Cheating is not a "mistake", it's a decision. Using the wrong fork at a formal dinner is a mistake. Forgetting to set your alarm is a mistake. Flirting with someone, arranging a rendezvous, making the decision to betray trust and keep the meet up, lying to someone who trusts you to account for your time away and lying again to cover your deceit is not a "mistake".
Just like there are no accidental pregnancies. My daughters beau tried to say he had a kid accidentally so I said no, you did not accidentally take out your member and accidentally fall inside some woman. It takes conscious actions, just like cheating.
This! My ex tried the whole “oh my god babe I swear it was a mistake! I didn’t mean to hurt you! I didn’t think right!” Bs excuse when I caught him🙄🙄 also had my other ex tell me that “it happened in the beginning of our relationship before I knew where it was going, I didn’t know I’d fall in love with you! I swear it was in the first 3 months of our relationship babe! I only did it so I could see if I cared about you or not and I instantly regretted doing it bc shes nothing like you! Please forgive me! Men make mistakes!” 🤦🏻♀️😑 this was after I spent 2 years with this man and only found out bc he let me use his old phone when mine broke and stupidly didn’t delete ANYTHING from it so I got to see every picture, text and video they took together.
As a Brazilian, I think that Neymar's situation is more than disgusting. A lot of people are treating him like a boy who made a silly mistake, but when a famous singer around here was accused of cheating her husband (false allegations, btw, and the husband was one of the people who defend her and debunk the allegations), she was destroyed by a lot of people even when she was proven innocent, to the point that she got a severe depression. Just make me sick some people.
The cheater being uplifted by other dudes would be the opposite if his gf cheated. "In it's our nature to cheat, women choose to cheat." That mentality.
Without a doubt! I don’t know how they can support that type of behavior. Call him out! Call him to a higher standard because that is NOT what being a man is. This may just be me being a man but I wonder if she might not also have received supportive comments from members within her friend circle if she had been the one to cheat? I’m definitely not excusing him, I’m just curious if the same energy would be maintained if the roles were reversed. Cheating is wrong regardless of who does it, when they do it, or why they do it yet a lot of people still try to defend it and I just don’t get it. I hear guys say crap like, “She isn’t giving me enough attention.” While girls will say, “He doesn’t talk to me.” Or “He/She isn’t as affectionate/ romantic as when we first me.” No excuse; if you don’t like the state of the relationship then either work to change it or exit it but don’t create trauma in the process.
I know she doesn't deserve sympathy if she knowingly participated in cheating, but still... Can't help but feel bad for a girl with low enough self esteem that she willingly crawled around on the floor to sleep with *that* guy. She *knows* he's a broke, cheating, man child who's mooching off his girlfriend. I hope she found some self respect on that floor.
@andreabradley5837 okay fair, but.... that's still just demeaning. Tell that man to call her when he has his own place to take her back to. Or better yet, call her never if he's seriously gonna ask her to crawl like a dog for the chance to sleep with him. No person is worth that.
1. Dude should have just gone in the house normally and tripped the main breaker for the house for a couple of minutes. Same when she went to leave. 2. I have had coworkers leave their makeup in my car when we all went to eat lunch. It’s not always the worst case scenario.
@@Nostradevus1 I had the same thought about that second one. I mean, haven't happened to me, but if that's the only thing "going on", I wouldn't be too worried.
I respect women who let their fellow woman know that their man is cheating on them. These gross dudes need to be outed!!!! Send the screenshots, receipts, ect!
i saw a similar video where a guy who after finding out the random girl he hooked up with had a bf he taped a piece of paper on the underside of the toilet seat at her house, letting her bf know what she did, knowing that only he would lift the toilet seat. these gross chicks need to be outed!
It's possible that they could have been at the same game but didn't know it... possible but not bloody likely! If the girlfriend is checking his ex-girlfriend's page then she was likely suspicious long before he went to the game and this was confirmation. Many years ago, I experienced a weird fluke of unexpectedly being in the same place at the same time as another person without knowing, and it was pretty funny. Back in 1979, my high school drama club took a senior trip to NYC for a week to see Broadway shows and visit NYC landmarks, we had a great time. We were at the airport waiting for our plane to fly back to Dallas. The plane landed, having just flown nonstop FROM Dallas, and we were watching the passengers disembark. Then we saw Chuck, a classmate from school who knew most of us but wouldn't have known about our trip. All the sudden, here are @ 12 of his classmates from Dallas surrounding him, saying "Welcome to New York! We've been waiting for you, about time you got here!" I wish I'd thought to take a pic, he looked so shocked. He was in stunned silence but finally said, "What's happening? HOW is this happening??"
I loathe with every fiber of my being when people cheat and say it was a "mistake"...you know how many CHOICES you have to make before you even physically cheat?!?
As a Brazilian, just know that the majority of us hates Neymar because of his political views, and now even more because he's a cheater. He also bult a mansion on protected natural land, so yeah. The majority of comments saying he was good and all are from religious people who have the same views. We call them "people from good/good people" ironically. They're all about God and religion but very bigoted. Usually the ones who wants to protect "traditional family" while cheating. Edit to add: it wasn't protected land, he built an artificial lake where he couldn't and without a permit. He'll need to pay millions in fines, but that's not a problem for him. Still, a lot of people are, reasonably, mad about it.
The girl who posted the ring camera footage actually said that the girl crawling on the ground reached out to her and said that he didn't tell her he had a girlfriend. He apparently told her his parents said not to have anyone over so she had to crawl past the camera. The two girls are friends now❤
I don't allow cheaters to continue in my life. I had it happen once in high school many many moons ago, and I ended that quick. And we all know cheaters will try to shift the blame on someone else, and that is exactly what he did. He called out my friend for ratting him out. I dumped him in front of all of his friends in the middle of the packed lunch room.
I still love the video of the girl, whose mom was coming out from anesthesia after hand surgery, and the daughter used a fake small hand to prank her mom. She convinced her poor mother that she had donated her own real hand to her mom due to complications in the surgery, and the fake hand was the replacement they gave her. It was hilarious. I think it was on one of your reactions videos here that I saw it.
That one was funny. With how much Charlotte loves tiny hands, wouldn't it be cute if her bf proposed with a bouquet of tiny hands with the ring on one of them? 💍🥂🥳✨💖
There is a difference between "I made a mistake, please forgive me" and "I cheated on you. Please forgive me." A mistake is not listening when you should have or getting into an argument you regret. Cheating went from the *mistake* of letting your eyes wander, letting your thoughts wander, and THEN not stopping! And then following through! And then keeping secrets and lying and gaslighting. That is not a mistake!! That is willful, planned. It's s the difference between manslaughter and murder. Intent matters.
@@dianaquill9969 Yeah, I'm from Brazil and the people with that mentality are hypocrites who think that just bc someone follows a religion, have "values", and follows the same alt-right party are good people that deseve forgiviness but lots of people here don't like people like that and the actions that Neymar did
@@aliceandrade7164 Please don't associate hypocrisy with their vague political affiliation. A leftist who uses "sex positivity" to trample boundaries and get her ace sister to "get better" about sex by having sex with her bf in front of her doesn't deserve to be associated with the left, even the far left. It is boundary trampling, it is cheating. Everyone with common sense understands that these things are disgusting and deserves ridicule (at minimum for cheating, cheaters have just about anything coming). Calling this a problem with a certain group only promotes division when it's not already political.
@@aliceandrade7164 sorry for the long comment, it just annoys me that I try to avoid political crap, yet it seems to be a part of Every Single Thing. Even AITA videos. You can't escape someone slighting the "other side" casually to show some kind of 'moral superiority'. Thank you for listening to my rant. I hope you have a lovely day!
Sadly, as a latin American, I can confirm that a lot of people have the mentality of "all men cheat so it's not that bad, it's just part of being men." I was born and raised in Colombia and the ammoubt of people I know who have gotten that answer when cheated on or forgiven their cheaters with that mentality is heartbreaking.
in Brasil we have a history with bashing woman for YEARS because the internet THINKS she cheated, but with EVERY man the response is: take care of your bussiness, god... it never fails
@@juliacabral4781 até um dia desse tinha gente ainda xingando ela, mas uma vez eu falei do Arthur arguiar e saiu gente até do bueiro pra defender o "presente de Deus" kkkkkkkk
I once found out that I was the other woman... I left a pair of underwear (clean from my weekend bag) under the pillow on the side of the bed I would sleep on with a small note saying sorry with my number and to send a text if she wanted the receipts... We destroyed that man together and are still friends 😂 Much love from Arizona 💜💜
Sometimes the other woman is a bad person. Sometimes shes a great woman who didnt know. We stan a great woman who rectifies in the glorious name of justice and balance ❤❤
Also: why did I find such comfort from Charlotte shushing and petting the mic? Lmao I usually hate asmr videos because I can’t stand mouth sounds. But it was so lovely. Lol
I really want another "things that will make you a bridezilla" video coz I get married in like 21 days and planning a wedding will literally make you crazy no matter how chill of a bride you are or try to be! Just when you think you've got it figured out someone comes along and changes all the details you've got planned and this cycle repeats at least once a week for your whole engagement
Idk why but the restaurant FBI cheater catcher recap made me cry laughing “honestly they were taking so long arguing we dipped” I’d have been sitting on my car with a bag of chips watching it ALL
I drank for the first time this year at the weekend.. it was pride.. got a little drunk because it’s always a good time, dancing, drag queens, 90s music, everyone is just free and doing their thing. I love it. I couldn’t stop shouting attenzione.. it was just Charlottes voice in my head.. got a group of people yelling it everytime we passed each other 😅 I love drunk people
I feel like on the other end of the spectrum, not every woman is aware that the man they're screwing around with is in a relationship, men lie constantly. Leaving something like a fenty foundation, stick on nail, etc is a great way to set a trap for the man and let the gf bust him.
Your videos now vs a year ago are such a different vibe it's insane, I love you either way but you seem way more relaxed and unhinged now in the best way possible. I'm here for it. Need that energy
At about 9:45, i had a similar experience with an ex, who told me that most guys would hit me for "talking to him like that" because i defended the fact that my parents weren't the exception for staying married and happy for 35 years. I didn't know what a narcissist was then.
I would love to tell a guy like that “Good thing I’m not most guys and would prefer to put a bullet in his head.” Along those lines so it’s not officially a threat lol
No but fr, I grew up surrounded be narcissists, I’m unsure if there’s one or they are still both gaslighting me, ik I was there in the moment but so many different versions of the same story were told to me idk what the truth is anymore.. I was 5 at the time but the story continues 😂 Sorry you went through what you went through, hopefully they weren’t too crazy 😊
Agree that it was intentional. I mean, who the hell carries foundation around with them? Lipstick, mascara, sure, but foundation? That was definitely planted.
100 percent she did my ex new dog rat bitch use to leave her white clothing for me to find knowing dam well I'd know me and him always wore black bitch knew what she was doing ladies jf you thjnk he's cheating get some gloves and check out his trash my dumbass ex didn't think I would yhis isn't my first rodeo with a sketchy man check there bins they will have something to hide I found so much evidence he thought I would never find I'm not scared to get dirty to weed out dirty rat from my life fuck em man to anyone who's been hurt your beautiful you don't need no one you got it xx
Are people outta their FREAKING minds?! Cheating is NOT a "mistake"!!!! If you were a descent person, you dont cheat! Well said on your end Charlotte! ❤
Honestly, that would be the hugest compliment to me. Someone thinks I'm cute enough to steal her man? Girl, stop you're making me blush, let's get him and then get some margaritas!
I was once asked to spy on a cheating husband. I was asked to go to a movie that he was supposed to be going to with friends. It was that horrible Hulk Hogan wrestling movie No Holds Barred in 1989. He never showed up and I had to sit thru that whole movie with a theater full of screaming kids.
There’s a possibility that foundation girl, the one he was cheating with, didn’t realize he had a girlfriend, and when she did figure it out, that’s why she left the foundation.
We don't know that he was cheating, she was just assuming he was. It's entirely possible that foundation could have belonged to one of his female family members.
You're not losing it, you're embracing your awesomeness. Love your content. If someone thinks you're losing it clearly they don't realize that you're the Potato Queen and we are your Potato Tots and enjoy you and even miss you when you're away. You should paint the tiny hands finger nails. They have to be as fabulous as Sharclotte
@@johncrutchfieldjr thanks for your comment troll. Let me go and correct my grave spelling errors that have effected your eyeballs. Don't you have anything better to do than correct grammar on someone saying something nice about Charlotte? I spell crappy, oh well.
@@kevincoon1809 No worries !! I do agree that Charlotte is the BEST !!!! Even if I don't listen to anything else, I make it a point to watch Charlotte. No matter how bad the day is, she always makes me smile.
I love that charlotte fills the gaps in my fyp because I saw the last part of the first story and then came to watch this video and got the context I needed 😅
As a woman I’m curious to what can make another woman agree to crawl to get a man’s apartment so that he can cheat. I mean first you know he already has a girlfriend he’s not planning to leave to be with you and that D can’t be that good come on and you can’t be that desperate 😂😂😂 Huh Jesse is one dumb potato. Wow Audacity must have been on sale because he got a lot of it
My ex husband was a fan of talking to/sending photos to other women on Facebook Messenger - that's not a "mistake". That was a series of intentional acts that he knew would hurt me.
I always find it hilarious (and also just disgusting) how, whenever a guy cheats on his gf and a girl cheats on her bf. Whenever there is talks about forgiving them, it’s always the guy that gets the pass and everyone says the guy made a mistake but you can work thru it and come out stronger etc etc 🤮 But they never offer that same energy to the girl. Instead the girl always just gets called every name under the sun and dragged to filth etc etc. just something I always notice in them situations and just makes me laugh. 🤦🏼♀️
Yuuup just like with Ariana Grande they are calling her all sorts of name but no vitriol 4 the guy that cheated on his wife!! They keep calling her a hone wrecker but it takes 2!!
3:03 We also have to take an account that the other person doesn’t always know that the person they’re seeing is in a relationship, they might just are you leaving stuff behind because they didn’t know
Neymar is HUGE in the soccer (football for the brits) world. People fully believe he can do no wrong, even though he's a known cheater, liar, unpleasant team mate, and tax evader. But because he's very very rich and very very famous, people will wash away all this as "we all make mistakes uwu". I hate that guy.
6:14 I literally choked up hearing the woman’s voice asking those kids…and then I nearly cried when the girl in the car said they would help Faith in humanity restored * bawls *
Cheating on someone who truly loves you is a VERY VERY cruel thing to do to another person, CRUEL. All you can do is hope that whomever decides to do something so cruel that one day it is done to them so they will truly understand what they did to another person. Disgusting!!! Yay for the amazing humans that want to help👏👏👏👏
She probably was only crawling because he told her he was house sitting and didn’t want the owner to know. I doubt he outright told her hey you need to crawl so my gf doesn’t see you in here.
@@tessgonzalez There are plenty of women who have affairs with men in relationships then get fed up with the man thus text the girlfriends proof the men were cheating the whole time.
The way I would immediately turn into Sharklotte to help that woman catch her cheating bf. Sharklotte savage AF. I wish someone would come up to me like that to ask for help. I'd be TOO down. Hahahah
At 6:03, I thought my screen had frozen because everyone in the car got DEAD STILL! If Charlotte wouldn't have blinked, I'd have restarted this daggum laptop! 🤣
Charlotte, you are absolutely glowing! It’s been far too long since watching your channel and I just gotta say, you look so beautiful and happy today. I love it. 😊❤ Now, I gotta catch up on all your hilarious vids I’ve missed! 🎉
About the story at 4:25, the enabler comments kept talking about the ‘mistake’ that person made. There is no mistake in cheating. A mistake is to put salt instead of sugar in your coffee. What that cheater did, he chose to do it. It was not a mistake, it was a choice!
I think with the foundation situation I think she either did it on purpose to let the girl know. Either that or she didn’t know that they were already seeing someone and accidentally left it behind but like it’s been said I highly doubt she would forget it because makeup is expensive.
I look forward to these uploads every day like so many of us in the tater squad! If Charlotte hasn't welcomed me back ,my day just isn't the same ❤ I hope you all have a fantastic day and an even better weekend ❤
Regarding the cheater who said they would do it again, his texts are a fairly good example of the classic strategy used by manipulative people, DARVO which stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. He starts by denying everything about the situation and also attacks in the same sentence. He then flips the story around saying he can't even get a date. He then continues with more unhinged ranting, we get the see another classic denial though there is no proof he hit her, he feels the need to tell us he didn't and the proof is she still has teeth. Also, a better person would never need to say they are a better person. I feel the narcissist label is well placed on this one.
Watching you lose your mind in front of millions of people makes me feel so much better about losing my own here in the quiet recesses of my home lmao. JK you crack me up girl ❤❤
Perfect, I just found out my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy of our now 4 month old. This woman knew I was pregnant, knew we have a 3 year old and knew we've been together for 6 years.. I'm in an uphill battle mentally and I don't feel okay anymore. Postpartum is already hard enough as it is, cheaters SUCK.
Im so sorry girl that fucking sucks. I hate hate cheaters but the ones that cheat on their pregnant wives i hate most of all. Assholes. Shes creating your kid for you!!!!
i dont think you know how you bring families closer just for your youtube channel. we live in diferrent states but both watch and relate to all of your videos,thank you
Possible that he asked those people to post the positive messages after cheating on his pregnant wife to help him gaslight her like " Look all these people can forgive why can't you?" Kinda thing.
Omg I'm so glad you saw the neymar post. I couldn't believe the comments. His comment section was limited so only certain ppl could comment under it. It shows the kind of people he interacts with
Just found out my bf cheated on me and been going behind my back for a few months… So that’s my Friday… But thank you Charlotte for putting a smile on my face with some good messy drama! Love you 🖤
Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not enough, I'm sure you're an amazing person and you deserve happiness! I hope you have a support system that you can depend on in these trying times...
If someone cheats on me, even if I do find it in my heart to forgive just that one time, it already has ruined my opinion of them. I'll always look at that person as a cheater and connect it to the betrayal. I'd rather just be told to my face that I'm not loved anymore and I'll let them go with best wishes even if I'm hurt for a while. I'd rather that pain than feeling the pain of betrayal. I hold loyalty and honesty very high in a relationship.
Cheaters never change. How many diseases could he be passing on to his girlfriend and child? Don’t ever forgive a cheater. Charlotte you need a tiny hand that is flipping the bird. Actually I’d like one too. 😂
Wow. The woman crawling through the man's girlfriend's apartment door is a perfect picture of how she sees herself. How very sad for her that she has so little self-respect.
About the foundation one, well you see Charlotte, most people are not "dumb enough" to forget something of theirs at the cheater's house/car, they do it on purpose for the cheater's partner to find out, because they think if they broke up then they'll get together with the cheater, another common practice with the same goal is biting/scratching the cheater so that they'll have bruises to show the partner that they did the deed with someone else Edit: my dyslexic ass wrote teacher instead of cheater
4:01 he may he a great brother but if he cheated he's not a great partner or father since part of it is setting a good example for your child through how you treat their other parent to show how they should treat the person they love and how they should be treated in the future 💀
I think Charlotte is "losing it" because she is just so happy. Remember the times when she used to joke about being single? Well, now it seem like she is well on her way to marriage and kids and she is just so happy she can't control her silliness 😊 So nice to watch!
Yo serious I CANNOT with how Christianity weaponizes forgiveness. No, you're not righteous because you invoked GOD after doing something awful. No you are NOT. Oh that touched on some religious trauma oof 😣 Edit: yes preach Charlotte! ❤❤❤ (see what I did there)
Yeah, you ain’t wrong! Never weaponize Christianity. Why? Because Jesus didn’t! Forgiveness is critical in any trauma situation but what it is not is A) up to the offending party to determine when it takes place B) an erasure of the slate of dirty deeds done C) acceptance of the offender or D) an excuse/permission to continue the offensive behavior! It’s also not for the offender but the offended. It simply means that they will not seek retribution but leave it in God’s hands. Can God heal a relationship even after infidelity? Yes. But it is going to require much more than most people are willing to pay. Of course that’s true of living an authentically Christian life and not just one in name only. One hour on Sunday (even every Sunday) does not a Christian make. Ok, I’m down from my pulpit. 😉
I promise you it’s not all Christians, we should forgive all but that doesn’t mean stay with them, treat them right, or anything like that. Forgive but never forget.
Right? I absolutely HATE how they go on about how we need to forgive in order to heal. No, speak for yourself, I absolutely do not thank you very much!
@@ida6950 they have a serious misunderstanding of forgiveness. Forgiveness is important for healing but forgiveness is a process that the offended party goes through and it absolutely does NOT have to include a continued relationship with the offender! Forgiveness frees the offended from the weight of pain and payback not the offender from the consequences of their actions which absolutely could include a severing of the relationship.
two cheating stories: 1. I'm a male (48) I've had 12 very serious relationships (including 2 engagements and 2 marriages - 7 years and 16 years) and dozens of casual ones. I have NEVER cheated ever on my S.O. (not that I haven't had plenty of chances, but I grew up with DEEP morals and I've always held my relationship sacred and wouldn't) BUT they have ALL cheated on me... EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. THEM... I've always been the 'nice guy', I share the housework and give attention to my girl, even occasionally bring flowers home. BUT, I don't do drama in my life, so I'm not the 'exciting' guy that women want. So they go looking for it else where. I'm to the point of just being a 'fuck boy' instead of trying to make a life with another woman. 2. I have a couple of handfuls of female friends (about 4 really close ones). and several of them have been cheated on, but they keep going back to those same guys. I never understood it (because once I'm cheated on, I NEVER go back). A couple of them told me that though they hate being cheated on, him sleeping around shows that he's a desirable guy (other women want him too) and the relationship causes them to have lots of different emotions and they never know how their day will turn out with him involved. (like a roller-coaster ride). I find this stupid in the extreme, as I would rather have a dependable and TRUSTWORTHY relationship, than tumultuous and untrustworthy one, no matter how 'passionate' it might be. This brings me to the other hand. MOST of the women I know have cheated simply because they were board in their relationships. They've been fed their whole lives by Society, Media, and others that they have to be constantly 'happy' or something is wrong in their relationship. As a Couples Counselor, I can tell you this is utter bullshit. Relationships go through cycles of ups and downs. and the downs can be fighting OR can be boring, but both can be changed back to nice times with some work on the couple's part. BUT people today have grown up being told that relationships should 'just work', which is again bullshit. NOTHING in this world 'just works'. EVERYTHING has to have work put into it to make it happen. Your job doesn't 'just work', does it? BUT instead of putting the work into the relationship, people just abandon them instead, looking for fun and excitement elsewhere, which always fades very quickly anyways, so they're off on to another relationship that repeats the same vicious cycle in their lives, never understanding that the problem is their way of thinking and expectations, not the relationship itself. These people will never be happy in the long wrong, because "Happiness" is a fleeting emotion that only lasts for hours or days at most. Not a state of being, like contentment, that can last for months or years. It's like trying to capture a ghost, you'll never be able to do it in the end.
I assure you that most of the girls who accept cheaters back is because of low self esteem. They are afraid to be alone and they think that they can't do better than that. As far as they are the main chicks they are okay what they don't realize is that the more they continue to enable such behavior the more the man loses respect for them. And women don't only cheat when they are bored. They may do so if the man doesn't know how to please them sexually or they were never attracted to you in the first place. Also there's no point being a fuckboy just take a break to discover yourself outside relationships
@@nicolad8822 The math ain’t mathing. How can he have had 12 VERY serious relationships when he was married for 23 of his 48 years. Even if he started dating at 15 that gives him 33 dating years. How did he have 10 other very serious relationships and lots of flings in 10 years? And that’s not taking into account any time he may have been single in between 😂
You have taken over my RUclips. I sit here playing videogames listening, and get caught watching your videos. I have to say I love your videos have kept me entertained with the petty spaghetti's you post! Thanks for the laughs and the Absolutely Nots!
@@Mimibelle0304 ruclips.net/user/shortsjeZVXGvs7Ig?feature=share The short answer is she doesn’t actually know the pickpocketers but rather she’s racially profiling people. Also she’s part of a political party that hates romani people, gays, and is facist.
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Cheating is not a "mistake", it's a decision. Using the wrong fork at a formal dinner is a mistake. Forgetting to set your alarm is a mistake. Flirting with someone, arranging a rendezvous, making the decision to betray trust and keep the meet up, lying to someone who trusts you to account for your time away and lying again to cover your deceit is not a "mistake".
Exactly! It's a deliberate act of deceit
Just like there are no accidental pregnancies. My daughters beau tried to say he had a kid accidentally so I said no, you did not accidentally take out your member and accidentally fall inside some woman. It takes conscious actions, just like cheating.
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This! My ex tried the whole “oh my god babe I swear it was a mistake! I didn’t mean to hurt you! I didn’t think right!” Bs excuse when I caught him🙄🙄 also had my other ex tell me that “it happened in the beginning of our relationship before I knew where it was going, I didn’t know I’d fall in love with you! I swear it was in the first 3 months of our relationship babe! I only did it so I could see if I cared about you or not and I instantly regretted doing it bc shes nothing like you! Please forgive me! Men make mistakes!” 🤦🏻♀️😑 this was after I spent 2 years with this man and only found out bc he let me use his old phone when mine broke and stupidly didn’t delete ANYTHING from it so I got to see every picture, text and video they took together.
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As a Brazilian, I think that Neymar's situation is more than disgusting. A lot of people are treating him like a boy who made a silly mistake, but when a famous singer around here was accused of cheating her husband (false allegations, btw, and the husband was one of the people who defend her and debunk the allegations), she was destroyed by a lot of people even when she was proven innocent, to the point that she got a severe depression. Just make me sick some people.
The cheater being uplifted by other dudes would be the opposite if his gf cheated. "In it's our nature to cheat, women choose to cheat." That mentality.
It’s literally UNHINGED mentality but they call women “crazy” when we just point out their lies I can’t do it anymore 😭
Really goes to show how we're halfway through evolving from a polyamorous species to a monogamous one. So many people are still out here cheating.
Blessed be the fruit.
@@irksomesophist I agree. Liberace 4 Ever!
Without a doubt! I don’t know how they can support that type of behavior. Call him out! Call him to a higher standard because that is NOT what being a man is.
This may just be me being a man but I wonder if she might not also have received supportive comments from members within her friend circle if she had been the one to cheat? I’m definitely not excusing him, I’m just curious if the same energy would be maintained if the roles were reversed. Cheating is wrong regardless of who does it, when they do it, or why they do it yet a lot of people still try to defend it and I just don’t get it. I hear guys say crap like, “She isn’t giving me enough attention.” While girls will say, “He doesn’t talk to me.” Or “He/She isn’t as affectionate/ romantic as when we first me.” No excuse; if you don’t like the state of the relationship then either work to change it or exit it but don’t create trauma in the process.
I know she doesn't deserve sympathy if she knowingly participated in cheating, but still... Can't help but feel bad for a girl with low enough self esteem that she willingly crawled around on the floor to sleep with *that* guy. She *knows* he's a broke, cheating, man child who's mooching off his girlfriend.
I hope she found some self respect on that floor.
This, I can't understand these women at all. I guess they just be horny?
baaaahahah yes
She may have just been told that it was a random client and he wasn't supposed to have guests. Sometimes people lie, especially the ones who cheat.
She did, she was the one who sent the gf screen shots of their texts
@andreabradley5837 okay fair, but.... that's still just demeaning. Tell that man to call her when he has his own place to take her back to. Or better yet, call her never if he's seriously gonna ask her to crawl like a dog for the chance to sleep with him.
No person is worth that.
What an absolute gentleman, holding the door open for her to crawl through! 😂
This gives me hope as I previuosly heard chivalry was dead
Great man there
1. Dude should have just gone in the house normally and tripped the main breaker for the house for a couple of minutes. Same when she went to leave.
2. I have had coworkers leave their makeup in my car when we all went to eat lunch. It’s not always the worst case scenario.
@@Nostradevus1 I had the same thought about that second one. I mean, haven't happened to me, but if that's the only thing "going on", I wouldn't be too worried.
I can't deside which is worse, him asking her to crawl and hide or her doing the crawling.
Does anyone else want Charlotte to paint the nails on her tiny hands a nice, bright colour... or is it just me? 💅😍
Ohhhh yes she needs some mini claws
Might as well paint the shark Charlotte's teeth too 😂
@@danwilson970WTH, that made no sense at all. 🤦🏻♀️
@@CharlotteDobrepleaseeeee 🙏🏼
@@danwilson970 I mean, you could give Sharklotte tooth gems 💎 🦷
I respect women who let their fellow woman know that their man is cheating on them. These gross dudes need to be outed!!!! Send the screenshots, receipts, ect!
i saw a similar video where a guy who after finding out the random girl he hooked up with had a bf he taped a piece of paper on the underside of the toilet seat at her house, letting her bf know what she did, knowing that only he would lift the toilet seat. these gross chicks need to be outed!
@@Xcarbonizer I agree. All cheaters need to be outed!
Every cheater needs to be outed,no matter their gender.
I swear !!! ✌🏽❤️
eeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy'poik11111111111111111111
That white hat distinguished gentleman being the landmark, helping a cheater get caught yet having no idea what he did is just hilarious😂
It's possible that they could have been at the same game but didn't know it... possible but not bloody likely! If the girlfriend is checking his ex-girlfriend's page then she was likely suspicious long before he went to the game and this was confirmation.
Many years ago, I experienced a weird fluke of unexpectedly being in the same place at the same time as another person without knowing, and it was pretty funny.
Back in 1979, my high school drama club took a senior trip to NYC for a week to see Broadway shows and visit NYC landmarks, we had a great time. We were at the airport waiting for our plane to fly back to Dallas. The plane landed, having just flown nonstop FROM Dallas, and we were watching the passengers disembark. Then we saw Chuck, a classmate from school who knew most of us but wouldn't have known about our trip. All the sudden, here are @ 12 of his classmates from Dallas surrounding him, saying "Welcome to New York! We've been waiting for you, about time you got here!"
I wish I'd thought to take a pic, he looked so shocked. He was in stunned silence but finally said, "What's happening? HOW is this happening??"
I know! I'm scrolling trying to find more comments about this incident and no one is talking about it!
I just know that poor girl at the end is getting called “crazy” and “insecure” by him when she literally has proof
Fr
I know the feeling
It really sucks
x
I loathe with every fiber of my being when people cheat and say it was a "mistake"...you know how many CHOICES you have to make before you even physically cheat?!?
As a Brazilian, just know that the majority of us hates Neymar because of his political views, and now even more because he's a cheater. He also bult a mansion on protected natural land, so yeah.
The majority of comments saying he was good and all are from religious people who have the same views.
We call them "people from good/good people" ironically. They're all about God and religion but very bigoted. Usually the ones who wants to protect "traditional family" while cheating.
Edit to add: it wasn't protected land, he built an artificial lake where he couldn't and without a permit. He'll need to pay millions in fines, but that's not a problem for him. Still, a lot of people are, reasonably, mad about it.
See, I call these types of religious people Talibangelists..
And then there are others like people who don't believe in "cults" that call him scum.
@@Swnsasyok, this one is great. I'm stealing
@@giovannamautone 🤭🤗♥️
Sounds a lot like the Evangelical Conservatives here in the USA who claim to be Christians but are anything but Christ-like.
The girl who posted the ring camera footage actually said that the girl crawling on the ground reached out to her and said that he didn't tell her he had a girlfriend. He apparently told her his parents said not to have anyone over so she had to crawl past the camera. The two girls are friends now❤
I don't allow cheaters to continue in my life. I had it happen once in high school many many moons ago, and I ended that quick. And we all know cheaters will try to shift the blame on someone else, and that is exactly what he did. He called out my friend for ratting him out. I dumped him in front of all of his friends in the middle of the packed lunch room.
I still love the video of the girl, whose mom was coming out from anesthesia after hand surgery, and the daughter used a fake small hand to prank her mom.
She convinced her poor mother that she had donated her own real hand to her mom due to complications in the surgery, and the fake hand was the replacement they gave her.
It was hilarious.
I think it was on one of your reactions videos here that I saw it.
That one was funny. With how much Charlotte loves tiny hands, wouldn't it be cute if her bf proposed with a bouquet of tiny hands with the ring on one of them? 💍🥂🥳✨💖
@@paulagoeringer9466 Oh, yes! That would be cute! I hope Mike sees this idea!!!
There is a difference between "I made a mistake, please forgive me" and "I cheated on you. Please forgive me." A mistake is not listening when you should have or getting into an argument you regret. Cheating went from the *mistake* of letting your eyes wander, letting your thoughts wander, and THEN not stopping! And then following through! And then keeping secrets and lying and gaslighting. That is not a mistake!! That is willful, planned.
It's s the difference between manslaughter and murder. Intent matters.
Absolutely! Very well put! And invoking God's name in blessing the couple with that announcement!? The people who commented were delulu as heck.
Neymar is the kind of gaslighting.
@@dianaquill9969 Yeah, I'm from Brazil and the people with that mentality are hypocrites who think that just bc someone follows a religion, have "values", and follows the same alt-right party are good people that deseve forgiviness but lots of people here don't like people like that and the actions that Neymar did
@@aliceandrade7164 Please don't associate hypocrisy with their vague political affiliation. A leftist who uses "sex positivity" to trample boundaries and get her ace sister to "get better" about sex by having sex with her bf in front of her doesn't deserve to be associated with the left, even the far left. It is boundary trampling, it is cheating. Everyone with common sense understands that these things are disgusting and deserves ridicule (at minimum for cheating, cheaters have just about anything coming). Calling this a problem with a certain group only promotes division when it's not already political.
@@aliceandrade7164 sorry for the long comment, it just annoys me that I try to avoid political crap, yet it seems to be a part of Every Single Thing. Even AITA videos. You can't escape someone slighting the "other side" casually to show some kind of 'moral superiority'.
Thank you for listening to my rant. I hope you have a lovely day!
Sadly, as a latin American, I can confirm that a lot of people have the mentality of "all men cheat so it's not that bad, it's just part of being men." I was born and raised in Colombia and the ammoubt of people I know who have gotten that answer when cheated on or forgiven their cheaters with that mentality is heartbreaking.
in Brasil we have a history with bashing woman for YEARS because the internet THINKS she cheated, but with EVERY man the response is: take care of your bussiness, god... it never fails
The double standard is sickening!! 🤮 🤮 🤮
Tão real que só de ler entendi que era a Luísa
@@juliacabral4781essa sofreu o pão que o diabo amassou, coitada
@@juliacabral4781 até um dia desse tinha gente ainda xingando ela, mas uma vez eu falei do Arthur arguiar e saiu gente até do bueiro pra defender o "presente de Deus" kkkkkkkk
Nossa tão real que dói
I once found out that I was the other woman... I left a pair of underwear (clean from my weekend bag) under the pillow on the side of the bed I would sleep on with a small note saying sorry with my number and to send a text if she wanted the receipts... We destroyed that man together and are still friends 😂
Much love from Arizona 💜💜
Sometimes the other woman is a bad person. Sometimes shes a great woman who didnt know. We stan a great woman who rectifies in the glorious name of justice and balance ❤❤
I love you!
Also: why did I find such comfort from Charlotte shushing and petting the mic? Lmao I usually hate asmr videos because I can’t stand mouth sounds. But it was so lovely. Lol
I would like to see the tiny hands pull the negativity as well as Charlotte does...LOL
@@jessicaburton75 OMG yes please!!
I really want another "things that will make you a bridezilla" video coz I get married in like 21 days and planning a wedding will literally make you crazy no matter how chill of a bride you are or try to be! Just when you think you've got it figured out someone comes along and changes all the details you've got planned and this cycle repeats at least once a week for your whole engagement
I'm getting married next year. I'm nervous but I'm going to stand my ground if someone tries to change something or make it about themselves.
Idk why but the restaurant FBI cheater catcher recap made me cry laughing “honestly they were taking so long arguing we dipped”
I’d have been sitting on my car with a bag of chips watching it ALL
I drank for the first time this year at the weekend.. it was pride.. got a little drunk because it’s always a good time, dancing, drag queens, 90s music, everyone is just free and doing their thing. I love it. I couldn’t stop shouting attenzione.. it was just Charlottes voice in my head.. got a group of people yelling it everytime we passed each other 😅 I love drunk people
I feel like on the other end of the spectrum, not every woman is aware that the man they're screwing around with is in a relationship, men lie constantly. Leaving something like a fenty foundation, stick on nail, etc is a great way to set a trap for the man and let the gf bust him.
"Please don't do this to others in the future." "Nah, can't do that, I probably will." And this is why some societies would stone adulterers.
I audibly gasped when I saw/read that
Well at least he didn't give false hope
💯💯💯
Only adulterer they stoned were women.
I do not understand cheating. If you are not happy in the relationship, get out of it. That simple.
It’s because they’re cowards.
Also the cheap thrill, the “because I can” attitude, the narcissistic tendencies and the lack of a moral compass. People are weak.
They want control. It makes them feel good to have anyone they want, and to know their partners are with only them.
It's not about happy. It's about having it all
Exactly! Why commit to someone if you're not going to be faithful?
9:40
😂😂😂
*Dude out here acting all cocky and shit, like he looks like Jason Momoa! LMAO*
I am LIVING for Charlotte with her crazy tiny hands. It makes my soul vibe as one with hers. As if it didn’t already…
Your videos now vs a year ago are such a different vibe it's insane, I love you either way but you seem way more relaxed and unhinged now in the best way possible. I'm here for it. Need that energy
Who is even funnier than Charlotte?
Charlotte with tiny hands and an italian accent. Only Charlotte can be better than Charlotte.😂♥️
Correct.
I concur.
I read the first line in the tone of the Gaston theme song 😂
@@MrsJustJessie 😂
I enjoy watching Charlotte, but the small hands annoy me. Don't know why - they just do.
At about 9:45, i had a similar experience with an ex, who told me that most guys would hit me for "talking to him like that" because i defended the fact that my parents weren't the exception for staying married and happy for 35 years. I didn't know what a narcissist was then.
I would love to tell a guy like that “Good thing I’m not most guys and would prefer to put a bullet in his head.” Along those lines so it’s not officially a threat lol
No but fr, I grew up surrounded be narcissists, I’m unsure if there’s one or they are still both gaslighting me, ik I was there in the moment but so many different versions of the same story were told to me idk what the truth is anymore.. I was 5 at the time but the story continues 😂
Sorry you went through what you went through, hopefully they weren’t too crazy 😊
She left her foundation behind because she wanted the other woman to see it.
Agreed. Even I know that you don’t leave makeup in a hot car! That was 100% intentional.
Exactly! 💯%
And probably left it because she would be back in that car soon…so gross!
Agree that it was intentional. I mean, who the hell carries foundation around with them? Lipstick, mascara, sure, but foundation? That was definitely planted.
100 percent she did my ex new dog rat bitch use to leave her white clothing for me to find knowing dam well I'd know me and him always wore black bitch knew what she was doing ladies jf you thjnk he's cheating get some gloves and check out his trash my dumbass ex didn't think I would yhis isn't my first rodeo with a sketchy man check there bins they will have something to hide I found so much evidence he thought I would never find I'm not scared to get dirty to weed out dirty rat from my life fuck em man to anyone who's been hurt your beautiful you don't need no one you got it xx
Are people outta their FREAKING minds?! Cheating is NOT a "mistake"!!!! If you were a descent person, you dont cheat! Well said on your end Charlotte! ❤
I can Imagine Charlotte hanging out in restaurant parking lots trying to be asked to find out if someone is cheating
Honestly, that would be the hugest compliment to me. Someone thinks I'm cute enough to steal her man? Girl, stop you're making me blush, let's get him and then get some margaritas!
I was once asked to spy on a cheating husband. I was asked to go to a movie that he was supposed to be going to with friends. It was that horrible Hulk Hogan wrestling movie No Holds Barred in 1989. He never showed up and I had to sit thru that whole movie with a theater full of screaming kids.
🤣😂
So if he wasn't there where they were supposed to be with friends, where do you think he was actually.. dun dun dun!
There’s a possibility that foundation girl, the one he was cheating with, didn’t realize he had a girlfriend, and when she did figure it out, that’s why she left the foundation.
We don't know that he was cheating, she was just assuming he was. It's entirely possible that foundation could have belonged to one of his female family members.
You're not losing it, you're embracing your awesomeness. Love your content. If someone thinks you're losing it clearly they don't realize that you're the Potato Queen and we are your Potato Tots and enjoy you and even miss you when you're away.
You should paint the tiny hands finger nails. They have to be as fabulous as Sharclotte
Losing not loosing.
@@johncrutchfieldjr thanks for your comment troll. Let me go and correct my grave spelling errors that have effected your eyeballs. Don't you have anything better to do than correct grammar on someone saying something nice about Charlotte? I spell crappy, oh well.
@@kevincoon1809 Maybe he wasn't trying to troll but just let you know. Just my opinion and I could be wrong. Hope you have a great weekend !!!
@@LoveMyFamilyCountry🤔 maybe you're right, I suppose maybe they weren't trying to troll. 🤷♂️
@@kevincoon1809 No worries !! I do agree that Charlotte is the BEST !!!! Even if I don't listen to anything else, I make it a point to watch Charlotte. No matter how bad the day is, she always makes me smile.
I'm not on social media but need this drama! Thanks queen for keeping me up to date with the tea! (from a brit)❤
Same I just stay sort of up to date from her and what my son shows me lol….
Same. I'm also not in TikTok but I live vicariously through these & other TT compilations
I love that charlotte fills the gaps in my fyp because I saw the last part of the first story and then came to watch this video and got the context I needed 😅
As a woman I’m curious to what can make another woman agree to crawl to get a man’s apartment so that he can cheat. I mean first you know he already has a girlfriend he’s not planning to leave to be with you and that D can’t be that good come on and you can’t be that desperate 😂😂😂
Huh Jesse is one dumb potato. Wow Audacity must have been on sale because he got a lot of it
I hope she knows about the girlfriend. Otherwise, who the fxck does she think she's hiding from? And to the point she has to crawl!
The way men are acting these days, I leave something behind whenever I sleep with a new guy, just in case he's cheating on someone.
I love the audacity comment. That is pure GOLD !!!!! 😁😁😁
Mighta been a hooker?
I feel like we all low-key want a pass to spy into someone's drama and be able to feel good about it like we're helping. Lol
!ATTENZIONE POTATOES! Have a great weekend!!
You as well ❤
Thank you, you as well 🫂 ❤
Thanks, you too!!!
My ex husband was a fan of talking to/sending photos to other women on Facebook Messenger - that's not a "mistake". That was a series of intentional acts that he knew would hurt me.
I always find it hilarious (and also just disgusting) how, whenever a guy cheats on his gf and a girl cheats on her bf. Whenever there is talks about forgiving them, it’s always the guy that gets the pass and everyone says the guy made a mistake but you can work thru it and come out stronger etc etc 🤮
But they never offer that same energy to the girl. Instead the girl always just gets called every name under the sun and dragged to filth etc etc.
just something I always notice in them situations and just makes me laugh. 🤦🏼♀️
it's called misogyny.
@@moonhunter9993yes cuz everything is misogyny and patriarchy LOL
@@raydawn675in an instant like these what would you call it then?
Yuuup just like with Ariana Grande they are calling her all sorts of name but no vitriol 4 the guy that cheated on his wife!! They keep calling her a hone wrecker but it takes 2!!
@@raydawn675 how is it not tho 💀 /gen
3:03 We also have to take an account that the other person doesn’t always know that the person they’re seeing is in a relationship, they might just are you leaving stuff behind because they didn’t know
Neymar is HUGE in the soccer (football for the brits) world. People fully believe he can do no wrong, even though he's a known cheater, liar, unpleasant team mate, and tax evader. But because he's very very rich and very very famous, people will wash away all this as "we all make mistakes uwu". I hate that guy.
Football for the Brits? 😂😂 are you American by any chance ? Greeting from Britain the FOOT BALL as they play with their feet Britain 🇬🇧
@@izabelasiczek3547 I'm Brazilian lol we call it futebol, so! I never understood why Americans call their handegg game football but 🤷
@@darkunykorn404 cause we use the foot ONCE. Hence FOOTball. Yall use hella feet. Should call it feetball. /j
@@js8qp2pwisos but it's not a ball! it's an egg! /j
6:14 I literally choked up hearing the woman’s voice asking those kids…and then I nearly cried when the girl in the car said they would help
Faith in humanity restored * bawls *
I love your unhingedness ! You make me giggle and have a bright outlook on my day !
Cheating on someone who truly loves you is a VERY VERY cruel thing to do to another person, CRUEL. All you can do is hope that whomever decides to do something so cruel that one day it is done to them so they will truly understand what they did to another person. Disgusting!!! Yay for the amazing humans that want to help👏👏👏👏
She probably was only crawling because he told her he was house sitting and didn’t want the owner to know. I doubt he outright told her hey you need to crawl so my gf doesn’t see you in here.
Possibly.. but believe it or not there are people that are that reprehensible.
Doesn't matter.
If I'm asked to crawl into a house/apt, I am walking the frick away.
Oh. Hell. No.
@@aw2589 I think if she already knew she wouldn't have shared screenshots with the GF.
@@tessgonzalez There are plenty of women who have affairs with men in relationships then get fed up with the man thus text the girlfriends proof the men were cheating the whole time.
I love you knocked over the mic. You’re goofy, silly and play with tiny hands. Mike is so lucky!!
The way I would immediately turn into Sharklotte to help that woman catch her cheating bf. Sharklotte savage AF.
I wish someone would come up to me like that to ask for help. I'd be TOO down. Hahahah
At 6:03, I thought my screen had frozen because everyone in the car got DEAD STILL! If Charlotte wouldn't have blinked, I'd have restarted this daggum laptop! 🤣
Charlotte, you are absolutely glowing!
It’s been far too long since watching your channel and I just gotta say, you look so beautiful and happy today. I love it. 😊❤
Now, I gotta catch up on all your hilarious vids I’ve missed! 🎉
Happy binging bestie!!!
Yeah, you do.! Hahah
About the story at 4:25, the enabler comments kept talking about the ‘mistake’ that person made. There is no mistake in cheating. A mistake is to put salt instead of sugar in your coffee. What that cheater did, he chose to do it. It was not a mistake, it was a choice!
I think with the foundation situation I think she either did it on purpose to let the girl know. Either that or she didn’t know that they were already seeing someone and accidentally left it behind but like it’s been said I highly doubt she would forget it because makeup is expensive.
I think the boyfriend is a drag queen!
@@loosiluthis is my head cannon cause it's funny lol
@@MidniteSpectre same!
As a Christian, in many religious communities, the marriage comes first and a major part of that is forgiveness (but the other half is repentance)
If a stranger rang my doorbell and asked me to come help catch a cheater, I'm in.
Need MORE of the cheating series!!! Your reactions are EVERYTHING!!!!!!!
I look forward to these uploads every day like so many of us in the tater squad! If Charlotte hasn't welcomed me back ,my day just isn't the same ❤ I hope you all have a fantastic day and an even better weekend ❤
Regarding the cheater who said they would do it again, his texts are a fairly good example of the classic strategy used by manipulative people, DARVO which stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. He starts by denying everything about the situation and also attacks in the same sentence. He then flips the story around saying he can't even get a date. He then continues with more unhinged ranting, we get the see another classic denial though there is no proof he hit her, he feels the need to tell us he didn't and the proof is she still has teeth. Also, a better person would never need to say they are a better person. I feel the narcissist label is well placed on this one.
Watching you lose your mind in front of millions of people makes me feel so much better about losing my own here in the quiet recesses of my home lmao. JK you crack me up girl ❤❤
13:20 the tiny hands are great. used to watch kellmerkis i think it was.. loved her lil kid hands videos.
It was callmekris, Kris is now living in Texas with her boyfriend Caleb (who is also a RUclipsr by the name of Oompaville) 😊
Perfect, I just found out my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy of our now 4 month old.
This woman knew I was pregnant, knew we have a 3 year old and knew we've been together for 6 years.. I'm in an uphill battle mentally and I don't feel okay anymore. Postpartum is already hard enough as it is, cheaters SUCK.
Im so sorry girl that fucking sucks. I hate hate cheaters but the ones that cheat on their pregnant wives i hate most of all. Assholes. Shes creating your kid for you!!!!
i dont think you know how you bring families closer just for your youtube channel. we live in diferrent states but both watch and relate to all of your videos,thank you
“You dont just get to ask for forgiveness and then repeat the same mistakes over and OVER again!!”
REAL ASF
You're not losing it Charlotte, you're happy and it shines.🤗💜💜💜
Possible that he asked those people to post the positive messages after cheating on his pregnant wife to help him gaslight her like " Look all these people can forgive why can't you?" Kinda thing.
I’m so sad when there is no more charlotte videos to watch 😢 still love the little hands
12:11 I don’t think he saw the other woman in the booth until his face changed.
Omg I'm so glad you saw the neymar post. I couldn't believe the comments. His comment section was limited so only certain ppl could comment under it. It shows the kind of people he interacts with
2:50 They leave something because they figured out the dude is cheating. So she left it. Its a clue
Loved this one! I don’t know why I love watching other people’s drama so much.
Just found out my bf cheated on me and been going behind my back for a few months… So that’s my Friday…
But thank you Charlotte for putting a smile on my face with some good messy drama! Love you 🖤
Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not enough, I'm sure you're an amazing person and you deserve happiness! I hope you have a support system that you can depend on in these trying times...
@@MidniteSpectre Thank you so much! It means a lot that you cared to comment, made me a little happier actually. Some people are nice :)
I have so much hope for them! The most I've had in this serie! I'm rooting for you guys! Good luck!!! ❤
If someone cheats on me, even if I do find it in my heart to forgive just that one time, it already has ruined my opinion of them. I'll always look at that person as a cheater and connect it to the betrayal. I'd rather just be told to my face that I'm not loved anymore and I'll let them go with best wishes even if I'm hurt for a while. I'd rather that pain than feeling the pain of betrayal. I hold loyalty and honesty very high in a relationship.
And even if one forgive, it's not the same as forget. And to trust that person again must be hard.
Your such a joy to watch when I'm feeling down. Thank u!
Cheaters never change. How many diseases could he be passing on to his girlfriend and child? Don’t ever forgive a cheater. Charlotte you need a tiny hand that is flipping the bird. Actually I’d like one too. 😂
When we were kids and had the microphone that made our voice echo 😂 I love her voice when she does the “seriouslyyyy” and “embarrassed” 😂
Wow. The woman crawling through the man's girlfriend's apartment door is a perfect picture of how she sees herself. How very sad for her that she has so little self-respect.
I love how you let your inner child come out to play.
About the foundation one, well you see Charlotte, most people are not "dumb enough" to forget something of theirs at the cheater's house/car, they do it on purpose for the cheater's partner to find out, because they think if they broke up then they'll get together with the cheater, another common practice with the same goal is biting/scratching the cheater so that they'll have bruises to show the partner that they did the deed with someone else
Edit: my dyslexic ass wrote teacher instead of cheater
Some people leave something behind as an excuse to see the person again.
4:01 he may he a great brother but if he cheated he's not a great partner or father since part of it is setting a good example for your child through how you treat their other parent to show how they should treat the person they love and how they should be treated in the future 💀
I heard a lot of women leave their intems around in case the guy has a girl that she will then know that he is a cheater
But fenty foundation? I'd pick drug store if imma do that.
@@cardemis7637fr too expensive for me to just leave 🥲
I’ve done it a couple times. Left a sock, an earring etc. the sacrifice is worth sisterhood.
I think Charlotte is "losing it" because she is just so happy. Remember the times when she used to joke about being single? Well, now it seem like she is well on her way to marriage and kids and she is just so happy she can't control her silliness 😊 So nice to watch!
At this point, I make sure to leave something behind whenever I sleep with a new guy. Just in case he's cheating on someone.
Silly unhinged is good and is fun, thank you for making my day a bit better Charlotte! 😊
"I probably will." Well, at least he was honest!😏
My favorite phrase: Stay Weird. I adore those little hands. Reminds me of that skit from SNL.
Miss Charlotte being more unhinged?! We’re here for it!
You're hair looks amazing Charlotte! Thank-you for all you do for a bunch of internet strangers. You are appreciated. ✌😎🤘
If you're happy and you know it, clap your tiny hands 🤣
Thanks for making my day, Charlotte!
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Yo serious I CANNOT with how Christianity weaponizes forgiveness.
No, you're not righteous because you invoked GOD after doing something awful. No you are NOT.
Oh that touched on some religious trauma oof 😣
Edit: yes preach Charlotte! ❤❤❤ (see what I did there)
Yeah, you ain’t wrong! Never weaponize Christianity. Why? Because Jesus didn’t!
Forgiveness is critical in any trauma situation but what it is not is A) up to the offending party to determine when it takes place B) an erasure of the slate of dirty deeds done C) acceptance of the offender or D) an excuse/permission to continue the offensive behavior!
It’s also not for the offender but the offended. It simply means that they will not seek retribution but leave it in God’s hands.
Can God heal a relationship even after infidelity? Yes. But it is going to require much more than most people are willing to pay. Of course that’s true of living an authentically Christian life and not just one in name only. One hour on Sunday (even every Sunday) does not a Christian make. Ok, I’m down from my pulpit. 😉
I promise you it’s not all Christians, we should forgive all but that doesn’t mean stay with them, treat them right, or anything like that.
Forgive but never forget.
@@cirayahh I'm aware of this. I'm a Christian. Sadly, it happens to be the loudest ones that are the worst 😒
Right? I absolutely HATE how they go on about how we need to forgive in order to heal. No, speak for yourself, I absolutely do not thank you very much!
@@ida6950 they have a serious misunderstanding of forgiveness. Forgiveness is important for healing but forgiveness is a process that the offended party goes through and it absolutely does NOT have to include a continued relationship with the offender! Forgiveness frees the offended from the weight of pain and payback not the offender from the consequences of their actions which absolutely could include a severing of the relationship.
OMG THAT COLOR ON YOU! 😮 i think you should do that color test, cuz damn ur features with this one are fireeee 🔥🔥🔥
Text messages and other types of messages can be used in court. You're a fool for putting these out there. But it's great for your ex partners!😅😅🤣
Oh my gosh Charlotte! You were KILLING ME with the tiny hands and shushing the microphone. You make me laugh SO HARD! 😂😂
two cheating stories:
1. I'm a male (48) I've had 12 very serious relationships (including 2 engagements and 2 marriages - 7 years and 16 years) and dozens of casual ones. I have NEVER cheated ever on my S.O. (not that I haven't had plenty of chances, but I grew up with DEEP morals and I've always held my relationship sacred and wouldn't) BUT they have ALL cheated on me... EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. THEM...
I've always been the 'nice guy', I share the housework and give attention to my girl, even occasionally bring flowers home. BUT, I don't do drama in my life, so I'm not the 'exciting' guy that women want. So they go looking for it else where. I'm to the point of just being a 'fuck boy' instead of trying to make a life with another woman.
2. I have a couple of handfuls of female friends (about 4 really close ones). and several of them have been cheated on, but they keep going back to those same guys. I never understood it (because once I'm cheated on, I NEVER go back). A couple of them told me that though they hate being cheated on, him sleeping around shows that he's a desirable guy (other women want him too) and the relationship causes them to have lots of different emotions and they never know how their day will turn out with him involved. (like a roller-coaster ride). I find this stupid in the extreme, as I would rather have a dependable and TRUSTWORTHY relationship, than tumultuous and untrustworthy one, no matter how 'passionate' it might be.
This brings me to the other hand. MOST of the women I know have cheated simply because they were board in their relationships. They've been fed their whole lives by Society, Media, and others that they have to be constantly 'happy' or something is wrong in their relationship. As a Couples Counselor, I can tell you this is utter bullshit.
Relationships go through cycles of ups and downs. and the downs can be fighting OR can be boring, but both can be changed back to nice times with some work on the couple's part. BUT people today have grown up being told that relationships should 'just work', which is again bullshit. NOTHING in this world 'just works'. EVERYTHING has to have work put into it to make it happen. Your job doesn't 'just work', does it? BUT instead of putting the work into the relationship, people just abandon them instead, looking for fun and excitement elsewhere, which always fades very quickly anyways, so they're off on to another relationship that repeats the same vicious cycle in their lives, never understanding that the problem is their way of thinking and expectations, not the relationship itself. These people will never be happy in the long wrong, because "Happiness" is a fleeting emotion that only lasts for hours or days at most. Not a state of being, like contentment, that can last for months or years. It's like trying to capture a ghost, you'll never be able to do it in the end.
I assure you that most of the girls who accept cheaters back is because of low self esteem. They are afraid to be alone and they think that they can't do better than that. As far as they are the main chicks they are okay what they don't realize is that the more they continue to enable such behavior the more the man loses respect for them.
And women don't only cheat when they are bored. They may do so if the man doesn't know how to please them sexually or they were never attracted to you in the first place. Also there's no point being a fuckboy just take a break to discover yourself outside relationships
Deep morals but can’t settle for one person to save your life? 12 “very serious” relationships? 🤣
You sound like a good guy, I don't know you, but you sound good.
Relationships are hit or miss.
@@nicolad8822 The math ain’t mathing. How can he have had 12 VERY serious relationships when he was married for 23 of his 48 years. Even if he started dating at 15 that gives him 33 dating years. How did he have 10 other very serious relationships and lots of flings in 10 years? And that’s not taking into account any time he may have been single in between 😂
You have taken over my RUclips. I sit here playing videogames listening, and get caught watching your videos. I have to say I love your videos have kept me entertained with the petty spaghetti's you post! Thanks for the laughs and the Absolutely Nots!
After learning the truth about the attenzione pickpocket lady… it’s just not the same 😬
What’s the truth???
@@Mimibelle0304 ruclips.net/user/shortsjeZVXGvs7Ig?feature=share
The short answer is she doesn’t actually know the pickpocketers but rather she’s racially profiling people. Also she’s part of a political party that hates romani people, gays, and is facist.
@Michelle-eb5ls she is a far right extremist and racist who accuses every roma person she sees of being a pick pocket
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We need more fun props for Charlotte to play with!!! Loving it!
"You don't get to ask for forgiveness then repeat the same mistakes over and over again." I guess you don't know how Catholicism works.
Only God is that eternally forgiving 🤷🏼♀️ and even if you forgive, it doesn't mean you have to stay with them.