest!😏

  • @najadahmer4862
    @najadahmer4862 11 месяцев назад +5

    Just found out my bf cheated on me and been going behind my back for a few months… So that’s my Friday…
    But thank you Charlotte for putting a smile on my face with some good messy drama! Love you 🖤

    • @MidniteSpectre
      @MidniteSpectre 11 месяцев назад +6

      Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not enough, I'm sure you're an amazing person and you deserve happiness! I hope you have a support system that you can depend on in these trying times...

    • @najadahmer4862
      @najadahmer4862 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@MidniteSpectre Thank you so much! It means a lot that you cared to comment, made me a little happier actually. Some people are nice :)

  • @LGSW-mh2vz
    @LGSW-mh2vz 10 месяцев назад +1

    As a Christian, in many religious communities, the marriage comes first and a major part of that is forgiveness (but the other half is repentance)

  • @victoriawilliams2786
    @victoriawilliams2786 11 месяцев назад +1

    You're hair looks amazing Charlotte! Thank-you for all you do for a bunch of internet strangers. You are appreciated. ✌😎🤘

  • @justhearmeout3959
    @justhearmeout3959 11 месяцев назад +38

    Yo serious I CANNOT with how Christianity weaponizes forgiveness.
    No, you're not righteous because you invoked GOD after doing something awful. No you are NOT.
    Oh that touched on some religious trauma oof 😣
    Edit: yes preach Charlotte! ❤❤❤ (see what I did there)

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +8

      Yeah, you ain’t wrong! Never weaponize Christianity. Why? Because Jesus didn’t!
      Forgiveness is critical in any trauma situation but what it is not is A) up to the offending party to determine when it takes place B) an erasure of the slate of dirty deeds done C) acceptance of the offender or D) an excuse/permission to continue the offensive behavior!
      It’s also not for the offender but the offended. It simply means that they will not seek retribution but leave it in God’s hands.
      Can God heal a relationship even after infidelity? Yes. But it is going to require much more than most people are willing to pay. Of course that’s true of living an authentically Christian life and not just one in name only. One hour on Sunday (even every Sunday) does not a Christian make. Ok, I’m down from my pulpit. 😉

    • @cirayah2
      @cirayah2 11 месяцев назад +2

      I promise you it’s not all Christians, we should forgive all but that doesn’t mean stay with them, treat them right, or anything like that.
      Forgive but never forget.

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@cirayah2 I'm aware of this. I'm a Christian. Sadly, it happens to be the loudest ones that are the worst 😒

    • @ida6950
      @ida6950 11 месяцев назад +3

      Right? I absolutely HATE how they go on about how we need to forgive in order to heal. No, speak for yourself, I absolutely do not thank you very much!

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@ida6950 they have a serious misunderstanding of forgiveness. Forgiveness is important for healing but forgiveness is a process that the offended party goes through and it absolutely does NOT have to include a continued relationship with the offender! Forgiveness frees the offended from the weight of pain and payback not the offender from the consequences of their actions which absolutely could include a severing of the relationship.

  • @beckymartin7731
    @beckymartin7731 11 месяцев назад +11

    If you're happy and you know it, clap your tiny hands 🤣
    Thanks for making my day, Charlotte!
    💖

  • @MrsWellner
    @MrsWellner 11 месяцев назад

    YIKES!!!!! Thanks for the afternoon tea, Charlotte!!!! You're amazing just the way you are. Love you!!!!

  • @Hippiechick11
    @Hippiechick11 11 месяцев назад +6

    Text messages and other types of messages can be used in court. You're a fool for putting these out there. But it's great for your ex partners!😅😅🤣

  • @mbourque
    @mbourque 11 месяцев назад +3

    two cheating stories:
    1. I'm a male (48) I've had 12 very serious relationships (including 2 engagements and 2 marriages - 7 years and 16 years) and dozens of casual ones. I have NEVER cheated ever on my S.O. (not that I haven't had plenty of chances, but I grew up with DEEP morals and I've always held my relationship sacred and wouldn't) BUT they have ALL cheated on me... EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. THEM...
    I've always been the 'nice guy', I share the housework and give attention to my girl, even occasionally bring flowers home. BUT, I don't do drama in my life, so I'm not the 'exciting' guy that women want. So they go looking for it else where. I'm to the point of just being a 'fuck boy' instead of trying to make a life with another woman.
    2. I have a couple of handfuls of female friends (about 4 really close ones). and several of them have been cheated on, but they keep going back to those same guys. I never understood it (because once I'm cheated on, I NEVER go back). A couple of them told me that though they hate being cheated on, him sleeping around shows that he's a desirable guy (other women want him too) and the relationship causes them to have lots of different emotions and they never know how their day will turn out with him involved. (like a roller-coaster ride). I find this stupid in the extreme, as I would rather have a dependable and TRUSTWORTHY relationship, than tumultuous and untrustworthy one, no matter how 'passionate' it might be.
    This brings me to the other hand. MOST of the women I know have cheated simply because they were board in their relationships. They've been fed their whole lives by Society, Media, and others that they have to be constantly 'happy' or something is wrong in their relationship. As a Couples Counselor, I can tell you this is utter bullshit.
    Relationships go through cycles of ups and downs. and the downs can be fighting OR can be boring, but both can be changed back to nice times with some work on the couple's part. BUT people today have grown up being told that relationships should 'just work', which is again bullshit. NOTHING in this world 'just works'. EVERYTHING has to have work put into it to make it happen. Your job doesn't 'just work', does it? BUT instead of putting the work into the relationship, people just abandon them instead, looking for fun and excitement elsewhere, which always fades very quickly anyways, so they're off on to another relationship that repeats the same vicious cycle in their lives, never understanding that the problem is their way of thinking and expectations, not the relationship itself. These people will never be happy in the long wrong, because "Happiness" is a fleeting emotion that only lasts for hours or days at most. Not a state of being, like contentment, that can last for months or years. It's like trying to capture a ghost, you'll never be able to do it in the end.

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 11 месяцев назад

      I assure you that most of the girls who accept cheaters back is because of low self esteem. They are afraid to be alone and they think that they can't do better than that. As far as they are the main chicks they are okay what they don't realize is that the more they continue to enable such behavior the more the man loses respect for them.
      And women don't only cheat when they are bored. They may do so if the man doesn't know how to please them sexually or they were never attracted to you in the first place. Also there's no point being a fuckboy just take a break to discover yourself outside relationships

    • @nicolad8822
      @nicolad8822 11 месяцев назад +1

      Deep morals but can’t settle for one person to save your life? 12 “very serious” relationships? 🤣

    • @flamefangstar
      @flamefangstar 11 месяцев назад

      You sound like a good guy, I don't know you, but you sound good.
      Relationships are hit or miss.

    • @Fallen-angel2020
      @Fallen-angel2020 10 месяцев назад

      @@nicolad8822 The math ain’t mathing. How can he have had 12 VERY serious relationships when he was married for 23 of his 48 years. Even if he started dating at 15 that gives him 33 dating years. How did he have 10 other very serious relationships and lots of flings in 10 years? And that’s not taking into account any time he may have been single in between 😂

  • @twiggystardust9573
    @twiggystardust9573 11 месяцев назад +2

    At 6:03, I thought my screen had frozen because everyone in the car got DEAD STILL! If Charlotte wouldn't have blinked, I'd have restarted this daggum laptop! 🤣

  • @Royale_Estrada
    @Royale_Estrada 11 месяцев назад

    Omg I'm so glad you saw the neymar post. I couldn't believe the comments. His comment section was limited so only certain ppl could comment under it. It shows the kind of people he interacts with

  • @LadyMFUnicorn
    @LadyMFUnicorn 11 месяцев назад +3

    2:50 They leave something because they figured out the dude is cheating. So she left it. Its a clue

  • @user-rp8wl9cw4k
    @user-rp8wl9cw4k 11 месяцев назад

    i dont think you know how you bring families closer just for your youtube channel. we live in diferrent states but both watch and relate to all of your videos,thank you

  • @vabakutzeline
    @vabakutzeline 11 месяцев назад +1

    I think Charlotte is "losing it" because she is just so happy. Remember the times when she used to joke about being single? Well, now it seem like she is well on her way to marriage and kids and she is just so happy she can't control her silliness 😊 So nice to watch!

  • @annalisethibodeau5868
    @annalisethibodeau5868 11 месяцев назад +3

    Why would anyone cheat these days 🤣

  • @brianbrown543
    @brianbrown543 11 месяцев назад +4

    "You don't get to ask for forgiveness then repeat the same mistakes over and over again." I guess you don't know how Catholicism works.

    • @16poetisa
      @16poetisa 11 месяцев назад +1

      Only God is that eternally forgiving 🤷🏼‍♀️ and even if you forgive, it doesn't mean you have to stay with them.

  • @aimeemagic2081
    @aimeemagic2081 11 месяцев назад

    I love the lighting in your videos. Looks new. ❤

  • @tfox285
    @tfox285 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love how you let your inner child come out to play.

  • @ScoffEraser
    @ScoffEraser 11 месяцев назад +4

    First potato! 🥔

    • @Livingingratitudeforever
      @Livingingratitudeforever 11 месяцев назад

      Two of us (me and someone else) next to our names it says we posted 1 minute before you so you’re close! Early potatoes rise! 😂❤

  • @Amozon28
    @Amozon28 11 месяцев назад +5

    I HATE when christians play the forgiveness card around cheating, or that you shouldnt divorce because thats a "sin" when theres LITERALLY multiple scripture saying that if your partner cheats u should divorce them. Like yall fake ass Christians hiding behind god to justify bad behavior

    • @queerdeificeeli985
      @queerdeificeeli985 11 месяцев назад

      Yea, some fake Christians also use it as an excuse to be homophobic but some seem to ignore the fact the bible (the one they use) also states slavery is okay and that a rapist can own the woman they've raped. (And it is specifically man raping a woman. Not the other way around)