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RE: the cake - I can understand someone not wanting to give any food item to a child they didn't know. The child's parents might not want her eating cake, there might be allergies, etc. But the better thing for that mom to have said would have been, "Let's go find your mommy and ask her if it's okay for you to have this".
Thank you!!! That’s exactly it. The friends comment was also a bit much. That wasn’t ok. But the other mother was making an assumption about how welcome they were at the party and the level of comfort the other mother should have in caring about her kid. As a mom of a kid with severe food allergies, I would’ve been glad that another parent wasn’t just going to willy nilly distribute food to a kid they didn’t know without a conversation with the other parent first. Not an AITA story but definitely an ESH moment.
That’s what I was coming to say. I am fine sharing treats with the kids in my small apartment complex but I always need the parent’s permission to so. Not trying to be sued…
Yeah, it would be a bit weird to just give cake to a random kid you don't know, so I understand the mother not wanting to give her cake before speaking with the mother. But if she actually said "this is not your party, these are not your friends", it is kinda messed up, she could have worded differently, especially if she had no problem with that kid playing with the party kids before.
also i personally wouldn’t be comfortable having my kid basically join a birthday party for kids we don’t know at all. If i took my kid to a park that it was just us and a birthday party i would probably keep my kid away from the area the birthday party is playing or go find another park. Feels a little like she was just dumping her kid on them to watch while she just hung out a ways away and took a mom break.
Yeah, let's face it, they basically crashed the party. When I was growing up, it was different, but these days, If I was the parent in charge, I would definitely want permission to feed the child.
The birthday party story just brought up a LOAD of old childhood trauma for me. I remember when I was a kid, my older brother's girlfriend (today wife) agreed to babysit me for a day because my mom had a doctor's appointment. Well, my sister-in-law took me to the park, so I could play on this massive playground. Well, there happened to be a birthday party going on, and my SIL told me to just go and join it. Me, being the HUMONGOUS introvert that I am, was petrified at the thought of approaching strange children to join their party, so I didn't, and instead just whiled away my time going along the bridges and slides of the set, even with the other kids occasionally there. Well, after a while, I was tired and went to go back, and my SIL was GONE! Not a trace of her, and me, being 5, was horrified. I was alone and surrounded by strangers, wandering around the edge of the parking area where her car had been. A pair of the mom's from the party came up to me, seeing me crying, and they took me under their wing, giving me some cake and stuff, using the little energency card in my pocket to call my mom from a payphone. A while later my mom showed up, really distraught, thanking the nice ladies for helping me, and then we waited for another hour in the car, until finally my SIL showed back up. Apparently she had thought I was being taken care of by the party, and so she went freaking SHOPPING instead of looking after me, her own extremely extroverted self being unable to comprehend that I was a shy, quiet loner child who would not be comfortable with that, nor even thinking that strangers were a bad choice of people to look after your boyfriend's baby brother. My mom gave her a tongue lashing that went on for close to a half hour, and then took me to McDonalds to treat me, because I was so shaken by the ordeal. Thirty years later, and I am still very uncomfortable around my SIL.
Your brother MARRIED that? She could have gotten you killed.
I am stunned that he still married her after that. Child abandonment is a big issue. If she was okay with doing that to you image how her own children may be treated.
@@cherie7100 My brother is not the brightest bulb in the batch, and they still fight all the time. They had three kids, and she wound up going new age and then later on born again Christian on them, leading to a rather roller coaster childhood for them. My nephew went deaf because when he fell down the stairs, she took him to a spirit healer instead of the emergency room, for example. Later urgery fixed him, but still...... It's little wonder that the kids used to spend almost all summer with me on my farm.
@@robertgronewold3326wow. That’s all so messed up. I’m sorry.
Insane, beyond just assuming you would join strangers and be OK, is the gumption of assuming strangers would baby sit you without any discussion!
As someone who goes to the gym, seeing other women looking great in their gym clothes motivates me to push harder for results. That girl was just salty lol
Right?! Just imagine the audacity and the gumption for someone to feel brave enough to even go up to a total stranger and say something harsh & critical like that to them?! How do ppl have the gall to do that?! I guess we can't compute it bc we have a sense of decency, social tact, and just....well....empathy. lolol
I loved that the girl didn't give that jerk the time of day and just said ok thanks, bye. I feel like I would've cried, and with my social anxiety, that would've prolly scarred me from ever going to a public gym ever again. That's so cruel to go out of your way to criticize someone who's just innocently trying to go about their day.
For real, I just think, "Good for you, girl, you look awesome and you probably _feel_ awesome," then I go on my way. *Edit to add: Can we all just collectively agree, instead of harassing the girl your man is staring at and blaming her, maybe BLAME THE GUY?!?! I'm so sick of women being held responsible for men's wandering eyes.
Real question, when did we start wearing underwear as full gym clothes? Because a sports bra goes under your shirts. I've been judged for wearing a t-shirt, because I don't feel comfortable not to wear a t-shirt or tank top. Like, are we children?
I dunno, I kind of disagree. Maybe it's because I've seen so many videos where men are getting chewed out for looking at girls. I was taught, "if it's not for sale, don't put it on display ". Gals want to dress with their lady bits hanging out and then make videos for the internet of guys looking. Seems like a (thirst) trap to me.
@@firebirdtelevision175 I get what you're saying, but it's also not the right comparison. We're talking about whether someone should be allowed to wear what they want w/o being publicly harrassed for it. In comparison, men wear what they want w/o hardly facing the same sort of open criticism. And believe me, there are men who walk around WITHOUT shirts (which I actually find weird), or they wear very small shorts or JUST leggings that are so tight, you can actually SEE their man bits being hugged by the thin fabric (which can sometimes turn sheer from sweat) swinging and bouncing around. And does anyone say, "Um, excuse me sir, could you please dress a little more conservatively? It's a bit distracting/a bit much/a bit digusting?" No, not really. Women are the ones who get policed and chastised, not just in general but also for being BLAMED for causing men to look. The real issue should be that men can control their own selves and perhaps not ogle, record, or feel like a woman's appearance is FOR them in any way. Plenty of women do not dress for attention from men. They dress the way they do FOR THEMSELVES, whether they feel awesome in the outfit, or it simply isn't too cumbersome and hot, and they can move more freely in their exercises. So, no matter the reason, we should be a little less harsh and be a little more kind. We should stop harassing ppl, even if we disagree w/their fashion choices. And we should also be fair and stop creating gender biases. If someone was violating the gym's dress code, then the business can say something; however, you as a fellow customer, can either suck it up and stop looking, or leave.
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For the cake story: the mom did not seem to have a problem with the cake being taken away, but more with the fact that the mom told her kid "these are not your friends"...
That would be my problem, too. If you don't want my kids to share cake because they weren't invited, no problem. But when the kids are playing together and MAKING FRIENDS, don't tell them they aren't friends. If the roles were reversed, how would the other parent feel, and how would their kid(s) feel?
The way the other mom said everything gave me the impression the other kids were enjoying this little girl more than the bday girl. Which if her child acts like the uppity mom, I can see why kids would want to play with another child.
Here's my take: I believe It's MK's Mom's responsibility to ensure all is well with what's going on. Whether it's in a public place or not it's the parents Jobs. Little MK sorta "crashing the party" is cute (in my opinion.) As, of course kids don't care & they are happily playing, plus get to enjoy meeting a new kid. But we do have to remember as parents, she just basically let them all babysit HER child & didn't even bother to immediately come make sure it's ok, considering there is a parent boundary issue there (which sadly resulted in a child's feelings getting hurt & very much avoidable.)
The "not ur friends," thing was cruel, so it goes beyond the cake, bc it seems her issue was not about the actual cake itself, but with the Mom not communicating.
We can't assume anything anymore, bc the child could be allergic or the Mom being so distant could have made her feel uncomfortable with just giving someone's child food, without knowing? So, I personally would have just asked her mom if it's ok.
(Had it actually just been about the cake.)
It seems like "bday mom" wasn't happy with MK's mom.
Even tho that's clearly not how a good mom handles a lack of communication from another parent.....
That being said, it's a parent's responsibility to ensure her daughter/child is made to feel welcome, instead of what ensued being even remotely possible, merely bc of her LACK of communication.
(I think I said that word like 8 times.)
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The “these are not your friends” is such a horrible thing to say.. the cake thing, I think I’d at least ask mom (if I knew where she was) or ask her to get her mom to see if it was okay for her to have cake.. because of allergies, maybe mom doesn’t like her having so many sweets, etc.. (assuming there’s enough cake for everyone anyway) and let her have cake, and join the party.. They were already playing together, and making friends with each other.
@@cynthiabogacz9740 right...I mean that's what I would have done!
She wasn’t upset that they didn’t let her have the cake. She was upset with how she was like “these aren’t your friends” and the way she talked to her daughter. (She made a follow up video a while ago about this)
That sounded like an afterthought to me. The other mom can’t defend herself, so I’m very skeptical of her saying that. So many liars on the internet.
@@nortist9556 I think it wasn't until she got feedback that she realized it seemed she was upset about the cake which is why she made a follow-up video. Either way there are always 3 sides to a story (side A, side B and the truth).
As a mom, if a kid came up to our party in the park, I would ask them to ask their parent or an adult that they are with if it is ok with them first. You never want to give a strange kid food without knowing if they have an allergy.
Exactly
Yes to this! I never really thought about it until it was discovered that my 2 year old nephew was a diabetic. Halloween, birthday parties, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, all times when sugar is handed out to kids all over the place. The poor boy has grown up giving his treats to his siblings. He’s got a very generous heart now, but I still ask parents every time I’m about to hand a kid some candy if it’s alright.
Absolutely agree about asking about allergies. But to tell a child who's been playing with the other children... and kids can make friends so fast... that those kids are not her friends. That's messed up. That's what playing in parks is about. Or it was when I was a kid. Damn shame if that's changed.
@@callitags I agree. That part was disgusting.
That was my thoughts too. But to tell her these aren’t your friends was harsh because she is a child and it sounds like she made friends with them and I’m assuming that her kid liked her if she was playing with her. It will probably be a negative core memory for that child now. That mom could have approached the girls mom and said “hey I don’t feel comfortable with her eating cake and being here” so that the mom could gently remove her without any negative consequences on that poor little girl who was publicly embarrassed.
As a mother of 3 mostly grown kids (my youngest a 14 yr old non-speaking autistic puberty monster right now) I have to say, I would NEVER allow my kid to just join in on a strangers birthday party. Its so rude and entitled. Don't ever assume anything is okay. Having said that, I also would NEVER take that piece of cake and shame the kid either.
Hard agree! My toddler walked up to a birthday party at the local park when all the kids ran over for barbecue dinner, and I apologized and grabbed his little hand and explained that’s not ours, let’s go home and eat our own dinner. And he was FINE with that! He played on the playground with the kids and was just as happy to go home to our food.
The AUDACITY of assuming “well that’s a big cake, you can share.” Yes, you could. And no, I wouldn’t stop the kid either. But you’re the kind of person who would walk up to a wedding cake and just take the rest, aren’t you? IT IS NOT YOURS! KEEP YOUR MITTS TO YOURSELF! And ASK!!! I can’t believe an adult has to be told what I’m teaching my 3 year old. “GIMME” and snatch is not asking.
Hard agree! My toddler walked up to a birthday party at the local park when all the kids ran over for barbecue dinner, and I apologized and grabbed his little hand and explained that’s not ours, let’s go home and eat our own dinner. And he was FINE with that! He played on the playground with the kids and was just as happy to go home to our food.
The AUDACITY of assuming “well that’s a big cake, you can share.” Yes, you could. And no, I wouldn’t stop the kid either. But you’re the kind of person who would walk up to a wedding cake and just take the rest, aren’t you? IT IS NOT YOURS! KEEP YOUR MITTS TO YOURSELF! And ASK!!! I can’t believe an adult has to be told what I’m teaching my 3 year old. “GIMME” and snatch is not asking.
I paused the video to see if what I was feeling was off base 😂 I completely agree with you. As the mother of a 27 year old, I just think yes, I would give the kid a piece of cake and definitely wouldn’t take it away from the kid if she took it, however I also think this mother is entitled. I know that if my child did that I would explain why it’s inappropriate and lead her away. Just my two cents ❤
We don't know enough of the context here. She said the daughter had been playing with the children prior to the incident.
Like if they made friend on the play ground and suddenly someone call over the kids of course she'll join. Children are taught to stay in groups with other children at school and any social gathering.
It's not like the kid walked straight to the cake, for all we know another kid may have told her to come along. From this point it's the parents job to realize there an extra kid before starting to sing happy birthday (you know ? Make an headcount of the kids, making sure none is missing the main event ?
Heck would she even have realized the kid wasn't from the party if the mother (?) hadn't asked for permission to eat the cake ?
Also why celebrate a birthday at a public park when you're not a teenager ? That's what I found weirder in this story but it's probably just a cultural thing.
I agree 💯 and I am a mother of two.
Here’s the thing with the cake situation - I’m a baker and would never give cake/treats to someone without knowing of any allergies and/or food restrictions so that would be my only concern as the parent of the birthday child. I was also a preschool teacher and saw many children with allergies I never would’ve thought of plus my sons class now has many south Asians and always make sure any goodies I bring in for them is halal etc.
However, I wouldn’t have spoken to the little girl like that and would’ve politely asked where mommy or daddy is to make sure it was ok. So in my opinion that was the only thing that mom did poorly.
On the other hand, as a mom I wouldn’t have even let the situation go that far. There’s been many times we go to the park and someone’s throwing a birthday party with jump houses, ice cream truck, etc and I’ve taught him it’s not polite to invite yourself to things like that. Of course he can play with the kids on the playground but never go over when they’re eating/singing happy birthday. To me that’s just impolite. I know parents put so much time and effort into planning those and typically a party at the park is meant to try and save money so they could’ve also not had much to spare or whatever. I think the tiktok mom was wrong for feeling entitled to have her daughter just join like that without making sure first. Most of the time it’s completely fine with them but the entitlement is what throws it off.
Came here to say the same. 100%
I'm a teacher too and this was the first thing that came to my mind!
@@heykanhey right? I remember this girl was allergic to milk. Like would have a full on throat swelling, break out in hives reaction. I knew of lactose intolerant but never would’ve thought someone could actually be allergic to milk like that. Also eggs, some could have them if it were baked into something but not in its original form. It really makes you more aware how common those could be and to be extra cautious
But you wouldn't tell that to the child but go find their parent.
@@Roanmonster I’m not sure I understand? I mentioned that if I were that parent I would’ve kindly asked the little girl where her parents are if I wasn’t sure. But as a mom myself I wouldn’t have even let it get to that point. My son knows better than to join a party when they’re eating/opening gifts
I honestly can’t imagine ever getting upset about a child joining my kid’s parties, especially if they’re getting along. However I would also expect the child’s parent to come over and make sure it’s ok their kid is joining. That’s just the polite thing to do, I think.
Right, I found it sus that angry mom didn't have any interaction with party mom, even after the cake was taken away... I'll take things that didn't happen for 500 Alex
@@ckee8437 people like you are the worst people on the internet... Real life, really happens to people who go out in public. Most of the things that happen, actually happen to people. Just because they don't happen to you, does not make the rest of the world a bunch of fakers and liars.
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And I have to talk myself down, like there’ll be another one tomorrow. It’ll be ok. Or is that just me?
@@tiffanykim2773 lol dammit.
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The birthday party story, I feel like the mom who took the cake away has every right to say No if she wasnt comfortable with it, however I absolutely have an issue with her telling any child anything like, "these aren't your friends." Kids are amazing and many easily make new friends, my daughter is a social butterfly making friends everywhere. You can tell a child no for sure, but not like that!! Like WOW! How horrible to put it that way!!
I agree. But judging by how entitled she is, I feel like she’s likely embellishing the story to make bday mom look worse.
As a mom I would NEVER just assume that my kid is welcome to a party she isn't invited to! How was she not embarrassed? The mom at the party was absolutely right to take the cake if that was a child she didn't know and didn't see a parent around, how would she know if the child is allergic? And I agree, the mom telling the story could have been exaggerating to make birthday mom sound worse..
Not birthday cake, but I will NEVER forget the time I went to a church Christmas party and they gave out a random gift to each child. I got a cute pair of earrings. My ears were't currently pierced because I wasn't allowed until my birthday a few months later. Some church lady came up and looked at me, said "oh, you don't have pierced ears", TOOK MY PRESENT AWAY, AND GAVE IT TO ANOTHER GIRL AND GAVE ME A CRAPPY SET OF COLORED PENCILS INSTEAD!!!!!! Like, who even takes a kid's Christmas gift away? It has been over 30 years, and that memory has not faded. I tell you, this sort of thing stays with you forever.
@@shannonlind82 Allergic? Kids know their own allergies & MOST people don't have them.
@@stephaniemorrigan3039 That's just unacceptable as well!! I'm upset for you! 30 years later or not. Like seriously what in the world goes through these peoples heads? I wish someone else had seen it all happen and said something to stand up for you and kind of go something like, "umm hey wait a minute now, you need to ask if that is something she doesn't actually still want first... Ya know BEFORE just taking it upon yourself and deciding for her..." Like WOW. For rude! Funny how certain memories stick with us so vividly while others fade. I think maybe we almost like instinctively know when we've been wrong on some level and file it away so it cant happen again or some thing lol. Even if its after all these years, I'm sorry that happened to you and believe whole hearted all karma comes back around. So if it was in any way intentionally and specifically say so someone else could have them instead of the present they received and were disappointed in, not caring if you did want them. Then it even probably already came back round lol. Or so I like to believe. Best wishes to you and yours!
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For the birthday: I would've let the kid have some cake, but she should've asked the mother if her kid could join them before letting her go over. She set her kid up to get her feelings hurt. You don't just let your kid think it's ok to barge in on someone else's party without asking.
That's exactly how I feel. The issue is not the child, it's the PARENT for not teaching the child how to be respectful of ppl's property & privacy. I do also take issue w/the party Mom scolding or saying the things she said to the child like "THESE ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS." It feels unnecessarily harsh. If I were her, I wouldn't have done that to the child, bc that would've only been hurtful and harmful to that child's emotional state. I would've just let the child have cake, and frankly, it prolly would've depended on the vibe of the parent on whether I said something to her. If she was like, "Oh gosh, I'm sorry, my child just wandered over and started going for the cake," I would've just laughed and said it's ok, no worries, and said they were welcome, and maybe asked if they had any allergies or anything to make sure the cake was safe. But, if the parent seemed kinda entitled like they didn't even care or just encouraged them to waltz into a private party, I would've talked w/that child's parent and kindly let her know that it's a little inappropriate to assume that you have a right to a party just bc it's held in a public place. It's simply a matter of courtesy and respect for boundaries, and that Mom in the clip clearly doesn't understand that a party out in the open is no different than a party at someone's house---they're both meant for ppl that the host invited & knows personally. That's not just for safety purposes, but also bc, as others have said, you don't know if a random child who shows up has particular allergies or health issues that could be dangered by the cake being served. You also don't want to be liable for strangers you don't know.
@@djm4854I agree with everything you’ve said, the only thing about the park is that kids are used to mingling with other kids they don’t know there. At least in the UK (can’t speak for the US) that’s kind of the whole point of the park, for kids to play in an open social environment - teaching your child to stay away from birthday parties in the park is all well and good in theory, but in instances like this one, when your kid is literally the only other kid in the park, and again the norm for parks is socialisation, there’s a high chance at least one of the kids at the party is gonna feel bad for the kid on their lonesome and get the ball rolling. Lone kid’s mum really only dropped the ball when she didn’t intervene fast enough with the cake, birthday mum’s reaction with that not your friends line was super inappropriate.
Absolutely agree!!! I wouldnt of even allowed my child to go over to the party at all!
@@djm4854 I probably wouldn't have said a word, unless it was something like "hi, do we know you? Does your mom know you're here?" and then went to mom to make sure she knew and that it was ok. Unless the child was behaving badly, I definitely wouldn't scold them (unless maybe if they were older-like, old enough to know better). But going to the mom and saying in a friendly way "hey, I think your little one might've wandered over. I don't mind if they have some cake, but I just wanted to make sure it was ok with you". ...a nice way to kind of let the mother know that she needs to handle her kid.
@@brooklynskitz1124 Nope! Not unless I was invited.
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So my daughter and I went to a (child-friendly) restaurant that often hosts birthday parties. My child sees the beautiful pirate-themed cupcakes the parents brought in for the party. As the waitress asks us what we want, my daughter says she wants one of the cupcakes. I immediately explain that she can't have one because you can't buy them here and they are part of the birthday party. The waitress actually brought my daughter one (after asking the parents). My daughter went to thank them and had a great time playing with the other kids...
I actually follow the Mom talking about her daughter crashing the birthday party, and while I wouldn't have spoken to the child like that, please don't assume that you kid can just join all the festivities.
Something similar happened at one of my boys' birthday parties. There were two other children at the park. I only had a set number of party favors and simply told the kids, " You are more than welcome to join, but I don't have enough toys". They stayed and played and there was plenty of cake and ice cream! In fact my son shared his own party favors with them!
Edit: Mom is Kate Stickler and she did an update video about CakeGate!
Unless we was there the mom could’ve took it out of context and embellish the situation. Especially if she felt her child being singled out. So, I’m taking the tone of how it’s retold and ignoring it given the situation.
Sounds like you are raising a awesome young man!
I remember about 20 years ago when my ex-husband's granddaughter had a birthday party at a park and some strange older kids tried to steal her gifts. Not cool!
The mother should have asked if it was even okay for her kid to join in the festivities. This could have been a teaching moment. Birthday mom was unnecessarily mean, but other mom was a bit entitled. They both suck!
Yes, if it was my child I would have intervened and called them away from the party food. If the birthday Mum then said the child could join in I would allow it but I would not let my child assume they were welcome to partake.
There is also the issue of allergies or food customs. The birthday Mum may not want to let a strange child join in without knowing if it's safe for them.
Not to be that person, but if i didn't want strangers kids joining i would have asked them where their parents are and help them get back to them.
As someone who kept being tackled by kids out of no where since i was a teen way into my adult years JUST because i looked approachable, i cannot tell you how much i wound up emphasizing stranger danger to their parents each time. One time i couldn't find the parents for an hour and i had 4 kids in tow in a college campus. I look like a guy though im a gal. I've been told that a lot.
It's true that people cant just let their kids randomly join a party. But it's also true that hosts need to properly gate keep from time to time. It goes both ways.
You never know when a "party" will be staged and someone will just take all the kids on a "party bus" later that afternoon.
It's why kids should never go alone to the ice cream truck either.
I had been going to the same nail tech for YEARS (until about 5 years ago when they retired) it was a husband and wife and the husband's mom, they later hired other people but the husband, Lee, was the one I usually requested. These people were so friendly and it was a nice salon like the kind of place where you really feel like you know these people, ya know? No one wonders if they're talking shit in other languages, bc they wouldn't do that. Unless you gave them a reason.. in which case they'll say it in English lol I have seen several people over the years demand refunds. Usually they just say no and the person angrily leaves (unless it's something they did wrong but when that happens they'll just fix it lol) but I remember one woman specifically not retreating and bitchily exclaiming that she refuses to pay so the wife told her "sure you can have a refund.. right after you have a seat and let me remove the nails" 😂 she left with her tail between her legs
4:06 tell me u are jealous of this gorgeous girl without telling me ...
Charlotte is right about kids needing to be taught. My parents didn't even try to discipline me and teach me manners which turned me into a brat. Then my grandma got her hands on me and my attitude changed real quick. Trying to be your kid's best friend just doesn't work sometimes.
Park mom should have approached the other parents while her daughter was making friends. It's a birthday party--she knew the order of events. Get ahead of it and converse with the adults before things get awkward. I'm struck by the fact that her kid played with this group for 30 minutes, then got through all the happy birthday stuff and all the way to serving cake, and she saw all of this while no other parents saw her? The other mom sounds like she had no clue if this kid had a parent present at all, while the poster thought she was being extra courteous by walking over moments after her kid has started taking food from strangers.
Right. Whenever my niece was playing with kids from a party at a park, I'd casually walk over & talk to the parents so it's not feeling like there's a random child just crashing the party. I also never expect them to eat, but they usually get something because I made them aware of my presence.
Absolutely! I also have a feeling the OP dramatized the situation. If I had been b-day kid's mom and realized I didn't know OP's kid and no one was immediately with her, I would have gotten down to eye-level and started asking questions. I honestly would have been more worried she was lost than anything else.
The only thing I can imagine is that the mom knows the cake is safe for the kids invited but she doesn't know if OP's kid has allergies. It does kind of reek of dramatization, I can't see a mother telling a child "these are not your friends"
Exactly! It’s the entitlement for me!
@@AntjersThis is my thought process. I'd be terrified of giving a kid food in case of allergies. I would ask the kid to wait while I try to flag down the parent, but still.
Yet the complainer at the lady trying to work out didn't have a problem with the guy in the yellow tank top🤪
I was about to say the same. Dude is showing more boob than she.
His boobies were hanging out? 🤣
That dad selling the baby was so funny!!
When my 2 eldest boys were little, the knew we sold stuff to the pawnbrokers, and when they played up, we threaten to take them there.
One day, while at the pawnbrokers, they started being naughty, so I said in a loud voice, " How much will you give me for the boys?"
The kids looked at me, absolutely shitting their pants!! The pawnbroker looked them up and down, then replied, Nah, don't want them. You won't come back for them, and no one else will buy them. They're too naughty"!!
Needless to say, it worked. They stopped being naughty, and it became my go to threat.
They're now 33 and 32.
8:48 woman was 100% in the wrong. You dont let your child assume she's part of a birthday party just because you HAPPENED to be there at the same time as a party. Those were strangers! She can PLAY on the public playground with them but when they go over to their party activities you don't let your daughter go over there! And definitely don't ASSUME she can have cake. That party had absolutely nothing to do with the 2 of you. How absolutely embarrassing and your mad!? Yes lady you are entitled and completely wrong. The fuq 😅😅
I’ve seen the lady with the kid at the park that joined the bday party before. While I wouldn’t have taken away cake from a kid, I would’ve NEVER let my kid join a random party of people I don’t know That’s insane. Collect your kid and move on
it could be just like that- those kids were just playing around, and she joined them, and they just have fun.
maybe at first she didnt noticed it is bday party, anyway, she should take her kid when notices, or ask if she can stay.
Yes. I would have explained to my child and let her know what's going on and she was not part of it. I have infact done that and we left.
They're having a party at a public park. Other kids are entitled to play there too, and the kid just befriended a group of kids at the party. It's not a big deal, knowing kids they probably invited the other kid to join them. It should be encouraged that kids are nice and inviting to other children, and they shouldn't be made to feel bad about that, and a kid shouldn't be shamed for being at a public park and befriending a group of kids. That's literally what the park is there for.
Idk, without context it's hard to say, but in my personal experience it's pretty safe to say that atleast one of those kids invited the other kid into their party. Kids are shy as hell and wouldn't just invite themselves into someone else's group usually. I'd give 80-20 odds one of the kids at the party invited them over to play with them/join the party, in which case that mother is a massive PoS for shaming the child just because she didn't invite them.
@@goodbher9244 I agree with the mom not having to be a wicked witch about it but I would still give my kids a heads up.
@@goodbher9244 If it really bothered her that much she should've just taken the L with the cake and talked to the mother discreetly so as not to embarass and shame the kid.
I edited because L looks like I if it's not capitalized.
I watched a follow up of the lady and the cake incident. She wasn't mad about the cake and understood her child wasn't entitled to it, she was more surprised at what the lady said to her daughter. She felt it was a bit harsh and could have been said in a better/nicer way.
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Yes, the cake lady should have used better words, but the mom should not assume her kid is welcome to eat at a stranger's birthday party. It likely would have ended differently if she had introduced herself, no one knew who her child belonged to.
Feels like she’s just trying to do damage control and did not believe that at the time of the original post.
@@lorettasmith9730I agree with this. In the first video, she said she was walking up to the parents and was going to ask them personally if her child could have a piece of cake, and she sounded absolutely okay with her kid not getting cake in the end. What bothered her the most was that a parent talked like that to her child. She should've absolutely asked if her kid could play with the other kids first, 100%, but the other mom was in the wrong for speaking down to a child like that.
That's her own fault for not walking over sooner and introducing herself. She should have asked if it was okay that her daughter was joining in on the festivities.
I felt for that poor girl hugging the waiter. I was leaving a house after walking a dog, and was passing by a housecleaner. He reached out his hand while saying goodbye, and I just instinctively took it and shook it. He was actually reaching for the leash I was about to hang up. He was wearing gloves while he cleaned. My soul died a little while I stood there awkwardly shaking this confused man's dirty glove.
The cake story wasn't about the kid not getting cake, it was about the other mother telling a small child that these kids she was just playing and having fun with weren't her friends.
i know right? what a mean thing to say to a kid.
Aye, and it sounds like it was in front of the other kids, poor kid must have felt awful. They said it was a large cake, if its an issue say something to the Mum in private after you let the kid *keep* the slice of cake.
3:50 “can’t you be respectful?”
Tell you what, I’m gonna show you the same level of respect as YOU have done by coming up and confronting me about something that’s NONE of your business and you could very easily have chosen to ignore…how bout that?
I watch Kat's videos all the time (the mom with the daughter and the piece of cake). She later clarifies that she wasn't upset about the cake at all, it was the fact that a grown woman would get down to MK's level and say those mean things to a toddler.
There was nothing mean-spirited about it. Have you organized a party with a bunch of children? That is stressful enough. When you add a random child grabbing cake, which Kat does not say whether or not she even asked for a piece, so many thoughts can be running through your mind.
It's not mean tho? If everyone allowed kids everything just for being kids, they wouldn't teach them anything. It's better to be a little harsh in order to not make them spoiled or entitled. They NEED to know that they CAN'T have everything they want.
@@havidikevidiyou don't think it was mean to get down into the face of a three-year-old and tell her that those kids are not her friends? Especially after pulling the food out of her hands? That alone probably startled her, she's basically a toddler. While I would never that somebody you should just give kids whatever they want, as an adult you don't have to actually be mean to a baby.
@@AJKoehlerso you would snap at a three-year-old and tell her that those kids are not her friends because it's stressful to have a party?
@@WelcomeApathy It's a reality check, maybe even for the mother to raise her kid better, because we all know it's not the kid's fault how they behave. Tbh we don't even really know if that's actually what the other mother told the kid, we only heard one side of the story.
Growing up poor, in a poorer area, we never assumed we would get free anything. My brothers and I would NEVER take food from strangers, because there was a real possibility that the people who paid for it had *just* enough for the invited guests. They also could react violently.
So I kind of have to be against MK's mom on this one. She could have gone over and asked the parents who bought/made the cake if it was okay for her daughter to have some. She had time while the kids were playing.
She acted so entitled when she said there was plenty of cake to go around. Maybe that cake was going to be packaged up and taken to grandma's for another party later.
Thank you!!! I didn’t grow up poor but I grew up with manners. Ffs. And when I first had kids i really didn’t have much money. So yes it really was just enough for the guests.
Just wanted to add that MK's mum later clarified she wasn’t upset about the cake it was that the party mum got down to MK's level and told her those things. Which was just outright rude to say to a kid who in their minds were now BFFs.
I do however agree that if it was just about MK not getting cake that MK's mum would be the entitled AH.
Yeah I didn't think she meant she cared about the cake, I assumed she was upset that a mom would say "these are not your friends."
As a single dad with 3 kids I can confirm Charlotte is correct about kids.
Talking about the bday party one I agree the mother of the bday kid was so hateful! BUT I also haven't seen anyone mention ‼️that you can't just let a little kid you don't know eat something of yours, legit it might end them! They might have allergies to ingredients, God forbid it's a deadly allergy!!!! So I think the mom did the right thing by taking the cake away BUT I think the way that mother said it was extremely rude and hateful. Why would ANYONE tell a kid hey these aren't your friends 😂 what a mean girl. What I would have said is we have to talk to your mom to make sure it's okay if you can have some cake. But NEVER EVER give food a kid you don't know well. Some kids don't even know they have allergies or they forget or they think it's not that big a deal or theyre too shy to tell you. Always check with the parent or guardian first.
My dad always told my mom when I was growing up that you can have kids or you can have nice things and you have kids. I have three kids of my own and the youngest will be 18 this year. I learned to totally agree with my dad on that one.
As the mother of 4 and Mimi for 8-agree!
@@WhitneyDahlin I was also thinking if she gave the kid the cake and then one of the invited kids didn't get one because there wasn't enough to go around I would feel for the kid who as a guest didn't get a piece of the cake but agree the mother of the birthday child could have been nicer about it, I'm assuming it was the woman who was throwing the party and not one of the other mothers
Just a reminder that you're doing great
4:00 I wanted gym bro in the back to walk up and be like "Oh sorry I should put a shirt on huh. My boobs must be making you uncomfortable too."
That mom had a responsibility to intervene when the daughter tried to join the party
I have 4 children, they are all teenagers now. If I was the bday party mom, I would have appreciated if the other mom had asked if it was okay for their child to have cake. If the kid grabbed a piece, I would have said "We need to ask your mom if it's okay for you to have a piece" because, I wouldn't know if they had allergies, or if their parents don't give them sugar, etc. The only way I wouldn't give them a piece is if the entire cake was already spoken for. If that was the case, I would either give them my piece, or say "I'm very sorry, we didn't know you were going to be here, so we don't have any extra pieces"
It doesn't cost anything to be kind 😊
Just because you're having a birthday party in a public place doesn't mean you want to serve every stranger cake... sometimes I don't know who I dislike more, the kids or the parents 😂
I think the issue is how the other mom talked to the kid
@@oboebuddy15 Exactly. Unnecessarily mean.
MK is a toddler so that woman got down to a toddlers level to say those things. What a bitch! I probably would've took the cake and smashed it into her face. But that's just me.
@@oboebuddy15wouldnt have happend at all if the mom would have told her no
I think it’s weird to throw a party in a public place where other children are playing. I personally think it’s cheap and tacky of the parents.
The one with the girl at the gym getting "shamed" for what she is wearing, is completely staged. She has other videos where women at the gym "calls her out" but it's funny just after she just finished setting up her camera and is ready to get started with her workout. Considering shitty comments like that happen at gyms, I have no idea why people keep staging them.
Oh! She's probably a "pick me girl" too. It's been 20 years since I've been to a gym, but even then that outfit would be typical.
I'm glad girls have stopped with the g-string leotards over tights, while wearing leg warmers. That was a ridiculously silly look in the 1980s. Oh, had to also have a headband and mile-high teased hair that the guys from Whitesnake would envy!
@@LazyIRanchhave you seen the golden girls episode where they go to work out and have to buy all the outfits? 😂
@@Mama_Bear524 No, but that sounds hilarious!
Charlotte, you have a beautiful ability to remain open minded and genuinely attempt to see both sides of the story, that is a quality we need more of in this world.
@6:00 They don't strap it in immediately because that gives the owner of the car time to show up and cause a problem. They take the car to an area that the owner can't see and then strap it down. In this case, the owner showed up early, got in and drove off.
If the car was strapped in and the owner showed up, from experience, the tow truck operator knows the owner will STILL try to drive the car away and cause damage to the truck and the car.
I would have felt presumptuous asking for a piece of cake for my child who wasn't a part of the party officially but I'm not okay with a mom taking cake from a child and saying, "these aren't your friends!" Say that to mom, not the child. The child is just going with the flow, living her best life! I legit would have just let that child have cake and talked behind the moms back lol that's it. Not the kids fault.
I did a similar thing when i was a small child at a park and my Mom was not having it.
There was a birthday party being held at the park and without thinking, I ran in and grabbed a few peices of candy once the pinata broke. My mom was moritifed when i answered where i got the candy. Luckily, the host family didn't seem to mind but it's still embaressing to think about- even if i was a kid who didn't know better.
I actually think she walked me to the party area of the park and apologize for stealing candy from a party that i wasn't invited to, being hosted by people i didn't know. I'm glad she taught me that lesson and I never did anything similar again.
The family was patient and didn't seem to mind that i could remember, and i appreciate they were so kind about it.
Growing up neurodivergent, that's one of MANY social faux pas that i have preformed that will probably give me residual embarrassment for the rest of my life.
I saw the update for the clip from the mom. She didn't care that the mom didn't let her daughter have cake. She was upset that she told the daughter "these aren't your friends". I can see not giving the cake, you don't know if she might have allergies but the way the other mom handled it was sad. It's a public park. If she didn't want the kids playing with non-party members, have it at your house
Kinda blown away more people haven't mentioned this. It was at a public park. I have been part of or attended dozens of kid parties at the park. One of the compromises you make with a party in a public space is that...well, there are other people. And if you do it at a public space for kids, there will be kids you don't know. I agree with MK's mom, it's not about the cake, how dare you tell a toddler that those aren't her friends? Wtf is wrong with you to say that. It's not entitlement for you to let your kid play with the other kids at a PUBLIC PARK, even if they're all part of a group you're not part of.
This isn't your party. These aren't your friends. A mother said that to a small child. Why? Why in the world was that even remotely appropriate?
Baffled more people think children playing together at a public park is entitlement.
I have a similar story to the cake one. During easter this year my family was holding a picnic style potluck and we're all African American though there are some lighter skinned in the family. We have invited some family friends to join us that day, my niece was doing face painting and a little girl comes up to get in line. I was co-head of the arts and crafts section so i was giving the kids in line bunny ears and gave her one. She's light/ Hispanic looking (no shade) and we thought she was either a family friend's kid or one of our lighter kin's kid. So she asked can she get her face painted and i tell her she has to ask her mother/family (not everyone would allow their kid to be painted by a nonprofessional with non professional face paints) so she takes off into the park we were at. That when everyone is looking around like who does *she* belong to and we realize that she wasn't one of ours. So we had a couple Young adults (a girl and a boy. Plus the face painting neice) walk her back to her family. My neice wanted to take back the bunny ears but we made her give them back. They took her to her family and her family had just noticed that was missing and instead of panicking, they sent one of their older daughters (late teens?) To find her and thats when my family had brought her back. She had been with our family for at least an hour maybe more.
Wow, I honestly don’t understand how families can leave a child unmonitored for and hour. Borderline neglect.
I was nodding along until you said it'd been at least an hour. That's downright stupid.
I think it's likely party mom was more "where did you come from" than "no you can't have cake". OP clearly watched the whole thing so why she didn't step in and introduce herself when the kids had been playing is totally on her.
@@Slightly_Classynot borderline. That’s neglect. I’m not a helicopter mom but if I don’t see my kid at the park after a couple min ( depending on age, less if really young) I’m looking for them. An hour is outrageous
I could never imagine letting my kid walk over to a strangers bday party and asking for a piece of cake 😂
As someone who would have given the kid a piece of cake I would have appreciated the parental unit coming over to make sure my kid wasn't harshing the party mellow. Parents need to keep a close eye on their kids and make suer they aren't horning in on other people and creating a problem.
All rise for our Petty Potato Queen, who keeps us chuckling even downright laughing until I cry almost every day with her takes, reactions and gorgeous soul.
Amen! 👏
One of the things that keeps me from going to the gym is the amount of people taking photos/videos in the gym. "Looookkk at meeee!" It's one thing if it's just them but it never is. There are people walking in the background that don't want to be on your creepy tiktok channel.
I think it’s weird that Mom assumed her could could have cake at a birthday party she wasn’t invited to.
That isn't why she was upset. She even said she was heading over to ask if it was okay.
It was how the other mom spoke to her child.
2:48 i had to break up with someone once and it was so stressfull, i whispered almost everything of a prepared speech because i felt so bad to have to take that step. i decided for myself that he was not the future husband i wanted, and i didnt want him to change just to fit me so i figured it would be best to part ways (spoiler; that was a very good decision). when i was finally through my speech i looked up and he stared at me in rage and his first and only question: "so i did all that and gave you all that stuff for nothing?"
he perfectly summed up why i wanted to break up with him. i am no vending machine my dude.
My sister (18 years younger than me) had a habit while growing up of taking things before asking, and then asking in the middle of consuming said thing. I broke her of this pretty quickly by rushing to her room to grab her diary and then reading it out loud in front of whomever was there while she was busy talking her way out of trouble. Unfortunately she was a very smart girl, and it only took three sessions before she made the connection so I wasn't able to really embarass her too much.
Omg I used to give park kids extra cake all the time at my kids party. I get the entitlement, but it’s a kid. And giving freely and being overly wonderful to kids is a positive way of not jading a child to this awful world too soon.
Plus every birthday party I've ever been to has lots of cake left over. So it's a great way to not have to take a bunch of extra cake home!
It’s not entitlement it’s both right and wrong. Kids these days have allergies and these parents are quick to blame and sue. Birthday mom is correct. The parents never asked or okay because she wasn’t there. Remember she overheard the conversation as she was approaching so of course Birthday mom didn’t know who’s random child is crashing the party. Birthday mom is very responsible and reasonable
Yeah. It's just cruel to treat a child that way regardless. They're playing with the other kids give them a fucking piece of cake. Jesus, its not a big deal. I'd get it if you only brought like a cupcake for every kid and didn't have enough, but you have a whole ass cake. Give the other kids a piece. It's just being nice. I'd be so embarrassed if my mom did that at my birthday and a kid I was playing with was left out. It's just unnecessarily cruel.
100%!!!!
I NEVER give a child anything unless I get a parent's approval, if I don't see anyone then I'll hold off until someone claims responsibility. Should she have used kinder words? Yes, but she wasn't wrong for not giving a random kid food.
The more and more the first girl talked the more and more I felt as if I had the need to follow the bestie code and run him over 💁♀️
i did not hear anything she said because i was stunlocked watching her drawing her face.
@@Vittrich BF took her to Hawaii. They then flew to Chicago to meet her parents. He decided to brag about hooking up with a complete stranger for s*x in Italy. To her parents. In front of her. She broke up with him.
@@InteriorDesignStudent sounds like he dodged a bullet.
@@Vittrich Got more info just watching her for a minute than all the tutorial videos I've tried to watch in the past year.
9:10 the mom was a douche! Not because she didn’t let her have a piece of cake, but because she said “This isn’t your party and these aren’t your friends” like OK yeah it’s not her birthday party but you don’t have to say the last part. That’s kind of messed up to say to a kid. Besides, they might not be the kids long time actual friends, but we all make that occasional playground friend.
As a mom, I wouldn’t assume that my kid would get some random person’s birthday cake even if they let us sing happy birthday but I’d definitely give the kid a slice of cake. But I’d check with the mom first just in case there are allergies or food restrictions.
I definitely would’ve checked in with the party group to make sure they didn’t mind her joining and believe the mum should’ve explained social boundaries to the daughter (she may have done so) and that we can’t expect things from other peoples parties. But it seemed that the party welcomed the little girl and she wasn’t causing any harm and was just being a kid and wanting to play. I definitely would’ve let her have a bit of cake (after checking with mum that it was ok to do so) 🎉
Oh hey are you that little girls mum? You are great! So I want to bring out the cake soon, and I don't think we have enough to share. Oh you are going to move so your SMALL CHILD doesn't feel excluded by her new friends? Great! Have a nice day!
- the better way to go about it than "ThIeR NOT yOuR fRiEnDs" to a CHILD because communication goes both ways and kids play together at a PUBLIC PARK
As someone who was raised in an abusive and neglectful home, I can confirm our default setting is menace. I didn't "grow up" (meaning, understand how to behave in society in a healthy way) until I was 36.
My parents didnt teach me, and when I became an adult, it was expected that I knew how to act, understandably so. It took a hell of a lot of therapy for me to figure out how to human, as an adult.
I’m sorry that happened to you as a child; it never should have. I am glad (and super proud) that you took the initiative to heal yourself through therapy! Good for you! Much love from San Antonio TX USA.
I understand & am very proud of you for going to therapy to get it figured out! I didn't have the greatest upbringing myself, my mother was great, worked 3 job's to keep us & my older siblings fed, clothed & homed but she wasn't there alot growing up & my bio father was emotionally abusive when he was around, plus an absentee parent. In my teens I started having problems behavior wise & I started going to therapy, I was diagnosed as Bipolar. Therapy helped me immensely with learning how to not give in to those impulses & mood swings like a true adult, I will always have issues with dealing with these but I'm so much more capable than I was before therapy.
@@firelady118 as Miss Charlotte often says, “We love a self-aware queen!”
My parents were supportive (for the most part, eh we've got some holes to fill up) and they forget I don't know "adult" things due to disability taking me out in my early twenties. Never learned. Never had the chance.
Abuse and neglect will do it. So many reasons will do it. We need therapy or those around us to be very understanding. Patience.
While my home wasn't abusive, a lot of other things including extreme mental health struggles did the same to me. When I turned 18 I almost threw up because I was suddenly supposed to adult and I had no feckin idea how.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Evening dahling, 😘
If I was giving my kid a birthday party in a public place and they made a new friend, I would tell the kid that I needed permission from their parent, and then they could have cake (kids have allergies, diabetes, etc), and when Mom agreed, I would have given that baby a corner piece with exxxxtra frosting. But I'm not a cake Karen.
Ima go on a limb and say the divide for how to handle this situation is directly correlated to a persons socioeconomic status. Us 'poors' don't immediatly think of being sued.
i agree. i made lots of friends with random kids at parks, or church events and stuff etc as a kid. maybe it's a rural people thing, but we would happily welcome a new kid into the group, it's called making friends. After allowing her to sing happy bday and play for that amount of time, i can see why they assumed she was just making friends rather than intruding. If the party felt they were intruding they should have said so sooner. Don't let a kid play until cake is handed out then say 'these aren't your friends' to a kid, that's too unnecessary imo
@sortasurvival5482 My neice is deathly allergic to peanuts and even cross contaminated products, which are rampant in baked goods. My cousin's kid has diabetes. I'm probably paranoid about a kid dying due to a food product because I'm acutely aware of what would happen if one of those girls was given an unknown baked good...especially if the parent was unaware. Other families with food allergy kids probably feel the same way.
@@metalcatmom5891 yes thats why the part about asking the mother if its ok was stated first. My going on a limb was to emphasize that its a generaliztion not a rule. The fact that you worry about medical before legal has me thinking your closer to my end. Lol.
Here's my Take on the Cake:
I believe it's 100,% MK's Mom's responsibility to ensure all is well with what's going on, even if it looked like everything was ok on the outside, considering she was not invited (as petty as we can see that esp considering it a public space.) Her daughter sorta just "crashin the party," seems so cute & of course kids don't care about that....they are happy, playing, & get to meet a new kid. However, being that she just let them all sorta feel like they need to keep an eye on her child, probably could have concerned some of them being that MK's mom didnt even bother to immediately come make sure it's ok, considering the parenting boundary issue created & coulda easily been prevented.
The "not your friends" comment wasn't beyond unkind, but u can't assume anything anymore when it comes to food, (esp bc the child could be allergic or the Mom being so distant made her feel uncomfortable with just giving her child food without knowing.)
So the cake doesn't seem to be the same issue as MK's mom is making it seem like it was ultimately about.
It's always a parents job to ensure that their daughter/son is made to feel welcome, bc of her LACK of communication, things apparently started to happen that it seems she wasn't even aware of.
I wanna say, come on talking about bad parenting, ur child would've surely gotten cake & not told she wasn't welcome... had ya went over & done what a parents job is.
As wrong as the bday Mom was, for what she SAID, it's not her job to come to U & ask if it's ok to give YOUR child, something.
This is backwards & preventable.
It's a parents job to ensure their child is always in good hands.
So the mom talking about her daughter joining the birthday group & the whole issue when it came time for cake, I follow her, her name's Kat she's hilarious & she made a follow-up video explaining that the issue wasn't with the cake she didn't care about that & even said it was their right to say no she couldn't have cake they paid for it, it was the grown ass adult crouching down in MK's face & telling a 3 year old child that that she wasn't welcome to be at the party & that the children she'd been playing with for 30 minutes at a public park weren't her friends. If there was an issue with her joining the party she should have talked to Kat who was there the entire time so the "where's your mother" was just purely to be a bitch
4:30 the guy behind her has his nips out, huuuge double standard
If she wasn’t invited and they didn’t know her, why would she think she was entitled to someone else’s birthday party, and why would that mother let her child go over there ??
The car being towed was being repossessed. The "owner" hopped in and took it back.
I was so confused by that clip! Thanks for clarifying 😂
Both moms were wrong for different reasons: the first one was entitled for assuming her kid would get cake, and the second one should've been nicer about it and spoken to the mom directly, not the kid like that.
As a mom of a kid who would absolutely try to join a party at a park, I would've made it clear to her that we weren't invited to the party, so we will not be included in the singing and the cake. I wouldn't feel like my child is entitled to cake.
And as a mom who would probably have a party at a park with a playground, I'd be okay with a kind child who played with the party kids if they wanted to have cake, but only if their parents agreed and I had enough cake (not special cupcakes in a limited amount).
Both mom's were wrong in the cake story. The OP should never have let her daughter in the same area where the cake was being handed out. At the park, the party area is usually away from the playground in a designated area. The mom could have stopped her way before she got to that area, but she didn't. That mom is very entitled to crash that party.
The other mom, if she even said that, shouldn't have said that to the little girl.
If my daughter was playing with kids in a park and then those kids went over to the birthday party they were invited to, we would not go over there. I would decline the invite and take my daughter somewhere for ice cream or something. Also, that mom who said that to the girl was in wrong as well. She was clearly accepted to the party out of obligation, but mom should have gone her separate way. We don't just start partying with strangers. Probably not a popular opinion, but that's why it's called an opinion. Love your channel Charlotte! You and your behind the scenes crew are awesome!
As another mom, I agree. I have taught my kids that they’re not entitled to anything, and to always ask me first. I’ve been to many parties where there’s literally just enough cake and toys for the kids who were there. I don’t know about the lady saying “these aren’t your friends” or whatever. I’m wondering what exactly she said and how exactly she said it.
Yep, I agree with both of you
4:23 but the random rude chick had no issue with the dude on the right who ONLY has his nipnaps (barely) covered. THE DOUBLE STANDARDS.
I’d be happy to give any child some cake, but these days one has to consider allergies or if the child choked - you’d be held responsible 😊
I was thinking the same thing allergies/ choking. People are way to quick to sue people nowadays.
It's the way the spoke to the child tho
@@MochiSyrupunless we was there the mom could’ve took it out of context and embellish the situation. Especially if she felt her child being singled out. So, I’m taking the tone of how it’s retold and ignoring it given the situation.
@@MsMookalate easy to take things out and ignore. I'm working with what we got. It could go either way. So it's still unnecessary to me. Her mom was there. If there was an issue it could've been discussed. Whether the mom telling the story is exaggerating or not there's people who talk to kids this way and this happens so to me it's unacceptable. Plus the "unless we were there" argument could use for everything online. So I respectful feel like that doesn't mean much here. And if u disagree with me that's fine
As a mom, a pre-k teacher, and a nanny a kids default setting is absolute menace. It's how they learn about boundaries lol
9:35 after working in a kindergarten for years, if a random kid wands apiece of cake I’d just want to talk to the parent first to make sure the kids not allergic to anything and I’m screwing it 😅
I've thrown multiple birthday parties at parks & I never feed a random kid without asking their parents/guardians first because you don't know this child and they may have allergies. As someone who has had nieces/nephews crash parties at parks, I never assume they're entitled to food/cake at the parties just because they were playing with the kids. The main issue here is that the mom never introduced herself & just assumed they'd feed her kid because she's a kid & that's not reality.
I would have had no issue with the girl having a piece of cake. I'm a Mom of 3, and if it was my child's party, I would have noticed the girl playing with the others. I would have noticed her singing. I would have then asked her Mom if it was ok for her to have a piece of cake. I would have loved the fact that the kids invited to the party and my birthday kid all included her to play and sing. It would have warmed my heart. 🥰🇨🇦 And cake for all!!
Completely agree!
Absolutely yes!!! Every public party my daughter had always had extra unexpected guests. Mu daughter made friends with kids at the park and would want them to be a part of her party. How could I say no to such a sweet kind thoughtful gesture from such a young child??? I can't, I wouldn't. Even if there wasn't 'enough' I would make it enough. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂🍰🧁
When he grabbed that seagull it immediately made me anxious. It was impressive but the look on the poor birdies face made me just want him to let it go quickly. 😂
Seagulls are the worst
@@sarahbrewer53 Honestly I find them so cute I wouldn’t care if they take a few fries. 😂
ONLY IN ATLANTA
He is a REPO guy
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5:30 Nissan maxima’s are front wheel drive too!! 😭 bruh is literally doing everything wrong 😂
I would have given that little girl a piece of cake for sure but in the back of my mind still thinking, 'Where the hell is her mother?'
I wouldn’t say anything to the mom either, cuz I would feel like an ass, but I also don't let my daughter just impose on other people's birthday parties
As a mother I wouldn’t. You should never do that without the parent’s permission. Kids are allergic to a lot of things today and have dietary restrictions. Parents will try to sue you if you give their child something they wasn’t supposed to have
@@MsMookalate Yeah, it's never a good idea to give food or anything to a random kid, besides the obvious danger of allergies or their moms not wanting their kids to eat something, you would be inadvertently teaching them that it's ok to take things from strangers.
5:12 how many ya'll think Charlotte tried a bite after filming. Lol
2:13 THANK YOU Charlotte, the world needs to hear this. People doing nice things for you, you dont owe them. Do nice things for people, they dont owe you. Expecting otherwise is manipulation.
My two year old daughter pulled down my pants AND my underwear this morning at the park. She was fussing and I thought she was coming up to me to ask for me to hold her. She grabbed the waist of my pants at either side and pulled down, and sadly she grabbed my boy shorts underwear in the process. She pulled them down to my ankles. My own flesh and blood pantsed me in front of at least 15 other parents and 6 old ladies playing racket ball. Sooo... yup, I can confirm the whole "kids are menaces" thing.
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5:00 Haha my 5th grade teacher who was my favorite teacher ever (she actually did something about my bullies, god bless her) would eat sticks of butter she hid under her pillow at night. She was addicted to it. It didn't stop till she reached 4th grade. And she was the kindest sweetest women ever-- gave us snacks, played Magic School Bus for us during lunch, let us play video games on the Smartboard the days before break.
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I feel like the "these are not your friends" bit is what takes it over the edge. If the kids are accepting her, who are you to say they're not friends? Are you the friend police?
As a mom, actually a single mother who sometimes(not always)is on a tighter budget than a kid whose parents are together, I would happily give the other kid a piece of damn cake. My kid is incredibly friendly. She loves meeting new people, especially kids her age. She has definitely befriended random kids this on countless occasions. Not just her birthday parties, but if we are at the beach or something and if I am getting snacks out and the new kid is around and their parent is okay with it, I will 100% offer that child a snack. I was always taught that it's rude to eat in front of others and if I have extra, why not? Especially birthday cake. Birthday cake I feel like is meant to be shared. Plus it's one less piece I have to bring home at the end of the day and then eat after my kid goes to bed so I don't have to share it with her 😂😂
Absolutely agree.
Babe, same. I am so shocked at these comments..
1000%
as Long as the parents are ok with it.. last thing you would want is to give cake to a random kid that has an allergic reaction or worse.. That would be a nightmare.
I think the reason why the parent took the cake away from the child is because y’all didn’t know the kid so you don’t know if that kid could has some kind of allergy to what ever was in the cake or on the cake.
I don’t know, a person who’s actually concerned for a kid would probably find a nicer way to take the cake away without telling her “this isn’t your party and these aren’t your friends”. That seems so unnecessarily cruel to me.
Given the conversation she had with the child about this not being her party and these not being her friends, that does not appear to be her motivation tho. Although we did only hear one side of the story so it is possible. But why not ask the mom and if no allergies then no problem?
If that was the reason, the correct response would be: "Let's just find your parents and ask if it's okay."
Incident like the cake party one always highlight the difference in cultures for me. In western countries it's not normal to give food to others i think on other hand in my country we feed people like there is no tomorrow 😂😂so in kids birthday parties we always have tons of extra food and kids can bring siblings and family also. How can you exclude some kid from a birthday party is beyond me. If we were celebrating in that park most likely anyone who wants could have cake or food.
I love Charlottes innocence over the car issue, it wasn't being towed it was being stolen, tilting the car to a certain degree will trick cars with computer technology to open the doors and even start the engine, unfortunately this is in fact a pretty common way to steal a car! Your naivete here is quite charmingly innocent.
...I'm sorry, WHAT? You tilt the car enough and it starts the engine?
That... sounds like a massive design flaw, to me.
@@phastinemoon It was at the time, it took a while but they have since managed to fix the flaw, in order for it to work in older models they would have to change the computer system but it would cost too much money and many people who own these cars don't even know about the flaw at all. I only know because my cousin had a computer car and this is how his was stolen, got it back but he paid for the upgraded tech to secure his vehicle. The car wheels are locked and this is the way to unlock them for towing companies where the car is illegally parked but the glitch was that it would start the push button engine! A very expensive flaw.
that’s 100% a snatch truck. you just drive up and it locks onto the wheels so you can drive away and ratchet strap the car once you’re away from the area. The owner obviously came out of the store and saw his car on there and drove off of it since they aren’t strapped at that point, just being held onto by the back tires
@@kalimajors8651 Yes I know, they use snatch trucks because it will tilt the car at the 45+degree angle required for the theft, my cousins car was stolen in the same way, fortunately it was caught on CCTV so they were caught!
The upgrade for the new comp system cost him a lot of money but the car designer did reimburse him in the end. My brother had a similar car and his buddy owns a towing company, he demonstrated the easy theft of the vehicle using the tow truck he owned, my bro made the car company pay directly for the upgrade.
That birthday cake thing was silly. I literally holler at every kid I see to come get cake so I don't have to take any home! Lol 😆
"I didn't say all kids are innocent. Their default setting is maniac." 🤣🤣🤣 Charlotte wins the internet today!
As a mom who's son completely joined another kids birthday party at the park I'm glad they weren't mean to him 😅 I was mortified but thankfully they took him in as their own 😂😂 I was right there saying no no no you can't just do that and they were like it's totally fine 😅
I love Kat Stickler so much, and if the roles were reversed and it was MKs party, she would have included the new friend. If I were the mom, I would have given the kid some cake!
I feel like the problem was not the birthday cake, but the fact that she told that to the kid!!! "These are not your friends". B*tch if I was the mother I would have said so many things to that mom, that she would either slap me or cry. No in-between.
I’ve never skipped a part of Charlotte’s videos before but when i saw that scoop of butter getting whipped cream on top i was gone 🤢🤮
Rather ironically the word gymnasium literally means to exercise naked.
Well, pre-Christian people didn't have quite the same hangups about seeing a person naked as we do today. We really need to get over that.
8:38 as parent I’ll never give a child food without the parents permission. Just in case the child gets sick. The parents knows their child dietary requirements and allergies. So if they said yes don’t ask me more about ingredients in the product I’m assuming it’ll be fine. That birthday mom was 100% in the right. Karen needs to have several seats because she’s the type to sue the birthday mom if her child gets sick
I think it was more the way the other mom spoke to her kid than anything. I agree that the birthday kid’s mom needs to be careful and not just hand out cake all willy-nilly but she didn’t have to say “This is not your party and these are not your friends.” Just ask “Where is your mom?” And then engage in civil conversation about whether or not the child can have some cake. I dunno, I don’t like mom shaming either cuz it’s the world’s toughest job so I’m gonna withhold the shame and instead offer grace to both moms.
@@davidguidry657 it sounds like she embellish because she felt her child was singled out
3:03 it's very delulu to assume everyone has a close connection with their siblings
Literally in this day and age do not give a kid a piece of cake until you ask their mother because you do not want a lawsuit on your hands by some Karen saying yeah you gave my baby a piece of cake and she was allergic to whatever is in the cake.
I would have taken a cake and said let's go ask your mom if you can have this.
For the story about the kids bday party and the cake, that other mom was tripping. They are freaking kids for goodness sakes and MK was playing with the other kids for a while before the cake cutting. If it was me I would have told MK “Let’s go find your mommy and see if it’s ok for you to have some cake.” And when we found MK’s mom I would have asked if MK had any allergies. If she doesn’t have any allergies to the cake, let the kid have cake man. It’s JUST cake. This kind of stuff can scar a child mentally 🤦🏻♀️. BUT to be fair, the mom in the car didn’t tell us what happened after she heard the birthday mom tell her kid that. So story is biased in that sense.
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I found her videos about that long ago too! I definitely have been binge watching episodes too, every day in my spare moments. Can't get enough lol. Literally watching Charlotte every day!
Right?!? Such an icon. And welcome to the tatertot casserole, fam!!
9:16 I feel like you shouldn't count on other people being generous. Yes, it's nice, but it's not owed to you. Generosity is something given by another willingly and without prodding, in my opinion, and not taken from them. The mother is annoyed that the parent of the party isn't being generous, which is something she has no right to demand.
The mother is overstepping when she's letting her child join in the celebration, not the play, I think - had I been in her shoes, this is where I would explain the boundary to my child. They're strangers and children all play with each other while being strangers, but it's not appropriate to send them off to a stranger's birthday party.
Furthermore, I think it's rude to put the other parent in a position where they had to either let a stranger into a birthday celebration or deny them access, pushing them into a role of responsibility towards their child - that was the first mother's boundary to put down for her child.
And maybe the parent of the party didn't want to give cake to others because they wanted the spare pieces for themselves and their family. Maybe the cake wasn't good for people with certain allergies. It could be that she wasn't putting a boundary as much as being careful.
She also didn't ask the parent of the party. It's a series of small oversteps easily ignored or pushed aside in the spirit of childhood and play, and it'd been awesome if the parent had given the kid cake. Clearly, the parent of the party wanted to put a boundary down, as was their right, for they aren't responsible for any and all children at the park.
In my country it's the height of rudeness to impose on others, so my opinions may be unpopular, as I know other countries are more open to being approached or disturbed/disrupted or joined by strangers.
That serverwas totally into the birthday celebration. Stuff like that can be annoying but can also really break up the monotony of a work day. He just thought she was having fun and gave him a thank you hug. Nothing to be ashamed about here!!
For the cake story: it really shows what kind of person that mom was to take away the cake and then say to a child (who has been playing with the birthday group) you cant have any these aren't your friends.
Growing up my parents went through hard times but they would have 100% offered that child cake and snacks. They taught me to be generous with everyone, not just those I knew. To be that stingy at a celebration is just..... wow.
The cake one - as a mother, if a child wants a cake or a snack that we're all having, I'm making sure it's okay with their parents and they can help themselves. I'd never want a little child who doesn't understand to ever feel left out