He must have known beforehand with the tinder profile, maybe he knew where about they were and was looking but argh that one always makes me sad because like 7 years 😢
I love how high class all the people being cheated on are in this video. No major drama, just saying it like it is and letting that negativity go from their life.
Agreed! It can really be hard to not let those emotions explode when it happens. That doesn't mean that they don't lose it later, but having time to calmly process your feelings helps.
My mate had a squint and my mum use to stand next to her and be able to make her eyes go all over the place taking the mick. It was so hard not to laugh. She use to prank phone call the same mate .
I was talking to a guy for a while then found out he was married. He straight-up told me "I'm going to cheat on my wife, if it's not with you it'll be with someone else!" like that was a badge of honor for me! I told him it would not be with me, good luck with that!
I always think this whenever someone in a relationship who cheated on there partner for them and saying they won't cheat on them 🤦 honestly those people are so stupid
Facts, no matter their gender or sexuality. The dumb thing is, they act all surprised that it happened to them, idk why they think they can build a bond off meaningless sex though lol
I wear a ring on my ring finger, even though I’m not married. (It works because I want to be left alone). But for some reason it ATTRACTS married men. It’s so creepy and weird. And they try to justify it with “we’re both married, so why not?” It’s so sad. Stay happy out there all you loyal potatoes! ❤️
my husband doesn't wear a wedding ring most of the time. It does attract a ton of vultures. Women - especially older ones (he's in his 50s) love to mate poach.
Once my ex insulted my toenails . They were fine btw ... I had just chosen to for go any color polish at my pedicure . So , I responded with " you're just looking for some flaws because you're a big , fat , lying , cheater " . Dude , got so defensive that I just wouldn't back down . Ten minutes later he breaks and admits he in fact was a " big , fat , lying , cheater " . 🙄 Like Charlotte said , " when the vibe changes" they are cheating .
It’s so often pure selfishness. They want the stability their S.O. Offers(especially in the case of the police officer) but they want to do whatever they want regardless of any one else’s feeling or boundaries.
My theory is they don't want any dry spells, iykwim. So they keep stringing along the partner to get their regular "supply" and chase after the occasional thrills.
@@InteriorDesignStudentmore like for women they like the relationship status and ATM attached to it, and for men they like the free housemaid and effortless sex.
When my exes found out I got engaged to an amazing man, every single absuive toxic ex came out trying to reach out to me. Men can be disgusting, women too. Why do my now ex-girl friends want to come over in booty shorts and be flirtatious with my man? Sickening.
Best cop interaction I ever had was watching one make a husband tell on himself to his wife for cheating. I worked at a gas station and an older man came in with a woman, they were laughing and carrying on while getting fountain drinks. Thing was they were both drunk and were leaning against each other to walk, and when the guy went to pay for the drinks at the counter he was slurring his words. So I checked them out and as soon as they walked out the door I called the cops on him for dui. He was unable to get the truck in reverse and back out of the spot due to it being a manual transmission without stalling the truck before they arrived and had pulled the keys out of the ignition so they couldn’t arrest him for dui since he was just sitting in a parked car without the keys in it. So they talked to him, took the keys from him so he couldn’t drive away, and made him call his wife for a ride for him and the woman he picked up at the bar and for her to bring another licensed driver to come get the truck. 😂 He made the call on the store phone so i heard everything, then the woman came in while the cops talked with him outside to get her son to come get her. They sat in the truck waiting for his wife while the cops and I had a good laugh over him getting caught cheating. The cops decided to leave but went and hid behind a building across the street. The man had slipped his bar hookup a spare key when he had seen the cops pull up and made her give it to him. She hopped out the truck and he took off out our parking lot like the devil was chasing him only to be blocked in by 2 cop cars at the exit , just in time for his wife and adult son to pull in and witness him being pulled out the truck, the other woman hopping in her son’s car, and me sucker fished to the window watching all the drama. He got put through the sobriety tests, was arrested for dui, and the truck was impounded. All because even though he had already told on himself he didn’t want to wait for his wife to show up. Lesson of the story boys and girls… don’t drink and drive ever, but especially while cheating, and don’t go into a convenience store while doing it either we will call the cops on you. Nobody wants to see the car of the drunk guy you saw last night has killed people in a dui accident. I know I couldn’t live with myself if I could have prevented it so yes I will tell on your ass.
That's kind of how I caught my husband of 25 years cheating on me - he was texting all the time, even around his entire family, and I thought "who are you texting? everyone you know is in this room" I looked up our phone plan on line later and found he was texting this one number all day. So I called him & asked home about this number and said "I'm just about to open this text thread and read them all, is there something you want to tell me?" Now I had no way of actually doing this, that i know of, but he took the bait & confessed right there. He clearly wanted to be caught because he got so lazy about it. I ended up staying for 3 more years trying to work it out, but he lied about everything. I don't believe he was unfaithful again, but I still had a feeling in my gut that my heart was no longer safe with this man, so I took it back. Sold the house, closed the business we had together for over 20 years, sold off most everything and moved out on my own for the first time at 52 with less than $5K to my name.
Omg same, the texting gave it away. More specifically, SMILING and texting. Like who tf are you texting smiling like that? Certainly not your boys lol. I had a funny feeling about this new girl at his work, guess what happened 😂
Yo, that officer is one class act! She absolutely lost a good one, and thankfully he seems to know his value. His response was perhaps the most appropriate one I've ever witnessed.
It's a fake video , and shitty acting lol. Australian police don't wear Halloween uniforms and he only had a baton , no body cam, taser or gun lol and no Aussie would call someone "partner"
I hate it when married men say "Its okay. She won't find out." I'm like MthrFker I'll know! They can't seem to get it through their thick skulls that we just are not interested in being either the side chick, or the homewrecker.
i got a stinger of a cheater story : it was my 21st birthday , i wasnt feeling well so i went to the drs , found out i was preggers ( at least 5 months) had no symptoms . was happy i was preggers ( drs told me at 17 that i would never have kids due to pre cancer they froze off my cervix ) so im overjoyed , i go home to my fiancee , as im coming in the gate i see him come out of our apartment in his Boxers ( he NEVER LEFT THE HOUSE unless he was fully clothed ) i knew something was wrong , then i saw this girl he had a past with come out of our apartment pulling her shirt on !!!! i was devastated , but as i walked to the apartment , i called out to the girl that she can have his cheating ass as i was done starting on this day . i stayed for 2 weeks so i could figure out where i was going , ended up at my sisters place . but yeah , caught my ex cheating on my birthday and the day i found out we would be parents . well i left him , never looked back , he got to see our daughter in court , and i took one picture of him holding her ( she was about 6 months old at the time ) he never paid child support , never asked for visitations . i found out later him and the firl he cheated on me with got married and she popped out 2 kids , they both got taken away and the state deemed both unfit parents . so my now 24 yr old daughter actually has 2 half sisters she has never met as they were adopted then everyone lost contact with the kids .
Yeah, he found out his woman is already married. To a cop. He’s been sleeping with a cop’s wife and he’s terrified. He made a point of letting him know he was lied to as well, asap. Lol.
Or at the very least date someone else who's non-monogamous. Lots of people are open to being poly or being in open relationships, so why not date one of them, and avoid the lies and the heartbreak? Oh wait, that would require *also* being okay with your partner dating other people, and unfortunately, a lot of cheaters for some reason can't stand the idea of having to share. 🙄
I have had to cut off two friends because they were in toxic relationships. One kept trying to bring me into the drama, and other would ask me for my opinion, then do the complete opposite. I realize it was not good for my mental health, so I just end of the friendships. One of them is still with the toxic guy and the other. I don’t know where she is but I could care less. It was just so emotionally draining.
I just cut a former "friend" off yesterday.... For a month she had me stressed out running around helping her get away from her verbally abusive, cheating, bum of a husband only for her to not only go right back to him but also to subliminally suggest that I should be more understanding and less judgmental of him. F*ck you, Wench!
@@lisamelroy2855 Aussie cops only wear blue uniforms. What he did was also ILLEGAL. If you're not Australian (I am)) you haven't got a clue what you're talking about.
@edwardfletcher7790 I commented on the fact that he was on camera, and wrote nothing about his uniform color or the legality of his actions, so I'm a bit confused by your response.
Every time you said “she’s for the streets” reminded me of that TikTok of the guy getting a momma cat to come home using one of her kittens and when she runs back up to the porch he says “you’re not for the streets, Pricilla!” And she makes this “yeah screw you I know” meow as she goes in the door 😂
The best excuse I got from a married man.... "I'm technically married"... how convenient is that? oh and I almost forgot to say... he pretended to be 40 and was 65 in reality... and it was obviously no big deal for him... hello? Welcome to the cheaters' delululand 😂 Never been that happy to terminate a phone call... first words that came... WTF??
I dated a boy for almost three years, it was a toxic relationship. I ended up moving in with him right after my mom died in 2019, and we were together till right before the pandemic starts to get a little better at the end of 2020/beginning of 2021. At that time as if the pandemic and my loss wasn't bad enough, he decided to cheat on me with a coworker while I was spending thousands of reais (I live in Brazil) with treatments for my sick cat. While all this was happening I had a "best friend" who we will call L. L was a lesbian, we've known each other since highschool, but I've always noticed that she had some strange pick me girl vibes when my boyfriend was around. Everytime he did something bad she would just go "oh but he's just a boy, he made a mistake, but he's not a bad person, I will continue to being friends with him". EVEN WHEN HE CHEATED. We even had a big fight about this and parted ways in our friendship for a long time untill we met again at a party and she told me she was sorry. Fast foward to last year... I moved states, left everything behind and found and amazing boyfriend who is everything to me. Me and L we're still in touch, she even called me on my birthday and everything. NOW GUESS WHO CALLED ME almost crying one day to tell me she had a secret that she couldn't keep from me anymore? Yep. She told me she broke up with her girlfriend of four years because she was desperately in love with someone, and that person was my cheating ex. I simply told her to get the f* out of my life and to never call me again, and when he do the same to her she will have to find another shoulder to cry on cause I wouldn't be available. It still hurts me to this day to think I trusted this girl for 10+ years and she thought it was okay to do me like that.
I love how calm the policeman was, he reacted so well, just handed her ass to the streets like she deserved while staying professional and calm even polite through it all. Seriously she lost out on a good man.
My first heartbreak was being cheated on. The girl was his sister in law and she thanked me for “letting me have him today” (to paint I thought). It was him, her and her BFF!
Being cheated on by your first loves is so damaging T__T I'm sorry you had to go through that! My first two relationships, I got cheated on big times. It was heartbreaking. I felt I couldn't trust anyone anymore. When we started dating with my now husband, I was constantly panicking the moment he was just complimenting other people (while I was with him, not like he was doing anything sneaky in my back). It took a while getting to build trust, and he was so patient with it, still don't know why he stayed (I guess it was love x) ) but I'm so glad he did. I hope you're with someone who treats you good today!
@@misscrackwood thank you! That guy was also physically and sexually abusing me. The pain is so bad I said I would never allow it again. Like zero chances. I’ve been married almost 11 years now. That’s a whole different set of fun things!
Man…I still remember the first time I was ever cheated on. What an absolutely horrid feeling. I can’t speak for everyone, only myself, but it was like my heart just dropped into my gut and my stomach acid disintegrated into dust. Ugh it tore me up. Cheaters are the absolute worst bro.
The last story if it's only one friend telling you to break up with your boyfriend, get rid of the friend. If all your friends are telling you to break up, with specific reasons, lose the dude
I used to go for married men, so I have a unique perspective here. It's a symptom of a bigger problem. I was so unhealthy and toxic and traumatized, that the idea of being with a man who might actually care for me, in a relationship that might actually go somewhere, was terrifying. The point is, healthy people don't like married or otherwise unavailable people. And just to add, I'm not defending my actions here, I was wrong, and my mental illness and trauma wasn't an excuse, period. There's no defense. I'm offering this to explain that any person who is married (or pretends to be married 🙄) and advertises that to potential partners is predatory, full stop. They know the kind of people they're attracting.
Ooooh that is a unique take. Any other girl I've asked just likes the "competition" and to feed their delusion about being able to take men away from their women. I wouldn't mind being friends with someone who likes to be the other woman for that reason. That's much more sane.
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver I used to say things like that myself. But see, the idea that dating is a competition is toxic itself. Healthy people don't want to take someone's partner from them, because healthy people know, if they cheat with you, they'll cheat ON you. There's nothing healthy about engaging with someone's partner knowingly.
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver so, in other words, exactly like justhearmeout3959 described, toxic and unhealthy people. And of course they are going to have some other justification than the reality that justhearmeout3959 is able to recognize AFTER becoming healthier than they used to be.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings this. I used to say I liked that they wouldn't ask me for a commitment. But also I liked the forbidden nature of the whole thing. In reality, I was so traumatized that I couldn't trust, and at least with married men I knew going in that I couldn't trust them. The whole thing is complicated. What really important is that married people who advertise that about themselves when looking for people to cheat with aren't healthy either, and have their own whole brand of toxicity.
For me is the gaslighting that's the most toxic element of cheating because of the enormous damage it does to the victim's ability to trust anyone for years. No matter how wonderful and trustworthy their next partner is, the scar of that experience will always induce that pang of paranoia which, if listened to, can destroy an otherwise perfect relationship. Break-ups are painful, but if they're built on a foundation of honesty, then the pain is brief(er) and each can move on knowing it just wasn't meant to be.
12:37 i gotta agree with Charlotte bc i had a friend in a toxic relationship and I kept telling her they needed to break up but she chose to stop being friends with me and was worried i would cheat with him. A) im a dude and her boyfriend was straight as hell. B) im asexual and had been out to her for quite a while and she knew i had never had interest in dating ever (friends since middle school) Things didn’t work out between them and she tried to fix our relationship after but things were too far gone for us to be friends again.
Fun episode. And thanks to Vanessa, I think, for choosing videos where everyone was speaking clearly and at a level that could be heard. So much more pleasant than meltdowns with nothing but shrieking that's so bad (or so quiet) that the computer that's doing the captioning basically says, "WTF".
When my husband and I were walking around a lake, I was holding his arm and a girl did a quick ring check. It wasn’t enough for her to see me holding his arm. She had to do the ring check to make sure. 🤣🤣
Lowkey love charlotte’s content. Had very few female friends growing up, and i love sitting down with her and feeling like I’m having a girl talk with my bestie. It’s awesome ❤
Wow this is so hard especially got told I got cheated on more then 10 times while visiting fam 4 years down the drain . Thank you charlotte for giving clues of how to tell if he has cheated all those signs I remember now . Thank you for this content it has made me feel amazing
People in toxic relationships can be so like that !! A friend literally got smacked in the face the other day we’ve been telling her to leave for months before this happened (little things have been throwing up red flags) she still can’t apparently it’s complicated… 😞 I don’t know how to help my friend is heartbreaking 💔
That last story what a web. I'm glad I was in college in the late 90's. There was no social media, blocking wasn't a thing yet on cell phones. When you found out your guy or girl was cheating you just stopped talking to and seeing them. There was no need to have any further communication. You changed their contact info to do not answer. Then you just went on about your life. When you focus on your studies you really don't have time for drama. Things were just easier back then.
Officer: License and registration please Chester: 👁️👄👁️ He reacted so perfectly honestly 😂 the way he let the guy off (who could not speed out fast enough)
Same here. Been happily married 26 years and have been hit on by random women more after marriage than before I got married (well these days I don't get hit on because I'm old, but back in my 30s, yeah).
Yup, same here. I don't know what it is... Maybe it makes the married guy more appealing because obviously he is good enough for someone else to want to be with for life? Or maybe it becomes more of a challenge to some girls and they want to see if they are good enough to attract someone that is already taken? Those are my two best running theories.
I had a GF in middle school who literally tried to steal everyone's boyfriend's if she found them attractive. She did it to me with a guy I really liked and she knew it. She did it to all of her friends. She was a super attractive girl probably one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen in person and she knew it and played it to her advantage. The worst part was once she got these guys and got their attention she was already done with them. I stopped being friends with her after that, and it was kind of funny because she would periodically leave school all throughout middle school and high school she would just homeschool for like six months or so and then she'd come back like nothing happened and then get herself into a ton of trouble again and then we wouldn't see her again for a few months. Wild!
My first real boyfriend cheated on me. We went to separate schools but he was in my cousin's class. I was friends with most of the people in that class via my cousin as we're born the same year. In that class was another guy with the same name as my cousin, whom I also knew, but via a theater company we were both members of. It was show season, so he and I were planning on getting our common friends tickets to see our show. I was talking to one of the girls in their class via MSN, and was talking about my theater friend and some issued we had with the tickets, when she misunderstood me, thinking I was talking about my cousin. She blurted out that she was so sorry that it happened and she wanted to tell me, but my cousin had given my boyfriend a week to come clean himself before cousin was to talk to me. I was like "what on earth are you talking about, what happened?!"... So she freaked out, was forced to tell me how my boyfriend was doing his ex at a sleepover school event and everyone saw at least some of it. Everyone knew and it had been 4 days since the event, my boyfriend was acting like nothing happened, my cousin hasnt answered my texts for those days but that was normal as we were hot and cold in terms of friendship. Sometimes we were great friends, then we didnt talk or fought. So I rang my cousin first after this msn chat, who then confirmed it was true. Texted my boyfriend that we were over and how the hell could he humiliate me like that. He tried desperately for a few weeks to apologize and get me back, but I wasnt having it. My cousin had my back 100% and kicked his friend (my ex) to the curb. Last I heard of my ex, he got into drugs later on. Didnt learn how to pick a decent guy tho, cause my next serious boyfriend became a three year abusive relationship. Well first two years of abuse, then he ended it when I stopped taking his crap, almost a year went by, I met a new dude who was very sweet, but a bit hung up on his ex and honestly, I was still really screwed up mentally, then my abusive ex came back into my life, sweet talked the crap out of me, assured me he had learned a lesson and changed and would never be remotely bad towards me again. It lasted a few months as he slipped back to his old self, and ended when he had to move away. The day after the second break up, I was over him. I had been very mentally hung up on him since the first day I met him and didnt see any value in myself cause he always saw things he wanted to change in me, removed me from friends, controlled every aspect of my life. The year in between, I had gotten most of my friends back who really didnt want me to go back to him when he came crawling back. The second time we ended, my friends took me out for ice cream, I cried for a few minutes and then the next day it was like I was a new person. Today I've got my dream man. It was love at first sight, real love. I was really sick when we met, and just a month after we went official, I was given a death sentence. I told him to go find a healthy woman, he refused and came to support me every day he could. He met most of my family at the hospital. He was sure I was gonna survive and while it was frustrating to hear this when doctors told me to prepare to die, it also gave me strength. 14 years later and we're as happy together as we were back then! The silver lining is always in the horizon. A good partner who sees the best in you will find you even when you dont look.
With the last one, I think the real suspicion and conflict happens when said friend is repeatedly complimenting your boyfriend, and yet ALSO telling you to end things with him. Like, red flag x10.
13:10 as a friend who constantly tell my friend to break up with her bf (because he treats her awfully) I can tell for a fact that people in toxic relationships will be very delulu about the toxicty (they are together 1 year now and he treated her that way since the day they met, I am too tired to help with that and have no power so i just need to watch as she gets mentally destroyed unfortunately. It hurts.)
I was in a relationship of over 7 years. Within 6 months or so after I had a major surgery, my bf suddenly started sleeping on the couch. I noticed that we weren't communicating like we use to, but let it go. He was paying all the bills at the time, including mine. I went to spend a weekend with my high school bff, and when I came home, found long red hair in the bed. His ex wife has long red hair, and she had just popped back into his life right before my surgery. I made up a story that I had found someone who wanted to marry me, then moved out, drove to Florida, had a crap time(Iwon't get into what happened), and moved back in with my mom.
Women know how to play the “in the know” in order to let the truth come out. It works! It’s far better when you’re face to face. The micro expressions give away everything!
Hi potato fam! I have an update. My health is declining and I am in so much pain. Thank you for todays video so I can deal with today. I have a GFM that I won’t post without charlotte’s permission
Perfectly timed video... been watching your videos nearly nightly with my ex fiance and yesterday discovered he was cheating. Absolutely poetic timing ❤
So a long time ago, when MSN was still a thing, my friend was dating a guy who was verbally and emotionally abusive don’t know if it escalated past that and she broke up with him thankfully. When she would ask my opinion I told her I do not like the way he talks to you, how he is very controlling of what you do. I gave examples as to why I did not like him and and not just blanket statements I ask so did not just give my opinion unsolicited I would wait until she asked. Not sure if that was the best or right way to handle it, but when she did break up with him and I cheered so loud that my dog started to howl lol.
I'm going to tell you. I had way WAY more women throw signals and straight up make a run at me when I wore my wedding ring. You may not be that way, but there are women who do.
Some desperate woman thinks that married man are better because If they commited with the wife, they commited with me too and is better than single man.
You know watching all these drama videos make me 1 very appreciative of my peaceful relationship and 2 so so so happy I got rid of my toxic roommates like my life has improved so much since I kicked them out
Actually a lot of successful "Pick Up Artists" say that if you want to get laid wear a wedding ring as a startling percentage very easy/trashy women will hook up with a married man for a one nights stand. I have seen blokes do this and I was shocked at how easy it worked for them. I'm not going to do it as that's F'ed up
Don't let them convince you you're just being crazy or paranoid, if you feel in your gut something is going on then something IS going on. If they really loved you and aren't cheating they will do whatever you need them to to prove themselves. But when they get mad and blame it all on you then it's already time to move on.
I’ve been with my spouse for 19 years. No cheating none none whatsoever. We agreed the moment the love died we would go our separate ways before we even thought of cheating. We’re still happily married - There is no excuse for these people. They want their cake and to eat it too.
Police officer was either a really good guy or just remembered the camera. Taking her to the airport to make sure she leaves the area so he can enjoy the rest of his vacation.
Recently found out I was getting cheated on THIS MORNING I kinda figured because this girl’s energy had been weird for like 4 days now not necessarily hurt but I am disappointed in the fact that the one time I try to like someone again I get played but it’s always nice to watch your videos and put a smile on my face thanks Char❤❤
I wish all this stuff would have been around when my husband cheated on me with 3 of my friends. He gaslighted me for years before I finally got proof on him. I feel for all you that have been put through this.
Yeah, my ex friend was like "You should break up with him. You guys just don't link up right." Then got super sad when my bf refused to meet up with her. (He only met her once, and said that he wasn't comfortable around her. So I never really pushed for them to meet after that.) Then she got a little too drunk around me once, and told me that she wished she met him first so that they could be in a relationship...
So update, we are friends again! I decided to try and talk to her, and she admitted she was in the wrong and apologized. And I have been working on communication, and what makes me uncomfortable. So we worked on boundaries, and are in a much better place.
My cousin hated my first love, like she said he was ugly and stupid ALL the time. I dated him for about 2 years, on and off. About a month or 2 after my first love and I ended it, she ended our relationship! (I was talking about him too much) I let her go, she was such a toxic person anyways, 4 months go by, I see them intoxicated and holding hands... Should of known because she has done this to many of her "best friends"
It's not often that a fake video makes it past you, but the first one is no cop uniform I've seen in Australia, or New Zealand for that matter. And those two blokes are Aussies. And the radio audio is from some US police radio recording.
You have to break up with them if you lose your love or find love for someone else or at least tell them how you feel! its cruel when you string someone along because they can always feel that something has changed and you just saying everything is fine while you go behind their back is pathetic but its become unbelievably common! If you cant end a relationship and turn to cheating then you are not mature enough for one at all!
My ex husband did all that stuff. He is now engaged. He won't let me even know her name or ANYTHING but he told his other ex fiance I was cheating, not him, I am psycho, I was out late every night ( I worked late til 1 am) and got our child from my Gmas who he dropped off without me knowing and getting home at 3 or 4 am drunk. His gf was a stripper an hr and a half away. They jumped me and called the cops to give ME an arrest record. She said so in texts. And sent me pics of dead babies and saying she was going to be my sons new mama. Kept all her texts and her MySpace photos w her holding drugs and mostly naked. Brought them to court,I got full custody. Should I tell new fiancee? If I can find out who she is. It is like 14 yrs later. And that ex is in prison now.
I will say that behavioral changes alone are not the red flag, as many things can cause that (a move, job change, sudden news, even just a funk). It is the behavioral change in the absence of any of that coupled with them seeming happier and more relaxed away from you, and actively working against being alone with you.
LOL at the first video with the Aussie "cop" finding his wife cheating.... I honestly cannot believe that with acting THIS BAD, people are actually falling for it -- thinking it's real. 😂😂😂
Wow that police officer has Patience!!!!! So professional and calm. Man needs an award (and reward for taking out the trash 🗑)
He must have known beforehand with the tinder profile, maybe he knew where about they were and was looking but argh that one always makes me sad because like 7 years 😢
It's fake. Here in Australia cops do not ask for registration, just your license. Also that's not a real cop uniform and his acting is just awful. LOL
@@awessauceOr it's fake.
It's a copy of an other fake video
@@AGolfHitterIf we had to carry out rego papers around I’d be fucked, I never know where they are 😂
I love how high class all the people being cheated on are in this video. No major drama, just saying it like it is and letting that negativity go from their life.
Agreed! It can really be hard to not let those emotions explode when it happens. That doesn't mean that they don't lose it later, but having time to calmly process your feelings helps.
Good for them. Couldn’t be me. 😂
Ahh glad I saw this b4 I wasted my time then lol. I came for drama 😂
3:00 I love how she crossed her eyes when quoting the dude, then resuming her face after a James Brown yell.
That yell made me think of a Mike Epps comedy show. "Caught James Brown looking like a Thundercat."🤣
It was really a work of art! 😂
My mate had a squint and my mum use to stand next to her and be able to make her eyes go all over the place taking the mick. It was so hard not to laugh. She use to prank phone call the same mate .
I was talking to a guy for a while then found out he was married. He straight-up told me "I'm going to cheat on my wife, if it's not with you it'll be with someone else!" like that was a badge of honor for me! I told him it would not be with me, good luck with that!
His poor wife...😥
Wow! The audacity!!
Nah, my detective ass would’ve find that wife in a second, I would bring receipts too.
@@thomasjoseph5876 she was home raising their baby
Cheaters never prosper, especially in the age of socials!
It’s true
Well said 👏
Well said 👏
Facts!
❤ amen
If he'll cheat with you, then he will cheat on you.
Most of them know that
I always think this whenever someone in a relationship who cheated on there partner for them and saying they won't cheat on them 🤦 honestly those people are so stupid
Facts, no matter their gender or sexuality. The dumb thing is, they act all surprised that it happened to them, idk why they think they can build a bond off meaningless sex though lol
if I ever meet my father's sidepiece I'll remind her of that, but I hope the trash takes itself out first
It’s crazy how they know that but yet just act like it would never happen to them!
I wear a ring on my ring finger, even though I’m not married. (It works because I want to be left alone).
But for some reason it ATTRACTS married men. It’s so creepy and weird. And they try to justify it with “we’re both married, so why not?”
It’s so sad.
Stay happy out there all you loyal potatoes! ❤️
You too, Pudding Pop!
I was actually engaged and held up my finger and the guy said, “so? You ain’t married yet.”
my husband doesn't wear a wedding ring most of the time. It does attract a ton of vultures. Women - especially older ones (he's in his 50s) love to mate poach.
I got more attention with my decoy ring. And it was small.. subtle. The amount of times I was asked if it was serious is disturbing
That happened to me too
Once my ex insulted my toenails . They were fine btw ... I had just chosen to for go any color polish at my pedicure . So , I responded with " you're just looking for some flaws because you're a big , fat , lying , cheater " . Dude , got so defensive that I just wouldn't back down . Ten minutes later he breaks and admits he in fact was a " big , fat , lying , cheater " . 🙄 Like Charlotte said , " when the vibe changes" they are cheating .
I really feel for that cop. He seems like a good guy, and what a thing to have happen to him.
You feel bad for a guy acting? Lol
@@AGolfHitter Hey, maybe f*** off, since you're all over the comments saying how fake it is but nobody else has mentioned it.
Don't feel bad for him, it's fake
@@BreakofDawn ...he was Australian
@AGolfHitter yeah it felt really fake.
Is it really that hard to just break up and date someone new instead of cheating?
Or be up front from the get go and let everyone know you’re not doing monogamous relationships at this time
It’s so often pure selfishness. They want the stability their S.O. Offers(especially in the case of the police officer) but they want to do whatever they want regardless of any one else’s feeling or boundaries.
My theory is they don't want any dry spells, iykwim. So they keep stringing along the partner to get their regular "supply" and chase after the occasional thrills.
@@InteriorDesignStudentmore like for women they like the relationship status and ATM attached to it, and for men they like the free housemaid and effortless sex.
I assume they don’t want to lose “what they have” until they find someone else.
When my exes found out I got engaged to an amazing man, every single absuive toxic ex came out trying to reach out to me. Men can be disgusting, women too. Why do my now ex-girl friends want to come over in booty shorts and be flirtatious with my man? Sickening.
Right? Toxic people are toxic. Leave em
Tf? Assholes just can’t be happy nor let anyone else be happy either.
I have a family like that that I no longer talk to. Been 10 years. I don't tolerate disrespect like that.
Ugh! They reek of evil! Sorry that you had to deal with that, I hope you're doing better and I hope you get better soon!
Best cop interaction I ever had was watching one make a husband tell on himself to his wife for cheating. I worked at a gas station and an older man came in with a woman, they were laughing and carrying on while getting fountain drinks. Thing was they were both drunk and were leaning against each other to walk, and when the guy went to pay for the drinks at the counter he was slurring his words. So I checked them out and as soon as they walked out the door I called the cops on him for dui. He was unable to get the truck in reverse and back out of the spot due to it being a manual transmission without stalling the truck before they arrived and had pulled the keys out of the ignition so they couldn’t arrest him for dui since he was just sitting in a parked car without the keys in it. So they talked to him, took the keys from him so he couldn’t drive away, and made him call his wife for a ride for him and the woman he picked up at the bar and for her to bring another licensed driver to come get the truck. 😂
He made the call on the store phone so i heard everything, then the woman came in while the cops talked with him outside to get her son to come get her. They sat in the truck waiting for his wife while the cops and I had a good laugh over him getting caught cheating. The cops decided to leave but went and hid behind a building across the street. The man had slipped his bar hookup a spare key when he had seen the cops pull up and made her give it to him. She hopped out the truck and he took off out our parking lot like the devil was chasing him only to be blocked in by 2 cop cars at the exit , just in time for his wife and adult son to pull in and witness him being pulled out the truck, the other woman hopping in her son’s car, and me sucker fished to the window watching all the drama.
He got put through the sobriety tests, was arrested for dui, and the truck was impounded. All because even though he had already told on himself he didn’t want to wait for his wife to show up. Lesson of the story boys and girls… don’t drink and drive ever, but especially while cheating, and don’t go into a convenience store while doing it either we will call the cops on you. Nobody wants to see the car of the drunk guy you saw last night has killed people in a dui accident. I know I couldn’t live with myself if I could have prevented it so yes I will tell on your ass.
Well it's the responsible thing to do. Can't allow a drunk to take the wheel. Glad you got your reward while "sucker fished to the window" LOL! 😂
I'm dying! I'm filing "and me sucker fished to the window watching all the drama" into my memory to use next chance I get. Thank You!!
"Sucker fished to the window...." Bahahahaha! 😂
That line wins internet for me today. Congratulations 🎉
You did the right and courageous thing 🤘🙏🙌 Others would turn a blind eye.
That's kind of how I caught my husband of 25 years cheating on me - he was texting all the time, even around his entire family, and I thought "who are you texting? everyone you know is in this room" I looked up our phone plan on line later and found he was texting this one number all day. So I called him & asked home about this number and said "I'm just about to open this text thread and read them all, is there something you want to tell me?" Now I had no way of actually doing this, that i know of, but he took the bait & confessed right there. He clearly wanted to be caught because he got so lazy about it. I ended up staying for 3 more years trying to work it out, but he lied about everything. I don't believe he was unfaithful again, but I still had a feeling in my gut that my heart was no longer safe with this man, so I took it back. Sold the house, closed the business we had together for over 20 years, sold off most everything and moved out on my own for the first time at 52 with less than $5K to my name.
Omg same, the texting gave it away. More specifically, SMILING and texting. Like who tf are you texting smiling like that? Certainly not your boys lol. I had a funny feeling about this new girl at his work, guess what happened 😂
Yo, that officer is one class act! She absolutely lost a good one, and thankfully he seems to know his value. His response was perhaps the most appropriate one I've ever witnessed.
You don’t know
He’s a good one.
That driver got off so easy. Having the cops wife in the car worked in his favour
It's a fake video , and shitty acting lol. Australian police don't wear Halloween uniforms and he only had a baton , no body cam, taser or gun lol and no Aussie would call someone "partner"
I hate it when married men say "Its okay. She won't find out."
I'm like MthrFker I'll know!
They can't seem to get it through their thick skulls that we just are not interested in being either the side chick, or the homewrecker.
That part!
Say it with us now:
BAGGING 👏 A 👏CHEATER👏 IS 👏 NOT 👏 A 👏 FLEX👏
It’s just embarrassing and….just plain disgusting!!
i got a stinger of a cheater story : it was my 21st birthday , i wasnt feeling well so i went to the drs , found out i was preggers ( at least 5 months) had no symptoms . was happy i was preggers ( drs told me at 17 that i would never have kids due to pre cancer they froze off my cervix ) so im overjoyed , i go home to my fiancee , as im coming in the gate i see him come out of our apartment in his Boxers ( he NEVER LEFT THE HOUSE unless he was fully clothed ) i knew something was wrong , then i saw this girl he had a past with come out of our apartment pulling her shirt on !!!! i was devastated , but as i walked to the apartment , i called out to the girl that she can have his cheating ass as i was done starting on this day . i stayed for 2 weeks so i could figure out where i was going , ended up at my sisters place . but yeah , caught my ex cheating on my birthday and the day i found out we would be parents . well i left him , never looked back , he got to see our daughter in court , and i took one picture of him holding her ( she was about 6 months old at the time ) he never paid child support , never asked for visitations . i found out later him and the firl he cheated on me with got married and she popped out 2 kids , they both got taken away and the state deemed both unfit parents . so my now 24 yr old daughter actually has 2 half sisters she has never met as they were adopted then everyone lost contact with the kids .
Oh my god, so many victims 😢
Heartbreaking ❤️🩹
Keep on thriving
I dont want to like this, so consider my like an internet hug and a "I'm soo glad you are doing better". 😢
I’m sure it was horrible at the time but in the end you won, you got the child you never thought you’d have 😀
Wowzers!!!! That's one helluva story!
The guy that she was cheating on her husband with was not too happy about the situation either. He left like there was no tomorrow.
Yep and he said he's sorry. But did she not see her ring? Or did she take it off? 💀
Yeah, he found out his woman is already married. To a cop. He’s been sleeping with a cop’s wife and he’s terrified. He made a point of letting him know he was lied to as well, asap. Lol.
Man putting the ring in his pocket like she was a gold fish😂 I honestly need to know where cheaters buy their audacity.
Audacity R Us 😂
@@jenn8179stoooop that's too funny😭😭
@@ayo_its_ellie my sister and I came up with that 🤣🤣🤣
@jenn8179 that's the funniest shi I've read in awhile😭😭
I think they are giving it away!
Where are these people learning that it's okay to cheat???? If you're not mature enough to be with one person, don't be in a relationship.
Yes!! Louder for those in the back!!
Parents, friends, movies, social media, celebrities...
@@InteriorDesignStudent my question was actually rhetorical. But, you're right.
@@MrsWellner I sensed that but really wanted to vent LOL
Or at the very least date someone else who's non-monogamous. Lots of people are open to being poly or being in open relationships, so why not date one of them, and avoid the lies and the heartbreak? Oh wait, that would require *also* being okay with your partner dating other people, and unfortunately, a lot of cheaters for some reason can't stand the idea of having to share. 🙄
I have had to cut off two friends because they were in toxic relationships. One kept trying to bring me into the drama, and other would ask me for my opinion, then do the complete opposite. I realize it was not good for my mental health, so I just end of the friendships. One of them is still with the toxic guy and the other. I don’t know where she is but I could care less. It was just so emotionally draining.
I just cut a former "friend" off yesterday....
For a month she had me stressed out running around helping her get away from her verbally abusive, cheating,
bum of a husband
only for her to not only go right back to him but also to subliminally suggest that I should be more understanding and less judgmental of him.
F*ck you, Wench!
Cheaters deserve ALL the bad karma, we love to see it ❤
Definitely!
That cop at the beginning was so gracious and calm. I dont know if i could be so cool
He's "gracious and calm" because it's fake.
Totally fake, Aussie cops wear blue uniforms.
True, but he was also on camera. That may have altered his reaction a bit.
@@lisamelroy2855 Aussie cops only wear blue uniforms.
What he did was also ILLEGAL.
If you're not Australian (I am)) you haven't got a clue what you're talking about.
@edwardfletcher7790 I commented on the fact that he was on camera, and wrote nothing about his uniform color or the legality of his actions, so I'm a bit confused by your response.
He took her to the airport because he had to make sure the trash was taken out 😂
And walked her to the security area to make sure she got in 😂
😂😂😂
But how did she know about the airport? 😅 Honestly, I didn't hear him speaking abt that
I now say "ABSOLUTELY NOOOT" in my daily conversations. Thanks Charlotte 😂❤
For me it s delulu , like it s a word I never used to say before watching her videos 😂😂
Yes, same … 😂
The audacity!!! 🤣
Same 😂😂
Me toooooooo 😅
Every time you said “she’s for the streets” reminded me of that TikTok of the guy getting a momma cat to come home using one of her kittens and when she runs back up to the porch he says “you’re not for the streets, Pricilla!” And she makes this “yeah screw you I know” meow as she goes in the door 😂
The best excuse I got from a married man.... "I'm technically married"... how convenient is that? oh and I almost forgot to say... he pretended to be 40 and was 65 in reality... and it was obviously no big deal for him... hello? Welcome to the cheaters' delululand 😂 Never been that happy to terminate a phone call... first words that came... WTF??
I dated a boy for almost three years, it was a toxic relationship. I ended up moving in with him right after my mom died in 2019, and we were together till right before the pandemic starts to get a little better at the end of 2020/beginning of 2021. At that time as if the pandemic and my loss wasn't bad enough, he decided to cheat on me with a coworker while I was spending thousands of reais (I live in Brazil) with treatments for my sick cat.
While all this was happening I had a "best friend" who we will call L. L was a lesbian, we've known each other since highschool, but I've always noticed that she had some strange pick me girl vibes when my boyfriend was around. Everytime he did something bad she would just go "oh but he's just a boy, he made a mistake, but he's not a bad person, I will continue to being friends with him". EVEN WHEN HE CHEATED. We even had a big fight about this and parted ways in our friendship for a long time untill we met again at a party and she told me she was sorry.
Fast foward to last year... I moved states, left everything behind and found and amazing boyfriend who is everything to me. Me and L we're still in touch, she even called me on my birthday and everything.
NOW GUESS WHO CALLED ME almost crying one day to tell me she had a secret that she couldn't keep from me anymore? Yep. She told me she broke up with her girlfriend of four years because she was desperately in love with someone, and that person was my cheating ex. I simply told her to get the f* out of my life and to never call me again, and when he do the same to her she will have to find another shoulder to cry on cause I wouldn't be available.
It still hurts me to this day to think I trusted this girl for 10+ years and she thought it was okay to do me like that.
I love it how cheaters always accuse their partners of cheating
Just wanna say I watch your videos daily. Before I go to work, when I'm cleaning house. You are one of my favorite content creators to watch.
Wow, thank you!
@jessicajones155 same tho
Same every evening at 6 I watch Charlotte's videos and I love it ! The perfect ritual to end the day and relax :)
Ah, my heart goes out to the man in the first scenario.. he managed to keep his cool, despite the heartbreak literally audible in his voice.. ❤️🙏🏻☀️
I love how calm the policeman was, he reacted so well, just handed her ass to the streets like she deserved while staying professional and calm even polite through it all. Seriously she lost out on a good man.
My first heartbreak was being cheated on. The girl was his sister in law and she thanked me for “letting me have him today” (to paint I thought). It was him, her and her BFF!
Gross.
Being cheated on by your first loves is so damaging T__T I'm sorry you had to go through that! My first two relationships, I got cheated on big times. It was heartbreaking. I felt I couldn't trust anyone anymore. When we started dating with my now husband, I was constantly panicking the moment he was just complimenting other people (while I was with him, not like he was doing anything sneaky in my back). It took a while getting to build trust, and he was so patient with it, still don't know why he stayed (I guess it was love x) ) but I'm so glad he did. I hope you're with someone who treats you good today!
@@misscrackwood thank you! That guy was also physically and sexually abusing me. The pain is so bad I said I would never allow it again. Like zero chances. I’ve been married almost 11 years now. That’s a whole different set of fun things!
@@kimmurray9346 what a disgusting piece of shit! I'm happy for you you're with someone great now!
Just wanted to wish everyone a happy 4th and to those who are not in the States, happy Tuesday ❤ thank you for the daily dose of laughter Charlotte!
Happy Tuesday to you also!
Man…I still remember the first time I was ever cheated on. What an absolutely horrid feeling. I can’t speak for everyone, only myself, but it was like my heart just dropped into my gut and my stomach acid disintegrated into dust. Ugh it tore me up. Cheaters are the absolute worst bro.
The last story if it's only one friend telling you to break up with your boyfriend, get rid of the friend. If all your friends are telling you to break up, with specific reasons, lose the dude
I used to go for married men, so I have a unique perspective here. It's a symptom of a bigger problem. I was so unhealthy and toxic and traumatized, that the idea of being with a man who might actually care for me, in a relationship that might actually go somewhere, was terrifying.
The point is, healthy people don't like married or otherwise unavailable people.
And just to add, I'm not defending my actions here, I was wrong, and my mental illness and trauma wasn't an excuse, period. There's no defense.
I'm offering this to explain that any person who is married (or pretends to be married 🙄) and advertises that to potential partners is predatory, full stop. They know the kind of people they're attracting.
Ooooh that is a unique take. Any other girl I've asked just likes the "competition" and to feed their delusion about being able to take men away from their women. I wouldn't mind being friends with someone who likes to be the other woman for that reason. That's much more sane.
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver I used to say things like that myself.
But see, the idea that dating is a competition is toxic itself. Healthy people don't want to take someone's partner from them, because healthy people know, if they cheat with you, they'll cheat ON you.
There's nothing healthy about engaging with someone's partner knowingly.
Thank you for that honesty!
I know that took courage to admit.
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver so, in other words, exactly like justhearmeout3959 described, toxic and unhealthy people. And of course they are going to have some other justification than the reality that justhearmeout3959 is able to recognize AFTER becoming healthier than they used to be.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings this.
I used to say I liked that they wouldn't ask me for a commitment. But also I liked the forbidden nature of the whole thing.
In reality, I was so traumatized that I couldn't trust, and at least with married men I knew going in that I couldn't trust them.
The whole thing is complicated. What really important is that married people who advertise that about themselves when looking for people to cheat with aren't healthy either, and have their own whole brand of toxicity.
For me is the gaslighting that's the most toxic element of cheating because of the enormous damage it does to the victim's ability to trust anyone for years. No matter how wonderful and trustworthy their next partner is, the scar of that experience will always induce that pang of paranoia which, if listened to, can destroy an otherwise perfect relationship. Break-ups are painful, but if they're built on a foundation of honesty, then the pain is brief(er) and each can move on knowing it just wasn't meant to be.
“She belongs in the streets….” Favorite line lol
12:37 i gotta agree with Charlotte bc i had a friend in a toxic relationship and I kept telling her they needed to break up but she chose to stop being friends with me and was worried i would cheat with him. A) im a dude and her boyfriend was straight as hell.
B) im asexual and had been out to her for quite a while and she knew i had never had interest in dating ever (friends since middle school)
Things didn’t work out between them and she tried to fix our relationship after but things were too far gone for us to be friends again.
The first video broke my heart, every time i see this video. You can almost see his broke heart in his eyes 💔
A fake video broke your heart ahahaha!
you literally cant see his face, let alone his eyes lol
"You going home bestie"😂 love how he was still able to make a little joke after finding out that he was being betrayed
I love messy cheaters with Charlotte. 😂
Fun episode. And thanks to Vanessa, I think, for choosing videos where everyone was speaking clearly and at a level that could be heard. So much more pleasant than meltdowns with nothing but shrieking that's so bad (or so quiet) that the computer that's doing the captioning basically says, "WTF".
When my husband and I were walking around a lake, I was holding his arm and a girl did a quick ring check. It wasn’t enough for her to see me holding his arm. She had to do the ring check to make sure. 🤣🤣
Lowkey love charlotte’s content. Had very few female friends growing up, and i love sitting down with her and feeling like I’m having a girl talk with my bestie. It’s awesome ❤
Wow this is so hard especially got told I got cheated on more then 10 times while visiting fam 4 years down the drain . Thank you charlotte for giving clues of how to tell if he has cheated all those signs I remember now . Thank you for this content it has made me feel amazing
Married men would hit on me and I would say, "you're cute, but you be less cute with half your stuff." Move on.
Ooooo I’m so gonna use this
People in toxic relationships can be so like that !! A friend literally got smacked in the face the other day we’ve been telling her to leave for months before this happened (little things have been throwing up red flags) she still can’t apparently it’s complicated… 😞 I don’t know how to help my friend is heartbreaking 💔
That last story what a web. I'm glad I was in college in the late 90's. There was no social media, blocking wasn't a thing yet on cell phones. When you found out your guy or girl was cheating you just stopped talking to and seeing them. There was no need to have any further communication. You changed their contact info to do not answer. Then you just went on about your life. When you focus on your studies you really don't have time for drama. Things were just easier back then.
Officer: License and registration please
Chester: 👁️👄👁️
He reacted so perfectly honestly 😂 the way he let the guy off (who could not speed out fast enough)
Speaking from personal experience as a happily married man: The ratio of getting hit on with my wedding ring on vs. without it is about 100:1...
EW....unbelievable!
100:1 😳 Omg! That's messed up 😒
Same here. Been happily married 26 years and have been hit on by random women more after marriage than before I got married (well these days I don't get hit on because I'm old, but back in my 30s, yeah).
👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀
Yup, same here. I don't know what it is... Maybe it makes the married guy more appealing because obviously he is good enough for someone else to want to be with for life? Or maybe it becomes more of a challenge to some girls and they want to see if they are good enough to attract someone that is already taken? Those are my two best running theories.
I had a GF in middle school who literally tried to steal everyone's boyfriend's if she found them attractive. She did it to me with a guy I really liked and she knew it. She did it to all of her friends. She was a super attractive girl probably one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen in person and she knew it and played it to her advantage. The worst part was once she got these guys and got their attention she was already done with them. I stopped being friends with her after that, and it was kind of funny because she would periodically leave school all throughout middle school and high school she would just homeschool for like six months or so and then she'd come back like nothing happened and then get herself into a ton of trouble again and then we wouldn't see her again for a few months. Wild!
Narc alert
That officer handled that so well and I am so glad that other guy was like "we are both victims of her" damn straight man!
My first real boyfriend cheated on me. We went to separate schools but he was in my cousin's class. I was friends with most of the people in that class via my cousin as we're born the same year. In that class was another guy with the same name as my cousin, whom I also knew, but via a theater company we were both members of. It was show season, so he and I were planning on getting our common friends tickets to see our show. I was talking to one of the girls in their class via MSN, and was talking about my theater friend and some issued we had with the tickets, when she misunderstood me, thinking I was talking about my cousin. She blurted out that she was so sorry that it happened and she wanted to tell me, but my cousin had given my boyfriend a week to come clean himself before cousin was to talk to me. I was like "what on earth are you talking about, what happened?!"... So she freaked out, was forced to tell me how my boyfriend was doing his ex at a sleepover school event and everyone saw at least some of it. Everyone knew and it had been 4 days since the event, my boyfriend was acting like nothing happened, my cousin hasnt answered my texts for those days but that was normal as we were hot and cold in terms of friendship. Sometimes we were great friends, then we didnt talk or fought. So I rang my cousin first after this msn chat, who then confirmed it was true. Texted my boyfriend that we were over and how the hell could he humiliate me like that. He tried desperately for a few weeks to apologize and get me back, but I wasnt having it. My cousin had my back 100% and kicked his friend (my ex) to the curb. Last I heard of my ex, he got into drugs later on.
Didnt learn how to pick a decent guy tho, cause my next serious boyfriend became a three year abusive relationship. Well first two years of abuse, then he ended it when I stopped taking his crap, almost a year went by, I met a new dude who was very sweet, but a bit hung up on his ex and honestly, I was still really screwed up mentally, then my abusive ex came back into my life, sweet talked the crap out of me, assured me he had learned a lesson and changed and would never be remotely bad towards me again. It lasted a few months as he slipped back to his old self, and ended when he had to move away. The day after the second break up, I was over him. I had been very mentally hung up on him since the first day I met him and didnt see any value in myself cause he always saw things he wanted to change in me, removed me from friends, controlled every aspect of my life. The year in between, I had gotten most of my friends back who really didnt want me to go back to him when he came crawling back. The second time we ended, my friends took me out for ice cream, I cried for a few minutes and then the next day it was like I was a new person.
Today I've got my dream man. It was love at first sight, real love. I was really sick when we met, and just a month after we went official, I was given a death sentence. I told him to go find a healthy woman, he refused and came to support me every day he could. He met most of my family at the hospital. He was sure I was gonna survive and while it was frustrating to hear this when doctors told me to prepare to die, it also gave me strength. 14 years later and we're as happy together as we were back then!
The silver lining is always in the horizon. A good partner who sees the best in you will find you even when you dont look.
The way I faithfully tell my boyfriend, "CHARLOTTE UPLOADED!" whenever Charlotte uploads ❤
I've seen the cop one before and I just can't believe how silent she stays the whole time.
My gut feeling hit me mid-work. I literally left work and kicked him out immediately. I was so happy after.
Love watching your videos everyday
I died with that first girl's impression of that dude doing that crossed eyed dunce look. 🤣Perfect! 😁
With the last one, I think the real suspicion and conflict happens when said friend is repeatedly complimenting your boyfriend, and yet ALSO telling you to end things with him. Like, red flag x10.
Can we all take a min to thank her for posting everyday ❤
13:10 as a friend who constantly tell my friend to break up with her bf (because he treats her awfully) I can tell for a fact that people in toxic relationships will be very delulu about the toxicty (they are together 1 year now and he treated her that way since the day they met, I am too tired to help with that and have no power so i just need to watch as she gets mentally destroyed unfortunately. It hurts.)
I was in a relationship of over 7 years. Within 6 months or so after I had a major surgery, my bf suddenly started sleeping on the couch. I noticed that we weren't communicating like we use to, but let it go. He was paying all the bills at the time, including mine. I went to spend a weekend with my high school bff, and when I came home, found long red hair in the bed. His ex wife has long red hair, and she had just popped back into his life right before my surgery. I made up a story that I had found someone who wanted to marry me, then moved out, drove to Florida, had a crap time(Iwon't get into what happened), and moved back in with my mom.
Women know how to play the “in the know” in order to let the truth come out.
It works! It’s far better when you’re face to face. The micro expressions give away everything!
Cheaters getting their "L" prize for fuking around and finding out, is my favorite 😌❤️
Hi potato fam! I have an update. My health is declining and I am in so much pain. Thank you for todays video so I can deal with today. I have a GFM that I won’t post without charlotte’s permission
I’m sorry you are going through it
I hope you get better!❤❤❤
Hope things improve
I'm sorry, TaterTot!😢
Sending positive vibes!❤
Perfectly timed video... been watching your videos nearly nightly with my ex fiance and yesterday discovered he was cheating. Absolutely poetic timing ❤
Cheaters are the worst, so learn from others kids! Don't be like these cheaters!!!
6:58 "you suck as a person." yeah, we're done as soon as you say that to me.
So a long time ago, when MSN was still a thing, my friend was dating a guy who was verbally and emotionally abusive don’t know if it escalated past that and she broke up with him thankfully. When she would ask my opinion I told her I do not like the way he talks to you, how he is very controlling of what you do. I gave examples as to why I did not like him and and not just blanket statements I ask so did not just give my opinion unsolicited I would wait until she asked. Not sure if that was the best or right way to handle it, but when she did break up with him and I cheered so loud that my dog started to howl lol.
I'm going to tell you. I had way WAY more women throw signals and straight up make a run at me when I wore my wedding ring. You may not be that way, but there are women who do.
Some desperate woman thinks that married man are better because If they commited with the wife, they commited with me too and is better than single man.
it's definitely a thing. It's called mate poaching
You know watching all these drama videos make me 1 very appreciative of my peaceful relationship and 2 so so so happy I got rid of my toxic roommates like my life has improved so much since I kicked them out
The first one, he blamed the right person. He did well to keep his cool.
Actually a lot of successful "Pick Up Artists" say that if you want to get laid wear a wedding ring as a startling percentage very easy/trashy women will hook up with a married man for a one nights stand. I have seen blokes do this and I was shocked at how easy it worked for them. I'm not going to do it as that's F'ed up
I can already tell this is going to be a great vid, especially bc of the officer CATCHING the cheaters together lol
I've been so sad today, thank you so much for posting daily Charlotte 😭
Don't let them convince you you're just being crazy or paranoid, if you feel in your gut something is going on then something IS going on. If they really loved you and aren't cheating they will do whatever you need them to to prove themselves. But when they get mad and blame it all on you then it's already time to move on.
I’ve been with my spouse for 19 years. No cheating none none whatsoever. We agreed the moment the love died we would go our separate ways before we even thought of cheating. We’re still happily married -
There is no excuse for these people. They want their cake and to eat it too.
Police officer was either a really good guy or just remembered the camera. Taking her to the airport to make sure she leaves the area so he can enjoy the rest of his vacation.
Recently found out I was getting cheated on THIS MORNING I kinda figured because this girl’s energy had been weird for like 4 days now not necessarily hurt but I am disappointed in the fact that the one time I try to like someone again I get played but it’s always nice to watch your videos and put a smile on my face thanks Char❤❤
The moment that girl was about to get down and army crawl is when she should have walked away.. after egging his house but still 😂
I've spent the last week watching your videos literally all day long. I looooveee youuu
All us tater tots gathering around to hear and watch the funny reactions of our great Potato Queen Charlotte!
Absolutely not 😂
Fyi tater tot is a derogatory term for andrew tate fans
I love the makeup application stories.
I wish all this stuff would have been around when my husband cheated on me with 3 of my friends. He gaslighted me for years before I finally got proof on him. I feel for all you that have been put through this.
Yeah, my ex friend was like "You should break up with him. You guys just don't link up right." Then got super sad when my bf refused to meet up with her. (He only met her once, and said that he wasn't comfortable around her. So I never really pushed for them to meet after that.) Then she got a little too drunk around me once, and told me that she wished she met him first so that they could be in a relationship...
So update, we are friends again! I decided to try and talk to her, and she admitted she was in the wrong and apologized. And I have been working on communication, and what makes me uncomfortable. So we worked on boundaries, and are in a much better place.
My cousin hated my first love, like she said he was ugly and stupid ALL the time. I dated him for about 2 years, on and off. About a month or 2 after my first love and I ended it, she ended our relationship! (I was talking about him too much) I let her go, she was such a toxic person anyways, 4 months go by, I see them intoxicated and holding hands...
Should of known because she has done this to many of her "best friends"
It's not often that a fake video makes it past you, but the first one is no cop uniform I've seen in Australia, or New Zealand for that matter. And those two blokes are Aussies. And the radio audio is from some US police radio recording.
You have to break up with them if you lose your love or find love for someone else or at least tell them how you feel! its cruel when you string someone along because they can always feel that something has changed and you just saying everything is fine while you go behind their back is pathetic but its become unbelievably common! If you cant end a relationship and turn to cheating then you are not mature enough for one at all!
2:15
"Are you alright, partner?"
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Love you Charlotte! 🫶🏻🫶🏻
I'm impressed by the maturity of the people who were cheated on. I hope they all find people who treat them as they should be treated ❤
My ex husband did all that stuff. He is now engaged. He won't let me even know her name or ANYTHING but he told his other ex fiance I was cheating, not him, I am psycho, I was out late every night ( I worked late til 1 am) and got our child from my Gmas who he dropped off without me knowing and getting home at 3 or 4 am drunk. His gf was a stripper an hr and a half away. They jumped me and called the cops to give ME an arrest record. She said so in texts. And sent me pics of dead babies and saying she was going to be my sons new mama. Kept all her texts and her MySpace photos w her holding drugs and mostly naked. Brought them to court,I got full custody. Should I tell new fiancee? If I can find out who she is. It is like 14 yrs later. And that ex is in prison now.
I will say that behavioral changes alone are not the red flag, as many things can cause that (a move, job change, sudden news, even just a funk). It is the behavioral change in the absence of any of that coupled with them seeming happier and more relaxed away from you, and actively working against being alone with you.
My brother wore his wedding ring for a while after getting divorced. He said girls liked the challenge. He was also extremely good looking.
Charlotte causing traffic jams out here with everybody being ‘for the streets’…😂😂😂
2:41 is the officer officially single? Did the ink dry on that divorce paper, yet? Asking for a friend name me
LOL at the first video with the Aussie "cop" finding his wife cheating.... I honestly cannot believe that with acting THIS BAD, people are actually falling for it -- thinking it's real. 😂😂😂
I know right 😆
She's gonna have to explain to her mom why she's out on the side of the road lol